From Cheerleader & Footballer To Pregnant at 15 | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY
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A HIGH school cheerleader and football player have revealed the highs and lows of getting pregnant at 15. Olivia and Cole, both 17, from Iowa, started dating after being introduced by a friend when they were in sophomore year. Nine months later, the couple discovered Liv was pregnant, much to the shock of their parents and friends.
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I mean I can clearly see why they were 15 with a baby and full of smiles. Do you not see their living space? Money makes everyone more comfortable.
Exactly. This story is awful. Kids are dumb; if you glorify this, they will want it.
THIS.
They dont know the hardship
True. If their parents were poor, they probably would not have been so happy.
Money doesnt solve everything.......BUT it _sure_ makes everything easier.
Boy they’re lucky…that they’re parents supported them and are financially very well off.
*their parents
no kidding.
Huge difference in having money and not for sure. HUGE break for them.
Yes!
No they not lucky because I did the math when the baby is 22 they gonna be 35 years old.
“Teen pregnancy doesn’t have to be negative” that’s your privilege talking. You’re both INCREDIBLY lucky to have not only emotional, but financial support from your parents. Please recognize that you’re in an ideal teen pregnancy situation, and that it IS a negative situation for so many.
I am completely against teen pregnancies but lets be fair they said ''doesnt have to be negative'' and not that ''it's not negative to many''. They know they are lucky but let's be serious: at age 15 EVERY CHILD should have a nice happy life with supportive well off parents in a nice house. And if they dont have that it is their PARENTS fault for not providing what a child needs and should not have kids that they cant afford taking good care off. The same goes to those teens.
How can being a parent at 15 be ideal in any situation. It doesn't matter what the financial situation is, this isn't right. Check back in 5 yrs to see just how great things are.
I agree with you
They won’t ever recognize that because they’ll never have to. It’s easier to not have to acknowledge it and just live comfortably in their privilege.
Which is why it disturbs me they have a Tiktok, YT, and Insta and acting like all teen pregnancies are like this. Like nobody should be normalising 15 year olds having children because 99% of those kids don't got the financially well off parents supporting them.
Olivia has on a Gucci belt and she’s a teen mom. Don’t see that often at all. That’s the only extraordinary thing about this!
Plus there like every parent
Spoiled brat maybe
My EXACT THOUGHTS
Its fake 🤣
@@Beexxxx Gucci costs over $1,000 or more but yeah it's fake
Nothing extraordinary about privelged teen parents raising their child. Their reality would be starkly different if they were poor teen parents.
yup yup!
I know plenty of poor folks having babies that are just fine. Most get financial help with formula housing and so on. Heck some of them live better than us people out here working full time with all the state benefits they get for having babies. Food stamps houses daycare insurance and so on FOR FREE. Lol Any parent that sticks around with their child poor or rich is extraordinary. Especially teen parents. These two are wonderful.
@@ccouch1988 Government benefits are not enough.
@@Lilhajxjk274 yes they are. If you have a job and you're getting government assistance you should be just fine. I know people who live off the system and eat better than I do. And they don't even have jobs. I have a friend who has four kids a single mom she doesn't work gets about $700 in food stamps and she's on section 8 free housing. If you can't live on that then you need to readjust your living.
@@Lilhajxjk274 I was a single mom trust me you can make it if you want to.
Those teens don't have to support their child financially and have parents that would babysit anytime they wanted. If all that was taken away this would be a totally different story and those kids would be miserable.
Family's supporting and helping raising children should be the norm for all parents.
@@Diamondr11Blue how is that better?
Entitled
@@karolinasudzinska8457 adoption? So the kids will all have a chance at life
they've built a large social media platform, they will be making a significant income
Lol the dissapointment on the father's face is hilarious
Disappointment* first of all
😂😂😂
@@logan1769 did u stop to think the guy that commented may not have English as a first language?
@@lelecaleleca18 didn't ask, don't care. If people want to be rude, why would it matter?
@@logan1769 you are the one being rude haha
Teen pregnancy should NEVER be glamorized. Some teens just don’t seem to understand that babies are a lot of work. Plus, when you become a parent, it’s not about you anymore. It’s about the baby. Teens should just enjoy their teen years because they will never get those years back. Plus, they should focus more on their futures. It’s definitely better to wait.
I know right do what older parents do everyday
They’re already better off than most they’ll be great
so very true, you're only young once, and being a parent as a teen closes down many options in life
Shut up
I wanted to have relationship when I was in high school. I got into big trouble for that, i was minority. My mother asked me to just focus on school work as student. U somehow listened to her, got a degree and found a job. Been struggling for about 20 years... Now, 34 still single. Difficult to find match around my age so that everyone I know got married or became single mom before turning 30. Some of them got married while I was still in college. Now, I gave up about dating. Will wait until 40s and find a match around 20s white girl...
There's nothing extraordinary about this. There's nothing glamorous with teen pregnancy. They were just lucky that they still have support, but not all that went through this have that 🙄😒
Hormones got over intelligence
Exactly
It’s extraordinary and glamorous when you’re rich enough to pay for the expenses.
@Talsong Kingslayer Preach it. Well said. Show the ones that are struggling. Not everything that glitters is gold or diamond.
Lol yall so jealous
Being pregnant at 15 is not extraordinary; it’s tragic.
I know right ruins your life and you miss out
It's not the end of the world.. they are doing a fine job
@@rebeccaduke1162 its not healthy thing so shut up these childs are lucky because their parents rich
@@rebeccaduke1162 *their rich parents are doing a fine job of raising this grandkid.
@@rachaelcash7230 it actually does affect our lives. The more idiots have kids the more resources use up. Not to mention how they benefit from taxes. Sure they’re being good parents but I rather the kid not exist because of two idiots decision.
Money makes a HUGE difference!! Most teen parents are miserable ,struggling the whole way. They need 2 jobs and its hard to pay for daycare or babysitters.
Then they are plain stupid. Those two are way smarter than poor teen parents are. They knew they had stable nice parents with money that would support them, and so they risked getting pregnant.
Stupid are the ones that have nothing and still risk the same. Masochists I would say.
Yes its hard but most teen moms are not miserable . at least I was not. Being a mom gave me purpose and joy. And yes it was hard bc I was broke but now he is 7 and I wouldn't change a thing. I worked so hard to get to where I am at. But never was i miserable.
Period!!!!
I just feel like all these shows about teen pregnancy glamorize it and romanticize it, which in turn makes other teens thinks it's ok. It isn't.
@@MS-hw1vb Glad everything worked out for you but its not gonna be the same for everyone, even if they tried
“You shouldn’t support teen pregnancy’s. You should support pregnant teens.”
- Maddie lambert, teen mom of 13yrs
- edit - thanks for all the likes. What I meant by this, is that you should NOT support deliberate teen pregnancy, but if your child or sibling or someone you know gets r@ped or something like that, it’s unfair that you don’t support them. Please stop hating on me for my own choice.
Love Maddie Lambert! She’s amazing
that’s an awful statement to distort and rationalize a poor decision
@@johnc1280 No, it's really not. After a teen gets pregnant the only thing you can do is offer your support. You don't have to glorify teen pregnancies to offer support and it's not like you can go back in time to stop it from happening.
@@LeahHasRoses Don’t gotta glorify teen pregnancy huh. So I guess we shouldn’t mention the multi million dollar mtv franchise with the honorable yet illustrious title ‘teen moms’
@@johnc1280 You mean the mtv show that helped bring teen pregnancy rates down? Yes, let's mention that.
I’m not trying to be rude. But if they did not have supporting parents with good paying jobs they would be miserable!
Not really. My mum and dad were 16 and 20 and didnt have anything from education and they didnt have supportive parents until I was born. We are all happy and I grew up poor and we have struggles from time to time but my family (5 children including me then my parents = 7) are happy and make things work
@@khunter1442 it was a grind homie not like a golden pacifier I think kids at 28+
@@lil-hashbrown6938 I do agree with you about having kids at that age as i dont want any until 30
@@khunter1442 The parents would be miserable! Congratulations on your parents raising you and taking on that responsibility at such a young age, but theres a big difference between being 20 and being a 15 year old sophomore in high. The father in this video probably couldn't even get a job because of his young age, but that shouldnt be a problem because of how well off they seem.
Miserable? Is being mean and ignroant. Having kids aren’t the end of the world. Their love and support should be admired. Not hated on. Jsut because they have lovely parents...
I was poor and got pregnant young. Didn't have the money or space or comforts. I worked hard to get where I am today and was a great parent
Im sorry for that but im glad you did well.🙏🙏💚💚
That’s awesome!
Whay do you think about all these comments saying they are rich and they don't have to do anything?
Did someone ask?
Good for you
Take away the parents' money for a couple of months and then we'll see how happy they are.
Exactly be like how every older mom is out there and plus that boy should be going to work and make olivia take care of that baby all day like an older stay at home mom
Just let them raise their kid
@@khunter1442 for real
Why take their money? They are blessed let them enjoy it
They are clean kids. You just might be surprised.
I had my first baby at 16 I was pregnant at 15 an let me tell you it's life changing..it's really hard and you definitely need alot of support to get through it..if any young girls are thinking of having a baby it's not a joke please wait till your in your 20s to 30s!!!
Hello pretty how are you
@@ericferguson8609 do I know you lol how did you know I was pretty 🤣🤣
I just guessed you're beautiful ❤️
Thanks for sharing
@@ericferguson8609 well thank you ☺️
With Mom and Dads financial support everything is great in La La land but they don't have a clue what it's like to support a child on their own without anyone's help .
I Know right give them a small apartment and make them work for it and worry about childcare like older mom's
and they probably never will
@@rachaelcash7230 i mean "give them a small apartment" is already like... not little help. i have to work half my life just to be able to buy a small apartment lol
@@edelleaa one can stay home and the other can work boom like old parents right
@@rachaelcash7230 yeah that's what my parents do lol. it works out well too
Well, when kids get shows like these… What do you expect?
These kids still don’t really get it, because they don’t do anything on their own. They are still being taken care of.
The parents need to be strict with them and show them the truth
They want to be famous and think this was the way to get it
And rightfully so.
So what. It is none of your business. They are being taken care of because that is what good families do. Because demonstration of what good looks like is in their life, they will grow up to do the same.
@@mandiek365 immature answer..
Grow up
No one is jealous. The baby is a good thing, it's the timing that is bad. Your body is not done developing and you put yourself through something so life altering. I'm glad your parents were supprotive but they had every right to be mad/dissapointed
True true
Well said
Mhm. I am against teen pregnancy not because I am jealous, I seen the bad side of it. Everyday I see a bunch of teens having trouble to financially support their partner and child. It is heartbreaking to watch but it is the unfortunate reality.
I so agree with you!
I know a girl that got pregnant at 14 and she and her aunt said people who didn't agree were just jealous. It's not any bit of jealousy. It's sad.
The fact that they named their living breathing baby 'Lovelyn' already says enough about how mature they are.
*immature
@@rawrrawr4063 that was sarcasm
poor kid
the suffix -lyn means land. its a cute name with a cute meaning
@@dream-xf2nj not when she grew up lol. How old are you?
They clearly have the space, money, and support for it.
Their parents, do. They don't.
Fr
@@EjDantes And??? Any problem?
@@EjDantes why is that a problem. That's how life is sometimes
@@EjDantes if their parents do then they do as well. Do you think that they’re going to lose all of that once they turn 18? Clearly somebody’s been living that broke life
Good job making kids think having babies is a piece of cake!
I know right it's like they think being a young parent is better than being older and pregnant. No this is what dumb teens will think after watching this video and then end up seeing the reality of it where's it's not.
I just don't understand why they are making these videos 🤞🤦♀️.
@@pulengmofokeng8498 I know right they shouldn't be promoting this to young people.
When did they say that?
@@rileygagnon6917 people will watch these and think it is
so this is what it looks like when it works out for teen parents 3% of the time.
Wouldn't say this is teen parents working out, check back in 5 years to see if it was a case of teen parents working out
They’ll break up and have custody battles in a few years
The fact that she SMILED this whole interview shows how “hard” this was for her. Even talking about her getting pregnant….smh
"I was a cheerleader and Cole was on the football team" 😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅🤣🤣🤣
they had 'established careers'!!!
Looked like he was a bench warmer lol
@@Mr.CEO888
. Mim8i. 8.i.9090?
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Outta pocket 😂😂
The fact that they bragged about it shows they know nothing about life🤣😂
its like a teen movie. Rich kids. cheerleader ❤️ football player 😁
And no use of protection
Pretty sad but no backing out now
That’s a stupid perspective
@@Mr.CEO888 Actually it's not.Lifetime is famous for making movies like this.
@@Unique2U05 yeah it’s like promoting teen pregnancy don’t you think?
To all the people's who are watching this I would like to say that don't get influenced by this video,every thing has a perfect time.They are lucky to have such supportive parents,otherwise other will get out from their home.
I don’t think teen pregnancy is a positive thing, but I’m glad that they have a supportive family to help them raise the kids.
It's not necessarily something negative, it has the possibility of being something positive but as all things that requires work
@@mrsgolden6526 Idk why you should turn a teen pregnancy into something positive, what they can do is try to give that baby a decent life.
@@rainydays6675 you can turn any event into something positive when you work for it
@@mrsgolden6526 Its possible, but its not guaranteed
@@rainydays6675 no nothing in life is guaranteed
I also feel that it’s unrealistic for most parents of teenage parents to financially support them. A lot of them get kicked out or struggle financially even if they get to live in their parents house
Any kid can be a parent if mommy and daddy still buys the toilet paper. Nothing extraordinary about this. Just the ordinary backwards way of this messed up world. The STRUGGLE ISN'T REAL until mama isn't helping you!
Fr
I know right do what older parents must do
Be nice and stay positive..They are happy and raising the baby..both of them..
@@christinenewhouse6920 older parents do face that every day and I've seen people raise them both and need to work a full time job
Its normal their parents are helping them
Nothing special. Their parents are doing everything for them. Just two kids playing family…
“They’re just jealous” - honey, no. Check your privilege.
Yes! I’m surprised I haven’t seen more comments about that comment.
Jealous of what? That you can’t go anywhere without finding care for your child first? That you and the mother haven’t broken up yet? Yet!
Yes, they might have lasted a year or two so far, but that’s while they are living under their supportive families roofs. The novelty will wear off as soon as they have to get a home of their own and financially support their family on their own. Until then they are not the success they portray themselves to be. They are simply still a teen couple who loves each other and had a baby. They haven’t “made” it or succeeded at anything yet. When I see them in 25 years still married and providing for themselves then they will be the exception to the rule.
@@chp4822 unsurprisingly they’ve long since broken up
Well, the people in this video's comment section are clearly very jealous of the fact that they have wealthy supportive parents to help them raise their child. Yes, they are privileged. But it's not their fault. They were both lucky enough to be born into a comfortable life with loving, hard-working parents. They themselves are still kids, so of course they think their classmates are jealous of what they consider a fairytale romance and perfect family because they don't know any better. But the mother is correct. People that don't have or have never received the kind of support this couple gets from their parents are 100% jealous of them.
@@xcelestialsongx First of all, hard-working and privileged are mutually exclusive. There’s plenty if not more hardworking unprivileged people, they just don’t have access to the same resources, opportunities, and advantages as privileged people. Privileged people often have generational wealth and inheritance and much of their wealth has often been acquired by less than humane and/or ethical means. Second, this entire comment just sounds apologist and apathetic to those who truly need it. Third, no, that’s a giant assumption and self-grandiose idea to think people are jealous. People are just acknowledging that these kids can make these mistakes and not feel a struggle based on a privilege that they didn’t earn.
Jealous......
I don't think there is nothing extraordinary about teen pregnancy. It happens often and is something that shouldn't be promoted. These parents are children themselves.
This is normal, society dictate you that you need to go to school and you will do sgity low pay jobs anyway, big families are stolen from us
Well said
I don't know how they ended up using the wrong video description
I hadn’t even noticed! Hope they see your comment and adapt the description.
Wow! Teens with a child and a nicer home to live in than I've ever had or will. Lets show teens how wonderful it is!!!
They are the lucky ones... Very lucky
This!!
@@jadenspires1891 Because Cole and Olivia took on adult responsibility long before they were ready for it and had parents who still supported them. Most likely they would have both or almost have completed highschool by now and gone on to college. Judging by the actions of the Olivia's parents, I can't see them not taking care of Lovely whilst she's hitting the books. If that's not lucky, well idk what else is!!!
Lies again? High school after bio class
They are very lucky. I'm over here in Florida, making not even a thousand a week for rent. I'm about to be homeless again, these teens are very VERY lucky. Spoiled, and selfish teens.
them at 15: parents
me at 15: can't even talk to a girl
Their life wouldn’t be so “extraordinary” if they didn’t have wealthy parents to provide a comfortable life for them. Take all that away from them, then we will see how “extraordinary” their lives really are 🙄
I know be treated like an older mom and see what older mom's go through everyday
But their lives ARE like this. you dont put or take away anything of anyone's life to prove a point. Each life is how it is. They knew they both had great well off parents and risked getting pregnant. Stupid are the ones struggling, poor with no support that risk the same.
I mean what’s your other option, be disappointed by the existence of your own grandchild forever? It’s a difficult position that I’m sure most parents hope they’re never forced into.
Their parents were able to afford the granchild in addition to the children...
...but what about those having just about sufficient to raise their own family...how much more burden to care for another...
...would they have wanted their kids to sacrifice a far better future...saddled with a kid themselves at a time when they should be building their own lives..?
@@sushiray80 go figure the dude /dudette that made the first commend , parents are there to help you so that you can cope with your life yourself easier when youre independent. They dont work their asses to support the poor choices you made and ended up pregnant smh.
Wow, so lucky to have support !! I was 15 when I fell pregnant with my twins and I did not have the luxury of living with family.
(Makes you far more resilient though)
I hope the parents stick together and continue to live a happy life !
(Ps my twins are nearly 8!!!)
My sis had her first kid at 15 (our mom had me at 15 and her at 17 so it was normal in our family to expect to get pregnant at that age! It's not necessarily a bad thing as long as they are happy she's now 22 with 4 kids and pregnant with another
Why were you fooling around at 15?
@@alexwheatonbiggskaienterta8147 I agree being prepared for a child isn't about age it's about mental state of mind. I also know before humans lived to be 40+ yrs old we were having children at 14-21, since most of us would be dead by time we reached 30. not only that but women used to be married off as soon as she started her period and would usually begin having children within the following couple years. however and technology and life spans began to improve, humans started getting married later and requiring more of the younger generations. Just thought I'd mention it.
How about show what it looks like when the children aren’t rich and surrounded by support
@@AS20185 It's not the parents responsibility to support and raise their grandchildren. If my teen got pregnant she's not maintaining the normalcy of her previous teen life
@@AS20185 I think you’re missing the point 🤦♀️
@@AS20185 how is that responsible life choices 😂 their parents have given them everything they have, theyve done nothing but create the baby and thats it.
@@jonathan_8100 please try re reading my comment before you reply again. I said the teenagers PARENTS made responsible life choices which is why they are able to support their children’s mistake.
@@AS20185 Well said..👍
I remember my dad telling us when we were young that if anyone gets pregnant before marriage then he will kick us out from the house.
Not that anyone of us will be foolish enough to be teen mother but I was always afraid of those words "kicked out from home."
Same
@@unnihaugen1915 Getting pregnant means going to the baby's father house which is the same as getting kicked out from the house. Getting married is also same as getting kicked out from the house. It's just a rude way of putting it.
@@legacylo7895 a parent has to support their kid no matter what because when you become a parent it's about your child, not about you anymore. I'm sorry you that you didn't have the chance to know how it's like to have a dad who would always be by your side. Also, getting married is a choice and you agree to leave the house when getting pregnant at 15 rarely is and you are forced to leave the house.
@@emilietd6954 No, I am not 15 and no, I am not pregnant. You are just misunderstanding the whole thing.
Kinda Same 😂 typical indian household things.. he didn't directly mentioned about pregnancy but if anything happened which might destroy the reputation of out family it would be the dead end for us
“ don’t support being a pregnant teen but support a pregnant teen”
Agreed
No one is mature enough at 15 to have a kid. Very irresponsible. I feel sorry for the child.
I am nearly 35 & still can't imagine having a baby, no idea how such young teenagers manage!
Rich parents
Well if you are 35 you probably do not want children to beginn with.
"It's a life changer for everybody" nah fam it's business as usual in that spoiled environment 😂😂😂
I think it helps that Olivia’s parents were so supportive in keeping them in the home, stable, the parents appear financially stable as well, and assisting them so that I assume both parents could finish their education. It also helped that the father stayed in the picture, still dating his girlfriend and his priorities straight. I believe they will succeed and they appear to be great parents. Cute couple. I do think they have a better situation than most, even than some married adults, but it appears they spend a lot of time with their child lovingly and voluntarily and aren’t acting like spoiled rich kids wanting their freedom/lives back.
Life is easy when your wealthy from birth……
@@johnnylego807 Maybe not always easy, but definitely easier. That’s how I feel about Teen Mom. The show was supposed to depict struggles of young pregnant teens but with all the money everyone made on show, housing was never an issue and they all have beautiful homes, no real push to finish college or form careers or even work at times. Elaborate weddings. The ones on the show were the lucky ones and made it seem so easy if anything.
@@ritaturner9906 Bingo. 🎯
Support teen pregnancy? How about show the repercussions of getting pregnant this young
Hats off to the parents for being there for those kids when they needed them most!
Girlie no one is jealous of you and your family. I don't have time for falling in love and having a baby at such a young age
These comments are really judgmental. All I see is really supportive grandparents and wonderful and loving parents who are doing the best they can do support their young child. That baby girl has so much love.
THANK YOU FOR THIS COMMENT! I left a similar one.
It's driving me crazy to see the lack of support and the way all those people are tearing them down.
Damn right
@@mandiek365 ikr smh 🤦🏿♂️
They don't need our support, there's nothing extraordinary about this story.
Maybe these negative people didn't get any support from their parents o
Me at 15 playing mermaids in pool with friends:
And I’m immature as hell but ID NEVER NAME A CHILD LOVELYNN THATS LIKE A SIN
People commenting "this is perfect" is so unsettling. Why is this normalized?? Kids shouldn't be having kids, carrying a whole life into this world is a whole different level of responsibility. Y'all are smiling like it's a good thing😐 want somebody slap some damn sense inna unuh head.
They need to see how things will be on their own
Exactly no mommy and daddy. I mean like their parents can watch her while they go to work and live in a small apartment
@@rachaelcash7230 damn you are a negative person.
@@SquatchNomad definitely then they'll wanna wait. Plus they can do what millions of older parents have to do
How can they not not succeed when they have all that support?? I believe anything is possible and easier to withstand with support! Try being a great teen mom when your parents make it hell and constantly make you feel less than smart. Not me personally.
At least they come from wealthy families, they wouldn't be laughing if they were both broke.
Yeah... can we not normalize teen pregnancy?!?
Teen pregnancy 🤰 already normalized itself 😅😂🤣
@𝙴𝚟𝚎𝚕𝚢n but tell him we truth what they did was stupied
They have wasted their time to figure out life. From now on every thing they do is on the clock. No spontaneous action for them no more! They can be good parents but it is TRULY sad!
Dont worry they have mommy and daddy to baby them into adulthood they won't suffer🤭
@@Diamondr11Blue I know you right about that, only they will miss out on a lot of experience.
*wasted
@@skitaco7068 thanks English is not my native language. Here in the Netherlands we learn English, French, German and sometimes Spanish in high school and they weren’t my best subjects 🙈
@@Diamondr11Blue I know right there's young mother's who have a house and must do their best and work as well
What I saw was 2 teenagers making the best out of an unfortunate situation, with parents that are willing to help them along the way. witch other parents should model themselves after. Keep doing what your doing everyone looks happy and healthy.
What you saw was two rich kids that are living off their parents money and space. Parents are meant to take care of and look after YOU not your offspring you so carelessly got pregnant with. They make teen pregnancy look like a walk in the park and that’s the problem. Had their parents kicked them out and left them with nothing they would be miserable, sleep deprived, and struggling. They chose to be parents which means they have to provide for their daughter not the grandparents.
@@ebonijones3641 im 16. I got told from a young age if I EVER got pregnat when i was in highschool i would be kicked out. I had my first pregnacy scare sept of 2021 and never thought it would be the most scarest thing ever to pee on a stick but luckly i was not (thank god). Told my step it was lughed off but if i did end up prego i would quit litreally be living on the streets with no help.
But for real your right theses teens have it lucky in so many ways
I'm 17 and can't imagine myself being on their shoes. They're both young, but I hope they'll take care of their baby. Taking care of my dog is already exhausting, what more when another human being is what we're talking about.
A 15 year old can’t even take care of themselves let alone a child of their own
Lovely family. I became a single mum at 32, the dad left me pregnant. I had it all before that happened, good education, house etc, and I was older yet it still didn't work out. So nice the parents are so supportive, the dad of the baby seems a good bloke.
Why are people acting like this is fantastic for them? Teen pregnancy should not be encouraged or even happen but unfortunately it does so this is just sad. What about their youth??? it’s not okay ever.
I was pregnant at 15 and I loved my baby boy as much as a mother that gave birth at 30. He made me grow up and I’m thankful for that and for him. I have 2 college degrees and I’ve been married for almost 30 yrs. All I can say is it’s not for everyone but if it happens to you love that baby and love yourself.
I love the support of the family. It is so important. It takes a village to raise kids and being mad or throwing your kids out doesn't change anything. At the end of the day it's your grandchild and your own child you would be throwing out and probably missing out on some really great times. I am glad to see both parents involved with thier baby and I wish them so much good things on their journey. I love how honest her parents were. Of course mom is there supporting and holding it together and dad is mad ...which is a complete natural and okay way to feel. We want our kids to enjoy being kids before being parents but once it's happened it's happened and we have to support. I hate to see a teen pregnancy cause I too want my child to enjoy that small amount of time they get to be a kid but I would fully support my child at times. I think also it was great that her mom admitted that she was totally clueless to her daughters sexual activities because to be really honest there are SOOOO many things our own parents didn't know we did and they thought we were angel's growing up lol best of luck on their journey!!
I wasn't ever sexually active as a teen. It's not appropriate for me and sex before marriage is against my religion. I also saw my mom struggle to raise two kids and it was hard, even when we were teens. She was married and in her 30s when she had us, too. I guess parenting at any stage and age is hard, but she said it's so worth it. I am currently 24 and have a degree, working on my bachelor's degree now. My parents helped get me where I am and I am grateful for that. The life I am working for will be better!
@@shimmer4771 I am glad that you are able to see what your mother or parents went through and make informed decisions on what's best for your life. Yes at any stage parenting is hard, I know teen moms who do great and others who don't. I know some mom's who are in there late 30's that do great and some that don't. Parenting is tough at all stages. Yes it so worth it but I does change the course of life and what you can do because kids come first, they didn't ask to be here. Now in that same breath children do not take away from chasing dreams, it just at times can add more to the plate, especially if your doing it alone. But congrats on your road to a bachelor degree. I had a child at 22 and it changed my plans in life. But 10 years later I have completed my bachelor's degree in education. You can do it if you put your mind too it! Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders! Good luck 🤞🙏
@@ccouch1988 Aw, thanks.
How is this extraordinary?? This is normal like.....everywhere.
Teen pregnancy is only normal in America
@@crystal2967 exactly 😅😂🤣
Its tragic. Coludnt imagine happening to me
Teen pregnancy aint normal anywhere besides stupid america. I hate it here
The name they gave the baby is just like a name you make up and say you're calling your baby that. Then you grow up, mature and realise it was silly and choose and actual name 🤦♀️
Thank God their families are rich. If these kids struggling financially, idk what to say anymore.
People are not jealous of u darl, trust me😂
You are
@Anisa Nurachmani Im pro life, you are not I guess
@Anisa Nurachmani I didnt know they arent married, but I think that our young generations are miserable beacuse they cant have good payed job in their 16' or17', our young people are in schools till the age of 25, thats sick
my parents had me when they were only 16 years old. everyone told them their life was over and they lost all their friends and were bullied at the school and in the hood they lived. my mother's family disowned her by shaming their arabic culture. they’re 38 now and i’m 22. my parents, especially my mom told me so many times than i could count that she worked so hard to prove people wrong and that they can achieve anything if they believe in themselves. during the university my parents got two another kids, my younger siblings. bumm, she became a successful doctor with PhD running the ER (deputy head) while my father is an engineer with PhD as well. as i mentioned before, everything is possible even if it seems very difficult but if you truly believe in yourself, you can achieve 100%! my parents are role models to everyone now, including people who had bullied my parents. ironic, it isn’t? i am currently studying pharmacy now. it turned out that our life was exactly what they feared the most.
Girl no one is jealous of the situation. Your boyfriend will eventually move on, you will have more kids since your parents seem cool with it and you will be running after him.
Dont agree, thay will always have big young love, and others will have old broken harts of many relationships
How could you possibly "know" that Marie, are you psychic?
@@user-zy4wv7yx1z You don't have to be a psychic to know how kids are.
@@kadsemithaube7149 You can't know any of that for sure, it's speculation based on a video a few minutes long. You guys clearly have the wrong profession, all you arm chair psychics
your comment is appalling, wishing life sadness to a teen just shows how broken your life is.
Honestly change !!!!
Mom: I never thought this would happen
Oh, that's how it happened. Educate your children.
Being young doesn’t make you a bad parent. It’s how you make it work. I don’t look down on young parents because my parents were young and I watched them work their way to the top and they provided the best lives for me and my siblings. I’m the oldest out of 4. I’m not a parent (unless you count a dog and a snake) but I’m very proud of these two for taking care of their baby. I’m so relieved that they have the support of the parents.
I totally understand the father! It sounds very hard but they look like a happy family, doing better than a lot of other parents
I know right the father's hats off to him. But yeah there good parents with their parents support I mean like they should have been given a small apartment and been forced to be like older parents where one must work or the other must stay home or both working. Plus worrying about daycare and childcare services like older moms.
Because other parents have the stress of work and bills 🤣
Thats probably because theyre having their parents support the child money-wise and not themselves bro
They're doing way better than my mom 🤷♀️
There children raising children😑😐😑😐
Next time, try to interview a 15 year-old girl who got pregnant, left by his boyfriend and is struggling financially.
This should be the norm. Family helping family. instead of kicking them out and not seeing their grandkids again or ruing their relationship. They helped like family should when “unexpected events happen”.
When you have parents that have a big, nice home and money, it waaaaaayyyy easier than if you had to work and take care of the child yourself
You sound so bitter dude. Who's to say that these two young teenagers are not grateful for the support and love of their parents? Thinking everyone has to struggle is so weird to me. The baby looks happy and healthy that's all that matters
@@marzs794 i never said they weren't grateful. They seem very grateful for their parents. These kids just make it seems like anyone who has a baby at 14 or 15 will have an easy life or that its not a huge struggle. Its rare to find teenage parents that have a fancy nursery and clothes and all the expensive baby gear and gadgets. Thats not real life. I grew up in a trailer park with a single mother who was a drug addict. So if I were to have had a baby this young, our video would be a heck of a lot different.
And now I own my own home, been with my husband for 19 years and have a very very good income. So no, I'm not bitter about anything. I'm happy with my life. Have a great day.
This has been the norm for years, there's a whole fukn tv show about teen pregnancy and parenting which glamourisus it. Cute baby tho.
It's hardly "the norm".... there's a TV show because it's unusual. If it weren't outside the norm (i.e. "32 and Pregnant") then it wouldn't be noteworthy enough to warrant any attention. Also, the teen pregnancy rate in the US is dropping. With more access to sex education and birth control, it will continue to fall.
It needs to be taken off the air
@@Diamondr11Blue I agree, when I was 16 I had thoughts of having a baby bc of this damn show. And it’s toxic as hell to me.
@@UKissMyAsh kids shouldn't be allowed to watch that nonsense anyway
@@Diamondr11Blue exactly then no more teen pregnancy right
this shouldnt be promoted and glamorized, but i am glad that they (with the help of their own parents) seem to be doing a great job.
They're broken up now.. Shocking
Whats their utube channel?
As for me, the thought of being in a relationship and subsequently doing the thing with a supposed partner as a teenager is definitely unbelievable on my part. At that age, it's best to enjoy teenage life to its ultimate fullest. By all means, having a child alone is a HUGE responsibility for life, and you can't even retire from being a parent...EVER. Anyways, that being said, I hope that this family prospers and will continue to be blessed. Sure, they have their own fair share of flaws and mistakes, but that doesn't necessarily mean they could never be good parents to their daughter. So, kids, it's best to live as kids for as long as it's necessary, because trust me, your childhood years are precious and you can never take it back once you've evolved into a full grown adult. Take it as an advice from me then.
Easier said than done.
Stop glamorizing teen pregnancy my lord
The grandparents look so tired and sad. Maybe they r the ones taking care of the kid. I remember this high school couple having a baby at 15. They broke up at 18. The couple married other ppl and had more kids with other ppl. The kid that they had at 15 was neglected. The kid grew up and was miserable coz she had to b the older sibling with no full parental support compared to other the siblings. She went through depression and was a mess. But she never became a teen mom coz she realized that she couldn't inflict the same pain she went through. Such a difficult situation. So heartbreaking.
"Lovelyn"
This is why teens shouldn't get pregnant
Ever
What’s wrong with the name Lovelyn? Also before the, like, 1960s teens getting pregnant was pretty common. Historically speaking, teens were always encouraged to get pregnant 🤷♀️
@@oh.s Girls were encouraged to get pregnant in early teens AFTER they're married with their husband but we've LEARNT from the past and realized that kids having kids is A BAD IDEA. Just because teen pregnancy was encouraged back then doesn't mean it's beneficial or right.
@@votummstellarumm1581 I never said or implied that teen pregnancies were right tho?
@@oh.s Well of course you didn't but your reply states about girls were encouraged to get pregnant back then and I thought you're trying to push it as a good thing like the other comments are doing.
@@votummstellarumm1581 I was just using it as an example of how dumb the op’s comment was. Like, no obviously don’t get pregnant as a teen, that’s super reckless and irresponsible. But just because you’re a teen parent doesn’t mean you’re a bad parent. There are many amazing teen parents out there, just like there are shitty adult parents out there. But yeah no I don’t support teen pregnancies haha 😂
I became a parent at 17, my parents would tell me how I wouldn’t be able to accomplish my dreams or how our relationship wouldn’t last. Guess what…..I’m still with my high school sweetheart, we have 3 beautiful kids, have great jobs, own our own home and are only 29 years old. 💥IN YOUR FACE PARENTALS😂
Of course you exceed expectations at parenting if ur mom and dad are rich and pay for everything lol
Facts
God bless the parents for telling their kids to take the responsibility 🙏
LOVED when "grandma" said she never thought it would HAPPEN to her daughter!! Haha wth???
They’re “amazing” now, because they’re being financially supported by the parents. If they weren’t, if would be a completely different story. Also, there’s nothing remarkable about being pregnant at 15 years old. I’m happy for them that they’re happy and that they seem to be doing well, but in reality, parents are not supportive when it comes to situations like this. They’re lucky that their parents are, but we still shouldn’t be glamorizing stuff like this.
Most parents who freak out ,probably aren't in a position to support an extra little one,let alone worry about how to navigate their teens towards independence.
Hope you guys can stick it out for the long haul ,its all about Olivia now.(lovlyn)🤷♂️
Do you mean Lovelyn?
Hopefully it’s not all about Olivia! 🤣 I think you meant Lovelyn
@@isla9908 oops I was half listening and trying to make sense of the description,but yeah, there's still some truth to the way its written 😏
Exactly kick them out of the house make them do what older parents must do and see what an older mom sees every day
@@rachaelcash7230 then the baby’s life is gonna be hard.
And here I am 33 and realizing I’m a loser and will not being having kids
When I was 15, I was stressing out about the college entrance exam. These people are legit having babies.
I’m not a fan of Teen Pregnancies, but that baby is healthy and beautiful and the parents are good people. That’s all that matters
Today's lesson: Everything is acceptable when you have enough money.
Please stop framing teen pregnancy as not a big deal, easy, or glamorous. It is not. I'm glad they have well off families to take care of them and their child, and I'm glad everything turned out okay. But still, teen pregnancy should be avoided at all costs.
Children having babies is not extraordinary, it’s tragic. We need to stop normalising and glamourising teenage pregnancy.
That baby looks just like grandma on the mother's side. She's adorable and what great support from both sides of the parents to help their young adult children as new parents. That's a real family bond for years to come.
I was pregnant at 15, I'm 35 now and my son's 19. I have best relationship with him and his dad and family!! Supporting grandparents are huge!! I raised my son on $6.25 per hour pay 40 hours a week and we did so much, Disney 3 times, vacations, and bought a house when I was 18, I just paid off my house, I have great job, my son has amazing career and skills, being young parents doesn't mean your bad or cant support your child, it's not ideal but if you work hard you definitely can succeed!! Love and support is huge in a family!! 💗
Teen pregnancy should not be glamourize ever.
Update y’all, they did end up splitting up and are no longer together.
"They see us succeeding and they're jealous..." oh, boy. Still have a lot of growing up to do.