WATCH OUT The Narcissist Is Watching YOU

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  • Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024
  • It's important to note that not all narcissists engage in stalking behavior, and stalking is not exclusive to individuals with narcissistic traits. However, some narcissists may exhibit stalking behaviors due to several reasons:
    Need for Control: Narcissists often have an intense need for control and dominance in relationships. Stalking allows them to maintain a sense of control over their victims' lives even after the relationship has ended.
    Fear of Abandonment: Narcissists may have an intense fear of abandonment and rejection. Stalking can be a way for them to monitor their target's activities and ensure they are not moving on or establishing new connections.
    Manipulation and Intimidation: Stalking can serve as a means of intimidation and manipulation. By keeping tabs on someone, a narcissist may hope to instill fear and anxiety in their target, making it more difficult for the victim to break free from the relationship.
    Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often lack empathy and may not understand or care about the emotional impact their actions have on others. They may be driven solely by their own desires and needs.
    Maintaining a Sense of Superiority: Stalking can be a way for a narcissist to assert their perceived superiority and power over their victim. It reinforces their belief that they are entitled to invade the personal boundaries of others.
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Комментарии • 238

  • @glendaruiz2477
    @glendaruiz2477 10 месяцев назад +111

    Narcissists can watch all they want because God is watching what they do and they will be judge for all they evil the have done to so many people on this earth! The narcissists should be the ones worried not us empaths and good kind hearted people.

    • @Keepinglivingintruth
      @Keepinglivingintruth 10 месяцев назад +6

      Amen

    • @user-uq6ic8pw8x
      @user-uq6ic8pw8x 10 месяцев назад +8

      This comment is satisfying. Gave me strength 💪

    • @RK-vf4mo
      @RK-vf4mo 10 месяцев назад +6

      100% CORRECT!!!

    • @keithwittman4741
      @keithwittman4741 10 месяцев назад +6

      The sad part is ,it's not their fault for the way they are.
      An innocent child was neglected, the love,affection ,and emotional guidance.
      😢
      -Not going to stop me from bringing justice to her doorstep though!

    • @glendaruiz2477
      @glendaruiz2477 10 месяцев назад

      @@keithwittman4741 They know what they do therefore there is no excuse for the evilness they do to others and plot to destroy other people's lives, they are demons in disguise, that is no mental illness or an excuse from abandonment, if anything they should try to be better and end the cycle , I have a narcissistic mother and you don't see me destroying people's lives or repeating the same cycle she does, I cut her out of my life! along with all her flying monkeys/enablers, because i CHOSE NOT TO HARM OR DESTROY OTHER PEOPLE'S LIVES!!!!!!!!!! They have a choice to do good but they decide to choose to do bad, so no I don't feel bad at all for narcissistic people!!! They sure don't feel bad for hurting anyone in their life!!!!!

  • @dr.marnihillfoderaro1064
    @dr.marnihillfoderaro1064 10 месяцев назад +107

    Narcissistic Abusers love to track & troll. They are obsessive stalkers!

    • @alfredbenedek3398
      @alfredbenedek3398 10 месяцев назад

      Justa quick tought? What if, if a victome treat them, as they treated them earlier? It can be don, but it's unethical, yet they don't give adarn about that / those?!!

    • @pyarkaaloo
      @pyarkaaloo 10 месяцев назад +4

      Indeed…they just won’t leave you alone….my stalker (a prominent member of society) & his band of flying monkeys/“secret agents” still stalk me to this day….especially online & across all social media platforms…I’ve had to delete several ppl from accounts who were posing as friends. They even stalk my mom & other family members as well

    • @israeliteking1947
      @israeliteking1947 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@alfredbenedek3398what ???

    • @CANDYBULLOCK
      @CANDYBULLOCK 10 месяцев назад

      For sure!@@theresamarilyn6688

  • @miwdiva
    @miwdiva 10 месяцев назад +40

    You can be stalked EVEN by strangers you never met in your life, it is totally about Control, Power, jealous. It is mind-baffling, creepy and frightening.

    • @timirhonon
      @timirhonon 10 месяцев назад +3

      Don't care

    • @godsway8501
      @godsway8501 10 месяцев назад +1

      Learn how to defend yourself. It’s a SPIRITUAL WAR!!! 🫡💪🏾✌🏾 STAY STRONG HEALER.

    • @user-of9bx1uk3u
      @user-of9bx1uk3u 9 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly it’s weird bizarre and sick that they don’t know you but they’re stalking gathering observational information. Sometimes it’s to
      try plot an entrance to manipulate you.

    • @miwdiva
      @miwdiva 9 месяцев назад

      @@user-of9bx1uk3u SO true! Machiavelian, cunning malignant narcissists.

    • @miwdiva
      @miwdiva 9 месяцев назад

      @@user-of9bx1uk3u Social media and the Internet made everything a gazillion times worse, it is the playground of predators of all kinds. We MUST be vigilant. I've been stalked and harasssed by two individuals I never met in my life, one is a case of serious psychopathy, with a past of criminal behaviours.

  • @Gigi-pd8vj
    @Gigi-pd8vj 10 месяцев назад +30

    Bad news for the narc. We all are doing better than them without them!

  • @markmartin2292
    @markmartin2292 10 месяцев назад +102

    There is no closure with a narcissist. Not for you and not for them. Cause you exist inside their head. You’re like that jacket they bought three years ago and was shoved to the back of the closet and they forgot existed

    • @nessauk2786
      @nessauk2786 10 месяцев назад +12

      Accurate description.

    • @jillfoley6834
      @jillfoley6834 10 месяцев назад +11

      I hope it’s the purple leather jacket that turned moldy and I threw away…😊

    • @dan5660
      @dan5660 10 месяцев назад +19

      Then may they take their bitterness to their grave while I enjoy life❤😊

    • @4514rooster
      @4514rooster 10 месяцев назад +7

      Our survival offends their ego (entire personality)

  • @Deborah-d5b
    @Deborah-d5b 10 месяцев назад +22

    They will watch to see who you are keeping company with so they can then turn these people against you with lots of bad talk.

  • @nickf2170
    @nickf2170 10 месяцев назад +64

    Yes, and it IS concerning. Narcissists are deranged, and that means they are capable of anything. Mine is now showing up at my house when I am not home, and leaving notes in my mail box. And she lives an hour away. Its all part of the hoover, so don't do anything to encourage them to reach out, or to re-connect. Avoid them at all costs, and keep your doors locked.

    • @SherMusician
      @SherMusician 10 месяцев назад +4

      Possession

    • @csibiedit8046
      @csibiedit8046 10 месяцев назад +1

      Yes is true, in one of the no contact morning , I found in front of my door a white bird with red blood near her neck( he liked to hunt) which was very scary, next week I went to a place, he was not any where, when I turned around he was about 1 and half meter distance of me watching me.

    • @nickf2170
      @nickf2170 10 месяцев назад

      @@csibiedit8046 That is time to involve the police.

    • @miwdiva
      @miwdiva 10 месяцев назад +1

      A guy I know was being harassed and stalked by this sociopath woman, he never dated her, never touched her yet she was making advances, being agressive and possessive, which he found creepy and weird. At some point, he had enough, told her to get the eff away from him and the harassment started, she even showed up at his place at 5AM. Complete socio-psychopaths.

    • @phoenix_sol_riseup2556
      @phoenix_sol_riseup2556 10 месяцев назад

      That’s concerning

  • @ieishagaston3319
    @ieishagaston3319 10 месяцев назад +38

    I wish i had this information 2 years ago. I got sucked back in only to be discarded again

    • @oceandove
      @oceandove 10 месяцев назад +5

      Now it’s time for you to take the trash out and discard the narcissist. You’re on the right track to keep learning about these narcs. God bless🙏🏽.

    • @kamrupexpress
      @kamrupexpress 10 месяцев назад +4

      I had the same experience.

    • @michaelagiddings1520
      @michaelagiddings1520 2 месяца назад

      I fell for it too. man o man. I see how pathetic he is now 🤣

  • @curtcoeurdelion
    @curtcoeurdelion 10 месяцев назад +80

    Just met my covert narc ex after 23 years at a birthday party of one of our mutual friends. After hours of getting ignored she forced herself up to my wife, introducing herself with „I don’t know if you know, but I was together with your man years before you!“ Wild stuff. All the while her new partner was forced to stand guard by her side, the poor fellow already looked pretty depleted too. Her sentence has since become a sort of inside joke between my wife and me 😂

    • @nessauk2786
      @nessauk2786 10 месяцев назад +15

      I'm feeling second hand embarrassment vibes ...

    • @RK-vf4mo
      @RK-vf4mo 10 месяцев назад +8

      Poor guy, I wonder if he knew he was with a narc?

    • @user-ex4ce7gh1k
      @user-ex4ce7gh1k 10 месяцев назад +1

      Well done 😂😂😂😂

    • @user-ex4ce7gh1k
      @user-ex4ce7gh1k 10 месяцев назад +1

      Well done 😂😂😂😂

    • @leo774o
      @leo774o 10 месяцев назад +3

      😂 just crazy how they think

  • @saviourawudzi5244
    @saviourawudzi5244 10 месяцев назад +16

    If you discard someone for who he or she is a narcissistic person, and they continue to watch you, it means you're special but which they don't want to admit . If you keep watching me while I don't care a bit about what you're doing or who you are,it a very big burden on yourself.

  • @Tommytwostroke
    @Tommytwostroke 10 месяцев назад +25

    That’s why they stay friends with all their ex’s, umm no Ty I don’t want no one like that.

  • @ZonyWest
    @ZonyWest 10 месяцев назад +22

    And all I want is to just move on! Period. I'm pass the anger, emotional chaos, etc.

  • @Blandinemax
    @Blandinemax 10 месяцев назад +11

    They will stalk you alright!
    Really chilling stories about that.

  • @christinemanigian209
    @christinemanigian209 10 месяцев назад +30

    Very true. But on the contrary, they want to know how you're doing but want to keep their life completely private from you. But what is not a secret, as much as they tried to keep it secret, is how much mileage their private parts get between breaking up with you, going to others, then wanting to go back to you & even keeping some supply while with you. Yuk! 🤮 Just thinking about that can help break any trauma bond.
    Very true. Each & every "supply" is put into a category for them--either a playmate or a financial provider for a good lifestyle. Playmates are interchangeable for them without regards to how they treat them, but someone with a good income that is willing to provide them everything they want, including a nice lifestyle are irreplaceable for them, thus they keep on the mask with them, pretend to be a good partner, & go covertly behind their back to ease the boredom narcissists experience.
    It's better to be poor than rich with such a covert narcissist; not only will you get gaslighted & trauma-bonded from their charming demeanor, gifts, etc., but you will also get financially drained pleasing the narcissist.
    I can never be jealous of that.

  • @loriconner6740
    @loriconner6740 10 месяцев назад +15

    I'm always going to be doing better.
    Simply because i am better in every way😊

    • @roadtrip808
      @roadtrip808 10 месяцев назад +1

      And the church said AMEN! WE ARE BETTER THAN THEM!

  • @BeckyJade
    @BeckyJade 10 месяцев назад +16

    I'm over it. Yep nothing good or positive as they are beyond dysfunctional I have zero interest they can keep the weirdos they jump in bed with. I don't feel the way I used to I have moved on wow. I couldn't care less what he does

  • @dan5660
    @dan5660 10 месяцев назад +8

    No, I think the narcissist better watch out- because I'm watching them-😊

  • @JUMPforyourLIFE
    @JUMPforyourLIFE 10 месяцев назад +6

    Yup! I totally get this. It’s sad we cannot just have a grownup convo, but probably for the best since they are immature. 😊

  • @Jason1976-dj9rq
    @Jason1976-dj9rq 10 месяцев назад +24

    My ex narc and her flying monkeys won't quit stalking me and I went no contact almost 28 months ago and she's the one that's cheated on me the whole time and she's mad because she got caught and has a CPO put on me imagine that.

    • @seanmasters1780
      @seanmasters1780 10 месяцев назад +1

      Exact thing happened to me 😅 I thought I was the only one!

  • @caliwrestling2015
    @caliwrestling2015 10 месяцев назад +9

    Great content. So, much I've learned from just this video. Crazy how a narcissist can make you second guess everything about yourself.

  • @user-yh6pt5ni4o
    @user-yh6pt5ni4o 10 месяцев назад +8

    Good stuff. The only thing my wife actually wants from me is money and my presence. I've blocked her and gone no contact. I don't care if she's watching me. A person should have more positive/influential things going for them than watching someone else

  • @castieldiallo2945
    @castieldiallo2945 10 месяцев назад +4

    Sometimes they do keep watching. I know I was being watched all this week.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust 10 месяцев назад +12

    I wouldnt have a clue if that demonic creature is watching me i could care leas watch on 😂

  • @mobileradiofitter
    @mobileradiofitter 9 месяцев назад +2

    Let them rot, if she wants to watch me, I'll put on a show, I'm feeling like version 2.0 of myself after all that drama and mind games. Yeah I wish I never learnt what I have, I didn't want to know about dark arts, mirroring, trauma bonding, reactive abuse, blame games, guilt tripping. I didn't want to know, but I do... and I ain't the same person.

  • @RK-vf4mo
    @RK-vf4mo 10 месяцев назад +4

    Do they keep watching even though they are on their 2nd wife since we broke up? His 1st marriage after me lasted not even a year, now hes not even legally divorced and has a new lady moved in with him. This is what i have been told.
    NO, I DID NOT MARRY HIM! THANK GOD!

  • @Keepinglivingintruth
    @Keepinglivingintruth 10 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you for this video. But I used to date someone who have a trace of narcissism and I don't think he's watching me. He does not know where I live. He doesn't know what car I drive now he doesn't know my new phone number and he doesn't know where I work. I'm literally off the grid with him now. He doesn't even know my mom. I'm thankful.

    • @KK-bq3ns
      @KK-bq3ns 10 месяцев назад +3

      It's 2023. Don't put anything past anyone..

  • @rockolv
    @rockolv 9 месяцев назад +2

    Aloha from Hawaii, You can watch all you, want. Im done. Not playing into my X games. Was doing laundry 5, days ago n long a behold the cracklin showed up. Asking me people would trip out if we get back together. I said Puck No. Just don't get it been with it for 16, yrs 2 married n a gift of TRO for 25, yrs to stay away. But I got the scars from beer bottles n a bat to my skull n big lava rock scar from me walking away. Um Hell to the NO!!!!! Been there done that. So if You wanna watch enjoy it. But the answer will be No.

  • @rlong8038
    @rlong8038 10 месяцев назад +7

    Mine had his supply watching me, following me and sitting in their cars across from my balcony, following me and walking in front of me in the grocery and sitting in their cars in the parking lot waiting for me, same cars sitting across from my balcony and same women. I don't know them, they know me. I mention it to him, it stops. These women are not careful, damn obvious. It's disgusting.

  • @kendacylewis2069
    @kendacylewis2069 10 месяцев назад +2

    These people need deliverance. Thats the therapy needed❤

  • @brianburns7630
    @brianburns7630 10 месяцев назад +3

    Rate this narcissist. She canceled my health insurance the week I was scheduled for cancer surgery. I didn't learn of this until my hospital discharge. She had also called my doctor, pretending to be my sister, telling them I was old and suffered from dementia, to attempt to send a proxy to break into my house to gather personal information.

    • @CleoPatra67
      @CleoPatra67 8 месяцев назад

      😮 hope you solved the issue with the health insurance and I wish you all the best! Get well soon!

  • @faddy24
    @faddy24 10 месяцев назад +15

    If a narcissist or a person with strong narcissist traits watches me online they won't really learn anything they don't already know about me Either way I don't care but I do care about honesty, integrity and consistency and I will always value that until the day I die. And how does one accurately gauge who is doing better than the other from online snooping? Absurd and pointless. Anybody who gets a kick out of seeing a person not doing so well is sick in the head and beneath my contempt.

    • @MRLX54
      @MRLX54 10 месяцев назад +5

      Exactly they can watch and I truly don’t mind if they feel they are doing better than me because they will never get the satisfaction of ever communicating with me or me in their presence again. They can send flying monkeys they will get shut down and get no response or no reaction from me. I feel like I won because I know longer care. The door is closed!! 2 years narc free!

    • @timothygrisack486
      @timothygrisack486 10 месяцев назад

      Narcissistic people are useless individuals!!

    • @TheColtonStreeter
      @TheColtonStreeter 10 месяцев назад

      Don't be fooled, some people watch you because they love you and still want to see if you're doing well.

    • @faddy24
      @faddy24 10 месяцев назад

      @@TheColtonStreeter well you can't really gauge if someone is doing well or not on social media. If that person still loves you or even just cares for you in some way then open, honest, transparent communication is the way forward. If there is zero communication from the other person then you're bound to assume they don't give a damn about you.

  • @davidbent347
    @davidbent347 10 месяцев назад +15

    This is a really good industry to be in because your audience are in a constant state of rumination... which means the content will always be relevant to the viewers... 😊👍

    • @melodythompson9195
      @melodythompson9195 10 месяцев назад +10

      It’s a great industry, mostly because the content it on point. The abused are NEVER left alone to completely heal. The abuser NEVER just goes away.

    • @davidbent347
      @davidbent347 10 месяцев назад +1

      So what I said... paraphrasing - "the abused are in a constant state of rumination" I.e the abuser never leaves their mind...

    • @davidbent347
      @davidbent347 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@melodythompson9195 Whilst on point the content can be continuously recycled with just a couple of tweaks here & their...

    • @RK-vf4mo
      @RK-vf4mo 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@davidbent347 that is so true, it's been 5 years and something out of the blue will remind d me of something hateful he said or did to me.

    • @dodibenabba525
      @dodibenabba525 10 месяцев назад +2

      ​@davidbent347 don't agree I escaped 33 years with the demon and I view these videos to keep a sharp sword in the future. Not wasting another minute on that goblin.

  • @thebarrochannel
    @thebarrochannel 10 месяцев назад +13

    My ex wife (the narc) left me 3 years ago and doesn’t let me see my kids, she brainwashed them. She’s also got the judges on her side because her father has money, while I’m fighting for my 50/50 custody. A lot of psychics have told me she’ll tell me “I’m sorry” one day. But I know that’s only when she feels like she needs me (once I get to see my kids again). I’m ready for that day, because all you have to do is lie to them. Don’t be the person you once were with them. Give them not what they want, but what they “need”, justice. Just lie to them the whole way. Give them the opposite of what they want, just frustrate them until they’re narcissism drives them crazy. Oh, and in the meantime, while she “left” me (when it was me who wanted the divorce) she keeps hovering around every social network I manage with her flying monkeys, and the people she’s turned on me. What a crazy person, I can’t wait until karma catches up with her. she’s probably gonna read this comment, by the way, so I’ll have to change my name on RUclips. I hope she finds peace and leave me alone and let me see my kids. And I know she’s gonna use them (my kids) as well, just like she’s using them now to punish me. Thank God, I’m very stoic. But everything you say is spot on.

    • @erickonassis6310
      @erickonassis6310 10 месяцев назад +3

      Let it go, your mental health trumps all that..

    • @beeman7711
      @beeman7711 10 месяцев назад +1

      Good luck to you, buddy, I know how brutal separation from a narcissist is, I can't imagine having children in the mix... rough.

    • @NubianQueen31
      @NubianQueen31 10 месяцев назад

      I have a feeling you’re the Narc!

    • @RK-vf4mo
      @RK-vf4mo 10 месяцев назад

      It does come back to bite them in the ass and hard. The ex narc thought he was pretty smart and ruined my best friend and my friendship. He pretty much brainwashed her. And out of the blue before Christmas last year she called me in tears. I guess she was googling me and came across an article about a traumatic car accident I was in(the ex narc caused it, he was calling me while I was driving through a snow storm, I answered it, hands free, but sent me into a panic attack and I lost control of my car.) She called me to apologize, we hadn't talked since 2016.
      When he called out of the blue after 2 years no contact, I said that I couldn't talk because she was at my house and I didn't have time. OMG IT WAS AWESOME TO HEAR THE FEAR IN HIS VOICE!!!!!!
      He is now on his 2nd wife after me, his 3rd wife total.
      I am so happy I didn't marry him!!!! He constantly whines about how he never gets promoted at work, how he should be a supervisor but nobody can stand him.
      He also hides some pretty big secrets as well! He is bisexual and had an affair while he was still married to his first wife with a man that was in the closet about being gay.
      All I had to do was guess, because he spent so much time with this guy. When I guessed, I was so disgusted that he lied to me. I would have never had even taken a 2nd look if I knew about it to begin with.

    • @beeman7711
      @beeman7711 10 месяцев назад

      @@NubianQueen31 This comment makes you look like a flying monkey or narcissist he mentioned stalking him.

  • @chrissyholmes7888
    @chrissyholmes7888 10 месяцев назад +3

    What I find crazy is…. Mine never had the time to be around while we were together, except to try to control me and argue… he always gotta work, gotta go here, gotta go there, gotta do this, gotta do that….. now that I don’t want any parts of him at all; he’s always showing up, always around lurking 👀, I see him more now randomly than I did the last three years of our marriage. I just ignore him, but I be thinking 🤔 ain’t cha gotta go do sumthin…..

  • @firsttbone
    @firsttbone 10 месяцев назад +9

    I honestly don't think my nEx is watching or paying any attention to me now. She's with the"love" of her life living large. She spent 2 years dragging me along whilst she solidified her relationship with her affair partner, she has no reason to watch me.

  • @targoltran
    @targoltran 10 месяцев назад +4

    I am not certain why some people just don't get it. When I walk away from anything in life, it is over with. The NPD seem to think they can negotiate terms. I think it is because, they have Nothing and No one ever. And in many cases, they are really bad with finances. As a result, don't even have a proper living arrangement.

  • @phoenix_sol_riseup2556
    @phoenix_sol_riseup2556 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’ve been separated from ex husband since 2018. Divorced in 2029. Blocked everywhere on social media.except I had not thought about Tiktok. He found me lol and has been page watching since early last year.

  • @user-dn5bi4si5w
    @user-dn5bi4si5w 10 месяцев назад +12

    Often they really are watching. You may have just broken up with one, and you'll "accidentally" bump into your narc. Except that it was no accident. That person had been watching you and tailing you, and you didn't even know it. These people are CREEPS. They're also amoral and have a criminal mentality.

    • @chrissyholmes7888
      @chrissyholmes7888 10 месяцев назад +1

      They are weird as all get out…….

    • @geraldreeves7752
      @geraldreeves7752 10 месяцев назад +1

      Facts

    • @octoberdawn1087
      @octoberdawn1087 10 месяцев назад +2

      If I ever run into my ex, I will know that he orchestrated it. It was a red flag when we first started dating But I told myself it was in my head. He would call and ask "how are you? Where are you?"
      Something scared me into being very specifically correct. One time I was at hobby lobby- But I was also on my way home... Usually I would just say i'm on my way home. But something scared me into saying i'm at Hobby Lobby..
      He asked me further questions, saying things like,
      "Do you mean the one on HWY96? Next to the Chop House?"
      I kept saying yes yes.
      Finally I looked up and he was standing right the frick in front of me!!!
      I just told myself that he was playing a little joke and I was only uptight about it because I had weird parents.. No, no, no. I was getting in another abusive relationship because I didn't know any different.

  • @Deakkon_and_the_Diplomat
    @Deakkon_and_the_Diplomat 5 месяцев назад

    Blocked her, her momma, her sister, her daughter, get them all out of the way. If she really wants to see what I'm doing she can go ahead.

  • @raidenewalden4354
    @raidenewalden4354 23 дня назад

    I know he is watching me , sometimes when I’m out , when I come back he was sitting in the dark watching me coming . Sometimes I jump because I don’t expect him to be there .

  • @margaretkyle7568
    @margaretkyle7568 10 месяцев назад +2

    My ex narc married an old girlfriend after 20 years of not being together. I'm sure he was always in contact with her in some respect but now I was discarded and they are mainstream. Better her than me !

  • @CANDYBULLOCK
    @CANDYBULLOCK 10 месяцев назад +1

    "A good con man always tells you what you want to hear." That's a quote from the comedy TV show called, "Man With A Plan." I watch it every day. It always makes me laugh and cheers me up. And, also, my former husband told me that, too, because he learned it from his father. And, my own mother also told me that, as well. I was born into a family of narcissistic con artists; and, then, unfortunately, I married into the same kind of family ... which is not uncommon. They still all watch me and tell lies about me, even though I have been no-contact with them for more than thirty years. They truly are pathetic losers with extreme mental problems. I'm so glad that I managed to escape from that world of insanity. Once you manage to get out, please stay out, and never go back. Going back into that world is like returning to an insane asylum. No matter how nice they seem to act when they are trying to lure you back in, they will turn on you, again, as soon as they know that they have you trapped again. It's all just a classic, con game ... and, if you play the game, then you are nothing but a con artist's victim, and that will never change. Don't keep falling for it, because it will just keep getting worse, the longer you allow it to go on. Each time will be worse than the last one was ... guaranteed.

  • @demonrich24
    @demonrich24 10 месяцев назад +4

    I’ve been watching your videos as it helps me heal my past relationship with a narcissist. I was wondering if you could do a video of what narcissist thinks when you are crying

  • @dcikaruga
    @dcikaruga 3 месяца назад

    Called a narcissist out recently (via email), by chanced I saw her for a while at a gathering, and caught her watching, she didn't stay for long either, got a feeling she was uncomfortable.

  • @lucillekluivert343
    @lucillekluivert343 10 месяцев назад +3

    THE MOST POWERFULL WEAPON AGAINST THE NARC IS PRAYER ,JUST PRAY AND PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN BECAUSE THEY NEVER STOP STALKING OR WANTING INFORMATION ABOUT YOU BUT GOD IS THE ANSWER TO YOUR PRAYERS AND WELBEING AFTER YOU LEFT OR DISCONNECTED FROM THEM EVEN THOSE YOU DONT KNOW LET YOUR POWERFULL PRAYERS KEEP THEM AWAY ,ITS A SPIRITUAL BATTLE WITH THESE WITCHES ,WARLOCKS AND WIZARDS AND NEVER LET THEM WIN BUT YOU WIN WITH GOD 🙏

    • @phyllissmith3574
      @phyllissmith3574 9 месяцев назад

      Don't know about that. I lived a true genuine unconditional love life praying and thanking God for my union for nearly my whole adult life, which turned into quite the fairytale. Didn't know there was a thing as narcissism til 2 years ago. When my ex and I split bc of his infidelity, I thought he was just going through a midlife crisis. When he became someone unrecognizable, I also thought he did all that to please his new woman. My bad for believing the scriptures for the marriage I truly enjoyed, for the love my ex made me feel from teens to my senior years.

  • @DangerousDeon11
    @DangerousDeon11 10 месяцев назад +2

    I wish I would have known this. I left her and she called me 45 days later to tell me she moved on. Then a month and a half later she came back and tricked me for a week making it seem like it was us. Then went back to her new guy. I caught her and she put a Temporary restraining order on me 🤦🏾‍♂️ now I had to hire a lawyer to right it.

  • @johncrookston6111
    @johncrookston6111 10 месяцев назад +4

    If she is watching she will see that it was as I said
    "Princeless" Diana you are holding me back"!
    No contact for 6mo now
    I quit smoking and drinking and my profile as a local musician with the golden voice, lol, is causing a stir in the local music scene
    Her stealthily imposed ban on me performing is just pure fuel for me to rise up and not look back
    Stepping stones are just that,
    A means to an end!

  • @mickymorton7148
    @mickymorton7148 10 месяцев назад +7

    So let’s say We have blocked each other & that Narcissist has moved on how can they really keep a check on me if you’ve gone no contact blocked there number & all communication on social media??? Are they still watching in another account??? It’s a bit scary & creepy haven’t they got anything better to do

    • @beeman7711
      @beeman7711 10 месяцев назад

      Nope! They're narcissists, its what they do lol. Yeah, they're probably creepy creepin about from a sock-puppet account. There's free web based osint tools to investigate suspicious accounts. Or just make your accounts private if you're worried about it. There's also a chance they aren't watching due to new supply in their life.

  • @kristahackleylmt2064
    @kristahackleylmt2064 10 месяцев назад +4

    So creepy.. all true. Thank you so much for your research.

  • @RK-vf4mo
    @RK-vf4mo 10 месяцев назад +2

    You mentioned that they always need attention. He contacted me after 2 years of no contact. i posted pictures of my nephews graduation and he was all happy for my family and said that he knew how much my nephews meant to me. he and his 1st wife(which is actually his 2nd wife, he was married before we got together) were getting separated. SURPRISED? NOT EVEN A LITTLE!
    He would text me on FB and I would ignore them. He got so angry, because I didn't answer him right away like i used to. Then he would disappear. So i got curious, he added all the women he cheated on me with back to his FB. So, i knew right away he was playing his old games.
    Urgh!!!! Why????

  • @tigerbunny6778
    @tigerbunny6778 10 месяцев назад +3

    5 years and hes atill trying my facebook. Creeping past my house, etc. Go away!

    • @RK-vf4mo
      @RK-vf4mo 10 месяцев назад +2

      You too? Mine is on his 3rd wife. 2nd wife since we broke up 5 years ago.

  • @roadtrip808
    @roadtrip808 10 месяцев назад +2

    My bf of 5yrs whom I can't get rid to put it nicely. keeps popping up at my house thinking he's go a stay all weekend and we are going to stay together hes crazy. red flags creep vibes restraining order 😅 theses ppl are evil run

  • @hobocakes
    @hobocakes 10 месяцев назад +5

    Can you please tell us what lipstick and nail polish you’re using? The color is so good! Love this look!

  • @lauriblackmon9297
    @lauriblackmon9297 10 месяцев назад

    This narcissistic group of people have been watching 👀 for the last 2 or more years! Hallelujah Amen 🙏 ❤ To God be the Glory!!

  • @beckysouthlondon
    @beckysouthlondon 10 месяцев назад

    Her aesthetics are so good ❤ perfect seasonal touches and great message

  • @nicselectronics81
    @nicselectronics81 10 месяцев назад +1

    Watch all they want, just dont touch 😅

  • @mrsropaxo
    @mrsropaxo 10 месяцев назад +1

    So so helpful, thank you!

  • @luna_soleil
    @luna_soleil 10 месяцев назад +5

    My ex narc has been stalking my twitch recently... For those that dk how twitch works they dont promote your channel unless you're live, theres not really a way for new people to find you unless they know you or you're live. I got a random follow in the middle of the night after not streaming for a week from an acct made that day. Then a few days later I got a paid subscription from an account that doesn't follow me, in the middle of the night, as my videos are only available for paid subscribers. That acct was also just made.
    Its a little concerning because hes already showed up at my house in the middle of the night once... But if he wants to pay to watch my videos and be miserable 🤷‍♀️

  • @SandraMuller-vs8ck
    @SandraMuller-vs8ck 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks for your words of wisdom and educational thoughts. This will definitely help me through my healing journey. ❤

  • @marycampeau9378
    @marycampeau9378 10 месяцев назад +1

    was always kinda afraid of that. just so glad my sister moved out of town

  • @steenkristensen6351
    @steenkristensen6351 10 месяцев назад +4

    Ja Anouska, jeg ved godt at de holder øje med mig jeg har luret dem jeg ved godt hvad de er ude på. Så Anouska kan du have en fantastisk aften 🙂❤️👍👍

  • @davefarnsworth3020
    @davefarnsworth3020 10 месяцев назад +1

    She will never find me where I plan on going to. Even if she found out where I was at, she wouldn't want to follow.

  • @Tokolos
    @Tokolos 10 месяцев назад +2

    My purpose was attention and therapeutic problem solving etc.
    seems I was only good enough during certain periods when it was bored)

  • @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
    @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht 10 месяцев назад +1

    For two years these people have all been super obsessed

  • @Identifyplumbing
    @Identifyplumbing 10 месяцев назад

    Yep. All of above. Now won’t leave me alone 🙄

  • @iamwabisabi3711
    @iamwabisabi3711 10 месяцев назад +2

    Never made any sense to me... I couldn't give a flying fk what any of my ex's are doing lol

  • @JERRYNELSON-c2d
    @JERRYNELSON-c2d 10 месяцев назад +2

    My little crazy Oldman narcissist has learned how to hack phone text and reads things he shouldnt😊

  • @4514rooster
    @4514rooster 10 месяцев назад +1

    They just want to see if their false police reports have gotten me locked up or murdered😳

    • @slfdefjukie
      @slfdefjukie 10 месяцев назад +1

      I feel ya downright atrocious

    • @4514rooster
      @4514rooster 10 месяцев назад

      @@slfdefjukie should be considered attempted murder by proxy. I think that’s what it’s called.

  • @phyllistouchstone7136
    @phyllistouchstone7136 10 месяцев назад +2

    She blocked me on Facebook and everything else. I know she has someone stalking me.

  • @lialenore2997
    @lialenore2997 10 месяцев назад

    6:57 my soon to be ex husband is doing his smear campaign on me RN with my kids and brothers and it's awful... But again I got this... Thank you🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @user-ex4ce7gh1k
    @user-ex4ce7gh1k 10 месяцев назад +2

    Keep watching and enjoy the show!!! 🤩😂😂😂

  • @RK-vf4mo
    @RK-vf4mo 10 месяцев назад +1

    The 1st ex wife after me dyed her hair blonde. Now his new wife is blonde and wears glasses like mine. She even has blue eyes like me.
    I was always better than him. We both worked inbthe oilfield and i was always working as a consultant while he was always being fired. He was mad when i bought my own house and a new car, plus a boat after we broke up. He became really hurtful and vengeful because I was always more successful.

  • @rickykeller7069
    @rickykeller7069 15 дней назад

    I also say that im absolutely sure that she could care less about my life, and knows that im not haven't cause she knows that I will not have anything to do with her cause i know that she will never be able to love or take care of me.Also she does know that will not allow it and that i an completely Done for Life with her PERIOD.

  • @flowersofthefield340
    @flowersofthefield340 10 месяцев назад

    Ooh they love watching their enemies esp if you exposed them to others ........
    They hate others knowing who they really are

  • @tammybullock1608
    @tammybullock1608 10 месяцев назад

    Oh they are Done!

  • @EmailRWHere-yx9tm
    @EmailRWHere-yx9tm 10 месяцев назад +3

    I hope not, I'm not decent (opens bathrobe). 😉

  • @JaminVaughn
    @JaminVaughn 10 месяцев назад +4

    No they arent i deleted my fb. Changed my number and deleted my email.

  • @ayeshajamil6023
    @ayeshajamil6023 10 месяцев назад +1

    My husband watch me constantly

  • @Liberty19845
    @Liberty19845 10 месяцев назад

    You know this are very dangerous people, i have one that also will send people to my neighborhood, to follow me and my child to ask questions pretending to be friendly so many times. Sending people in cars that do things that i don't want to mention, they will never leave you alone. This people are sick. Just forget them they are nothing they have no souls. And even if this things are happening I am so happy you know that I am free of this monster .

  • @raginald7mars408
    @raginald7mars408 10 месяцев назад +1

    … as a German Biologist -
    We are hyper domesticated and Conditioned
    to be friendly trusting -
    like a Farm Animal…
    We face Predators every day all the time.
    Starts with slick Advertisement to delude and catch you.
    To de Condition this state
    takes Intense Endurance and Inner Strength Training -
    to install a tight Firewall -
    No Trespassing
    My property!

  • @critter9857
    @critter9857 9 месяцев назад +1

    The best thing to do is offer them to God, ask God to take care of it..He will...

  • @phyllissmith3574
    @phyllissmith3574 10 месяцев назад

    Crazy! After he left to be with another in another town. They moved back and moved 2x within walking distance whenever I moved. He's still there bc I bought a house.

  • @recoveringsoul755
    @recoveringsoul755 10 месяцев назад +2

    Then he's watching me starve to death because of what they've done, stolen from me

  • @gloriahornby2457
    @gloriahornby2457 10 месяцев назад +1

    Well he can watch me all he wants. I bought a new car and I am making new friends.

  • @ricardocamara1602
    @ricardocamara1602 9 месяцев назад

    My narc was spying on me with the door bell camera

  • @user-wl1ru3tg4h
    @user-wl1ru3tg4h 10 месяцев назад

    Trauma bandit no Attach and in love with the narcissist that's a hell no....... Me being Stalked now that's a full-blown yes😮

  • @michaelagiddings1520
    @michaelagiddings1520 2 месяца назад

    well better give him a good show then..🤣🤣

  • @JulieMorales-kp4yc
    @JulieMorales-kp4yc 10 месяцев назад

    I don't need anything from my narcs. I left both and both are obsessed with me. I never ever look at their social media. And I could careless about either one. I don't love them. Not attracted to them. I appreciate that I've learned about this species. It was a learning experience. I research the type and that's it. I'm a INFJ personality type and understand exactly what they are. Yuck.

  • @barbaraschultz1442
    @barbaraschultz1442 10 месяцев назад +1

    Yes!!

  • @str8ttruthnochaser311
    @str8ttruthnochaser311 10 месяцев назад

    After Sunday she told me "Your Father Died" he's is alive on hospice..I'm not in the same state as him..I grieved on his Bday the 6th of this month. I don't speak to her anymore. I'm completely done. My peace is more valuable for my future.

  • @venusigor7501
    @venusigor7501 10 месяцев назад +2

    I was discarded 1 month ago. I broke no contact to ask for closure and he doesn’t want to. He keeps texting me back about it but he doesn’t wanna talk about it? He keeps telling me he is busy. He even told me “what do u want, a paragraph?” Like wtf😭😭

    • @lindsay3793
      @lindsay3793 10 месяцев назад +5

      He doesn't want you. Don't beg him for an explanation. Have some dignity and give him the breakup. Begging him will only make you seem more unattractive. Go full no contact... for yourself.
      I know this sounds harsh, I've been recently discarded, too. It's so difficult to do and hurts so bad. 😢

    • @racs9606
      @racs9606 10 месяцев назад +3

      He'll never give you closure. Just walk away with your dignity.

  • @lanamorelli6480
    @lanamorelli6480 4 месяца назад

    dammit, we never get rid of the fleas. 😂

  • @keithwittman4741
    @keithwittman4741 10 месяцев назад +1

    I know my wife is watching.
    She left last month.
    Prior to leaving she came to me with reaction to things i said/did when nobody was in the house.(3×)
    The only connection she still has in the house in keeping the Wi-Fi on! Why?? Because she has a camera somewhere.
    Sometimes, think I'm just paranoid due to the gaslighting and smear campaign. But the pieces fit.
    Hope it's found,and my attorney can get her on illegal stalking/surveillance .

    • @RaisetheVibe-123
      @RaisetheVibe-123 10 месяцев назад

      I keep thinking my ex husband has done that too. I have no idea of hiding a camera is possible but I feel like there probably is one. Creepy.

  • @danielmar4532
    @danielmar4532 10 месяцев назад

    Its been 3 months since the breakup. And im prettyyy sure. She isnt watching anything im doing. No texting. No calls. And i dont have social media.

  • @alfredbenedek3398
    @alfredbenedek3398 10 месяцев назад

    Yes indeed, through their busedeerys. Through other people. Iwas several times, being followed, by suspicious people. Than I cut down ,y shoppings, and other tripps. Suddenly I got calls, from the original harresing narcissist. - What's wrong, how come I'm having lessw necessitys to buy etc.? My quick response was, you got yours - I got mine less. So far, that's that.

    • @alfredbenedek3398
      @alfredbenedek3398 10 месяцев назад

      But seriously? What is it to them, what are my needs - aquaintences & trips? They won't & can't control them? Or do they? They don't have enough time, money - patience, to harress all of them? Do they? I sure hope not?

  • @mielcat
    @mielcat 9 месяцев назад

    The ex married his new supply a couple months ago. I recently accidentally discovered he’s unblocked me on FB and probably snooped my page. There’s nothing to see, my page is locked down, nothing to see.

  • @geekzer713
    @geekzer713 10 месяцев назад +1

    Facts💯

  • @user-ib5gk1hn5m
    @user-ib5gk1hn5m 10 месяцев назад

    They’re not human

  • @tomwhite8967
    @tomwhite8967 7 месяцев назад

    Its been almost 8 weeks since i went no contact with my x covert girlfriend. I have not heard from her nor have i noticed and "watching". I hope im right. These videos warn me of what might happen and i appreciate that. But they do make me feel paranoid by bring up things that i hadnt even thought about. When is enough, enough. It almost makes me feel like im watching them by watching😅

  • @rickykeller7069
    @rickykeller7069 15 дней назад

    I disagree, due to not only that she is living in another state, working and already has another supply. And she also knows that I know who And what she is and I am not ever going to have anything to do with her ever in any aspect PERIOD.