I'm EXPOSING My Philippines House Build Scam Nightmare

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  • Опубликовано: 19 дек 2024

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  • @erichamradio919
    @erichamradio919 19 часов назад +76

    Best of luck to you and your daughter to get this house thing straightened out

    • @phantasmnine1384
      @phantasmnine1384 19 часов назад +63

      That's his wife, fool. Be respectful.

    • @ynasra1065
      @ynasra1065 19 часов назад +13

      ​​@@phantasmnine1384he intentionally said it...it shld be a compliment to her

    • @LegalAutomation
      @LegalAutomation 19 часов назад +43

      😂😂😂😂 I love how Paul pins these comments. This is why Paul is the best vlogger.

    • @phantasmnine1384
      @phantasmnine1384 19 часов назад +22

      @@ynasra1065 Really? It's disrespectful. Seems like you should learn to treat a man and his wife with respect, instead of trolling videos you obviously have no business watching.

    • @karlenzmann
      @karlenzmann 18 часов назад +7

      😂

  • @MyLifeThai371
    @MyLifeThai371 5 часов назад +8

    R.I.P. "everyman has a story.". So sad to hear about his passing. Mark Thornton will be missed.

  • @joesixpack5691
    @joesixpack5691 20 часов назад +25

    Thanks for humbling yourself and posting all this, Paul. I'm sure it wasn't easy but it's a huge help to all of us who value your opinion. I lived there 8 years and I'm not surprised at all. Wishing the best for you.

  • @raymondrhorer2695
    @raymondrhorer2695 23 часа назад +98

    Paul you don't know me, but I've been in construction my whole life. Brick, block, and precast concrete. Cut out the middle man. You need the worker, the talent, the skills. The worker needs TOOLS. Barter tools for his knowledge and skills. When house is complete he gets the tools. Sets him up in business. Barter the dream of being his own contractor. You want the man who actually does the work. You will be the expeditor of materials. He knows what to buy and when to buy it. "Contractor" is the middle man, you ever see one with the shovel? Why pay someone else to do what you can do yourself.

    • @richardclausen154
      @richardclausen154 17 часов назад +6

      @@raymondrhorer2695 great point. My build is about a year out and considering going to the University and recruiting a graduate engineer who has some fire to get started and train him.
      I ha been in the construction field for 48 years, but still new to the local scene.
      I think it would be an all around win with the right match.

    • @leedensmore5970
      @leedensmore5970 17 часов назад +6

      I agree whole-heartedly! Find good workers that you can deal with directly.

    • @raymondrhorer2695
      @raymondrhorer2695 17 часов назад +6

      @richardclausen154 well I hope Paul and Mike considered what I wrote. I was a hands on contractor and never ever out of work. But it takes time to "earn" the respect. The contractor is the owner of the tools, most won't invest in tools. I wish I was there, I still love the work but don't want a JOB.

    • @darrylcotton3112
      @darrylcotton3112 16 часов назад

      @@raymondrhorer2695 There is a downside to acting as your own GC. Now you have to chase down every friend and family member who will treat your job as a piggy bank. Tools get stolen, materials are stolen or over-ordered for their other jobs, subcontractors are told to add $$ for the friend, the worker won't have work comp or liability insurance if there is a problem downstream. When I develop a project with a GC I want them to agree to weekly site meetings with past week spreadsheet for work completed to what was spent and I add a performance and completion bond which means ANY of the shit he's pulling on you will result in you exercising your right to terminate based on nonperformance. I know it's PI but these principals work all over the world to some degree or another. You can tell what the climate is like based on what large scale construction sites are built by international or larger commercial developers do to avoid what is happening to you to happen to them.

    • @1DancingCloud1
      @1DancingCloud1 16 часов назад +1

      I see this is not your 1st summer out.
      Your 1 smart cookie!

  • @David-jm6yo
    @David-jm6yo 23 часа назад +76

    The guy liquidating his land and assets tells me he is leaving for another country soon. 😮

    • @John-or8ze
      @John-or8ze 23 часа назад +18

      Exactly. He is getting ready to run

    • @bill648
      @bill648 22 часа назад +12

      I’m sure he’s already gone by now. Sad to say.

    • @tombkk1322
      @tombkk1322 22 часа назад +15

      When I heard him say liquidating his “Bitcoin” all the red flags started flying.

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 21 час назад +8

      HOW DOES HE OWN LAND IN THE PHILS???

    • @LiliLucy-y2g
      @LiliLucy-y2g 21 час назад

      he has gone...he only rented everywhere he stayed to con expats...in several countries already.
      the sites where men were working,he had nothing to do with them !

  • @Matt_T__
    @Matt_T__ 23 часа назад +140

    Wow what a paradise. Not only doesn't anyone have any sort of recourse after being victims of a major crime, but don't even have the freedom of speech to warn others of the perpetrator.

    • @pensionandapassport
      @pensionandapassport 22 часа назад +20

      Same problem in Thailand when something like this happens, My biggest complaint is lack of consumer protection.

    • @joehinds29988
      @joehinds29988 22 часа назад +7

      ​@@pensionandapassport Consumer protection is being handled by the Philippines department of trade and industry (DTI) for complaints against scrupulous businesses.

    • @Matt_T__
      @Matt_T__ 22 часа назад

      @@joehinds29988 There is zero recourse.

    • @pensionandapassport
      @pensionandapassport 22 часа назад

      @@joehinds29988 I hope he gets vindicated.

    • @garytibo
      @garytibo 21 час назад +14

      They do have the freedom of speech ...just don't say is name. The real fools are the one that give the money in advance. SIMPLE

  • @kevinandgemma7740
    @kevinandgemma7740 23 часа назад +40

    As I mentioned in an early video it was a big red flag , being in the industry I knew from the start that this was not going to end well ..

    • @timhardman4764
      @timhardman4764 19 часов назад +8

      what were the red flags you noticed early on? Your details might help others to avoid this same trap.

    • @altriplett9099
      @altriplett9099 13 часов назад

      Seeing as expats can’t legally own a business outright, or do physical work, I would not have dealt with your “contractor “…
      Good luck recouping your losses🤞🙏

    • @altriplett9099
      @altriplett9099 13 часов назад

      The prick might be pig food already, especially if he’s pissed off the wrong/right locals…

    • @altriplett9099
      @altriplett9099 13 часов назад +2

      If he’s still alive, and in country, facing criminal charges, he would likely be hiding out as you speak… hopefully the Philippine government can flag him, so that he’ll be detained at any international airport 🤔🤞

    • @BreavisBrisket-l4d
      @BreavisBrisket-l4d 5 часов назад

      well paul knows everything. just ask the subs he bought

  • @JRobson1955
    @JRobson1955 20 часов назад +21

    I was raised not to trust people. For every time that's harmed me there's been dozens of times where it saved me. People suck.

  • @onelonleyfarmer
    @onelonleyfarmer 22 часа назад +22

    When we built our house we went to the city engineer and got the preferred builder and that worked out well. These fly by night builders suck ass over there

    • @bobTom37
      @bobTom37 17 часов назад +2

      How much did you pay?

  • @georgevwalking
    @georgevwalking 23 часа назад +18

    Paul and Mae being scammed is a terrible feeling and I know what you are going through.
    It's time to spend your time and energy moving on to finding a new builder. I have watch many good youtube stories about successful building projects in the philippines and also in Dauis.
    Good luck guys stay strong and merry Christmas
    Baby May love the shirt

  • @JOHNPoST-y4u
    @JOHNPoST-y4u 23 часа назад +43

    Sorry basic rule never ever pay upfront to a construction contractor.

    • @stephen7701
      @stephen7701 8 часов назад +1

      just enough to build for 2 or 3 weeks at a time

    • @222jojo
      @222jojo 6 часов назад +1

      you HAVE to pay something to get started otherwise you'll NEVER get anything built.

    • @eChicken-k6d
      @eChicken-k6d 5 часов назад

      Or for new Tiddies for your daughter.

    • @michaelfeehily5926
      @michaelfeehily5926 Час назад +1

      @@eChicken-k6d its his wife!!

  • @armandosanchez8901
    @armandosanchez8901 23 часа назад +46

    Let me get it straight...in that " great" country, telling the truth about a scumbag it's a crime... but stealing thousands of dollars is a civil matter?... Not even in the Dominican... Republic

    • @jozah2148
      @jozah2148 22 часа назад +4

      🤣🤣🤣🙄🤔😱🇬🇧

    • @deedeew4040
      @deedeew4040 16 часов назад

      There is a former Prez (won't mention which country) who scammed people and he paid a fine both times.

  • @Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql
    @Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql 22 часа назад +22

    Lessons learned. You still have the land. Don't be hard on yourself, you were just trying to provide Baby Mae with a home and some security in life, which is what a man should do. I feel sorry for the laborers because they cannot afford the losses. Best Wishes to you guys and try to have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

    • @AidaJof
      @AidaJof 20 часов назад +4

      Agree, the labourers still have to eat and provide for their families. Heartbreaking for them but FURIOUS at the scammer who goes on lying to them👹

    • @paulk8444
      @paulk8444 18 часов назад +3

      Yeh the local workers got Screwed the Hardest as small consolation is there is SO MUCH construction going on that Filipino contractors are picking up the Best workers from this guys crew but sadly it comes right before Christmas and allot of Filipinos get a 13tth month type of Bonus and these guys were not even paid for weeks in some cases

    • @wxman2003
      @wxman2003 16 часов назад

      Are you sure? He got a building permit, but does he actually own the land?

    • @Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql
      @Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql 15 часов назад +2

      @wxman2003 I believe in a previous video that he said that he acquired the land in Baby Maes name.

  • @rexlaughlin3897
    @rexlaughlin3897 23 часа назад +38

    He probably sold the farm and left the country.

    • @JaimeFerrer-l1y
      @JaimeFerrer-l1y 10 часов назад +3

      Yes he admits liquidating anything they. You’d seize and now he can easily flee if he hasn’t already

  • @barryking5993
    @barryking5993 23 часа назад +20

    I’m glad to see you are doing your due diligence and but it’s heartbreaking to see nice people like you get screwed over by somebody that you know

    • @stephenhalloway6633
      @stephenhalloway6633 12 часов назад

      I once paid $25,000 to have a two storey house built,after 6 years it's a wreck,my mistake was to be absent and trusting.....

  • @wssecrets-2-successvlog652
    @wssecrets-2-successvlog652 23 часа назад +18

    Hmm…Paul, you being in the Retail Auto Industry during your career I’m surprised you didn’t spot the BS/Con in seconds!
    Well, at least you weren’t in too deep financially.

    • @earlclep1
      @earlclep1 12 часов назад +2

      What goes around comes around, thank God

  • @messenger8139
    @messenger8139 4 часа назад +1

    Paul and May, Merry Christmas to a wonderful, honest and kind couple.

  • @stevemorris3544
    @stevemorris3544 23 часа назад +34

    Sounds like another example of the problem most expats have in Asia is with other expats. Sorry for your troubles.

    • @pensionandapassport
      @pensionandapassport 22 часа назад +3

      It happens, with expat and local, it happens in America even. Construction is cut throat. My father lost his fencing business floating crap contractors in California decades ago.

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 21 час назад +1

      @@pensionandapassport You are CORRECT , as a retired builder I saw other builders ripping off people here in U.S.A.

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile 21 час назад +2

      @@nottelling620 I agree. When I was in the US, I didn't give contractors any money up front. I only paid when work was completed. If they didn't agree with that, I didn't hire them.

    • @shep68
      @shep68 15 часов назад +1

      ^goes both ways. My son has a contracting business and has been screwed over by clients multiple times. Now he only completes work in stages being paid after each stage and an initial down payment. So if both sides were to dig in their heels….well the whole industry wud be at an impasse.

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile 13 часов назад +1

      @@shep68 No, it wouldn't. Only honest people would get anything done.

  • @CaptainKremmen
    @CaptainKremmen 23 часа назад +29

    Sounds like he should be fined, jailed and deported when his jail time is over.

    • @radiodare
      @radiodare 21 час назад +4

      Key words are going to be "should be".

    • @peter72268
      @peter72268 15 часов назад +1

      He knows the system here well which works to his advantage as the arresting powers are so disjointed and the legal systems wheels turn very slowly

  • @Joshua_DeMoss
    @Joshua_DeMoss 23 часа назад +29

    Guys like that have to be very brave especially in a foreign Country. Con-men are worthless to society and wouldn’t surprise me if this guy ended up crossing the wrong person and ends up floating in waters off the coast. Hopefully he makes things right, but a con-man can never be trusted.

    • @tryscience
      @tryscience 22 часа назад +2

      I was thinking the same thing. Sounds to me he might be liquidating his assets, not to do the right thing, but to prepare to flee. Sometimes street justice, which can be brutal, finds people like this, how unfortunate vigilantes sometimes won't wait for official charges and court dates. tsk tsk

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 21 час назад +1

      @@tryscience As nice as FILIPINO people are , THEY TOO MAY TURN TO STREET JUSTICE O.K. SO I AM ITALIAN LOL

    • @keith-kb1zl
      @keith-kb1zl 13 часов назад

      @@tryscienceI’m honestly surprised he hasn’t been offed yet by the locals if he’s got 27 complaints against him.. the Philippines is like the wild,Wild West where street justice is king..

    • @scottburgess5410
      @scottburgess5410 9 часов назад +3

      He already had one of his workers come after him with a machete for no pay

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 9 часов назад

      @@scottburgess5410 THATS EXCELLENT

  • @britinoz4305
    @britinoz4305 23 часа назад +10

    Sorry about this crap you're going through, very sad. And great of you to feed the guys, hope they show some solidarity and stick it out ... Miss Mae looks great in Green and Gold ... Oi Oi Oi ...

  • @albathoughtsofficial
    @albathoughtsofficial 23 часа назад +6

    Thanks for your heartfelt honesty...and sharing your ups and downs. It's greatly appreciated. You will save many others from making the same v mistake. It seems that despite this mistake, you are doing a good job putting this in proper perspective, and keeping an overall positive attitude about life and all the other blessings you have. Wishing you both a joyful Christmas and for sure 2025 will be a fresh restart 😊

  • @JR-mo8os
    @JR-mo8os 20 часов назад +18

    Like every banana republic, you need to be at the site constantly babysitting the project to ensure stuff is being done. Break the project up into mini projects, pay weekly/monthly or when certain milestones have been completed. You have to micro manage, there is no other way. Also buy all the materials yourself, don't allow the builder to do it and inflate the cost.

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 13 часов назад

      It's the Philippines you're just a guest here

    • @richardhessian4725
      @richardhessian4725 12 часов назад +1

      I've lived here 8 years, and you couldn't be more right. I built a 3 story concrete mansion on Negros, and the contractor was ME. I personally bought all materials and was on site every day. You have to do that here or they will turn your project into a nightmare.

    • @johnp9890
      @johnp9890 11 часов назад

      ​@@richardhessian4725are you experienced in building? I would not know how to do it? Or did you ask an architect to make plans and drawings?

    • @JWDREAM-d3x
      @JWDREAM-d3x 6 часов назад +1

      Build it yourself just hire a few workers & point & tell them how you want it built & be there fir every step looking over thier shoulders .

  • @milzchiveous2024
    @milzchiveous2024 22 часа назад +14

    Hi Paul and May, I’m so sorry to hear about the problems you have been encountering with regards to your house. I have always been following your videos even if I don’t comment that much.
    Also I’m not sure but I guess you have heard about your old buddy Mark Thornton ‘s sudden passing! For old times sake I know you guys have been buddies and you have been a mentor for him from doing YT videos in the past. It’s such a sad news to know that he’s gone. FYI , your videos and interviews of you and him together were really popular and have had a lot of following. You guys had a good vibe together during your old videos. For whatever reason I respect the loss of connection between you and Mark as we never see you guys together anymore. But I know deep in your heart that you are not happy with his sudden passing. I hope you could tackle a bit about him when you can and perhaps give us some info about his death as we would like to hear it from you than other hearsays if you happen to know a bit about it.
    I am sad for his new baby not able to see him and Mark with Rogan as well. And goes with his wife. Hope you could give us any info about your old mate . Thanks and you take care of your selves there as well May and Paul.

    • @TrainLordJC
      @TrainLordJC 16 часов назад

      Wow! I just read this sad news about Mark. He was working with cruise ships as was I in a different capacity and as a result I was one of the first people he interviewed online (five interviews all up online) and it inspired my filipina wife and I (living in Australia) to go to the Philippines in 2022 to meet up with him and his wife in the beautiful property that he was renting on the beach in Bacong.
      In addition, I had also seen a few videos of the interviews that Paul and Mark did together so I also asked if Paul could make his way from Valencia to Bacong to meet with us together.
      And yes, Paul made the effort and together we all had a wonderful afternoon also shared with my son Emilio.
      My condolences go out to his lovely wife and they're little child. Mark was aware of his health problem but he seemed quite happy living in that wonderful house on the beach with his wife and child so it is a sad occasion indeed that this happens now before he had a chance to watch his child grow up.

    • @keith-kb1zl
      @keith-kb1zl 13 часов назад

      It was eerie in the sense that Mark just recently did a video about us older guys making the most of our time left before we leave this planet 😢😢and he gave such sage advice to live our dreams while we still can.😥Mark and Paul are my favorite vloggers and have helped me on my journey as I’ve been coming to the Philippines for 13 years and have been married for 8 years.. I will miss Marks wisdom and advice 😢😢

  • @BruceCinader
    @BruceCinader 23 часа назад +30

    I think it's a crying shame that the laws in the Philippines are essentially in cahoots with this man not allowing you to expose him and threatening you with jail time if you do.

    • @richardclausen154
      @richardclausen154 22 часа назад +4

      Welcome to the wild, Wild West!

    • @radiodare
      @radiodare 21 час назад

      ​@@joehinds29988this should all be resolved in 3-5 years at this point

    • @bmactattoo1219
      @bmactattoo1219 20 часов назад +1

      Same as Thailand.

    • @jetd9716
      @jetd9716 19 часов назад +1

      Gotta know the system before you play into the system.

    • @RedneckandPinay
      @RedneckandPinay 19 часов назад

      Welcome to the real world! Crooks, even in the U.S., always find a way to circumvent the law. Hell, in the U.S., they just pay off some legislators to keep their dirty business legal…example healthcare insurance…

  • @darrellyoung9586
    @darrellyoung9586 18 часов назад +14

    Wow, This is a complete Scam. I am shocked that this guy is an expat. I too, assumed he was Filipino. We all have our different ways of handling situations. I hope you are cutting your losses and moving on. Merry Christmas

    • @jonathancoffman4311
      @jonathancoffman4311 11 часов назад +1

      Has a pinay girlfriend who is a lawyer helping him

    • @rickINcali1
      @rickINcali1 10 часов назад +1

      I guess...u think...expats are perfect...!..far from the truth...(btw, im not Filipino)..

  • @chinadave2854
    @chinadave2854 23 часа назад +6

    Well brother here's wishing you and Mae a very merry Christmas! Keep the chin up! And God bless all of your family! Peace ✌️

  • @renaldonormani6646
    @renaldonormani6646 23 часа назад +7

    Thanks for the update guys. So Sorry got scammed but hard to compete with a professional.

  • @Jonathan-je9uh
    @Jonathan-je9uh 6 часов назад +2

    Paul and Mae, Sorry to hear that, and sorry to hear that your mate Mark passed yesterday afternoon, very sad indeed, he will be deeply missed..

  • @timhardman4764
    @timhardman4764 19 часов назад +3

    Sorry to hear about this scam you got sucked into. Glad to know you didn't pay everything up front and you will recover from your loss in less than a year. Hope your eye is recovering and you have no permanent vision impairment. All of this is a good warning/reminder that one has to be careful, no matter where they are in this world, unscrupulous people are always looking for the next person near them that they can take advantage of.

  • @abc-mf4jn
    @abc-mf4jn 20 часов назад +9

    Have you been SWINDOLED? Oy!!! Welcome to the Philippines.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Bereadyalways123
      @Bereadyalways123 16 часов назад

      Yes I have but being a patched BIG biker in a BIG motorbike club the Filipino scammer cannot walk very well for the rest of he’s crappy life Sana-all karma DIBA.

  • @danielroy3039
    @danielroy3039 23 часа назад +13

    You never know here in the Philippines when you put your hard earned money into the hands of a total thief. Good luck to the both of you. We all get burned sooner or later. I myself. YES many times. "TRUST" could be a terrible word.

    • @Matt_T__
      @Matt_T__ 23 часа назад +1

      Yet you feel safe there, although being a constant target?

  • @tomcataleno9128
    @tomcataleno9128 23 часа назад +4

    Sorry for your loss,,,Hava Merry Chrissy & a New & better Year .

  • @eldorado1244
    @eldorado1244 13 часов назад +5

    Paul I’m a expat and live in the same district as you and your friends that are getting ripped off, l will cut to the chase, l and a few friends are willing to make this guy regret ever stepping onto the Philippines….talk to your people and let me know if l should precede, l don’t want nothing in exchange for my services, l spent 30 years in the CIA let me know….brother in arms

  • @MikeWood-yc1er
    @MikeWood-yc1er 23 часа назад +9

    It is good you are telling it like it is, no shame or blame, just the facts mam, just the facts.

  • @LeroyJenkins-nn5go
    @LeroyJenkins-nn5go 22 часа назад +8

    Hard to believe people would be so loose with their finances as to send all their money to a stranger in a foreign country

  • @jeffbradshaw1591
    @jeffbradshaw1591 21 час назад +3

    Relationship is everything. Getting to know the person(s) and doing homework on them involved with any project PRIOR to signing anything and exchanging $$ (even in the Phils) is critical. So sorry, Paul, what has happened to you and Baby Mae. Thank you for sharing your situation. Learn, grow, adapt, look ahead.

  • @chuck5555
    @chuck5555 17 часов назад +2

    Paul, I appreciate you telling us this story. I pray for everyone involved and hope justice is served

  • @jonpritz9838
    @jonpritz9838 19 часов назад +9

    Pay the workers to leave your property. Fence it asap

  • @jonathankerr882
    @jonathankerr882 5 часов назад +4

    Mark Thornton Every man has a story, RIP

  • @dukewanders
    @dukewanders 19 часов назад +4

    Scammers exist everywhere in all forms. I am sorry to hear you and so many others have been fleeced this way. Especially for the ones who now have to postpone their retirement because of this ASSHAT.! Karma will catch up to him sooner or later, hopefully sooner. It is great that you have the courage to speak and share your experience. I am surprised (not really) by some of the comments here... wow.

  • @brianandlynphilippines
    @brianandlynphilippines 21 час назад +10

    Me and 2 500 peso per day guys built my womans house in about 6 months. It is not rocket scientry to lay a foundation, stack some blocks, throw up the rafters and tin roof, install electric and plumbing... These houses are like building a fort as a kid. Our house is one of the nicest in our small town, spent like $10k. Why build a Western Quality house here, go cheap and enjoy the simplicity. I had that cough 1 month, took antibioticpills for 3 days and all cleared up.

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile 21 час назад +3

      It isn't rocket science but, you need luck for that. You can see most foreigners get ripped off. You didn't accomplish that, you just got lucky.

    • @klausschumacher7126
      @klausschumacher7126 19 часов назад +1

      Senseofstile... Not most foreigners get ripped off... Only some who were not cautious enough...

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile 19 часов назад

      @@klausschumacher7126 It is quite common. It doesn't matter how cautious. The only solution is to not give any money to the contractor until the job is complete.

  • @djfitz13
    @djfitz13 19 часов назад +26

    Sorry to hear about Mark's passing this morning...my condolences to his family and friends.

    • @mrroymichelc1701
      @mrroymichelc1701 17 часов назад +9

      Such sad news he was a source of great inspiration and telling things as they were , he will be sorely missed ... such a shock RIP Mark

    • @larrye2679
      @larrye2679 15 часов назад +1

      Who died?

    • @mrroymichelc1701
      @mrroymichelc1701 14 часов назад +2

      Mark Thornton RIP

    • @jonheredia8789
      @jonheredia8789 14 часов назад +2

      Did Mark have a you tube channel?

    • @mrroymichelc1701
      @mrroymichelc1701 14 часов назад

      @@jonheredia8789 Everyman has a Story

  • @kathiemathias212
    @kathiemathias212 15 часов назад +3

    My 2 siblings and I built a 3 door townhouse in Manila in 2020 (middle of pandemic) without any hitch. Guess why??? The builder is my brother in law’s company. This was done in less than a year. What tops this is the 2 of us (my sister and I) live overseas. I’ve even sent bathroom fixtures and other bespoke building essentials via airfreight. Very happy with the outcome. We visit our house 2x a year. The hardest part of this journey was buying furnitures…. Not a lot of choices in the Philippines. I know a lot of homeowners have nightmarish journey and wouldn’t do this again. I guess we were lucky. Don’t stop your built as somehow you will get to the finish line. Fingers crossed.

  • @herbwitt7710
    @herbwitt7710 23 часа назад +10

    Terrible!!! Sorry Paul and Mae. What a piece of crap this builder is.😢

  • @krish6128
    @krish6128 14 часов назад +2

    Sorry to hear about this building scam Paul, for you, Baby Mae and everyone else involved, devastating, hope you guys get something back or some progress on the build

  • @Rob-u3c
    @Rob-u3c 23 часа назад +13

    I guess the key is to have the workers build, then pay them for the work done.

    • @jozah2148
      @jozah2148 22 часа назад +2

      Yep!🤔👌🏾🇬🇧

    • @Tony-eb5kh
      @Tony-eb5kh 10 часов назад +3

      Same here in Thailand
      It’s what we did and worked a treat 👍

    • @door1479
      @door1479 3 часа назад +1

      I drive my crew to the jobsite every morning pick them up every night. Purchase materials and snacks and payday is on Saturday. It consumes my day but I am on my second house and it works as long as you weed out low productivity.

  • @gmalonesr
    @gmalonesr 11 часов назад +2

    Bit coin hit $100,000 a few days ago. He would have only had to sell 1 bit coin to build 2 or 3 houses in the PI.

  • @CharlesWhite-j4f
    @CharlesWhite-j4f 23 часа назад +4

    So sorry to hear you got conned Paul, hope you didn't lose too much. Happens to us all at some time.

  • @billsmith981
    @billsmith981 20 часов назад +7

    In a Country where "Face" is so important you get these Cyber issues. Good Luck

  • @sleepySUCKS-kf8th
    @sleepySUCKS-kf8th 23 часа назад +42

    Atleast the used car salesman knows how we felt after buying a used car!!

    • @thomasclementz8149
      @thomasclementz8149 22 часа назад +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @goosecooker26
      @goosecooker26 22 часа назад

      @@thomasclementz8149 karma

    • @SirMountainpass
      @SirMountainpass 21 час назад +3

      How to spell "due dilligence"...

    • @Arthur88
      @Arthur88 20 часов назад +4

      Not the same. They at least got a car. These people got nothing.

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile 20 часов назад +2

      It depends on the car and the deal. I bought a used car October 2022 in the Los Angeles area. A great car and a good deal. Runs great. I drove it from LA to the Texas coast and back. No problems whatsoever, just put gas in it.

  • @Ego-Kills
    @Ego-Kills 22 часа назад +6

    Sorry for what happened to you Paul and Mae.
    Scamming is as old as human species. I am glad you haven't taken a big hit.

  • @marcrichard7251
    @marcrichard7251 22 часа назад +5

    Merry Christmas, Paul and baby Mae … and I will say happy new year because hopefully this new year coming things will get straightened out for the both of you and all the people that lost their money. Very sad situation. I’m listening carefully because I will retire next year and I want to do something in the area of Building, but I’m learning from other people’s mistakes first luckily I developed the subdivision so I know a few things about property and ingress egress, and all that stuff anyway the best to you.

    • @Arthur88
      @Arthur88 20 часов назад +1

      Think really hard before investing your money in land and a house in a country that doesn’t allow foreign ownership. All your property will have to be in your Filipina’s name. Anything can end anytime, even the best relationships. In the Philippines it’s a big issue with land titles. They have deep rabbit holes. A land can be owned by several family members who can be spread out all over the country or even in other countries. If one or more died and if the title succession wasn’t properly established in court, that’s a huge problem. If gelous locals sue you for something stupid, most likely as a foreigner you will lose. Rents is Asia are very low and inexpensive compared to the west. Renting allows you to pack your bags and move fast somewhere else. It’s best to look out for yourself no matter where you are but especially in foreign countries.

    • @marcrichard7251
      @marcrichard7251 20 часов назад +1

      Thanks but I’m more than aware of any repercussions when it comes to land in Asia. You don’t have to put any property in your wives name. You can lease the property for 50 years with options to purchase at a future date should you want to. The main thing is to have more than one lawyer involved so there’s no surprises and so on. But I feel your sincerity with your 2 cents so I thank you Arthur….

  • @johnhale9892
    @johnhale9892 21 час назад +1

    Merry Christmas, Paul and Baby Mae. I am praying for resolve on your housing issue.

  • @Into_the_void71
    @Into_the_void71 23 часа назад +8

    Look on the bright side, Paul. At least you helped another expat live a better life financially in the Philippines.

    • @John-or8ze
      @John-or8ze 23 часа назад +6

      That's cold blooded

    • @sleepySUCKS-kf8th
      @sleepySUCKS-kf8th 23 часа назад +7

      Hahaha, so true. He bragged about how he's got this all figured out when he started, Wow these vloggers are something!!!

  • @giorgioredigolo1967
    @giorgioredigolo1967 23 часа назад +20

    Love the T-shirt ,Baby Mae

  • @stevebearsley2308
    @stevebearsley2308 23 часа назад +3

    Hi Paul, thanks for the update. My partner and I lost a lot of money to a scam building contractor, so I know what you are talking about and how disappointing it is. But we survived and are now finishing off our home after a five-year struggle. Hang in there and keep marching on; you will get there. Best wishes and a very merry Christmas to the both of you. Cheers

  • @TWCH
    @TWCH 18 часов назад +4

    Sorry to hear you've run into this. I'm glad it's not too much. Miss Australia looks good though:)

  • @moparsquid
    @moparsquid 21 час назад +3

    Sorry to hear of this I've been concerned about home construction I've had friends done wrong on construction projects, I've looked into pre made homes that are fast and sturdy to make .hope everything goes well with you both

  • @BC19572
    @BC19572 23 часа назад +13

    Amazing how many people hired the builder yet they were so naive about the whole process.

    • @richardclausen154
      @richardclausen154 22 часа назад +7

      Not really amazing.
      Many homeowners in the US hire unqualified contractors because the sell them a song.
      If you are not working or understand the industry, methods, etc, you are vulnerable anywhere.
      As an engineer, I have seen it too many times over the decades.

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 21 час назад +1

      @@richardclausen154 SIR , You said it CORRECTLY , it is NOT the homeowners fault

    • @richardclausen154
      @richardclausen154 19 часов назад

      @@nottelling620 100%

    • @jetd9716
      @jetd9716 19 часов назад +1

      His a professional con artist. You won't have a chance.

    • @RedneckandPinay
      @RedneckandPinay 19 часов назад

      I guess one third of United Healthcare customers are just ignorant too.

  • @TCSRock78
    @TCSRock78 11 часов назад +2

    Sounds like a truck load of dumb ass all around. As for suing, forget it, cases can take decades in the Philippines and once you are past the highest court and have "won" the crook can start all over again without paying a dime.

  • @barryking5993
    @barryking5993 23 часа назад +9

    There are lots of unscrupulous people like this in the United States of America is becoming the norm here now.

    • @Matt_T__
      @Matt_T__ 23 часа назад +1

      Yes but fortunately the US has a functioning judicial system.

    • @jetd9716
      @jetd9716 19 часов назад

      ​@@Matt_T__Dog eat Dog world. Not surprising.

  • @katolau
    @katolau 16 часов назад +1

    ...you're a far better man than I Paul, I don't know if I would be as gracious nor mature in handling your situation...you have my admiration and respect. Wishing you both the best and know you will be rewarded for your grace...Merry Christmas

  • @eded866
    @eded866 17 часов назад +3

    in the philipeans it goes like this. A brick gets layed , a brick gets paid for. OR you give the downpayment to your lawyer and when something is done , that something is paid for by lawyer.

  • @koufax174
    @koufax174 22 часа назад +2

    No weapon formed against you will prosper. Excellent work not letting this toxic person pollute you. Hope you and Mae heal from your cough. 🙏🏼

  • @GeeGee19
    @GeeGee19 20 часов назад +8

    Your crazy for building a house at your age especially in another country. Good luck 🤞 to you.

  • @ocmcpherson7761
    @ocmcpherson7761 23 часа назад +8

    Just seen tonight a young black man from Canada getting scammed at kingswick tonight and just stopped by and told him to be careful and the room turned on me even my girlfriend said i was in the wrong none of my business. But if you see someone getting picked pocketed would you just mind your own business

    • @Ego-Kills
      @Ego-Kills 22 часа назад +1

      You did the right thing morally but it can be dangerous. Ignore and talk to him privately. It's material that can be regained. It's like snitches get stitches case. Snitch privately

    • @MyLifeThai371
      @MyLifeThai371 22 часа назад +3

      I would tell them to kick rocks. It's none of their business to tell you what to do.

    • @robinorga528
      @robinorga528 16 часов назад +4

      You did the right thing.

  • @barrypress3704
    @barrypress3704 22 часа назад +3

    Sorry to hear about this problem you have with this person. I hope the police takes action against him.

  • @59jaguar
    @59jaguar 22 часа назад +5

    Need to have the guy charged criminally not civilly. He stole your funds. That’s criminal.
    I went thru a similar situation in the USA over a machine a guy sold me and then never returned back to me for repairs. He lied constantly with invented stories and excuses only to buy himself time. Long story short. I got my money back after I charged him with theft for not returning the machine.

  • @armandosanchez8901
    @armandosanchez8901 23 часа назад +35

    Why is he not in jail?

    • @ShikokuFoodForest
      @ShikokuFoodForest 23 часа назад

      Probably because there is so much corruption in the Philippines, that if people were put in Jail for corruption, the jails wouldn’t have space for everyone.

    • @sgriffin8739
      @sgriffin8739 23 часа назад +1

      Bc there has to be a trail. Why ask?

    • @timboyle2746
      @timboyle2746 22 часа назад +4

      Or grave

    • @nordicdog
      @nordicdog 22 часа назад +8

      As my dad always said a fool and his money are soon parted … you should of known better sir

    • @privateowner-y9p
      @privateowner-y9p 22 часа назад

      My guess is he provably fled the country using his real name. Fake id is a simple matter in the phil

  • @nottelling620
    @nottelling620 21 час назад +2

    HI PAUL and MAE , I think you guys are 1 of many wonderful expats in your area.
    I want to apologize if my comments get out of hand HOWEVER it is tough to see people get scammed/hurt/ripped off by anyone...
    Please do NOT let this ruin your good nature and giving spirit , I understand you lost money BUT your health is MORE IMPORTANT.
    YES , I commented on some comments..
    HOW DOES AN EXPAT OWN LAND IN THE PHILS , that he ALLEGEDLY SOLD?
    PLEASE have a MERRY XMAS , HAPPY HOLIDAYS
    TY for sharing your life with us , for better or worse.
    GOD BLESS CIAO

  • @timderemo5091
    @timderemo5091 19 часов назад +4

    Regular guy is reporting that Mark Thornton has passed away.

  • @happylohomestead6323
    @happylohomestead6323 21 час назад +4

    Sorry to hear this,I am lucky my father was a Mason and I worked as a laborer a d know people in the house construction business I got the permits first before even started building and bought and controlled the materials and tools and pay for workers I am just not trusting of people something my father pounded in to my head to be at site everyday all day so I stay on top of the job. I hope everything works out for you I have been coming to Philippines since 1981 and married since1996 here in philippines. Now retired on disability and pension. Pray everything works out for you.

  • @jagger9696
    @jagger9696 23 часа назад +8

    Forgive my Naivete, I was not aware you could go to jail in a civil lawsuit. I am aware that Philippine law is different but this is ridiculous. You get scammed, call out the scammer and they sue you for defamation? WOW!

    • @bill648
      @bill648 22 часа назад

      @@jagger9696 unless it’s a conviction for actual Fraud- move it to a criminal court

  • @donwells9309
    @donwells9309 7 часов назад

    Sometimes you don't have to search for content. But this sort of content I am sure you could have done without. Every dog has its day, and you will have yours. That builder will come to the end of his lead. I have heard some wild building stories; this one takes the cake. Best of luck for the future. You and Baby Mae deserve so much better.

  • @Camera1931-p5v
    @Camera1931-p5v 20 часов назад +5

    I love the United States! I am glad I live here! Law and order is getting even better! He sounds like a politician! Lie and deny!

  • @danielsanteler8290
    @danielsanteler8290 20 часов назад +1

    Merry Christmas, count your blessings! Dan

  • @danielroy3039
    @danielroy3039 23 часа назад +36

    Why hasn't the barangay been notified about this idiot. Do this asap.

    • @sleepySUCKS-kf8th
      @sleepySUCKS-kf8th 23 часа назад +18

      Hahaha Hahaha, the barangay is already paid off, wake up!!

    • @richardclausen154
      @richardclausen154 22 часа назад

      @@sleepySUCKS-kf8thlol.
      You are not in Kansas anymore.

    • @sleepySUCKS-kf8th
      @sleepySUCKS-kf8th 22 часа назад

      @@joehinds29988 you don't get it!! There is absolutely nothing that's going to happen about this, a foreigner ripped off another foreigner, NBI could careless about that.

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 21 час назад

      @@sleepySUCKS-kf8th EXACTLY x10000 , strange how PAUL and MAE get cited for building with no PERMIT when in FACT they have a contract with a BUILDER. A few PESOS HERE AND THERE YOU CAN BUY OFF EVERYONE..Yes I am a retired builder , honest THUS NOT A MULTI MILLIONARE

    • @andresmith9212
      @andresmith9212 21 час назад +6

      I think Paul is the idiot, look who has all of Paul's money.

  • @222jojo
    @222jojo 7 часов назад +2

    Have someone in the US (who never plans on going to the Philippines) do the review video and at least the warning to others gets out. Obviously leave no connection to yourself.

  • @AlanHenderson-d6d
    @AlanHenderson-d6d 23 часа назад +11

    Hay Paul. this guy is smarter than you. and the other depositors

    • @Koza480
      @Koza480 14 часов назад

      Paul still doesn’t get it!

    • @kiwioffgrid2437
      @kiwioffgrid2437 13 часов назад

      He's going to end up in prison for decades.....is that being smart?
      I guess if one likes free slop and bed bugs while being bent over in the showers.
      Whatever you are into....but not for me.

  • @co...ahjack2818
    @co...ahjack2818 16 часов назад +1

    Thank you for your honesty. A lot of people wouldn't talk openly about being ripped off. It doesn't look good for recovering money for everyone. One option might be to get the workers to quit and employ them yourself. However, this would require a good knowledge of building or hiring someone with that knowledge and has the ability to plan the build.

  • @mypov4343
    @mypov4343 23 часа назад +7

    I'll be back in Philippines next month. I appreciate the culture and the people and in many ways, I love the Philippines! BUT I will always make sure I can depart on a moments notice with my resources intact. Some will intentionally try to take advantage of you with a smile on their face. Some have no ill intentions but once they own property it's used as leverage against you. It's a hidden risk that you thought would never happen....Protect yourself...no one else will! Sorry I don't mean to be a downer but I've seen what one of my closest friends is going thru...

    • @smileoften-ft3hq
      @smileoften-ft3hq 23 часа назад +1

      I am approaching Philippines much the same as you.

  • @geraldstewart
    @geraldstewart 19 часов назад +1

    Wishing You and Baby Mae a MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY NEW YEAR HO HO HO

  • @MikeWood-yc1er
    @MikeWood-yc1er 23 часа назад +9

    The only defence in a Tort lawsuit is the truth. Bring it on dude.

    • @Ego-Kills
      @Ego-Kills 23 часа назад

      Don't presume, remember it's a different country with her own laws.

    • @MikeWood-yc1er
      @MikeWood-yc1er 22 часа назад

      @Ego-Kills Tort law is British/USA law which may influence the law there in order for international trade to take place.

    • @Ego-Kills
      @Ego-Kills 21 час назад +1

      @MikeWood-yc1er it's also Canada, Australia, New Zealand and Ireland and all other commonwealth nations(Asia and Africa). But some countries have different versions of tort law despite being a common law.

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 21 час назад

      @@MikeWood-yc1er FOR A FEW PESOS MORE

    • @TCSRock78
      @TCSRock78 11 часов назад

      In the Philippines truth is no defense against libel or slander. You might get away with showing a published newspaper with a story of the guy being convicted but again you might not.

  • @AlanHenderson-d6d
    @AlanHenderson-d6d 23 часа назад +7

    that makes it easy he's not allowed run a business in phils.

  • @VonBluesman
    @VonBluesman 20 часов назад +10

    I used to work for a company that built custom homes only. Even when everything goes right, building a house puts more stress on a marriage than people realize until you experience it.

  • @patrickmorton1187
    @patrickmorton1187 20 часов назад

    I'm sorry this happened to you as well as the other victims. It's difficult to share issues like this publicly. Thank you for sharing I hope this helps others to avoid similar scams. I wish I could help you with your build.

  • @henryyoung7184
    @henryyoung7184 21 час назад +4

    On a house build, ALWAYS employ and pay the workers directly, purchase the materials yourself directly. Otherwise you just open yourself up to scammers and well meaning types getting into financial difficulty. Figure everything out and do it yourself. There is NO viable alternative.

    • @gardeningtipsandmore
      @gardeningtipsandmore 9 часов назад

      uhmm most houses in this world are made by paying a ''builder'' or a ''contractor'' its only a small percentage where people buy the materials and pay the workers themselves, i mean that is quite rare,. and than there is the part of designing and engineer;, 97% of the population has no clue about any of that but yet want to buy a house, should they just buy the materials and pay a bunch of locals? ..

  • @YoLoBong-xs3to
    @YoLoBong-xs3to 13 часов назад +1

    If anyone is considering building over here near Anda Bohol, I will be happy to give you some names. My Engineer who for 15k peso, drew my plans, got my permits and my electricity turned on in 2 weeks. My Foreman who I pay 850 pesos per day. And a few skilled workers. Just finishing up tiling the house. No issues no excuses no stories or stupid promises. Be happy to share photos if you would like to see. I went to the house for 15-20 minutes a day. To bring them snacks. I also was a beach house builder w/42 year experience in Florida before retiring.

  • @billhyde3872
    @billhyde3872 23 часа назад +3

    Explore with a Philippines lawyer the process and requirements for a ‘Representative Suit’ - the equivalent of a class action where multiple injured parties bind together for restitution. Prepare now just in case needed later.

    • @CharlesWhite-j4f
      @CharlesWhite-j4f 23 часа назад +1

      Na, just write it off, there's no point suing a con-man, they have no money (that you can get at)

    • @Eric-qm5xw
      @Eric-qm5xw 23 часа назад

      His partner was supposedly a lawyer ..a Filipina. All bogus ..many many Poe-else have been conned by this South African…the Kroonstad conman. Adrian D.

  • @myretiredlifetoo
    @myretiredlifetoo 8 часов назад

    Paul, this is unbelievable how terrible this situation is. How can a person like this "Bernie Madoff"" live with themselves. I am shocked and feel for you and everyone involved. Thank you Paul for making us aware to always be cautious.

  • @Chickenlegs836
    @Chickenlegs836 23 часа назад +3

    Lessons learned & unfortunately even worse it’s an X Pat!! WTF?? Do your research, homework, & visit builders homes already built along with speaking to home owners 👍😉. Speak to Mike about Sean’s builder U2👍Good luck 🍀 to your future home build🙏Blessings 🙏🌺🌼🌸

  • @1951Ford
    @1951Ford 20 часов назад +1

    Wow, when I built our house, I drew up my own plans, hired local carpenters, and was there during the whole build, I was the one who paid all the workers every two weeks.. They did a fairly good job, and I'm satisfied with what we have.It's nothing fancy, just a simple build. (KISS system)

  • @williamfields9983
    @williamfields9983 23 часа назад +5

    If he is a foreigner like you said unless he is also married to a Filipino and the business is in her name unless there is a loophole how can he be in business. It is truly a shame for what he has done. It would seem like the government would step in considering it happens to deal also too with the Philippine workers that work for him

    • @keith-kb1zl
      @keith-kb1zl 12 часов назад

      that’s what I don’t get, how this guy can operate a business as a foreigner in the Philippines 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️it’s my understanding you have to get a work visa AND be married to a Filipina. this whole thing sounds so shady, there must be corruption involved in this, and I’m surprised 27 Filipino victims haven’t delivered “street justice” to this disgusting douche-bag of a human being.. people get offed in the Philippines for far less criminal acts than this guy has committed 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

  • @Crazykid949
    @Crazykid949 8 часов назад +1

    It is sickening how some people will run their lives by greed and dishonesty. It is very unfortunate when someone gets taken by a person like the one who is taking advantage of so many people just for the personal satisfaction of deceiving people for financial gain.
    Best of luck to all of you caught up in this situation.

  • @Blanca_Iris77
    @Blanca_Iris77 22 часа назад +9

    This story should be in a Netflix documentary for public awareness

  • @teddykluk
    @teddykluk 15 часов назад +1

    I remember renting from this guy once and he was quite charming and helpful. He offered me to invest in his expanded AbnB business but I already had the principle of never going into business in my retirement, especially in a foreign country. It gets messy quickly especially in this kind of case.

  • @rossgridley5626
    @rossgridley5626 23 часа назад +6

    Merry Christmas to you both

  • @regoparknyc
    @regoparknyc 11 часов назад

    Thank you for the update. Did anyone in town realize this was the person who was on a channel a few years earlier and expressed that their profession was a college professor. Not just in all these countries abroad but at a college in town. How did they make that dramatic career leap from educator to premier house builder in 2 years?

  • @salvadorcastillo12
    @salvadorcastillo12 День назад +6

    a question. Why is it the the law protect scumbags like that in any country

    • @jasonmullins7483
      @jasonmullins7483 23 часа назад

      The asians think saving face is more important than holding people accountable