Point. Blank. Period. especially when you get around the age of 22 and having 6 years at least of work experience and it bothers you to know that some people don't want to be your friend or don't care to socialize with you , or if you even think that you have friends ,then you are ignorant as hell. I never cared to have friends at the age of 15 , I'm 39 now and , don't care even more . The less people you talk to and deal with the better
I was treated like absolute shit just because I didn’t talk and kept to myself. This is why I’m looking into remote jobs since it would fit me perfectly!
Warehouse jobs are literally the bottom of the barrel. There is no barrier to entry. Anyone can get a job in a warehouse, including convicted felons and pedophiles.
If you’re a quiet and introverted person, people will think you’re an asshole and put a target on your back. If you’re a hard worker and perform better than your coworkers, that creates resentment and also puts a target on your back. Fuck them coworkers and the managers. No point in going above and beyond for them and being too friendly
Whatver you do, never resort to violence because no matter how tough they act, they will press charges on you and you will catch a case. If you know you're getting to that point then find another job.
Self-defense is always legally justified, but by that point, the place has proven itself toxic, and you're most likely going to get fired no matter how justified you are. You need to be running for the hills long before it gets to that point. Lol.
Coworkers were never to be considered as your friends because you hardly know them. They're your associates in the workplace, if you don't hang out with them outside of work afterwards. Besides, it's best to be only associates with your coworkers anyway because, if you tell them all your personal business, they're going to spread it all over the workplace. People love to gossip and tell everybody's business. That's how conflicts amongst the employees gets started, so it's best to be private.
1st rule being a loner at work is the best thing you can ever do, 2nd do your job and clock out asap, 3rd don’t ever care about someone because they weren’t your friend before you met them can’t expect them to be there at the end when you eventually get transferred, quit, or be fired
We all grown ass adults and ppl be in the work place tryna bully and shit😂 I can't… Even when I maintain distance ppl have an issue with it.. You cant win for losing with individuals and that's fine just keep the fake shit away from me..
I have major trust issues at work, as much betrayals, backstabs, and fakery I’ve been exposed to, I don’t bother anyone, hey, and cya, that’s the best I can do.
Fa sho!! Black dudes too which makes it worse. The sub-foreman showing his insecurities by saying I'm coming for his job bc I work hard. His soft ass helping my other hating ass co-workers do their job faster so they can say they finished before me. They still failed!! 😂🤣😂🤣 Real sucka shit, man! I stay prayed up!! Trying my best not to pop off on their weak asses. 😤
@@GoldenChild88888word of advice: start looking for another job because its just a matter of time before they do something slimy & grimy to get u out of there. Gotta move 20 steps ahead of them losers. Facts!
@@GoldenChild88888This is why I don't fk with blk men like that cause most of em are too big on respect especially when u're dealing with convicted felons who have been to prison. Any little thing u do that easily offends them will automatically come across as disrespectful to them especially if u don't talk to em. I just keep ignoring em as much as possible.
Be polite. But never befriend anyone at work. Especially, those who talk smack about others, because you know they are talking smack about you when you’re not around.
At my job I’m talkative and social and suggested hanging out with someone who I taught I felt most comfortable getting to know more and possibly develop something more but then that workplace relationship went dead so fast out of nowhere. The vibe changed and I just wanted someone who I could connect with that could make my job more enjoyable and have fun with but now I’m just quiet and do the job I need to do in my own. Coworkers aren’t interested in getting to know me and I just had to accept that for what it is. My advice just be careful and protect yourself and focus on trying to develop connections elsewhere in your free time.
So true! I stay to myself all the gossiping I have no time for. So because I stay by myself, they have issues with that. They try to get me in trouble with the higher-ups, and it just slap them in their faces! No weapons form against me will not prosper. If it has nothing to do with the job or my patients, I don't want to hear it. Simple!
And that's exactly why I do my job stay far away from people literally. I sit back and observe; what i see is highschool drama. Even when people come to me gossiping I keep my mouth closed. They may know one or two things about me and i give them no details.#iaintint
You are absolutely 💯 correct When I was working everyone in my office knew that my area was a no gossip zone .. . I didn't want to hear about nobody's husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, dog or cat .... if they couldn't be positive I didn't want them around me .... never shared my personal business and I never took or made personal calls ..... And all that sleeping around is irresponsible and a big no ..... 😮 Also know that there is no thing as a work husband or a work wife ...people...please stop with that already 🤦🏾
I like keeping "professional distance" at work. I really view my coworkers as "chess pieces" and not as actual human beings. It's all just a "game" where everybody is out to get you. Coworkers will stab you in the back at any given moment if it financially suits them. They're just inanimate objects to me now. To me, coworkers are like pieces of furniture at the store as I casually walk on by. To me, they're like pieces of cardboard. THAT'S how I view my coworkers. Just cold, barren and lifeless objects who I barely acknowledge. It's best to isolate yourself from everyone at work and only talk to them about work-related matters. My new motto at work is now "Trust No One". Everyone is out to get you in this cold and evil, dark world. I hate co-workers.
I only fw the coworkers that hate the job equally, especially those that are loose lipped about how much they hate management. And even then, I walk carefully because I know that it can be some shit if i start to outshine somebody. But I don't never badmouth coworkers at my level. I don't talk about team leads either unless there's an actual issue that needs to be addressed at appropriate times. Don't do the bullying shit though. Of course, this is in low level jobs that are hardly worth anything. I don't play in professional workplaces. That good bread isn't worth treating anyone like anything but another name to ensure job security.
YES, I am that person do my job and go home. I am friendly but I just keep it the job. People will attack you for just you coming to work and doing your job.
People ask why I'm quiet all the time at work...I'm like, why does it matter to YOU??? If I don't fwu, I don't fwu. It is what it is. I'm here to make money, not friends.
@@cj8803I thought it was always wierd for me to be that way but now I Understand others do it too! But I’m just an introvert though lol. Could care less about these people
Work is work, but you might find a friend here and there... but some people will not care others will act like they care and some will become your supervisor and switch up in good and bad ways. Its deeper than explained 🙄. A loner is loner and rolls different
@FordFitness334 yep, just hope they aren't good actors and switch up when they become supervisors. The main problem is some people's inner child, their childhood and even young adulthood may play a part why they blame or have problems with others and can only find fault in certain people without completely looking at the outcome from their point of view. But then again, these are people at a job they probably left a group of friends for because they didn't start a good business with each other. It's deeper than explained 🙄 so many things can make a person feel a way, even the person waiting for that crush to approach them with the kind of intentions they are looking for, but they fail to understand that person and focus on their ideal.
Going through the bs currently. It’s not in my nature to not like someone. But GD, most people not all are just asses. Anyway, excellent video, thank you. New sub here.
@@Primetimeford Damn right they do,,, and also most of them have just never had a good ole fashion fist in the mouth. But can’t do that lol, that’s why I love your channel lol,,, gotta learn the right way. Be looking forward to more vids!
As an adult, you have to use discernment and trust your gut. Move slow with adult relationships. As a kid, 1 or 2 things in common within 1 hour could get you a bff. As an adult, 1 or 2 things in common just mean you have 1 or 2 things in common. As an adult, you are much more complex and can't depend on one friend for all your emotional needs and adventures. Don't think you are finna get a ride or die from work. People are about their coin and will not support you if you are F'ing off.
That's me!.. i come in to work, and i try to focus.. and i socialize here and there, but mainly.. just stick to myself. ..and no, you're right, Mr. Co-worker.. i'm not a team player.. i'm more of a leader!
This and especially the ones who want day act and assume y'all are already best friends when you barely know each other or just met the first day or the first week of being on the job, and then the next day or not even the next day they do the whole switcheroo on you and they were just using you out of convenience because they are that annoying, needy, miserable and lonely co-worker who overshares all of the time. Look at it this way, if they are talking that mess to you, then they are talking that mess about you behind your back, as you never truly know who all likes you vs who all does not like you, when it comes to the workplace. It's all like I'm not a therapist and I'm not trying to be one either.
Real! 💯 I only made 2 real friends from a job out of the many years ive been working. The worst places ive worked was in clothing retail and office environments..Ive been scorned lol. I make educational skits about corporate bs. Workplace be wildin crazy.
Probably only 1 or 2 coworkers actually made friends with and that’s because I never spoke a word like attracts like . Dude told me that he could trust me because I don’t speak to everybody and give my energy to everyone . Look at 48 laws of power law number 4 speak less then what should be said
go to work, do your time, and go, a lot of them mfs will do you wrong to get over on you. Then don't get me started on the ones that will lurk on your linkedin to see what you're doing or where you're working lol
Work is work! Not trying to make friends or enemies. Just trying to make my money🎉
Point. Blank. Period. especially when you get around the age of 22 and having 6 years at least of work experience and it bothers you to know that some people don't want to be your friend or don't care to socialize with you , or if you even think that you have friends ,then you are ignorant as hell. I never cared to have friends at the age of 15 , I'm 39 now and , don't care even more . The less people you talk to and deal with the better
@@ebonyeyed08ti Perfectly stated 👍
TOTALLY AGREED. Co-workers are backstabbers!
I swear people act like they still in high school … It’s so annoying 😂
Big Facts
Mannn, so true
I was the only introvert at my last job and it was hell. They got mad because I wasn't making small talk and keeping to myself.
That's crazy, you didn't bother a soul and that was still a problem.
How weird...you being to yourself should not concern them at all, tf?
That's my whole adolescence.
Same here I had to quit my job the physical work wasn't bad but these people were killing my mind
I was treated like absolute shit just because I didn’t talk and kept to myself. This is why I’m looking into remote jobs since it would fit me perfectly!
Warehouse jobs be the worst. When you a person who stays to yourself it seems like the supervisors wanna low key pick on you.
Absolutely
Warehouse jobs are literally the bottom of the barrel. There is no barrier to entry. Anyone can get a job in a warehouse, including convicted felons and pedophiles.
Amazon is like this for sure. Very cliquey and nitpicky environment.
And be careful of co-workers who are too nice to you. The majority of time, many do not have good intentions.
Facts my discernment level kicks in when they do it I be knowing it’s a BS , they be nice cause they wanna use you.
@@Primetimeford Bingo 💪🏾
If you’re a quiet and introverted person, people will think you’re an asshole and put a target on your back. If you’re a hard worker and perform better than your coworkers, that creates resentment and also puts a target on your back. Fuck them coworkers and the managers. No point in going above and beyond for them and being too friendly
Facts
Whatver you do, never resort to violence because no matter how tough they act, they will press charges on you and you will catch a case. If you know you're getting to that point then find another job.
Self-defense is always legally justified, but by that point, the place has proven itself toxic, and you're most likely going to get fired no matter how justified you are. You need to be running for the hills long before it gets to that point. Lol.
@@machida58 It’s not gonna be a self defense situation, it’s gonna be them throwing subliminals, they’re not stupid.
@@mikejones9906 In that case, play the game. Know a little emotional jujitsu. Lol.
Classmates as well
High school is horrible.
Coworkers are back stabbers!
Coworkers were never to be considered as your friends because you hardly know them. They're your associates in the workplace, if you don't hang out with them outside of work afterwards. Besides, it's best to be only associates with your coworkers anyway because, if you tell them all your personal business, they're going to spread it all over the workplace. People love to gossip and tell everybody's business. That's how conflicts amongst the employees gets started, so it's best to be private.
Right
1st rule being a loner at work is the best thing you can ever do, 2nd do your job and clock out asap, 3rd don’t ever care about someone because they weren’t your friend before you met them can’t expect them to be there at the end when you eventually get transferred, quit, or be fired
There are no friends when it comes to money
We all grown ass adults and ppl be in the work place tryna bully and shit😂 I can't…
Even when I maintain distance ppl have an issue with it.. You cant win for losing with individuals and that's fine just keep the fake shit away from me..
@@IMAMEEZY people be weird bro they really be hating because your different from everybody else
@@Primetimeford shit is lame..
Muhfuggas come up to me saying hi I say less . Idgaf about them
I have major trust issues at work, as much betrayals, backstabs, and fakery I’ve been exposed to, I don’t bother anyone, hey, and cya, that’s the best I can do.
Got to keep it professional at work. Especially in corporate executive positions.
Real spill!! Going through the BS now. My co-workers are offended by my work ethic. Fuck’em! 🤷🏾♂️
Stay focused on your money bro, let ‘em hate while you continue to elevate 1000 🫡
Fa sho!! Black dudes too which makes it worse. The sub-foreman showing his insecurities by saying I'm coming for his job bc I work hard. His soft ass helping my other hating ass co-workers do their job faster so they can say they finished before me. They still failed!! 😂🤣😂🤣 Real sucka shit, man! I stay prayed up!! Trying my best not to pop off on their weak asses. 😤
@@GoldenChild88888well if ypy quit workikgn hard they will just complain abput that😮
@@GoldenChild88888word of advice: start looking for another job because its just a matter of time before they do something slimy & grimy to get u out of there. Gotta move 20 steps ahead of them losers. Facts!
@@GoldenChild88888This is why I don't fk with blk men like that cause most of em are too big on respect especially when u're dealing with convicted felons who have been to prison. Any little thing u do that easily offends them will automatically come across as disrespectful to them especially if u don't talk to em. I just keep ignoring em as much as possible.
Stay in your own lane 😊 I learned this myself my brother thank you
The best way to be & no problem fam 🫡 1000
True talk! Keep your business to yourself and Mind your business. Keep it moving...
I’m glad people are aware and awake to this stuff dude co workers that are older than you, will snitch on you! Can you believe that!?
Always know that there are bullies in these work spaces. You are always alone in this plantation of fake people.
Be polite. But never befriend anyone at work. Especially, those who talk smack about others, because you know they are talking smack about you when you’re not around.
At my job I’m talkative and social and suggested hanging out with someone who I taught I felt most comfortable getting to know more and possibly develop something more but then that workplace relationship went dead so fast out of nowhere. The vibe changed and I just wanted someone who I could connect with that could make my job more enjoyable and have fun with but now I’m just quiet and do the job I need to do in my own. Coworkers aren’t interested in getting to know me and I just had to accept that for what it is. My advice just be careful and protect yourself and focus on trying to develop connections elsewhere in your free time.
On point and on time❤
True, I try to be in an out of work not really socializing. My problem is people get offended by that.
Lol that's some narcissist childish bs...people need to grow up 😂🤦♀️.
So true! I stay to myself all the gossiping I have no time for. So because I stay by myself, they have issues with that. They try to get me in trouble with the higher-ups, and it just slap them in their faces! No weapons form against me will not prosper. If it has nothing to do with the job or my patients, I don't want to hear it. Simple!
Exactly ain’t no coworkers your dam friends them mfs will snitch on yo azz this my 2nd time watching you but I like your content ❤❤
And that's exactly why I do my job stay far away from people literally. I sit back and observe; what i see is highschool drama. Even when people come to me gossiping I keep my mouth closed. They may know one or two things about me and i give them no details.#iaintint
You are absolutely 💯 correct
When I was working everyone in my office knew that my area was a no gossip zone ..
. I didn't want to hear about nobody's husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, dog or cat .... if they couldn't be positive I didn't want them around me .... never shared my personal business and I never took or made personal calls .....
And all that sleeping around is irresponsible and a big no .....
😮
Also know that there is no thing as a work husband or a work wife ...people...please stop with that already 🤦🏾
No place that’s more crab in a barrel than the workplace too
Absolutely
Amen! It's one thing to be courteous and friendly, but don't be friends.
I like keeping "professional distance" at work. I really view my coworkers as "chess pieces" and not as actual human beings. It's all just a "game" where everybody is out to get you. Coworkers will stab you in the back at any given moment if it financially suits them. They're just inanimate objects to me now. To me, coworkers are like pieces of furniture at the store as I casually walk on by. To me, they're like pieces of cardboard. THAT'S how I view my coworkers. Just cold, barren and lifeless objects who I barely acknowledge. It's best to isolate yourself from everyone at work and only talk to them about work-related matters. My new motto at work is now "Trust No One". Everyone is out to get you in this cold and evil, dark world. I hate co-workers.
Yes work is work
Yes indeed
You are 100% right with your message. peace!
People be so hateful that sometimes they wont even speak to tou when u stay to yourself just terrible good stuff bro
Wise advice brother! Thank you! JESUS CHRIST IS LORD AND SAVIOR!
I only fw the coworkers that hate the job equally, especially those that are loose lipped about how much they hate management. And even then, I walk carefully because I know that it can be some shit if i start to outshine somebody. But I don't never badmouth coworkers at my level. I don't talk about team leads either unless there's an actual issue that needs to be addressed at appropriate times. Don't do the bullying shit though.
Of course, this is in low level jobs that are hardly worth anything. I don't play in professional workplaces. That good bread isn't worth treating anyone like anything but another name to ensure job security.
real talk, thats what i call real talk. good job talking about this man bravo
Facts so true.. I’m glad I’m not the only one
YES, I am that person do my job and go home. I am friendly but I just keep it the job. People will attack you for just you coming to work and doing your job.
Be careful who you trust and tell your problems to because everyone who smiles at you is not your friend
Im in the army and this is so true
It's weird that even the army is like that
@@floydthephilosopher yup exactly
Keep your head up brother, you have a good spirit, once people see that their demons will show
It’s the same at work for me I go in and do my job. Everybody else leaves goes plays golf together all this other crap.
Lol.
My GM gone ask me today "Are you just naturally quiet”? I said "mmhm" like dude there’s nothing for me to talk about Im here to make money.
They be wanting everybody to kiss they ass but ain’t nobody got time for fuckery. Time is money I’m not here to socialize!
People ask why I'm quiet all the time at work...I'm like, why does it matter to YOU??? If I don't fwu, I don't fwu. It is what it is. I'm here to make money, not friends.
@@cj8803yesss
@@PrimetimefordThat's exactly what it is. They want you to be down with them and the fuckery. No lol. I REFUSE. You're not gonna get me 🤣.
@@cj8803I thought it was always wierd for me to be that way but now I Understand others do it too! But I’m just an introvert though lol. Could care less about these people
GOD sent you to me for this message i know they are bro thank you im sensing all the energy and im deleting my social medias
Work is work, but you might find a friend here and there... but some people will not care others will act like they care and some will become your supervisor and switch up in good and bad ways. Its deeper than explained 🙄. A loner is loner and rolls different
Yeah just that one person be cool but everyone else be fake 90% of the time just gotta Vet people out and you’ll see for yourself
@FordFitness334 yep, just hope they aren't good actors and switch up when they become supervisors. The main problem is some people's inner child, their childhood and even young adulthood may play a part why they blame or have problems with others and can only find fault in certain people without completely looking at the outcome from their point of view. But then again, these are people at a job they probably left a group of friends for because they didn't start a good business with each other. It's deeper than explained 🙄 so many things can make a person feel a way, even the person waiting for that crush to approach them with the kind of intentions they are looking for, but they fail to understand that person and focus on their ideal.
I relate to that, deeply. Don't be fooled and listen to this man
Going through the bs currently. It’s not in my nature to not like someone. But GD, most people not all are just asses. Anyway, excellent video, thank you. New sub here.
People envy you when you have a good spirit and appreciate the sub bro dropping more vids soon !
@@Primetimeford Damn right they do,,, and also most of them have just never had a good ole fashion fist in the mouth. But can’t do that lol, that’s why I love your channel lol,,, gotta learn the right way. Be looking forward to more vids!
Im retired, 73, in my working years i was brought in to the office, because co workers said i was getting special treatment, snakes.
❤everything you’ve saying is true coworker are not your friends I would love ❤️ to be your friend 😘
just say wassup and keep walkin
That’s not good enough for most of them, but oh well.
That's really all I try to say lol.
I see so many videos stating coworkers are not your friends. Bottom line- there is something to it.
As an adult, you have to use discernment and trust your gut. Move slow with adult relationships. As a kid, 1 or 2 things in common within 1 hour could get you a bff. As an adult, 1 or 2 things in common just mean you have 1 or 2 things in common. As an adult, you are much more complex and can't depend on one friend for all your emotional needs and adventures. Don't think you are finna get a ride or die from work. People are about their coin and will not support you if you are F'ing off.
I agree 100%
That's me!.. i come in to work, and i try to focus.. and i socialize here and there, but mainly.. just stick to myself. ..and no, you're right, Mr. Co-worker.. i'm not a team player.. i'm more of a leader!
i agree wen tell me about their person life. or they talking about so n so. i pratice IDGAF. CLOCK OUT N GO HOME.
Yesss they will set you up yesss it’s gone build up and you gonna lay them out !! 😂
lol 😂
Nothing but facts!
In the army too , had to report this sergeant .. did the right thing before things got out hand .
Keep your head up bro , pray 🙏 and stay focused on what’s important !
Thanks for Serving Sir. Stay up and Stay Woke, Keep your grass cut low so you can see these snakes
word
This and especially the ones who want day act and assume y'all are already best friends when you barely know each other or just met the first day or the first week of being on the job, and then the next day or not even the next day they do the whole switcheroo on you and they were just using you out of convenience because they are that annoying, needy, miserable and lonely co-worker who overshares all of the time. Look at it this way, if they are talking that mess to you, then they are talking that mess about you behind your back, as you never truly know who all likes you vs who all does not like you, when it comes to the workplace. It's all like I'm not a therapist and I'm not trying to be one either.
I know that's right 👍👍👍👍
Thanks for the video brother. Iron sharpens iron.
💯 bro
Real! 💯 I only made 2 real friends from a job out of the many years ive been working. The worst places ive worked was in clothing retail and office environments..Ive been scorned lol. I make educational skits about corporate bs. Workplace be wildin crazy.
Working Retail and Warehouses are the worst , nothing but haters once they find out you different from them. RS
Always keep records for thyself!
Facts
real
Their just work buddies, friends at work.
Love the video my brother, keep grinding ❤️💯
Appreciate it! Will do
Probably only 1 or 2 coworkers actually made friends with and that’s because I never spoke a word like attracts like . Dude told me that he could trust me because I don’t speak to everybody and give my energy to everyone . Look at 48 laws of power law number 4 speak less then what should be said
Facts bro
Spoke nothing but facts!
True
Good spit O.G stay 🙏🏾 up on the battlefield bro.
@@acomedybyec1437 appreciate it bro 🫡🙏
I've been saying this for years.
Co workers on facebook allday.
@@sgvproductionz2979 they be watching ion add ppl I work with , if you do your screwed 😂
💯💯
Lay someone out"😂😂😂😂
I’m Just Keeping it 💯 bro 😂
Great video handsome.❤
Do you job
Make your money
Go home
go to work, do your time, and go, a lot of them mfs will do you wrong to get over on you. Then don't get me started on the ones that will lurk on your linkedin to see what you're doing or where you're working lol
777 subs oh yeah I am READY
Appreciate it 🙏
Yep, young man is right on point. Been there done that and still dealing with it.
bula vinaka qo meda rogoca na cakacaka mo kila na job sega ni buli friends tale rogoca vinaka .thank you bro.
lmao the girls at my work bullshit all fkn day bro LOL
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You from Atlanta playboy??
@@alexanderdean1313 nah