Sugar Daddy Hunt: When Young Women Chase Rich Old Men | ENDEVR Documentary
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- Sugar Daddy Hunt: When Young Women Chase Rich Old Men | Sugar Sisters | ENDEVR Documentary
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Sugar Sisters follows Hannah, a queer twenty-something filmmaker, and her two sisters as they explore the globally popular phenomenon of sugar-dating where people in their 20s date older, wealthier men in exchange for money and gifts. Hannah’s exploration into the lucrative life of a sugar baby challenges her morals and feminist ideals as she tries to maintain her personal relationships whilst her satisfying Sugar Daddies.
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The phenomenon has been around forever. The entire marriage market was based on finding someone wealthy. These days we can it sugar daddy, momma, sisters etc. Question is: what’s more honest: an hourly rate or securing a hefty sum when you divorce?
*WAGE*
This is not the point. Just because it is functional and makes you save money, you can't call it progress unless a society is based on values. What are we teaching young generations? We should be teaching them to get a real job, build meaningful relationships and if possible, to raise a family or take care of people they love...not certainly put themselves on sale!
Yeah.. and rich men should give back to society, not buy fancy cars and houses.. and stop judging books by the cover, although being a guy, I know that is hardest of all. There is so much wrong with our society.
Racism has been around forever as well. An evolved society eradicates racism and commodification of women.
@@semprefedeli6729 what is it like to be a control freak? You do not deemed what is acceptable for other people. If you don't like it, don't associate with someone who chooses to do this, not that they would have anything to do with you.
The delusion of these women thinking they're gonna go into that life and come out unharmed
word up
It's just dating.
I agree and it's more than dating if the men are giving the gals a couple hundred bucks for a date.
They are also balancing on a very dangerous fence.
There is no Delusion!
The delusion of these women, thinking that they were going to get paid for just going to dinner. I mean come on, the oldest profession isn't dinner dating 😅
No man pays for "just my attention" ... theres no such thing as a free lunch no matter how pretty you are
If you watch the whole video, literally zero of these girls had sex with the men. So yeah, the lunch was free, the dress was free, the airfare and dinner were too. 😋
You don’t know how lonely and thirsty some men are!
I'd say that's correct. I keep thinking how naive these women are to have thought this in the first place. Then I think how narcissistic they are to continue to try and justify it after it clearly doesn't work that way.
Just to be clear, I have zero qualms about whatever arrangements two consenting adults choose to make. I just think that they need to be more honest with themselves about the choices they are making.
What do I know, though?! Everyone makes their own deals in life and life ain't easy.
Take care and be well.
Not true in many cases. Half these men can’t even get it up.
@@VirgoDluxe exactly. They don’t know men
Quite a bad idea falling in love with a woman who is just waiting for your death.
yeah i don’t think these guys really care because while they’re alive they have the winning hand.
Just like those who exploit those who don't make enough living wages to eat or pay rent This is pitiful and wonder why this is happening?
Most women are waiting for their husband's deaths. That's why you males die before women. That's why there are life insurance. You think that getting married to a woman and having her around and making her pregnant and old is all for NOTHING? Don't kid your self. Relationships are transactional. See if you can get a date with a woman if you are BROKE! You males are only relevant to us when you have money and you are generous with it.
Whose 'falling in love'? It's a total transactional relationship that benefits both with the guy getting exactly what he wants. What a way to go out of this world, with a big smile on your face. All the prude commentators in the chat are comical as fifty percent of marriages based on 'love' fall apart.
@user-ut8yp6lx5b Divorces happen ALL the time yet they still think that love conquers all. Mutual benefits IN any relationship is what conquers ALL.
I chose money aka security💰 over love and I get to enjoy BOTH from my much older husband! 😃💖
25 yrs ago I went to karaoke with friends. I was active duty in the Air Force. I had a WWII (paralyzed) veteran ask the waitress to bring me a drink. I went over to say thank you and he offered me money for sitting and talking to him. I was shocked and saddened by his offer. I declined and explained that I was Air Force and I respected his service to our nation. He was so grateful for my time and attention and in disbelief that I wouldn't accept any money. I have 3 daughters now. I would be DEVASTATED if any one of them became a sugar baby.
Bless you for spending time with a HERO.
He didn't offer you to be a sugar baby.He just wanted to talk.Nothing wrong with that.
@@bobanristic8721exactly & your in public don’t be opionated please no offence
@@bobanristic8721they call it drinky drinky 😂
If your not sleeping with them don’t expect much this doc shoulda been 5 minutes
Yeah, exactly. If these women are not sleeping with the men they can't expect the money.
@@adamh546699% of the ones claiming they get paid "just for their attention" are probably lying lol
Yeah, and let's be honest, these are some straight-up plain Janes, not even hott
@@THOMPSON8787exactly. Kinda ugly
Lol
It took 42: minutes into this documentary for her to even contemplate that sex was a factor in this? No words
Lol
LOL that's why she wasn't able to find a sd for so long - no appeal, no charisma, no brains
Like the majority of young women who’ve claimed to be sugar babies - I think all her friends were lying about what it is to be a sugar baby.I cannot believe it either, that she thought that these older men would just pay her an amount, buy her things & expect nothing in return.
Who would even want them to be their sugar baby, I don't see these girls bringing much value to a relationship, they even look very unkept and these men can be friends with collegues who can give good advice @@NELSONandWIGGLES
Most older men can’t really have sex. I think they date them because they can 😂 I mean why not? I’m 54 and not attracted to people my age or older. I’m widowed. 🤷🏻♀️ who knows who cares!
It's an escort service, plain & simple. The guy wants an attractive young woman, & the young women just want easy money.
It's a blurry line. If they get married, is it still an escort service? Is it an escort service if he gives her money, but not contractually? Meaning, I think of an escort service as I do this and you pay me this much money. And it's not straight prostitution, because the "I do this" thing doesn't have to be sex. It could just be, "I show up in a tight black dress and laugh at all of your jokes at your party".
What if one time he gives her cash, the next time he buys her jewelry and maybe for the next two months, he gives her access to one of his apartments? I don't know, it's a blurry line to me.
To me, what made me cringe (and I'm a dude) is the girls that went on these dates, came home and their friends were like, "did you get paid?" and they were like, "NO 😞!" In fact, that's exactly why I wouldn't call it escorting. As an escort, there's a contractual, I do and I get paid. This is all very blurry.
@dontbanmebrodontbanme5403 The women are escorting the men. The women get a range of things in return, whether it be being wined & dined in luxurious settings, being given gifts or money, or given access to stay in luxurious places. It is indeed an escort service.
almost ever girl has an onlyfans account now lol
@@fredrezfield1629 OnlySimps*
You mean prostitution
These sisters have one thing in common. They want easy money with zero effort. 🙄
they should become politicians
Fast $$$ comes with slow problems.
It's the way of the lazy jezebel
They already have a job as professional limp pickle chasers😂
that are not even that attractive. If i were paying it would not be one of them
What fool is going to pay their rent but get no sex?
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Plenty of fools. Not us 😅
I mean there's simps on OnlyFans, paying for just videos. That's even worse.
Tons
It happens a lot. You will be surprised how many guys have addictions, just want to party and/ or cannot get ‘it’ to work. AT ALL 😂😴
This sounds like being a call girl , just sugar coated.Sad these young ladies decide to go this route.Nothing is for free.
White women being hoes😂😂
Prostitutes / Hookers has changed name over the years, Escort!
But the transaction is still the very same.
Only the sun and self-love my friend.
@@BalboaBaggins all women of any c color want a sugar daddy
It’s not only young girls. All ages
Ladies, to be sugar babies you have to have certain qualities, just being relatively young is not enough. You have to entice these men, they want to feel validated and special, they don't want to feel like ATMs.
It's funny because these sugar babies expect a sugar daddy without the sexual benefits. Eventually the man is going to want sex. If he is smart enough to become wealthy he's usually smart enough to know when he's getting played.
We’ll said.
These documentaries are not telling the whole truth and actually misleading 😅
@@ManOfAdventure2011 They signed a NDA, they can't tell the truth.
A real quality woman is hard to find.
The oldest illusion in the world: Everyone is into prostitution just for conversations while paying for college. 😂😂😂😂
Then Epstein maxwells isn’t guilty 😂🙏🫶🤦🤦♀️
@@user-ry6uf5dp1l
RIGHT!
Why would you care? Every woman is free to do what she want to do.
@@bobanristic8721 she is but is it safe for her as physical wellbeing and health care wise
if you can't afford your tuition through working a legit job then you don't deserve the education
I don't understand how these women think they will get money for nothing.
A bit delusional I'd say
b/c ya know...they are queens, they are princesses. disney mentality.
the peasantry always gives to royalty.
Because it happens silly girl
Ya, have they ever looked in the mirror? Not even attractive at all. Unbelievable they think they are. One was okay at best. The others were manly and ugly. Totally delusional and out of their mind thinking they're worth anything in that market. Insane in the membrane! 😂
They don't think is for nothing dummy, they know what they are signing for
These girls are not cut out for the game AT ALL😂
This game is for 8’s and 9’s but these chicks were hardly 5’s thinking that they can get the money of a 9 without even sleeping with the guys lol the delusion was over the charts on this one
Actually telling parents that they are gonna sugaring before they even do it. Brainlessness in its all glory.😂
Agreed. Not doing it right
Their voices...creepy@@programmingpatrick
My exact thoughts.
She said she is comfortable with sugar daddy & sex work without compromising boundaries but once u have sex for money isn’t that boundary already gone? 😮
what is sex with your husband or wife? it's always an exchange
...no matter what sex relationship you have
That is prostitution plain and simple. Whether women sell themselves on the street for a few dollars or top dollars with wealthy men, prostitution is prostitution. Let's just be clear about it and not sugar coat it. They are not better than the average woman selling themselves around the corner.
No it isn’t. Because it’s a boundary she set and on HER terms. 😅😴
@@gailainsley6939shifting goal posts, it’s called prostitution
The only person I know with a sugar daddy (pays her rent in Seattle) and she does sleep with the dude. He takes her on vacations as well. He would not be in the relationship without hitting it on the regular.
These girls are NOT broke working class. No way.
They're 49s.
One of my classmates in university did this. Her daddy was outrageously old. It was disturbing to see. She said her family said “don’t return home”, so they ended up getting married. Wild
Well that's worked out well 😂😂😂 young woman marries her s.d 💀
LOL
Well that´s the evidence that it is a traditional model - just maybe in new clothes - was always around
She married a lifestyle.
They say one of the hardest jobs in the world is marrying money. You have to be “on” all the time.
"he's not expecting sex, he's expecting you entertain his advances".... I'm confused, what's the difference?
Woodpecker cartoon character 😂😂😂🎉❤
I like how one of the girls called him out on the BS he was spewing 😂
I used to work in a bank and young women don’t have to chase Rich men. Those old men will literally harass you. 😂
Exactly I've watched these old guys come on to much younger women it's creepy and embarrassing because these women aren't interested in grandpa he won't believe that ship has sailed 😂
If you're attractive yeah, these girls aren't conventionally attractive though
Sugar daddy and no sex. Sure. 😅
That is exactly what I was thinking. She is being delusional.
That family home says it all. This is scripted. These 3 sisters don't have to do this. I feel like it's delusional to get into this and think guys will pay you for a date with zero intimate contact. Are there a few who will? Yes. Probably. But let's be real, we know the ultimate goal of men who pursue this.
I agree, I think a good percentage of their motivation is for this show
Their voices are so whiney ~ ick
Yeah this is definitely just reality TV with some potentially unaware participants. Doesn't come across as real at all but eh it's trashy entertainment can't expect much more.
It’s the parents home. Not theirs
@@katemiller7874 Exactly. They have a good relationship with their parents, who own a large home. They have a place to go.
been there, done that. When I was in my mid 20s I did live a life like this. I am in my 40s now and still dealing with the damage it caused me...(which cost me a lot more over the last 20 years, than what i got out of it)
Your own fault
Please ignore the previous comment. Thanks for being candid and honest. Hope you've found balance.
thanks so much,! well honestly those "your own fault" comments, i have learned to deal with, so thats ok...heard them from my father and my gran mother...they dont hurt me, it just shows ignorance and people not undertsanding what life can be like, sometimes@@bungalowlogic7676
@@Anthony-dj4ndYoure mean.
She was telling others as a warning, not asking for your petty judgemental highbrow attitude.
@@Anthony-dj4nd What's your point? Nowhere did she say it was somebody else's fault.
These women are so creepy. Run from them---fast. Ugh.
I don’t think your friend is being honest about getting paid just to talk
OK, this topic has been covered multiple times already. But I would love to see another documentary on how these girls live AFTER, when they are too old and no longer in demand for this so-called "job".
Beautiful girls that I know as a teenager did this and in late thirties, left on the selves, a shadow of themselves. Not worth it girls.
Factsssss
It's not a job, it's a side activity😅
👏👏👏👏
Eventually, you get too old to do ANY job so you should approach it the same. Save your money and have a plan B until you retire.
I haven’t finished watching this and I can’t. These poor girls…do they really think they have control in these situations? These old guys all have all the power because they have the money and years of life experience. They’re playing games with these young ladies. Hard work and wise choices are these girls’ best friends. This can’t be the only answer
agree
There lifestyle changes and I thinks it’s survival ❤❤❤
Dangerous Danger ⚠️take care ‼️
Nobody forces these women to be sugar women.
@@BalboaBaggins iknow xx 💋
they willingly choose to be prostitutes, they decide to hunt for wealthy men, they decide to play the game, they decide how far they can go, they decide when to leave. how can they be considered victims?
Being an escort always costs something. i had no idea what an escort was and was asked a number of times to do that. Said no. Fled home age 17. Had offers to pay my tuition for college, rent, furs, cars. I am so glad I never fell into it.The first man who tried to recruit me at my job bartending said you don't have t have sex with them if you don't want. Claimed lot of powerful men just wanted a pretty young girl on their arm in Tallahassee. Thank God I said No it sounds too good to be true. I thought no man would pay thousands of dollars for a date without sex. I feel sorry for anyone who gets caught up in selling themselve. Set goals reach them. Work for them so you have your own money and own career, and own life.
The comment above is one of uppity Western w-hit-e privilege. Good for you for not having to sell your body, but for millions of women globally, they must do it to survive. Secondly, only people in denial don't understand that 99% of intimate relationships are about money, to some extent. Not true? Tell your spouse you've decided to quit your job and stop making money. Then, see how long you both stay happy and together. Money makes the world go around, not snooty privilege.
Girl please. You are the same ones doing it for free every night on dating apps. Don’t let men trick you into thinking doing it for free with them is somehow more noble. If you aren’t celibate or married. Then you are definitely in either the ‘paid for’ or ‘free’ category. Pick your poison 😅😴
A guy tried to recruit me and my friend in high school. The guy acted like he was our age. My mom figured it out and blocked his number. Then a woman came on my college campus trying to recruit students. She got banned from campus. A woman tried to recruit me at my job(I was working retail). She wanted to be my "sugar mama." Please be involved with your children. Talk to them. These "recruiters" are everywhere.
They all have chipmunk voices
🤣
Exactly!
Because they want to be "little girls" and "feminine".
Even tv presenters have chipmunk voices these days. What happened to American female voices?
Megyn Kelly has a good voice. @@LivingLegendMe
you can just tell when someone has lived their entire life in a padded playroom that they mistake for the world
😄
This comment is just so honest & apt lol.I’m African from Kenya, now US citizen. Been living in US since 2009 and it still boggles my mind how utterly naive these women are. A Kenyan 14 year old would not be caught dead in these situations unless they had undergone some form of abuse.
We are taught to not find ourselves in intimate spaces with strange men and women for that matter.
Please be vigilant & careful girls… someone can snatch you & ship you to some place you can’t find help. I worked 3 jobs continuously until I was able to earn enough in one job. Stop compromising yourself & your safety for fast money.
@@sophieobiero-ro7uj Kenya is a lot more dangerous than the US or Canada though which is why people are more naive
@@R_S747no, you get shot Willy nilly in the US, you sell sex and package it under Hollywood and similar structures
The girl at 10:30 got so triggered by her friend's advice but the friend was SO RIGHT & she was looking out for her!
That's one of the reasons so many women get in trouble... our intuition says 'creepy guy, run' but some just don't listen...
Always trust your first gut feeling... there is no amount of money that is more important than your mental health & safety.
absolutely. when it comes to human behavior always trust your instincts. if it feels off, it is off.
Because we were raised in society where you should do what others expect but not what you’re really want or feel
@@blackbird6001Because we were raised in society where you're encouraged to do whatever you want to do, just because you do.
In general, women are raised to IGNORE instincts "be polite", "give him a chance".
that and your freedom. Don't they realize they are giving up their freedom?
It is a fine gray line that separates prostitution and sugar relationships. These women don’t realize that they are giving up their youth in exchange for a proper relationship
Honestly, there isn't a line. The only difference is that a sugar baby puts out to one man for money. Working girls have a new man giving them money every night.
Ive been in proper relationships and been lied to and cheated on and abused , at least these girls get some benefit .I got no benefit and invested so much with men who were a waste of time
Relationships are a waste of time. Especially dating. The majority of it will be a waste of time. Might as well be paid and I say this as a celibate woman.
@@makeitcount2985who haven't? However it's is possible to do some work and attract a person that will get and value you. Believe me! Don't let bad experiences deprived you of the chance to be really happy! When we meet someone who shows love by respecting and supporting your lows as being in bliss with your highs, it's the best feeling in the world. Reciprocity makes a relationship work, don't give up.
There’s no line, sex for money is prostitution, they just have fancy words and make discrepancies when at core, it’s sex work, be it call work, or escort, a lot of instagram models, only fans etc, at the root, it’s prostitution
I feel badly for her girlfriend. She's giving away all of her romantic attention to these guys and she just ignores her girlfriend.
That’s cause her “gf” doesn’t pay…
Same. I think she wants her gf to pay her but she doesn’t see her that way.
That goes back to the reality that she needs a boyfriend not a girlfriend.
The live in gf benefits from free rent! These guys are suckers throwing cash at a £€$!!😂
Girlfriend doesn’t help. Who cares what she thinks
Why try to normalize girls participating in the oldest saddest profession in the world? The title may be ever-changing but they are still what they are.
Being okay with one’s significant other selling themselves for cash is weird AF. 🤯
Poor girlfriend
@sandra- this girlfriends needs to help her than maybe she wouldn’t do this
@@katemiller7874 Yes, hopefully
The whole mouth ring is a turn off and non of them dress like Sugar babies
"Can't be anything sexual"......😂🤣
Yup. Delusional thinking 😅
😂 🍵 coffee ☕️ ….😂🎉🎉❤NO biscuits
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There is this others one “ where u can beat men “ abused 😂😂them and get paid 😂
This was pretty interesting.
I do have a feeling that if he offered more, such as 10-15k, she probably would have agreed.
Most people do have a price.
The guys are delusional, they think that if they just get "company", a nice meal and a taxi home should be enough. They have no idea what price pretty young girls put on their time.
@@ileanamuntean7338The main girl from this documentary isn’t even that young or pretty. A real young and hot girl wouldn’t lift a finger for 2k, but indeed countless of 18-20 year old girls do sugar dating very seriously and get big money for it, often 20k+ a month. But it’s obviously more than just having dinner dates
@@ileanamuntean7338Not delusional at all. Just price discovery in action, because everyone has a price.
The girls in this weren't even pretty. Not at all. One was okay and that's about it. Pathetic and delusional
@@ileanamuntean7338 The "price" depends on how desperate the girls are. 've seen dudes smash really attractive girls for $50 and I've also seen a basic looking chick finnesse $1000 from a dude that she did'nt even sleep with.
I think a lot of young women who do this is because of the high cost of living, uni fees, etc. When I was 16 and getting into uni, I had an orphan's pension, the government covered all my uni expenses including books and housing along with a monthly stipend (this was in Italy). I was cared for and not the struggling starving student who finishes school with debt. I worked part time (part of my nursing degree requirements) and had extra money for other things. I know for fact that today I think I would not be as lucky, everything is so much more expensive today vs back then and benefits back then were far more generous.
Puffnutten
They say they just don’t want to work and heave it easy
@@Ju5tBU Depends on the context. What I have gathered was wanting the extra income so they didn't have to work more than one job. The one who went to NYC to meet her sugar daddy who offered her 2,000/month meant working one job instead of 2 or 3. What I felt where they didn't want to put the work was being the sugar baby. They wanted money/gifts for meeting up for dinner or drinks only with no sex in return. Although it was said many men didn't want sex. If this was the case why didn't they just pay them for their time meeting up or texting? Like the first guy she met up with or the other sister not getting paid to meet up with them. Sorry I forgot most of their names.
You're right! I've seen it happens oftentimes, as an economy lover. Also, if the currency is getting more devalued as it still getting devalued over the planet post-pandemic era for trillions of dollars have been printed money out of thin air. Men tend to become more violent and women less monogamous (It is well-observed no matter what the individuals are saying about relationship whether or not is hard to set bond). The worst part of it no ones care politicians keep pushing the taxes up and printing money.
Basically you get free money as well just like these girls try in a different way..
It hurts to watch! It's like begging.
them girls sounds incredibly imature, like they are 15 or something. is it that difficult to actualy get up in the morning and go to a proper job?
As a parent, grandfather. I believe parents are enabling children by fixing everything for them. Then when you don't, or cannot they have not learned to be resilient.
Tough lonely times are ahead of all of us on occasion.
Facing your own difficulties gives you self confidence to meet the next challenge, even welcome it.
They're trying to take a short cut as well as add to their income. Toronto is extremely expensive. I do believe they are definitely playing with fire. They are no longer in control once that money gets exchanged. And Sandy is lieing she's got to be giving it up. Unless you have model looks I doubt these men are just paying for attention.
Its funny how the one girl talks about wanting empowerment and and to fight the patriarchy but she has no power in the relationship at all. I can see why the men for whom this money doesn't even matter to them but to the women it could literally be life changing amounts of money (despite the amounts of money being stated not being large enough to matter once you are even remotely established in life).
There is very clearly a power imbalance they have to be naive to think isn't working against them in the long term. The further down the rabbithole they fall the more dependent they become with less viable means to escape it.
of course there’s a power imbalance because one person is paying the other one for services. End of the patriarchy? these chicks are just trying to justify what they’re doing.
Delulu Feminits in 2024 are real things
I'm open minded and progressive, but in the last few years, after dating for many, I no longer buy the "patriarchy" complaints. In fact, women in the US today legally have all the financial and employment opportunities as men. They just refuse to fully pursue them as men do.
I'll give 2 examples: 1. Only about 10 percent of engineers are women. Why? 2. The prime minister of New Zealand was a young, attractive woman. She quit in the middle of her term for no good reason. How often do men do that?
No ma'am no ma'am. There is not a power imbalance. It's a contract between two people. She doesn't have to agree to anything she doesn't want to and she has the 100% freedom to walk away from it anytime she wants. So does the man. It is equal both ways.
@@AceRamoneits sick get a grip
I love it so much when young women lie...'i know my boundaries "😂😂😂
Yeah, it is pretty funny. When these women are SB, there are no boundaries. The boundaries are whatever the man sets as the boundaries.
They're not lying, they have boundaries...that adjust based on how desperate they are to get the money!!! "Shoot, he clearly isn't going to give me money unless I give him sex! Ok, my boundaries just changed!!!" hahahahahaha
I honestly don't care. People should do what they want. I did cringe BIG TIME, however, when some of the girls came home and didn't get any money. It's even worse than being a child because at least a child knows, every Monday, my parents give me $15. It's even worse than a prostitute, because at least the prostitute knows what she has to do and what she'll get paid. They've essentially reduced themselves to beggar status. I wear a tight black dress, we go on a date, he gets to feel me up and I be on his arm and...maybe I get paid? How much? Whatever he feels like? Yikes, what a terrible position to put yourself in. But I get it. Times are tough and the bills have to be paid, I guess.
Some do have boundaries and standards
@@petermaina2818 No, they don't.
@@adamh5466. If he had the cash which most don’t 😂😴
Problem is these women have NOTHING to give and will get NOTHING back.
Everyone has something to give these girls are just not playing at the right place. They should focus on their education and career and later on meeting their right match as they older and more experienced. Sad they did put themselves in so much danger just because of money.
@@goldsteinist exactly, I meant they have nothing to give there.
@@Stangya888 I misunderstood your comment. I apologise.
@@goldsteinist no need to apologize!
Exactly, they bring nothing to the table and not to be rude but they aren’t much to look at either. This is 100% lazy entitled behavior. Wanting everything while doing nothing. Never going to work
Me and my wife met when I didn’t have a penny in my pocket, worked as a basic labourer and she accepted me as I was but I promised her I will work hard and make sure our family never has to go hungry, spent $800 on wedding had 6 guests got $1200 back in gifts, today I am building a 9 million dollar project and own several homes in 3 different countries, if thought of being unfaithful even crosses my mind at times, it’s the support she showed me always but specially in the beginning that keep me loyal to her until the day I draw my last breath.
Do you want to be my sugar Daddy???
😂😂😂😂😂😂just kidding
You're a good man!! Lucky wife😊
I'm gonna call bullsh*t on this story. It does not all ring true.
@@jackharrison7613why? Never saw it in your entire life?
Why are you watching this
that's why it is good to be a loner in this world....nobody has their own expectations of you and you can live by your own rules without manipulative family members/friends/whomever telling you you should live your life to make THEM comfortable/happy...
Exactly.. Couldn't agree more
No literally
Especially society! Agree with you.
It's manipulative to not want your sister/daughter/girlfriend to be a prostitute? Dude what
Absolutely.
This is all about sex, it's not about conversation. Any person getting money is having sex, period!!!
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I just felt this was so sad. The desperation.
If they want to be therapists and be paid for talking to someone, they cab study for that.
Poor mom. Understanding her daughter is doing this.
it's crazy that there's a website dedicated to sugar babies finding their daddies
There are even sugar coaches
It's pure nasty!
What's wrong with that?
It's all about an agreed upon arrangement. Each person knows what they're giving and knows what they're getting. A guy could spend hundreds of dollars on a regular date and have her blow them off and never talk to him again. Why should any guy mess with that type of situation? What's in it for him? Do you realize how many women are out there that use dating sites to get free entertainment and free meals from Men? If women really want to be equal they need to start asking men out and paying for the dates.
discusting
That is a VERY dangerous world these young women are treading upon.............
I am thinking that they are exposing themselves to human trafficking etc
Exactly, it should be the top comment. There are these ways of trafficking by sugar daddies or lover boys (which can be the same, the lover boy does not have to be young always, they just need to be nice, caring and usually they will show you “better world” by taking you to fancy places, locations, hotels etc.). Anyone should be extra cautious if male friend or partner wants you to travel abroad.
I know! And they don’t even realize it.
Dating in general is dangerous. The biggest risk to a woman is her partner 😂😴
How naive these young women are, and without morals. There is no easy way for anyone. They should work hard, stop shopping and taking care of others.
“David is the kind of sugar daddy I’ve been looking for” 😂
Next he asking for sex what will she do ? This girls are delusional in there thinking
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What a world we are living in oh my God..... 😔
dam women will do anything for money
Definitely! These young girls looking for a sugar daddy are so naive! I hope they recognize the dangers this lifestyle brings!! And young girls choosing prostitution breaks my heart!! 💔💔Hoping they get out that destructive behavior! Many end up drugs or even murdered !!
There is no God.
That is one construct that we've all been indoctrinated by.
In a hundred years, when God still hasn't "saved the world," life will be far different from today.
Not all girls are like that. Only a minority.
It's got worse
As a man, i am disgusted. She "doesn't want to beat around the bush, she goes right to the point..." money. It is all about this!
Same here Brother! I agree! Morals out the window!
@@iloveschicken6527 and you need to mind someone else's business why? Because you don't have a life of your own? If you don't like it, don't bother with it. You're just pissed off because your pockets are empty. Do you want someone to serve your needs but you have nothing to offer.
@@Boyhowdy875 Clown!
well...but then again: you might be leaving your wife for one of them...just for fun.. I call it Karma?
But what part disgusts you, that the girl is doing it or the guy is paying for it?
Jocelyn being uplifting with her girlfriend saying ¨she's worth more than that¨ in the most honest tone possible, while the girlfriend goes to spend 74 hours in NY with somoeone she doesn't know
Imagine if any of these girls put a year of their spare time into starting a business? Everything they need to know is available on RUclips, through public libraries, etc.
Sad part is their business idea would probably be only fans these days.
I agree. This lifestyle seems to be such a loss of life and energy with very doubtful results. Get the old men pay just for the bills …
@@ryanj357 OnlySimps*
Exactly.
OnlySimps is easier.
The real crime is the millions of hats this girl wears
Hats are cool
This is disturbing. It's like young women prefer to be courtesans - but they do nothing a courtesan does.
They're simply very naive. Attracted by the money and no one is telling them straight it involves sex and physical intimacy in some form.
@@elipotter369 Because it's illegal hence these sites pretend it's only for going out to dinner and no sex, the only way they can operate without being sued and attract naive women. Same story with massage parlors, they are brothel in disguise.
Really sad that these young women believe that a man is going to pay them to sit & have a cup of tea or a meal. They need to stop minimising what this actually is by calling it "dating"... delusional
Honestly you say that but there are plenty of simps that would pay for this.
You might not be one of them but that doesn’t mean these guys aren’t out there.
You would be surprised what lengths lonely people are willing to go to.
This is a dangerous profession. You are not only risking your life but the disease factor (catching something) you can't get rid of.
oldest profession in the world, lets just call it what it is.😁Really no different from a modern day marriage.
Indeed! Its pure prostitution! Period!
Exactly what I was thinking.
So unless you're seeking someone who's broke, you're a professional sex worker? Why don't you seek some professional mental health care. What business is it of yours what other people do? Are you just jealous because you're broke?
@@AprilMoon7 how incredibly pathetic of you. I think the word thinking is not exactly what you were doing. Do you enjoy minding other peoples business for them?
Amen 💯💯💯. Should be legalized
19:55 Eww i am a man and i cringe at him. "Come over here, girl!" he says to a black woman. Calls her juicylicious.
He reduced her to exactly what he thinks she is...property/chattel
I married a man 30 years older than me. He pursued me relentlessly. He then became my jailer. I didn't go anywhere without him. I could not have any cash or a vehicle of my own. Finally, I left. He then kidnapped me, tortured and shot me twice. What some people do not realize is that when you are young you are pulled in by the thought of money and security, but find the situation hard to get out of. I never had another serious relationship nor trusted anyone after that. I wasted my best years. All because I fell for an old mans charms. He went to prison and I bear the physical and mental scars.
What was your background to be vulnerable to such a person? I'd run for the hills if a +30 year old even spoke to me. There is always a reason. You need to heal that.
That happens to 1000's who have married in their own age bracket, nothing to do with age difference but it is the person. Even there are murders between same age couples. But that could be a pride that if one was murdered by young than the +30 something.
I met a sugar daddy when I was 50 he turned out to not have a lot of money and I fell in love with him
"Hes steadily creeping me out more and more"
Have these women never heard of rape?
So weird
"bUt it'S coOL beCaUse i'M goiNG to set boundarEES!
This is purly rooted by the love of money.
More like because of fear of being poor and laziness.
And sex from the old mans side
It was so humiliating when she asked him if he would buy her the purse and he didnt. He said....next time. So gross.
I felt second-hand humiliation for her. I never did this sugar thing but I’ll bet there’s a more seductive way of asking for the purse than standing there looking pathetic.
I had aspirations of just being a trophy wife for a long time. Then I spent more time with men. Realized that there was no amount of security that would make me wanna have to put up with one for any longer than was healthy for me. And also, if you just want a rich husband you better make sure the money he makes is all above board. You don't wanna go from living a luxury style life to being broke and forced to work when you have no skills. Plus, if you marry a rich man that's younger than like 70 there's about a 98.9% chance you aren't gonna be his last wife. To these men you're only good as long as you're young
I married my sugar daddy but I had him invest in my career and bought investments property in my name too. We are still together 9 years later married. I met him when I was 20. He’s obsessed with me tho. And I stay thin and take care of myself
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@@xoxoxoxoxoxo3776 so…. What’s going to happen when you turn 30 ? Bahahahah
Some old men have tremendous debt and hardly two pennies to rub together before the young woman knows it she's changing diapers and going to work to afford his gout medication😂
@@gussfish8670😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
So sad what people think this is normal life now, free-loading. They have no clue how much better and easier life can be.
Putting one’s self in a position like that, there will always be an imbalance because the one with the money rules. I would never give up my freedom to do that. Freedom is priceless.
@@ENDEVRDocs Giving oneself to another is not and should never be about giving up freedom (people are brainwashed to think this way these days). It is about teamwork. Do people understand a concept like that these days? If the other side of your team is a tyrant, then they are a tyrant and a person needs to take responsibility and take themselves out of that situation. Everything is built on trust and kindness, and this has to come from both sides equally. There are no imbalances because life is life, and there are pros and cons in everything and every situation. It is only if the person is mature enough to see those pros and cons outside of themselves, objectively. Subjectivity, narcissism and judgementalism will get a person nowhere in life.
Can someone explain to me how this IS NOT prostitution?
Basically all relationships with a female involved are prostitution one way or another. Services like OnlySimps too. What's your point?
It is, but it cannot be talked about that way or both parties would be arrested.
Any relationship is some way or form of prostitution.
I would agree with you to a certain extent. Truth and Word.@@BalboaBaggins
During my college time I learned that the gay community also has its own version of such „arrangements“. I naively believed that being gay is all about finding the right partner. I had no idea, that there were young men out there, looking for a pecuniary boost.
My roommate, a very handsome, blonde, blue-eyed man, kept a frugal lifestyle in college. He saved the money and the gifts, which his older dates lavished upon him. After earning his degree, he immediately paid his student loans, packed his stuff, moved to another continent, discovered the gym and a nutrition advisor, gained a lot of muscle, started his own business, became practically a successful „sugar daddy“ (who still fantasised about successful and mature men) found the love of his life (a five year older surgeon) and has his happily ever after. I thought his life was a drama, but he always said it‘s a comedy.
I’m tired from the mental gymnastics these girls put themselves thru in this episode.
"so, I LiKe, haaaatE the patRiarcHEE bUt I waaNA GET pAID by A suGardadEEE bUt it'S coOL beCaUse i'M goiNG to set boundarEES!
So its fine to exploit men for money, trips, rent, and meals its all fine. But when the guy wants something in return ie sex its unacceptable and they gotta dip. They think their attention should be enough to warrent not having to have sex if thats what the man expects after everything hes done.
Scammers
The men are exploiting the women
men have to meet with women the same age but they want somebody who is not for them. Men are the problem; therefore they pay.
In their 20’s? They look much older.
You've got a bunch of 6's and 7's out there trying to get 9's and 10's money and it's just not going to happen unless they start adding A LOT more "value" to the "relationship". A big part of the problem is they're the generation that was continually told "You can be and do ANYTHING you want to do, you're the BEST !!"
You’re being generous none of them are above a 5
So so true
They don’t have to bring value because it a contract not a real relationship no feelings
@@geoffcarr1044well let’s see what look like
@@geoffcarr1044 The younger blonde sister with the cans is pretty hot, I'd give her a solid 8.
The most sickening part of this all is the men that allow this and throw money at women. Men need to start setting boundaries and have some self respect. I will never pay for a woman in that way.
Busy successful men don’t have time for real relationships that’s why the often go for transactions. Selections is too large
I’m a woman and that’s exactly what I told a friend (male), have some self respect my friend and stop cheating on your wife, if you don’t love her, then get divorce and move on. Is very sad to see people that you really appreciate and love as friends acting like that.
@@heather4089 Yeah I hear you. Unfortunately I lost a long time friend over it. He would always complain to me that girls just want him for his money. I told him that he needs to respect himself more and not let women in his life who use him. Couldn't take his complaining anymore so we're no longer friends. Girls would also isolate him from his friends.
Are standards lower in Canada bc when I think sugar baby, these chicks ain’t it.
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All the super hot ones gobto Dubai. Why do you see so many IG girls i Dubai? Duuuuhhh😅
@@ManOfAdventure2011 I don’t go on IG so I wouldn’t know. I’ve heard stories though I guess for enough money anyone will degrade themselves.
I have seen the Dubai sugar babies, not that hot but dressed like hookers!@@ManOfAdventure2011
I'm looking for a rich older woman to chase after me!!!
same here
😆😅😂🤣 Good luck with THAT
Sugar mommies websites are popular
I prefer rich younger women to chase me 😂
@@fredcheok9199 me too
I am so glad I watched till the end..... I was feeling like the world is more degenerate than I had thought. Thankfully these young women understand the value of their lives before they got sucked into the pit. Women, and men too, have to know that we are NOT merchandise, NOT a commodity! We are heart and soul and flesh.... all three have to be in union for a full life.
Very well said. It makes me ill to see this on both ends.
Glad I seen your post. Was about to click away out of tedious disgust. Needed a redemption arc from the despairing theme here.
Wow, very powerful. My heart breaks for these young women and how society and relationships are getting so screwed up. Her mom had it right.
Literally being paid for just existing... --> "I'm so oppressed in this society."
I don't
" i think im playing this game and wanna win" this comment show how young women get addicted to sugar daddy dating. The young women are naive and get exploited beyond comprehension.
They're not playing the game, they're getting played and don't even see it.
This s whole story broke my heart. No amount of money is worth your soul and real relationships. Sugaring just gives the daddy all the power in the relationshipanyway.
They talk like Kardashians
The danger they are putting themselves in is over the top!
What danger? It's the same danger you've ever been in if you had a boyfriend or a date. They're dangerous because they are not broke and dusty? All I hear about are broke basic men killing their girlfriends. Please think about what you're saying.
I am shocked that you are comparing going on a date to dating older men for money. It is shocking to think I need to explain the difference and the constant danger of dating these kind of men for the purpose of getting a payday. The list of danger and why it is dangerous is long. I won’t waste my words trying to explain. I realize your reality is that of these woman. Good luck! Be safe.
I suspect that the sugar baby who is in a relationship with another woman is doing it to make her partner suffer. It seems sick. I would run if I were her girlfriend/wife/boyfriend/husband.
These girls are dangerously naive. Sure, they're young but they're average at best looks wise. If they were smarter, they would looks max and become models. They're only going to be young for so long.
Fast money comes with slow problems.
Don’t feel bad for any of them. Their ONLY goal is fast money and parties. And why does all of them sound like they’re talking through their noses?
it's really sad watching her do this
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Wat drone these women into these streets ❤❤❤❤
It was supposed to be fun amusement rides!!
Bad experience with bf, gf, husband,wife, dv, divorced, married to many kiddies!!! Midlife,,, scammed by fakes love 🧡, ect ect
They might want a while sides to clear the airwaves but
Digged into a bigger holes 🕳️
Is this like a program like 😂maiden Chelsea
I bet most that dont intend on sex end up doing it for "tips" extra
🎉I've always attracted to old men like their maturity, empathy, and make me feel secured. At 18 dated 44 year old man. Now I'm 42 dating 66 yer old man we are happy together.
Awe. It’s called conscience , women with a coincidence are unable to do this stuff. 😉
This is just sad to watch. Plus these girls are average at best. Lots of desperate men out there.
lolll
That is what I thought they are average looking. I was much hotter than them at that age with no makeup. I had men young and older hitting on me all the time. It was sweet, but exhausting at times. I really did not date much. I could not find anyone smart enough that was a good fit. I did like to go out dancing on weekends sometimes. Never paid for my drinks and I never went home with anyone. Met the love of my life in college, a computer nerd who was smart enough to keep me interested and intelligent conversationalist... Sweet and funny and cute.. And no he had no money and came from a poor family. We have been married 40+ years now and we are financially well off and have a son in college. These girls are pitiful. Very sad. And yes I can still turn heads... 😉 All beit older men... 🤣🤣🤣 Trick is finding a man who respects you for your mind. The physical eventually fades... 👍
No morals whats so ever!💯
I am not judging but I think It is really Sad that you have to leave your life by selling your self .
The fact that she literally thought she can just get paid to go on dates without sleeping with them! Ha!! Girl, hearing you talk about nonsense is fun and all, but no longer than 3 dates tops
Whew! I’m cleaning up my closet. This came just in time. 😊
Happy Sunday, everyone.
Saturday night during a snow storm I cleaned out my fridge.
When you finally break the glass ceiling…is was just old rich dudes all along
No mother would want their daughter to be a sugar baby regardless of whether she is boomer, generation Jones, Gen X etc... It would be hard not to worry about dates going wrong and or the social media footprint that may jeopardize future aspirations.