I have to say I feel I'm very experienced person in meeting women but I'm 67 and never been married I have to say you really nailed it anyone reading this comment listen to this guy
Casey nailed it. This is bar none the best explanation of inner game. Most men have approach anxiety because they’re crippled with fear and self-doubt. Women are intuitive and can sense lack of confidence, which is the biggest turnoff, from miles away.
Push thru guys... build confidence thru actively trying. Men with the most success, have the most fails. Period. Stay healthy, dont take rejection personally, work on your sense of humor, have projects you are busy with. Have a career. Dress clean, sharp. Dont try to be some trendy fashion dude. Know something about history, art, politics, culture, finances... so you can carry on a conversation. Relax, speak softly. Invest your money. Make a woman excited to spend time with you. Learn to be a good lover as time passes. Dont waste emotional time on rejection or envy. Move forward, always... and lastly, be a man that cares, takes responsibility, has integrity. Thanks. 😊
@/// Mᴏᴅ Bᴏᴘ Bᴇᴀᴛ ... ah... being able to have a decent convo doesn't matter? Hopefully she feels the same, you'll just make grunting noise to each other 🥸
Be ready, to lose friends, family, and anyone who you thought had your back. People who don't want to better themselves will try to bring you down because you are putting in the work that they don't want to.
She will be open to you when you have mastered yourself. Like a magnet she will be drawn to your energy because you will radiate the right vibration of success. When you do the hard work on yourself you won't even care if it doesn't work out with her. You'll always be strong enough to be happy alone.
I needed to hear this. Already in shape, but my finances need work and this is exactly right. There's always an underlying feeling of anxiety when approaching because of this...
The approach before the approach… he nailed it. Getting ripped was the best choice I ever made in my life. This led me to quit drinking which also changed my life. Confidence soared and the chicks roared.
I took the motorcycle less to work and ride a bike more ( 10 speed style with drop bars) I lost a stomach that I was getting and the drop bar position works that ass which I had girls give me compliments. I'm 45, but look a lot younger from exercise and eating right. Your videos are solid gold, brother!
Very good advise. I'd like to add two elements that are also causing unnecessary stress and need to brought in order as a prerequisite: 1. clean up, declutter. Having a clean home = peace of mind. Looking at piles of paperwork undone, a cramped home which screams "you can't relex as long as you haven't done the work of decluttering me" nags on you pretty hard. This is true also for everything you pile up for "later", which can be the unread articles that are opened in the 50 browser tabs still open, this could be the "watch later" list in RUclips. Think what fits in a day, what fits in a life and make decisions in every moment to not overload yourself. 2. get rid of people that make you feel that you need to "perform". That includes the job. If you have a job with a ton of online meetings (= performing on stage in front of a camera) and then (thinking you need to) "perform" in your spare time stressed one crazy and ill.
The underlying message is that you gotta love yourself first if you want to be loved. You get back from others what you give to yourself. There is no cheatcode.
I have been this way being genuine with positive spirit no matter what I went through... I don't have approach anxiety unless I think about it too much and get in my head. This is the difference I had from the men out there.
I’ve reached borderline alpha status, and I don’t even care about money anymore, Casey. Thanks to you, it has amplified. So, I need a video on how to be a cold approach pick up con artist without money.
its true, did some hard gym time a few years ago and women who were pretty much out of my league my whole life started flirting with me, it was odd, had to learn to adjust
I am in love with your work... No bull shit... So much truth... Just one thing that pains and idk how to get rid of it and i would honestly be grateful if u could make a video on it... That in short u are saying girls love the good things... But that's exactly what discourages me and holds me back thinking what if all this is taken away and since it's conditional love... I should treat them the same way.
I must say Casey, as I'm Muslim and we get propsed for marriage not relationships, I'm in university and have clothing exporting business and also transportation. I am learning martial arts and have skincare routine . Compared to previous years, now a days l, in university, neighborhood, acquaintances, all approach me and keep asking if i am single or planning to find a wife.
@@AM-tn4om He's getting approached by women of value. He's laughing at you. Also I see you don't know the difference between 'your' and 'you're'... 😅😅 good luck texting a woman with your grammar.
In my case was doing this 3 years ago.. Aproach girl and say hi how are you.. Gave her chocolate from my pocket, she was shy and start blushing in face but at the end she accept conversation with me and everything was perfect, she gave me her number and 3 days later we had first date, was in relationship with her 2 years. Muscles are nothing if you don't have what to say
Working on the body, for sure. As of last week, I’ve been going to the gym for an hour a day, 5-7 times a week for the last year. Unfortunately putting away a year’s worth of money is a bit beyond my capabilities with the job I’m working. I have some ideas for supplemental income that would be reliable if it worked out the way I want it, but those ideas have yet to materialize. The career I’m pursuing is hit or miss.
How to approach women 1.focus on gym 2 .become financially stable ..beacuse when you don't have that much amount of money it will reflect on you're face you will always think that should I able to provide her beacuse I don't have proper money so first have much money if you have money it will be seen in confidance tahts it 3.like that who you are and what you become ...only focus on 3 points .. beacuse if you focus on game and other verbal tricks❤ ..it will take you for 20-30 min but if you build yourself like this it will be really better you're flirt also looks better.. 4.if you look strong and powerful ...you should be individual who can protect and provide ...if you follow above 3 steps looks ..money ...and you're status .... confidance will automatically reflect on you're face
He just said there are NO HACKS, that there must be congruence and discipline and at the end: „My secret HACK to unlimited girls in your pipeline.....” ....
yup, i never liked it, always resented that one-sided gender dynamic and im sure tons of other guys in the world feel the same way, on how for all time, guys have always had to be the ones to do the approaching, have to be the ones to talk to girls first, the reason why society or women, or just the world view men as being weak for not being able to approach or talk to a woman first is because, women know that men have to risk rejection by walking over and talking to them, introducing themselves first, and women feel that if a man can't handle the possibility of being rejected by a woman after interacting with her, asking her out, how will he then be able to handle the world for her, or handle other rough things the world will throw his way.
Casey, you should seriously considered, why you are not doing your videos right infront of that beautiful fire place you have right there in the corner. With a big fire going showing you just absorbing its energy and also giving the viewers the sight of all that energy in your videos. It would make a big difference in adding more energy to your videos. Nothing really compares to sitting next to a good fire and absorbing that energy. You really should it would add alot of value to your videos more than you obviously think.
There is something called twin flame. The divine musculine will meet and stay with the divine feminine. Too bad you are not awaken enough to see it. Much to learn you have Cassey.
I TOTALLY 100% agree with everything you are saying here Casey! THIS is exactly what NEEDS to happen in order to attract a TRULY High Quality woman to you... Unfortunately, since I will probably never actually be able to get to that point in my life, especially not financially, unless I could actually find another job or career entirely, that I actually truly loved to do AND that paid WAY more than the job I have now does, but since the job I do now is the ONLY real useable skill that I really know anything about, it is what I've done for over 30 years now, but it just doesn't give me the kind of income needed to actually get ahead with my finances, it ONLY gives me enough each month to pay my rent, basic utilities, car insurance, and phone bill, (both of the latter I need for work too, otherwise I wouldn't have them), but making only about $12K/year on average, is NEVER going to allow me to get "2 years of cash" ahead, heck, not even 2 MONTHS ahead, for that matter!... But my job is really the ONLY thing that keeps me from being totally homeless and on the street, so I'm thankful for what I do have at least, because I know a LOT of people out there don't even have a decent roof over their head, so I keep working at my job because I don't EVER want to be homeless and on the street, because I see that it's a VERY difficult life to live that way on a regular basis! Anyway, this is one of the bigger reasons why I've pretty much totally given up on women and went completely MGTOW now... And it's ALSO a really good thing (a "blessing in disguise"), that I've NEVER had a GF or ANY kind of relationship or intimate interactions with a girl before either, because I don't even know what all I'm missing out on, so it's ultimately for the best, I guess... At least unless maybe something MAJOR and DRASTIC happens in my life, that ultimately allows me to make MUCH more money, but I have absolutely NO idea what that even could be, mainly because I have no other REAL useful skills.
@@martinsvensson6884 I'm not sure even HOW to start my own business, OR even if I actually could, since I don't know ANYTHING about business OR computers OR how to do "online videos" and such. I am a practical hands on guy, and what I specialize in is low voltage electrical and home theater systems, etc. Although even after 30 years of doing this type of work overall, I am still only a "helper" because I have a learning disability, (A.S.D.), and I just don't know or understand enough of the "bigger picture" or overall scope of a job enough to ever be a lead tech OR to ever go out on my own and do this type of work by myself. I only know how to "do things exactly like I'm told", kind of like a programmable "robot", and even though I'm good at very specific individual tasks, I don't have the ability to comprehend the grand scheme of how the project will be best accomplished... That's why I'm still only a helper, even after all these years of "experience", and I'm still making just barely above minimum wage. But that's all that I am worth to the company because of my limitations. But I have been working with this same company for over 25 years now and they at least know about and tolerate my issues, and at least they keep me from being totally homeless and on the street, so I have to be thankful for that much at least. And, even IF I actually could figure out some way to start a "side business" on my own, or maybe try to "teach" people about what I know in this field somehow, I don't actually know ENOUGH about it to actually be a helpful and effective teacher... PLUS, this type of work isn't even really my TRUE "passion" either, I don't believe, I kinda just started doing it because an opportunity to do it came along when I was young, impressionable, and I had no real direction in my life, so I thought I might should at least try it for a while, especially after being fired from literally dozens of jobs before that because of my issues with ASD. (That was at a time in my younger life before I even knew exactly what condition I had. I was always just known as being "awkward" and "weird", or "creepy" by women, and I've always had social interaction issues because of it, which of course doesn't help in jobs, because in almost every job you have to regularly interact with others in a way so as NOT to piss them off, otherwise you'll most likely get fired, and since I can't work on a job by myself either because I need to be told or shown how to do things step by step, working alone doesn't work for me either. I'm kinda just stuck where I am now. I'm not totally happy or "fulfilled" in life, but I also know my situation could be significantly worse also, so I just keep on plugging on from day to day.
@@JoeJ-8282 Noones situation is perfect. But you dont seem to have any problems expressing yourself in writing at least. Are you sure you're not just giving up to early and blaming everything on a diagnose someone gave you? Maybe you need to find your own ways in how to learn stuff and figure things out. Maybe you just need more time.
@@martinsvensson6884 I guess I'm pretty good at expressing myself in writing, but that's because it LITERALLY takes me at LEAST about 100 TIMES as long to say what is on my mind in writing than it does when actually talking with someone face to face, because writing actually gives me enough time to really think about exactly what I want to say AND how I want to say it, but in person talking with someone, I just come across as really weird, awkward, and shy, at least at first, plus I'm just extremely slow in my overall comprehension of things. IDK how long it took you to read this entire reply, but maybe just a few seconds? (It took me about 20 minutes to write just these two short paragraphs here, if that gives you an idea of what I have to do, time-wise, to actually communicate with anyone in an effective and articulate manner.)
@@JoeJ-8282 I have some of the same tendencies. Maybe not quite as much as you then but I like to ponder what I write thoroughly too. Or else I dont get the points across correctly. I've never really seen it as a problem though. Other people answer much quicker than me also. Or other things. Spend less time doing it. But its seldom very thought trough either... Just look at all the crap people do or write that they havent even cared to think through properly. Even if it took you a while you still ended up writing a much better text than what most people would. English is not my first language but I probably spent around the same ballpark of time on this text. You might try and use such things about your personality or abilities to your advantage instead in real life. I'm very critical of diagnosing people with all sorts of labels just because they dont conform to some made up avarage. And then state they cant do this or that. Well maybe they can.. but just need a slightly different way to go about it. We all are different in some way. And there is a reason for that. Its part of everyones journey to figure out how to make the best out of it. Even if its not an easy task. But if you eventually figure it out you will probably be very good at it also..
I see his point but there is a big issue here, his pre requisites are an ideal..most people hate their jobs even if it pays well so it is not realistic. Find something outside fo work that fuels you and makes you happy, find some good mates and approach women when you see an opportunity to do so. Simple as that.
Hi Casey, great content. The past 7 months you literally changed my life after a really hard breakup. Can I ask you your personal opinion on getting your ex back? How to make her come back and take my power back? I am doing no contact for 5 months but it doesn't work. What worked though, was following your advice on how to be a better man, go back out there and live my best life. I just have flashbacks of how emasculated I was during that breakup and I want to get her to come back crawling. Not for revenge, but because nobody deserves to be treated like that.
The past is the past, amigo. You cannot change it. If you felt emasculated durinng the breakup, she will always remember how you were back then. Better move on.
Women only value you through others women attitude toward you. Story : My girlfriend was shocked when we were at the restaurant one day and a colleague came to me exciting to see me. The way she asked questions about me said it all. 2min, not more. Bro, she was beautiful, stylished and hot. My girlfriend looked at me differently and knew that I can have better without chasing...
Men it’s simple better yourself before the woman you want. So get fit, eat healthy, and sexually discipline yourself. Chicks crave built up testosterone!!!
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This is why i suggest focusing more on building wealth than pursuing women. 1 to 2 years of cash reserves? You're talking about less than 5 percentof the population. 10 percent tops
lol I'm pretty sure people with average looks and average wealth can also get partners. Just hate stuff like this that say you have to be the ideal perfect man before you can even dream about getting any action.
@CaseyZander Explain how hypergamy on steroids and her profiling maximum efficiency disorder are normal traits? That's a disorder on its own. She shouldn't have a problem with average to slightly above average standards. Gluttony, silver spoon syndrome, and excessively high maintenance are behavioral problems that should be addressed with professional therapy.
@/// Mᴏᴅ Bᴏᴘ Bᴇᴀᴛ Women care much more about your physical stature than your handsomeness. Casey isn't regular, he is above average in physique, bodyfat, confidence, finances, game, etc. There are handsome dudes that suck with women. Quit coping and making excuses and better yourself and you can get a woman
Don’t spend your $ TRYING to impress people. Going to expensive places that really are not worth what you pay . Spend your time doing things to improve yourself ( personally , body) and your finances . Not spending a lot of $ on a car unless you can REALLY afford it. In movies 50 or more years ago the women went after the MEN. The men looked like men and acted like men . Not these skinny little boys. Men are bigger because they do heavier work or left weights. Do what needs to be done.
I have that thought multiple times a day bro “ I like who I am, I’m kinda an Ahole, I like who I am, damn that was funny, I say funny things on the spot, I think fast, it sounds crazy but it’s really fun just being yourself , if you’re not having fun just living your life, you’re not living your life , I’m very glad I listened to this, there’s sum real sauce here , the number thing I give them my business card and tell them to “text me your IG we can go on a lil date or w.e” they’ll see I’m a G and could care less if they message me or not it’s playful but also states my interests in a very real way, it shows you don’t waste time you take opportunity but also it’s playful and not a big deal if she plays hard to get or isn’t interested just yet, next time you see them it’s not weird it’s just you being a man living in his purpose
Imagine casey 9 months ago arguing against casey now whos discovery that guys call themselves of high value are too much in your heads and girls views him bored as fck 😂😅
ask for her number? 8:35. The last time i asked a woman number and text her she showed me a picture of her boyfriend, yeah she didn't tell me and made me very upset so i send her 22 pictures that from the dark web and that traumatize her lmfao. yeah asking for phone number is never a good idea especially cold approaching.
Hi Casey I recently discovered your channel. I am trying online dating after years of being single. A woman and I have been messaging each other back and forth for a week. I invited her out to a cup of coffee (we have never meet in person) She says "No really, I am not interested" I am a bit rusty on my social skills, so I need help interpreting her mixed signals. Is she flirting with me and what is the correct way to flirt back?
@@t5396 now hold on. I might be struggling with social skills, but I know an opportunity when I see one. Most women do not reply to my messages online, but this one did, so she is doing something different than most women. Therefore, this means something. She says not interested, but she did say something. I mean, if she truly not interested, then she would not have replied at all. if nothing else, how do I make her interested?
So if I understand it correctly, don't approach a woman till your buff and rich otherwise just wait. I have watched overweight and scruffy dudes, who were confident clean up. Also, wheres the INSANE SECRETS he saved for the end of the video, Ohhhh, you need to buy the membership. I swear this guy looks like the dude we beat up daily in Jr High, back in Detroit.
Oh look, another dude telling you how to approach women sitting in his room talking to a camera with no actual proof or receipts of approaching women. Y'all are getting scammed by this guy.
The thing is that if you live in a place where a lot of guys take a shitload of steroids, you will feel small, even if you reach your natural potential. And if you live in a place with a lot of billionaires, people will think you are poor, if you are only a millionaire.
You say Game and seduction tactics are fake and not to use them. But then you give out equally shallow advice and just say "LMS BRO". There is no little to no depth of inner state in your videos. Same LMS advice, rinsed and repeated.
Pickup artist shit is dumb. One thing he forgot to mention though, is picking the right girls to approach at the right times. If you see some low quality women, her head is in her phone, she walking really fast and avoiding eye contact... Yeah man don't approach her LOL. Of course she's going to reject you. Look at her behavior. You need to look for women with open body language and who aren't afraid to make eye contact.
@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 The course was a range of videos that inconsistent messages In some videos he would encourage being a badass to get girls and in others he was talking about being Mr. Nice Guy and high value man. It is one or the other but not both. He needs to tell the truth and not have an each way bet
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You lost me at the stockpile 1-2 years of cash step 🤣🤣 Bro not sure what county you are living in, but about 80% of the population......that isn't even possible unless they are living in Mom's basement (which is more of a trait from your generation to be honest). In fact I would be shocked if you actually had 2 years of income just sitting around. Everything else you said is pretty spot on, and had you said 6 months of finances then yeah it would make more sense. But come on man 😏
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I have to say I feel I'm very experienced person in meeting women but I'm 67 and never been married I have to say you really nailed it anyone reading this comment listen to this guy
Casey nailed it. This is bar none the best explanation of inner game. Most men have approach anxiety because they’re crippled with fear and self-doubt. Women are intuitive and can sense lack of confidence, which is the biggest turnoff, from miles away.
True
Explain how broke bums get women all the time
Comfort zone.. so true
Push thru guys... build confidence thru actively trying. Men with the most success, have the most fails. Period. Stay healthy, dont take rejection personally, work on your sense of humor, have projects you are busy with. Have a career. Dress clean, sharp. Dont try to be some trendy fashion dude. Know something about history, art, politics, culture, finances... so you can carry on a conversation. Relax, speak softly. Invest your money. Make a woman excited to spend time with you. Learn to be a good lover as time passes. Dont waste emotional time on rejection or envy. Move forward, always... and lastly, be a man that cares, takes responsibility, has integrity. Thanks. 😊
@/// Mᴏᴅ Bᴏᴘ Bᴇᴀᴛ ... ah... being able to have a decent convo doesn't matter? Hopefully she feels the same, you'll just make grunting noise to each other 🥸
Well put, bro.
@/// Mᴏᴅ Bᴏᴘ Bᴇᴀᴛ It does to one worth it. Tough to find, tho.
You are dead on brother, practice makes perfect, this dude just strikes me wrong, does he look or act like a ladies man, Lol.
Be ready, to lose friends, family, and anyone who you thought had your back. People who don't want to better themselves will try to bring you down because you are putting in the work that they don't want to.
Yep. Lost my entire “friend” group when I got a nice paying job.
She will be open to you when you have mastered yourself. Like a magnet she will be drawn to your energy because you will radiate the right vibration of success. When you do the hard work on yourself you won't even care if it doesn't work out with her. You'll always be strong enough to be happy alone.
I needed to hear this. Already in shape, but my finances need work and this is exactly right. There's always an underlying feeling of anxiety when approaching because of this...
The approach before the approach… he nailed it. Getting ripped was the best choice I ever made in my life. This led me to quit drinking which also changed my life. Confidence soared and the chicks roared.
this may be one of your best 'takes' yet, Casey. financial cushion or just being well off in general is so key to being solid and confident
I took the motorcycle less to work and ride a bike more ( 10 speed style with drop bars) I lost a stomach that I was getting and the drop bar position works that ass which I had girls give me compliments. I'm 45, but look a lot younger from exercise and eating right.
Your videos are solid gold, brother!
Very good advise. I'd like to add two elements that are also causing unnecessary stress and need to brought in order as a prerequisite:
1. clean up, declutter. Having a clean home = peace of mind. Looking at piles of paperwork undone, a cramped home which screams "you can't relex as long as you haven't done the work of decluttering me" nags on you pretty hard. This is true also for everything you pile up for "later", which can be the unread articles that are opened in the 50 browser tabs still open, this could be the "watch later" list in RUclips. Think what fits in a day, what fits in a life and make decisions in every moment to not overload yourself.
2. get rid of people that make you feel that you need to "perform". That includes the job. If you have a job with a ton of online meetings (= performing on stage in front of a camera) and then (thinking you need to) "perform" in your spare time stressed one crazy and ill.
You just convinced me to do extra cardio today, never stop improving men 💪
REAL, no BS advice! Thanks Casey
The underlying message is that you gotta love yourself first if you want to be loved.
You get back from others what you give to yourself. There is no cheatcode.
I have been this way being genuine with positive spirit no matter what I went through... I don't have approach anxiety unless I think about it too much and get in my head. This is the difference I had from the men out there.
Become the man you’re supposed to be and getting women will be no problem. Makes total sense. I have some work to do. Great vid Casey
I’ve reached borderline alpha status, and I don’t even care about money anymore, Casey. Thanks to you, it has amplified. So, I need a video on how to be a cold approach pick up con artist without money.
its true, did some hard gym time a few years ago and women who were pretty much out of my league my whole life started flirting with me, it was odd, had to learn to adjust
You've rediscovered LMS: Looks, money, status.
I am in love with your work... No bull shit... So much truth... Just one thing that pains and idk how to get rid of it and i would honestly be grateful if u could make a video on it... That in short u are saying girls love the good things... But that's exactly what discourages me and holds me back thinking what if all this is taken away and since it's conditional love... I should treat them the same way.
An honest 100% accurate break-down. No tricks, basic building blocks. Perfect.
I must say Casey, as I'm Muslim and we get propsed for marriage not relationships, I'm in university and have clothing exporting business and also transportation. I am learning martial arts and have skincare routine .
Compared to previous years, now a days l, in university, neighborhood, acquaintances, all approach me and keep asking if i am single or planning to find a wife.
They think your gay
Then why women offer themselves ?And their families?
@@AM-tn4om He's getting approached by women of value. He's laughing at you.
Also I see you don't know the difference between 'your' and 'you're'... 😅😅 good luck texting a woman with your grammar.
You are doing fine Murtaza, no worries.
3:58 you’re absolutely correct
100% it's the one thing I never see other channels talk about.
@@CaseyZander
I went through the exact scenario… I’m twice your age and I’m quite impressed you know this.
Greetings from eastern Arabia. 🎉
Gents, regarding you finances. Minimize your debt unless you are paying for a house. Get rid of all debt. That gives even more peace.
Yes ALL CREDIT CARD DEBT... your goal is to NEVER pay a penny of interest on any credit card. I haven't for 10 years now... it's awesome 😅
going into debt to purchase assets is actually a giga-big-brain move. Thanks to inflation, your debts DECREASE over time.
What about for a car
@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 pay it off or sell it unless it is used to generate revenue
My problem was self esteem. Very low self confidence. Feeling like I was worth nothing but it's coming around.
100 percent on point. Thanks, Casey.
I got all of those just lacking in the self confidence area which is a deal breaker unfortunately.
So you are proof of the opposite of his theory
@@josesantana770 Yes, confidence is key no matter what you look like
In my case was doing this 3 years ago.. Aproach girl and say hi how are you.. Gave her chocolate from my pocket, she was shy and start blushing in face but at the end she accept conversation with me and everything was perfect, she gave me her number and 3 days later we had first date, was in relationship with her 2 years. Muscles are nothing if you don't have what to say
...and that stress strongly acts on your appearance and confidence...
Thank you 🙏🙂
Working on the body, for sure. As of last week, I’ve been going to the gym for an hour a day, 5-7 times a week for the last year. Unfortunately putting away a year’s worth of money is a bit beyond my capabilities with the job I’m working. I have some ideas for supplemental income that would be reliable if it worked out the way I want it, but those ideas have yet to materialize. The career I’m pursuing is hit or miss.
God talking through you man, thanks
If you are attractive to her, you won't be creepy.
Women find my looks repulsive just like the ones at the gym and no I’m not joking :D
@Casey .. FYI the video blacks out from 3:45 to 4:10
That’s because he used an audio segment from a different video/podcast. Notice his voice is different.
No, it's an audio clip I added in. It's supposed to be that way.
Raw and real
Man you made me so much mature!
Great advice! I'm off to work out. Now can we have the hypno cheat code word games?? Getting my body super hot is gonna take awhile...............
Yeah, now I know why I'm rejected, physical appearance matters a lot.
How to approach women
1.focus on gym
2 .become financially stable ..beacuse when you don't have that much amount of money it will reflect on you're face you will always think that should I able to provide her beacuse I don't have proper money so first have much money if you have money it will be seen in confidance tahts it
3.like that who you are and what you become ...only focus on 3 points .. beacuse if you focus on game and other verbal tricks❤ ..it will take you for 20-30 min but if you build yourself like this it will be really better you're flirt also looks better..
4.if you look strong and powerful ...you should be individual who can protect and provide ...if you follow above 3 steps looks ..money ...and you're status .... confidance will automatically reflect on you're face
What if i cannot like myself?
I've never believed in hiding my love for video games or Star Wars. Unfortunately I am not hot and not tall
He just said there are NO HACKS, that there must be congruence and discipline and at the end: „My secret HACK to unlimited girls in your pipeline.....” ....
yup, i never liked it, always resented that one-sided gender dynamic and im sure tons of other guys in the world feel the same way, on how for all time, guys have always had to be the ones to do the approaching, have to be the ones to talk to girls first, the reason why society or women, or just the world view men as being weak for not being able to approach or talk to a woman first is because, women know that men have to risk rejection by walking over and talking to them, introducing themselves first, and women feel that if a man can't handle the possibility of being rejected by a woman after interacting with her, asking her out, how will he then be able to handle the world for her, or handle other rough things the world will throw his way.
Whats your gym routine Casey?
Sometimes your titles discredit the value within the video.
Good advice thank you sir
Casey, you should seriously considered, why you are not doing your videos right infront of that beautiful fire place you have right there in the corner. With a big fire going showing you just absorbing its energy and also giving the viewers the sight of all that energy in your videos. It would make a big difference in adding more energy to your videos. Nothing really compares to sitting next to a good fire and absorbing that energy. You really should it would add alot of value to your videos more than you obviously think.
If you're worried about rejection, you've already lost.
There is something called twin flame. The divine musculine will meet and stay with the divine feminine. Too bad you are not awaken enough to see it. Much to learn you have Cassey.
I TOTALLY 100% agree with everything you are saying here Casey! THIS is exactly what NEEDS to happen in order to attract a TRULY High Quality woman to you...
Unfortunately, since I will probably never actually be able to get to that point in my life, especially not financially, unless I could actually find another job or career entirely, that I actually truly loved to do AND that paid WAY more than the job I have now does, but since the job I do now is the ONLY real useable skill that I really know anything about, it is what I've done for over 30 years now, but it just doesn't give me the kind of income needed to actually get ahead with my finances, it ONLY gives me enough each month to pay my rent, basic utilities, car insurance, and phone bill, (both of the latter I need for work too, otherwise I wouldn't have them), but making only about $12K/year on average, is NEVER going to allow me to get "2 years of cash" ahead, heck, not even 2 MONTHS ahead, for that matter!...
But my job is really the ONLY thing that keeps me from being totally homeless and on the street, so I'm thankful for what I do have at least, because I know a LOT of people out there don't even have a decent roof over their head, so I keep working at my job because I don't EVER want to be homeless and on the street, because I see that it's a VERY difficult life to live that way on a regular basis!
Anyway, this is one of the bigger reasons why I've pretty much totally given up on women and went completely MGTOW now... And it's ALSO a really good thing (a "blessing in disguise"), that I've NEVER had a GF or ANY kind of relationship or intimate interactions with a girl before either, because I don't even know what all I'm missing out on, so it's ultimately for the best, I guess... At least unless maybe something MAJOR and DRASTIC happens in my life, that ultimately allows me to make MUCH more money, but I have absolutely NO idea what that even could be, mainly because I have no other REAL useful skills.
Try starting your own business on the side where you can use your skill? Or teach other people your skill.. Then invest part of the money you earn.
@@martinsvensson6884 I'm not sure even HOW to start my own business, OR even if I actually could, since I don't know ANYTHING about business OR computers OR how to do "online videos" and such.
I am a practical hands on guy, and what I specialize in is low voltage electrical and home theater systems, etc.
Although even after 30 years of doing this type of work overall, I am still only a "helper" because I have a learning disability, (A.S.D.), and I just don't know or understand enough of the "bigger picture" or overall scope of a job enough to ever be a lead tech OR to ever go out on my own and do this type of work by myself. I only know how to "do things exactly like I'm told", kind of like a programmable "robot", and even though I'm good at very specific individual tasks, I don't have the ability to comprehend the grand scheme of how the project will be best accomplished...
That's why I'm still only a helper, even after all these years of "experience", and I'm still making just barely above minimum wage. But that's all that I am worth to the company because of my limitations. But I have been working with this same company for over 25 years now and they at least know about and tolerate my issues, and at least they keep me from being totally homeless and on the street, so I have to be thankful for that much at least.
And, even IF I actually could figure out some way to start a "side business" on my own, or maybe try to "teach" people about what I know in this field somehow, I don't actually know ENOUGH about it to actually be a helpful and effective teacher...
PLUS, this type of work isn't even really my TRUE "passion" either, I don't believe, I kinda just started doing it because an opportunity to do it came along when I was young, impressionable, and I had no real direction in my life, so I thought I might should at least try it for a while, especially after being fired from literally dozens of jobs before that because of my issues with ASD. (That was at a time in my younger life before I even knew exactly what condition I had. I was always just known as being "awkward" and "weird", or "creepy" by women, and I've always had social interaction issues because of it, which of course doesn't help in jobs, because in almost every job you have to regularly interact with others in a way so as NOT to piss them off, otherwise you'll most likely get fired, and since I can't work on a job by myself either because I need to be told or shown how to do things step by step, working alone doesn't work for me either. I'm kinda just stuck where I am now.
I'm not totally happy or "fulfilled" in life, but I also know my situation could be significantly worse also, so I just keep on plugging on from day to day.
@@JoeJ-8282 Noones situation is perfect. But you dont seem to have any problems expressing yourself in writing at least. Are you sure you're not just giving up to early and blaming everything on a diagnose someone gave you? Maybe you need to find your own ways in how to learn stuff and figure things out. Maybe you just need more time.
@@martinsvensson6884 I guess I'm pretty good at expressing myself in writing, but that's because it LITERALLY takes me at LEAST about 100 TIMES as long to say what is on my mind in writing than it does when actually talking with someone face to face, because writing actually gives me enough time to really think about exactly what I want to say AND how I want to say it, but in person talking with someone, I just come across as really weird, awkward, and shy, at least at first, plus I'm just extremely slow in my overall comprehension of things.
IDK how long it took you to read this entire reply, but maybe just a few seconds? (It took me about 20 minutes to write just these two short paragraphs here, if that gives you an idea of what I have to do, time-wise, to actually communicate with anyone in an effective and articulate manner.)
@@JoeJ-8282 I have some of the same tendencies. Maybe not quite as much as you then but I like to ponder what I write thoroughly too. Or else I dont get the points across correctly. I've never really seen it as a problem though. Other people answer much quicker than me also. Or other things. Spend less time doing it. But its seldom very thought trough either... Just look at all the crap people do or write that they havent even cared to think through properly.
Even if it took you a while you still ended up writing a much better text than what most people would.
English is not my first language but I probably spent around the same ballpark of time on this text.
You might try and use such things about your personality or abilities to your advantage instead in real life.
I'm very critical of diagnosing people with all sorts of labels just because they dont conform to some made up avarage. And then state they cant do this or that. Well maybe they can.. but just need a slightly different way to go about it.
We all are different in some way. And there is a reason for that.
Its part of everyones journey to figure out how to make the best out of it. Even if its not an easy task.
But if you eventually figure it out you will probably be very good at it also..
Facts man ❤😊😊😅
I see his point but there is a big issue here, his pre requisites are an ideal..most people hate their jobs even if it pays well so it is not realistic. Find something outside fo work that fuels you and makes you happy, find some good mates and approach women when you see an opportunity to do so. Simple as that.
Casey if that have to make that many videos on how to nail a woman im going out on a limb and saying its B.S.
Casey is doing the work of millions of weak fathers. Salute
Hi Casey, great content. The past 7 months you literally changed my life after a really hard breakup. Can I ask you your personal opinion on getting your ex back? How to make her come back and take my power back? I am doing no contact for 5 months but it doesn't work. What worked though, was following your advice on how to be a better man, go back out there and live my best life. I just have flashbacks of how emasculated I was during that breakup and I want to get her to come back crawling. Not for revenge, but because nobody deserves to be treated like that.
The past is the past, amigo. You cannot change it. If you felt emasculated durinng the breakup, she will always remember how you were back then. Better move on.
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I'm thinking that Casey is too high value to go up and approach a woman. Correct me if I'm wrong Casey.
He's a chick magnet, bruh, no need for him to approach, dawg
Perhaps he doesn't want to flaunt them, and cause some on the channel to envy him
I have a house.
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This is why i suggest focusing more on building wealth than pursuing women.
1 to 2 years of cash reserves?
You're talking about less than 5 percentof the population. 10 percent tops
lol I'm pretty sure people with average looks and average wealth can also get partners. Just hate stuff like this that say you have to be the ideal perfect man before you can even dream about getting any action.
@CaseyZander Explain how hypergamy on steroids and her profiling maximum efficiency disorder are normal traits? That's a disorder on its own. She shouldn't have a problem with average to slightly above average standards. Gluttony, silver spoon syndrome, and excessively high maintenance are behavioral problems that should be addressed with professional therapy.
Video games and porn have become the major culprits in steering men away from their purpose. Dump that garbage ASAP
bruh really? not the porn part but video games and your not blaming netflix, hbo and hulu? that is cringe.
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3652k's of exercise. Add sex exercise time to that. And I'm a bricklayer. Strength and stamina @60 is abundant.
My dude then goes on to say that having a great body means nothing in another video.
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You have a girlfriend and you Quote "went on a Date this morning" ? How can that Work ?
@Casey Zander ?
He has a roster of chicks, bruh, nothing wrong with that, Dawg
@@oscargonza2748 wait He lost the girlfriend that he showed in the Videos before?
Bruh, thats his little sister
@@oscargonza2748 haha what oh shit why doesnt He she all the hundert Girls He must have on hand
This video had nothing to do with HOW to approach a woman. It's about how to make yourself attractive to women.
Gotta have Rizz, bruh
This one secret will make women obsessed with you
This secret is.....
Be handsome
not true at all
@/// Mᴏᴅ Bᴏᴘ Bᴇᴀᴛ Women care much more about your physical stature than your handsomeness. Casey isn't regular, he is above average in physique, bodyfat, confidence, finances, game, etc. There are handsome dudes that suck with women. Quit coping and making excuses and better yourself and you can get a woman
Very untrue.... look at the high percentage of handsome gay men out there 😅😅.
No women gonna approach you randomly.. it is man job.
Don’t spend your $ TRYING to impress people. Going to expensive places that really are not worth what you pay . Spend your time doing things to improve yourself ( personally , body) and your finances . Not spending a lot of $ on a car unless you can REALLY afford it.
In movies 50 or more years ago the women went after the MEN.
The men looked like men and acted like men . Not these skinny little boys. Men are bigger because they do heavier work or left weights.
Do what needs to be done.
I have that thought multiple times a day bro “ I like who I am, I’m kinda an Ahole, I like who I am, damn that was funny, I say funny things on the spot, I think fast, it sounds crazy but it’s really fun just being yourself , if you’re not having fun just living your life, you’re not living your life , I’m very glad I listened to this, there’s sum real sauce here , the number thing I give them my business card and tell them to “text me your IG we can go on a lil date or w.e” they’ll see I’m a G and could care less if they message me or not it’s playful but also states my interests in a very real way, it shows you don’t waste time you take opportunity but also it’s playful and not a big deal if she plays hard to get or isn’t interested just yet, next time you see them it’s not weird it’s just you being a man living in his purpose
Imagine casey 9 months ago arguing against casey now whos discovery that guys call themselves of high value are too much in your heads and girls views him bored as fck 😂😅
ask for her number? 8:35. The last time i asked a woman number and text her she showed me a picture of her boyfriend, yeah she didn't tell me and made me very upset so i send her 22 pictures that from the dark web and that traumatize her lmfao. yeah asking for phone number is never a good idea especially cold approaching.
Just offer your number, you don't have to ask for her's, if she calls, her interest is high, bruh
@@oscargonza2748 doubt it.
You got "REALLY UPSET" over a complete stranger cuz she has a bf??? haha... get your mind right my friend.
@@cliffdariff74 grow up? Come from a rat who worships women 🤣
Weird
There are no unattractive behaviors only unattractive men.
..and unattractive women (loud, foul mouthed, un socialized, un feminine)
Hi Casey
I recently discovered your channel.
I am trying online dating after years of being single.
A woman and I have been messaging each other back and forth for a week.
I invited her out to a cup of coffee (we have never meet in person)
She says "No really, I am not interested"
I am a bit rusty on my social skills, so I need help interpreting her mixed signals.
Is she flirting with me and what is the correct way to flirt back?
Bro she told you she's not interested. What mixed signals are you taking about? Next.
@@t5396 now hold on. I might be struggling with social skills, but I know an opportunity when I see one. Most women do not reply to my messages online, but this one did, so she is doing something different than most women. Therefore, this means something.
She says not interested, but she did say something. I mean, if she truly not interested, then she would not have replied at all.
if nothing else, how do I make her interested?
So if I understand it correctly, don't approach a woman till your buff and rich otherwise just wait. I have watched overweight and scruffy dudes, who were confident clean up. Also, wheres the INSANE SECRETS he saved for the end of the video, Ohhhh, you need to buy the membership. I swear this guy looks like the dude we beat up daily in Jr High, back in Detroit.
only the 1% full stack men are allowed to click that link!
Oh look, another dude telling you how to approach women sitting in his room talking to a camera with no actual proof or receipts of approaching women.
Y'all are getting scammed by this guy.
The thing is that if you live in a place where a lot of guys take a shitload of steroids, you will feel small, even if you reach your natural potential. And if you live in a place with a lot of billionaires, people will think you are poor, if you are only a millionaire.
You don’t lol, you stay busy and successful, if a women is into you, you’ll know .
Hey bruh, you have no rizz , no wonder you sound beta, Dawg
You say Game and seduction tactics are fake and not to use them. But then you give out equally shallow advice and just say "LMS BRO". There is no little to no depth of inner state in your videos. Same LMS advice, rinsed and repeated.
Pickup artist shit is dumb. One thing he forgot to mention though, is picking the right girls to approach at the right times.
If you see some low quality women, her head is in her phone, she walking really fast and avoiding eye contact... Yeah man don't approach her LOL. Of course she's going to reject you. Look at her behavior.
You need to look for women with open body language and who aren't afraid to make eye contact.
I did one of Casey's courses. What a waste of money it was
Damn, you must be a real winner.
@@cliffdariff74 I certainly am a winner. Pleased you recognize that
Can you please elaborate. What was the summary of his course? And success rate?
What you mean? Explain
@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 The course was a range of videos that inconsistent messages In some videos he would encourage being a badass to get girls and in others he was talking about being Mr. Nice Guy and high value man. It is one or the other but not both. He needs to tell the truth and not have an each way bet
How to approach women and be an attractive prospect for them?
Many find this difficult. But it really isn't that difficult.
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You lost me at the stockpile 1-2 years of cash step 🤣🤣 Bro not sure what county you are living in, but about 80% of the population......that isn't even possible unless they are living in Mom's basement (which is more of a trait from your generation to be honest). In fact I would be shocked if you actually had 2 years of income just sitting around. Everything else you said is pretty spot on, and had you said 6 months of finances then yeah it would make more sense. But come on man 😏