Can we shut out the noise? (front porch chat)

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  • Do you get tired of all the noise, the endless voices, the fast-paced life that so many of tend to live? Join me on my front porch and let's chat! Let me know in the comments what you are doing to pursue slower living.
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  • @margaretterracciano7620
    @margaretterracciano7620 11 месяцев назад +30

    I love these front porch chats, Jeanine! You speak so well of the desires of your heart.

  • @shadegarden7375
    @shadegarden7375 11 месяцев назад +1

    The baby has grown so much and looks totally different! So beautiful!!

  • @ruthharshbarger5524
    @ruthharshbarger5524 11 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and concerns. It's so good to hear a younger woman express such wisdom and maturity and I want to say God Bless You. You are a good example of motherhood and being a wife.

  • @vjohnson2400
    @vjohnson2400 11 месяцев назад +4

    It was lovely seeing the children today, they’ve both grown so much, Xander especially seems to have had a growth spurt.

  • @bettyfuller3678
    @bettyfuller3678 11 месяцев назад +3

    Spend as much time with those precious children. They grow so quickly. As a grandma of 10, I see my grandchildren growing up just as fast as our children did. The noise changes when your children grow up, marry, and start a family of their own. On those days all our children and their families come visit, I absolutely LOVE my noisy house. 😂
    Keep God front and center will help. I, too, must tell myself to take care of me and then get household work done. Of course, tomorrow is a new day. A new day to work on what you didn't accomplish yesterday or two days before, etc. God, Family, Work. I truly try to follow that. You do what God guides YOU to do. Love your videos! God bless. 😊

  • @Dana-mb1hd
    @Dana-mb1hd 11 месяцев назад +10

    Your videos brighten my day ❤

  • @beeallen-hine1421
    @beeallen-hine1421 11 месяцев назад +8

    Thank you so much for this . As an older woman I have found myself just exhausted and tired all the time . The more technology we have available the more stuff we can find to do . I’ve packed my brain with so much clutter that I literally cannot sit still with myself , the constant bombardment of cell phones, tablets , internet has reprogrammed our brains for chaos . It’s awful .

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +4

      Yes, it's a hard addiction to break. But it is possible. Maybe we should all band together somehow and create a support group to try! I could include that in the community platform I am creating

    • @beeallen-hine1421
      @beeallen-hine1421 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@theMennoniteMom that sounds like a great idea .

    • @momoflittleladies
      @momoflittleladies 11 месяцев назад +1

      I’m in!!!

  • @anniegillin
    @anniegillin 11 месяцев назад +9

    I love the discussion on the social media noises. Thank you for acknowledging the controversy of mother/parenting issues. It’s funny that parenting issues seem so much more controversial than politics or something like that. 😂

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад

      😅 I know right?! Sigh...

    • @starflower703
      @starflower703 11 месяцев назад

      I agree. Why can’t we just do what we feel is best for our children and leave it at that; because we after all know them better than anyone.

  • @vickiebelk635
    @vickiebelk635 11 месяцев назад +8

    I’ve got the same problem with being still when you try to focus on God and even praying my mind always wonders. I wouldn’t say I’m super energetic, but closing my mind to things around me is difficult. I’m glad you’re spending quality time with your kids. One day you can look back and see where that was so much more important than having a spotless house. Bless you and your family.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for the encouragement. And I so agree with you, it's shutting my mind down that is the hard part. 🥲

  • @shirleykinney3777
    @shirleykinney3777 11 месяцев назад +1

    Love these chats!! God Bless!

  • @susanschuck8124
    @susanschuck8124 11 месяцев назад

    Great video, beautiful family, and your land is gorgeous! Thanks for sharing

  • @AnthonyBC1989
    @AnthonyBC1989 11 месяцев назад +6

    Jeannine, I was actually focusing on the verse “Be still and know that I am God” throughout the day today, trying to listen to Him. So funny you mention it today as well. God bless! ✝️

  • @BearWithMe-Jillian
    @BearWithMe-Jillian 11 месяцев назад +2

    I got to the point where I was unhealthily attached to internet interactions and had to just stop all social media and even tv watching, cold turkey for an extended time. The silence was strange and awkward at first, but I realized it was what I needed. It was like I'd been too afraid of myself to be alone with myself. As an introvert, my body processes stimuli differently and needs peace and quiet more but I was never giving myself that. The more I did, the better I felt and the better I got along with others. Over the years, I have found it easier to just stay away from social media and to keep the tv off unless I know there is a program I want to watch on. In other words, I don't browse or aimlessly use them.
    I gave up TV watching for Lent one year, 2020 as it happened, and that helped break the automatic response I had of turning it on whenever I was bored (which was an improvement from having it on all the time, but still distracted me too much from more important things). Instead, I played solitaire with real cards and learned various patterns from a physical book. I read more real books, too, and listened to Christian radio programs. I still don't watch much of it, and I usually avoid the news altogether. It seems a lot of news is opinion or not something I need to know about. I have an app to get weather information from, and if I am concerned about traffic I'll look it up on the station's website and watch just what I need.
    It probably helps that I am an introvert with agoraphobia, so am basically scared of people and unfamiliar settings. I'm not anti-social, I'm just scared and although I want to have good relationships I lack the skills (I was never taught them, and was pretty isolated as a child) and opportunities to develop them. I live alone and don't have close friends and only a few family members talk to me. I have recently started going to church and Bible studies, though, and have made a few acquaintances that I talk with but not really beyond church stuff. It's definitely a quieter life but sometimes it's also very lonely. However, it is also a blessing in that it's allowed me to heal from an abusive childhood and to draw closer to God than I had before.

  • @lisazurek4150
    @lisazurek4150 11 месяцев назад

    Perfect time for this topic. We all need to slow down and just be.

  • @BettyHorn
    @BettyHorn 11 месяцев назад

    I have worked since I was 15 years old, and I am 68 now. But about 10 or 15 years ago, I ended up bedridden for about 3 and a half years. I was devastated. I could no longer do. But it became a blessing in that I was finally able to tune in to what I really liked and disliked. I learned how much I hated television and Oreo cookies. (I know, Oreos?) I still have noise in my life, but it's more self-inflicted. My favorite time (and I never thought I'd say this) is the early morning after my husband goes to work but before dawn when I go for a walk. I love just sitting in my living room in the quiet. I will bring my scriptures out and sometimes I just hold them. It doesn't always happen that way, but when it does, it's perfect! You will pull it all together, even if it isn't all the time. Love these front porch chats!

  • @Velvetwings777.
    @Velvetwings777. 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing! So encouraging 😊

  • @belieftransformation
    @belieftransformation 11 месяцев назад +1

    Your talk has given me hope & encouragement! Achieving the balance in life has been a challenge all my 7 decades. I try to put my hand over my heart as talk I to God for a few minutes. Just to remember to do it each day! Beautiful family; thanks for sharing 🤗💗🇨🇦

  • @Our_Western_Adventures
    @Our_Western_Adventures 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks for posting this!!! I am so feeling the overwhelm of all the noise of things calling my name! Necessary things and not knowing how to make things still! I really needed this today!!!❤

  • @kindnessmatters4068
    @kindnessmatters4068 11 месяцев назад +1

    ♡ So true. . . Just because it's good noise doesn't mean it's OK or good for you or a good time to listen and add it to your life... seems like if it's good then we just add it to our schedule and add it to our day and life without thought because after all, it is good isnt it?!... sometimes you can just have too much good!!
    😊I listened all the way through ♡ it was all so good!! God cares so much about all of this and how things affect us individually...
    Haha loved the kids in the back ground... Xander made me laugh out loud 😄 he has the best personality. ♡
    🥲Be still my soul... your God will undertake... He will guide the future as He did the past.. ❤ thanks... I needed those very words for what my husband and I are facing right now.

  • @deborahsavoie2159
    @deborahsavoie2159 11 месяцев назад +1

    I enjoyed your video. I have been reading the bible every day. But I for get to pray. Theres so much on my mind. I got off of Facebook. I don't miss it at all. God bless you , and your family.❤

  • @loghauler4963
    @loghauler4963 11 месяцев назад

    Love everything you said❤ Thank you ❤

  • @landymohler3006
    @landymohler3006 11 месяцев назад

    I love your words of wisdom! Your a great mom!

  • @ruthturkington1736
    @ruthturkington1736 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this mom chat!

  • @helenp4152
    @helenp4152 10 месяцев назад

    I can completely relate. I have the same struggles. Thanks for sharing.

  • @renita.plank.
    @renita.plank. 9 месяцев назад

    I have had many of the same thoughts and questions. Thanks for this!!

  • @cindyhunter166
    @cindyhunter166 11 месяцев назад

    I love this, we all struggle with quieting the voices. I could listen to you anytime.

  • @cherylmintz5230
    @cherylmintz5230 11 месяцев назад +1

    Loved this honest chat. It is such a struggle trying to shut everything out and be still. Some days I just determine to put my phone away and stay off social media. Even so like you say it can be so stressful and overwhelming. Working on praying more and learning to trust God and fully surrender everything to Him. Got my Mama Java coffee in the mail Wednesday afternoon and had my first delicious cup this morning. Thanks for sharing your heart. You are not alone 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💙Cheryl

  • @megancunagin1518
    @megancunagin1518 11 месяцев назад

    Rally enjoyed working around the house and listening to this. I’ve noticed this noise in my life recently and prayed for wisdom in how to handle my time well. Thanks for the encouragement 🤍

  • @tinagoertzen7531
    @tinagoertzen7531 11 месяцев назад

    Such a good video, it makes my day as a busy mama❤may God bless you❤❤

  • @sarahjones6858
    @sarahjones6858 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks so much for reminding us that we need to be still and take time for the most important things. Also I sincerely thank you for reminding us that we need to take a good look at reality and not keep having false hope that we can get our never-ending work caught up first, when it will never happen. We need to take time for other things, too. I love that song at the end. It is a great reminder to especially spend time with God daily as well. Thank you! 😘🤗

  • @lovelyday04
    @lovelyday04 11 месяцев назад

    Love the front porch chat!

  • @julieglaze
    @julieglaze 11 месяцев назад +2

    I wish I could like this video one million times! I agree with everything you said. I’ve been in seasons of life where it feels like I’m going nonstop and I am now in a season of more stillness (in my 40’s) and I think this season is one of the best yet. The constant noise of the world overwhelms me. I sometimes wish we could go back in time to when it was a more simpler life. I know the Bible says we were made for such a time as this, so I hold on to the hope that as long as I guard my heart and trust in Him all will be okay. 💞

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you for sharing! Well you give me something to look forward to in my 40s 😀 I crave a more quiet life. Thanks for sharing

  • @mykidsmomto3
    @mykidsmomto3 11 месяцев назад +1

    There will always be housework. There will always be something on your list that needs done. But, let me reassure you; time flies, and one day you'll wake up and your son will be starting his Senior year of High School like mine next week. I keep asking myself, how did we get here? How did/does my 8yr old, look like a man now?!?!? Don't EVER feel sad, bad, frustrated, guilty, about stealing EVERY moment you can with your children. They will never again be the age that they are right now. Oh how I wish I would have put aside my perfectionism and just enjoyed each one of my kids. Was I good Mom to them, YES! But looking back, I realized I was so worried about things that just didn't matter. Enjoy those babies!!!
    In regards to slowing down, meditating, etc. AMEN, AMEN, AMEN!! I so appreciate you bringing this topic up. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one who values this. So thank you for making me not feel alone anymore.😁 I completely agree! This world is very noisy. Not only because I live in the suburbs, but all of the ways that you spoke about in your video. I'm currently working on the "addiction to my phone" irritation. I know the truth just like you said, but walking it out is totally different. But it's so worth it, to just use my phone in little ways. I think if I lived where y'all live, I probably would be outside laying in a hammock reading almost everyday! I'm so happy for y'all that you have that!
    Thank you Jeanine for being you! Don't ever stop!
    Hello from Texas🙋‍♀🙋‍♀🙋‍♀🙋‍♀
    Inez

  • @bobbiefarrar3036
    @bobbiefarrar3036 11 месяцев назад

    I loved watching the Secret Slob (Stephanie) use and simplified the Flylady system - I printed her printable (upper right hand corner of her page) Weekly Cleaning Schedule; using routines; daily focus and zone cleaning. Has made a HUGE difference for me. Thanks for the front porch visit. God bless you and yours.

  • @pamwedel3462
    @pamwedel3462 11 месяцев назад

    That is awesome that you allowed yourself to go and have the time with your children. You have given them previous memories of fun time with mom . They also blessed your day with their laughter and unconditional love 💖. The chat video was great. Give yourself grace...God and family are more important than constantly trying to get the videos out for people. We know life is busy. God bless you and your family with many blessings 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Karenm1969
    @Karenm1969 11 месяцев назад

    I actually had my mama Java this morning…so funny you would say that !!!

  • @carolbaker8091
    @carolbaker8091 11 месяцев назад

    Fabulous video. Thank you 😊

  • @teresamercurio1568
    @teresamercurio1568 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for video!!! ❤❤❤

  • @Jojosweb
    @Jojosweb 11 месяцев назад

    Love this!

  • @ArtwithVikkiC
    @ArtwithVikkiC 11 месяцев назад

    Great subject . I remember when my son was younger ,it was always so loud . Be still is hard ,but it is wonderful when you do .

  • @susangingerich9111
    @susangingerich9111 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love these front porch chats! Keep doing them!

  • @peggypoole1773
    @peggypoole1773 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for a great video!

  • @lucybabbitt934
    @lucybabbitt934 11 месяцев назад

    I'm glad you are back. God bless you and your family

  • @makingithome8493
    @makingithome8493 11 месяцев назад

    You are such a voice of reason. I love how non-pushy you are, yet you hold to your values. ❤ Wish I could talk with you in real life!

  • @Emmahb8
    @Emmahb8 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this video. I've been struggling with this as well. 2 things that have helped me is trying to not use the internet on my phone (that works for a few days, but not all the time!) then the other idea that also helps is turning technology off around 1.5 hours before I head to bed. It's amazing how much I can get done when I am not staring at a screen.

  • @GoFishOffice
    @GoFishOffice 11 месяцев назад

    I enjoyed this!

  • @casseehorn3120
    @casseehorn3120 11 месяцев назад +1

    I loved your video today. I just think you are so wise to be so young! And I love your Mama Java coffee, and will order more!!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you and so glad you like it! 😀

  • @pattyprovost6516
    @pattyprovost6516 11 месяцев назад +1

    awesome post.... I needed a quiet moment

  • @lifeinthepiedmontVirginia
    @lifeinthepiedmontVirginia 11 месяцев назад

    This is such a good discussion and need more and more of these. Now that kids are gone I work PT I find myself with extra time and often make up work to do lol. It has worked for me it give myself grace if I don’t get things done. It has taken me a while to learn to say no but I have now and it is easier than I thought. I try to disconnect from phone and social media at least one day a week. I fall short at times again give grace to yourself. Take it slow and your key to pray and let God guide you and strengthen you. Be blessed

  • @margaretmast265
    @margaretmast265 11 месяцев назад

    Loved your chat with us today.

  • @kellystewart9501
    @kellystewart9501 11 месяцев назад +2

    I enjoyed your discussion today. I would love more sit downs. I can't wait until you get the new community up and running.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! I will try to do more of them. I struggle with feeling inadequate, so I tend to push them off.

  • @verabauman3017
    @verabauman3017 11 месяцев назад

    I love the fabric of your dress!

  • @shellydehart8217
    @shellydehart8217 11 месяцев назад +2

    Janine, your speaking about so much truth into todays world we’re living in. I have to agree with you a 100%.
    I do my days of giving God the glory in all I do. I’m constantly praising Him. And let me say it feels good. Thank you for sharing this n bringing it to our attention. There’s just to much going on in life. I think we all are guilty of wasting time but we need to stop for a moment or two n as the saying goes “smell the roses” or for me to praise God for all things.
    ♥️😊👍👍🌟🌟
    PS. Is Lexi walking? It look like she took a couple of steps behind you when Xander was climbing the post. ♥️🙏

  • @positiveblessingskarrie3194
    @positiveblessingskarrie3194 11 месяцев назад

    I agree with the noise of the social media platforms and how busy people have became. I been adjusting my time to make time for what’s important.

  • @beccamora5289
    @beccamora5289 11 месяцев назад +1

    Hey Jeannie I love this topic! Great video and so so true.
    We all get caught up in these things and it can be good but at same time to remember what's most important!
    Thank you for this great reminder! Our family strives for more quietness and slow times. Time to spend with God and each other.
    Our children are growing up right in front of us and time is flying by!
    I pray you have a slower and peaceful week and you get that extra time with your family. Don't forget your hubby! He loves you and needs you too! Same goes for me and my family. ❤️ have a blessed weekend Jeannie!!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for the encouragement Becca! Such good advice, it's so easy to forget hubby and think the children need you most when really, he needs to be ahead of the children. It's so easy to switch that because of the teamwork needed to raise children. Thank you for being here and sharing... I hope your are successful with intentionally slowing down. I'm trying to do the same!

  • @sallieredman7349
    @sallieredman7349 11 месяцев назад +2

    Such a lovely video. My children are grown and I so wish I had spent more time playing and laughing rather than tidying. It’s hard when it’s in your nature to like order. My tip to my younger self would be “simplify”. I would own less so I would have less to organize and put away, fewer clothes, fewer toys, fewer after school activities. I would streamline my ownership of material goods, get them out of my life and then have time to play more.

  • @maureenholbery7629
    @maureenholbery7629 11 месяцев назад +1

    I dodged the ball 3 times Jeannine, great vlog, thank you from Melbourne Australia.

  • @gloriamedina6908
    @gloriamedina6908 11 месяцев назад +1

    Actually ordered yesterday 😊. Love the RUclips channel thanks for sharing

  • @suzanneking7433
    @suzanneking7433 11 месяцев назад

    Lol! I actually screamed when the ball came toward the camera, every time!! 😅 Love y'all do much!

  • @rochelle520
    @rochelle520 11 месяцев назад

    Beautiful setting to do a video. We are loving your coffee

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Yay, I'm so glad to hear that! I just got more today 😀

  • @euniceshirk9000
    @euniceshirk9000 11 месяцев назад

    You had Saturn in your coffee cup there! I am preparing to decorate my sixth grade classroom with space and the solar system, so that is what I saw.😂

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад

      😅 Saturn it is! Best wishes with starting school

  • @angelenaklosner4569
    @angelenaklosner4569 11 месяцев назад

    I really needed to hear this! Love your channel. ❤

  • @RAM-eb2te
    @RAM-eb2te 11 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤ Thank you.

  • @frandemianczyk
    @frandemianczyk 11 месяцев назад +1

    ❤Loved this video Jeanine! I just received my first order of Mama Java Coffee & it’s amazing! Thanks for creating this brand!!!!!!! 🥰🙏🏻❤️❌⭕️☕️

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Oh I'm so happy you love it! 💕 thank you for giving it a try and supporting us!

  • @simplymodestmom
    @simplymodestmom 11 месяцев назад

    Great conversation sis! I also find it difficult to balance and block things out so I am glad that I am not the only one lol

    • @simplymodestmom
      @simplymodestmom 11 месяцев назад

      Prayers that God will help us as mom's to get better at these things ❤

  • @grandmashomemade9204
    @grandmashomemade9204 11 месяцев назад +1

    I enjoyed your video i sit down from a busy day of canning and watched your video.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      That feels good to have that done! I'm not doing any this year 🤪

  • @starflower703
    @starflower703 11 месяцев назад

    I turned 58 this past July and all but my youngest are grown. My youngest is 16. My life is just as busy, if not busier than it was when my children were younger. I lost my husband 2 years ago in June and it has changed my entire life from finishing the renovation s to our home, completing landscaping, listing my house and moving. Now I am in my new home, but adjusting to a new partner and a different home after losing mama this past December. I am her eldest and most of her estate has become my responsibility and even though I have help from my sister, she has a full-time job and a 4 year old to manage.
    I have found listening to music will settle my mind and allow me to slow down and reflect. Then I can sit quietly and pray or read my Bible. It’s still a learning process, because every life circumstance is different and our needs and struggles change from one season to the next. I think we just have to keep working on it.

  • @LucyGirlCavapoo
    @LucyGirlCavapoo 11 месяцев назад +1

    I absolutely love Mama Java! I’m on my second pound of messy bun❤❤❤❤ it is the best.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Yay! I'm so glad you love it so much! I just got two bags today 😋

  • @dellawinskie4364
    @dellawinskie4364 11 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤ Great advise < very well said... Hugs to you and the family

    • @dellawinskie4364
      @dellawinskie4364 11 месяцев назад

      Can you post where you buy the coffee maker

  • @theresaray6612
    @theresaray6612 11 месяцев назад

    I loved your little talk you have beautiful children

  • @SandraRodriguez-ff2rz
    @SandraRodriguez-ff2rz 11 месяцев назад

    You are so right. We need to listen to God and not let our own mind allow the overwhelming sounds around us. Psalm is so good. God does tell us to meditate on him,stay focused on Him and realize that we can only come patient and balanced with God. Love this video. So true. Thank you for this today. Blessings for you and your precious family❤❤.

  • @conniefreeman3943
    @conniefreeman3943 11 месяцев назад

    Great things to work on

  • @LisaR2392
    @LisaR2392 11 месяцев назад +1

    i slammed my head against the back of my chair when the ball came at the camera!!🤣🤣😂😂

  • @evondiamond3676
    @evondiamond3676 11 месяцев назад

    Jeannine I would listen to you all day long. Do what you need to do!♥️🙏🏻

  • @Hiswordandme
    @Hiswordandme 11 месяцев назад +3

    Timely conversation.. Has been on my mind a lot lately. I've been spending far too much time on my phone than if like to and lately getting headaches using my phone especially when I open Instagram. It's become exhausting.. We really have to focus on our own individual lives and unplug from social media regularly. This is why I prefer RUclips, I learn a lot more and don't feel so low about myself as I do scrolling Instagram.
    I think also as Christians it is our responsibility to always reflect Phillipians 4:8 and most importantly point everything back to God.
    Too many Christian influencers have made their platforms about themselves, their lifestyle and even pointing fingers at others. Not enough wholesome Christ centred content imo.
    I like your videos because they're family orientated and actually encourage me rather than cause me to compare my life and feel horrible. I appreciate that, also I can see how much effort and thought you put into your content too which I respect a lot ❤️

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you for that. Yes, I agree. That's why youtube is my preference as well. It's much easier to commit and not mindlessly scroll.
      Thanks for the encouragement. It means a lot

  • @carolberubee
    @carolberubee 11 месяцев назад +3

    I think it all comes back to our first love. If we are immersed in Him and His Word, not only are we refreshed but the answers we're looking for become more clear. The one true voice that overrides all others is the voice of God through His written Word. I know it's not always easy or convenient to spend time in the Bible, but I know that when I do spend more time reading His Word, everything around me gets put into perspective. There really is only one we have to please and if we are walking with Him, everything else will be okay. He's looking for Mary's in this Martha world.

  • @aprilmapp3140
    @aprilmapp3140 11 месяцев назад

    Yes to many gadgets there no time for sitting down having a family meal .So do not worry having a new video every week. So take time for you and your family.x

  • @karenokleson975
    @karenokleson975 11 месяцев назад

    Amen sista! Super cute dress.

  • @debmarrett212
    @debmarrett212 11 месяцев назад

    The extremes are so polarizing. Its important to know what you believe but that doesn't mean you need to force others to believe what you believe. That's not walking in love. This has been a great video for me.

  • @Danae.90
    @Danae.90 11 месяцев назад

    I'm just here to say, this is so very relatable! I feel panicky sometimes at the rate life races by while I'm over here thinking, "after this event or this project life will slow down." But it rarely does. I've been telling myself that I can't live always waiting for a slow life around some elusive corner....I need to breathe in and savor the pockets of time we find to spend as a family and do what I can to make more of those special moments with my children!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад

      So agree! Im trying to do the same! Desperately trying to slow things down

  • @olsonbee1
    @olsonbee1 11 месяцев назад

    It works for my brain to give 'to do's a time. Example: some women like to do a load of laundry per day, some have laundry days. I prefer the second; Monday is laundry day even if its a big project, and Tuesday-Sunday IT IS NOT ON THE TO DO LIST!
    So my suggestion is, to the degree that you are able, to give something 'a time' it then clears it from that mental "I should be..." the rest of the time, allowing you to be fully present with your children (which is the best of the things you get to do!

  • @verafranchuk4637
    @verafranchuk4637 11 месяцев назад +1

    It might help to often remind yourself what kind of mom you want your kids to remember you as. The parent who was always too busy for them? The mom who had no patience? The mom who ignored them if she was doing something? Or the mom who always had a moment for them, who always put them before her work, who made the time to play with them and give them a fun childhood?
    Also it helps to remember that your children are the most important job to you after God and your husband. They are more important than that shirt you are folding. They are more important than that carpet you are vacuuming or the meal you are making, the bush you are planting or even the goat you are feeding.
    If you make a routine that you always (if possible) follow, your children will learn that at a specific time of every day, mom needs to get something done for the family and they need to play without her for a little, but she will return to giving them special attention once she finishes.

  • @marthaorlando6372
    @marthaorlando6372 11 месяцев назад

    My friend, Cheryl Smith, connected me to you, and I did so love your chat today, Jeannine! I did register on her website to be in the running for coffee. Blessings!

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Oh fun! Welcome here, I'm honored to have you join. I would love to meet her personally, she seems like such a sweet person

    • @marthaorlando6372
      @marthaorlando6372 11 месяцев назад

      @@theMennoniteMom She is! :)

  • @theresadavis4885
    @theresadavis4885 11 месяцев назад

    You have such wonderful insights. I just love your posts!!! One of these days I’m going to get some of your coffee!!! Got to get a coffee pot first!!!😂😂😂😂 Many blessings, Theresa. P.S.- you are doing a great job with your children. Show yourself some grace… there is no such thing as getting it all done every day. One day at a time. One moment at a time.

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you. You don't have a coffee pot? 😀 you must not drink it then, lol

    • @theresadavis4885
      @theresadavis4885 11 месяцев назад

      @@theMennoniteMom I go to Dunkin or Starbucks to get coffee. I need to learn to make it myself. It would be a lot cheaper!!!!

  • @Akforgetmenot
    @Akforgetmenot 11 месяцев назад

    My sister used to tell me to journal and I would say…”I don’t have time for that and even if I did what would I write.” I wish I would have followed that advice when I was raising my girls. I started journaling pretty faithfully about 4years ago. I came across a journaling tip to add a surrender pocket to my journal for all things that create the “ noise” and we can’t control. I write it down and put it in the pocket ( envelope glued in the back cover of my journal) Surrendering to the outside and inside noise is helpful for me. I also was told that living in the future, the I have this next week, and trying to squeeze and plan everything in the coming weeks and months will cause anxiety, living in the past and overthinking all that has happened and can’t be undone will cause depression. Living in the Now is quite challenging, but if you don’t you miss your own life!😂😅You have such wonderful wisdom! This season of busyness will pass. You will look back and wonder how you did it all. I think taking a moment of quiet time is your surrender pocket!💕

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      I loved your comment and advice so much I screenshot it! Thank you! So much wisdom

  • @helenafrozze
    @helenafrozze 11 месяцев назад

    Yes! I'm at wife/teacher. I feel like I try to cram everything into 3 months of summer, which brings so much stress. Also agree with the phone issues. I struggle with putting it down especially if I'm by myself even if I'm just listening to videos/podcasts(i also loving learning new things). Quiet time is important I'm discovering. Thanks for this uplifting video.
    Can't wait to try the coffee once I get a coffee maker:)

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад

      I believe that you would feel desperate to get as much packed in as possible. I hope you had a relaxing/fulfilling summer before you get back to school! P.s. I've been thinking of coming up with a blend for teachers 😀 that would be fun.

    • @helenafrozze
      @helenafrozze 11 месяцев назад

      @theMennoniteMom it has been good and productive thank you :)
      Oh yes! Us teachers really love our coffee ;) and do you have a recommendation for a cheaper espresso machine?

    • @Angela-ep9pm
      @Angela-ep9pm 11 месяцев назад

      I get where you are coming from as I am a public school teacher in her 21st year. At work I have technology thrown at me left and right. Most of the time it complicates things. I’m also single and own my own home, so I’m responsible for anything and everything that gets done there. I do a fairly good job of not letting technology at home rob me of my peace and time but at work I have no control. I miss the days where we weren’t forced into letting technology run our work lives.
      I also have Lyme disease which leaves me in pain and exhausted. When I do research online to try and find out all I can to help myself, I see contradictory information everywhere. I have a good doctor who is doing all he can. I also know God is in control of my life. I’ve been ill with the Lyme since 2003 and after struggling that long, I could easily give up if I don’t remind myself whose I am, a child of God. And then consciously shut out the world’s noise.

  • @sara5750
    @sara5750 11 месяцев назад

    I absolutely agree about the extremism. It makes me so weary. I have chosen to only occasionally check my social media outside of the RUclips channels that I choose to follow. I only listen to news through a short podcast 3 days a week called The Pour Over that gives you the basic highlights and cautions you to keep biblical perspectives. I listen to the Bible on my way to work along with Tara Leigh Cobble's commentary, but I drive in silence on the way home after being around people all day. I enjoy silence. I've driven 12-14 hours in silence and didn't feel the need to fill it. I like to think, dream, and write stories in my head. I probably need therapy. 😅

  • @slaughterlove1612
    @slaughterlove1612 11 месяцев назад +1

    ❤I love your dresses

  • @joanned1910
    @joanned1910 11 месяцев назад

    I see your sweet Corgi. It would be nice to see him sometime. I love dogs 🐕. love you and your family channel

  • @zzzzipy12
    @zzzzipy12 11 месяцев назад

    Social media is time & mind absorbing, I wish I wasn’t so addicted & I could just shut it down!

  • @catherinecorn7182
    @catherinecorn7182 11 месяцев назад

    For me, it boils down to what we NEED to "do" and what WE CHOOSE to "do".
    I choose my children/family first. I choose to play the games and snuggle and read and chat. Dishes and laudy and such will wait. We aren't promised tomorrow and we only have our babies for a few short years. I choose to make the memories we each have be mwmories of mom choosing her littles over mom choosing the next chore.

  • @bettyloar2238
    @bettyloar2238 11 месяцев назад

    You have a big job, raising kids are a lot of work but we were made to do it, be you

  • @benynellirempel5970
    @benynellirempel5970 11 месяцев назад

    Somebody said to me, that ever extreme is harmful. If you think honey is good for your health and you only eat honey you probably will very soon have other health problem. And that is it with so many things. Another thing that make my mind feel no so stressed out is, that not all things need my attention and I don't have to evaluate everything. I thought I must have a clear opinion on everything, but that's not true. In many cases I don't know the context of it all so I will be relaxed about it and if it's important I study it and make me a picture. But so many things don't change in themselves if I think one or another way of it. Focusing on the things which really matters is the important thing to do. Some days I make a "no phone" day. That helps to becoming more still a a bit disciplined...😉 thank you for sharing your heart with us.
    God bless you!

  • @experimentalistmom
    @experimentalistmom 11 месяцев назад

    A hard one to find balance in is mom life...... Always work! When do you just sit down and relax?? As a busy mom I wish I would have answers in all that as well ..... With children growing up fast in a slower paced life then PA I still find it hard to have a slow paced life... Doing what is most needed to be done in a day is what I try but yet sometimes the need to be done list is to long and it's bedtime before they are done, especially summer time🤨. Also being spirit led and having the peace is the most of all😁

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад

      Yes I can do relate to you! It's frustrating. Good to be busy but sometimes it's overwhelming

  • @shadegarden7375
    @shadegarden7375 11 месяцев назад

    We all ducked when the ball kicked the ball towards us!!

  • @EvaKroeker-xq7mc
    @EvaKroeker-xq7mc 11 месяцев назад

    We do what we call quiet time. Every afternoon or just whenever it works out i sit down with the children and we read or listen to a sermon and they sit with me and read.

  • @debihurd9801
    @debihurd9801 11 месяцев назад

    In over 60 years I’m finally (finally) in the position of convincing myself that it is OK to say NO! Not every proposed “obligation” has to be answered yes, even if I’d like to do it, perhaps even want to do it. Balance is the difficult line. The only person that can decide your balance is you. (Obviously a husband/wife decision if that is your situation and it is an obligation which would involve both of you - you get the general point I’m trying to make)

  • @carolwagner4592
    @carolwagner4592 11 месяцев назад

    A great giveaway!

  • @janefromthecountry1820
    @janefromthecountry1820 11 месяцев назад

    Hi! Loved your content today about all the noise. Your discussion was a blessing. Can you share a video on how you spend your Sundays like if you go to potlucks after church and how you spend a date nite with hubby. Do you try to spend more time with grandparents as they get older? Do you attend same church as your mom? Mennonite Mom Giveaway! love the song Be Still My Soul. God bless you Jeanine. 🩵🤍🩵

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for all the video ideas! Appreciate it!

  • @ozarkview928
    @ozarkview928 11 месяцев назад

    Amen ! To all you said ! It’s hard to live it out I know ! One thing I did to still my mind is to get off all social media . I still have RUclips but find I can control it better then instagram. I don’t know how I would have done , if I would have had all the instagramers yapping in my ear while I was raising our children!? They work on my nerves at my stage in life and I wish I could tell them not to be so shot gun sure they have it figured out before there children are grown and prove them wrong ! 😅. Another thing is I don’t have any bones with moms like you that do business from home , but I never did . Running our home was a full time job for me .

    • @theMennoniteMom
      @theMennoniteMom  11 месяцев назад +1

      Instagramers yapping. 😀 thanks for the laugh. I feel similar