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You Won't Believe We Share Our Wife and Kids! , They Told Us It's Impossible!
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- Опубликовано: 15 авг 2024
- In this deeply personal and moving story, we journey to Goma, DRC, where the bonds of friendship and family take on a whole new meaning.
Meet Patrick, a man faced with the heartbreaking reality that he can't have children. In a bold move, he turns to his best friend, a testament to their incredible bond.
This decision led to the birth of three beautiful children, shared in an extraordinary family arrangement that challenges conventional norms but is filled with love, trust, and an unbreakable friendship.
Dive into our story as we explore the beauty of unconventional choices and the power of human connection in creating a family.
#Afrimax #UniqueFamilyStories #LifeInDRC #LoveAndSacrifice #TrueFriendship
The wife is such a beautiful woman.. If my husband ever proposed something like this , I would divorce him.. immediately.. 😢
Me too
Walai it can't be me
@@MargretDoreen True sisi
@@julietbwalya2344 Me not.
True guy's
We are truly in the end times! Lord Jesus Christ, come quickly.
He won’t ever come ! It’s been a thousand years 😊😊
@peabody634 a thousand of years is like a day in his sight. The day you die is the day your rapture arrives. Think about it. God and humans are as far away in everything as heaven is far from earth. Don't deny it rather ask for abilities not to self destruct. Because when it is late it is late
@@cashew515you'll be shocked😊
Well said
@@kehindeomotola6496 Ridiculous! Blah ! Blah! blah!
How does it remain a secret when they have shared it on social media.
In change for cash
I don't understand but thank him cos the husband is creating a strong bond by raising the children
I wonder why they still called it a secret
You think these are actors showing the real story?
They don't even have electricity? So I'm pretty sure social media is good... Not unless sombody pay to go to a cafe
You've already broadcasted the secret to the whole world.
Hhhhhh
hahahah😂😂😂😂
imagine 😂
😂😂😂😂
secret`?
Where I come from, they said this used to happen, and it was a serious secret. Now, this is not a secret because the kids will grow to see it on the internet
That husband is very wicked, you should never force your woman to do dirty deeds!
What kind of a husband he is like seriously
But what did Abraham did to Sarah? Sarah couldn’t have a child so she had Hagar had a baby by Abraham
@@cheersfromradaaz Abraham and Sarah were both in agreement. Not this couple.
It wasnt forced@@cheersfromradaaz
They made the right choice be happy raising your children
Secret no more now!
I wanna know are these stories on this channel real this one 😢 wow
@@user-tv2wk4yy2y the hideously hidden gigantum issue is the castration of boys and girls required axx- nations upon birth to depopulate. For women, girls are given tampons that are maliciously tainted to interfere with future pregnancies.
It seems like the man is trying to please the society. I think his action might affect the children in the future. Every child likes to know their roots.
Wow, Satan entered that marriage. That friendship will not last, and real friends don't sleep with their friend's spouse
Is your hearing Oky?he said his friendship is good
@lorrainchanda6803 Can you read? And you sound deceived and gullible if you really think his friendship is good, and in time it will be over.
@@lorrainchanda6803 Yes but for how long ? That's the question..
How can you share your children?
@@Slaw6602
People do adoption and open adoption, step parents help raise kids. How are you not understanding this?
If it's a secret, how then did Afrimax get to know about them and decided to interview them
You can say that again!!
Good question.
This could be actors
Actors why coming live,then
boom, afrimax is making africa proud, @money hehehe
But since the objectives have been met, he needs to let his friend go now. Since the friend also agreed that the kids belong to his friend whom he came to give a helping hand. He could leave and let them raise their children without being in the way. Or their so-called "secret" will be known by the kids when tongues start to wag.
GOD have mercy on us all.
how can someone just check his wife being kissed infront of him and be smiling 😮 that's insane😂
,😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
beer lots of beer as the man himself has said
It's amazing how some married couples who can't have children think their marriage is not fulfilled without having child(ren). Before getting married, couples should discuss and honestly state whether or not they would consider their marriage worthwhile if they could never have a child. With or without biological child, marriage is still marriage. Also why now to society pressure and do the unthinkable, just to have a child.
I see you not married coz not having children is a big deal in a home that’s why they have names like courage,miracle,Godinows,prayer,Amen,
As someone who tried to have a child for 5 yrs. I think you mis understand the situation. Nomatter how much the two of you love and understand each other the external pressures can be overwhelming. Also, your own pressures if you really want kids. It's not easy.
Blood is stronger than water this kids will knw their reall dad. Reall dad will want his kids anytime they grow and has a rite.
Pure Madness!!!!!
I respect her... she never humiliated him...she kept his weakness a secret....we need such women
Weak man
How secret is a story that is on the internet 😮
This may seem unusual but it is how many other families in the past were established and you all grow up not knowing because your parents knows it's a secret and you will never suspect a thing
Long back it was never a friend but a family member. This is something new
It's no different @@vestadeshe4638 both are wrong
Wicked world we live in
I love this family... Love lives here
So he basically pressured her into going along with it, being as though she mentioned the arguments got worse until she gave in. He would’ve found himself by himself.
Was she dependent on him? She should have left him
The Late Kenyan Musician George Mukabi RIP penned a swahili golden oldie....Mtoto si nguo...A song that says a child is not a piece of clothe that you can borrow from someone.The song addresses the pain that childless people have to contend with. We should sympathize with these humble family.This arrangement was the best they could afford.Its better than the wife having gone behind the husband's back to get kids.If they were well off financially, maybe they would've gone for IVF...thanks to the new trend of sperm donation.
She is not your wife man , you fucked up Big time.... Adoption was the best option
They both stepped out of the marriage 😢
Secret?? 😂😂😂😂.
This life
The children would grow up and they would see this video and they would know their real father .In addition NEVER PUT YOUR TRUST ON MEN ..EVEN FRIENDS.
Hii ni Wenda wa wazimu si mapenzi ya mungu
We Africans really think that getting married and having children solves all of our problems. Obviously, we've been wrong so many times. This man is infertile and put the burden on his wife with his best friend. 3 kids? Wow! Kimbangu help us all.
Let his friend move get marry, and have his own family.
Theyve said hes married
Exactly 💯
it is written u should not Juge , this is their Life only them are Respossible even if the husband didn´t anderstand that he is pleasing Society , we have to live for our self
stay blessed god L0ve is Unconditionel
He kisses your wife and you say they are not in love?
When doing the do, are you telling me that they don't kids and enjoy?
Playing with fire.
You don't love your wife boss
Why are they still kissing if they have stopped having kids????This is unnatural
This is exactly what I thought cos it doesn’t seem like that part of the relationship has ended .the story seems incomplete to me
They probably developed a soul tied together and still having a sexual relationship..I know they are.. Sometimes it's not that easy to stop once u start.😢😢😮
The lady seems very uncomfortable..she doesnt look happy...even the husband.looks unhappy seeing them kiss....the only person enjoying here is the friend
@@Capricorn54545 sad. The woman keeps saying she is doing it to keep the peace between her and her husband but doesn’t make sense . Hoping the friend is not using the kid against them for sex . So confusing 🫤
@@BMboss108 exactly what it seems like to me
"He who wears the shoes, knows where it pinches the most."
While there are Godly and societal standards and norms, life has never been "black and white." Even with both these guiding or approved standards and norms of living in place.
There are ALWAYS gray areas to this life.
Had the problem lied with the wife, what would have been the proposed way forward.....as the wife had already suggested for him...."pregnant another woman...." does this make it right coz it's a man. Again, life is full of gray and blurry lines.
May God help us to see things using His lens. Above all, May God help them maneuver through this painful process. The children will always be a reminder of their pain and sacrifice. God be with them.
Thank you
Uuuuum about the feelings they are both lying ....they can sleep together anytime.
Whoever made this video clip lied to them because it was supposed to be a secret. And the wife is not happy at all for even looking at the camera.
They don't have internet in Congo. No one will ever know it.
It is better this way. The woman would have gotten pregnant in another way later if this man had not admitted his weakness and sought a solution.
Even if the children grow up to know their biological father, if their current father does his job well, the children will still respect and honor him for his decision.
Aaah Congo 🇨🇩 kumbe tutafika kwa tabia hii this is uchawi kabisa sio sawa abeg ,gaai 😢
I see nothing wrong here if people are being honest to another and all parties are agreeing. Sometimes women will go behind the man’s back and have the children. Or The man would have asked his brother to impregnate her. This used to be common in Zimbabwe 🇿🇼Even though she says the husband insisted she went ahead 3 times. That doesn’t sound like someone not willing to do it. They all look happy together that’s what is important.
Some people are easy to judge,, just because he used his friend to impregnate his wife how about those rich people using IVF isn’t also a sin? Using other people to be pregnant too,, please dont don’t judge they hve their own reason and situation be thankful that none of you are same like them,, lets not judge them Only GOd can Do❤
They really love each other and their problem is now solved 😊
This is crazy
There is a way you touch a woman and she will always be yours...
Watching you from Zambia, Africa! I do not know what to say about this Video
Its not a secret anymore.. that's you've opened up the doors ... starting tonight and the fourth...things will never be the same again...
It doesnt matter who the father to the kids is ,so long they are happy with whoever they believe its their dad
This couple had true love and the lady is a very faithful woman.congolese women are good
This is the reason, we just like we all are dom or have no understanding of woman. You should not be doing that, but it justified and understable.
Aww where are two best friends that want to share me 🥰
😂😂😂😂😂 you just want a double fun 😄❤💋🔥💥😘
This world that we are living in just surprises me everyday
Huyu mwanamke naye mjinga kukubali kuliwa na watu 2 . km amekulazimisha siungeachika ? kwani ungekosa kuolewa tena ?
This is culturally acceptable in some places. It's not new. The only difference here is that its generally muted.
Well this is not a secret anymore all the world know it now
And their faces are all over😅😅😅
😢He loves is friend,more than his wife...that beer has impaired their brain.
Sounds like Sarah and Abraham.
Only difference is Abraham smarter than this jakass 😂😂, he made a baby with another but he aint let his wife sleep with no other man
A wonderful documentary.
Total madness sometime I wonder were people get the energy for such things😢.
Right 😂😂
They wanted to keep this a secret, but y'all decided to broadcast it! The least you could have done was to hide their identity; now their village is going to criticize them for this act.
It don't look like they share the wife. But beautiful story ❤
From Uganda 🇺🇬 but I am Original Congolese DRC 🇨🇩
so This is My country
Always Make People Surprised And Laughter 🤦🤦🤦 even Crying
😂😂😂😂
There's no man or woman in this world who will like shearing a wife or husband with any body. Jesus Christ say one man one wife and one woman one husband. We should stop compromise with evils.
Is this secret any more
Fortunately he did not meet any of yous"Ms I will divorce him immediately" it is difficult decision to involve the third person intimately in their family but this is how men in the Holly book conceived... It was mostly men getting second wives because the woman can't concieve. Even when the woman delay in concieving the man will get another wife later the first wife gets blessed with a child. Would you say there was a need for second wife or the need for patience from the man? but in this instance it's a man asking for help cause his wife can have babies but he can't get her pregnant and that which he proposed is considered an insane request... People we need to get off our high horses of what is considered to be normal... Your very own siblings may not be from the same father but you love them... Same for this man and his children. The friend must find his wife and start his family otherwise when he gets old he will develop an evil heart if he has no other children...i hope the friend reads this post... God bless your union ❤
It is sad that the innocent children will one day see this video and feel offended that their father made a very unbecoming decision. When a man and woman have sex and make children in agreement, they become one. This is foolishness!
Now the whole world knows and the kids will get to know this too once they grow up
Internet never forgets
Secret🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ can someone look for the meaning of “secret” for me in the dictionary cause I’m confused as to why I’m watching a whole documentary about their secret🙄
That has been there in African culture. Mostly a brother or cousin would be used to help out
ITS good that tge father is with them cz kids will also love him
When ignorant take over nothing can change it into positive
These children will deserve to know their real father
It is a harder decision to make..but everything is possible when you live by the Word of God..
End of times
So afrimax made his wife kiss the friend just for the camera? This is just unethical.
They made It for having children. His friend helped him out.its not strange
In my country and culture this is a family secret nothing else my mom told me about this and it happens ALOT
It's not Wright before God on man. That's a shame
The secret is out to the world
This was more common all over the world before ART technologies were developed? Even in your neighborhoods, in the western world. Even today, for people who cannot afford ART.
That guy really enjoyed
Good evening. Please stop this madness. Otherwise, the girl will not leave long! Eats too much is not a healthy lifestyle
The kids look like their father
She looked so uncomfortable kissing the friend. 😢
I totally understand
😂 truly never seen before and never heard before
You should ask forgiveness from God,or else no heaven for you.
This was a very good solution to this problem and I wish you all a very happy life. I believe you are not the only people who have done this.
The devil in the comment section
Don’t be proud of this
This is amazing 😂😂😂😂 3,19 millions plus watching a secret .
😂😂😂😂😂
It is no more secret any way and if the friend is still there he is not doing them good he has to leave to his house so that this family will grow their children.
Now it’s out there…. not a secret anymore 🤦🏽♀️ Gosh I could never I do have a child with my ex she’s 15 but with my current boyfriend we’ve been together for 12 years we have not been able to have kids we’ve had problems and fights with him and his family it’s not my fault I can’t have children anymore they blame me so he stepped out and has a 5 year old I want to leave but I just can’t it’s been too long that I’ve been with him😢
Why is he only your boyfriend after 12 years. That’s the real shame. Stop having children with boyfriends.
You already have a 15-year old girl with your former husband or boyfriend. The father left you. Now, this good-hearted man accepted you with your child. For 12 years you couldn't lay one egg for him; which means he's been taking care of your egg since she was three. You now mention of not having the courage to leave him for having stepped out to a fertile ground to father his own son? Are you serious? Don't you have an ex? What did he do wrong? Don't listen to your friends and society. You are on the right path.
@@Yohanan01 He never left me actually he was diagnosed with Schizophrenia he’s been in a mental institution since my daughter was 6 months old
@@chickenfriedwaffles LoOl I only have 1 child I just wanted a second for myself not for him but for me I’m nearly 40 so yeah
@@spokiemahols4130 you’re a moron. He stepped out and had a child with another woman which means he doesn’t respect you and has been unprotected seggz with women who aren’t you. You’ll f around and find out when he gives you HIV, herpes or another STD you can’t get rid of then leaves you high and dry. Your insecurity and self loathing is why you stay with a dust rag who risks your sexual health my sleeping around with no reproductions. The fact that you were intention trying to have a child with him, with no ring says a lot. Get out, find your self worth, move to Europe and find a nice man who will accept you with your kids.
God bless both of you and if your husband asks for that they shouldn't judge you. Or your family God bless you all and Best friend he can also be called Uncle and be honest with them as they grow up. because God forbid anything should happen you'll need him for blood God bless your family again you have such a beautiful family and God sent his best friend to help and that beautiful.
Weirdo
A friend in need is a friend indeed the friend is such adarling
God doesn't bless nor glorify adultery 😮
Devil ' s marriage.🔔
Nonsense
this is madness 👎
The sad reality is that it's only a matter of time before the friend changes..wait until these kids are grown and mybe doing well and maybe his very own ain't.
The risk is worth it, I like that
I can't believe this is real...how can it be a secret when it's already on social media
95% of people in marriages are secretly in similar situation, fathering other people's kids without knowing it.
This was good, I wish it could be legalised?
U brought that stat out of ur @$$..? Just say u want perversion u don't need to lie
they could have opted for IVF but it looks like the so called doctors were not kind enough to inform them of such an option
Are you for real? IVF is not cheap, do you really think they could afford it?
This story is in Goma,a city of DRC that has been devastated by an unjust war imposed by Kagame of Rwanda for the last 30 years. Their soil is so rich that armed groups have been fighting in the region to displaced the population and exploit the natural ressources. The population of Goma are not living they are surviving and you are talking about the doctor didn’t mention IVF? IVF is a luxury in that area, majority of them never heard of it. I am from DRC, il know.
And the man will not take it if it's the wife that has problems
Nonsense!!
He's just a caretaker of someone's children
Ok it happened but why disclosed
This is abuse, she is not happy and sounds very tortured by this experience!!! May God help her leave this horrible situation 😢
The kids will know thanks to social media
Not a secret anymore
The friend wants to sire at least 50 children for the couple. He is a very bad friend taking advantage of the situation
Why did you force the "guy" to kiss the friends wife for your video. This video needed a natural flow, not scripting (artificial scenes).
Now imagine those kids when they grow up get married to the kids of their biological father as they wouldn't know he's their biological father...