Mom Called Me an Accident and Favored My Sister Growing Up. When I Got Pregnant, She Secretly...
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- Опубликовано: 14 янв 2025
- Mom Called Me an Accident and Favored My Sister Growing Up. When I Got Pregnant, She Secretly Brought My Ex to My Baby Shower to “Save Me” from My Marriage.
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It's a surprise because OP's sister actually seems to have turned out ok despite the mother's spoiling
my dad is jealous of me because i have a loving supportive mom and he never did (in his defense my grandmother was a monster), he resented me and acted more like a sibling but when he lacked argument he would inforce his authority as a father, it was very pathetic. when i finally noticed his behavior, everytime he made a comment about how my mom would treat me "better then him" (even though he's an alcoholic with a bad temper) i would make him angrier by saying "you wish that was you hun? too bad i am an only daughter" he would pretend to laugh but he was fuming
My stepmom was the same way
really fun to bait these idiots, isn't it.
I'm so sorry your parents treated you that way. Please accept virtual hugs from this internet stranger! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
A rare moment were an Ex IS A DECANT HUMAN BEING, like damn.
FR, dude seemed like a pretty chill guy and someone that has your back.
Yes, but technically no. The bad ex was the mom.
Refreshing
Usually the ex doesn't have such an opportunity to show they are, as they have left.
Mom being crazy gave him the chance.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And the Ex isn’t like the other Ex’s in the previous stories who are self centered this. This Ex really put the OP’s mom in her place humiliating her in-front of other people.
Phil: "If we have a boy, i want to name him after your ex. Lan: Protector of Marriages and Slayer of Abusive Moms."
"Jackie" is a self-absorbed narcissist, and yes, she was punishing the OP for her father refusing to "be baby trapped." The fact that "Mike" and his daughter "Leah" the half-sister so more love proves that "Jackie" is the only toxic person in all of this. "Lane" was a pawn, and "Jackie" being jealous of the OP is absolutely on key. Her need to try and sabotage the OP's marriage, especially with the pregnancy happening, shows that she was attempting to control the OP's life because she couldn't control hers. "Jackie" needs to end up divorced and isolated from everyone else. Ruining the baby shower with "Lane" not wanting to be there, and her delusions are borderline sociopath behavior.
Interesting how halfway through (didn’t even finish the story yet) she wanted to keep in contact with OP’s BOYFRIEND. Not OP herself, her BOYFRIEND. Interesting how that works out, yeah?
@WhoisdislolI thought for sure mom was going to try to persuade him to switch sisters.
Let's also not forget the fact that mike is only divorcing jackie now after everything, despite the fact he's had a front row seat of jackie's toxic behaviour of treating her oldest like sh*t the moment he came into their lives.
I do think the dad has some blame here because he said he wae not interested but he was there for OP so why not gain custody of OP? He did not need to be with Jackie at all and was basically doing everything anyways
She’s so self centered that she genuinely believed that her daughter would get married and have a baby just to ruin her reputation lmao 😂
I don’t think that’s true. I think that was just a crappy excuse for her actions. I think she was genuinely angry that the baby that ’ruined’ her life and relationship grew up to have a healthy relationship and life and she had the life she wished she could have had. Jackie hated it so much in fact that she wanted to get revenge by ruining her daughter’s life the way her daughter did when she was born. Even though it wasn’t personally her fault she didn’t care. She was jealous and angry that she was going to have a baby with a man that wanted to be involved in that baby’s life married and in the same home unlike her.
@BrightElk I get the feeling the "mom's" boyfriend was getting ready to leave her anyway and it just coincided with her getting pregnant.
@@BrightElk That’s a very valid point
@@akitkat-1225Very true. I know that’s not how Jackie saw it though. But that’s the most likely reality of the situation.
There is no way that Mike realized this after years of living in the same house with the OP and mother. He saw the abuse, he just acted like he didn't because it didnt affect him or his daughter.
I am so glad OP prevailed in the end.
Ian is an absolute legend
Op’s dad is just as guilty as the mom he se this mistreatment and continues to live with the mother and the stepfather is guilty to for allowing to treat her like this and not step in
Absolutely terrible parents all aroudn.
@ that what I thought too and the stepdad only wanna separate because she made a fool out of herself in front of family members
?#*$. Not only should OP go complete NO CONTACT with her mother Jackie, she should move with her husband Phil to another state to start their lives afresh.
Actually, it's very difficult for a father to get custody of a child, especially a female one, even when he was married to the mother. So all he can do is remain present in his daughter's life. Jackie would have to be physically abusive to lose custody.
@@esm82ifyI was gonna say the same, reason why I gave Dad the benefit of the doubt
It’s funny because mom can’t stand that both the golden child and the ex are mature enough to not fall for her Bull shit
I like how ian became lan
😂😂😂
Haven't finished, but it sounds like OP was conceived by Jackie to try and babytrap Avery and when that didn't work she directed her frustrations over that onto OP.
She kept harping on what was "supposed" to happen when she got pregnant as if there was a plan involved
Yeah I was getting those vibes as well.
Or maybe Avery was a jerk and used the fact Jackie loved him to get wet while not intending to pay attention to what she wants in life at all.
Cause he bailed on her only when she was pregnant - he know that after giving birth playground will be unusable and he didn't fancy taking care of a child. Paying child support and visiting is NOT rising a child
@morganablackwater2017 if Avery was a jerk he wouldn't have taken care of OP at all. Maybe he realized the mom tried to babytrap him and got out before she could sink her teeth into him. Avery just didn't wanna be with OP MOM. Nothing wrong with that at all.
@@morganablackwater2017you must be the soul sister of jackie from another life. lol
True! If she let herself get pregnant that meant that she thought he was going to marry her. The fact that she made the OP carry the weight of her resentment explains it all.
All she had to do was get an abortion & go on with her life.
Hekkin huge props to Lan, the real MVP here. Big good wishes to him wherever he is.
Ian is the best EX ever!
I wonder why dad didnt take full custody or at least celebrate OP's birthdays
Courts heavily favour the Mother over the Father in custody battles. If the mother can financially provide for the child and isn't an apparent danger or threat to the child; 9 times out of 10 primary custody is awarded to the mother. (if this is in North America anyway).
Missing the birthdays is a whole other matter. I get the feeling he wasn't fully interested in being a father and was doing the bare minimum.
18:25 Freedom of opinion doesn't mean freedomof consequences
OP was blessed. A dad who walked out on the mum but still active in her life as a father, a total gem of a stepfather, a golden child sister who stood by her and an ex boyfriend who was really decent.
The FNAF brainrot has taken me
Each time I heard the name Jackie I think of the animatronic clown
I mean the clown does sounds better than the mom
Baby trap plan goes wrong=child blame
Dammit, AI, you had to ruin everything with a "maybe, just maybe"...
LAN? She's dating a local access network?
@@becauselifts9913 it was probably meant to be "ian" with an "i" which could be internet area network or just a name
@@becauselifts9913could be Landon. Or could be an Asian name. Either way it’s been proven that AI uses certain key phrases over and over again.
Ikr it’s downright annoying. Maybe just maybe they’d stop using that in future stories
This story is so emotional, I can't believe a mom would do that 💔
Actually it may be that Jackie projects a lot of unhealthy emotions on to her first daughter. Jackie believes her emotions are more important than her behavior towards OP.
It’s not LAN. It’s Ian E-an.
I love that the ex was not a crazy person.
At least you have your dad who's involved and your step dad and sister who aren't ah's like the most of them are and lan sounds like a good person as well as much I can't ask you to forget about your mom I think you should avoid that negativity and focus on the more positive side❤
NTA - Your mom crossed so many boundaries, and bringing your ex to your baby shower was completely unacceptable 😡
Interesting story…
I, for the life of me, will never understand why mothers (I know fathers do it to, but not the point, lol) treat their daughters like competition.
The projection was very strong and blatant as a red flag.
Jackie, you made a choice to get pregnant. Mike said he’d be there for you, but did not want relationship with you. For you to then treat your daughter like a nuisance, a pest, a major inconvenience is sad and pathetic. Even more low down and disgusting for her to try and turn OP against her own father. Thankfully, OP saw the BS and not let it consume her like Jackie.
Then she moves on, gets married, gets pregnant and then treat her second daughter like she was the Pope or something. 🙄
It’s good to know that Leah and OP had a relatively healthy close sibling relationship. It’s also sad that Jackie just couldn’t let OP be in peace even after she moved out. Always projecting her insecurities and HER mistakes onto OP.
Why, in the confused f**k would you bring your daughter’s ex to her baby shower? I think Jackie had a “thing” for…. Ian? Lan? (Come on AI, get the name right. Which one is it?🤦🏾😂) Could be my imagination….
Well……. Looks like consequences came to deliver. Jackie is now separated (I think in the process of getting divorced ), she’s has NO contact with her husband, daughters, and family members.
She let her jealousy, hatred, and spitefulness (from treating Leah better than OP) be the absolute downfall of her marriage and relationships with her family.
OP, she’s not Jackie, she an Egg Donor. A waste of a mother, really. Stay NC with Egg Donor, OP.
This story seems interesting, gonna watch it when I came back home 👍🏻
Spoiler it is literally 'GOAT' a movie. That movie has too many plot twists.
Great! I love those types of stories!
LAN? Or Ian? AI can’t even get names right
Whatever the case, the character is awesome.
Really have to say: W Ex-Bf
Very mature and kind. Wish them both the best
really enjoyed this video! it was quite intriguing to hear your story.
The fact that the OP remains so utterly needy for her mothers love and attention literally decades past the point she realised it isn't gonna happen is truly pathetic.
Grow a pair and move on.
I have no sympathy at all for people that keep toxic people around.
OP had 2 bad parents. Her dad did the BAR MINIMUM, but since she mainly lived Jackie and her antics, it seemed like a lot when it wasn't. He didn't press for custody didn't do squat about her living conditions, just let her vent and said a word or 2 but didn't do ANYTHING beyond his weekend visits and child support payments they all knew weren't going to his child that they were for.
Jackie was horrid, no question, but 'dad' was no saint either when he still lived a bachelor life with a weekened kid.
op took way too long to stand up for herself and her bf shouldve stood up for her s well. just saying
Not everyone is comfortable rocking a boat.
Nah you’re right it’s stupid how grown adults allow themselves to be bullied and act like victims.
Going to be divorced, isolated and watching far way how everyone is thriving without her.
Nice AI ending
Jackie resents OP because her being born didn’t keep her ex husband around.
So ops dad just continued to allow his daughter to stay with her mother. Knowing she was neglecting her? And The stepfather can miss me with that bs. You lived with them for years. You mean to tell me you didn’t notice the unfair treatment between the two girls? Your daughter gets the best of everything and lavish birthdays. While the oldest gets a damn pizza and nothing more. You mean to tell me you didn’t notice!? Even if he treated her well. He never stepped in, in regard to the treatment op faced from her mother. Smh 🤦🏾♀️
Go permanently NC with Jackie!!!!!!!!!!!
Unfortunately I was born the only female in my family (2 little brothers). So I was my father's little girl and baby. My mother would get jealous and even bully me if my dad gave me more attention. I am a ppl pleaser so would just take it. There was emotional and physical abuse. Name calling was the norm. I tried to please her so essentially I was her door mat. Everything come to a head when once again she attacked me and I finally fought bk. After that the physical abuse stopped. My dad passed away and I am in LC with my mother
I swear, my father was almost as bad as "Jackie"...
I'd buy a vehicle and he'd have to try and out do me by getting a year or two newer and attempted to rub it in my face.
I'd usually remind him that my payments were about 2-3 hundred dollars lower than his cause I didn't change vehicles every other year...
I could probably start my own series with the BS that happened in my family
Oh the projection.
At least she has a good taste in men
PSA, dont use the name ian with text to speech
I’m sort of judging the step dad for just sitting around and watching this all happen and being okay with it. And honestly it seems like he would have continued being okay with it but she messed up so bad towards the end that it went super public and he couldn’t ignore it anymore because it would make him look bad if he stayed with her.
Where were the rest of Jackie's family when OP didn't get parties or presents?
Ian is a good dude, make him a long LONG distance uncle.
Ugh ...I hate these kinda people , they know how their so called beloved one treat em for years they know they are an afterthought to em but even after the very person who supposed to love ya hates ya instead of going NC they still wait for the same person to love them back .. Come on , Have some self respect 🙄🤦🏻♀️ ..It took all these years, the pregnancy and others to cut her mother off ..If only she did it during her college days itself none of it would have happened
Like Jacky karma's a B 😂
The question is: why did OPs dad allow Jackie to keep her for 18 years if he witnessed the mistreatment firsthand.
Being a parent isn't just about paying the bills.
Are these real names? I had a neighbor named Jackie who fits the profile and also has a younger daughter named Leah
The guy who runs this and wrote it into the speech to text doesn't know that the name is ian. It's a capital I not a lowercase L. All names are capital letters Mr Foreigner.
“Lan”… It’s Ian, pronounced “EE-an”… how the AI got that wrong is beyond me. The ex’s name being pronounced wrong was hard to listen to that whole time. 😅
Omg its startimg to feel like every story is the same
I think rhe guy name is "Ian"
OP"s Mom is whack!
Can we not at least check the AI reading the story is speaking correctly. The ex is Ian not Lan. The AI is ignoring the Capitalization of the letter i.
Goodness, I was already absorbed in the story until "maybe just maybe"..ok pass
The AI is mispronouncing Ian as Lan.
THAT'S IT AI! Clearly a fake story but god damn entertaining. Better that those last doormats and cuck fake stories. Well done AI, you're actually learning
Lan? Omg AI is so obnoxious, the person who programmed AI is of low intellect.
and actually, the mom has a point that having a kid right on top of the wedding. it is not the smartest thing to do imo.
I would have probably enjoyed this story much better had I not been incredibly annoyed by the robotic ai voice pronouncing Ian as “Lan.”
What is the name of the BG music ?
Unfortunately for OP, her father is also not a good guy. Saying he wanted nothing to do with OP except child support is not good. He knew how awful Jackie was and how much she hated OP but he never tried to get custody of OP and take her out of that horrible home life.
True, he could've been worse, but he could've been better
Please, pronounce the character "Ian" correctly; Ê-ehn.
Why does the dad have a female name?
Fake name maybe?
I don’t think they gave the father a name. When they say, “Leah, my dad and Mike…” they’re not calling their dad Leah. Leah’s the half-sister. Is that what confused you?
@@SpankDMunky I recall at the very start he is given a name, but it's only used once in the whole story
@ Oh, well I’m not going to replay the whole story so I’ll take your word for it. Thanks. 👍🏽
That's what I was wondering 🤔
AI
949 views in 19 mins man fell off
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So, is it lan or Ian? 😂