He Hasn’t Texted in 2 Days 📱😬 (Am I Losing Him?) 😢
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- Опубликовано: 11 июл 2024
- This video exposes the truth about when he hasn't texted in 2 days (or more).
Maybe it's been two days, 3 days, a few days, a week... and it's driving you crazy.
"How hard is it to just message back? It takes 5 seconds!"
True, but there's more things to consider than just how long it takes to text back.
It's possible he's ghosting because he's lost interest (and we'll discuss what the "ghost" scenario looks like), but there are other explanations for why the guy might disappear.
What happened? Why do guys not text back?
The truth is that guys are not really built for texting. They only like to text when they're attention isn't wrapped up in something else (even if it's something non-work related like watching a football game or playing a video game).
Men don't multitask, they tend to focus on one singular thing at a time and they don't deal well with interruptions.
So sometimes you can have a good boyfriend who's just a bad texter, and that's OK. We'll talk about exactly how to navigate that scenario so things can be a lot better.
We'll discuss what he's experiencing on his side as well as what you can do to get him to text back. You might be wondering, "Should I text back?"
We'll cover that too.
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My boyfriend always late
Is your husband a virgo btw?
A New Mode so I was told...I need a technology break...but don’t take that as me pulling away from you because I really like you. So?? I wait?? And if so how long before it is foolish too?
I Love your video so much
Hello! The video helped me a lot to feel better, because this is exactly my situation, he vanished away 38 hours ago lol and I can’t stop tripping, I would like to know how to react if he comes back, because I really take this things personal, should I be as usual? Should I be not very nice? What’s the best attitude for me to have towards his 38 hour ghosting behavior? Haha
If he isn't making an effort with you, stop overthinking it date other men move on be kind to yourself... If he wants you, he will step up! If not you lost someone who is not investing in you, no loss
I needed this, thank you
Best comment EVER
I concur
So true
I’m teady
I walked because I did not feel like a priority. It was really hard...and still is.
I'm proud of you girl. It's indeed really hard, but the right way!
Not hard to walk away. Hard to stay with someone like that. Been there. Happy for you.
It sucks !
It's hard really hard to move on from the relationship where you live your whole life in little period...😢 It's hard to forget a person who was meant to be your World ..😞😥
Same! All he gives me is anxiety when he takes forever to text me back. He supposely can't wait to see me on wednesday & how excited he is. But i'm not going to hangout with him. I'm so done with him. It's not healthy constantly thinking when he is going to text me back. I can't even concentrate on my career. Any man that makes you feel that way, just let him go. As hard as it is(believe me it's hard since he only lives 4 to 5 mins away from me), you have to do what's best for you.
The guys that ghosts and then reappear again in a continuous loop are a lot of times narcissists!
We love u
Men hate texting. You expect too much.
@@foreveryoungpisces7426 ohhh that explains everything!!
They aren't narcissists, they only use you when they got no one else to use. It's best to find someone else that truly cares about you.
I was married to a narcissist with 2 kids. That’s a whole other story ! 😂
I agree with this! I just blew a nice connection by having expectations of a text. He is not my boyfriend and it made me look so insecure. Dont do it girls!
Same here. Im so sad about it 😪
Totally..I did the same, fortunately the guy stuck aroubd
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You are right
Happens to all if us. We're here to learn
Lol honestly, one or two texts a day isn't allot. If he's interested he will make the effort, if he isn't he won't
Yep
If he hasn’t texted me in days “I’m gone” I learned the hard way on that. He’s entertaining others. Bye bye 👋
No, he's not entertaining others, we just had an arguing, that make him angry, I dont like tattoo, but he loved tattoo, and he getting a tattoo anyway, I feel like he doesn't care about me, that I don't like tattoo, its hurts me so bad.
and he blocking me on Facebook and other online apps, but I can message him on my phone number and never reply since yesterday, but I put everthing into God. And I feel a little bit good, that one day he will contact me and make peace with me again.
He is a specialist who did mine couple of years ago ok. He brought my love back ok
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Nope... He's just busy working. 🤣
If he ghosts you, reappear then ghost again, just MOVE TF ON! Save your time, energy, emotion and get better man!
Mmmm … I waited 2 days then I decided that I deserved better and that I would make it clear that the lack of communication was NOT acceptable,,, so sent him a text to let him know that I was no longer interested - if I guy is really interested he doesn’t suddenly stop communicating… his behaviour is telling you something loud and clear that he not interested.. if I accept this behaviour then I am only empowering him to do it again!
after breaking up with this guy … he just got in touch … about 2 months later … but I’ve moved on and with someone who I talk to nearly everyday on the phone even though he lives abroad …but that’s because I insisted on talking and not just texting 😂😂In fact I gave the new gay an ultimate when he was just texting me … I told him I want to be with a guy who enjoys talking on the phone and will make time for me … so he came back and we now talk on the phone nearly every day .. I think it’s important to be put your own needs first and be true to yourself about what you want in a relationship… as most men will take advantage of woman and do what they want.! make the demands , speak out, empower yourself and be in control of the relationship. .. 😎
"if everything is life or death... you're going to die a lot" .. THIS! Ladies please stop relying on men to validate you. You all are QUEENS and that's exactly how you should treat yourself. Treat yourself like a Queen and everyone else will follow suit!
I love that you are so on point and very clear and straightforward!
For the very first time, I feel so relieved listening to this lady. Thank you
Thank you! I feel relaxed now. I thought I'd never get over the pain that he brought by "ghosting me". But I did.
Best RUclips advice channel! Thank you. It’s been two days and I’ve got to get over the rejection thing.
he does this everytime: we talk, we hang out, he goes ghost for like a week right after and this goes on everytime.. i know he struggles with a lot of personal things, but he does still talk to his friends and goes on tiktok.. ive decided to not occupy myself with it anymore
nah i think your man just needs he's time to enjoy it as a guy .. we are getting through a lot of things it could be his job or he just want to have fun with his friends .
We also think if we talk too much with the girl she will lose interest So what do you have to do in your situation is to take care of his mental health you might didn't share personal things with each others that's how you make a healthy relationship and do not ever overthink .. He might I have feelings for you he just needs time to share it with you because we ''guys'' are emotionally disabled lol
@@HisokaHamza-mn1pv thank you so much for your comment! i will take this with me into my next relationship, though this man ended up ghosting me about 3 months ago..
Thank you so much. I haven’t heard from him in a week and I will mentally and physically move on!!
I really needed this video. It remind me that his just a friend. I need to relax and not expect a lot from him.
What happend now ? Are u togother ?
Haha yes. Well said.
If a man likes you - he'll text you
Really digging your energy. Your personality is an A+ founded on relatable connection and humor. Best vibes out there - keep it up!
Thank you Sebrina, of all I've heard in terms of this type of situation, you make the most sense. Because of you, I'm able to a sense of relief. I was so stressed and worried prior to listening to you
You are doing a good work, I love that texting video, just saved me from chasing after my bf, so I will just do nothing and wait for his text
I’ve been thoroughly enjoying your videos. Thank you for creating them at the most perfect time for me. Advice is concise, clear and makes perfect sense. Keep up the great work!
Ladies remember. If he hasn't made a conversation/hasn't asked you out after 2 weeks, you MOVE ON.
He is a specialist who did mine couple of years ago ok. He brought my love back ok
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You have helped me clarify a lot of things. Thank you so much. You're heaven-sent!
I've been receiving emails from you guys for a few years now. It's great to see that you made a RUclips channel. Please keep these videos coming!
I must say, and I've never applied this to dating before but to other aspects of life, PANNIC AT A LAST RESORT don't go into PANNIC mode straight away. Love the idea that the panic deadline can be applied to dating
I admit I’m bad for this , if i don’t hear from any man I’m talking to my anxiety jumps automatically into panic . I’m like what did i do wrong , why can’t i keep a man ? The way i am having pride i don’t text or call but wait for them to contact me again , i never look needy and blow up his phone I’m just freaking out by myself 😕.. when i hear from them I’m all the anxiety disappears .
Same here
What should we do in that situation
Great advices, Sabrina. You are such a big help. More to come.
I walked away from a 8mth relationship for the same thing. It was the hardest thing I've done because I do love him but I was just an after thought to fill a void in his life, screw that xo
I sooooo needed this I feel so much better like a weight has been lifted up off of my chest.
Your personal examples are soooo helpful! Loving your vids, and subscribed lol ❤️
“Then your gonna die a lot” I LAUGHED SO HARD - loved listening to you - I’m back in the saddle so I need a little guidance thank you
Sabrina, you are the best! Your emails and now videos are by far the best dating advice on the internet. Thanks for helping me remember to stay sane.
You're welcome!
Right? She's the greatest
Such useful advice. Thanks, Sabrina! All you say makes so much sense!
So happy you enjoyed!
This video is so on point. Sabrina you’re awesome
You give the best advices
We need more content !!!! Love you Sabrina 💗
Great video, I totally agree, it's been my problem in the past, high expectations, expecting the guy to behave as a boyfriend jaja.
Great advice, I think the best is to chill out and enjoy, no expectations 😎
I really like how you encourage positivity even when we don’t want to hear certain things which are very true and important to know of.
I love the way you analyse issues positively
He is a specialist who did mine couple of years ago ok. He brought my love back ok.
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I like all your points!
I’m an Asian girl who’s now (online) dating with an American guy. After almost a year, he’s suddenly acting cold and now it’s been 4 days since his last text message. I don’t really know how Western guy think because i’ve never dated any of them. From the start i keep my expectation low, remembering we’re not in the same country. And your advices help me on how to react with him now. Thank you. :)
So ..why he didn't text you for 4 days?
When you said the guy comes and goes you dont want to be in a relationship like that. That answered my question. Ty I look forward to your new posts.
He heIped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 🙏🙏🙏
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That's literally my situation at the moment. I'm glad I watched this.
Any updates?
We broke up. 😂
My situation is the same and this is very helpful to me
Yeah!!! He's just not the right guy for me. It's true. Thank you so much.
You are really good! Spreading the love 😘
Awww, so happy for you. I preemptively panic when I don't get a text or very little a day or two, and then get a 12 hr phone call with much love. All that drama and pain for nothing!! He's overseas, 7 hr time diff. Going on 3 yrs, his flight to me this year canceled. It's been tough and restrictive lockdown in his country incredibly hard. We're holding on. 💕💕💕
He is a specialist who did mine couple of years ago ok. He brought my love back ok.
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@@garthdavis6154 Well I don't need mine brought back. He texts everyday. Is your specialist so magical he can repeal the ban against S. Africans entering the US so my guy can fly to me? If he can do that he can also show me how to win $millions in Vegas. LOL
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Ive been getting email from you guys for the past few months and I love them!! Recently though, I was rejected by a friend I’ve had feelings for though, and I’d love to hear some advice more specific on how to move on when you’re rejected and how to love yourself more
We'll be covering all of that. And we write about it a lot on ANM as well. Stay tuned!
I believed in all that you say am just going through the same era just now but I am not feeling bad just awaiting his final decision. In a relationship I always ready to say good bye to any man. I am independent don't depends on his earnings and most of all I try to make myself very happy no matter the problem/s. Nice presentation need more of this. Keep it up!
Your video is working great. I often got a feeling :"lost" with this guy. I scare and worry when he didn't reply my message for 3 days and when he come back to reply my message and it seems no special thing was happened. And he does not apologize me or anything. And I think that I need to stop, hold on myself and let see his reaction next time. Now for 1 days he continues to no reply my message and I just learned to focus on my life instead of texting or calling him.
This really helped me calm down and ground myself. Thank you.
OMG all this is so true. Back with my ex. All full on when we are together (I’m out of town) then when I’m back in my home town......nothing !!!! Can be weeks before I hear from him. Yes says he’s busy but he’s on what’s app at midnight so he’s texting someone. I try not to be the first to text so I don’t look needy. So confusing. Says all the right things when we are together. We have history going back 30 years and he says we have a connection ahhhh 🤬both going through breakups. You make so much sense. I overthink everything. Gotta work out this time as I can’t even begin to think of my life without him now I have him back. Been seeing each other 6 months this time round. Thank you for your advice. 🙏🏻❤️
Oh wow it's just amazing how these men operate. Each of them are unique in their words and actions. I recently started talking to a guy , we met over 3 yrs ago. He was in a relationship so we kept it very cordial. He had a break up earlier this year. One night he texted that he lived me about 5 weeks ago. We started talking every single day and night for about 4 weeks den suddenly. I am not getting calls or texts. He made a lot of plans for us to be together. He even said he wants to marry me. Two weeks has gone and not a single word from him. I called couple times and texted. Not sounding needy or desperate. But from here on. I am giving him his space and just focus on myself. He will contact me when he is ready. I won't be stalking his social media either. 😊
Was watching your video cause I haven’t heard from him in over a day, soon as you said set a deadline my phone dinged and it was him! Lol
I am so enlightened in this video, thank you :
Love is kind and patient. Whatever he did to me i need to love myself first. I want him to realize i am worth it and deserve to someone. I'm enough take it or leave it.
Best video I’ve heard in a long time!👍
Awwww thanks for sharing Sabrina..this resonates with me..Makes soo much sense wow
I really love your approached I can resonate from it. I learned so much on what you said. Thank you for sharing this message. You make me feel better and stronger with your message.❤
This the best advice I heard thus far ❤️
You’re the best, thank you 🙏🏾
Im ready right now.You are right on cue!
This video was so helpful. I was about to blow a long term friendship. Now I understand and I will respond to his text after 3 days not talking to him and it took him 3 days to respond to my text
Your videos are my life saver right now.
He is a specialist who did mine couple of years ago ok. He brought my love back ok.
He use to FaceTime me while he cuts the grass lol they know how to multitask if they want to. They do it for the people they want to do it for
I lol’d so hard at your “life or death” comment. Obsessed with your channel!!
He is a specialist who did mine couple of years ago ok. He brought my love back ok
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Love this advice!
Keep these videos coming ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The video I needed, thank you 🩵
Male channels are saying the same thing for women. So no one is texting each other but want each other to text them. I didnt text a woman who was really feeling me out of male pride because i texted her last (made a statement, didnt ask a question) and she didnt respond. I let two days pass by with no response from her. I freaked out thinking i did something, she was talking to another man, etc. After watching all the male channels, they say not to text her and to just let her go. Then i came to this channel and realized all the comment section is saying what the male channels are doing...to cease all communication. So i just said screw it, texted her and she was eager to hear from me. We went on our 3rd date. Ladies, just TEXT HIM!!! If he doesn't respond, then move on. But put your pride aside, because the male channels are saying the same thing, so no one is texting anyone. Don't miss out on a good dude because of your pride. A simple, "Hey hows it going?" is all we need.
It has to be reciprocated. At least she responded positively. If it becomes a pattern of one person ignoring the other then no move on
Amazing advice. Everything you mentioned mirror my thought process! Def made me feel better
He is a specialist who did mine couple of years ago ok. He brought my love back ok.
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Thank you so much for your great video!!
Amazing advice.Its all true!
Great video… I needed to hear this… I have a question, when he does finally text you, how long do you wait to reply back? Or do you wait to reply back?
Thank you for this video!
LMFAO describing my current situation to a T! Thanks for first real laugh in a few days 😸
This is just what i needed
I was freaking out
So now Im just gonna keep focused on something else
Mr Marco tnks
Nice, hope to hear from your other videos
Going through this right now. Thank you! 💖
You make so much sense 😃
He is online, but not texting me. So painful. Time to get back to dating again.
It's very painful when they are online and not texting us
I have been watching your videos and i have been liking it and learning from it
Glad to hear it!
Ah the cutest story ever💓
Sometimes we don’t text back not because we’re losing interest but because we are on a side quest or an adventure 😎
I’m ready. Thank you😊
Two try seven days or 4-7days until you get “hey “. I’m ready to move on 🙄
I’m ready; and yes he has his own ring tone and my stomach flips when his tone goes off....ugh!
Omg me too!!
Haven't heard from him since Tuesday and I'm freaking out
You can make me happy and help me to clear all my doubts. Also you are looking nice. I like your way of presentation
@@clemzydrizzy6278 l don't want any number.
I've stayed in a relationship with a guy who kept sending me mixed signals. He kept ghosting me every now and then. I stayed because he knew the right words to say to make me stick around, and I believed them, even If I knew there was something fishy. He eventually moved in with another girl and told me about her only when it was about to happen. Big mistake not letting go earlier. Sometimes we just don't want to admit that it's time to walk away.
Thankyou for sharing this, it's time to take out the Trash, we r QUEENS.
@@ravenstillwaters5195 3 months ago he texted me after a few weeks of silence; the girl kicked him out so he came back to look for a shoulder to cry on. Turned out he was with her all time long, they didn't meet in the last period of time. He said the feelings for me have been unmatched. I've been lied to all the time, I've felt so stupid.
@@margheritacarnera5236That's terrible! You didn't take him back, did you?
This is my current situation to a tea!!! Everything you've highlighted is spot on and I'm trying very hard to give him the space he needs because he's right in the middle of starting his new business venture and I have to respect his head is focused on that.
Same situation...working on his business getting off the ground. N I'm such a pain sometimes. I back off n it's better but it so hard
Same situation... He has started his business.... But he doesn't msgs... For days..... M so confused
U nailed it 🔥🔥❤
Brilliant...relate to everything you say thanks
So what , let him not to text for ever😂
Hello I really love every advices you made
ready... tyvm -Blessings with love to u all during Covid xo
He is a specialist who did mine couple of years ago ok. He brought my love back ok.
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Thanks for your help, thanks a lot.
Well, I'm accepting the idea that maybe he just lost interest and completely gone. But the problem is we know each other in real life and we're used to show all of that interest and Idk how to treat him after this quarantine when we meet. Do I have to ignore him or just treat him in the same way please this is my problem.
I don't like to face someone who actually ignored me it hurts my pride
So do I have to avoid all places where I possibly meet him or just do I have to act like there's nothing at all.
Good info
preimptively panicking 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🤣🤣🤣
Feel you. I was the queen of the preemptive panic.
Me to 😂😂
Oh the sad emoji, my ever long time nemesis
Sabrina that was very helpful
I'm ready!❤❤
A guy I've been talking to for a few months and he and I were talking and I told him that it appeared that he was losing interest, but he said it may just appear that way and we're still talking. This is a long distance relationship, so it's been hard for me to read him.. lol