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your unpopular/controversial opinions are out of pocket...
Hey everyone welcome back to my second channel! Sorry for the delay in uploads here, I hadn't been able to stream but now that I've moved I'm able to which is super exciting! I thought we'd break in the new apartment with an unpopular opinions stream by asking over on my main channel's community tab if any of you have some ~unpopular or controversial hot takes~ we could react to. I've seen a lot of commentary channels do this type of video before so i thought why not give it a go myself :)
I'm ngl there were definitely a lot of popular ones that showed up tbh lol but i think we managed to find some unpopular ones to react to live and this is the condensed version of the stream :) curious to see what you guys think about the opinions as well as my thoughts on them so feel free to share in the comments!
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Personally I don’t mind when older people are fans of younger people, people don’t have to think of someone sexually in order to stan. I do think it’s gross when ppl have countdown clocks to when a celebrity turns 18 tho 🤢
Exactly and why is it for a 12 year old to want to date 30 year old and everyone is like it's fine. But have a 30yo find someone youngers music good and all of a sudden they're a predator
Yeah, people always assume fans see a celebrity sexually, but that just doesn't always have to be the case. I probably wouldn't STAN someone very young but I might be a fan of what they do or even their personality.
@@TheOwlQueen just like the cool motorcycle gang guy down the street who loved hannah montana. he was so nice
I always feel so weird when I talk to eleven or twelve year olds, or consider them friends.
I feel like people think I’m being a creep, when in actuality, I can just have meaningful conversations with them, better than any adult because adults don’t respect me. (I’m 16)
i think it depends on how aggressive that older person is as a fan. i've seen 25+ year olds on twitter excessively idolizing and stanning a literal 16-17 year old idol and it's very strange to me.
The thing about the Met Gala is, apparently Anna Wintour *does* check and approve all the outfits. But it seems like homegirl is slipping, especially in recent years.
She does???
Anna, we need to talk
Yeah um she needs to do better, and/or get someone else with taste to do it
I think that since, at the end of the day, it's a fundraiser for the museum they're not going to deny anyone entry based on what they're wearing. But it would be way cooler if the theme was followed.
@@jwasserman23 But the Met Gala is still super exclusive. Anna Wintour has to personally approve everyone who attends , even if they pay millions just to attend. So I don’t think she’s super concerned about fundraising.
That woman looks atrocious herself most of the time, so obviously I don’t trust her anymore in that sense.
The fact that these clips are from live streams and aren’t scripted is SO impressive to me. I personally can’t formulate a single coherent thought without saying like or um every few seconds
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Same 😭😭
What people forget is, cheating isn't a mistake it's a *choice*
It's both, however it's not an accident you cant accidentally sleep with someone
It's wrong to frame cheating as a mistake imo. That's a conscious decision. You don't mistakenly build a relationship with someone else and physically cheat. You have to do that on purpose. Developing feelings for someone and not acting on those feelings is a different issue that can be talked through, but sleeping with someone else or making out with them or making a move is a decision.
It’s fucking pathetic. Once a cheater always a cheater.
yes, absolutely. and the person who cheated can try to improve, but the person who was cheated on doesn't have to be there to see it happen. if a cheater wants to become better than that, they should do it because they acknowledge that cheating is very shitty, not just because they want to stay in a relationship with the person they just cheated on.
When people say them cheating is a mistake, more often than not I think what they actually mean is that it's a regret; more of a regret for a decision they consciously than it is an accident and not something they did on purpose.
Yeah that’s a dumb ass excuse. There are no second chances with me. If someone cheats they’re done, no excuse or forgiveness. If you regret it and want to change you can do that on your own time cuz I’m not wasting mine lmao.
My issue with the cheating comment is that I feel as though it treats cheating as though it's a minor mistake. Which, for a good number of people, it is not. People are going to decide what's best for them and their relationship at the end but, minimising cheating is a very weird stance to me. Additionally, cheating is a very conscious choice. You don't slip and fall into cheating.
right! like from meeting a person to talking to them, to identifying sexual intentions from them or making advances towards them, to going to a private area, to undressing yourselves, to kissing, to every step after: you couldve said "stop, no, i can't do this". if you cared about your partner's trust in you, you would've stopped at ANYYYY poitnt before like. actual physical intimacy. same goes for romantic cheating.
honestly the person who commented that sounds like someone who cheated OR who was cheated on but had cognitive dissonance and is trying to prove to themselves and everyone else that it isnt a big deal by doubling down.
Not to mention cheating endangers their partners health without their consent. Unlike polyamory where there is proper communication and everyone agrees to accept the risks associated with having multiple sexual partners, people who have been cheated on did not agree to engage with the 3rd person. I have personally known people who have caught diseases from partners/spouses cheating. Also, if you live somewhere without socialized medicine, the medical treatment can be a significant financial burden
Yeah I just don't get how people talk of cheating like it was just a small slip up and not an active choice, if you are done with a relationship just end it , doesn't two timing take more effort
@@zorro...... one time I brought a guy back home after a party. We kissed and undressed. At the last moment, right before sex, he stops, sighs, and says, "I'm sorry. I can't. I'm in love with my girlfriend". And gets up and leaves 😭 What the fuck
I think what really bothers about the cheating opinion is that it really undermines cheating as just a “simple mistake” that you just accidentally do instead of a conscience decision on the cheaters part and almosts puts the blame on the person who was cheated on and had their trust broken. Very victim blamey. Like its THEIR fault for not “getting over it,” and THEY should have tried harder to fix the relationship. Which ngl….feels kind of gross
yeah, def. plus you don't just accidentally trip and fall into someone else's bed lol it's a sequence of multiple mistakes at the very least. and sure, the cheater can improve and not do it again, but that doesn't mean their partner (or ex-partner) has to be there to see it, it's totally fine and understandable if they don't forgive the cheater
on the other hand tho, if you decide to take a cheater back, you cant hold their past infidelity against them every chance you get. If youre going to take a cheater back, you have to get past their past infidelity after a reasonable amount of time. You still need trust in a healthy relationship. and if you take back a cheater, you're naturally taking a risk on their willingness to not violate your trust in a way they have already proven themselves capable of doing. if thats too big of a risk, then don't take back a cheater.
I saw someone saying its weird for a 19 year old to stan Olivia Rodrigo.. who is also 19. Like what?? 🤦♀
Was this the tweet about a 30 year old just being at a Olivia concert?
@@LightPink lmao yep!
people can s3xualiz3 her the second she turns 18, But a 20 year old can’t say her music, style, and performances are cool because THAT is crossing the line. (this is sarcasm, just so it’s clear).
Lmao its not that I've been called weird for enjoying itzy when only one member is younger than me oh well...
“just promise not to cheat again”
that sounds like something a cheater would say 😂
Coming from a gen z, I’ve seen a lot of gen zs that are either conservative old men trapped in a 13 year old boy’s body or just so chronically online they go backwards. But fr those small ice creams I had at the hospital as a kid were so good.
"so chronically online they go backwards" - YES!!!!
My unpopular opinion: monetizing the things you love should not be the goal. Just because I love writing/painting/singing/etc doesn't mean I need to make money off of it and my love for it is not less valid because it doesn't make me money.
Really good point! Also I think a lot of people who encourage/preach to take a hobby or skill you enjoy & turn it into a side hustle or your main source of income aren’t properly addressing or are downplaying the negative affects of that. Ask anyone who is a professional freelance writer/artist/photographer how stressful that can get. Monetizing a passion makes it your job & the way you put food on the table & a roof over your head & that can spiral very quickly, taking something that used to be about your passion & enjoyment of a hobby & turning it into life or death basically. Obviously that’s not going to happen every time anyone takes something they’re passionate about & makes it into their job but I bet most people don’t discuss the downsides nearly enough.
Totally agree! I make a webcomic and I always get asked how I'm going to monetize it. The reason i have a day job is so that I can do whatever I want creatively without being limited or pressured by making money from it.
I 1000% agree. I love writing and painting and while I wouldn't mind if either turn out to generate some side income for me, I don't want to consciously turn them into something that earns for me. I do them because I enjoy doing them and I know for certain that turning either into an income source will make me miserable and not want to do them. Hobbies are meant to be for fun, to relax and unwind from the actual stress of life. And everyone who wants to keep it as such should be allowed to do so without judgement.
I have seen way too many videos of ppl being unnecessarily mean to a child. Then everyone in the comments are saying things like “well they have to learn how life is” and the kid is like 4.They sound so bitter.
yeah. maybe that is how life is, but maybe it shouldn't be, and those people could be making a little bit of an effort to change things for the better
Yes yes yes!! When my cousin sees a little child, she always says something like “I want to kick it” and i’m like… dude, what?
For the younger celebrities one: I view it kind of as like cheering for a younger sibling or something like that. Like for olivia rodrigo its more of a wow what a talented kid I hope things are going well for her. And then when some drama or something happens, its having space for them even if they make mistakes. I dont think of it as like being a fan more just like rooting for them.
I think there's this tendency to equate being a fan of someone with also having romantic feelings or attraction to them.
Like, I have a ton of celebrity crushes (they're all older than me or my age) but I don't have one on every musician or actor I like. That being said, I think Timothy Chalamet is cool but he's like a baby to me. I'm a fan of his acting ability but it's strictly an acknowledgment of his talent.
I totally get that! And honestly I think it's fine to be fans of people who are younger than you because sometimes they're super cool. I think where this sentiment comes from is that there are a lot of adults who 'stan' younger celebs in inappropriate ways. I've especially seen it with adult women stanning teenage k-pop celebs, and the border between 'stanning' and 'outright lusting over' in the k-pop sphere can be pretty blurry.
That comment made me think of Millie Bobby Brown and how everyone was obsessed with her even though she was twelve. And from some media and people, there were romantic undertones to how they spoke about her. And that, that’s gross. I can agree that she showed talent even at that young age but I didn’t spend my time looking at what she does at any given moment. Plus, like Emma Watson or the Olsen twins, there was a countdown for her 18th birthday. That’s nasty shit
Agreed. If anything, I think it's odd for people to think it's inherently predatory to like the work of an artist who is a minor. Some people just like the art, dude. Will there be creeps? Of course because predators aren't going anywhere anytime soon but, it's absurd to think anyone who likes the work of a minor is inherently a weirdo.
@@titeno19 this is what I thought of too! It also made me think of how similar some of these fandoms for young girls are compared to the brony fandom. I think it has to do with internalized misogyny and the fact that some people can’t recognize their appreciation for a female character or celebrity without thinking “but can I fuck her?” And then this is what it turns into. Loudly and proudly waiting for a child to turn 18, and for the bronies it was now merch with sexual or suggestive my little pony child characters. This is what happens when adults take over a fandom for kids. And it’s not just minors that are sexualized either, I’ve seen tweets that are like “I hope Ariana grande gets her pussy ate real good for this album” like?? Can’t women just be rewarded with success?? I think it becomes a problem when it’s not enough to just listen to the music anymore.
The author of Percy Jackson is good time of trying to control your fans. He came out publicly to bash the racist comments about the actress cast for Anabeth. Letting fans know certain behavior isn't ok can go a long way. I think it makes those fans less likely to do it where they know the creator might be "watching"
He did? That's great!
I do understand the concerns of POC in making Annabeth black but being racist to anyone, esp. a kid is never okay and I'm glad RR called them out.
He's an icon
But then again, he is an author, he isn't exactly very high profile (which is so good for him since I can't imagine who you're dating be the subject of daily news). People can be vile in internet, and Percy Jackson's author came out to defend someone else not himself. To do so he wouldn't have to encounter opinions of people who actively hate him. Because he is an author, people are LESS polarized on him and his personal life. He isn't as wildly known.
And you know tabloids, sorting through them is a mess. It can cherry pick information and make some people look good and others bad, so if any person with a mildly large following would have to check for things online about their own fans, it'd be hell to go through. Hence why popular people ignore all rumors and fans unless they are thanking the fans. I don't think celebrities should be expected to keep a leash on their fans but it's good when people can manage to do that.
My controversial opinion is that Casey can't be Canadian but is actually the Queen of the plants. That's why we never saw her legs, she has a stem and roots.
Space Queen Era 🌌💅
keep your voice down…
You an escaped plant being like the experiments from that goosebumps book.
@@pusheenqueen519 🤫
@@caseyaonso6254 Cut the camera now. Deydath
Adding onto the stan thing, this even happens with artists who are adults. I’ve seen people who get so up in arms about someone who is a fan of an artist that’s only like two to three years younger than them. Since when do fans have to be younger than the artist? We’re only allowed to like people older than us?
There are men that prey on underage female celebrities eg. Millie Bobby Brown and we’re worried about the 40 year old BTS fan? Priorities people.
Exactly and it has a lot to do with intention. I'm a txt fan and even though I'm in the same age range as them I do not want to be romantic or something with them. I just like their vibe and if I tell someone it immediately goes into who would you date. Intention has a lot to do with it too
I think anyone of any age should be “allowed” to be a fan of anyone, as long as they’re respectful and still view that person as a person.
Even a 16 yr old Billie fan could be creepy, over the top & have ultimately bad intentions for her personal safety, boundaries etc.
not to say a 40 year old cant also take advantage of a 28 year old tho. any time theres a big age gap, there's going to be a power imbalance and anyone can be taken advantage of at any age.
Our priorities as a society should be when someone underage or barely legal is involved tho.
People just need to stop being weird about artists especially minors. If you can't act normal than you should just f off.
Huh that person really tried to pull up "My romantic and sexual orientation don't align" to justify cheating?
Just don't be in a monogamous closed relationship then??? Wtf.
The deceit of it all. If you aren’t equipped for monogamy then don’t get into monogamous relationships!!!!! It’s such a simple concept yet people WILL NOT practice it. Stop wasting peoples time!!!
Adding into the topic of gen z acceptance- at my school there was a HUGE divide between the more liberal and accepting kids and the more conservative ones. Like, there are students who openly state gay people should not be allowed to marry, and there was one kid would draw swasticas in people’s yearbooks, but then there are the extremely progressive-bordering-on-communistic students. I think gen z is just like all generations in that there are accepting and discriminatory people.
Yep, yet they act like they have it all figured out and they’re better/know more than everyone before them.
@Subi I didn’t say they didn’t. There’s no need to get defensive. I just pointed out the fact that Gen Z thinks they’ve cracked the code on everything when really when it comes down too it they’re just like every other generation before them. Except they’re about 10x more sensitive. It seems like every little thing that happens is problematic and people are on the internet crying about it. That’s not a healthy way to exist.
Made the same experience, just really polar opposite sides of the spectrum...Very black & white.
@forrest goblin yeah. There are some kids at my school who identify as centralist, but those kids usually classify centralist as “conservative but without the extreme racism/homophobia/sexism.” I don’t really though on the online aspect of politics in my original comment, but I do think the internet has made it so that there isn’t really a middle ground anymore. It’s just, as you said, black and white.
@@waverlyaltis7171 Media has successfully made "conservative" into a slur that some people are afraid to associate themselves with. You can be solidly "conservative" and not be racist/homophobic/sexist/etc. There are tons of conservatives who are minorities, and in the US the number of minority conservatives is GROWING in spite of the attempts to paint them as bigots. The definitions of what is "racist", "homophobic", "sexist", etc. have also been twisted so that in some instances, questioning a minority or wanting to know more about a topic or situation is called "bigoted".
{Conversely, a lot of "liberals" and "progressives" are deeply racist/sexist/homophobic, something Malcolm X warned about decades ago. Many are VERY quick to use slurs when a minority disagrees with them and tend to talk down to them. They also seem to like rebranding old-school racism as "good for minorities" which disturbs me.)
there really is so much pressure to monetize your hobbies. i like crocheting and sewing and every time i bring it up i get asked if im selling it, i tell them "no but i can make you something!!" but they get weird, like my hobby and effort is only worth something if im making money off of it. i just don't want to sell my stuff
I make resin art and everyone constantly tells me that I should open an etsy shop or I should start selling them. Like no I do this because it's fun and the bugs are cute I want out of this capitalist hell
@@putridpunk7988 also making and running a shop is a lot of work! its not freakin dropshipping
My friends think I should monetize my artwork as well. And while I am eternally grateful that they're so supportive of me and my art, I enjoy just making things and giving it to them.
They "get weird" not because your hobbies worth only if you're making money, but because they believe that every work should be paid.
If you don't want to sell your stuff -- that's okay, but do not presume that others downgrade your work just because they want to support your hobby financially (at least for the price of the materials used)
The Met should let normal people link up with designers because I swear non-celebrities would SERVE
LIKE THAT ONE REPORTER
500% agree with the kink-shaming opinion and your take on it. I think with BDSM still being very demonised in the present day, people can slip into toxic positivity spaces where they argue as long as it's under the BDSM umbrella, it's a okay and like....girl....bring back shame (in certain instances) honestly.
I still find BDSM hilarious. It’s just over the top sometimes
@@blaiktrout376 while I definitely enjoy some "out there" fetishes, I'm constantly reminded of that tweet that goes like: "stop shaming vanilla sex. it's not my fault you can't get off without having your leg in a bear trap"
YES! I keep saying that shame can useful sometimes. Calling something a kink doesn’t give it immunity from being criticized.
My take is that yeah a lot of fetish is just very weird but as long as it’s not harmful and the ppl are consenting sure go off but you can’t be upset when ppl are uncomfortable if you bring it up without warning or to people who don’t know what it is. I think a lot of the problem is ppl think that everyone should be excited and like what the other person likes or want to hear about it which even if everyone was super sexually liberated they still would not want to hear about it
BDSM is taboo for a reason. It was never supposed to be mainstream, it’s an underground thing because it’s not for everyone. It should be something you seek out not something you just stumble across… coming from someone who is into that stuff but stumbled upon it too young
The funny thing is that all the outfits to the Met Gala have to be approved by Anna Wintour
Came to say this. But she is always so off theme too lol
I agree with genz not being as progressive as they think they are. There was a research and (some, more than millenials) gen z thinks doctors and teachers should not have tattoos for example and they subscribe to purity culture more than millenials
what? I personally don't think we (or the rest) of Gen Z have enough care for tattoos on Doctors or teachers? I think there is a huge polarity in Gen Z though, like one half is aggressively woke while the other half is aggressively conservative.
i partially agree with the euphoria take. i am 16 and have not seen euphoria. but almost all of my friends have and they keep talking about how they want to experiment with drugs to experience those highs. i think euphoria was a show created for adults who can see that the effects of drugs are not worth it, but by casting Zendaya teenagers obviously want to emulate her. no matter how bad they try to make her look physically, you cannot make Zendaya look bad, especially to teens.
Booktok has awful taste. And I’m fed up with the fact that all of my friends, whether they’re on tiktok or not, are only reading books recommended on there. And if there is a good book that gets popular on tiktok, it’s one that was popular on booktube years ago. And they’re usually books I’ve recommended to my friends before, but they’ve ignored my recommendation until tiktok told them it was good. So glad my opinion is not respected as much as random tiktokers who think Colleen Hoover is top tier
a lot of booktok reccs ive seen was just (poorly written) smut that tons of women/girls who im assuming are really young are hyping up to the heavens and i dont get it.
I feel this so strongly, I think Colleen Hoover is a horrible writer. I hate her books, but I do also think she cracked the Chic lit code and makes a ton of money off of it so that is pretty girl boss of her.
only 2 recs on booktok that i’ve read were actually good. (The Invisible Life of Addie Larue and The Mermaid The Witch and The Sea)
Plus I feel like everyone is just recommending the same things. Like it's so repetitive and boring
@@kenziemarch425 I have only read it ends with us, but from that alone- which I had to truly force myself to finish- felt like it was literally written by an eighth grader who reads fan fiction and had an English teacher in fifth grade read her personal narrative aloud to the class
I think the problem with the whole fan thing is that a lot of people think that stanning someone automatically means you’re attracted to them/have feelings for them (in a celebrity crush kinda way obviously). I know that sounds extreme but I actually witnessed this a lot in the kpop community, kpop idols are so young these days bc they start debuting at like 13 so a lot of older fans get attacked for literally just existing because people see them as creeps.
I also struggled a lot with "stanning" people who are younger than me, mainly because I was stuck in that mindset I had as a kid where celebrities were people who I looked up to and I wanted to be like them one day. Witnessing people younger than you have that kind of success obviously kinda ruins that illusion, so I guess that’s another reason lol
Cheating also isn’t just “one mistake”, it’s a series of decisions to be unfaithful made one after the other, continuously IMO. Its one thing to have drifted away from ur SO, another one to start a conversation you shouldn’t have to someone else, another to decide to keep having the conversations… etc etc. Its thinking “I can have what I want regardless of the costs it has on others” which is quite selfish.
^ This is talking about cheating as in like you knew you were in an exclusive relationship AND you still go and sleep with someone else.
I hate when "girl boss" women hate on other women who want to be moms. Like I don't want to be a mom. I have severe anxiety about pregnancy and sometimes just looking at pregnant people triggers panic in me. HOWEVER I love kids! I'm a teacher and I have nieces and nephews and have been a performer and dance instructor for kids. Kids are so funny and I just want to help them and protect them... but not have them. And I'm not going to hate on women who chose to have kids because, honestly, someone has to!
The cheating one has a fundamental misunderstanding of cheating, if you cheat on someone you are betraying trust and disrespecting your partner instead of communicating that you might want something else out of the relationship. Communicating with your partner about dissatisfaction can lead to either modifying the relationship to better fit what both (or more) parties desire or end a relationship that was not going to work out due to fundamental differences. Cheating boils down to deep seated disrespect towards your partner and lack of communication that should be dealt with in a professional setting.
I think gen z are so ruthless while being politically correct still. Like they’ll attack you for what you wear, say, what things you like if they’re “cringy”, how you do your hair what you eat even, but they’ll stay away from insults on gender, sexuality, race etc. (from what I’ve seen). For example “girl boss (derogatory)” or anything that millennials like. I’m technically gen z but I don’t really understand their culture or slang at all.
I have to assume most of the people gatekeeping younger artists are themselves kids, and thus they haven’t realized that people don’t immediately swap out their teenage taste for adult taste the moment they turn 18?
That being said I think a lot of the age-related discourse is a result of everything moving over to the big, super-public social media arenas. Kids and teens should be able to socialize in spaces that are just theirs, and I think stuff like policing the interests of adult users, DNI lists, etc. are just the makeshift tools kids have carved out to try and set boundaries (when that should be a function of the platform).
I feel like the one about metal illness is spot on. My mom was so supportive of me until I couldn't get myself to clean anything and was skipping school a lot because I couldn't find the will to be a functional person. Like did I know those are bad things to be doing? Yes. Did that change the fact that I couldn't do it? No.
I dated someone for 3 years and we even lived together. She cheated on me with a married man that we both worked with and I dropped her on the spot. A relationship is nothing without trust!
Cheating with someone who is also in a relationship is another low. So sorry that happened to you.
The Stan comment is definitely on point with how I feel about underage influencers and musicians. Like I'm 24 so I'm at that weird age where people younger than me are getting famous and I'm just so used to every famous person being older than me. I'll find out a RUclipsr I've been watching is still in high-school and I'll just feel incredibly weird after. It's like I get the ick when I find out someone I watched online for a while is under 20. I know it shouldn't bother me because this is only going to get worse with age but I just can't accept people born after 2000 are adults now.
yesss this is exactly how it is!! I’m so used to people i’m a fan of being older than me but i’m 23 now so that’s not always the case anymore and it just feels weird lol
@@emmylia hi fellow atiny 👋
@@jessk9523 hiii👋👋
Same here! I’m starting to feel that way too, especially because I feel like the internet in some ways, has taken to demonizing anyone above the age of 20. Makes me constantly wonder if it’s ‘normal’ for me to consume the media I do at my age, even if objectively I know I haven’t done anything wrong?
ugh same I'm 22 and for the first time so many popular celebrities are younger than me, it makes me feel weird and sad lol
The euphoria one is something I just don’t understand. If you think that show is glamorizing drug use, you have to either be a child or just fucking stupid. Idk about you but snorting lines in a school bathroom, becoming distant with all of your friends, going through multiple overdoses, and going through withdrawal is not glamorous to me. Zendaya is the closest thing I’ve ever seen to a real life addict on tv, and trust me I know what it’s like to have an addict around. I’ve also heard people saying it’s too inappropriate for teens and that it’s marketed toward teens. These people are truly just trying to start drama, because I have never seen euphoria marketed towards anyone younger than an adult. Zendaya herself has even told a young fan that the show wasn’t for her and she hopes she wasn’t watching. It’s honestly just another excuse for parents to blame media and the internet for not monitoring their children. Family guy is a cartoon and cartoons are mainly made for kids, you wouldn’t let your 6 year old watch it right? Why? Because it’s not fucking for them. It’s not for the 12-14 year olds, it’s not for the high school kids, it’s for adults. And if you seriously, as an adult, find yourself thinking addiction is glamorous because of this show, you’re the problem, please seek therapy.
I've found that the only people who have that opinion of Euphoria have never actually watched the show
@@TheClover42RIGHT??!! Swear people like that just love being loud and wrong.
that said, if its meant for adults to watch, and the cast is of characters we are meant to see as teens, and the teens are portrayed as being s3xually active in a rather explicit way, then it's still a bit weird? like sure the actors are adults but ultimately we are seeing characters meant to be 16ish have s3x. that alone put me off the show near-immediately.
We need to all tune in when Casey finds out cannibalism isn't actually illegal. The act of murder/GBH before cannibalism is the illegal part.
Wait really 😦
If the adult animation comment was referring to bobs burgers I will throw hands fr I love that show it’s a masterpiece
The problem with being a fan of a younger person is that i feel like a failure 😃
this, I feel like a failure and so behind in life
Fr especially when they’re the same age as you 😭
Highly agree with the kinkshaming one. There are plenty of kinks (DO NOT GOOGLE ANY OF THESE IF YOU DON'T KNOW THEM, SPECIALLY IF YOU'RE A MINOR) that go from extremely problematic and harmful (race play, DDLG, fetishizing ethnicities, sissy) to really dangerous (CNC, 24/7, breath play, choking) even when all participants are consenting (and that's not including exhibitionism and other that include non consenting people specifically) and kinksters like to parade them around as their only personality trait, exposing others to them without asking. And the worst part is that all this exposure is normalizing some of them to the point of making them "spicy vanilla" and people are being shamed if they don't engage in them (seriously, choking can kill you, STOP THAT). Also there isn't a grosser sentence than "don't yuck my yum" 😒
I can’t express my pure hatred towards “spicy vanilla” enough! I went on a few dates with a guy, he was super chill and nice I decided to go back to his place after one of our dates and homeboy CHOKED ME!!! No questions about it before, no boundaries, no “what are and aren’t you into!” He just started choking me. I didn’t think I’d have to immediately up front say “I’d prefer you not choke me tonight” but it’s been almost a year and a half and I still open with that now they second I go home with somebody because I’m terrified it’ll happen again. I’ve been abused and SA’d in the past, I never thought it would be necessary to mention that to every single person I go home with but apparently people think choking unsuspecting partners is fine and now I feel guilty every time I have to blurt out that choking triggers my ptsd. People have been lowkey offended when I say it right off the bat, assuming I don’t think they’d discuss what’s okay and what’s not beforehand but I just can’t take the chance again. We shouldn’t just assume people everyone is into kinky stuff and we especially shouldn’t go around calling shit like choking “spicy vanilla”
I've never been cheated on, but that cheating take is so incredibly bad. Trust in a relationship is extremely important, and making that "mistake" with someone can alter how they go into future relationships, not to mention the emotional turmoil some people experience if they suspect someone is cheating. Let me ask, if your partner punched you in the face knowing you wouldn't like it, could you trust them after that? Could you trust they wouldn't suddenly do that again if you decided to get close? Would you let them get away with the excuse "I'm sorry babe i just had the urge to, i needed to do that to feel good"? Because i sure as hell wouldn't. That shit stays with you like anything else deeply hurtful would. (And FYI before anyone asks, the reason I know how bad cheating affects people is because i've had to deal with family going through periods of extreme depression and dips in mental health because their partner was dishonest. Its horrible and nobody deserves it)
I want to add to the one about accepting apologies/holding grudges… just because you accept someone’s apology doesn’t mean your relationship with them needs to go back to what it was before and you go on like nothing happened. If someone does something shitty, you can accept their apology and still go your own way in life/dial back the level of relationship with them.
For example, my best friend did a bunch of shitty things to me, most notably ditching me in a club basically on my own so she could go hook up with a guy in our hotel room after only hours before she’d promised we needed going to look after each other because there was a big issue with girls getting spiked at the time. It took me too long to cut her out my life, but if she came back recognising the shitty things and apologised, I’d accept it because I know about a lot of the trauma that influences her choices, but I wouldn’t want to be best friends with her again. I’d be friendly if we bumped into each other, but I don’t want her in my life to the same extent.
I think that's what people are misconstruing about the topic of forgiveness. Maybe people keep thinking the notion of forgiveness means that you have to then go and be "best" friends again or allow them back in to your life. So that's why people are more inclined to not forgive? because they only understand the surface level point of accepting an apology. Personally the most essential part of forgiveness is its more for yourself than it is about the other person, I've forgiven people who are since passed and some who aren't even in my presence. it takes so much introspection and growth to forgive and move on..
Unpopular opinion, you can 100% wear band merch if you don't listen to the band
oh yeah? name every band and every shirt. AND DON’T SAY SMELLS LIKE TEEN SPIRIT
@@shriya9925 but that's my fave Metallica song 😢😢
I love wearing band merch for band I don't listen to
@@putridpunk7988 free advertisement
Fr like if I like the design why can’t I wear it 😭
Oof that person's cheating take was...something. The experience of being cheated on is traumatizing enough to result in PTSD-like symptoms for some people; cheating is an active decision to gut your partner's ability to trust. Definitely not a minor mistake, and absolutely a valid reason to end a relationship. Clarify what qualifies as cheating in your relationship and then don't cheat, pretty simple.
Yeah. Betrayal trauma is just as real and hurtful as any other trauma.
Not to mention it can break your self confidence or make you feel like you’re the problem.
they do approve people's met gala outfits which makes it WORSE 😭 like they're approving those horrible looks EVERY YEAR
I couldn’t agree more with the booktok opinion! It’s poorly written smut, straight up boring books or “dark romance” that’s actually just romanticizing SA and having people fall in love with their abuser. Also Colleen Hoover isn’t the only author out there my god her books aren’t even good. If I have to hear one more person say Verity is a classic I’m gonna lose my mind.
the opinion on the commentary genre I found really interesting because I half agree with it. personally I don't care if the same topics get covered over & over again by different youtubers as long as the videos are all unique enough in their own ways and feel high effort/entertaining. like I could watch a million trying weird life hacks videos from Danny or Drew because regardless of the content they both bring a great sense of humor to the table. I do agree that the genre is suffering from a lot of low effort videos covering the same topic over & over again where it feels like the creator is just phoning it in, the commentary isn't that funny or fresh. I hate to call out Cody as an example because I've loved his channel for a long time but every time I see him upload another cut or jubilee video I roll my eyes because there's really not much to any of those videos other than "wow wasn't the crazy thing we just saw happen so crazy?!"
100% agree with you
I remember reading a post along the lines of “people ask why I hate kids, and it’s so they will believe me when I say I don’t want kids/ stop asking me when I will have kids” something like that. And it’s like. Kids didn’t do anything to you. Adults are the ones bugging you.
It’s the kids too. People aren’t raising their children to be well mannered, reasonable people anymore because they themselves aren’t. So many kids are rude and spoiled. I don’t want to hear lies saying that’s untrue.
@@LoveK1 yeah but that is not the kids fault. It is the parents for not raising them right like you said. It’s the adults that are causing the problems. Don’t blame the kids.
@@LoveK1 i won't lie to you @loveK
For the grudge thing. I had a bad argument with a toxic friend that led to me cutting her out of my life (I hope this sentence makes sense I’m sorry I’m french lol). And at first I was upset yes, then sad, and now I moved on. Does it mean that I forgave her ? Not at all, she was still a bitch to me since we were kids and I’m not gonna pretend like that didn’t happen. I can’t forgive her, but that’s where it ends.
That was me who left that comment lol but I had something similar happen to me and was tired of the “you have to forgive to move on” garbage
Same, i had a toxic friend that i cut off. I still hate her for all the ways she hurt me but i have, very happily so, moved on from her. I'm much better without her in my life but i haven't forgiven her and i don't think i ever will. As long as she's not in my life, I'm at peace. It's like a part of my past that i'm glad is over but she left me with so many scars that i have to deal with which i can't ever forgive her for
@@lucyh.9781 You were honestly absolutely right with that comment. I recently had something similar happen to me, and the other person was just... forcing me to apologise and move on. I simply did not understand why I had to apologise and also accept their stance when I felt like it wasn't right. I felt like I was being forced to be apologise, brush off the situation and act like a nice person when I don't want to, and if that makes me a bitch,,... so be it.
my unpopular opinion is that i don’t like harry styles. don’t get me wrong, his music isn’t bad, but i think it all pretty much sounds the same. nothing really separates him from the rest of the pop/slightly indie music genre. i think that if he wasn’t conventionally attractive, he wouldn’t be famous.
10:20 actually i did an investigation on this and it's not as simple as people buying all the nice stuff and leaving the needy with nothing. Most thrift stores get way, way WAY too many clothes. The shitty one in my town gets like 40 bags a week. Most of the stuff lasts a week on the shelf before they sell it off to wholesale outlets, or huge open air auctions, which is where big time Depop resellers get their stuff. Also a lot of it ends up in developing countries. So even if a depop girly cleans the house, it'll be just as full of stock a week later. But, if they come every week right at the restock and get the good stuff I suppose you could argue they are taking from the needy. It mostly depends on how the shop manages it. Each one is different.
The issue is that depop resellers take some of the only wearable clothes and will also take a lot of the only plus sized clothes in the store and then alter it and resell it. Also, so much of the clothes thrift shops get is borderline unwearable and things like those tee shirts that they give out at conferences that no one ever wears and no one would buy so when resellers take all of the wearable and nice options it’s difficult to find affordable clothes.
News flash: Not all people who are a fan of someone are attracted or sexually attracted to the celebrity. As per usual people love to exclude common sense adults and the whole ace community.
With the gen z thing- I think that one reason that so many younger gen z kids are so vocally regressive/offensive may be that they feel as if they're being rebellious. It's kind of an instinct, I think. When you're told that a something you say or believe is wrong, the gut reaction for a lot of people is to go "I'm not wrong, I'm just going my own way" or something like that. If you wanna justify your politically or socially unpopular opinions, especially if you're somewhat aware of how wrong they are, the easiest thing to do is claim that everyone else has been brainwashed and that you're so so special and different for going against Society. That's just something that I've noticed, though.
I think there are some instances where “cheating” can be a matter of miscommunication, like thinking you’re on a break when the other person isn’t on the same page, thinking it’s an open poly relationship when it isn’t, not sharing the same understanding of what is acceptable, etc. But if someone purposefully cheats, they should definitely break up or at least take a break. If you are dating someone else nowadays while in a dating relationship, just send them a message to ask first. No reason to not just send a text or email, we don’t need to rely on snail mail anymore
I don’t really agree with the adult animated comedy comment, since there can be timeless gems made, like Bojack Horseman, or smiling friends, but there is the risk of getting a Big Mouth or Chicago party Aunt.
Many people see the success of Family Guy and try and copy that, but don't realize that most people nowadays watch it ironically and for the memes
for the younger celebrity one, i just find it weird if an old person is like an aggressive stan of them and make like edits or fanfic or attack others online about them. like, at a certain point u need to grow up... stan behavior is for teens. and also like young celebrites like need to be protected tbh and being an aggressive stan of them makes it worse for them
i am a fan of seventeen (kpop boy group) and i do see a lot of "[member] doesn't want us talking about this" or "[member] says this makes him uncomfortable, so please don't comment that" proving that what celebrities say does have a difference. this also may be because a lot of seventeen fans are usually adults, but even though it may not stop one fan from doing something, other fans can still remind them of the artist's boundaries.
As a female kpop stan that is now 25, I just cannot watch the new groups coming out these days because they look like babies 😭 And I guess it depends on the music video concept too but I dont wanna watch these boys that look 18 looking intensely into the camera and touching their lips no matter how talented they are 😅
Regarding the commentary genre fatigue: I feel the same and recently I got recommended a few smaller creators that are absolutely a breath of fresh air. gabi belle, Chad Chad, Ethan is online
edit: I misspelled Gabi's name
Yes, I started watching Chad Chad's video's a week or so ago and I'm obsessed with her sense of humor and delivery. I'll check out the others you mentioned as well!
Kuncan Daster is another amazing smaller commentary channel as another recommendation:)
@@hannahveerkamp1097 yes! I've been watching him for so long, I forgot he isn't exactly big and well known. His takes are always so thoughtful, and on several occasions I was blown away because I didn't expect it. He isn't afraid to go against the grain and disagree with others, but always backs it up with well thought out arguments. His recent video about the "met gala" was fantastic!
@@yesimlistening5026 I think all three of them are blowing up now, they were all picked up by the algorithm together I think, because all of a sudden, my recommended has been the three of them, and their videos are always related to each other. It started happening about a week ago, and I binged all of their content. Chad Chad and Gabi have also had some big collaborations with Danny and Jarvis recently, so I think that helped
the booktok take…. TOOO REALLLL! (except sally rooney. we stan.)
you can appreciate someones art/work/career and be over their age but if you say anything sexual AT ALL or anything about body or innocence or age in a weird way thats a 👎
yeah
If you‘re a couple years older i serously don‘t get what the problem is
For the cheating one, I see what they mean, but I have a more nuanced take? A lot of people don't put in the work to set boundaries around their relationships. They never discuss with their partners what constitutes cheating in the relationship, so it's easy for someone to effectively accidentally cheat because they didn't know their partner would have an issue with it. A good example is that some people think that consuming "adult videos" is cheating. I do not personally think that, but knowing that some people do, it is something I'd have to discuss with potential partners. I think there's room for a little forgiveness in situations like that because people can't abide by boundaries that they never knew about, but I think that most of the time you should probably just break up with someone who cheats on you.
fair but i also think that inherently and unless otherwise discussed, things like kissing, sleeping with, or going on dates with someone who isnt your partner, and deliberately hiding that information from your partner is cheating to most people. a lot of people can forgive and then go on to set boundaries regarding littler things that some may consider cheating (going to lunch with an opposite gender friend alone, for example). i dont know many healthy relationships where if something made someone uncomfortable, they wouldnt be able to talk about and draw the necessary boundaries for the future.
but some things ARE far more obvious as cheating (again, assuming it wasnt already greenlit in the relationship) like sleeping with someone else. and these situations that are more cut and dry tend to also consist of elements of deceiving your partner through lying about your whereabouts and activities or hiding that information from them purposefully, as well as taking many many steps from start to finish for these things to happen. you don't accidentally fall into physically intimate situations with someone nor do you accidentally hide an entire secret relationship with them from your partner.
the nature of these acts that are purposeful moments of betraying a partner's trust, imo, is a huge deal to anyone in any kind of close and intimate relationship. i wouldnt want my trust betrayed on purpose by someone that i trusted with things like my baggage, my feelings, my body, my time, etc. and if someone purposely betrayed that time and time again (and yes, sleeping with someone even once does take repeated breaking of trust because you'd need to flirt with them, lie or hide about being available, and keep carrying out acts of intimacy without stopping at any point) then that is a huge emotional wound to any person.
and i say this as someone whose relationship is open, if i meet someone who im interested in, i dont hide it from my partner. i tell him about it, and that im thinking of hooking up, and we have an open and honest discussion about whether or not thats okay for both of us. same goes for if i develop feelings for someone and might have to spend time with them. i dont hide it because i know thats a disservice to my partner and breaks his trust.
tl;dr: moments of accidental cheating like the example you provided are usually communicated and navigated, especially when its an honest mistake, assuming the relationship is a healthy enough one. but some things are culturally almost universally understood to be acts of cheating (with the exception of those who have communicated otherwise within the relationship). and in these cases, trust is violated repeatedly and dishonesty is often necessary for it to even happen, and that is a big betrayal for most people.
@@zorro...... I don't understand what the point of replying this to me was? I said "I think that most of the time you should probably just break up with someone who cheats on you" at the end of my comment. I was just pointing out that there are situations where cheating can be forgivable. Obviously repeatedly violating someone's trust is worth breaking up over.
@@skellingtonMCR u posted an opinion. i posted one too. this is a comment section not a public debate or brawl! i just wanted to add on that i think there are instances where even when boundaries werent set, it IS obviously cheating (eg s3x w someone else when youre in a monogamous relationship but never set boundaries about what constitutes cheating is cut-and-dry still cheating and consists mulitple breaches of trust within that one singular act of s3x outside the relationship). but i also agree that where its less universal and more minor infractions, it should be something that 2 people can work past.
just because i commented on ur comment doesnt mean im trying to start something! your "idk why you replied to me" is wild given that we are on a comment section where anyone can comment anywhere and its not like i was rude or saying you were completely in the wrong for having your opinion so whats with the defensiveness?
@@zorro...... The problem is that you came across as a little condescending. I don't think you meant to come across that way at all so I'm not particularly angry at you. It just felt unnecessary to leave a comment saying something we all know already, especially given that I addressed that norm at the end of my original comment. I basically said sometimes B is true but A still holds true and then you said yes, but A like I didn't already say that so it was odd. It's the "but" that was so strange to me like you wrote it like you were disagreeing with me even though we don't actually disagree so it left me confused. (For the record, I was genuinely asking what point you were trying to make and not trying to start a fight so I also apologize if my tone came across wrong to you.)
But most things are incredibly obvious that that is cheating so it is hard to “accidentally cheat”. However I do agree that boundaries and communication is really important so that you know if watching adult videos is cheating (personally I think as long as my bf communicated to me and didn’t try to keep it a weird secret I’d be fine with it)
bruh, my ex cheated once and i forgave her, then every instance afterwards, she was like "but you forgave me for that one time, why cant you forgive me now?" don't forgive cheaters, it aint a mistake, its a dumb decision
that being said, its important to talk about what you personally think cheating is even before u get into the relationship, like watching p*rn, catching feelings for other people, etc. because it widely varies from person to person imo
About the thrift store part: the vast majority of clothing in thrift shops doesn’t get bought, and there is a major surplus of clothing. Things that don’t get bought typically end up in landfill or get shipped to third world countries. There, it often arrives in poor condition and goes unused, then to landfills.
I personally think it’s a good thing that second hand clothing is being resold. It helps people make money, it decreases consumption and pollution, and plenty of clothing is still there for low income people.
I disagree, most thrift store clothes are thrown out before they even hit the floor. The people who up charge for cheap clothing make thrift stores rise their prices and leave poor people without clothes. I have to shop at thrift stores because I can't afford to buy first hand and I will see people buying all the cute clothes and the plus size clothes only to sell them at a ridiculous up charge. This leaves me without anything to wear i can't just buy the ugly small clothes because they don't fit its upsetting
@@putridpunk7988 thrift stores aren’t raising their prices bc a small set of their consumer base is buying clothes to resell. It’s due to inflation and the capitalistic structure that the corporations who own these stores run on.
@@tedddybear yes it's not just these people but they aren't helping when they take a $2 shirt and sell it for $20
10:45 I'm not convinced that people tailoring over-sized clothing is as much of a problem as re-sellers. Just in terms of volume. A re-seller will pick a thrift store clean of anything remotely valuable, somebody picking up maybe a couple pieces isn't nearly as bad
Exactly! No matter your size, it can be difficult to find things in thrift stores that fit you right, sometimes you have to take the closest thing and make do.
When i go thrifting and want oversized clothes i just shop the mens section lol… they have cuter polo shirts and better “Hawaiian” prints imo.
Also gen z comment is very true. Lots of us think we are progressive but then we turn around and bully people for physical disabilities or things people cant ever change just because they look different and “funny”. Very frustrating
I personally think that the circumstances matter in the “celebrities are responsible for their fans” take. Like how bad the fandom attacks, who they attack, and how often they attack. Like most fandoms mind their business and only sometimes send hate, but some are just 😬
Yeah I think the thing that should be stated with grudges is to not let one ruin your life. Forgiveness isn't always earned but you also don't have to live in your own anger.
Another unpopular opinion, the property brothers game slaps and I may or may not be on level 15000....
SHUT UP
i love this and i wish yt comments let u attach pictures bc i wanna see ur designs 😭😭
@@caseyaonso6254 okay I have to be honest I haven't played it in a while, but for a few months I was OBSESSED. I told myself I would stop at level 1000 but I got sucked in. Some people are on level 50,000, how is there even that many levels on a house designing game?!
@@caseyaonso6254 I've literally done like 100 rooms at this point, I don't even remember most of them 😂
BRO my friend is on like 20000
I am so glad the booktok opinion was finally aired. The number of times I’ve had people recommend Colleen Hoover is criminal. I’m planning on starting a cult and the first event will be Colleen Hoover and adjacent fiction book bonfire. All are welcome 💖
Sign me up
Add Sarah J Mass too please.
Omggg your take on the commentary is soo me bc I find it so hard to find things to react to fast like established creators I have a few but I feel a lil burnt out by the time I get to wanting to make a video
The way people are pressured not to hold grudges might be Christianity-related
It definitely is and people have kept that mindset even if they aren’t religious themselves. In my opinion, you shouldn’t try to make someone forgive someone for something they did to them.
To add onto the thrifting topic, I absolutely hate how some of these thrift businesses post the really good stuff on their instagram and by the time you see it, someone has already commented to put it on hold/claimed it. The whole point of thrifting is to go there and see what you can find and if you luck out! It makes me mad lol. love you Casey!!
Are there any commentary channels about commentary channels? Like “Okay, Chet has a good verbal delivery of this. Very well communicated. Decent amount of personality in the voice. Buuut you’re not keeping me engaged with the lack of hand talk, man. Gotta get more physical.”
I highly appreciate the opinion about having kids. I found out recently that I'm pregnant, and while it's something my husband and I have been planning on and are happy about, it feels like I'm supposed to make it my one personality trait and my whole life is supposed to be about having babies now. On the other hand, I have really close friends whom I was nervous to tell because they're so critical of women our age (late 20s) who make career sacrifices to have kids, or who have kids close together, etc. I just wish we could land somewhere in the middle and make it easier for women to have kids and also have lives outside of having kids.
I hate the trend of child free people calling people “selfish” for having kids. Some of them even insultingly call people that want kids “breeders” as if it’s such an unnatural thing to want children lol. They say “don’t judge me for not wanting kids!” then turn around and judge others. It’s not every child free person that does this, just a very loud minority on the internet that doesn’t recognize their own hypocrisy
I think for the first opinion, I think creators are somewhat responsible for how their fans act moreso as to what type of community they create. Like for example, someone who is fairly toxic and cynical may breed or accumulate an audience who are more liable to troll and harrass, vs. others who are more chill/positive. While everyone is going to have fans who will be bad representatives of the community regardless, I think there's a difference between simply bad faith fans and fans who just are following the culture their creator has bred.
if there is one thing we know about casey, it’s that she likes things that are simple, but still look cool
I’ve been hearing opinions like “People should have licenses to have kids.” To that I say, “that’s what marriage is for… the licensing to have children…”
2:53 Yay, I made it into a Casey Aonso Video. Made my day. You perfectly summed up what I was trying to say. It must be super annoying to deal with as a "Media/Pop Culture" RUclipsr.
that cheating comment is def written by a cheater lmao
Forgiveness is not the same thing as accepting someone's apology. Forgiveness is for yourself, not the other person .
having a side hustle if you work full time (i have two jobs!) is so, so hard. i try to run an side education instagram account that isn’t even attempting to be monetized or go viral and even keeping up with that is s exhausting because i still want to have a life, see friends, play sports, have a relationship etc. it’s very easy to burn out and much harder than people think
Your first response about creators and their responsibility for fans' actions is exactly the problem I have with a lot of "commentary" channels that build their community on calling out others non-stop. I 100% agree that if someone's going to attack another person, they're going to do it whether the creator says to or not. In the case of call-out channels (which, IMO, is not the same as commentary), the entire point is to target someone. A lot of those creators try to let themselves off the hook by saying they're just "making people aware of the situation," while telling folks not to attack the person they're talking about. But at the end of the day, they're still putting a target directly on a person and none of their altruistic intentions matter. They're willfully calling someone out and they cannot, in good faith, claim that they don't expect some kind of backlash or response to fall on their target. Add to it that most of these call-out channels target people that mostly "regular" folks that have a decent following, not major public figures, AND they often do so on flimsy evidence and it's kind of a gross mess. (see: most of the "art commentary" youtube sphere)
So I agree, it is absolutely cosmetic. I don't think it's always in bad faith -- I think there are ways to make commentary so that it isn't a pointed call-out attack masquerading as something else. But there is nuance between commentary and calling out but pretending you're just "bringing awareness" or whatever b.s.
YESSSS The thrift store one! To be honest I think that if you have the means to buy clothes then just do that but to wedge your way into the outlet that some people have to get some decent looking clothes and maybe their ONLY opportunity to get something expensive that they wouldn’t be able to get otherwise is infuriating to me.
The Meg is an example of an incredibly beautifully horrible movie and if they made a sequel I would be so happy… I mean call me maybe they already have and I just missed it somehow? If I did inform me!
I think they’re working on the sequel at the moment. I also love The Meg so I’m pretty excited lol
Can't wait for the next one, these are grand 🤷🏼♂️
One of the bigger commentary youtubers I enjoy is Drew Gooden. His content is never boring and he can make any topic interesting. And I also love his series where he buys the products from the ads. And I ALWAYS come back to his videos about television, reading his old notes, acting and etc.
nothing but respect for the person brave enough to call ariana grande's music ass ✊
also I don't think an adult stanning a child is inherently problematic. some of the kpop ggs I stan have underage members and I just think of them as cute babies I want to see do well. but I definitely see how it can be problematic, especially when the kid in question is a gender the adult is attracted to.
Her voice is just fills me with so much serotonin idk how somebody could not like it. 😭
10:46 there really isn’t a shortage of thrift store stock, yes they constantly ask for donations but the vast majority go to landfill so imo it’s not really taking away from anyone
Omg I’m in this lol I was fully not expecting that
As someone who's sister has been cheated on multiple times by her POS boyfriend, not breaking up with them for cheating just enables them. If they cheat and don't get broken up with, they think it's okay to cheat and will continue to cheat. Break up with them after one time of cheating. Stops them from cheating because they're relationship won't last if they cheat
On the airplane/hospital food thing- if you are taking a longer flight or staying overnight at the hospital you tend to get options that resemble real food, just with weird texture and taste, so that can be pretty alright. Even if you're only getting the most basic free stuff though, spending all day running around airports or throwing up for a day straight definitely can make you feel like a tiny cup of juice and 3 mini pretzels is basically the food of the gods.
about the depop thing, i think it depens on where u live but i think in moste places the thrift stores are still throwing away (or donating for the next country to throw it away) good and beautiful clothing cause they cant sell it.
As a fellow grudge holder I also agree, but never get to the point where you're constantly angry and thinking about it basically don't let that be the only thing on your mind as it starts to bleed into other aspects of life. If it ever gets to that point it's best to let it go, for yourself.
Well... That's why grudges aren't healthy... Because there progression is one of bitterness and resentment. I think many people just don't have a strong grasp of what forgiveness truly is in it's entirety. So I think an argument to encourage holding grudges isn't beneficial but for sure that people have their individual choice to function how they choose to. But typically those that proudly hold grudges just haven't matured much. It's easy to hold a grudge but it takes so much growth to forgive. (not the surface level apology/accept apology).
I feel that, because sometimes I don't want to make money off of something, I just want to enjoy it.
hey bestie! loved this stream and hope you have a great day!
Booktok has trash taste, the smut recommendations are awful, garbage, promote abuse/violence as something sexy, makes coercing someone into sexual activity as something cute or hot, the men in such books aren't hot for not being to control their anger and taking it out on the bed. Simply putting, every single time I've come across these recs, I had to scroll so fucking quick it's insane.
there's a difference between thinking something is a little weird and kink-shaming though! casual kink-shaming can cause severe mental illness and escalates quickly. associating even more shame with getting off really really hurts people and is soooo different than people getting offended by someone thinking their interest isn't interesting!
5:05 I don't if this is a bit but the comment literally said someone has to approve the fits. MKBHD also talked about it on his podcast clips channel.