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In the previous video u actually debunked the idea of having a blue cut lens is better 😂😂😂. Nice upgrade.. BTW big fan keep doing good about ur topics❤
Dating has become a competition nowadays. People don't want someone who is suitable for them and can form a genuine connection but a person who can keep them entertained for longer time like a clown in a circus.
@@ryugaop06 because of social media... Now people have many choices, if I ever get into any serious relationship, I'll delete all the social media and only commit to my partner... Also social media creates fake expectations which spoils relationships
Apne hi generation se generation gap feel hota hai.. Friends call me 'boring' as they're busy in hookups, double triple dating, one night stand, friends with benefits while I'm still searching for old-school love
I am a 25 year old GEN-Z guy. I have been forever single and virgin. Never been into dating and hookup. I only want either meaningful relationship or I would go for Arranged Marriage
It's not just GenZ but for almost all ages. It's just that GenZ are able to talk about this more using social media. Loneliness has always been an issue, it just wasn't one that was made worse by social media before.
Older generations were community oriented. But we destroyed that, in the name of destroying patriarchy. Well, it was unequal in power, but with unequal responsibilities. Today, we have equal power, but unequal responsibilities. And men are having same responsibilities as before, but less power compared to before.
Disagree brother, ofcourse social media pe hoga yeh but if you took the time and developed your personality you would find things differently. I've seen it personally. A famous such example is Patrice o neal.
Hookup culture is for women and for those men who have looks like Greek gods. Rest of us men, well, we just have to accept that dating in this country is a party where we were never invited.
As a gen z I thankfully don't follow any so called gen z norm I am a proud Hindu I respect my parents,elders and country I hate western culture I hate relationship shit
Cheating is not a western concept. It exists in all countries and cultures. Before Indians used to cheat in secret and now due to social media they're getting caught.
It's better to buy a gaming PC to have fun and pass the time rather than wasting your time, money, and energy on self-centered Gen Z individuals. These Gen Z folks can drain your energy, time, and resources. Instead, focus on achieving something meaningful in your life. Eat healthy food, exercise regularly, read books, and become a lifelong learner. Spend less than you earn, live a simple life, and avoid showing off. Avoid toxic people,toxic food, and toxic drugs. Keep your life private, limit social media use, and avoid multitasking. Explore mountains, go hiking, and concentrate on increasing your earnings and making long-term investments. Be a high-quality person, and the right person will come into your life naturally. Don’t chase them, attract them.
dog is also a good option........... may be dog can be helpful in maintaining workout consistency like walking, playing........... cz fellow mates also sometimes may be lazy also😅
I'm 28 and I met this girl in tinder. Talking to her felt like there's no girl more understanding than her and I started liking her. Eventually we fell in love and started dreaming about our future. She was very transparent with me and always shared with me details about his male friends with whom she used to talk and they were just friends. But since she was my gf i used to feel jealous of her talking to other guys late night. I still kept consoling myself that they are just her friends. Today she broke up with me saying I'm not good enough and not understanding enough and that this breakup will also affect her emotionally. I hope she is happy wherever and with whoever she is.
Girl with male friends: ✅️ Girls with male besties and friends with benefits: ❌️ Ladko k liye v applicable hai kyuki un haramiyo k wajah se hi tumhari bandi tumko chhodke jaa rhi hai
Golden word is : jisko bhot saare partners change karne ki aadat lag chuki hai vo kabhi bhi ek ke sath settle nahi hoga that's why you should never choose partner who have more then 1-2 relationship in past
Truuee😂😂, Back in our Clg in Bangalore we just edited our friend's face to make him look like a girl(and a hot one too😂) It got 2000+ swipes on Bumble in like 3 hrs. And the studiest stud of our batch got only 2 😔😂
I've been trying to date someone here in Mumbai for a week and still got zero matches and I'm 5'10 guy with good looks 😅the dating scenario is shitty for us boys
Hmm...as a millenial guy i can give an advice to you GenZ guys from my experience. I have remained single for several years (partially by choice) and have been with women of different countries as well. Hoping this comment don't get deleted 1. Problem with indian boys is severe lack so self confidence and self respect......this isn't just a genZ thing..... generations older than us were biggest smps u will find anywhere in world. Most indian boys are badly beaten and shouted at homes&schools...guilt-tripped by parents and almost never have money till they start earning..... keeping them out of any dating possibility. 2. Indian boys have scarcity mentality cos of pt.1 and are largely desperate to get any gurl possible in younger years(since their thinking is ...."bhai koi nhi mil rhi koi to mil jaye"). 3.No one admires someone who rolls on floor infront of them.. movies like those of SRK &their scarcity mindset makes most indian boys basically roll on floor in front of girls to be with them just for outing......those girls obviously dont respect such guys and take full advantage in draining their money. 4. One simple solution that had worked for me is....... have self -respect and improve yr looks/personality...be fun to be around.vAnd dont have any expectations....if some girls come well&good else dont chase....no one likes a dumb chaser.. bollywood has lies to you. 5. Dont listen to advice of men over 40 yrs age....be it that acharya or that gurgaon property seller uncle...they are caught in their prism of when they were desperate youngsters...and superimpose it on u guys Also their main aim largely is to get praise from neighbours(like jethalal). 6. once u start getting lot of physical rel, u start realising it isn't as exclusive as ppl around u make it out to be. Better watch corn to get satisfied when u have no one (dont overdo it),play games with homies.....lewrn to enjoy by yourself, that's almost like a superpower. 7. Indian society dont care AT ALL about men in age 18-35... including relatives. Everyone wants u to either give them your money or your effort....and in return can only give u emotional manipulation/shaming in return. Find your hobbies and people that genuinely can help u if situation gets tough(like rwal close friends).
apna philosophy simple hai, Do not go on social media to search a partner. Do not date someone whom you don't know personally. Either stay single or propose to someone whom you know personally, classmate or colleagues.
@@cam0987 i don't agree best is talk with them slowly slowly ask for marriage and have self respect don't be desperate that's it and don't feel bad because of broke up from other side
Porn ko reality maanne se yahi hoga. Wo fantasy hai, "artwork" hai, usko waise hi dekho. Jo log is baat ko samajhte hai, wo ya to porn nhi dekhenge or agar dekhenge v to movie ki tarah isko imaginary samjhkar dekhke mazey leke chhod denge
@@comrade_marshal hana yaar lekin isme humare education ki bhi galti hai bachon ko sex education nahi dete iss wajah se bache porn ko hi sex education maan lete hai toh jitna gen z bachon ki galti hai utni humare system or thinking ki bi hai
Unbiased youtuber is back All jokes apart, india has serious issues of loneliness, it all starts from the roots Also these dating companies know they have a big market in India, and are exploiting that to the fullest
Loneliness epidemic in Japan is more overhyped because it's Japan and it will get more views in social media. Every country has this problem but majority indians doesn't address this issue, meanwhile saying we are traditional. I know several people who are cheating even thou they are married and has few year old kid. Both husband and wife are cheating but they had to stay together because of parents of both sides. Cheating is also a problem, also majority of cheaters doesn't get caught.
Relatable! It happened with me during lockdown. Every word of your, I have experienced personally. I got reality check in 2021. Instead of cursing those moments, I cherish the, those time taught me a lot and today I am away from all kinds of toxic Gen-z things including social media, focused on my career and soon will be joining government job.
The biggest reason behind this 'loneliness' epidemic in every country is that people have become very entitled and rude. If people were just kinder to each other and less self-interested there wouldn't be this problem
Mera toh simple hai naa kabhi insta,fb, Snapchat chlaya or dating site toh kya hii bawaseer चीज hai So seedha baat jo ladki insta, fb ye sab bawasir nhi chalati hogi or well mannered cultured girl hogi whi meri bandi hogi simple as that 🙏
I only heard these words in foreigners' scary dating stories lol never thought these will reach India so soon. And I live in a tier 2 city tho its close to Mumbai so might be that's why
I am tired and fucked up with this shit. I am an complete old school amongst a bunch of GenZ so it's becoming next to impossible to find people or even a partner/bestfriend of the same mentality who is like old school becaue for me my close one's being of GenZ mentality going to clubbing is something I can't tolerate. So comment section help me.
As a genZ who don't use any social media and dating apps except for RUclips and whatsapp i don't even know about these relationships terms and coming from a traditional family i have a hope for arrange marriage and feels like a lot better than these days dating culture.
This is how you eventually end up with population crash. There is a survey which says world population is heading towards population crash, all developed countries are facing negative birth rates, India will soon follow this trend. When something as deep and meaningful as a relationship can be sold on an app, human emotions like commitment, love, trust become scarce. Eventually the population looses trust in relationships and prefers to remain single, thus not getting married and no procreation happens, ergo population crash.
@@ayushghosh2000 Partly agree with you but definitely not at the cost of our social fabric. If we lose our trust in the marriage institution, then it's game over for us as a society.
Guys just go out in the world and start travelling. You will really meet many good people with various skills and that will enhance your thinking as well.
Relationship se accha job mei invest kro... vha connections bnao, future mei tumhe hi Kaam ayenge. Fir business khada kro. Relationship se kai guna behtar hai ye
as a gen z mujhe lagta h bc jee se jyada terms toh ek relationship me h 😂. DTR, delulu, solulu, benching, breadcrumbing, situationship, catfished etc, etc btw the only social networking app i use is reddit so i was kinda familiar with these terms also the girl restaurant story originated from reddit
Happy for you mate! Just a word of caution though - life hasn’t happened to both of you yet. That’s all I have to say. Be together through thick and thin.
Also the desirability of a woman is high in that age range slowly getting to its peak and then a rapid decline while the desirability of a man steadily increases till his late 30s or even 40s (if they’re focused on maximizing their stats of course), hence by the time a girl comes to her senses and start looking for a “nice” guy, the nice guy has moved up a level and now vying for girls who are more “desirable” than her. Yeah, it’s a messed up world.
1970s me baal vivah, zabardasti shaadi, too many kids with financial burden, domestic violence, loneliness sb tha bhai, 1970s ka pyaar and 1970s ka filmo wala pyaar are different. Back then there was hardly any concept of love in marriage.
The speed at which you threw all those terms, my mind stopped working. I really feel extremely lucky to be a 90s kid. Golden era! Sahi time pe nikal gaye aur shaadi kar li :D
I left social media’s except RUclips and WhatsApp it’s been 3years. Best decision anyone can take at first there will be urge and loneliness but later on you will live your best life ,a life without anxiety toxicity and things like that. Social media’s are causing from riot to mental illness everything negative mostly more than positive.
You would be surprised my friend. While the problem is a lot bigger in Tier 1 cities, Internet has acted as a great equalizer and the problem of upper echelon has sneakily sipped in the lower tiers as well.
10:57 guys refer to those girls as "wife material," while some girls come and comment, "She's a pick-me." It's disheartening that when a girl tries to uphold values and morals, she gets labeled as a "pick-me."
Those girls labeling a high value woman as pick me are the ones who are of no worth and they too know that. That's why they try to bring the good woman
Senior I am 20 year old I never had a girlfriend, I am single and virgin. Never been into dating and hookups. I really wanted either meaningful relationship or I would go for Arrange Marriage. And I really happy I never been any dating and hookups
I am genZ and I hate these type of social media loves , I believe in offline love mean jab tak koi mil nhi jaata tak too mai shayad single hii rahu koi chata hi nhi hai ki bhar ghume,Samartphone f*ked this generation😢😢
I also used dating apps. It's heavily favoured to girls. It's not for men. I got a match..even then it was horrible. It's much better to have a personal connection. Most preferably at work.
Loneliness is killer. But dont use social media Or dating apps, but pray and pray and pray to God and never ignore the parents when young. They are our backbone they are there with us hameshs. But never treat mama and papa as bad people. Jai hind
"अध्यात्म" Ko apne jeevan ka kendra banao aur Moh , Lob , Kaam , Krodh se chhutkara pao , ...aur Adhyatm Journey shuru karne ka sabse achha marg pustake hoti hai kyuki vo humare soyi hui Chetna ko jaga deti hai ,...So start with Bhagwat Geeta ji ❤ Jai Radhekrishna ❤ May Radheshyam ji show path to Everyone 😊
Well said.....im also a 24 yr old boy & a virgin.....yes i was in relationship but never tried to get intimate with her Now im realising that it was just a attrction thing For us Being born and living in metro cities Its very hard to cope up with disgusting things of society but still god is with us Radhe radhe ❤🕉
That's why i subscribed Open Letter after unsubscribing all RUclipsrs forcing men towards dating apps. I love loneliness, it sucks but way better than being puppet of relationship and dating trap. ❤😂😂
It doesn't affect me at all, because I see this as a game, those who aren't getting it are crying. Better they learn the game before playing. This applies to everywhere in life
@@Red_moon_717 tumse bada chaman koi nahi hai iss duniya me 😊 Past se hi future ka decide hota hai, past se hi character decide hota hai, past se hi decision making samajh aata hai..😊 Shekhar Dhawan, hardik pandya, md shami bhi apni wali ki past ignore Kiya tha 💀
You know the funny thing? I was talking to my friend earlier, and *she* told me that all "good" men are taken, and that men constantly cheat on women because of their "unlimited options" and whatnot - that they don't value their existing relationships. You swap the genders and the story is pretty much the same for us men when we're looking for partners. (Yes we can argue that it's harder for men and all that, but it simply means we're missing the point - everyone sees themselves as the victim and the other side as 'lucky') The sooner we realise that dating apps show us all a warped version of our society, the sooner we realise that these dating apps do not want us to find partners - so that we continue using these apps, the sooner we'll be able to form actual meaningful connections in the real world. That's the problem with the dating culture in our generation.
Maybe dada dadi ka time mere according utna zada modern nhi hoga but atleast love ko love ki hi nazar se dekha jata hai ( im not talking about those rubbish wedding in which ladki ladkey ya ladka ladki ko jaanta hi nhi tha bss 15-16 ki age me shadi hogyi) ustime pe bhi modern loog thay please note that jo ek "healthy" Dating ka concept follow krtey thay
Bhai mai bhi 1999 ka born hu 25 ka hone wala hu iss August mai aur ek baat boluga ki dating apps now a days use for hookup basically sex aur real life mai unki himmat nhi hoti ki woh ek ladki se ta ladke se face to face baat kre kyoki wha paar time effort lgta hai aur inko sirf Johnny sins banna hai
My wife and I first met through Tinder 😂... Never took this app seriously.. but here I met the best person in my life... These apps definitely help... But you've to be careful though 😅😅
Don’t worry guys, money is everything, try to run after money , you won’t even imagine what you get. Live a life happily, you only live once. Why to waste on someone.
I can remember my childhood days ... Every community, gali, mahulla used to have a tea shop or a place where older people used to chat all together.... The ladies used to gossip and the kids used to play together in the grounds .... Even if the neighbour runs out of some spices they used to come and ask for it and it wasn't a shame.... Everybody knew everybody. The mornings were slow with traditional & hindu Sanskritik music & tea , newspapers, some used to practice art & music .... Then they go to study , school, comeback and go straight to the playground.... Those 2-3 hours used to feel like a lot more than that.... Whenever there was a blackout... People used to come out of their homes with " haricanens " a type of lantern... They used to have meaningful conversations,,, older people used to tell meaningful stories to children....not like our time where everything is messed up....no communication at all even with so much communicative mechanism.... It's all machine now ... Not humane 😅
Really guys i got to know a lots today 😅😅 as intro introvert - half and extrovert- half also who only used RUclips & whatsapp person I always feel away from my friend conversation i got to learn some new word to 😅😅
I actually dont know these terms even this genz term even though i am 20 because to be honest i never had any sort of interest in these things and after watching your video i felt i am old 🤣 but seriously i dont know when did these things became so much trendy and i am actually thankful that i dont know these things otherwise i would waste my time on these things as well 😊
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In the previous video u actually debunked the idea of having a blue cut lens is better 😂😂😂. Nice upgrade.. BTW big fan keep doing good about ur topics❤
ये genz genz क्या है ये genz genz 😂😂
Bhai sponsorship itna chhota mention kiya h ki microscope se dekhna pad gya..
Dear brother how Hippocrates you are make sponsor on blue light glass in a video and call it scam in another video 😂
Bhai inka real name kya hai?
Dating has become a competition nowadays. People don't want someone who is suitable for them and can form a genuine connection but a person who can keep them entertained for longer time like a clown in a circus.
😂😂😂😊😅
sab single marenge ham, ye accept kr lo bhai aur kya
Don't include girls in it because they have so many choices, thanks to this simp generation.
No of cheaters increasing in India which is sad .
It's not, it's just present day its much more difficult to hide as everyone is connected to social media
area bhai PUBG me bhi bht cheaters h aaj kl
hd h
calm down its satireeeee
@@Dli230exactly, if anything people are getting caught and are not forced to stay in relationships with cheaters
@@ryugaop06 because of social media...
Now people have many choices, if I ever get into any serious relationship, I'll delete all the social media and only commit to my partner...
Also social media creates fake expectations which spoils relationships
@@0ptic0p22😂😂
Apne hi generation se generation gap feel hota hai..
Friends call me 'boring' as they're busy in hookups, double triple dating, one night stand, friends with benefits while I'm still searching for old-school love
Same here. Friends call me boring because I don't like smoking and drinking. Still because of peer pressure I did
@@UnknownNight-u5l same here..
I had to drink in peer pressure
@@UnknownNight-u5lI never did. Koo pressure mujhe hila nahi sakta 🗿😎
@@UnknownNight-u5l same here..
I had to drink because of peer pressure
Mera v same haal he vii😢.......old school love khojte khojte me khud old hota jaa rha hu
Dating app users 🤡
Guys who never installed 🗿
@@kunalborkarksb9554 guys who use Discord and Reddit: 🗿
Kid first clear ur 10th grade 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Jsjsjxjxjxnxnsskkznxnx tumne clear karke bhi kya ukhaad liya ? Ab bhi bhikhari hi hai na 😂
@@chanakya6735 yea bro like you
We use online video calling app 😅😅
Excess of Social Media creates "FOMO" among its users. 💯💯
fomo means
Fear of missing out@@officialgamer6763
@@officialgamer6763Fear of missing out
Fear of missing out @@officialgamer6763
@@officialgamer6763 it means "Fear of Missing Out", and is spelt as "Bakchod log"
Never downloaded any dating apps 🗿
Me 🗿
Also me 🗿( kya mtlb uske liye pehle 18+ hona pdta hai )
Yes.
@@sanatanithings +1
Isi baat ka ghamand hai🗿
I am a 25 year old GEN-Z guy. I have been forever single and virgin. Never been into dating and hookup. I only want either meaningful relationship or I would go for Arranged Marriage
Sotti?😂
Always see the girls past before arranging marriage. Never trust west bengal girls
Marriage is a trap to loot alimony 🤑 Maintenance 🤑 Property 🤑 child support 🤑
Or paid sex?
খুব ভালো 🙏👍
People are connected online but not offline.
Disconnected society
Fault of people or weak men who don't try
@@janiajain4618 tier 2 talks
@@janiajain4618 wow weak men who don't try but why men should try women are not trustworthy anymore
It's not just GenZ but for almost all ages. It's just that GenZ are able to talk about this more using social media. Loneliness has always been an issue, it just wasn't one that was made worse by social media before.
He said genz way of dating! When he was talking about loneliness, he included all
True
Lol genz defending genz🥲
Older generations were community oriented. But we destroyed that, in the name of destroying patriarchy. Well, it was unequal in power, but with unequal responsibilities.
Today, we have equal power, but unequal responsibilities. And men are having same responsibilities as before, but less power compared to before.
Then build social skills to talk and make friends par nahi tumko sab ko toh Rand banna hai
Bro i am 28 and i have been living in Bangalore since 2022 , these apps are made for good looking people , if you are ugly you will be loyal.
💯
Womp womp
Ofcourse
Its basic commonsense
Disagree brother, ofcourse social media pe hoga yeh but if you took the time and developed your personality you would find things differently. I've seen it personally. A famous such example is Patrice o neal.
I am never lonely Krishna is always with me who taught me the real meaning of love
(love means selfless devotion)
Hare Krishna
Bhai aap apne aap ko devote kr do work mein 16 16 ghnte kaam kro 😊😊😊
Hare krishna dandvat pranam
Hare Krishna
Congrats. ..U on best path,So good u can't even imagine
Hare krishna ❤💖💖💖🫀🫀🫀
Jay brahmachari
Acharya bano bhailog
Guru ya pandit bhi ban sakte ho
Lack of self respect and control over own mind is the cause.
Hookup culture is for women and for those men who have looks like Greek gods. Rest of us men, well, we just have to accept that dating in this country is a party where we were never invited.
real
For real bro.😢
Ugly looking , dark skinned and poor people like me feels like i am not one of those people.😢
Better to dive into spirituality ❤
Not this country, everywhere
@@Yalla_Habibi_Cat1 if anyone is ugly and/or poor, they should always stay away from dating apps. Dark skin is a different issue
As a gen z I thankfully don't follow any so called gen z norm
I am a proud Hindu
I respect my parents,elders and country
I hate western culture
I hate relationship shit
Sahi haii
Great. Appreciate that! I have the same ideology too.
Cheating is not a western concept. It exists in all countries and cultures. Before Indians used to cheat in secret and now due to social media they're getting caught.
Ur on best path. ..Jai shree krishna 🫀🫀🫀
Hindu with no caste
Proud Indian he might be 👍
But indian system is 👺💩
It's better to buy a gaming PC to have fun and pass the time rather than wasting your time, money, and energy on self-centered Gen Z individuals. These Gen Z folks can drain your energy, time, and resources. Instead, focus on achieving something meaningful in your life. Eat healthy food, exercise regularly, read books, and become a lifelong learner. Spend less than you earn, live a simple life, and avoid showing off. Avoid toxic people,toxic food, and toxic drugs. Keep your life private, limit social media use, and avoid multitasking. Explore mountains, go hiking, and concentrate on increasing your earnings and making long-term investments. Be a high-quality person, and the right person will come into your life naturally. Don’t chase them, attract them.
that's the spirit no one can stop us 😊😊
Gaming yeah bro Iike it but no money 😅😢
@@soumyadipM6627😭😭😭 No money No Gaming 😭😭😭
dog is also a good option........... may be dog can be helpful in maintaining workout consistency like walking, playing........... cz fellow mates also sometimes may be lazy also😅
@@soumyadipM6627😭😭😭😭😭 No money No Gaming
Never use Dating apps and never accept someone past
Yupp
Admin ne jaan bhujke comments like nhi kiya
Right 👍
Past is subjective I think.
A good person could be unlucky, be cautious.
💯
I'm 28 and I met this girl in tinder. Talking to her felt like there's no girl more understanding than her and I started liking her. Eventually we fell in love and started dreaming about our future. She was very transparent with me and always shared with me details about his male friends with whom she used to talk and they were just friends. But since she was my gf i used to feel jealous of her talking to other guys late night. I still kept consoling myself that they are just her friends. Today she broke up with me saying I'm not good enough and not understanding enough and that this breakup will also affect her emotionally. I hope she is happy wherever and with whoever she is.
💔
You should be aware of forming relationships with those girls who have male best friend. It is a red flag for you.
Male best friends hi red flag tha bhai😅
@@bhardwajsourabh4 girls with male besties are always red flag
Girl with male friends: ✅️
Girls with male besties and friends with benefits: ❌️
Ladko k liye v applicable hai kyuki un haramiyo k wajah se hi tumhari bandi tumko chhodke jaa rhi hai
Golden word is : jisko bhot saare partners change karne ki aadat lag chuki hai vo kabhi bhi ek ke sath settle nahi hoga that's why you should never choose partner who have more then 1-2 relationship in past
Me ye dabe ke sath bol saktu hu apa ye batt sirf larkiyo ke lagu he..me ye soch ko samaj saktahu
yes
@@avishekpati2589 but girls ko bhi to player chahiye hote hai.
*Never been in a relationship. Now this is the Best
@@lookeshdas455same I'm 20
Truuee😂😂, Back in our Clg in Bangalore we just edited our friend's face to make him look like a girl(and a hot one too😂)
It got 2000+ swipes on Bumble in like 3 hrs.
And the studiest stud of our batch got only 2 😔😂
😂😂😂😂
@@pranshu_Tewari tu hi vo darinda 🤣🤣🤣🤣jo ladko ka chutiya kaatta tha. 🤣🤣🤣
Boys ki desperation show karti hai ye
😂
I've been trying to date someone here in Mumbai for a week and still got zero matches and I'm 5'10 guy with good looks 😅the dating scenario is shitty for us boys
Hmm...as a millenial guy i can give an advice to you GenZ guys from my experience.
I have remained single for several years (partially by choice) and have been with women of different countries as well.
Hoping this comment don't get deleted
1. Problem with indian boys is severe lack so self confidence and self respect......this isn't just a genZ thing..... generations older than us were biggest smps u will find anywhere in world. Most indian boys are badly beaten and shouted at homes&schools...guilt-tripped by parents and almost never have money till they start earning..... keeping them out of any dating possibility.
2. Indian boys have scarcity mentality cos of pt.1 and are largely desperate to get any gurl possible in younger years(since their thinking is ...."bhai koi nhi mil rhi koi to mil jaye").
3.No one admires someone who rolls on floor infront of them.. movies like those of SRK &their scarcity mindset makes most indian boys basically roll on floor in front of girls to be with them just for outing......those girls obviously dont respect such guys and take full advantage in draining their money.
4. One simple solution that had worked for me is....... have self -respect and improve yr looks/personality...be fun to be around.vAnd dont have any expectations....if some girls come well&good else dont chase....no one likes a dumb chaser.. bollywood has lies to you.
5. Dont listen to advice of men over 40 yrs age....be it that acharya or that gurgaon property seller uncle...they are caught in their prism of when they were desperate youngsters...and superimpose it on u guys Also their main aim largely is to get praise from neighbours(like jethalal).
6. once u start getting lot of physical rel, u start realising it isn't as exclusive as ppl around u make it out to be. Better watch corn to get satisfied when u have no one (dont overdo it),play games with homies.....lewrn to enjoy by yourself, that's almost like a superpower.
7. Indian society dont care AT ALL about men in age 18-35... including relatives. Everyone wants u to either give them your money or your effort....and in return can only give u emotional manipulation/shaming in return.
Find your hobbies and people that genuinely can help u if situation gets tough(like rwal close friends).
apna philosophy simple hai, Do not go on social media to search a partner. Do not date someone whom you don't know personally.
Either stay single or propose to someone whom you know personally, classmate or colleagues.
As girl, I agree
@@cam0987 i don't agree best is talk with them slowly slowly ask for marriage and have self respect don't be desperate that's it and don't feel bad because of broke up from other side
Gen z ka ek problem hai ki dating mai love partner ki jagah sexual attraction hai kyunki porn ne dimag kharab kar rakha hai
yes, one of the primary factors is porn addiction and exposure to pornography from a young age
@@viktori9p895absolutely true
@@viktori9p895
Social media is more dengerous than corn
Porn ko reality maanne se yahi hoga. Wo fantasy hai, "artwork" hai, usko waise hi dekho. Jo log is baat ko samajhte hai, wo ya to porn nhi dekhenge or agar dekhenge v to movie ki tarah isko imaginary samjhkar dekhke mazey leke chhod denge
@@comrade_marshal hana yaar lekin isme humare education ki bhi galti hai bachon ko sex education nahi dete iss wajah se bache porn ko hi sex education maan lete hai toh jitna gen z bachon ki galti hai utni humare system or thinking ki bi hai
well I'm also 18 years old and belong to Gen-z but I don't even know half of the terms....thank God I have never been in such types of situation
Same bro 😊
Your in my group great that not every person is running behind competition
@@RituKumari-gm7re han bro
Unbiased youtuber is back
All jokes apart, india has serious issues of loneliness, it all starts from the roots
Also these dating companies know they have a big market in India, and are exploiting that to the fullest
Social media is taking people away from real friends...
Loneliness epidemic in Japan is more overhyped because it's Japan and it will get more views in social media.
Every country has this problem but majority indians doesn't address this issue, meanwhile saying we are traditional.
I know several people who are cheating even thou they are married and has few year old kid. Both husband and wife are cheating but they had to stay together because of parents of both sides.
Cheating is also a problem, also majority of cheaters doesn't get caught.
Thank God i don't have that's problem in my house but I hope i don't have to see this fat e
I'm loyal willing i don't want to be gulam
They are lonely bcz they don't live with their family and most don't even marry or have kids , japans declining population is no joke
Relatable! It happened with me during lockdown. Every word of your, I have experienced personally. I got reality check in 2021. Instead of cursing those moments, I cherish the, those time taught me a lot and today I am away from all kinds of toxic Gen-z things including social media, focused on my career and soon will be joining government job.
The biggest reason behind this 'loneliness' epidemic in every country is that people have become very entitled and rude. If people were just kinder to each other and less self-interested there wouldn't be this problem
True
Reels or Tiktok Banane Wali se kabhi sadi mat karo Sirf Video Dekhne mei atchi lagti hai asli zindagi mei barbad ho jayegi
Reels or tiktok pr video banne wale ladke se kabhi shadi mat karo, zindagi barbad ho jayegi, pata hi nhi chalega ki ek sath wo kitni ko chala rha he
Mera toh simple hai naa kabhi insta,fb, Snapchat chlaya or dating site toh kya hii bawaseer चीज hai
So seedha baat jo ladki insta, fb ye sab bawasir nhi chalati hogi or well mannered cultured girl hogi whi meri bandi hogi simple as that 🙏
Dono seh hi sadi mat karo.
@@Nobodyyy20tumhari itni kyun jaal rahi 😂
@@ShuklaJiihaibhaibandi ya biwi yeh fix karle 😂
Ye benching
Breadcrumbing
Pata nhi kon konse word maine pehli baar sune
Though I live in South Delhi
😂😂
Uss bhai mai bhi pahli baar suna aur sun je lga ki ye benching to baithana hogya 😂
Ye words ka mostly girls ko pta hota hai kyuki ye sab girls side se hi jayda introduced hota hai
Same bro😅😅😅
bhai ye benching to suna thaa par ye dusra wala kya hai 😅
I only heard these words in foreigners' scary dating stories lol never thought these will reach India so soon. And I live in a tier 2 city tho its close to Mumbai so might be that's why
😂😂Delusionship: pat gayi bhai pat gayi bhai 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Delusionship: Bhai tujhe hi dekh rahi hai bhai...😂😂😅
@sunnyrawal59 kya kya subscribe kiye ho 😅😅24
I am tired and fucked up with this shit. I am an complete old school amongst a bunch of GenZ so it's becoming next to impossible to find people or even a partner/bestfriend of the same mentality who is like old school becaue for me my close one's being of GenZ mentality going to clubbing is something I can't tolerate. So comment section help me.
True.. I fcking I hate clubbing
Same man 😢
Bhai same mein bhi apki mentality ka hu ek kam karte apan dono friend ban jaate apni insta id do apko follow karta hu
Kisi chote city se ladki search kro tho sayad mil sakti hai old school type
Wese tho ladkiyo k matter me same pattern hi chlta hai
@@Neetukumari-qz2ke looks avg ki chahiye.. aadmi shai honi chahiye bass
I am a GenZ woman but never did those things. Its my pride
As a genZ who don't use any social media and dating apps except for RUclips and whatsapp i don't even know about these relationships terms and coming from a traditional family i have a hope for arrange marriage and feels like a lot better than these days dating culture.
Arrange Marriage is a Scam.
Arrange marriage is curse
Not knowing your partner is worst mistake
This is how you eventually end up with population crash. There is a survey which says world population is heading towards population crash, all developed countries are facing negative birth rates, India will soon follow this trend. When something as deep and meaningful as a relationship can be sold on an app, human emotions like commitment, love, trust become scarce. Eventually the population looses trust in relationships and prefers to remain single, thus not getting married and no procreation happens, ergo population crash.
India badly needs it. Look at our population man 140cr it's not a joke india desperately needs a population crash😂
@@ayushghosh2000 Partly agree with you but definitely not at the cost of our social fabric. If we lose our trust in the marriage institution, then it's game over for us as a society.
India me stability chaiye decline ho gya toh bhari nuksan bhi ho sakta jab rapid crash hoga
Excellent message tosave Indian Boys....good job Bro...
Guys just go out in the world and start travelling. You will really meet many good people with various skills and that will enhance your thinking as well.
@@prasadmankar7650 Bhai Haryana -Himachal Roadways ka conductor hoon aur Kitna travel karun
I won't let this generation define me or my values.
job nhi, dost nhi, bandi nhi, paise nhi pta nhi kya hoga ab
Bhai paise honay chahaiyea baaki sab to optional hai...
@@N7_YES abh bhai generational wealth to h nhi to jobs pe hi to mirbhar rhenge na (jo ki h nhi)
Relationship se accha job mei invest kro... vha connections bnao, future mei tumhe hi Kaam ayenge. Fir business khada kro. Relationship se kai guna behtar hai ye
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@@saiyanfriendshekhar5832 har koi job karega toh job me kon lga sab naukr thodi ban sakte 😢
as a gen z mujhe lagta h bc jee se jyada terms toh ek relationship me h 😂. DTR, delulu, solulu, benching, breadcrumbing, situationship, catfished etc, etc
btw the only social networking app i use is reddit so i was kinda familiar with these terms
also the girl restaurant story originated from reddit
And I listened first time through this video
Most scary stories have their origins either from reddit or 4chan (Japanese website)
Itna wahiyat terms hai
कड़वी सच्चाई का मतलब है open letter ❤️!
I am 20 rn, and glad to say i don't use any of these dating apps.. Still able to find my girl.
Happy for you mate! Just a word of caution though - life hasn’t happened to both of you yet. That’s all I have to say. Be together through thick and thin.
I think terms like benching and breadcrumbing are more used by women who actually have an excess of options unlike men who have none.
Lenskart ka promotion thora casual tha 😂😂
The prime age of men/women say 18-25 gets wasted in this bullshit and all their potential which can be used to achieve higher goals will be lost too.
Also the desirability of a woman is high in that age range slowly getting to its peak and then a rapid decline while the desirability of a man steadily increases till his late 30s or even 40s (if they’re focused on maximizing their stats of course), hence by the time a girl comes to her senses and start looking for a “nice” guy, the nice guy has moved up a level and now vying for girls who are more “desirable” than her. Yeah, it’s a messed up world.
@@OrangeDurito I'll be responsible about that 😜 no time waste on hook up culture
Im genz , a doctor and 26 now ,and dating my princess ,we met in 3rd class .
Its been 18 years❤❤
Get married dude 😭❤️
Gen Z hoke bhu relate nahi kar pata😂
Mujhe chahiye 1970s ka pyarr
Right bro 😢
Chal Bhai, Time travel karte hai.
@@pranavchaudhari5828 chal karte hai
1970s me baal vivah, zabardasti shaadi, too many kids with financial burden, domestic violence, loneliness sb tha bhai, 1970s ka pyaar and 1970s ka filmo wala pyaar are different. Back then there was hardly any concept of love in marriage.
Mein bhi yhi soch rakhta hu
Neverever I downloaded a dating app as a Gen-z girl
Iam in 7year relationship with my gf, and we trust each other,
Starting from graduation 😊
Good luck
14 years relationship, and continue.......since feb 2010........
The speed at which you threw all those terms, my mind stopped working. I really feel extremely lucky to be a 90s kid. Golden era! Sahi time pe nikal gaye aur shaadi kar li :D
Dating App kabhi use Na karne ka ghamand hai 🗿
I left social media’s except RUclips and WhatsApp it’s been 3years. Best decision anyone can take at first there will be urge and loneliness but later on you will live your best life ,a life without anxiety toxicity and things like that.
Social media’s are causing from riot to mental illness everything negative mostly more than positive.
Ghosting toh kafi purani term hai. Mere sath ye 10-12 saal pehle hua hai😂
As far as I can see, this is the problem of only the metro and a few other big cities. Especially slightly upper middle class and above
You would be surprised my friend. While the problem is a lot bigger in Tier 1 cities, Internet has acted as a great equalizer and the problem of upper echelon has sneakily sipped in the lower tiers as well.
10:57 guys refer to those girls as "wife material," while some girls come and comment, "She's a pick-me." It's disheartening that when a girl tries to uphold values and morals, she gets labeled as a "pick-me."
Those girls labeling a high value woman as pick me are the ones who are of no worth and they too know that. That's why they try to bring the good woman
@@adityanandan19 yeah that's right
Dear MEN, Don't Marry, Marriage is a Lifelong Honeytrap
Agreed
The transition from important topic to an ad was as seamless as a GenZ girl left-swiping someone.
Senior I am 20 year old I never had a girlfriend, I am single and virgin. Never been into dating and hookups. I really wanted either meaningful relationship or I would go for Arrange Marriage. And I really happy I never been any dating and hookups
Same with me. I am also 20 years old. Never Interact with Any Girl
@@AryanChawla27 same kahi hame bhi used product naa mil jaye.
Mujhe yah to pata tha ki dating app jaisa bhi kuchh hota Hai, but Itna sab kuchh hota hai yahan ye nahin pata tha thanks bhai
To be serious guys if you (Male) want a partner (gf/bf) be better day by day 👍🏻
Bro this is your strength..make these kind of videos ❤
People meeting through matrimonial apps also experience benching, breadcrumbing and ghoshting. They r competing with dating apps
According to me, the first thing of having a meaningful relationship is not using social media.
At 1:41 I was sure that you will do lenskart ad 😅
Bhai mai bhi Gen-Z hu but itta toh mujhe bhi nhi pta tha... Kya kya chl ra hai bhai market me😮
I am genZ and I hate these type of social media loves , I believe in offline love mean jab tak koi mil nhi jaata tak too mai shayad single hii rahu koi chata hi nhi hai ki bhar ghume,Samartphone f*ked this generation😢😢
I also used dating apps.
It's heavily favoured to girls.
It's not for men.
I got a match..even then it was horrible.
It's much better to have a personal connection. Most preferably at work.
Loneliness is killer. But dont use social media Or dating apps, but pray and pray and pray to God and never ignore the parents when young. They are our backbone they are there with us hameshs. But never treat mama and papa as bad people. Jai hind
Bruh be with animals bruh animals are better then women and men these days that's all and don't give a shi about others if u feel lonely simple
"अध्यात्म" Ko apne jeevan ka kendra banao aur Moh , Lob , Kaam , Krodh se chhutkara pao , ...aur Adhyatm Journey shuru karne ka sabse achha marg pustake hoti hai kyuki vo humare soyi hui Chetna ko jaga deti hai ,...So start with Bhagwat Geeta ji ❤ Jai Radhekrishna ❤ May Radheshyam ji show path to Everyone 😊
Well said.....im also a 24 yr old boy & a virgin.....yes i was in relationship but never tried to get intimate with her
Now im realising that it was just a attrction thing
For us Being born and living in metro cities
Its very hard to cope up with disgusting things of society but still god is with us
Radhe radhe ❤🕉
Skip ad 2:57
धन्यवाद भाई
Lol
Dekh liye tab bata rhe ho😅
Dating at teenager or early 25 is just headache and disturbing. Even after GenZ i still can't relate lol.
That's why i subscribed Open Letter after unsubscribing all RUclipsrs forcing men towards dating apps. I love loneliness, it sucks but way better than being puppet of relationship and dating trap. ❤😂😂
Smoothest promotion integration i hv ever seen 😂😂👌👌 impressed by this more than lenskart 😅
Who don't know about dating apps
Respect bhai 🗿😂
Kekin ab pata chal gaya😂
Hats off to u r topic selection
Say no to dating apps
Yeah seriously just go and talk to a real woman
@@jewelsofjuly7377confidence nahi hai bro
be sigma 🗿
@@mit-qw8is be a man not a sigma ✅️
It doesn't affect me at all, because I see this as a game, those who aren't getting it are crying. Better they learn the game before playing. This applies to everywhere in life
Aree bc fir toh iss game me top rank pe Janna padega
Meri wali toh Mummy layegi 🤗❤️
ye badiya ta😂
Seal v tuti hogi... With full of past
@@mdtarique8486 tera past clean hai kya be?
@@Red_moon_717 tumse bada chaman koi nahi hai iss duniya me 😊
Past se hi future ka decide hota hai, past se hi character decide hota hai, past se hi decision making samajh aata hai..😊
Shekhar Dhawan, hardik pandya, md shami bhi apni wali ki past ignore Kiya tha 💀
@@Red_moon_717 oo phir to thik hai, mujhe laga tera past clean hai
Waise hua kya tha.. dhokha khaya kya, love marriage pe aur bharosa nahi?
You know the funny thing? I was talking to my friend earlier, and *she* told me that all "good" men are taken, and that men constantly cheat on women because of their "unlimited options" and whatnot - that they don't value their existing relationships.
You swap the genders and the story is pretty much the same for us men when we're looking for partners.
(Yes we can argue that it's harder for men and all that, but it simply means we're missing the point - everyone sees themselves as the victim and the other side as 'lucky')
The sooner we realise that dating apps show us all a warped version of our society, the sooner we realise that these dating apps do not want us to find partners - so that we continue using these apps, the sooner we'll be able to form actual meaningful connections in the real world.
That's the problem with the dating culture in our generation.
Maybe dada dadi ka time mere according utna zada modern nhi hoga but atleast love ko love ki hi nazar se dekha jata hai ( im not talking about those rubbish wedding in which ladki ladkey ya ladka ladki ko jaanta hi nhi tha bss 15-16 ki age me shadi hogyi) ustime pe bhi modern loog thay please note that jo ek "healthy" Dating ka concept follow krtey thay
Your video topics, editing and storytelling are excellent bro ❤❤
Bhai mai bhi 1999 ka born hu 25 ka hone wala hu iss August mai aur ek baat boluga ki dating apps now a days use for hookup basically sex aur real life mai unki himmat nhi hoti ki woh ek ladki se ta ladke se face to face baat kre kyoki wha paar time effort lgta hai aur inko sirf Johnny sins banna hai
you're very talented, you merged the Lenskart Ad so seamlessly, we didn;t knew we're watching the ad, till you told about the link
bhai genz hokr bhi ye terms ka koi idea ni tha... thanks for sharing 😂😂
Uss bruh😛
same
Ye mostly ladkiyo ko pta hota hai kyuki ye words ladki side se hi introduced hote hai
I am Zellenial born between 1993-1999...❤❤❤
Government ko Dating App Ban Karna Chahiye............
Lol
Benching breadcrumbing selulu baat aur ghosting ek dum real hai 🙋
Meanwhile I'm Playing Battlefield 1 instead of these useless shit
nice
IGI 2 khel rha hu aaj v
@@comrade_marshal Badhiya bhai
Thankfully people are walking away from dating apps and mixers are going to be popular again. Very good revolution for both men and women.
itna green flag ho gaya hu ki bachpan ke drawing ke piche wale jungle me kho sa gaya hu…..
koi dekhtai hi nehi hai
Your line touched my heart bro😂🙌
wah kya baat kahi hai bhai
@@VicksVepora 😅😅😅 seena cheer ke dekho laal khun hi niklega…..
lekin dil se hara hu 🥲🥲
@@anirbanpal4090 us bro us😂😂
that's why i follow elder peoples(like you bhaiya) not so called influencers
My wife and I first met through Tinder 😂... Never took this app seriously.. but here I met the best person in my life... These apps definitely help... But you've to be careful though 😅😅
Wowwww......you r so lucky ❤
Don’t worry guys, money is everything, try to run after money , you won’t even imagine what you get. Live a life happily, you only live once. Why to waste on someone.
The most happiest experience is Lonelyness....enjoy the happiness of being alone....
Preach...🙌
yes
Solitude you mean, Loneliness isn't a positive response
That's solitude lol , there is a difference between being alone and being lonely
I can remember my childhood days ... Every community, gali, mahulla used to have a tea shop or a place where older people used to chat all together.... The ladies used to gossip and the kids used to play together in the grounds .... Even if the neighbour runs out of some spices they used to come and ask for it and it wasn't a shame.... Everybody knew everybody.
The mornings were slow with traditional & hindu Sanskritik music & tea , newspapers, some used to practice art & music .... Then they go to study , school, comeback and go straight to the playground.... Those 2-3 hours used to feel like a lot more than that.... Whenever there was a blackout... People used to come out of their homes with " haricanens " a type of lantern... They used to have meaningful conversations,,, older people used to tell meaningful stories to children....not like our time where everything is messed up....no communication at all even with so much communicative mechanism.... It's all machine now ... Not humane 😅
sir your video very imformative❤❤
Reality is brutal for us😢
Thanks for reducing the time ❤
"Pankaj Tripathi Ke Father wale character ki feeling ho Rahi hai" reminded me of the whole series 😅
Really guys i got to know a lots today 😅😅 as intro introvert - half and extrovert- half also who only used RUclips & whatsapp person
I always feel away from my friend conversation i got to learn some new word to 😅😅
In delhi karkadoma and laxmi nagar there are multiple cafes where scam is happening
I actually dont know these terms even this genz term even though i am 20 because to be honest i never had any sort of interest in these things and after watching your video i felt i am old 🤣 but seriously i dont know when did these things became so much trendy and i am actually thankful that i dont know these things otherwise i would waste my time on these things as well 😊