Man Shows How to "Islamically" Beat Your Wife

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • A Qatari sociologist Abd Al Aziz Al-Khazraj made a video on social media demonstrating the halal and proper way to beat your wife. This is my response
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Комментарии • 399

  • @popsy5676
    @popsy5676 Год назад +136

    What is even more humiliating: his wife is not allowed to be on the video. She is voiceless and faceless.

    • @seemyaboutsection8168
      @seemyaboutsection8168 Год назад +4

      Wife who?
      A man is already taking charge
      Do you want men to have dirty thoughts looking at his wife?
      Grow up!

    • @hereweare9096
      @hereweare9096 Год назад +30

      Ever noticed in many Dawah videos they blur out women. They see them as insignificant. A lustful object that needs blurring.. the reason being it’s for her protection. By that logic women need protection from Muslim men … as the men are the one defending the blurring of women.
      It’s terrible

    • @user-wl7zi6pc3j
      @user-wl7zi6pc3j Год назад +13

      @@seemyaboutsection8168 I have 2 points:
      1) if what you mean is(for example) I have my wife for example wandering in the street without hijab etc and other men finding her(sexually or otherwise) beautiful and masturbating by thinking about her in house, then, I would have no problem with that. What is wrong with this? Same thing for man. If I was a man with very much sexual appeal(like muscles etc) and a random woman saw me in the street and found me sexually appealing and masturbated at house, so what? What is wrong with that? Many people would say that this is to protect women but protecting women from what? From a random man seeing her beauty? Why do you think this is something from which women need protection? As I said, it is normal you find such things abnormal from a conservative religious outlook but from a secular humanistic perspective where the long term happiness, well being of humans are valued; such things would not be wrong as long as there is mutual consent and no serious harm involved. Similarly, I am also not against polymory, having multiple partners as long as both men and women can benefit from this right, or open relationships. Of course, the fact that I deem those things to be more doesn't mean that they are appropriate forms of relationships for everyone, many people would not be okay with sharing their husband or wife, some would be. But this is not a sufficient ground to deem all of those relationships immoral.
      2) This still constitutes unequal rights for men and women. Men are allowed to appear in public spaces without having to cover their faces, arms, legs below knees(men just have to cover between knees and belly button) but women have to cover everything, including face to some. This is definitely unjust.

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Год назад

      @@seemyaboutsection8168 you are disgusting. You have sexual thoughts at every thing you see? What a weak pathetic person

    • @cocomamaforever3477
      @cocomamaforever3477 Год назад

      Women have right and fully respected in Islam, you have the truth in this video right here

  • @oprophetisfake9482
    @oprophetisfake9482 Год назад +87

    The Iranian religious police gave a light beating to a Muslim woman for not wearing hijab as they liked. She died. That is what Islam teaches. Do you remember seeing the size of the toothbrushes that the Taliban were using to beat women in Afghanistan? That is Islam.
    What is one of the things that you are not supposed to ask a man? You are not even supposed to question why he beat his wife.
    That is Islam.

    • @phantomgamingignt6275
      @phantomgamingignt6275 Год назад +3

      Ooo shit ,
      Are things that worse ....?

    • @piek359
      @piek359 Год назад +6

      Yep. It is disgusting and I’m glad social media is sharing the BS going on there

    • @randomcomment6068
      @randomcomment6068 2 месяца назад +2

      Toothbrushes? Did they have a size of a baseball bat?

  • @mo_51_married_aisha_6
    @mo_51_married_aisha_6 Год назад +121

    This is why watching women defending Islam is like watching chickens defending KFC🔥🍗

    • @popsy5676
      @popsy5676 Год назад +4

      @I. قال يسوع: أنا الطريق والحق والحياه

    • @mo_51_married_aisha_6
      @mo_51_married_aisha_6 Год назад

      @I. Lol! You mean just like in Iran? Forcing people doesn't work forever.

    • @popsy5676
      @popsy5676 Год назад +2

      @I. فقال لهم يسوع: أنا هو خبز الحياة. من يقبل الي فلا يجوع ومن يؤمن بي فلا يعطش ابدا. يوحنا 6:35

    • @popsy5676
      @popsy5676 Год назад +2

      @I. قال لها يسوع: أنا هو القيامة والحياة. من آمن بي ولو مات فسيحيا. انجيل يوحنا 11:25

    • @popsy5676
      @popsy5676 Год назад +1

      @I. Of course Jesus was not a muslim. He was a jew who went to the temple and preached in the synagogue.
      Islam did not exist at all!!! For Jesus no Muhammad, no mosques, no Arabic, no Qur'an, no ramadan, no Ka'aba, no jinns, no haram wine, no Islamic heaven with sexual activities.
      You do not believe Jesus'words. I advise you to read New Testament, and believe in his words.

  • @theastronomer5800
    @theastronomer5800 Год назад +79

    The little boy is smiling and laughing. Would a little girl do the same in this "tutorial"?

  • @DeeBoudreau
    @DeeBoudreau Год назад +72

    And conveniently, everywhere except the face is covered, so nobody will see any "accidental" bruises. Mashallah!

    • @I.am.hooked
      @I.am.hooked 11 месяцев назад +5

      😮😢. That makes sense.!!

  • @MM-oj8vb
    @MM-oj8vb Год назад +137

    I’ve said this time and time again. It is perpetually treating your own wife like she is a child. A child that is infantilised so much that she needs instructions, rebuking and physical punishment to be kept in line and obedient. What the hell? My heart bleed for these women- especially the ones who say they deserve it.
    Love you A. You’re what a man is supposed to be. Thank you

    • @Kafirman666
      @Kafirman666 Год назад

      a slave child

    • @SR-hu7qr
      @SR-hu7qr Год назад

      But in bed she needs to behave in very adult way .

    • @ryanramlogan6512
      @ryanramlogan6512 Год назад +1

      @I. Idk maybe he woke up and said he didn't wanna have sex with minors. Sounds more plausible no?

    • @joerdim
      @joerdim Год назад +2

      But it's not like children need physical punishment, right?

    • @joerdim
      @joerdim Год назад

      @Tattu Honest question: How did you call them to order if they acted like ... children act? If they scream around in the metro or whatever... :D

  • @tanjavankessel8942
    @tanjavankessel8942 Год назад +166

    Another problem I have with this video: by involving his son, the man is undermining his wife’s authority over their children

    • @-paganless-4248
      @-paganless-4248 Год назад +19

      Because an Adult male in Islam has an authority over his mother.
      Consider this to be a practice .

    • @ashleytheseeker8480
      @ashleytheseeker8480 Год назад +11

      Exactly. It's really difficult when dealing with such practices and being a female teacher. 😕

    • @popsy5676
      @popsy5676 Год назад +21

      I often saw this in muslim families. Young boys commanding their mother around like daddy does.

    • @ashleytheseeker8480
      @ashleytheseeker8480 Год назад +4

      @@popsy5676 I work at a school and it's very telling even in Latino homes where the father has the machismo persona

    • @Ibn_Abdulaziz1405
      @Ibn_Abdulaziz1405 Год назад

      Has nothing to do with Islam but with personal character. I'm soft with women, I could never hit her. I don't even shout, because it would lower my honour and make me seem desperate. Forsaking her and not talking to her works so that she knows you're not happy with her.
      It would be easier to have concubines. They don't even have to be Muslims. You only have her when you need to release the desires. The human male body is created weak, it needs food and water and it needs a woman. If my body didn't need her, I would not have wasted time with her. The non-Muslim women fornicate, instead they could consider becoming concubines.

  • @SR-hu7qr
    @SR-hu7qr Год назад +80

    They treat a women like she was a child all her life but in bad she needs to act in very adult way ,even if she is only 9 years old

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Год назад +1

      Yes. They treat women like children but also like sexual deviants when the men are the ones who have no discipline.

    • @clauaome25
      @clauaome25 Год назад +4

      Lol

    • @davidmarjason4222
      @davidmarjason4222 Год назад +2

      I always wonder how a 40 year old man can fit such a thing in a 9 year old. Wouldn't that kill her? It's not like it's a 9 year old and a 12 year old boy. A full grown man to have sexual intercouse can potentially kill that little 9.

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Год назад +5

      @@davidmarjason4222 it’s possible to really damage the area, which is what many ppl think Mohammad did to Aisha and why she never bore children. They speculate, based on scientific evidence, that rape and trauma to the area at such a young age would harm reproduction. Aisha was 9, he was 53 i believe when he raped her.

    • @davidmarjason4222
      @davidmarjason4222 Год назад

      @@diabloakland oh my god. That's horrendous! And Muslims see him as a moral figure? May God have mercy! I was about to say that it was a bit weird for mohammed to have sexual course with aisha before her first period. Usually back in those days, when a girl have her first period. She will then be class as a woman and she can make babies then, I thought it would be common sense for mohammed to do the deed when she finished her first period... usually around age 12-13 generally. It's still bad, but at least it's not having having sex with a 9 year old! 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️💀💀
      and the quran should really say that the age of copulation for a woman is 16-18 or something, this will avoid child marriages and copulation of young girls under age 16.

  • @copticstate
    @copticstate Год назад +26

    I wonder what he would tell his daughter to do. To accept being beaten by her future husband??

    • @martymcfly8731
      @martymcfly8731 Год назад +17

      With these men, they care more about Islam and heavenly virgins more than they do their loved ones. So yes, he will say to accept beatings--and many of them have said this to their daughters before.

    • @AD-cc7bj
      @AD-cc7bj 2 месяца назад +1

      the mother would say the same.

  • @Timeone123.
    @Timeone123. Год назад +41

    No merciful god would say this. Beyond comprehension.

  • @scottdoesntmatter4409
    @scottdoesntmatter4409 Год назад +71

    I have not yet found a single aspect or quotation from Islam that is actually peaceful or beautiful. Yes, I have read the Quran. I have never found a single more concentrated source of pure evil in my entire life, and I have read many thousands of books, watched thousands of movies etc.

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Год назад +1

      Yep! All it says is blind dogma, abusing and killing, sex, rape, abusing women, and more sex. This dude was horny and schizophrenic 1500 years ago and created a religion based purely on sex.

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Год назад

      I left Islam because the indoctrination never really worked on me. I used to get in trouble for asking questions at school about it. I went to a fascist Islamic school. I used to be called Shaytaan for being left handed. The Quran is filled with atrocities on what to avoid

    • @es-rh8oo
      @es-rh8oo Год назад +14

      You know that verse about striking off the fingertips of the disbelievers and cutting their hands and feet off? I was shocked when I read it. Seriously it's so sickening. I think that the supposed context is that this verse was revealed in a war.
      Even so, if you have to kill someone, like REALLY need to kill someone in self-defence, you NEVER fantasise about taking your time and causing them to suffer. You just do one or two gunshots or knife stabs and call the police. And yes I mention police because Islam is supposed to be a religion of all time, so it has to work in the modern times.

    • @tracywillow5359
      @tracywillow5359 Год назад +2

      I agree

    • @jacquen697
      @jacquen697 Год назад

      Yeah I know how terrible … like the crusaders ( in 7 different crusades) as they came in and took out half my people and took the women and than bragged about the remains of them being nay high to the horses leg and setting the synagogues on fire as they locked Jews in them . Such good Christian’s … 🥰 praise Jesus !!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @theastronomer5800
    @theastronomer5800 Год назад +61

    The Prophet said: A man will not be asked as to why he beat his wife. - Sunan Abi Dawud 2147

    • @Belarus2012
      @Belarus2012 Год назад +2

      Actually it is saying: "never ask a man why he beat his wife" And check how trustworthy this is.

    • @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude
      @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude Год назад +4

      mashadallah ....😆

    • @marcusj9947
      @marcusj9947 Год назад +10

      @I. Ask the Saudi's to remove the weak hadiths. It's not our job to fix weak hadiths for you. it's good enough to be kept in the books

    • @Tony-Injection
      @Tony-Injection Год назад +3

      @I., 😭🤣

    • @Tony-Injection
      @Tony-Injection Год назад +3

      @I. Am an Abdul, it is wise to believe that the sun sets in a pool of muddy water.

  • @HassanRadwan133
    @HassanRadwan133 Год назад +43

    These are NOT the words of a Wise and Merciful God.

    • @jojames6621
      @jojames6621 Год назад +1

      r u an ex muslim or something?

    • @qasmb1546
      @qasmb1546 Год назад +2

      How do you know?! Maybe this is the divine knowledge to keep balance between men and women.

    • @Tony-Injection
      @Tony-Injection Год назад +6

      @@qasmb1546 🤡

    • @jojames6621
      @jojames6621 Год назад +10

      @@qasmb1546 Divine knowledge?? Seems like the words of ordinary men from arabia that were violent by nature to start with that were always fighting jihad.

    • @qasmb1546
      @qasmb1546 Год назад +1

      @@jojames6621 THats a lie.

  • @seekthetruthfindit6879
    @seekthetruthfindit6879 Год назад +35

    This upsets me. I mean, I've been there. When you're inside this, it is hard to understand what is happening. You need to take a step back and look at it from the outside to know how toxic this is. Almost like an impressionist painting...When you stand too close to it, you will not see the actual picture. My ex reprimanded me for (not) leaving the house at night once. He thought I went out in the middle of the night because the keys were not in the door as usual. He screamed at me and old me to pack my bag and leave...Well, he found the keys later in his pocket.
    Back then, I let him threaten and shout at me. This would not happen to me today.

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Год назад +1

      Wow I’m sorry. What happened after he finish the keys? He is a weak man and you’re better off without him.

    • @seekthetruthfindit6879
      @seekthetruthfindit6879 Год назад +10

      @@diabloakland He apologised and promised it would never happen again. I stayed. Divorce was out of question for me. Islam tells you to be a good wife and have 'sabr' with your husband... Eventually, though, he became increasingly abusive, and I left him when I had my firstborn. His behaviour became a threat to my baby. I could not justify it any longer.
      Then I started looking into the religious justifications for my mistreatment, for my role as a woman. I left after about a year of studying Quran and ahadith.
      My ex is threatening me to this day, and I moved a lot.
      However, I have managed to make up for many things that were taken for me. I am now happily married and am continuing with my career plans. So, it's hard, but there is alight at the end of the tunnel.
      I hope you are well, and I hope you are living your best life.

  • @suavecito3752
    @suavecito3752 Год назад +19

    Showing how to beat your wife to your son is sad. I can imagine the son telling his dad "is that the way you beat my mom?" What a joke as a father.

  • @aykutbulbul2021
    @aykutbulbul2021 Год назад +14

    And the worst part is ; İf a man beat his wife, you can not tell him not to.

  • @kainangel
    @kainangel Год назад +18

    Thank you, again a good job. you are becoming in France (I am French) a reference for the criticism of Islam in benevolence.

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Год назад +4

      This is great news to here! We need more allies as ex Muslims to stop Islam.
      J’adore tout le mond de France! merci beaucoup pour votre aide ex Musulmans!

    • @es-rh8oo
      @es-rh8oo Год назад

      @@diabloakland indeed! France is a fantastic country. The only Muslims that should be allowed to live and work in France are the ones that accept the ugly truth of Islam. I hope that France becomes a safe haven for exmuslims

  • @johanahonen8627
    @johanahonen8627 Год назад +14

    I would love to meet this man and tell him “look at this beautiful thing” and then beat him, when he asks what I am doing and tells me to stop I will just explain “it’s my religion… and it’s so beautiful..can’t you tell?”

  • @jolaola1987
    @jolaola1987 Год назад +12

    There's a hadeeth where Aisha says Muhammad sneaked out of her bed and left her home at night, so she followed him to see what's he's up to (like a curious and innocent young girl she was) and when he realised he struck her in the chest causing her pain.

    • @theastronomer5800
      @theastronomer5800 Год назад +4

      There is also " Narrated Aisha: Abu Bakr came to towards me and struck me violently with his fist and said, "You have detained the people because of your necklace." But I remained motionless as if I was dead lest I should awake Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) although that hit was very painful." -Sahih al-Bukhari 6845

  • @ankitanandy6076
    @ankitanandy6076 Год назад +16

    I hope someday this son grows up and realises this is not okay... Hopefully he will not repeat this with his wife. Religion or no religion, violence of any form is not okay, if all people want to do is talk(argue), hands and legs need not get involved.

  • @1Ethiopia_Getahun.
    @1Ethiopia_Getahun. Год назад +28

    This channel is helpful.

  • @anntares172
    @anntares172 Год назад +5

    Heard this exact thing being told to men, women, and children in mosques in Los Angeles. Multiple times.

  • @fas1840
    @fas1840 Год назад +28

    This only seems bizarre because you live in the west. sadly this is normal in the middle east

  • @littlecatfeet9064
    @littlecatfeet9064 Год назад +9

    Another demonstration of Islam as the most feminist religion ☪️

  • @mjp-bi3re
    @mjp-bi3re Год назад +19

    Regarding the Quran verse that says to strike a wife, the Quran is believed to be the revealed word of God, who is an all perfect being. However, muslims would say that it needs to be interpreted. So, God needs mortals to clarify his messages? The hadith serve to complement the Quran and lend clarity to it, yet hadiths were written by men and some are not legitimate. Makes perfect sense.

  • @sheikhboyardee556
    @sheikhboyardee556 Год назад +15

    I ran this by my wife & told her in no uncertain terms that we were going to adopt this. The doctor told me my double vision would pass with time....

  • @Earthling108
    @Earthling108 Год назад +4

    And if spouse beating keeps the spouse in line why not mention husband beating?

  • @kattysat
    @kattysat Год назад +28

    This is a cultural issue going back thousands of years, not just by muslims, that has become inherent in Islamic scripture. All walks of life once acted in this way. What makes it difficult now though is times and attitudes have changed yet Islam hasn't and won't. You can question, criticize, mock and reform pretty well any religion other than Islam, it's haram and that is it's weakest argument: it can never 'fit in' within the Western culture.

    • @riyaansheikh7470
      @riyaansheikh7470 Год назад +1

      be my friend pls. i agree with you 🙏🏻

    • @hihi-lc6rr
      @hihi-lc6rr Год назад

      You are so stupid still defending things that are wrong.

    • @focu2567
      @focu2567 Год назад

      " belief is not only an idea that the mind posses, belief is an idea that posses the mind" Islam is all over western countries and gaining power in all aspects of western society including government. Islam is steady gaining it's goals just as their book proclaims . By the time the average person takes notice and opens their eyes it will be too late.

    • @I.am.hooked
      @I.am.hooked 11 месяцев назад

      What the hell are you saying. Cultural issue?
      If it’s a cultural issue, why is it in the Quran?

    • @qasmb1546
      @qasmb1546 3 месяца назад

      @@I.am.hooked lol

  • @nesh6569
    @nesh6569 Год назад +17

    Thanks for highlighting these issues! Many Muslims tend to overlook/ignore these things and would rather defend it. Your rational and unapologetic approach to things speaks volume about you! Keep up the good work👍

  • @jolaola1987
    @jolaola1987 Год назад +10

    It would be worth mentioning not only why beating is wrong but that it prevents human kind from evolving emotionally and mentally. That is an animalistic behaviour to use physical force but actually healthy, loving, respectful communication between the spouses would be something that is levels above. Unfortunately islam is promoting victim-perpetrator cycle and doesn't teach real skills for problem solving and communication. It promotes cowardice in the disguise of honour.

  • @LoveAllAnimals101
    @LoveAllAnimals101 Год назад +17

    I have no issue. Just as long as the husband and son are happy to accept the same treatment - from the wife.

    • @SR-hu7qr
      @SR-hu7qr Год назад +3

      That marrage will be very violent .No husbands or wife should do that..
      Jesus said treat your wife like you treat yourself.
      No one beat himself unless someone got mental problem/selfharm/

    • @LoveAllAnimals101
      @LoveAllAnimals101 Год назад

      @@SR-hu7qr 🤣🤣

    • @Belarus2012
      @Belarus2012 Год назад

      @@SR-hu7qr well you will be surprised how much women beat, slap and even cut themselves in western societies.

  • @JohnStopman
    @JohnStopman Год назад +11

    Misogyny... Religion's biggest problem 😏

    • @svensvenforkedbeard170
      @svensvenforkedbeard170 Год назад +9

      Islam's in this case, lumping Islam in with other religions limits the effectiveness of dealing with Islam effectively.

    • @I9s7lam5is-S3tu1pid
      @I9s7lam5is-S3tu1pid Год назад

      @@svensvenforkedbeard170 - bingo

    • @I9s7lam5is-S3tu1pid
      @I9s7lam5is-S3tu1pid Год назад

      @Mysotiras 017 - some atheists can’t help themselves. It’s like a mindless, knee jerk reaction; like a rash they have to scratch.

  • @urielpolak9949
    @urielpolak9949 Год назад +3

    Such lovely father-son talks degrading the mother and future wife(just one option here) people are so disappointing

  • @adonai7187
    @adonai7187 Год назад +25

    I feel for the believing woman.

    • @theastronomer5800
      @theastronomer5800 Год назад +6

      `Aisha said that the lady (came), wearing a green veil (and complained to her (Aisha) of her husband and showed her a green spot on her skin caused by beating). It was the habit of ladies to support each other, so when Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) came, `Aisha said, "I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!" - Sahih al-Bukhari 5825

  • @user-fl7hg7qx1c
    @user-fl7hg7qx1c 2 месяца назад +3

    I am glad, i have found your channel! It is hard to see all this islamic falsness while none out of the islamic world seems to critizise it.

  • @tonyrufus4965
    @tonyrufus4965 Год назад +20

    The fact that he's showing or explaining to his son how to beat a wife for going outside without permission...............is this not madness? Imagine if that kid grew with that mentality.......what kind of people are these people...............

    • @infofuralle2201
      @infofuralle2201 Год назад +4

      Not would, they actually are growing this way in Qatar, Saudi Arabia, Iran, Yemen, Afghanistan, Syria, Sudan, ......

    • @popsy5676
      @popsy5676 Год назад +4

      @@infofuralle2201 and in the west too, everywhere they live

  • @FharishAhmedPortfolio
    @FharishAhmedPortfolio Год назад +26

    lol We should make that Qatari person extremely famous!!!

  • @haroldwood1394
    @haroldwood1394 Год назад +17

    It's not hard to find possible parallels with other cultures, particularly where marriages were not so much between individuals as between families, powerful clans etc where money/power and status are central to the relationship. We can see this in the late mediaeval Paston Letters, where women beat a sister until she accepts the marriage. The difference is that the Quran 'freezes' this practice for all time as part of the 'perfect' religion.

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Год назад

      Very well said. Islam is a religion about perverse sexual desires of a mentally ill man. It has no place in the 21st century and claims it can’t be updated. It’s sickening.

  • @Thecrunkasauras
    @Thecrunkasauras Год назад +4

    thats disgusting... good job exposing this.

  • @simontesfalem8631
    @simontesfalem8631 Год назад +9

    I don’t know if I have to laugh or to cry about how their wife is going through

  • @amnaz8717
    @amnaz8717 Год назад +4

    @0:42 'wife must feel her husband's power' this same "power" if the wife portrays will be said to be disobedient and thus deserving physical abuse. Man can perpetrate physical abuse and run scott free in the society, only a woman would be penalised for this behaviour?? Do these men even understand the meaning of relationship, love and affection, these kind of men who can so candidly teach his child abuse and mysogyny are the root cause of violence against women in all societies.

  • @freesomaliminds8391
    @freesomaliminds8391 Год назад +4

    Couldn't even permit a women to be in the video!! LOL the fact that the makers of that video don't recognize the irony shows the level of self awareness of these people!

  • @jeanmullen8327
    @jeanmullen8327 Год назад +6

    As someone pointed out this is all explained to the boy…where is the girl….does she understand…such a crazy religion…..As the father is..so is the son.

  • @fadishihadeh1747
    @fadishihadeh1747 Год назад +10

    Great work 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

  • @wulfiii1490
    @wulfiii1490 Год назад +5

    i hope when the son grows up he will think this memory was just a laughable crap and not an actual advice on how to treat his wife. And i hope muslim women will reject this role of a husband's plaything and stand against violent men together.

  • @kemalataturk1917
    @kemalataturk1917 Год назад +9

    Hi Abdullah,
    There is an absolute deluge of Ex muslims in India. Have you checked them out? Particularly Sachwala, Abdul Hamid. I would love to know your thoughts on it. Please make a video on it. Cheers

  • @248-oldx-bmaishaalamzara5
    @248-oldx-bmaishaalamzara5 Год назад +8

    i was debating this dude who says he knows arabic and said the hit means tapping, tapping ? how's hitting and tapping even get mixed up in translation also idk if he's trying to make me believe it's tapping or himself, I remember when our islam teacher was teaching this at school how men should beat their wife, he said to use a stick with a cloth wrapped around it, idk where the heck these muslim get these from but it's frustrating . One girl who was a feminist asked if women can do the same , that idiot teacher of our ignored her and the whole class was saying it's just a stick what more do you need, they don't even understand basic concept of respect.

  • @Miro55Gaming
    @Miro55Gaming Год назад +4

    Great video however 1 correction. At 5:50 roughly, the guy does not day shoulder and abdomen, he says face, head, cheeks… that’s a mistranslation by whoever translated that video

  • @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude
    @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude Год назад +6

    Divorse other ... but don't abuse other physically/verbally

  • @someonesomewhere6316
    @someonesomewhere6316 Год назад +4

    So sick! What a religion.

  • @sadiqakhan277
    @sadiqakhan277 Год назад +14

    As a woman i am amazed by the kindness and magnanimity of our scholars who say its not to hurt or humiliate a woman but to make her realize she has disobeyed her husband .. its to be done very lightly should not leave a mark and never on the face ..with a folded hanky or miswak . Its not a solution they agree but certain circumstances and CERTAIN WOMEN justify some action . Such rulings make me numb with shock and disbelief .

    • @qasmb1546
      @qasmb1546 Год назад +2

      whats wrong with this? women deserve it sometimes, And Allah gives provision for this Alhamdulilah.

    • @sadiqakhan277
      @sadiqakhan277 Год назад +25

      @@qasmb1546 some men deserve it all the time ..

    • @ArterieVayne
      @ArterieVayne Год назад +11

      Would an open and neutral conversation not be better than the threat of violence no matter how small? I struggle to see how this is the best way for a man to let his wife know he feels disobeyed but I also disagree that a wife should always obey her husband, it just breeds the kind of culture that wants women to be controlled

    • @sadiqakhan277
      @sadiqakhan277 Год назад +17

      @@ArterieVayne that is the culture and muslim women suffer .. in my country they need their husbands permission to visit their parents forget about visiting friends and going out and having fun with them .

    • @qasmb1546
      @qasmb1546 Год назад

      @@sadiqakhan277 wow no need to get emotional.
      Men have been made stronger for this reason, otherwise Allah would make women stronger.
      *You were never muslim.*
      Astaghfirullah.

  • @HolyArmor
    @HolyArmor Год назад +3

    The hadith says you shouldn't leave marks on the face

  • @monikanordgren5844
    @monikanordgren5844 Год назад +5

    This is insane.

  • @warrior3549
    @warrior3549 Год назад +3

    It's really insane. What about the human rights. The HR has been put to final rest!!! A nomadic, barbaric act which how much one condemns will be still less. OMG🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄😬😬😬

  • @hanslesolo
    @hanslesolo Год назад +3

    It's just an infantile attitude towards your wife. Where is the spirtual maturity? Not even praying for your wife first

  • @XiagraBalls
    @XiagraBalls Год назад +1

    Jimmy Carr: "Beating your wife is like keying your own car."

  • @clod8
    @clod8 Год назад +2

    Everywhere women have power society is a lot better for it.

  • @theastronomer5800
    @theastronomer5800 Год назад +2

    `Aisha said that the lady (came), wearing a green veil (and complained to her (Aisha) of her husband and showed her a green spot on her skin caused by beating). It was the habit of ladies to support each other, so when Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) came, `Aisha said, "I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!" - Sahih al-Bukhari 5825

  • @gianniformica8235
    @gianniformica8235 Год назад +1

    These limitations must have been revolutionary in 7th century Arabia.
    Would definitely have been considerd merciful too.
    But Allah is not supposed to be a product of the 7th century...
    He is supposed to be eternal.
    All knowing...
    The MOST merciful.

  • @-paganless-4248
    @-paganless-4248 Год назад +7

    The Qur'an doesn't say how, it just says beat !
    The Hadith says do it with "Siwak" i.e the branch of the Arak tree, and as long as bones are not broken and flesh is not torn then it's all fair game .

    • @-paganless-4248
      @-paganless-4248 Год назад +1

      Avoiding the face is because Allah has allegedly created humans in his image.
      Which means Human faces resemble Allah's face, so neither face should be disrespected.

    • @-paganless-4248
      @-paganless-4248 Год назад +4

      @angelmakersweetrolls
      He has a face, a leg, and 2 hands (both right btw)

    • @-paganless-4248
      @-paganless-4248 Год назад +4

      @angelmakersweetrolls
      He needs a lot :
      5 prayers a day .
      Fasting 30 days/year .
      Invading others' lands in his name .
      Revolving 7 times around a black cube .

    • @yahia9481
      @yahia9481 Год назад +1

      Mercy of allah through the roof 😂

    • @yahia9481
      @yahia9481 Год назад

      @angelmakersweetrolls
      Turns out smoking p^t in 7ira cave gives you wisdom 😂

  • @tchilino78
    @tchilino78 Год назад +6

    Halal beating mush'al lah

  • @Jenvlogs404
    @Jenvlogs404 Год назад +2

    You mentioned their typical mental gymnastics and the casual slang you used lol.

  • @xjuhox
    @xjuhox Год назад +6

    Light beating and soft stones...

    • @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude
      @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude Год назад +5

      abusing is a gift for muslims ummah .....mashallllah😆

    • @xjuhox
      @xjuhox Год назад +3

      @@UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude Ignorance is bliss, and asking questions is a sign of disbelief ☪

    • @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude
      @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude Год назад

      @@xjuhox mashallah mashallah .... that's the every believer spirit 😄

    • @yugendran9167
      @yugendran9167 Год назад

      ​​@@bobbydazzler4104 I gonna test this tips..hope it works..😂

  • @user-ug7zo7uk1w
    @user-ug7zo7uk1w 4 месяца назад +1

    My muslim friend says best with a misvak atooth brush.That's fair enough.Halal toothbrushes could be marketed in the name of pizzlaam.

  • @qasmb1546
    @qasmb1546 3 месяца назад

    Bro didn't you know Prophet Mohamamd (saw) (pbuh) was a mercy to the world, a mercy to the world.

  • @urielpolak9949
    @urielpolak9949 Год назад +1

    Not the face?! How big of these men. Controle is not big in men holding power

  • @piek359
    @piek359 Год назад +1

    The kids laughing 😂😂😂 guess he didnt feel his power? and FFS why is it always about going out??? Do they realise how many women including the “scandalous women of the west” LOVE being at home watching true crime dramas and cuddling their cats??? They make it sound like every womans out in a club every night 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @biker6070
    @biker6070 Год назад +1

    I would be more happy with the coexisting of all religions if all religions prioritized love and empathy (especially from its god/gods/prophets) instead of prioritizing shame and conversion

  • @BlackFeatherPen
    @BlackFeatherPen Год назад +2

    Nooooooo😅 wtf this guy is teaching to a child?! This is NOT how you approach women, desert man...

  • @bustinjieber7521
    @bustinjieber7521 Год назад +1

    The friendly ex Muslim vs the friendly Muslim. Let's make it happen!!

  • @manashiroy331
    @manashiroy331 Год назад +1

    Islam needs to go down. I hope more ex-Muslims come forward like AP and Friendly Ex-Muslim.

  • @theodoreconstantini2548
    @theodoreconstantini2548 Год назад +3

    In Islam the women is always answerable to her husband and under completely under his authority, so he has the right to discipline her through violence.

  • @mjp-bi3re
    @mjp-bi3re Год назад +1

    George Carlin sums up religion quite well. Watch him on youtube and learn. Great work here, Friendly Ex-muslim.

  • @doubleplusgoodthinker9434
    @doubleplusgoodthinker9434 Год назад +1

    What happens when I try this on with my wife and she beats me into next week?

  • @truthful7263
    @truthful7263 Год назад

    Thank you very much for sharing

  • @hmz6khih
    @hmz6khih Год назад +4

    Muslims are certainly not beating around the bush.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude
    @UnlimitlesslyFunnyDude Год назад +3

    abusing is a gift for muslims ummah

  • @cedrichartz6426
    @cedrichartz6426 Год назад +1

    Nice one

  • @laststone9672
    @laststone9672 Год назад +1

    Where can I watch the full tutorial 😂😂

  • @bamboo1763
    @bamboo1763 Год назад

    Some translation literally said "flog"

  • @xurshidbro3670
    @xurshidbro3670 Год назад

    As far as I know in the Quran it says not to strike them, but distance them. I think you refer to the wrong translation.

  • @drstevej2527
    @drstevej2527 Год назад

    It’s time to convert!

  • @subzero780
    @subzero780 Год назад

    Beat her like a cop. Rodney King beat her like a cop. Whiwhiewiwihwi

  • @lostandguided5533
    @lostandguided5533 Год назад

    You need strong Islam

  • @bamboo1763
    @bamboo1763 Год назад

    I don't think that in islam you have the authority to limit her movement?
    Yes she has an obligation to care for the house, but how does that translate to she could not go out without his permission

    • @rowenaravenclaw3483
      @rowenaravenclaw3483 6 месяцев назад

      This so the basic in Islam . A woman cannot go out of the house without her husbands permission .if her husband doesn’t want her to go out alone and work she has to obey him .

  • @roshlew6994
    @roshlew6994 Год назад +5

    Islam is the best religion for women.. it's the most feminist religion which gave women's rights and freedoms.. prophet Muhammad was the first feminist..

    • @crustybone
      @crustybone 2 дня назад +1

      Yeah that was maybe true for the 7th century. Now we're in 2024. A slight difference there.

  • @BRIDGE2323
    @BRIDGE2323 Год назад

    Yes I watched this video when I seen first time I laughed and wonder realy very sad they are not understanding Jesus and Gospel I am praying for m community to understand

  • @truthful7263
    @truthful7263 Год назад

    The Good Book Satanic verse written by Muslim Author referring to Quran

  • @cocomamaforever3477
    @cocomamaforever3477 Год назад +1

    Sheitan satan himself! Wow

  • @cyrillarweh4379
    @cyrillarweh4379 Год назад +1

    Devilish

  • @Warie101
    @Warie101 Год назад

    good job

  • @henriquefelix7075
    @henriquefelix7075 Год назад +1

    islam is based

  • @XYz-ce9oi
    @XYz-ce9oi Год назад

    You can't blame Islam without proper reaserch about religion.That verse is to calm man when he sees his wife having sex with other man.Nushuz mean having sex.Explanation about that in last Farewell sermon.There is even Hadith about that that men can't beat her when she cheat,he can't use anything except toothbrush(siwak) and he can't use it on her body except arms and legs after first and second step.It's so obvious that it's about calming a man who was cheated in front of his eyes.Wives of prophet never asked for permission to go out.Lot of muslim men never reaserched anything about religion and they have misused those verses.The other Hadith is about women who lied that her man beat her and later that he is impotent.If she was honest she wouldn't change her story.

    • @martymcfly8731
      @martymcfly8731 Год назад +1

      It's not okay to beat anyone, especially for a man to beat a woman or child. PERIOD. Islam is barbaric and evil.

    • @quiety8148
      @quiety8148 Год назад

      If the wife is caught having sex with a man she would be executed

    • @Sunny91169
      @Sunny91169 Год назад +1

      Wtf dude . Stop Justifying Violence. Can the wife beat her husband if he gets a 2nd wife ?

    • @XYz-ce9oi
      @XYz-ce9oi Год назад

      @@Sunny91169 can't you read nor understand dude? Woman can divorce,there is no need for beating.Cheating and accepting polygamous marriage is not same.Your wife wouldn't react same when you divorce and when you cheat nor would you.Btw I'm not man

  • @Kamisama77
    @Kamisama77 Год назад

    This is teaching of a great gawd who has no wife 😂

  • @ashleytheseeker8480
    @ashleytheseeker8480 Год назад +2

    W.t.f.

  • @abominathor
    @abominathor Год назад

    A classic case of sugar coating 🍭

  • @Justmeeeeeee445
    @Justmeeeeeee445 Год назад

    Masha alla what a beating lol lol

  • @user-nx9rt4lk7e
    @user-nx9rt4lk7e 2 месяца назад +1

    ☹️☹️

  • @samerhaddad5838
    @samerhaddad5838 Год назад +1

    😂

  • @boriss.861
    @boriss.861 Год назад +1

    AS You say a Toothbrush.. A MISWAK looks like it can cause some hurt more than your plastic brush!!!! And the word has Miss & Wak in it ouch!! One for your wife & daughter..