Definitely a hard truth. my person broke up with me bc i was asking for them to spend time with me. Im like who breaks up with someone for that. I feel like they just moved on and it was hard to just break up with me when i have not done anything wrong. so when i started a conversation that they did not like, they took the opportunity to just end it. i guess they were just waiting for that moment. Im focused on me!! I know my worth and what i bring to the table. So its their loss!! I am a total gem and deserve better. fck them!!
Amen🙏🍀 that's the approach I finally got after year of crying and pitying myself, f... this. He is not worth my love and attention, he feels better with toxic people. Avoidant's discard is breading pure obsession which I'm still healing. Never again. Good luck on your journey
I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
I blocked my ex because I really didn't want to see him on his rebound journey of Psychological Displacement as he super imposed our relationship on his new one.
I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
Sounds like It’s time to move in my friend… In the meantime educate yourself and do the work to heal! Feel free to check out my course “The Rise Of The Phoenix” this is a online healing coaching program that will guide through this challenging times my friend, in any case know that I’m here for you if you ever want to talk or simply as me a quick and where you story, much love and healing 🙏🏽🤍 pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
I just had that happen to me today. He has 2 bikes of mine and dropped off 1. I asked about the other and he responded that it's in his garage. No clue when he plans to give it back.
I wish I could have radio silence. She's cold and has changed quickly. We have a 4 month old son, she says she doesn't love me anymore even after saying she loved me the end in June.
@firstlastname84 questioned the same thing. Sure doesn't seem like it. She's cold as she's ever been and just over it. Won't answer anything besides our son like she's found someone else and doesn't care.
Fellas- once she leaves, she is on her phone apps looking for a new man. 😂 XX’s have a saying “the best way to get over a man, is to get under a new one” Trust me- once they leave - YOU don’t want them back. Stay strong fellas- they don’t love you, they love what you can do for them. (Money, energy, attention, time)
I spent the first 2 months talking to coaches before I got a Psychologist. It took 2 different coaches to point out I was in a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship and cheated on/monkey branched in the end mixed with posting it 2 days after we split. I never seen the verbally, emotionally abusive behavior because it slowly happened mixed with her manipulation and gaslighting. The trauma from that is different than heartbreak and getting over someone. Abuse will always be identified with that person from then on and carries its own separate weight of memories from the trauma. I hope people realize or seek a psychologist to see if they were verbally and or emotionally abused and not confuse that with not getting over them as it has a big effect of a lot of thoughts and memories that could be mistaken as not getting over them or wanting them back.
Maybe when she says "I'm being a good girl" when you know her previous relationships were always filled with her cheating. This statement may say to you that she won't cheat on her new boyfriend with you so don't ask.
Yup! I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
After 15 years of living together with my partner, in Oct 2022, she monkey branched and dumped me for one of our farm workers. Thanks that she's no longer my obligation because my feelings for her are also starting to grow weaker that time. I left the farm and took care of myself with no contact with her anymore. But in the last days of August 2023 or after almost 10 months of living with that guy, karma reached her. The grass is not greener ... then she started contacting me. At first I was just being polite to answer her calls or mssges then one day she asked me to come to her place as his older brother died. She asked for my help which I obliged, on the same night we slept together and had good sex after 10 months being apart. After her brother's funeral she asked me for a reconciliation, I think over the pros and cons of having her again and tried to look back at the feeling of being cheated /betrayed. But the compassion and empathy within me being a Buddhist prevailed and after a compromise I took her and lived with her again. I had given her a chance and I hope she already learned her lesson. Presently, we are peaceful and happy together with our set limitations and boundaries. When I am alone I'm asking myself if I am really a low self-esteem and low self respect man just in trauma-bond with this woman. The whisper that I would hear is "let your Buddha-mind prevail." I hope this will be of help to those who are now in my perflexed situation in 2022.
Paz, it’s been one year since the break up and 7 months of nc. I am unblocked on whatsapp. What do you think of this? I am trying to have hope but I feel lost and don’t know what do to at this point.
Your situation is unique and I need more information before I can give you a definitive answer… you can try to explain more here and I’ll do my best to give you the best answer possible or you can book a call with me and we can unpack this together and create a gamelan or a healing plan for you. ➡️ bit.ly/coachpazgoldman You can also check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
I am getting confused watching this video bcoz i am in no contact since 40 days and she never contacted or give any signals to me so i can relate to all the signs but i will never know for sure bcoz we are not communicating at all Edit: i broke no contact after 60 days we are meeting once or twice a week but she still doesn’t wanna get back together
These are also just things that ex's do. I think you're painting with really broad strokes here. For instance, yeah if your ex is an avoidant, they're going to avoid reaching out and avoid confrontation. I don't necessarily think it's beneficial to tell a bunch of people hurting on the internet that all of these normal breakup behaviors mean that their ex isn't ever coming back. Almost every ex does almost everything on this list.
Mine changed her number the day after she broke up with me. She went ghost on all social media. Was cold and mean when I tried to email. Six months went by I reached out and she said she wished we could be friends only but we can’t because it always turns to drama. This sucks because it’s her actions that I called out. I guess I should have over looked the red flags that I already didn’t. Why do I still want her after 7 months? She was my first love in jr. high school. She found me on Facebook in 2009. We commented for 14 years and finally moved in together and well it did t last long. She bi polar2 and it sucks because I miss her and want to work through things. I feel it’s another guy but she claims it’s not. What to do other than no contact and better myself? We live in different states so it’s not like I can see if it was another guy. If it wasn’t I want her back. This absolutely is the worst pain I’ve ever had to endure. Help!
The previous statement may also mean she is trying to bait you to test her into cheating with you so she can still feel the power of being desired and thus you are addicted to her. At that point you become an inferior male and she will probably move on without you since she feels she succeeded in baiting you. Don 't take the bait. Just say "that's wonderful, I hope this all works out well for you".
I have no idea if she’ll come back. It’s been 11 weeks with no contact/radio silence. The only sign I’ve had is ‘nothing’. Probably will never come back. 😂😂 Oh well 😂😂😂
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3 years & she hasn't reached out. thats the only sign i need.
How many months?
How many months no contact?
@@kh123 3 x 12 months = 36 months = 3 years... its probably closer to 4 years, but I lost count.
How long were you together?
It's nearly 2 years and he didn't reach out
Not the video that we wanted but the video that we needed..
Always here to give what YOU NEED 🙏🏽🤍
True
Definitely a hard truth. my person broke up with me bc i was asking for them to spend time with me. Im like who breaks up with someone for that. I feel like they just moved on and it was hard to just break up with me when i have not done anything wrong. so when i started a conversation that they did not like, they took the opportunity to just end it. i guess they were just waiting for that moment. Im focused on me!! I know my worth and what i bring to the table. So its their loss!! I am a total gem and deserve better. fck them!!
Amen🙏🍀 that's the approach I finally got after year of crying and pitying myself, f... this. He is not worth my love and attention, he feels better with toxic people. Avoidant's discard is breading pure obsession which I'm still healing. Never again. Good luck on your journey
I feel you my friend!
Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this!
Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
The “indifference” hit hard because that’s how it became
I blocked my ex because I really didn't want to see him on his rebound journey of Psychological Displacement as he super imposed our relationship on his new one.
I feel you my friend!
Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this!
Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
She has been “returning my stuff” for 4 months. Still has all of my stuff
Sounds like It’s time to move in my friend…
In the meantime educate yourself and do the work to heal!
Feel free to check out my course “The Rise Of The Phoenix” this is a online healing coaching program that will guide through this challenging times my friend, in any case know that I’m here for you if you ever want to talk or simply as me a quick and where you story, much love and healing 🙏🏽🤍
pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
I just had that happen to me today. He has 2 bikes of mine and dropped off 1. I asked about the other and he responded that it's in his garage. No clue when he plans to give it back.
I wish I could have radio silence. She's cold and has changed quickly. We have a 4 month old son, she says she doesn't love me anymore even after saying she loved me the end in June.
@@NotJoeBiden_LGBFJB is she having postpartum depression?
@firstlastname84 questioned the same thing. Sure doesn't seem like it. She's cold as she's ever been and just over it. Won't answer anything besides our son like she's found someone else and doesn't care.
Fellas- once she leaves, she is on her phone apps looking for a new man.
😂 XX’s have a saying “the best way to get over a man, is to get under a new one”
Trust me- once they leave - YOU don’t want them back.
Stay strong fellas- they don’t love you, they love what you can do for them. (Money, energy, attention, time)
Your doggie is so cute 🥰
@@GuidedByAngels lol 😂 thank you so much!
I spent the first 2 months talking to coaches before I got a Psychologist. It took 2 different coaches to point out I was in a verbally and emotionally abusive relationship and cheated on/monkey branched in the end mixed with posting it 2 days after we split. I never seen the verbally, emotionally abusive behavior because it slowly happened mixed with her manipulation and gaslighting. The trauma from that is different than heartbreak and getting over someone. Abuse will always be identified with that person from then on and carries its own separate weight of memories from the trauma. I hope people realize or seek a psychologist to see if they were verbally and or emotionally abused and not confuse that with not getting over them as it has a big effect of a lot of thoughts and memories that could be mistaken as not getting over them or wanting them back.
And now? . Did you heal?
You have been helpful…Thank you.
Maybe when she says "I'm being a good girl" when you know her previous relationships were always filled with her cheating. This statement may say to you that she won't cheat on her new boyfriend with you so don't ask.
Love I actually have all the signs…, it’s over😂
Yup! I feel you my friend!
Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this!
Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
My ex wife found my replacement within a month. 😞
a week for me
Likewise bro. We can heal from this bro
I feel you my friend!
Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this!
Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
@@JaskiratSGrewal that's mean the other person already there before the break up. They just monkey branching.
After 15 years of living together with my partner, in Oct 2022, she monkey branched and dumped me for one of our farm workers. Thanks that she's no longer my obligation because my feelings for her are also starting to grow weaker that time. I left the farm and took care of myself with no contact with her anymore.
But in the last days of August 2023 or after almost 10 months of living with that guy, karma reached her. The grass is not greener ... then she started contacting me. At first I was just being polite to answer her calls or mssges then one day she asked me to come to her place as his older brother died. She asked for my help which I obliged, on the same night we slept together and had good sex after 10 months being apart. After her brother's funeral she asked me for a reconciliation, I think over the pros and cons of having her again and tried to look back at the feeling of being cheated /betrayed. But the compassion and empathy within me being a Buddhist prevailed and after a compromise I took her and lived with her again. I had given her a chance and I hope she already learned her lesson. Presently, we are peaceful and happy together with our set limitations and boundaries. When I am alone I'm asking myself if I am really a low self-esteem and low self respect man just in trauma-bond with this woman. The whisper that I would hear is "let your Buddha-mind prevail." I hope this will be of help to those who are now in my perflexed situation in 2022.
I appreciate your wisdom🙏🍀
You are so welcome 🙏🏽 thank you for your acknowledgement 🤍
After a few months of NC, it's over and out, finished.
Paz, it’s been one year since the break up and 7 months of nc. I am unblocked on whatsapp. What do you think of this? I am trying to have hope but I feel lost and don’t know what do to at this point.
Your situation is unique and I need more information before I can give you a definitive answer… you can try to explain more here and I’ll do my best to give you the best answer possible or you can book a call with me and we can unpack this together and create a gamelan or a healing plan for you.
➡️ bit.ly/coachpazgoldman
You can also check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix
Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF! (72 hours time-limit)
And now? Did he come back? I am also unblocked on whatsApp, him ghostug me 2,5 mths. 3rd time within 1 3/4 yrs. 😢
My ex reached out two months into no contact, but I didn't want him back. I found myself and moved on.
Yes! I’m happy for you my friend! 🙏🏽🤍
Wisdom 🎉
@@GuidedByAngels 🙏🏽💯
Great video!
Glad you enjoyed it🤍🙏🏽
I am getting confused watching this video bcoz i am in no contact since 40 days and she never contacted or give any signals to me so i can relate to all the signs but i will never know for sure bcoz we are not communicating at all
Edit: i broke no contact after 60 days we are meeting once or twice a week but she still doesn’t wanna get back together
43 days NC for me... nothing so far
Take this time as a blessing and heal. Get emotional help if you need🙏best of luck🍀
Treat others how you want to be treated
Wisdom!!!
🙏🏽🤍
These are also just things that ex's do. I think you're painting with really broad strokes here. For instance, yeah if your ex is an avoidant, they're going to avoid reaching out and avoid confrontation. I don't necessarily think it's beneficial to tell a bunch of people hurting on the internet that all of these normal breakup behaviors mean that their ex isn't ever coming back. Almost every ex does almost everything on this list.
I agree fully 💯
My FA with covert traits came back twice, was with no other woman
Mine changed her number the day after she broke up with me. She went ghost on all social media. Was cold and mean when I tried to email. Six months went by I reached out and she said she wished we could be friends only but we can’t because it always turns to drama. This sucks because it’s her actions that I called out. I guess I should have over looked the red flags that I already didn’t. Why do I still want her after 7 months? She was my first love in jr. high school. She found me on Facebook in 2009. We commented for 14 years and finally moved in together and well it did t last long. She bi polar2 and it sucks because I miss her and want to work through things. I feel it’s another guy but she claims it’s not. What to do other than no contact and better myself? We live in different states so it’s not like I can see if it was another guy. If it wasn’t I want her back. This absolutely is the worst pain I’ve ever had to endure. Help!
The previous statement may also mean she is trying to bait you to test her into cheating with you so she can still feel the power of being desired and thus you are addicted to her. At that point you become an inferior male and she will probably move on without you since she feels she succeeded in baiting you. Don 't take the bait. Just say "that's wonderful, I hope this all works out well for you".
Wisdom.
@@malouurquico8068 🙏🏽🤍
הי פז, תודה לך על הסרטונים המועילים❤
באהבה ענקית!
I have no idea if she’ll come back. It’s been 11 weeks with no contact/radio silence. The only sign I’ve had is ‘nothing’. Probably will never come back. 😂😂
Oh well 😂😂😂
12yrs together 10yrs married it went up in flames 🔥 for her monkey branch…
I got monkey branched also
@@roseamey370 sorry to hear that…
@@TheChosen1406 Paz's videos helping me a lot. It happened 2.5 months ago.
Wisdom
I'm fucked
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