If He Hasn't Texted In a Few Days, Do This Now... 🤔📱🍵
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- Опубликовано: 2 авг 2024
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Ladies, know your worth. If he doesn't text for a few days, a week or two, the only real reason is that he's NOT into you at all. When a man is into a woman, nothing can stop him from texting/calling no matter the circumstance. A man goes out of his way for a woman he's into.
Very true.
@@lindat1317,
I know. I've been with my guy for over three years and til this day, he chases me, even when we argue. 🤣
Yh, that's definitely ture
Sandra Fabian you are right but think about over texting and calling . when we guys do this , you women will find us boring , needy and soon after will dump us
@@kavehahangar2189,
If the woman is not into the man, yes, but if she's into him, she wants to hear from him every day. When we don't hear from the man we like/love and/or are into, we start to worry and panic and may even feel hurt and/or lose interest and/or feelings.
It takes 3 seconds to text someone the truth is if a man can go a day or two without saying at least HI then he's not worth my time no excuses
Sure and there's truth to this. However, for men it's not about how fast texting is, it's that they don't want to have their focus interrupted by texts.
Christine Negron its been two days now ..
@@user-wy7gc7we7p With all the scary and stressful stuff happening, if they can't text to check on your welfare, then it's game over. Move on to someone who respects you.
Linda T but its been only two days shouldn't I wait a little bit more? Im in love with him ..
@@user-wy7gc7we7p is this a first time thing or a pattern? I'd suggest when you do hear again, let him know what upsets you. If he keeps doing it, then he's really disrespecting you.
True Love gives you Peace! It doesn't consume you with anxiety, that's lust!"👊👊
mary wambui so true
Thats true, peace and space! Then you can close in on each other slowly.
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Very well said
I agreed
If he texts me, it's okay. If he doesn't, I'll be fine. I know im fine. There still lots of guy. I know i can have one. 🥰
Right👌
Confidence
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Facts sis
Great
A man who loves you will never be busy for you.......lf he starts ignoring you and pretending around.... Trust me his gone......
Just have self respect and move on.
Ladies remember: A man's trash is another man's treasure, so move on, thank you next
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Dave ***Another “woman’s” treasure
He stopped texting for 3 days, so I had a date with other guy, and now he texted me back, sorry bro you had your chance, not anymore 🤷🏻♀️🙄
Good
Awesome. How did he know that he was on a 3 day probation period only?
Love takes time and if a woman I dated did this to me, then I would just get the impression she was not really interested anyway. If you want to see the guy and your schedule allows it, then get in touch, he will do the same if he wants to see you.
@@michaelmichael1450 no he was not, after that we talked and he told me he wanted to date me like serius this time, so, everything was great and he started to talk about plans and stuff, and feelings and then he ghosted me, i called him and texted him no answer, so he was just practicing I guess 😂😂, no hard feelings but he was playing for sure.
dated a guy for more than a month everyday text meet 4 times a week he ghosted me for 4 days so i didn't message back when he message again.. he keep texting and calling asking what happened for me for a week I did not reply and now I think I'm block 😂
Lmaoo I feel like that’s gone happen to me 😭
If he's interested in you, you will see it through his actions. Just open your eyes. It's better to accept the truth now rather than later.
Remember your worth❤
when it became the 4th day he didn't text you, led him to an exit door of your life.
You can always make your own closure.
The reason why i apply the non-attachment. - If a man communicate then ok...if not its still okay. We cannot force ppl to be in our life always🤗
Reasons why he hasn't texted you in a few days
1. It might be nothing serious
2. He might be unsure of you
3. He didn't think you were right for him
4. He's settling down into a more sustainable routine
5. He doesn't want to continue the relationship anymore
DON'T send him an angry text
BE AWARE of a man that is inconsistent in contact - here one minute, gone the next - then back again
TRUST your gut feeling
WORK on your self esteem
He always ghosted me till i begin conversation. But after watching your new video i decided to block him. Enough of his games am done. Just want to work on myself.. cant let him steal my peace nomore
I know a guy like that. He's poison. Only texts when he's bored. F him.
I am a bit perplexed. Why you would want a man who cannot set aside 5 minutes to send you a message in your life anyway?
In my case, he was very affectionate in the beginning to the point where I felt so strongly that he is the only one for me. But things have changed so much that I appear to be the desperate one in the relationship now, while it all started off mutually (in fact, he was the initiator). So its quite confusing for me as it feels scary to let go off, although my logical senses tell me that he is not the end, yet that attachment I have with him (although he is no more emotionally available for me) makes me still love him and cost my peace of mind, while he is busy chilling with his life without me.
__RMK__ please look up Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I say that because if it looks familiar, they use a technique to create addiction. And what you think is love is actually more like an addiction to a drug so it’ll be easier for you to get through it and break things off, because you’ll look at the situation differently
What if the feels like she ain't interested in him??
Men go through things too and sometimes don't want to chat with anything? Its okay to respect a man who needs space..
Yes! That part
Let’s be clear. If he slows down to a trickle you do the following: ghost him first. I don’t care how you do it, but DO IT. Never return a text that took a week. Never. Unless that text says he was in a coma (he wasn’t) you do not reply. After he texts ten times, you may reply with something upbeat but distracted, like “all is good, crazy busy right now I’ll catch you later” and then DO NOT WRITE HIM AGAIN
It’s called the Sheer Terror method and it will make him crazy and give you enormous strength. Trust.
I love your Method. I wish Him text me …. For I will ghost Him
🤣 I'd tell u to 🦆 📴 or wouldn't reply ever
What? Hahahahaahaha
Great video! Really hit home for me. Long story but I went through this. In and out and in and out, love bombing me and then retreating. I finally had enough even though I liked him a lot, I got so sick of waiting for the call or the text. It actually made me resent him know that I had placed the key to my happiness in his pocket. One day I decided to take my “key” back no matter how much it hurt. It took a while but I’m so much happier now! Thanks for the great video. It was very helpful. It solidified that I made the right choice....
It’s not that complicated.
When someone is interested and can’t wait to see you again, you’ll know it.
I have read so many articles from your blog, i absolutetly love them, it helps me not going crazy when a guy does give me attention all the time, cause we women are insane XD
I love the fact you talk so honestly! Thank u! 💟😀
I am in this kind of situation.. in and out. Although we are not in a relationship.. n i am mentally dependent on him. I got mentally independent after your videos. Thank you!
Bless you
Kick him to the curb if he goes days without contact.
Men know what they want.
Live your life .
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What one man won't do another will
Days is not long not to contact you in the beginning! You gotta win him over first.
He hasn’t texted in a few days... SO WHAT! Get a life ladies and text or talk to someone else. Better yet, focus on yourself. 😂
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Thank you so much!!
So I haven't heard from him in days so guess that's the end. Certainly not going to text him! Moving on
I'm in d same position, 😔
*Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.*
Hey girl! Love that you started with could mean NOTHING. So simple, but powerful. Great tips, relation-ista!👌🏼 Blessings from this new RUclipsr.🙏💗✨
Great advice i usually watch your videos thanks girl.
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Thank you so much, this was so helpful. ❤😊
Same thing happened to me he ghosted me for 2 weeks, i was having a hard time moving on cause i didnt know what i did wrong to be ghosted. It was the 2nd week of march when he disappeared and pop back 1st week of april. He said he missed me etc etc and he hopes to make it up to me, so we continued chatting but it just feels different. I wasnt the same since i was hurt so im keeping my guards up not to fall for his words again. I felt like he was just chatting me for the sake that he doesnt want someone to get mad at him or because he just wants me to be around like a side bitch. I told him that if he's just forced to communicate with me then he better stop it cause i dont want forced communication and half hearted efforrs. This time i was being honest about what i felt and not sugar coating it. Then he said "if im gonna stop communicating with you, you wont hate me?" I got furious and told him everything on how i see him, all his negativities like how selfish he is. And how i felt when he left i was just being honest but he uses his tricks and turns everything to my fault. He said he wouldve tried harder but my temper hinders him from trying and i was like yeah right, you're just manipulating me by turning the tables and putting the blame on me, be a man and just tell me the truth, i just wanna move on. He said then please move on, thank you and Goodbye. So i told him thanks for setting me free, i knew you werent that into me coz if u were, youd do anything just to make me stay, that alone is enough reason for me to move on. Goodbye. Then we never spoke of again.. the last convo happened last week stil fresh tho
I feel you girl, stay strong and know your worth..
He's narcissistic...be strong and move on
Simple.. Just let that guy enjoy not texting you. Respect the absence and oh dont forget you still have many things to prioritize.
"Your not in a cage"! 😉
Finally accepting that the "reappearer" just isn't that into me. He went out of town and didn't hear from him while he was away. Reappeared when he was back in town, so I thought, ok no big deal. We talked back and forth. But shortly after, this craziness with the pandemic happened. Last I heard from him was about how it was closing down his work, but he was warm and genuine and asking about me. But then I followed up and poof. Haven't heard from in weeks. Sucks when they can't just be upfront, it would've saved me so much time and mental energy to just get a simple, I don't think we're a match.
Thank you sabby ❤️
If my man hasn't text me for a couple of days... lol then he can go a couple more...✌️⚡💯
This is the beat relationship advice I've ever heard
Please get a podcast ,love your work❤️
I just wanted to say that, I would stress the importance of the way he comes back. It’s sad that I dated guys so often that acted the same way that I just assumed men were just that way- not chatty. Didn’t care for texting. Didnt think dropping back in after days mattered. It hasn’t been until getting closer to a guy friend and noticing changes in him that I could kick myself for thinking all that BS was normal. He actually answers quickly. And when he doesn’t, I don’t have to ask why. He says why in his text. Like “Hey, sorry. I was out in the yard.” It’s like OMG. This is what normal is when they at least likes you and respect you. When he isn’t treating you as something to entertain himself with when he’s bored
I am in this situation now and when I ignore him he come back we are now almost 1 and half year
Do you have any input re: how one is viewed by a guy, when he learns she was previously married or is a widow....?
I love this video!! Keep telling it like it is, Sabrina!
So ready!!
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I experienced the disappear and appear guy.. Exactly im watching this video he texted me for every other week texting me.. He texted me " how are you" then "miss you"ive known this guy for 4years next month
It is so hard to focus on anything else when you are THIS obsessed and depressed
Great work ! Thanks ! Keep it up !
Unfortunately, everything you said, is the story of my life. The men I have wanted to date (or thought I did) keep me at arm's length. I can't seem to get out of the friend zone with them. Yet, I am constantly told that I'm pretty, smart and funny, so, wtf.
Very good advice. Thank you❤️🌹❤️
If you're not hearing from him, God doesn't want you with him. Thank God and thank him too for his time.
Ugh..I’m 49 years old and it doesn’t end :(
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When you are taken for granted and the guy feels like your are his forever... even if he likes you ; will treat you hot n cold and pop in and out ....
That's where they mess up
High value women don't allow people to mistreat them.
Thank you
I think this has happened to me because I'm too clingy on him 😕
Well i recently broke up with him.. He was always texting me when we starting dating which was 4 months ago, he was dis loving and caring guy but evrything changed.. he would not text for like a week and i thought i was overeacting when i would ask why he didn't text.. Didn't he miss me? And all that ... But i realized he was not worth it anyways if he loves me he could have made an effort to let me know wht he was busy with or why he was offline. I am done now listening to the stupid excuses i deserve better and im still a teen i know i will find some1 who has love and time for me. 😊
I had a guy who ghosted me a lot. I was emotional but learned to focus on me and I'm ok now. He always said he was going to his sister's. Really ok. I needed to do me and it's going good
Move on....
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I know, right?! And thank you for the kind words!
I am ready. I like all your videos
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Hi 👋 Sabrina I’m a new subscriber from Greece 🇬🇷 I’ve been watching you recently and I love ur advises ! I’ve recently started (3 months more or less ) texting a guy whom I liked very much from my past (40 yrs before )I know it sounds strange but he showed up recently in my life through a freind,s Facebook so we started texting to get to know each other more cause we want to meet at some point but cannot due to corona virus ! He’s in another country where he can’t travel yet ! He’s been texting full speed in beginning and showing excitement wanting to meet me when he can travel and I showed the same feelings of wanting him and wishing to meet him when we can ! But recently I mean the last 10 days or so he stopped texting but ofcoarse is sending images of morning wishes or images of good night wishes ! Basically that’s what he does now ! No text no romantic talk as before so I’m wondering is it as you mentioned in your video that he’s done with texting kind of fed up with it and now he’s waiting for stage 2 to meet with me cause he’s accomplished his goal sort of saying it ?? I love when he was texting me it makes me closer to him ! Do not want to confront him since he’s sending occasionally an image picture or a very short text ! So Y is this happening ? What is this pattern of behavior? My assumption is he’s fed up of texting nothing more ! Please give me your professional advise as I’m starting to be desperate and sad 😔! Thank you greatly
I’ve just read your email about not making texting a problem in your relationship. I did this as got anxious during lockdown. Now his texting is very different. How can we get back to how we were? We were easy in our texts and he would pop up throughout the day. Now I seem to get one contact and that’s my lot :( like he’s down his duty and of course I don’t want him to feel that way, that it’s a chore
My ex and I go weeks without texting each other we just both have busy lives.but he always ends up calling me and we talk for hours..he makes effort into planning for visits.of course its long distance and were not actually dating anymore and there's an unbreakable bond that took years to discover..so maybe this is different.If a guy in the beginning ghosts,well...a man will show in his actions what his priorities are.If ure not his priority,then it should be reciprocated and its time to move forward.but getting mad about it before a commitments been mutually established will usually just guarantee him ghosting you forever.
After I've gotten comfortable to give him my number and he texts everyday and might even call and then I hear nothing for several days and there's no explanation - I've been sick,out of the country,etc ...he automatically gets blocked. If a man is interested in me,he'll keep pursuing me. Obviously he's talking to someone else and I am not the back up plan and going to be here if that doesn't work out. Period
True, Sabina. If a man doesn't chase, he is not interested. However there are ways to make him interested again.
@@howtomakemenfallinlovewith8187 I want to be pursued, not chased. If he didn't realize I was different and special from the beginning, it's his loss...#blocked
@@howtomakemenfallinlovewith8187 how?
Period boo
My boyfriend sometimes don't text me for days. I know if I text him he'll definitely reply but I don't want to because I sense that he's just waiting for me to text him. I prefer a guy to take more initiative. I feedback before but he insisted there's nothing wrong, that he's just busy with his stuff and doesn't wanna be distracted. It's irritating but I'm not sure what to do about it.
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@@jonalynaballe5043 That's not the way to solve every problem.
i ever had that kinda experience . As long as he tells you about the things that he deals with, explain to you about that in the next few days when he has a free time to text you, dont worry. He just really busy with his business.
How are things now? I've had the same experience for 2.5 years and nothing changes.
@@bellag2864 Things are better now. He said he's just not a texter but he tried to improve. If yours has been this way for 2.5yrs then it probably means that's how he is.
Everyone please learn where the block feature is on your phone's. If you don't hear back in awhile then block the number. Then you won't get the annoying nonsense of why they disappeared in the first. No accidentally calling you because he thought you were some other person.
Exactly
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I like this video.. Thank you.. 💕...
I’ve become convinced that the only reason why this happens to me is because I’m simply not attractive enough for anyone to be serious about me lol. Forever alone
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Hiii,ur videos really feel good to hear. I want to know what if he says as always that I don't text to anyone as I don't like talking unnecessarily to anyone. Is he really kind of guy who can be part of me. He is too reserved with everything it's really tough to know him personally for me.
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My boyfriend I have been with for nearly a year used to not ring me for 2 weeks when we was first together in the first few months but he’s still here n claims he loves me n wants a family and a future but if he really loved me how could he go without speaking to me like he used to .... I am also his first relationship but that’s not a valid reason
I’m going though this right now, I haven’t heard from him since Friday, we been seeing eachother for about a month and everything been going great!
Did her ever get back to you?
Thanks,learning alot
There is a guy that I discovered online last year. We started great , everything was ok, communication was on point and then suddenly he just vanished. He never called me or texted me and the time he stopped communicating with me was because I had invited him to one of my colleagues book launch. Since that day he vanished. Surprisingly he just appeared after three out of nowhere and he just called me and started texting me and the reason he gave was that, someone had tempered with his account so he deleted it. We continued and then he disappeared again for two months and he came back again and I never asked him why he keeps on appearing and coming back. This year January he requested that we should meet up and talk and that's when I got really mad, like seriously this guy wasted my whole year last year and this year that's when he decides to meet me officially. I refused and then I blocked him and again not so long ago he texted me again saying he is sorry, like seriously now am so confused, I don't know what this guy wants from me. Even when I block him he always finds a way to reach me.
bby I hope u are reading this; I'm sure u are awesome and a great catch as well, he def sees something in you that attracts him ; but since you allowed him coming back again to your life like that, and leave you again....for WHATEVER the reason may be , he will do it again to you, and maybe to somebody else as well; it has nothing to do with you, it is all about him, you prob might be consumed with anxiety by wanting to have an answer, a closure perhaps....it is not gonna happen, once again it has nothing to do with you, it is all about him, WALK AWAY and learn to say no to this bs for the next one that comes alone with the same nonsense.
My fiancé has big ego. Whenever we have any awkward moment or if he's upset, he'll never text until I don't text. And I always say that I won't text him. But I do text him after few days. How do I stop myself from doing that?
This just happened to me! I thought it was something. And he started distancing himself. I was hurt. I had to find other things to do so I would get over it!
I'm experiencing this right now.
Great points you make
Thanks. It helps a lot
Wow reallly good video
Recent story: Had a great first date with what I thought was a great guy. A nice kiss at the end. Thought for sure he’d call me - he didn’t. Two weeks later, I’m still thinking about him. Texted a friendly hello - he’s happy to hear from me. We go on a nice date, which ends with me gently shutting down his sexual advances (think kissing in the car but not wanting to go too far just yet). My intuition tells me he’s not going to call so I have nothing to lose and text him two days later with a friendly, sexy message.. He says we have no chemistry. Huh? Moral of the story: he was just not that into me, which I should have known after the first ghosting. The action on the second date was little more than his attempt to get what he could. My bad. Lesson learned .., again. This is why I always let the man initiate 80 percent of the contact until I’m super comfortable with him. They know what they want and don’t want.
I asked him if he had lost interest cause he went days without talking to me.He said he didn't...now that pattern is coming back...why can't guys be honest?
Because you are one of his backups.
Girl, you're one of his backups. Run while you can.
I think they are coward's
Hi thank you for the video it has really made a difference in my life 🧬. I want your thoughts over this, so I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for seven months , lately he has not been calling or texting me if I don't start the conversation through text he won't send me any😢, I have been noticing this and I think he nolonger loves me anymore but when we having a conversation he would tell me how much he loves me but his actions are not telling me the same thing, so I don't really know if he still cares or not cause whenever I make the call he picks up and we talk but that's only if I make the call so I don't really know what to think 🧐🤔🤔
I’m ready! & I need your help
Thank you for everything I have it there lose to bad
Whn u said friday I was laughing my guts out as my guy told me he will unblock me on friday so that v give space to each other 😜🤣🤣🤣🤣 but on serious note I'm not gonna answer him on Friday 🤣🤣 wait for 3 weeks as u told on ur previous video to avoid them, so that he learns his lesson an if he still dosnt come back then il move on
I'm ready!
Yea he kept saying he was always busy and I would always have to reach out first and majority of the time he wouldn't reply and or leave me on read. 5 months prior to that I had stopped texting him and no calls and blocked him on every social media thing. Once I felt like reaching out by putting "wyd" he was confused and found out that he was constantly trying to text me and call me wondering why I wasn't talking to him. Ig I have to do that again and just move on. I'm always here for him but refuse to tolerate bullshit and constant arguing with over the same thing I dont know how many times.
Thank you for this! It helps.
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Hello!
Thank you so much for this video. So... here is the situation. Dated a guy a week ago twice ( saw him for 3 days in a row). Went super well, texted after I left the whole day... and since that day ( 5 days ago now) nothing... tried to call today once, no response... what should I do?still “wait” or text him a casual message? Thank you again! 😊
Am in da same situation and confused on what to do
Hi Sabrina,
My ex broke up with me 2 and 1/2 weeks ago after dating for 3.5 months and have been trying to use no contact rule. A week after the break up I tagged him in a meme on Facebook (I am aware this is breaking the no contact rule) and he responded with a reaction and comment/reply however I haven’t made any contact since than, (1 week and 1/2 later) and neither has he.
The relationship ended on good terms, we broke up because he just said he “lost the spark” which to me, I believe is something that can be worked on together as a couple. He is a caring and nice guy that wouldn’t do anything to hurt me so I was a little surprised when he didn’t reach out to me in the day’s following the break up to make sure I was feeling ok.
In total it’s been 2 and 1/2 weeks since the break up and I don’t know if I should reach out to him yet or not?
Don't run for a spark catch s blazing fire with someone!
Why didn’t I watch this 3 days ago??? OMG😩
If were not in a relationship. Why are people expecting any routine.? Grow up people. Talk about what you want and need
How did you manage your emotion and feeling at the time you were ghosted?
Hi Sabrina, I love all of your videos. can you please help me? he says he just wants to be alone because work is too much and its just taking his time. he's not in the mood and he's physically and mentally tired because even on his off he has to work. what should i do?
i have an advice to ask do i text this wonderful guy im talking about everyday? the thing is we got separated twice cause i was locked up somewhere by some people, which both times i was locked up, i admit, i wasnt thinking right, so it was my fault. i shouldve thought things through before acting it out. that way i wouldnt have gotten locked up during those times. im just concerned michael will worry that i got locked up again if there are some days i dont text him, eventhough he is not responding anyway.
I am seeing this guy but every second week I get ghosted, I really like him but something about him is dodgy, he would blue tick my messages but does ot reply