8 Hard Skills that Pay Off Forever

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  • Опубликовано: 27 окт 2024

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  • @ritarosa6824
    @ritarosa6824 2 года назад +576

    For me: COOKING is the most important skill. It is a survival skill. It's a financial skill. It's a health skill. It's a social skill. It's a family skill. A single skill. It is really important not matter where you are in life.

    • @kestrel09
      @kestrel09 2 года назад +23

      Definitely, and it’s something we need every day and multiple times daily. It saves money, can improve your health, and is wonderful human connector. I’ve alway enjoyed cooking and it’s a life lesson. My greatest lesson was cooking for large groups of people in a Buddhist community. It taught me to cook efficiently and cooking for my family after this experience has made it easier. It’s an art form and is continually recreated with the knowledge you’ve gained previously.

    • @zimprince9664
      @zimprince9664 2 года назад +6

      Push comes to shove the cook stays😁

    • @sobean9309
      @sobean9309 2 года назад +1

      @@kestrel09 could you share some tips you’ve learned from cooking for the Buddhist community?

    • @kestrel09
      @kestrel09 2 года назад +2

      @@sobean9309 Prior to cooking for the community as ‘Tenzo’, I had always enjoyed cooking. Cooking for a large group is on another level and somewhat different. Large quantities cook differently. Slower to start and harder to halt when going. In my case, the meals were quite simple, soups, curries and salads. Every retreat we would cook a vegetarian lasagna for dinner at the end of day 3 of 7. This was the hardest day generally for the participants and would provide great comfort. My main tip is to keep it simple. When I was more ambitious, I would stress more and it would show in the food. Employing several ‘choppers’ also assisted well. There’s a book written by Dogen, Instructions for The Cook. It speaks about the state of mind when cooking. Funnily, as I became busier in the kitchen, and unable to sit in Zazen as much, I found that I was meditating just as much in this work. I recommend a few books which I drew recipes from: The Tassahara Recipe Book, The Zen Monastery Cookbook by Cheri Huber, and 3 Bowls. These also speak about community cooking practice. _()_

    • @sobean9309
      @sobean9309 2 года назад +1

      @@kestrel09 thank you! really interesting to hear :)

  • @amanjotkaur674
    @amanjotkaur674 2 года назад +2575

    8 skills in video are as follows:-
    • Risk assessment and decision making
    • Self analysis
    • Public speaking
    • Time management is life management
    • Personal finances and accounting basics
    • Self-soothing toolkit
    • Meta learning
    • Basic legal skills
    -Rights as a consumer
    -Rights as a worker
    -Rights as tenant
    This is just summary of video. Kindly watch the whole video for explanation of each point. She explains it really well. Thank you so much Mariana for such an amazing video

    • @SaiDinesh752
      @SaiDinesh752 2 года назад +16

      Thank u so much for taking time to explain this in a nutshell😊❤

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 года назад +9

      Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @abdisajak1344
      @abdisajak1344 2 года назад +6

      thanks for the summary

    • @amanjotkaur674
      @amanjotkaur674 2 года назад +10

      Thank you so much for appreciation. It means a lot. People like you matter.

    • @ubiquitous9105
      @ubiquitous9105 2 года назад +12

      Thanks for the notes! Makes it easier for the brain to process. Cheers
      PS. "Kindly" is incorrect English, do consider using "Please" or "Consider watching.."

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +1181

    Public speaking is such an underrated skill and so important to help with networking and getting out of your comfort zone. Love this list 💛

    • @vandermonke4178
      @vandermonke4178 2 года назад +37

      I am really bad at this, my brain freezes everytime I talk to people. someday I'll get it right

    • @yj2754
      @yj2754 2 года назад +36

      Honestly you deserve an award for watching every self-improvement/development related video, i see you everywhere-

    • @philippezevenberg1332
      @philippezevenberg1332 2 года назад +11

      u everywhere

    • @whoreforcaffeine
      @whoreforcaffeine 2 года назад +10

      What even is your daily routine? Using yt 24/7 😭

    • @rangtaluck
      @rangtaluck 2 года назад +17

      @@yj2754 award for you too.... You've seen her everywhere cos you're always there too🤣🤣
      God bless you

  • @abyteofgeek
    @abyteofgeek 2 года назад +322

    I would add negotiation, it's so important at work and in everyone's private life.

    • @krisdespacepope1551
      @krisdespacepope1551 2 года назад +3

      I would say risk assessment and public speaking is negotiation.

    • @chatonsacrement7454
      @chatonsacrement7454 2 года назад

      Hi, Daniel!
      How are you doing?
      Could you give us some book suggestions on negotiation, please?

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      study physics

    • @yasheswinirai9899
      @yasheswinirai9899 2 года назад

      So true

  • @euelianamaia
    @euelianamaia 2 года назад +277

    Basic legal rights and personal finances should be part of every school curriculum definitely!!

  • @oxysoxos
    @oxysoxos 2 года назад +387

    I would also add cooking. Especially healthy cooking. I know it doesn't exactly fit in this list since it is more of a very practical skill.
    But knowing what's good for you and how to get it on the table for you and your family will absolutely improve your health and quality of life.

    • @TheArtOfJerry
      @TheArtOfJerry 2 года назад +7

      Cooking healthy is important

    • @dsstudio76
      @dsstudio76 2 года назад +5

      It should be number one! 🇧🇷😌

    • @ritarosa6824
      @ritarosa6824 2 года назад +3

      I was going to post the exact same thing! It's one of the most valuable skill in life, anywhere anytime.

    • @mitchellbaker4806
      @mitchellbaker4806 2 года назад +2

      I would put this under personal finance. In my experience people don't know how to shop effectively for a good diet, without a lot of food waste.

    • @habibaroyees
      @habibaroyees 2 года назад +1

      That is the most important thing in my opinion

  • @neehara653
    @neehara653 2 года назад +355

    1. Risk assessment & decision making 1:03
    2. Self-analysis 2:15
    3. public speaking 3:05
    4. Time management 3:47
    5. Personal finances & accounting basics 4:28
    6. Self-soothing 5:06
    7. Meta-learnig 5:53
    8. Basic legal skills 6:34

  • @a_rendelucci
    @a_rendelucci 2 года назад +18

    Juro que não tava esperando vc falar em pt hahahaha amei! Vídeo maravilhoso, obrigada

  • @Growwithzeel
    @Growwithzeel 2 года назад +7

    *Self Analysis is what helped me realize my needs for self improvement and Productivity start my RUclips channel all based on that*

  • @daniqsaa
    @daniqsaa 2 года назад +30

    Love how grounded this is. I feel like it's not often we find this kind of content on youtube 💯

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      study physics

  • @YOUAREAWSOMEBRO
    @YOUAREAWSOMEBRO 2 года назад +8

    Hi I just wanted to say that at the begging of the year my teacher encouraged me to participate to a public speaking competition I didn’t know what it was and I’m an introvert after a lot of hard work I’ve done I won the first place 🥇🤩🥳

  • @fruitfulbeing
    @fruitfulbeing 2 года назад +50

    Loved this video, lots of helpful content. Time stamps to help you get back to particular topics you are looking for.
    1.06 - risk assessment & decision making
    2.18 - self analysis
    3.07 - public speaking
    3.50 - time management
    4.29 - personal finances & accounting
    5.08 - self soothing
    5.55 - meta learning
    6.36 - basic legal skills

  • @Mubarakaahshakirah
    @Mubarakaahshakirah 2 года назад +60

    1- Risk assessment & decision making
    2- Self-analysis
    3- Public speaking
    4- Time management
    5- Personal finances and accounting basics
    6- Self-soothing 😭
    7- Meta-learning
    8- Basic legal skills

  • @bunnyfrosting1744
    @bunnyfrosting1744 2 года назад +41

    I had to run away from home at 17, I’m 22 and life still feels relentlessly confusing, extremely difficult and like I’ll always be drowning. I’m disabled so it feels extra hard, teaching myself everything I wasn’t taught growing up. I hope I can figure out a way to make this things possible for myself

    • @kasaijinloe8524
      @kasaijinloe8524 2 года назад +3

      You can do it !! -a disabled 24yr old feeling the same way and showing support !!

    • @musiclearner6799
      @musiclearner6799 2 года назад +1

      You are strong

    • @stephaniearevalo3698
      @stephaniearevalo3698 2 года назад +1

      Hi just don't give up, try and try 💛✨

    • @asharawat486
      @asharawat486 Год назад

      I'd give you a hug if i could. Don't give up. You can do it, i promise. Find a way out.

  • @xKejt
    @xKejt 2 года назад +17

    I know it’s probably the least important thing about the video, but I love the little Elsa moment 😂 your doggo is the cutest! Very useful skills, we can all benefit from them, despite our different paths in life. Thank you 🙏🤍

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 года назад

      hehe riight so adorable! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @onkarHINDU
    @onkarHINDU 2 года назад +8

    1:07 risk assessment & decision making
    2:17 self-analysis
    3:06 public speaking
    3:51 time management
    4:29 personal finances & accounting basics
    5:08 self-soothing
    5:55 meta-learning
    6:36 basic legal skills

  • @ayeshaali2324
    @ayeshaali2324 2 года назад +20

    I love how original your content always is! Another informative and well presented video! Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @KingaGorski
    @KingaGorski 2 года назад +2

    Definitely not the skills typically shared in these types of videos-honestly these are all so critical. The ability to self-soothe will, by itself, change a person's life.

  • @EzzyDT
    @EzzyDT 2 года назад +19

    Thanks for the video. I love the information you provided. Could you please make a more in-depth video on each skill individually. Thanks again

  • @hotlineoperator
    @hotlineoperator 2 года назад +40

    Learn how to learn is good, but there is still one skill what I struggle to master - how actually do things, even when you know how to do them there is some procedures what help to organize workflow and motivation - but I have not yet learn that.

  • @vanessamano5523
    @vanessamano5523 2 года назад +4

    The best part is she talking in portuguese with the dog. kkkkkkkkk So swet! I'm brasilian and watch you for pratice. I love all the videos! Thanks!

  • @TheMavenDojo
    @TheMavenDojo Год назад

    One that helped me a lot from my teen years moving forward was typing "the correct way". Ever since I learned it, like 15 years ago, I've had a 70-80 words per minute average when typing.
    So helpful when taking notes and just writing in general.

  • @fruitfulbeing
    @fruitfulbeing 2 года назад +21

    Really helpful video Mariana. Lots of skills here that are not taught @ school, but are critical for living life well 😀

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 года назад

      yes thats so true! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @justbeingfrank6342
    @justbeingfrank6342 2 года назад +1

    Phenomenal content. Glad this popped up in my feed.

  • @MaizaHyodo
    @MaizaHyodo 2 года назад +6

    I was wondering where I knew that accent from until I saw you scold the dog in Portuguese 😂 Muito sucesso Mariana, também sou brasileira e é muito bom ver o pessoal daqui produzindo conteúdo de qualidade 🥰

  • @ndumi-light
    @ndumi-light 2 года назад +2

    Knowing how to calm your dog so you can be productive is a very important skill. 👌🏽💛

  • @ayaaharras9386
    @ayaaharras9386 2 года назад

    I'm so grateful because Public Speaking is my gift 🤗

  • @WEEDobite
    @WEEDobite 2 года назад +1

    Self soothing is so important. Tough times in life are guaranteed, I wish I learned breath work earlier.

  • @ntrovertsdiary
    @ntrovertsdiary 2 года назад +3

    Self analysis no doubt that it is an amazing and highly important skill. Thanks 👍

  • @meharbrar3132
    @meharbrar3132 2 года назад

    from my experience : drawing, cooking, driving, exercising, yoga, meditation, studying, writing, reading and time management

  • @suleimanabubakar2525
    @suleimanabubakar2525 2 года назад +1

    I subscribed within the first 5 seconds of this video. And it's my first time on this channel.

  • @RevenueRocketeers
    @RevenueRocketeers 2 года назад +1

    Meta - learning & self- soothing is just great

  • @diwashrai
    @diwashrai 2 года назад +2

    Please make a follow up video on these skills on how to master them.maybe some books you would recommend.

  • @queenniegulle9537
    @queenniegulle9537 2 года назад

    This channel is a blessing!!!! I love you!

  • @samyakkasliwal3887
    @samyakkasliwal3887 2 года назад

    Your voice is so soothing.

  • @Londonlamborghini
    @Londonlamborghini 2 года назад +1

    This is so affirming because I literally have all these skills and use them daily

  • @Omar-rb9jb
    @Omar-rb9jb 2 года назад

    I love the dog providing their input ❤️❤️

  • @yasminbarrow7563
    @yasminbarrow7563 2 года назад

    Até me assustei quando começou a falar português, não havia notado nenhum sotaque!
    Eu amei a lista! Muito obrigada 💜

  • @serenade723
    @serenade723 2 года назад +5

    Chester was a risk you couldn't have planned for 😂 This is a lovely video, thank you 💕

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      study physics

  • @AdrianMark
    @AdrianMark 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for this video. I especially loved that you talked about self soothing, in the context of people who do not necessarily have access to professional help. It is such an important skill to be able to manage your emotions in stressful situations and in daily life. Ps. I absolutely agree with basic legal skills being a necessity. That's why I took my law degree as a working adult.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      study physics

  • @amylikesthestars
    @amylikesthestars 2 года назад +1

    Mariana! Love your content and I noticed the sound quality is superb in this video ❤️

  • @Nicoleliestsogerne
    @Nicoleliestsogerne 2 года назад

    Chester! I loved that interruption!

  • @LaurentRodriguez19
    @LaurentRodriguez19 2 года назад +4

    Can you make a video on the basic rights we have as a consumer, worker, and homeowner?

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 года назад

      that would be interesting! hey btw laurent, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @thebioexplained
    @thebioexplained 2 года назад

    I would also add touch typing! Best skill i ever learnt!

  • @BEEBOQUEEN
    @BEEBOQUEEN 2 года назад +1

    Just the video I needed. Thank you.

  • @Improvemypronunciation
    @Improvemypronunciation 2 года назад +1

    I can definitely say public speaking is definitely a useful skill to learn and is used so often throughout our lifespan.

  • @ATasteOfBeauty
    @ATasteOfBeauty 2 года назад +3

    Will you be making videos to address these skills in depth, particularly the legal items?

  • @panichapetrzela4705
    @panichapetrzela4705 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much. This is all I need for now.

  • @thesofianotes
    @thesofianotes 2 года назад +8

    _Wow, what an informative and well-made video! You must put so much effort in to your videos Mariana!😊_

  • @rocio2917
    @rocio2917 2 года назад

    Thank you for the time line.

  • @ThisisFit
    @ThisisFit 2 года назад +1

    loved the one about meta-learning!

  • @ProjectSkrillexNL
    @ProjectSkrillexNL 2 года назад

    this video contains so much inspiration

  • @descongestionante_nasal
    @descongestionante_nasal 2 года назад +6

    Eu assistindo o vídeo pela primeira vez no canal aqui e de repente: chester já passou, dorme hahahaha adorei!

    • @sleekyissleepy
      @sleekyissleepy 2 года назад

      Né kkkkk

    • @juliosilvacoutinho
      @juliosilvacoutinho 2 года назад +1

      Ela fala ingles tão bem que eu fui pego desprevenido quando ela falou Português 😂😂😂

  • @essexitagermeng5504
    @essexitagermeng5504 2 года назад

    I’d add writing and communication in general, probably #1 for me

  • @estuchedepeluche2212
    @estuchedepeluche2212 2 года назад

    Listening (or pretending how to be a good listener) is a great skill to develop relationships.

  • @vinaypal3537
    @vinaypal3537 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing
    Love from India 🇮🇳

  • @sindypetronella
    @sindypetronella 2 года назад +1

    Love this

  • @rajitspdstr
    @rajitspdstr 2 года назад

    Add cooking in this list along with Energy management(Food, Sleep, Exercise)

  • @rajasthankaladka7529
    @rajasthankaladka7529 2 года назад +2

    Wow very help full this video in my life 🙏🏾

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 года назад

      i agree! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out

  • @no_preference0073
    @no_preference0073 2 года назад

    Thank you for this!

  • @demidevil496
    @demidevil496 2 года назад

    YOU'RE BRAZILIAN?! For some reason i was really chocked, but happy about that

  • @jessinra2947
    @jessinra2947 2 года назад

    very great content, so eyes opening that there are so many things you can improve on

  • @joyleenstrozier4295
    @joyleenstrozier4295 2 года назад +2

    Hi Mariana's Corner, I like your content. I love watching your videos.

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 года назад +1

      me tooo! hey btw joyleen, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @andile5945
    @andile5945 2 года назад

    These are seemingly great tips. Thank you.
    please help with references in the future.

  • @francis2728
    @francis2728 2 года назад +2

    I can’t believe I’ve been watching this channel for 6ish years now

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 года назад

      it’s crazy how fast time passes by😅 hey btw francis, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @archivesofher8982
    @archivesofher8982 2 года назад

    Helloo, thiss video's greattt.. It would be really great if u make a another video on how these habits develop!

  • @madeleinechen7741
    @madeleinechen7741 2 года назад

    Wow, just wow!

  • @SmartJapanHacks
    @SmartJapanHacks 2 года назад

    Amazing video! I wish I had started to think like this earlier in life.

  • @raelimec
    @raelimec Год назад

    Adorei seu conteúdo e melhor ainda em inglês, parabens pela coragem

  • @zhibeizhou7646
    @zhibeizhou7646 2 года назад +1

    Gread video! Mariana could you share the BGM at the begining of the video, please? That was so peaceful.

  • @tatianal4563
    @tatianal4563 2 года назад +2

    Mariana thank you for the video. Could you recommend some readings to do on the points you are speaking about in your video? Thank you!

  • @foodmadewithlove324
    @foodmadewithlove324 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing

  • @VikashKumar-nb3nd
    @VikashKumar-nb3nd 2 года назад

    Very informative thanks

  • @MohamedAdel-xh2gx
    @MohamedAdel-xh2gx 2 года назад

    really helpful & supportive , keep gpoing 👏👊

  • @backupboy8427
    @backupboy8427 2 года назад

    The dog was so funny 😆 really made sure I was focussing. Anyways thank you so much for these tips

  • @Jessminttea
    @Jessminttea 2 года назад +2

    Very helpful skills that impact a lot. Great video!

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 года назад

      totally agree! hey btw victoria, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

  • @shannonnefra9738
    @shannonnefra9738 2 года назад +2

    Chester 😹took a risk and it paid off, thank you for sharing!

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      study physics

  • @isirlasplace91
    @isirlasplace91 2 года назад +1

    It took a bit of actually reading instructions 😅 but I figured out how to get Nebula and CuriosityStream yearly subs!! I'm always looking for new things to watch and I love learning new things so this was a deal to good to pass up 💕💕

  • @yuanjyechong8834
    @yuanjyechong8834 2 года назад

    Thank you for this video

  • @divakarangt3904
    @divakarangt3904 2 года назад

    Thanks for the great video

  • @mamasgotmoxy2914
    @mamasgotmoxy2914 2 года назад +1

    Very helpful information. Thank you.

    • @HannahMarieee
      @HannahMarieee 2 года назад

      i agree! hey btw, i recently started my own channel where i talk a lot about self growth, nutrition and all things life, if u wanna check it out☺️

    • @mamasgotmoxy2914
      @mamasgotmoxy2914 2 года назад

      @@HannahMarieee 👍

  • @palesaramphisa8357
    @palesaramphisa8357 2 года назад +3

    All the way from south africa
    I love you ❤❤❤

  • @viraltechnology9735
    @viraltechnology9735 2 года назад

    Subscribed! Love it!

  • @cutestfunniestdogsalive7416
    @cutestfunniestdogsalive7416 2 года назад

    Thanks for the video. I love the information you provided. Could you please make a more in-depth video on each skill individually and what books you recommend to read and materials/apps/ and so on, so we can improve .Thanks so much

  • @rosemarybaxla9545
    @rosemarybaxla9545 2 года назад

    Thankful to you making this video ❤❤

  • @thuriaramadan7336
    @thuriaramadan7336 2 года назад

    Thank you goodness

  • @language.wanderer
    @language.wanderer 2 года назад +2

    Muito bom! Estou um pouco longe de aperfeiçoar todas essas habilidades, mas um dia chego lá.

  • @chueyv9080
    @chueyv9080 2 года назад +2

    Hello from California !

  • @MyGhini
    @MyGhini 2 года назад +4

    Thank you, this was so interesting! I definitely want to learn more about Meta learning. I can’t ant wait to do some research. 🤓

  • @MariJadeWrites
    @MariJadeWrites 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for a great video :)

  • @jackieyang9337
    @jackieyang9337 2 года назад

    Thank you very much for sharing❤💖

  • @MrLynch-ei4dc
    @MrLynch-ei4dc 2 года назад

    Really good tips and video. Obregado

  • @raissa7046
    @raissa7046 2 года назад +11

    Wait, are you brazilian? Do you talk to your dog in portuguese? O choque de você mudar de língua e eu continuar entendo, adorei

    • @mariana-vieira
      @mariana-vieira  2 года назад +14

      Sou portuguesa!

    • @gelsonfilho8609
      @gelsonfilho8609 2 года назад +4

      Né hahahah mas deu pra perceber o sotaque!

    • @MIKESTUBE40
      @MIKESTUBE40 2 года назад +1

      @@mariana-vieira I scroll down just to find the dog comment. 🤓👍🏾.
      (I absolutely love this channel thanks for all your help. Thanks for helping me with studying and bullet journaling.)

  • @mrpromisetv469
    @mrpromisetv469 2 года назад

    I love how cool and calm your video is, I wish my is like that, I am also a content creator on RUclips. Please what so you use for editing your videos.

  • @yagoras
    @yagoras 2 года назад

    Awesome video! All of this seams very useful in the long run
    Also, I think you are brazillian, I am as well.
    Ótimo vídeo! Continue produzindo excelente conteúdo!

  • @gabilopes9931
    @gabilopes9931 2 года назад +7

    o CHOQUE de descobrir que você é brasileira quando você falou com o cachorro haha
    (primeiro vídeo que vejo)

  • @rseyedoc
    @rseyedoc 2 года назад

    Could you share a link to that spiral notebook you use? I love that! I just discovered your channel and love your insight and minimalism.

  • @_dansilverio
    @_dansilverio 2 года назад +2

    eu amo teu sotaque português!!!

  • @FinancialFreedomMadeSimple
    @FinancialFreedomMadeSimple 2 года назад

    will start mastering these skills

  • @gabriellamoda7753
    @gabriellamoda7753 2 года назад

    my favorite part was when you said dorme to the dog
    my dog does the same 😂😂
    video espetacular, vou tentar aplicar os teus conselhos