How To Identify A Pathological Lying Narcissist
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- One thing we can be certain about with narcissists is that they LIE - because they are a False Self that must create a fictitious character that is capable of gleaning attention and admiration from others.
But sometimes it can be difficult to detect. Narcissists spend their entire lives making up stories, and get very good at hiding their tracks, and if we are dependent on the narcissist for our own love, approval, security and survival we may make excuses and stay with them, experiencing horrendous abuse as a result.
In this new Thriver TV episode I cover the hallmarks of a pathological liar so that you can identify them and pull away before it’s too late.
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"You start becoming an angry anxious person, who is often triggered by their self-absorbed grandiose, entitled, invalidating and selfish behaviour. This is because your soul is not being nourished, it's being torn down instead." This resonates a lot! x
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And i love how it all makes sense that they lie so easily bc their whole life is a lie! (False self) now i get it! As long as they keep up their false self, you can expect lies!
I cried listening to this now because this is what I’ve experienced for six years and it wasn’t until 7 8 months ago that I realized I wasn’t the problem it’s a horrible feeling it’s now been three months since I’ve split up with him and... I still have to watch these videos to believe that this is real😔
Blondehairredwarrior, I'd love to hold your hand and help you heal from this. My free inner resources to do this are here: www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse xoxox
Blondehairedwarrior it took me 4 months to find these videos, and another 3 months of watching them to be able to shrug and say, "oh well. I guess it Wasn't my fault a hundred percent of the time apparently. like he insisted it was." LOL. It's been 9 months since I left him, about 3 months since no contact, and I'm just starting to feel a little pity for the damaged creature that he is as opposed to rage for the jerk that he was. Hang in there honey. keep watching these videos, knowledge is power. We got your back.
Blondehairedwarrior i have too.. hope u feel better today
after he left, it was about 5-6 YEARS of coparenting before i found these videos, from diligent research as my kids started showing the same signs of trauma I had when with him. I not only realized he still had us all convinced we were the problem... and i was never enough.. and started to take my life back and defend the kids. I had a complete breakdown where i cried several hours a day for weeks... it was truly mourning the death of my innocence and coming to terms i had been duped by a truly evil individual.
you know it's real when they make you hate them,and you still care for them....not healthy for you. be happy you made it out alive,and start living again. it gets better with time.
“Game over” is so hard to accept even though I know it’s right. After I found out who ‘they’ really were guess I went through what you would call “the stages of grief”... right now I get so angry and vengeful over the whole situation. I mean how dare ANYONE think they have a right to walk into somebody else’s life and hurt them and their family. It was soul crushing, now it’s just infuriating. And to anyone who’s made it this far... keep going, you are incredibly and undeniably strong.
My ex must have attended the school of pathological lying.
Still can't believe I didn't catch on earlier.
I sat next to him
Christine Miller ...also totally made up stories without reason?
Melanie you have been the most and best person to partner with during my realization that l was married to a covert/communal narcissist....6 weeks out of it and feeling FANTASTIC !!
I'm so glad that my videos and resources are helping sweetheart and that you are feeling better. It just keeps getting better too. Keep smiling, keep healing and keep thriving! Love and blessings xoxox
My ex’s ex wife in Alabama tipped me off he was a pathological liar and sociopath. Her exact words. Yet he pretends to be Christian.
Y U P !
They are PATHOLOGICAL LIARS & PSYCHOPATHS!
NO REMORSE!
NO TRUTH OR GOD IN THEM!
- NOTHING BUT PROBLEMATIC TO DEAL WITH AND TALK TO!
IN FACT, YOU CAN'T TALK TO THEM AS THEY DON'T ACCEPT THE TRUTH!
THEY CONTINUE PUSHING THEIR LIES!
HORRIBLE CREATURES TO DEAL WITH!
IMPOSSIBLE!
THEY TRULY NEED AN EXORCISM!
AS GOD IS NOT IN THEM, BUT THE DEVIL!
AND I SAW THAT CLEARLY ON THE DAY DEDICATED TO THE HOLY CROSS & GOOD FRIDAY!
BOTH DAYS!
IT CAME THROUGH CLEAR AS DAY!
Best & God Bless!
Wish You Full Healing!
JUST SPEAK THE TRUTH AS IT IS!
AND THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!
AMEN!
xo¬A!
You, milady, are the embodiment of eloquence and intelligence. Thank you for this thoughtful post. Thank you..... for being born!
The world needs you. Thank you so very much!
Aww shaneh975 thank you for your lovely compliment and I am so pleased this spoke to you xoxox
Wow, this video is almost a perfect run down for anyone who wants to understand the essential basics of the narcissist in one short lesson! 100% spot on. I have had three narcissistic relationships. Each man was as different from each other as a snake, a rabbit and a lion. Yet you have described the emotional behaviour of every one of those men. Yep and don't worry - I'm single at the moment.
I think the hardest part in healing from narcissist abuse was once away u start seeing how much they lied. My EX lied about things when the truth is better..I'm now learning how to read body language and micro expressions as narcissist will show you they are lying..
Marie Presho Yes those telling microexpressions!
I agree. When i realized ALL the lies he had told me to have his numerous affairs, yet never repentant, and blamed me for the affairs , classic nArc maneuver) i was crushed at my gullibility and disgusted by his ability to betray!
I really like how you put it that the false self is pulling the strings. That's such a compassionate way to view human beings with a disorder. I hate hearing tirades saying things like "these people are pure evil". Some may be, but there are many shades of grey, and people usually develop these disorders after abuse or neglect.
I agree! xoxox
our boundaries to protect our own reality, rather than the lies that the false self of the narcissist/controller/manipulator spins, Must alert ourselves to the crazy making mind games that they do. This is where i draw the line in giving them compassion - they r the bullies who pretend to be victims. We cannot get sucked into their vortex of ill intent.
@Carol JL Wife That's literally the opposite of a compassionate way to view human beings with a disorder. Compassion is the core of the teachings of Jesus Christ
So brilliant! I am living with a delusional narcissist and you have spoken to so many points that I have experienced with my husband!
How are you doing, Robin? Marriage with a narcissist may not work. I pray for you, that you are able to survive and that you have support around you.
I keep having relapses. I want to forgive people but it’s so toxic to my soul when I forgive and they continue to repeat the emotional abuse; pathological lies for their self interest at my cost
And the insane argument process with any false self described in this video is sooooooo true!!!!
I was married to the love of my life for 20 years. He was also a compulsive liar and cheater. I finally crawled away and created a new happy life on my own. I wrote a book about it anonymously to heal and pay it forward.
*Quiet Little Mouse: How My Lying Cheating Huband Awakened My Inner Warrior by Mali Ponday* I'm not looking for fame or riches. Peace and love❤️
I am just waking up from a relationship from a narcissist. I had some idea something wasn’t quite right, but a few years later , I’m realizing the truth. His position as chaplain did mask it for some time, but your videos are reinforcing and bringing to light the truth. Thanks for some much needed education in this area.
You are SO welcome Sherry, love and blessings to you Dear Lady xoxox
This is an excellent talk. Brilliant. Totally spot on. Thank you for bringing the clarity.
Thank you Janeta, and please know you are very welcome. xoxox
Hi Melanie! I love your video! I swear you are sooooooooo right. I was dating a narc! EVERYTHING you say is true to the core. Let's us gals really get this out here bc ppl are better equipt to deal with these monsters once they spot one.
Good lord my mom is the devil!!!! You described my mom better than I ever could.!
You are very well spoken, and as far as I'm concerned your channel is the best on the subject along with that of HG Tudor's. His perspective is that from the darkness, yours is that from the light.
Thank you Vade, I appreciate your feedback and I'm so glad that my videos help. Love and blessings xoxox
yeah i agree w that, you always always always feel sooo much better when you watch MTE vidz... :)
“Ego hit of gaining an attractive partner “- that was me! False promises are just future lies when they don’t follow through. Thx for this great summary! Learning and healing!
They lie like nobody’s business. It’s baffling. A person with integrity could not lie so blatantly to your face and looking into your eyes.
Great video... you described all the feelings I was aware of when I was with him... lots of emptiness and nothingness.
Enjoy Bali 😊 xoxoxo 💋 ❤
Thank you Paula sweetheart, and I am glad this video resonates with you! xoxoxo
Thank you Melanie for sharing all this valuable information 💞. You have explained and described the behaviour of a narcissist perfectly. I have just left a relationship of 9 years. He is a narcissist 100 percent, no doubt. A pathological lier, cheater with no boundaries, denies everything when I know the truth. Actually in fact his exactly like his mother.
Narcissist are great asking you to be empathy with them. Have you ever hear: ''how you could feel if someone say this to you?''. A classic. I only regret not have been aware of what a narcissist is until now. I would have saved several ours of trying to understand something I will never be able to understand. Lies of the size of NYC and all her NO NO NO NO on every thing I said. Never again with a NARC.
My narc dad smeared my name to dicredit me and say i was mentally ill etc. He even tried breaking HIPPA laws with my therapists to get info on me!! he accuses me of making things up or not remembering correctly, but HE lies, gossips and twists stories. both my parents do this. As the scapegoat, they were terrified when they saw me waking up and getting help. I know now what they are and why my family treats me a certain way. It was absolutely excruciating waking up to this fact and dysfunctio. But with all the therapy and healing ive done and continue to do i am well on my way to genuine healing and rising above the lie i was fed my whole life. Stay strong warriors. Healing is possible.
I am thankful i am out of this girl's life. Didn't realized it untill i stopped balming myself for everything. And then it clicked me. Everything was a lie a facade. Stay MILES AWAY FROM SUCH PEOPLE!!! PERIOD
Wow Melanie!! I’ve watched many of your videos but this has been the most meaningful! Extremely insightful and powerful! I wish I had seen this months ago but..I believe things come to us at the right time. Months ago I was not aware of the extent of his pathological lying. I just joined NARP and I thank you and honour you for being an illuminating light towards the purest form of healing. 💕🌟
I am so pleased this resonated with you and you are so right the information does come at the right time! Bless you and I wish you incredible healing and breakthrough with NARP xoxox
I like the way you stay focused and keep your composure during all the banging and background noises ;)
this video is spot on, i had been interacting all my life with a patholigical lying narcissit until the breacking point this last December... very hard and difficult to do since she is my own mother, and because of it, it is not that easy to banish her complety from my life but at least im doing my best to keep myself out of her side
Melanie, thank you. You were spot on. People need to be aware about narcissists. There are so many of them. Thank you for sharing the tips.
This was absolutely fantastic lovely! Thank you so much👏🏾👏👍🏾💋😘🌼
You are very welcome With Patience. I'm so happy this helps. Love and blessings xoxox
Well should I say anything or walk away? Absolutely unreasonable person to talk to! I need to do this quickly. Please
If it's an unreasonable person - then don't get hooked into conversations. Actions speak louder than words. Leave, walk away and heal. My free inner resources will help you focus on you and get stronger, clearer and free www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse xoxoxo
Like always spot on, hope you enjoy your stay in Bali 🍀.
LadyX555 yes very jealous. Not in a cluster B way just in a how come you never stay on your beautiful island to long?
This is surreal, this describes me pretty much exactly.
whew i needed this one today and it really helped so much... :)
Thank you so much. You and your messages are amazing!!!
Aww you are SO welcome Jean xoxox
Dang, you are so spot on which means I have to make the hard decisions I've been avoiding.
You are very good couldn’t be explained better
Thank you. I typed this almost word by word and emailed to the Pathological lying narcissist that won't leave me alone. I have tried for years to get him to accept he has issues and get help but I know even if he gets help he won't change this is so ingrained in who he is. It's incredibly sad.
Our job isn't to heal these people Sandra. It's truly hun to let go and heal ourslves xooxx
I enjoy listening to you for many reasons. I bought your book, and I find out very helpful also your English profoundly correct and your communication skills are superb.
I gave the narcissist another chance, not knowing the extend of what this personality type is capable of.
My perceptions and truths were irrelevant. The gaslighting and manipations made me question my sanity.
The second I stood up for myself, I was discarded again and blamed for things I never did.
It feels like they want you to hurt.
Wow!!! My life experience and story. I’m currently going through a “Scorched Earth” experience as result of the pathological lying. Its an excruciating experience.
Definitely an experience I fully recommend people should totally avoid. It’s painful.
Wow!!! I’m finally understanding everything you have said in this video.
I’ve tried for years. Love = PAIN with a narcissist. Strictly a relationship built around “Cognitive Dissonance.”
Promise after promise after promise....still the same train wreck in the end.
A pathological liar/narc are simply liars. Period. Ran into one and none of his lies went over. I caught him each time. One thing I can say for certain is when they realize you're smarter than they are they soon leave and never return. After all, no one wants to play a game that they'll never win.
Thank you. You have saved me from much pain.
It is my absolute pleasure Holly xoxox
I am lucky enough to watch this 14 min video. Your just a genius. There is a person in my family who depicts the behaviour you mentioned. I was lucky to detach from him. Now I feel very happy. your so authentic. Not even a single point from your speech went wrong. It matched completely. Kudos to you
I absolutely needed this today. Thank you.
My pleasure Drone Pilot, I'm so glad this helps. Love and blessings xoxox
My Ex
Very good presentation
Thank you Connie. I'm so glad it helps. Love and blessings xoxox
Thank you so much, beautiful truthful words 😁 I feel inpowerd, it's like I'm on the yellow brick road and we are skipping happily home... your beautiful inside out 💌♠️💛
You are so welcome Nobi and thank you for your kind words. Keep thriving hun xoxox
Melanie Tonia Evans You are welcome, blessing and like you say Keep thriving 💛 have a beautiful day and peace of mind 😊
Thank you for this video. Very well done.
This was so helpful, I was able to directly correlate the behaviors you listed back to my relationship with my ex... its safe to say he is/was/still is a narcissist. Grateful I got free but this helps solidify the truth and gives greater insight and clarity. Thanks so much Melanie ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏😘😘xoxo
Hi Kate so pleased this helped clarify things and validate you! xoxoxo
You’ve saved my life thank you so much. My now ex even though it took me three years to realise his behaviour, ticks every single box here. I always knew underneath especially after a year long affair at the beginning but I always took him back because he was so believable and promised he would change. He would always need validation from every little thing he did to help and always spun the arguments round on to me when I tried to genuinely open up about my feelings. I finally saw straight through him and that’s when he walked away. It will take me some time to get over blaming myself and thinking I’m the problem as he always played the good guy with nothing to back that up. Thank you so much for this video I can now breathe a sigh of relief! Just annoyed I didn’t get rid years ago.
Thank you for another great video, Melanie! I'd like to say that when doing your "Self healing and protection meditation " from NARP, I always replay in my mind the flowers, trees and ocean in Bali ;) Thanks to your enlightening videos, articles and NARP, I've realized that it's okay to be me and to be the authentic self is what I need to do. I feel more and more confident in telling what is true love and what is not. I'm happy to hear that you're in Bali right now, I'd like to recommend you a place to go- Nungalan Beach Nyang nyang. It's kind of hard to get down to the beach but the stunning view is worth the effort ^_^ Lots of 💓
You are very welcome Ada, I'm so glad this helps. Love and blessings xoxox
Basic users!
🔥Bless you for this! I have been so lost and felt clueless. Any attempt to ask what was going on to explain the nonsense gets deflected, dismissed, or I get told I am lying and making stuff up to make him look evil bc I don’t love or care about him. Like…bruh. Then when I ask about why the double standards of treatment he’ll tell me he isn’t doing anything to me and I need to figure out what I want bc there is no possible way he is doing these things to him bc he isn’t capable of behaving that way and he’s a good guy with a good heart and then it’s suggested I am spending time in my phone texting w someone and this imaginary person is the reason for my disloyalty and treachery. I’m a bad wife.
Very informative. Thank you for the upload.
I've one question, can a culture/society as a whole which lacks empathy, conciseness etc be narcissist?
I guess M S people are individuals as well as being a part of a collective. What is important for our personal power is to be the healed generative source of who and what we accept into our universe. Does it really matter what is 'out there'. Isn't it really about - what we choose to create / tolerate as our reality? xoxox
Yeah you're right. From your knowledge and experience, which of following categories do you think majority of narcissist maybe inclined towards?
1. free will vs. determinism,
2. materialism vs. spiritualism
3. cognitivism vs. emotionalism
Thanks...
@M S.....Great question.
M S I think it is..we live in a highly narcissistic society. While we do have a responsibility to create what we do want in our life..
honey :)
..i originally from Indonesia...
stay now in Amsterdam ...broken family cast out so i moved to search new life . and found another narcissistic abusive no matter how far i ran away looking for new life ... i woke up now .... your voice and wisdoms help me a lot .... i m.still in healing process ..
have a nice in bali ... melanie
i miss bali and families and friends... been 10 years away from home ..
love you and greetings from holland
dewi
🎯 !!!!!!! YOU ARE SOOOOOOOO RIGHT !!!!!!
Oh, a narcissist does to care about boundaries, theirs because they don't want you in their stuff but they can be all over yours.
Thank you!
THE EYES NEVER LIE
grandiose and entitled that seemed spot on
Known Desiree Glade for 14 years, and dated her as I transitioned out of a previous relationship. Your description fits her to a T! This woman can literally be a poster child for this diagnosed condition. However the way that she saw things was 100% my fault and wrong doing. Took a normal couples disagreement where some improper remarks had been made on both of our parts, and uses only my reactive portion, and labels it "EMOTIONAL ABUSE" completely omitting the insults that she had hurled preceding the entire event. Takes those situations over an entire years period, then presents them to her friends and family painting a picture of me in a negative light. The conversations we had where she was asked to explain her involvement were always spun into several other off topic scenarios, that had no relevance to the initial narrative. Me recognizing this, and questioning her actions, while seeing through this attempted smoke screen, would only inflame her anger and lead to her either exiting the situation, or screaming and hanging up. I always saw right through her deception and lies, which she eventually hated me for. This video exposes so much about these people, and really made me realize how sick she hes been all her life. The final straw was when respectfully suggested that she see a psychotherapist to address these compounding issues. Since then she discarded me, 3 days later began to date one of many ex-boyfriends, then 2 weeks after discarded him, and now is currently dating another individual.
Sad for the kids born to these human beings... Should they even be called that? Human?
He was very VERY interested to know my mind and how i think and how I feel and my experiences.....but he did that to gain my love, to gain my trust, to gain my heart. He literally lied about every single thing he has ever said to me, he didn’t exist at all. What truly exists is a liar, a coward and a money hungry cheater. I found out through his sister that he’s engaged and I found out that everything he said was a lie because he not only hid this from me, but his parents arranged it. He told me his parents would let him choose his spouse. He also told me that his father had abandoned them for years and wouldn’t know if any of them died or married. This is how I came to realize that every single word that has come out of his mouth had been lies. His sister had no reason to lie to me. if he didn’t want the engagement and was forced into it...he would have stood up to his parents like a grown man and chose to fight for us. But he didn’t. What’s worse he neither confirmed or denied what his sister told me. It turns out his father is paying his tuition fees and living expenses and he can’t refuse his father. Up until I found all of this out from his sister, he had been promising marriage and even met my mother, looked her in the eye and told her he wants to marry me
The narcissist I dealt with lied constantly and when I caught her she either cried like a baby or became very very argumentative spinning it on me that I was being insecure. I caught her seeing and flirting with another guy, first saying the guy was just a friend but then when I brought it up, she just became good at hiding it. But as I always will believe I got lucky because I relied on how she behaved rather than her words, and that helped me to be free of her. She couldn't live up to anything she said or demanded of me...
Melanie!! I have missed you!! I was supposed to be on your comprehensive coaching program some time ago...I have been detained awhile. It is all that but most honestly was because I was MENTALLY not ready for it. If that makes any sense...But, I know you understand! This video was just what I needed today! TYSM!! I hope you are well! Working my way back to you!
Hi Angela, that is wonderful that you are ready now Dear Lady. I am well sweetheart - very well thank you! Bless you! xoxox
Thank you for your vid :) I just need to learn how not to get into a bad relationship again...
Hi CosyLife, I would love you to check out my free resources to help you hun www.melanietoniaevans.com/freecourse The information will help you to know what the warning signs/red flags are and the inner transformational work will help you to heal the wounds and change the beliefs that a narcissist hones in on in you. Love and blessings to you xoxox
Good Morning Melanie, I have a question. After watching this vid & the 1 about winning in court over a narcissist, I realized I've been rt for yrs, that my husbands (Ryan) identical twin(Brian), is 100% a NARC. These 2 vid's, it was like you knew him, because the description was spot on. Have you had any dealings with identical twin's with polar opposite diagnosis? My husband is the one at the moment needing your help. In April of 2016 my husband had put up w/Brian's talking crap and put him in his place in front of a few people in our home, everyone sided with my husband and Brian took such offense( to basically his brother dogging him) that he cooked up a plan to get my husband back (& boy did he ever), he actually got a 32 yo woman (either had sex w/her or pd her in meth) to file a false report of sexual assault where there's no DNA, no witnesses, & she allegedly tells an MHMR cawseworker 2 mns after it allegedly happened (gives a 4 day span) while being evaluated for a CPS child custody - this makes no sense to me, If I'm trying to get custody of my kids why would I tell a caseworker that I was sexually assaulted in the home I'm trying to get my kids and take them to? There are many discrepancies in her story's as she's told different people different things. I caught her lying to Detectives within the 1st 5 days of their investigation. I know my husband is innocent and is sitting in prison since April/2016 W/a 15 yr sentence. We are both disabled me physically and him mentally, and on a fixed income. He got a crappy public defender once I got the case file it had both Ryan's jail calls & he only called me, & it had calls W/Brian and his wife. That most certainly for me felt like I was a fly on the wall listening to both of them talk so badly about Ryan & I. I mean I knew it, because I could see it in their body language, and I could see evil spirits in him, nothing but empty black soulless eyes. Brian knows I'm smart, and that I will figure it out. What he doesn't know is what all I've gathered investigating on my own, very delicately, & I even discovered Brian was going around pretending and introducing himself to people as Ryan, he's done that through out the 16 yrs I've known him. I guess my question is, with what I've told you is there a way that Ryan can trick or fool Brian or maybe an emotion Ryan can use (it will have to be a letter as Brian wasn't out 2 mns and caught a domestic violence and menacing threats and his 3rd Fugitive from Justice while on parole so he's going back to prison where he should be) to trigger him into maybe bragging to tell someone? It's just not right, I mean Ryan's and my marriage is suffering cause he's already been gone 28 mns. Any help you could give would be gratefully appreciated. Sry this was a novel. Blessings and Thank You, Dawn
Here’s my dilemma, I know I’ve been in a narcissistic abusive relationship but I’m pretty sure I’m on the spectrum too. I want to say I want the best for her but in reality, I hope her life goes to shit. Ever since we broke up, I noticed how far her lies go.
Bronston Keliipuleole ... I have experienced that my ex was also making up stories from the scratch, totally made up, and without any apparent reason. Maybe just to impress and get attention.
Did this happen to you too?
All of what she says s true. Also the narcissist's are often hyper religious, as part of their denial and camouflage.
Absolutely! I knew one that read the Bible went to church every Sunday even became a Eucharistic minister. They continued the gaslighting manipulation and pathological lying to this day.
Love you so much
there is a difference between not having integrity and being a spineless chameleon,they are the second type
Hi my name is Demetrius ..I had a relationship with a woman which I now believe to be a narcissist and a pathological liar but I'm not really sure.. in the research I've been doing I've learned that pathological liars are really mean , rude , aggressive , put you down deplete your resources etc etc.. but I got to say she never treated me that way if anything she's the one who had the money , I suffer from depression and anxiety during the winter months , she was always there for me to help me she was always very generous with her money treated me like gold , always buying me gifts. I mean I couldn't complain about anything. But the more I got to know her the more I would see that she would just say strange things things that were really out there. For example she would tell me she's from another planet and before she was born she was told that she has to come here to Earth for the betterment of mankind. She she told me one time that she broke into the Vatican and was saving children that were being abused by priests and elites and she almost got killed doing it but she managed to get away. She one time told me that she had a black belt in karate so I asked her to perform a move and she said that she couldn't because she had multiple sclerosis , then I asked her what do you do to treat the multiple sclerosis what medication do you take and she said she doesn't take any medications that she takes THC cannabis oil and with the power of her mind she controls it. Then when we went to her house she showed me a x-ray of her brain I looked at it really carefully and didn't say anywhere that it was multiple sclerosis or anything like that it was just an x ray of the brain and she was telling me that this is the proof. A few months later she told me that she had to do another brain scan at the neurologist I told her I was going to come with her but she's told me no and she never mentioned anything about the results of this that scan that apparently took place..... another time she called me and told me that the city had to come by and change the street light in front of her house because she has the ability to render them useless and to break them again with the power of her mind... When I asked her to do that to the street light in front of my house she said she wasn't prepared and she couldn't do it, how convenient. Another time she told me that she's in some secret group that she called "the cause" with Tom Cruise and Keanu Reeves and a bunch of other celebrities and billionaires that work behind the scenes to help stop the darkness of this world from progressing. Another time she told me that she had four kidneys and the rarest blood type in the world , another time she told me that she hated French people. I told her why do you hate French people? She replied because in one of her past lives she was in France and the French burnt her alive onto a stake. Another time she told me that she beat up a cop and tied him up with his own handcuffs. Another time she told me that she remembers all 33 of her past lives and we were togetheri them and that's how she remembers me that's how she recognized me when she first saw me. Another time she told me that certain cloud formations are actually cloaked spaceships and not really clouds and she can tell which ones they are. Another time she told me that she was a doctor and a lawyer when I asked her for proof to show me a degree she never provided one. I don't know if this call falls under the category of narcissist or pathological line but the last straw was when she told me for the second time that she thought she was pregnant and it turned out that she wasn't.. The second time she did that I just didn't believe that she was being honest .. it came to the point where I didn't trust the word that was coming out of her mouth and it was causing me a lot of anxiety and stress....SoI told her that I think she's lying and I think she's a pathological liar and she went nuts!! she broke up with me instantly!! and became very aggressive very hostile I had never seen that in her before.. I mean she became a completely different person when I started pressing her on proving she's a doctor etc etc etc... I haven't spoken to her close to 3 months I haven't contacted her.. sometimes I wonder if I should have kept my mouth shut but I know the best thing I did was telling her because it really showed me who she was in the end.. anyway I'm really confused I don't expect anybody to reply but if anybody can give me some info I really appreciate it
I’m in deep.
You are amazing! Just discovered ur channel! Subscribed!
Why do I continue to forgive?! The are so evil!
Don't walk ... but rather run away. And then stay away!
My mom is a pathological liar, she lies about nearly everything, even the smallest details. Just recently I started to accept she is a narc... been NC 5 weeks now. I had enough. I feel so lonely, my partner was raised by narcs too, so he doesn't think her behaviour is so abnormal...
What do you do when the you go grey rock for months and the narcissist continues to apologize and NEVER goes away?!
they are desperate for attention.
Everything felt warm. All the care. Feelings of being cherished. But it’s all a lie. If he was real, how could he lie to my face and marry someone else while being engaged to me? They will go to all lengths. You would never suspect unless your intuition steps in. Disgusting
In the unforgettable words of judge judy, "If its mouth is open it's lying" . Isnt it peter? lol
Work of art 🖼 ☮️ ❤️
Real talk.
I need to ask a question that's tricky. Can a narcissist change? More specifically, can a narcissist who has become partially aware of what they've been doing to others by their behavior, change, or rather, begin to question their own narcissistic behavior in order to change that behavior?
Great video, the noise in background was quite distracting for me though ;(
What a shame!
I commented the other day about walking away, this is a family member my sister. It’s so bad I need help!to make a long story short I went no contact for 6 days now. And I thought I was being to aggressive and felt bad . I was going to txt her and explain why, had to think it out what to and how to do this because she’s so unreasonable and aggressive. So I put my phone down didn’t want to step in a pile. Well she txt me before I had responded. She made my mind up for me. The txt she sent was word for word, I love you and I was there when you were born and (you don’t belong to no one else) I’ve always had told her that you don’t scare me! Well I change my mind, that txt is I feel is something to be scared of! I really feel she’s dangerous.
Hi Faith,
I'm happy to help. It can be very confusing when the narcissist in our experience is a family member. This can make it seem very difficult to erect and maintain healthy boundaries. Here are some resources to assist you in dealing with this issue:
blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-if-the-narcissist-is-a-family-member/ blog.melanietoniaevans.com/there-is-no-closure-with-narcissists/ blog.melanietoniaevans.com/5-steps-to-ignoring-a-narcissist-who-tries-to-punish-you/ blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-stop-a-narcissist-from-hurting-you/ blog.melanietoniaevans.com/should-you-tell-a-narcissist-who-they-really-are/ blog.melanietoniaevans.com/stop-being-the-scapegoat/ Should You Go No Contact With A Family Member? - ruclips.net/video/TNYJJkft03k/видео.html blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-set-boundaries-with-a-narcissist-if-you-cant-go-no-contact/ blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-set-boundaries-with-a-narcissist-if-you-cant-go-no-contact-part-2/ Love and blessings xoxox
This was great. Thanks a lot
Having narcissistic family is the worse
Imagine that
Fantastic videos...so real
Hey well I dated a narc, I mean we ended it a week ago. He used to create stories about his ex. After relationship ended I got to know from the girl that they didn't even date😂um. Is there something u would like to advice me😂. I am still in a huge shock. That the guy used to literally compare me to a woman he hardly knows. 😂 worst part he used to tell in detailll
5:08. Is a big deal. He expects me to just get over and not talk about the black eye he just gave me.when I told my husband on jan 7th to look at my eye after it was black due to his rage when i confronted him about his hookers cheating on me with he replies. "My hand is broke cause of your face, you wanna compare apples to oranges here?" He is mad im telling my friends about the black eye yesterday and will be in background being loud so I cant talk to them over phone. I have all of it on recording and am just building up evidence to leave this year. Your channel has helped me realize the lies
I remember this woman boasting about when they were a child even if they were caught red-handed they still denied the truth
turns out this woman was extremely manipulative and dangerous - a predator posing as a house pet
And what if this person is your own dad? I can't simply leave him right? I know that he is a Narcissist but all the other family members and friends wouldn't believe me.
Hi Stephanie, this will help sweetheart blog.melanietoniaevans.com/what-if-the-narcissist-is-a-family-member/ xoxox
Need help...married to one and chronically ill
Hun, I replied to you in another comment. And I'd love for you to sign up for my Free 16 Day Recovery course to help you start healing for real www.youcanthrivebook.com/freecourse Love to you xoxox
This happen to me:
She told me a total made up story; I believed that story; and seen the fact that I didn’t like what she told me (and I believed) I left her.
It took two months for her to find the courage to come to me and admit that that story was totally fake.
Did something like that happen to some of you too?
My ex-boyfriend mostly never admitted his lies. I thibk only once he admitted, but did not say he's sorry. He lied so many times...about small things and about big things. Guess his whole life was a lie. I pray that God helps him to become normal.
Wow!!!
Most of the comments I've read are ladies lamenting so it's pretty lonely for me as a man to be suffering abuse from the most pathological narcissistic liar you've ever met. They lied about everything from the very start. It's almost 13 years now, the lies only get wilder and her confidence greater. It's a nightmare that I can't seem to wake from. God have mercy on my soul coz I don't know if I can take this anymore.
Hi Jay, We have many lovely men in our community. Absolutely men can suffer from this as much as anyone else. If you truly want to heal, come join the other men in the Thriver community. I'd love to show you how to do this.
courses.melanietoniaevans.com/p/narp
Love and blessings xoxox
It's not always a partner. Sometimes it's a person that you are taking care of.........for free!!! a family member(or in-law) be careful!!!