When There Is No Cure, Death With Dignity Offers Control and Comfort
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- Опубликовано: 20 мар 2022
- After fighting stage four colon cancer for four years Donna Otis learned she had less than six months left to live. While she ultimately did not choose to end her life early, having the option to do so brought her comfort during a time of much distress.
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My friend had breast cancer. It had metastasized to the bones & female organs. That was in the 80's. She's still alive. Her oncologist told her there was no hope. Only God knows our days.
Wow that's fantastic!
Bless her.
It is proof that God is in control and, if it is in His plan for you to stay for awhile longer, not even certain death can win.
What a friend we have in Jesus.💕🙏
She is an anomaly. She is an outlier. She is a miracle. Miracles don’t happen everyday.
I'm stage four with pancreatic neuroendocrine it's been five years now and I know I most likely will eventually succumb to this disease I try to live life like it's my last day.
Take a wooden box, put a fruit in it and imagine that is your ilness, go an burry the box deep in the soil and be positive that your ilness will go away and rot just like that wooden box.
Hope you are finding a way of Managing and you are alright xxxx
How are you doing
Latasha. That’s amazing! 5yrs. I hope you believe in Jesus Christ. He came to die on the cross that we may have eternal life. There is life after this one. With no illness, sadness, or pain. He is my living hope. Believe in Him and live 💖
@@angelabecerra4385 yeah sure
I watched both of my parents waste away to nothing, before death took them and gave them peace. I gave them drugs to ease their pain, but I could not ease my own. I am so happy to live in Oregon now, where death with dignity is possible.
My mom had a brain tumor. The suffering was unmeasurable. If we can put down a pet without suffering why make humans suffer? Because the Bible/God says so- What does it have to say about "Jumpers" at 9-11-2001? Hell on earth & turmoil is before we decide. I wanna live in OR
Please seek Jesus and know that through Him there is Paradise waiting for you. Our soul lives forever. Please utube testimonies of believers and nonbelievers who have met Him and seen Heaven and also Hell. Never take your own life because its murdering your own self and it's the only sin that can not be forgiven because we have to be on this earth to have forgiveness. Jesus was tortured for killed for our sin so that we can enter the Kingdom of God. Its final when we take our last breath
@@nicoleriser4462 Not Everyone on the WorldWideWeb has your opinions. Not every continent does things "your" way. Im standing up for the content here. If you want to push the Bible & Jesus try a different subject or troll somewhere else~ Namaste~
@@nicoleriser4462 those who physically suffer themselves should decide for themselves and not for others to decide for them. When you are too sick you cannot help anybody. Those who want to torture themselves for others can do so for themselves. God teaches no one to be stupid. I can't imagine myself lying in bed with cancer pain and feel like a hero saving lives other than making my love ones suffer around me while I'm suffering endlessly.
@@rubytuesday1316 truth
My mom is 94 and a retired physician. She fully supports euthanasia for people who have terminal illnesses and are suffering from chronic pain. I understand this courageous woman and having family members die from cancer, I hope one day cure will be found. RIP 😰😰
This was very emotional. For those who don't know severe pain then don't judge people who decide when the end has come. This woman was an absolutely amazing human and her daughter will keep her memory alive.
Well she made the decision it's hers to make. I don't think anyone who disagree with it are just out right judging her. So with that, I watched my mom scared to death of dying pass away at the age of 54. She beat lung cancer just to die from a simple angioplasty. She was in pain for years and that's what killed her. As for my grandmother that had stage 4 colon cancer when she was diagnosed she had a grapefruit sized tumor in her colon and it had spread to her stomach and liver. She hung in there and died in her house the way she wanted. I've seen severe pain and it's it's horrible, but putting this out there is the last option is pretty misleading. People kill the selves every day some in horrible ways, and different reasons. So what about their pain is it any less? Pain comes in every form not just psychical ..
Donna, may god bless you in his infinite wisdom, may he extend out his hand to you, for all the suffering you have endured, and welcome you through the pearly gates in heaven, you are a truly a wonderful woman, and a compasionate person. we have a little something in common, my daughters name is also donna, who is now 59yrs old. my heart cries out to you, and your lovely daughter. although we have never met, i feel like i have known you for a long time. Jesus loves you and so do i.!!! i pray you find happiness now in heaven, for we pray, in jesus, most holy name, amen
They have pain medicine 💊😔 !
@@JM-5150 She was not advising other people about what to do; she was just sharing her own experience and decisions.
Even if she had not taken it she would have died in total pain and horror 6 months later
I work with the elderly, and I wish this was available to all who want it.
I’m so sorry to hear that your Mom passed when you were so young. I can’t imagine how difficult that had to be. ❤️
Yes I have an incurable and rare disease called ANCA vasculitis. It is called the hurting disease. I am always in pain, completely disabled and no one understands. I have no support system. I just want to pass quietly. Odd part is when I was 45 I had adenomatous colon polyps which are precancerous so I dodged that bullet and got this instead. It is suspected that an antibiotic Cipro may have caused this. Antibiotic in same class killed my dog. It also turned her immune system against her. She was my best friend. I am only 65. My dog was only 5. I am very glad that the sweet lady got to see her daughter in her wedding dress
@@jackiemack8653 I’m so sorry for your struggle.
Yes...all who want it. I include the chronically ill who suffer each and every minute of each and every day!
Wow, Levaquin messed me up bad. Same class of antibiotics. Destroyed my health.@@jackiemack8653
A beautiful and courageous woman who gave the world a beautiful, bright daughter. Rest in peace.
Only if she was saved if not, she is in hell. God is very clear about this. We must repent and put our trust in Jesus Christ.
@@markjordan1765 so would you actually say that to her daughter-- that her mother's in hell if she didn't square herself with Jesus? Fine Christian you are.
@@markjordan1765 Don't play GOD! Only GOD will judge us all the living and the dead. The street preacher here
@@pachuco1815 Wrong again. John 3:3, John 14:6. You better get your head screwed on tight. If you are not saved you will go to Hell. You are no preacher at all. Son you better learn the bible and read God's word every day. So sad.
@@dorothybarrett1853 Let me tell you something if she wasn't saved which it looks like she wasn't she is in Hell. If I can help wake up these folks from going to hell yes, I would. You can't help her mother now that's done. I hope you repent and put your trust in Jesus Christ John 3:3, John 14:6. If you had the cure for cancer would tell everyone, I bet you would not. You need to learn to read IF SHE WASN'T SAVED SHE IS IN HELL. God will not be mocked. I hope you wake up too.
As a chronically I'll person, my heart is with those who also struggle with these challenges, and terminal illness. However, I trust that God knows exactly when it's my time, and I trust Him to decide. In the meantime, my medical team has given me comfortable quality of life, and I'm thankful. My daily goal is to also look and act like I'm healthy, a real battle. It takes courage to REALLY live until I die, because suffering is not easy. But every new day is a victory.
God Bless you!!! 🙏🙏🙏
Sending you much love, from my heart to yours
@@bostongirl3507 And you also, friend.
@@mercurious6699 Thank you. And you also, friend.
Sending prayers and positive energy your way. I hope you have many moments of joy along the way.
I'm glad her daughter was with her. My mom went pretty fast. Diagnosed with ovarian cancer and sent to hospice pretty much immediately. She had a stomach ache. One that wouldn't go away. She ended up having a stroke, so when she was being treated for that they looked at her stomach. The cancer was all over. At least I was with her. I miss her so very much. I need to start preparing for when I go. Insurance, will, etc. I don't want my kids to go through what I did. My mom was only 67. I was hoping for at least 20 more years. This really teared me up.
I'm so sorry I lost my mom 3 yrs.ago after a 30 yr. Battle with diabetes. It's so hard loosing your mom. Not one day goes by that I don't miss her. Cancer and, diabetes are the cause of so many deaths per year. Wow! Your mom was young 67 hold on to all the memories you had with her. That's what keeps me going everyday. God bless you I wish you all the best.🙏🙏
Shirley here, my mom to had ovarian cancer, they found hers when her stomach got big and she couldn't go to the bathroom, they said she had a blockage that's when the found ovarian cancer spread to colon. She had 3 surgeries live 2 years suffering.
Sending hugs and prayers 🧡🌷🙏
So Sorry, i send you lots of hugs and peace
I also lost my father to cancer when he was 67yrs old. It happened so quickly. Lung cancer took him within a year and a half. I was and am still very devastated. I only got 35yrs with my dad. Definitely not enough time at all😢😢
Oh, she was so brave, what a sweet soul...
Oh so brave to promote dying, forgetting what lies next.
@@Curtainclimbershut up.
@@Curtainclimber hahaha, there is nothing else you clown!!
@@Curtainclimber Lol she is in no way or shape promoting dying. She was just wanting to die with no regrets and with dignity. Were we even watching the same video lol
Rest in peace Donna.
We all should have his choice. We are more humane to our pets.
Agree!!
My Father had this option after over 15 years of full on, stage 4. Having the option and eventually making the choice, it was the first time my Dad made a decision for himself. He was hard-working and as selfless as he could be. This is clearly not an easy concept, option nor choice to make. Love to all 💜 My last words to my Dad were, “No regrets. I love you always and forever.”
As someone on the right of the political spectrum, I agree with this. I'm in great health in my 60s, but when I'm told I'm at the end, I won't meet it in a soiled bed attended by strangers.
Love your comment ! ✌️❤️
Exactly me!!
As someone on the left of the political spectrum, I'm so glad to be able to say you and I are on exactly the same page. Maybe we are more alike than different...❤✌
Amen...after all we WILL die regardless...ALL OF US!
Thanks for sharing this story, patients should retain control of their own lives and deaths.
It's all about maintaining and having power OVER your life. Great story to read.
JOHN 11: 25 "I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live:26 And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die. Believest thou this?"
We aren’t God. Why try and play that ?!?! No thanks
@@KristinAndre1717 not everyone believe in god it’s your choice if you don’t want to control
Yes. The government should not get to decide /control when we live/die
Thank you for sharing death with dignity. I was so happy that NJ Gov Phil Murphy signed it into law. Being the caregiver for my mother, father, favorite aunt and watching the last weeks of suffering has made up my mind for me and I'm catholic. So great to have a choice in the matter. You may not use it but it's comforting knowing that the option is there. We are humane to our pets when they are terminal so why not each other. Thank goodness 🙏
Absolutely!
I totally agree!!
As a hospice nurse, this is so important. What people don't realize is that if people don't have this choice, they will go to extreme measures to end their life on their own including drinking toxic chemicals, hanging, jumping off buildings and of course death with a firearm. I've seen it all. This is a much more humane way to go and puts the control back in the hands of the patient.
@@jenniferlawrence9473 Totally agree. I've been a supporter of Death With Dignity after I watched 'How to Die in Oregon.'
I'm sorry, I guess I have to be the dissenter in the comment section. But only God can decide when it's time for someone to leave. I'm sorry for this person's decison and I will pray for her, but she's not following God's law. I pray for her soul and her salvation.
Lost my wife of 17 years at age 48 to colon cancer, what a beautiful soul to be this strong, Blessed are those who mourn,for they shall be comforted. 🕊🙏 , Rest In Eternal Peace to all the Angels above us.
So sorry for your loss🙏❤️
Thank You.
thank you for sharing this deeply moving video. i'm going in today for my annual chest/abdomen ct scan. i had kidney cancer but so far so good - no regrowth as of last year and, with a deep breath, i hope this year is the same.
We believe qi gong can heal. We do this as a routine daily for 3 hours and have beaten the odds. I hope you have a chance to look into it. It is very peaceful and relaxing, slow and joyful. You are not tired after each movement. Resting and breathing to heal is the feature.
Prayers for you 🙏🙏❤️. Everything is going to be good have faith.
@@happyday868 i will, thank you
JOHN 11: 25 "I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live:
26 And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die. Believest thou this?"
Hi Karen, thinking about you, and wondering how your CT scan went. Holding you in my thoughts and heart. 🙏💗
Rest easy beautiful warrior mommy ♥️
Thank you for sharing. My Dad had the euthanasia on January 28th 2022. After seeing him suffering so much with his illness, I can say this is the way to show true love. Blessings
What state are you in??? Condolences to you and your family.
Blessings and love sent from R.I. 🙏
I saw my dad suffer too. Thank God he didn’t do that,,, God took him I’m not playing God
U must believe in abortions too. Kill kill kill Your ok w it
God gives life and only God can take it back
@@KristinAndre1717oh but all the medical interventions possible isn't "playing God"... double standard. God gave us a brain to think and compassion to hear others out..... not stopping the suffering when someone is begging is playing the devil if you ask me
Death With Dignity needs to be available to those who are disabled/chronically ill and incapable of preventing homelessness.
I'd MUCH RATHER pass than to be homeless.
Homelessness is a problem that can be solve when people stop being so selfish, hateful and greedy!
Whoa... that's incredibly sad.
Maybe you should take that attitude and turn it into something positive and find a way to support your local shelters. Maybe, seeing it and being around it may change your mind, or you may change lives.
Good luck and God bless
I have C-PTSD, PTSD, Treatment Resistant Depression and Chronic Anxiety. I had a horribly abusive childhood and early adulthood and have tried Everything. I wish that this was available for me. I haven't been able to work in 26 years, and everyday, I pray to not wake up. I do not know what being happy is. I have been dead inside for as long as I remember. I have done trial drugs, long term inpatient treatments, and still is a struggle to get dressed, get out of bed. I don't most days. I now longer have the will to live and have been like this for years. I would love to go in peace. God Bless you all. I have exhausted all options.
@@candaceion9622 I am so sorry to hear of your pain. I wish I could be there to help you somehow, even if it's with just a shoulder to cry on. ❤
@@Stranger_Strange_Land maybe you SHOULD stop telling other people what they SHOULD do. I have been sick as hell for 35 years (since I was 25), now medically bankrupt and if prices keep going up I will be not only very sick but homeless.
My worst nightmare is living in a society where I am being forced to stay alive on pharmaceuticals when my soul would be at peace on the other side of the veil.
I’m a nurse. This should be allowed!!
I agree, what country our they in? It's so touching and moving.
Absolutely!
As a cancer patient- a great many thanks to you :)
@@suzanne296 The United States
Never take your own life. Its murdering your own self and it's the one sin that Jesus can not forgive because we have to be alive on this earth to have forgiveness. He was tortured and killed for our sin so that our soul can enter the Kingdom of God. I was 1000% atheist but He is real and will forgive us endlessly. He loves us but we belong to Him and not ourselves. He created us and breathed His life into us and was killed for us. I've read over 50 testimonies of believers and nonbelievers who either died or were taken to hell and people who committed suicide are there. There is no going back from that
We had no choice in our conception and birth.
We lived under our parents/guardians' care and supervision, and if we were fortunate, lived to become adults.
Choosing to live is a gift, yes.
Deciding life isn't worth enduring, is also a valid choice, and no one has the authority to deny us that.
100% support for you/all, who has lived, fought, and decided accepting Death's final dance isn't such a bad thing after all.
We're all going to that Ball/Concert.
Who gives a shit
@@colindavidson6452what a “shitty” reply! Maybe 1 day U’ll get a cancer diagnosis -better yet a close loved 1, maybe then-U’ll give one!!!!!
I fully support dying with dignity. Who am I today that anyone should be forced to suffer? People should have the choice available. This beautiful lady passed on my first-born Grandbaby’s Birthday. ❤️
Look up Within Heaven's Gates by Rebecca Springer. Page 64.😇
God decides when we die. Death with dignity laws should be repealed and religious authority restored. TO GOD BE THE GLORY!
How did we get to this..now we can choose to die.
What if you find that life eternal in heaven won't await those who take matters of dying into their own hands rather than asking God to have His way with your life.
Jesus said:'I am the Way the Truth and the Life. No one comes to the Father but by Me' John 14:6.
There's a reason He died on the cross & shed His blood there!
Please look up Google about the gospel of Grace.
God bless you.
Thank you!!!
I had NDE(near death experience)& I'm here to assure you that the life continues after we live this body in a waaaay more peaceful & beautiful way. May Heavenly Angels wellcome you when the time comes in to Eternal joy and love light.
Hi Karmen...will you please explain/describe your NDE?...What happened, etc..thk u kindly.
@@ltaurus2105 there are so many NDE interviews on RUclips that you can search for it. I absolutely believe in it.
@Karmen Sitta. Karmen, it's against God's laws to take your own life. Period end of story. Comfort care, not EUTHANASIA!!!
@@danacaro-herman3530 gods laws 😆
@@wtchfrmpnw That's right GOD'S LAWS!!!🙏🙏🙏
I don’t want to go through chemo, radiation,immunotherapy. I just want to be comfortable and let me go. It should be my choice.
Same. I am 39. I have 12 cm mass on left ovary and pooping blood for year. I refusing all medical treatment and not doing anything. I letting myself die. I value quality over quantity. I have had hard life. I ready to die. I hope no one takes or forces me to do treatment.
I totally agree with you 100%. I shall be making the same decision. Fondest wishes from NZ. 🌹
If I had a fraction of the bravery and courage this beautifull lady had I would be so honoured and proud.
Bless her and may her memorie stay in in her daughter's life as if she was right there by her beside her. Thank you for the courage it took to make this video, and maybe gratefull she did not have to chose her end after all .Heaven took her at maybe the right time.
That was a beautiful post.
Amen.
No one has bravery or courage before they find a need for it. Then everyone has it.
Sail on gentle soul.
The reassurance that you have a choice to when you pass is a great comfort to you.
I am a nurse and been with many as they pass. I wish this option was available in Wisconsin where I live. I am 68 and want choices. It seems cruel to make people suffer when there is help. If I get cancer I do not radiation and chemo because I feel that is insane toxicity and many suffer with that...but I believe everyone should be able to make their own choices. What I have seen mostly is the progression of dementia and similar illnesses and feel like people should have options for that too because it gradually takes everything away and many loved ones suffer too. Love to all.
What about choosing Jesus & His Salvation an for us. Cry out to Him & put your trust in Him! There's a reason He died on the cross & she'd His blood. It was for you..& for me.
'For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believes on Him shall not perish but have everlasting life '. John 3:16
Better to focus on Jesus
We have euthanasia if all other living souls are suffering, but not ourselves until recently and that always amazed me. The choice should be there for terminal patients. Pain is just one small reason. What about the diseases that slowly paralyze or others rendering you a complete invalid. I believe in God and Jesus but I would like the option even though I think personally I wouldn't take it. But that choice is important ❤
This “option” goes against God’s will and is simply man trying to play God. God’s holy wisdom decides when we’re born and when we die, period. The state of Wisconsin would be advised to reject any efforts to adopt a sinful Death with Dignity law. TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!!!!
@yvonnerahui8729 Yes ... as long as we also remember that Jesus doesn't always choose to physically heal people.
With my first colonoscopy, I was told I'm prone to getting polyps & had to do them every 2-3 years. So I have had my 4th one about a week ago, finally I didn't have any. None for 5 years Yeah !!! Sure it's no fun, but being told you have Cancer & having to fight it definitely isn't fun. My state does have the die with dignity law. I think every state should give a person a right to end thier life if all they will do is be in constant pain or have to be all dopped up & have no quality of life. What a wonderful Mother doing all those things for her daughter. 😘
My dad was the same for many years having these done he hated it but still did it until his death 18 months ago.
I lost my father January 2022 it’s not easy 😭 five months and still crying 😭 everyday my heart goes out to her daughter 🙏🙏🙏
You have my condolences may God give you strength I lost my mother she was 48 years old to cancel in 1984...
Thank you for sending this message! Death with dignity is so important! It needs to be nationwide.
Worldwide!!
So true, with parents that are really aging, late '80s and early '90s, death is something that is just never spoken about in our country. It's not something we think about, speak about or really plan properly for. This was a really beautiful woman who seemed to have embraced this in such a way, no anger, no fear, just unbelievable.
Respectfully, I don't agree. You are regurgitating propaganda thoughtlessly with no regard for your statement's implications. Tell me what is kind about calling someone undignified as they writhe on the floor in pain? What exactly do you gain from this?
@@TryingtoTellYou “Death with dignity” is a phrase used to describe euthanasia for people with terminal illnesses. That does not imply that anybody calls people “undignified” who succumb to those diseases thru the stages of dying on their own.
@@theBusterMan215 Merely denying my statement has not undermined my argument at all. It's like saying "No" to the Sun.
My mom was terminal. She’d died with dignity thru Hospice 09/20. My grief’s overwhelming. What’s helping me endure’s watching videos of NDE’s. Not only have I gained peace of mind, I’ve gained a new perspective of life. I hope you find peace. ~Much ♥️
I did the same after my mother was killed in a car wreck. A friend gave me a book by Rebecca Springer, Within Heaven’s Gates. It helped me to ‘place’ her somewhere, that place being heaven. After the book, I started researching NDE’s like you’re doing. It helped. I pray that God will provide peace to your soul. It does get better with time, but never easy.
Raymond Moody...yes!
So incredibly beautiful. Anyone who desires ANYTHING less, for their loved one, does not understand love.
To a woman who had a beautiful light, and it continues to glow within her daughter now. The loss is still so new, raw. I pray her precious memories rise to top of her mind, holding her close always.
Hello how are you doing?
Powerful testimony
RIP Donna.❤ What a sweet woman. So courageous. I wish her daughter all the best.
So if we dont choose euthanasia that means we don't die with dignity. At least it is with courage & leaves our lives right to the last to God to maybe miraculously heal or take.
It's still with dignity just may not look as pretty.
And..we can rob our loved ones of going through the death process & learning much about grieving & supporting. And the relief when death dies come.., you can feel ready to let go..not this suddenness of 'mum' still looking beautiful as though she should live for ages.
These are my thoughts. I've been with a few who've died & its been an honor to hold their hand & encourage them to put their hand in Jesus hand.. and say: 'let Him carry you over the finish line'..to spend eternity in glory with Him.
@@yvonnerahui8729My stepbrother sure didn't die with dignity. He was groaning in pain on his deathbed even AFTER he'd been fully sedated. And, yes, he knew Jesus.
I’m a 37 year old woman and my
Mommy also had cancer, she beat it a very lethal skin cancer and that was 11 years ago! Every birthday my only wish has been for my mommy to be cancer free and every year my dream has come true ! Life is amazing and I’m sorry this family didn’t get the time 😢❤❤spread love not hate !!
Almost a year has passed since you lost your amazing mother. What a beautiful legacy, she is still touching the hearts of others through this beautiful video.
How brave! Thank you for sharing your journey. The fact that you saw your daughter graduation and even present to see your daughter in her wedding gown. How awesome. Your foresight and ability to take care of business!
Bless you, your daughter, family & friends.
REST IN PEACE!
I think it's great when you have the option,you go on your terms no one else's. I'm in nursing and this is a great option. My heart breaks for this woman. I think she has left very specials memories for her daughter and when she is in Heaven she won't miss anything because she will be right there every step of the way with her daughter. God Bless this woman🙏❤️🌻
God was showing off when you were made Katie. Thank you ever so much for this vlog. The universe rewards the brave.
I am going to Dignatas in Switzerland in 48 hours.
Australia. 💟
God bless u.
Fly free and strong.
No words. Lighting a candle for you. ❤
Praying with you for a good journey. I admire you for having the means and the strength to decide for yourself. May I have a hug, Love?
@@happyday868
Ha Phan,
My heartfelt gratitude for your very kind words.
I am going with my Daddy as he has MND he survived Auschwitz and his wish was to just slip away with no questions being asked in Australia.
You will never know how your words have been of great comfort to my Heart. Sending you Hugs & Kisses 💟💌💟💟💟
It's the incurable, progressive, chronic illnesses that should be top candidates for assisted death with dignity. I've known plenty of people who've be given six months or less to live but are still alive years later, so who's a doctor to make that determination? EVERY human being deserves this humane, compassionate option. Not just cancer patients given 6 months to live. Never ending suffering is worse, in my opinion.
You are right. Some things are worse then death they say. My fight with stage 4 lymphoma (2 letters also which means bone involvement and bully organ site) rocked me. I had to go on experimental stuff called Escaladed BECOPP after normal stuff did not work. That and radiation messed my insides up good. I mean i was glad not to leave my 8 year old and see her 19 in college. But my spleen is growing which hurts, my pancreas has atrophy so that is withering away, osteoporosis an broke my back 3 time in past 5 years lol, voice box is paralyzed on one side so like shelf in throat, and emphysema from all the bleo chemo. Then tack on survivors guilt to add onto it. So with all that I could be on deaths door and cant have death with dignity because all but cancer is an illness they give that for. My ace up the sleeve is a cancer mole on back....leaving it there just incase. Sorry for book. Just prospective.
This is so unbelievably obvious I don't know how anyone can miss it. What is worse, suffering for six months or twenty years. Both are bad, but c'mon.
I think it's just religion again, "well, they were almost dead anyway...". Most modern chronic diseases were not around in ancient times, colonial times, etc. Most of our ethics and morals on this come from very different times and are not applicable to today's diseases.
I wish we had that here in Georgia. My mom suffered so bad.
Damn cancer !!! What a brave beautiful woman ..my deepest condolences to her daughter , family and friends ..Rest In Peace beautiful lady 🙏❤
Prayers to the family. Your mother was strong and so beautiful. Daughter looks like her mom. Blessings to all
My deepest condolences to your beautiful daughter. I send her gentle hugs and love.
You were such a courageous lovely lady. But I am so glad you passed away with your beautiful darling by your side.💔😢 And you made so many wonderful memories with her.
It's so sad that someone dies so young with Cancer.
I too am fighting it now.
Everyone should have the choice to die with dignity.
But it won't happen in my lifetime.
So making memories with my three beautiful daughter's and four gorgeous Grandaughters and my dear husband. ❤
To everyone who is fighting this battle, I send my love. X 🌹🕊
Watching this brave woman's journey to battle colon cancer brought tears to my eyes. Last Thursday was the 28th anniversary of my Mom's passing to colon cancer. She was diagnosed at 41 yrs old and passed at 44 in a coma with my sister and Aunt holding her hands. My younger bro was 4 yrs old (soon to be 32 yrs old), oldest sis was 18 yrs old (soon to be 46 yrs old), second sis was 15 yrs old (soon to be 43 yrs old). I was 14 yrs old (soon to be 42 yrs old). One of my Mom's death bed wishes was for her kids to graduate college. All my siblings and self earned Bachelors degrees. I also earned an Associate's degree. My oldest sis also earned a Master's degree. I started colonoscopies in my 30's since doctors recommended due to my family history. I took a genetic test too. May this sweet woman rest with dignity and her daughter be filled with comfort and peace.
I am so sorry, in 2016 my sister at the age of 58 found out she had stage 4 colon cancer and passed away 😭 She never went to the doctor so obviously it got out of hand but she never felt sick at all, it happened so fast 😭
I'm so sorry. Prayers you will know the Lord's comfort. ~HUG~
This was in its own way beautiful & sad.
Choice must only be in certain states in U.S.?? This SHOULD BE A FREEDOM FOR ALL. Bless you and your family
Yes...assisted suicide...I dont like that they call it that...but assistance in dying with dignity is what humans need to understand..being alone while dying is devastating but dying with family around is crucial to letting go..God bless us all
This is insane. I can't imagine what she's going through. What a courageous woman!!! This is inspiring.
She was so beautiful..just a beautiful soul
What a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN……GOD BLESS HER..🌹
What a beautiful woman, so sorry for her daughter. God bless them both.
She and daughter look like twins. Happy she planned it and taking the "drink". Rest in Peace
I too as a retired nurse believe in death with dignity.
Isn’t death the domain of God? We should not remove God’s will and holy wisdom from death. We die when God wants us to and not a second before or after.
Death with Dignity should be available in every state in the US. Rest in Peace Donna Otis. Thanks for making the video.
God bless her & her beloved daughter 🙏🏻
I know exactly how she felt and what she went through. Last August I was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer and finished chemo treatments 2 months ago and recently I started the oral pill treatment for the remaining cancer in my liver and lungs. When I first got diagnosed my cancer cell count was 2008, after my last chemo treatment my cancer cell count was 39. I'm ready for the treatment to be done and hear the news that it killed all the cancer. I'm waiting until the oral treatment is done to have surgery to remove the tumor mass in my rectal area and have my colon reattached. So many people don't realize how important it is to have a colonoscopy. I suffered for over 3 years because I assumed the pain, feeling like crap,weak and the bleeding in the stool were from being diagnosed with irritable bowel syndrome and I'm lucky I went to the emergency room when I did because I wouldn't be here today if I hadn't
Rest in peace. I'm so glad you had the choice to die with dignity.
....OMG... I’m a brave guy, but watching this melts my whole heart... I had my eldest sister who had pancreatic cancer, she was only given 3months... when she found out, she called me and said “ thank you for being my baby brother, I would like you to be a grand father someday, I love you and take care of your family” then she put down the phone and she never spoke to me again...😔
truly sorry for your loss may your heart and mind always remember all the good parts of life you shared together.
@@doreenjohnston7672 yah...cherish all the moments with your love ones while still last, we'll never know when will it turn to memories...😔
I get no tests for anything such as cancer, I wouldn't take the treatment I've seen too much.
This option should be available somehow for dementia - bless her journey, I walked with my Mother through hers
I think this is such a important message to send! I lost my father at 15 it was so so hard he was born with a kidney disease so I grew up taking care of him from the age I was allowed and even in my own ways before. It was our normal. He was always happy never said no to time given. All things I now know were gonna really help me along the ways and when it hurts so so much. I am now 37 with 5 boys! I have so Manu things I do daily to leave behind hopefully when I am just old and it's my time. But in any event that were to change I want to have left some comfort. Some helpful me left to be still with them. I kmkw how it felt. To this day I have so many things I wish I could have done or have of my dad and don't I will fill those spaces. Bless this mother and daughter.
Im 52. I have Cancer and stage 5 Kidney failure. It all came in the past 18 months. I was a 6'6 300lb football player until i was 43 yrs old. Always the biggest and strongest man in any room. Now, i have trouble even walking to the bathroom. I want to live, but im facing reality the best i can. I really dont feel cheated i lived in the moment my entire life. Over the yearsci was told my lifestyle would make it hard to retire because instead of saving and investing i traveled and bout and spent and enjoyed it all. Looks like i made the right choice being financially irresponsible lol. I live in pain now, and next month they are taking out half my liver, my gallbladder, lymph nodes, and 2-3 feet of intestines. On top of dialysis. My entire life i was seen as a pillar of strength, i dont want to waste away slowly in pain. I pray God will understand and forgive my decision when that day comes. Until then, ill continue to live in the moment, and make sure everybody i live knows it❤ Good luck and God blees you all.
So sad... My mother passed away at 59 when I was a few months pregnant with my daughter 💔 almost 4 years on & I'm still struggling with her loss
I remember watching KC after her husband passed from colon cancer and how she went public to save other families. I'm 47 now and all these years later I remember her family's story. I just had my first colonoscopy recently. Don't be embarrassed about getting it done. Just get it done if you want to be around for your loved ones.
I am dealing with an aging/dying pet at the moment. I am seriously grief-stricken, and feeling the dread of heartbreak as I contemplate the loss of my best buddy and my mother's advancing years and declining health. I LOVE that people can be honest and open about such a sad but natural event. Our family talks openly, and these videos help greatly.
RIP Donna ❤
Cancer is horrific and the scarest thing to be told. I had lived through 7 rupurted aneurysms, mrsa of the brain had to have right side of skull removed for over a year. Then I got a bone flap which is a fake skull. And after 9 brain surgeries a massive stroke, I was so thankful to be alive and still able to live a normal life. In 2020 I was told I had cancer and I've never been so scared in my life. Because my younger sister had lost her battle with cancer 4 years earlier. But the lord brought me through the surgery and thank God they were able to get it all.I know that the lord has a purpose for me and each day is truly a blessing and I thank him for each day. Prayers for everyone who is fighting cancer.
This is a wonderful option, and I’m sure it provided her with so much strength and relief. I believe knowing that she could end the pain whenever she chose to, helped her hold out in a calm and peaceful way to the very end for her beautiful daughter. What an amazing woman.
You have such grace and courage, I support your decision.
I'm 49,I do not have cancer but I work in the health field and I see and care for those that do.
If cancer is what my journey will be then so be it...I refuse any treatment,no chemo,no radiation,no matter the type.
I would live the rest of my life on my own terms and die with dignity by ending my life by medical assistance. I will not let my family watch as it eats me up....I want them to remember me as I was.
My father suffered a long painful battle. I agree with the dying with digity act. Rest in peace dear one.❤
Awesome beautiful story. Rest well queen.
You're an inspiration ❤❤❤
God bless you and your daughter.
I never had a mom so you're both blessed to have each other and such an awesome relationship. I admire it.
God rest your soul
This is the thing about death with dignity. So often when the fear of an agonizing death is taken out of the equation there is so much more energy available to spend on living well for as long as you have left. People deserve to have the choice, no matter what they do with the choice.
Exactly. I have stage three prostate cancer. To know I have this option would change my whole attitude. I don’t fear dying, I fear something worse, a slow painful death. Give me the option
Exactly. I have stage three prostate cancer. To know I have this option would change my whole attitude. I don’t fear dying, I fear something worse, a slow painful death. Give me the option
Exactly. I have stage three prostate cancer. To know I have this option would change my whole attitude. I don’t fear dying, I fear something worse, a slow painful death. Give me the option
My friend was having bad shoulder pain. The doc told her it was a muscle issue. A couple weeks after that she was in a car accident with her daughter. They were a little banged up and her arm was really hurting her. So the doctors did an X-ray and then sent her in for an MRI and found that she had a large cancerous tumor in her lung. It was stage 4. She passed away exactly one month later. It was heartbreaking. Cancer is an ugly disease. I pray for these peoples comfort and peace during thwir battle. God bless.❤
I’m so sorry this has happened to you ,I really don’t know what to say ,cancer is the worst thing ,sending you love an preys Ann uk 💋🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am deeply deeply sorry for what this precious sweet soul had to endure!!
Hello how are you doing?
Thank you for sharing this very personal account of dealing with the end of life. Much appreciated. May Donna rest in peace.
What a lovely lady. Such grace & beauty within & out. I pray for her daughter, that she find peace & light in those days when she misses her mother the most. I’m 60 & my 88 year old mom still here….I’m grateful for every minute. May she Rest In Peace.
Such beautiful love here eyes and smile display. Her strength is something I must admit I do not have. This makes me wanna hug her daughter.
I love my mom soooo much like these two I cant imagine what this duo went through and how much mom worried about her daughter more than herself. Breaks my heart RIP angel ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sadly unless the child dies first every single person in the entire World will have to deal with losing a parent. :(
What a message to leave all of us watching this video today, 2 yrs after her passing.
A life of blessing others.
Angel material.
GODBLESS her bright " big" beautiful " loving " giving " compassionate " soul ! And the hearts of all who love her !!
If anyone is wondering how a cancer patient is overweight, she's not, she most likely took corticosteroids which can give you what's called a "moon face", whole face puffs up and it's round, just like the moon, hence the term moon face. May she rest in peace. And I hope her daughter is coping better than I do with my loss of mom to small cell lung cancer 😔
Who is wondering about weight? My goodness! WTF is wrong with people? Someone is opening up about her diagnosis and being vulnerable and people are worried about weight?
@@meddeck I knew 5 people who went through cancer treatments before my late mum was diagnosed and that treatment is hard on body and most people loose a lot of weight, to the point of many being skin and bones and it has surprised me when my mom had the moon face. That's why I've explained it because my mom (retired nurse) has explained it to me at that time. There's no harm in wondering and getting knowledge in my opinion.
I'm so sorry I will be praying for you
2/22/22 she died on a beautiful day and I hope her daughter sees the 2s all the time that he mom left for her ❤
She brought me to tears, what a amazing, strong, courageous person. . . .
My prayers will enfold you and your mom with love and grace. bless you.
Not allowing this is inhumane and cruel
RIP Donna Otis
You were such a strong and beautiful woman... Your soul is at peace now and you are free from pain.
what a beautiful legacy this precious life has left for us to learn from. God bless those who are enduring her loss.
I think this should be available everywhere who are we to tell somebody that's terminally ill what they can and can't do.
The stuffed animal idea was really sweet 🤗
I want the right to die with dignity, if I feel it is what I need.
My father had colon cancer that spread to every organ when he past.. he was in so much pain I’m glad he fell asleep peacefully..❤
Before she became unwell, mother and daughter looked like loving sisters 💕