Are You Wasting Your Time????
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- Опубликовано: 10 июн 2024
- There are things we go through in life that are hard. I hope this video gives you the education that you need and the encouragement to overcome some of the things that you have been through!
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The moment u have to search for such vdos.... it's the time darling
Whether you're happy in the relationship should be your only barometer, but empathetic people have a lot of trouble putting themselves first. How many of us stayed in relationships (toxic or not) just because we didn't want to hurt the other person? Or kept hoping things would change? Or didn't trust or own judgement?
I swear your posts ALWAYS come when I need them. ❤
Same girl same I literally just thought this with my marriage right now and this video popped up
Yup same 🙏🏼🫶🏻
Same here. It’s time for honoring me and my well-being.
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I agree
Yes, I was dealing with the "empty promises person", and I really appreciate that you described several different characters - you are right, they are not all narcissistic, but that does not mean that they are good for you.
I'm sad I realized much of it after the relationship. So many realizations and truths in this one.
If I have to ask myself this, or even contemplate it (again), I’d go with my gut & walk away because my instincts have almost always been right along. Narcissists can’t be reasoned with.
I was emotionally, financially, even physically abused.. I endured the “love” bomb, future-faking, devaluation, blame-shifting, gaslighting, ghosting, triangulation, silent treatment and everything- even though I never ignored her.
The narcissists care about only one thing- and that one thing is only about themselves. I was a mere source of supply who got the short end of the stick.
But now it’s time to love myself even more now than ever. Nothing productive happens trying to reason with a narcissist’s ego. It’s akin to try and reason with an inanimate brick wall.
EXACTLY SAME!
Damn right,first hand experience here
I Feel you Bro. Same here
I'm so sorry. But very well said! I can't always put my feelings or past experiences in words but this hit the nail on the head!
SAME HERE and I thought I was making a solid choice. Should’ve listened to my gut instincts which were saying something else.
My situation relates to this entire video.
I appreciate the bravery of posting unvarnished truths that we don't really want to absorb, but need to. It is a kindness, a tough love approach. It would probably be easier and more lucrative to just do some virtual breadcrumbing and keep us coming back for little doses of hope-ium while staying in dead end relationships. Yours is the better path. Thank you.
Brilliantly said
Excellent video Discarded after 24 years. I now know what I didn’t know.
Loved the video. You should make one about coparenting. I have learned blended families is hard.
I'm grateful I can always turn to you to clarify things for me. Thank you, I love you!
Very TRUE. Honoured.🙏🙏
Right to the point !!ALWAYS GOOD 🎉
This was very well explained! Bless your heart, thank you for teaching on this subject Luv! Take care! ❤
I needed this today, thank you.
Yes, I Agree 🙏
First off, you look amazing today! Thank you for sharing! What a great asset to relationship help and health!
Dang baby, I love the way you talk to me! Thank you so much!
Unfortunatly my very best friend happens to be my husband!! That same husband/best friend is now leaving me for a lifestyle change!! So I have lost basically "2" people (personallities) Each Very dear to me!!!
discarded last night. saw it coming. not too surprised
I feel like I am experiencing the empty promise person 😢
What happens when the narcissist is your spouse and you list all these things they do and address each and everyone of them and then call them out immediately they do these things, that way the action loses its power because they know you know what they are doing in real time.
Yep seeing someone who doesn’t know what he wants and I thought I could do the casual thing and maybe he’d change his mind but in the end I don’t think it will work. I am worth more than that. It’s crazy because we have so much in common it’s scary and he’s so easy to talk to but lately seems like it’s not worth it.
This is very relatable. Went though the motions thinking they’ll get better but they never do. If anything, the narcissists just get worse with each source of supply gone and all the bridges they burnt behind them.
@@Mike_Cosentino yeah normally your gut is correct. It’s never been wrong for me so far.
My family and friends aren't perfect, but I still love them anyway.
Yes
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Thanks, Stephanie.
and the devil is in our minds just a reminder for all of us too. all is an illusion and we make our realty from the inside out
Thanks for this video. Wonder what's the car, just curious, like the interior :)
Yes, runaway!!!!!! Run A Way😂
Thank you respect
Over 2yrs on and off had a 3 month no contact for us to move on reconnected it's been a month live in different countries now and seen each other 2wks ago she wanted to be friends because of our living situation i said I'd rather not as the way we/i feel about each other she meet a few guys exs in our no contact we've tried a couple times to separate and live our lives but always drawn back 😢
THEY NEVER CHANGE
Save your money
Sometimes you must stay. Otherwise, make an exit ASAP
YES ‼️
Tell the truth 💡
Sure seems like it since not one person can be real with me
Let’s do an interview together
always go for yourself and by yourself but dont cold heartet only loving with distance thats the truth . toxic is toxic 😢
100% on the ball, thank you. Putting plasters over the big stuff in a relationship doesn't work. Communication has to strike a balance between you both, and I dealt with this by accepting 2nd best for myself, and it takes a bold look at your own standards to wake up and rescue yourself from a destructive toxic and dangerous living environment.
Awesome timely advice!! Thanks Stephanie!!👍🏾☀️🙏🏾👏🏽
❤ Spot On As Usual Steph ❤
Herman Hupfeld
On point thank you 👍
I have to listen to Steph at .75x speed. Sorry, Millennial. Like a car commercial fine print.
Wish there was a 0.85x speed. The .75x sounds like too much wine at lunch. Great insights though!
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I wish people didn't talk like they are about to die.
a picture with the number 69 thats your persperctiv and then from the other and when its real love from inside out from both people thats not crazy its calm . we think drama is love and abuse is love and fight is love no thats not love thats egotrip and we all have egotrips evrybody does but when you are healing you are calm but these people dont want to heal or dont know too or dont ask for help or the demons and posessions and addictions are too much for them to overcome and we all have toxic traits because these world is toxic from the outside to our inside . we must go inside and heal thats not easy but we can ask and assests us but we must go the walk with god and put god first not a human bieng and not false prophets.
we have the chance to cut all toxic traits within us and toxic people from the outside world we have so many tool we must take the leap and conncet to the real source in ourself.
we have that problem thats calld samarither syndrome. we must learn to take care of us thats the problem . these people,are takers by nature and thats why it was toxic both sides in this moment are toxic 😢
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Dear Stephanie I have been following you for a long time and always found inspiration from your videos to work on myself but today… you amazed me more than ever! Thank you!!
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or do you jump outside a window when a other person tell you that? ask this quetion stay and get hurt or leave and get hurt for short
I only consider it a waste of my time, if I feel like I'm becoming bitter
*Promosm* 😝
Our personality is set by a few years of birth; for life. They cannot change by volition to the requirements of anybody🤔
Both times when I had loved someone, I wasted my time, life energy, money, time and years I cannot get back.
On the other hand, I'm a disabled male who cannot "bring home the bacon" but at the same time I'm tired of being treated like a public utility while they waste my resources so they can weaponize and enable their kids or grandkids against me (was what happened in my case for ten years) until I was almost killed.
So, at nearly 60, I learned the lessons of "Love" and its lies. I've also learned since I could never be considered a viable life partner to someone, why should I waste my time to get attached to, or involved with someone else and feel enslaved again?
For some "men in name only" like myself, there is no one. I do not have the luxury of "choosing" the perfect person, so I've learned that I have no business looking for someone, or accepting someone again.
Wow. This is deep
What is the difference between a narcissist and an avoidant? I'm seeing a little bit of both.Both of us are over 50. Long distance, no calling or texting but other forms of written communication. We have both taken a 10 year break from our last relationships for different reasons.
time to walk away. i don't like him anymore. he did me too dirty. it's unforgiveable. and i don't respect him. i don't think he has a sense of self, nor knows what he really wants in life. he is also abusive and narcissistic. he doesn't care about me. we don't have the same values. and most of all, he exhausts me and i'm sick and tired of all of his options attacking me. i could care less about what the president of my country thinks about me, while he cares too much. basically, he only thinks about his own needs and wants, never mine. i'm happier alone ; happier when i don't think about him.
yeah, but are you wanting children? must be tough if the clock's ticking
This seems like monkey branching cope.
He made me unhappy once. TIME TO GO! I DESERVE BETTER!
Hey you chose to waste your time on me. And you still do lol. Also peel the skin back on all these posts and all you get is deception just like you asked.
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