@Sylvester64 because when so many people are against you it makes you think.. Especially since she felt like only her fiance and her falily was on her side. Gaslighting is a helluva drug.
Should have told the friends so it's fine for mom and sister to try to blackmail/extort me and my fiancé but it's not fine for me to humiliate her in front of everyone? Cut the friends out No sympathy for anyone who chooses to drink and drive especially whilst pregnant, you're not just putting yourself at risk, but other innocent road users and that baby.
The sad thing about drunk drivers, they normally end the lives of others and walk away with just a few bumps and bruises. Being drunk slows down the bodies responses so they don’t tighten up durning the crash (which is what causes most drivers the most amount of injuries, to absolutely no fault of their own, just the bodies natural defense to incoming harm). This is why most DUI causes involving just the DUI driver walks away with no to minimal injuries. In 99% of DUI/DWI (depending on the state meaning basically the same, driving under the influence, and driving while intoxicated, and , both of which even covering dr*g usage), the innocent person is the one that either dies, or suffers the most significant injuries. I don’t know how anyone could ever defend that kind of behavior no matter the circumstances behind it. the mother and sister have some serious mental health issues to 1)think that OP doesn’t deserve her husband because “sister is so much better”, even though she’s clearly someone that just can’t get their life together and doesn’t deserve anything until she does and 2)deserves any kind of sympathy after she could’ve ended the life of an innocent person and the innocent baby that she totally disregarded while drinking and getting behind the wheel of the car. OP needs to cut them, anyone that believes OP did anything wrong and anyone that supports mom and sister
Honestly I don't agree either, however, it sounds like she thought she had nothing left and was trying to un alive herself. Which yes was her own fault, but when you get to that point I think there's some other issues that need to be dealt with not just drama. You can face that after dealing with and working through the deeper issues if you make it. But if you don't that's two lives needlessly lost and that's just sad.
@@kaibaby6335fuck that excuses. She Is a gambling addicct who tried to Use her own child to get money, throwing her sister and her life under the Bus. She gets the Consequences of her Actions and instead taking care and have some Responsibility, she drinks and drives drunk? Almost killing herself, her Baby and some random Person on the Road? Nuh uh sis. There ain't no excuses for that she clearly needs Therapy and it's not OP's Responsibility. Easy as that
@@nurkuepeli1190 I agree that she needs therapy. I just try to have empathy for others. Addiction is a mental illness that can ruin lives. I think before you can face consequences, you need to be able to fully understand them or it won't help. I think she needs to understand what she did wrong and be in her right mind addiction free before that really gets to her and she can face that and make changes.
@@kaibaby6335 nah She is a grown woman and should knoe what to Do. Drinking while being pregnated and then driving while being drunk? Nah uh no Empathy for this creatures.
Also her friends calling her cunning as an insult when did cunning become something bad and sis and mom needed a good taste of humiliation it’s the best medicine for arrogance and sis’s bad choices are her own burden
aita that I defended myself against people who wanted to destroy my life... these are not friends, but false acquaintances I would have no sympathy for someone drunk driving
Think about everyone else who benefited except for the sister. • The baby daddy boss • The boss's wife who has their money not drained • The people attending who needed the wake up call • The people attending who needed the validation for their own toxic ☣ family drama • The fiancee's entire family They all seem like they could have some redeeming quality. Which instantly means they are more of a concern than the pure evil sister. So OP is 💯% in the right. Why protect pure evil people at the expense of others? That makes 0 sense.
4 years of no contact. Going against a rich guy that can get the most expensive and brutal lawyer. Send an email confessing about this in order to keep blackmailing op. It was a stupid plan from the beginning, do better AI.
9:12 maybe I’m weird, but being called cunning is not an insult in my eyes. Besides, the sister was actively trying to blackmail three separate people. And in one fell swoop OP destroyed her entire plan. I don’t see how letting that go to court is the better scenario, cause then everyone is losing money. Lawyers aren’t cheap, then there’s the court of public opinion to consider. Once that court case becomes public knowledge, regardless of the outcome, the fiancé would forever be associated with the potential scandal. I’ve seen it countless times, where someone is found innocent but the population at large treats them as if they did it anyway. It’s very difficult to change someone’s opinion of you when they have little to no intention on ever second guessing their initial decision, I’m speaking from experience. I was accused of something, found innocent, and I was still treated like a pariah. People would threaten me, or openly attempt to assault me. I ended up having to uproot my life and start over somewhere else, because even with evidence in hand no one believed me.
Exactly, people don’t realize that it doesn’t matter what the court says, it’s the fact that someone is involved in drama and what the people believe that matters. If they would’ve taken the sister and mother to court for blackmail, they would’ve spread the story of how OPs soon to be husband got her pregnant and was trying to run away from his responsibilities, that’s all people would hear instead of the blackmail the sister was trying to pull off. It’s disgusting that people are trying to say OP is in the wrong for how she handled it. Maybe if her friends were involved with a wealthily, well known family, they’d understand what those kind of accusations could do to them, their family and their family business. I think OP is an absolute legend for coming up with a plan to humiliate and put an end to her disgusting plan to destroy her entitled, bratty sister that just couldn’t handle OP doing better in life.
Even though this is most likely a fake story, people need to stop just giving people money!! It will NEVER stop. Please, if anyone needs to see this, please don't enable bad behavior by just giving someone money!! They will never learn if someone just keeps funding their bad choices.🤦🤦🤦
Yeah, imagine OP Very Naive and a Pushover thinking she's doing the right thing... Also, I hope she has a job because if I was the husband I wish I might give them MY MONEY in that situation
Whether it is creative writing or AI generated, the story should be worth believable. They came to blackmail OP's fiancé, who is a big shot business magnet's son, claiming she was pregnant with his child. As far as I know, people like fiancé or his family wouldn't give a fcuk about such empty threats. Instead, they would have involved the authorities, putting them behind bars. Choosing beggars mother daughter duo, don't stand a chance against fiancé and his family. What is even more funny in this story is, protagonist convinces fiancé to play "Nancy Drew", lol.
This Girl really needed to discard those friends anyways. Those people cannot be trusted. Real friends will scold you and will try to teach you what's right from wrong but will always be there with you not cut you off. And she should have given her family a one time help, never ask for a repayment just give it to them unconditionally and make it clear that that is it. Nothing more nothing less.
I find that many of these "Peacekeepers" are often just cowards with some self-righteousness in the mix, because they lack the spine to stand up for what's right. I mean sure, there are some instances in which you need to get over yourself to keep the piece, if the dispute is over something that is minor and insignificant, and both sides are blowing it way out of proportion, and it's disturbing the peace within the group for no justifiable reason, then it makes sense to get them to stop, and make up for it. This story isn't one of those cases however, the sister literally tried to blackmail OP and her (now) husband, and so they decided to (privately) humiliate her in front of her friends and family, and it's not like they uploaded it on Social Media (because then, they'd have a point about OP taking it too far, unless the sister decided to escalate things), so the "friends" are just being Peacekeepers instead of sticking up for OP, like real friends.
FINALLY!!!! An entitled sister and mother who recognized they were in the wrong and acting crazy!!!!! This is sooooooo rare in these types of stories and I'm very proud of OP for being the bigger person at the end and that their relationships can hopefully be restored!!!!
Throughout the whole story the responsible people are castigated for the opportunistic people’s actions. I don’t see anything wrong with returning in kind actions to people who don’t care about others trying to be decent. The only language selfish people know is nasty.
she just felt right the right thing to do was give a little help, there's nothing wrong with it. Matter of fact I think it shows how mature she actually is.
@@rabbit7261 Helping people is a good thing, but offering help to people who do horrible things can be considered enabling or rewarding bad behavior. Which is literally what this is an example of, it's a similar scenario to a spouse hitting you and then apologizing so you buy them a gift to reconcile. You just rewarded them for doing something horrible just because they apologized verbally
"Nobody deserves this" exept that some people do. You don't threaten to destroy multiple families just to get an easy life. Sister should be happy to be alive.
If she was pregnant and crashed due to a DUI, she would have cps coming as well as the police. She’d also have her child removed from her custody as soon as it’s born. The fact that she blackmailed someone could also be considered in her case and she’d probably never be able to see her child again. She might even be charged with child endangerment. She’s lucky she didn’t kill her child cause that would have been manslaughter/murder depending on how the judge views it. She doesn’t deserve the slightest bit of sympathy.
i really can't understand those "i need to be the bigger person". How can you be the bigger person when you belittle yourself in front of those who wronged you? You have been wronged, sometimes hurt deeply, show some self respect and act like you've been hurt !!
I don't see why OP or her fiancé should feel guilty. It's not like they put the drink in her hand. As for the humiliation, play stupid games win stupid prizes.
So the sister literally sent an email syating her intention to blackmail OP? Send the email to all parties involved, then take her to court and sue her for blackmail and defamation while also asking for a court appointed paternity test. Post the court results and and watch her whole story crumble to dust.
Yeah, it's why these fakes stories annoy me so much 😒... Blackmail and Extortion are Felonies and they had ample proof to send them to jail and see as the husband Rich, you best believe they would have a Expensive lawyer in their pockets...
Do your friends not realise that the court would have humiliated the sister, too? Find new "friends" because when you showed them that you won't be tricked into letting them leech off you after the wedding, they turned on you. Sometimes, you get lucky, and people tell on themselves. Nobody forced her to try and blackmail you, and nobody forced her to drink and drive, especially while pregnant.
NTA; OP shuld not feel guilty. Sister can blame everyone but sister did it all to themselves. Sister and Mother do not deserve how good of a person OP is
The lesson was learned. What happens after is a different chapter. If going no contact brings peace go no contact if helping from afar brings peace then help from afar. If going to therapy and rebuilding helps then do so.
NTA. Those are not your friends, and you could have done so much worse, and that bs of being the bigger person, dear Titan. And why is she even feeling guilty about the sister's drunk crash. Did OP gave her alcohol? Did she gave her a car? Did she tried to blackmail her own sister days before her big day?
Sister and mother tries to destroy OP and her fiance out of jealousy. Then when they decide to humiliate the sister instead of taking legal action, OPs friends don't approve. Get rid of fake friends. They are stupid and clueless. Sister should have just secretly accepted child support from the baby's father and took things from there, instead of reacting so wreckless, risking the lives with a DUI. Bit it's the OPs prerogative to help out after all they had done.
Stop saying friends because those are not your friends. If they was taking your mom and sister's side of blackmailing you, publicly humiliating you, and destroying your relationship because they are horrible people they are definitely not your friends. You beat your sister to the punch except you didn't blackmail her but you are wrong. Mom, sister, and everyone that took side with them are morally screwed and you are better off without them.
I could never feel guilty. Every single thing was the sister's choice, and now she has to deal with the consequences. The "friends" are not friends. At least the sister could admit that she did this to herself; I still feel nothing for this stupid woman.
Both mom and sister are worst example of gold diggers and should be avoided. The sister for example never be a good wife. She using pregnancy as weapon.
The confession of the jealously is something good, but the truth was the "sister" and "mother" deserved the "scorched earth" tactic. The "sister" realizing what she did was wrong, but the fact is all of the "friends" wanted to justify their own desire for Schadenfreude against the OP. As evil as what the "sister" and "mother" did, the entire concept of Schadenfreude is much worse. That hinges on a "desire to have participated in 'humbling' the OP and her fiance." What the OP did was perfectly acceptable, and yes.. it does take near tragedy for some to change.
From my standpoint, destroying her sisters reputation was the only thing to get them out of their attempt of Blackmail. They made very clear that they would destroy her fiances reputation, even if they went to authorites. So doing the first strike and rendering her account useless was the only thing they could do. Yeah it was extreme and definitly not something "good" but i rather hate the game than the player here, because its common knowledge how rumors set free first are always lingering around and can do insane damage.
i think they both need to apologize bc an eye for an eye isn't good at all just causes more descruction. Yes the sister started it and the op definitely didnt have to humiliate her and couldve just been mature
This probably isn't real, but if it is then I think giving money to help out isn't the best idea. The problem is that giving money could enable further bad behavior. Consequences and getting through them is how we learn. I say this from my own experience.
This is why folks need to proofread what AI generates so you can make these stories more believable. Is it still creative? Kind of. It just needs a human touch to ground it in reality.
LOOOOOOL “oh i know your POS sister tried to lie and blackmail your fiance for money…but instead of proving she’s lying and humiliating her like she rightfully deserves, you should have endured months of harassment and lies from her and gone to court” Those friends are MORONS and it’s ridiculous that Op doubted herself for even a second
After all the crap that they put you through and then not speaking to you for 5 years and then they show up out of the blue and trying to blackmail you yeah I think you doing one thing back at them is not a big deal. But no everybody always gets pissy at the end part but never the beginning part
Why would you ever have someone over who you don't like or trust and not have a camera or a recording device. I have cameras inside and outside of my house. I would rather be safe rather than sorry. This story is quite farfetched. It's not someone else's fault when someone chooses to go out drinking and wreck a car because they decided driving under the influence is a good idea. Why even be in contact or care. LOL
@uraloser5553 No, it is not. Blackmail implies you have something to hide, whether criminal or not. Extortion does not. I can blackmail you because you committed a hit & run and do not want anyone to know. Extortion is me strong arming you without you having done anything wrong. Words have meaning.
Blackmail you and stuff right there in front of your face that's when you take your phone out and start posting everything that they've just said record anything take photos videos put it all online so they ain't got no choice in the matter but to back off
Garbage ai gen story. 3 minutes in, and the ai already used words incorrectly, and when you hear the sister had a message openly admitting she's lying and doing it for money. That's admisson of guilt there end of blackmail. So this is a garbage story shame on you telltales.
It's not your fault it's your mom and your sister's fault because they are mean to him and they only cared about her husband's money and they don't care about her own son and that's not right and they should pay for their actions and go to hell for what they have done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and they don't deserve anything for being mean to him and they only cared about her husband's money and they don't care about her own son and you don't have to apologize for anything it's their fault not yours.
OP needs to go no contact with anyone who sides with the mom and sister.
Bro are you a bot or a hardcore fan of this channel because I see you on every single comment on this RUclips channel 💀
@Sylvester64some of the bots are lowkey creepy tbh
Those "friends" just used OP as a human shield
@Sylvester64 because when so many people are against you it makes you think.. Especially since she felt like only her fiance and her falily was on her side. Gaslighting is a helluva drug.
I think the friends were not friends and were jealous of OP too and rationalised it by villifying her actions
Either that or those friends are people pleasers.
Fake ahh "friends". Not real people, npc looking for excuses to break tie
@@rogueshark23yeah, sounds about right
Should have told the friends so it's fine for mom and sister to try to blackmail/extort me and my fiancé but it's not fine for me to humiliate her in front of everyone?
Cut the friends out
No sympathy for anyone who chooses to drink and drive especially whilst pregnant, you're not just putting yourself at risk, but other innocent road users and that baby.
The sad thing about drunk drivers, they normally end the lives of others and walk away with just a few bumps and bruises. Being drunk slows down the bodies responses so they don’t tighten up durning the crash (which is what causes most drivers the most amount of injuries, to absolutely no fault of their own, just the bodies natural defense to incoming harm). This is why most DUI causes involving just the DUI driver walks away with no to minimal injuries. In 99% of DUI/DWI (depending on the state meaning basically the same, driving under the influence, and driving while intoxicated, and , both of which even covering dr*g usage), the innocent person is the one that either dies, or suffers the most significant injuries. I don’t know how anyone could ever defend that kind of behavior no matter the circumstances behind it. the mother and sister have some serious mental health issues to 1)think that OP doesn’t deserve her husband because “sister is so much better”, even though she’s clearly someone that just can’t get their life together and doesn’t deserve anything until she does and 2)deserves any kind of sympathy after she could’ve ended the life of an innocent person and the innocent baby that she totally disregarded while drinking and getting behind the wheel of the car. OP needs to cut them, anyone that believes OP did anything wrong and anyone that supports mom and sister
OP's friends are legit fake. Like wow... do those goobers not understand blackmail can cause MASSIVE damage?
They most likely just hate rich/people with lots of money and feel jealous of OP
Peacekeepers/ too trusting in the government
Not to mention, it's illegal, but yeah go off fake friends 🙄
@@f687sNFM or just a bunch of doormats who'll roll with whatever as long as they're not bothered
She went drinking while pregnant!?!?!? Nahhh I would've left her in the hospital with no care in the world
Honestly I don't agree either, however, it sounds like she thought she had nothing left and was trying to un alive herself. Which yes was her own fault, but when you get to that point I think there's some other issues that need to be dealt with not just drama. You can face that after dealing with and working through the deeper issues if you make it. But if you don't that's two lives needlessly lost and that's just sad.
@@kaibaby6335fuck that excuses. She Is a gambling addicct who tried to Use her own child to get money, throwing her sister and her life under the Bus. She gets the Consequences of her Actions and instead taking care and have some Responsibility, she drinks and drives drunk? Almost killing herself, her Baby and some random Person on the Road? Nuh uh sis. There ain't no excuses for that she clearly needs Therapy and it's not OP's Responsibility. Easy as that
@@nurkuepeli1190 I agree that she needs therapy. I just try to have empathy for others. Addiction is a mental illness that can ruin lives. I think before you can face consequences, you need to be able to fully understand them or it won't help. I think she needs to understand what she did wrong and be in her right mind addiction free before that really gets to her and she can face that and make changes.
@@kaibaby6335 nah She is a grown woman and should knoe what to Do. Drinking while being pregnated and then driving while being drunk? Nah uh no Empathy for this creatures.
@@nurkuepeli1190 That's an interesting perspective on the situation.
This story is like a soap opera! I’m shocked at the lengths some people will go for jealousy. So glad she stood her ground!
Also her friends calling her cunning as an insult when did cunning become something bad and sis and mom needed a good taste of humiliation it’s the best medicine for arrogance and sis’s bad choices are her own burden
Imagine trying to blackmail a stranger to marry you. Jesus
Wait no they aren’t strangers 😅
That's arranged marriages for you
aita that I defended myself against people who wanted to destroy my life...
these are not friends, but false acquaintances
I would have no sympathy for someone drunk driving
Think about everyone else who benefited except for the sister.
• The baby daddy boss
• The boss's wife who has their money not drained
• The people attending who needed the wake up call
• The people attending who needed the validation for their own toxic ☣ family drama
• The fiancee's entire family
They all seem like they could have some redeeming quality. Which instantly means they are more of a concern than the pure evil sister.
So OP is 💯% in the right.
Why protect pure evil people at the expense of others? That makes 0 sense.
Wow, what a wild story! 😲 The sister's plan really backfired! So glad you stood your ground and found a clever way to handle it.
Not really. she wanted to blackmail her sister for money, and instead guilt tripped her for money, so a W is a W for her sister
@@ilefthemfree2jizz but like the sister was still humiliated and the money op gave would be used on the hospital bills and the acciddent
4 years of no contact.
Going against a rich guy that can get the most expensive and brutal lawyer.
Send an email confessing about this in order to keep blackmailing op.
It was a stupid plan from the beginning, do better AI.
They don’t sound intelligent to begin you are underestimating how stupid people can be
Even then companies will settle to avoid a case
@@f687sNFMNah, lying and blackmailing a C-Suite member... well you better have a VERY GOOD Lawyer on Retainer
Those aren't real friends
9:12 maybe I’m weird, but being called cunning is not an insult in my eyes. Besides, the sister was actively trying to blackmail three separate people. And in one fell swoop OP destroyed her entire plan. I don’t see how letting that go to court is the better scenario, cause then everyone is losing money. Lawyers aren’t cheap, then there’s the court of public opinion to consider. Once that court case becomes public knowledge, regardless of the outcome, the fiancé would forever be associated with the potential scandal. I’ve seen it countless times, where someone is found innocent but the population at large treats them as if they did it anyway. It’s very difficult to change someone’s opinion of you when they have little to no intention on ever second guessing their initial decision, I’m speaking from experience. I was accused of something, found innocent, and I was still treated like a pariah. People would threaten me, or openly attempt to assault me. I ended up having to uproot my life and start over somewhere else, because even with evidence in hand no one believed me.
Exactly, people don’t realize that it doesn’t matter what the court says, it’s the fact that someone is involved in drama and what the people believe that matters. If they would’ve taken the sister and mother to court for blackmail, they would’ve spread the story of how OPs soon to be husband got her pregnant and was trying to run away from his responsibilities, that’s all people would hear instead of the blackmail the sister was trying to pull off. It’s disgusting that people are trying to say OP is in the wrong for how she handled it. Maybe if her friends were involved with a wealthily, well known family, they’d understand what those kind of accusations could do to them, their family and their family business. I think OP is an absolute legend for coming up with a plan to humiliate and put an end to her disgusting plan to destroy her entitled, bratty sister that just couldn’t handle OP doing better in life.
Even though this is most likely a fake story, people need to stop just giving people money!! It will NEVER stop. Please, if anyone needs to see this, please don't enable bad behavior by just giving someone money!! They will never learn if someone just keeps funding their bad choices.🤦🤦🤦
Yeah, imagine OP Very Naive and a Pushover thinking she's doing the right thing... Also, I hope she has a job because if I was the husband I wish I might give them MY MONEY in that situation
classic example of "play stupid games, win stupid prizes".
Whether it is creative writing or AI generated, the story should be worth believable. They came to blackmail OP's fiancé, who is a big shot business magnet's son, claiming she was pregnant with his child. As far as I know, people like fiancé or his family wouldn't give a fcuk about such empty threats. Instead, they would have involved the authorities, putting them behind bars. Choosing beggars mother daughter duo, don't stand a chance against fiancé and his family. What is even more funny in this story is, protagonist convinces fiancé to play "Nancy Drew", lol.
AS SOON AS you got the email from your sister about tragging your fiances name thought the mud i would have called a lawyer
This Girl really needed to discard those friends anyways. Those people cannot be trusted.
Real friends will scold you and will try to teach you what's right from wrong but will always be there with you not cut you off.
And she should have given her family a one time help, never ask for a repayment just give it to them unconditionally and make it clear that that is it.
Nothing more nothing less.
I find that many of these "Peacekeepers" are often just cowards with some self-righteousness in the mix, because they lack the spine to stand up for what's right.
I mean sure, there are some instances in which you need to get over yourself to keep the piece, if the dispute is over something that is minor and insignificant, and both sides are blowing it way out of proportion, and it's disturbing the peace within the group for no justifiable reason, then it makes sense to get them to stop, and make up for it.
This story isn't one of those cases however, the sister literally tried to blackmail OP and her (now) husband, and so they decided to (privately) humiliate her in front of her friends and family, and it's not like they uploaded it on Social Media (because then, they'd have a point about OP taking it too far, unless the sister decided to escalate things), so the "friends" are just being Peacekeepers instead of sticking up for OP, like real friends.
FINALLY!!!! An entitled sister and mother who recognized they were in the wrong and acting crazy!!!!! This is sooooooo rare in these types of stories and I'm very proud of OP for being the bigger person at the end and that their relationships can hopefully be restored!!!!
Throughout the whole story the responsible people are castigated for the opportunistic people’s actions. I don’t see anything wrong with returning in kind actions to people who don’t care about others trying to be decent. The only language selfish people know is nasty.
What lesson will they learn if, in the end, you still give them money? Only because her friends didn't agree 🙄
Sister decided to drive drunk and mother didn’t notice her daughter TAKING A CAR FOR A WALK????
*sniff sniff* what’s that I smell? *AGGRESSIVE SNIFFING* NO CONTACT!?
So OP kinda just decided to be a doormat in the end lol
she just felt right the right thing to do was give a little help, there's nothing wrong with it.
Matter of fact I think it shows how mature she actually is.
@@rabbit7261 Helping people is a good thing, but offering help to people who do horrible things can be considered enabling or rewarding bad behavior. Which is literally what this is an example of, it's a similar scenario to a spouse hitting you and then apologizing so you buy them a gift to reconcile. You just rewarded them for doing something horrible just because they apologized verbally
And the friends. They never become your friends. These snakes are untrustworthy.
So op is still gonna help?💀 that’s stupid as hell
"Nobody deserves this" exept that some people do. You don't threaten to destroy multiple families just to get an easy life. Sister should be happy to be alive.
This plot resembles a soap opera! The degree some people will go for jealousy astounds me. She stood her ground, so glad!
If she was pregnant and crashed due to a DUI, she would have cps coming as well as the police. She’d also have her child removed from her custody as soon as it’s born. The fact that she blackmailed someone could also be considered in her case and she’d probably never be able to see her child again. She might even be charged with child endangerment. She’s lucky she didn’t kill her child cause that would have been manslaughter/murder depending on how the judge views it. She doesn’t deserve the slightest bit of sympathy.
Your sister is pregnant she decided to drink while she was pregnant is her own fault take responsibility as adult
It was excessive, but I won’t say the mom and sister didn’t deserve it. I think it just showed the real character of the poster 🤷🏼♀️
U can say all u want she is just kind one but balancing her boundaries is good
i really can't understand those "i need to be the bigger person". How can you be the bigger person when you belittle yourself in front of those who wronged you? You have been wronged, sometimes hurt deeply, show some self respect and act like you've been hurt !!
I don't see why OP or her fiancé should feel guilty. It's not like they put the drink in her hand. As for the humiliation, play stupid games win stupid prizes.
OP is a kind person with common sense that 99% of the world doesn't have.
After everything she's done to you one time is not your fault she's a grown woman she can take care of herself
So the sister literally sent an email syating her intention to blackmail OP?
Send the email to all parties involved, then take her to court and sue her for blackmail and defamation while also asking for a court appointed paternity test.
Post the court results and and watch her whole story crumble to dust.
Yeah, it's why these fakes stories annoy me so much 😒... Blackmail and Extortion are Felonies and they had ample proof to send them to jail and see as the husband Rich, you best believe they would have a Expensive lawyer in their pockets...
Wow, talk about a family drama! 🎭 Can't believe she turned the tables like that!
If she updates in a few months saying they started expecting and demanding money from her I won't be surprised
Epic petty revenge! Make her show up in a wedding dress 🤣🤣
Do your friends not realise that the court would have humiliated the sister, too? Find new "friends" because when you showed them that you won't be tricked into letting them leech off you after the wedding, they turned on you. Sometimes, you get lucky, and people tell on themselves.
Nobody forced her to try and blackmail you, and nobody forced her to drink and drive, especially while pregnant.
I guarantee that there wouldn’t be a single second of “media coverage” 😂
NTA; OP shuld not feel guilty. Sister can blame everyone but sister did it all to themselves. Sister and Mother do not deserve how good of a person OP is
The OP invited those two monsters back into her life.
I'm worried at the number of people who think this is real.
Why some people are so hellbent on defending outright evil people?
I’m a heartless person 😂
The sister is a waste of space. Consequences for her lies.
The lesson was learned. What happens after is a different chapter. If going no contact brings peace go no contact if helping from afar brings peace then help from afar. If going to therapy and rebuilding helps then do so.
NTA. Those are not your friends, and you could have done so much worse, and that bs of being the bigger person, dear Titan. And why is she even feeling guilty about the sister's drunk crash. Did OP gave her alcohol? Did she gave her a car? Did she tried to blackmail her own sister days before her big day?
Sister and mother tries to destroy OP and her fiance out of jealousy. Then when they decide to humiliate the sister instead of taking legal action, OPs friends don't approve. Get rid of fake friends. They are stupid and clueless. Sister should have just secretly accepted child support from the baby's father and took things from there, instead of reacting so wreckless, risking the lives with a DUI. Bit it's the OPs prerogative to help out after all they had done.
Stop saying friends because those are not your friends. If they was taking your mom and sister's side of blackmailing you, publicly humiliating you, and destroying your relationship because they are horrible people they are definitely not your friends. You beat your sister to the punch except you didn't blackmail her but you are wrong. Mom, sister, and everyone that took side with them are morally screwed and you are better off without them.
I could never feel guilty. Every single thing was the sister's choice, and now she has to deal with the consequences.
The "friends" are not friends.
At least the sister could admit that she did this to herself; I still feel nothing for this stupid woman.
No sympathy form me. Her body,her life, her choices.
the friends are a bunch of spineless idiots while the sister can't take the consequences of her actions.
Would it be easier for the sister to get a job instead of blackmailing people.
The sister and mother are only in financial struggles because they decided to live beyond their means and piss away all their money
Both mom and sister are worst example of gold diggers and should be avoided. The sister for example never be a good wife. She using pregnancy as weapon.
The confession of the jealously is something good, but the truth was the "sister" and "mother" deserved the "scorched earth" tactic. The "sister" realizing what she did was wrong, but the fact is all of the "friends" wanted to justify their own desire for Schadenfreude against the OP. As evil as what the "sister" and "mother" did, the entire concept of Schadenfreude is much worse. That hinges on a "desire to have participated in 'humbling' the OP and her fiance." What the OP did was perfectly acceptable, and yes.. it does take near tragedy for some to change.
OP, get better friends.
I was rooting for OP until she gave the money in the end. I hate doormats
From my standpoint, destroying her sisters reputation was the only thing to get them out of their attempt of Blackmail. They made very clear that they would destroy her fiances reputation, even if they went to authorites. So doing the first strike and rendering her account useless was the only thing they could do. Yeah it was extreme and definitly not something "good" but i rather hate the game than the player here, because its common knowledge how rumors set free first are always lingering around and can do insane damage.
When I'm in a lying competition but it's against this redditor
i think they both need to apologize bc an eye for an eye isn't good at all just causes more descruction. Yes the sister started it and the op definitely didnt have to humiliate her and couldve just been mature
I'll take shit that didn't happen for $500, Alex.
If your friends believe that you're in the wrong here, they're idiots
This probably isn't real, but if it is then I think giving money to help out isn't the best idea. The problem is that giving money could enable further bad behavior. Consequences and getting through them is how we learn. I say this from my own experience.
I love the stories!
God save me from these type of friends 🙏🏼
They are NOT youre friends....
Would know you beter than to think that you did it for fun
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She drank while pregnant man she making worse choices herself 🤦
Well, my dear… actions have consequenses… OP should go nc with sis and mother … oh, and let‘s not forget about these false friends…
Get new friends.
OP’s friends aren’t real friends
Seems unrealistic in my opinion, seems more like a plot to drama type show.
Most Definitely Fake lol
chinese dramas from the early 2000s type shit ngl
This is why folks need to proofread what AI generates so you can make these stories more believable. Is it still creative? Kind of. It just needs a human touch to ground it in reality.
Maybe he kinda gone too far. going to court was a right thing
LOOOOOOL
“oh i know your POS sister tried to lie and blackmail your fiance for money…but instead of proving she’s lying and humiliating her like she rightfully deserves, you should have endured months of harassment and lies from her and gone to court”
Those friends are MORONS and it’s ridiculous that Op doubted herself for even a second
After all the crap that they put you through and then not speaking to you for 5 years and then they show up out of the blue and trying to blackmail you yeah I think you doing one thing back at them is not a big deal. But no everybody always gets pissy at the end part but never the beginning part
I opened this video as quickly as I colud.
Im just saying if it was that easy to blackmail rich people more people would do it.
Why would you ever have someone over who you don't like or trust and not have a camera or a recording device. I have cameras inside and outside of my house. I would rather be safe rather than sorry. This story is quite farfetched. It's not someone else's fault when someone chooses to go out drinking and wreck a car because they decided driving under the influence is a good idea. Why even be in contact or care. LOL
Those friends of OP are fence sitters, they can speak crap without being in it, and expect warriors by their sides if they go through it as well
Extortion, not blackmail. And, f the sister & mother
Extortion is the legal term for blackmail that involves threatening someone for your own personal financial gain.
Semantic freak much?
@uraloser5553 No, it is not. Blackmail implies you have something to hide, whether criminal or not. Extortion does not.
I can blackmail you because you committed a hit & run and do not want anyone to know.
Extortion is me strong arming you without you having done anything wrong.
Words have meaning.
Didn't the sister still commit blackmail with the previous boss though?
@@chrismccloskey2502 I did, and Extortion does indeed cover Blackmail.
@@TheKnightofAwesomeness yes.
Justifiable crashout
Can someone tell me why isn’t the sister charged for drunk driving???
First off this was messy as hell in the beginning but why do what you did then feel guilty after? Stand on what you do
Why are you feel guilty? She wanted to ruin your life and your fiancé’s life and it was her choice to go drinking.
Blackmail you and stuff right there in front of your face that's when you take your phone out and start posting everything that they've just said record anything take photos videos put it all online so they ain't got no choice in the matter but to back off
When you're pregnant you don't drink and drive. The sister and the mom are selfish, narcissistic idiots.
u couldve told ur sister and mom u knew the truth and had proof
She went drinking while pregnant?
Garbage ai gen story. 3 minutes in, and the ai already used words incorrectly, and when you hear the sister had a message openly admitting she's lying and doing it for money. That's admisson of guilt there end of blackmail. So this is a garbage story shame on you telltales.
OP is an easy mark
Loser friends
Fake as a three dollar bill, but boy was that entertaining.
It's not your fault it's your mom and your sister's fault because they are mean to him and they only cared about her husband's money and they don't care about her own son and that's not right and they should pay for their actions and go to hell for what they have done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and they don't deserve anything for being mean to him and they only cared about her husband's money and they don't care about her own son and you don't have to apologize for anything it's their fault not yours.
I'm here for the inlaws
It doesn’t matter