CPS gets called on you and they show up even though you did nothing wrong..... but as a teacher I have called CPS about kids coming into my classroom bloody and bruised from being beat by their parents and cps does nothing. Makes me so angry!
Has happened to my mum. My baby brother had bruises all over him after daycare so she stupidly went to the daycare to ask you know who tf was touching him and asked for the cam vids but they gave nothing. But guess what, CPS came to our house yet it wasn’t any of us 😡
I love that you and Josh set up the pool together for the kids. It's part of those little things that show a healthy and functioning family, and that will become cute memories for the twins. Mummy and daddy don't live together, but they're still mummy and daddy. Soooo mature and healthy. luv you Soph you're incredible and brave and smart and beautifully fearless
So true. It's a sign of mature parents. There are many older couples that are divorced or never married with children and wouldn't do things together as a family.
The hardest part of divorce for me was that my parents were no longer simultaneously present to share birthdays,Christmas, and other special times in my life. They were in their 30's but not emotionally mature enough to share the same space without hostility. Kids definitely benefit greatly from having parents that are civil and friendly towards one another to coparent in a healthy way.
After the case is officially closed you can request the entire file from cps and they legally have to give you ALLLLLLL of it. So you'll get to see every word anyone involved said. Who exactly reported it, who backed them up, everything
This! I was in foster care and after my mom had her rights terminated and case was closed i got a huge envelope with everything that happened the year the case was open that had everything in it and i mean EVERYTHING!
My mom is a CPS worker and unfortunately they get BS calls like this all the time and it takes time and resources away from children who are in danger. People are ridiculous I’m so sorry this happened to you,
Omg this is such a great point to shed light on. They could’ve been dealing with kids who actually need help form cps, Sophie should sue the daycare and use this as a key argument.. no reason to be bothering a mama about diaper rash either... 4 days in a row... ridiculous
@@rotcgirll1094 yes exactly CPS has to investigate every single call no matter what (normally within the first 24hrs) so BS calls and accusations literally put other children’s lives at risk, people are ignorant about it.
Here in British Columbia Canada your children can forward face in the carseat, the day they turn 1 years old but have to remain in car seat or booster seat until the age of 9 they no longer go by weight here.. and cos knee I am sure what great momma Sophia is and what a great dad Josh is I think that day care should be looked into a bit more.. mo worries Sophia your an awesome momma
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 you really had to copy & paste this comment on multiple posts? Are you one of the daycare workers...? I’ve followed since her first video & she is a great mother. Not all mothers are PERFECT, they make mistakes. It’s literally a learning journey when you are just starting to parent, let her learn. Just because she’s young, successful, & opportunistic, doesn’t give others an excuse to judge.
@@tcwarriors7706 you’re right, not all mothers are perfect and they learn from their mistakes. But car seat safety is NOT something that you learn from your mistakes, cause those mistakes can cost a child their life. She hasn’t learned from those mistakes, because she STILL has poor car seat safety.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 THANK YOU FOR THIS. she was literally on her boyfriends insta story, taping the boys and driving like 2 days ago. she hasnt learned.
@@dizzipiskio you’re absolutely amazing to be a single father so young! I give you all the props in the world. A responsible parent does exactly what you did and research’s everything and anything, even if they know what’s right and wrong we want to be 10000% sure for our precious babies ❤️ Sophie has been told time and time again that her car seat safety is horrible and she obviously does nothing to change it. People say “you don’t know their life from a 10 minute video” but if she’s doing that on the internet, what is she doing that we don’t see?
Sophie, report them to the better business bureau and you can actually sue the school for many things they put you through. Don't let it stop here because they'll do it to future families. If you get anxiety over the process let your Dad help you.
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 Not all states require you to rear face after one. There are also weight considerations, last I checked she has not disclosed that. If you really think front-facing, putting your kids to bed in "dirty" clothes, and making honest mistakes is abuse, Lord have mercy. CPS won't necessarily close the case, caseworkers can be bias and spiteful, even if a parent means well they can lose their children for minor reasons due to preconceived ignorant reasons like yours. That is how little you know about CPS.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 youtube shows about .01% of their lives, so in no way are you given enough information to make this judgement. Please check yourself before making such accusations on a stranger.
And literally the only reason the daycare did that is because of the stigma around young moms. People are so judgmental and they don’t know you as a MOTHER and how good of one you are. I’m so so so sorry this happened to you.
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 How stupid are you obviously if she still has her kids is because she’s a good mom. The kids are happy, safe and nurtured. I have seen parents that don’t change their kids and I hate to break it to you she is not one of them. If she didn’t care she would not bathe them, change them, pack them lunch, pick them up even for minor things, or provide them with basic necessities. Instead of tearing her down go bother some other parent that don’t actually care about their children. Just because you parent a certain way doesn’t mean she has to . “Legally, a child can turn to face the front of the car as long as they meet the minimum requirements for forward-facing specified by the manufacturer (generally at least 1 year old and at least 20 pounds). “ and since she has not disclosed the information and her decision as to why you have no reason to butt in. There are worse parents out there go speak and bother those who lock their kids in closets and don’t feed them!
@@briannamacquarrie4009 Since you’ve decided to take time out your day to make a comment, then copied it, then paste it to other comments then I hope you get this message. Like for future reference next time make a public comment instead of doing that..it’s annoying. First and foremost I get what you are saying, I really do. But technically if you’re child is going to bed with the same clothes on all day it isn’t considered a “unsafe situation”. It’s not right but it isn’t unsafe. Now I haven’t seen the car seats situation but instead of doing what you’re doing, dm her. Tell her about the situation she is a learning mother. Don’t be hateful and all rude because she has her own problems and probably stressed so be respectful. and finally... CPS does not close things immediately. Maybe for other people but it usually takes time. It depends on the situation. It seems to me that the daycare was making up excuses about situations just because Sophie and josh are young parents. You don’t know what goes on behind the internet so keep that in mind. Don’t take this message as me being disrespectful or anything. This is advice and I’m trying to be respectful as much as possible. Have a good day!
@@briannalarissa it is pathetic and I’m sad that she’s spending her time harassing someone who betters herself for her boys. Now a days cps isn’t doing their jobs for kids that need it and it’s wrong that this happened and it’s wrong that she wants to keep lighting that fire. There is probably a kid that needs cps to save them and people like @BriannaMacQuarrie are wasting everyone’s time. I do agree that if she is being unsafe about car safety let her know in a dm and instead of tearing her down educate her on the situation.
So I work in daycare and where I work we would never send a child home because of a diaper rash. And a diaper rash is SO NOT contagious! And if your boys are getting diaper rashes at daycare the staff are not changing their diapers often enough and are not applying diaper cream.
Diaper Rash is not a reason MOST daycares would use to have the kids picked up...I worked at a Daycare for many many years and we just put cream on the kids and thats it. We dont usually call the parents. And i worked for a Private expensive daycare/before and after school program.
At the daycare I worked at I’ve had to call once about diaper rash but not to pick them up just to let them know it was getting bad and the baby was super uncomfortable
my daycare will either text me and let me know if anything’s going on (sneezing, diaper rash, fell) but otherwise they’ll tell me when i go pick her up. the only reason i’ve ever had to pick her up early is because she got sick (coughing, threw up, fever) and she didn’t want other kids to get sick, and wanted to give me a chance to take her to the doctor
The only reason we had kids get picked up was if they had a high fever. An unknown rash but diaper rash is very clear and obvious so never for diaper or if they bit more than twice in a day. So it’s mind boggling why they would send them home everyday
That’s awful they need to be sued for false accusations, they could have had the boys put into the system and ruined your guys life’s ! I’m sorry you had to go through that as a you d parent I go through similar situations as well. You’re a amazing momma keep doing what you’re doing !! ❤️❤️❤️
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 she lets them sleep in their clothes when they take a nap not when they go to bed so you need to pay attention to the videos and the time of day it is. And if what she was doing was dangerous cps wouldn’t have dropped the case cause that’s what they did. If they didn’t she wouldn’t have her kids. Don’t sit there and judge a mother when your probably not even one. She’s an amazing mother and she trying her hardest to be an amazing mother. And if your going to sit there and put hate on her videos don’t even watch it or comment. People like you is the reason why this world is so damn messed up I swear.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 girl have you been alive long? Lol. PEOPLE CALL CPS FOR NO DAMN REASON ALL THE TIME... CPS CLOSES CASES THEY SHOULD KEEP OPEN AND THEY KEEP CASES OPEN THEY SHOULD CLOSE RIGHT AWAY... THEY LEAVE KIDS IN HOMES THAT ARE FILLED WITH DRUGS BUT REMOVE KIDS FOR GETTING SPANKED OR DISCIPLINED AND NOT ABUSED. ITS ALL BAD. ITS WRONG. AND YOU ARE WRONG AS WELL. YOU'RE SPEAKING ON SOMETHING YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT. I lost a child to the system 13 years ago, and 4 years ago someone who was mad at me called CPS again, they closed the case within a week and the very day the worker visited me she looked me in my face and apologized and said that had my situation that happened with my first born happened today in this time frame they wouldnt have removed her from my care - that she was sorry that happened and she couldnt imagine how I felt being a mom of three more babies knowing I didnt do anything wrong to deserve my firstborn gone like that. Get real.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 you are probably one of the idiots from the daycare that turned her in, huh? ALSO in some states it was completely legal for toddlers to be front facing at 1. As long as the weight met the requirements for the car seat, they just changed it to 2 not long ago. Keep trying though.. you see very little of her life on RUclips. Take your stupid thoughts else where and worry about kids that are truly in DANGER. 🙄
I don't want to add to your anxiety, but with your at home daycare, make sure they are licensed and insured. It makes a difference, there's loopholes in the law with it.
don’t think this comment was necessary tbh. i’m sure she already checked that stuff plus she mentioned the lady has had her own kids so it’s not like she’s uneducated
@@stephaniew9276 she wasn’t saying anything mean. It might be different in different states but where I’m at, home daycares have to be regulated properly or they get shut down and fined so she is probably saying that just so she doesn’t get too comfortable with a place and then they get shut down by childcare licensing or have to go through a series of steps to get that place licensed.
@@courtneymcollins99 and i wasn’t being mean either. i was just stating my opinion :). i trust she has already checked everything after dealing with the past daycare. they may be young but they did they’re research and looked at reviews.
@@stephaniew9276 wasn’t saying anything bad. Look what happened at a very credible place. She was just giving input. You should look into horror story’s about at home daycares.
Yes yes yes!! Please be thorough. My niece went to an at home daycare and they always had too many kids. So when the state came to visit they would shuttle the kids to another local daycare. One time I went to pick her up and they said I had to go somewhere else to pick her up. I was like wth she was dropped off here? I would come unexpectedly sometimes and kids would be outside unattended or screaming in another room bc they were stuck in a crib while the owner and helper would be talking on the couch or something. It was so frustrating. That isn’t allowed in facility daycares and most facilities have cameras. Also the rate for abuse increases in at home daycares (especially sexual) so yes it is very necessary. And yes I know Sophie isn’t negligent and definitely thinks about these things but there’s a lot more people than Sophie reading this thread.
I literally can not believe this. Every bit of this story is ridiculous. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You guys are obviously such amazing parents and love those babies so much. PLEASE LEAVE REVIEWS EVERYWHERE so nobody else has to go through that. I’m so glad you found a great at home daycare.
Im a 19 year old mom with a 1 year old baby boy and I cannot tell you how much this video sickened me. You are the most mature young mom I’ve seen on RUclips and in general. You definitely handled it better than I ever would have. I have the most respect for you and your family and I am very sorry you had to go through that experience. All that matters now is that the boys are happy and being well looked after.
As someone who worked for child protective services don’t allow them to use your age as a reason to push you around or question your abilities as a mother! They are there to protect children but MANY times it is abused by people to torment parents!!
I'm so sorry this happened Sophie, you did not need that. You are such a great parent! You and Josh are super amazing at co-parenting and Luke and Zeke are obviously happy, well taken care off kids! This is so frustrating and I hope it will never happen again!!! Stay strong, girl! You're doing an amazing job!
Expensive daycares does not mean BETTER daycare! This is a fact! The Staff quality is more important to look at. Some "teachers" teach just because not because they like kids...i learned this from working at School where my daycare program was located.
@@katreenaliz Pediatric Nurse here.Thrush is a fungal infection of the mouth and is not contagious, You can get a yeast diaper rash usually when a child is teething but it’s still not contagious…
@@gabbyduh100 Unless the diaper rash is fungal, or caused by a bacterial infection, it isn’t contagious, and in those type of situations it would only be spread if the person changing the diapers didn’t wash their hands which is mandatory in daycares.
Omg so I used to work at a daycare and I had to leave because of how terrible our manager treated us. We would never ever call home that many times or call a parent for a diaper rash. Also it would not spread to other children, and I’m wondering why they even said that because that would mean they’d not be sanitizing changing tables or using the same wipes to clean the kids? I’m happy you left because that place sucks, and most daycares honestly suck so much. That daycare was not worth it omg.
They probably thought it was something else which is why they forced her to take them to the doctor. Very odd! They were prob just trying to push her out.
@@courtney911 that is exactly it!! if they didn't have the space or manpower for the twins they shoud not be taking her money. It's so sad that CPS had to invade sophie & the twins life becuase this daycare either could.t handle them or they were holding some personal vendetta against her. It honestly sucks so bad for her.
@@courtney911 @poptart_crumb it is not any bad thing for a teenage to become mom Or to be pregnant. But their families should be supportive & . Nowadays young boys girls especially girls are too much interested to be relationship with boyfriends... And they do physical relationship without using protective measures. And they should also focus on their studies.... . And it is not ever body cup of tea for a teenage girl to become 🤰pregnant.. It needs lot of patience and courage... But they should also focus on their studies & Health...
This is one thing I hate about being a young mom is so many people just assume you’re clueless and incapable of what “normal” moms can do. Or that you can’t love you’re child(or children) the same way older moms can.
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 just because you’ve seen five sec of her life doesn’t mean you know everything. Every parent makes mistakes. The issue is the same thing could’ve happen with someone older and the day care would’ve have batted an eye and let it go. But bc she was young they over exaggerated things. That’s why the case was closed so fast bc they saw no issue and dropped it.
@@BethAllen_ I only have to see 5 seconds of her life to know that she hasn’t learned car seat safety at all. There’s multiple videos where the boys are strapped in right, that can cause them their life. There was a video just yesterday or the day before on Instagram of it.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 Again like I said. Every. Parent. Makes. Mistakes. She might not even realize. Or the boys could’ve moved the straps playing. Or they could’ve just sat them in there and she wanted to make a cute video real quick before fixing it.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 wtf are you doing commenting the same dumb comment everywhere. You can clearly see in her videos how much she loves her kids and is doing her best. People like you are so horrible.
I have watched your videos from your very first RUclips video while you were pregnant until now. I distinctly remember commenting on your first video and suggesting that you film in front of a window during sit downs for better lighting. From then until now, I haven’t seen better teen parents, balancing school and twins while working through a relationship with your baby daddy and then switching to co-parenting and moving states away, you both have always taken a constructive approach to learning and raising your boys in the most mature way and that’s something to inspiring and impressionable. When people think of kids and a family, they never think of teen parents and separated harmonious co-parents...they see a married late twenties to late thirties married couple with a stable home that’s surrounded by a white picket fence, for teen parents and for those learning and educating themselves about teen parents, your channel has been a blessing because of the trials you share with us that help rid the stigma that society puts on young parents.
The moment you started talking about the call and that your dad had to be on the meeting i felt so sad and you didnt even said a anything específic yet. Its so unfair that you had to go trough that Sophie 🥺
as someone pursuing early childhood education and as someone who works in daycare settings and as a nanny , i am so sorry that this has happened to you guys. as parents you put your trust into childcare providers to care for your sweet boys and they ruined that. i hope that you and josh are able to find a place for your boys with educators that will love and care for your boys and give them the best experience in school as they deserve.
i work at a daycare and we only contact the parents if it’s something out of the ordinary with the child and only management is allowed to make phone calls or text parents to ensure that stuff like this doesn’t happen, i’m so sorry this happened. As someone who works for a local small daycare it’s such an incredible experience compared to big daycare centers. Within my first week i knew most of the kids names from ages 0-6 years old. We all adore the kids we take care of and respect their parents especially when it comes to their circumstances. i wish more daycares were like mine we are literally one big family. i’m happy you found a good environment for your kids !!
@poptart_crumb it is not any bad thing for a teenage to become mom Or to be pregnant. But their families should be supportive & . Nowadays young boys girls especially girls are too much interested to be relationship with boyfriends... And they do physical relationship without using protective measures. And they should also focus on their studies.... . And it is not ever body cup of tea for a teenage girl to become 🤰pregnant.. It needs lot of patience and courage... But they should also focus on their studies & Health...
I just had to comment. When I had my daughter at 19 everyone thought I couldn’t handle it. I dealt with children and families because people made up rumors and lies. Keep your head up
There’s literally kids out there that actually need a visit like that, and they chose to go visit you guys who treat the boys so well . I would be mad as well. As a former teen mom I probably would have reacted the same.
Being a mom who has had to fight the system for my son for almost 2.5 years based off of lies from their own authority workers...I know the pain you have felt. I'm so happy that things are looking up for you. I still have anxiety and triggers from the experience but my mind is in a better place after it all!!!!! Best of luck and wishes for your little family!!!!
Sounds like the teacher was getting tired of the kids. If they were concerned re 'spreading' to other kids they would have made them get a doctor's note first day before coming back. Not allowing them each day and calling to come get them. That, or purposely trying to mess with her- let her get to class and call her to come get them.
I just read an article this morning on how kids were suffering major abuse under their mom, I think a foster mom, and there were a total of 11 records taken by police all went uninvestigated and the mom had a RUclips channel featuring the kids. The system is so broken
@@imanievelyn4645 the channel was called fantastic adventures. I’m not exactly sure which article I read it popped up on my iPhone news feed but I believe the allegations happened in 2019
I’m an early childhood educator and this whole situation makes me so angry and heart broken for you. People who are judge mental and have biases and stigmas towards certain families should not be in the ECE field, period. We are taught to love and respect families from all backgrounds. I am so so sorry this happened to you, Sophie. At home daycares are wonderful and so much more individualized! I’m so happy that your boys are excelling in this new environment!🤍 Keep up the great work mama!
you are the sweetest, most mature person. i would have NOT been so nice. i would have lost all composure and beaten that place down. i can’t give you enough credit for handling it the way you did.
So sorry this happened....I knew it was coming when you posted the cough med incident. People are so mean and ruthless!!! You and Josh are Great parents. Keep up the good work!
My sister had an issue with her baby daycare too , she took him (he is only 8 months at this time ) he is allergic to lavender, which they have put in his paper work , they have everyone bring their child their own stuff like dippers etc. and was told only their kid would be using their own supplies the parents provided for their child. My sister noticed that one day she came in early and she saw a worker using his ( the ones she brought for her kid only ) on a mother baby , no biggie, maybe the mom didn’t restock w.e but one day she brought him home and he had on a different brand of diaper ( can’t get mixed up they have their names labeled for a reason) BUT she knew she always stocked up and brought it to the daycare so she was confused on why her baby didn’t have on his diaper when she knew he had plenty ! So she got angry went to the school and they used all of her diapers for other kids !! Yet she had two packs why is no other parent bringing diapers ? and they said she had to go out and buy more they weren’t gonna pay her back or even replace them they just took the ones for her kid and told her to buy more ... and so my sister got mad Bc she didn’t sign up to supply for everyone else’s kid she was told only for hers !! so time went on , my nephew has very sensitive skin and she brought him home and he had a terrible rash , and he kept coming home with a terrible rash and my sister took him to the doctor and was like he is having a allergic reaction to the diaper and my sister is like that’s weird he has been wearing this brand since birth , come to find out she went to the school early and saw they were changing him is other kids diapers mixing the diapers when they said they wouldn’t do that again and they were using scented wipes which she told them not too Bc they were lavender scented and he is allergic to them . She then confronted them they were like we are sorry we will get on it , rash went down ok , not even the day after the rash lightened up she got him home and she opened his diaper and it’s filled with lavender scented baby powder !!! She pulled him out of that school and they got shut down
As a child who is taken away by CPS, I watch you because you are everything a mom should be. I am so sorry you had to run in to the system because of an oblivious daycare. There are plenty of kids that really do need help, they could have been focusing on😭❤️❤️Stay strong mama, you are amazing!
I would have utterly pissed off, but it's also demeaning and uncalled for. I'm a mother in recovery, 3.5 years sober and I've been treated less than other daycare parents due to this. It was never said, but it doesn't have to be. I'm so sorry you went through this.
i work at a daycare and have for years and only once have i seen a child asked to find a new center, never once have i seen them call the parents to send them home. that’s crazy
Sophia , I’m so sorry to hear all of this! To me it sounds that they took advantage of you knowing your delicate situation being a young busy, mother. Maybe even envious of your finical stability, independence, and fame. I hope that this situation can be used to help you stand firm in your position and authority as a mother. You are STRONG, GOOD, and LOVING. God watches you and your children and only he can judge you as a parent. ❤️ Keep going mama. Stay resilient and keep protecting those precious children of yours!!!💖
Damn I'm so sorry Sophie the fuzz is no joke my family has had to go through their insane system also... im sure the system helps some children but for the ones who don't need help they sure make the parents lives hell
Seeing parents getting treated this way makes me so mad and unfortunately it happens so often. I’m glad you were able to find a good and affordable daycare and get away from all that craziness
girl I am so sorry you went through this that is not okay + is so inappropriate of that daycare. I would definitely take legal action against that daycare because they were discriminating against young parents and for defamation of character. I am mad for you and I’m happy you took them out of there.
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
I’m so sorry this happened to you guys. The way you handled this situation online, says a lot about you. You are such a GREAT mom! I’m so glad you were able to get out of that situation. God bless you and your little family ❤️
I’m a kindergarten teacher in Germany and just in disbelief and so angry about what you had to deal with... like that diaper rash thing is just pathetic. I just hope they will get the right reputation and more parents will act like you. Hopefully your kids will be treated better in the at home daycare. You guys don’t deserve this amount of stress...
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 are you really going around a replying with this to all comments... you seriously have nothing to with your life! You don’t know how she is as a mother! You only see what she shows on camera! It’s extremely disrespectful that you have to judge the way someone is taking care of their kids.
You’re such a wonderful mama! You look so bright and happy and I really hope you continue to thrive soph, you and your two lil boys deserve the world and all the happiness to have. Keep being you girl, you’re doing fab✨💗
I have been watching you since you announced your pregnancy! You are the BEST mom! I’m not a teen anymore but I hope when I have kids later in life I can be half the mom you are to your kids. You and Josh are so wonderful with co parenting! Love you lots❤️
I am so very sorry you went through that. On the other hand I am so happy you came out better. There is nothing worse than people attacking you and the way you care for your most precious gifts. Those people will get what is coming to them. Let God get revenge for you. He has the right way to put people in their place. You are one of the best moms I’ve seen on RUclips.
I had 3 kids by 21 so I understand the ageism that comes with it 😩 but I never had to deal with anything that extreme..I’m so sorry! I’m glad you were able to find a home daycare. I also watch kids now at home and i feel like it allows for a personal loving environment for them ❤️
That’s so horrible! I work at a daycare and we have so many parents that are college students and we love them all equally. So sorry you had to deal with this, such bs!
I’m very sorry you had to deal with a all that Sophie! I’m glad you are with an at home daycare and they actually care about you and your kids and don’t judge! God bless you all!
That's horrible. I am so sorry. That sucks. Sometimes the best parents are young parents. Im so glad you,josh and the boys don't deal with them anymore
I had a feeling that’s what it was. Which you don’t deserve that at all anyone who watches you or knows you knows your a fantastic mother! Some of us young moms are greater mothers than some older people. Our age doesn’t define who we are as mothers. Keep your head up love so glad you’re done dealing with the situation❤️ can’t wait to see the house tour!!!
This is one of my biggest fears ever. I have my daughter in a daycare and am terrified to have her there. Not because of a gut feeling or anything, but because of the things all the other kids and parents have been through all over the world. I’m so sorry you went through this. No one should have this happen to them.
That honestly sucks so much that CPS had to invade you & the twins life. They should not be in business if this is how they conduct their daycare. I hope further action is taken & you leave a review so this doesn't happen to other families. You proved yourself & I think you are an amazing motther regardless if you are young. Please keep doing what you are doing.
I’m just really sorry they messed with your schooling, and you had to change your major. Being a young mom is hard enough without other people making worse.
I used to work in daycare and so angry they did that. I had to tell on my coworker once cause she was spanking the kids. I am really glad I spoke up and proud of you for doing the same. You are good Mom Sophie.
I’m so sorry girl, how sad 😞 I do a home Daycare and I would NEVER EVER make accusations against a mother! Sending so so much love, yes at home Daycares are so loving and amazing!!! 💓💓💓
My nephew is in daycare. When there’s an issue they just give us a note and have us sign a slip at the pickup. They’ve never called us mid day about a pinky toe LOL
I’m so sorry this happened to you. My younger daughter got pregnant her senior year of HS & I understand how judgement people can be. I’m thankful you found an at home daycare so that lady can love on your kiddos ... who are adorable by the way. Stay strong ! I can tell you are a smart young lady. My daughter who is now 31 has (3) beautiful kids & an amazing job & is doing it all by herself. 🥰🥰
Never been this early also thankyou Soph for including us in the good and the bad part of your life . Remmeber we love you and always here to support you ♥️
I’m so glad y’all found someone! I’m home daycare are the best ! My friend has one ! Also just keep paying attention to your boys how they react when you drop them off and pick them up trust me it says a lot
My son goes to a at home daycare and its the best, shes teaching him colours right now! I can't say enough about at home daycares. So sorry this happened to you but at least they're safe and happy now 😊
I’m so sorry you went through that. That is absolutely ridiculous and disgusting of that daycare to treat people like that I’m sure with such terrible and false accusations. Hope everything is going so much better and will stay that way 💜
Sophie and Josh from what I can see, you are amazing parents and it´s crazy to think that happened to you. Literally bizzare. Sending so much love to your family.
I am so sorry that you all had to deal with that. It’s so wrong in so many ways and my blood was boiling as you were saying your story. If they watched your videos like actually watched them they’d see how amazing parents you two are. I am truly sorry you all had to go through that especially as your first time attending a daycare. We love you all so much and I’m happy to see that y’all are doing much better.
I think what cause this was just pure jealously, your a beautiful young lady doing great things, some people can't stand to see people flourish. So sad it happen.
I am looking into putting my son into daycare. He is about 6 months younger then your boys. It scares me so much because people can be so evil. I am so sorry you had to deal with this
My mother runs an at home daycare for 15 years it’s sad to read stories about other daycares across the world getting shut down due to abuse or something else. We make sure these kids are treated as family no matter what and never judge the parent, I’m sorry your scared but not all daycares are like this. I hope you find the right daycare for your baby. I hope her baby boys rash is better and healed fully we have had kids that get rashes, but it could be anything from the diapers to baby powder or cream that your using normally ours are from being allergic to the diaper and powder
Also we have had a couple kids with younger mothers and fathers (18-20). Those kids were the sweetest and the parents were amazing. No problems at all and we communicated with them whenever the child needed anything. Compared to some of the older parents ive seen, the younger parents are way more mature. Don't let their judgement take away from your happiness. You know you're doing amazing and have a whole platform that will back you up ❤
i worked in a daycare for years and we would NEVER call cps without talking to the parents and everything beforehand. that is so ridiculous i’m sorry that happened to you and josh!
I’m SO sorry something like that happened to you guys! But yes at home daycares are AMAZING if you find the right person. My boyfriends mom has one so our son gets to go there and he learns so much, is always in a good mood. I’m so happy you guys found that!❤️
This happened to me so many times where I was judge because of how young I was I had 2 kids before I was 19 and everyone thought they were twins , but ppl are very cruel and judgmental and I had someone call cps on me literally just to be spiteful I had a house a car and my husband worked full time and I was a stay at home mom in school and took amazing care of my kids . They searched my house for drugs and went through my kitchen seeing if any of my food was expired like I was appalled they could do that, they asked me every uncomfortable question , and checked up on me for couple months after it’s annoying but just know that you are very lucky you have a platform because you have a voice and you can speak up on these things . Stay positive and god bless I know you are a great mom !
I definitely needed to see! SMH..... what the HELL I grew up in child protective service and never want that to happen to my child. Me being a young mom also a mommy RUclipsr I can only imagine someone coming after me in that hatred way. Im only 3 months postpartum and me and my fiancé have been talking about childcare for like a week now just to put him for a few days but im so totally against it. Ill do anything to they to keep my child out knowing he's so young and can't speak yet.But lord im a new subscriber and love your videos you are a great parent and keep your head up love !!
CPS gets called on you and they show up even though you did nothing wrong..... but as a teacher I have called CPS about kids coming into my classroom bloody and bruised from being beat by their parents and cps does nothing. Makes me so angry!
Sooo true!!!
I’ve heard this so many times it’s so sad
Exactly. It sickens me. Nothing ever happened for me either.
This is very true and deeply sad.
Has happened to my mum. My baby brother had bruises all over him after daycare so she stupidly went to the daycare to ask you know who tf was touching him and asked for the cam vids but they gave nothing. But guess what, CPS came to our house yet it wasn’t any of us 😡
I love that you and Josh set up the pool together for the kids. It's part of those little things that show a healthy and functioning family, and that will become cute memories for the twins. Mummy and daddy don't live together, but they're still mummy and daddy. Soooo mature and healthy. luv you Soph you're incredible and brave and smart and beautifully fearless
I love this comment so true 💕
Yes!! I love how josh and Sophie work together for the sake of the kids
So true. It's a sign of mature parents. There are many older couples that are divorced or never married with children and wouldn't do things together as a family.
The hardest part of divorce for me was that my parents were no longer simultaneously present to share birthdays,Christmas, and other special times in my life. They were in their 30's but not emotionally mature enough to share the same space without hostility. Kids definitely benefit greatly from having parents that are civil and friendly towards one another to coparent in a healthy way.
After the case is officially closed you can request the entire file from cps and they legally have to give you ALLLLLLL of it. So you'll get to see every word anyone involved said. Who exactly reported it, who backed them up, everything
I didn’t know you could request that after a case is closed. Good Info ! 😊
This! I was in foster care and after my mom had her rights terminated and case was closed i got a huge envelope with everything that happened the year the case was open that had everything in it and i mean EVERYTHING!
I would sue them if possible, to get the money back. They didn't deserve a penny. Really wish she would name and shame also after it goes to court!
My mom is a CPS worker and unfortunately they get BS calls like this all the time and it takes time and resources away from children who are in danger. People are ridiculous I’m so sorry this happened to you,
Omg this is such a great point to shed light on. They could’ve been dealing with kids who actually need help form cps, Sophie should sue the daycare and use this as a key argument.. no reason to be bothering a mama about diaper rash either... 4 days in a row... ridiculous
@@rotcgirll1094I PRAY SHE SEES THESE COMMENTS AND DOES SUE THEM!!
@@rotcgirll1094 yes exactly CPS has to investigate every single call no matter what (normally within the first 24hrs) so BS calls and accusations literally put other children’s lives at risk, people are ignorant about it.
Here in British Columbia Canada your children can forward face in the carseat, the day they turn 1 years old but have to remain in car seat or booster seat until the age of 9 they no longer go by weight here.. and cos knee I am sure what great momma Sophia is and what a great dad Josh is I think that day care should be looked into a bit more.. mo worries Sophia your an awesome momma
Sophie, please leave reviews everywhere. Please. This will allow other people know. Please.
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 you really had to copy & paste this comment on multiple posts? Are you one of the daycare workers...? I’ve followed since her first video & she is a great mother. Not all mothers are PERFECT, they make mistakes. It’s literally a learning journey when you are just starting to parent, let her learn. Just because she’s young, successful, & opportunistic, doesn’t give others an excuse to judge.
@@tcwarriors7706 you’re right, not all mothers are perfect and they learn from their mistakes. But car seat safety is NOT something that you learn from your mistakes, cause those mistakes can cost a child their life. She hasn’t learned from those mistakes, because she STILL has poor car seat safety.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 THANK YOU FOR THIS. she was literally on her boyfriends insta story, taping the boys and driving like 2 days ago. she hasnt learned.
@@dizzipiskio you’re absolutely amazing to be a single father so young! I give you all the props in the world. A responsible parent does exactly what you did and research’s everything and anything, even if they know what’s right and wrong we want to be 10000% sure for our precious babies ❤️ Sophie has been told time and time again that her car seat safety is horrible and she obviously does nothing to change it. People say “you don’t know their life from a 10 minute video” but if she’s doing that on the internet, what is she doing that we don’t see?
Sophie, report them to the better business bureau and you can actually sue the school for many things they put you through. Don't let it stop here because they'll do it to future families. If you get anxiety over the process let your Dad help you.
I agree 1000%
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 you can’t really tell from RUclips videos at all her actual situation with children
@@briannamacquarrie4009 Not all states require you to rear face after one. There are also weight considerations, last I checked she has not disclosed that. If you really think front-facing, putting your kids to bed in "dirty" clothes, and making honest mistakes is abuse, Lord have mercy. CPS won't necessarily close the case, caseworkers can be bias and spiteful, even if a parent means well they can lose their children for minor reasons due to preconceived ignorant reasons like yours. That is how little you know about CPS.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 youtube shows about .01% of their lives, so in no way are you given enough information to make this judgement. Please check yourself before making such accusations on a stranger.
Leave a google review for the daycare, they can’t delete it. People deserve to know that they discriminate against young parents
And literally the only reason the daycare did that is because of the stigma around young moms. People are so judgmental and they don’t know you as a MOTHER and how good of one you are. I’m so so so sorry this happened to you.
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 How stupid are you obviously if she still has her kids is because she’s a good mom. The kids are happy, safe and nurtured. I have seen parents that don’t change their kids and I hate to break it to you she is not one of them. If she didn’t care she would not bathe them, change them, pack them lunch, pick them up even for minor things, or provide them with basic necessities. Instead of tearing her down go bother some other parent that don’t actually care about their children. Just because you parent a certain way doesn’t mean she has to . “Legally, a child can turn to face the front of the car as long as they meet the minimum requirements for forward-facing specified by the manufacturer (generally at least 1 year old and at least 20 pounds). “ and since she has not disclosed the information and her decision as to why you have no reason to butt in. There are worse parents out there go speak and bother those who lock their kids in closets and don’t feed them!
@@briannamacquarrie4009 Since you’ve decided to take time out your day to make a comment, then copied it, then paste it to other comments then I hope you get this message. Like for future reference next time make a public comment instead of doing that..it’s annoying.
First and foremost I get what you are saying, I really do. But technically if you’re child is going to bed with the same clothes on all day it isn’t considered a “unsafe situation”. It’s not right but it isn’t unsafe. Now I haven’t seen the car seats situation but instead of doing what you’re doing, dm her. Tell her about the situation she is a learning mother. Don’t be hateful and all rude because she has her own problems and probably stressed so be respectful. and finally... CPS does not close things immediately. Maybe for other people but it usually takes time. It depends on the situation. It seems to me that the daycare was making up excuses about situations just because Sophie and josh are young parents. You don’t know what goes on behind the internet so keep that in mind.
Don’t take this message as me being disrespectful or anything. This is advice and I’m trying to be respectful as much as possible. Have a good day!
@@gisellesantiago7037 I love you for that comment. 100% agree. It’s honestly pathetic and sad that people are like this
@@briannalarissa it is pathetic and I’m sad that she’s spending her time harassing someone who betters herself for her boys. Now a days cps isn’t doing their jobs for kids that need it and it’s wrong that this happened and it’s wrong that she wants to keep lighting that fire. There is probably a kid that needs cps to save them and people like @BriannaMacQuarrie are wasting everyone’s time. I do agree that if she is being unsafe about car safety let her know in a dm and instead of tearing her down educate her on the situation.
I can’t believe they called CPS on you...that’s ridiculous.
So I work in daycare and where I work we would never send a child home because of a diaper rash. And a diaper rash is SO NOT contagious! And if your boys are getting diaper rashes at daycare the staff are not changing their diapers often enough and are not applying diaper cream.
Diaper Rash is not a reason MOST daycares would use to have the kids picked up...I worked at a Daycare for many many years and we just put cream on the kids and thats it. We dont usually call the parents. And i worked for a Private expensive daycare/before and after school program.
At the daycare I worked at I’ve had to call once about diaper rash but not to pick them up just to let them know it was getting bad and the baby was super uncomfortable
I could see calling the parents (if they aren’t too busy), but having them come get them?! No way.
my daycare will either text me and let me know if anything’s going on (sneezing, diaper rash, fell) but otherwise they’ll tell me when i go pick her up. the only reason i’ve ever had to pick her up early is because she got sick (coughing, threw up, fever) and she didn’t want other kids to get sick, and wanted to give me a chance to take her to the doctor
The only reason we had kids get picked up was if they had a high fever. An unknown rash but diaper rash is very clear and obvious so never for diaper or if they bit more than twice in a day. So it’s mind boggling why they would send them home everyday
same! i work for a very good daycare and a diaper rash is something we tell the parents about at pickup
That’s awful they need to be sued for false accusations, they could have had the boys put into the system and ruined your guys life’s ! I’m sorry you had to go through that as a you d parent I go through similar situations as well. You’re a amazing momma keep doing what you’re doing !! ❤️❤️❤️
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 she lets them sleep in their clothes when they take a nap not when they go to bed so you need to pay attention to the videos and the time of day it is. And if what she was doing was dangerous cps wouldn’t have dropped the case cause that’s what they did. If they didn’t she wouldn’t have her kids. Don’t sit there and judge a mother when your probably not even one. She’s an amazing mother and she trying her hardest to be an amazing mother. And if your going to sit there and put hate on her videos don’t even watch it or comment. People like you is the reason why this world is so damn messed up I swear.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 girl have you been alive long? Lol. PEOPLE CALL CPS FOR NO DAMN REASON ALL THE TIME... CPS CLOSES CASES THEY SHOULD KEEP OPEN AND THEY KEEP CASES OPEN THEY SHOULD CLOSE RIGHT AWAY... THEY LEAVE KIDS IN HOMES THAT ARE FILLED WITH DRUGS BUT REMOVE KIDS FOR GETTING SPANKED OR DISCIPLINED AND NOT ABUSED. ITS ALL BAD. ITS WRONG. AND YOU ARE WRONG AS WELL. YOU'RE SPEAKING ON SOMETHING YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT. I lost a child to the system 13 years ago, and 4 years ago someone who was mad at me called CPS again, they closed the case within a week and the very day the worker visited me she looked me in my face and apologized and said that had my situation that happened with my first born happened today in this time frame they wouldnt have removed her from my care - that she was sorry that happened and she couldnt imagine how I felt being a mom of three more babies knowing I didnt do anything wrong to deserve my firstborn gone like that. Get real.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 you are probably one of the idiots from the daycare that turned her in, huh? ALSO in some states it was completely legal for toddlers to be front facing at 1. As long as the weight met the requirements for the car seat, they just changed it to 2 not long ago. Keep trying though.. you see very little of her life on RUclips. Take your stupid thoughts else where and worry about kids that are truly in DANGER. 🙄
@@briannamacquarrie4009 girl shut the fuck up
I don't want to add to your anxiety, but with your at home daycare, make sure they are licensed and insured. It makes a difference, there's loopholes in the law with it.
don’t think this comment was necessary tbh. i’m sure she already checked that stuff plus she mentioned the lady has had her own kids so it’s not like she’s uneducated
@@stephaniew9276 she wasn’t saying anything mean. It might be different in different states but where I’m at, home daycares have to be regulated properly or they get shut down and fined so she is probably saying that just so she doesn’t get too comfortable with a place and then they get shut down by childcare licensing or have to go through a series of steps to get that place licensed.
@@courtneymcollins99 and i wasn’t being mean either. i was just stating my opinion :). i trust she has already checked everything after dealing with the past daycare. they may be young but they did they’re research and looked at reviews.
@@stephaniew9276 wasn’t saying anything bad. Look what happened at a very credible place. She was just giving input. You should look into horror story’s about at home daycares.
Yes yes yes!! Please be thorough. My niece went to an at home daycare and they always had too many kids. So when the state came to visit they would shuttle the kids to another local daycare. One time I went to pick her up and they said I had to go somewhere else to pick her up. I was like wth she was dropped off here? I would come unexpectedly sometimes and kids would be outside unattended or screaming in another room bc they were stuck in a crib while the owner and helper would be talking on the couch or something. It was so frustrating. That isn’t allowed in facility daycares and most facilities have cameras. Also the rate for abuse increases in at home daycares (especially sexual) so yes it is very necessary. And yes I know Sophie isn’t negligent and definitely thinks about these things but there’s a lot more people than Sophie reading this thread.
I literally can not believe this. Every bit of this story is ridiculous. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You guys are obviously such amazing parents and love those babies so much. PLEASE LEAVE REVIEWS EVERYWHERE so nobody else has to go through that.
I’m so glad you found a great at home daycare.
Absolutely unbelievable that they reported you to CPS when it’s so obvious those babies are well taken care of.
Im a 19 year old mom with a 1 year old baby boy and I cannot tell you how much this video sickened me. You are the most mature young mom I’ve seen on RUclips and in general. You definitely handled it better than I ever would have. I have the most respect for you and your family and I am very sorry you had to go through that experience. All that matters now is that the boys are happy and being well looked after.
Rash is also a symptom of COVID you know that right
As someone who worked for child protective services don’t allow them to use your age as a reason to push you around or question your abilities as a mother! They are there to protect children but MANY times it is abused by people to torment parents!!
AHHHHH HER HAIR IS SO PRETTY 🤩
I'm so sorry this happened Sophie, you did not need that. You are such a great parent! You and Josh are super amazing at co-parenting and Luke and Zeke are obviously happy, well taken care off kids! This is so frustrating and I hope it will never happen again!!! Stay strong, girl! You're doing an amazing job!
Expensive daycares does not mean BETTER daycare! This is a fact! The Staff quality is more important to look at. Some "teachers" teach just because not because they like kids...i learned this from working at School where my daycare program was located.
The fact they think diaper rashes can be transferred to each kid has me mind blown
Literally
Some can.
theres called thrush diaper rash that can! i think its just something they need to look out for :)
@@katreenaliz Pediatric Nurse here.Thrush is a fungal infection of the mouth and is not contagious, You can get a yeast diaper rash usually when a child is teething but it’s still not contagious…
@@gabbyduh100 Unless the diaper rash is fungal, or caused by a bacterial infection, it isn’t contagious, and in those type of situations it would only be spread if the person changing the diapers didn’t wash their hands which is mandatory in daycares.
Omg so I used to work at a daycare and I had to leave because of how terrible our manager treated us. We would never ever call home that many times or call a parent for a diaper rash. Also it would not spread to other children, and I’m wondering why they even said that because that would mean they’d not be sanitizing changing tables or using the same wipes to clean the kids? I’m happy you left because that place sucks, and most daycares honestly suck so much. That daycare was not worth it omg.
They probably thought it was something else which is why they forced her to take them to the doctor. Very odd! They were prob just trying to push her out.
@@courtney911 that is exactly it!! if they didn't have the space or manpower for the twins they shoud not be taking her money. It's so sad that CPS had to invade sophie & the twins life becuase this daycare either could.t handle them or they were holding some personal vendetta against her. It honestly sucks so bad for her.
i also used to work at a daycare and it sucked sooooooooo many things hidden from parents luckily i only worked there for my senior year
@@courtney911 @poptart_crumb it is not any bad thing for a teenage to become mom Or to be pregnant.
But their families should be supportive & . Nowadays young boys girls especially girls are too much interested to be relationship with boyfriends...
And they do physical relationship without using protective measures.
And they should also focus on their studies....
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And it is not ever body cup of tea for a teenage girl to become 🤰pregnant..
It needs lot of patience and courage...
But they should also focus on their studies & Health...
This is one thing I hate about being a young mom is so many people just assume you’re clueless and incapable of what “normal” moms can do. Or that you can’t love you’re child(or children) the same way older moms can.
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 just because you’ve seen five sec of her life doesn’t mean you know everything. Every parent makes mistakes. The issue is the same thing could’ve happen with someone older and the day care would’ve have batted an eye and let it go. But bc she was young they over exaggerated things. That’s why the case was closed so fast bc they saw no issue and dropped it.
@@BethAllen_ I only have to see 5 seconds of her life to know that she hasn’t learned car seat safety at all. There’s multiple videos where the boys are strapped in right, that can cause them their life. There was a video just yesterday or the day before on Instagram of it.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 Again like I said. Every. Parent. Makes. Mistakes. She might not even realize. Or the boys could’ve moved the straps playing. Or they could’ve just sat them in there and she wanted to make a cute video real quick before fixing it.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 wtf are you doing commenting the same dumb comment everywhere. You can clearly see in her videos how much she loves her kids and is doing her best. People like you are so horrible.
I have watched your videos from your very first RUclips video while you were pregnant until now. I distinctly remember commenting on your first video and suggesting that you film in front of a window during sit downs for better lighting. From then until now, I haven’t seen better teen parents, balancing school and twins while working through a relationship with your baby daddy and then switching to co-parenting and moving states away, you both have always taken a constructive approach to learning and raising your boys in the most mature way and that’s something to inspiring and impressionable. When people think of kids and a family, they never think of teen parents and separated harmonious co-parents...they see a married late twenties to late thirties married couple with a stable home that’s surrounded by a white picket fence, for teen parents and for those learning and educating themselves about teen parents, your channel has been a blessing because of the trials you share with us that help rid the stigma that society puts on young parents.
The moment you started talking about the call and that your dad had to be on the meeting i felt so sad and you didnt even said a anything específic yet.
Its so unfair that you had to go trough that Sophie 🥺
as someone pursuing early childhood education and as someone who works in daycare settings and as a nanny , i am so sorry that this has happened to you guys. as parents you put your trust into childcare providers to care for your sweet boys and they ruined that. i hope that you and josh are able to find a place for your boys with educators that will love and care for your boys and give them the best experience in school as they deserve.
When they said “hi mommy”🥺🥰 they’re so freaking cute and so big now 😭😭
i work at a daycare and we only contact the parents if it’s something out of the ordinary with the child and only management is allowed to make phone calls or text parents to ensure that stuff like this doesn’t happen, i’m so sorry this happened. As someone who works for a local small daycare it’s such an incredible experience compared to big daycare centers. Within my first week i knew most of the kids names from ages 0-6 years old. We all adore the kids we take care of and respect their parents especially when it comes to their circumstances. i wish more daycares were like mine we are literally one big family. i’m happy you found a good environment for your kids !!
@poptart_crumb it is not any bad thing for a teenage to become mom Or to be pregnant.
But their families should be supportive & . Nowadays young boys girls especially girls are too much interested to be relationship with boyfriends...
And they do physical relationship without using protective measures.
And they should also focus on their studies....
.
And it is not ever body cup of tea for a teenage girl to become 🤰pregnant..
It needs lot of patience and courage...
But they should also focus on their studies & Health...
I just had to comment. When I had my daughter at 19 everyone thought I couldn’t handle it. I dealt with children and families because people made up rumors and lies. Keep your head up
Why would they call social services, you are literally so good with the kids and so mature!!
There’s literally kids out there that actually need a visit like that, and they chose to go visit you guys who treat the boys so well . I would be mad as well. As a former teen mom I probably would have reacted the same.
Being a mom who has had to fight the system for my son for almost 2.5 years based off of lies from their own authority workers...I know the pain you have felt. I'm so happy that things are looking up for you. I still have anxiety and triggers from the experience but my mind is in a better place after it all!!!!! Best of luck and wishes for your little family!!!!
I work at a daycare. And we have never sent home the kids for diaper rashes, that’s crazy. Like we lather them up in diaper cream so that’s all!
Sounds like the teacher was getting tired of the kids. If they were concerned re 'spreading' to other kids they would have made them get a doctor's note first day before coming back. Not allowing them each day and calling to come get them. That, or purposely trying to mess with her- let her get to class and call her to come get them.
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Rash is also a symptom of COVID you know that right
I just read an article this morning on how kids were suffering major abuse under their mom, I think a foster mom, and there were a total of 11 records taken by police all went uninvestigated and the mom had a RUclips channel featuring the kids. The system is so broken
What was the article called? Also that is so sad I wish cps wasn’t so corrupt
was it the 7 Passengers?
@@jillian6577 it’s the 8 passengers
@@jillian6577 no it wasn’t the 7 or 8 passengers channel I’ll see if I can find it
@@imanievelyn4645 the channel was called fantastic adventures. I’m not exactly sure which article I read it popped up on my iPhone news feed but I believe the allegations happened in 2019
I'm honestly so mad earing this story, I feel like crying!!
Truly don't know how you managed that! My goodness!
You're so strong!
I’m so sorry that happened to you. That’s terrible. I’m happy for you about your new house and hope you guys are doing better!
I’m an early childhood educator and this whole situation makes me so angry and heart broken for you. People who are judge mental and have biases and stigmas towards certain families should not be in the ECE field, period. We are taught to love and respect families from all backgrounds. I am so so sorry this happened to you, Sophie. At home daycares are wonderful and so much more individualized! I’m so happy that your boys are excelling in this new environment!🤍 Keep up the great work mama!
you are the sweetest, most mature person. i would have NOT been so nice. i would have lost all composure and beaten that place down. i can’t give you enough credit for handling it the way you did.
So sorry this happened....I knew it was coming when you posted the cough med incident. People are so mean and ruthless!!! You and Josh are Great parents. Keep up the good work!
you are so strong to share this, thank you for trusting us. WE LOVE YOU SOPHIE💚
i aspire to be as strong, beautiful, and independent woman as you💜
My sister had an issue with her baby daycare too , she took him (he is only 8 months at this time ) he is allergic to lavender, which they have put in his paper work , they have everyone bring their child their own stuff like dippers etc. and was told only their kid would be using their own supplies the parents provided for their child. My sister noticed that one day she came in early and she saw a worker using his ( the ones she brought for her kid only ) on a mother baby , no biggie, maybe the mom didn’t restock w.e but one day she brought him home and he had on a different brand of diaper ( can’t get mixed up they have their names labeled for a reason) BUT she knew she always stocked up and brought it to the daycare so she was confused on why her baby didn’t have on his diaper when she knew he had plenty ! So she got angry went to the school and they used all of her diapers for other kids !! Yet she had two packs why is no other parent bringing diapers ? and they said she had to go out and buy more they weren’t gonna pay her back or even replace them they just took the ones for her kid and told her to buy more ... and so my sister got mad Bc she didn’t sign up to supply for everyone else’s kid she was told only for hers !! so time went on , my nephew has very sensitive skin and she brought him home and he had a terrible rash , and he kept coming home with a terrible rash and my sister took him to the doctor and was like he is having a allergic reaction to the diaper and my sister is like that’s weird he has been wearing this brand since birth , come to find out she went to the school early and saw they were changing him is other kids diapers mixing the diapers when they said they wouldn’t do that again and they were using scented wipes which she told them not too Bc they were lavender scented and he is allergic to them . She then confronted them they were like we are sorry we will get on it , rash went down ok , not even the day after the rash lightened up she got him home and she opened his diaper and it’s filled with lavender scented baby powder !!! She pulled him out of that school and they got shut down
As a child who is taken away by CPS, I watch you because you are everything a mom should be. I am so sorry you had to run in to the system because of an oblivious daycare. There are plenty of kids that really do need help, they could have been focusing on😭❤️❤️Stay strong mama, you are amazing!
I would have utterly pissed off, but it's also demeaning and uncalled for. I'm a mother in recovery, 3.5 years sober and I've been treated less than other daycare parents due to this. It was never said, but it doesn't have to be. I'm so sorry you went through this.
i work at a daycare and have for years and only once have i seen a child asked to find a new center, never once have i seen them call the parents to send them home. that’s crazy
commented that before i finished listened and diaper rashes….. contagious??? they should’ve been asking for cream not sending them home lol
Seems like the daycare just didn’t want to deal with the kids. So sad...
Sophia , I’m so sorry to hear all of this! To me it sounds that they took advantage of you knowing your delicate situation being a young busy, mother. Maybe even envious of your finical stability, independence, and fame. I hope that this situation can be used to help you stand firm in your position and authority as a mother. You are STRONG, GOOD, and LOVING. God watches you and your children and only he can judge you as a parent. ❤️ Keep going mama. Stay resilient and keep protecting those precious children of yours!!!💖
Damn I'm so sorry Sophie the fuzz is no joke my family has had to go through their insane system also... im sure the system helps some children but for the ones who don't need help they sure make the parents lives hell
Seeing parents getting treated this way makes me so mad and unfortunately it happens so often. I’m glad you were able to find a good and affordable daycare and get away from all that craziness
girl I am so sorry you went through this that is not okay + is so inappropriate of that daycare. I would definitely take legal action against that daycare because they were discriminating against young parents and for defamation of character. I am mad for you and I’m happy you took them out of there.
Yes!! I hope she sees this comment 🙏🏼🙏🏼
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 CPS keeps an open investigation for 45 days regardless of the situation. Do your research before spam commenting dumb shit
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I remember you being so excited about this daycare back in August, so sad to hear it turned out not to be as you guys expected
I’m so sorry you guys had to go through that experience :-( you’re so strong mama!!!
I’m so sorry this happened to you guys. The way you handled this situation online, says a lot about you. You are such a GREAT mom! I’m so glad you were able to get out of that situation. God bless you and your little family ❤️
I’m a kindergarten teacher in Germany and just in disbelief and so angry about what you had to deal with... like that diaper rash thing is just pathetic. I just hope they will get the right reputation and more parents will act like you.
Hopefully your kids will be treated better in the at home daycare. You guys don’t deserve this amount of stress...
If you’ve seen a lot of her videos and pay attention you can see the unsafe situations she puts the boys in all the time. They were front facing at age 1, which is so unsafe. She puts them to bed in their dirty clothes that they wore all day ALL THE TIME. I just saw a video on Instagram where the boys are in car seats that are so so unsafe it makes me cringe. The daycare wouldn’t have called for no reason. And CPS would have closed the case immediately if nothing was wrong.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 are you really going around a replying with this to all comments... you seriously have nothing to with your life! You don’t know how she is as a mother! You only see what she shows on camera! It’s extremely disrespectful that you have to judge the way someone is taking care of their kids.
@@briannamacquarrie4009 I bet you're one of the daycare workers
@@amyk7820 Even if she is???? do you not watch sophies videos and see the things she does.
@@katreenaliz I’d like you to name some examples of “the things she does” since you seem to think you are the parenting expert.
You’re such a wonderful mama! You look so bright and happy and I really hope you continue to thrive soph, you and your two lil boys deserve the world and all the happiness to have. Keep being you girl, you’re doing fab✨💗
9:02 is where she starts talking about it btw
I have been watching you since you announced your pregnancy! You are the BEST mom! I’m not a teen anymore but I hope when I have kids later in life I can be half the mom you are to your kids. You and Josh are so wonderful with co parenting! Love you lots❤️
Girl you and Josh are amazing parents that daycare should be closed
I am so very sorry you went through that. On the other hand I am so happy you came out better. There is nothing worse than people attacking you and the way you care for your most precious gifts. Those people will get what is coming to them. Let God get revenge for you. He has the right way to put people in their place. You are one of the best moms I’ve seen on RUclips.
I had 3 kids by 21 so I understand the ageism that comes with it 😩 but I never had to deal with anything that extreme..I’m so sorry! I’m glad you were able to find a home daycare. I also watch kids now at home and i feel like it allows for a personal loving environment for them ❤️
That’s so horrible! I work at a daycare and we have so many parents that are college students and we love them all equally. So sorry you had to deal with this, such bs!
You are the most mature and responsible teen mom I’ve ever known I’d be totally pissed off if I were in your place too.
Complete right decision to leave and speak up!! Great job you too. And yay for the new teacher at home!! Sounds perfect. All the very best for that
As a teen mom, my heart hurts for you. I would have been just as mad. I’m sorry you went through that
I’m very sorry you had to deal with a all that Sophie! I’m glad you are with an at home daycare and they actually care about you and your kids and don’t judge! God bless you all!
i know we don’t see what happens off camera but you can just tell those kids are happy and not mistreated
That's horrible. I am so sorry. That sucks. Sometimes the best parents are young parents. Im so glad you,josh and the boys don't deal with them anymore
I had a feeling that’s what it was. Which you don’t deserve that at all anyone who watches you or knows you knows your a fantastic mother! Some of us young moms are greater mothers than some older people. Our age doesn’t define who we are as mothers. Keep your head up love so glad you’re done dealing with the situation❤️ can’t wait to see the house tour!!!
This is one of my biggest fears ever. I have my daughter in a daycare and am terrified to have her there. Not because of a gut feeling or anything, but because of the things all the other kids and parents have been through all over the world. I’m so sorry you went through this. No one should have this happen to them.
That honestly sucks so much that CPS had to invade you & the twins life. They should not be in business if this is how they conduct their daycare. I hope further action is taken & you leave a review so this doesn't happen to other families. You proved yourself & I think you are an amazing motther regardless if you are young. Please keep doing what you are doing.
As an infant teacher... I am in SHOCK... I am so sorry you had to go through this.
I’m just really sorry they messed with your schooling, and you had to change your major. Being a young mom is hard enough without other people making worse.
i am SO sorry you went through that. on a different note you are GLOWING✨i love your hair!!
I used to work in daycare and so angry they did that. I had to tell on my coworker once cause she was spanking the kids. I am really glad I spoke up and proud of you for doing the same. You are good Mom Sophie.
Sorry you went through that. You handled situation with much maturity, Grace, and class.
I’m so sorry girl, how sad 😞 I do a home Daycare and I would NEVER EVER make accusations against a mother! Sending so so much love, yes at home Daycares are so loving and amazing!!! 💓💓💓
This is so scary. I am so sorry you had to go through that. Its sad that there are so many people out there who stereotype.
My nephew is in daycare. When there’s an issue they just give us a note and have us sign a slip at the pickup. They’ve never called us mid day about a pinky toe LOL
I’m so sorry this happened to you. My younger daughter got pregnant her senior year of HS & I understand how judgement people can be. I’m thankful you found an at home daycare so that lady can love on your kiddos ... who are adorable by the way. Stay strong ! I can tell you are a smart young lady. My daughter who is now 31 has (3) beautiful kids & an amazing job & is doing it all by herself. 🥰🥰
Never been this early also thankyou Soph for including us in the good and the bad part of your life . Remmeber we love you and always here to support you ♥️
I’m so glad y’all found someone! I’m home daycare are the best ! My friend has one ! Also just keep paying attention to your boys how they react when you drop them off and pick them up trust me it says a lot
That's so stupid, and there are kids out there actually being abused.
This kind of situation has always horrified me!! So glad that you, Josh and the boys made it through ok!
My son goes to a at home daycare and its the best, shes teaching him colours right now! I can't say enough about at home daycares. So sorry this happened to you but at least they're safe and happy now 😊
I’m so sorry you went through that. That is absolutely ridiculous and disgusting of that daycare to treat people like that I’m sure with such terrible and false accusations. Hope everything is going so much better and will stay that way 💜
Cannot believe how fast the boys have grown, it feels like 5 minutes ago I was watching the pregnancy video!!
As a daycare teacher this makes me absolutely furious. I’m so sorry you guys had to deal with that. ❤️
Sophie and Josh from what I can see, you are amazing parents and it´s crazy to think that happened to you. Literally bizzare. Sending so much love to your family.
I am so sorry that you all had to deal with that. It’s so wrong in so many ways and my blood was boiling as you were saying your story. If they watched your videos like actually watched them they’d see how amazing parents you two are. I am truly sorry you all had to go through that especially as your first time attending a daycare.
We love you all so much and I’m happy to see that y’all are doing much better.
I think what cause this was just pure jealously, your a beautiful young lady doing great things, some people can't stand to see people flourish. So sad it happen.
we love you Sophie!!! i hope that they view your RUclips channel just to see how GOOD of a MOM you are 😭😭❤️❤️❤️
I am looking into putting my son into daycare. He is about 6 months younger then your boys. It scares me so much because people can be so evil. I am so sorry you had to deal with this
My mother runs an at home daycare for 15 years it’s sad to read stories about other daycares across the world getting shut down due to abuse or something else. We make sure these kids are treated as family no matter what and never judge the parent, I’m sorry your scared but not all daycares are like this. I hope you find the right daycare for your baby.
I hope her baby boys rash is better and healed fully we have had kids that get rashes, but it could be anything from the diapers to baby powder or cream that your using normally ours are from being allergic to the diaper and powder
Also we have had a couple kids with younger mothers and fathers (18-20). Those kids were the sweetest and the parents were amazing. No problems at all and we communicated with them whenever the child needed anything. Compared to some of the older parents ive seen, the younger parents are way more mature. Don't let their judgement take away from your happiness. You know you're doing amazing and have a whole platform that will back you up ❤
That was such a horrible situation. I'm happy everything is better now, for u and the kids. 💖
i worked in a daycare for years and we would NEVER call cps without talking to the parents and everything beforehand. that is so ridiculous i’m sorry that happened to you and josh!
Hope you are okay and settling into your new home 🏠🥰
I’m SO sorry something like that happened to you guys! But yes at home daycares are AMAZING if you find the right person. My boyfriends mom has one so our son gets to go there and he learns so much, is always in a good mood. I’m so happy you guys found that!❤️
Good for you! That last day care sounds awful. Keep your inner mama bear on high alert …. Follow your gut❤️
This happened to me so many times where I was judge because of how young I was I had 2 kids before I was 19 and everyone thought they were twins , but ppl are very cruel and judgmental and I had someone call cps on me literally just to be spiteful I had a house a car and my husband worked full time and I was a stay at home mom in school and took amazing care of my kids . They searched my house for drugs and went through my kitchen seeing if any of my food was expired like I was appalled they could do that, they asked me every uncomfortable question , and checked up on me for couple months after it’s annoying but just know that you are very lucky you have a platform because you have a voice and you can speak up on these things . Stay positive and god bless I know you are a great mom !
Man, how could a school call/report you guys to, as I imagine is a tutelar/guardianship council. Thats so ruthless
I definitely needed to see! SMH..... what the HELL I grew up in child protective service and never want that to happen to my child. Me being a young mom also a mommy RUclipsr I can only imagine someone coming after me in that hatred way. Im only 3 months postpartum and me and my fiancé have been talking about childcare for like a week now just to put him for a few days but im so totally against it. Ill do anything to they to keep my child out knowing he's so young and can't speak yet.But lord im a new subscriber and love your videos you are a great parent and keep your head up love !!