They are so verbally and emotionally abusive. I’m really sorry. Every time I see a video of you after you’ve been around family, you seem so hurt. I hope you find a place soon that covers everything you need so you don’t need their help and can have whatever boundaries you like💗.
Most times I just avoid the xmas drama by staying at home alone. The food might be better else where, but no one is crying over their failed marriage, no arguments, no guilt tripping... I also buy myself a present, so that I have one thing to look forward to. Everyone else is getting used books and chocolates from me. Take care of your self, you deserve it.
Don't put yourself down. The only way you find coping with crap you do things without thinking and it's ok. You don't like something and it's ok. Labels are so irritating in clothes I have to cut them off. Try and get Therapy from your GP.
Sounds like your mum tried really hard with those presents. I’d be devastated if I spent that much effort and my adult daughter reacted like that. My mum got me just a Christmas card for Xmas. I was grateful for that.
I didnt react in any way but gratitude about the presents, just cause i had a meltdown later in the day and then expressed here i was disappointed, doesnt mean i kicked off to her about them, i was very thankful to her
I literally don't see my family. I have been shut out of Christmas for over a decade now. I'd do a lot to be invited into the Christmas fold for Xmas, let alone get a load of presents whether I want them or not.
If your mother treats you with such intolerance now - it sounds like she may have been so horrible to you as a a child and things happened that were perhaps beyond pale. Sorry for her irrational and accusatory ways she sounds very immature. Probably not worth engaging with her.
I’m so sorry y’all. We get it. Family can be so.. intense. The cycle just never ends with abusive family members. Christmas is so hard. I hope this next year will be better.
They are so verbally and emotionally abusive. I’m really sorry. Every time I see a video of you after you’ve been around family, you seem so hurt. I hope you find a place soon that covers everything you need so you don’t need their help and can have whatever boundaries you like💗.
Its almost impossible to get alot of parents of previous generations to understand these disabilities 😢 i have the same issue.
Most times I just avoid the xmas drama by staying at home alone. The food might be better else where, but no one is crying over their failed marriage, no arguments, no guilt tripping... I also buy myself a present, so that I have one thing to look forward to. Everyone else is getting used books and chocolates from me. Take care of your self, you deserve it.
in poland if soemone is not asking for anything special its sweets for kids and alcohol for adults or personilized gifts
Don't put yourself down. The only way you find coping with crap you do things without thinking and it's ok. You don't like something and it's ok. Labels are so irritating in clothes I have to cut them off. Try and get Therapy from your GP.
Sounds like your mum tried really hard with those presents. I’d be devastated if I spent that much effort and my adult daughter reacted like that.
My mum got me just a Christmas card for Xmas. I was grateful for that.
Because of the meltdown?
I didnt react in any way but gratitude about the presents, just cause i had a meltdown later in the day and then expressed here i was disappointed, doesnt mean i kicked off to her about them, i was very thankful to her
I literally don't see my family. I have been shut out of Christmas for over a decade now. I'd do a lot to be invited into the Christmas fold for Xmas, let alone get a load of presents whether I want them or not.
Sorry to hear things not Great :( and happy holidays to you too - Hope 2024 is a better year for you :)
LMAO "You can make it and give it back to me." WTF????
Do your alters help protect you in these situations?❤
If your mother treats you with such intolerance now - it sounds like she may have been so horrible to you as a
a child and things happened that were perhaps beyond pale. Sorry for her irrational and accusatory ways she sounds very immature. Probably not worth engaging with her.
So sorry lovely, you don't deserve that crappy of treatment from your family or anyone! Hopefully your new year will be better and easier mentally ❤ x
I’m so sorry y’all. We get it. Family can be so.. intense. The cycle just never ends with abusive family members. Christmas is so hard. I hope this next year will be better.
Had a shit Christmas also. It was so bad, I am going on antidepressants today
Sounds like your Mom forgot to get Zeff a present and gave her one that was you.
Nice shoes and coat
Who is zelf?
Zeph is bobos room mate
You are very pretty.