Based on this, we can tell who was responsible for the divorce. The dad instantly changes and behaves properly when the issue is pointed out to him. The mom continues being psychotic for years afterward.
Well, no. As long as it is done properly - which requires "some" will, and funds. To start with, parents can be "housemates" without being a couple. Obviously, takes the ressources/space to have separate bedrooms. Following up, they have to be comitted to the common cause - i.e., assist each other instead of fighting. In other words, a somewhat friendly relationship is still required Now, that's usually not exactly realistic. Having objectively beautiful and smart children isn't either, but everyone wants that...
you really believe that an woman that is 10 year older than the guy actually is the one being abused? I'm betting she is throwing the trash under de bus to avoid dealing with her own choices
@ianesgrecia8568 this. That is my thoughts too. Once the luminesce wore off, she threw him under the bus to get moms financial support again. The mom is utter trash
People need to hold this mother accountable. She’s somehow the “victim” in everything. Nothing is ever her fault or choice. This woman is most likely in her 40’s, seriously. She just wanted to jump through hoops to have things her way and keep her boy toy
How do we even know James is this bad guy and the mum isn't just lying about the situation or even convincing herself that she was manipulated. I've been with someone like this. A narcissist habitual liar, who seemingly believed her own BS.
you really believe that an woman that is 10 year older than the guy actually is the one being abused? I'm betting she is throwing the trash under de bus to avoid dealing with her own choices
Remember... OP egg donor only came crawling back cause sge didnt want to get cut off by her mom. Not because she was sorry.. If i was OP, i would remain NC with the B for a really long time.
I feel so bad for the husband in this situation. Imagine marrying a woman and finding out here upbringing was this loveless and chaotic. I would have fixed this situation and said “I DONT want to be apart of this” 😂😂
It's not your fault it's your mom's fault because she wanted her new husband to walk her own daughter down the aisle at her daughter's wedding but her bio dad is already walking her down the aisle and she cut her own daughter off because she didn't tell the truth to her grandma and she was taking her own daughter and her grandma for granted and she blamed her own daughter for everything but it's her boyfriend's fault and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her own daughter and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not your.
Just one person is enough to stir the pot and destroy the peace and happiness, in a marriage and family. I am sure that, that one person in this story is OP's mother. She is all in for making poor and wrong choices in life. Her second husband was surely upto something heinous, he was surely plotting something sinister.
Sure. "James manipulated her" That is the weakest excuse I've seen. It's like when a child do something wrong and blame on the dog. "James treated her really badly" Either this story is very fake or OP is very naive. Let's remember that the mother is not only older, but financially independent. And not just 'older'. Its AT LEAST a decade older. I love how people just eat up the victimhood without putting actual perspective here when its very clear that she is literally throwing the guy under the bus because he is no longer useful.
OP & her husband definitely needed to let grandma know what mommydearest & her gold digger younger husband are doing. OP & grandma also need to team up & hire a P.I. to do a in-depth investigation the man. At the very least, check public records to see if he has a police record.
Oh no sweetie definitely not the a*hole for dragging Grandma in… that old lady was begging to fight with her own daughter, you without realising just gave Granny the permission to dish out the verbal whiplash.
Mom is totally is the wrong, obviously, but anyone else confused as to why OP had her step-mom walk her down the aisle with her dad? Seems like she could just have her dad alone do it. Also that sends mixed messages when you tell people that you fought with your mother over your other step-parent walking you. It just makes it all more unnecessarily complicated.
First of all you told her you wouldn't redo the wedding she wouldn't listen second of all you didn't contact your grandma to tell her all that stuff your grandma contacted your mom and you talked to her so that's not your fault either and no you didn't do anything wrong all this stuff that's going on is your mom's phone cuz she jumped head first into a wedding way too fast then thought you would let some random nobody that you don't know walk you down the aisle at your own wedding over your life biological father so your mom is drifting off her rocker
Sounds like Op should have banned her family from the wedding because of known relationship drama and just have her fil walk her down the isle if of course an uncle or something not toxic related aren't a option either. Like people dont invite party killers to a party especially a wedding like I get Op trusts her bio dad but sounds like mom even not invited would show up just to cause drama because he was invited. Like go no contact with the mom and let her think it was her choice. Like geese that mom sounds the type to show up in a white dress out of jealousy.
So the mother wanted OP to let the stepdad whom she barely knew a year to walk her down the aisle instead of the man who helped make her and raised her her whole life 6:14......... 18:05 i love how the mom just threw james under the bus sounds like the mom is the one doing the manipulating here
Okay if this James guy is pushing this stuff so hard honestly it sounds like he's trying to get to you through your mother so I would be careful especially if he's so much younger than her then it sounds more like he's your stalker
OP was kind of a selfish center of attention kind of kid 😂 like what mom pulled at the wedding was wrong on so many levels but as a kid OP was a lot like her mother
Cutting people off after starting new relationship Is always Red flag. I had the same stuff with ex gf, she tried to turn me againts my family and friends. Luckily knew here ex and recognised the pattern soon enough.
People who asks the most obvious questions on the internet pisses me off. "AITA for standing up for myself and not letting my mother make me her bitch?" Ghad damn it.
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You know it's bad when the Child was happy her parents got divorced lol
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Based on this, we can tell who was responsible for the divorce. The dad instantly changes and behaves properly when the issue is pointed out to him. The mom continues being psychotic for years afterward.
True true
Yep...also parenting roles has changed. The daughter became the daughter mom and the mom became the daughter
God why do these people get married when they don’t love each other then stay together ‘for the kid?’
Social and societal pressure
👆 what Classicrockkid said
👆 what dejaypage said
@@classicrockkid345it just messes up the kid even more than a cordial divorce would
@@Sniffe278 👆 what Sniffle said
The talk with the grandma at the wedding was very “RONALD WEASLEY! HOW DARE YOU STEAL THAT CAR!”😂
"Staying for the kids" had to be the worse idea made by mankind ever
Not only that, also act like is a competition, talking badly to each other to your child that has nothing to do with it.
Exactly kids would rather have two houses over a family war
Jggcvvhc, x#fhgf
I hate when I use the excuse. ''I don't want my kids to come from a broken home" When the house they live in is literally in tatters.
Well, no. As long as it is done properly - which requires "some" will, and funds.
To start with, parents can be "housemates" without being a couple. Obviously, takes the ressources/space to have separate bedrooms. Following up, they have to be comitted to the common cause - i.e., assist each other instead of fighting. In other words, a somewhat friendly relationship is still required
Now, that's usually not exactly realistic. Having objectively beautiful and smart children isn't either, but everyone wants that...
Mother dearest might have been in an abusive marriage, but she literally only came back to the ceremony to bag that inheritance.
I am Just astonished He she Managed to live this Long...
you really believe that an woman that is 10 year older than the guy actually is the one being abused? I'm betting she is throwing the trash under de bus to avoid dealing with her own choices
@ianesgrecia8568 this. That is my thoughts too. Once the luminesce wore off, she threw him under the bus to get moms financial support again. The mom is utter trash
People need to hold this mother accountable. She’s somehow the “victim” in everything. Nothing is ever her fault or choice. This woman is most likely in her 40’s, seriously. She just wanted to jump through hoops to have things her way and keep her boy toy
Domestic violence and falling for controlling people can happen to anyone unfortunately. None of that erases the harm against her family and friends
How do we even know James is this bad guy and the mum isn't just lying about the situation or even convincing herself that she was manipulated.
I've been with someone like this. A narcissist habitual liar, who seemingly believed her own BS.
That’s exactly what I’m thinking, especially since there were obvious signs she’s a liar and manipulator in the marriage with OP’s father.
you really believe that an woman that is 10 year older than the guy actually is the one being abused? I'm betting she is throwing the trash under de bus to avoid dealing with her own choices
A middle-aged woman marrying a younger guy she barely knows after being railed by half the town, who could have predicted that things would go wrong ?
😂😂😂😂😂 For Fudging Real.
The irony of this is that Both James and Op's mom really deserves each other. But James was more controlling and narcissist than op's mom.
James is just acting like he is female.
Everyone is suddenly acting like they are female.
I blame infection due to nearby end times.
Remember... OP egg donor only came crawling back cause sge didnt want to get cut off by her mom.
Not because she was sorry..
If i was OP, i would remain NC with the B for a really long time.
Gee I wonder which parent caused the turmoil throughout that first marriage
The mum is literally the same with that guy in the meme where he put stick in his bicycle tire.
What a fool.
The narcissist cannot be that good to skip going to your kid’s wedding💀
I don't think it was the narcissism considering it's a younger dude and she slept with half the town _💀_
Why would OP ask James anything? He's nobody to her.
I feel so bad for the husband in this situation. Imagine marrying a woman and finding out here upbringing was this loveless and chaotic. I would have fixed this situation and said “I DONT want to be apart of this” 😂😂
It seems like OP is more of a adult than the so called mom.
Everybody already guessed that something is wrong way before she married james. She's the one in denial.
It's not your fault it's your mom's fault because she wanted her new husband to walk her own daughter down the aisle at her daughter's wedding but her bio dad is already walking her down the aisle and she cut her own daughter off because she didn't tell the truth to her grandma and she was taking her own daughter and her grandma for granted and she blamed her own daughter for everything but it's her boyfriend's fault and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her own daughter and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not your.
But her grandma whold have known after some time that she didn’t walk her down the aile so why is she mad that she facetimed her grandma and told her
Just one person is enough to stir the pot and destroy the peace and happiness, in a marriage and family. I am sure that, that one person in this story is OP's mother. She is all in for making poor and wrong choices in life. Her second husband was surely upto something heinous, he was surely plotting something sinister.
Unless someone is in danger of *literally* dying, people are fully justified rejecting aiding blatant lying.
Sure. "James manipulated her" That is the weakest excuse I've seen. It's like when a child do something wrong and blame on the dog. "James treated her really badly"
Either this story is very fake or OP is very naive. Let's remember that the mother is not only older, but financially independent. And not just 'older'. Its AT LEAST a decade older. I love how people just eat up the victimhood without putting actual perspective here when its very clear that she is literally throwing the guy under the bus because he is no longer useful.
Her mom is always blaming somebody else for her actions
Off topic but that Minecraft parkour map is sick as hell. Bro was flying on a minecart 😂
Mom is not mom material…. Not even adult material
She did not "recruit anyone" just "trained those who were already enlisted"
I'm gonna tell you I read that as younger brother like five times 😭😭
OP & her husband definitely needed to let grandma know what mommydearest & her gold digger younger husband are doing. OP & grandma also need to team up & hire a P.I. to do a in-depth investigation the man. At the very least, check public records to see if he has a police record.
Oh no sweetie definitely not the a*hole for dragging Grandma in… that old lady was begging to fight with her own daughter, you without realising just gave Granny the permission to dish out the verbal whiplash.
Mom is totally is the wrong, obviously, but anyone else confused as to why OP had her step-mom walk her down the aisle with her dad? Seems like she could just have her dad alone do it. Also that sends mixed messages when you tell people that you fought with your mother over your other step-parent walking you. It just makes it all more unnecessarily complicated.
First of all you told her you wouldn't redo the wedding she wouldn't listen second of all you didn't contact your grandma to tell her all that stuff your grandma contacted your mom and you talked to her so that's not your fault either and no you didn't do anything wrong all this stuff that's going on is your mom's phone cuz she jumped head first into a wedding way too fast then thought you would let some random nobody that you don't know walk you down the aisle at your own wedding over your life biological father so your mom is drifting off her rocker
Ahahaha. Wow. Mom is crazy
when you realize who the problem in your parents relationship is. LOL
Sounds like Op should have banned her family from the wedding because of known relationship drama and just have her fil walk her down the isle if of course an uncle or something not toxic related aren't a option either.
Like people dont invite party killers to a party especially a wedding like I get Op trusts her bio dad but sounds like mom even not invited would show up just to cause drama because he was invited.
Like go no contact with the mom and let her think it was her choice.
Like geese that mom sounds the type to show up in a white dress out of jealousy.
this was...just a shitty situation for everyone involved
James is totally a scam artist looking to live on OP's mom's bankroll.
So the mother wanted OP to let the stepdad whom she barely knew a year to walk her down the aisle instead of the man who helped make her and raised her her whole life 6:14......... 18:05 i love how the mom just threw james under the bus sounds like the mom is the one doing the manipulating here
Was the mom high????
High in pride and arrogance
Hmmmm… I wonder why these parents got divorced… who can tell
I suspect I know why the parents got divorced
i think it was petty to bring her mom into it tbh
Okay if this James guy is pushing this stuff so hard honestly it sounds like he's trying to get to you through your mother so I would be careful especially if he's so much younger than her then it sounds more like he's your stalker
Love the vids keep it up
Are people 14 in highschool in America? Didn’t she say she met her partner in highschool but been together for 10 years.
14 in America is 9th grade. Which is highschool.
9th grade tends to start at 14 years old, on average, and is considered "freshman year" for high school.
OP was kind of a selfish center of attention kind of kid 😂 like what mom pulled at the wedding was wrong on so many levels but as a kid OP was a lot like her mother
this is a recent reupload
OP mom is dumb
but i think u should be walking with ur mom for once bc of ur granny just send her a pic that's it
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Its a troll hes saying that in every vid@@miaryan-rt5ml
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Cutting people off after starting new relationship Is always Red flag. I had the same stuff with ex gf, she tried to turn me againts my family and friends. Luckily knew here ex and recognised the pattern soon enough.
People who asks the most obvious questions on the internet pisses me off. "AITA for standing up for myself and not letting my mother make me her bitch?" Ghad damn it.