LOSING A CHILD | My Journey Through Grief
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- Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
- Even if you've been raised by wolves, at some point you will experience grief. It's natural. Losing a child, however, is not.
Music: Moby - 'Spaired Long' used by permission from MobyGratis - I am most grateful, thank you!
A while ago I lost my dad to ALS. And 5 months after that I lost my youngest son in a car accident - he was 15.
I'd have to say my biggest challenge in coming to terms with all of that loss has been getting used to the idea of being sad. We all experience grief at some point in our lives, and while losing a child is certainly painful, the coming to terms with the sadness and making the grief okay has been my biggest challenge.
From a spiritual perspective I know that I'll see my family members again. But in the meantime I'm still EarthBound and I miss them physically. I miss them on this plane. I miss being able to give them hugs and joke with them and whenever thoughts of my son come up, they're always good thoughts.
In the meantime, I've had to make friends with my grief. I would say the most difficult period was a couple of years ago when I entered a phase of what I can only describe as complete futility. I felt like there was no point in continuing. And even though I wasn't suicidal I was completely unmotivated to do anything. I had absolutely no wind in the sails. Any kind of undertaking, no matter what, seemed pointless.
So I went through a period where I did nothing.
Now I've said that, I realize that's not entirely true: because what I was actually doing at that time was entering a new phase of my life, where I was becoming accustomed to the notion of feeling sadness. It took me about 6 months to get through this period of despondency where I was completely unmotivated. It was certainly a type of depression, but it was different from a depressive episode in the sense that it's not that I was feeling hopeless about my life; it's that I was feeling hopeless about life, period.
Why the f*** do our children have to die? Why do I have to be the one to experience that? It didn't seem fair.
Many people have said to me they can't understand what it must be like, and I've found that a lot of the process of losing a child has been in managing other people's reactions to my son's death. I have had to come to terms with when I see somebody struggling to say something when they're talking about this event that happened, and the people pleaser in me wants to say: "no, it's okay!" ...because in one sense, it is ok! But in another sense, I can see that they're being triggered into a lot of fear - particularly if they have kids themselves. So I had to accustom myself to that paradigm.
More than that though, is this feeling that losing my son has, in one way, deepened my sense of spirituality. I say that because I remember I lost my grandmother when my boys were very little, and on the day she died I felt her move through me. Having lost my son I very often have the experience of feeling him even though I know that he's not walking around on this planet, but he is still very much here.
The soul is eternal. Each of us is on a mission to advance our soul - including my son. That's how I know I'll see him again, as well as my dad and my grandparents and everybody else in my life.
I really do understand that death is just the continuation of life and a normal part of living. Through my own spiritual path I've come to no longer fear death.
So even though this video is about grief I always end up talking about all these other things, because they're all so interconnected. I touched on a lot of things here, and I hope you could follow along with me. If this video meant something you please Like and Subscribe for more of my videos. Until the next time, I'll see you soon :-)
I lost my 22 year old in 2017 to suicide. I lean on JESUS everyday to help me cope. I totally know your pain of losing a child. Just lean on the lord everyday.
I found my 26 yr old son dead in his room from a fentanyl overdose the day before Fathers Day 2020, and the look on his face with his blue eyes turning grey will forever haunt me. I'm a broken man, who dearly misses his son!
Im so sorry you have to go through that.
May GOD the Most High comfort you...we lost our 23 year old son in a car accident 4 months ago and the grief is unbearable at times. Everyday seems like it just happened! I am so heartbroken! My wife and my daughters are devastated!
So sorry for your loss, be gentle on yourself. It's like living a whole other life, painful every moment, hoping you'll eventually wake up from the nightmare. We lost our Son our only child in 2017.
💔😥😰😭💔
God bless you Rob! I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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I lost my one and only 21 year old son 14 days ago . I wish to sleep and never wake up . Please pray for us
I am praying for you..Please look after yourself 🙏
I understand your condition.... even me, I lost my only son 22 days back, my heart was broken and melted but I never give up my prayer and keep asking God for His comfort. I believe in God and heaven, I strongly hope that I will surely meet my beloved son again. I badly miss my son so much for a moment😢....
Please let yourself grieve. Anyhow, you want don’t worry about what people say or think I want to tell you be comfortable with how you feel. I have lost my husband and son seven years apart no matter who’s there you feel alone and that’s perfectly all right do some thing in his name that he loves and remember you will see him again❤😊
I lost my beautiful Son March 26 2021, and I am dead. It should never have been like that. Our children should be burying us. I lost it at his funeral, his beautiful face, I told him David this should have been your wedding not your funeral. God help me 🙏 how will I live without him? He was my heart, my soul, my everything. I love all of you here and my heart breaks for all of us. 💔😥😰😭💔
This story happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
@@kelleymcfadden9675 I’ve replied to you on several other grief channels. I think your post is very beneficial in giving others hope. God bless you
I lost my only son 💔 my life is changed for ever😢
@@debracurboy5844 OMG, I am so sorry. My heart aches for you. 💔 I don't even know who I am anymore. I hate this ugly life. 😢
I simply tell myself, "I'm ok with not being ok." It is a long, hard journey and I just miss my boy. Peace to you and others that are on this terrible journey.
Thank you for sharing. I like that idea of being ok with ..... I've also been told it's ok 2 cry. I've had no emotional support even told NOT 2 CRY!!! GOD BLESS. SINCERELY, Jill
Thank you so much for this its still hard for me it just has been 2 months.... denial is still a part of my way of living..... questions like why why my son....he was 4years 4 months and was my bestfriend...... Trusting in God and only him.
@@memidee4739 I am so sorry for the loss of your precious son. I hardly remember those first days, weeks, and months. Thinking this will never ever get better. I have found some peace, Memi, and would send it to you to help you in those dark days when nothing seems right in the world. It has taken me a long time to find that little bit of peace, but it is there in the memories and the pure love we have for our sons. Love and hugs!
@@wgreenlee I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my son jersey on may 24th 2020 during lockdown on a car accident he just turned 22 on his birthday, got hit by a drunk truck driver, that was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 13yr old daughter is my everything and the reason I keep strong, my late wife passed away 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer.
I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! it'd be nice if you just say hi, here is my number +17866676668 or rather you can send me your gmail address so I could reach out on you.
@@wgreenlee thank you much again for the kind uplifting words..... *now i accept that ITS OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY* I also think time will heal me/us ..... though u still find urself washing your face with tears..... its the best time to be strong for yourself first then others.....
I lost my 18 year old daughter to fentanyl 8 months ago. And the last two days have some of the worst. I feel incredible sadness and want to isolate from everyone. I’ve had anger, pain, happy, and confusion. I’m still trying to figure out how to live life with all this. I know I’ll see her again. I just miss her so bad.
My son, only child, died suddenly last month aged 22. The pain of missing him is terrible, but I am plagued more by the unutterable sadness over his lost decades of life. I want to scream my head off most of the time.
Hey sorry for your lost but how do you handle it
I feel the pain from morning to night
I lost my 23 yr old just a month ago. I am in the stage where I can not see no light or end to this pain. I am still hoping there is way God will bring him back and make an exception for me, and even though I know that wont happen, I wont let me lose that hope.
I have been attending a bereavement group to helo me cope . compassionate friends
@@rastorga4771 This story happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
I lost my one and only Child Madi💔 the pain is worst than any worst pain that a human heart have to be endured...grief is with me for the rest of my life💔
Its a pain that is unbearable. I am a trauma surgeon and I lost by 22 year old son last year from a brain bleed. I blame myself for not seeing what was happening, One day I will see him again. Love to everyone dealing with loss..
I fell your pain Scarlett. I lost my 25 year old son, my only child and namesake, to Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy. He was a three sport athlete in HS, snowboarded all over the world, yet on April 12, 2023, he went to the gym to play basketball. He collapsed on the court and could not be revived.
He left Loyola Marymount in LA due to Covid in 2020, when he came home he seemed depressed, unmotivated. For the past three years I have taken him to doctors trying to determine what it could be. Why can't I get him up in the morning, why does he seem unmotivated.
I had just taken him to the doctor the previous Friday!
I am feeling tremendous guilt for not being able to somehow protect him. I'm his father, I raised him alone since he was 3😭
May we both find peace through this trauma.
I lost my wonderful son a year ago.
I wish I could go back and change the past. We will see our children again.
I lost my both sons . 22 months interval . I can’t say if I hope to see them again , though I don’t exclude life after life . I just know my inhuman suffering will end one day , the day my earthly existence ends . It brings some relief . If I see my nearest - it will be a bonus .
@@congac33 My life is a near reflection of yours. My only child, my 19 year old daughter, just passed on Nov 15th 2023. She came back sick in 2020 from a mission trip to Peru at the beginning of the pandemic. Fast forward 3 years after multiple hospitals, (77 x in ICU) plus emergency rooms and lengthy hospital stays- we never did get a “diagnosis”. So I got an autopsy done. Turns out my young 19 year old had the same as you speak of here. Yet out of hundreds of hospitals (UCLA, MAYO in AZ, and several trips to all kinds of hospitals here in our hometown, NOT ONE DR could “figure it out”. ). A lot of them (Drs) would tell her it was just “psychosomatic” so she suffered that torture also. Only 19 years old and had never been sick a day in her life till the “Covid 2020” plandemic. And the guilt I suffer from constantly yelling at her for not getting out of bed & getting to school on time during her junior & senior year is unbearable for me. I’m curious to know how you’re coping now since your situation is just a few months ahead of mine.
Life seems pointless to me , this is so hard. I struggle every second.
My 13 yr old took his life on Friday and I just came here to find comfort from this relentless monsters called grief. You don't just "FEEL" grief. it chews you up, beats you down and eats away at you. The despair of having to live while my baby is gone is too much to bear.
I'm so very very sorry for your loss, lost my husband , mum dad sister in law, aunty, uncle to cancer in months of each other, then my youngest child who ran from the farm with drugs 😨 wasn't dealing with the loss, i hope one day he comes back, but to be honest i feel like your son he will take his own life , it is agony to much to bear, i understand and im so very sorry, nothing i can say to make things feel any better for you, I'm so very very sorry for your loss 😢😭😢
Let Jesus heal your heart! This story happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
It’s been nine years. Nine years of crying. Guilt. Loneliness. She was my only child and seventeen and she died in a car accident. My future died with her that day. No college or wedding. No grandchildren. I’m like the feather drifting in the wind. Sometimes, the breeze lifts me up and other times I fall into the mud. When I’m in the mud, it’s hard to pull myself out. I have to wait until the rain and tears stop so it dries enough to allow the breeze to lift me once again. Thank you for your video.
Be comforted in Jesus name its so hard no one understands but those who have expetienced it.
Its unbearable.....
Time heals but the Holy spirit lifts the weight ......
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
Oh No, sorry about your lost!
How are you now wince it has been some time?
I lost my only daughter 3 1/2 months ago 😢no club I wanted to join!
Just looking for some comfort
@@glory1star I lost my daughter, age 19 and she was my only child too. It happened on Nov 15, 2023. I’m looking for comfort on all these grief channels too. I hope you’re doing okay.
Hello 👋🏾 from Ohio @@kimmefford2814 so sorry that your in this child lost club!
It’s been 15 months and Thank goodness I am not crying everyday anymore! But the 1st 9 months were miserable and hell! I still have my trigger moments !
I am trying to grieve this year more with love than pain!
My suggestion at this time is to do something in honor of your daughter ! It will help some 💜
My daughter died suddenly at 20 yrs old on March 5th. I feel exactly like this right now. No motivation. Empty. Detached. Thank you for sharing your story. We keep going, one day at a time.
This story happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
I just lost my 42 year old son and I am experiencing such grief I can barely stand it. You touched on many emotions I am feeling.
I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my son jersey on may 24th 2020 during lockdown on a car accident he just turned 22 on his birthday, got hit by a drunk truck driver, that was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 13yr old daughter is my everything and the reason I keep strong, my late wife passed away 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer.
I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! it'd be nice if you just say hi, here is my number +17866676668 or rather you can send me your gmail address so I could reach out on you..
My Name is Carrie Johnson BTW
I also lost my son Melvin Gilbert on his birthday he is 20 years old. I lost my beloved son in his birthday I no need to live without my son. God please take me soon. Want to join with my son. Please all pray for me to join with my son in heaven. I'm waiting for the time
I lost my 21 yr. old daughter to cancer May 2022 - my grief is a constant companion that I never try to shush or banish. It is now a familiar presence in my life, and I think will always be so.
I lost my son 3 years ago. I’m so heartbroken & sad everyday. We were close and had plans - now I have no future. I just exist. When he left the family was gone and the home is just a house. I believe he is around me and I will see him again. For now I’m miserable 💔
Please look after yourself...
So sorry Sister, I understand....I lost my begotten son 22 days back, my heart was broken and melted but I never give up my prayer and keep asking God for His comfort.
I listen to this sooooo much my son died in a car crash he was 8 this help me keep my mind really appreciate 🙏🏽
Me and my wife just lost our only child at 13 years old. The weight of the grief we live is unreal and very hard to handle. In fact at this stage im not sure if i can make it. You mention a lot in this video about an afterlife and that we will all meet again. I dont know about any of that - i can only hope you are right. But all i know is that i will never see him again while i live. Never hold him. Never hear his voice. I hear a lot about 'life lessons' etc - but what the hell kind of lessons did he have to learn by dying so young? what did he do to deserve it? Life is a sick joke. Millions of fathers across the world turn their backs on their children. I have done nothing but worship him from the day he was born and he is taken away from me. Everything in this world is upside down and back to front. The sooner my heart stops beating the better as far as im concerned
I’m so sorry. 💔😖😰😭
John, your not alone. So sorry for your loss. Keep going it's what he'd want you to do. We also lost our only child our Son 3 years ago, it's a tough call we miss him so so much.
I bought a small rescue dog,only thing that saved my life,therapy didn't,praying didn't.An outlet of TLC to something that desperately needs you worked wonders for me.I was suicidal for years🙏due to my mother dying when I was very young
Life is a sick joke I so agree with everything you just said hope you have better days
I lost my mom about three years ago. No matter who you lose when they're so close to you it hurts. It's never the same
I lost my daughter at 30; unbelievable torture for 7 years,getting used to being saints soo true, please do more.
i understand all of it perfectly i lost my 10 year old son in 2017 and all the emotions you describe are in my life as well Thanks for sharing your story
OMG this video meant the world to me. My daughter recently passed away 6/3/20 and I buried her 6/17/20. My heart is aching so much. I can identify when you said missing your son's physical presence. I will no longer see her face, smile, laugh nor celebrate her birthday with her. My daughter would of been 32 years old 7/19/20. She was autistic but she was my angel. And I know that my daughter is in heaven with my mother because my daughter was pure and innocent. She never sinned she was a virgin when she passed. And even though that makes me happy knowing that my daughter is with God and my other family members that passed the part of me that is "earthbound" still wishes she was here. I find myself not sleeping as much one minute I'm ok the next minute I'm crying. And I do feel hopelessness overwhelm me at times. I find myself not wanting to enjoy life in general if I smile or laugh I feel guilty smh. I know in due time the pain will lessen but meanwhile it still fresh. Slowly but surely I know I have to keep going because I have 2 other kids to think about. And even though they're both adults 26 & 20. They both still need me. And I love them so much. I know in my heart that I will see my mother and my daughter, grandmother and aunt again. Please everyone pray for me and my family. God bless🙏🙏🙏
I lost my only son almost 3 months ago and this is exactly how I'm feeling right now. It's not good.
I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my son jersey on may 24th 2020 during lockdown on a car accident he just turned 22 on his birthday, got hit by a drunk truck driver, that was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 13yr old daughter is my everything and the reason I keep strong, my late wife passed away 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer.
I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! it'd be nice if you just say hi, here is my number +17866676668 or rather you can send me your gmail address so I could reach out on you..
🙏
It's been a year since my handsome passed.
We will never be the same again.
Well said to an audience of people who know... I lost 2 of my adult children and then my third child lost his mind... Maybe am losing mine... i feel empty to but small things like a flowering bush blossoming is beautiful...
My heart is broken 💔 again today as I started a new day with out mark 💔 😢. Hugs 🫂 and prayers for God's mercy on all of us 🙏 ❤️ 😢
I just lost my son last month and I am feeling a pain so deep l just don't know how I am going to cope with my loss. I saw your video and it helped,I know he is with God but I want him here with me. I cry every day.why me Lord why me. I am truly sorry for your loss
Oh I understand how you feel,I cry too 6 years on , so much.
@@jillsimmons5089 I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my son jersey on may 24th 2020 during lockdown on a car accident he just turned 22 on his birthday, got hit by a drunk truck driver, that was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 13yr old daughter is my everything and the reason I keep strong, my late wife passed away 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer.
I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! it'd be nice if you just say hi, here is my number +17866676668 or rather you can send me your gmail address so I could reach out on you.
@@ChrisJohnson-lh9qb I'm so sorry for your losses, to lose both of them, how awfully sad. I still have my dear husband and we tend to console each other. This works for us. ❤️
@@jillsimmons5089 that's good for you having your husband
I lost my only child, 21 years old Dri on 5th May 2022. Dri was my life, my world. He was amazing, “what did I do to deserve being your Mom?” I often asked him. The ache, the pain, sorrow of losing Dri is so painful, at times I wonder how’ll I live without him. It’s HARD. “Dri is in a better place…he’s smiling down up on me…we will meet again..” I live by this now. Oh God help me please, grieving is painful, but I’ve faith God shall comfort me, I pray😭💔❤️🩹❤️🙏🏾
Oh no, sorry about your lost!
I lost my only daughter child for 16 years she was my world also 9/2022 just 18. I do have a 2 year old son
What things have help you ?
Only God can heal us. My ❤️ heart hurts for all the grieving moms.
I lost my daughter September 27th 2019. . She was 37. The grief and sadness is more than I can describe in words....The emptiness runs deeper to a place I never knew existed. Getting use to the idea of being sad all the time and coming to terms with the sadness, you described that very well...Most people really don't get it....That's another reason why I don't really like talking ...because people don't get it!..they simply don't understand....its not they're fault...They just don't understand.
Hi, I lost my oldest son in 07 sep 2019 , his age 20years and 10 month, until now I can't believe that's its happen, my life been stopped, no words can explain what the pain I feel, I don't know what to say, but I say my life finished. God help everyone who lost his children's
I lost my daughter, Sarah, 8/23/2015. She was 35!! Month of May is extremely hard; May 1 would b her BD, the comes Mother's Day, which is hard too not only because she's not here, but my own mother isn't!! To top it all, my son cut me out if his life 2 wks after my Sarah passed. Thus, no longer have I ever even seen my 3 grandchildren. I love all my family and miss them dearly. Seems I've lost my purpose in life and don't know why all this has happened to me. To my dear mom, and Sarah:You are always in my heart. I will always and 4ever love Save me a place, please.
I hope u have had emotional support. Bless you. I have had none.
@love like Ty so very much. Means so much to me. My Mom passed in 1992 age 82 of colon cancer! We were very close. Spent the last 18 mons of it her life with her daily and she passed in my arms. I felt HIS presence when she left. I and the Lord we're only 1s of my family ever there 4 her. Including MY SON!!
My father passed 10 mons later.
All your thoughts have been of great comfort to me especially how you stated our adult children have not accepted their part. I'm sorry your daughter cannot. Hopefully some day she will especially 4 her own sake.
I often wonder if their selfish attitudes they will ever acknowledge. Also if they ever realize if it weren't for us, they're happy world would not exist. That may be selfish of me to say then so be it. We sacrificed with no regrets so much 2 b mother's they will never get it. So sad because we want the best 4 them.
Again, your letter has meant so much. It's good to know us forgotten mothers are not totally alone. My prayers are with you too. Thank you so for sharing and caring. Bless you always. Sincerely, Jill
I lost 3 grandchildren age 7 age 5 age 4 months. My sons soon to be ex wife murdered them with a butcher knife then hung them with a rope.
On Thursday 5th May 2022 my 21 years old and only child, my son Dri went missing. It’s been the most agonising 8 days searching for him. We found him dead. I lost my son Dri, the light of my life, my anchor and the source of my joy. I’ve a hole in my heart. I miss him in ways I can’t describe. Pray for my son to RIP, pray for me to endure the pain of his loss. He went to college worked super hard and always supported me in every way. He loved me beyond description. He was my world. I’ll always love you Dri with all of me, dance with the angels my Angel Dri😭😭😭🤲🏽🙌🏽🥰🤗❤️🙏🏾
This story happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
@@lks6248 thank you for your comment and shedding some words over your own and only child’s loss. Below is some expression (among a few others I’ve been writing since my son died). Maybe it will help you…I find writing helps me💕
Growing stronger in FAITH
It’s one month today since Dri left our earth
I may not be smiling, unhappy and dull…
My life maybe filled with sorrow, empty without my loving caring son Dri
Each hour confirms to me he is gone…
But I am still here on earth
I am not excited, but I make some plans…
30 days have gone without hearing, hugging my Dri
Without “good morning Mum…see you later….sleep well….I love you…”
When Dri died, an huge part of me died…
Am I a different person now??!
I am still here….
Faith in our God, Yahweh, Allah keeps me going
My world maybe empty, sad, hollow without Dri
But my faith growth
I hang tightest unto our Creator
I see, read, sense, feel so much more than ever before in my life…
Although too many unanswered questions….
Hope in FAITH I live by
No words to describe “losing a child”
I am not a widow, but I’m a mother who lost her, child, her one and only one
No words
So much pain
But there’s faith
Rest in heaven and peace my Dri
I will forever love you Baba
Mama “Babavu”, always
Thank you God for my faith, hope💕
5th June 2022
Suzanne Jambo
@@lks6248 it’s beautiful you’re able to express in words….2020 and it reads fresh to you, to us….thank you for sharing. I’ll share one shortly below. Hope it helps❤️
Words don’t express my grief….I feel it….constantly
It comes in waves, high…low…and again…
It aches beyond…I can’t see my Dri no more
My life has come to a full stop!
21 years of Dri’s wholesome companionship….
My baby, my child….my solace, anchor…
My teacher, my student, advisor…motivator….
How do I carry on?!?
The one who ignited my smiles beginnings, everyday….endlessly. My Dri is gone…
Dri gave me the push to soldier on…
To innovate, dream…to chill, to relax..
Even when sick, Dri’s love pushed me to health…
His loss’s pain is unbearable
The void is deep….hollow
Every part of me aches for my child
I miss you my son
We shall meet again Dri, my baby, my son, my soulmate…my world
Mummy Babavu* for ever
Suzanne Jambo
Dri’s forever loving mom
22nd May 2022, one day after burying my Dri
*Babavu was Dri’s “I love you to Mummy”
@@lks6248 once again, THANK YOUUUU for sharing your beautiful words of your child. It helps me tremendously. For you and I relate on missing our departed kids. I pray my sharing helps you too. Below are expressions I penned down one day before we buried my Dri (we buried him on 21st May 2022).
Tell your kids I love you every day, minute
Hug them everyday
Talk to them constantly
Pray for them non stop
You don’t know how long they’re are here
We give birth to our kids
How do I outlive my child?
You taught me everything my son
To love, to give, to laugh, to be
There’s no more “I love you Mummy, good morning, see you later…..”
Your child dies and your life stops!
21 years of Dri’s companionship no more, how?!??!
My son will never walk through the door
He will never call me again
He will never be with me on Xmas day
What will I do on his birthday?
I’ve no birthday for me for it was Dri who celebrated it with me
The spark, the tingle, laugher is gone
Dri is gone, my sunshine, my light
Only you can fill that void my son
I’ll be counting the years, days, hours
Till we meet again my Dri❤️
🥰🤲🏽🙏🏾
Suzanne Jambo
Dri’s Mom
05/20/2022
@@lks6248 I so look forward to hearing from you, I really do. THANK YOU. For sharing your own story about your son’s loss. Mine loves soccer passionately. He also was extremely generous. So yes, I’m working on something along those lines. Pray for me to see it thro. Today was a great day for me. For once I could spend time in Dri’s bedroom, speaking with “him” (his portrait) and I didn’t cry. I felt his spiritual presence fully. It made me feel good. It’s almost 50 days since he left us. One day at a time….one hour at a time. BTW, my Dri loooooved dogs. He truly loved them. I hope to get one some day when I’m ready. THANK YOUUUU from the bottom of my heart for your kindness, you’re an angel❤️🙏🏾
How am I only now finding this video? I lost my son in July 2016 and related very much to everything you had to say. Thank you.
We lost our Son 3 years ago. He was our only child, he was 36 years old. Life now has no meaning.
im sorry......i lost my son 6 months ago....he was 22......i only exist.....
Keep going, that's all we can do. Cherish their memory, mind yourself.
I lost my 14 year old son last year to a gun accident...everything you describe is what I feel.
Loss my daughter Nov 22,2020 due to car accident she was 21. I’m definitely in shell shock. Coping with her not physically here. But I’m adjusting to her work was done here and knowing that her Spirit is still living amongst me.
I've been through this my prayers are with you my son would have been 29 he died in a water boiler accident up north in Alpena Michigan and he died at the age of 22 I know how you feels God bless you in my prayers always
True peace can only come from God. Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
My 21 year old son passed 3 months ago and it's the worst pain in the world
Grief is hard,You never really get over it,You learn to live with it,,I liost 2 children within 11 months ,my daughter was 21 and a half my son 29 years old ,,,it is hard living without your children ,All you can do us take one day at a time, and hopefully you get strength and rely on your spirt ,it helps🙏🙏
I just lost my Son I understand what your saying
Me too
@@ginacool2161 I'm sorry
I am so sorry. I lost 3 grandchildren age 7 age 5 age 5 months . My son's ex wife murdered them.
I just lost my 30 year old daughter 2 fetnnal also, she was struggling with schizophrenia too. I didn't know about that until the last 10 months. I know she's free now and she's with me. And I am now responsible to Take care of her Two-year-old daughter. Wow has my life changed? I guess I just keep riding the waves.
Thank you for sharing such an honest and heart-felt message. I lost my 14 year old boy 6 years ago to an unknown and undiagnosed heart deffect, and although I have gotten somewhat better, I still suffer terrible bouts of deppression and sometimes vivid thoughts of suicide. I have a wonderful adult Son and a great husband that help me through a lot, as well as a good psyciatrist that helps as well. However, like you, I don't understand why God has to kill our children. No parent should ever have to go through that. I am trying my best to rekindle my relationship with God, by it's not very easy. I will continue to try so that I can be with Chris again one day. I thought it especially interesting that in your video that you said "The Soul Is Eternal", because since his death, I decided one day I'm going to get a painting commissioned, or a tatoo made, or SOMETHING that says ""Anima Sit Aeterna" (The Soul Is Eternal). We are all Brothers and Sisters in this particular sort of pain. May God bless you all with peace and comfort.
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
Thanks for sharing both your sorrow and journey. I lost my wonderful 23 year old son to cancer. It's been a few years now, but my grief is as bad today, as the day he closed his eyes for the last time. Yes,.....I get up and go to work everyday, and will carry on until my time comes and my life on this earth has ended. It is hard and some days unbearable. As well as losing my son I have lost friends and family. They are awkward around me and I am like the elephant in the room, that they prefer to avoid and stay away from.
Such is life......but that is okay. I just need to focus on me and not worry about others tip toeing around me. Take care and carry on my friends. From Vancouver. Canada.
I lost my beautiful son last year and going through the darkest days of my life. What you have shared about your spiritual thoughts is what I have come to understand as well. We will meet our dear ones someday- hopefully 💔😢😞
I just lost my beautiful 16 year old daughter 2 weeks ago. What has been getting me through these shattering days is approaching life and death exactly like it is described in this video. It could have been me talking. Thank you so much for sharing this.
My 11 yr old daughter just passed on 12/18/23 after being diagnosed with cancer 10/06/2023. It gave her 2months. As I write this Im planning her funeral. I am devastated. 😢
I lost my 40 year old daughter to cancer in a Span of 19 days ending May 24, 2023. I feel your pain
I lost my beautiful 30 yo daughter on Christmas day 2023 .
It's hard as hell , she turns 31 tomorrow 28/3/24 .
I will see her once more when my life ends in time .
Thank you, that helped. My son had a parasite and he took his life in 2022. My other son is the one we watched because he has an anxiety disorder. All I do is worry about losing him as well. I have a very small extended family.
Having lost my son, I get it. You said it so perfectly. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing. We lost our youngest son 12-11-19 in a car accident. Brian’s mom, forever 26, forever loved 💜
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry for your loss. I can relate to everything you say in your video. I know your pain very well. I lost my son 10 years ago, today. The hardest part for me, was "accepting and letting go" for years I struggled with the fact that he was gone and that he would never come back home to me. I would wake up every morning wishing this was all a bad dream. I swear, everywhere I'd go I thought I'd see him. I could still smell his cologne. Every night, I would cry myself to sleep not wanting to
wake up, get out of bed or eat. I would curl up in a ball crying just wanting to be left alone.
I was so angry and hurt with God, I couldn't understand why this happened. I cried so much to the point that I just couldn't do it anymore.. One day, I got down on my knees, prayed and asked God for forgiveness for
me being so angry with him and asked him to please help me, accept and meand my broken heart. God answered my prayers. I still have some good and bad days, but have come a long way since then. I have peace and faith that I will see my son again.
I could so identify with many aspects of your message, thank you for being raw , vulnerable and a real help and comfort in my life and in my grief. My 2 daughters were brutally murdered in 2002 and lost my Dad, ( Adult Acute Myaloid Lukemia)1 month after losing my girls. I also have 3 sons, that are behind bars and suffering addiction issues, as I have. My youngest son (28yrs. old) was just released last week, to where, back to the streets, where they’d found him, committing a crime out of desperation?! God, please show me! What am I supposed to do with all of this?How do I carry all this and try to heal too? Any God centered prayer warriors out there, please lift us up, to God? Thank you and God bless!
Hey how you doing I’m dealing with high depression and anxiety I know if not the same but everyday seems like a long day for me
So sorry to read about what you've had to deal with. YMyour in my thoughts.
Prayers sent 🙏
🙏🙏🙏
My heart aches for you! I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
thank you for sharing your story. I lost my son 3 weeks ago. He was 21. It’s going to be a hard road..
im sorry and i understand.....lost my son 6 months ago....he was 22....everyday is difficult.....
So sorry, be gentle with yourself, it's a tough road. We lost our only child 3 years ago, we'll carry the burden of loss for the rest of our lives.
@@sindelee6252 hi
I just lost my son he was 15 and died in me arms and I am beyond struggling
I lost my only son in Oct in a fatal car accident it is beyond hard. Love to you. Be strong your son does not want you to struggle. I know how you feel it is so hard. I have to have faith we will see them again. I hang on to this daily❤️stay strong
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
I can relate. We, it would seem, have a similar story. My father passed and not 9 mounths, my daughter did as well. The lack of motivation and drive is an odd sensation. Thanks for the video.
I'm very sorry to hear that.
Thank You. I lost my mother 5 years ago and my daughter 1 year later. It helps to know that I am not alone in this sadness.
Thank you I lost my only son 7mths ago and yesterday he turned 12 and I loved how you worded death it's only a continuous of life so thank you
I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my son jersey on may 24th 2020 during lockdown on a car accident he just turned 22 on his birthday, got hit by a drunk truck driver, that was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 13yr old daughter is my everything and the reason I keep strong, my late wife passed away 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer.
I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! it'd be nice if you just say hi, here is my number +17866676668 or rather you can send me your gmail address so I could reach out on you..
I hurt for all of you....I also lost my youngest son in 2022... it is a journey of deep grief...one thing I will honestly say.... I believe in God and heaven.I will see my precious son again...God has already welcomed him with a hug...I'm first I'm line to hug him when I get there...💕
I resonate with everything you’re saying I lost my baby one month and 11 days ago.
You really hit the nail on the head! This is exactly how I'm feeling and what I'm going through since losing my son.
Much love to you. Thank you for posting this!
Thank you for this video, but oh so sorry for the reason behind it. My son, my only child died 3 weeks ago. I don’t believe in hell manufactured by humans; however, I understand the emotional abyss I find myself. Grief will be my lifelong companion.
I lost my 25 year old son 9 weeks ago. I woke up this morning and wasn’t crying and whaling but realizing how deeply sad I am Then this video popped up on utube. Very different video than most I’ve watched. I too had a feeling of departing souls move through me, both my aunt and mother this is the first I’ve heard that described by anyone else
Bless you Buddy and Thankyou.🇦🇺🦋
I Love You, Mitchell. Dad
I get you I lost my 15 year old daughter on 23rd November.its painful
Love your video. Very well explained. I lost my baby this year. I miss him everyday. Thank u for sharing
Remember ‘sadness’ doesn’t mean you care. Sadness is natural, but- we hold onto it because we feel guilt if we don’t cling to the sadness. Our loved ones would not want us to be sad for any long period of time. We are here to experience this ‘seemingly tangible’ realm. No other reason to be here, but to experience form. We were part of the formless/spiritual realm, then we are born and we believe we are the body. Then we pass out of the body and back into the formless realm. And it’s all beautiful and natural. And it’s normal to miss and yearn for someone to be here, in this earthly realm with us. Contentment and love is always here, it’s within reach, no matter your life situation.
I lost my 5 month old baby boy this year and its so hard especially during a pandemic thank you for your sharing this brother i feel your pain.
Thanks i can now understand why i am so dead to life . thanks i know i will now pick myself up thanks
Thank you for your sharing this.
I have a month ago lost my son Nathaniel to a self Bike accident, the pain of the loss is terrible. I experience similar emotions and futility of living.
But Like u said, life has to go on nevertheless.
God bless you
I lost my 16 year old daughter unexpectedly June 25th 2021 and I really don't know how I'm going to do anything! I'm just breathing because I have to.
I found my 4 month old daughter dead I remember it like it was yesterday I will never forget it I was still hoping they could save her but I knew she was gone.
Thank you so much😥💔❤️🙏🙏🙏
ommmmm my son was 15 also.....the pain is real and the void is daily, the futility is real, spirit seems like everything....
God loves all of us so much, at times we have to go through the most difficult of trails....
It's definitely the faith we have in God that's being tested to make sure we remain the closest to God....
As difficult as this life is please remember it's all temporarily and perhaps God wants us to focus on the afterlife....
God please forgive us all for we are all weak without your mercy.....
Masha'Allah...
Thank you for sharing your experience with your loss. It’s been two years for the loss of our beloved Dj. It still feels like yesterday so this is helpful for us to know how other parents have endured the pain
I adopted a rescue dog,only thing that saved me,they are desperate for TLC,like us. So grateful for a warm,safe place🙏❣️🌅
I lost my 23 year old son 4 months ago while swimming with him in our community pool. He was doing the Wim Hoff breathing and held his breath too long. It’s called shallow water black out. I had no idea. It only took two minutes of me not looking at him and it was too late. We had so many plans together. He was my only child. The loss is beyond words. It was so sudden. It feels so senseless.
my son also stopped breathing and died I feel like just leaving
God bless you...I understand your feelings personally...On October 21, 21, I lost my sweet younger brother who I called my Irish twin...Then On January 11, 22, I lost my older brother, who had been burned as a firefighter 90% of his body, on October 25, 93. He had a heart attack and his wife thinks he died of a broken heart over losing my younger brother. Then the monster...I just lost my sweet, beautiful son, on October 8, 22. I rely on my faith...I don't blame God...I just pray God has my son in heaven with Him...as he shot himself in the head. He had a brain tumor that returned after an operation along with another brain disease...I just pray always...It changes one...sometimes the foolish talk feels just so hard...and I must continue my mission and even find joy as I now live with God and with earth thinking if I do, my son will be cradled and loved...Thank you for sharing...
I kind of know what you mean. I lost my eldest son 2019 he was 39. His birthday was May 1st and i know he had a really good day. He past around the 5th or 6th May 2019 which is etched on my heart. But it's been a wholesome spiritual journey for me and it started the morning after when i felt his arms envolope me and he didn't leave me for 3 days and he wispered it was ik to die.....
I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my son jersey on may 24th 2020 during lockdown on a car accident he just turned 22 on his birthday, got hit by a drunk truck driver, that was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 13yr old daughter is my everything and the reason I keep strong, my late wife passed away 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer.
I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! it'd be nice if you just say hi, here is my number +17866676668 or rather you can send me your gmail address so I could reach out on you..
Thanks for the share, so sorry for your loss, now I understand what it means, my only son just past away, everything of mine changed completely, phone comforts because every time I search videos to comfort me, I can no longer understand myself, I just need my son bk
My heart will forever be broken ...lost my son... The only way I am getting through this is that I am one that does believe in heaven and I believe my son is there because he believes in Jesus as his savior, That is truly what is getting me through and I know without a doubt that I will see him again. That is my personal belief.....
I’m so sorry. You look so sad 😞
I lost my son December 11 2015 he was 31... I lost my husband in 2007 and lost other loved ones.,. It different the lost of my son.. my grieving is almost obsessive
So sorry Sister, I understand your condition....even me, I lost my only son 22 days back, my heart was broken and melted but I never give up my prayer and keep asking God for His strength and His comfort. I believe in God and heaven, I strongly hope that I will surely meet my beloved son again. I badly miss my son so much for a moment😢....
I feel like I’m just starting to come to terms with my 19 year old daughter dying on February 23rd, 2021. I have just started searching.
Jesus is the answer hon. This story happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
I lost my dad and on the day of his funeral, I lost my son. Luckily, I had just recently moved to Mexico and it feels a lot more spiritual here. I went to talk to a healer who gave me excellent advice (at no charge of course) she helped me more than any US "therapist". She told me my heart had broken but I needed to have it broke open in order to let the light in. I am a kind person and so were they, she said I now have to do three times the good, keeping me busy giving for THREE, not just me, this would accelerate the purpose and healing. For those who believe in talking to our departed, we can communicate, feel them when we are living in the light. If we are in darkness and sorrow the contact is not there or as strong. Thank you for your message.
I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my son jersey on may 24th 2020 during lockdown on a car accident he just turned 22 on his birthday, got hit by a drunk truck driver, that was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 13yr old daughter is my everything and the reason I keep strong, my late wife passed away 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer.
I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! it'd be nice if you just say hi, here is my number +17866676668 or rather you can send me your gmail address so I could reach out on you..
Thank youuuu at Hug Me, I’m Insane for this AMAZING video. You’ve expressed yourself in ways I can relate to so much. Sorry for your dear loss. I lost mine too about 50 days ago. Stumbled unto your videos and they’re AMAZING. Such a life saver. Very real and natural. God bless you as you walk your grieving journey.
I get where you are at. I could deal better if God would just take me home. I only feel sadness! That's all! I feel happiness when my family is around but it's not very often as they don't live close. I have dealt with my son's death mostly alone! I live alone with my dog so there isn't anyone to talk to or bounce my thoughts off of. I do feel insane because I can't feel anything and no one gets it. 😢 no one seems to care! Oh it's just too much! 😢
I lost my son 1/2/2022 due to death by Covid and I just can't accept the way he passed. I feel like he was murdered 😮
Overwhelming sadness.... my youngest daughter took her life March 25th 2020 at the age of 32. I still just am beginning to believe she is actually gone, i grieve for her 3 older siblings struggling to live life, with kids, work and missing their little sister. I grieve for her husband of 3 years who found her at their home. Sadness is so heavy, I have her ashes well part of her ashes, but that gives me comfort, though makes it real. She is living in the hearts of family who loved and supported her and in 4 different states. Florida with her dad, NJ with me, and each of her older sisters, Colorado with her older brother and his wife, who btw shares the first name of his sister, Meghan, not sure how he deals with that, and in PA with her husband. I know her spirit is here, but I do want her physical body just one more time to hug kiss and tell her i love her, though she did call me 1 day before her death, and we just did the mom and daughter talk. We did get to see her , kiss her and touch her hair 3 days after her death, and then 7 days she was sent home to her husband until we could gather safely 6 months later for her memorial due to covid.
I'm so sorry this happened. I pray you find true peace in Jesus. This story happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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Just wanted to reach out to you I know this last March 25th must have been very hard for you. I saw your comment a year ago. I just want to let you know some of does care... Well wishes Tricia.
I am so sorry. Omg
I dont have children yet but for some reason my biggest fear is to have children and then lose a child. I cant imagine any bigger pain.
I think the reason i have this fear is because my grandma lost her son, my uncle when he was very young. He died in a car crash and although i never got to meet him because this was about 15 years before my birth, i still feel a pain in my chest thinking about it.
The trauma and pain a parent goes through losing their child is not explainable in words
Ive lost my child to ALL LEUKEMIA CANCER and step brother, uncle, AND 3 MORE familys members in 6 months ... Im still feeling not motivated at all n dealingbwith it own my own no family. Your arent alone !!! I feel so crappy n sad every day i do not like it at all
I'm so sorry I know how it feels to be lonely without the person you love, we've all lost our love ones in death one way or the other, either a spouse, child, family members, or a true friend that meant the world to us, such is life I understand how you feel but life goes on because death is inevitable and we'll all have to face it someday, I lost my son jersey on may 24th 2020 during lockdown on a car accident he just turned 22 on his birthday, got hit by a drunk truck driver, that was the worst and most lamentable day of my life as a single Dad raising two kid's, my 13yr old daughter is my everything and the reason I keep strong, my late wife passed away 3yrs ago to a cardiovascular disease, I felt deeply devastated with grief, but that's the past now, time is indeed the best healer.
I'd love to talk to you more if you don't mind! it'd be nice if you just say hi, here is my number +17866676668 or rather you can send me your gmail address so I could reach out on you..
I lost my 23 year old daughter three years ago. I am lost without her! Everything seems completely pointless and I struggle to find joy and meaning in anything, but I keep going in spite of it all. I don’t think I will ever be able to accept her death. She died of Covid, right before the vaccine was offered. She was very healthy, but died suddenly, just dropped dead and was gone! I just feel so sad and angry all the time. Seven months after she died, because of the stress, I almost died when one heart bypass grafts from 15 years ago tore. I was very………lucky…I guess to have survived. I have had a few close calls in my life, so why was I given all these passes to live and she had none?
I lost my 15 year old son the day after thanksgiving He was on his bike and hit by a suv truck - I get exactly what you mean💔
This story happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
People don’t help they make it worst…
But God can! This story happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
They do it unintentionally..
Hello from Ohio!
Love your video, do you have and updated info on how you have gotten through your process of losing a child since some time has passed for you?
ALS is heavy... sorry about your losses. 🙏
Soo hard my son died in water boiler explosion. He was 22.
There is no understanding by anyone who has not lost their child . Why do everybody around us yhat have their living children disappear? Why do people naked the decision when they think we should be " over it"
Seeing these are older videos, I wonder how things are going for you, in your life now, these days? Update?
My ex-wife took my son, I can't see him, It feels the same.
I know what you speak of and I will wait until he's 18. and at the same time on November 16th.... I physically emotionally and spiritually lost my little boy at the age of five... as he died in my arms of blood loss and the lack of EMT response.
God help me!
This story happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
Tribute to Ethan Lakey
ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
Please look after yourself 🙏
Yes, why the fuck do our kids have to die. I also lost my son to a car accident
Me too
I lost my only brother one weak back
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with anyone else's, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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