I'm 50, divorced raped eight years ago. NEVER again! The family court industrial complex hates men and it hates families. I lost everything but my underwear. I've recovered, somewhat. Now single, I do what I want, when I want and if I want. I ate cereal for dinner last night and it felt EMPOWERING!
@@nativeamerican1167 It all depends on the intangibles. Do you have children? How long married? Own a home together? Cars? Joint bank accounts? Debt? Etc. Is she being a bitch about everything, or is she cool? You don't know your wife until you meet her in divorce court. Any lawyer will ask you for a minimum $5K down, then your bill goes up if you guys can't settle on things, that means the attorney will be working more on your case. I'd advise to investigate any attorney you want to hire because a lot of them are worthless and will cost you more time and money. I speak from experience. She will try to get you for EVERYTHING!
@@nativeamerican1167The man has to pay by any means he has , my ex got legal aid from daddy govt from start to finish,so she’ll probably end up paying nothing for her legal fees .
I hear the State still has a lein on your old underwear. Curb your enthusiasm. Too much bachelor joy is suspect ... to the Industrial Divorce Complex. 😂
39 here freaking done son done it once for 14 years 22-36 not making the same mistake twice. Got out with no kids or alimony count my blessings and peace. Been a monk for 4 years since 2020 no dates or hookups still to this very day life is more peaceful.
Agree and support the MGTOW movement 100%. As a Woman 60+ yo, I'm appalled at what the educators have done to our youth. They're robbed their lives and destroyed their futures. Not only that, but "marriage" and family laws are entirely unfair, even malicious toward Men.
Yes. Spring has sprung in Southern Alabama. I've got silver queen sweet corn peeking out of the rows in my garden. I use my grandfathers old pre Roundup... Covington planter and cultivator plow paired with my new tractor. Keeps me out of town. Prevents me tude and other tupid tuff.
Yep was married, was a huge mistake, will never do that crap again, no real good reason to ever get married in the US unless you are having kids and if you want kids I wish you good luck. Hopefully you don't end up paying for kids you never see.
I don't think it's just marriage. Dating and relationships also seem to be on the chopping block. And it's not just men. Women are also pushing back with 4B.
I decided not to marry at 16 and 52 now and still single with no kids. How do I feel about it? I am so grateful I was completely right! Live for yourself and grow and never let a woman drag you down!
I’m married, but when it’s over (death is do part) and I’m left standing I won’t ever do it again. But… if you want kids, get married, it’s too hard the other way.
I say it's cheaper to keep her in this day an age, I'm in a sexless marriage obviously, but I told my wife the same thing, I will not do it again and she had the nerve to get mad if she dies 1st, I also told her she made me the man I am today, she took that as an insult
I’m done! To hell with these “modern women” as sad as it is.
I'm 50, divorced raped eight years ago. NEVER again! The family court industrial complex hates men and it hates families. I lost everything but my underwear. I've recovered, somewhat. Now single, I do what I want, when I want and if I want. I ate cereal for dinner last night and it felt EMPOWERING!
Does divorce cost alot?? How do you pay for it?
@@nativeamerican1167 It all depends on the intangibles. Do you have children? How long married? Own a home together? Cars? Joint bank accounts? Debt? Etc. Is she being a bitch about everything, or is she cool? You don't know your wife until you meet her in divorce court. Any lawyer will ask you for a minimum $5K down, then your bill goes up if you guys can't settle on things, that means the attorney will be working more on your case. I'd advise to investigate any attorney you want to hire because a lot of them are worthless and will cost you more time and money. I speak from experience. She will try to get you for EVERYTHING!
@@nativeamerican1167The man has to pay by any means he has , my ex got legal aid from daddy govt from start to finish,so she’ll probably end up paying nothing for her legal fees .
@@nativeamerican1167 $2,000 upfront to start then another $2,000 as it progresses. My niece is going through a divorce right now.
I hear the State still has a lein on your old underwear. Curb your enthusiasm. Too much bachelor joy is suspect ... to the Industrial Divorce Complex. 😂
39 here freaking done son done it once for 14 years 22-36 not making the same mistake twice. Got out with no kids or alimony count my blessings and peace. Been a monk for 4 years since 2020 no dates or hookups still to this very day life is more peaceful.
You sound like a smart man
Yup, I'm done with marriage too. Single life is peaceful :)
Yes. Men are done with marriage.
Agree and support the MGTOW movement 100%. As a Woman 60+ yo, I'm appalled at what the educators have done to our youth. They're robbed their lives and destroyed their futures.
Not only that, but "marriage" and family laws are entirely unfair, even malicious toward Men.
Good for you!
Yes. Spring has sprung in Southern Alabama. I've got silver queen sweet corn peeking out of the rows in my garden. I use my grandfathers old pre Roundup... Covington planter and cultivator plow paired with my new tractor. Keeps me out of town. Prevents me tude and other tupid tuff.
Divorced I filed some 20 years ago to rid myself of a whorrible why-man. Less and less marry each passing year. Marriage is the new buggy whip.
Or wind up with kids you see only on visits supervised by prison guards 😂…
18 year slaves is what those men are .
The juice isn't worth the squeeze and I love my bank account more.....
Done with marriage, dating, women in general...14 years ago. I got a dog and my investment accounts. I'm happy AF now.
Yep was married, was a huge mistake, will never do that crap again, no real good reason to ever get married in the US unless you are having kids and if you want kids I wish you good luck. Hopefully you don't end up paying for kids you never see.
I going through my divorce. Married for 23 years. Never again.
Good luck bro .
Smart men certainly are.
I don't think it's just marriage. Dating and relationships also seem to be on the chopping block. And it's not just men. Women are also pushing back with 4B.
Remember...You can be "right" and still unhappy.
Best part about not being married not having to ask permission to buy things I want Guns, cars, trips, etc.
I decided not to marry at 16 and 52 now and still single with no kids. How do I feel about it? I am so grateful I was completely right! Live for yourself and grow and never let a woman drag you down!
Done? I never even began.
I work with a guy that never began and he is very happy and doing well financially . He just dropped $1800 on a puppy like it was nothing .
It’s sad huh
Marriage=incarceration
I wish I would of been that smart I had to do it twice, but that was almost 31 years ago, freedom for 31
I never even started, 25, will not even touch a women anymore, thanks socialism.
You will always lose money chasing women, but NEVER lose women chasing money.
I’m married, but when it’s over (death is do part) and I’m left standing I won’t ever do it again.
But… if you want kids, get married, it’s too hard the other way.
I say it's cheaper to keep her in this day an age, I'm in a sexless marriage obviously, but I told my wife the same thing, I will not do it again and she had the nerve to get mad if she dies 1st, I also told her she made me the man I am today, she took that as an insult
Nowadays, the things that were there but not quite visible in the 1980’s, are in your face today.
I agree marriage for suckers once and done 💯
I am!
My wife of 18 years divorced me in 2019. Won't get bitten by the same dog twice.
Marriage is a castle built on sand in the modern world .
I'm done with U.
😢 Intelligent men have been done with marriage for a long time😊