Tell me you know nothing about men without telling me you know nothing about men. Any man will gladly prefer a 7 girl over a 10 if she has a nice personality. Any man will prefer to have sex with a 7 over a 10 if she is pleasant. You cannot skip personality, and yours sucks!!! If you focus on your body, face, teeth and skin only you will be cheated/ghosted/replaced even before you (inevitably) hit the wall. Also a man of high value doesn´t have one big house: he will have two houses, at least. One for living and one for rental... and a old pick up truck instead of a flashy sports car. But you don´t want none of that. You want the big hoise with a pool and a gym and a stupid Ferrari in the garage. Superficial and inexperienced AF.
That's like saying men who judge women for their beauty is a red flag. Women are biologically hardwired to look for mates that can provide security, resources, and safety. Men are biologically hardwired to look for women that are young, fertile, and attractive (which is subjective).
Part of why we men don't care about women having money: My money is our money, your money is your money, despite of your so-called wanting to be equals, you're still the same as you always were: wanting a provider. It's the double standard thing that women just don't seem to get.
I agree. I will add that double standards here are not bad, thats why i only call them "double standards" if someone believes in radical gender equality (an attempt to equalize the genders in areas they are not the same) So if you know men and women are different, you accept this. If you believe they are radically equal, thats where you spot A LOT of double standards
As a man, I would also add that when a woman says "I need a man who can handle me", it's an immediate red flag and X button. Relationships aren't supposed to be about "handling" your partner. Your partner should be a place of peace, not a battlefield.
What's funny about this is that I stayed in area code 304 for 10 yrs with my momma a couple decades ago. My momma has a tank top she wears 1x a week that reads "304" across her chest. In big bold black print. I always thought that was entertaining.
@@cryptidian3530 High value men want assets, not liabilities, One is rewarding, the other draining. "If you can't handle me at my worst" just means they will always be at their worst and dragging the man and his reputation through the dirt. It's so funny women believe themselves to be the prize, yet contribute not nearly as much to the relationship as a high value man could and then use the "need a man that can handle me" line. It's pathetic.
She was just giving the example of high finances because a lot of women these days desire that but they themselves don’t have what it takes to attract that. But that same principle applies to anything a woman considers to be “high value”
@@Newlife-ol6pk I agree that it’s shallow to only want a man for his finances. I agree with her point that in order to attract a man that is worthy, you yourself must be worthy as well though.
How the f. you’re going to be a high value man if you’re broke. A high value man needs status, high income, growth mindset, intellectual and muscular, to list a few.
Umm you sir are incorrect. Being broke shows your a loser with no discipline or drive or motivation… Women want money as a symbol you can take care of her. It’s not the money. It’s when she gives you a kid can you keep the kid alive! And you equally want a fit attractive women who has put time into herself making her stand out from the crowd to be picked…. It’s quite simple. If you don’t like the rules well then get upset but it ain’t going to do anything 😂
Beauty is common, there will always be another younger or more attractive woman around the corner. What's more important to a man is that a woman has integrity and values, is in relationship with God, is generous, helps you improve, has good character, is compassionate, respectful, loving, etc.
You fuck wealthy and devilishly-handsome men by being a young gorgeous girl, and you fuck young gorgeous girls by being a wealthy and devilishly-handsome man. WE GET THE FUCKING POINT ALREADY.
I'm 47 years old. MOST "relationships" are commerce, basically prostitution. Ass for money. Hell, I wouldn't exist if that were the case. You probably wouldn't either.
This is everything wrong with modern materialist society, trying to pick someone thats high status, as a prize, rather than someone that actually likes you, with common beleifs, goals, mentality who support each other.
As if this was different in the past...it has always been like this since cavemen times. Hunter chads VS gatherer incels..rich officials VS dirty peasants, sucessful merchants VS simple workers and so on.
who likes someone with no money success or power. I ran into a bum who was clearly in a state of meth psychosis the other day on my city's public bus. The dude seemed like a great guy at his core! I didn't really like him though because he was begging me for a cigarette and smelled of rotten shit. Humans really are quite shallow. I always see people trying to rise above this or distance themselves from shallow behaviors and decision making. I say try because of course ninety percent of this is just concealing the truth that we are just apes. That attraction and romantic relationships is all random chemical fuckery, and only really about sex at the end of the day.
@@cattywampusmcdoogle You have to earn respect, it’s not a given. And you have to be able to spell hymen. 🤣 Couldn’t submit to an illiterate man. Would follow if he has demonstrated consistently that he’s worth following. Until I see that’s he’s worthy, then it’s a no. Like I said, you have to earn respect.
Says the broke guy on you tube…….. how ironic he’s triggered when women want money. AKA resources so when she commits to you… you can keep her alive. How hard is that to understand
@@ssing7113 It's a joke, high value to me is just someone who takes care of themselves and is kind tbh Money runs the world though, can't avoid that reality.
Men want attraction, but we also value personality, purity, and loyalty. Men who are in "demand" ( 10% ) have access to 80% of women. So a lot of these men will sleep with you but will never consider you marriage material.
@@UnseemlyGenie00 black, white, asian, brown, whatever...as long you got the money and status you could be a thrombosed haemorrhoid for all they care; you'd still be more desired by women than 80% of men.
And then the women bond with them and feel destroyed, when he distances himself like it is nothing. I just don't get how they don't see it the whole time. I guess they feel they can win the prize of this high value man. But most men like that wouldn't really want to settle down with a long-term partner until their middle ages. I don't know I am retarded as fuck I had my chance to be in that 10% and turned away from pristine health and intellectual/creative superiority
Chill Keira chill. We are not going for looks alone. As long as we are not appalled by your looks, the only thing that truly matters is how much respect youre showing him.
@@SuperMario-dx3vn Yeah, but you use words like "big cap", so you're probably a young zoomer and a bottom-feeder, not a high value man. Personality and chemistry is more key to a stable longterm relationship than looks. You learn that as you get older. Looks are only necessary for initial attraction, but fade fast so that is not what you're investing in, it's the person beneath that exterior that makes or breaks the relationship. High value men have more to lose, they cannot risk their assets and financial stability gambling on women that have little to offer other than beauty.
@@SuperMario-dx3vn you just contradicted yourself mate. lf we dont want her if her personality is crap, it means we do in fact care more about personality than looks.
You shouldn't act like you're speaking for all men. It's quite obvious there's a difference between what men really want, what men have, and what men say in scientific studies. Men prefer obese/overweight and uneducated women in 2024 lol.
If your only vision of the world is that the quality of a girl is to be beautiful and a guy to be rich it's really depressing, you don't need a boyfriend but a 'a sugar daddy. What if the man loses his money, or the woman gets old, does the relationship end? Reminds me the movie "gone girl".
Your mistake girl is that you think that rich dude's value is equal to just beautiful girl value (even if she is really very very beautiful). There are a lot more beautiful girls than rich guys and he knows that he is in demand much more so your plan will not work. He will get rid of you after first minor quarrel because there's a line of beautiful girls from his Ferrari to the Ferrari factory. In the mid-term perspective the winners will be average looking girls who chose perspective & energetic office workers in good standing with the leadership and hustler mentality, a year-two and he is a commercial director or something like that meanwhile the girls who chase rich dudes will not get anything
I mean, she's spitting facts bro, many modern woman would see her as a machist misogynistic female so i don't see a simpping possible pattern, but i see too many logic in what she's saying just by what i've experienced with woman. Just matching my experience with her real world perspective and learning what i can from that.
It's gonna keep growing man. Just keep your eye on that counter. Thanks to those men who's tongues drop down seeing her face and body and not seeing realizing her true game.
One more thing. A long time ago I remember a roommate telling me that he needed to get married so that he would have someone to do the dishes and wash his clothes. I was disgusted and felt a total loss of respect for this guy. I'm looking over a lot of the comments here and it's also upsetting. First off, the variety of the backgrounds we come from spans a very wide range of experience and learning and understanding. So, I'm not criticizing people that have a view similar to my old roommate's point of view. However, I think and feel that if you want for someone to clean your home, do the dishes and laundry, then hire a maid, seriously. If you don't have enough money to hire a maid then you probably shouldn't be getting married anyway. I'm not throwing shade. You will be better off and so will the poor woman who could have ended up marrying you to become an indentured servant. If you need to get laid then hire an escort. Again, if you don't have the money then you probably shouldn't be getting married. The idea that some poor woman is going to be lucky enough for you to be paying the bills and in return she gets to be stuck at home doing the chores and getting you off is small-minded thinking. For real though, if that's where your level of development is at and she's in the same place, then no harm, no foul. For the guys, this is your chance to find a partner, akin to a business partner, a creative partner, an inspirational partner, supporter and coach. Otherwise, hire a maid and or escort when needed. If you're too afraid of losing your partner that you feel the need to cage her up, then you've got work to do. You're better off being single for your own sake until you can shake that.
A woman's looks are purely the initial sexual attraction. The novelty of that wears off pretty quickly for a man (with respect to how a man views the long term viability of that relationship) so there has to be something behind the attractive facade to turn the relationship into a partnership. Once the honeymoon phase is over and the rose tinted glasses come off, there needs to be a compatibility and long term draw for the man to want to continue the relationship. Otherwise he's just sticking around for the sexual benefits and that's not a relationship. When a man asks what a woman brings to the table, if she responds; I am the table....then she's missed the point entirely and that man is moving on to greener pastures.
Tell me you know nothing about men without telling me you know nothing about men. Any man will gladly prefer a 7 girl over a 10 if she has a nice personality. Any man will prefer to have sex with a 7 over a 10 if she is pleasant. You cannot skip personality, and yours sucks!!! If you focus on your body, face, teeth and skin only you will be cheated/ghosted/replaced even before you (inevitably) hit the wall. Also a man of high value doesn´t have one big house: he will have two houses, at least. One for living and one for rental... and a old pick up truck instead of a flashy sports car. But you don´t want none of that. You want the big hoise with a pool and a gym and a stupid Ferrari in the garage. Superficial and inexperienced AF.
So, the point of this video is "girls, be pretty and you will attract a high value man". I think you are wrong with this point, or maybe you just want to get some interactions with this video. In any case, I know that you, as women, are comfortable and feel feminine carying about your look and will attract men because we are visual beings, that's true. However, that's only the first step, it's NEVER the way you are going to attract a high value man. You will attract any type of man, and if you don't know how to really identify a high value man and pick him ("the gold thing" isn't the only way to take care when talking about high value man") you will probably end up in bad relationships and just increasing your trauma and bodycount, leaving you even further from a high value man. From my own point of view, attracting a high value man or woman, always starts by taking care of yourself. Of course improving your physical appearance is a key point, but people keep stucked on the superficial stuff and forget working on their communication, empathy, child trauma, spirituality, core values, and, at the end, everything that actually will MASSIVELY impact in the way they interact with other people, not only talking about romantic relationships. If you focus only on superficial shit, you will attract superficial people that are far away from giving you deep, fulfilling and long-lasting relationships. I hope you appreciate this point of view, regards.
''IF YOU CHASE BUTTERFLIES THEY WILL RUN AWAY, IF YOU BUILD A FLOWER GARDEN, THEY WILL COME TO YOU!''. Said By Super-Genius Jaclyn Da Silva. Green Eyed Woman Are The Best People In The World.
THEY CAN SAY THE SAME THING ABOUT MEN. THERE'S JUST GOOD AND BAD PEOPLE IN THE WORLD, MALE AND FEMALE. ARE YOU GREEN PILLED? DO SOMETHING GOOD OR KEEP YOUR PROBLEMS TO YOUR SELF.@@samirSch
man love is suppose to heal. Its about being at your worst and someone willing to see you for better and cares for you. What kind of nonsense is RUclips and society becoming ? Man, all this is just thot talk and im so sick of it. RUclips and podcasts dont teach people, your experience does. Thanks for the game doe sista cracka!
The girls that have made me interested have started out with giving me repeated tender gazes combined with a kind smile, and then looked at me with those eyes whenever we have talked to each other. There is something _very_ powerful about that form of eye contact.
It just means she like how you look, and believes other women will be jealous when they see you with her. It does NOT mean she likes you as a person, it doesn't even mean she approves of your financial position. It just means she believes your image will make her the envy of other chicks. In other words, fuzzy doe-eyes gazes from a woman don't mean shit other than her hopes of augmenting her own social image.
@@devilsoffspring5519 One of the girls who kept looking at me that way was a cute librarian who temporarily lived in my village, and she would always give me "that" look every time she saw me or when I ordered something, and she ended up being my girlfriend for a while; she must have felt really comfortable with me from the start, since she invited me on a picnic at an empty pleasant picnic area several miles away from our village, so I am guessing that her coworkers had probably confirmed that I am a nice person, since I live in a really small village where most people are somewhat familiar with each other.
@@devilsoffspring5519 Thanks, that makes a lot of sense and you're spot on with your assessment despite me not even providing much of a description! She is a coworker and she works there with her rich, angry, and controlling parents. They have their heads so far up their asses and no one on shift likes them much. I do feel bad for her. She is cute, but comes across as a shy but spoiled self-important asshole that is obsessed with social media and image, far too empty as a person for me. I just avoid them and avoid even looking at her if I can help it. I'm there to work, not make pacts with the devil. Although my inner chimpanzee brain sees a pretty woman looking at me and tells me to go for it. Doh!
As a 25 years old muslim man watching this video I want to say: Beauty is important but it's not the most important thing, actually it gives a good first impression and makes a woman sexually attractive to men. However, if he finds bad traits associated to beauty then it's a turning off, like being accessible to all men or having an onlyfans (it turns off high value men but not simps). Also, being religious is attractive because it's a sign of being a good wife and a good mother, that's according at least to Islamic society.
Hi there,don't count me in anymore man. There were a couple of times you called me a SIMP,and I never got angry or replied back to you and the reason for that was that I was checking and observing this young lady myself so your opinion about her could have been accurate at that time and I was considering it aswell,but I always give almost everyone a fair chance to prove and show who they really are and trust me,it works. Some people say sooner or later but I say,people show who they truly are pretty soon. And She proved who She actually is and her real agenda. So now I can say with confidence that your take on her is accurate and true. There are several and obvious things about her that define her true nature. If it was to be explained/written then it would get too long.
@faisalcheema3017 Well, that's interesting and I hate to say I told you so.....At least more people are seeing what I saw pretty early on. I think her biggest problem is her addiction to social media and a desperate yearning for attention. I think she needs to work out some real issues, but people have to live and learn I guess.
@@kbrewski1 Yes you did told me,and Inside I knew you were right,I was just waiting for her to openly and clearly prove it. I have some of my own ways at analysing a person,normally I sense them by their faces,but again I also give myself an equal chance of being wrong and also after the person proves you right,then that's whole different feeling about being right about them,I'm sure you can understand what'im trying to say. And you have a great observation and a fine mind to decode all that. Could not say earlier,the reason you know now,but now I can tell that to you openly about you. And yes,She has an addiction towards social media and attention. And She tried before aswell,but it did not worked before. But someone hel;ped her out with it or she figured out on her own,and I'm sure you saw the pattern man. She started with some general wisdom which you can get from so may places so one can'tr be sure that it was her own thoughts. The She startred selling her tragic story which buy the way is in trend now,women telling that some tragic struck them and SIMPS but y that like hot cakes. Imagine what would SHe by like and what She does in real time...........
That's surely true when it comes to the first encounter and the first few dates. In order to have a good and lasting long-term relationship it takes a lot more than that, a lot of negotiation, constant work on the relation and truth. "looks and youth" fade away, those are just short-term benchmarks to be sexually interested. Everyone knows that unless one is completely shallow and dull.
@@Danuxsyapparently according to women anyone with lots of money, not being fit, not having honor, not intelligence, not integrity, not loyalty, not personality, just money, I hope they can get wet for bill gates 😂
as a high value man, I find that most women have invested A LOT in their beauty. telling them to invest more into beauty is not going to get them a high value man. what high value men want is a woman with HIGH FEMININE ENERGY. women do not know what this is but I'll explain. high feminine energy is: 1. GRACE - having class and tact in how you say things even when you're upset 2. RADIANCE - having a spunky, bubbly personality with childlike enthusiasm 3. COMPLIANCE - listening to what your man says without arguing 4. LOYALTY - actively avoiding situations that could lead to infidelity
The beauty industry, ie. cosmetics, hair products, anti-ageing creams, perfumes, cosmetic surgery, the beauty salon, jewelry, clothes and shoes etc... are largely geared towards females. Of course such products are there for males as well, but to a lesser extent. An attractive or average-looking woman can get a guy for a fling or a one-night-stand whenever she wants. For deeper long-term relationships, neither gender has an advantage over the other.
Thought I had a feminine woman for years until I discovered she was a narcissist in disguise. It's like a switch turned on and she turned into the most awful person playing all sorts of mind games, triangulation, silent treatment, you name it. The promiscuity is the thing that really turned me off on top. This person would later tell me that I was the one that got away and that we were soul mates. I now have trust issues that will carry over for probably the rest of my life.
Ok….. enjoy the husband who becomes lazy and downs do crap and smokes pot on the couch and brings women in the house “Unconditionally live woke folk” Said no one when there partner turns into a slob. With the exception of people who are either codependent. Trauma issues. No one stays because “I love them” without them proving a reciprocity back and forth AKA a transaction daily
Looks are indeed very important BUT women nowadays don't have anything else, they are shallow as a sheet of paper and that is the most frustrating thing, it is impossible to have a real connection with such an empty being.
I unironically agree with this. We ARE the prize. We do our best to be our best every day. We stand by our values and plan everything, from finances to holidays. Women just have to show up and be pretty and not be a 304. Men have much more to offer in a relationship than women do, it's no comparison.
@@PowerofRock24 👍 we have been for Centuries but the looney establishment has been lying & saying different for the past 4 decades. This has become a big problem in the average household & the teachings of raising proper children in which we are seeing today.
@@terrycraig6386 Yup, if people decide to disrespect me and question my value as a hardworking man, then there is going to be a 'battle'. You think those "who would you rather be alone in the woods with? A man or a bear?" videos exist in a vacuum? They don't, that's what young women are being taught and it's now what the culture believes. No wonder young women are depressed, insecure, and afraid. They are taught men are dangerous and worthless and that we live in a lawless land where a man is going to hurt you in the woods rather than help you.
I stopped watching at 3.52 because you said what a man looks for. As a man I disagree with you. I look for intelligence, honesty, trustworthyness, the ability to have a conversation, the ability to look after yourself (i.e. being able to survice without a man). You can go to the gym all you want it makes absolutely no difference to me because to me a high value (your words) woman is a woman who respects herself and others, does't need to show off, doesn't want to look like Barbie but is happy being her natural self, and can survive quite well without a man. Anything else is either a show off or a sponge and that is something real men don't want and/or need in their life.
a high value man will recognize a high value woman...but it wont be her look thats giving the essence..its her inner energy...thats what seperates a good looking woman to a "high value" woman
What I've been doing is hoping some woman would come along and care about me for me, to be my muse or my motivation. It's opened up my eyes and shown me how materialistic women are. They don't care about a struggling man.
Those women still exist, but don't forget their preferences and ideals are shaped by social media trends now. They actually think everyone is hot and rich and going on cruises 5 times a year when those social media personalities they follow are actually in massive debt or in the top 1% that can afford that opulent lifestyle. And these social media addicted women somehow think that means they are entitled to that sort of luxury lifestyle, expenses paid for by a man. Women need to put down their phones and go touch grass and realize what the real world is like. Most people don't even have an emergency fund saved and will be homeless in less than 6 months if they lost their job.
You have to be the one who provides and cares. You have to present yourself to them. No woman will come along just like that, unless you're truly above average. Either way you have to fulfill the masculine role and approach them.
The problem is that you might be able to attract a high-value man, but you probably won't be able to keep him. If he is truly high-value, he has lots of options and will likely be content to just go from woman to woman without ever settling down.
Yeah if he had a personality disorder or is very ego driven. Which some women should t be with then. Anyone not wanting long term relationship and kids and family is in it for the wrong selfish reasons and they should be disqualified immediately as bad breeding stock
You will definitely attract a high value man into your life. You are the type of girl I would like to have something with even when I'm focused on myself as I am right now, nowadays it's hard to find someone that doesn't only distract you from your goals but also help you achieve them. I personally prefer not to take the risk now and finish to acomplish all of my goals, but you Keira I believe you will find a high value man.
Attractive women are everywhere. Good luck attracting a high value man youl need more than that. What exactly besides your looks (that will wear off with short time) do you bring to the table? He looks at a woman that can be a strong mother, who is not financially dependent on us because the world is a dangerous place. A quality man looks ahead and not just present attractiveness.
Definitely have to focus on growing as a person first and understanding yourself. And then once you get yo self right and have the security in yourself then this definitely attracts a good man. Also knowing what character traits your looking for and most importantly one who will like you for you, one who will love you, respect you and will have something you both can build upon.
A wise person once said: "a woman can choose who to get laid, but a man chooses who to be with". For me personally, being charming, not a feminist and be there to give company to each other is all i care about. You can have all the things in the world, but it wouldn't matter
High value just means rich and/or good looking. Women talking about “high value men” already should be a red flag, especially to the men who those women want who have options
she is so smart 😭😭 i think girls still need to seek a good job, so they can be more free and less stressed financially. So some career success is good too.
To see High Education as a turn off is fucking wild dude. Look at yourself and ask why you would find a women being smart as an unattractive trait. See how it reflects on your character and ask if it is something that truy aligns with your values. Do you value the feeling of being intellectually superior to a women purely because you discouraged them from pursuing it?
You got this one all wrong. We want an innocent, loyal, mother-like soul who we want to offer to shield from harsh reality in order to preserve her purity. If we find her attractive is up to nature and physical compatibility, not how well toned her body is or how pretty her makeup. Zero dollars or valuables needed.
As a man, what attracts me is femininity. beauty, youth, emotional/mental stability and loyalty, and I don't like women who overexpose themselves on social media to find external validation. I don't need more. I could marry the McDonald's cashier if she gives me that.
Correction: A high value man is a man who fears the Lord and has an upright and righteous heart. Girls who chase men for money are enslaved by money. Whatever you choose above God will be what youre enslaved to. Do not be consumed by the world but be consumed by the love of God and He will give you all the most precious things.
Ah yes, a high value man is a man that fears Ra, the Ancient Egyptian Sun God. After all, he is the Lord of Light, the Giver of Life. Love Ra and he will give you the most precious things.
@@BadMannerKorea First of all, know [without any doubt] that mockers will come in the last days with their mocking, following after their own human desires - 2 Peter 3:3
@@777serve Suuuuree. Born in any other part of the world today, or born thousands of years ago and you'd be believing in a completely different God and claiming your God is true lol. There's people today that believe the complete opposite of you, with as much conviction. Laughable.
@@BadMannerKorea In their case the god (the devil) of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelievers, to keep them from seeing the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God. - 2 Corinthians 4:4
@@777serve You realize quoting the Bible means nothing to me, right? And you know exactly what that feels like, because you don’t feel anything when someone else quotes their religious book for a God you don’t believe in lol
It's not money, status, or looks if you want to keep one. If you want to attract him, it's beauty. That's just the beginning. In the long run, the way you keep him is by being useful for his goals. By making what he is trying to accomplish easier
I totally agree on what you said, "If a man can buy it why would you try to buy it for him?". I know it's kind of a controversial topic, but you can buy beautiful women too. Of course looks and health matter, but it's not what will help you find a high value man. True care, compassion, emotional support and similar things are what a high value man seeks in a partner. Those things cannot be bought. As a man myself I can assure you those things are the most rare things a man can experience in his life.
As a man of a provider type personality I tend to believe that I'm a great value man. I'm not perfect and have many insecure thoughts, mostly due to being in a toxic marriage with a narcissistic woman. After that ended I'm doing better with one on one councilor and group sessions. Trauma can really screw us up. Please get help if you suffer from abuse. 🙏
How to attract high value female: be high value male. Whatever that means to you, not them. If youre proud of yourself they will pick up on that my brothers
An interesting topic to develop: why many women and men will choose the sexy man/woman instead of the handsome man/woman. This is how I see it: human beings first seek to fulfill their main needs which are oriented more towards the material and physical side of life, they want “safe” things. More authentic love requires taking more risks, revealing more of ourselves... which is why it usually comes later in life when we have had our experiences and now desire a relationship more based on authenticity than on passion for example (even if authenticity does not prevent passion). Few people have the patience and courage to face their loneliness for a while and grow alone in consciousness, which is why the ordinary couple who fit more "into the box" is generally the choice they make.
OHHH so that's what weman think, that they can be selective and they can have every man in the world if they want just by nature, that changed my perspective drastically in only 30 seconds of video, i knew i had to watch this video, thank you Keira Lhotan you are a gift from god. Guys, no need to watch the rest of the video, just first 30 sec to 1 min. When such precious information given, going to focus on me.
As a man you have the same power to pick and choose as women. Why wouldn't you be selective with a woman? Beauty is common and there will always be a younger and more beautiful woman out there. Does she match your values, does she have integrity, is she generous, does she help you become a better person, does she make your life easier?
Idk if you’ll read this comment, but I think you should ponder this topic a bit more. I’ve really liked several of your videos and insights. Sorry I wrote such a long comment, but I think you’re intelligent and looking for the truth, so I thought I’d give the perspective of someone who’s found a high value woman. Your basic premise is absolutely right - if you want to attract a high value man, be a high value woman. And your secondary point is also right - men often don’t care how much wealth or professional success their woman has. But leaning into looks is not it. Looking good is valuable, but it’s mostly valuable because it gets you a second look. If you want to actually stand out as marriage material, that’s going to have much more to do with character, personality, and how you treat people. Character is the most important. Can’t have anything without that. You need to be honest, prudent, loyal, resilient, patient, authentic, etc. All of those are things you can choose to work on and develop, especially prudence, which is a lot like wisdom - it’s knowing what to do in specific situations; how to apply your knowledge and your ethics to circumstances in order to do the right thing and the best thing for you. How you treat others will show a lot of your character. Of course, how you treat your man. But even (and perhaps especially) how you treat people you have power over who you will never see again, like waitstaff and cashiers. And then personality - if you don’t have compatible personalities, it’s extremely unlikely you’ll have a lasting relationship, no matter how much you recognize the value in one another. The good news is that there are lots of different combinations that are compatible, and there’s a high value man for nearly any personality. That being said, gracious, kind, and funny are always popular traits.
Considering that high value women got exist in the West anymore, you'd have to ask in the Slavic countries, Muslims countries or SE Asia. Take financially, mentally and physically care of your loved ones, including the parents. Be liked and approved by the girl's family. And be a strong man with morals, not a bitch. That's it really. Whover is demanding more, is going off a fantasy that's not based in what actually happens in traditional countries.
One girl liked me, although I didn’t really like her at first. I decided to take a walk with her and chat. She ended up falling deeply in love with me. We began to spend time together often. And I appreciate her kindness, modesty, love for animals, the fact that she didn’t have boyfriends before me. I will try to make her life better.
To me as a medium value man, I don't care for extremely ambitious, "strong and independent", "can do whatever a man can do" boss babes. Those are all manly traits and I'm not looking for a man. And no, they don't intimidate me, I work alongside them just fine and have not problem having them as friends, but not what I want in a partner. I could not care less what she earns
to attract any man, don't be promiscuous, be loyal, be feminine, dress modestly, and most importantly respect him.
A strong man wants a strong women to spend his life with, and work together
@@TheDarkHorseOfSocialMediacan not be more wrong
Man detest strong woman in general
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Tell me you know nothing about men without telling me you know nothing about men. Any man will gladly prefer a 7 girl over a 10 if she has a nice personality. Any man will prefer to have sex with a 7 over a 10 if she is pleasant. You cannot skip personality, and yours sucks!!! If you focus on your body, face, teeth and skin only you will be cheated/ghosted/replaced even before you (inevitably) hit the wall.
Also a man of high value doesn´t have one big house: he will have two houses, at least. One for living and one for rental... and a old pick up truck instead of a flashy sports car. But you don´t want none of that. You want the big hoise with a pool and a gym and a stupid Ferrari in the garage. Superficial and inexperienced AF.
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Just don't be overweight or a feminist and you'll be fine :)
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Don’t be a loser incel with shit stain underwear.
@@S.t.s-WON Are you a "high value man" tho?
Are you kidding me, some high value men may have a fetish or like overweight and feminist!
And no damn Karen's 😅
a high value man does not have to be excessively wealthy, and judging men for their wealth primarily is a red flag.
yeah women selecting men from a wealth standpoint kinda leads to mafosic and fascist regimes...I dont know why nobody sees that 😅
That's like saying men who judge women for their beauty is a red flag. Women are biologically hardwired to look for mates that can provide security, resources, and safety. Men are biologically hardwired to look for women that are young, fertile, and attractive (which is subjective).
@@bent4645 Facts!!!
Definitely
@@bent4645 *primarily* judging a woman for her appearance is a red flag!
Part of why we men don't care about women having money:
My money is our money, your money is your money, despite of your so-called wanting to be equals, you're still the same as you always were: wanting a provider.
It's the double standard thing that women just don't seem to get.
true dat.....
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I agree. I will add that double standards here are not bad, thats why i only call them "double standards" if someone believes in radical gender equality (an attempt to equalize the genders in areas they are not the same)
So if you know men and women are different, you accept this.
If you believe they are radically equal, thats where you spot A LOT of double standards
She took 8 minutes to say, looks for money. That was mind numbing.
No, it's a skill. She is a good public speaker.
She's trying to be an iNfLuEnCeR.
@@-PaperPlane-2060Talking to a camera alone in a room isn't "public speaking." Are you 12?
Beautiful, feminine, pure, innocent, loyal. Not a 304
As a man, I would also add that when a woman says "I need a man who can handle me", it's an immediate red flag and X button. Relationships aren't supposed to be about "handling" your partner. Your partner should be a place of peace, not a battlefield.
What's funny about this is that I stayed in area code 304 for 10 yrs with my momma a couple decades ago. My momma has a tank top she wears 1x a week that reads "304" across her chest. In big bold black print. I always thought that was entertaining.
@@cryptidian3530 Bam!
@@cryptidian3530 High value men want assets, not liabilities, One is rewarding, the other draining. "If you can't handle me at my worst" just means they will always be at their worst and dragging the man and his reputation through the dirt. It's so funny women believe themselves to be the prize, yet contribute not nearly as much to the relationship as a high value man could and then use the "need a man that can handle me" line. It's pathetic.
Men need to stop with this “pure and innocent” stuff. It’s the reason why there’s so much misandry in this country and it has no basis in reality.
If you want to attract a high value men as a woman then enable and support him in his purpose. Be fit, feminine and friendly.
High Value doesn't equal high finances... so within 6 minutes, you are already wrong.
She was just giving the example of high finances because a lot of women these days desire that but they themselves don’t have what it takes to attract that. But that same principle applies to anything a woman considers to be “high value”
@@AnnabelleNorwood Just a lousy excuse for some to chase the rich Without being labeled superficial or shamed but any way.
@@Newlife-ol6pk I agree that it’s shallow to only want a man for his finances. I agree with her point that in order to attract a man that is worthy, you yourself must be worthy as well though.
How the f. you’re going to be a high value man if you’re broke.
A high value man needs status, high income, growth mindset, intellectual and muscular, to list a few.
Umm you sir are incorrect. Being broke shows your a loser with no discipline or drive or motivation…
Women want money as a symbol you can take care of her. It’s not the money. It’s when she gives you a kid can you keep the kid alive!
And you equally want a fit attractive women who has put time into herself making her stand out from the crowd to be picked….
It’s quite simple. If you don’t like the rules well then get upset but it ain’t going to do anything 😂
any women can do the beauty thing. what stands out is a woman with morals and conviction
Beauty is common, there will always be another younger or more attractive woman around the corner. What's more important to a man is that a woman has integrity and values, is in relationship with God, is generous, helps you improve, has good character, is compassionate, respectful, loving, etc.
You get a high value man by being a high value woman. You get a high value woman by being a high value man.
You get what you put out.
You fuck wealthy and devilishly-handsome men by being a young gorgeous girl, and you fuck young gorgeous girls by being a wealthy and devilishly-handsome man.
WE GET THE FUCKING POINT ALREADY.
It's sad that you think that all that makes girls attractive is their looks. Attractiveness is more than just that
Men are in love , women are in business
Thats no relationship thats commerce...
E cada macaco no seu galho
I'm 47 years old. MOST "relationships" are commerce, basically prostitution. Ass for money.
Hell, I wouldn't exist if that were the case. You probably wouldn't either.
This is everything wrong with modern materialist society, trying to pick someone thats high status, as a prize, rather than someone that actually likes you, with common beleifs, goals, mentality who support each other.
As if this was different in the past...it has always been like this since cavemen times. Hunter chads VS gatherer incels..rich officials VS dirty peasants, sucessful merchants VS simple workers and so on.
Right. People, young people, are constantly complaining how bad our mental health has become due to our society, but then acting like that. No wonder.
who likes someone with no money success or power. I ran into a bum who was clearly in a state of meth psychosis the other day on my city's public bus. The dude seemed like a great guy at his core! I didn't really like him though because he was begging me for a cigarette and smelled of rotten shit. Humans really are quite shallow. I always see people trying to rise above this or distance themselves from shallow behaviors and decision making. I say try because of course ninety percent of this is just concealing the truth that we are just apes. That attraction and romantic relationships is all random chemical fuckery, and only really about sex at the end of the day.
Ladies listen up, the only thing a high value man wants is respect. Period.
She has very few female viewers.
don't forget after respect, loyalty, a hyman, submission, and the ability to follow
@@cattywampusmcdooglesubmissive is not attractive, it's the opposite. Everything else yes
@@cattywampusmcdooglea hymen? Dude stop being creepy
@@cattywampusmcdoogle You have to earn respect, it’s not a given. And you have to be able to spell hymen. 🤣 Couldn’t submit to an illiterate man. Would follow if he has demonstrated consistently that he’s worth following. Until I see that’s he’s worthy, then it’s a no. Like I said, you have to earn respect.
"high value" lmfao🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑
Says the broke guy on you tube…….. how ironic he’s triggered when women want money. AKA resources so when she commits to you… you can keep her alive. How hard is that to understand
@@ssing7113 It's a joke, high value to me is just someone who takes care of themselves and is kind tbh Money runs the world though, can't avoid that reality.
Men want attraction, but we also value personality, purity, and loyalty.
Men who are in "demand" ( 10% ) have access to 80% of women. So a lot of these men will sleep with you but will never consider you marriage material.
Assuming marriage and raising a family is what you are looking for.
Not everything is black and white.
If you want purity that means you are a religious meathead who cant think. You deserve to be alone.
@@UnseemlyGenie00 black, white, asian, brown, whatever...as long you got the money and status you could be a thrombosed haemorrhoid for all they care; you'd still be more desired by women than 80% of men.
And then the women bond with them and feel destroyed, when he distances himself like it is nothing. I just don't get how they don't see it the whole time. I guess they feel they can win the prize of this high value man. But most men like that wouldn't really want to settle down with a long-term partner until their middle ages. I don't know I am retarded as fuck I had my chance to be in that 10% and turned away from pristine health and intellectual/creative superiority
Chill Keira chill. We are not going for looks alone. As long as we are not appalled by your looks, the only thing that truly matters is how much respect youre showing him.
Facts!
Big cap you ain't speaking for all men
We go for looks and then personality
If her personality is crap then we wouldn't want her
@@SuperMario-dx3vn Yeah, but you use words like "big cap", so you're probably a young zoomer and a bottom-feeder, not a high value man.
Personality and chemistry is more key to a stable longterm relationship than looks. You learn that as you get older. Looks are only necessary for initial attraction, but fade fast so that is not what you're investing in, it's the person beneath that exterior that makes or breaks the relationship. High value men have more to lose, they cannot risk their assets and financial stability gambling on women that have little to offer other than beauty.
@@SuperMario-dx3vn you just contradicted yourself mate. lf we dont want her if her personality is crap, it means we do in fact care more about personality than looks.
@@baronhelmut2701 I said we go for looks FIRST and then personality so I didn't contradict myself
We want a beautiful (feminine), low or very-low body counts, and respectful (humble) woman, period ! The rest really does not matter to us.
You shouldn't act like you're speaking for all men. It's quite obvious there's a difference between what men really want, what men have, and what men say in scientific studies. Men prefer obese/overweight and uneducated women in 2024 lol.
Clearly men want obese/overweight women....
Not a drug addict!
Can a man have high-body count, though?
@@antonboludo8886Yes. Anything more than 1 is a high body count for a man.
A high value man does not want a dumb women. Do not put all your points just to your look.
I can tell she is not a virgin. So, she is public property already.
Whether man or woman, there's a big difference between looking like high value person and living with integrity and acting like one.
If your only vision of the world is that the quality of a girl is to be beautiful and a guy to be rich it's really depressing, you don't need a boyfriend but a 'a sugar daddy. What if the man loses his money, or the woman gets old, does the relationship end? Reminds me the movie "gone girl".
Preach. High value men understand actions speak louder than words.
As well as high-value women.
Your mistake girl is that you think that rich dude's value is equal to just beautiful girl value (even if she is really very very beautiful). There are a lot more beautiful girls than rich guys and he knows that he is in demand much more so your plan will not work. He will get rid of you after first minor quarrel because there's a line of beautiful girls from his Ferrari to the Ferrari factory.
In the mid-term perspective the winners will be average looking girls who chose perspective & energetic office workers in good standing with the leadership and hustler mentality, a year-two and he is a commercial director or something like that meanwhile the girls who chase rich dudes will not get anything
Simp crowd counter: 21.6K and growing.
I mean, she's spitting facts bro, many modern woman would see her as a machist misogynistic female so i don't see a simpping possible pattern, but i see too many logic in what she's saying just by what i've experienced with woman. Just matching my experience with her real world perspective and learning what i can from that.
No doubt she’s spitting fax, it’s just if this account was a dude saying all the same stuff it’d probably be under 200 subs
It's gonna keep growing man. Just keep your eye on that counter. Thanks to those men who's tongues drop down seeing her face and body and not seeing realizing her true game.
One more thing. A long time ago I remember a roommate telling me that he needed to get married so that he would have someone to do the dishes and wash his clothes. I was disgusted and felt a total loss of respect for this guy. I'm looking over a lot of the comments here and it's also upsetting. First off, the variety of the backgrounds we come from spans a very wide range of experience and learning and understanding. So, I'm not criticizing people that have a view similar to my old roommate's point of view. However, I think and feel that if you want for someone to clean your home, do the dishes and laundry, then hire a maid, seriously. If you don't have enough money to hire a maid then you probably shouldn't be getting married anyway. I'm not throwing shade. You will be better off and so will the poor woman who could have ended up marrying you to become an indentured servant. If you need to get laid then hire an escort. Again, if you don't have the money then you probably shouldn't be getting married. The idea that some poor woman is going to be lucky enough for you to be paying the bills and in return she gets to be stuck at home doing the chores and getting you off is small-minded thinking. For real though, if that's where your level of development is at and she's in the same place, then no harm, no foul. For the guys, this is your chance to find a partner, akin to a business partner, a creative partner, an inspirational partner, supporter and coach. Otherwise, hire a maid and or escort when needed. If you're too afraid of losing your partner that you feel the need to cage her up, then you've got work to do. You're better off being single for your own sake until you can shake that.
We want feminine and sweet women but in a genuine and natural way, not faked!
A woman's looks are purely the initial sexual attraction. The novelty of that wears off pretty quickly for a man (with respect to how a man views the long term viability of that relationship) so there has to be something behind the attractive facade to turn the relationship into a partnership.
Once the honeymoon phase is over and the rose tinted glasses come off, there needs to be a compatibility and long term draw for the man to want to continue the relationship. Otherwise he's just sticking around for the sexual benefits and that's not a relationship.
When a man asks what a woman brings to the table, if she responds; I am the table....then she's missed the point entirely and that man is moving on to greener pastures.
Tell me you know nothing about men without telling me you know nothing about men. Any man will gladly prefer a 7 girl over a 10 if she has a nice personality. Any man will prefer to have sex with a 7 over a 10 if she is pleasant. You cannot skip personality, and yours sucks!!! If you focus on your body, face, teeth and skin only you will be cheated/ghosted/replaced even before you (inevitably) hit the wall.
Also a man of high value doesn´t have one big house: he will have two houses, at least. One for living and one for rental... and a old pick up truck instead of a flashy sports car. But you don´t want none of that. You want the big hoise with a pool and a gym and a stupid Ferrari in the garage. Superficial and inexperienced AF.
So, the point of this video is "girls, be pretty and you will attract a high value man". I think you are wrong with this point, or maybe you just want to get some interactions with this video.
In any case, I know that you, as women, are comfortable and feel feminine carying about your look and will attract men because we are visual beings, that's true. However, that's only the first step, it's NEVER the way you are going to attract a high value man. You will attract any type of man, and if you don't know how to really identify a high value man and pick him ("the gold thing" isn't the only way to take care when talking about high value man") you will probably end up in bad relationships and just increasing your trauma and bodycount, leaving you even further from a high value man.
From my own point of view, attracting a high value man or woman, always starts by taking care of yourself. Of course improving your physical appearance is a key point, but people keep stucked on the superficial stuff and forget working on their communication, empathy, child trauma, spirituality, core values, and, at the end, everything that actually will MASSIVELY impact in the way they interact with other people, not only talking about romantic relationships.
If you focus only on superficial shit, you will attract superficial people that are far away from giving you deep, fulfilling and long-lasting relationships.
I hope you appreciate this point of view, regards.
''IF YOU CHASE BUTTERFLIES THEY WILL RUN AWAY, IF YOU BUILD A FLOWER GARDEN, THEY WILL COME TO YOU!''.
Said By Super-Genius Jaclyn Da Silva. Green Eyed Woman Are The Best People In The World.
Makes sense, considering women are like butterflies...beautiful and gracious, but won't take long before aging start making them rot.
THEY CAN SAY THE SAME THING ABOUT MEN. THERE'S JUST GOOD AND BAD PEOPLE IN THE WORLD, MALE AND FEMALE. ARE YOU GREEN PILLED? DO SOMETHING GOOD OR KEEP YOUR PROBLEMS TO YOUR SELF.@@samirSch
Just be high value woman)
Where does this "high value" man / woman, come from? so strange to turn homo sapiens into a market LOL
A man that just wants a women that has nothing to say, is not a strong man
Just be a virgin.
Loyalty, beauty, youth, smarts and good values. Thats what high value men want.
man love is suppose to heal.
Its about being at your worst and someone willing to see you for better and cares for you. What kind of nonsense is RUclips and society becoming ?
Man, all this is just thot talk and im so sick of it. RUclips and podcasts dont teach people, your experience does.
Thanks for the game doe sista cracka!
girls, listen up. Hot is what gets the dude, character is what keeps him.
The girls that have made me interested have started out with giving me repeated tender gazes combined with a kind smile, and then looked at me with those eyes whenever we have talked to each other.
There is something _very_ powerful about that form of eye contact.
What about frequent eye contact and no smile? I heard this means she is crazy.
@@PowerofRock24
She could be insecure, or maybe find the guy good-looking without intending to take it anywhere.
It just means she like how you look, and believes other women will be jealous when they see you with her.
It does NOT mean she likes you as a person, it doesn't even mean she approves of your financial position. It just means she believes your image will make her the envy of other chicks.
In other words, fuzzy doe-eyes gazes from a woman don't mean shit other than her hopes of augmenting her own social image.
@@devilsoffspring5519 One of the girls who kept looking at me that way was a cute librarian who temporarily lived in my village, and she would always give me "that" look every time she saw me or when I ordered something, and she ended up being my girlfriend for a while;
she must have felt really comfortable with me from the start, since she invited me on a picnic at an empty pleasant picnic area several miles away from our village, so I am guessing that her coworkers had probably confirmed that I am a nice person, since I live in a really small village where most people are somewhat familiar with each other.
@@devilsoffspring5519 Thanks, that makes a lot of sense and you're spot on with your assessment despite me not even providing much of a description!
She is a coworker and she works there with her rich, angry, and controlling parents. They have their heads so far up their asses and no one on shift likes them much. I do feel bad for her. She is cute, but comes across as a shy but spoiled self-important asshole that is obsessed with social media and image, far too empty as a person for me. I just avoid them and avoid even looking at her if I can help it. I'm there to work, not make pacts with the devil. Although my inner chimpanzee brain sees a pretty woman looking at me and tells me to go for it. Doh!
beauty, smartness, common values, purity and having compatibility/ chemistry
As a 25 years old muslim man watching this video I want to say:
Beauty is important but it's not the most important thing, actually it gives a good first impression and makes a woman sexually attractive to men. However, if he finds bad traits associated to beauty then it's a turning off, like being accessible to all men or having an onlyfans (it turns off high value men but not simps).
Also, being religious is attractive because it's a sign of being a good wife and a good mother, that's according at least to Islamic society.
Showing more skin, trying to reel in more Simps. Business as usual.
No doubt. I picked up on this immediately.
Hi there,don't count me in anymore man. There were a couple of times you called me a SIMP,and I never got angry or replied back to you and the reason for that was that I was checking and observing this young lady myself so your opinion about her could have been accurate at that time and I was considering it aswell,but I always give almost everyone a fair chance to prove and show who they really are and trust me,it works. Some people say sooner or later but I say,people show who they truly are pretty soon. And She proved who She actually is and her real agenda. So now I can say with confidence that your take on her is accurate and true. There are several and obvious things about her that define her true nature. If it was to be explained/written then it would get too long.
@faisalcheema3017
Well, that's interesting and I hate to say I told you so.....At least more people are seeing what I saw pretty early on. I think her biggest problem is her addiction to social media and a desperate yearning for attention. I think she needs to work out some real issues, but people have to live and learn I guess.
@@kbrewski1 Yes you did told me,and Inside I knew you were right,I was just waiting for her to openly and clearly prove it. I have some of my own ways at analysing a person,normally I sense them by their faces,but again I also give myself an equal chance of being wrong and also after the person proves you right,then that's whole different feeling about being right about them,I'm sure you can understand what'im trying to say. And you have a great observation and a fine mind to decode all that. Could not say earlier,the reason you know now,but now I can tell that to you openly about you. And yes,She has an addiction towards social media and attention. And She tried before aswell,but it did not worked before. But someone hel;ped her out with it or she figured out on her own,and I'm sure you saw the pattern man. She started with some general wisdom which you can get from so may places so one can'tr be sure that it was her own thoughts. The She startred selling her tragic story which buy the way is in trend now,women telling that some tragic struck them and SIMPS but y that like hot cakes. Imagine what would SHe by like and what She does in real time...........
I wouldn’t call this smart even just common sense. This is why channels don’t grow.
looks and youth are 80% of attracting a male. To keep him though, the values and how much peace you can bring to the relationship are important.
That's surely true when it comes to the first encounter and the first few dates. In order to have a good and lasting long-term relationship it takes a lot more than that, a lot of negotiation, constant work on the relation and truth. "looks and youth" fade away, those are just short-term benchmarks to be sexually interested. Everyone knows that unless one is completely shallow and dull.
@@mishmash9797 When she gets old, you should get a younger one.
@@worldclassyoutuber2085 If that's your notion, then good luck with it. I assume you must be really that much of a catch, don't you.
If it clicks it clicks, if it doesn't it doesn't.
High-value men have options so be prepared to share.
On top of that, it's clear she approves of that too, LOL.
what is a high-value man? lol
@@Danuxsy The 666 rule (6 feet, 6 figures, 6 pack).
@@Danuxsyapparently according to women anyone with lots of money, not being fit, not having honor, not intelligence, not integrity, not loyalty, not personality, just money, I hope they can get wet for bill gates 😂
@@rogersmith9705 why does that make you a high value man?
as a high value man, I find that most women have invested A LOT in their beauty. telling them to invest more into beauty is not going to get them a high value man. what high value men want is a woman with HIGH FEMININE ENERGY. women do not know what this is but I'll explain.
high feminine energy is:
1. GRACE - having class and tact in how you say things even when you're upset
2. RADIANCE - having a spunky, bubbly personality with childlike enthusiasm
3. COMPLIANCE - listening to what your man says without arguing
4. LOYALTY - actively avoiding situations that could lead to infidelity
VIRGINITY: Not a whore. That should be number one.
The beauty industry, ie. cosmetics, hair products, anti-ageing creams, perfumes, cosmetic surgery, the beauty salon, jewelry, clothes and shoes etc... are largely geared towards females.
Of course such products are there for males as well, but to a lesser extent.
An attractive or average-looking woman can get a guy for a fling or a one-night-stand whenever she wants.
For deeper long-term relationships, neither gender has an advantage over the other.
A diamond is a diamond. That's interesting
These are the kind of nuggets of wisdom I live for in these psychobabbles!
Thought I had a feminine woman for years until I discovered she was a narcissist in disguise. It's like a switch turned on and she turned into the most awful person playing all sorts of mind games, triangulation, silent treatment, you name it. The promiscuity is the thing that really turned me off on top. This person would later tell me that I was the one that got away and that we were soul mates. I now have trust issues that will carry over for probably the rest of my life.
woman aren't worth it bro, work on yourself and enjoy life. travel, play golf and keep hobbies that make you happy.
thank u sis. I have already lost 10 kg and I try to take care of my hair. I'm learning to be feminine and becoming more beautiful every day
We’re in this together 🌼🌺🙏🏼you’re feminine & beautiful ❤️❤️
My mama is a high value woman, but even elon musk isn't good enough for her.
I like this one. What a real, proper, feminine, gorgeous Woman.
you naturally attract your equivalent. be valuable, you'll attract that. be promiscuous, you'll attract that.
So much easier to just get F'D on tinder and go about my day
a true romantic relationship is not transactional but sentimental
Ok….. enjoy the husband who becomes lazy and downs do crap and smokes pot on the couch and brings women in the house
“Unconditionally live woke folk” Said no one when there partner turns into a slob. With the exception of people who are either codependent. Trauma issues. No one stays because “I love them” without them proving a reciprocity back and forth AKA a transaction daily
Looks are indeed very important
BUT
women nowadays don't have anything else, they are shallow as a sheet of paper and that is the most frustrating thing, it is impossible to have a real connection with such an empty being.
Key point about hvm... We aren't on dating apps.
Respect.
And accountability.
Everything else is subjective.
We’re Kings…. We should always be first in a woman’s eyes, we are the prize not females. You have alot to learn 😂
I unironically agree with this. We ARE the prize. We do our best to be our best every day. We stand by our values and plan everything, from finances to holidays. Women just have to show up and be pretty and not be a 304. Men have much more to offer in a relationship than women do, it's no comparison.
@@PowerofRock24 👍 we have been for Centuries but the looney establishment has been lying & saying different for the past 4 decades. This has become a big problem in the average household & the teachings of raising proper children in which we are seeing today.
Sigh......" The Battle Of The Sexes " will always exist. sigh.😒😒😒
@@terrycraig6386 theres no battle about it except to the delusional ones… men would conquer without a doubt. Keep sighing 😂
@@terrycraig6386 Yup, if people decide to disrespect me and question my value as a hardworking man, then there is going to be a 'battle'.
You think those "who would you rather be alone in the woods with? A man or a bear?" videos exist in a vacuum? They don't, that's what young women are being taught and it's now what the culture believes. No wonder young women are depressed, insecure, and afraid. They are taught men are dangerous and worthless and that we live in a lawless land where a man is going to hurt you in the woods rather than help you.
I stopped watching at 3.52 because you said what a man looks for. As a man I disagree with you. I look for intelligence, honesty, trustworthyness, the ability to have a conversation, the ability to look after yourself (i.e. being able to survice without a man). You can go to the gym all you want it makes absolutely no difference to me because to me a high value (your words) woman is a woman who respects herself and others, does't need to show off, doesn't want to look like Barbie but is happy being her natural self, and can survive quite well without a man. Anything else is either a show off or a sponge and that is something real men don't want and/or need in their life.
I agree 100%. This is exactly what most high value man wants! Wise words.
If you don’t have a “High value “ man then you can’t speak on the subject 😂😂😂 and you come across as born into wealth 😂
a high value man will recognize a high value woman...but it wont be her look thats giving the essence..its her inner energy...thats what seperates a good looking woman to a "high value" woman
Talented, empathetic, good morals, loyal, patient.
So Keira can kick rocks.
Saying high value man is so cringe.
I normally don't comment on this topic.. but spot on👍
Just your first point proofs that you will be end up very lonely.
beware of people giving you advice to something that they don't even have themselves
What I've been doing is hoping some woman would come along and care about me for me, to be my muse or my motivation. It's opened up my eyes and shown me how materialistic women are. They don't care about a struggling man.
Those women still exist, but don't forget their preferences and ideals are shaped by social media trends now. They actually think everyone is hot and rich and going on cruises 5 times a year when those social media personalities they follow are actually in massive debt or in the top 1% that can afford that opulent lifestyle. And these social media addicted women somehow think that means they are entitled to that sort of luxury lifestyle, expenses paid for by a man. Women need to put down their phones and go touch grass and realize what the real world is like. Most people don't even have an emergency fund saved and will be homeless in less than 6 months if they lost their job.
You have to be the one who provides and cares. You have to present yourself to them. No woman will come along just like that, unless you're truly above average. Either way you have to fulfill the masculine role and approach them.
The problem is that you might be able to attract a high-value man, but you probably won't be able to keep him. If he is truly high-value, he has lots of options and will likely be content to just go from woman to woman without ever settling down.
Yeah if he had a personality disorder or is very ego driven. Which some women should t be with then.
Anyone not wanting long term relationship and kids and family is in it for the wrong selfish reasons and they should be disqualified immediately as bad breeding stock
Thank you so much Keira!... I love your person!
You will definitely attract a high value man into your life. You are the type of girl I would like to have something with even when I'm focused on myself as I am right now, nowadays it's hard to find someone that doesn't only distract you from your goals but also help you achieve them. I personally prefer not to take the risk now and finish to acomplish all of my goals, but you Keira I believe you will find a high value man.
Attractive women are everywhere. Good luck attracting a high value man youl need more than that. What exactly besides your looks (that will wear off with short time) do you bring to the table? He looks at a woman that can be a strong mother, who is not financially dependent on us because the world is a dangerous place. A quality man looks ahead and not just present attractiveness.
Definitely have to focus on growing as a person first and understanding yourself. And then once you get yo self right and have the security in yourself then this definitely attracts a good man. Also knowing what character traits your looking for and most importantly one who will like you for you, one who will love you, respect you and will have something you both can build upon.
A wise person once said: "a woman can choose who to get laid, but a man chooses who to be with". For me personally, being charming, not a feminist and be there to give company to each other is all i care about. You can have all the things in the world, but it wouldn't matter
High value just means rich and/or good looking. Women talking about “high value men” already should be a red flag, especially to the men who those women want who have options
she is so smart 😭😭 i think girls still need to seek a good job, so they can be more free and less stressed financially. So some career success is good too.
For a young lady she knows more than 90% of the other Western women out there and well done.
She knows jack squat.
*turn-ons:* shared values, fertility, beauty, talent *turn-offs:* attitude, over-weight, tattoos, substance abuse, high education, etc
To see High Education as a turn off is fucking wild dude. Look at yourself and ask why you would find a women being smart as an unattractive trait. See how it reflects on your character and ask if it is something that truy aligns with your values. Do you value the feeling of being intellectually superior to a women purely because you discouraged them from pursuing it?
trust me as long as you take care of yourself and is not delusional you'll be perfectly fine.
You got this one all wrong. We want an innocent, loyal, mother-like soul who we want to offer to shield from harsh reality in order to preserve her purity.
If we find her attractive is up to nature and physical compatibility, not how well toned her body is or how pretty her makeup. Zero dollars or valuables needed.
As a man, what attracts me is femininity. beauty, youth, emotional/mental stability and loyalty, and I don't like women who overexpose themselves on social media to find external validation. I don't need more. I could marry the McDonald's cashier if she gives me that.
It always fascinates me when women talk about how physical size does not matter 🤔
Basically no one watching this video
Yet here you are.
Correction: A high value man is a man who fears the Lord and has an upright and righteous heart. Girls who chase men for money are enslaved by money. Whatever you choose above God will be what youre enslaved to. Do not be consumed by the world but be consumed by the love of God and He will give you all the most precious things.
Ah yes, a high value man is a man that fears Ra, the Ancient Egyptian Sun God. After all, he is the Lord of Light, the Giver of Life. Love Ra and he will give you the most precious things.
@@BadMannerKorea First of all, know [without any doubt] that mockers will come in the last days with their mocking, following after their own human desires - 2 Peter 3:3
@@777serve Suuuuree. Born in any other part of the world today, or born thousands of years ago and you'd be believing in a completely different God and claiming your God is true lol. There's people today that believe the complete opposite of you, with as much conviction. Laughable.
@@BadMannerKorea In their case the god (the devil) of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelievers, to keep them from seeing the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God. - 2 Corinthians 4:4
@@777serve You realize quoting the Bible means nothing to me, right? And you know exactly what that feels like, because you don’t feel anything when someone else quotes their religious book for a God you don’t believe in lol
Should do a vid on where to find “high value” feminine women, bc they are not easy to find
It's not money, status, or looks if you want to keep one. If you want to attract him, it's beauty. That's just the beginning. In the long run, the way you keep him is by being useful for his goals. By making what he is trying to accomplish easier
Only high value attracts high value. Low Value attracts only low value too.its the law of attraction in action.😊😊❤
"Be attractive, don't be unattractive"
Genius!!
I totally agree on what you said, "If a man can buy it why would you try to buy it for him?". I know it's kind of a controversial topic, but you can buy beautiful women too. Of course looks and health matter, but it's not what will help you find a high value man. True care, compassion, emotional support and similar things are what a high value man seeks in a partner. Those things cannot be bought. As a man myself I can assure you those things are the most rare things a man can experience in his life.
If your body count is higher than 10, you're not a high valuable woman anymore
As a man of a provider type personality I tend to believe that I'm a great value man. I'm not perfect and have many insecure thoughts, mostly due to being in a toxic marriage with a narcissistic woman. After that ended I'm doing better with one on one councilor and group sessions. Trauma can really screw us up. Please get help if you suffer from abuse. 🙏
How to attract high value female: be high value male. Whatever that means to you, not them. If youre proud of yourself they will pick up on that my brothers
An interesting topic to develop: why many women and men will choose the sexy man/woman instead of the handsome man/woman. This is how I see it: human beings first seek to fulfill their main needs which are oriented more towards the material and physical side of life, they want “safe” things. More authentic love requires taking more risks, revealing more of ourselves... which is why it usually comes later in life when we have had our experiences and now desire a relationship more based on authenticity than on passion for example (even if authenticity does not prevent passion). Few people have the patience and courage to face their loneliness for a while and grow alone in consciousness, which is why the ordinary couple who fit more "into the box" is generally the choice they make.
pure luck, relax 🐢
"high value man", haha omfg
what a time to be alive
Keira, I love the way your mind works❤😊
Good men where are you? 😂
OHHH so that's what weman think, that they can be selective and they can have every man in the world if they want just by nature, that changed my perspective drastically in only 30 seconds of video, i knew i had to watch this video, thank you Keira Lhotan you are a gift from god. Guys, no need to watch the rest of the video, just first 30 sec to 1 min. When such precious information given, going to focus on me.
As a man you have the same power to pick and choose as women. Why wouldn't you be selective with a woman? Beauty is common and there will always be a younger and more beautiful woman out there. Does she match your values, does she have integrity, is she generous, does she help you become a better person, does she make your life easier?
Idk if you’ll read this comment, but I think you should ponder this topic a bit more.
I’ve really liked several of your videos and insights. Sorry I wrote such a long comment, but I think you’re intelligent and looking for the truth, so I thought I’d give the perspective of someone who’s found a high value woman.
Your basic premise is absolutely right - if you want to attract a high value man, be a high value woman. And your secondary point is also right - men often don’t care how much wealth or professional success their woman has.
But leaning into looks is not it. Looking good is valuable, but it’s mostly valuable because it gets you a second look. If you want to actually stand out as marriage material, that’s going to have much more to do with character, personality, and how you treat people.
Character is the most important. Can’t have anything without that. You need to be honest, prudent, loyal, resilient, patient, authentic, etc. All of those are things you can choose to work on and develop, especially prudence, which is a lot like wisdom - it’s knowing what to do in specific situations; how to apply your knowledge and your ethics to circumstances in order to do the right thing and the best thing for you.
How you treat others will show a lot of your character. Of course, how you treat your man. But even (and perhaps especially) how you treat people you have power over who you will never see again, like waitstaff and cashiers.
And then personality - if you don’t have compatible personalities, it’s extremely unlikely you’ll have a lasting relationship, no matter how much you recognize the value in one another. The good news is that there are lots of different combinations that are compatible, and there’s a high value man for nearly any personality. That being said, gracious, kind, and funny are always popular traits.
Kind, feminine, caring, confident and soft. That's all.
can you make a video about what makes a man more attractive from a high value women perspective
Having your shit together, being emotionally secure (and mature), having goals, a balanced life, physically fit, etc…
Considering that high value women got exist in the West anymore, you'd have to ask in the Slavic countries, Muslims countries or SE Asia. Take financially, mentally and physically care of your loved ones, including the parents. Be liked and approved by the girl's family. And be a strong man with morals, not a bitch. That's it really. Whover is demanding more, is going off a fantasy that's not based in what actually happens in traditional countries.
One girl liked me, although I didn’t really like her at first. I decided to take a walk with her and chat. She ended up falling deeply in love with me. We began to spend time together often. And I appreciate her kindness, modesty, love for animals, the fact that she didn’t have boyfriends before me. I will try to make her life better.
one of those windows behind you is worth more than all the stuff in my room. i've never seen such luxury outside of a hotel or something.
A high value man has money
To me as a medium value man, I don't care for extremely ambitious, "strong and independent", "can do whatever a man can do" boss babes. Those are all manly traits and I'm not looking for a man. And no, they don't intimidate me, I work alongside them just fine and have not problem having them as friends, but not what I want in a partner. I could not care less what she earns