I think the guy who said "someone who you can trust when they're telling you you're wrong. That's the goal" touched on something really insightful. Even though most of his answer was kidding around lol!
♥️ Been telling myself the same thing lately. Hopefully we can finally learn to love ourselves, be kind to ourselves and find comfort within ourselves one day.
Instead of having a list of what you want in a partner it's better to have a list of what you DON'T want. Focusing on the "I want" traits may cause you to ignore negative tendencies they have or have you thinking "I can change them" or "love will change them".
This is a great series! I have been watching these videos nonstop, they always get a smile on my face and make me feel warm inside. Also it is really interesting to hear what people answer and you manage to create a beautiful atmosphere. Never stop making these videos :)
This is one of the most interesting questions I've have heard. I am 53 years old. I graduated high school in 1984 and also married my high school sweetheart at the end of 1984. We were both 18. I never really thought about about what I wanted in a life partner. 2 children later I decided to go to college to pursue my Nursing degree. We've been married 34 years now and have been blessed to add 2 son in laws and 3 granddaughters to our family. I think my husband and I just grew up like family. I no more could divorce him and remove him from my life than I could one of my sisters. I guess that's a weird way to look at it. But I truly love this man. Are we "in love" the same way we were in 1984? No. It's a different season of our lives now. I'd like to think I would choose him all over again. But if I really were to ask the questions that these people answered... does he make me laugh... no. Does he bring out the best in me. Absolutely not. There is such a thing called tolerance and complicitness after a time. Some call it a rut... some call it a routine. But no I do not have my idea of what I would want in a life partner. That's sad.
PrissyHippy I think this is what happens in most long term relationships, it can stay the way it was, it’s not realistic. But to have someone you still love is pretty amazing and it sounds like you guys have built a beautiful life together. 💕
Great question and great answers. I like the last one. Someone who is equally concerned about each others happiness. Her point on monogamy made me think that we should date people and know ourselves before we settle down. One teacher once said to my class that people shouldn’t date until they’re 30 years old. The more I learn the more I believe that.
I don't believe there's a such thing, bc nobody is perfect, but if you can find somebody whose crazy vibes with your crazy, I think that is pretty darn great. Perfect is unobtainable, but great damn sure is enough!
Somebody who brings the best out in me, loyal, faithful and honest, totally in to me as much as I'm into them, attractive, charismatic, mentally stimulating, g.s.h and fun, creative, respectful, considerate, patient, kind, loves hanging out with me and makes me a priority as much as I do them. Someone mentally, emotionally strong, not afraid to share emotion. Grounded and open minded!
Someone who prioritizes me, choose me first.. someone who knows that a relationship is a give and take, compromises.. accept me as me.. know self worth and our worth as partners.. someone who i can experience life with..
Someone who's honest, has a good sense of humor, a good brain, is kind and thoughtful. I had a relationship years ago that brought out the version of my best self, but he was non-committal - the one that got away...
Thoraya I'm from Egypt n I wanna say that you're the best, I adore all what you do, I've watched all of your videos, thanks for your efforts to create these videos, just keep moving forward ❤️❤️
I want someone who's kind. Someone who's passionate about something, there's nothing I love more than watching people talking about things they're passionate about. Someone I'll want to call to tell about even the most minute details of my day.
@Martha Speaks Of course it is rational, contrary to what many claim, we have tons of evidence. In fact, I would go as far as to say that atheism is irrational. Im open for a discussion.
My (ex) girlfriend who supported me when I was at my lowest, she loved me unconditionally and just wanted to be with me no matter how much I had to offer to her... But at some point she couldn’t take it anymore and left me two months ago. I was too immature and needed to change first. Im sure we are soulmates so were gonna get back together :-) I miss you Diba you’re my future fiancé, I will show you this comment when the time is right ❤️
Someone that I feel comfortable with. Someone that I feel I can be myself with. And I think that for someone to be like that, they would probably need to be quite similar to me, such as similar values, similar attitudes, or similar outlook.
Life and love are a road-trip and if you can be with someone for hours or days at a time, sharing experiences, being sometimes very close and other times giving each other space and time to do their thing or nothing, then that is your perfect life partner. Being able to deal with the unpredictable things that always happen on the road, together, is important too.
My perfect life partner That's a tough one. But they would hold me. In their arms when I was afraid confused sad angry terrified and all those demons would simply Melt Away All these people are beautiful. But the guy with the dog and the guy that said somebody that would put up with my b*******. That's beautiful. I've come to the point. Where I require nothing except for someone who cares happiness Is found within. It is not found in another. But I can look around. And love this world. Because of people like Thoraya because I can be. A bitter human being at times And she made me see the sweetness.
someone I can sit in the same room with for hours and not say a word and its perfectly comfortable. And then one of says something and we end up talking for forever. I'm an introvert who definitely needs extrovert friends and people in my life, but I think my life partner i wish to be introverted too so we can spend our alone time together. And not be offended when the other needs space to reboot
A person that continues to make me happy no matter how long we’ve been together. Someone where their love will never fade from me. Someone that loves me twice as much as I love them. Someone who remembers the little things about me. Someone who is not toxic. Someone I can just joke around with and go on adventure with. Someone who’s willing to have kids. I can go on and on !
As somebody said, it's all about balance. My ideal woman would be: • Honest • Open minded • Humble but also self confident and strong willed • Tolerant and supportive, but firm • Progressive • Passionate about something (not necessarily the same things as me) • Ironic, sarcastic, sometimes silly in a fun way • Capable of restricting my inclination for screw-ups • Owner of big boobs
I can understand why some people think monogamy isn't realistic. It's because they're cheaters and can't help themselves. But why do they project that view on everybody else? Just because you can't help but cheat doesn't mean everybody else is in the same boat. I would run from anybody who told me they didn't think monogamy was realistic because I'd know what they are really saying, which is that THEY can't be monogamous.
Everybody is different with and has their own ways of living life. I believe in monogamy and am not a cheater but that doesn’t mean we all have to be the same.
I can see what you're saying. I'm a thoroughly monogamous person and have had 2 long term partners who I've been committed to monogamously. Both have chosen look outside the relationship. For attention or novelty .in the past ive caught myself thinking "well if everyone is going to cheat why bother trying to have a committed relationship" I don't believe in this though in my core. I think this is a problem of our generation. People don't seem to enter relationships with the right attitude. It's frustrating. This lady has probably been cheated on too many times. "I don't think monogamy is realistic" probably means she's never experienced it genuinely reciprocated.
@@a.Bader97 People have different beliefs about God. Some believe that Christ and God are one and the same, others, like myself, believe that they are separate beings. I'm assuming you're Islamic, so you don't believe Christ was the son of God. I don't think it matters too much which of the above you believe, if you follow the teachings of prophets and thereby God, or Allah, or Elohim, whatever you want to call Him, then you're hopefully on the right track to a good life. That's just my input, feel free to disagree or agree, whatever. I just love talking about religion and getting input from other people and members of other denominations.
I love your videos they have a lot of depth to them however if I'm going to be honest and it's just my opinion sometimes I skip through a lot of certain parts that are filled with homosexuals and things of that nature because I believe they're wrong and they go against my religion!
But seeing that love, I think that helps those of us not in same sex relationships, see that the love is the same. The connection, the care, the concern. What I wish for all people to experience in life. So I think it’s good for everyone to see, regardless of beliefs. There are a lot of unhappy people out there regardless of sexual orientation.
I don't believe it's in the spirit of this channel or these videos to be rude to you so I don't want to be, but I do want to say...firstly, you could have kept that to yourself...secondly, believing homosexuality to be wrong is not "just an opinion" it is called homophobia and, I believe, it should not go without backlash..thirdly, i am am atheist and though I respect those who are religious without doing harm, I do not respect any aspect that hurts people's right to exist the same as everyone else with a sexuality they are born with. Maybe if you didn't skip those parts you would see they are just people talking about their partner and who the love, in the same way as everyone else and might reevaluate your thinking.
Indeed!!!!! my Main turnoff superficial ppl to speak of good bodies, eye color,hair color are all Qualities that change as we navigate thru life but Character/Integrity is Everlasting.
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I think the guy who said "someone who you can trust when they're telling you you're wrong. That's the goal" touched on something really insightful. Even though most of his answer was kidding around lol!
The guy with the dog💕
Looks like Jim Carrey
The guy who said "she makes me a good version of myself" soo true! Growth together 👍
Yassss🙌🙌🙌❤
I will always be my own life partner.I will always support myself and comfort myself and just love myself.
♥️
Been telling myself the same thing lately. Hopefully we can finally learn to love ourselves, be kind to ourselves and find comfort within ourselves one day.
Literally makes no sense to call yourself a partner.. you're one person, you cannot be your own partner.
I love the variety of people you speak with:) I've been binge watching your videos recently and I love them so much. Thank you for sharing them.
I *swear* i would have cracked into tears if she happened to interview me unexpectedly with questions like that.
Instead of having a list of what you want in a partner it's better to have a list of what you DON'T want. Focusing on the "I want" traits may cause you to ignore negative tendencies they have or have you thinking "I can change them" or "love will change them".
This is a great series! I have been watching these videos nonstop, they always get a smile on my face and make me feel warm inside. Also it is really interesting to hear what people answer and you manage to create a beautiful atmosphere. Never stop making these videos :)
I always smile too!!!
Sometimes they make me bawl my eyes out.
A part-time lover and full-time friend
The monkey on your back is the greatest trend
This is one of the most interesting questions I've have heard. I am 53 years old. I graduated high school in 1984 and also married my high school sweetheart at the end of 1984. We were both 18. I never really thought about about what I wanted in a life partner. 2 children later I decided to go to college to pursue my Nursing degree. We've been married 34 years now and have been blessed to add 2 son in laws and 3 granddaughters to our family. I think my husband and I just grew up like family. I no more could divorce him and remove him from my life than I could one of my sisters. I guess that's a weird way to look at it. But I truly love this man. Are we "in love" the same way we were in 1984? No. It's a different season of our lives now. I'd like to think I would choose him all over again. But if I really were to ask the questions that these people answered... does he make me laugh... no. Does he bring out the best in me. Absolutely not. There is such a thing called tolerance and complicitness after a time. Some call it a rut... some call it a routine. But no I do not have my idea of what I would want in a life partner. That's sad.
PrissyHippy I think this is what happens in most long term relationships, it can stay the way it was, it’s not realistic. But to have someone you still love is pretty amazing and it sounds like you guys have built a beautiful life together. 💕
@@candysmith7425 thank you love!
Oh, I can´t stop watching these videos. They all move me a lot, I can´t stop smiling watching this one. Amazing work, Thoraya!
The one with the puppy, yessss! Exactly ♥️♥️♥️
Great question and great answers. I like the last one. Someone who is equally concerned about each others happiness. Her point on monogamy made me think that we should date people and know ourselves before we settle down. One teacher once said to my class that people shouldn’t date until they’re 30 years old. The more I learn the more I believe that.
I don't believe there's a such thing, bc nobody is perfect, but if you can find somebody whose crazy vibes with your crazy, I think that is pretty darn great. Perfect is unobtainable, but great damn sure is enough!
I love that you speak with persons with age... experiences and life wisdom. Their stories I enjoy the most.
Somebody who brings the best out in me, loyal, faithful and honest, totally in to me as much as I'm into them, attractive, charismatic, mentally stimulating, g.s.h and fun, creative, respectful, considerate, patient, kind, loves hanging out with me and makes me a priority as much as I do them. Someone mentally, emotionally strong, not afraid to share emotion. Grounded and open minded!
openminded, kind, smart, respectful, honest, ambitious. Also a little extroverted, as I'm very introverted.
Someone who ACTUALLY SHOWS UP. ☀️
Someone who prioritizes me, choose me first.. someone who knows that a relationship is a give and take, compromises.. accept me as me.. know self worth and our worth as partners.. someone who i can experience life with..
someone who lives with integrity, chooses to love me each day despite my imperfections, and someone who loves Jesus !
"makes me the best version of myself"
Someone who's honest, has a good sense of humor, a good brain, is kind and thoughtful. I had a relationship years ago that brought out the version of my best self, but he was non-committal - the one that got away...
Thoraya I'm from Egypt n I wanna say that you're the best, I adore all what you do, I've watched all of your videos, thanks for your efforts to create these videos, just keep moving forward ❤️❤️
I want someone who's kind. Someone who's passionate about something, there's nothing I love more than watching people talking about things they're passionate about. Someone I'll want to call to tell about even the most minute details of my day.
Someone loving, and someone who treats others with kindness.
My perfect person
1. Loyal
2. Kind
3. Intelligent
4. HUMBLE
5. Can think rationally
6. Hilarious
7. Fair
8. Productive
9. Beautiful
10. Loves Jesus
Sounds good to me as well :)
Top priority
Love Jesus First and Foremost and Wholeheartedly!
@@godsamazinggrace5331 of course! JESUS 1ST!
@Martha Speaks Of course it is rational, contrary to what many claim, we have tons of evidence. In fact, I would go as far as to say that atheism is irrational. Im open for a discussion.
@Martha Speaks YOU ARE STUPID. WHO MADE YOU THEN ?
I had a shit-eating grin on my face the entire time Chris and Adam were talking
My (ex) girlfriend who supported me when I was at my lowest, she loved me unconditionally and just wanted to be with me no matter how much I had to offer to her...
But at some point she couldn’t take it anymore and left me two months ago.
I was too immature and needed to change first.
Im sure we are soulmates so were gonna get back together :-)
I miss you Diba you’re my future fiancé, I will show you this comment when the time is right ❤️
:)
Someone that I feel comfortable with. Someone that I feel I can be myself with. And I think that for someone to be like that, they would probably need to be quite similar to me, such as similar values, similar attitudes, or similar outlook.
Life and love are a road-trip and if you can be with someone for hours or days at a time, sharing experiences, being sometimes very close and other times giving each other space and time to do their thing or nothing, then that is your perfect life partner. Being able to deal with the unpredictable things that always happen on the road, together, is important too.
Someone who is funny, compassionate, romantic, and a passionate about their ambitions☺.
Adam and Chris are so adorable
I’m very late but honestly someone that can make me laugh and be the best be!
While I do not agree with her, the last girl's answer proves that it isn't always men who don't believe in monogamy.
My perfect life partner That's a tough one. But they would hold me. In their arms when I was afraid confused sad angry terrified and all those demons would simply Melt Away All these people are beautiful. But the guy with the dog and the guy that said somebody that would put up with my b*******. That's beautiful. I've come to the point. Where I require nothing except for someone who cares happiness Is found within. It is not found in another. But I can look around. And love this world. Because of people like Thoraya because I can be. A bitter human being at times And she made me see the sweetness.
someone I can sit in the same room with for hours and not say a word and its perfectly comfortable. And then one of says something and we end up talking for forever. I'm an introvert who definitely needs extrovert friends and people in my life, but I think my life partner i wish to be introverted too so we can spend our alone time together. And not be offended when the other needs space to reboot
A person that continues to make me happy no matter how long we’ve been together. Someone where their love will never fade from me. Someone that loves me twice as much as I love them. Someone who remembers the little things about me. Someone who is not toxic. Someone I can just joke around with and go on adventure with. Someone who’s willing to have kids. I can go on and on !
1:55 oh she's so beatiful
Monogomy isn't realistic if you're an incredibly selfish person, I agree!
Love love love what you do Thoraya 🎉
A good dad loyal hard working makes me laugh and loves me for me
As somebody said, it's all about balance. My ideal woman would be:
• Honest
• Open minded
• Humble but also self confident and strong willed
• Tolerant and supportive, but firm
• Progressive
• Passionate about something (not necessarily the same things as me)
• Ironic, sarcastic, sometimes silly in a fun way
• Capable of restricting my inclination for screw-ups
• Owner of big boobs
Rocco Casadei ô
I can understand why some people think monogamy isn't realistic. It's because they're cheaters and can't help themselves. But why do they project that view on everybody else? Just because you can't help but cheat doesn't mean everybody else is in the same boat. I would run from anybody who told me they didn't think monogamy was realistic because I'd know what they are really saying, which is that THEY can't be monogamous.
Sam Harper Well said 👏🏽 Agreed.
So true!
Everybody is different with and has their own ways of living life. I believe in monogamy and am not a cheater but that doesn’t mean we all have to be the same.
I agree! It’s a way of sugar-coating that you can’t commit to one person. Just because she can’t stick to one person doesn’t mean no one else can.
I can see what you're saying. I'm a thoroughly monogamous person and have had 2 long term partners who I've been committed to monogamously. Both have chosen look outside the relationship. For attention or novelty .in the past ive caught myself thinking "well if everyone is going to cheat why bother trying to have a committed relationship" I don't believe in this though in my core. I think this is a problem of our generation. People don't seem to enter relationships with the right attitude. It's frustrating. This lady has probably been cheated on too many times. "I don't think monogamy is realistic" probably means she's never experienced it genuinely reciprocated.
Someone who is willing to seek Christ with me❤
Amen.
Amen
Amen!
Some guy who loves Jesus Christ wholeheartedly!
Why not the one who created Christ (peace be upon him)?
@@a.Bader97 People have different beliefs about God. Some believe that Christ and God are one and the same, others, like myself, believe that they are separate beings. I'm assuming you're Islamic, so you don't believe Christ was the son of God. I don't think it matters too much which of the above you believe, if you follow the teachings of prophets and thereby God, or Allah, or Elohim, whatever you want to call Him, then you're hopefully on the right track to a good life. That's just my input, feel free to disagree or agree, whatever. I just love talking about religion and getting input from other people and members of other denominations.
I've always wondered what beach shes at! Such a great vedio 👍
Loves God🌈✳️
4:24 ciao 👋
Che bello di dove sei e da quanto vivi in California?
Ciao 😊
The guy at 6:10 looks like Yanni. The famous pianist
Lmao the first guy said “under 40” when he’s clearly in his upper 40s or 50s
I love your videos they have a lot of depth to them however if I'm going to be honest and it's just my opinion sometimes I skip through a lot of certain parts that are filled with homosexuals and things of that nature because I believe they're wrong and they go against my religion!
But seeing that love, I think that helps those of us not in same sex relationships, see that the love is the same. The connection, the care, the concern. What I wish for all people to experience in life. So I think it’s good for everyone to see, regardless of beliefs. There are a lot of unhappy people out there regardless of sexual orientation.
I don't believe it's in the spirit of this channel or these videos to be rude to you so I don't want to be, but I do want to say...firstly, you could have kept that to yourself...secondly, believing homosexuality to be wrong is not "just an opinion" it is called homophobia and, I believe, it should not go without backlash..thirdly, i am am atheist and though I respect those who are religious without doing harm, I do not respect any aspect that hurts people's right to exist the same as everyone else with a sexuality they are born with. Maybe if you didn't skip those parts you would see they are just people talking about their partner and who the love, in the same way as everyone else and might reevaluate your thinking.
Wow that 1st guy.... so shallow
Amazing Grace a creep too!
Indeed!!!!! my Main turnoff superficial ppl to speak of good bodies, eye color,hair color are all Qualities that change as we navigate thru life but Character/Integrity is Everlasting.
@@mjparham6430 right! Typical surface dumb stuff
Total Loser
Resonated with everything said
Great video! :D
There's no such thing. The word perfect is synonymous with a black unicorn.
Has to be either Harry styles, Zayn Malik, Liam Payne, Louis Tomlinson, or Niall Horan 😂❤️
Someone like Iron man ( played by Robert Downey Jr )
Wow didn't know Jim Carrey had a dog!
Ueeee italiana👍🏻
Someone who isn’t afraid to push gender stereotypes, loves animals, and accepts me for who I am, flaws and all.
Done!
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My mobile ❤️❤️❤️