the mother is pissed off because she can't do damage control and mitigate the other daughter's behaviour - she's being forced to confront it and she doesn't want to
There was literally no need to make it public knowledge, if people wanted to know what happened to make op un invite her sister they would have asked but literally telling everyone publicly what op’s sister did made ops mom and passed look like bad parenting and despite some favouritism from mom it sounded like she had a good relationship with both parents so there was literally no reason to make a public announcement. If mom and dad was always cold to her I’d understand but both op and her sister were treated with love and respect so her making a spectacle of it dishonoured the loving parents one of which is die just to spite her sister. Her sister deserves the humiliation but her mom didn’t that’s why it’s wrong
@@Demonoicgamer666 Trying to break apart someone's marriage and elope with the ex to rub it into someone's face is more than enough reason to embarrass someone and show people how immature and malicious they act. It was her wedding and her decision to what she wants. OP's mother did show favoritism, that "soft spot" allowed for a lot of stuff that she couldn't get away with, OP's mother even said she "always sided with Jennifer". OP didn't handle it in the best way, that much is true, but she wasn't unjustified and did have reason to expose her sister and her lies.
@@kingshadowrobinson5791 I’m not sympathetic to the sister I’m any way but making it public at her wedding makes her mom and dad look like awful parents which isn’t true yes op’s mom showed favouritism even if that was unintentional but op outright acknowledged she was no neglected so making her mom look bad is where I think she messed up.
@@Demonoicgamer666yes there was, she has a history of making up lies about op. Making it public lets all the people close to them know they can't just blindly trust everything she says. She's an adult and needs to learn she can't just lie to and manipulate people.
The Op saw the fruits of her labor. Her going full public on the sister ensured everyone knew, got proof, and couldn't be lied to. If Op had handled it quietly, the sister would have spun it around on her, and she would have to deal with family backlash instead. This way, Op doesn't even have to lift a finger against her sister, the family will do it for her. She wasn't juvenile, she used social etiquette to her advantage.
Every post I've seen where the one beinging bullied or blamed for something does 'the right thing' talking in private to settle things is the one that gets shunned by every1 else cuz they believed the bully. OP did the right thing in my book. Expose the truth, never keep it in or you'll never know if your family cares or not. OP has great backup.
13:29 no, OP is not the asshole in this post. Her sister never grew up. So approaching her like an adult wouldn’t have accomplished anything. Some people only learn by having their faces rubbed in their own mess. Kudos to OP for finally showing her sister that actions have consequences. I just wish their mother could hold her other child accountable for her behavior.
I feel like that part is made up who is saying she did wrong. Because if she did try to approach her like an adult, sis definitely would’ve still made a scene. When pastor asks who objects to this wedding, she probably would’ve stood up and said I’m pregnant by the groom.
She threw a fit because OP rejected a boy she liked in School and in retaliation she started a rumor that could have damaged OP's reputation irrepairably. She caused her own problems really. She lashed out, never told OP WHY she resented her, and then dealt with the consequences. Of course she'd be bullied after it all came to light. But like a child, she didn't see that she caused her own misfortunes. She has internalized her feelings and beliefs that OP is the source of everything and she has done no wrong.
Nice to have someone who is not a doormat for a change. Went no contact. Reacted immediately, realising she is a lost cause. 😆 ============ You can tell why Jacob is into OP. The good thing is the incident brought the couple closer together, by getting to see each other's true nature more, by seeing each other in a secret, eccentric situation. And bonding while co-working on the scheme. 😆
Honestly I don’t blame Op for calling her sister out in front of everyone. Her sister spread the rumours first and ya Op could’ve talked to her privately but let’s be honest, anyone in Ops position would probably do the same thing.
Parents with obvious golden children are the worst. This is ops wedding, and her mother is worried about the daughter(Jennifer, the golden child)trying to steal the groom, getting humiliated. She's clueless and should've gotten thrown out of the wedding two
So, Jennifer decided to commit a crime and defame op with the stealing, which means that a humiliation is nothing compared to what she really deserved.
‘Never showered during the holidays. I’m pretty sure a lot of people do that” …..no……no ma’am……..that is indeedly NOT normal…yall please take regular showers
Theres one problem with Mom's solution: What happens after they send her home and she waits until she thinks they got rid of the evidense? What happens if she waits til things calm down (aka OP gets rids of evidence) to start accusing him of an affair or worse? Then the in-laws will assume he actually did it and that OP is just jealous.
This. Exposure is the best preemptive move against these kinds of people. "Peacekeepers" and "You went too far" types, are allergic to proactive problem solving. They prefer to allow a problem to get worse until it blows up in their faces, over actually admitting a problem needs to be solved. Never mind actually solving it.
This. This is the biggest reason I think it was actually the best solution for OP. Yea, the whole “humiliating her in front of everyone” motivation is juvenile, but the reality is, if everyone was not made aware of what was happening immediately, Jennifer would have spun the story around to say that the fiancé was found by OP having an affair with her, and that’s why she was kicked out before the wedding. Making sure everyone knew was the only way to stop Jennifer in her tracks and shut down her stupid little plan.
And the fact that the mom isnt taking into account that *both* times if the sister got what she wanted it would have been worse on OP than it is now for the sister just shows the favoritism. OP's life could have been irreparably damaged by the original rumor. And EVERYONE would have questions to why the wedding was canceled *after* the rehearsal. OP would have lost her sister again, her fiance, and probably most of the friends who heard the sister's version of events. But yeah lets support a "tiger eating peoples faces" group member. I mean, the tigers only ate her face twice.
So you tried to ruin your sister’s relationship because your high school boyfriend compared you to your sister and dumped you? It’s been a decade Jennifer. Let it go.
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Meh, it’s better to call out the sister in case she’d tried to pull the same stunt again in the future. If ever she gets jealous and petty again, she’s a homewrecker to be.
*Men who go with it are just as bad fyi, but I mean it takes two to tango and even if the partner declines it- the mere action can stir up drama in a happy couple for no reason
Either the guests would have found out from the wedding being CANCELLED AFTER THE REHEARSAL as the sister wanted, or the guests find out this way as OP wanted. This is a beautiful story of what goes around comes around. You spread rumors, its thrown back in your face worse.
Sounds like parasite went psycho in her jealousy and resentment to the point she had to ruin op's wedding because "how dare op be happy while I resent her". She also became worse when mom cut her off and said til she apologizes she wouldn't talk to her. In her head she wants to blame op for everything and kept showing her narrative in her post.
What consequences? That your sister and mom are upset? It’s your sister’s fault. As long as you can live with it, who cares? Also, it seems that humiliation is the only lesson that gets through to your sister. It stopped her from spreading lies about you in high school and now she won’t dare go near you or your husband.
Yes, I have seen many true stories about sisterly relationships. Even in a family near my house, the older sister was kicked out of the house by her parents because she spread false rumors about her younger sister.
(Spoilers for post-updates, you have been warned) Man, it's always amazing how one person's actions can nuke a relationship, and between these two sisters, it was due to a teenage boy. Although I am glad it was not narcotics that turned the sister into this petty child that refuses to let go of a grudge, it does show she lacks the maturity to deal with constantly being compared, cause that was what the boy did to fester her intense dislike for OP. I get it, nobody likes being put down or compared negatively, but as OP said, if the sister had come to her to discuss these issues, all this drama could have been nipped in the butt. Instead, this sister remained so immature, cause it's a lot easier to blame someone else rather than accept responsibility, which is what the sister has done all the way to adulthood. Whoever that teenage boy is and where he may be, I hope he never shows his face around OP's family again, cause it was YOU that started all this drama.
Skipping showers during the holidays? I'm not the only one, right? It’s practically a tradition for some folks!" And then, you could follow up with: "Excuse me, what now??
NTA. With lies and actions of this caliber it needed to be dealt straight on and quickly. It wouldn't matter what path you chose, if you decided to go the private route, she could easily have changed the plan and still try to ruin your life. And despite you exposing her in front of everyone with receipts, she later still tried to spread BS. So i think the decision you and your husband took was good enough. Sure, there could be other ways to deal with her, but we not all are master strategists to cook a way to put her on her place privately and preventing her of trying to make more mischief. Your solution was effective enough, so now everybody is aware of her antics and to not trust her. Just keep an eye on her from time to time in case she still tried to do something or go mental.
Not the first time a jealous sister has tried to come on to her brother-in-law. But why do people keep saying that? Oh, you did too much. No baby you didn’t do enough. She literally wrote a letter to him. They’re at the hotel getting ready for the wedding and she wrote him a letter and said marry me instead. Sis had every right to embarrass her like that because that was her goal to embarrass her own sister on her wedding day. That being said what other way was she supposed to handle that cause if she had pulled her aside quietly I have the strongest feeling and her sister would have still tried to make a big scene. She did the right thing anybody telling her otherwise can get the fuck out of that wedding as well.
Nah OP didn’t have to apologize for anything. Her sister acted in a juvenile way and OP just matched her energy. If you can’t take the hit don’t swing. And OP is just being justified in her actions bc the sister keeps acting in a juvenile way bc of a juvenile grudge that could’ve been solved if the sister wasn’t a bitch and actually talked to her sister
Sis has decided that she must WIN at ANY cost. At some point, she'll escalate if it looks like OP is having a happy marriage. If her issue gets bad enough, she might decide that getting physical is a good idea, so OP should watch for that.
Ones like these are fake stories that the channel uses AI to create. If it comes from an actual Reddit post, the OP is credited and part way through the vid there will be comments from the post put in the video.
@@spencerhulcy727 I wouldn't fully agree with this. As some of the videos on this channel I've seen on different channels. For example the Channel Rslash always credits the OP and takes screenshots from reddit, and some stories he's covered I've seen in this channel, despite TellTales not putting the OP's user anywhere. That and sometimes the comments just aren't talked about.
In this and another story, how do folks with little to NO practice of basic hygiene have the AUDACITY to be cheaters/two timers like they aren't already putting their and others health at risk just existing. And who, knowing or otherwise, is still willing to sleep with them when I KNOW they stank to a degree???
It's not your fault it's your sister's fault because she hated her out of jealousy and she tried to frame her of stealing and she spread rumors about her and she tried to steal her boyfriend and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for she hated her out of jealousy and she's spreading rumors about her and falsely framing her for stealing and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not yours.
My sibling has treated me like garbage all my life so I cut her off AITA? I dont understand this mentality. WHY would you be TA for protecting yourself from an abusive person?
Part of me understands where the mother is coming from. However, I believe the OP had every right to embarrass her sister, but doing it in the exact same way she was embarrassed in high school isn't the most mature way to handle the situation.
What other choice did she have? Because that was ultimately her goal to publicly humiliate her by having her left at the altar. And say the fiancé did ignore it, and they went with the wedding as planned. The sister would’ve objected, saying that she’s pregnant by the groom or some shit like that. There was literally no other way.
Why not...? Sometimes you have put ppl in the same situation that they tried to put you in, in order for them to understand & recognise that their behaviour is not an acceptable way to behave. Sister copped a dose of her own medicine & couldn't handle it...too bad, so sad - sux to be her...NOT!
I can’t help but feel sorry for her, especially the sister. It’s clear she has some underlying issues, and maybe I relate because of my own experiences with having an older sister. She definitely didn’t handle things well, especially at the wedding. Yes, she embarrassed you, and yes, what she did in school-calling you a thief-was wrong. Stealing is wrong, no doubt, and it clearly hurt your reputation. But I feel like you might be downplaying what you said to her back in high school. You said you “went nuclear” on her, and I think it’s possible you said things that really stuck with her, things she hasn’t been able to move past. Keep in mind, you were graduating, moving on, but she still had to be there. And when it came to the wedding, even though her behavior was outrageous, I don’t think embarrassing her in front of everyone was the right way to handle it. It would have been bad enough to call her out in front of just a few close people-like your husband and in-laws. But doing it in front of the entire wedding? That’s the kind of thing people talk about for a long time. Word spreads, and that could seriously affect her reputation. As for the post she made afterward, that’s on her. Honestly, I wouldn’t have even responded. I would have stayed quiet and tried to move on, because that whole situation is just humiliating for everyone involved. One last thing-about your mom potentially cutting her off. I think that would be a mistake. Distancing people like your sister, going no contact-it’s not going to help her. I understand if you don’t want a relationship with her anymore, but your mom shouldn’t abandon her. Cutting her off could make things even worse, and as a mother, she might regret it later. That’s just my perspective on the situation.
i am not on good speakin gterm with my brother. in fact we havent talked since 5 years. i would never do such a horrible to my own brother and i know he would not too. thats just pure evil
So it's ok for Jennifer to humiliate OP over and over, but when she gets humiliated due to her own shitty actions it's bad and dragging the family name through the mud? Ya no I'd have told my mom to leave with her precious golden child if she had the audacity to say that to me.
The only time you should be the bigger person is if you can spontaneously gain 300 pounds and 4 extra ft. Being the bigger person doesn't make you better, smarter, classier, or more mature, it just makes you wish you had put them in their place properly.
I gotta agree with op’s mom, op had the right to confront and uninvited her sister but there was literally no need to make a public show of it just to embarrass her because it made op’s mom and her passed dad look like bad parent a for allowing her to turn into a spoiled brat.
Pro really let high school relationships ruin their relationship with their families. Unless my parents/siblings are racist, sexist, or have any narcissistic tendencies (boundary stomping) I’m not ruining my relationship with them.
I agree with the mother actually. OP sounds very childish after all these years. Not saying that what Jennifer did was okay because it wasn't, but OP could've handled this differently
“you don’t know what happened to turn her into someone like this”? YOU DID she’s still reacting to the humiliation she felt cos of what you did in hs. then the repeat of that with the stuff at the wedding is probably exactly the same to her. now ur laughing at her no sympathy and everyone on fb is too. and u dont even recognise it, not that u’d deign urself to doing anything for her. yeah what she did was by no means good but if she’s malicious and evil or whatever the u are equally as horrible tbh. this story is so frustrating i wish the mom never apologised, no growth. op has the right to kick her out of the wedding, no doubt she was leaving anyway, but the rest was too much.
@@iwtbrnk LMAO YOUR OPINION IS STRAIGHT WRONG. IMAGINE CALLING SOMEONE WHO IS TREATED BADLY BY SOMEONE AN AH FOR RETALIATING! TELL ME YOU WERE A HIGH SCHOOL BULLY WITHOUT TELLING ME YOU WERE A HIGH SCHOOL BULLY
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Idk man, i just feel if you try and convince your siblings partner to dump your sibling and run off with you, you DESERVE public humiliation.
agreed. It's disgusting
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the mother is pissed off because she can't do damage control and mitigate the other daughter's behaviour - she's being forced to confront it and she doesn't want to
There was literally no need to make it public knowledge, if people wanted to know what happened to make op un invite her sister they would have asked but literally telling everyone publicly what op’s sister did made ops mom and passed look like bad parenting and despite some favouritism from mom it sounded like she had a good relationship with both parents so there was literally no reason to make a public announcement. If mom and dad was always cold to her I’d understand but both op and her sister were treated with love and respect so her making a spectacle of it dishonoured the loving parents one of which is die just to spite her sister. Her sister deserves the humiliation but her mom didn’t that’s why it’s wrong
@@Demonoicgamer666 Trying to break apart someone's marriage and elope with the ex to rub it into someone's face is more than enough reason to embarrass someone and show people how immature and malicious they act. It was her wedding and her decision to what she wants. OP's mother did show favoritism, that "soft spot" allowed for a lot of stuff that she couldn't get away with, OP's mother even said she "always sided with Jennifer". OP didn't handle it in the best way, that much is true, but she wasn't unjustified and did have reason to expose her sister and her lies.
@@kingshadowrobinson5791 I’m not sympathetic to the sister I’m any way but making it public at her wedding makes her mom and dad look like awful parents which isn’t true yes op’s mom showed favouritism even if that was unintentional but op outright acknowledged she was no neglected so making her mom look bad is where I think she messed up.
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@@Demonoicgamer666yes there was, she has a history of making up lies about op. Making it public lets all the people close to them know they can't just blindly trust everything she says. She's an adult and needs to learn she can't just lie to and manipulate people.
If your fiancé is ready for a double detective mission with you, he's definitely a keeper
The Op saw the fruits of her labor. Her going full public on the sister ensured everyone knew, got proof, and couldn't be lied to. If Op had handled it quietly, the sister would have spun it around on her, and she would have to deal with family backlash instead. This way, Op doesn't even have to lift a finger against her sister, the family will do it for her. She wasn't juvenile, she used social etiquette to her advantage.
Every post I've seen where the one beinging bullied or blamed for something does 'the right thing' talking in private to settle things is the one that gets shunned by every1 else cuz they believed the bully.
OP did the right thing in my book. Expose the truth, never keep it in or you'll never know if your family cares or not. OP has great backup.
"....never showering during holidays. I'm pretty sure a lot of people do that....". I BEG YOUR FINEST PARDON????
if they showered less than usual, then ig it's fine, but no showering is very weird
I shower more ngl
I guess I'm the only one who relates 😪
@@JohnnySins-de2zz I relate hahahahah. you are not alone hahahah
The way I heard NOTHING else after that sentence ! Cos WHAT?!?!
13:29 no, OP is not the asshole in this post. Her sister never grew up. So approaching her like an adult wouldn’t have accomplished anything. Some people only learn by having their faces rubbed in their own mess. Kudos to OP for finally showing her sister that actions have consequences. I just wish their mother could hold her other child accountable for her behavior.
I feel like that part is made up who is saying she did wrong. Because if she did try to approach her like an adult, sis definitely would’ve still made a scene. When pastor asks who objects to this wedding, she probably would’ve stood up and said I’m pregnant by the groom.
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She threw a fit because OP rejected a boy she liked in School and in retaliation she started a rumor that could have damaged OP's reputation irrepairably. She caused her own problems really. She lashed out, never told OP WHY she resented her, and then dealt with the consequences. Of course she'd be bullied after it all came to light. But like a child, she didn't see that she caused her own misfortunes. She has internalized her feelings and beliefs that OP is the source of everything and she has done no wrong.
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Nice to have someone who is not a doormat for a change.
Went no contact. Reacted immediately, realising she is a lost cause.
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You can tell why Jacob is into OP.
The good thing is the incident brought the couple closer together, by getting to see each other's true nature more, by seeing each other in a secret, eccentric situation.
And bonding while co-working on the scheme.
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Honestly I don’t blame Op for calling her sister out in front of everyone. Her sister spread the rumours first and ya Op could’ve talked to her privately but let’s be honest, anyone in Ops position would probably do the same thing.
Parents with obvious golden children are the worst. This is ops wedding, and her mother is worried about the daughter(Jennifer, the golden child)trying to steal the groom, getting humiliated. She's clueless and should've gotten thrown out of the wedding two
So, Jennifer decided to commit a crime and defame op with the stealing, which means that a humiliation is nothing compared to what she really deserved.
Defamation is not a crime. Its a civil matter.
@@umungus518 defamation is a crime? So is the assault that nearly happened
@@ImjustaRUclipsrforfun assault is a crime, yes. Never said it wasn't.Defamation however is not. It is a civil matter(tort law).
‘Never showered during the holidays. I’m pretty sure a lot of people do that” …..no……no ma’am……..that is indeedly NOT normal…yall please take regular showers
Theres one problem with Mom's solution: What happens after they send her home and she waits until she thinks they got rid of the evidense? What happens if she waits til things calm down (aka OP gets rids of evidence) to start accusing him of an affair or worse? Then the in-laws will assume he actually did it and that OP is just jealous.
This. Exposure is the best preemptive move against these kinds of people. "Peacekeepers" and "You went too far" types, are allergic to proactive problem solving. They prefer to allow a problem to get worse until it blows up in their faces, over actually admitting a problem needs to be solved. Never mind actually solving it.
This. This is the biggest reason I think it was actually the best solution for OP. Yea, the whole “humiliating her in front of everyone” motivation is juvenile, but the reality is, if everyone was not made aware of what was happening immediately, Jennifer would have spun the story around to say that the fiancé was found by OP having an affair with her, and that’s why she was kicked out before the wedding. Making sure everyone knew was the only way to stop Jennifer in her tracks and shut down her stupid little plan.
And the fact that the mom isnt taking into account that *both* times if the sister got what she wanted it would have been worse on OP than it is now for the sister just shows the favoritism. OP's life could have been irreparably damaged by the original rumor. And EVERYONE would have questions to why the wedding was canceled *after* the rehearsal. OP would have lost her sister again, her fiance, and probably most of the friends who heard the sister's version of events. But yeah lets support a "tiger eating peoples faces" group member. I mean, the tigers only ate her face twice.
So you tried to ruin your sister’s relationship because your high school boyfriend compared you to your sister and dumped you? It’s been a decade Jennifer. Let it go.
Op had the right to kick her out but making her mom look like a bad parent was uncalled for
@@Demonoicgamer666 Are you sure about that? as any form of favoritism need to be called out and held accountable
@@Demonoicgamer666 Her mom was a bad parent , she showed favoritism
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The Mother is stupid.
She has no right calling OP juvenile when she herself is giving a pass to the sister's juvenile behavior
Meh, it’s better to call out the sister in case she’d tried to pull the same stunt again in the future. If ever she gets jealous and petty again, she’s a homewrecker to be.
*Men who go with it are just as bad fyi, but I mean it takes two to tango and even if the partner declines it- the mere action can stir up drama in a happy couple for no reason
Either the guests would have found out from the wedding being CANCELLED AFTER THE REHEARSAL as the sister wanted, or the guests find out this way as OP wanted. This is a beautiful story of what goes around comes around. You spread rumors, its thrown back in your face worse.
Sounds like parasite went psycho in her jealousy and resentment to the point she had to ruin op's wedding because "how dare op be happy while I resent her". She also became worse when mom cut her off and said til she apologizes she wouldn't talk to her. In her head she wants to blame op for everything and kept showing her narrative in her post.
FYI Snakes are actually lovely and pigs are clean, its just people that are wretched
NTA. Nah, give sis any slack and she'd try to strangle OP with it; probably make herself the victim when she's out of the wedding.
What consequences? That your sister and mom are upset? It’s your sister’s fault. As long as you can live with it, who cares? Also, it seems that humiliation is the only lesson that gets through to your sister. It stopped her from spreading lies about you in high school and now she won’t dare go near you or your husband.
4:25 I don't think that's what she meant to type. Your fiance and your boyfriend Jacob. Pretty sure she meant her fiance Jacob
Never show mercy to your enemies. OP did best she could do both times in her life.
Almost every sister/brother relationship is like that in reddit
Yes, I have seen many true stories about sisterly relationships. Even in a family near my house, the older sister was kicked out of the house by her parents because she spread false rumors about her younger sister.
Because people with good relationship with their siblings don't write on reddit since they have no problems lol
Welcome to a site for people to dump problems
You don't complain about the neutral/wholesome ones.
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Man, it's always amazing how one person's actions can nuke a relationship, and between these two sisters, it was due to a teenage boy. Although I am glad it was not narcotics that turned the sister into this petty child that refuses to let go of a grudge, it does show she lacks the maturity to deal with constantly being compared, cause that was what the boy did to fester her intense dislike for OP. I get it, nobody likes being put down or compared negatively, but as OP said, if the sister had come to her to discuss these issues, all this drama could have been nipped in the butt. Instead, this sister remained so immature, cause it's a lot easier to blame someone else rather than accept responsibility, which is what the sister has done all the way to adulthood. Whoever that teenage boy is and where he may be, I hope he never shows his face around OP's family again, cause it was YOU that started all this drama.
Skipping showers during the holidays? I'm not the only one, right? It’s practically a tradition for some folks!"
And then, you could follow up with:
"Excuse me, what now??
NTA. With lies and actions of this caliber it needed to be dealt straight on and quickly. It wouldn't matter what path you chose, if you decided to go the private route, she could easily have changed the plan and still try to ruin your life. And despite you exposing her in front of everyone with receipts, she later still tried to spread BS.
So i think the decision you and your husband took was good enough. Sure, there could be other ways to deal with her, but we not all are master strategists to cook a way to put her on her place privately and preventing her of trying to make more mischief.
Your solution was effective enough, so now everybody is aware of her antics and to not trust her. Just keep an eye on her from time to time in case she still tried to do something or go mental.
Not the first time a jealous sister has tried to come on to her brother-in-law. But why do people keep saying that? Oh, you did too much. No baby you didn’t do enough. She literally wrote a letter to him. They’re at the hotel getting ready for the wedding and she wrote him a letter and said marry me instead. Sis had every right to embarrass her like that because that was her goal to embarrass her own sister on her wedding day. That being said what other way was she supposed to handle that cause if she had pulled her aside quietly I have the strongest feeling and her sister would have still tried to make a big scene. She did the right thing anybody telling her otherwise can get the fuck out of that wedding as well.
Nah OP didn’t have to apologize for anything. Her sister acted in a juvenile way and OP just matched her energy. If you can’t take the hit don’t swing. And OP is just being justified in her actions bc the sister keeps acting in a juvenile way bc of a juvenile grudge that could’ve been solved if the sister wasn’t a bitch and actually talked to her sister
wait people don't shower during the holidays?????? I mean wtf
Sis has decided that she must WIN at ANY cost. At some point, she'll escalate if it looks like OP is having a happy marriage. If her issue gets bad enough, she might decide that getting physical is a good idea, so OP should watch for that.
You're mother needs to grow up. To be a good mom is to love both you're kids and if you can't go NC
has anyone ever thought that the OPs in these reddit stories (some of them) change the narrative so that they can appear as the victim?
Some, mainly the ones from the cheaters prespective, and the ones that are fake for sure overplay the victim card
Ones like these are fake stories that the channel uses AI to create. If it comes from an actual Reddit post, the OP is credited and part way through the vid there will be comments from the post put in the video.
I don't treat any of them as real.
@@absolutearcher3137 nice Mentality, I'm gonna try that
@@spencerhulcy727 I wouldn't fully agree with this. As some of the videos on this channel I've seen on different channels. For example the Channel Rslash always credits the OP and takes screenshots from reddit, and some stories he's covered I've seen in this channel, despite TellTales not putting the OP's user anywhere. That and sometimes the comments just aren't talked about.
In this and another story, how do folks with little to NO practice of basic hygiene have the AUDACITY to be cheaters/two timers like they aren't already putting their and others health at risk just existing. And who, knowing or otherwise, is still willing to sleep with them when I KNOW they stank to a degree???
disgusting snakes? snakes are amazing
I think you'll find the one dragging the family through mud was/is JENNIFER
Wait all of this was over a guy in high school. WTF
It's not your fault it's your sister's fault because she hated her out of jealousy and she tried to frame her of stealing and she spread rumors about her and she tried to steal her boyfriend and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for she hated her out of jealousy and she's spreading rumors about her and falsely framing her for stealing and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her fault not yours.
Fine me delusional, then some in the end didn't make sense and is frustrated tbh!. 🙄😒.
You know for a fact if she didn't do that her mom would have found excuses to ignore what the sister did
Who’s writing letters in the year of our lord 2024?!
“I was just thankful that I had my fiancé, and my boyfriend, Jacob” ….what?
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The mother is right two adult sisters playing high school mean girl games. We can address any situation we want, it’s about how you do it.
id just kick mother out the weeding too if i were OP lol
My sibling has treated me like garbage all my life so I cut her off AITA? I dont understand this mentality. WHY would you be TA for protecting yourself from an abusive person?
Familial gaslighting really fucks with your brain
Part of me understands where the mother is coming from. However, I believe the OP had every right to embarrass her sister, but doing it in the exact same way she was embarrassed in high school isn't the most mature way to handle the situation.
Why not? She was trying to humiliate OP by having her get stood up at the altar on her wedding. Why is it bad to give her that humiliation instead?
What other choice did she have? Because that was ultimately her goal to publicly humiliate her by having her left at the altar. And say the fiancé did ignore it, and they went with the wedding as planned. The sister would’ve objected, saying that she’s pregnant by the groom or some shit like that. There was literally no other way.
Why not...?
Sometimes you have put ppl in the same situation that they tried to put you in, in order for them to understand & recognise that their behaviour is not an acceptable way to behave.
Sister copped a dose of her own medicine & couldn't handle it...too bad, so sad - sux to be her...NOT!
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you doubt you're the bad guy because your mom said so? glad to know where her priorities lie
No the sister is jealous of OP. Dont have to forgive her, nobody knows if she would cause troubles again
I can’t help but feel sorry for her, especially the sister. It’s clear she has some underlying issues, and maybe I relate because of my own experiences with having an older sister. She definitely didn’t handle things well, especially at the wedding. Yes, she embarrassed you, and yes, what she did in school-calling you a thief-was wrong. Stealing is wrong, no doubt, and it clearly hurt your reputation. But I feel like you might be downplaying what you said to her back in high school. You said you “went nuclear” on her, and I think it’s possible you said things that really stuck with her, things she hasn’t been able to move past.
Keep in mind, you were graduating, moving on, but she still had to be there. And when it came to the wedding, even though her behavior was outrageous, I don’t think embarrassing her in front of everyone was the right way to handle it. It would have been bad enough to call her out in front of just a few close people-like your husband and in-laws. But doing it in front of the entire wedding? That’s the kind of thing people talk about for a long time. Word spreads, and that could seriously affect her reputation.
As for the post she made afterward, that’s on her. Honestly, I wouldn’t have even responded. I would have stayed quiet and tried to move on, because that whole situation is just humiliating for everyone involved.
One last thing-about your mom potentially cutting her off. I think that would be a mistake. Distancing people like your sister, going no contact-it’s not going to help her. I understand if you don’t want a relationship with her anymore, but your mom shouldn’t abandon her. Cutting her off could make things even worse, and as a mother, she might regret it later. That’s just my perspective on the situation.
Welp shit I was in the middle of watching
i am not on good speakin gterm with my brother. in fact we havent talked since 5 years. i would never do such a horrible to my own brother and i know he would not too. thats just pure evil
feeling guilty over finally getting one over a pain in the ass? Silly girl. and mommy isn't helping with her favoritism and guilt tripping on OP.
So it's ok for Jennifer to humiliate OP over and over, but when she gets humiliated due to her own shitty actions it's bad and dragging the family name through the mud? Ya no I'd have told my mom to leave with her precious golden child if she had the audacity to say that to me.
Nahhhh 42k views 99 replies is insane
The real villain is that boy
The only time you should be the bigger person is if you can spontaneously gain 300 pounds and 4 extra ft. Being the bigger person doesn't make you better, smarter, classier, or more mature, it just makes you wish you had put them in their place properly.
NTA
But definetly took It too Far...
The OP's sister really deserved what came to her but still was an imature and extreme measure to have
The sister is literally glazing op
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I gotta agree with op’s mom, op had the right to confront and uninvited her sister but there was literally no need to make a public show of it just to embarrass her because it made op’s mom and her passed dad look like bad parent a for allowing her to turn into a spoiled brat.
Doormats like the protagonist don't deserve anything good, because they will destroy that good all by themselves.
Agreed.
Ahhehem. Disgusting Snake?
Please tell the AI to stop saying the word "let's by gones be by gones"
It's on almost every story
what happened to the latest video
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telltales u fell off
Pro really let high school relationships ruin their relationship with their families. Unless my parents/siblings are racist, sexist, or have any narcissistic tendencies (boundary stomping) I’m not ruining my relationship with them.
I agree with the mother actually. OP sounds very childish after all these years. Not saying that what Jennifer did was okay because it wasn't, but OP could've handled this differently
“you don’t know what happened to turn her into someone like this”? YOU DID she’s still reacting to the humiliation she felt cos of what you did in hs. then the repeat of that with the stuff at the wedding is probably exactly the same to her. now ur laughing at her no sympathy and everyone on fb is too. and u dont even recognise it, not that u’d deign urself to doing anything for her.
yeah what she did was by no means good but if she’s malicious and evil or whatever the u are equally as horrible tbh.
this story is so frustrating i wish the mom never apologised, no growth.
op has the right to kick her out of the wedding, no doubt she was leaving anyway, but the rest was too much.
Agreed.
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The public humiliation is understandable, but still objectively wrong. This was not the morally correct decision.
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LMAO WRONG
@@kevinbadger8030 LMAO WHO ARE YOU TO DECIDE THE OPINIONS OF OTHER PEOPLE
@@iwtbrnk LMAO YOUR OPINION IS STRAIGHT WRONG. IMAGINE CALLING SOMEONE WHO IS TREATED BADLY BY SOMEONE AN AH FOR RETALIATING! TELL ME YOU WERE A HIGH SCHOOL BULLY WITHOUT TELLING ME YOU WERE A HIGH SCHOOL BULLY
@@iwtbrnk LMAO YOU DON’T EVEN HAVE AN OPINION! YOU JUST POST “YTA” ON EVERY SINGLE VIDEO BECAUSE YOU’RE SAD
@@kevinbadger8030 You are following him?!
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I just would really really like for people to stop calling an argument something verbal a fight a fight is physical🫡
"....never showering during holidays. I'm pretty sure a lot of people do that....". I BEG YOUR FINEST PARDON????