KEEP women at a DISTANCE to be TREATED BETTER when DATING! (Cold Truth of HYPERGAMY)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  3 месяца назад +11

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    • @nictibbetts
      @nictibbetts 3 месяца назад +1

      please for the love of God stop this whole give me money under the guise of some homoerotic men coming together crap

    • @Mary-o7i
      @Mary-o7i 3 месяца назад

      Well that could ruffle tail feathers in the hen house. Some comments and situations have been taken way out of context and I have to go back to the dog house after lift off tomorrow.

  • @wmcreynolds92
    @wmcreynolds92 3 месяца назад +186

    Stop caring about what woman think. *Poof* all of your problems magically disappear gentleman.

    • @mauricegiuliani3806
      @mauricegiuliani3806 3 месяца назад +9

      True.

    • @sergioguaman2000
      @sergioguaman2000 3 месяца назад +3

      All of the joy and fun too

    • @Legenda20SLO
      @Legenda20SLO 3 месяца назад +9

      Yep. I stopped caring years ago. Could care less in what kind of emotion state they're in since their mood fluctuates faster than BTC price and it makes no f sense anyway.

    • @satanrayshe
      @satanrayshe 3 месяца назад +1

      dwg i aint gay

    • @SKRooU2
      @SKRooU2 3 месяца назад

      @@satanrayshe he didn't say to date guys.he said to stop caring about what women think. In other words. stop kissing their ass.

  • @krishna335
    @krishna335 3 месяца назад +135

    Good men are, more often than not, treated like shit. Practice detachment, stop being afraid to let go, focus on your personal and professional interests, and be genuinely ok with solitude. Easy? Hell no. Worth it? You betcha.

    • @theresakunda4407
      @theresakunda4407 3 месяца назад

      You can say the same thing about good women. We are not treated well either.

    • @PedroCastaneda-kd7mc
      @PedroCastaneda-kd7mc 3 месяца назад

      111

    • @epicbehavior
      @epicbehavior Месяц назад

      That doesn’t make you a good man. Truly good men are completely detached. That allows you to play by your rules, not someone else’s.
      If she “pulls back”, pull back harder and find another girl.
      Abundance trumps all.

    • @epicbehavior
      @epicbehavior Месяц назад

      That doesn’t make you a good man. Truly good men are completely detached. That allows you to play by your rules, not someone else’s.
      If she “pulls back”, pull back harder and find another girl.
      Abundance trumps all.

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 3 месяца назад +48

    When a woman you are dealing with is not in your presence.... You should not be emotionally invested enough to really care about who else she might be with...... Your primary focus should be on yourself and doing what you should be doing outside of her.

  • @tristanjones2923
    @tristanjones2923 3 месяца назад +54

    “They will mistake your kindness for weakness”. That hit different.

    • @fannywayne1920
      @fannywayne1920 3 месяца назад +2

      always its natural they want the strongest option too much kindness comes across as weak and feminine

    • @miked9112
      @miked9112 Месяц назад

      Women don’t like mean guys but they also despise men who are good to them, so why bother even trying? I’ve found it easier as an older guy to just rent a “pro” you don’t pay a hooker for sex you pay them to leave

  • @busybboy1915
    @busybboy1915 3 месяца назад +30

    I honestly wish the things this guy talks about weren't true but I decided to test it on a girl. Went from her using me to vent about her day to asking me to sleep with her within a month. Kinda disheartening to be honest but at least I know now.

    • @benjaminpikoikj7090
      @benjaminpikoikj7090 3 месяца назад +2

      Care to share what you did? Genuinely

    • @busybboy1915
      @busybboy1915 3 месяца назад

      @@benjaminpikoikj7090 well to begin with I have to say this girl was interested in me well before we started talking and we work with each other. She is the one who approached me, So there was already high interest from the start.
      I am naturally stoic and things like showing little emotion and strong mental stability are my thing. I had known this girl liked me and thought she was cute but I didn't have too much interest in her. This is why I didn't approach her and why it was pretty easy for me to show low interest towards her from the start.
      At first we just talked to each other randomly, as time went on she started talking to me regularly. Eventually I started to put a little more effort into her and quickly I noticed her interest began to drop. I decided to look up how to regain interest when a girl pulls away and went down the rabbit hole and eventually found this channel.
      The thing that kinda turned things around was one day she was just having a bad day and I was listening to her complaints but she started getting mean towards me for no reason. I didn't get emotional and didn't let it bother me. I told her to not use me as her punching bag or I'll stop talking to her. standing up for myself just a little bit completely changed her attitude and she began to be very flirty after this.
      After this worked out for me I decided to try some other methods. By this point we had already been talking for about two months. First I started texting her way less. I stopped starting conversations with her over text. I stopped complimenting her. I stopped giving her any fake validation. Before this I gave her those things and she just acted like it didn't matter. After I stopped she literally started begging me to start the text conversation and to compliment her. I told her I'll compliment her when I feel like I should not when she asks for it.
      Something that I somewhat unintentionally do is upset her very frequently. Maybe this is just because she is more interested in me but it seems like I make her mad about something every few days. You would imagine this would make things worse but no she forgives me within hours and gets even more flirty afterwards.
      Also at some point I got comfortable enough with her that I just constantly poke fun at her and talk about nonsense and even though she complains about it she enjoys it.
      And the big scary thing I tried on her was when she eventually did ask me to come to her place to have sex I told her no. Mind you she asked this without me ever suggesting it before. I told her that I don't think I should until I like her more. Which is honestly true not really a test. She was understanding at first then predictably got pissed at me and threatened to not talk to me anymore. After talking about it a little bit and about 24 hours later she was giving me permission to grope her at work and inviting me to come over every few days to just "hang out". She even sent suggestive pictures for the first time yesterday. I didn't even ask for them.
      The thing that sucks is I keep messing up and it seems like she likes me more after. I do things that piss her off or even make her cry and she forgives me so fast. I don't do this intentionally but when someone likes you a lot and you are kinda indifferent about it it hurts them easily. I do want this girl to be happy and although I'm testing things on her I'm not playing with her. I could have easily taken advantage of her by now with her full permission to do so but I'm trying my best not to do anything like that. She would willingly give me full power over her and I find that frightening so I only do things that she wants and asks for herself.
      But yeah idk that was more of a story than examples. Id say be mentally stable because they will constantly try to get you to break. Be somewhat indifferent but not like completely. Don't easily give in to temptation like lust this hurts you just as much as she dislikes it. And just like have fun talk to her like you don't care if you get in her pants or not. Honestly just don't care if you get in her pants or not. Caring about the outcome makes it harder to get there.

    • @Andomosity
      @Andomosity 2 месяца назад

      ​@benjaminpikoikj7090 you can't be the guy saying good morning, good night, how's your day, etc. What he says in this video is true. I only message girls when I'm ready to go on a date within the next few hours. Have enough of my own shit to do that I don't really care if she says yes or no. Other than that, I'm not maintaining small talk because then you are going to be the one solving boyfriend problems when you aren't even dating her😂 let me put it this way. Unless I'm sleeping with a girl, she's never getting a "how was your day" or anything along those lines. The phone is STRICTLY for setting up a date or a meet-up and that's it. If she wants to be exclusive with you, then the choice is literally yours. Otherwise don't push to be exclusive because then you are forcing the relationship on to her and that's not how it's supposed to be. If you are patient and not needy, and you make the times you do spend with them GOOD and fun times, then they will like you. It's pretty much that simple

  • @Davida86u
    @Davida86u 3 месяца назад +48

    With hypergamy running wild the way it is. When she asks "What are your intentions?"
    Just shrug, look her right in the face and say "i dunno i'm just kinda dating everybody right now."
    You can literally see her trying to make 2+2=5? work in her head😂

    • @Ratclan
      @Ratclan 9 дней назад

      Yep I always tell my current girlfriend I have another cuter girlfriend in another city. Even if it’s true or not.
      They react initially with anger but than they compete and that means better looks better sex better nights out. Yes it’s arguments and drama but if you just relax and NGAF the women also chills and relaxes after the arguments they Happy.

  • @healthiswealth6237
    @healthiswealth6237 3 месяца назад +36

    He is SPOT on. I had a woman TRACK ne down through another woman, ONLY for me to RUIN it all by being URGENT to get her on a date, and then on the date I made the cardinal sin of being NICE, by buying her dinner. Needless to say I LITERALLY saw her intetest in me LEAVE her body. It was like I went from a 10 to a zero by being NICE. Just be the A-hole they want. They will NEVER ghost you or leave you if you live and breath the I dont give a F if you come or go mentality.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 3 месяца назад +8

      I don't disagree. But I need someone to remind me why we want these women.
      1. You can't hardly get a woman these days, but if you do,
      2. You can't keep her, but if you did,
      3. You wouldn't want her anyway long-term.
      I forgot why we're going through the trouble. 😆

    • @rogerdodger6025
      @rogerdodger6025 3 месяца назад

      ​@@danmurray1143Your instinctual drive for survival and replication. Attraction hijacks our minds for it's own needs. Our genes have it's own agenda.

    • @ishmaelbrown1466
      @ishmaelbrown1466 3 месяца назад +5

      You buy her dinner since you brought her out on a date. There is nothing wrong with that.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 3 месяца назад +1

      @@ishmaelbrown1466 The world is changing. I guess we should insist she take us out for free food. Drizzle drizzle.

    • @brianclark4454
      @brianclark4454 3 месяца назад +4

      What she saw was the lust in your eyes, which can also be described as Urgency. Your emotion was driving you.

  • @marcusmcgraw3519
    @marcusmcgraw3519 3 месяца назад +37

    Treating women like they’re beneath you works in almost every aspect. If they don’t want to put out, it’s because they know you didn’t really like them. How can you lose when you never took them serious?

  • @fredc3543
    @fredc3543 3 месяца назад +11

    Met a 7-8, we dated only occasionally, and I never pursued. She'd call me when in town and we'd hook up. No call backs, never pursued. I received more respect and investment from that FEM than any other in recent memory. It was effortless. All the others I pursued, were like pulling teeth.

    • @Ratclan
      @Ratclan 9 дней назад

      Best sex I ever have w a girl is the one I see every 3-4 months. Barely talk to em and the mystery spark remains

  • @puertoricanprince7690
    @puertoricanprince7690 3 месяца назад +186

    This shows that you can never get married unfortunately. They will never desire you as much once you're living in the same home together

    • @swaguwuflexcringe
      @swaguwuflexcringe 3 месяца назад +35

      why would you live together, i think im gonna live alone all my life

    • @puertoricanprince7690
      @puertoricanprince7690 3 месяца назад +51

      ​@@swaguwuflexcringe
      Because men want families. But it's looking like we can't even have that now

    • @tapary
      @tapary 3 месяца назад +102

      Not so. The game never stops. I play it with my Wife every day. Today, she didn't come and see me after work, so I ignored her a little more than usual. Now, she's sweet as pie, and I can't wait to have her tonight.

    • @billytessio6326
      @billytessio6326 3 месяца назад +38

      @@puertoricanprince7690 There is a reason for all of human history across geographically isolated cultures around the world there have been restrictions to curb female nature and habits. Our early ancestors spent hundreds of thousands of years learning what we all have collectively forgotten since 1968. Our ancestors knew what would happen if we removed those checks and balances.

    • @Ricky-G99
      @Ricky-G99 3 месяца назад +37

      ​​​@@tapary My dad never let my mother sleep with him on the parental room. She sleeps in another room, never called her baby or I love you and that weak shit, always had his head on the swivel when going out with us looking for other women and breaking jokes with female waitresses and stuff. And guess what my mom once told me you've been raised by a fucking wolf 😂😂😂😂 I guess you can get married ( not on paper) but you gotta know what you're doing very well. You gotta be extremely experienced in this field and Casey is doing a great job showcasing this as truly relate to what he's saying when I link that to what my dad been doing all the years

  • @LimaFoxtrot_98
    @LimaFoxtrot_98 3 месяца назад +30

    Bagged a dime because of Casey’s concepts coming in clutch. Mad respect. This shit compounds once you harness your own perceived preselection and do this stuff naturally.

  • @ShyMplsMale
    @ShyMplsMale 3 месяца назад +60

    This is what Corey Wayne preaches. Once a week. But, thats only until she starts chasing you and wants to see you more. Then its okay to see them more than once a week.

    • @sponkmcdonk3898
      @sponkmcdonk3898 3 месяца назад +16

      Once a week is too much honestly. Every other week

    • @OisndaHouse
      @OisndaHouse 3 месяца назад

      @@sponkmcdonk3898 yes suh

    • @iban53
      @iban53 3 месяца назад

      ​@@sponkmcdonk3898every other month

    • @EseShad0w316
      @EseShad0w316 3 месяца назад +11

      It'd be cool to see Casey be a guest on Corey's podcast.

    • @Ricky-G99
      @Ricky-G99 3 месяца назад +15

      Always stay sharp brother never say once she starts chasing you then you can start seeing her often, now you're giving up on the reason why she got hooked to you which is your scarcity from the scene and she'll start shit testing you. I learned this lesson the hard way never get comfortable and treat her as if now she's yours no longer to keep gaming that's exactly when you fell off your face

  • @DREWTHEEMPATH
    @DREWTHEEMPATH 3 месяца назад +37

    We are a team fellas. Never let her feel like she has you.

  • @darwincollado8993
    @darwincollado8993 3 месяца назад +26

    Don’t listen to women

    • @pewpewxdx12
      @pewpewxdx12 3 месяца назад

      My mom call me , what I should do 🥶🥶🥶😱😱

  • @aztecawarrior8977
    @aztecawarrior8977 3 месяца назад +35

    OMG 😫😫😫 if only I had this information back in 2018 before she left me in 2019, I swear to god I felt I was doing everything right!!!!! Being good to communication with her
    Can’t believe everything is opposite with girls man 😫😫 literally this video unleashed a tsunami of memories of “all the good things” I believe I was doin but instead killing her attraction no wonder after 5 years she still hasn’t msg me I became an ICK 😫😫😫

    • @Y4nn1ck-m8t
      @Y4nn1ck-m8t 3 месяца назад +1

      KEEP THE HEAD UP SOLDIER
      LOOK FOWARD

    • @ZeroBudgetGuide
      @ZeroBudgetGuide 3 месяца назад +2

      That’s the power of this RUclips channel, it literally makes you think back on your old mistakes so it’s kind of fun but frustrating lol, also saves you a lot of problems in the future

    • @aztecawarrior8977
      @aztecawarrior8977 3 месяца назад

      @@Y4nn1ck-m8t thanks been putting the work at going back to the gym did lose myself in the relationship became the worst version of myself but hanging in there and learning more of the mistakes

    • @aztecawarrior8977
      @aztecawarrior8977 3 месяца назад

      @@ZeroBudgetGuide broooo no lie like when he mentioned the part of doin and trusting you gut feeling and sharing communication with your girl that gave me vivid memories of that time like I can list everytime I was making those errors

    • @seanshewman4127
      @seanshewman4127 3 месяца назад

      I agree with some of what Casey says but let’s be real and call females out for the day one thing mean another. Girls need to stop acting like fools. A lot of men haven’t changed but women have because of feminism and social media. it’s was simpler 100s of years ago because societies and villages were run to operate with the men in the lead and women supporting and raising kids. Most of the issue nowadays is do to culture change.

  • @quattroloso559
    @quattroloso559 3 месяца назад +10

    Bingo 🎯 That part about not being a fully developed masculine man until you can go without needing a woman’s attention, affection, intimacy is a whole fact! Once you don’t need them for anything and they become second nature you have total control

  • @dutcheclipse
    @dutcheclipse 3 месяца назад +5

    @CaseyZander After watching your content I truly ask myself why I would even want to have a woman in my life. They have not too much to bring to the table (except beauty and being bubbly), they try to get you of your purpose, test you constantly, their love is conditional and transactialonal, a man has to lead someone for, what?, always be on the lookout if she is not bored and will leave etc etc.
    It feels like having a woman is truly being chained to a steel ball.
    I would like to see and hear your response Casey.

    • @iamdjrocboi
      @iamdjrocboi 3 месяца назад

      Just a bust a nut bro and dip out after. Theyre all for the streets

  • @Legenda20SLO
    @Legenda20SLO 3 месяца назад +2

    I think your channel as a whole becomes irrelevant once men figure out women are a waste of time and their main focus should be making money.

  • @DayDreamers_Reality
    @DayDreamers_Reality 3 месяца назад +2

    What kinda woman am I,?because I want the opposite of everything u are saying. I disagree with it all in makes my heart hurt. I'm not ugly I'm not ignorant but I feel like the guy I'm talking to is definitely applying your technique. Crazy leaves me sad throughout the week. I wish u didn't think like this. All I can think is maybe u were too clingy and found a mapped out solution (you're personal solution)to why woman u talked to always walked away. Or felt like it failed . I'm not sure. And I'm normally very receptive to others views. It Hurts my heart is all I can say. Because where are u on the days she really needs someone just to ask how are you doing or feeling today? Ignoring her? But that leaves her to feel she can't come to u when she may need to because of that white board of a wall ur trying to build up. Help me understand.

    • @Kuzeyturk76
      @Kuzeyturk76 3 месяца назад

      @DayDreamers_Reality "Ignoring her" doesnt mean completely isolation l think...If she"s really hurt becouse of some day and she needs a shoulder to cry on,ofcourse as a man l would comfort her..

  • @Paul-yk7ds
    @Paul-yk7ds 3 месяца назад +5

    I guess I'm lucky that a lot of this stuff comes to me naturally, just because I genuinely want to date multiple girls, so I never commit to any of them, and it drives them crazy.

    • @samuelsamuel1061
      @samuelsamuel1061 3 месяца назад

      You never commit to anyone
      That's the key

    • @Paul-yk7ds
      @Paul-yk7ds 3 месяца назад

      @@samuelsamuel1061 I'm not sure it's actually the best way to go for long-term happiness and having the best bonds in your life. But it does have some benefits haha

  • @luxxulyanite
    @luxxulyanite 3 месяца назад +28

    I have this girl that I like and she keeps texting me 🤣🤣 I would like to reduce that but whatever I type, she just continues the conversation.

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 3 месяца назад +8

      Learn not to respond quickly,, space out your responds to every 15 to 20 minutes so you won't look desperate, or wait to the next day to respond to her bruh

    • @RTFLDGR
      @RTFLDGR 3 месяца назад +4

      Don't play her game.

    • @philipramsden4975
      @philipramsden4975 3 месяца назад +1

      Just wait to respond back or tell her you have things to do, meetings, whatever, and message her later or the next day. Eventually that's going to get old for both of you real quick

    • @decoy2636
      @decoy2636 3 месяца назад +3

      I think she needs more of your attention. Use the conversation to set a date to give her your attention.
      Get your prize

    • @sergioguaman2000
      @sergioguaman2000 3 месяца назад +1

      Set the date or stop texting

  • @jeancarlorivas9044
    @jeancarlorivas9044 3 месяца назад +6

    Gotta have balance gents. Once she falls in love with you she will cut out most if not all here Options on her own, leaving her wanting more of you, which if you dont give her Just a lil more, She will Feel neglected, as a womens love is selfish. Thats when she will Def cheat on you with the gardener or a co worker to get you off her mind Since you act like you dont care Nor see her at all. Gotta have common Sense here.

    • @Slamazzar
      @Slamazzar 3 месяца назад

      I don't understand why is everyone so concerned with this whole "cheating" thing. That really mattered in the times when there were no birth control methods or fatherhood tests. But today? If she decides to marry the gardener, then have a nice life - I can't blame anybody for trying to make an optimal choice for themselves. But if she only wants to score him, what has it even to do with me? I only hope she has fun... and tells me the story afterwards.

  • @Mary-o7i
    @Mary-o7i 3 месяца назад +5

    Men's health is so important. Thank you for your content. Anyone seeking dating advice should accept it from the logical stand point and not from what irrational people think.Testing is a sign of mistrust.

  • @abdelrahmanmohamed7760
    @abdelrahmanmohamed7760 3 месяца назад +7

    Broo your advices are gold and work like magic, distance and disappearing for couple of days always make her think about u more

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 2 месяца назад

      @@abdelrahmanmohamed7760 try a couple weeks/months

  • @ListenMySon
    @ListenMySon 3 месяца назад +10

    He's 100% correct gents.

  • @bigmacsauce3752
    @bigmacsauce3752 3 месяца назад +2

    This is my exact dynamic I have with my GF of 2.5 years. We see eachother once a week on weekends and spend the night together but then go our separate ways throughout the week… it’s PERFECT. We do text all the time though but as soon as I sense a pull back I do it first and it works like a charm to keep her interest high.

  • @SGTrainingStable
    @SGTrainingStable 3 месяца назад +1

    I began long distance dating overseas a month ago. So it started with two ladies texting me back and forth. The result has been smooth and positive with both of them to the extent that they are both in love with me and me with them. What do I do now-I have never been in such a situation-I like both of them equally as they are both sweet and beautiful?

  • @kucingninja7934
    @kucingninja7934 3 месяца назад +2

    You try so hard to control the woman whom you actually like though. 😏 If a woman is not the one whom you like, you won't even do such a hard work to control everything. Good job. 😏

  • @___spiritofadventure___
    @___spiritofadventure___ 3 месяца назад +3

    Just make her laugh a lot. And I'll see you... In the next one.

  • @moheganson
    @moheganson 3 месяца назад +16

    He doesn’t need our help. He wants $4,000 from each of us

    • @iban53
      @iban53 3 месяца назад +1

      $50 per month

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 3 месяца назад

      @@iban53Even worse- $6,000 /yr

  • @erutetajustice2126
    @erutetajustice2126 3 месяца назад +7

    About the gut feeling with women Casey, you are absolutely right 100% . My Gut keeps Picking up on me every time I interact with women.

  • @sethdinges7067
    @sethdinges7067 3 месяца назад +2

    A woman flirted with me and when I asked her out she said yes, gave me her number, draws the line at when she's free. Red flag!!! I deleted her number immediately. I'm so tired of meeting trash😂

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 3 месяца назад +2

      A girl I’ve hung out with once or twice and already slept with texted me this 4 hours ago
      Maybe we can get a phone call in this week sometime?
      We’re supposed to hang out Friday. How long should I wait to text back to that question and any advice on what to write
      Thanks

    • @sethdinges7067
      @sethdinges7067 3 месяца назад +2

      @@moheganson just move on bro these people don't f*cking know what they want, I'm 32, honestly I'm mature enough for an adult relationship and I keep meeting women with the mindset of a Highschooler, I'm good bro😂

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 3 месяца назад +3

    9:18 FACT!! and this is why WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THE ONE WHO APPROACH ME. They KNOW, they sense it and it attracts them.

  • @metatron8386
    @metatron8386 3 месяца назад +3

    You have to be completely comfortable being alone ( All one with the creation) to share this joy. If you have become a holy man you will feel the connection to heaven which she can only feel through your pure mind/ mastery over the illusion called matter (matrix).

  • @metatron8386
    @metatron8386 3 месяца назад +2

    You made is when your woman calls you Daddy.

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 3 месяца назад +2

    1:35 it's how i have always been with every human and everything in life. It gives the perception of high value, and EVERYONE wants to deal with someone of high value. Anything that is in limited supply automatically increases in value. Simple.

  • @adamteller6685
    @adamteller6685 3 месяца назад +2

    Love the episode, but turn off the AC while you are recording. Or pay me to remove the noise. (:

  • @Turbo_Tastic
    @Turbo_Tastic 3 месяца назад +3

    not sure how you fill up this white board daily, but just amazing, love all this advice.. this works, women like to be the pursuer .. so true. don't ruin it for them

  • @marianazhelyazkova1082
    @marianazhelyazkova1082 3 месяца назад +1

    I hope you realise this will works with broken/traumatised women. I guess this can be a type 🤷🏻‍♀️ There are lot over there.

  • @RobertBobYavala
    @RobertBobYavala 3 месяца назад +2

    My bro..I listen to your teaching with much gusto
    I am from Fiji.I am very grateful for your Godly wisdom on the opposite sex
    It has made me grow mentally and become much more Stoic and independent.More power to men.I have noticed the differance in my life and dealings.Vinaka vakalevu

  • @timdavis3260
    @timdavis3260 3 месяца назад +3

    Im sure this works great for modern women. Problem is modern women are not wife material. Traditional woman are the prize gentlemen. Modern women are just for fun.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 3 месяца назад

      I'm not seeing how modern Western women are even fun. All hassle & cost & time; zero enjoyment. MGTOW or get a passport.

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 3 месяца назад +1

      Traditional women are elderly

    • @timdavis3260
      @timdavis3260 3 месяца назад

      @@moheganson lol not in my country they are not. The younger modern women of today are the biproducts of the slutty older generation. Traditional woman earn marriage, modern women expect it. I'd bet 1% of the women in the world are traditional and they are not on the west. The 99% are just objects. Treat them as such.

  • @Let_The_Foolish_Take_The_Lead
    @Let_The_Foolish_Take_The_Lead 3 месяца назад +2

    The problem with this information, and this entire channel, is that the information and strategies only work on women who aren't authentically interested in the first place.
    Here's a thought gents, be more selective. Have some self respect, don't settle for a woman that fails to meet your standards just because you can keep her. There's a good chance that you'll grow to resent her and punish her when she did nothing wrong.
    Keep a vacancy by your side, and wait for a woman that shows genuine interest. Then reciprocate that interest and match intensity until she's ready for your lead, then she'll follow as long as you retain your frame.
    Don't try to lead a woman when you're not worth following, it's harsh but it's the truth. Too many men these days are weak and aren't ready to lead a woman, and then complain because they can't get one. Take some responsibility upon yourself and be better.

    • @NKO10HD
      @NKO10HD 3 месяца назад

      Thats so Tate. GOAT.

    • @kalleghj8593
      @kalleghj8593 3 месяца назад

      thank you

  • @lendtothelord1429
    @lendtothelord1429 3 месяца назад +2

    FOMO IS KEY

  • @rancesuperking8731
    @rancesuperking8731 3 месяца назад +5

    Casey back with a banger!

  • @lechero4295
    @lechero4295 3 месяца назад +2

    yea but what if she keeps texting me??? and ask me what im doing sending me memes etc

    • @samuelsamuel1061
      @samuelsamuel1061 3 месяца назад +1

      Just ignore
      Reply next day
      If you reply her immediately after or during her tons of message you just satisfying her and killing attraction
      Remember the slower you are from your side the quicker she is

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 3 месяца назад +2

    Casey my trick to counter act this is to pick a decent home loving caring girl that you find reasonably attractive but not too sexual! That way she will do more for you and you won’t have anxiety about losing her it will just gradually build out of mutual respect

  • @nathanscharf5116
    @nathanscharf5116 3 месяца назад +1

    What I like to do on a first date is pull pimp slap right off the bat. I also like to set up two dates with two different women in the same day and let them know they’re not the only one I’m seeing. I treat it like buying a car and test driving different ones and going to different lots.

  • @davidt1621
    @davidt1621 3 месяца назад +2

    You're in my notifications when you drop a new one. Props to you holding down a job running this business teaching guys. Its enough energy just dating and living daily life. I couldn't make this subject matter my full time. I'd go mad so props to you dude.

  • @jasonjones4492
    @jasonjones4492 3 месяца назад +2

    A little bit of mystery keeps things exciting great breakdown brother.💥

  • @davidwhyman1189
    @davidwhyman1189 3 месяца назад +1

    Very true. My woman, who I see about once per week, stays in the spare bedroom. This still doesn't discourage her from whining about her needing money - jesus, all too difficult.

  • @adamfrisch5826
    @adamfrisch5826 3 месяца назад +2

    Kings, WE are the prize! Act like it.

  • @_kaymadeit7217
    @_kaymadeit7217 3 месяца назад +1

    8:20 So after you go 12 days of not talking, she’ll eventually ask what have you been up to. What do you tell her? Because you obviously can’t/ shouldn’t update her with what you’ve actually been doing. Do you just play coy? I’m not actually asking for answers, I’m just pointing out that there are still issues with this. If you made it this far in the comment, I just want to say Casey is the Goat

    • @samuelsamuel1061
      @samuelsamuel1061 3 месяца назад

      Answer her
      I was busy with my friends and work

  • @samiad357
    @samiad357 3 месяца назад

    😂Not sure what women you are dating but no way is this what women want! I wouldnt find any man who engages in this behaviour as worth persuing! Literally, don't have the time or energy for such games. And telling people to not trust their guts is just mental advice 🙈good luck with that approach guys 😂🙏💖

  • @theresakunda4407
    @theresakunda4407 3 месяца назад +1

    The content provider wears a cross around his neck but not once did I hear him give any authentic biblical advice. Please Zander take off the cross and refrain from wearing a symbol and lifestyle you know nothing about. Men. , you want a a good woman? Volunteer at a charity function or get involved in a ministry. Think with the head above your shoulders. Learn what the bible has to say about the definition of love. Stop dating narcissistic women. Still use your common sense even in charities and organized houses of worship.

    • @Baselbarf8787
      @Baselbarf8787 3 месяца назад

      Religion doesnt protect men anymore, its full of these ”born again” women that absolutely destroyed themselves and now want you to do charity work by taking them on.

  • @sammy_besocial
    @sammy_besocial 3 месяца назад +3

    Go Casey Go 💪💪💪

  • @InspiNatio
    @InspiNatio 3 месяца назад

    I am 16 years old. Do you think this stuff applies the same for teenage relationships. I feel like some rules apply and some dont because the maturity level is not equal.

  • @roman_kofyno
    @roman_kofyno 2 месяца назад

    In other words, be beware of (decades of) social engineering.

  • @evgeniykazannikov1803
    @evgeniykazannikov1803 3 месяца назад +2

    Great video as always! Thank you!

  • @CiroMastino
    @CiroMastino 3 месяца назад +3

    Excellent

  • @JESUSTORRES-l3g
    @JESUSTORRES-l3g 3 месяца назад +2

    REAL TALK GOD BLESS YOU.

  • @garymardle2120
    @garymardle2120 3 месяца назад +1

    Uncle C, he’s back in the office!

  • @zobboy8641
    @zobboy8641 3 месяца назад

    Keep game short and your strokes long!

  • @RapidUpdates
    @RapidUpdates 3 месяца назад +1

    Right On Casey!!

  • @Wanwan-mq3jw
    @Wanwan-mq3jw 3 месяца назад +1

    Scary. But this Guy right

  • @danielprada6153
    @danielprada6153 3 месяца назад +2

    Absolutely gold

  • @Queenwraith
    @Queenwraith 3 месяца назад +8

    Casey hair goin fast bro

    • @Turbo_Tastic
      @Turbo_Tastic 3 месяца назад +1

      Ferritin iron levels in blood

    • @Labochain.Stratégie
      @Labochain.Stratégie 3 месяца назад

      I myself goin bald (I'm 26) but with that big d*ck energy and masculine frame, it seems that most girls don't pay attention to it so that's cool

    • @mikesolns1364
      @mikesolns1364 3 месяца назад

      It's because of testosterone therapy

    • @Turbo_Tastic
      @Turbo_Tastic 3 месяца назад +3

      @@mikesolns1364 yeah that can cause low ferritin iron levels which probably need to be supplemented. Fun fact as far as testosterone goes men do not lose testosterone as they get older that's a myth. Harvard study came out that shows that if you stay in shape you have the same testosterone in your 90s as you do in your teens maybe even more

    • @mikesolns1364
      @mikesolns1364 3 месяца назад +4

      @@Turbo_Tastic It's not ferritin levels what affects the follicle. It's androgen sensitivity. More testosterone in an androgen sensitive male = more hair loss
      And about that Harvard study, toss it out with hogwash. Must have been done by nurse practitioners or something. As a norm testosterone levels decrease independent of fitness level with age.
      Source: I'm a plastic surgeon and antiaging, integrative and functional doctor with 16 years of clinical experience

  • @producermind9030
    @producermind9030 18 дней назад

    Fax. I needed to hear this.

  • @j-star1
    @j-star1 3 месяца назад +2

    Nice one, makes sense!

  • @craigothedago7763
    @craigothedago7763 3 месяца назад +3

    Thanks!

  • @nicksteinberg6621
    @nicksteinberg6621 3 месяца назад

    Great one man. Mystery is absolutely imperative. Also, abstain from following them on social media and don’t share stories everyday.

  • @js5189
    @js5189 3 месяца назад

    When I pulled back and i'm focusing on myself she tries to get me jealous or get a reaction out of me by reposting stupid sh*t. I really like her but I can't do this sh*t no more it's exhausting. I'll be alone forever.

  • @dennismixon9028
    @dennismixon9028 3 месяца назад

    This is Best Video ,you have put forward!
    Damn Damn Damn Great Advice & Skill you show us , Sir!!
    Thank you!

  • @MrRobuo
    @MrRobuo 3 месяца назад +5

    Really amazing Casey to watch your true purpose crystallize while at the same time providing such value to men.

  • @chrisw8838
    @chrisw8838 3 месяца назад

    This is why guys went in camping and fishing trips and get their mum or something to go help the wife while he was away so she couldn't easily cheat and him being away means the women gossip and miss him and you get the positive feedback if your mum is good. I've seen it but not experienced it. It seemed to be a generationao thing.

  • @metatron8386
    @metatron8386 3 месяца назад

    If you PULL energy off her it makes her have to generate energy. Masculine energy is the HEAT, flow of energy from mind (God gift you free will over the mind) into Cold. You have to cool and slow the energy down into form (body, emotions, feelings,).

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 3 месяца назад

    Understand that hypergamy causes women to think in a way that is counter to logical when dealing with men..... In a way that most logically thinking men might consider simple or savage..... For women it's primal.

  • @rubenhaarman9975
    @rubenhaarman9975 3 месяца назад

    For basic and regular situations, this is absolutely true and how it should be played. I am however often in the situation where I already have a long-term girlfriend, while simultaneously being with "side-chicks'' on the side. Those side-chicks ofcourse know I am already in a relationship with another woman. So for maintaining multiple girlfriends, I feel like the most important dynamic in that situation is to atleast sell them the prophecy that they could ''one day'' be the main one. I always feel like I should go easier on them in regard to the ''pulling back'' part, as they already know I am with another woman anyway and I don't want them to think that they're merely a hoe of mine (even if they would be), as this could initiate a sentiment in her that it'd be okay for her to date other men as well. I obviously want my side-chicks to be fiercely loyal to me -- and they are.
    Is it logical and reasonable for me to go less hard on my side-chicks when it comes to creating distance or am I making up excuses in my brain and should I still weaponize distance just like I would in a ''normal'' situation (where the man is single)
    Feel free for anyone to give some input.

  • @fannywayne1920
    @fannywayne1920 3 месяца назад

    This is exactly how i've lived for years ...when my girl got her own place i started staying by her often and in no time she started disrespecting me for little things... and yes our relationship is over now .. my current girl i see only on weekends

  • @Winn-Daniel
    @Winn-Daniel 3 месяца назад +1

    vidz r getting better n better///..

  • @metatron8386
    @metatron8386 3 месяца назад

    Emotions are energy in motion from the mind. Skip the prep school. There is only 1 mind and many bodies (emotions). Mind is above the body. The body is 2 mind is 1. You know 2 emotions does he like me or does he not like me ? = 2. 1 Mind means you reconnect with god/ Father.

  • @timbradshaw5481
    @timbradshaw5481 3 месяца назад +1

    I distanced myself reducing communication with a girl who I believed was somewhat attracted to me. And what happened was, she then pulled back as well. And it's like we are both trying to show each other that we aren't into each other. When I say pulled back, I see her less and sent like half as many messages as before.
    I also found pulling back made me want to see her more. Before we joked a lot and showed extra interest in seeing each other. Now we both pulled back and she still acts like she's interested but also trying to 'punish' me because I pulled back.
    Did i do something wrong?

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 3 месяца назад +1

      Yes, here's what you're doing wrong. Get your passport & go find you a woman worth dating in a 3rd world country. Retire early & move there. You can't bring her back to the West or she'll leave you.

    • @Anonymously-187
      @Anonymously-187 3 месяца назад +4

      Nope. Set dates and carry on. She's testing you and trying to re establish her control perhaps. Arrange a date and act normal.

    • @timbradshaw5481
      @timbradshaw5481 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Anonymously-187 Thank you I'll do that

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 3 месяца назад +1

      @timbradshaw5481 I disagree with Tiger on this one. She's battling for control over the relationship. If you give in, this will become your future. Every time she can't get control of you, she will pull away because you have reinforced this behavior. She's not as into you as you thought. Or, more likely, she's with the next guy already. Get your passport & find a real woman in a 3rd world country.

    • @Anonymously-187
      @Anonymously-187 3 месяца назад +2

      @@danmurray1143 I disagree. However with such limited information who knows. Just make sure you are charismatic yet relaxed on the date or hangout. Fuck her properly and don't be needy. She'll come around. So many variables unknown. Maybe you're doing something else wrong. Maybe she's dating 2 other guys. That all said, sometimes a pullback isn't necessary and confuses women that never deserved it. If you go from one extreme of texting all day to nothing it's going to be weird absolutely. It shouldn't look to her that you've dropped off the planet all of a sudden, just steady reduced frequency etc. Maybe text her less, then call her for example and lock in a date. If she asks what's been happening you play it cool etc. Have a good hangout. Repeat.

  • @kv999o41
    @kv999o41 3 месяца назад

    I didn't see her for a week after showing all the needinessfor 2 months, yesterday as i went pass through home i sensed she was doing something to get me notice her....earlier she used to run away but today i took my gut feeling to see her now she saw me and continued gossiping with her friends....i am so frustrated its getting to a point where i started hating this woman but dont know why i am still in love with her......

  • @gabrielleirbag5696
    @gabrielleirbag5696 3 месяца назад

    You were born to teach these. These are the true laws of attraction. It's really more like a hypnotist working on his clients. I can now direct the mind of a woman to my betterment.

  • @chinonsoagu1464
    @chinonsoagu1464 3 месяца назад

    I must be honest that you been helpful to my relationship/ dating life brother. You are the Man 💪🏿🙌❤️✅💯

  • @Vkkggccjooptrcbdethq2345swa
    @Vkkggccjooptrcbdethq2345swa 3 месяца назад

    I wish I would have bought headman instead of MBT lol.

  • @faizaali6135
    @faizaali6135 3 месяца назад

    What if multiple men want one woman ? What should men in your community do in this situation.

  • @ALTRD-ps3so
    @ALTRD-ps3so 3 месяца назад

    Thinking about joining the movement, your videos helped me alot the past weeks 💪🏻

  • @hristopavlov298
    @hristopavlov298 3 месяца назад

    Come on Casey, that board was hella weak compared to your other work. Cut the bloat. Gut was used multiple times and apes together strong was already said with the intro.

  • @bhaveshtailor4554
    @bhaveshtailor4554 3 месяца назад

    Pls make video on maintaining attraction in LTR committed relationship

    • @samuelsamuel1061
      @samuelsamuel1061 3 месяца назад

      Maintaining attraction and commitment don't go in line
      Leave any one
      Once you commitment there is downfall of everything in relationship

  • @huffbj
    @huffbj 3 месяца назад

    I always love seeing Ben include his sons in everything. That’s how you keep it in the family

  • @thing1thing2themediamaniac43
    @thing1thing2themediamaniac43 3 месяца назад +1

    Both my GrandMothers didn't play these GODDAMN MINDGAMES with either of My GrandFathers and their Mom's definitely didn't play these GODDAMN MINDGAMES with their husband's. Women from My GrandParents Generation and Great GrandParents Generation ect were 💯% STRAIGHTFORWARD WITH MEN Although My Mom played these mindgames with My Dad It's AMAZING they're still married almost 40 years They got married in 1985 Both my twin brother and I were born on June 19th 1987 and my little brother was born September 19th, 1996. It's not worth it The 1960's and Feminism PERMANENTLY DAMAGED WOMEN

    • @Baselbarf8787
      @Baselbarf8787 3 месяца назад

      I can promise you that they played these mindgames with your grandfathers, the difference is that your grandfathers were raised with natural masculinity, not the feminism infused ”men *should* be this” that we got, so your grandfathers were naturally indifferent, they didnt watch corn and werent driven by lust, they werent needy simps. Today guys consume lewd content and are hypersexual, this gives women the leverage.

  • @andreasfahlen4936
    @andreasfahlen4936 3 месяца назад

    A strategy as a man in a relationship is to have beside the shared home his own cabin where he goes when he wants to be alone or when shes getting to obnixious.

  • @CryptoMaximalist
    @CryptoMaximalist 3 месяца назад

    Looking stacked bro

  • @jorgevalllllllll
    @jorgevalllllllll 3 месяца назад

    just wnt to say thank you, all you say is congruent with what happened sometimes to me, and i can see why

  • @X-qf1hl
    @X-qf1hl 3 месяца назад +1

    There’s a girl I like at my gym who is always giving me strong indicators of interest and clearly wants me to talk to her but I just don’t know what to say, I feel like I won’t be funny so I just haven’t talked to her yet. I obviously don’t want to just start complimenting her like what most guys do so what do I talk about?

    • @hunterpope9051
      @hunterpope9051 3 месяца назад

      It's too late now. Leave her alone.

    • @ShyMplsMale
      @ShyMplsMale 3 месяца назад

      Try this out and get back to me if it works or not. I just thought of this- get a piece of paper from a lined notebook and write "Write down your phone number here _________ and give this piece of paper back to the person who gave it to you :) " Fold it up and keep in your pocket when at the gym until the girl walks by you. When she walks by, throw the folded up piece of paper on the ground behind her and say "Excuse me! I think you dropped something". Pick it up and give it to her. You could ask "Is that yours?" and wait around until she unfolds the piece of paper. She will definitely smile and when she does, hand her a small black thin tipped marker since pens might not work if she is going to try and write her number down without a table near by. Make it easy for her. When she hands you the piece of paper, introduce yourself, ask for her name, tell her it was nice to meet her and just leave the gym as if you were going to leave anyways. Don't wait around.

    • @X-qf1hl
      @X-qf1hl 3 месяца назад +2

      @@hunterpope9051 Lol somebody is jealous that they don’t get interest from women.

    • @Y4nn1ck-m8t
      @Y4nn1ck-m8t 3 месяца назад +3

      tease her like "You are not working hard today " and go on by your life , chances are that she will try to gain your approval by working hard
      Plant the "seed" and go on to your life

    • @b.c.34
      @b.c.34 3 месяца назад

      Approach her and say hi; do not try to please her flow with her normally, and as you wrote do not compliment her. If you see that she has many male friends, and except if you do not want to only smash, then take you mind off her else she will add you to her list .

  • @dmytoe5679
    @dmytoe5679 3 месяца назад

    Casey Zander is definitely the place to go for Inner Game

  • @chuckrey640
    @chuckrey640 3 месяца назад

    😂😂

  • @yeathatsright369
    @yeathatsright369 3 месяца назад

    Look it , you have to know if your a woman's type. Once you know , you know

  • @brandonbarker6245
    @brandonbarker6245 3 месяца назад

    Awesome we will show these narcissistic women what it's all about 🤙😎