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I absolutely love your approach to this topic. Our bodies, especially women's bodies do not get enough credit for the power and efficiency they provide. Loss is incredibly difficult but I'm so glad you're okay. I believe my unborn starseed felt they needed to help someone else at the time and simply chose a new person to connect with. Also, this should just be a reminder to be kind, you don't owe anyone anything, but you choose to share content that literally helps us to relax and lessen our anxiety. I hope more people learn to approach these comments sections with mindfulness and grace.
Hello Julia. Is it possible that i may be unblocked from your Instagram? I sent a message about a year ago and it wasn’t hateful but i think you had been getting a lot of comments about the same thing so you blocked me. I get it because i totally respect keeping your mental health sacred but i promise i am not a hater. The message was not a personal comment on your relationships it was like a comment on recycling or something. But i get how it might have been alot because it was earth day i think. If you are willing to consider, I can email you my Instagram handle or tell you in whatever way is most convenient (can you dm on RUclips? Not sure) thank you ❤️
I miscarried my first pregnancy at age 33 on Christmas day. We had been trying off and on for 7 years. I was absolutely devasted. I also "knew" something was wrong with the pregnancy. Three months later my husband died suddenly of a heart attack. And two days after his funeral I found out I was pregnant again. Our daughter is 17 now. Though it was an extremely difficult time, I am so thankful for my daughter. My heart goes out to you and thanks for taking on a difficult subject.
This comment broke me. I can’t even imagine what you’ve been through. So much grief at once. So glad you have your daughter, but so sorry you went through so much. 💕
Melissa - My heart goes out to you. Thank you for choosing to share this story. It was very emotional to read and I can only imagine how much your daughter means to you. Sending you love now and always. ❤️
It's astonishing to me how little we actually learn about biology in biology class. It's also quite beautiful how in tune you are with your body and self. I'm happy that you have found your certainty with regard to motherhood and even though it was sad news I'm happy for you, since I know it will happen when the time is right.
That reminds me, I barely recently learned, even after having a baby, that your cervix is moving like every day. Sometimes it’s lower or higher in position.
Physician, father, and husband speaking here. Thank you for being open and honest in sharing your experience. You are doing great things for the community.
The positive & confident stance you had in trusting yourself-your body, that was mega for me. This is SO rarely discussed. Thank you for this very honest story share. You + Nick are going to experience joy in whatever form & whenever it shows up.
I had 4 miscarriages before I finally got pregnant with my son. So please don't get discouraged. I was also the last of my friends to have children. I was 29 with my first and 32 with my second. You got this girl! ❤🙏🏾🥰
I miscarried when I was 22. What I didn’t expect was how devastating it felt. It was an accidental pregnancy, one that I was still weighing my options over (I hadn’t even told my ex yet because I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do). But suddenly once my body made that decision for me, I felt the emptiness of it all. I know one day It will all make sense, but in that moment I was alone. Hearing other people’s stories have been such a source of comfort, so thank you Julia for sharing your story
Thank you for walking with your void. You've found yourself to be a survivor. And you're standing with yourself against all odds of the struggle. You are strong, even if your heart is breaking. And you can be very very proud of that strength of yours. It may not look or feel that way now, but it's already true. You've found the words. So you are with yourself in this. Forever your most valuable support, that has or will invite more support in to stand with you and your whole self, as you're facing the currents of human life. In the hope to reflect a bit (or a lot) of the strength back to you, that comes through from you, already.
I'm astonished at how in tune you are with your body. We clearly aren't taught enough about what miracles and wonders our body is capable of. Thank you for being so transparent with us and making others going through the same experience feel less alone. Thank you for being you. Anyone else going through this same situation, or something similar, please know you have all my most sincere love and respect. It's going to get better. Good days are coming ❤💕
I’m 48 years old and have never been, nor had ever wanted to be pregnant. With that being said, this was a beautiful, powerful and deeply peaceful video. Thank you for telling your story and highlighting female mental and physical health. You are a light.
Have a friendly hello and hug (if you like) from somewhere across the world from a fellow female of 32, having know for years this path is not for me, regardless of adoring children and having a deep respect for those who (want to) walk the path of motherhood. You, too, are not alone.
I'm 41 and my husband is 48. We've never wanted children, but I can completely understand a woman wanting a child. I've always said the same as you - if you miscarry, especially earlier than 11 weeks, your body is doing its thing. I'm glad you have such a healthy perspective, and I hope this video helps others in a similar position.
I just want to see I really appreciate you sharing this with us, and the way you spoke about it gave me a new perspective on how our body works. I personally have never been pregnant nor had a miscarriage but this really open up my eyes to a whole bunch of things. So once again, thank you for sharing this with us
While I can't understand exactly how you feel, I've had 12 pregnancies and have given birth to 4 healthy babies. I'm always so amazed and impressed with how you seem to be very in tune with your body and I hope that your experiences in the coming months are positive for you and Nick. You are an amazing person and I wish you all the best and much love.
I, honestly, would love a separate video of the things you know and have learned about yourself and body in this aspect. As you were mentioning possibly creating a second video about these kinds of details.
Having a child isn't something I've been interested in for myself - but I listened to your entire video on the edge of my seat with tears in my eyes. It's really interesting to hear your experience and what you physically went through. It makes me question if it has happened to me before without me knowing. Anyways, I really, really hope (and believe) it will happen for you. Thank you for being brave and sharing this!
I'm 47 years old. I have never had kids, but I always wanted kids. I had a miscarriage about 5 years ago. I was really upset. I didn't really mourn. I went back to work on that Monday, I had miscarriage on Saturday. I feel your pain.
This is exactly what happened to me in February! It was also my first pregnancy and it was so devastating. I totally feel for you! I’m happy to share that in May we got pregnant again and I am now 15 weeks pregnant. I hope you guys try again and it works out for you 😊 ❤️ thank you for sharing!
I've had multiple clinical losses and it is never easy going through a loss, no matter how early it may occur. I hid my losses for years because I was so ashamed and felt like a total failure of a woman. As others have said, thank you for talking about a (sadly) taboo topic. Wishing you and Nick all the very best. Sending you peace, love, and joy ❤️
Slowing down and becoming in tune with our bodies is one of our most important experiences, in my opinion. Trusting our bodies to carry us through this life and tell us what they need is so comforting. I’m sorry things didn’t work out this time around ❤️ It’s crazy how much we learn about ourselves outside of a school setting.
I needed to see this! When I went through my own experience with a miscarriage last year, I felt bad that I did not feel bad. People in my own circle branded me as “cold” simply because I did not mourn my pregnancy. Thank you for helping me feel less cold 💜
i’m so sorry that people feel the right to comment on your life and relationship. i hope this makes people reconsider when they comment about things they don’t know about. either way, thank you julia for sharing this with us, it always amazes me how honest and vulnerable you are with your followers. i always love hearing your reflections, i find them to be very interesting especially coming from such an insightful person. hope you and nick are doing well!
I miscarried at 11wks 5 days, but I was on contraception for 12 years before myself and my partner decided to try for a baby, when I miscarried I also choose to believe that was my body's way of doing what it was suppose to do in maybe not carrying the pregnancy to term maybe something wrong due to long contraception use as I also fell pregnant straight away, after my first full period after the loss I fell pregnant again she is now a healthy lovely 7 year old 😊 I believe in the power of a women's body, sending good wishes and lots of love from Scotland!
Lost my baby at 22 weeks. I suddly discovered he wasn't growing during a check. I was shocked and i immediatly got into hospital but they couldn't do anything. They induced me labor and i had to give birth to my dead child. After months It still seems unreal. Woman are so strong. Now i understant It sooo much more. I hope i can help someone else with my story. You are not alone. Sending you all my support. PS i'm Italian, i'm sorry if i'm not that good at writing
I remember commenting a while back on one of your ASMR videos saying that I believed you would be a great mother and I still firmly stand by that statement. I know you’ll get pregnant in the right time and your baby will be so lucky to have you and Nick as it’s parents 💕
Our bodies are truly amazing. I gave birth to my first child a month ago. Pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum all come with wonderful demonstrations of how our bodies grow and support other life! I’m amazed by the power of my body to grow and support another human - even postpartum. Keep following your dreams. I wish you the best going forward!
You're the second RUclipsr I follow who's gone through a first-time pregnancy miscarriage in the last couple months... praying for you and Nick in your loss but also so encouraged by your high levels of body confidence and hope in the midst of disappointment💓💜💓
I love how open you are with this. I'm so happy you decided to share what's going on, despite how difficult this must be to share with us. I'm happy you're letting us know we aren't alone. Sending good vibes
Thank you for sharing, Julia. I highly recommend the book 'Vagina: A Re-education' by the author Lynn Enright for anyone who wants to read in depth about women's bodies which have been ignored/ not understood properly.
I had a miscarriage prior to my current pregnancy and it was absolutely devastating after trying to conceive for so long. The emotional and physical aspect of miscarrying is so difficult to go through. About 4 months later I got pregnant again and I’m now approaching my due date. This is so common and not talked about often enough. Thank you!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been there. When you have your rainbow baby, don't be surprised or feel bad if grief hits you a little bit. It hit me. Also, the next time you read a comment about your relationship remember that 85% of people do no realize that no relationship is perfect or easy and you have to work through things and forgive. Relationships are give and take. Its a commitment that you wake up and make every day and it's a lot of work and love. Be proud of your relationship. You communicate effectively to make sure you BOTH get to your goals and that's what it is about.
You have grown emotionally so much in the last few years. I’m amazed at how much you share with us all. Thank you for allowing us to see inside your heart. You are going to make a wonderful mom whenever that day comes. I was listening to you and in my mind’s eye I could see you snuggling an infant and looking so happy. God bless you Julia. May the Lord bless you abundantly ♥️♥️
It's so refreshing to hear someone talk about their experience of early miscarriage. I have a few friends that have experienced the same thing, especially during their first try/ attempt at becoming pregnant, it's almost like the body has to have some practice runs. Anyway talking about it should be normalised because it's way more common than we think and if more women know about it, it can be less of an anxious and taboo experience for us.
Ive been there! Even though its a “loss” there is so much to gain! At least you both know now, with all certainty, that this is what you both want in life. And when it happens again, it will be such a beautiful and happy time ❤️. I too would love a video in how you became so in tune with your body and what you do to take care of it. 🥰
I love how informed she is about her body. Maybe we would all feel a little more sense of comfort if we were like this? I’m very sorry for your loss but also amazed at how well you trusted the whole process and were then able to process your emotions better.
Thank you Julia, for sharing something so intimate. It's both generous and brave. It's inspiring to hear about your faith and trust in your body. I lost two pregnancies (before the 8 week mark) and I had struggled to conceive both times. When you find it difficult to get pregnant, you're already at a disadvantage on the faith and trust front, so when you do conceive, the pregnancy feels very fragile. Through those losses, and the subsequent testing of the expelled embryos, I found out that my hormones were sub-optimal. The embryos were genetically fine... it was my body's ability to sustain the pregnancy that was the problem. I hear what you're saying about nature, but in my case, my body wasn't able to nurture a pregnancy without help. For my third pregnancy, I was supplemented with the hormones I needed otherwise I would have almost certainly miscarried again. Just flagging this for anyone who's had multiple losses. Wishing you all the best on your baby journey. I think you'll make a wonderful mama to a lucky little soul someday ❤️
Thank you for sharing, Julia and I am sorry for your and Nick’s loss. Sending love and my best wishes and hope for you two that the next pregnancy is as wonderful as you deserve. ❤️
In 2016 I lost my pregnancy in July. We were a week shy of our second trimester. We got pregnant again a few months later and our son was born in July 2017. The second time around I had to take a daily dose of progesterone to sustain the pregnancy but all was well. You two take care and I wish you luck on this journey.
Thank you for sharing such a deeply personal experience. Indeed, it is quite astonishing how little is discussed and how much misinformation there is about a woman's cycle and how fertility actually works. Our first child, my wife and I, miscarried at around 13 weeks. It was a very difficult experience for her, but we supported each other through the pain and the hurt, grew closer as a couple, and she got pregnant again very shortly thereafter, and now we have two beautiful amazing and strong little boys. You and Nick will make wonderful parents.
thank you so much for helping me feel like I'm not a complete sociopath for not being completely devastated. I haven't been able to articulate my feelings in that way. Hugs
Your videos have gotten me through the most painful year of my life - no exaggeration, I watch a little of your ASMR every night, or I can't fall asleep. Thank you for sharing your loss with grace and courage. I wish there was something we could do for you in exchange for the comfort and reassurance that your content gives us.
I completely understand what you’re feeling. We got pregnant on our first try. We made it to 11 weeks. We had a missed miscarriage and found out at our first ultrasound the baby stopped growing at 8w7days. This was may and now just starting to try again. I’m so sorry for your loss. But know you’re not alone and there’s always someone to express everything to. I know it puts a strange feeling on it being the first pregnancy and the excitement isn’t the same. Good luck and baby dust on your next try. ❤️🌈
I just love you. Your honesty and open minded views are so refreshing. I totally agree with you that our bodies are absolutely incredible and I am in awe of it.
Sorry about the pregnancy, and thank you for this perspective. I agree miscarriage is not talked a lot about so thank you again for shedding some light on it. ❤
I’ve been watching your videos for so many years now, and you have always given me so much insight into what an awesome relationship with oneself can look like. I’m 19 now, and the way that you are able to so eloquently describe how you’re feeling, no matter the situation, has given me an abundance of confidence in my own abilities to be comfortable and in tune with myself. Thank you.
I soooooooo needed this video in this exact moment. I have been struggling with my emotions I had a miscarriage last month on my wedding anniversary. I have 2 children already, but this is the first miscarriage. I literally went through so many of the same exact things you went through. So thank you Julia. This has made me appreciate you so much more.
I just want to say that I admire your perspective on this subject so much! I’ve personally never had a miscarriage, but I have close friends who have. Watching this video and hearing your honesty helps me support them. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
The time you got with that little life sounds so joyful. It gave you such certainty in your feelings and connection to others. I’m so sorry you couldn’t continue your journey together, but so happy that it left you with so many gifts.
Julia!!! As someone who is only a few years younger than you I find you and your content to be SO inspiring. Your honesty and outlook on life has truly positively impacted my life. Thank you for sharing your life and thoughts with us.
I always know when I get pregnant I get like a wierd butterfly feeling in my belly even before I've missed a period and soon as I take a test its positive and I always find out when I'm around 4 weeks 5 days. It's so crazy xx
I had a very similar (actually the same…) experience in March. Was trying for a few months and had a very early miscarriage. One of my friends also had the same experience happen to her last week. It shocks me to see how we do not talk about this, as it is so common. I was actually shamed by a nurse during my visit to the hospital and I was completely astonished at how awful some people can be when we live through a miscarriage. I was lucky in all that, and I am now almost 5 months pregnant and very happy :) I wish everyone reading this and you Julia good luck. Remember you have every right to grieve and be treated with respect, all you feel is valid.
I had 3 miscarriages before 28 years old. I trusted that my body was making the right decision for me too. Now, at 29, I am holding my rainbow baby while watching this. 🌈
I’ve thought about pregnancy before but never really considered it until I watched your video. The way you explained the joy you felt when you found out you were pregnant had me in tears. Even though this was a bittersweet experience I can honestly say you handled it way better than most could. It’s refreshing hearing someone speak about this in a very coming to grips kind of way. I really enjoyed learning although I’m very sorry about the outcome. I hope to be able to have that bonding experience with my body one day because it’s not only beautiful but important. Thank you for sharing something so private and special with us! ♡ Sending you the warmest hugs, love, and healing energy your way. ✨Things will take place when your body is ready.
i love how appreciative and aware you are with your body and also the fact that you are being so open and vulnerable with your community. Sending lots of love♥️
Don’t give up!!! It’ll happen… thank you so much for sharing it actually feels better when you let things out… I’ve had 2 early miscarriages at (6 weeks) - and now I am 8 months pregnant!! Just keep trying and don’t give up!
This video has really reassured me about the process of becoming and being pregnant, as well as my body knowing what's best for me. I want kids in the future and now I'm excited again about starting a family when I'm ready
Omg...I had a very similar experience three years ago. An inexplicable feeling. Never got to the point of taking a test, but about a week later, an uncharacteristically short and painful bout of bleeding and then nothing, followed by a weird cycle afterwards. I've always suspected something. Although I will never know for sure, you sharing your story makes me think that inexplicable feeling may well have been right. Thank you for sharing this, Julia.
I know EXACTLY what you mean when you speak of just knowing in your bones. It’s not a physical symptom - it’s a mental clarity that’s hard to explain. Sending you lots of love 🤍
I’m sorry you had to go through that. I had a loss last Spring. Thanks for sharing your experience I think you’ll be helping lots of other women. Wishing you the best for a healthy and positive future.
You are so strong for sharing this. I had a miscarriage when my son was a year old. I had severe complications with him and knew immediately when I found out that my body wasn't ready for it yet, I had my first prenatal appointment and a few weeks later woke up with that same feeling that I was no longer pregnant. I started heavily bleeding later that day and saw my doctor a few days later who ordered blood work. I got the call when I was at work that I was no longer pregnant. It was so hard
I think the morale of this story is...stop judging people that make content on RUclips that you don't really know!!! (Seriously, listening to her talk about those comments people made made me SO angry.) I'm so sorry for your loss, Julia. Your outlook on it is absolutely astounding, though, and I admire you all the more for it.
You're a good person for sharing and being transparent about all the associated feelings with change (on a wider level). Owning and understanding our feelings can help us support ourselves and be kinder towards everyone - who are in one way or another also facing changes.
the human body really is amazing. a few months ago i went through egg donation to support couples who dreamed of having kids but, for various reasons, were not able to do so on their own. it was anincredible experience and a deeply personal, several month long journey of introspection for me -- thinking about my own health, pregnancy, and the capabilities of the female body. it was an uncomfortable process due to hormonal therapy and the pain after the donation procedure was intense, but ultimately 100% worth it. i feel incredibly proud that i was able to change the lives of so many couples. it truly has shifted my perspective. much love and respect to you, Julia -- thank you for being so open about your experiences. xx
I think we can all agree and appreciate you putting your personal life out there so much and being real about it - instead of just doing ASMR videos which I always loved. Recently had a miscarriage in July. It definitely helps a lot hearing it too from a RUclips whom I love and watch regularly. Thank you
You are so strong and vulnerable, it is so inspiring. I feel so sad that people comment these weird, hurtfull shit like they know you throughout. People should understand that you don't share every single thing in your life, and you decide what and when you share. I am very relieved to hear you deal with everything, and Nick as well. You guys are amazing, remind me a lot of me and my boyfriend. No relationship is perfect, nobody should think so. Take care and I'm thinking of you guys
Hi! Last night I watched this video and I’m amazed by you! The way you speak and express yourself. You’re so transparent. You’re such an inspiring woman 🤩💗 I hope you have a beautiful baby sometime with nick 💜 that kid will be soooo lucky! My best wishes from south america, argentina 🇦🇷
Julia....You made me cry: not bc of the miscarriage, although terribly sad & I'm so very sorry, but how incredibly strong you are as a woman. I'm 51 now & when I was 28 I had ovarian cancer so I wasn't able to have a baby. I was devastated. It changed me, I was mad at the world, God, people who had kids that (in my opinion) didn't deserve them. I would go into deep depression when I would see a child abuse or murder case on the news. Basically anything would trigger me. What you said resonated more that anything anyone has told me, trying to comfort me. "I trusted my body to do what it needed to do. It most likely wouldn't have been a healthy pregnancy". A light clicked on for me. Due to all my health issue I would have never had a healthy pregnancy or baby. I appreciate you sharing such an intimate part of your life. Thank you.
hey Julia ,im currently pregnant with my first baby (due december 25th) after years of doubting myself and my body. i was convinced i couldnt get pregnant and was in complete shock when i found out im definitely carrying a little human. im sorry you had to experience this but also very proud that you are at peace with it, you trusting your own body is super important. i know you are doing well and you and your positive mindset are so inspiring. sending lots of love from belgium
Thank you so much for sharing this Julia ♥️ That sense of simply just knowing what’s happening with your body resonates so perfectly with my experience as-well ♥️
Your videos are my favorite to watch and your entire aura and demeanor is such a calming bright light. Pregnancy and childbirth is so amazing and special (and hard!), I hope you have a joyous and healthy pregnancy in the future and cherish the experience! Feeling a baby kicking within you is indescribably special and those memories will last a lifetime. You will be totally in awe at how miraculous your body is.
Julia you sweet sweet soul I send all kinds of love . I've been on this journey called life with you for 5 years and you show me just how much room there is to grow all the time. You always have so much insight and wisdom. Being only 26 you've been a big role model in my life.
I love your perspective on this. It's a beautiful view of a hard subject. So many women go through it and it's not openly talked about. Thank you for sharing such a personal experience with all of us. You are a beautiful person. I wish you and Nick health and happiness.
I lost my first pregnancy. I have heard this from quite a few women about the first one. You are gonna be a great mom.. and you WILL be a mom. Im glad you were educated about it and didn’t melt down even though it is disappointing. Keep trying!! Give it a couple of months.. don’t quote me on that but I vaguely remember being told to wait a few months before I tried again to give my system a chance to settle down.
Thank you for sharing this. I just had an IUI that failed and I was so incredibly disappointed and heartbroken. Even though we understand how and why things happen and that we accept it, I think it's super important to still acknowledge that we need to honour that grief that comes with it. Grief of a loss of something that could have been. And I'm glad you talked about the hormones because even after it doesn't work out, the hormones leave us out of whack for a long time after. Thank you for your candidness and openness on this topic. Good luck with your journey and baby dust to you. 🥰❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thankyou for talking about this so openly, I'm 28 and my partner and I suffered a miscarriage at 12 weeks and it devastated both of us, I have always felt like things happen for a reason and its so nice to hear you talk about how you just 'know' because I kept telling people for weeks I knew! It takes time to heal but I definitely feel for sure a woman's body is so strong after what we go through x
I am so sorry about the miscarriage and all the negative comments people have left you on social media about your life. It's not okay. I think your perspective is very interesting. I wish you all the best💗
Julia, you have such this beautiful thing about you. I absolutely love hearing you open up about your life and your view and perspective on things. You go through life so gracefully and I think we all have something to learn from it. I've never been through a miscarriage, nor do I have children yet but I can tell you that I still learnt something from watching your video today and for that I want to say thank you. I've been watching your videos since the very beginning and I'm excited to see your future unfold. I really do believe that when your time comes, you will be an amazing mother.
Its so sad to me that people are so quick to presume they know someone else's life and relationship based on the occasional video. So brave of you to come on here and speak about this and in such detail as well since I know fertility is something a lot of us can relate too so you are definitely not alone. I hope you find this video it therapeutic and it brings you peace. You and Nick deserve nothing but happiness and have no doubt that it will come
It’s definitely not an easy topic for most but the way you spoke about it is such a beautiful perspective. Loss isn’t easy but being able to process it and turn it into something positive gives a feeling of growth and hope. Thank you for this share 🙏🏽
To me, this sounds like you genuinely just care about us as well. Thank you for caring & thank you for sharing ❤️ You’re amazing. I’m sorry for social media trolls. We will never know your life and that’s okay. Just know there are people out there who are aware of it and will never assume or wish bad on you.
I knew the moment the baby connected, and I was 2 weeks post trying and I tested because I knew. Being in tune with your body is such a cool feeling. I love your openess and honesty!
I love listening to you talk. These are the conversations I want my friends to talk with me about but they don't. Everytime you post It's comforting to know that someone else has the same take and feelings on these same experiences I'm having in my life. I have struggled to get pregnant for months and all of my six sibling have 1-4 little ones. I struggle with the thought that if I want kids It might take longer than my patience and hopes can last. I am not trying to rush the proccess but seeing a positive pregnancy test, just one would be magical. I too track my cycles and very interested in learning about my body. It would be so special to experience a successful pregnancy and the trying part is more than an emotional time. I really hope you will have a healthy pregnancy and continue to take care of yourselves mentally through the entire journey❤️
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I absolutely love your approach to this topic. Our bodies, especially women's bodies do not get enough credit for the power and efficiency they provide. Loss is incredibly difficult but I'm so glad you're okay. I believe my unborn starseed felt they needed to help someone else at the time and simply chose a new person to connect with. Also, this should just be a reminder to be kind, you don't owe anyone anything, but you choose to share content that literally helps us to relax and lessen our anxiety. I hope more people learn to approach these comments sections with mindfulness and grace.
thanks for being vulnerable with us while helping vulnerable communities. ❤️you julia
Hello Julia. Is it possible that i may be unblocked from your Instagram? I sent a message about a year ago and it wasn’t hateful but i think you had been getting a lot of comments about the same thing so you blocked me. I get it because i totally respect keeping your mental health sacred but i promise i am not a hater. The message was not a personal comment on your relationships it was like a comment on recycling or something. But i get how it might have been alot because it was earth day i think.
If you are willing to consider, I can email you my Instagram handle or tell you in whatever way is most convenient (can you dm on RUclips? Not sure) thank you ❤️
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I miscarried my first pregnancy at age 33 on Christmas day. We had been trying off and on for 7 years. I was absolutely devasted. I also "knew" something was wrong with the pregnancy. Three months later my husband died suddenly of a heart attack. And two days after his funeral I found out I was pregnant again. Our daughter is 17 now. Though it was an extremely difficult time, I am so thankful for my daughter. My heart goes out to you and thanks for taking on a difficult subject.
This comment broke me. I can’t even imagine what you’ve been through. So much grief at once. So glad you have your daughter, but so sorry you went through so much. 💕
Melissa - My heart goes out to you. Thank you for choosing to share this story. It was very emotional to read and I can only imagine how much your daughter means to you. Sending you love now and always. ❤️
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Oh wow I’m sorry you lost your husband. That’s so beautiful that you became pregnant and piece of him lives on.
You are the right kind of influencer, sharing important aspects that aren't so talked about. Thank you!!
It's astonishing to me how little we actually learn about biology in biology class. It's also quite beautiful how in tune you are with your body and self. I'm happy that you have found your certainty with regard to motherhood and even though it was sad news I'm happy for you, since I know it will happen when the time is right.
That reminds me, I barely recently learned, even after having a baby, that your cervix is moving like every day. Sometimes it’s lower or higher in position.
@@fridagarcia5057 See, I didn't know that either!
@@fridagarcia5057 That makes sense. Also I think a woman's body goes through a ton of changes for several years post C section.
Bless your heart, Julia.
anyone can be intune with their body--you have to slow down and learn yourself..im very itune and you will be very surprised how connected u feel
Physician, father, and husband speaking here. Thank you for being open and honest in sharing your experience. You are doing great things for the community.
The positive & confident stance you had in trusting yourself-your body, that was mega for me. This is SO rarely discussed.
Thank you for this very honest story share. You + Nick are going to experience joy in whatever form & whenever it shows up.
Excellent comment! I agree! 🎯
I had 4 miscarriages before I finally got pregnant with my son. So please don't get discouraged. I was also the last of my friends to have children. I was 29 with my first and 32 with my second. You got this girl! ❤🙏🏾🥰
I miscarried when I was 22. What I didn’t expect was how devastating it felt. It was an accidental pregnancy, one that I was still weighing my options over (I hadn’t even told my ex yet because I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do). But suddenly once my body made that decision for me, I felt the emptiness of it all. I know one day It will all make sense, but in that moment I was alone. Hearing other people’s stories have been such a source of comfort, so thank you Julia for sharing your story
Thank you for walking with your void. You've found yourself to be a survivor. And you're standing with yourself against all odds of the struggle. You are strong, even if your heart is breaking. And you can be very very proud of that strength of yours. It may not look or feel that way now, but it's already true. You've found the words. So you are with yourself in this. Forever your most valuable support, that has or will invite more support in to stand with you and your whole self, as you're facing the currents of human life.
In the hope to reflect a bit (or a lot) of the strength back to you, that comes through from you, already.
I'm astonished at how in tune you are with your body. We clearly aren't taught enough about what miracles and wonders our body is capable of. Thank you for being so transparent with us and making others going through the same experience feel less alone. Thank you for being you. Anyone else going through this same situation, or something similar, please know you have all my most sincere love and respect. It's going to get better. Good days are coming ❤💕
I’m 48 years old and have never been, nor had ever wanted to be pregnant. With that being said, this was a beautiful, powerful and deeply peaceful video. Thank you for telling your story and highlighting female mental and physical health. You are a light.
Have a friendly hello and hug (if you like) from somewhere across the world from a fellow female of 32, having know for years this path is not for me, regardless of adoring children and having a deep respect for those who (want to) walk the path of motherhood. You, too, are not alone.
I'm 41 and my husband is 48. We've never wanted children, but I can completely understand a woman wanting a child. I've always said the same as you - if you miscarry, especially earlier than 11 weeks, your body is doing its thing. I'm glad you have such a healthy perspective, and I hope this video helps others in a similar position.
I just want to see I really appreciate you sharing this with us, and the way you spoke about it gave me a new perspective on how our body works. I personally have never been pregnant nor had a miscarriage but this really open up my eyes to a whole bunch of things. So once again, thank you for sharing this with us
I really love that you’re making women that have struggled with things similar to you feel less alone. ❤️
While I can't understand exactly how you feel, I've had 12 pregnancies and have given birth to 4 healthy babies. I'm always so amazed and impressed with how you seem to be very in tune with your body and I hope that your experiences in the coming months are positive for you and Nick. You are an amazing person and I wish you all the best and much love.
I, honestly, would love a separate video of the things you know and have learned about yourself and body in this aspect. As you were mentioning possibly creating a second video about these kinds of details.
Having a child isn't something I've been interested in for myself - but I listened to your entire video on the edge of my seat with tears in my eyes. It's really interesting to hear your experience and what you physically went through. It makes me question if it has happened to me before without me knowing. Anyways, I really, really hope (and believe) it will happen for you. Thank you for being brave and sharing this!
Just reading the title, I am in awe of your transparency with us. I hope you’re alright, sending you all the love ❤️
Julia you're such a good communicator. Thank you for speaking out your truth. Lots of good feelings your way
She really is!!!
I'm 47 years old. I have never had kids, but I always wanted kids. I had a miscarriage about 5 years ago. I was really upset. I didn't really mourn. I went back to work on that Monday, I had miscarriage on Saturday. I feel your pain.
I feel your pain too.. ❤️
@@annazraf thank u very much.
This is exactly what happened to me in February! It was also my first pregnancy and it was so devastating. I totally feel for you! I’m happy to share that in May we got pregnant again and I am now 15 weeks pregnant. I hope you guys try again and it works out for you 😊 ❤️ thank you for sharing!
Congratulations! Sending love to you, bump and your partner.
After the storm, the sun comes in... congratulations!
I've had multiple clinical losses and it is never easy going through a loss, no matter how early it may occur.
I hid my losses for years because I was so ashamed and felt like a total failure of a woman.
As others have said, thank you for talking about a (sadly) taboo topic. Wishing you and Nick all the very best. Sending you peace, love, and joy ❤️
Slowing down and becoming in tune with our bodies is one of our most important experiences, in my opinion. Trusting our bodies to carry us through this life and tell us what they need is so comforting. I’m sorry things didn’t work out this time around ❤️ It’s crazy how much we learn about ourselves outside of a school setting.
I needed to see this! When I went through my own experience with a miscarriage last year, I felt bad that I did not feel bad. People in my own circle branded me as “cold” simply because I did not mourn my pregnancy. Thank you for helping me feel less cold 💜
i’m so sorry that people feel the right to comment on your life and relationship. i hope this makes people reconsider when they comment about things they don’t know about. either way, thank you julia for sharing this with us, it always amazes me how honest and vulnerable you are with your followers. i always love hearing your reflections, i find them to be very interesting especially coming from such an insightful person. hope you and nick are doing well!
I miscarried at 11wks 5 days, but I was on contraception for 12 years before myself and my partner decided to try for a baby, when I miscarried I also choose to believe that was my body's way of doing what it was suppose to do in maybe not carrying the pregnancy to term maybe something wrong due to long contraception use as I also fell pregnant straight away, after my first full period after the loss I fell pregnant again she is now a healthy lovely 7 year old 😊 I believe in the power of a women's body, sending good wishes and lots of love from Scotland!
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Lost my baby at 22 weeks. I suddly discovered he wasn't growing during a check. I was shocked and i immediatly got into hospital but they couldn't do anything. They induced me labor and i had to give birth to my dead child. After months It still seems unreal. Woman are so strong. Now i understant It sooo much more. I hope i can help someone else with my story. You are not alone. Sending you all my support. PS i'm Italian, i'm sorry if i'm not that good at writing
I'm so sorry for your loss 💔
Sorry for your loss
I remember commenting a while back on one of your ASMR videos saying that I believed you would be a great mother and I still firmly stand by that statement. I know you’ll get pregnant in the right time and your baby will be so lucky to have you and Nick as it’s parents 💕
Our bodies are truly amazing. I gave birth to my first child a month ago. Pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum all come with wonderful demonstrations of how our bodies grow and support other life! I’m amazed by the power of my body to grow and support another human - even postpartum. Keep following your dreams. I wish you the best going forward!
You're the second RUclipsr I follow who's gone through a first-time pregnancy miscarriage in the last couple months... praying for you and Nick in your loss but also so encouraged by your high levels of body confidence and hope in the midst of disappointment💓💜💓
I love how open you are with this. I'm so happy you decided to share what's going on, despite how difficult this must be to share with us. I'm happy you're letting us know we aren't alone. Sending good vibes
Thank you for sharing, Julia. I highly recommend the book 'Vagina: A Re-education' by the author Lynn Enright for anyone who wants to read in depth about women's bodies which have been ignored/ not understood properly.
I had a miscarriage prior to my current pregnancy and it was absolutely devastating after trying to conceive for so long. The emotional and physical aspect of miscarrying is so difficult to go through. About 4 months later I got pregnant again and I’m now approaching my due date. This is so common and not talked about often enough. Thank you!
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been there. When you have your rainbow baby, don't be surprised or feel bad if grief hits you a little bit. It hit me. Also, the next time you read a comment about your relationship remember that 85% of people do no realize that no relationship is perfect or easy and you have to work through things and forgive. Relationships are give and take. Its a commitment that you wake up and make every day and it's a lot of work and love. Be proud of your relationship. You communicate effectively to make sure you BOTH get to your goals and that's what it is about.
You have grown emotionally so much in the last few years. I’m amazed at how much you share with us all. Thank you for allowing us to see inside your heart. You are going to make a wonderful mom whenever that day comes. I was listening to you and in my mind’s eye I could see you snuggling an infant and looking so happy. God bless you Julia. May the Lord bless you abundantly ♥️♥️
It's so refreshing to hear someone talk about their experience of early miscarriage. I have a few friends that have experienced the same thing, especially during their first try/ attempt at becoming pregnant, it's almost like the body has to have some practice runs. Anyway talking about it should be normalised because it's way more common than we think and if more women know about it, it can be less of an anxious and taboo experience for us.
Ive been there! Even though its a “loss” there is so much to gain! At least you both know now, with all certainty, that this is what you both want in life. And when it happens again, it will be such a beautiful and happy time ❤️. I too would love a video in how you became so in tune with your body and what you do to take care of it. 🥰
I love how informed she is about her body. Maybe we would all feel a little more sense of comfort if we were like this? I’m very sorry for your loss but also amazed at how well you trusted the whole process and were then able to process your emotions better.
Thank you Julia, for sharing something so intimate. It's both generous and brave. It's inspiring to hear about your faith and trust in your body. I lost two pregnancies (before the 8 week mark) and I had struggled to conceive both times. When you find it difficult to get pregnant, you're already at a disadvantage on the faith and trust front, so when you do conceive, the pregnancy feels very fragile. Through those losses, and the subsequent testing of the expelled embryos, I found out that my hormones were sub-optimal. The embryos were genetically fine... it was my body's ability to sustain the pregnancy that was the problem. I hear what you're saying about nature, but in my case, my body wasn't able to nurture a pregnancy without help. For my third pregnancy, I was supplemented with the hormones I needed otherwise I would have almost certainly miscarried again. Just flagging this for anyone who's had multiple losses. Wishing you all the best on your baby journey. I think you'll make a wonderful mama to a lucky little soul someday ❤️
Thank you for sharing, Julia and I am sorry for your and Nick’s loss. Sending love and my best wishes and hope for you two that the next pregnancy is as wonderful as you deserve. ❤️
In 2016 I lost my pregnancy in July. We were a week shy of our second trimester. We got pregnant again a few months later and our son was born in July 2017. The second time around I had to take a daily dose of progesterone to sustain the pregnancy but all was well.
You two take care and I wish you luck on this journey.
Thank you for sharing such a deeply personal experience. Indeed, it is quite astonishing how little is discussed and how much misinformation there is about a woman's cycle and how fertility actually works. Our first child, my wife and I, miscarried at around 13 weeks. It was a very difficult experience for her, but we supported each other through the pain and the hurt, grew closer as a couple, and she got pregnant again very shortly thereafter, and now we have two beautiful amazing and strong little boys. You and Nick will make wonderful parents.
You're one of the strongest women I've seen. Sending you all the love ever 💔
thank you so much for helping me feel like I'm not a complete sociopath for not being completely devastated. I haven't been able to articulate my feelings in that way. Hugs
Your videos have gotten me through the most painful year of my life - no exaggeration, I watch a little of your ASMR every night, or I can't fall asleep. Thank you for sharing your loss with grace and courage. I wish there was something we could do for you in exchange for the comfort and reassurance that your content gives us.
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I completely understand what you’re feeling. We got pregnant on our first try. We made it to 11 weeks. We had a missed miscarriage and found out at our first ultrasound the baby stopped growing at 8w7days. This was may and now just starting to try again. I’m so sorry for your loss. But know you’re not alone and there’s always someone to express everything to. I know it puts a strange feeling on it being the first pregnancy and the excitement isn’t the same. Good luck and baby dust on your next try. ❤️🌈
I just love you. Your honesty and open minded views are so refreshing. I totally agree with you that our bodies are absolutely incredible and I am in awe of it.
Sorry about the pregnancy, and thank you for this perspective. I agree miscarriage is not talked a lot about so thank you again for shedding some light on it. ❤
Thank you for honesty, wisdom, and transparency. I miscarried my only pregnancy. It was after we had adopted. You put into words what I felt.
I’ve been watching your videos for so many years now, and you have always given me so much insight into what an awesome relationship with oneself can look like. I’m 19 now, and the way that you are able to so eloquently describe how you’re feeling, no matter the situation, has given me an abundance of confidence in my own abilities to be comfortable and in tune with myself. Thank you.
I soooooooo needed this video in this exact moment. I have been struggling with my emotions I had a miscarriage last month on my wedding anniversary. I have 2 children already, but this is the first miscarriage. I literally went through so many of the same exact things you went through. So thank you Julia. This has made me appreciate you so much more.
Julia you are honestly so brave, all of your supporters will always be here for you.
Yes!! ♥️
I just want to say that I admire your perspective on this subject so much! I’ve personally never had a miscarriage, but I have close friends who have. Watching this video and hearing your honesty helps me support them. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
The time you got with that little life sounds so joyful. It gave you such certainty in your feelings and connection to others. I’m so sorry you couldn’t continue your journey together, but so happy that it left you with so many gifts.
This! This is so beautifully worded. It’s so true.
Julia!!! As someone who is only a few years younger than you I find you and your content to be SO inspiring. Your honesty and outlook on life has truly positively impacted my life. Thank you for sharing your life and thoughts with us.
I always know when I get pregnant I get like a wierd butterfly feeling in my belly even before I've missed a period and soon as I take a test its positive and I always find out when I'm around 4 weeks 5 days. It's so crazy xx
I had a very similar (actually the same…) experience in March. Was trying for a few months and had a very early miscarriage. One of my friends also had the same experience happen to her last week. It shocks me to see how we do not talk about this, as it is so common. I was actually shamed by a nurse during my visit to the hospital and I was completely astonished at how awful some people can be when we live through a miscarriage. I was lucky in all that, and I am now almost 5 months pregnant and very happy :) I wish everyone reading this and you Julia good luck. Remember you have every right to grieve and be treated with respect, all you feel is valid.
I had 3 miscarriages before 28 years old. I trusted that my body was making the right decision for me too. Now, at 29, I am holding my rainbow baby while watching this. 🌈
I’ve thought about pregnancy before but never really considered it until I watched your video. The way you explained the joy you felt when you found out you were pregnant had me in tears. Even though this was a bittersweet experience I can honestly say you handled it way better than most could. It’s refreshing hearing someone speak about this in a very coming to grips kind of way. I really enjoyed learning although I’m very sorry about the outcome. I hope to be able to have that bonding experience with my body one day because it’s not only beautiful but important. Thank you for sharing something so private and special with us! ♡ Sending you the warmest hugs, love, and healing energy your way. ✨Things will take place when your body is ready.
i love how appreciative and aware you are with your body and also the fact that you are being so open and vulnerable with your community. Sending lots of love♥️
Don’t give up!!! It’ll happen… thank you so much for sharing it actually feels better when you let things out… I’ve had 2 early miscarriages at (6 weeks) - and now I am 8 months pregnant!! Just keep trying and don’t give up!
This video has really reassured me about the process of becoming and being pregnant, as well as my body knowing what's best for me. I want kids in the future and now I'm excited again about starting a family when I'm ready
Wishing you all the best in this journey, you're such a positive force.
Omg...I had a very similar experience three years ago. An inexplicable feeling. Never got to the point of taking a test, but about a week later, an uncharacteristically short and painful bout of bleeding and then nothing, followed by a weird cycle afterwards. I've always suspected something. Although I will never know for sure, you sharing your story makes me think that inexplicable feeling may well have been right. Thank you for sharing this, Julia.
I'm in awe of you. And so grateful that you have someone so loving to build a family with. Wishing you all the best!
Inner knowing is a real thing. I love that you create a space for authenticity for yourself. I send you fierce support for that, and protection too.
I care very deeply for you ❤ hope everything is okay.
I know EXACTLY what you mean when you speak of just knowing in your bones. It’s not a physical symptom - it’s a mental clarity that’s hard to explain. Sending you lots of love 🤍
I’m sorry you had to go through that. I had a loss last Spring. Thanks for sharing your experience I think you’ll be helping lots of other women. Wishing you the best for a healthy and positive future.
You are so strong for sharing this. I had a miscarriage when my son was a year old. I had severe complications with him and knew immediately when I found out that my body wasn't ready for it yet, I had my first prenatal appointment and a few weeks later woke up with that same feeling that I was no longer pregnant. I started heavily bleeding later that day and saw my doctor a few days later who ordered blood work. I got the call when I was at work that I was no longer pregnant. It was so hard
I think the morale of this story is...stop judging people that make content on RUclips that you don't really know!!! (Seriously, listening to her talk about those comments people made made me SO angry.)
I'm so sorry for your loss, Julia. Your outlook on it is absolutely astounding, though, and I admire you all the more for it.
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You're a good person for sharing and being transparent about all the associated feelings with change (on a wider level). Owning and understanding our feelings can help us support ourselves and be kinder towards everyone - who are in one way or another also facing changes.
Sending you and Nick vibes of comfort and love! You are helping a lot of people by sharing your story. You are so strong ❤️
you're so rad, thanks for sharing. the way you processed this moment and stayed so in tune with yourself is truly impressive
As worst as this experience certainly was, this was such a beautiful video! Im sorry for your loss and happy for the strenght of your body and mind!
the human body really is amazing. a few months ago i went through egg donation to support couples who dreamed of having kids but, for various reasons, were not able to do so on their own. it was anincredible experience and a deeply personal, several month long journey of introspection for me -- thinking about my own health, pregnancy, and the capabilities of the female body. it was an uncomfortable process due to hormonal therapy and the pain after the donation procedure was intense, but ultimately 100% worth it. i feel incredibly proud that i was able to change the lives of so many couples. it truly has shifted my perspective. much love and respect to you, Julia -- thank you for being so open about your experiences. xx
I think we can all agree and appreciate you putting your personal life out there so much and being real about it - instead of just doing ASMR videos which I always loved. Recently had a miscarriage in July. It definitely helps a lot hearing it too from a RUclips whom I love and watch regularly. Thank you
You are so strong and vulnerable, it is so inspiring. I feel so sad that people comment these weird, hurtfull shit like they know you throughout. People should understand that you don't share every single thing in your life, and you decide what and when you share. I am very relieved to hear you deal with everything, and Nick as well. You guys are amazing, remind me a lot of me and my boyfriend. No relationship is perfect, nobody should think so. Take care and I'm thinking of you guys
omg thank you for making this video as a guy its really interesting to hear, any other guys watching???
Haven’t watched the full video yet, but you are loved, and I hope everything turns out okay! ❤️
Hi! Last night I watched this video and I’m amazed by you! The way you speak and express yourself. You’re so transparent. You’re such an inspiring woman 🤩💗 I hope you have a beautiful baby sometime with nick 💜 that kid will be soooo lucky! My best wishes from south america, argentina 🇦🇷
Thank you for sharing Julia! I’m so glad you’re ok, and here’s hoping the next time everything goes fine! You’re gonna be great at it 💜
Julia....You made me cry: not bc of the miscarriage, although terribly sad & I'm so very sorry, but how incredibly strong you are as a woman. I'm 51 now & when I was 28 I had ovarian cancer so I wasn't able to have a baby. I was devastated. It changed me, I was mad at the world, God, people who had kids that (in my opinion) didn't deserve them. I would go into deep depression when I would see a child abuse or murder case on the news. Basically anything would trigger me. What you said resonated more that anything anyone has told me, trying to comfort me. "I trusted my body to do what it needed to do. It most likely wouldn't have been a healthy pregnancy".
A light clicked on for me. Due to all my health issue I would have never had a healthy pregnancy or baby. I appreciate you sharing such an intimate part of your life. Thank you.
hey Julia ,im currently pregnant with my first baby (due december 25th) after years of doubting myself and my body. i was convinced i couldnt get pregnant and was in complete shock when i found out im definitely carrying a little human. im sorry you had to experience this but also very proud that you are at peace with it, you trusting your own body is super important. i know you are doing well and you and your positive mindset are so inspiring. sending lots of love from belgium
Sending much love to you and your journey ❤️❤️❤️
I’m also from Belgium:)
I am due that day as well. Good luck and god bless you and your baby.
@@loveamerica5725 thank you!! and bless you too!!
Such a beautiful perspective Julia, totally understand where you’re coming from. Thank you for sharing. Sending peace & love to you and Nick!
Thank you so much for sharing this Julia ♥️
That sense of simply just knowing what’s happening with your body resonates so perfectly with my experience as-well ♥️
Your videos are my favorite to watch and your entire aura and demeanor is such a calming bright light. Pregnancy and childbirth is so amazing and special (and hard!), I hope you have a joyous and healthy pregnancy in the future and cherish the experience! Feeling a baby kicking within you is indescribably special and those memories will last a lifetime. You will be totally in awe at how miraculous your body is.
Julia you sweet sweet soul I send all kinds of love . I've been on this journey called life with you for 5 years and you show me just how much room there is to grow all the time. You always have so much insight and wisdom. Being only 26 you've been a big role model in my life.
Thanks so much for sharing this. Honestly one of the best things about your channel is your radical honesty. Appreciate it
I love your perspective on this. It's a beautiful view of a hard subject. So many women go through it and it's not openly talked about. Thank you for sharing such a personal experience with all of us. You are a beautiful person. I wish you and Nick health and happiness.
I lost my first pregnancy. I have heard this from quite a few women about the first one. You are gonna be a great mom.. and you WILL be a mom. Im glad you were educated about it and didn’t melt down even though it is disappointing. Keep trying!! Give it a couple of months.. don’t quote me on that but I vaguely remember being told to wait a few months before I tried again to give my system a chance to settle down.
Thank you for sharing this. I just had an IUI that failed and I was so incredibly disappointed and heartbroken. Even though we understand how and why things happen and that we accept it, I think it's super important to still acknowledge that we need to honour that grief that comes with it. Grief of a loss of something that could have been.
And I'm glad you talked about the hormones because even after it doesn't work out, the hormones leave us out of whack for a long time after. Thank you for your candidness and openness on this topic. Good luck with your journey and baby dust to you. 🥰❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thankyou for talking about this so openly, I'm 28 and my partner and I suffered a miscarriage at 12 weeks and it devastated both of us, I have always felt like things happen for a reason and its so nice to hear you talk about how you just 'know' because I kept telling people for weeks I knew! It takes time to heal but I definitely feel for sure a woman's body is so strong after what we go through x
I am so sorry about the miscarriage and all the negative comments people have left you on social media about your life. It's not okay. I think your perspective is very interesting. I wish you all the best💗
Julia, you have such this beautiful thing about you. I absolutely love hearing you open up about your life and your view and perspective on things. You go through life so gracefully and I think we all have something to learn from it. I've never been through a miscarriage, nor do I have children yet but I can tell you that I still learnt something from watching your video today and for that I want to say thank you. I've been watching your videos since the very beginning and I'm excited to see your future unfold. I really do believe that when your time comes, you will be an amazing mother.
Im sorry for ur loss sweetie and truly wishing u and nick the best. You are one strong and inspiring person. God bless you.
Its so sad to me that people are so quick to presume they know someone else's life and relationship based on the occasional video. So brave of you to come on here and speak about this and in such detail as well since I know fertility is something a lot of us can relate too so you are definitely not alone. I hope you find this video it therapeutic and it brings you peace. You and Nick deserve nothing but happiness and have no doubt that it will come
It’s definitely not an easy topic for most but the way you spoke about it is such a beautiful perspective. Loss isn’t easy but being able to process it and turn it into something positive gives a feeling of growth and hope. Thank you for this share 🙏🏽
To me, this sounds like you genuinely just care about us as well. Thank you for caring & thank you for sharing ❤️ You’re amazing. I’m sorry for social media trolls. We will never know your life and that’s okay. Just know there are people out there who are aware of it and will never assume or wish bad on you.
I knew the moment the baby connected, and I was 2 weeks post trying and I tested because I knew. Being in tune with your body is such a cool feeling. I love your openess and honesty!
I love listening to you talk. These are the conversations I want my friends to talk with me about but they don't. Everytime you post It's comforting to know that someone else has the same take and feelings on these same experiences I'm having in my life. I have struggled to get pregnant for months and all of my six sibling have 1-4 little ones. I struggle with the thought that if I want kids It might take longer than my patience and hopes can last. I am not trying to rush the proccess but seeing a positive pregnancy test, just one would be magical. I too track my cycles and very interested in learning about my body. It would be so special to experience a successful pregnancy and the trying part is more than an emotional time. I really hope you will have a healthy pregnancy and continue to take care of yourselves mentally through the entire journey❤️