I'm EXPOSING My Philippines House Build Scam Nightmare
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Best of luck to you and your daughter to get this house thing straightened out
That's his wife, fool. Be respectful.
@@phantasmnine1384he intentionally said it...it shld be a compliment to her
😂😂😂😂 I love how Paul pins these comments. This is why Paul is the best vlogger.
@@ynasra1065 Really? It's disrespectful. Seems like you should learn to treat a man and his wife with respect, instead of trolling videos you obviously have no business watching.
😂
I was raised not to trust people. For every time that's harmed me there's been dozens of times where it saved me. People suck.
My motto, too! 💯
Sad to say, often animals have better behavior.
You're doomed to a lonely life. enjoy your wealth
When we built our house we went to the city engineer and got the preferred builder and that worked out well. These fly by night builders suck ass over there
How much did you pay?
Wow what a paradise. Not only doesn't anyone have any sort of recourse after being victims of a major crime, but don't even have the freedom of speech to warn others of the perpetrator.
Same problem in Thailand when something like this happens, My biggest complaint is lack of consumer protection.
@@pensionandapassport Consumer protection is being handled by the Philippines department of trade and industry (DTI) for complaints against scrupulous businesses.
@@joehinds29988 There is zero recourse.
@@joehinds29988 I hope he gets vindicated.
They do have the freedom of speech ...just don't say is name. The real fools are the one that give the money in advance. SIMPLE
Thanks for humbling yourself and posting all this, Paul. I'm sure it wasn't easy but it's a huge help to all of us who value your opinion. I lived there 8 years and I'm not surprised at all. Wishing the best for you.
Sorry basic rule never ever pay upfront to a construction contractor.
just enough to build for 2 or 3 weeks at a time
you HAVE to pay something to get started otherwise you'll NEVER get anything built.
Or for new Tiddies for your daughter.
@@eChicken-k6d its his wife!!
what about for materials? You ask a guy to paint your house purple. He spends $300 on purple paint, then you change your mind. Is that how the rule works?
Mark Thornton Every man has a story, RIP
He died??????????
how did he pass? when? how did you find out?
@@Coolbeanstogo He passed away from a stroke.
@@LetsDoThePhilippines Oh I'm so sorry. He was a good guy, I really liked him.
is this true
The guy liquidating his land and assets tells me he is leaving for another country soon. 😮
Exactly. He is getting ready to run
I’m sure he’s already gone by now. Sad to say.
When I heard him say liquidating his “Bitcoin” all the red flags started flying.
HOW DOES HE OWN LAND IN THE PHILS???
he has gone...he only rented everywhere he stayed to con expats...in several countries already.
the sites where men were working,he had nothing to do with them !
Paul you don't know me, but I've been in construction my whole life. Brick, block, and precast concrete. Cut out the middle man. You need the worker, the talent, the skills. The worker needs TOOLS. Barter tools for his knowledge and skills. When house is complete he gets the tools. Sets him up in business. Barter the dream of being his own contractor. You want the man who actually does the work. You will be the expeditor of materials. He knows what to buy and when to buy it. "Contractor" is the middle man, you ever see one with the shovel? Why pay someone else to do what you can do yourself.
@@raymondrhorer2695 great point. My build is about a year out and considering going to the University and recruiting a graduate engineer who has some fire to get started and train him.
I ha been in the construction field for 48 years, but still new to the local scene.
I think it would be an all around win with the right match.
I agree whole-heartedly! Find good workers that you can deal with directly.
@richardclausen154 well I hope Paul and Mike considered what I wrote. I was a hands on contractor and never ever out of work. But it takes time to "earn" the respect. The contractor is the owner of the tools, most won't invest in tools. I wish I was there, I still love the work but don't want a JOB.
@@raymondrhorer2695 There is a downside to acting as your own GC. Now you have to chase down every friend and family member who will treat your job as a piggy bank. Tools get stolen, materials are stolen or over-ordered for their other jobs, subcontractors are told to add $$ for the friend, the worker won't have work comp or liability insurance if there is a problem downstream. When I develop a project with a GC I want them to agree to weekly site meetings with past week spreadsheet for work completed to what was spent and I add a performance and completion bond which means ANY of the shit he's pulling on you will result in you exercising your right to terminate based on nonperformance. I know it's PI but these principals work all over the world to some degree or another. You can tell what the climate is like based on what large scale construction sites are built by international or larger commercial developers do to avoid what is happening to you to happen to them.
I see this is not your 1st summer out.
Your 1 smart cookie!
Let me get it straight...in that " great" country, telling the truth about a scumbag it's a crime... but stealing thousands of dollars is a civil matter?... Not even in the Dominican... Republic
🤣🤣🤣🙄🤔😱🇬🇧
There is a former Prez (won't mention which country) who scammed people and he paid a fine both times.
I wouldn’t pee on the best part of the Philippines!
@@armandosanchez8901 Sometimes.... Policies encourage bad behavior
It’s ridiculous in this country. No paradise it’s sink or swim and scamming is a job. 😂
Sorry to hear about Mark's passing this morning...my condolences to his family and friends.
Such sad news he was a source of great inspiration and telling things as they were , he will be sorely missed ... such a shock RIP Mark
Who died?
Mark Thornton RIP
Did Mark have a you tube channel?
@@jonheredia8789 Everyman has a Story
Sorry to hear about this scam you got sucked into. Glad to know you didn't pay everything up front and you will recover from your loss in less than a year. Hope your eye is recovering and you have no permanent vision impairment. All of this is a good warning/reminder that one has to be careful, no matter where they are in this world, unscrupulous people are always looking for the next person near them that they can take advantage of.
sorry to hear about your troubles. Keep the faith, and keep posting your great content.
Sorry about this crap you're going through, very sad. And great of you to feed the guys, hope they show some solidarity and stick it out ... Miss Mae looks great in Green and Gold ... Oi Oi Oi ...
Thanks for your heartfelt honesty...and sharing your ups and downs. It's greatly appreciated. You will save many others from making the same v mistake. It seems that despite this mistake, you are doing a good job putting this in proper perspective, and keeping an overall positive attitude about life and all the other blessings you have. Wishing you both a joyful Christmas and for sure 2025 will be a fresh restart 😊
He probably sold the farm and left the country.
Yes he admits liquidating anything they. You’d seize and now he can easily flee if he hasn’t already
Sounds like another example of the problem most expats have in Asia is with other expats. Sorry for your troubles.
It happens, with expat and local, it happens in America even. Construction is cut throat. My father lost his fencing business floating crap contractors in California decades ago.
@@pensionandapassport You are CORRECT , as a retired builder I saw other builders ripping off people here in U.S.A.
@@nottelling620 I agree. When I was in the US, I didn't give contractors any money up front. I only paid when work was completed. If they didn't agree with that, I didn't hire them.
^goes both ways. My son has a contracting business and has been screwed over by clients multiple times. Now he only completes work in stages being paid after each stage and an initial down payment. So if both sides were to dig in their heels….well the whole industry wud be at an impasse.
@@shep68 No, it wouldn't. Only honest people would get anything done.
Sorry for your loss,,,Hava Merry Chrissy & a New & better Year .
Paul, I went through the same thing 3 years ago and still recovering from it. They are not called CON----Tractors for nothing. I lost 5000 to 8000 dollars plus had to borrow $8000 to finish my renovation. We tried to take him to Philippines court but he moves a lot and still doing his con job on other foreigners and Filipinos. I did learn a lesson out of it but it HURTS especially when you are retired.
Paul, I appreciate you telling us this story. I pray for everyone involved and hope justice is served
Thanks!
@bobc5730 thank you very much 😊
Hi Paul, thanks for the update. My partner and I lost a lot of money to a scam building contractor, so I know what you are talking about and how disappointing it is. But we survived and are now finishing off our home after a five-year struggle. Hang in there and keep marching on; you will get there. Best wishes and a very merry Christmas to the both of you. Cheers
Guys like that have to be very brave especially in a foreign Country. Con-men are worthless to society and wouldn’t surprise me if this guy ended up crossing the wrong person and ends up floating in waters off the coast. Hopefully he makes things right, but a con-man can never be trusted.
I was thinking the same thing. Sounds to me he might be liquidating his assets, not to do the right thing, but to prepare to flee. Sometimes street justice, which can be brutal, finds people like this, how unfortunate vigilantes sometimes won't wait for official charges and court dates. tsk tsk
@@tryscience As nice as FILIPINO people are , THEY TOO MAY TURN TO STREET JUSTICE O.K. SO I AM ITALIAN LOL
@@tryscienceI’m honestly surprised he hasn’t been offed yet by the locals if he’s got 27 complaints against him.. the Philippines is like the wild,Wild West where street justice is king..
He already had one of his workers come after him with a machete for no pay
@@scottburgess5410 THATS EXCELLENT
Sounds like he should be fined, jailed and deported when his jail time is over.
Key words are going to be "should be".
He knows the system here well which works to his advantage as the arresting powers are so disjointed and the legal systems wheels turn very slowly
Wow, This is a complete Scam. I am shocked that this guy is an expat. I too, assumed he was Filipino. We all have our different ways of handling situations. I hope you are cutting your losses and moving on. Merry Christmas
Has a pinay girlfriend who is a lawyer helping him
I guess...u think...expats are perfect...!..far from the truth...(btw, im not Filipino)..
They say if an xpat is going to have a people problem, it will oddly be with another xpat. Some people avoid other x pats just for this idea.
@@watersbey25 dont you watch the videos about thousands of thai women scamming foreigners? 99% of the time it is a thai.
Great info Paul. Keep them coming. Your helping people
Paul and Mae, Sorry to hear that, and sorry to hear that your mate Mark passed yesterday afternoon, very sad indeed, he will be deeply missed..
Hi Paul and May, I’m so sorry to hear about the problems you have been encountering with regards to your house. I have always been following your videos even if I don’t comment that much.
Also I’m not sure but I guess you have heard about your old buddy Mark Thornton ‘s sudden passing! For old times sake I know you guys have been buddies and you have been a mentor for him from doing YT videos in the past. It’s such a sad news to know that he’s gone. FYI , your videos and interviews of you and him together were really popular and have had a lot of following. You guys had a good vibe together during your old videos. For whatever reason I respect the loss of connection between you and Mark as we never see you guys together anymore. But I know deep in your heart that you are not happy with his sudden passing. I hope you could tackle a bit about him when you can and perhaps give us some info about his death as we would like to hear it from you than other hearsays if you happen to know a bit about it.
I am sad for his new baby not able to see him and Mark with Rogan as well. And goes with his wife. Hope you could give us any info about your old mate . Thanks and you take care of your selves there as well May and Paul.
Wow! I just read this sad news about Mark. He was working with cruise ships as was I in a different capacity and as a result I was one of the first people he interviewed online (five interviews all up online) and it inspired my filipina wife and I (living in Australia) to go to the Philippines in 2022 to meet up with him and his wife in the beautiful property that he was renting on the beach in Bacong.
In addition, I had also seen a few videos of the interviews that Paul and Mark did together so I also asked if Paul could make his way from Valencia to Bacong to meet with us together.
And yes, Paul made the effort and together we all had a wonderful afternoon also shared with my son Emilio.
My condolences go out to his lovely wife and they're little child. Mark was aware of his health problem but he seemed quite happy living in that wonderful house on the beach with his wife and child so it is a sad occasion indeed that this happens now before he had a chance to watch his child grow up.
It was eerie in the sense that Mark just recently did a video about us older guys making the most of our time left before we leave this planet 😢😢and he gave such sage advice to live our dreams while we still can.😥Mark and Paul are my favorite vloggers and have helped me on my journey as I’ve been coming to the Philippines for 13 years and have been married for 8 years.. I will miss Marks wisdom and advice 😢😢
Look on the bright side, Paul. At least you helped another expat live a better life financially in the Philippines.
That's cold blooded
@sleepySUCKS-kf8th
Paul knows everything 😂
Well Paul is a salesman and he sales his audience lies every video he puts out 🤣
@sleepySUCKS-kf8th What do you say to a salesman when he says "this is a good buy" answer "good bye "
Sorry to hear of your problems with your house construction, I wish you luck in resolving the issue the issue to everyone satisfaction,
Scammers exist everywhere in all forms. I am sorry to hear you and so many others have been fleeced this way. Especially for the ones who now have to postpone their retirement because of this ASSHAT.! Karma will catch up to him sooner or later, hopefully sooner. It is great that you have the courage to speak and share your experience. I am surprised (not really) by some of the comments here... wow.
Merry Christmas, Paul and Baby Mae. I am praying for resolve on your housing issue.
I think it's a crying shame that the laws in the Philippines are essentially in cahoots with this man not allowing you to expose him and threatening you with jail time if you do.
Welcome to the wild, Wild West!
@@joehinds29988this should all be resolved in 3-5 years at this point
Same as Thailand.
Gotta know the system before you play into the system.
Welcome to the real world! Crooks, even in the U.S., always find a way to circumvent the law. Hell, in the U.S., they just pay off some legislators to keep their dirty business legal…example healthcare insurance…
Paul you are forgetting the dozens of suppliers that we know that have been scammed out of payments due for materials. It is bigger than just the home owners
Thanks for the update guys. So Sorry got scammed but hard to compete with a professional.
Sorry to hear about this building scam Paul, for you, Baby Mae and everyone else involved, devastating, hope you guys get something back or some progress on the build
As I mentioned in an early video it was a big red flag , being in the industry I knew from the start that this was not going to end well ..
what were the red flags you noticed early on? Your details might help others to avoid this same trap.
Seeing as expats can’t legally own a business outright, or do physical work, I would not have dealt with your “contractor “…
Good luck recouping your losses🤞🙏
The prick might be pig food already, especially if he’s pissed off the wrong/right locals…
If he’s still alive, and in country, facing criminal charges, he would likely be hiding out as you speak… hopefully the Philippine government can flag him, so that he’ll be detained at any international airport 🤔🤞
well paul knows everything. just ask the subs he bought
Came here because Streak Phillips mentioned this. I'm sooo dismayed. Seems all the criticism about Filipino scammers isn't just talk. Been in Manila only two months. Hearing this makes me less enthused about my plans to retire here...
Oh btw, it really doesn't matter to me whether the scammer is Filipino or foreigner. In fact, being scammed by a foreigner I think is worse. Being taken by a fellow westerner in a foreign company is just unconscionable.
Hard to believe people would be so loose with their finances as to send all their money to a stranger in a foreign country
So sorry to hear you got conned Paul, hope you didn't lose too much. Happens to us all at some time.
Sorry to hear about this problem you have with this person. I hope the police takes action against him.
Relationship is everything. Getting to know the person(s) and doing homework on them involved with any project PRIOR to signing anything and exchanging $$ (even in the Phils) is critical. So sorry, Paul, what has happened to you and Baby Mae. Thank you for sharing your situation. Learn, grow, adapt, look ahead.
Sorry to hear this Paul. Still, hope you have a Merry Christmas and happy New Year.
Merry Christmas, Paul and baby Mae … and I will say happy new year because hopefully this new year coming things will get straightened out for the both of you and all the people that lost their money. Very sad situation. I’m listening carefully because I will retire next year and I want to do something in the area of Building, but I’m learning from other people’s mistakes first luckily I developed the subdivision so I know a few things about property and ingress egress, and all that stuff anyway the best to you.
Think really hard before investing your money in land and a house in a country that doesn’t allow foreign ownership. All your property will have to be in your Filipina’s name. Anything can end anytime, even the best relationships. In the Philippines it’s a big issue with land titles. They have deep rabbit holes. A land can be owned by several family members who can be spread out all over the country or even in other countries. If one or more died and if the title succession wasn’t properly established in court, that’s a huge problem. If gelous locals sue you for something stupid, most likely as a foreigner you will lose. Rents is Asia are very low and inexpensive compared to the west. Renting allows you to pack your bags and move fast somewhere else. It’s best to look out for yourself no matter where you are but especially in foreign countries.
Thanks but I’m more than aware of any repercussions when it comes to land in Asia. You don’t have to put any property in your wives name. You can lease the property for 50 years with options to purchase at a future date should you want to. The main thing is to have more than one lawyer involved so there’s no surprises and so on. But I feel your sincerity with your 2 cents so I thank you Arthur….
No weapon formed against you will prosper. Excellent work not letting this toxic person pollute you. Hope you and Mae heal from your cough. 🙏🏼
Sorry to hear you've run into this. I'm glad it's not too much. Miss Australia looks good though:)
Hi Mae and Paul: Sorry to hear about your house progress or lack of it. I am a retiree living in the DC area and had a two-storey vacation house built in the Cebu countryside. Rejecting my architect’s suggestion, I didn’t use a contractor. My workers were all locals and they completed the house just recently and in time. Am sharing this information with you to let you know that use of local construction workers is a viable alternative for you. Besides, you’re able to help local neighborhood workers.
It is good you are telling it like it is, no shame or blame, just the facts mam, just the facts.
I love your videos. They have given me alot of ways to prepare for life there one day. I'm sorry you are going through this mess and have to be making videos about this, but hopefully people will learn and understand that this can happen, and one day you get justice and a house. I also hope those poor workers who are caught up in this get paid, it's really sad for them too.
Me and 2 500 peso per day guys built my womans house in about 6 months. It is not rocket scientry to lay a foundation, stack some blocks, throw up the rafters and tin roof, install electric and plumbing... These houses are like building a fort as a kid. Our house is one of the nicest in our small town, spent like $10k. Why build a Western Quality house here, go cheap and enjoy the simplicity. I had that cough 1 month, took antibioticpills for 3 days and all cleared up.
It isn't rocket science but, you need luck for that. You can see most foreigners get ripped off. You didn't accomplish that, you just got lucky.
Senseofstile... Not most foreigners get ripped off... Only some who were not cautious enough...
@@klausschumacher7126 It is quite common. It doesn't matter how cautious. The only solution is to not give any money to the contractor until the job is complete.
@@senseofstile Don't seem like luck to me. He hired local guys most likely, worked with them, which means he supervised and made sure he wasn't getting ripped off. He took responsibility and got it done, affordably.
@@privateowner-y9p No, it's luck. It has nothing to do with past performance. You never know when a contractor decides he is going to start ripping of clients.
Hire men locally and be your own contractor! First step is always bring in dirt to raise the area the house will be 2 feet or more ! It sits one year to settle your home will alway be on dry well drained land
Yeah man, just build it yourself, block by block if necessary.
My 2 siblings and I built a 3 door townhouse in Manila in 2020 (middle of pandemic) without any hitch. Guess why??? The builder is my brother in law’s company. This was done in less than a year. What tops this is the 2 of us (my sister and I) live overseas. I’ve even sent bathroom fixtures and other bespoke building essentials via airfreight. Very happy with the outcome. We visit our house 2x a year. The hardest part of this journey was buying furnitures…. Not a lot of choices in the Philippines. I know a lot of homeowners have nightmarish journey and wouldn’t do this again. I guess we were lucky. Don’t stop your built as somehow you will get to the finish line. Fingers crossed.
All our best to you. I hope you get it right soon!
Lessons learned. You still have the land. Don't be hard on yourself, you were just trying to provide Baby Mae with a home and some security in life, which is what a man should do. I feel sorry for the laborers because they cannot afford the losses. Best Wishes to you guys and try to have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
Agree, the labourers still have to eat and provide for their families. Heartbreaking for them but FURIOUS at the scammer who goes on lying to them👹
Yeh the local workers got Screwed the Hardest as small consolation is there is SO MUCH construction going on that Filipino contractors are picking up the Best workers from this guys crew but sadly it comes right before Christmas and allot of Filipinos get a 13tth month type of Bonus and these guys were not even paid for weeks in some cases
Are you sure? He got a building permit, but does he actually own the land?
@wxman2003 I believe in a previous video that he said that he acquired the land in Baby Maes name.
Sometimes you don't have to search for content. But this sort of content I am sure you could have done without. Every dog has its day, and you will have yours. That builder will come to the end of his lead. I have heard some wild building stories; this one takes the cake. Best of luck for the future. You and Baby Mae deserve so much better.
I used to work for a company that built custom homes only. Even when everything goes right, building a house puts more stress on a marriage than people realize until you experience it.
Howdy Paul, so sorry to hear that bad story. It’s been interesting videos and I hope there is a happier ending in your house build plans. Happy to hear you realized it before you got in deeper. I’ll probably build a house over in Leyte in a year or two so I’m learning from your videos. Take care of yourself.
The first thing I did was went to the Mayor & introduce myself to the sitting officials for the township. I have zero problems. My Mayor forced the building permit and plans for my house before we broke ground. I have a Forman and he has 10 workers. The Forman is responsible for everything done and not done. Our family will be voting for this Mayor next year.
Paul positions himself as an authority on living as an expat in Philippines. People FOLLOW what he says. He made a video promoting this contractor which Paul has now taken down. Question: How many people hired this contractor and lost money as a result of watching Paul’s video and thinking if Paul picked this contractor then he must be legitimate.
Ya, so much for expats helping expats! And they wonder why I avoid them.
You might be right there. I watched that video too. I remember thinking, I wish I had the resources to hire a builder too. But having said that, if you have heard or read about this scammer, he's really a pro. He's been doing this for years in other parts of the world. Probably you or I would have done the same as Paul. 😉
Has that video been taken down? I vaguely remember that.
Also, note that Paul only invested a small amount in him but the others all lost their life savings. A little suspicious really.
HI PAUL and MAE , I think you guys are 1 of many wonderful expats in your area.
I want to apologize if my comments get out of hand HOWEVER it is tough to see people get scammed/hurt/ripped off by anyone...
Please do NOT let this ruin your good nature and giving spirit , I understand you lost money BUT your health is MORE IMPORTANT.
YES , I commented on some comments..
HOW DOES AN EXPAT OWN LAND IN THE PHILS , that he ALLEGEDLY SOLD?
PLEASE have a MERRY XMAS , HAPPY HOLIDAYS
TY for sharing your life with us , for better or worse.
GOD BLESS CIAO
I’ve enjoyed Mark Thornton’s interviews over the past years.
But you can easily make the reasonable argument that a man with serious health problems at an age close to 60, or more, who has a child with a Filipina - is unthinking, selfish, inconsiderate.
The child will be fatherless.
Or worse yet, end up with a new ‘bad’ father. Especially if he leaves a daughter.
The widow will fall into a new hard life, having to support & educate her new child alone, & probably needing to help out her parents & other family members also.
And even if she’s been financially provided for, how many Filipinas have any idea how to manage money.
Between family demands & money ignorance, she’s likely to end up even worse off than many money-ignorant lottery winners.
In no time, an empty bank account.
An older guy with health issues who impregnates a Filipina woman of almost any age is not doing anyone any favor.
On the contrary. It's egoistic, mindless, unpardonable.
Well it is true somebody can tell mark was égoïste and selfish but love between 2 people can not explain like mathématiques.Life is unpredictible, mark with his vidéos tried to explain the mistery of destinity Every body should be optimistic and with hope the future will be fine.
his wife was the One who pushed hard to have a baby mark said it was 1 and done he knew what the deal was & so did she,
Mercy Christmas guys sorry for your loss guess could of been worse
Sorry for what happened to you Paul and Mae.
Scamming is as old as human species. I am glad you haven't taken a big hit.
Merry Christmas and a wonderful New Year Paul and Baby Mae and here is to praying your house will be built and finalised in 2025 🏠 🥰
In a Country where "Face" is so important you get these Cyber issues. Good Luck
we were scammed 25 years ago in Costa Rica...lucky to only lose about $10kgrand...
Currently living happily in Guatemala but will likely rent forever.
We could recover back then but now as a retired couple losing maybe$100k grand would hurt too much.
Pay the workers to leave your property. Fence it asap
Merry Christmas, count your blessings! Dan
Forgive my Naivete, I was not aware you could go to jail in a civil lawsuit. I am aware that Philippine law is different but this is ridiculous. You get scammed, call out the scammer and they sue you for defamation? WOW!
@@jagger9696 unless it’s a conviction for actual Fraud- move it to a criminal court
Very Good Sir Paul and Baby Mae 😊. I think I know who you are talking about. I will text Baby Mae and find out for sure.
Keep the video's comin.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
Sorry to hear of this I've been concerned about home construction I've had friends done wrong on construction projects, I've looked into pre made homes that are fast and sturdy to make .hope everything goes well with you both
This same issue is happening here in Sth Australia, Good luck Paul, the bonus in this video is that Baby Mae is representing 🇦🇺, Aussie, the gr8 Green & Gold,
You never know here in the Philippines when you put your hard earned money into the hands of a total thief. Good luck to the both of you. We all get burned sooner or later. I myself. YES many times. "TRUST" could be a terrible word.
Yet you feel safe there, although being a constant target?
Dang Paul!! God Bless you!
I am on Siquijor island, and will return to Dumaguete today or tomorrow. Then Bangkok Christmas Eve or day. Would be great to see y’all if out and about.
Paul , this guy has real issues. Please block him because I’m not sure how. Only full respect for you and your channel.
Hmm…Paul, you being in the Retail Auto Industry during your career I’m surprised you didn’t spot the BS/Con in seconds!
Well, at least you weren’t in too deep financially.
What goes around comes around, thank God
You give Paul far too much credit. He’s trained to bs people but he’s on a low level. This is a PROFESSIONAL conman who’s ran cons WORLDWIDE
In the Philippines, if you publish in any media an allegation that can ruin the reputation of "anybody" or harm his business then that "anybody" can sue you in court for LIBEL if your allegation is NOT true. If your allegation is true, then you must file a case and submit evidences against that person in the Philippine court nearest to you. Based on the comments in this forum, it appears that many western expats cannot understand the wisdom in the Philippine law that provides protection to the reputation of persons or companies from those who want to destroy them using mere allegations and trial by publicity. In western media, we read so many personal and political allegations to destroy competitors and opponents using trial by publicity and westerners love the brainwashing and destruction using western media. I consider the Philippine law as fair and better as it punishes people who uses the media to destroy others using trial by publicity and encourages people, if they have evidences, to file a court case.
Paul and Mae being scammed is a terrible feeling and I know what you are going through.
It's time to spend your time and energy moving on to finding a new builder. I have watch many good youtube stories about successful building projects in the philippines and also in Dauis.
Good luck guys stay strong and merry Christmas
Baby May love the shirt
There have been other RUclipsrs scammed aswell. I think one of their names is something like Rubeauty
@nrolo3356 yes so true she bought land
Well you both look good, considering what you’re going through 😎
Need to have the guy charged criminally not civilly. He stole your funds. That’s criminal.
I went thru a similar situation in the USA over a machine a guy sold me and then never returned back to me for repairs. He lied constantly with invented stories and excuses only to buy himself time. Long story short. I got my money back after I charged him with theft for not returning the machine.
Merry Christmas guys! Sorry to hear about you being scammed! I am planning a trip to the Philippines. I will be dropping in Dumaguete in about 3 months to check it out!
I’m glad to see you are doing your due diligence and but it’s heartbreaking to see nice people like you get screwed over by somebody that you know
I once paid $25,000 to have a two storey house built,after 6 years it's a wreck,my mistake was to be absent and trusting.....
Holy crap Paul!!! I thought you knew what you were doing? Did you vet this guy and his background? I might be planning on building in Philippines - but now know that I will look for respectable Filipino builder that can show me examples of his work first…
in the philipeans it goes like this. A brick gets layed , a brick gets paid for. OR you give the downpayment to your lawyer and when something is done , that something is paid for by lawyer.
Start a RUclips channel 🤣 you clearly now more than this guy 🤣
Thank you for your honesty. A lot of people wouldn't talk openly about being ripped off. It doesn't look good for recovering money for everyone. One option might be to get the workers to quit and employ them yourself. However, this would require a good knowledge of building or hiring someone with that knowledge and has the ability to plan the build.
Some people are naive, others are simply stupid. My wife and I have bought 3 properties through reputable real estate companies. They have increased significantly in value over the past 4 years. We also built 3 more commercial properties using local builders - it was during Covid but we paid the guys even though they couldn't work. That ensured we got a good job done.
Thanks, Paul good information. I will always remember this if I decide to build in the Philippines.
Just seen tonight a young black man from Canada getting scammed at kingswick tonight and just stopped by and told him to be careful and the room turned on me even my girlfriend said i was in the wrong none of my business. But if you see someone getting picked pocketed would you just mind your own business
You did the right thing morally but it can be dangerous. Ignore and talk to him privately. It's material that can be regained. It's like snitches get stitches case. Snitch privately
I would tell them to kick rocks. It's none of their business to tell you what to do.
You did the right thing.
Please tell us more about your charity donations to people. Makes you feel good. So keep it coming.
Sorry to hear this,I am lucky my father was a Mason and I worked as a laborer a d know people in the house construction business I got the permits first before even started building and bought and controlled the materials and tools and pay for workers I am just not trusting of people something my father pounded in to my head to be at site everyday all day so I stay on top of the job. I hope everything works out for you I have been coming to Philippines since 1981 and married since1996 here in philippines. Now retired on disability and pension. Pray everything works out for you.
Have someone in the US (who never plans on going to the Philippines) do the review video and at least the warning to others gets out. Obviously leave no connection to yourself.
There are lots of unscrupulous people like this in the United States of America is becoming the norm here now.
Yes but fortunately the US has a functioning judicial system.
@@Matt_T__Dog eat Dog world. Not surprising.
I appreciate your videos…. This persons karma is ruined. Your attitude is excellent.
Paul I’m a expat and live in the same district as you and your friends that are getting ripped off, l will cut to the chase, l and a few friends are willing to make this guy regret ever stepping onto the Philippines….talk to your people and let me know if l should precede, l don’t want nothing in exchange for my services, l spent 30 years in the CIA let me know….brother in arms
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Sorry to hear about your build. My asawa wants me to build our retirement place in Taygaytay next year. I have 35 of construction experience here in the states but I’m still nervous about building in the PI. If I dive in I’ll act as the GC and hire out trades as needed.
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Paul and May, Merry Christmas to a wonderful, honest and kind couple.
Thank you forr always telling your story with truth .
Wisning you both a merry chfistmas !
I love the United States! I am glad I live here! Law and order is getting even better! He sounds like a politician! Lie and deny!
Thank you for the update. Did anyone in town realize this was the person who was on a channel a few years earlier and expressed that their profession was a college professor. Not just in all these countries abroad but at a college in town. How did they make that dramatic career leap from educator to premier house builder in 2 years?
No they didn’t realize. Proof having a RUclips channel doesn’t make you smart 🤣
Love the T-shirt ,Baby Mae
Oi oi oi
Personal Paul so sorry to hear what happened to you guys. I had a brother who build his home. I seen what happened to him. Not nice, I said I wouldn’t build I would buy a house a few years old so you can see movement in the ground and building. Hope all works out of you guys God Bless you both keep up the great videos mate.