Lisa's story - living and dying with cancer

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @bobbydomino79
    @bobbydomino79 2 года назад +1581

    Hi everyone, I'm Lisa's husband, Rob. Today (26th of August 2022) is the one-year anniversary of Lisa's passing. She spent her last few weeks in the excellent care of the North Devon Hospice, who I am forever indebted to for all their kindness shown to Lisa, me and our son Stanley. I've only recently been made aware of the comments you have all made on this video, and I must say that I'm blown away by all your kind words. They have really warmed my heart. 🧡

    • @colettefitzpatrick9412
      @colettefitzpatrick9412 2 года назад +59

      Hi Rob , I’m so sorry to hear of Lisa’s passing but I’m comforted by the fact that you and Stanley got the support and help that Lisa had wished for . I hope you both are doing as well as can be expected , she was an extraordinary brave woman .RIP Lisa forever young .

    • @stephenstephenedwards5352
      @stephenstephenedwards5352 2 года назад +27

      Hello Rob I just came across this video while on holiday in India and I was deeply moved by your late wifes story. It just makes no sence how cancer doesn't care and seeing all these young people who have passed away from pop stars to my friends in their early 30s is so 8nfair when there are really bad people out ther who contribute nothing and live long lives. I own a music venue and guest house in Wales lampeter called Minds Eye venue if you and Stanley would like to come for a weekend free visit you both would be very welcome. . Regards Steve Edwards

    • @juliette2729
      @juliette2729 2 года назад +19

      So sorry for your loss Rob. I know that Lisa is in a wonderful place.
      All the best wishes to you + young Stanley! 🙏

    • @tonyawoodert1326
      @tonyawoodert1326 2 года назад +19

      She is a beautiful soul and she lives on in your beautiful son and in heaven 🙏🏾 God bless you always ❤

    • @PebblezfrmDetroit80
      @PebblezfrmDetroit80 2 года назад +15

      God bless you, your beautiful wife and your adorable son! You all are in my prayers! Keep ya head up!!

  • @BeccaBean2020
    @BeccaBean2020 2 года назад +88

    So precious that she is dying but she’s crying for her sons grief and not her own death. R.I.P. sweet girl.

    • @imogen-rc6lx
      @imogen-rc6lx Год назад +4

      Precious that she's dying/has died??? I think that's a really bad choice of word.

    • @maryburr3145
      @maryburr3145 Год назад +7

      @@imogen-rc6lx I don’t think she meant to say that it’s precious she was dying, I interpreted it to mean that the fact that she was crying over her sons grief rather than her own (while dying) was the thing that was precious.

    • @ktm_washere
      @ktm_washere 3 месяца назад

      ​@maryburr3145 That is clearly what was meant - stop putting people down and questioning people's faith @imogen-rc6lx

  • @lmccauley7319
    @lmccauley7319 2 года назад +86

    This woman is the bravest I've ever seen. Heartbreaking. R.I.P.

  • @greghall14
    @greghall14 2 года назад +269

    Here I am, a tough old Aussie ex military man who has been through cancer, but watching this bought me to tears. What a wonderful lady with enormous strength.

    • @deusvult2302
      @deusvult2302 2 года назад +4

      Lisa passed away last August@

    • @greghall14
      @greghall14 2 года назад +7

      @@deusvult2302 , so very sad. Lost for words.

    • @tylerdurden7764
      @tylerdurden7764 2 года назад +11

      Yes my heart goes out to her, what a beautiful women. Mey she rest in peace

    • @SA77888
      @SA77888 2 года назад +10

      Yeah she seems like a lovely woman.......they seem like a lovely couple. Both her and her husband. This disease touches so many of us, its an awful illness.

    • @jesussaves1827
      @jesussaves1827 Год назад +1

      Turn to Jesus He loves you, He is the healer of the body And savior of the soul There is True Hope in Jesus, God protects Psalms 91, He is the God of miracles Acts 2:21 And everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved Jesus alone saves Trust Him with your salvation John 3:16
      1 Corinthians 15 1-4
      Moreover Brethren, i declare unto you the gospel which i preached unto you, which also ye have received, and with wherein ye stand
      By which also ye are saved, if you keep in memory what i preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain,
      For i delivered unto you first of all that which i also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures
      And that He was buried, and that He rose again the third day according to the scriptures, Take care

  • @thelegendofhisown1762
    @thelegendofhisown1762 2 года назад +185

    I don’t think I’ve ever before witnessed such strength.

    • @cathymurphy7922
      @cathymurphy7922 2 года назад +5

      She has a strength that most of us should aspire to have….what a remarkable lady!

    • @deusvult2302
      @deusvult2302 2 года назад +1

      @@cathymurphy7922 HAD as Lisa passes away last August

    • @reidchambers2521
      @reidchambers2521 2 года назад +3

      You'll find it wherever people are terminally ill.

    • @kayeoliver8983
      @kayeoliver8983 2 года назад +4

      It's so sad, I'm terminally ill also got diagnosed with breast cancer back in 2017,had a recent scan the cancer is in all my organs now except my bowels and brain she is so courageous

    • @mitch5222
      @mitch5222 2 года назад +2

      @@kayeoliver8983 🙏

  • @sarahgibson1204
    @sarahgibson1204 2 года назад +107

    Lisa, this gutted me. You’re leaving your son beautiful memories. Well done and life well lived ❤️

  • @barryhiggs-dv4dx
    @barryhiggs-dv4dx Год назад +6

    Wonderful staff who helped our family enormously. RIP lovely lady xxx

  • @alanparks7919
    @alanparks7919 Год назад +18

    When my wife got steadily worse with her terminal cancer, hospice became like visiting angels. I can never repay them. God bless you and Stanley, Rob… it’s such a hard journey, but life after death carries on.

    • @imogen-rc6lx
      @imogen-rc6lx Год назад +1

      With respect, you don't know that.

  • @JF-kv1gm
    @JF-kv1gm 2 года назад +68

    The incredible value of hospices cannot be emphasised enough, not just for terminal care but for respite care too. My dear Mum used to volunteer at her local hospice and, years later, when she was diagnosed with cancer, they said that they would have a bed for her whenever. And, in her final weeks, this was so. I flew to the UK to visit, not imagining it would be the last time I would spend time with her(the day I left, she deteriorated and died 48 hours later). The care was beyond my expectations, such as a fresh flower and a tiny glass of sherry on her meal tray, lovely duvet covers, and staff who knew just what to say and offer a shoulder to cry on. I will never be able to thank them enough. Please, do whatever you can to support your local hospice. It really is an essential network.

    • @kaycampbell8532
      @kaycampbell8532 2 года назад +11

      I agree. Hospice assisted both of my parents for end of life care. There are not words powerful enough to express my gratitude. They are truly the most compassionate people I have ever met. I will never forget their kindness during our time of need. May God bless all hospice workers.

    • @judymcgowan2881
      @judymcgowan2881 2 года назад +4

      I live in the United States. I have seen the wonderful Hospice for people with terminal illness. When I die I would love to have a place I could go to with all the lovely staff. I don’t know of any places like that here. I will have to check on it. It may be because our insurance here.😟

  • @sallyclay1974
    @sallyclay1974 2 года назад +36

    She was very brave and positive to the end. Thats the irony of life, that some people die so young , and get cheated out of time on this earth.RIP! Blessings and prayers to her family!

  • @martymartin2894
    @martymartin2894 Год назад +6

    May this lovely person rest in eternal peace. Cancer seems to be getting even more common in the last couple of year's.

  • @r.m2421
    @r.m2421 Год назад +5

    I just read Lisa story and her family.....My heart goes out to every one...Cancer is not picky .No age limit.color.anyone or any anamial.Prayers

  • @kellylody7928
    @kellylody7928 2 года назад +38

    Such a beautiful woman - she’s a hero

  • @Yxna_gacha
    @Yxna_gacha 2 года назад +50

    Such a beautiful person 💕 may she rest in peace. My condolences to Rob and Stanley.

  • @skygazer6898
    @skygazer6898 9 месяцев назад +3

    This breaks my heart that this beautiful, young mum has been robbed of being there for her little boy. So very, very sorry for the family and Lisa. Sweet Dreams, lovely lady..

  • @bodhi8260
    @bodhi8260 Год назад +15

    He will hear your voice again in this beautiful video. I am impressed with your strength. The way you prepared everyone for your passing, with such clarity, is amazing. RIP

  • @vanish6116
    @vanish6116 Год назад +7

    How very sad, I hope you and Stanley carry Lisa’s strength in all that you do. Bless you both xx

  • @deefitzgerald2906
    @deefitzgerald2906 Год назад +2

    What a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN…..
    GOD BLESS 🥰 HER
    Saying GOOD BY to ANYONE
    Is the HARDEST & SHE Will
    Be with HER FAMILY FOR
    Eternity 🙏…..

  • @christinebeames712
    @christinebeames712 2 года назад +10

    I have volunteered at a hospice charity shop for 20 years , it’s such a worthwhile cause ,

    • @alibrowne6374
      @alibrowne6374 Год назад +2

      👏👏👏 wonderful service to others

  • @Beverly54
    @Beverly54 Год назад +5

    I am just seeing this. I am so very sorry for your loss. My husband has cancer and it truly is an awful journey but there is help along the way. God Bless you and your son.

  • @cathleenhutchison2908
    @cathleenhutchison2908 2 года назад +80

    I've worked as a hospice nurse in Canada for 23 yrs. I'm so pleased you have shared with your son what is happening. Children are amazingly resilient. Both you and your story are beautiful. I grieve for you and your family that you will not be able to watch your son grow up or grow old with your husband. You are brave and beautiful inside and out

    • @thompsonsmith3256
      @thompsonsmith3256 2 года назад

      Hello Cathleen
      How are you doing today?

    • @florairvan8305
      @florairvan8305 2 года назад

      So comforting to read these kind
      comments. We lost our 17 year
      old son to suicide in 2004 Know
      it's not tbe same thing as a
      physical disease, but ours was
      mental illness that the family
      was not aware of.......a crushing
      devastating blow that almost
      killed us. I want to share this
      thought ithough, and pray that it
      will help everyone with real hope
      and a renewed sense of purpose
      and life. There IS life after sorrow
      and hopelessness, there is joy,
      peace and wholeness and a
      brand new life. This only happens
      with throwing yourself, your pain,
      your huge sorrow onto the Lord.
      Life is unfair and will always be
      in this world. I pray that you find
      the solace that Jesus can give
      you. I was extremely angry with
      him for a,long time. He accepted
      my hatred , my turmoil, my desire
      to commit suicide as I saw my
      sons friends enter college and
      the beginnings of a new era.
      PLEASE allow the spiritual help
      you we all need. HE said, "My
      yoke is easy snd my burden is
      light." I know it doesn't make
      sense, but there is LIGHT at the
      end of the tunnel. A

  • @alibrowne6374
    @alibrowne6374 Год назад +13

    I’m so upset for her. Lisa was an amazingly brave and inspirational woman. I couldn’t be that brave. That hospice is a haven in the midst of all the pain and worry. Sincere condolences to Lisa’s family and friends. I wish Rob and Stanley strength, peace and future happiness. 🙏

  • @shereehewings8483
    @shereehewings8483 Год назад +4

    Oh this has me in tears 🥺
    Rob your wife , such a wonderful and inspirational mother, wife and person.
    I am deeply sorry for the passing of your wife❤️
    She surely is now your and your son's Angel 😇
    God 🙏 Bless you and your Son

  • @zeek4749
    @zeek4749 2 года назад +24

    My 80 old father was on hospice till passed away two weeks and I can’t stop crying 😢 watching her made me cry more and that little boy omg 😭😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @mariaparker7545
      @mariaparker7545 2 года назад +7

      My 85 year old father passed away 20 yrs ago...the age doesn't count , I will always miss him but it does get easier you just need time and a good cry every now and again... my sincerest condolences to you...

    • @naheedakhtar1982
      @naheedakhtar1982 2 года назад +1

      :( so hewrtbreaking

  • @shaunbrittle8
    @shaunbrittle8 2 года назад +33

    This has broken every part of my heart. You have such strength it's admirable.

    • @deusvult2302
      @deusvult2302 2 года назад +1

      Lisa passed away in August

  • @josephdockemeyer6782
    @josephdockemeyer6782 2 года назад +34

    One of the things that brings a lot of relief to someone dealing with illness is to be able to talk to their loved ones about when one is gone.

  • @kimkramer3973
    @kimkramer3973 Год назад +5

    What a beautiful, courageous woman Lisa was. My condolences to Rob and Stanley.

  • @vickimarlene4905
    @vickimarlene4905 2 года назад +5

    Beautiful brave lady. ❤

  • @clairedawson
    @clairedawson 2 года назад +8

    What a Inspiration this lady was....so so strong..🙏 RIP.xxxxx

  • @jillmetcalf
    @jillmetcalf 2 года назад +11

    Wow sat here in tears what a brave lady Lisa was ❤️

  • @markbailey64
    @markbailey64 2 года назад +38

    An amazing lady, mother and wife. I'm glad you and your family are getting the support you all need in these traumatic times.

  • @keariewashburn4680
    @keariewashburn4680 2 года назад +8

    The special hospice places are so amazing and so caring and supportive. Lisa is a angel and a lovely family. Such, courage and love through this pain. I am thankful 🙏 for the support and care given to the whole family, guiding them through with comfort and strength.

  • @aprilfox1057
    @aprilfox1057 2 года назад +22

    Lisa, you are an amazing woman, mummy and wife. Go safely on your journey. Special lady. ❤️🌞

  • @leonarhanneken2629
    @leonarhanneken2629 2 года назад +131

    It's not easy knowing you are dying. It's hard. My family knows what is going on with me. MS final stage sucks. Blessings to all

    • @mitch5222
      @mitch5222 2 года назад +8

      🙏

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/haZ2Vb4yNJg/видео.html

    • @rainymctrixie1
      @rainymctrixie1 2 года назад +8

      Prayers for you and your family.

    • @cerorchid
      @cerorchid Год назад +3

      My understanding is that MS is not fatal. Can you explain?

    • @cynthiaparris7549
      @cynthiaparris7549 Год назад +3

      Praying for you 🙏 ❤

  • @portiabrown2913
    @portiabrown2913 2 года назад +8

    Rob and Stanley, Lisa's love and strength is part of you now. Go forward and live wonderful lives for her. Sending so much love and healing thoughts to you both ❤

  • @westcoastgirl
    @westcoastgirl 2 года назад +156

    My sister had extraordinary courage to accept that death is near for her when she was diagnosed with colon cancer at 39 with a 2 year old boy . She was composed , calm and collected to the end. I can not believe her courage and strength . She passed away in Summer of 2020 .

    • @terrifoster2525
      @terrifoster2525 2 года назад +19

      She gifted you with her bravery.
      In sorry for your great loss.

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/haZ2Vb4yNJg/видео.html

    • @bevanbuckwheatshea5520
      @bevanbuckwheatshea5520 2 года назад +11

      She sounds like an absolutely beautiful lady. So sorry for the loss of your sister.

    • @MyFernando09
      @MyFernando09 Год назад +7

      I am so sorry for your loss, my auntie has just been diagnosed with colon cancer, she is starting treatment soon

    • @Maria-tl1lm
      @Maria-tl1lm Год назад

      Sorry for your loss. Fvck cancer. It is so unfair.

  • @catherinerostanti1738
    @catherinerostanti1738 2 года назад +11

    I will make a donation to my local hospice in this brave lady's name. God bless Lisa and her two musketeers.♥

    • @steveclinton4084
      @steveclinton4084 2 года назад

      Hello Catherine how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family

  • @mowi2857
    @mowi2857 2 года назад +14

    Lisa !You are so courageous and a gorgeous mother and wife. I won't forget your tears! I have a breast cancer and I'm so afraid to face the same. I would like to be courageous like you. God bless you Lisa.With my prayers and Love .

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/F5zT4DATYcw/видео.html

    • @cozmarine7771
      @cozmarine7771 2 года назад +2

      Darling lady. Don’t give up the fight . Xxxx

  • @sheilacarter7875
    @sheilacarter7875 2 года назад +20

    I have just come across the video of Lisa talking before she passed, what a lovely lady and beautiful too.I was in tears watching her knowing she was going to die.Life can be so cruel she was to young to die.I hope you and Stanley are coping, Lisa seemed confident the hospice would look after you both after she passed.Rest in peace Lisa x

  • @moonlighteternal8024
    @moonlighteternal8024 2 года назад +33

    Amazingly strong woman... God Bless her & her family!

  • @patriciaodoherty5202
    @patriciaodoherty5202 2 года назад +34

    What courage and compassion!

  • @PiperTMTotalWar
    @PiperTMTotalWar Год назад +4

    An extremely touching and moving video. This video has brought awareness to the valuable work hospices do in caring and supporting families. What a brave and courageous woman!

  • @clairemichelle478
    @clairemichelle478 2 года назад +6

    I have no words 😢 only tears so a brave lady xxx

    • @rickhammond2473
      @rickhammond2473 2 года назад +1

      I was close to dying due to cancer and battle depression for many years but doing well now but listening to her I was crying.

    • @steveclinton4084
      @steveclinton4084 2 года назад +1

      Hello Claire how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family

  • @kimminer7341
    @kimminer7341 Год назад +4

    Hi, Rob. Your wife gave so much insight into what breast cancer looks like. Thank you to her for explaining in human, non-medical terms that all of us can understand! Much love to you and Stanley from Stillwater, Minnesota, USA.

  • @carolinewilkes1048
    @carolinewilkes1048 2 года назад +16

    RIP Lisa 💔 you were so strong to fight such an aggressive illness for 9 years and you've helped so many in that time! Stanley has so much to be proud of when he speaks your name. Hope you're doing ok Rob and getting all the support you need when you need it ! Take care . God bless Lisa rest easy xx

    • @annetteslife
      @annetteslife 2 года назад

      When did Lisa pass away?

    • @carolinewilkes1048
      @carolinewilkes1048 2 года назад

      @@annetteslife approx 26th August 2021 😔

    • @annetteslife
      @annetteslife 2 года назад +1

      @@carolinewilkes1048 thank you for the information. It is sad to hear she passed away

    • @carolinewilkes1048
      @carolinewilkes1048 2 года назад

      @Annette Melnychuk yes it is ! I was going to wish her well then thought I'd just check . So tragic poor girl and family 😔

  • @Mickey-jn8hz
    @Mickey-jn8hz Год назад +3

    What a truly brave and beautiful woman. Proud of her husband who stood by her in her fight. RIP sweet Lisa and may your family find peace and strength to carry on and may your little son continue hearing you sweet voice in his mind. Your bravery is unsurpassed. May God shine His light on all of you.

  • @delphinium5555
    @delphinium5555 2 года назад +22

    Such a beautiful soul. Tears to see your bravery and love for your family. How difficult it must be knowing you have to be supporting your child as you take this journey. My child died, I know the pain of loss. Your husband and son will feel your loving presence forever. It's been 38 years for me but he is always with me, comforting me at times. Your message will give others hope to know that others will be there for them too. God bless you Lisa and family. Sending love xxx

    • @deusvult2302
      @deusvult2302 2 года назад +2

      Lisa passed away last August

  • @catherinem.601
    @catherinem.601 2 года назад +11

    An amazing lady. Your son will always remember your voice. Good luck to you! 💕🤗

  • @mariejones5844
    @mariejones5844 2 года назад +8

    My boyfriend just had lung cancer and he was so brave and strong with his surgery he had.im so proud of him for getting it cured too.hes my love and my life my everything and had fought for me and helped me all along our togetherness which only makes me love and cherish him that much more it does.

    • @elliebakalova1239
      @elliebakalova1239 2 года назад +1

      Please don't say that you're proud of someone for getting cured of cancer. I know you mean well but please don't. Of course you are entitled to feel the way you feel and it's a totally valid feeling from you point of view but it's very heartless to the people who know they can't beat it, no matter how hard they try and how much they want to. And it's heartless towards the families who've lost a loved one because of cancer.
      Lisa passed away back in August and here's what her husband posted, and where you'll also find what I meant above:
      "Lisa hated the expressions 'lost her battle with cancer' and 'lost the fight'. She said if it was a battle or a fight, she would stand a chance of winning, and it was soon evident there was no chance. But what she did win was the hearts of everyone she met with that unforgettable smile and her overwhelming sense of kindness. She carried herself with dignity, humour and such courage."
      Some people are lucky to stand a chance against cancer. Some are not. It's about as simple as that.

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/F5zT4DATYcw/видео.html

  • @Allegra11
    @Allegra11 2 года назад +16

    Bless her and her family ❤️

    • @deusvult2302
      @deusvult2302 2 года назад

      Lisa passed away last August!

  • @graceotoole2467
    @graceotoole2467 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Hospice, nurse and hubby for all the great support you gave her. 😢

  • @Katragine
    @Katragine 2 года назад +7

    I watch these videos with the hope of understanding what life could potentially be like for me. My mother has colon cancer that hasn't responded the best to treatment. Most forms of cancer treatment take a severe toll on the body and it's organs and her organs weren't the strongest to begin with. I have no idea how long I'll have my mother, as I am too afraid to ask. I've only graduated high school a year ago, and I often wonder if she'll be there for my college graduation, whether she'll see me become a mother, whether she'll witness any of those things. It reminds me of the reality that is being mortal. Grasping the concept that even the most sacred aspects of your life and the people in it are temporary. I appreciate videos like this that don't sugarcoat or cut corners. It's an awful but natural thing that doesn't deserve to be hidden away. We're all only here for so long. Thank you.

  • @kitchenworker446
    @kitchenworker446 2 года назад +11

    I couldnt watch this to the end it is just too heartbreaking. I am so sorry that and your lovely family have had to go through this.

  • @sueordelheide7275
    @sueordelheide7275 2 года назад +5

    Love each other. That is the greatest gift. That's what GOD wants us to do. Lost my youngest brother in March. Miss him but will reunite in heaven. What a glorious reunion it will be. 😇❤️🙏

  • @gioiac4109
    @gioiac4109 Год назад +1

    GOD BLESS ROB AND STANLEY BE STRONG GUYS ...BE STRONG💗💗💗💗💗 KISS FROM VENICE (ITALY)

  • @kathaleenwood2426
    @kathaleenwood2426 2 года назад +34

    Thank You for sharing something so personal. Cancer is devastating and how one takes the news can never really be known. Dying someday and knowing that your going to die in pain and a countdown has begun is different. Each individual has to find their way through Cancer, but for most it's a death sentence and the journey is fraught with uncertainty, pain, illness and at the end of the battle ...death.
    Your story is heart wrenching and I am crying over how strong and brave You are. I hope to have even a fraction of Your Grace when I'm told there's nothing left to do. Again, Thank You for Sharing.

    • @deusvult2302
      @deusvult2302 2 года назад +1

      Lisa passed away last August

    • @lisawhite3648
      @lisawhite3648 2 года назад

      Philly Lisa here.No one deserves this,but WHY the Best people?

    • @kathaleenwood2426
      @kathaleenwood2426 2 года назад +1

      @@deusvult2302 - Thank You for letting me know.

  • @leannelayton9431
    @leannelayton9431 2 года назад +4

    what a lovely family unit you all made. i am so sorry for your loss - she looked to me to be an imcredibly brave lady. i think you & Stanley will do just fine.

  • @lisabergman1444
    @lisabergman1444 Год назад +1

    God bless you Lisa and your legacy Stanley and the love you left to Rob, Stanley and all who will always love you

  • @barbarawright5774
    @barbarawright5774 2 года назад +5

    May God Almighty comfort and help you and your son. Incredible lady.

  • @cinders1413
    @cinders1413 2 года назад +3

    Beautiful courageous woman, a true inspiration.

  • @ramonagaibor1898
    @ramonagaibor1898 3 месяца назад +1

    My condolences to you and your son. Thank you for sharing.😔🙏

  • @chrislee6377
    @chrislee6377 2 года назад +2

    hello rob i am sat here crying watching this i know how you feel in a way i lost my beautiful fantastic mum 4 years ago and it is still hard to come to terms with the loss hope you are doing well and thankyou for sharing

  • @evelynhall3274
    @evelynhall3274 Год назад +1

    What an inspiring amazing strong brave beautiful soul xxx

  • @gloriawaters1455
    @gloriawaters1455 2 года назад +8

    Wow what an awesome young lady such courage I was in tears on listening to your story especially when you mentioned Stanley asking you if he will be able to speak to you when you go to your everlasting sleep. Love to all your family 🙏 🕊

  • @clangdon5361
    @clangdon5361 2 года назад +2

    Sorry for your loss I had a brother that passed four months ago with cancer.. praying for you and your family.

  • @cherylthompson2731
    @cherylthompson2731 2 года назад +3

    What a wonderful soul she was.

  • @williamparker1085
    @williamparker1085 2 года назад +2

    she was an amazing lady........this one hits you in the gut

  • @Oderberg
    @Oderberg 2 года назад +62

    This a good time to do audio?visual recording so that Stanley will always be able to hear your voice, see your face and remember your story, and his. Good luck

    • @deusvult2302
      @deusvult2302 2 года назад +1

      Lisa has passed away last August!

    • @Margeritta86
      @Margeritta86 2 года назад

      @@deusvult2302 😰😰😰💔💔

    • @Margeritta86
      @Margeritta86 2 года назад +1

      @@deusvult2302 , but the video released 3 months ago, and as far as I understood it showed Lisa was still alive. If she's passed, why didn't they tell about it?

  • @kristinreynolds577
    @kristinreynolds577 2 года назад +20

    Wow! Hospice is an amazing! It’s not a job, it’s truly a calling! I hope that you are able to record many videos, so Stanley and your husband can watch them! My Dad was taken suddenly, and I was so blessed to see that I had not deleted a voicemail from him!! Anytime I need him, I can listen to it. It’s amazing. Much love to you and your family! 💗💗💗

    • @Danajanene
      @Danajanene 2 года назад

      Same thing with my sister...it was suddenly and I was able to save her voice mail greeting. I listen to it occasionally but it still hurts. Her birthday is on the 15th (February) maybe I will listen to it then.

    • @JF-kv1gm
      @JF-kv1gm 2 года назад

      I sadly deleted a voicemail on the Christmas Day that my Mum was in the hospice. I did visit her about 2 weeks later and had deleted it. How I regret that.😔

  • @edwardkirkland686
    @edwardkirkland686 Год назад +1

    God bless you my friend I lost my mother recently and I share your pain! I’m very sorry🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

  • @chestersmum4158
    @chestersmum4158 Год назад +1

    What a strong lady you were Lisa .to Lisa family I am so sorry for your loss xx

  • @michaelanthony3776
    @michaelanthony3776 2 года назад +1

    My deepest condolences Rob; from friends in Canada.

  • @millieserpico9019
    @millieserpico9019 2 года назад +1

    What a wonderful woman

  • @SF-cg6kn
    @SF-cg6kn 2 года назад +5

    Awesome....... just awesome to highlight the help that others provide when we're in a tricky place.
    So selfless, what a remarkable woman.

  • @HotPenny82
    @HotPenny82 Год назад +1

    Moved me.. to tears. My goodness, this is so beautifully shared.
    Her beautiful soul✨.

  • @irenebaynebayne6353
    @irenebaynebayne6353 2 года назад +9

    You are a strong woman. It not easy when your mother of Small child. I have liver cancer and my 4 kids they are grown. But it still hard living with cancer and knowing you will not live long time .my heart go out to you and i will kept you in my prays 🙏

    • @godislove7500
      @godislove7500 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/haZ2Vb4yNJg/видео.html

  • @socrates5135
    @socrates5135 2 года назад +6

    This is very moving. Lisa is such an amazing lady for how she faces this challenge with clarity, courage and love.

  • @jackie4350
    @jackie4350 Год назад +1

    You were lucky to have so much support and your husband and son were lucky to have you

  • @lisaedwards931
    @lisaedwards931 2 года назад +11

    You are such an inspiration and beautiful strong lady 🙏🏼❤️

  • @dannijohn5041
    @dannijohn5041 2 года назад +28

    You’re such a beautiful soul. Your son and husband will always cherish his fellow musketeers, no matter how far apart you are ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @sapphire6769
    @sapphire6769 2 года назад +4

    Oh wow the last minutes filled my eyes. no matter how many people you know you hear of you see on this platform it's heartwrenching your little boys loss is the hardest of all as a child to loose your mom is unimaginable.I hope you are both doing okay a beautiful lady gone too soon. x

  • @fpressel
    @fpressel 2 года назад +4

    Thank you for sharing this most intimate of experiences. Thank you for helping others to better understand and empathize.

  • @eduardoestrada101
    @eduardoestrada101 Год назад +1

    What a brave woman!!!!

  • @devonnedaniel7692
    @devonnedaniel7692 2 года назад +12

    God bless you and your family. You’re a wonderful mother and wife. I admire your strength and willingness to help others during this sad journey. I know that your family will have an incredibly hard time when you leave but Hospice is a wonderful support team.
    Thank you for sharing this experience with the world. You are a true inspiration.

  • @elizabeth_g2236
    @elizabeth_g2236 Год назад +2

    Heartbreaking + Heartwarming @ the same time. I admire her courage! And her total love for her family. I am so very sorry for her family's loss - a truly bright & wonderful light is now gone. May she rest in peace 🙏
    I cried w/her - watching & thinking she looks so healthy & beautiful how can she be so sick?! It's so not fair

  • @keoniable
    @keoniable Год назад +2

    Rob and Stanley she is watching over you guys 24/7. Rest in paradise Lisa. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Paola11852
    @Paola11852 2 года назад +3

    Lisa what an amazing lady you are, such strength in an awful time..God bless you and your family hope a cure is found for you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @ellamaeloftus3493
    @ellamaeloftus3493 Год назад +1

    As an oncologist clinical specialist nurse, this beautiful woman's integrity and spirit are profound. What an example and legacy she leaves.,

  • @mollylenyo1407
    @mollylenyo1407 2 года назад +3

    Such an inspiration🙏🙏🙏 She passed away August 26. RIP lovely lady.

  • @khananme
    @khananme Год назад +1

    Her story breaks my heart. Rest easy Lisa.

  • @traceywood5278
    @traceywood5278 2 года назад +2

    I truly hope she makes an audio or video for him. A gift forever

  • @SA77888
    @SA77888 2 года назад +7

    0:59 I remember that feeling when I found out my mum was ill...........time really just stops.......she told me and I didnt believe the words she was telling me, I had to ask her again, even though I could hear her perfectly.....It couldnt be true.......but it was true......the pain is too much. I miss you mum.

  • @elizabethconroy7665
    @elizabethconroy7665 2 года назад +4

    Bless your sweet heart
    Lovely Family
    I’m sorry that you are going through so much
    Warm Hugs from Amman Jordan Middle East

  • @germainevansluytman1934
    @germainevansluytman1934 Год назад

    Thank you for sharing, may God watch over you and your family, giving you comfort, peace, and courage to face each day without Lisa

  • @jenotteni7889
    @jenotteni7889 2 года назад +1

    oh rob i'm so very sorry on ur wife's passing hoping u and stanley are doing well and hanging in there both of you must miss her so very much

  • @dianajames4717
    @dianajames4717 2 года назад +1

    I am hoping that this sweet lady is still alive and will soon be cured of cancer.

  • @caroleloadwick-xb6jd
    @caroleloadwick-xb6jd Год назад +3

    You must feel honoured that you were her husband,what an inspiration your wife was and is

  • @debraparker4846
    @debraparker4846 2 года назад

    What a brave beautiful lady xx

  • @majorwhite51
    @majorwhite51 2 года назад

    God bless you and yours, I have had my bladder and prostrate removed because of cancer a few weeks ago, I really do hope that's the end of my trip down this road,

  • @lisettepraat2676
    @lisettepraat2676 Год назад

    😢 I just see now this film with Lisa , I am sorry for you lost Rob and your son.
    I hope time will give you rest and spirit to life your life without lovely Lisa she will never forget ❤️🍀