Episode 1: Handling the Loss of a Child-Grief Relief TV

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  • Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
  • "Open to Hope Handling the Loss of a Child" with guests Patricia Loder, Dr. Ken Druck, Chris Donohoe and hosts Dr. Heidi Horsley and Dr. Gloria Horsley. Pat Loder of The Compassionate Friends discusses the Compassionate Friends and her loss as a parent, Ken Druck discusses the loss of daughter Jenna and the Center he went on to find, The Jenna Druck Center which serves teenagers and their families. Guest Chris Donohoe shares his gift of song and his story of healing after the death of his brother.

Комментарии • 43

  • @zenobiaoree6898
    @zenobiaoree6898 8 месяцев назад +1

    I lost my son october 2022, i was working at the time, and had to go back out to work, my bosses were nice to me financially, but suprising was not emotionally, they were expecting me in a space of two months i should be fine, mostly coming from my female boss. I left them the coming year 2023. My high blood pressure was coming most of the time high, i had to stay away from my job, due to lack of pressure that i have to get over quickly the lost of my son. So thank you for this program, and the love you all put out to everyone that is in this situation.❤

  • @loce2874
    @loce2874 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for the words of encouragement ,iam grieving the loss of my forever busy with schoolwork,full time job,nanny to my youngest 2 yrs old daughter,that’s my son Marcus Maphela ho passed in a car accident 28 April 2023,thank you for d profound message that I cannot b fixed but I must live a meaningful life embracing my earthly 2 daughters and heavenly 21 yrs old boy,thank you Dieketseng in South Africa,Pretoria,God is my great comforter

    • @chericollins4
      @chericollins4 6 месяцев назад

      I am sorry for the losses of all these lovely people and their grieving parents, siblings too. I lost my daughter Candice 8/19/22 I grieve her memory everyday. She was 29. I know her brother and sister Janelle and Michael Alexis grieve as well. Her son Cayden is 12 and Janelle has raised him up to be an amazingly well adjusted boy. Andrew her nephew my grandson lost his Aunt Candice and he was close to her her last year, so little ones need care too. I hope I can share these books and programs to help them as well

  • @sandrakirk4781
    @sandrakirk4781 2 года назад +13

    I just lost my son November 23 this year he was 49 years old my grieving is coming in to waves and it will be like that probably for the rest of my days no parent should ever have to go through this and no Parent should ever have to bury their child at any age😩

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 2 года назад

      Please allow me to share my best friend's story with you. This family knows where to turn in times of grief.
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html

  • @cedricmaureenchannel7805
    @cedricmaureenchannel7805 3 года назад +5

    I use this day as an expression of my love for my only son gone too soon. Always in my heart. But it’s always hurts too.

    • @Claudia-dw3zl
      @Claudia-dw3zl 2 года назад +1

      Sorry to hear that. Your son is inpeace with the Lord. 🙌🏼

  • @kimsheaffer3229
    @kimsheaffer3229 4 года назад +6

    💛🕊💛WE JUST LOST OUR 29 YEARS OLD DAUGHTER 33 DAYS AGO TO A DROWNING 💛🕊💛MY 6 year old granddaughter watched this💛🕊💛NEITHER OF THEM COULD SWIM AND WE WERE TRYING TO TEACH THEM A MONTH BEFORE 💛🕊💛WE LOST OUR SON 8 years ago TO A MOBILE HOME ACCIDENT CRUSHING HIM TO HIS DEATH💛🕊💛THE JACKS AND CONCRETE BLOCKS SUNK AND SANK INTO THE SAND💛🕊💛HE WAS UNDER IT MEASURING SOMETHING💛🕊💛HE JUST HAD HIS FIRST CHILD AND GOT TO HOLD HER FOR 2WEEKS💛🕊💛WE KNOW THE STRUGGLE IS REAL AND FINDING THIS ON RUclips IS INCREDIBLE💛🕊💛THANKYOU FOR BEING HERE FOR ALL OF US💛🕊💛

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 2 года назад

      Kim, I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with yours, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html

    • @Toodledooo
      @Toodledooo Год назад

      @@kelleymcfadden9675 i wish you would stop flooding every grief channel with your friend’s story…..

    • @Toodledooo
      @Toodledooo Год назад

      @Kim. That is so tragic. Im so sorry for about your loss and pain.

  • @mrsinkzn
    @mrsinkzn 3 года назад +3

    My sister lost her only son due to depression nd he went down a dark path of substance abuse,altho he was my sister’s son he was also my very own son as well,he died 2 weeks ago nd the Pain for my sister is totally unbearable,we have to watch her nd pretend that we are strong enough for her,He was young,not married so we don’t even have a child of his, it’s very difficult as my sister cries almost every moment, she still says that it’s not him,the denial she’s going thru as we can’t even use the word ( he died ) around her, but i do believe that God will give her nd all of us the strength to deal with this loss, Thank you God

    • @sharlaneb9545
      @sharlaneb9545 2 года назад +3

      This sounds like someone wrote about me. My passed 6 weeks ago. I’m not in denial but I cry every day and it’s hard to feel normal. My son was 24 and never married. Also had no kids. My life feels awful! This pain is unbearable!!! Praying does help. I wake up to this nightmare everyday!!!

  • @maryjanebrant
    @maryjanebrant 12 лет назад +6

    I was very touched watching Dr. Heidi Horsley and her daughter Dr. Gloria Horsley talk about the pain of losing a child and a sibling. Having real mom and daughter speak about their loss and their tireless commitment to survival for themselves and for others and by interviewing such wonderful people on this video gives all of us who have lost a child a hope that yes, if they can make it, we can, too.

  • @deekircher21
    @deekircher21 4 года назад +6

    Even though this video is old, the info is still relevant

  • @jeannecroghan8811
    @jeannecroghan8811 7 лет назад +5

    God Bless them all. They are amazing!

  • @hongyantang7986
    @hongyantang7986 6 лет назад +17

    After lost my son. I fell so difficult to answer the question as how many kids do you have? I don't want to exclude the one I lost and do not like to tell that I lost one as well.

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 2 года назад +2

      My heart goes out to you! I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with yours, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      ruclips.net/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/видео.html

    • @Claudia-dw3zl
      @Claudia-dw3zl 2 года назад

      Wow Kelley what a powerful testimony. Praise God Almighty.

    • @Gina19876
      @Gina19876 Год назад

      I say I have 6 and one of those are in the afterlife.

  • @arulnathanl9863
    @arulnathanl9863 3 года назад +3

    I lost my only one son Melvin Gilbert on his birthday 18.8.2020 in a bike accident.He is just 20 only. My precious child Melvin gone to soon.Now my house is empty and darkness. Parents we are living in a meaningless life. Without him no future, my future is left. God please save a place for me to reunite with him soon.

    • @cedricmaureenchannel7805
      @cedricmaureenchannel7805 3 года назад

      I just lost my only son 20 years old. I suffer with you

    • @arulnathanl9863
      @arulnathanl9863 3 года назад +2

      @@cedricmaureenchannel7805 🕊🕊 Heaven got two angels.🙏🙏🙏

    • @laurieoneil1330
      @laurieoneil1330 3 года назад

      Your pain breaks my heart. I lost my 16 year old grandson in an accident. Know your not alone and I send you all my love

    • @arulnathanl9863
      @arulnathanl9863 3 года назад

      @@laurieoneil1330 Thank you Amma. 🙏🙏🙏(amma -mother)

  • @nancywaddell1546
    @nancywaddell1546 3 года назад +1

    Be lost my 2 oldest Daughter with in 2 and half years apart. Ages 51 and 53. Last week we layed my 53 year old rest . I just want to wake up it be a bad dream. I think of both of them and all I can Is cry .and turn to god .god has them in heaven together my girls was so close . they loved. Jesus so much . God bless you all hold on to the rest of your children you have. Make memories with them ypurgrand children .. And I pray god hold me ..so I can help my family het thru losing there sisters and. There mates they left behind tpgref

  • @savahbejin7511
    @savahbejin7511 4 года назад +7

    We lost our daughter eight years ago in a car accident. She was in a car accident. My life stopped on that day.

  • @CarolynWilliams-fk6ep
    @CarolynWilliams-fk6ep 6 месяцев назад

    This past year my Son michael and i were going on Dec 10 f0r his brother David we didnt make it,instead he was in the burn unit.he passed at 121am on the 11th he was 40 i am beyond ahnialated 💔💔

  • @margyritchie2702
    @margyritchie2702 3 года назад +2

    It's a f***ing nightmare. My son Michael had autism and was a wonderful person. Everyone loved him! He met someone who did speed at his mental health group. He started doing speed and overdosed and died. I can't believe it! I miss him so much. My son died in 2019 then my husband died in 2020! I'm so alone. I think I have PTSD I'm so nervous and miserable. Thank God for my pets. They're all I have now!

    • @laurieoneil1330
      @laurieoneil1330 3 года назад +1

      God bless you. My heart goes out to you

    • @margyritchie2702
      @margyritchie2702 3 года назад

      @@laurieoneil1330 Thank you

    • @Claudia-dw3zl
      @Claudia-dw3zl 2 года назад

      Is hard but you are not miserable. Praying will get us through.

  • @shakitabond4139
    @shakitabond4139 2 года назад +1

    This is my first time watching.
    My name is shakita from Baltimore city and I lost my pudd short for pudding (zariea Dixon ) she was one when she was taken from me and her other siblings and this is the most painful thing I've been thru besides my aunt vi whom was a mother to me left me and a fiance witch I thought were the worst feeling in the world until 10/08/2020 at 8:03pm when the call from my brother came say she was none responsive as I and my new friend were cleaning the place we were going to bring the girl to take them to.
    And I've been fighting everyday to move think breath put on a show in so many words and when ppl would say things like I'm sorry for your lose I reply would be are you do know what I'm going through feeling hopeless on top of hopeless ness the what ifs the why's and how can I help my children when I can't understand why things are the way they and I find myself getting angry when I can't stop the pain my 9 year old is feeling not because I don't want to I can't it hurts so bad. I don't know what to do .

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 2 года назад

      Shakita, Jesus loves you so much! I'd like to share my best friend's story with you, not to compare her experience with yours, but to help you find true peace, comfort and hope. God bless you!
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find our contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
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  • @shirleysarradet9486
    @shirleysarradet9486 Год назад

    Switch is right. I have never heard that before. I love to know that I can make a choice. It is time for me to love me, while missing beautiful Paul, beautiful Maria.

  • @shirleysarradet9486
    @shirleysarradet9486 Год назад

    I just see that this is 10 years ago!!

  • @glory1star
    @glory1star Год назад

    Sorry for all these lost 😢Life sometimes is unfair.
    I lost my daughter only daughter age 18 in September she was a freshman at UC her and her roommate was walking to campus in a mark crosswalk and teen driver whom stole a car hit both of them unfortunately my roommate didn’t survive her injuries. I’m heart broken 💔

  • @toniagilmore5231
    @toniagilmore5231 7 месяцев назад

    I don’t know how they do it I lost my daughter and I don’t know how these ladies do this my daughter died 10 years ago and it still hasn’t gotten easier

  • @blingeefairy
    @blingeefairy 3 года назад +1

    Some people need to apply their own advice regarding grief and ''getting over it'' to themselves when death knocks on their family's door. Nobody is special. Everybody will lose loved ones in life. You are dealt one card today and another tomorrow. So learn to stand on your own two feet, love yourself and love others. Be light.