The Unexpected Truth About The Narcissist Watching You
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If they physically can’t keep tabs on you they will have someone else watch you to gather intel. You may feel like you have a babysitter at all times.
Yep
I doubt it. His new supply doesn’t look all that but she does makes more money than me. I wish them nothing but the best. I have a peace that I never had before. I will never give my peace up
Everyone really needs to take this in. They mirror you and you fall in love with yourself. They never really love you, they only love the things they do for you and as far as you, after you fall in love with yourself and they start changing you no longer like the person they are. They are shitty people they have no qualities about themselves. And NEVER BLAME IT ON THEIR DEPRESSION👈🏻
Yep they will use that as an excuse
Great comment ❤
thank you!
Sounds eerily familiar
@@kerstitekko2257 NEVER EVER go back, unless that is you wanna be buried in the little black hole. Pass on that one!👈🏻
They are like a permanent surveillance system always forever running on overdrive even in their sleep,
a permanent photocopying machine that is never switched off recording everything..!!!! MUST BE SO EXHAUSTING !
I AM SUPER AWARE OF THIS.. THEY REALLY ARE NUCLEAR REACTORS ! Thank you Anoushka for you!
Sometimes they actually do love and wants us back. I dont believe for a second they cant feel love
They cant
This way of thinking is why people stay stuck with them
If they lack empathy, they are psychopaths. However if they have some narcissistic traits then they need to do years of intentional inner work to be a healthy partner
With all the easy supply a female narc gets this must be like a full time job watching them all
😂lmao
It’s not good quality supply though.
lol I just can laugh
Keep them suffering then. THey do deserve what they get.
@@fainitesbarley2245yep . Garbage 🗑️ 😂
Going on five months no contact and she’s still stalking me with fake accounts and calls, texts from fake numbers. It’s become comical to me at this point tho. The first 2-3 months it bothered me. But boy is she persistent
I’ve blocked him everywhere and now I see him everywhere I am x
Great video, Anoushka 🎉
When you talk about the “competition” ! The person and persons are all part of a totem pole and the narcissist is sitting on top of them all. Basically making themselves great by pushing everybody down.... think about it 💭
I doubt it very much for two reasons 1. She has blocked me everywhere 2. She has her new supply
she will unblock at 4am for a quick nosey snoop then block you again
Great to hear this info. I hope my ex is not doing well
She has made the last 12 months hell for me after she just dumped me suddenly.
It’s been 6 years NC. I’ve deleted all social media and moved to another state. I know mine isn’t watching by my design…
Hey sorry to break it to you.. but you're on social media right now.. w your face n name n everything. Lol jk, i think i know what you meant.. they have no way to directly find you online now.. hopefully
Yeah.. I did pretty much acknowledge that she prob has it under control.. just found it somewhat funny bc of the irony of this comment on a social media platform.
“Just stop 🛑”. Lol who are you to me to tell me what to do or not.. in the social media comments which was created for ppl to share their thoughts or musings, by design. Stay bossy tho, I’m very impressed! :) 👍🏻
My husband just called me a whore 2 days ago. He said I was wearing bootie shorts. I live on the other side of the house until I can move. He has 2nd supply even though he keeps lying about it. He is definitely watching everything I do in the house and I know he is watching my social media platforms. I gave into the gaslighting 2 days ago after being called a whore. I was silent for over a month, however, he kept trying to trigger me and I fell for the trick 2 days ago. Now I am trying to establish silence again until I can move
I pray for your peace and your exit strategy 🙏🏽
I went through this with every relationship I have been in. Its very draining and exhausting.
😂nigaa wtf
Hang on....sending you strength and power....you can do it..
Your not a whore
Far from it
I get called it too!!!
An unknown number suddently chat me lately, said if he wants to get to know me, am i already married or not?
I asked who are you and where did you get my number? He said why? I was like 'give me one good reason not to block you i ain't gonna entertain random person' and no answer lol i think he's that obsessed to know about me..that narc
That happens to me lol
They play mischievous games.
The narcissist will never be doing better than you. Some of us are not material.
My peace of mind means I've won
I just can't believe it has been eight months since I'd seen my ex narcissist girlfriend and she tricked me a week ago until almost coming to see me this Wednesday but I flipped out last night I called her out on all past behavior she almost came to see me this Wednesday and I would have been in worse shape than I am now I'm in tears
Be strong my friend, healing takes time ❤
It's painful and thd tears naturally flow out of that open wound to try and pressure release.
I am glad that you called her out!! you needed to do that for you. it's about boundary setting. she knows you aren't an easy target now. you don't need set backs and triggers. you need time and space for relational trauma healing and the opportunity to grow in inner strength after being worn down so much.
@@mfcmxtt6490 ty
The first year with this pretty female covert narcissist was great but then she devalued and discarded me hard with ridiculous lies and gaslighting everyone, then tried to Hoover me back, but I said nothin’ doin’, so she left and blocked me on social media. But then she tried to Hoover the people around me to find out what’s going on. Bizarre! On the hunch she’s still following my social media, I don’t block and I make sure I post how awesome I’m doing, lost 50 lbs, running a Marathon, happy with my friends and community, and anything else I’m proud of with her gone, so I’m turning the tables on this toxic CN
Last one, I was suggesting that the last person I was with probably isnt watching me. I don't know if she's a narcissist, I can't bring myself round to think that she is, because we even worked together for a year and dated a couple months .. but that's the thing isn't it. What she did to me just isn't what people do, and I sincerely do / did care. But out of the blue, load of lies and friend zoned now blocked. And I can't wrap my head around it even though I went through this 6 years ago and thought I understood this. There's definitely an attachment disorder of some type .. and am I missing something
Sounds like a Covert Narcissist, imho. I had a similar experience 2021-2022.
The only 2 things I feel when they reach you, it's a urge to vomit and feelings of betrayal.
Pro tip. Who cares? Let them watch you rise. Also social media is cancer friends. Stop seeking external validation from people. Validate yourself. Love for yourself. Be at peace.
Listen survivor I can personally make a claim here.
Its 2 years later, I live on the opposite end of my city. I have a new car. I have an almost entirely new circle.
I was just outside of my road home feeding my crows.
From an earshot away. I hear this "f*** you Eric!"
Of course I paid it now validation. But it did fill my head with "still not done eh?" Thats just it survivor, they are never done.
@@coachingbydaisy-cf9yr I'm not sure you are aware of grammar usage.
I got death threat. When he does not get what he wants... violence starts.
My Ex does not watch me at all .. I don’t have Facebook , instagram, no mutual friends, no communication with family on either side , live in different states .. it’s been a complete and total break . He married his affair partner and is happy .
This is eye opening! This explains everything about my ex wife. I just divorced after a 40 year relationship. Everything was great as long as I was giving her more and more. Everything thing else also explains her personality. She can’t be alone, she is now going through other relationships. Thanks for all this knowledge. I never knew.
And she'll never learn, just like a 2 year old brat. (tecnically speaking)
These people have children and can’t nurture insane😱
Sadly, they nurture nothing.
They end up being hyper jealous of their children… sad state of affairs
@@SidNasir Abusing them from birth I seen it with my own eyes everyday I prayer others notice and lock her ass up teasing the baby causing baby to cry and baby is frighten no smile.
Love your show,especially the background beats
I say let them and show him that you can be so happy without him! 😇
Your style this summer in this and your post posted shorts are stunning. Luckily my therapist doesn’t compare. I’d be distracted if she did. Lol. Thank you for all your help. Keeps me from depressive meltdowns or breaking contact. Been no constant since new years
You're right. I hope you have a wonderful week.
This is how bad it got at the discard stage for me. She was bragging about a guy that she was having sex with and he was awesome , treated her great ( Like I didn't treat her great ) his beautiful blue eyes when they were doing it she was texting me this. Who does something like that ? Then she asked if she can come over by me to have sex with me. I said no . Is that a narcissist or is it just nuts AKA crazy?? After I said no I haven't heard from her since but I blocked her on everything. If he's so special why did she want to come back to me one last time? I forgot this the same day I told her no and hadn't blocked her yet. She told me because I turned her away she had the best sex with him that day ?? Crazy.
I just went through this although was only weather 3 years on-and-off eight months since I've seen her and she for the last week almost tricked me into seeing her this Wednesday having her come down the hour-and-a-half ride when I haven't seen her in eight months by snapped last night and this morning and all her past behavior cheating multiple texts affairs all of it I said no too and I've been abstinent that this whole time she claims she has two but we all know that is a lie.. so it's been tough.... I think it's my penis that's mad at me but my friends are proud I just feel so sick with I don't know I'm just hurt.
What she is doing is called TRIANGULATION (Google it)
It's a form of emotional abuse that forms part of the Narc hand book.
It's a tool for manipulation.
She needs to go jump off a plank and leave you the hell alone.
Narc women ARE crazy ...both terms are interchangeable.
Block her and go no contact
Definitely sounds like a narcissist. Purposefully trying to make someone jealous is so low. You might even find it's all bullshit and she's trying to trigger you. My ex narc was the master of doing this and he actually had no one...lol.
Yes, that's some sort of narcissist, co-morbid I imagine
This is so accurate
mines been watching me for 9 months, wont make a full move walked home form a party with her the other night snd she placed her hand in my hand , I thought don't react, then she placed her arm Around my waist, again I just played it calm, she then said where do you live? I was like wow 10 mins ago you where after someone else but they where boring her so she turned to me.
its funny because she is hesitant and I see it but she knows I'm not toyed so is figuring out what triggers me,. they study you intently even in the same room they watch you intensely. I'm surprised her friends don't say any thing maybe do know but cannot understand why.
I love you Anoushka your Video's help me out so much! =)
Maybe my ex isn't a narc, he walked out after 20 years. No explanation and never looked back. He hasn't' even talked to our son in 6 years. He had no sympathy for our son crying. Told him to get over it. He is the most pompous fake man I have ever known. He has never tried to contact either of us. He did have a woman when he left and she posted their pictures. He blocked me and our son on all social media. I am still wondering if he is a narc.
That’s narc, that’s a cold blooded lizard human being, no way a person with empathy could ever do that.
He is.
@@Rokinevythng14 thank you for the validation
@@6886a thank you !
It’s more likely you’re talking about a anti social personality disorder (sociopath/psychopath). They don’t generally look back.
Hello from Greece. Thank you for all your help, for your videos. I wach at least two of them every singl day. And suddenly, while I was thinking something I had listen from you, I think that I saw you in Thessaloniki on Friday 23 June. Is it true or ...it is because of the narcissistic abuse I am still living in??!!!...
Always good content
buying phones for people so they can monitor them and everyone they may interact with
I feel this with my Daughter. It hurt so bad Bcuz I luv her n she lashes out n tells me how SHES better than me. N I’m nothing but negative responses. It’s sad. My bf is like this too. Come Pete with cooking.
Exactly what I don't get, why would they bother to waste so much energy trying to control things(money) being amongst other things when they can't stand you and don't give a damn about you. It would be easier to just stop the hate and try to agree, at least until the divorce is over,
They can’t watch me. I’m not online and I don’t talk to anyone they know.
He would drive past my house, I still don't understand lol
I never knew about fake accounts until a female friend of mine thats covert narc told me she had multiple fb accounts to stalk people
Her name jodie? Lol
@@daeclipse03 haha they all have the same playbook
Yup, just got another Hoover just now, I guess he saw me online on messenger
The only thing I know will happen post discard is that she will unblock me when she goes on her trip to America to see her new supply. She did it to the ex when I was the new supply and I know she will do it again. The difference though is I won’t react unlike the ex who tried to get back with her when I was the new supply
My ex is a full blown narcissist when I cut her off almost 4 years ago I’m thinking I’m out the woods I went no contact because she had a chance to do any discarding or triangulation because that dirt ball was definitely trying to set me up for the triangulation after 3 years I find out her and her goofy @$$ family was stalking me the whole damn time! So I guess they seen I was happy and not looking back and she decided to pop up outta the dirt just for her and her flying monkeys to look stupid
get off of social media
God do they ever stop?
I know right!!!!!!!!!
What if you deleted all your social media , then how would they watch you?!?
With flying monkeys and hired hackers. They about to watch me go on a Caribbean cruise 💩💋
What if you block their number, their accounts and don’t add random accounts?
I know the Narc is tracking me and my phone etc. Looking, listening... Fool!
Zony omg I'm sorry your going through this too. They are freaks man. My calls are listened to as well and everything I watch through hacked phone. It's like gooooo awayyyyy
Lol
It's my fault though I've gotten my number changed a few times and would turn around and give it to him.... I'm getting it changed 1 last time.
@@joshuaanzalone2060 how do you know they are listening through your phone?
@@joshuaanzalone2060 liar! They're big Liars too.
I just know now he has cheated on the girl he used to hurt me. Lol he was holding on to that 'relationshite' by a thread and now that sunset dream is over as he cheated on her with someone else pahaha cliche
Really strange, my comments keep getting deleted
They have just cheated on new supply after proposing in Dec with the world's worst Ring but it was all to gain trigger reactive abuse. It did not work I was just like LAME. Now they broke up I'm sure he tried to contact me on fake accounts. But yeah the sunset new supply she apparently broke his car and he cheated. They are nothing like each other😊
Forget the narc , the tattoo on your biceps killing me ….. I’m sorry but I’m in the process of surviving so maybe I’m having cognitive disfunction 😂😂
How? He is blocked on everything & lives in a different State.
12:00
How are they watching if I'm blocked? How do I stop obsessing over him?
It's hard, ❤
@@hannahhughes4801 Yes, it's horrible. ♥
I've had someone react with a ❤ on some of my Facebook posts but I can't see who the person is. Now, I'm honestly wondering if it's my narc ex.
Does this happen also in friendship?
Right I was thinking that too
Yes
@@nicolejones5971 Thank you 😊
Crazy. Well I am not on social media right now. This entire situation is strange. I expect her to try to call or text when she needs something because she probably feels that I owe her. 😌 But she can't get through. Thanks for listening! God Bless!
How do they watch you if you don’t have any social media? Or any mutual friends?
Delete your account, they use fake accounts. Don’t even bother making a new one.
@@emmamonroe3311 is that you ? 😂
By hacking. So many people these days are able to.
Drive by your house or have other people watch you physically
@@schwiftycats but they don’t know where i live or work?
💓
Just don’t be on social media.
😂
You all will see why more Litlie time