My Own Sister Ruined My Life by Helping My Ex-wife Make Me Pay Child Support for a Child That...
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- My Own Sister Ruined My Life by Helping My Ex-wife Make Me Pay Child Support for a Child That Wasn't Even Mine.
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The hypocrisy of Nina in this story absolutely baffles me. And the fact that OP’s parents are taking his sister’s side and pleading for OP not to testify is disgraceful when THEY didn’t even fight for OP, and even forgiving his sister. All three of them deserve to go back to the pit of hell they came from and never try to contact OP again.
Her behavior isn't baffling when you remember she's a woman.
Agreed
Women ☕️
No hypocrisy here, just one cheating 304 supporting another cheating 304.
If anything, OP should ask his father to do a paternity test on him and his sister, as there seems to be a trend with the women of the family to cheat and then try to pin the paternity on the husband.
A cheater always symphysis with a cheater. It's obvious Nina is the golden child.
Don't destroy someone's life with lies when yours can be destroyed with the truth. Serves her right. Actually, no. She wouldn't even deserve a blanket to sleep under a bridge, let alone alimony
🏆
Your a real one
Depending on the length of the marriage, alimony won't be too long thankfully. I seriously doubt she got past the 10 year threshold to get lifetime alimony so at worst it's half of the time of marriage so a couple of years and Nina is on her own
When you burn someone they burn you back. Plus where was the parents protest when Nina testified against OP that led to him pay child support for a bastard child? I bet Nina would abandon the parents once they get too old and try to turn to OP for sympathy.
@@drunklink350 If remember well, OP said that his sister's wedding was a year ago
Cheater defending a cheater is a classic. Also funny how it's OK for the sis to screw OP in the divorce but when it's OP's turn everyone freaks out
@@2xtreem4u yeah, sucks to be her now. I wonder why she is hating this medicine?
Women sometimes….
Classic toxic abusive behavior
"But family" is BS as they didn't say that to Nina during OPs divorce.
Exactly! The double standards are mind-blowing. It’s like they only care about protecting their own when it’s convenient.
This shits scary asf man ngl
And it happens in a lot of courts all over the world. Men don't get hardly any leeway when the evidence and logic say otherwise. If I were OP, I would have appeald to higher courts and kept going until I get the desired result.
@@suttone75it doesn’t happen nearly as much, more men don’t pay child support than those who don’t. Millions of dollars of unpaid child support If this story is even real (which it’s probably not, no court is going to make a guy pay support for a child that isn’t biologically his unless this is some backwards third world country)
Reason i want to remain single
If you are in a country where you have even a 1% chance of getting jail time for defending yourself, dont even think about marrying, someone.
OP should sue to cancel child support and remove his name from the birth certificate.
Tell your Sister she can testify and get it overturned and youll give her a second go or choose to pay the Child Support herself for the full 18 years up front. What a dm betraying w of a sister.
The brothers testimony isn't even necessary.
The photos he took make them redundant as they are physical evidence of the adultery.
Speaking as a female here. No one should be forced to pay child support for a child who isn't theirs. The hypocrisy of Nina and their parents is astounding. They talk about family? Where was this mentality when she testified against him? Stay no contact OP.
LOOOOOL
umm ok first of all, thats NOT how the legal system works, like yes men DO get screwed by the legal system, but you cant just say “hey we know this woman wouldn’t cheat, so clearly she didn’t”
These AI stories are getting a bit ridiculous
also those stories assume court battles are like in TV shows and just are over in no time
That's cuz in reddit there are tons of stories of men being made to pay and the AI just adds its own spin on it
Court appointed paternity test must be mandatory. When proven positive, child support must also be garnished.
Many women cheated, yet many men also shirk responsibility. Both sides must be made accountable.
He filed for divorce BEFORE his ex revealed she was pregnant, he demanded a paternity test which proved he wasn't the biological father, yet because they were still married when she got pregnant, and his sister testified that she doesn't "think" the ex-wife would cheat, which she had no evidence of and which the DNA test proved to be false, he still had to pay 18 years of child support?? That makes absolutely no sense. And any law that stipulates that should be struck down immediately.
Surely there has to be some way to appeal the decision about OP having to pay child support for ex-wife's son. Surely. This seems so wrong.
His sister doing that still makes no sense. No way in hell would I take the cheating wife side. Don’t know what she was getting outta it but that shit was weird. Throw the whole family away.
Once a cheater always a cheater. Theres no saving a marriage when Infidelity is involved.
I'm really questioning the justice system. It had been proven with the DNA Test that the kid wasn't his. Yet they make HIM pay child support. This is fucking wrong. This is more reason why I dont support the police, or the justice system.
Do not support the cheater. If she cheated once she'll do it again she screwed you over for her friend and then she screwed her own husband over.
Honestly family courts are awful filth in my opinion child support should require a paternity test to prove that the guy paying is the father.
I'm kind of hoping that the guy could appeal his paternity and child support
A wise man once said: karma always comes in clutch.
It makes no sense why they didn't do a DNA test in the womb.
Jut dont pay unless paternity test says your the father. Its stupid how they make you pay child support for a child that isn't yours and no paternity test. At least your parents are somewhat sensible
i wonder is either op or his sister is the product of an affair, because it more or less seems to run in the family on his sisters side
Story seems fake. There are en vitro paternity tests, and a court would not order someone to pay child support for child that isn’t his during after an at-fault divorce, especially when the presumed father of the child is known (in the story/ex-wife admits to infidelity in the record).
This dudes the goat for that personally would of loved it if op went to his sister and told her the same words she told him I only did what I believed was the right choice and in the future you’ll thank me for it😂
Nina wouldn't be breathing anymore
Why can’t he just make a dna test now that the kid it’s born ?
I hope op was able or is in the process of getting the child support voided and reimbursement
What country is this? The man responsible for the child is the man on the birth cert, or is proven as the paternal parent via dna testing
this story is fake my mom is a lawyer(divorce and family lawyer one of the best in my country) and its imposible to pay child support when child isnt yours lmao the court in a situation like this would dictate to take a paternity test during pregnancy and according to this make a decision
This was 100% written by an AI
He could use the text she sent in court
No surprise the women in the comments were trashing him
Oh how the turn tables turn 😂
Id be like " looks like I'm going to the Philippians or Thailand boys. im out" lol
alimony is the stupidest thing I have heard of, like, y do I have to pay my EX HALF of wat i have JUST CUZ WE WERE MARRIED FOR A BIT
Another dumb one. Dumb about love and didn't get any evidence when they are eligible hucking up and now he doesn't have any evidence to lean back on at first he was dreaming about what he did wrong and after bitching about it
have a good day,lad!
When I heard that he was at a bar and saw his sister with an old man, I said DUH DUH DUH ARE U READY ARE U READY aRE U REeeAaady 😂😂😂
Story sounds fake NGL
Never give cheaters a 2nd chance!!
Also WTF IS THAT LOGIC ABOUT THE CHILD?
And the parents suck ofc and some of the Reddit comments
I dont think the story is real cause no way that someone can be asked to provide child support after it is proved that the child isn't their
@@2xtreem4u its crazy how they didint even get a paternity and assumed the child was his without any proof the legal system so so fucked
@@casualcat9386 Yup same. Any court that has any legal authority would still demand the paternity test. And a court ordered one at that.
@@casualcat9386 State will not provide for the child, if you're the husband in any means when the child is born you are the legal father. Unless bio father VOLUNTARILY contest parenthood and guardianship you are in for 18 years. Most EU countries are like this (many of the states in US are also same). France is even stricter you cannot check paternity unless mandatory court order, it is illegal to check for paternity privately. The catch is you cannot get a court order unless "REASONABLE" doubt or mother of the child consent it.
@@AmareW It is crazy, but if you think state as human being, you'll see he/she has no incentive to provide for extra 2 mouths when a scapegoat is present also by taking child support state gains a new source of income. Nothing personal just business, the eventual cost maybe collapsing of Western Anglo-Saxon plus Judeo-Christian (specially social) values and functioning social structure. But who cares as long as the money gets flowing.
OP didn't say it but Nina is a golden child. The hypocrisy of his parents and Nina tells us that if they aren't the ones responsible for unforgivable acts, they don't care.
I was just ready to make this same comment about Nina being the Golden Child to his hypocrite Parents. Also, When OP responded to women defending His sister I was willing to place all My money that they all had cheated on their SO's
Spot on. It's clear where the parents' priorities lie, and it’s not with OP. They’re enabling Nina’s behavior instead of holding her accountable.
@@Rwp019 if they didn't cheat on their SOs they support Nina because they don't wanna deal with consequences in case they'll cheat.
chat why do i keep coming to watch these
They infuriate me idky im addicted 😂😂😭
Its brainrot brother... we are cooked 💀💀💀
@@Axe064if its brainrot then im a ohio skibidi sigma rizzler.
you learn from other people's mistakes- is the lame excuse i give myself...
We all just like some drama in our lives. Im watching these daily while im working 😂😂
As a woman, I find it crazy that there were women trying to convince him to support his sister despite what she had done and was proven to be a cheater. Like????? EXCUSE ME?! The same sister who testified AGAINST her brother and has saddled him with supporting a child that isn’t even his?! They have got to be joking! That support women ish would be thrown out the window immediately if I were privy to the said woman screwing someone over!
I never thought I'd be saying this, but marriage is starting to scare me a little.
Those women are likely currently cheating or have cheated on their husbands/boyfriends or significant others and trying to defend their own actions
@@gravewalkerjs5645 I also suspect this, otherwise noone in their right mind would support that
@@m4x927 "never sign a contract where the other part is rewarded for breaking the terms of such contract", i read this somewhere, and it's why i'd rather sell one of organs to the black market than ever getting married. And i'm barely surviving, so if a gold-digger ever flirts with me, she must be the most stupid woman on earth.
Honestly, that should be considered enough legally to prove her testimony as false for any previous cases of a similar ordeal and force this dude's ex and him back into court, with a mandatory dna test, where then she'll owe him years of child support and damages for lying in court.
I agree
He'd have to insist on another judge because the last one upheld the ruling even after a DNA test proved he wasn't the father.
The problem is that the state is looking at the situation from the child’s perspective. Punishing the mother would hurt the child and the child is legally the OP’s. The state wants the child to have two parents. It sucks but he should be able to prove that he is not the father.
@@justyojimbo3471 nah, it seemed that the ruling came before the child was born, so no DNA test was made. They simply made it part of the divorce agreement, which happened before the birth.
And then they couldn't appeal it after the child was born, when DNA-test could easily be done, which is the real injustice.
If anything, the lawyer should have drawn out the divorce, so that it took place after the child was born, and then they could use the paternity test as evidence of cheating in addition to him not owing child support.
@@nehcrum then why is he still paying for the affair child? I may be wrong because I was listening to this while doing something else but I'm fairly certain that ruling happened after he was abandoned by everyone. I'll have to listen again at some point.
A man court ordered into paying child support for a child isn't even his? This is indeed unfair in so many levels
It happens every day.
It's not merely unfair, it's patently ridiculous.
By the OP's own words the pregnancy wasn't even visible.
You don't pull that hail mary during a divorce.
The judge/arbitrator will handle the divorce, and then when the baby is born they will have a separate court case for custody and/or child support.
By the time the 2nd case is possible the ridiculous "oh she's not a cheater" character witnesses would be entirely redundant as a standard direct DNA test could be conducted on the child and the OP.
Fr@@oge7867
It sucks, there is even a Michigan Law out there that doesn't even protect men whatever. I only heard this because it was brought up a couple years ago because a cop pull a man over, ran the name, and return to the car just to announce "you are a dead beat dad" with a warrant.
@@FireyCam what law?
Cheaters and traitors are not welcome in my family.
A mantra I live by.
He should go back to court and dispute the child support
And get his sister locked up for lying under oath, and sue his ex for paternity fraud
Hopefully he can, especially as he now has 100% proof that his sister lied on the stand.
The justice system is a joke "yea you're not the father but you are her husband so you gotta pay for the kid" if courts didn't pull this stunt more women would be think twice before cheating
Because this doesn’t happen.
@newvision4l314 This can happen, and states like California will literally do this
@@newvision4l314 this happened to my cousin last year. He's living in California married to an American. Starting June, he was required to pay for a child that isn't his.
@newvision4l314 yes it does. There are states with outdated laws.
It's not born while the parents are married tho - you don't set child support on a child that hasn't even drawn breath yet.
Divorce and custody/child support cases are separate.
Maybe if the mother was so far along that she looked like a beached whale the judge might do both cases together, but if the mother was not even showing the judge ain't gonna do jack to slow the divorce because a child that hasn't been born has no legal entitlements beyond those determined under abortion laws.
Also pre natal paternity test can be conducted to prove beyond any doubt if he is the father from as early as the first trimester, and once he is found not to be any opposition to the prenup terms would dissolve.
Of course cheaters always defend eachother
From 'this story must be fake' to 'the AI can't write convincing stories'. This is an old post with numerous youtubers talking about it. I am not saying that it isn't fake, I just say that we are going in a circle.
those terrible AI stories seem to show up on all story channels eventually.
Yes because Redditors never lie for that sweet karma
Most people try to call stories AI written out of how it is written. But they are all hypocrites, if they wrote their own story, they would be using those same techniques the AI do. Then they try to call it fake over what happens in the story... there is no basis for that. Anything can happen in reality... anything.
@@goneloko1368 it is not really the subject of the story, it is the overuse of certain phrases (whirlwind of emotions, navigating dynamics, the atmosphere was palpable...) and how AI doesn't understand how courts work, specially how slow they can be.
Hopefully op can get the child support overturned and vet his money back.
This is fake. Categorically. He cannot be compelled to be the father if he hasn’t signed a birth certificate and did a paternity test that confirmed he is not the father.
@@airsquadron654
Im not too sure about this
But I remember hearing that the mother can put down someone’s name when the child is born and the courts accept that as the guy being the father.
This can be overturned with a paternity test though, like what sort of biased courts has op gone to that he can’t appeal the decision and get his cs money back based on a court mandated paternity test?
@@AlastairMonisCourt may refuse paternity test and deciding factor here was that they were married at that time all the 'Childs needs' bs to make an innocent dude suffer isn't exactly uncommon
@airsquadron654 hahahaha!! If you believe that happy crap, I've got a lovely bridge to sell you
Check out the paternity laws in New Jersey or France...or, heck you can read about a dude in michigan that not only is paying for a kid that isn't his but also went to jail in the state of Michigan. The kicker, dude NEVER EVEN HAD SEX WITH THE WOMAN.
@@rem9367I swear that’s only if the man’s name is on the birth certificate. That’s the only way a non biological father is forced to pay child support. Otherwise if it’s proven he’s not the father, he’s free!
I am so tired of people not getting justice for their lies and deception. I would have had a paternity test done the moment the child was born, then taken her back to court and arrested for lying under oath. WHICH IS A CRIME BTW!!! So if that is the case why are these people not being prosecuted to the fullest extend of the law already?!? I don't care if you are a man, woman or child. If you lie and break the law, you need to be punished! The sister and the ex need to be arrested for knowingly lying on the stand.
this is 100% fake. It is an AI story. For starters, court proceedings often take years. AI always seems to think it is matter of days like in TV shows.
Perjury is very seldomly prosecuted. Even for criminal trials with blatant lies.
From a newspaper article:
"During an interview about his 2011 book, Tangled Webs: How False Statements Are Undermining America, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist James B. Stewart said: “No one keeps statistics for perjury and false statements -- lies told under oath or to investigative and other agencies of the U.S. government -- even though they are felonies punishable by up to five years in prison. There is simply too much of it, and too little is prosecuted to generate any meaningful statistics.”
A University of Michigan Law School investigation found about half of the 1,900 wrongful convictions overturned in the United States since 1989 were caused by false allegations or perjury in court. Yet even the most egregious lies in court are seldom prosecuted, according to legal experts."
This is why people always say NEVER Forgive Cheaters 🙄...
Bro is the top G
JUST HELPING A BROTHER OUT JUST TO TAKE REVENGE
Can't op take this to court that the child is not his and stop paying child support
(I don't know if someone can do this so this is a question)
I'm getting the sense that Op is the scapegoat of the family while the sister is the golden child. And every time there's a situation involving Ops sister suddenly Op has to help out the family even though they've never helped Op in the past.
Seen this story before. If this is real dude should really resue to get off child support due to the main witness in his last trial being unreliable(cheater herself who tried same stunt). And then resue his ex for fraud. Plus sister for purgery and emotional distress.
this story is fake. It is made with AI. Pretty much any story you use that uses " "whirlwind of emotions" is AI made
The word "family" doesn't mean anything when its only used to manipulate and belittle people. Poor OP, has to pay child support for a baby that isn't his because his wife cheated and his sister helped his ex. But if nothings else OP being the one who discovered sisters affair was wonderful Karma!
Even if op didn’t had solid proof he’s still entitled to dna tests legally no matter on which state he lives, it may not have proven that his ex slept with multiple people but If it had proven that the child wasn’t his he wouldn’t had required to pay unless the court sees it otherwise, the dude was smart for having a prenup, but he made bad mistake not including child support for an infidelity child, considering it’s a big possibility with women
Once you read these for a few months you can tell when one is fake. I've been on this channel for like seven months at this point, and can confidently say that this is 100% fake.
Bull total bull no court would order someone to pay child support for a kid that’s not even born and if the father refuses to pay as he says is not his they’d order a DNA test
What type of court is that? The Judge should literally be arrested for not doing his job properly. He made a decision without a paternity test.
Bro sue that judge? There is no law saying a wrongful judge can't be sued. If you sue and win, not only that judge will lose his judging rights, but she will be ordered to pay you back the amount she stole. There is no such thing DNA test can be dismissed against.
You just know its ai when they elaborate how they felt 😂
Only 7 min in and already got three of the AI staples, whirlwind of emotion, gravity of the situation, taken aback... 😂
@@Captwholesome "navigating dynamics", "the atmosphere was palpable"
plot twist: OP and Joshua found comfort in each other's arms, and fallen with each other. 🤭
Hurry up I’m already halfway through the story and I’ve been skipping through it
The irony!😂😂😂
This dude needs to take this back to court as soon as possible I understand that the judge had gave this okay even before the child had the baby but he needs to take this back to court.
Never return to cheaters. The only way cheaters ever reform is if they leave their affair partners, and let the one they betrayed go. Forever. And even then I wouldn’t trust a partner who had cheated on someone before.
Ways to know that Telltales posted a fake story.
1). Too much information (especially at beginning)
2). Weird time jumps that usually has a big one at end
3). The "commenters" aren't mentioned by name
4). Seems like a Lifetime drama/Soap opera
5). Usually has a 1 vs the world theme / Do it for dan theme
6). OP and characters usually goes against normal human nature example: OP gets assaulted in their home and doesn't call cops. Example 2: Person/people OP has problems with "Barge into" their home and again doesn't call police.
7). OP always has to ask reddit AITAH even though asking that question goes against Human nature of the OP being severely wronged.
8). Weird Updates that aren't needed.
9). OP reiterates things multiple times in a single "post".
10). Stating their feelings/how they feel "in the moment".
11). IRL laws do not apply. (Battery, theft, harassment, etc.)
12). Takes most of the video to even get to the title point.
That's cap bc subscribers tell the youtuber their story and the content creator puts it on RUclips
BRO WHY DOES YOUR VOCIE CHANGE IN SHORT AND VIDEO I ALWAYS COME FROM SHORTS ANF DONT WANNA WATCH TH STORY B3CAUSE OF VOCIE
I do not care how close I am to someone, or even if they are family. If I see them doing anything explicitly wrong, like cheating I will not hold that information to myself, and I will inform whoever needs to hear it.
Eh if I was him I would just become citizen in a new country for then they can not force you anymore to pay
Child support after paternity test is evil especially it is found in earlier stages. He should sign off those rights
Dude, contest the child support. You have a paternity test result to back you up.
if it would be myself in op position, I would leave the country to another where I could live in peace and just stop paying childsupport.
Why on earth would I remain in a country which forces me to pay child support for a child which isn't even mine and I'm still living in this country paying taxes???!!!???
honestly same, and cutting contact with his parents, would be the perfect excuse to leave the country, change phone, change name, start paying everything with cash. He doesn't even need to leave the country, just...one of those secluded rural towns with lots of farms or something.
That is insanity. I’ll be damned if I’m paying cs for a kid that isn’t mine
I once heard a reddit story of a man who was also forced to pay child support for a child that wasn’t his. He decided to move to one of those countries who wouldn’t deport him back to US if it came down to it. He married there and payed 0 child support. I feel since OP has gone NC with their parents, nothing is holding him back to do the same.
i agree
Can't OP ask for a re-trial?
It's simple. The sister can get back into his good graces by paying him back all of the money he has paid into child support and paying it in the future for him.
Cheaters always stick together but I’m glad he was able to help Joshua out despite them both having to still pay money
So obviously Nina is the golden child, no surprises there, or that she cheated.
I just think OP lost a perfectly good oportunity to be petty and spiteful towards Suzie. Imagine this, you ask for visits on weekends, upstage the mother on birthdays, Christmas, vacations, reward good behavior and grades with videogames, toys, etc. You rubb it in that she cannot afford any of that, how she lost it all for her cheating but her child gets it so she has a constant reminder. You are also the more relaxed parent, not indulging or spoiling, but you have the kid on weekends and every other vacation so there's no school, no homework, no bedtime therefore you're basically the cool parent by default. And she can do nothing about it, what is she gonna say in court? _Your Honor, he is treating my child as his own and giving them a loving home away from me, even though it's not his child_
If the topic about us not living toguether comes around OP could give an age appropriate response, give the child proof that he is not the father and deflect all questions about the father, except what Suzie told him or he saw on the messages, then just let her deal with it. Again, what is she gonna do about it? OP could even fight for custody when the kid is around 14 or 15 y/o and he has a new spouse, the child could be convinced to say they want to go live with OP, OP says that he has grown attached to the child and wants to have him with him 24/7, and the fact he stops paying child support because of this is just a completely coincidental bonus.
Oh how the tables have turned
OP is a moron. First he was too stupid to not get undeniable proof of his wife's infidelity before confronting her and moving forward with a divorce. Any married man knows that if you are going to leave your spouse based on her infidelity and want to not have to be responsible for her financially after the divorce, you have to have proof that she has broken her vows.
The second mistake he made is divorcing her during the pregnancy after finding how she was pregnant. That was the second opportunity at being able to get undeniable proof that she was cheating and be able to remove himself from any responsibility for that child. This also falls on his lawyer for being a moron as well.
The third mistake he's making is not legally stalking, and serving the actual father with the summons to be DNA tested in family court. The states that go after husbands regardless of DNA connection to the child, most of them are willing to transfer that responsibility to the actual father if you're able to get the father served. He doesn't show up to court and avoids the courts, a lot of the times they will make him the father by default because they're assuming he's the one trying to escape responsibility. The fact that he didn't utilize other options after the marriage ended, let you know that he is the type to just roll over and take it in a metaphorical and physical sense.
And the forth mistake that he is currently making is not taking all of the transcripts from his sister's court case and appealing his child support. He now has proof that the woman that was the key factor in determining his current circumstances, practices the same type of manipulative and deceitful actions as the woman she was protecting who was also her best friend. If the original judge that gave him this order is still serving, they would have to overturn it or there is room for them to be disbarred.
But regardless of how slow this dude is... and clearly this dude is slower than pond water in January with molasses in it. But regardless of that, you have to acknowledge that the court systems in America are disgusting when it comes to how they do not acknowledge fathers as anything other than a wallet. Why should a man have to fight for 50% custody for a child that they are 50% responsible for creating. I can understand child support for inactive fathers, but why are fathers who have their children a majority of the time or at least half of the time, still have to pay child support? Why is it not automatically set that if custody is split 50/50, your responsible for the child when they're in your possession and all major expenses are split? You want to know why? Because most mothers in these situations are using the system to screw over the Father because of their bitterness over the relationship ending and their unwillingness to accept that man moving on. It's because most mothers want to maintain some level of control over the father. It's because the court system wants another avenue to bring in money for doing minimal work and it's so that they haven't excuse to incarcerate law-abiding citizens and force them into incarceration and servitude if the father doesn't have the means to pay for the child and mother's livelihood on top of their own.
This statement alone is the reason why so many men are going red pill. Me myself, I've been told I've fallen the purple pill area because I see good points and horrible points from both sides. But when men are faced with this being one of the potential consequences of marriage, you really can't blame them for looking at you guys like the enemy. Especially when the vast majority of women fall to the dark side whenever a relationship ends and children are involved.
What does he have to pay for baby that they had a paternity test that they know is not his child even though all the proof is in the batter
The story is probably fake because it’s ready but still it doesn’t make any sense. Why if this is real I don’t understand how because if you have the proof if you have a paternity test and everything I don’t see any way that they can force you to pay for baby that’s not yours.
@@jamesrodriguez1260There are still some states in america that Says it doesn't matter as long as you are married or your name is on the Certificate.You're still the father by law
Once a cheater, always a cheater
That's why you NEVER give a cheater any chance or take that cheating human back into your life.
About the quite frankly unreasonable demand of the court possible explanation is stated below:
State will not provide for the child, if you're the husband in any means when the child is born you are the legal father. Unless bio father VOLUNTARILY contest parenthood and guardianship you are in for 18 years. Most EU countries are like this (many of the states in US are also same). France is even stricter you cannot check paternity unless mandatory court order, it is illegal to check for paternity privately. The catch is you cannot get a court order unless "REASONABLE" doubt or mother of the child consent it.
If you think state as human being or a corporation, you'll see he/she/they has no incentive to provide for extra 2 mouths when a scapegoat is present also by taking child support state gains a new source of income. Nothing personal just business, the eventual cost maybe collapsing of Western Anglo-Saxon plus Judeo-Christian (specially social) values and functioning social structure. But who care as long as the money gets flowing.
Honestly...Story feels absolutely fake. Even if the Sister was a character witness, the court would still have to approve a paternity test for any viable court order to be done in terms of child support. And where did the sister THINK that OP would go back to being a close sibling to her after she ruined his life??
"Hey bro! I know I ruined your life and ruined your credibility now and you're on the hook for 18 years...But you can't blame me for that! So pleeeeease talk to me on family reunions...! Oh! And take back your testimony against my infidelity. I REALLY need to keep that under wraps. Kay?"
How tf does someone have to pay chold support for a kid that isn't his. Makes no sense
where is the reddit link?
I love the reddit stories that get "chosen" to be read by A.I. Like yes we can see most if not all of them are false but great for engagement, and VERY rarely you get a story that is just extremely well written. Fake, But well written. Then you have these ones. Which are so wildly coincidental and you know they are fake. But you know it happens in real life often enough to not question it. Do I think it's fake? Yes obviously as I said most of these are. But it's realistic and I'm also learning I should be in jail when my first thought is "well, If your going to have your life ruined by someone for being innocent or just wanting to ruin your life, may as well kill em."
Nina ONLY supported Suzie bc she too was a cheater. I REALLY don’t understand why there are women on Nina and Suzie’s side. These men were wronged by both of their ex’s
WTF is wrong with the law ? Women cheat, destroy their partners lives and still GET PAID !? Thats wild.
Stopped watching at "whirlwind of emotions"
Nina is horrible and OP didn’t deserve that but why didn’t he take it back to court as the paternity of the child makes it clear she cheated and they should look to the true farther for child support idk how any court would rule in favour of OP paying child support despite the multiple cases of betrayal during the marriage that apparently means the child is OPs problem. Personally, I think if the person has no chance of getting any custody of the child (not including abusive partners ofc) then it’s unfair that should have to pay child support that’s just my opinion tho
How to tell if it's an AI story:
"Whirl wind of emotions".
"Palpable".
Constant need to bring up how they felt with college level writing.
"The room was thick with-".
OP NEEDS a DNA test, like the level of defense his mom has for cheating people is just one big red flag 🚩. He needs a DNA test for his sister, for himself, for the dog.
My brother had a similar situation. He dated a woman who was in the midst of a divorce she got pregnant but halfway through revealed that the baby mjnght not be my brother's cuz there where 2 other guys she had seen while they had been dating. Fast forward to after the baby was born my broyher and her had broken up not to long before the birth cuz he was sick of being her sugar daddy and her going out and openly still hooking up with the other guys. She put my brother on the birth certificate but he wouldn't signed with out a paternity test. She tried to get him to date her again and he said only with certain rules which basically consisted of she couldnt fool around and he wasnt going to pay for all her bills and her 3 other kids while she uses her money to party. She wasn't ok with that and kicked him out. She then filed for child support saying he abandoned them. He said he'd pay if he could be in the kids life. She said no cuz he "already has a dad now and is better off with out you." Bro then tells child services that he's more then willing to pay child support if he gets a paternity test proving the kid is his. Child support told him that even tho he didn't sign, his name is on the birth certificate so it's his responsibility. He said again he'd only agree after a paternity test is done. They then told him he can't request one. Only the mother and her husband can. Even with a different man on the birth certificate, she was still technically married to her ex husband and when the baby was born and thus the baby was legally the husband's so only the husband or her could request a test. But at the same time my brkthet was legally responsible for child support because his name was on the birth certificate, even though the child wasn't legally his because she was married. It was all crazy confusing
NTA. You did the right thing. It's stuff like this that make not want to be married anymore, if I was you I would sue your ex wife for all the child support you been paying and the real father
What is the saying? One thing about them tables, they will turn. Karma came to collect BEBEH 🙉🙉🙉🙉
I could be remembering wrong, but from some of the things I feel like I remember again I could be remembering wrong didn’t you say him and his ex-wife did start being intimate again? And now is we weren’t intimate at the time I thought you said they started to be intimate again and started trying to work things out, so I kind of agree that the truck that he could be lying and the child actually is his, and he just wanted to wiggle his way out of it. so and to me, it does seem like if him and his sister had a better relationship what do you have took in the pictures it does seem like it’s almost out of spite. Yes, the brother-in-law deserve to know either way, but let’s say the tables were turned they had a good relationship and the sister didn’t testify. What do you original poster stuff dammit? End it is the original poster sister‘s husband is having the same reaction destroying almost feels made out to extent. If it’s not, I am taking the side of the sister and ex-wife.
Let the seas boil, let the stars fall. Though it takes the last drop of my blood, I will see humanity freed once more. And if I cannot free this galaxy from your failures father then let the galaxy buuuuuurn.
Tell Nina to go ask Susie to share the Ops child support since she wouldn't have it without her BS testimony anyway LOL