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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 59

  • @kelvinnguyen6048
    @kelvinnguyen6048 4 года назад +8

    My dude. Stay strong. I see a hard shell and a soft passionate soul. Qualities of a True Warrior.

  • @preppsterswag
    @preppsterswag 4 года назад +9

    You really are a role model for Black Men. Thanks for showing that it’s okay for Black men to show when they’re vulnerable and dealing with mental health. I really hope you go far with whatever you do. I hope to find a man like you ❤️.

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад +2

      Thank you so much, that’s nice to hear. Hopefully my videos help others. 🖤🖤

  • @camilabelle9741
    @camilabelle9741 4 года назад +6

    Thank you for your transparency,

  • @chriswilliams7824
    @chriswilliams7824 3 года назад +5

    It's cool this man was open about his challenges and pinpointed the need and benefits of reaching out for support. Salute🇺🇸🙏🏿 Respect.

  • @rcrose8
    @rcrose8 4 года назад +5

    Thank you for being so real and vulnerable...you are an inspiration! I’m starting the process to join the Air Guard as an officer. Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏

  • @Brigurl323
    @Brigurl323 4 года назад +5

    I’m so glad you’re keeping things real. I feel like as soon as you mention “mental health” or “therapy” people look at you funny. I’ve needed/ gone to mental health since last October, made a world of difference for me 🙌🏻

  • @MsMKNK
    @MsMKNK 4 года назад +6

    This is awesome! I’m so happy you spoke on this especially as a man.. Take care ❤️

  • @christinaedwards275
    @christinaedwards275 4 года назад +5

    And I’m glad you went to seek support (friends/therapy) Grateful for your support system!

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад

      Thank you sis! And i'm definitely grateful for the people I have in my life.

  • @deek1034
    @deek1034 4 года назад +5

    Real talk bro, I been slacking on my mental health too, low key needed a nudge to seek getting help. I appreciate it💯 WELCOME BACK 🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад +2

      Thanks a lot bro. Mental Health is extremely important and without you and the rest of the family, I wouldn't have got the help I needed.

  • @joiagenae
    @joiagenae 4 года назад +4

    Aww Jay, I just wanna give you a hug. This was def a much needed video. Even if you aren't in the military you can relate. So glad you are doing better. Thank you for being transparent 🙏🏾

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад +1

      ❤️❤️ Thank you so much! I’m really glad people are enjoying the video. I wanted to be as open as possible and just talk about things that really matter.

  • @deebrooks7425
    @deebrooks7425 4 года назад +4

    Good to see you back at it on RUclips! I'm so glad that you took the BOLD action of speaking about mental health on your channel. A lot of people need to know that is is OK to seek help when they need it, and not be ashamed of it. Thanks for sharing!❤

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much!!! I'm glad I looked past all the negativity around mental health, because I'm now in a better place.

  • @scarvello
    @scarvello 4 года назад +4

    Much respect sir this message can be a blessing to those who are going through the same struggles 💪

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад

      Prechiate that! Hopefully this video can help a few people 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @oloveless1667
    @oloveless1667 4 года назад +4

    Hey man first time stumbling upon your videos. You speak it how it is and I can relate to a lot of what you’re expressing. As an up and coming PJ soon I respect you brother and know you’re not alone. Thank you for showing us how you feel. It takes a real man to show emotion and cry and know when to get help,
    Be strong brother!

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад

      Hey thanks for watching and hopefully you subscribed. Being a PJ is a pretty tough job. So you’ll definitely need to make sure your mental health is good.

  • @Britt-q1q
    @Britt-q1q 4 года назад +4

    Glad to see you're doing well ! I enjoy those car karaoke snaps 😂 keep your head up ✊🏿🖤

  • @TellEmTBo32
    @TellEmTBo32 4 года назад +3

    LETS GET IT!!! Welcome back and this video is hella dope. Y’all will get GREAT INFO HERE!!!

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад +2

      I'm finally back bro!!! Thanks for pushing me!

  • @ryancruz2732
    @ryancruz2732 4 года назад +4

    Appreciate your real talk from the heart.

  • @cheyennecontreras304
    @cheyennecontreras304 5 месяцев назад

    Amazing video!!! I’m briefing mental health and found this useful. Thank you for sharing.

  • @k_moniique
    @k_moniique 4 года назад +3

    This video was needed. Thank you for being so open ❤❤

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад

      I'm glad to hear you enjoyed it! I'm just glad I could share with other people.

  • @christinaedwards275
    @christinaedwards275 4 года назад +2

    You’re back!! Thank you for touching up on mental health, and the stigmas behind it. Keep pushing bro!! 👏🏽

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад

      Thank you sis! Hopefully I can keep pushing and hopefully help more people understand that it's not a bad thing.

  • @shaycormaic5365
    @shaycormaic5365 4 года назад +3

    Great video it doesn't matter what branch your in everywon can have ptsd great video glad this is getting reccomend to people keep preaching the good word 😊

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад

      Thank you for watching and I’m glad you liked it. People don’t understand what PTSD is, and it’s sad. This video spoke on mental health as a whole, not just PTSD and a lot of people are upset. But i guess it comes with the territory. I really do want to thank you for your comment, it truly means a lot ❤️💙🙏🏾

  • @MayaD773
    @MayaD773 4 года назад +7

    Normalize black men seeking therapy yes Lord

  • @nelsonerika
    @nelsonerika 4 года назад +3

    Glad to see that your safe man!😊

  • @markeadaniels1604
    @markeadaniels1604 4 года назад +4

    Welcome back to RUclips!! Glad you're ok!

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад +1

      Thank you! And yeah I’m still pushing!

    • @markeadaniels1604
      @markeadaniels1604 4 года назад +1

      @@21ShadesOfJayyYes, keep pushing!! Your RUclips fans are rooting for you! You can get through this!

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @southrealm9996
    @southrealm9996 4 года назад +3

    Good to see you bacc brotha

  • @london2895
    @london2895 4 года назад +3

    Loved the video, you gave great advice 👍🏾

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад

      Thanks a lot! I 'm really glad you enjoyed it.

  • @jade924_
    @jade924_ 4 года назад +4

    LOL u and that jesus christ video!!!! Good to see you back on here! your videos are so helpful! Take care

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад +1

      Lol i tried my best to make that video funny. I’m glad you enjoyed. Thanks for watching my videos!!!!!!!

  • @kameronkassidy2826
    @kameronkassidy2826 4 года назад +3

    Definitely needed to watch this

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад

      Thanks for watching! Hopefully it was so good information.

  • @theefifthelement
    @theefifthelement 4 года назад +3

    💙

  • @19kmedia95
    @19kmedia95 4 года назад +3

    If I sign up for 4 year after the 4 years are up can I leave and than just go to college full time? Cuz after my 4 years I want to do college full time and live a normal life.

  • @BrandonTheTrucker
    @BrandonTheTrucker 4 года назад +3

    And that thumbnail official lol

    • @21ShadesOfJayy
      @21ShadesOfJayy  4 года назад +1

      LOL that thumbnail took me HOURSSSS LOL. And I had to get help from a friend, but it came out great!

  • @papillo5138
    @papillo5138 Год назад

    Air Force wont kick you out .. but will kick a MEB if you’re in treatment more than a year … so kinda YES you can get medical discharge.. case by case

  • @0ldSk00L510
    @0ldSk00L510 3 года назад +4

    Blows my mind How tf are you allowed to have a beard? Goddamn been in the wrong branch all this time 😂😂😆😆

    • @Jmb90
      @Jmb90 3 года назад

      @Old_Skool510
      😂🤣😂

  • @DaStrangeWeasel
    @DaStrangeWeasel 3 года назад +2

    You still seem pretty miserable, dude. I think you just need something to occupy yourself; keep your mind/body busy enough & you won't have time or energy to stress.