I received a phone call 12/25/20 that my only son John had been found dead. Thank you for sharing your story God knows i needed to hear this. God i pray father that you lay your almighty hand of grace on all the parents that are hurting from this tragedy. Amen
I lost my only son August 3rd 2021..he was only 33..the pain is almost unbearable..my prayers are with anyone who has experienced any loss..I've experienced a few in my life but nothing has hurt me like losing my son..If I get through this, it will be only by the grace of God
Oh No! How are you now ? Any helpful things has help you during this time? I lost my only daughter child 5 months ago! The pain and grief is tremendous! I cry everyday
I think all of us that have lost a child have been visited by the Spirit of God. It has forced us to truly examine our lives and ask very important questions. We seek help and guidance when most are living a carefree existence in comparison. I do not envy those people, I thank God for my new awareness and daily prayer due to the horrible event. Bless us all.
I lost my wonderful son 9 weeks ago and my pain threatens to pull me under forever. I am unsure of his salvation. He was talking about God the last few weeks of his life. I have asked God to give me peace about it but I am tortured night and day with it. I wish I had died with my son.
Hi,sorry bout your son,I know how you feel,I just lost my baby Dec,5,23,and it's very hard..he was 27 yrs old..an ofcourse their our baby's regardless of how old they are,same kinda story my son went to the ER for stomach pain,my pastor had prayed for him the sinners prayer,and that night my son got admitted and at 3am my son went into cardiac arrest,and was in the ICU for bout 2 weeks,and my baby passed away,I watched them trying to bring him back,but didn't make it,I just wanted to go with him,he was my one and only son I had,now I feel alone...and just can't accept he's gone...may the lord give you comfort and protect you,God bless.sorry for such a long message.
I lost my 33 years old lovey son on may 25 2021 also my little girl 7 years old on may 8th 2006 ....with in 15 years I lost 2 children, I am in lost pain ...please God keep my both kids safe and peace
Just lost my son Matthew suddenly there is a hole in my heart and in my life.... I miss him so very much and love him beyond words.... I pray God will fill this hole with him...I pray every time I think of my son the Lord will hug my son and tell him how much he’s loved💔💔💔💔💔
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** Tribute to Ethan Lakey ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
I feel the nightmare won’t end till I’m reunited with my daughter, it’s coming up to 6 months, it feels like it happened yesterday, you are all so strong coping with this awful pain for years I think you are all amazing amen
@@jacquelinestewart3820 i am so sorry!!! for me I don't even remember the first year after my son passed it is a longing for them that we will always have to live with and not many understand this pain all I can say is its a second at a time some days but in time the pain eases it is always there but not as raw one thing that helps me is there is no sense of time in heaven so that can't miss us like we miss them which I find comforting me and my son were always very close and I was so scared he misses me .I just keep begging God to spoil my son my faith helps but talk to God every day 🙏 😘sending my love and prayers
Sorry about your lost Debra! How are you doing now since it’s been over2years? Have you found something that has giving you peace and understanding? How child same age I lost my 18 years old unexpectedly 9/28/2022
This was eight years ago. When this was preached. And it lifted my spirits and I listen to it over & over!!! Still be used by God to let us know who have lost children That God loves us and has Got a plan and I am steady learning,”like we all are about our future with the lord. I’ve realized we need to live in spirit for God to be closer to our children now! Praise God!
I lost my 27 year old son Brandon September 30th 2018 and I am raising his only child.she is 3 years old now and I get through everyday but my heart is broke but i want to be happy again but i just dont know how without him he was my world.
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. Family Story Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day. My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening. That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are. Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you. His Story Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God. “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23) “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12) He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell. “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price] “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8) Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today! “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16) “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9) Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him. “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b) Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour! “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28) Your Story What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son. The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven. “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6) We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready? “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b) “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13) “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c) ****************************** Tribute to Ethan Lakey ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html
My heart breaks for you! I lost my son 2 years ago,unexpectedly! The loss of a child is a pain that you cannot put into words! You feel like you have been thrust unto a different planet that nobody understands you! It’s a pain that nobody can understand unless one has experienced themselves! Hugs! 💔💔💔
My son born 8-14-92, died tragically in a car accident in Plant City Florida. He was 28, he died instantly, no suffering. These words were beautiful, praying for everyone on here. 🙏❤️
At a moment of sadness I came across this video, I found it of great encouragement to watch a humble preacher tell his story. Well worth the watch. Thank you. Sent from Darlington England.
@@stevenblack838 hang in there its a second at a time and then an hour and then a day the pain is always there but it softens a little in time . We will never know why but I believe we will know when we are reunited with our loved one's ❤ 🙏 I personally believe we are wanted when we are called to Heaven even though God's plan doesn't make sense to us they were wanted for a beautiful reason!
I just lost my beautiful daughter on November 13th her name Danielle, I miss her so very much, would do anything to be with her, I’m so sorry for your pain and loss i know you’re pain it is just endless amen 🙏
I also lost my only one son Melvin Gilbert on August 18 ,2020 by an bike accident on his birthday. It was a sudden death. I can't accept he is no more. When I wake up in the morning I searched my son in his bed. But I found an empty. It is a big shock for me. My future is left. Now I'm living meaningless life. So God please help me to reunite with him in heaven.
Oh wow this truly touched and spoke to me. My son also died 21 years old and terrible motorcycle wreck. He died instantly. Thank you so much work sharing this. Thank you so much.
I just lost my 31 year old son, unexpectedly and suddenly on November 15, 2021. We had no warning or anything. We are still waiting on autopsy results to find out the cause of death. He not only left me behind, as his mother, but also a 2 year old daughter and 6 year old son along with his wife. Trying to find ways to come to terms and acceptance with this.
I lost my 29 year old son only 12 days ago. I am at the stage in my grief of still being in denial. If there is anything worse than losing my only child and missing him, it is the NOT KNOWING if he accepted the Lord. I am holding onto two things. One being that when he was a child he went to a neighborhood Vacation Bible School. A pastor visited my home one night to let us know that Tyler accepted Christ that night. I never saw growth in Tyler and when he became an adult, he questioned if God was real and the story of Salvation. On the outside to my human motherly eyes, he was not a Christian, BUT GOD gave me that memory of that Pastors visit, I think to comfort me. The 2nd hope that I have is that while Tyler was on a respirator that night and about to die, I whispered in his ear "I love you Tyler. Call out to Jesus " and at that very moment his heart stopped. I believe that God could have reached Tyler's soul in the final moment of unnsciousness and said "come to me".
Lost my son Brandon on 10th march 2020 and i resonate so much with this story same characters. I miss him n 3 yrs along the line the pain is still lije yesterday..thank you
So sorry for your pain and suffering, I lost my daughter in November, and it’s like every thing stopped, I’m finding it so difficult to cope with it feel like I could die crying.
when you know your son is dying and you are praying and whole church is praying and God doesnt react how does he expect me to love him....I cant do that and if and when my son dies my love for God is GONE.
I received a phone call 12/25/20 that my only son John had been found dead. Thank you for sharing your story God knows i needed to hear this. God i pray father that you lay your almighty hand of grace on all the parents that are hurting from this tragedy. Amen
I lost my only son August 3rd 2021..he was only 33..the pain is almost unbearable..my prayers are with anyone who has experienced any loss..I've experienced a few in my life but nothing has hurt me like losing my son..If I get through this, it will be only by the grace of God
I hear you clearly as my 35 son died in 2020! Prayers and hugs to you! 🙏🏼🙏🏼💔💔
@@pudik2008 Thank you so much! That means alot to me..Prayers and hugs to you also 🤍💛🤍💛
Oh No! How are you now ? Any helpful things has help you during this time?
I lost my only daughter child 5 months ago! The pain and grief is tremendous! I cry everyday
I think all of us that have lost a child have been visited by the Spirit of God. It has forced us to truly examine our lives and ask very important questions. We seek help and guidance when most are living a carefree existence in comparison. I do not envy those people, I thank God for my new awareness and daily prayer due to the horrible event. Bless us all.
I lost my wonderful son 9 weeks ago and my pain threatens to pull me under forever. I am unsure of his salvation. He was talking about God the last few weeks of his life. I have asked God to give me peace about it but I am tortured night and day with it. I wish I had died with my son.
Hi,sorry bout your son,I know how you feel,I just lost my baby Dec,5,23,and it's very hard..he was 27 yrs old..an ofcourse their our baby's regardless of how old they are,same kinda story my son went to the ER for stomach pain,my pastor had prayed for him the sinners prayer,and that night my son got admitted and at 3am my son went into cardiac arrest,and was in the ICU for bout 2 weeks,and my baby passed away,I watched them trying to bring him back,but didn't make it,I just wanted to go with him,he was my one and only son I had,now I feel alone...and just can't accept he's gone...may the lord give you comfort and protect you,God bless.sorry for such a long message.
I lost my 33 years old lovey son on may 25 2021 also my little girl 7 years old on may 8th 2006 ....with in 15 years I lost 2 children, I am in lost pain ...please God keep my both kids safe and peace
Just lost my son Matthew suddenly there is a hole in my heart and in my life.... I miss him so very much and love him beyond words.... I pray God will fill this hole with him...I pray every time I think of my son the Lord will hug my son and tell him how much he’s loved💔💔💔💔💔
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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I lost my boy 5 years ago the pain is indescribable..praying for all of you ❤
Four and a half years for me. Sometimes it's unbearable isn't it?
@@bradpoole400 it is. Its just a nightmare you can never wake up from😭 but I have no choice but to keep trying. Prayers for you 🙏
I feel the nightmare won’t end till I’m reunited with my daughter, it’s coming up to 6 months, it feels like it happened yesterday, you are all so strong coping with this awful pain for years I think you are all amazing amen
@@jacquelinestewart3820 i am so sorry!!! for me I don't even remember the first year after my son passed it is a longing for them that we will always have to live with and not many understand this pain all I can say is its a second at a time some days but in time the pain eases it is always there but not as raw one thing that helps me is there is no sense of time in heaven so that can't miss us like we miss them which I find comforting me and my son were always very close and I was so scared he misses me .I just keep begging God to spoil my son my faith helps but talk to God every day 🙏 😘sending my love and prayers
I lost my son. My heart goes out to you. 🙏😔🌹
Just lost my baby of 16 years, September 11, 2020, my whole world, the pain is so severe!!🙏🙏🙏
Oh Deb my heart aches for u I've lost a daughter and son what did we do to deserve this pain ur not on ur own I wish I knew u x
So sorry for your immense loss ....May God bless you all with strength & peace 🙏🏻❤
Prayers ,....
Sorry about your lost Debra!
How are you doing now since it’s been over2years? Have you found something that has giving you peace and understanding?
How child same age I lost my 18 years old unexpectedly 9/28/2022
I just lost my boy 19. My life is over. There's no me without my baby. I'm now understand this type of grief that I have always feared.
This was eight years ago. When this was preached. And it lifted my spirits and I listen to it over & over!!! Still be used by God to let us know who have lost children
That God loves us and has Got a plan and I am steady learning,”like we all are about our future with the lord. I’ve realized we need to live in spirit for God to be closer to our children now! Praise God!
I lost my 27 year old son Brandon September 30th 2018 and I am raising his only child.she is 3 years old now and I get through everyday but my heart is broke but i want to be happy again but i just dont know how without him he was my world.
My daughter is gone, exactly 2 months today. Just 19 yrs young. My pain is real - endless pain 💔😞😞💔. The loss of a child is unbearable.
I'd like to share my best friend's story with you.
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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My heart breaks for you! I lost my son 2 years ago,unexpectedly! The loss of a child is a pain that you cannot put into words! You feel like you have been thrust unto a different planet that nobody understands you! It’s a pain that nobody can understand unless one has experienced themselves! Hugs! 💔💔💔
I just lost my son Jack 18 y a week ago I feel so much pain
@@leanneobrien4235 : my love and sympathy for you. The pain and sadness is real.
@@leanneobrien4235 I’m so sorry, I lost my son 3 weeks ago .
One of the best sermon/testimony I've ever heard
GOD bless this man and his family
I lost my son 26 , Matthew, just what i needed, sending love light❤️
Our Brian, born Dec 1992 Fatal car accident December 11, 2019 I needed this 🙏🏼
@@amandamurphy3002 I can’t even describe how painful it is to live without him
My son died of cancer at age 17. God's love is inescapable. I think the challenge is us not feeling we're Worthy of it.
My son born 8-14-92, died tragically in a car accident in Plant City Florida. He was 28, he died instantly, no suffering. These words were beautiful, praying for everyone on here. 🙏❤️
@@laurajones7476 sending you love and prayers 🙏🏼
@@Clymers1984 Thank you so much 🙏
Lost our baby girl. December 30 12019. My heart is forever broken.
We just lost our youngest son age 42 ...on November 25, 2020 suddenly and we are grieving deeply. I am trying to get through this.
My son died too, February 22, 2021.
How painful for each of us. Pain is so great, I want to believe God is bigger.
Praying for you and your family
At a moment of sadness I came across this video, I found it of great encouragement to watch a humble preacher tell his story. Well worth the watch. Thank you. Sent from Darlington England.
Gem, thanks so much for your kind comment. I'm glad you were encouraged, and I pray the Lord continues to touch your heart. :-)
I lost my daughter Danielle only 15 days ago. I'm trying to understand why we lost her. This helps me at this sad time. Gourock. Scotland.
@@stevenblack838 hang in there its a second at a time and then an hour and then a day the pain is always there but it softens a little in time . We will never know why but I believe we will know when we are reunited with our loved one's ❤ 🙏 I personally believe we are wanted when we are called to Heaven even though God's plan doesn't make sense to us they were wanted for a beautiful reason!
I just lost my beautiful daughter on November 13th her name Danielle, I miss her so very much, would do anything to be with her, I’m so sorry for your pain and loss i know you’re pain it is just endless amen 🙏
I also lost my only one son Melvin Gilbert on August 18 ,2020 by an bike accident on his birthday. It was a sudden death. I can't accept he is no more. When I wake up in the morning I searched my son in his bed. But I found an empty. It is a big shock for me. My future is left. Now I'm living meaningless life. So God please help me to reunite with him in heaven.
Thank you for sharing your story. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you. My only child passed away Jan 2 2021. 🙏💙
So sorry Gia I lost my sweet daughter on February 26 2021 my heart is broken. So sorry for your loss and my condolences 🙏
Oh wow this truly touched and spoke to me. My son also died 21 years old and terrible motorcycle wreck. He died instantly. Thank you so much work sharing this. Thank you so much.
Probably the most powerful sermon I've ever heard
I just lost my 31 year old son, unexpectedly and suddenly on November 15, 2021. We had no warning or anything. We are still waiting on autopsy results to find out the cause of death. He not only left me behind, as his mother, but also a 2 year old daughter and 6 year old son along with his wife. Trying to find ways to come to terms and acceptance with this.
Hi,i lost my son on December 5,2023 and it's very hard for me,without my baby,he was 27 yrs old,please pray for me,my name is Victor...Sacramento.
I lost my 29 year old son only 12 days ago. I am at the stage in my grief of still being in denial. If there is anything worse than losing my only child and missing him, it is the NOT KNOWING if he accepted the Lord. I am holding onto two things. One being that when he was a child he went to a neighborhood Vacation Bible School. A pastor visited my home one night to let us know that Tyler accepted Christ that night. I never saw growth in Tyler and when he became an adult, he questioned if God was real and the story of Salvation. On the outside to my human motherly eyes, he was not a Christian, BUT GOD gave me that memory of that Pastors visit, I think to comfort me. The 2nd hope that I have is that while Tyler was on a respirator that night and about to die, I whispered in his ear "I love you Tyler. Call out to Jesus " and at that very moment his heart stopped. I believe that God could have reached Tyler's soul in the final moment of unnsciousness and said "come to me".
HE made us high enough to get it... HE makes HIMSELF known to each of us, there's no doubt about it.
Lost my son Brandon on 10th march 2020 and i resonate so much with this story same characters. I miss him n 3 yrs along the line the pain is still lije yesterday..thank you
Sorry for your loss
A beautiful truth...a beautiful testimony
We lost our beautiful daughter December 2020. I am very broken and the pain is almost unbearable. Thank you for your message.
@@darlenenisley1505 the pain is something u can't describe it makes u wonder how u breath or put one foot before the other x
How could he slap Adam if he was put in Adam’s place he would have done the same !!!
So sorry for your pain and suffering, I lost my daughter in November, and it’s like every thing stopped, I’m finding it so difficult to cope with it feel like I could die crying.
I Can and Do Relate to This Sweet Sir. Thank You.🙏
My Daughter transitioned March 21, 2021. She was 35 years old. They say it gets easier...For me it's getting worse😢
Just lost my 20 yr old son on 10/23/21 the pain😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
Well said. I Love You, Mitchell. Dad
Beautiful.
May God bless you and your family.
That looks like a really nice Telecaster.
Thank you.
I just lost my sweet son on June 7, 2023 and I’m not coping at all.
can't focus on the video, too overwhelmed,
grief and stress and rage and terror and exhaustion:
rape my soul...
when you know your son is dying and you are praying and whole church is praying and God doesnt react how does he expect me to love him....I cant do that and if and when my son dies my love for God is GONE.
Amen and Ahmein