WHY WOMEN actually want you to NOT talk to them so they stay attracted to you (relationship facts)

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2025

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  День назад +12

    Learn, Understand and Master the LANGUAGE of WOMEN 😘 below ⬇
    app.caseyzander.com/I-learn-language-of-women

    • @jbdominate
      @jbdominate День назад +2

      fire

    • @kolomparskywalker5131
      @kolomparskywalker5131 21 час назад

      Hey Casey, if I'm texting with 3 different girls who 100% love me because I used all your advice , and I go on a date with them at the same place and same time. They will look at me as someone who has other options. They will think i am the biggest asshole in the world. After the meeting they will want to be with me way more better. What do you think? That's works?

    • @rexandbleu6197
      @rexandbleu6197 16 часов назад

      ‼️⚠️‼️
      Can you make video breaking down why women reward, please, and respect men who stick to their primal and natural mating strategies, i.e. choosing variety and optionality with women.
      Whether they go the lying and cheating route or the honesty and transparency route.
      Meanwhile it seems that the men who forgo their natural mating/dating strategy to be monogamous with one woman get tested, disrespected, and punished the most because women subconsciously know this is not their primal mating strategy. It’s specifically woman’s.
      But society and women have indoctrinated men to assume the women’s mating strategy, i.e. picking the “best” woman and choosing to be in a sexually exclusive long term relationship, and foolishly continue to stay sexually exclusive with a women who slowly excludes sex from the man and relationship.
      While it’s natural for women to be monogamous with the best possible man that continuously satisfies hypergamy. Because in her mind if she has the best she can do (across the board) there’s no need for variety or optionality.

  • @Ethyro
    @Ethyro День назад +144

    Literally the less you try the better. Learned the hard way, established emotional connection then started being busy with other shit it’s mad attractive.

    • @Supermuffins
      @Supermuffins День назад +3

      does this apply to girlfriends also ? wives?

    • @mikv8
      @mikv8 22 часа назад +10

      ​@Supermuffins Partially. The advises Casey gives are absolutely true for girls in their 20s, but as they age you won't get away too far being cold and not trying at all. It just comes to balance, maybe 25% your effort, 75% her. In LTR woman want more stability and care.

    • @henryjoseph5393
      @henryjoseph5393 17 часов назад

      @@Supermuffinsit doesn’t

    • @justinteresting.5562
      @justinteresting.5562 14 часов назад

      ruclips.net/video/jm04EZ0C6sI/видео.html

    • @Detroitswagg28
      @Detroitswagg28 13 часов назад

      ​@@Supermuffins yes it does woman are women no matter if their single, taken or married. I was married for 14 years i

  • @808BJJ_Black_Belt
    @808BJJ_Black_Belt День назад +155

    Ignore them and don’t chase them and don’t talk to them 👍that’s why I’m still single

    • @elijahgodsservant2906
      @elijahgodsservant2906 День назад +21

      He means don’t talk to them like she talks to her girlfriends.

    • @Brent-z2s
      @Brent-z2s День назад +15

      Dilemma how do you get a job without experience and how do you get experience without a job. I think by not flirting with the women you work with but doing it a lot when you go out you can sometimes walk the tight rope.

    • @Daniel-yn5jp
      @Daniel-yn5jp День назад +7

      😂😂😂😂

    • @glicmathan1771
      @glicmathan1771 День назад +17

      It’s more about how you talk to them. Don’t be rude. Just don’t be eager for them sexually. I’ve personally had more interest this way. This happened when I decided to not date for a while. I never thought it would bring me more interest. Casey is onto a lot of truths that I started realizing before I found this channel. A lot of it is counter intuitive because of how we’ve been miseducated post feminism.

    • @jacqueslee2592
      @jacqueslee2592 День назад +8

      @@Brent-z2s Women want men with experience, but men need women to have experience. That is the dilemma today.

  • @Zeppodone1000mg
    @Zeppodone1000mg День назад +188

    Started watching you while being “seperated” from my girl of 5 years. Now I have the information I needed to gain control. Thank you bro, seriously.

    • @stikmannn
      @stikmannn День назад +10

      Guys a legend ain't he! Absolutely life changing advice Good luck my G!

    • @emekaasiegbu3697
      @emekaasiegbu3697 День назад +12

      I sincerely believe Casey is one of the most important youtubers right now in terms of the dating game. I don't think there is a single content creator that exists that is breaking female dynamic down like this out there.

    • @ninjax142
      @ninjax142 День назад +5

      Same situation he really has helped a lot I think

    • @Ethyro
      @Ethyro День назад +3

      Good

    • @TheFriendlyPsychopath
      @TheFriendlyPsychopath День назад +1

      Separated? She's getting her back blown out by another guy you dumbbell.

  • @datascience4lyfe
    @datascience4lyfe День назад +96

    That part about dudes who think they can be their authentic self all the time and not "act"... I needed to hear that

    • @anaxa4883
      @anaxa4883 День назад +20

      It’s basically the reason why men’s dating is multi billion dollar industry. Guy tries to be himself and nice, keeps getting dropped, comes here

    • @elijahschnake3863
      @elijahschnake3863 23 часа назад +1

      @@anaxa4883 except that isn't being himself

    • @DeeloGoodquest
      @DeeloGoodquest 21 час назад

      ​@@anaxa4883 If you can't be yourself, life is not worth living.

    • @anaxa4883
      @anaxa4883 20 часов назад

      @@elijahschnake3863 wdym

    • @AndrewAdawa
      @AndrewAdawa 19 часов назад +5

      In the grand theater of existence, both men and women are but actors, each playing their roles on the ever-turning stage of life.

  • @LuizFelipe-wo9hx
    @LuizFelipe-wo9hx День назад +109

    of course we clicked at the video because of the chain

  • @omoladearomolaran9716
    @omoladearomolaran9716 День назад +103

    all he’s said here only works
    if she does like you or find you attractive first, you just have to be inconsistent with your words and actions after she’s made it clear she likes you
    you can’t create attraction, mother nature does that for you

    • @mycrazylife408
      @mycrazylife408 День назад

      inc3l talk. then explain how im average looking and get 9’s and 10s? explain ugly guys or guys who are 5’s date 9’s? You can create attraction in social circles. You need to make friends with a bunch of females. You need to friend zone them and they’ll introduce you to her friends when you go out with them or to events or concerts etc. It’s easy to spit game in this environment because there’s perceived trust. Micheal Sartain speaks on this stuff but i discovered it on accident just being in the field. Having females that i friend zoned has got me hanging out with like 6 girls at once with no other guys. So yea you can absolutely create attraction in environments like this.
      Want proof? It’s the reason most cheating happens at work. The girl more than likely wasn’t even attracted to the guy when she first started working with him but him but since they hang out 40 hours of the week, if he plays his cards right and he’s charismatic and makes her laugh, he’ll eventually get in her pants. Remember everyone always talks about girls are EMOTIONAL men are logical. So that means if you can make her FEEEL good she’ll fall for you. There’s some girls that are strict on their outrageous preferences but most aren’t.

    • @tommycharles4666
      @tommycharles4666 День назад +1

      Everything he says on this channel only applies to women with Cluster B personality disorders. I watch this guy for fun. He's so confidently ignorant of psychology. This stuff doesn't work on neurotypical women-aka, any woman you would want to be with, even for short term spicy fun if you have any sense. Some things "r_ed pill" are true, but most of it is guys talking sh!t about the women they've dated. Just like women do.

    • @charliebrown4799
      @charliebrown4799 День назад +6

      I've noticed most channels of this nature fail to mention that. If I had a dollar for every time I've seen a woman leave a man with money and status for a man who had none... just because he was 6" taller, or had a six pack, or been to prison, or had a face/neck tattoo, etc...
      I'd have so many dollars that women would start leaving me to sleep with the kind of guy that I currently am😂

    • @FewAndSecret11
      @FewAndSecret11 23 часа назад +4

      It also helps if you have rich parents that let you throw house parties in their mansion

    • @AndrewAdawa
      @AndrewAdawa 19 часов назад +5

      You're correct-attraction cannot be created. However, once it exists, you must nurture it by embodying her fantasies: the mysterious, busy, high-value, ideal man she admires.

  • @sirmercs7774
    @sirmercs7774 18 часов назад +8

    I’m really glad there are people like Casey helping men avoid the kind of hell so many of us have gone through.

  • @emekaasiegbu3697
    @emekaasiegbu3697 День назад +85

    When I was younger, I would always text a girl reminiscing about our times together and when we got to see each other next and I got nothing but flaked on and friendzoned even after several times having intercourse and being romantic with them and building a relationship. Never got love from any of them. Now that I am in an abundance mindset with multiple options and I'm too busy to text/see them at all, I seem to get love from all of them. Casey is 1000% on the money here.

    • @marcusmcgraw3519
      @marcusmcgraw3519 День назад

      They’re not qualified to reject anyone though. Why would you pretend otherwise?

    • @marcusmcgraw3519
      @marcusmcgraw3519 День назад +13

      On top of that, if you had intercourse with them, how can you possibly say you were friend zoned? This is why I know that you don’t know what you’re talking about here

    • @emekaasiegbu3697
      @emekaasiegbu3697 День назад

      @@marcusmcgraw3519 trust me bro, if you’re infatuated with them and keep love bombing and texting all the time even if you two have been intimate it’s repulsive to women.. but I was soo young back then like starting high school kind of days🤣🤣so I was super naive

    • @emekaasiegbu3697
      @emekaasiegbu3697 День назад

      @@marcusmcgraw3519 they are not qualified but in todays dating market where most women have lost their heads they are ultra-hyper hypergamous more than ever to where they believe they can disqualify a guy in a blink of an eye, and since they are women, and if they are hot, they really can…

    • @ElJefe0719
      @ElJefe0719 День назад +11

      Calling bullsh*t that anyone who uses the term “intercourse” is actually spinning plates 😅

  • @jonathanshively9379
    @jonathanshively9379 День назад +57

    Attraction cannot be negotiated. He’s right in saying you should not try. She will let you know if she’s attracted.

    • @mycrazylife408
      @mycrazylife408 День назад +3

      It can be. That’s why most cheating happens at work more than likely the girl wasn’t even attracted to her male coworker but the more they hang out 40 hours a week if he plays his cards right and he makes her laugh and he’s charismatic he’ll eventually get into her pants. Women are emotional so you make them feel good in their feeelings then she’ll slowly fall for you. You can create attraction like that. Or in social circles meeting girls from other female friends. Being funny is a cheat code i’m telling you.

    • @alangc76
      @alangc76 День назад +9

      @@mycrazylife408because she like him in the first place. She will let you game her if she likes you.

    • @mycrazylife408
      @mycrazylife408 День назад

      @@alangc76 like i said you can build atttaction because she’s around you so much and you guys talk every day and see eachother. ask a girl in your life if they ever started developing feelings for a guy they weren’t initially attracted to and most will say yes. then remember that i destroyed you blackpillers.

    • @DrDru-dx8iv
      @DrDru-dx8iv День назад

      ​@@mycrazylife408That was magnificently out, I couldn't agree more

    • @AndrewAdawa
      @AndrewAdawa 19 часов назад +1

      Men should dedicate time to intentionally work on themselves, striving to become genuinely admirable to the women they desire (those considered 9s and 10s). Only when you are truly admirable to them can you effectively game and attract them.

  • @boomanmc
    @boomanmc День назад +40

    “her emotions are opposite to your logic.” case: closed.

    • @sirmercs7774
      @sirmercs7774 18 часов назад +4

      After years of trying to problem solve you realize they just want you to take on the burdens of their own insecurities.

    • @boomanmc
      @boomanmc 12 часов назад +1

      @ very well said. karma hand-off instead of karma processing.

  • @Ethan-yx3xd
    @Ethan-yx3xd 14 часов назад +7

    This is gold. I'm glad I'm seeing this in my 20's. So many guys are clueless and then end up resenting women.

    • @Kit-kk9cb
      @Kit-kk9cb 13 часов назад +1

      well to be fair, this makes it impossible to have any kind committed relationship. you'll always be the babysitter. it would make sense resent them, seeing that they don't even like or understand their own behavior

    • @Adrian-zu6tm
      @Adrian-zu6tm Час назад

      @@Kit-kk9cb none of the advice casey gives is to find an actual long term relationship. not that it matters cuz meaningful ltr in the west are basically non existent

  • @daniel100592
    @daniel100592 День назад +44

    Dude figured out the recipe for the RUclips algorithm. Crazy.

  • @mura0
    @mura0 День назад +28

    It is the energy you project and not what you say. The energy that you don't give a f$ck for the outcome is powerfully attractive.

  • @andrewh7852
    @andrewh7852 День назад +38

    Casey’s development kinda fun to watch. Anyone whose been watching since early 2020s has been seeing the mindset and teachings change

    • @JohnGrigg-gz9gm
      @JohnGrigg-gz9gm День назад +7

      And also his physical appearance. He has gotten old...

    • @wayando
      @wayando День назад +2

      Even the handwriting changed ...

    • @compadre9783
      @compadre9783 День назад

      Is it still him .. or some sort of AI?

    • @mikv8
      @mikv8 22 часа назад +3

      I find the most informative and useful casey about 7 to 15 month old.

  • @Ciclopea2
    @Ciclopea2 День назад +11

    Casey not only delivering the message but embodying it, genius! nice chain btw

  • @MrRobuo
    @MrRobuo 11 часов назад +4

    “Adapt and Overcome” ~ USMC wisdom

  • @mifflinfinity
    @mifflinfinity День назад +11

    The concept of Women only see what’s in front of them - this is so true. Have you ever worked in a restaurant? Ever notice how much dating happens among the men and women who work together in restaurants? Not all women who work in restaurants date their coworkers, but A LOT of them do because - each man working there exists within the context of every other man who works there. It’s inevitable that a few men will stand out among the rest - whether it’s for their looks, or personality, or rank, or combo of these factors. So, it’s easier for guys to be attractive in this setting because it’s easy for their female coworkers to measure them against the other guys within the closed system of that collective group of human beings. It’s easy. It’s primal, it’s tribal. And it’s very common. This is why men and women fall in love at work a lot, and it’s why dating in high school and college is much easier than out in the wild of every day life. Women NEED a framework to compare men against one another in order to feel like they’re making a smart choice.

  • @videoworkshop7hills31
    @videoworkshop7hills31 День назад +20

    Casey got the chainz for your dating gainz. This is literally pure gold. Keep the good work!
    I am not a very talkative dude, I hate the facade bullshit that most of the people output to start a conversation and not feel alone, and especially for the females that usually get showered with free attention from the guys, I have this aura of intrigue for them. Don't try to put yourself in a better light, and don't try to put her in a special light either - raw-dog it so you know when it is the real deal.

  • @DERISNER
    @DERISNER 19 часов назад +7

    Here`s the thing; if you`re a dude, you have to understand there is no way you can win. Literally...no possible way. So, get a little snatch here and there and forget them. Live your life. Believe me, the "games" are NOT worth it.

  • @Wabu1
    @Wabu1 День назад +19

    He brought out the Chain

  • @lastmazemusic
    @lastmazemusic День назад +15

    We need a photo shoot with this outfit asap

  • @DanteSpinotti1
    @DanteSpinotti1 День назад +7

    There's an 80's band called "Men At Work". The were leaving a critical message to male posterity even if you don't listen to their music.

  • @GabrielNg
    @GabrielNg 22 часа назад +4

    This information is absolutely insane. Thank you brother

  • @harlzberg6068
    @harlzberg6068 15 часов назад +3

    This will help guys, since the moment you meet any women, your value and interest to her starts to go down. The bare minimum is best, the more you tell and talk, the more she has against you. If you want to try, don't play your cards facing outwards to see, hold back and watch. If you had a sister that was younger, remember back when all her little friends had a crush on you, because you ignored them and didn't like them. Common sense goes a long way lads.

  • @anthonyluvsjesus
    @anthonyluvsjesus 9 часов назад

    Knocked this one out of the park. My experience as well. Always play non-chalant with women no matter how pretty they are.

  • @DeeloGoodquest
    @DeeloGoodquest 21 час назад +13

    These videos are so on point if you're trying to lock down a broken woman. You can totally slay broken chicks this way, there's no doubt about that. And you can lock one down for a long time. Maybe forever. But if you want the real thing, the skill you want is selecting a woman that has begun the inner work to repair all of these "feminine" attributes that Casey has so incredibly discovered. (Seriously, this is truly an extraordinary achievement.) But if you're not actively working through all your toxically programmed masculinity as well, she will bounce. Work on yourself and you'll find someone else who is working on themselves, and together, you can work yourselves out of this prison we've been born into.

    • @Cream-i5u
      @Cream-i5u 18 часов назад

      Hahahaha youre such a poor guy for believing a woman that she „is repairing her feminine attributes“ hahahahaaha bro hate to break it to you, but youre naive as f*ck. You will become her hubby, her slave, her breadwinner. She wont be obsessed with you. She will just kinda act like it here and there so you do what she wants and stay in love 😂😂

    • @theRFZ
      @theRFZ 14 часов назад +1

      Excellent advice, concur completely!

    • @DeeloGoodquest
      @DeeloGoodquest Час назад

      @ Hey! Thanks, bro! I genuinely thought that was going to be another ramble lost in the abyss.

  • @Valhalla_Heathen
    @Valhalla_Heathen 6 часов назад +1

    Fellow gents, focus on your goals. Let her choose you and come to you!

    • @ZennyKravitz
      @ZennyKravitz 5 часов назад

      This just gives unnecessary power to women. Which is still superficial because women don’t make the best choices. The internet messed up the dating culture and now men are trying to fix it.

  • @ozeatimberlamd8405
    @ozeatimberlamd8405 День назад +10

    „They want you to stuck in that cycle“ shit thats real

  • @Tea4Texas
    @Tea4Texas 22 часа назад

    Your empathy shines through in the most manly of ways.

  • @nycexposed
    @nycexposed 10 часов назад

    This stuff is so crazy man. Praise God that I experienced low interest last month - inspired me to watch a vid like this.

  • @BdDaBOMB
    @BdDaBOMB День назад +4

    Emotional-Unavailability is attractive and self-protective

  • @cayotelives
    @cayotelives День назад +3

    Spitting facts. Two most beautiful women I got was when I ignore them also I knew I had zero chance

    • @massimiliano_bartolini
      @massimiliano_bartolini 21 час назад

      Man you got lucky that's it; there are much more steps ahead than that

  • @johnbaker9508
    @johnbaker9508 День назад +2

    It can work for sure if you talk to them in a way that does not communicate low value. If you have interactions with women and you really don’t care bout the outcome then they like when you talk to them

    • @barcavsreal3993
      @barcavsreal3993 22 часа назад

      Yeah but not like a simp(translation :as scarce as possible)

  • @thomashilmersen711
    @thomashilmersen711 13 часов назад +2

    This is, as usual, a reversion of cause and effect. It is not like all these women go crazy for a guy because he does not talk to them. It is rather that the guy with hundreds of women after him will simply not have time nor energy to talk a lot with all of them. This naturally results in a lot of the women who are not talked to being after the guy.

    • @LeashMechanic
      @LeashMechanic 2 часа назад +1

      This advice has logic but only briefly during the initial attraction phase. Of course a girl will be interested in the (seemingly ok) guy that’s not chasing or talking to her because she knows the guy that’s not chasing isn’t desperate and has a life going on. She knows that if she can catch his interest he won’t like her only for her looks since most other guys objectify her. But that being said once she gets his attention and his interest, if things do work out (and for things to work out) she’s definitely not going to remain attracted if after hitting it off the guy keeps up not talking to her. Presenting initially like you’re not thirsty is basic common sense but think, how many women claiming long term happiness and a great marriage have you ever heard say “it’s because my husband doesn’t talk to me.” Right! None!

  • @nboss968
    @nboss968 13 часов назад +4

    Never listen to what a woman says she wants and always do the opposite

  • @adamfrisch5826
    @adamfrisch5826 День назад +2

    These videos keep getting better every single time.

    • @Hellstar223
      @Hellstar223 День назад

      He’s got more competition now because there’s a guy who kinda copies his style of teaching now

    • @jakethesnake3831
      @jakethesnake3831 23 часа назад

      ​@@Hellstar223psychhacks?

  • @b0ndrey
    @b0ndrey 22 часа назад +1

    I tried this by answering a girl’s questions about me and being open about myself and other topics but not asking questions to indicate I’m trying to get to know her. She was into me on the date but by the end said she was offended I didn’t ask enough questions to get to know her. I thought well maybe that’s part of the process. A couple days later she texted that we weren’t a good match because I didn’t care enough about her to want to get to know her. We’ve not spoken since. And it’s not that she wasn’t physically attracted to me. So this idea that all women are this way or that way doesn’t check out. Some might like the whole I don’t care about you routine but others obviously do not.

    • @ChrisM-yq2pq
      @ChrisM-yq2pq 20 часов назад

      Should have given her time and say, well tell me about yourself

  • @busybboy1915
    @busybboy1915 День назад +8

    Something that I did unintentionally to attract girls was I just had a good friend that was a girl. I had no romantic interest in her so I was fine with just being friends and hanging out with her and having fun. I noticed that girls would check me out when I was with her and once one girl at work found out we weren't dating she immediately found an opportunity to talk to me. Now I have two girls at work that I am having a good time with and even more girls check me out. The only unfortunate thing is most girls will just look at you and not approach when they think you are in a relationship. Not sure how to change that while keeping the attraction.

    • @mikv8
      @mikv8 22 часа назад

      Just hang out with 2+ girls at once so the other would guess you're just friends.

    • @barcavsreal3993
      @barcavsreal3993 22 часа назад

      There is no problem approaching to take their number

    • @DEADLY-LURES-AU
      @DEADLY-LURES-AU 18 часов назад

      Dress gay then they'll be attracted and break the ice

  • @McBain-qe2jh
    @McBain-qe2jh День назад +43

    Your describing a psychopath. These women aren't worthy of respect and get the outcomes they create.

    • @DaTruthHeals
      @DaTruthHeals День назад +11

      Bingo, but these things do work on good women though to a lesser extent. I only date young traditional Latinas, and things are a lot more honest with them. I can ghost an American girl for half the day, maybe a day or two if they have a lot of suitors. But tradicional women usually only talk to one man at a time, so you have to give them attention.
      But all these rules go out the window when you're funny. If you're making her laugh with your texts, then you can text however much you want.

    • @TylerDavis-d9m
      @TylerDavis-d9m День назад

      Bingo

    • @Cream-i5u
      @Cream-i5u 17 часов назад +4

      @@DaTruthHeals“good women“ hahahahah „shes a young traditional latina shes a good woman“ lmaooo

  • @AHIR.D
    @AHIR.D 18 часов назад +50

    i know this isn’t really about the video, but has anyone else seen people talking about the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? i finally gave in after seeing it everywhere, and i can see why people keep bringing it up. it’s super practical and teaches you how to strengthen your presence in a way that feels authentic. i didn’t think something like this would work, but i’ve definitely noticed how people interact with me differently now-it’s like they’re drawn to me without me trying.

  • @1mikesofocused42
    @1mikesofocused42 10 часов назад +1

    its better to be distant just fall back for a little bit because absence makes the heart grow fonder. I went overseas lined up 8 girls and they all were blowing up my phone. I just laid them all down except one because I was tired but she was definitely into me more than I was into her and I got them all wet and I didnt even try I just didnt have time and I spoke less so they wanted more out of me. Just focus on yourself men and hold the line and try just put in less effort on them and more effort on yourself of what you got going on and just be yourself and fall back and watch them pursue.

  • @anaxa4883
    @anaxa4883 День назад +7

    Casey plays all of us by never participating in the comment section so it makes people want to comment more

  • @marcusmcgraw3519
    @marcusmcgraw3519 День назад +33

    Do these women not realize I grew bored of them a long time ago unless they’re worshipping me?

    • @FreshUF
      @FreshUF День назад

      I love it! 🤝

    • @tmt2058
      @tmt2058 23 часа назад +2

      Only God should be worshiped

    • @carolinechitra_888
      @carolinechitra_888 14 часов назад

      You should not be worshipped, princess. You as a man need to adore and worship your woman, the fuck. Toxic masculinity at best 👏

  • @gordy7783
    @gordy7783 День назад +10

    This dude is a fucking scientist holy shit

    • @TylerDavis-d9m
      @TylerDavis-d9m День назад

      Treat fatherless skanks the way their dad did? It's not quantum physics.

  • @RokRazda
    @RokRazda День назад

    This is your best video so far! Take into account your volume of uploads that is saying something. Solid work

  • @dobroslaw_yt
    @dobroslaw_yt 10 часов назад

    one of the best ones so far

  • @Johnny-g5k2x
    @Johnny-g5k2x 23 часа назад +1

    Makes sense.. I was driving my truck and this girl kept talking and talking almost like she was trying to earn my validation and I just kept quiet. She eventually leaned into me and said "You're sooo coooll", then Instead of going to the restaurant, I turned around and went back to her house. You know what happened next.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 23 часа назад

      No, we don't know what happened next. Did you play Xbox with her till sunrise, then walk her home? Did you agree to go to her church next Sunday? Did you destroy her vag like you threw a hand grenade in it?
      I'm super curious now.

  • @CHARISMA808
    @CHARISMA808 7 часов назад

    Bro you just help me get all of my power back 🤯

  • @DrDru-dx8iv
    @DrDru-dx8iv День назад +2

    Casey, you are 1000% right...... When you ignore women, it makes you mysterious, arrogant and non simpish. You need her to respond in a "Why isn't he looking at me, every guy wants at me..... Who the fvck does he think he is? He must be pre selected and high value" kind of way.

  • @kamarucci99
    @kamarucci99 День назад +2

    Lately been listening to Casey a lot after seeing him on Michael Sartain's podcast. Michael, Casey, and Dr. Orion Taraban (psychhacks) have been probably my top 3 guys lately.

  • @rockyv9228
    @rockyv9228 4 часа назад

    Preach!! I can't believe how much nonsense we have to put up with....insanity.

  • @JeremyYu-r8g
    @JeremyYu-r8g Час назад

    The real goat discussion 🔥💪

  • @frankyturrizo4240
    @frankyturrizo4240 23 часа назад +2

    If you show Zero interest, she will move on . Let them know you wouldn't throw them out of the bed, but don't act like you're super into them either . It's always worked for me

  • @MarkFuriniArt
    @MarkFuriniArt 4 часа назад

    The most women I ever had was when I didn't care. Now, I was in my mid to late 30s but being non cholant care free works and it shows confidence. Women will say one thing and not even mean it. Go on how they act towards you not what they tell you.

  • @robbyrobby7721
    @robbyrobby7721 12 часов назад +1

    Be cool, don’t try, they will pick you if they like you

  • @michaelnelson-o9m
    @michaelnelson-o9m 19 часов назад

    On a totally different level, I have learned it’s the silent language that women notice, they can tell if you noticed them they look at our eyes, women do what I called a two second scan, if it is even that long they do that to all of us guys most of the time in that two second scan, a woman has already realized nope not for me! So following all of this Code, combination, Rubiks cube approach to dating is exhausting. Be yourself guys and if they don’t like you move on…

  • @danifresh001
    @danifresh001 День назад +2

    Keep talking son am watching and listening son

  • @andrewmoore2019
    @andrewmoore2019 Час назад

    You sir , are 100% correct. Less is more with modern women

  • @elbartoyoutube2915
    @elbartoyoutube2915 День назад +11

    " There is no spoon"- The Matrix

    • @meffer
      @meffer 18 часов назад

      wdym

  • @zipperbots
    @zipperbots День назад +10

    You say "Act properly to get that date" but you're also saying don't ask for a date or show interest. So are you saying the perfect scenario would be to act like you already have a GF and the future GF would ask to come home with you? There are so few women that want to be the one that takes initiative. The important key you left out is even if she is the one that chases you then how do you accept her date, or proposition, without showing interest (or keep up the Act that you have a GF waiting for you at home)?

    • @jdavid9268
      @jdavid9268 День назад +11

      Please don’t take everything he says literally or apply it. He makes some very good points and has done so in past videos too, but content creators eventually run out of content to talk about and they scrape the bottom of the barrel to find something

    • @igottarestartthis23
      @igottarestartthis23 7 часов назад

      it easy bro you are just overthinking.
      Act like you already have a gf. Therefore you “act” like you don’t need the new girl. When the new girl asks you to hangout. Never give her your certainty and keep it simple.
      “lunch at 3?
      You: “Maybe, i’ll have to see if I can make it. If anything ill meet you 3:30”
      Boom

  • @pasadera1
    @pasadera1 3 часа назад

    Casey can you talk about once you get a girls number from a dating app to setting up a date. Love your videos

  • @TheShepdawg9
    @TheShepdawg9 19 часов назад

    'Acting different in different settings' vs 'acting indifferent around a girl you like' is insanely different son. One involves raising or lowering your energy for an hour, the other involves a potential long-term investment of falsifying your own biology.
    Once again, you provide a sound theory around the thought process of women, but your solution is balls.

  • @RedRumble14
    @RedRumble14 День назад +27

    “don’t talk to them, do nothing and stay silent!- why don’t you do the right thing for once?” - casey
    seems true in many cases

  • @Turbo_Tastic
    @Turbo_Tastic 17 часов назад

    saving this one for long term; how do you keep coming up with this stuff, you are one of the great philosphers of the world, this is more important than Aristotle and other greats; love it; this type of thing is so much more important than many other things, this is the mating game. Now just need to find women then didn't get the injections

  • @aceofbase7239
    @aceofbase7239 День назад +2

    This is 100% true..I know it from myself..but can you make a video how to actually have success as a man making the "first" step..going up to a woman and getting to know her..in your day to day life..without the apps

  • @labindangal1142
    @labindangal1142 7 часов назад

    Bro got the concept with the handwriting😂

  • @alwaysgreatusa223
    @alwaysgreatusa223 День назад +14

    Casey, other Red-Pill Dating Coaches advise men to just be themselves, and to be authentic; and many of them even go on to say, you should be direct with women and not play any games.
    But here you are talking about 'acting' and knowing 'how to play the game', so it seems to be the opposite of what they are saying. I think you are right, but... If you ever have any intention of taking her out, let alone sleeping with her, don't you need to show her some small amount of interest and talk to her just a little ? I get it about not showing too much interest too soon, but sooner or later she is going to know the truth. Then she will start to lose attraction for you because she will see you were just being fake in the beginning, or that you are just pretending not to like her even now. What am I missing ?

    • @stephenporrill979
      @stephenporrill979 День назад +5

      I think just don't be too thirsty, maybe show a small amount of attraction and see how she responds.. Believe in yourself you are the prize.. If there is natural chemistry let it happen and don't try to hard.. I'm trying this today..

    • @SiphiweMkhize-dq4po
      @SiphiweMkhize-dq4po День назад

      😅I so agree with u. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @DeeloGoodquest
      @DeeloGoodquest 21 час назад

      You're exactly right. She will see through all the bullshit eventually. Casey is teaching manipulation tactics which definitely work. That's why his community has grown so much. It's pretty genius actually! But longterm, it's not sustainable. Nobody can fake it for that long. And nobody wants to.

    • @DEADLY-LURES-AU
      @DEADLY-LURES-AU 18 часов назад +2

      He is a chad. That's it. I've game a longtime. Jacked box heads will always be first preference even if the weedy martial arts expert guy could turn them into origami. Hard wired primitive attraction triggers they'll have not evolved since the dawn of mankind

    • @stephenporrill979
      @stephenporrill979 8 часов назад

      @@DEADLY-LURES-AU so get jacked then or miss out and complain about it man, how does your comment help exactly?

  • @fredflinstime6676
    @fredflinstime6676 День назад +15

    I’m sorry, but it seems to me like devouring chalkboard after chalkboard of talking points and facts, that the most efficient way to get something done is to just get your wallet out and pay a pro. How much money should I shell out to join groups of men who figure out how to attract women who have horrible characters, bad personalities and never can truly love you anyway.

    • @somethinderpsterious
      @somethinderpsterious День назад +6

      Yes that's most efficient but being successful is more rewarding

    • @zizouurb6332
      @zizouurb6332 16 часов назад

      If you’re looking that women love you that’s a mistake already, you should only get interested in f$ck them, that’s honestly when they find you attractive.

  • @KingKelechiMusic
    @KingKelechiMusic 20 часов назад +1

    Thank you man. On God, thank you.

  • @AlanPillinger
    @AlanPillinger 11 часов назад

    Beyond counter-intuitive. Beyond mind-bending. Iconoclastic.

  • @lizard6738
    @lizard6738 5 часов назад

    Great info - wish I would have known these things 30 years ago when I was in my 20s. Now I couldn’t care less about playing women’s games, so I will leave the “acting” to the younger guys.

  • @danfalconi9840
    @danfalconi9840 40 минут назад

    You can attract her all you want but you still need to make the first move, its rare for women to make the first move, it does happen but don't wait too long

  • @daxx299
    @daxx299 День назад

    8:03 Great point from here on. You have to be able to act and play a role. You have to take initiative and carry yourself properly.

  • @duckmann5000
    @duckmann5000 11 часов назад

    You had my Attention at The Gold Chain 👌🏽🔥💯

  • @davidtrzeciak2451
    @davidtrzeciak2451 День назад

    Keep it up man. The big fish in a little pond is 100 correct.

  • @tzkmm2989
    @tzkmm2989 12 часов назад

    That chain is so funny but at the same time tuff😭😭

  • @davidekbaltini
    @davidekbaltini День назад +6

    Casey - what advice would you give a guy who works with only women, women bosses, coworkers, clients are 99% women

  • @maestro4086
    @maestro4086 День назад +18

    8 minutes in im confused. Not talk to them at all to gain attraction? If that’s the case all introverts would have all the women.
    I prefer Corey Wayne.

    • @JamesWhiting-iw5tp
      @JamesWhiting-iw5tp День назад +2

      Love Corey!

    • @plumisland1070
      @plumisland1070 День назад

      He’s not practical, but it’s fun to listen to. That’s it.😂

    • @AYYYLMAOOOOO
      @AYYYLMAOOOOO День назад +1

      A man that is highly attractive to woman has such a different experience with women than an average dude. What Casey is saying is 100% true but you have to up your value.

    • @igottarestartthis23
      @igottarestartthis23 7 часов назад

      No bro. Its because those introverts just look like losers….Theres is no “wow” factor about them that stands out.
      In order to “attract” you have to have something they are attracted to. You are a magnet for women but only if you are attractive enough to

  • @chrispeeples6961
    @chrispeeples6961 12 часов назад

    This is your best video

  • @chuckhuang756
    @chuckhuang756 День назад +1

    What Casey made a good point. 2025 they got jobs money in that regards that’s not much issue anymore. We need to great at something that creates an aura being in a position of status either in sports or a passion that she likes and admire to. Money can’t build a real status. Or a wrong status that attract to the wrong person the gold diggers. Focus on our goals be the best we can represent our self.

    • @igottarestartthis23
      @igottarestartthis23 7 часов назад

      it doesn’t matter about what she likes or admires….Status can be anything from a shiny gold watch to having iced out chains..That alone signals status, money, ambition.
      “Gold diggers” aren’t even real. Only a fool will let his gold be dug by man or woman. A fool and his money always become separated

  • @ffgaming-lt9mv
    @ffgaming-lt9mv 18 часов назад +1

    i know this isn’t what the video’s about, but i had to mention how i kept seeing Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki in comments everywhere. curiosity got the better of me, and i finally read it. it’s wild how much it changes your mindset and the way you come across to others. it’s not about pretending to be confident-it’s about genuinely building that energy so it shows naturally. definitely worth all the buzz it’s been getting.

  • @HectorRodriguez-qf6ij
    @HectorRodriguez-qf6ij 9 часов назад +1

    Her: Hey good morning!
    Me: 🤐

  • @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT
    @IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT 19 часов назад

    Casey always makes comments and I’m just like damn…yep! I’ve experienced that 😂

  • @RandySloan-i2t
    @RandySloan-i2t 14 часов назад

    How amazing.. it is all true!!

  • @TheRedM856
    @TheRedM856 День назад +11

    Video number 8 of asking for a uncle C and John zherka collab

    • @marcusmcgraw3519
      @marcusmcgraw3519 День назад

      So 2 bad manipulators working with each other? Why would you want to subject yourself to that?

    • @REAL-rd4wy
      @REAL-rd4wy День назад

      Will be good

    • @marcusmcgraw3519
      @marcusmcgraw3519 День назад +2

      @ why would you want to watch a video with 2 bad manipulators?

    • @dylancheshire5220
      @dylancheshire5220 День назад +1

      They’re too similar, both personalities would probably clash

    • @LiamRayJames
      @LiamRayJames День назад

      Na zherka doesnt bitches

  • @franswiggidy
    @franswiggidy День назад

    wish I had seen this video 3 months ago...would have been a game changer in my relationship.

  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw 10 часов назад +1

    You must pull back and make her chase you. She can't pull back or play games when she doesn't have the power

  • @lilnyicyor7266
    @lilnyicyor7266 День назад +1

    It goes against the art of seduction which one is true?

  • @AkeminiEkpo
    @AkeminiEkpo 13 часов назад

    Question
    Does this language of women really help in long distance relationships?

  • @alexl.4362
    @alexl.4362 9 часов назад +1

    This would only work if she's invested in you in the first place.

  • @hotfirein321
    @hotfirein321 18 часов назад

    I love these videos...I'll have to join the community soon...I enjoy listening to men who just give you the game...straight no chaser.
    I've never really been interested in "keeping" women for the long term...I'm only interested in short term flings and arrangements. I enjoy fishing...but not necessarily "keeping" the fish. I enjoy going out to the water and enjoying the sights and sounds...and if I catch a fish, great...and if not, still great. But what I don't want to do; is dive into the water and be "one with the fish" in order to get the fish. I also don't want to lose sleep if I don't get any fish.
    I have food at home and can have fish delivered to my house fresh.
    I've been indifferent to women for about 10 years now and I will never go back to "trying" or "putting forth effort". I show up...do my thing and leave...simple as that. and If I don't leave with anything then I'll order from the "secret menu"
    😉

  • @nathanbutcher7720
    @nathanbutcher7720 18 часов назад

    Attraction is ALL about pre-selection. How you behave in front of women will subtly let them know if you've had experience with other women or not - and most of the behaviors you have to display should reinforce this. E.g not caring what the woman thinks, not trying to attract her, not trying to prove yourself to her, not wasting time, not making much time for her, brushing her off like she doesn't matter, being happy and socially active, and most importantly - being blunt about what you want while brushing off rejection. You can do other things like subtly mention that you had conversations with lots of other women, but you never want to be caught bragging about being with other women or they'll sense that you're trying to impress them. You have to put on the act that other women like you and you don't have time for all of them - until it's actually your reality.

  • @jackknife4547
    @jackknife4547 59 минут назад

    To which psychological principle is nature vs nurture on women?

  • @RandySloan-i2t
    @RandySloan-i2t 14 часов назад

    This means every woman is in a fantasy world!!!

  • @Vemiant
    @Vemiant День назад +2

    Haha this showed up at the right time

  • @lampkin9287
    @lampkin9287 День назад

    Casey! Bruh…you just broke the internet with that shit. You the main character, the dude in the edit, Him’sey!

  • @BIGGYBEAR
    @BIGGYBEAR День назад +2

    I was in the middle of watching then the vid got taken down what happened bro

  • @barrywolff9621
    @barrywolff9621 9 часов назад

    There are millions of women that I don’t talk to daily. However, that does not seem to work with any of them. What’s going on?

  • @carbonskimask3712
    @carbonskimask3712 День назад +1

    WE HAVE TO GO AHEAD AN GIVE IT UP DONT MATTER WHAT WOMEN ARE OPPOSITE THATS JUST THAT