1 seduction skill ALL MEN Must master to keep women hooked long term and never leave you

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  Год назад +57

    Attract and KEEP any woman you Desire (MBT Webinar) 🥵 👧
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    • @nictibbetts
      @nictibbetts Год назад +6

      Very curious how many guys have wasted 2 hours plus of a guy talking in circles.

    • @joshuacisneros9250
      @joshuacisneros9250 Год назад

      What is you have sex on the first date should I keep her or let her go?

    • @brianslender4220
      @brianslender4220 5 месяцев назад

      Thai stuff pales in comparison to Ross Jeffries stuff 😅

  • @XoXo475
    @XoXo475 Год назад +1002

    If a woman thinks she can manipulate you , and you pretty much do whatever she wants , then you’re already in big trouble.

    • @giftedplanksify
      @giftedplanksify Год назад +42

      Just let her think that she's in control

    • @XoXo475
      @XoXo475 Год назад +31

      @@giftedplanksify yep! Also back away , or threaten to leave every single time she falls out of line . If she’s crazy about you yet tries to hide it , she’ll always want you back.

    • @blockaderunner
      @blockaderunner Год назад +14

      @@XoXo475 that's f'd up, the women of the East aren't like that

    • @Mr.Honest247
      @Mr.Honest247 Год назад +6

      I wonder how women speak about men in dating compared to what we say about women.

    • @rahatzaman8120
      @rahatzaman8120 Год назад +27

      @@blockaderunner you are wrong .. the Eastern women are like this too. its just social restriction that stops them sometimes.

  • @georgeelder8415
    @georgeelder8415 Год назад +857

    "Absence makes the heart grow fonder."

    • @enjinman
      @enjinman Год назад

      Blow her back out makes the heart grow fonder.

    • @umarsohail7984
      @umarsohail7984 Год назад +34

      Not always

    • @XoXo475
      @XoXo475 Год назад +171

      Sometimes during absence , they find something else 😂

    • @enjinman
      @enjinman Год назад +14

      @@XoXo475 Back workout

    • @robbiealego7713
      @robbiealego7713 Год назад +16

      “And the loins wander”

  • @melli_fluous1111
    @melli_fluous1111 2 месяца назад +31

    As a woman I agree, it feels relieving to know that there are legit masculine man out there guiding the puzzled young men . Keep up the good work, may God bless you 🌸

  • @JukeboxJoeB
    @JukeboxJoeB Год назад +192

    I needed someone like Casey Zander to mentor me when I was in middle school, and then high school and college. Everything I believed and everything I was told by girls and by my parents all throughout my life was wrong!

    • @danielgoldberg5357
      @danielgoldberg5357 Год назад +10

      Yeah i’m 52 and still learning! Of course, I wish I had this info back in college, but it’s never too late to start.

    • @alexanderhamilton8585
      @alexanderhamilton8585 Год назад +22

      Yup. All us good guys got our hearts broken.
      But, to be honest…I’m proud of how purely and honestly and genuinely I loved my first love.

    • @gregoryc6656
      @gregoryc6656 3 месяца назад

      ​@@alexanderhamilton8585at the end of the day we will still lose and miss her forever they will never know or care about the pain wish i found casey sooner

    • @Hahaitsmo
      @Hahaitsmo 2 месяца назад

      @@alexanderhamilton8585that first love will never come back

    • @777lucifero
      @777lucifero 14 дней назад

      That's because society is feminized. Without the masculine framework, there is no structure around learning/understanding/disciplining emotions. Typical, if it's just your mom, she will typically teach you all the wrong things. Even if she's a woman, she will still instruct you to be nice to women. And today's men, they tend to be feminized and give that same propaganda advice, instead of understanding the world around them (they conform to society and are more emotionally driven instead).

  • @ericmueller6687
    @ericmueller6687 Год назад +156

    She told me she felt safe with me on our first date. She also told me that I reminded her of her father. I pretty much had this sealed until I texted her that I liked her amongst other cringe messages. Live and learn.

    • @theuncanspan
      @theuncanspan Год назад +64

      No it's not cringe, you expressed your honest feelings. It's not your fault it's her's.

    • @raddadization
      @raddadization Год назад +69

      @@theuncanspan That is a huge mistake. You never tell a girl you like her in the beginning.

    • @theuncanspan
      @theuncanspan Год назад +25

      @@raddadization true to only some extent. How, if a girl is initially interested in you it wouldn't matter regardless whether you divulge your feelings or not.

    • @gabrielottaviano
      @gabrielottaviano Год назад +42

      If she’d really liked you, she would’ve actually appreciated you telling her you like her, bro. Sorry about that. Hope you find a better one next time. At least you seem to be coming across fine in your dates!

    • @leanna107
      @leanna107 Год назад +6

      ​@@gabrielottaviano exactly. The only slight thing I think makes a difference is how much was said relative to the level it was on. For instance, it would seem insincere to say the L word on a first conversation.

  • @jamesl2049
    @jamesl2049 Год назад +95

    Perfect advice. Ive heard that from one girl, my beautiful, now fiance. Im 54 and have a 42 yr old model as my partner. Not until i walked away, proved to myself their were others out there, she contacted me back, i resisted at first, and took her back. Our relationship has transformed. Also through the process, never lose your cool. Be calm and resepctful in communication and confrontation. My best to you brothers.

    • @Amfred
      @Amfred Год назад +5

      bro you're with a 42yo woman? And you call her a model? She's a washed up 304 bro.

    • @jacklan4103
      @jacklan4103 Год назад +12

      ​@@Amfred you jelly bro?

    • @jackLoveX
      @jackLoveX 11 месяцев назад

      I employed these tactics and after hanging out with me for 2 months having the most mind-blowing sex, making her cum, everything - I kept my feelings quiet and maintained distance and stayed aloof. She ended up choosing the guy who communicated his feelings clearly and literally confessed his love for her and worshipped her. I'm so confused.

    • @onenightinkyoto2633
      @onenightinkyoto2633 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@Amfred fresh and fit's alt account

    • @monakool1708
      @monakool1708 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@Amfredhe is 54 so what is he according to you,Young Stud🤣🤣

  • @nictibbetts
    @nictibbetts Год назад +100

    In my experience in order to get women and keep them you must love them/show indifference towards them but in a balanced way.

    • @XoXo475
      @XoXo475 Год назад +12

      Not if your girl is needy , then you’re creating a monster

    • @theuncanspan
      @theuncanspan Год назад

      @@XoXo475then that bitch is BPD so get away as fast as you can

    • @luiscaceres4426
      @luiscaceres4426 Год назад +8

      Yea make sure there’s drama … how? Don’t accept anything you don’t find acceptable.. they will get angry … who cares ?? step aside leave …become absent and if they do care they come back with a stronger attraction to you… then you make it memorable so she can feel she chose correctly … is how you make things to balance.. not always being agreeable… if there’s no need to be …. They will always test you … you just go on living my king brothers … having a life a part from her will only make you more attractive and stronger! With her or without her!

    • @imsomething4432
      @imsomething4432 Месяц назад

      ​@@XoXo475
      What do u mean by that? I have a gf who is needy rn... don't know how to attract and keep her

    • @imsomething4432
      @imsomething4432 Месяц назад

      ​@XoXo475
      Because I been breaking Casey rules a lot and don't onow if she's still like me

  • @agsmage3483
    @agsmage3483 7 месяцев назад +27

    Bro I checked all this boxes and she still cheat . When i left she did everything to get me back i refused and she became crazy . She’s now on med. it’s all about a womans state of mind . Yes with this you’d get a lot of ladies however it doesn’t mean they’d stay . Me just enjoying my single life till i decide to give love a chance again in decades to come 😂

    • @fbisecretservice2742
      @fbisecretservice2742 7 месяцев назад +3

      U did the right thing

    • @ncz2146
      @ncz2146 6 месяцев назад

      Yes man, it highly depends on the value dynamic of the relationship inherently. And the age of the woman. You might be with a chick who ain't for settling down yet.

    • @ty63t0
      @ty63t0 5 месяцев назад

      So she was just a hoe, be happy she showed you that and made it easy for you to dump her

    • @mehmetadeel
      @mehmetadeel 5 месяцев назад

      Big G

    • @saulescamilla3605
      @saulescamilla3605 3 месяца назад +2

      You were dealing with a full blown narcissist you did the right thing not taking her back. Any woman that cheats for that matter. I tip my hat off to you sir, a man with dignity and self respect I can drink a beer with.

  • @arielcandoleta5347
    @arielcandoleta5347 Год назад +91

    Yes, attraction builds up in time spent apart.

    • @toddjohnson271
      @toddjohnson271 Год назад +43

      Or she will be off getting her back blown out. Either scenario can happen.

    • @freeflowme
      @freeflowme Год назад +2

      @@toddjohnson271 😂😂😂

    • @daebak7370
      @daebak7370 Год назад +4

      ​@@toddjohnson271it really depends on he type of woman you are pursuing.

    • @jonnjones8263
      @jonnjones8263 Год назад

      @@daebak7370 No in the modern age they all do that. As soon as your out the door they're on tinder. It's been confirmed that most people on dating apps are already married and 50% of women all have backup partners.

    • @halburd1
      @halburd1 8 месяцев назад +2

      yup for other men, NOT the bf or husband! tell that to military men that have long postings away, who ALL use the phrase "when the cat is away the mice will play" then most of whom get dear john letters and cheated upon.

  • @kentgarrett2887
    @kentgarrett2887 Год назад +84

    The starving dog never gets fed. Love that quote

    • @immers2410
      @immers2410 Год назад +1

      Why? The starving dog should get fed first, no?

    • @illx2367
      @illx2367 Год назад

      Cause the dogs dead

    • @darshandev1754
      @darshandev1754 Год назад +8

      @@immers2410 people sense desperation and run away, whether employers or women
      they want people who are in demand, if you are in demand they know you are valuable

    • @scottsummers4115
      @scottsummers4115 Год назад

      @@darshandev1754 Who cares what they want

    • @darshandev1754
      @darshandev1754 Год назад

      @@scottsummers4115 well if you want to interface with the world then you do care
      Else if you live alone in the mountains away from humanity you are out of the game

  • @michaeln2044
    @michaeln2044 Год назад +38

    Just stumbled on this channel and one minute in I’m hooked. The way you explain it is like a football coach right before the big game. Keep ‘em coming my friend.

  • @gowthama2950
    @gowthama2950 Год назад +116

    I've heard "I trust you more than I trust myself with my life decisions". I'm taking it as a win

    • @DataLog
      @DataLog Год назад +4

      Yeah, that's a win.

    • @AtifAhmad-u6l
      @AtifAhmad-u6l Год назад +8

      She must be lying

    • @rhuiden4086
      @rhuiden4086 Год назад

      ​@@AtifAhmad-u6lShe knows her own nature and is admitting to it

    • @RobertFairweatherMusic
      @RobertFairweatherMusic 6 месяцев назад +1

      Did you see the credit card bill?

    • @Noname-u5h9e
      @Noname-u5h9e 2 месяца назад +2

      @@RobertFairweatherMusic c'mon, let bro enjoy his moment lol

  • @jameslunsford4168
    @jameslunsford4168 Год назад +189

    Appreciate this bc as a married man sometimes we go through phases and obviously I understand that’s just gonna happen. I so much appreciate the skills I learn from you!! Nobody works harder than I do, 2 daughters plus side hustle w business but the fact is I’m not a fkn lier and truth be told I’m in a bit of a rough place as far as keeping my marriage spicy. It’s not like we are hurting it’s just like you said vacation but girls have obligations and we just kinda stuck @ home, anyways thanks for the info on masculinity bc that’s my goal is to get BETTER! Better father, husband, etc... Fkn A I have heard that I feel safe line!! My kid like presence was my bread and butter back in the day, girls/ women loved it lol

    • @alyssamurphy2002
      @alyssamurphy2002 Год назад +12

      Yes, that's why I want my man to get out of the house! Go work, go see friends, just get outta here (in the most loving way).

    • @Coupy-pie
      @Coupy-pie Год назад +4

      @@alyssamurphy2002 telling him to do these things won't make him do them, he has to come to this frame of mind on his own. my ex broke up with me multiple times, i still have her in my life and I think we will workout in the end but the loss was what inspired me to change, I've grown so much in the last year and a bit. if you are unhappy you have to take action.

    • @luisa1473
      @luisa1473 Год назад +7

      You sound like a good husband

    • @Parksteezy_
      @Parksteezy_ Год назад +2

      w man happy for you, unnecessary swearing tho

    • @danielgoldberg5357
      @danielgoldberg5357 Год назад +1

      I finally learned to leverage, my strength, which is that I’m at the core, a sweet, sensitive, caring man, with finances and life stable - that doesn’t mean I’m weak or get walked on. It does mean that I can emotionally connect in a way that a lot of other guys can’t, so I use that advantage to build Vertically, not horizontally, with a few important women. BTW, it’s not the friend zone if you’re the one who wants to keep it just friends.

  • @baptisteringot
    @baptisteringot Год назад +25

    In a way the rules of the game are very similar to spiritual lessons. You will lose what you attach yourself to, let go of the outcome, what you force runs away from you etc. Been following your content for a while, after ingurgitating redpill Alpha bullshit for a while (I believe in HVM concepts and such, but most of the redpill content lacks finesse and intelligence, in depth analysis), this is a more healthy approach in my opinion. Not about makings bags, being jacked and pickup, but about becoming a top of your OWN game man. There are alphas, but it doesn’t take being that to get girls and feel happy. I think it’s mostly about leaving the beta frame, but it won’t make everyone alphas, by definition they are a singularity.

    • @aaronaharonian6512
      @aaronaharonian6512 Год назад +1

      Bro just be gentleman, Gentle+Man
      And you fill in the balance by your own definitions and character

  • @danielgoldberg5357
    @danielgoldberg5357 Год назад +21

    Something I discovered way back when I had this amazing summer romance, when I was a 19-year-old lifeguard. Even though we were both crazy for each other, going on amazing, romantic dates, and screwing like rabbits, I forced myself to only see her every other day. This kept the tension going all summer long, and kept her hungry for more.

  • @matata8750
    @matata8750 Год назад +4

    Im full stacked btw
    P.s follow god, everything will come to u naturally

  • @chloeee4286
    @chloeee4286 Год назад +50

    I'm a woman and I can approve this message

    • @crand20033
      @crand20033 Год назад +1

      So if I was your man and retired and always at home with you, you would break up with me?

    • @chloeee4286
      @chloeee4286 Год назад +1

      @David Crandall my husband is already retired and always at home with me. We are still together.

    • @crand20033
      @crand20033 Год назад

      @@chloeee4286 Glad to hear it.

    • @luiscaceres4426
      @luiscaceres4426 Год назад

      And I am a man … and I also approve to this man theory..

    • @luiscaceres4426
      @luiscaceres4426 Год назад +3

      I’m sure he goes fishing once in a while without her .. and then her attraction grows.. cause she misses him…if they spend that much time together.

  • @christophethierry2429
    @christophethierry2429 Год назад +5

    Logical framework
    Gym
    Focus on the purpose
    Clubbing once or twice a month

  • @markakuban7271
    @markakuban7271 Год назад +6

    The Hungry Never Get Feed
    Master Outcome Unattachment hence Your coming from abundance
    If you Need anything from Anybody it fundamentally puts you at a disadvantage
    Be presentable
    Be Confident
    Have No intentions

  • @Michael-iw3ek
    @Michael-iw3ek Год назад +2

    Wearing a stupid baseball cap indoors and standing too far away from the razor when shaving?

  • @Xenaphone1
    @Xenaphone1 Год назад +5

    I tried to bring my girlfriend into my world, but my wife wasn't happy about it.

  • @ragnarlothbrok8001
    @ragnarlothbrok8001 Год назад +36

    I have been told that before and it felt absolutely brilliant. It honestly made my day.

  • @lionellosanti
    @lionellosanti Год назад +6

    " to keep women hooked long term and never leave you"
    That sounds like a nightmare

  • @SavageKingz
    @SavageKingz Год назад +19

    One thing we must look out for is the shiny object syndrome. It is natural to want the ABSOLUTE best for yourself, but dont underestimate the degree to which you can build together. YOU must be the leader as a man and guide the ship away from the rocky flats, this is called wisdom- in a perfect world, and at the very least it is something we can strive for.

  • @rainbowstar4360
    @rainbowstar4360 Год назад +50

    This was straight cut and shoot to the main points! I actually really enjoyed this very much. I am an above average looking male and yet throughout my life I still have never mastered how to be extremely comfortable around beautiful women.

    • @DuncanL7979
      @DuncanL7979 Год назад +2

      To be comfortable around extremely attractive women - you should look for many flaws in the woman, and then keep repeating them to yourself in your head like a mantra.

    • @tushargupta4262
      @tushargupta4262 Год назад +2

      ​@@DuncanL7979CEO of terrible advice:

    • @nickmoran8417
      @nickmoran8417 Год назад +3

      @@tushargupta4262That’s not bad advice. That’s just not putting a woman on a pedestal.

    • @tushargupta4262
      @tushargupta4262 Год назад +1

      @@nickmoran8417 nah lmao. That's putting them below what they are. Don't look for flaws or good shit in just women/men/whateverthefuck, look for good in everyone, complement them sincerely, have fun and crack jokes. Don't be a suck up and don't tolerate disrespect. You should be fine

    • @nickmoran8417
      @nickmoran8417 Год назад +1

      @@tushargupta4262 You’re giving the wrong person advice. I don’t have a problem with women. I was just making the point that he’s not putting women on a pedestal.

  • @RobinApplewood
    @RobinApplewood Год назад +15

    I find that more mature women in their 30s and 40s need consistent and steady time together in order to feel safe. Its still a constant balancing act with seduction, so as to not make them feel rejected or discarded

  • @ashleymarierael
    @ashleymarierael Год назад +16

    I really like your videos. I know you’re talking to guys but it’s very cool to see a guy teaching the things you teach. You know your stuff.

    • @Hahaitsmo
      @Hahaitsmo 2 месяца назад

      You women are weird

  • @markakuban7271
    @markakuban7271 Год назад +6

    She Must Feel Safe Around you.(i feel safe around you)
    She must feel this emotion on an evolutionary basis.
    So have Vision,Goals,Purpose, Hardwork, Strength, Action.

  • @nishitbhatt4169
    @nishitbhatt4169 8 месяцев назад +1

    But why u want to keep women hooked up to u, if she doesn’t want ur farewell then she will b biggest liability 😂

  • @SuperQdaddy
    @SuperQdaddy Год назад +2

    Look at married couples...see what your getting yourself into ...u want a full time job besides your regular job..??find similar interests and goals

  • @jasoncampbell3318
    @jasoncampbell3318 Год назад +9

    He is the fkng king of the whiteboard. Very powerful delivery of facts.

  • @aaronbrodsky5527
    @aaronbrodsky5527 Год назад +12

    If you have the opinion that the dating game is rigged or whatever then just level up anyway. It only improves you and if you do find a woman who respects you and you can lead then hopefully its one less casualty of this war we're in.

    • @MoKa-zs1zo
      @MoKa-zs1zo 3 месяца назад +1

      I swear. Most of my friends think the game is rigged. They also....drink like sailors, overweight, work bs jobs, etc etc.
      I dropped them and ride solo like Jason Derulo 💪😂

  • @fanfam
    @fanfam Год назад +22

    My advise to all men out there. Be and stay who you are. Videos like this will get you thinking and that leads to a path thats not you anymore. When you finally get the girl of your dreams she will find out very soon you where just a act. When that happens you will be very very effected by it. Just be.... the women will pick you for who you are.
    The only thing you can do and still be you is make sure your body and mental health are in top condition and maybe even more important... get your life goals in order.
    A broken men... women smell them from a mile away. A men who puts on a act.... women will smell that from the other side of the galaxy.
    Stop watching this and be who you are. You can use this content to improve something you didn't know, but never use it as an act. The good men in this video is telling how it is. Use it wisely.

    • @WOLFanddBEAR
      @WOLFanddBEAR Год назад +4

      "the women will pick you for who you are." -- yes, but then when they leave, you'll be wondering what happened.

    • @jackLoveX
      @jackLoveX 11 месяцев назад

      I employed these tactics and after hanging out with me for 2 months having the most mind-blowing sex, making her cum, everything - I kept my feelings quiet and maintained distance and stayed aloof. She ended up choosing the guy who communicated his feelings clearly and literally confessed his love for her and worshipped her. I'm so confused.

    • @monakool1708
      @monakool1708 5 месяцев назад

      @@WOLFanddBEAReverybody leaves each other after sometime dude.Stop whining like a little boy’Oh these women are so mean.I don’t wanna play with them mommy’🙄🙄

    • @thecat0079
      @thecat0079 4 месяца назад

      Thats why you cant act like this but become the person who acts like that naturally

    • @eliasandrinopoulos8746
      @eliasandrinopoulos8746 4 месяца назад +1

      When you act like a “nice guy,” you’re still acting.

  • @omarelsherif4125
    @omarelsherif4125 Год назад +27

    "I feel safe with you"
    -My girl 2020-2023

  • @Amartya2012
    @Amartya2012 Год назад +27

    I think this guy is really good at what he teaches.
    Kudos to him for finding his path and making a living out of it.

  • @periclesmaillis406
    @periclesmaillis406 Год назад +17

    Perfect timing for this video omg

  • @wesleybilharz3935
    @wesleybilharz3935 Год назад +27

    I fn love you brother. I married my wife at 19. Yes I was terrible to my wife. I was an introvert and she still is a beautiful extrovert. We did things to each other that others couldn’t handle. I’m not placing blame. That being said, hopefully I can get through my depression of failing a 20 year marriage with some understanding. Short story thank you. Keep doing what you do. I’m a good man without a paddle. No excuses. You offer a paddle floating around. Thank you 🙏

  • @dameanvil
    @dameanvil 8 месяцев назад +3

    00:23 🧠 Master Scarcity Mindset: To keep the women you desire, master the skill of understanding that women are not a scarce resource. Living in scarcity creates needy energy, and it's crucial to adopt an abundance mindset in all aspects of life.
    02:33 🔄 Master Outcome Independence: The key is to master outcome independence, where you are not attached to specific outcomes in your interactions. This helps you exude abundance, making your front-end game more attractive.
    04:56 💑 Seduction Requires Time Apart: Seduction happens not only in the moment but also with time spent apart. Building arousal and chemistry requires separation to make interactions feel natural and not pre-planned.
    06:11 🛡 Safety is Crucial: Women need to feel safe with you. This is an evolutionary instinct, and as a man, it's essential to have a vision for your life, setting the stage for a stable and secure environment.
    09:14 🖼 Establish Your Frame: Frame is about bringing her into your world, creating cohesion and synergy. Knowing your vision and purpose, and making her feel secure, allows you to be the one man she desires, even if other options are available.
    11:17 🌟 Full Stack Mastery: To succeed in relationships, master the trifecta of seduction, safety, and frame. Understand and leverage these elements to stand out from the majority of men who lack these skills.

  • @n300zx931
    @n300zx931 Год назад +27

    Yes. When a woman tells me she feels safe with me, it's the biggest compliment and I know in dead on track with her

  • @janjensen7398
    @janjensen7398 Год назад +27

    My ex told me, she felt safe laying in my arms on the bed, but I still lost her 😪

    • @kreempa.i.8349
      @kreempa.i.8349 Год назад +76

      Change that mindset. She lost YOU. Now go make some other girl feel safe

    • @hangman361.6
      @hangman361.6 Год назад

      @@kreempa.i.8349 right on

    • @deepgupta38
      @deepgupta38 Год назад

      ​@@kreempa.i.8349 hahahahah 😂😂😂😂

    • @rickmartin6817
      @rickmartin6817 Год назад

      I feel your pain, man. Been there myself.

    • @toddjohnson271
      @toddjohnson271 Год назад +7

      She's not yours...it's just your turn.

  • @ronpalmer7260
    @ronpalmer7260 Месяц назад +1

    Not challenging your statement as a general matter but I have managed to keep a good marriage for over 15 years where we often spend every day all day together because we own our own business and work from home. It is challenging though and sharing an office doesn't work long term.

  • @chrisellingsen9677
    @chrisellingsen9677 Месяц назад +1

    Outstanding video. Short, easy to digest, and really resonates as a truth that is achievable. Thanks, I will definitely be challenging myself to implement this as a mindset moving forward.

  • @boblangdon5253
    @boblangdon5253 Год назад +2

    "I feel so safe when I'm with you."
    BINGO!
    Right before she says, "I never liked doing that to guys before. But I really like doing it with you."
    LOL!
    There must be a fucking book mothers give to their daughters when they turn 14.

  • @RadicalChristian777
    @RadicalChristian777 2 месяца назад +2

    The girl that I’m talking to literally just told me yesterday those exact words.. “I feel safe around you” this puts that statement into perspective.. guess I’m doing something right!

  • @leanna107
    @leanna107 Год назад +4

    A very manipulative narcissistic move called 'push - pull' that's basically placing someone on a pedestal then devaluing them or trying to make them insecure with the intention they will chase you is a very dangerous game. Healthy people with boundaries will just simply see it as a reason to distrust and walk away for good. I know that there are many interpretations on what is meant in this video. I agree that not being very codependent or clingy is always the goal. You want to be at the page where each would still CHOOSE to be with the other but not depend on them for all of every part of life and purpose. Check in with her emotionally every now and then on how her life is going, it really goes a long way to put the friend in boyfriend!

  • @XoXo475
    @XoXo475 Год назад +4

    My gf doesn’t fall for that BS 😂

  • @lukas.caldwell
    @lukas.caldwell Год назад +1

    I have a severe facial deformity so I don’t think that this would work for me. If you are not physically attractive, pulling these steps off will not work. Women don’t want to deal with below average men.

    • @grahambuckingham7295
      @grahambuckingham7295 Год назад

      Sorry bro, there is a lot more to life.
      Focus on all the other things you are interested in. Then a good woman may turn up.

    • @ashleytenney9584
      @ashleytenney9584 Год назад

      That’s not true. Focus on areas where you feel most confident and exude that. Accept the way your face looks and be comfortable in your own skin and women will too!

  • @kevintheprodigy3211
    @kevintheprodigy3211 Год назад +7

    How do you spend time apart if you live together, how do you be seductive by not being with each other if you live together

    • @ziggytonumaa
      @ziggytonumaa Год назад +6

      Get an office or a garage, disappear with the guys. Have seperate stuff going on as well as together time

    • @crand20033
      @crand20033 Год назад

      Have two rooms in your house one for her and one for you to go to.

  • @JackTenn
    @JackTenn Год назад +45

    I've watched a lot of your videos, and I agree with everything you teach one hundred percent. If I had only known these things forty years ago, my life could've been much more fulfilling. However, at the ripe old age of sixty-five, I really don't have ten years to build a better "frame." My thirty-six-year-old ex-girlfriend of ten years who just left me a year ago used to say to me, "You'll be the best boyfriend ever if you just do this for me." And of course, I made whatever concessions I had to make to please her because I liked having her hot body in bed next to me. But what I failed to realize was that every single time I gave her a massage when I was exhausted, or when I scooped her cat's litter box, she was growing more and more disgusted with me until one unassuming day in March of last year, I came home to a house that had been ransacked on her way out the door. No fighting, nothing. She was gone. And now I'm angry because I'm too damn old to get back into the game. I spend most of my time now worrying about the very real prospect of having to possibly take my own life at some point because I won't be able to make it financially in retirement, not because I hate myself. And the reason I am saying this is for those young men out there who might be struggling with the scarcity of sex in their life to wake up and listen to everything Casey Zander is telling them. If your life is unmanageable, your relationships will be too. I'll close with a quote by the poet Charles Bukowski: “Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you.”
    ― Charles Bukowski, Women

    • @blockaderunner
      @blockaderunner Год назад +8

      go to the East man, your money will go much further you're not too old

    • @freekingdavey
      @freekingdavey Год назад +1

      why do you need to retire? just keep earning money, you can always work part time, unless you have physical or mental ailments that make you completely unable to work.

    • @cubiczirconiabeard5366
      @cubiczirconiabeard5366 Год назад

      See did ya a favor., ya big dummy!! Suppose you married the broad, and then took you to the cleaners via divorce? Your g/f of 10 years and is now 36? What's to miss? Or she 911's you and claims domestic violence?

    • @WOLFanddBEAR
      @WOLFanddBEAR Год назад +2

      Go to Asia, live a new life in paradise and spend very little.

    • @mariustoma5156
      @mariustoma5156 11 месяцев назад

      I recently found out about Carnivore Diet (see RUclips) and Chlorine Dioxide Solution (see Telegram) and how they can help with some health problems.

  • @meganjastervid
    @meganjastervid Год назад +59

    As a woman I fully agree with this approach!

    • @Mr.Honest247
      @Mr.Honest247 Год назад +5

      Why are you watching these videos??

    • @Theinsom
      @Theinsom Год назад +6

      @@Mr.Honest247asking the real questions

    • @KyxLimitless
      @KyxLimitless Год назад +6

      why are here lol

    • @mackybacka5966
      @mackybacka5966 Год назад

      Hey only men are allowed. This is our secret

    • @jackLoveX
      @jackLoveX 11 месяцев назад

      I employed these tactics and after hanging out with me for 2 months having the most mind-blowing sex, making her cum, everything - I kept my feelings quiet and maintained distance and stayed aloof. She ended up choosing the guy who communicated his feelings clearly and literally confessed his love for her and worshipped her. I'm so confused.

  • @baldeagle4710
    @baldeagle4710 Год назад +2

    this must be for young guys. after you turn 35, you will avoid women at all costs

  • @NotGarrettG
    @NotGarrettG Год назад +2

    my name is Chad. not 6'5 but a Million Dollar income in 4 Years.
    edit.
    yes she's said "I feel safe with you"

  • @gualbertogarcia305
    @gualbertogarcia305 Год назад +1

    Casey, This DIDN’T Work for TOM BRADY. WHY ?

  • @leanna107
    @leanna107 Год назад +9

    Note- for the effort and time you hold off on sex, at least until after a clear two way commitment, it has been shown to build trust. So if you want the Woman to really trust you, that is a different thing than to guide her to think she can feel safe with you.

    • @weeejheeezy
      @weeejheeezy Год назад

      No. That just gets you friendzoned

  • @freshmintsky
    @freshmintsky Год назад +8

    When we like a guy we LIKE seeing him every day and going to sleep with him. It’s the guys we don’t care about that we don’t want to see all the time. Frequency of seeing someone does NOT affect attraction. At least not for loyal women. Get THAT straight.

    • @jackLoveX
      @jackLoveX 11 месяцев назад

      Yes. I employed these tactics and after hanging out with me for 2 months having the most mind-blowing sex, making her cum, everything - I kept my feelings quiet and maintained distance and stayed aloof. She ended up choosing the guy who communicated his feelings clearly and literally confessed his love for her and worshipped her. I'm so confused.

  • @juliewestra4298
    @juliewestra4298 Год назад +8

    Casey, I would LOVE to stay with my guy because I want to believe he has the right foundation,, and want him to hear these videos. So, how do I send your epic messages to him without hurting his feelings?? Any suggestions on how to preface sending these?

    • @derwoodhamburger
      @derwoodhamburger Год назад +3

      Geez louise. Just do it

    • @shatteringthematrix6959
      @shatteringthematrix6959 Год назад +9

      if it were me I'd want my woman to straight up tell me. But not all guys can handle that honesty and blow to their ego.

    • @pragneshbamanya5079
      @pragneshbamanya5079 Год назад +3

      Just go ahead and just do it he will definitely understand it.

    • @cara-leo
      @cara-leo Год назад +10

      I wouldn’t do it. This is something best sent by his friends or other people in his life than his main romantic interest - YOU. Imagine a guy sending you a video about how to be a better woman him so he feels like he can keep dating you - infantilizing right? Then same for the man, except 10x worse. I know you want the best for him but this is work that the man has to want to do, and the woman has to learn to let them walk that road themselves and not try to control them. They also have to learn when to walk away if he doesn’t improve. Want to share my honest opinion, been down that road before, so if any offense was taken it was not my intent.

  • @Hndrxxxx
    @Hndrxxxx Год назад +1

    What are these type of long sleeves called? Half zip?

  • @darrenwalshe8513
    @darrenwalshe8513 Год назад +13

    Be a high value man, earn a lot, look after your body n be laid back, women love status no matter wat

  • @sangwonkim9298
    @sangwonkim9298 Год назад +19

    1 & 3 resonated so fkn well. I am working on 2 (safety)
    1. For some reason I subconsciously pull away after a date and take time to regroup, but for her it works like an attraction as the next time I see her she is all excited of what crazy idea I will come up next.
    3. When I see a woman with other options I subconsciously feel better cuz I see all those simps around her and since she reaches out to me first I know she has no one better than me in her life (kind of boosts my ego and it levels me up in my game making me further not see the reason to reach out to her and she shows even more playfulness after that).
    Now, when it comes to 2 (safety) I realized just a year ago. I had no game in that area. However, since I started working on it I noticed it is not just about having a vision but also about being alert to your surrounding to be able to predict what will happen next based on what happened so far. This allows you to relax further making you look like you are in control.

  • @jaredlallatin5140
    @jaredlallatin5140 Год назад +8

    Good one on the I feel safe and the magic. All three of my wives and many girlfriends have said that to me and those were moments I knew they were completely emotionally involved and committed to me.

    • @ratdaddee
      @ratdaddee Год назад +8

      If they all felt safe, why did they all leave? What happened? Just curious.

    • @Wize817
      @Wize817 Год назад +2

      ​@@ratdaddee He had to have screwed up one of the other two. Most likely lost Frame. #3 Frame seems to be the hardest one for most guys to master, esp. younger or smaller guys (which makes sense). However dude looks over 50+ in his profile, still most guys brainwashed by decades of social conditioning tv/movies of weak Beta behaviors and get insecure with wo-men OBSESSED with social media makes this near inevitable for any guy! 😆

  • @fiji369
    @fiji369 Год назад +2

    The only skill you need to master is God and Jesus. He will provide. He always feeds the hungry. Without Jesus in any relationship will be in scarcity. Without God it won’t work. Full stack LOL. My master is God.

  • @reggiedavenport3911
    @reggiedavenport3911 Год назад +2

    Hot damn...I remember being told by a woman that I was her rock. I think that counts for the feeling of safety.

  • @swingister
    @swingister 5 месяцев назад +1

    I agree with everything. The only caveat is the woman has to play her role as well. A woman has to appreciate a good man.

  • @bryskeybryskey2427
    @bryskeybryskey2427 Год назад +3

    Kasey why did u remove all your old videos!!!?? Some of those were single handedly the best videos that help me change my perspective.

  • @sach2000f
    @sach2000f 8 месяцев назад +3

    Dude you're like a teacher, keep up, ur vids are cool !

  • @wade1161
    @wade1161 Месяц назад +1

    I have heard “ I feel safe with you” every date lol

  • @bozhidarvladov2218
    @bozhidarvladov2218 Год назад +9

    Hallo Casey, can you expand in future video the seduction part in the context of living together, when the time apart aspect is reduced to a minimum? Thank you.

    • @CivilXL
      @CivilXL Год назад +6

      You need to have your own hobbies and life outside your relationship. You cannot be dependent on your significant other for everything. So showing her you have other interests and don’t need to be with her and do everything with her, that time apart and being independent won’t smother her and allow to build the seduction part you’re referring to

    • @leanna107
      @leanna107 Год назад

      ​@@CivilXL you said this in a more clear and healthy way than the video! 💯

    • @luiscaceres4426
      @luiscaceres4426 Год назад +2

      I agree go out and play ball with the boys .. that creates being apart for half a day or entirely

  • @nikkunshu
    @nikkunshu Год назад +3

    She herself kept on saying that she feels safe with me until the day she walked away.

  • @gabrielascensotomas
    @gabrielascensotomas Год назад +6

    In today's society, women naturally have options, what is concerned is that they have attention 24/7 and their ego is through the roof, if you expect her to like you only because you have frame and make her feel safe you can join the 99% of men, on the other hand if you make her feel beneath you they will automatically show interest, it's the hypergamy working on your favor.

  • @TheAmericanVagabond
    @TheAmericanVagabond Год назад +1

    Men….Here’s the deal! 💯 1. Develops a skill- set to earn six-figure or higher income 2. Become Visible and verifiable 3. Seek out and find a network of like-minded high-value men 4. Physical optimization and self defense skills!

  • @publicenemy1238
    @publicenemy1238 Год назад +4

    the worst part about this is that theirs guys in here who actually wasted their time getting degrees and then waste their later years focus on women rather their their certification. don't be the unintelligent fool going to college if your goal is women . everyone else is ahead of you : )

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 Год назад

      Going to college is an easy way to get laid, additionally getting the right degrees make providing for women extremely easy a long with giving you status.

    • @publicenemy1238
      @publicenemy1238 Год назад

      @@callanc3925 college degrees are very low status occupations, theirs nothing impressive about being a doctor or lawyer. I make more than them and I didn't even graduate highschool. I'm far too educated to waste my time on mediocre curriculums.

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 Год назад

      @@publicenemy1238 Whelp good to know youre a troll then brother, stay safe

    • @publicenemy1238
      @publicenemy1238 Год назад

      @@callanc3925

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 Год назад

      @@publicenemy1238 Damn maybe you really were telling the truth about not being able to graduate high school lmao

  • @johnholmes6741
    @johnholmes6741 11 месяцев назад +1

    This is why men who have zero desire for monogamy get the hottest women to be monogamous to them. When women tell me they want monogamy. I tell them great, so do I, but what I mean is I want you to be monogamous to me I’m definitely not gonna be monogamous to you. That’s how you remain detached because you never really care what any one woman is going to think or do because you always have 10 other ones and only spend time with the ones that are making them self easy

  • @henrykooruifengbroken3839
    @henrykooruifengbroken3839 8 месяцев назад +1

    "Do you realize just how weak you sound." is my favorite line.

  • @hexxor2695
    @hexxor2695 Год назад +1

    Alpha or sigma

  • @kevinmanning4880
    @kevinmanning4880 Год назад +4

    Casey Zander, I am so glad I subscribed. I dated a girl just recently, she said, I feel safe with you as he stopped on a park bench on a hike. Unfortunately I made some mistakes and didn't watch enough of your videos to find out later why she dumped me. Keep up the good work helping men. Especially when were 5'6" and broke from divorce rape.

    • @maxstrike3022
      @maxstrike3022 6 месяцев назад

      What mistake did you make, if you don't mind sharing for us to learn from?

  • @lilyluna4155
    @lilyluna4155 Год назад +39

    here as a woman watching this. This summarises everything i've been feeling in the last months. Also i've researched a lot about this whole red pill blue pill stuff and why it's evolutionary normal to be drawn to successful intelligent tall guys..... In this video you perfectly explained what i miss in my boyfriend. and you perfectly explayned why i fell in love with this other guy who made me feel like this seduction safety frame thing. just thank you for completing the understanding of myself

    • @johnshujon420
      @johnshujon420 Год назад

      So, you are going to cheat on him !! Because, you found something better !! Women are so smarter & they understand a lot of stuffs which guys never capable of !! Women are extremely selfish by nature

    • @pa5730
      @pa5730 Год назад +15

      How supportive are you when your man is undergoing hardships? The types who shame them or support them?

    • @ricardosantos6721
      @ricardosantos6721 9 месяцев назад +4

      are you in love because you feel safe with him or you feel safe with him because you are in love with him?

    • @Earthtime3978
      @Earthtime3978 9 месяцев назад

      How interesting how this video creates an awareness for a woman. Look at the shit men have to master .

  • @starkiez100
    @starkiez100 10 месяцев назад +2

    Casey am ngl bro I’m exhausted, I’ve only watched like 5 vids over the last couple weeks and I feel like my brain has been completely fkn mashed with all this new info. No drugs, no drinking, eating well but damn, bro, F**K. 12 years man. 12 fkn years. Take the loss? Bro.

  • @kakalee5881
    @kakalee5881 Год назад +2

    KC I really find u videos with great value. However I doubt whether it defeat the purpose for a real man. Basically to deal with a beautiful woman dude needs to act as the actor strictly with the scripts controlled by the woman both the actress and the director. No doubt the purpose of the man could be aligned with the core of man as we pursue our purposes anyway regardless of these butterflies are either with us or not. However to collaborate with the women to chase their “vanity”dreams, I doubt how a true man think- it is a totally waste of time ? Is it something a true man with purposes would like to do?Women by nature chase diamonds and ignore the blood and skulls behind the beautiful stones. We men face reality much more. Do we think it worthwhile to extract the diamonds from everyday blood and skulls and devote them to these vanity women ? “Vanity” means not trustworthy and reliable to me - a woman who cannot be trusted worths “zero” value to me- especially they don’t really spend quality time with you.

  • @wolfteam5219
    @wolfteam5219 Год назад +3

    I wish I’d discovered Casey before my heart broke not once but twice

  • @phosphorescentscotsman
    @phosphorescentscotsman Год назад +14

    Without Fail, Casey brings CLARITY to an immensely complicated topic. He knows his S**T 👍

  • @phentube2345
    @phentube2345 Год назад +4

    Nice guys gets one compliment must and that's I feel safe with you 😁

  • @NG-qo7nu
    @NG-qo7nu 8 дней назад +1

    Hola Ärizona Daddy 🤍👑

  • @EPMacalma
    @EPMacalma 9 месяцев назад +1

    lol I keep thinking of Hot Girl Matrix video whenever I see the white board

  • @potomskazhu
    @potomskazhu Год назад +1

    How come dating coaches started using programming slang for their presentations lol

  • @sunrikhasangma1778
    @sunrikhasangma1778 Год назад +2

    😀l am so happy my financial life has totally changed ever since I ventured into stock investment. Ive been earning over $18,000 dollars every single week.

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      @sunrikhasangma1778 Год назад +1

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      @sunrikhasangma1778 Год назад

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      @sunrikhasangma1778 Год назад

      WhatsApp>>>Messenger👇

    • @roseannpugales725
      @roseannpugales725 Год назад

      Her strategies is also working for me at the moment. I'm making good proft from stock investments

  • @michielarkema
    @michielarkema Год назад +7

    Yes, my woman always tells me that she feels safe.

  • @tripontube365
    @tripontube365 8 месяцев назад

    Money is no.1 priority. Even if you're as handsome as Brad Pitt, without money, she'll leave you. Focus on finances before other matters.

  • @jancarlohernandezsantiago2060
    @jancarlohernandezsantiago2060 Год назад +3

    I have heard the phrase "I feel safe around you" directed towards me.

  • @hammadidbibi2393
    @hammadidbibi2393 Год назад +1

    As a men you should do this for you to be a successful men not for a women, if she want to stay with you ok , if she don't want it is ok also and never sign a contract with her because one day she will take all your wealth and she will not care about you . Just love your self and be hapy with and without women

  • @ericdietrich878
    @ericdietrich878 Год назад +18

    Can confirm. I’m 6’ 3”, 215lbs at 14% body fat, make 100k+, and a 27yr old virgin. Just started dating a couple months ago for the first time and damn, didn’t realize how far behind I was lol.

    • @khaoss4024
      @khaoss4024 Год назад +2

      How tf

    • @harj1166
      @harj1166 Год назад

      @@khaoss4024 he sucks lol

    • @random-content6969
      @random-content6969 Год назад

      Hi, can we be friends?

    • @ericdietrich878
      @ericdietrich878 Год назад

      @@khaoss4024 never got around to it lol. All those things took time. I used to be 300lbs living paycheck to paycheck.

    • @theweirdgamer7506
      @theweirdgamer7506 Год назад +3

      Maybe if you weren't so obsessed with the numbers

  • @MarkLangford
    @MarkLangford Год назад +3

    I'd add a bit more detail on "how" to this already excellent video. Talk about how to build confidence, chivalry, and presence - the things that demonstrate seduction, safety, and frame.

    • @DuncanL7979
      @DuncanL7979 Год назад +1

      What is the difference between presence and frame?

    • @careermastery
      @careermastery Год назад

      @@DuncanL7979 I define "presence" as staying mindful and in the moment (as opposed to letting your mind wander to the future or past). "Frame," to me, is knowing and enforcing your boundaries, staying in integrity (making your actions reflect your words).

  • @rybysferyczne
    @rybysferyczne Год назад

    If you think you need to take care of all this to have a satisfying long-term relationship, I recommend psychotherapy. Take care of your shit and fix your compass so you don't pick damaged chicks.

  • @davidmartinez-ic6qw
    @davidmartinez-ic6qw Год назад +1

    We live in a hook up culture. Of course we give up on the west. Passport bros all day

  • @jamesjdoolin
    @jamesjdoolin 7 месяцев назад

    What all these "pickup artists" fail to address is the size of the dating pool. As a guy, if you have no filters/requirements then your dating pool is much bigger. If you subtract women that have children, subtract women that use drugs or "party", subtract women that dont have a decent job, meaning $3000 a month AND is attractive, not a 10 but lets say a 7. That dating pool is VERY small.
    Guys: If you have children and you use drugs and/or party... For sake of this comment, marijuana is a drug... then your requirements are minimal. As a guy who smokes and has a kid or two you cannot require a woman not to do those things.
    I'm single, non-smoker, no kids, decent looks and $70-80k a year...
    What is the SIZE of the dating pool for women who have NO kids and non-smokers with decent looks and decent job??? (and by decent I mean $30k-40k at least she can pay her rent and car payment) My guess is that its about 10% of women.
    What is the size of the dating pool for women with NO kids, non-smoker, better looks, say at least an 8 or higher and a makes at least $60k a year... My guess is less than 5%

  • @TheHighwinder
    @TheHighwinder 9 месяцев назад +1

    She might not leave you (especially if you're paying the bills), but she'll still cheat on you if she becomes convinced that other women aren't interested in you. This goes to her head and becomes "safe" to her. Don't let her be right.

  • @mediocreman2
    @mediocreman2 Год назад +2

    I'm just ok at seduction, excellent at making them feel safe, but frame is my biggest challenge. So hard to extract yourself from old, unproductive habits.

  • @tylerdurden5642
    @tylerdurden5642 Год назад +1

    It's weird how people think height doesn't matter I know a lot of tall ugly guy who has a prettiest gf...and trust me you cannot give that feeling of safety if you are short....

  • @Sartorial_
    @Sartorial_ Месяц назад

    I think dating isn't a game: dating is simply you putting out your personality out there. So, focus on learning to carry yourself well, regardless of how low your net worth seems. Imagine the kind of man you want to be and carry yourself that way. If Jeff Bezos wouldn't stop a random girl on the street to talk shit, don't do that. 🇳🇬

  • @sivakumaranbazhagan1672
    @sivakumaranbazhagan1672 Год назад +1

    Bruh but i am actually hungry. Should i pretend i ain't hungry🤣