'Materialistic' refers to the material - the matters - of living bodies too. The pollution of our culture has run downstream into the pollution of our language, don't give me shit for cleaning it.
@@KennedyMugambi-uv2zf I know how the language is constructed: the suffix '-ist' denotes the occupation and/or activity related to the preceding term, and the following suffix '-ic' denotes 'having the form, shape, and/or qualities' thereof, and that's just off the top of my head, since I'm a native speaker. You need to not pretend you know my language better than I, Mrs. Mugambi.
I think this is one reason why women who work together in an office can (not always) create a toxic environment. My wife has been in banking for years and the worst stories she tells are when the offices are mostly women. I worked in an office years ago myself where I was one of 3 men in about 20+ women and it was ALWAYS drama. The women who were managers always came to me to make phone calls to clients that they didn't want to make. Oh, and by the way, my wife and I have 3 daughters, and we have raised them to NOT be the drama that everyone else talks about. People do NOT like artificial drama!
@@SmooveBee1 Yeah, ahhahaha for sure Me too LOL She forgot to say "I want a six pack, 6 inches, 6 feet tall, always groomed, always well dressed, always confident, always has a free time after 3 (salaries job), always ready to protect and provide, must be funny/charming/romantic, must last in bed for 5 hours.
@@muaythai-champ-r3rexactly, because not only does your woman have to deal with her own anxiety, now she has to deal with your feelings and emotions. Recipe for disaster
Defending woman no matter what is like defending country no matter what. This may be noble but may also lead to disaster. Respect woman and defend the truth.
It's not a man's job to keep a woman happy. Men have tried this approach and still wound up in divorce court. It's the woman's job to keep HERSELF happy. Men can find many ways of feeling content and happy with the way life is going, but women can often question reality which leads to ambiguity and confusion, which stifles the relationship. Find a woman who can keep herself happy long-term without your input. That's what men want. Easier said than done.
@@dojocho1894 I'm sorry to hear about your experience. I hate hearing about lousy experiences, but the statistics don't lie. When are women going to stop playing this charade and pretending like it's not a reality. Insulting our intelligence.
I don't give a crap about about these double standards. If a woman can complain all day long to me and I'm not allowed to complain even a little bit then that says more about the woman than me. A relationship goes both ways and I hate how society has all these double standards that set both men and women up for failure.
Exactly, and this girl who is a model and youtuber tells stories in her mind because she has free time. If I as a woman have been at work all day, I will be stressed and we might argue with my man, but that's life.
@@krillansavillan many married men don't even get to have sex with their wives that often anymore. Like, I'm saying a woman should be forced to do it every single time she's asked but doesn't feel like it, but also , if we're married, part of the arrangement is that I expect regular intercourse. Doesn't have to be crazy , but at least a few times a month. Finally, women will literally withhold sex as a manipulation tactic. "Oh, you didn't take out to that fancy expensive restaurant when I wanted. No fun for you tonight". Worst off is that if a woman does it she's "empowered", but if a man does the exact same thing, he's "controlling and manipulative".
Keira is the gurl who doesnt like to see toxic behavior in the world but wants to join the model industry which is one of the most toxic. She seems to be a bit of an erratic person.
It took you over 5:30 minutes to first mention the word "love" You're talking like buying a used car and negotiate with the dealer your expectations about a product. Relationship of consumers, not lovers. Long way to go, lady. I pity your generation.
I chose my blood family over my woman, thank goodness i did. She was mental and tried to gaslight me against my own family. I actually believed her for a while, she was that cunning.
In other words, you chose the wrong woman? That sounds like it's your fault rather than anyone else's. You sound like the feminists who hate men because they had 1 bad relationship, not judge them all the same. It's pathetic.
What I realized about making women happy is, talk to them like an adult but treat them as your grown up child you love and will die for. Kids/women really don't want to be responsible for anything and Kids/women want to be cared for.
My dad blamed my mom for financial issues even though she was the only one saving money and making sure money wa snot blown off by my dad. She always made sure money was organized and set aside for all family and home needs, education, bills, water, loan, etc. But when my dad lost his job an d things went haywire, he blamed my mother. Can you imagine what was it like for her? MEN AVOID RESPONSIBILITY ALL THE TIME LIKE CHILDREN. There's a reason it's been said so many times thoughout generations. Men don't like taking the blame when it was their fault. For ex they will rape a fully covered woman from head to toe and blame it on her because she was "playing hard to get and it turned him on" notice the entitlement here?
So a man needs to help their woman, but not the other way around? Doesn't sound right to me tbh. They should equally help each other or else there is no point in the relationship, the dude will just leave.
Exactly, it's a partnership, not a grant. Partnerships are two way streets where we both work towards a common goal with shared values. Grants are me essentially being a glorified emotional support atm . I'm willing to give, but I expect things in return. My resources, material or otherwise are finite, so I'll only share them with a woman I, and I alone, deem worthy for me.
If a woman doesn't want to hear about my problems, what's the point of taking care of her?.. The more I understand the nature of women, the more I want to stay single.
Step up and become a man, you don't need a woman to share your problems with. The woman that cares about you, will make sure that you are comfortable so that you do what you have to do. Think about the Third World countries, in these places women have evolved, needing a man to help her. I keep my wife really happy, and it is really simple, but don't complain to her or show her that there are any problems without a solution. And make plans for the old days, then she knows that all will be well.
@@sashavandeven1043 "Just be a man and stop complaining" offers no incentive or higher call for men. It is a useless statement that belittles and demeans men.
Step up and shut up or call your baby sister and cry on the phone with her; don't dump on your wife, your wife will count on you as a man, not a peter pan, and you will reap the rewards of adulting as an adult man - she is telling you straight-up, you will and can be a big boy, a big person, and a full adult, with zero apologies - imagine it!
Clearly we need a follow up Video✌🏻The Question is, why should i care in the first Place? Melt my Head over make a W3men happy for... what? Why? i can life a more simple life as a Single man?
No, get rid of that belief. Never complain to your woman, do that to your close friends or consultants if you need to. You need to always make her feel like you’ve got it all under control
dont even try to solve her problems either, she just wants you to listen and nod your head. If you try to give solution you're done. Saying from experience.
A true partnership is when both help each other cope with problems, otherwise the partnership has no meaning. If a woman is not obligated to help a man, then the man is not obligated to help her either. Partnership is always a two-way street. It looks strange if a man is obliged to always protect a woman, but she is not obliged to support him morally when he is struggling with problems. I’m wondering, do you think a woman should make a man happy?
Theres a difference between coming to your woman with a problem and getting feedback, and complaining. What Keira was saying, was that complaining or dwelling in a problem is never going to help.
@@Cayoroots You're way too optimistic. You don't see how the whole thing is they want no accountability or to even have to be bothered to ever help out, and if for some reason their Man is going through a dark time in their, they will not be there for them.
@@Cayoroots Do you think a man should remain silent about problems and deal with them himself? Why does he need a woman then? If a man does nothing to cope with problems and only complains, that's different.
@@Jimmy1972 Right!? I thought Vv0men were supposed to be Men's Help-mate, and are supposed to build lives together with the Man. If that cannot be the case, then a Man really has no point involving one in his life. Because it's clear not only they are not our friends, but they are also not an ally or team player.
Literally see almost no comments agreeing with her. If anything, people with a bit wiser/fair observations are dominating the comments. And DISAGREEING with her. You are embarassing
You she seems pretty delusional. She says the woman doesn't care if we have problems, and don't want to listen to your problems. But we should be understanding. Bc we are easy to please. That's a good resume of the video
@@terrycraig6386 1. Not everyone grew up in a "broken home". Me for instance. Condition?? 2. Sure, she can spout off her opinion, and I have a right to call it out as inane, absurd and clueless. Deal with it. 3. She speaks as if all women think as she does, or all women are the same. That's her narrow world view due to immaturity and inexperience. Just like yesterday's ridiculous video where she claims she's being "skinny shamed" and has it far worse than "fat people", and proceeds to shame fat people. She's delusional, narcissistic and extremely naive. As I've said all along.
@faisalcheema3017 Hmm, that's very interesting. I don't even have Facebook, so I never looked. Were there a lot of pics with her and guys, or just a lot of solo pics? So these pics weren't flattering, that's why you think she closed her page? I'm thinking of the Roxy Music tune Remake/Remodel......
Look, I don't need a sugar baby. I need a mother for my children... I'm thinking of someone who's gonna give my sons and daughters good lives and good genetics.
Women don't need to be your birthing machine, your servants, your cooking machine, your cleaning machine, your sex toys too. You should be a good father and have good genetics too
this is an interesting video with even more interesting comments from mostly older folks who have significantly more experience with relationships chiming in. honestly, the comments are more useful than the video
Videos like this makes me glad I am single. Moreover, I think there will be lots of single Gen Y and Gen Z folks as well. The mentality/toxicity is just untenable for most men.
True. I've had girls ask me out, not often but it has happened. I check out their social media profiles and it's filled with toxic feminist garbage or crap about their past escapades. Red flag after red flag. What's worse is that not all are the purple hair variety. Most on first glance, looked normal. That's what scares me. I can't even tell how crazy a woman is by her outward appearance anymore. So effectively they might as well all be crazy 304s that are to be avoided at all costs, because unironically, how will be able to tell the difference?
This is a hard address to many men; alas, she may be addressing the 'peter pan man' of any birth year - maybe? or else the 'peter pan' ears have perked-up a bit.
there is a type of person who copes by identifying with victimhood and sadness. this person can't be made happy because that invalidates their narrative. if this is your partner, just run if you value your sanity
Oh Keira what the hell. You can't say that men's problems should be solved by men. .. If relationships found on dominating, obuse ect then maybe, but if the relationship is based on trust and mutual understanding of mutual emotions. In such a case, everyone can try to help each other with their problems. Perhaps he or she does not see a way out and there is a proverb, one head is good, but two heads are better. If you want reciprocity from a relationship, then both of you have to be happy. It's called love. If you think that a man is always obliged to sacrifice himself for your happiness, then you are doomed to an illusory relationship where you will be cheated on and disrespected and you will suffer and complain about it. So start with yourself and you can meet your prince. Otherwise with such a myndset you will only trade your not bad looks and set conditions, but until you get old and you will be traded for a minor. So there are 2 ways, now you choose the wrong one, like most lost guys and girls. I suggest you turn to God for help.
Exactly. Isn't one main points of marriage that I as a man have access to trustworthy woman I can confide in? I feel like that's something that's lost on modern society and relationships.
Oh, just came here from your video "how to keep a man happy", and this ain't it. Men provide, work hard, struggle, and women want the benefits but don't want to support the "his struggles / problems" because it's "negativity"? And your advice is to bottle it up / repress it and continue to 'be a man'? Nah. If you can't have mutual inter-dependence and inter-reliance, you can't have a balanced and healthy relationship. I'd rather stay single.
100%. They are losing real fast too because Men aren't playing by this noise any longer, and the tables have completely turned now. Women have no idea what negativity they will have to deal with very soon.
@@fenderbender2096 Probably, but I´m pretty sure that most subscribers are bought from russian hackers to make the channel look bigger for youtube algorithm.
Keira spot on. Most people even closed one dont want to hear you complain. Hence why we stray away from negative people. This applies for both men and women.
That's actually a rational take away, and I agree. That being said, if something is really bothering you, you should be able to talk about it with your partner and for them to listen to you. There's is nothing wrong with women helping men and men helping women. We need to get over this.
I actually agree with her. This is why a man needs a mentor or other male friends. Letting her know you’re dealing with something but not specifying, can be good enough. A girl can be curious but as a man you can set the boundary yourself for not introducing negativity, “I don’t want to turn this conversation to be about drama, I’m just so happy to have you to forget about it. How’s your day?”
so if a woman has a problem, should do the same? I think a couple should feel like home... and you can be open about everthing with that persona.. if so.. you will be always saying.. : nah, lets not talk about this important stuff.. what did you eat today? ._.
@@nocopyright-lalimusic3768 It’s not about avoiding serious conversations, but sharing every issue can wear your partner down and lead to a loss of respect. As men, we can set the tone by being vulnerable without treating our partner like a therapist. When you’re selective, serious matters stand out, and the relationship stays balanced.
Until this young lady apologizes for her immature video posting from yesterday, it’s going to be difficult to accept her advice here with any genuine intent. Displaying humility is a high end quality this young lady needs to exhibit more of. At the end of the day, ultimately, we all do.
It's also why she doesn't have any female friends, and no person not even guys take her seriously, nor any modeling agency, etc. People out in the real world just know better!
She is so delusional and narcissistic that she does not possess any humility. It's one thing to be confident, its quite another to be so full of yourself and think you know it all that it becomes comical. Her dispensing advice on relationships is absolutely bizarre given her background.
she's not talking about the ideal but about the natural way of acting, and its a kinda accurate depiction of women. What she says is useful you just have to know what to do with that
Yea how are you supposed to be happy when you know your husband or wife is struggling? Unless you just plan on leaving them anyways, you would definitely care.
@@skinnytimmy1 Is kind of a misconception is not that they don't care is mostly that woman want you to solve your problems by yourself. Woman that actually like you or LOVE YOU, share your feelings, want for you to feel good, to see you happy and thriving. But they don't want to hear every and each small issue that you have specially if all you do is complain and don't ever care on fixing the issues, cause that's what they do around other women.
The things that woman don`t want to hear from a man: 1. Not complaining about the work and his problems and his negative fellings. - NO JUST WORK HARD! I`M NOT WITH YOU TO SUPPORT YOU, I`M ONLY HERE FOR MY BENEFITS! 2. Always defend your woman. BUT SHE IS ALLOWED NOT TO AGREE AND SUPPORT YOU IN COMPANY OF HER FRIENDS. HER FRIENDS ARE ALWAYS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOU. (She can change the guy but she will never break up/damage her long term relation) 3. I can`t hear it anymore.... Of course there are standard certain traits that a man should have, but they should be appreciated by the woman.
Where in the video did Keira mention #1? or #2? the double negatives in #1 is maybe just a prank; then #2 is .. whaaaat? about encouraging arguments or rights ... where did Keira say that in her short video ... wtaf.
Yeah but you women can bombard us with stress from your jobbie jobs, eh? Or how your gf is fighting w her boyfriend, or that bad day at the grocery store last week or just whatever. Gurlfried, just stop.
I remember a tv show where the wife came home to the husband from her job and she was saying all the bad stuff that went on during the day and she exclaimed....... the girls at work are trying to destroy me! The husband calmly says to her...Honey....you work in shoe store.
I like her videos. I just didn't agree with this one at least the part that I mentioned. I found that to be loosely thought out. But naw, she's ight. I like her videos. I don't necessarily agree w all of them but it's just entertainment at the end of the day.
Summary what you are NOT allowed to do if you want to have a girlfriend/wife: 1. Being emotional (what makes us human; so we are supposed to lose our humanity) --> I always see it when a man has a longterm relationship that seems to work. Such men gave up showing their emotions. They lost a crucial part of themselves. You can perceive it when you look in their eyes or when you pay attention to the tone of their voices. 2. Not saying anything about someone's opinion regarding your woman if you don't feel like it (you basically need to criticize good friends or relatives you like, best way to destroy the relationship you have with them) --> I don't want to continue the list. That's enough internet today 😂
This is just telling men what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear, and it's harmful. Relationships are hard, and there are no clear-cut answers like 'women want you to do this' when it comes to making your partner happy. A good place to start is communication, which includes talking about emotions and feelings.
No, she's actually right. She's explaining the majority, and all the men here are agreeing with her, but we are all saying that we don't like it and women need to change. Some people are smarter at seeing patterns over and over in people on a large scale... you clearly are not.
As a woman myself, all I want is a hug, just give me a hug twice a day and no, we do not want sex twice day and actually our sexual desire is very low. I wanna listen to my husband's whole process of work/thinking/views on things. If my husband is stress, I will give him a hug and listen to his stress and give him "s*x". But if I am stressed, all i want silent and give my time alone and just give me a tight hug and i wanna hear "everything will be fine" and that's it. I am different, I bet not all women want this. Yes, we both will be working and earning, but i want to have a hug and assurance and someone will give me a hug when i'm stressed about my life.
The whole point of having a woman is having someone there to hear how your day was. If she don't want to listen what's her reason for being there? So in that aspect, I somewhat disagree with your analogy.
I don't give a shit any more, and for valid reasons. Hell, I don't even need a reason. Many others have told you why they are drifting away. A woman that refuses to keep me happy in turn, is a GRIFTER, uses me, and fights me rather than fighting with me and at my side is not worth my attention. I am under no obligation to anyone and the guilt trips/traps don't work anymore.
1:50 and this is wrong female behavior, because only thing that man want is kiss, hug, be with man together at the same side... the worst thing is to argue, trying giving solution to man, or even be at the other side of conflict, blaming man... man don't need solution, he needs emotional support from his woman...
You do understand that your perspective is your own, and is *not* universal. Marriages are partnerships, and the ones that survive are those where both people rely on each other for support, even in the hardest times. You have told us previously that you were raised by a single mother. How then, can you, at your young age, speak to the subject of real longevity and sustainability in relationships?
"How to keep a woman happy." You can't. They've spent their whole lives thinking their happiness is someone elses responsibility. Even if they have everything they think they need, they will still find misery. Find your own happiness, show gratitude for anyone willing to contribute to that, and recognize a mans efforts are a CHOICE and not an entitlement you deserve.
Not a man’s job to keep a woman happy. It’s important to understand a woman but if she’s looking to you for her fulfillment, you had better tread carefully.
This is why people should not causally date. What you are talking about is not a real relationship. They are two individuals who happen to be together. A woman is supposed to be the support. He should be able to confide in her and when it's foggy for him, she should be equipped to be the beacon of light and provide thoughtful reasoning to keep him from crashing into the shore. Your opinion is from the viewpoint of someone who puts themselves first. Which is a woman who does not want to deal with her mans problems. Honestly this woman should not be with anyone. When it comes to making her happy. You cannot make someone happy if they are not happy with themselves. He shouldn't have to do stuff for her to make her happy and she shouldn't have to do things to make him happy. When two people compliment each other this is all that is needed for happiness to be achieved in a relationship.
You are absolutely right! Those two principles are the most important: not being overly emotional (not acting like a woman) and always defending your woman, especially from family members. My very wise and erudite philosophy professor has given many classes teaching exactly this. If you figured this out for yourself, you have an awesome intuition.
What is going on with Keira? Is she having a really bad week? This is her second stinker video in a row, after a long winning streak of videos that established her as one of the top up and coming internet stars to watch... I mean, to be honest, some parts of this video were fine. I understand the part about reassuring a woman, defending her, all of that makes sense to me. What doesn't make a lick of sense to me is how Keira is constantly talking up women's desire to have children as a barometer for whether a man is marriage material. Newsflash! This is no longer 1956. Having a family is hard nowadays. I should know, i live in a place where rents are like $2500 for a tiny studio, prices of homes for sale are skyrocketing and mortgage interest rates make is practically impossible to buy a home. And what about the cost of child care? Both my parents are still working to pay their mortgage and taxes, they couldn't help me take care of a child even if they wanted to. So i guess what Keira is saying is only rich men who make so much money their prospective wives will not have to work can dream about finding a modern day women... Where does that leave the other lesser men who are desperate for companionship? Men like me? We need a partner as well! Chances are if i ever find a girlfriend she will have to be ok with working full time to keep our heads above water financially speaking and she probably won't be able to plan on having more than one baby at most (and in today's economy even that is pushing it) which means that if Keira is right men like me better get used to being lonely bachelors... Usually when i watch Keira's videos i feel empowered but the last two have made me feel even more depressed about myself. A lot of people view her as role model (despite her young age) but her last two videos have brought a lot of us nothing but trepidation and depression (which for a lot of people leads to more stress eating and additional weight gain).
I told you she was a narcissistic materialistic delusional shallow con artist and fraud from the get go, and you railed on me for calling her out. I saw through this sham from the get go. She's dispensing relationship advice when all she knows is a broken home, a single mother, and she obviously has not had a successful long term relationship. If it wasn't so pathetic and absurd, it would be comical.
The only video I've "watched" was the video called "men are simple", and idk why so many people agree with this? She's just basically saying stuff like how it was back in the day, men only caring about work, sex, and woman only caring about pleasing men and bearing children. If people do that and are happy fine, but it's not the 1840s anymore, woman can be more than a housewife, and man can do more than work and sex. I"m in a relationship with a girl, we love each other very much and we always share and listen about our worries, or anything going on in our lives, and it makes our bond stronger. Then again, besides this 2 videos, I haven't watched anything, but to me just with those, it sounds like a female Andrew Tate, saying woman are lesser and man shouldn't share their feelings, which is dumb. Then people that think like that wonder why no one likes them and are alone.
“Where does that leave the other lesser men who are desperate for companionship? Men like me? We need a partner as well!!” No you don’t, complaining about the game isn’t going to change it. Men have always been expendable, if you don’t level up, your bloodline will stop here when you die, this is the brutal reality of life and it has always been this way. It is your own responsibility.
"Having a family is hard nowadays" Yeah, tell that to the people in the feudal period who hunted for their food, lived in clay huts and worked every single day just to survive, and still managed to raise about 4-8 kids on average. You honestly think it's harder than back then? What a joke, look how weak humanity has become.
2:10 so what you are saying is that a man should support and make happy her partner, but the partner should not support a man because you think that is how things should be? Come on, both partners should help each other equally. You want to have your cake and eat it, that's how it looks to me. Sad to hear your opinion about being a woman in a relationship is being an emotional doormat, and just take from the men infinitely. PLEASE, STOP PRETENDING YOU CAN LECTURE MEN ON HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN JUST BECAUSE YOU BELONG TO THAT GENDER, it seems to me your opinion on this matter is narrow and blinded by many personal biases. I recommend you read some books about how the men brain works. This video disappoints, but I was seeing this pattern coming on your 2 videos before this one, since you said your call was making videos, well maybe it is, sure you can narrate and compose, but I am just hearing you spitting venom from your mouth, and I don't like it.
Keira, thank you for being honest and just keeping it real as always. People shouldn't get upset over this, they should be thankful. I think there's a few people who don't understand what or why you say these things. Keeping a woman happy is important (yes just as important the other way around relax). If you love someone of course you're going to want them to be happy. Love shouldn't be transactional. Great video.
The best gift a man can offer to a woman and keep her happy is his masculine presence; present, grounded, solid, open hearted. this makes a woman feel safe and she can be herself and be more feminine. This is the foundation to keep the attraction/spark lit up!
My suggestion would be to focus on the individual. As long as you keep talking about "men" and "women" in general terms, you keep being simple... as a woman :)
She has such an immature, inexperienced NARROW world view, yet she thinks she's so smart and knows it all that she's dispensing relationship advice when she has never experienced a successful long term relationship. Its so absurd and ridiculous.
You want too much for all the nothing you seem to want to bring to the table. If you want to be defended, but can't listen to me vent, you don't offer anything and expect too much.
A lot of pushback on her first point when she’s right. No good woman wants an overly emotional negative man. My dad told me if there’s a problem I can solve, don’t unload that burden onto anyone else. Solve it and move on with some level of pride and stoicism. It’s a man’s responsibility to be a beacon of strength to his woman and family.
It's a great point. The problem is that 1. Society shames men for not being emotionally open 2. Maybe women could develop some level of compassion. Obviously dwelling on negative events is exhausting, but discussing difficulties can be therapeutic.
You say you're looking for someone Who's never weak but always strong. Who'll protect you and defend you Whether you are right or wrong. Someone to open each and every door, Well that ain't me, Babe.
@@prussiansocietyofamericaJust the first one really. My first wife told me all her problems, so I told her all of mine. Learned not to do that long ago.
My experience. It's a waste of time, money, and energy. She can still disrespect a man, no matter what she gets. Lie to him, cheat on him, use him, and back stab him. Then I hear the speech that not all women are like that. Either way, not for me. My mother used to tell me that we make our own happiness. I believe it 100%.
@@tttyyy949 does it bother you? 😂 you riding your white horse? 5his young lady has zero clue because she has zero experience in life. Let her come back in 20 years after she experiences the world.
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Do not try to make a materialistic woman happy, you will be broke. Nicely said
Don't even date materialistic woman that's your first mistake.
Do not try to make a misogynist man happy, you will be treated as an unpaid servant. Nicely said
'Materialistic' refers to the material - the matters - of living bodies too.
The pollution of our culture has run downstream into the pollution of our language, don't give me shit for cleaning it.
@@nickstebbens You need to check your English for the meaning of 'materialistic'
@@KennedyMugambi-uv2zf I know how the language is constructed: the suffix '-ist' denotes the occupation and/or activity related to the preceding term, and the following suffix '-ic' denotes 'having the form, shape, and/or qualities' thereof, and that's just off the top of my head, since I'm a native speaker. You need to not pretend you know my language better than I, Mrs. Mugambi.
“Don’t try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other” Al Bundy
I think this is one reason why women who work together in an office can (not always) create a toxic environment.
My wife has been in banking for years and the worst stories she tells are when the offices are mostly women.
I worked in an office years ago myself where I was one of 3 men in about 20+ women and it was ALWAYS drama. The women who were managers always came to me to make phone calls to clients that they didn't want to make.
Oh, and by the way, my wife and I have 3 daughters, and we have raised them to NOT be the drama that everyone else talks about. People do NOT like artificial drama!
lol. Thanks for the reminder.
Women don't understand women, ask bisexual women
PEAK SHOW.
Summary:
1. Don't share you problems
2. Defend your women
3. Don't buy things to make her Happy
4. Plan your future with her
She said it, I believe her.
@@SmooveBee1 Yeah, ahhahaha for sure Me too LOL
She forgot to say "I want a six pack, 6 inches, 6 feet tall, always groomed, always well dressed, always confident, always has a free time after 3 (salaries job), always ready to protect and provide, must be funny/charming/romantic, must last in bed for 5 hours.
The not sharing problems thing is wild.
Women: Men should be open and honest about their feelings.
Men do so.
Women: No, not like that.
@@damienhine1861 never talk about feelings with your girl, thats just weird.
@@muaythai-champ-r3rexactly, because not only does your woman have to deal with her own anxiety, now she has to deal with your feelings and emotions. Recipe for disaster
Defending woman no matter what is like defending country no matter what. This may be noble but may also lead to disaster. Respect woman and defend the truth.
NO. Respect is earned.
@@alvarogabrielaguirregarin3933 thats why you choose a woman you already respect in the first place
@@shadowdhaka Because respect is earned and that takes time and gets lost instantly, just like trust.
well said
Same apply to men
She is brutaly honest in the fιrst part. Men didn't talk to the wives about their issues for that reason. Τhe video is spot on btw.
It's not a man's job to keep a woman happy. Men have tried this approach and still wound up in divorce court. It's the woman's job to keep HERSELF happy. Men can find many ways of feeling content and happy with the way life is going, but women can often question reality which leads to ambiguity and confusion, which stifles the relationship. Find a woman who can keep herself happy long-term without your input. That's what men want. Easier said than done.
yes and dont believe its got to do with money...Im a cardiologist divorced 2x they made out like bandits.
@@dojocho1894 I'm sorry to hear about your experience. I hate hearing about lousy experiences, but the statistics don't lie. When are women going to stop playing this charade and pretending like it's not a reality. Insulting our intelligence.
Neckbeard incel.
@@dojocho1894🫂✨💝
Absolutely, this is the type of entitled princess mentality.
I don't give a crap about about these double standards. If a woman can complain all day long to me and I'm not allowed to complain even a little bit then that says more about the woman than me.
A relationship goes both ways and I hate how society has all these double standards that set both men and women up for failure.
Exactly, and this girl who is a model and youtuber tells stories in her mind because she has free time. If I as a woman have been at work all day, I will be stressed and we might argue with my man, but that's life.
Make your woman happy by NOT expecting any help from her. Got it!!
Some truth to that, be strong!
Do everything and expect nothing in return, got it.
Exactly. Sex ain't all that
Sex isnt even guaranteed lol@krillansavillan
@@krillansavillan many married men don't even get to have sex with their wives that often anymore. Like, I'm saying a woman should be forced to do it every single time she's asked but doesn't feel like it, but also , if we're married, part of the arrangement is that I expect regular intercourse. Doesn't have to be crazy , but at least a few times a month. Finally, women will literally withhold sex as a manipulation tactic. "Oh, you didn't take out to that fancy expensive restaurant when I wanted. No fun for you tonight".
Worst off is that if a woman does it she's "empowered", but if a man does the exact same thing, he's "controlling and manipulative".
😂😂😂😂 expect only the 🕳️ and some cuddles
I'd say don't expect anything in return - for a gift for example.
How to keep Keira happy
Spend all your money on her, basically
🙏🏻
Keira is the gurl who doesnt like to see toxic behavior in the world but wants to join the model industry which is one of the most toxic.
She seems to be a bit of an erratic person.
True 😢@@mick7922
It took you over 5:30 minutes to first mention the word "love"
You're talking like buying a used car and negotiate with the dealer your expectations about a product.
Relationship of consumers, not lovers. Long way to go, lady. I pity your generation.
I chose my blood family over my woman, thank goodness i did. She was mental and tried to gaslight me against my own family. I actually believed her for a while, she was that cunning.
Your wife is the only member of your family that is not really your family.
In other words, you chose the wrong woman? That sounds like it's your fault rather than anyone else's. You sound like the feminists who hate men because they had 1 bad relationship, not judge them all the same. It's pathetic.
What I realized about making women happy is, talk to them like an adult but treat them as your grown up child you love and will die for. Kids/women really don't want to be responsible for anything and Kids/women want to be cared for.
Absolutely, this is the type of entitled princess mentality.
In the end, if you analyze them objectively, women are just perpetual teenagers.
My dad blamed my mom for financial issues even though she was the only one saving money and making sure money wa snot blown off by my dad. She always made sure money was organized and set aside for all family and home needs, education, bills, water, loan, etc. But when my dad lost his job an d things went haywire, he blamed my mother. Can you imagine what was it like for her?
MEN AVOID RESPONSIBILITY ALL THE TIME LIKE CHILDREN. There's a reason it's been said so many times thoughout generations. Men don't like taking the blame when it was their fault. For ex they will rape a fully covered woman from head to toe and blame it on her because she was "playing hard to get and it turned him on" notice the entitlement here?
@@milkylea7846 bruh just because your dad was a loser doesn't mean it's all men. Not everyone has a loser father like you.
Wow this really escalated fast
I think when you are in a relationship, it isn't my problem or your problem, It's our problem.
So a man needs to help their woman, but not the other way around? Doesn't sound right to me tbh. They should equally help each other or else there is no point in the relationship, the dude will just leave.
yes it should but woman think they can get what they want and need threw looking pretty and haveing sex fuck that shit i say not wroth it.
Real women are happy when their husbands express feelings. Keira is really lost. I m sorry
i totally agree its 2 sided should be fare
Exactly, it's a partnership, not a grant. Partnerships are two way streets where we both work towards a common goal with shared values. Grants are me essentially being a glorified emotional support atm . I'm willing to give, but I expect things in return. My resources, material or otherwise are finite, so I'll only share them with a woman I, and I alone, deem worthy for me.
she's a misandrist. she obviously hates men.
If a woman doesn't want to hear about my problems, what's the point of taking care of her?.. The more I understand the nature of women, the more I want to stay single.
She is a child bro, real women don't think like that, sadly they are so few nowadays
Step up and become a man, you don't need a woman to share your problems with. The woman that cares about you, will make sure that you are comfortable so that you do what you have to do. Think about the Third World countries, in these places women have evolved, needing a man to help her.
I keep my wife really happy, and it is really simple, but don't complain to her or show her that there are any problems without a solution. And make plans for the old days, then she knows that all will be well.
@@sashavandeven1043 "Just be a man and stop complaining" offers no incentive or higher call for men. It is a useless statement that belittles and demeans men.
Step up and shut up or call your baby sister and cry on the phone with her; don't dump on your wife, your wife will count on you as a man, not a peter pan, and you will reap the rewards of adulting as an adult man - she is telling you straight-up, you will and can be a big boy, a big person, and a full adult, with zero apologies - imagine it!
i hope you know that's her perspective. Not every woman think like that. Woman are man are the same, the souls function the same way.
Sorry Keira, you having a losing streak today...
Why should we help women, when she can't even listen to our problems?
Clearly we need a follow up Video✌🏻The Question is, why should i care in the first Place? Melt my Head over make a W3men happy for... what? Why? i can life a more simple life as a Single man?
i agree a women should!! people in love in marrage etc share each others problems its normal
No, get rid of that belief. Never complain to your woman, do that to your close friends or consultants if you need to. You need to always make her feel like you’ve got it all under control
@@RoderickEgbertJan_vAmbtsbergen Is your woman or your pet?
@@alvarogabrielaguirregarin3933 pets love their owners 😉
Keeping a woman happy ? …..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LOL, you are too much!
She's never happy because its never enough 🙄
What this channel doesn't understand could fill an encyclopedia.
@@waki9870😁
Me, me, me and me.
A man´s life is not about how to keep a woman happy
Indeed!
Couldn't be said better
to right its not
Simps Are sad and Deserve better but they only See Women not themselves
Youre the one who clicked the video💀 why did you take it as a personal attack
Men must solve all women's problems but don't even try to ask a woman any help
dont even try to solve her problems either, she just wants you to listen and nod your head. If you try to give solution you're done. Saying from experience.
The reason you don’t tell her your problems is it undermines the simple joy of sex to use your female partner as a sounding board for problems.
And when a girl like that breaks your life, you'll remember how your family told you to stay away from her as much as possible
Yeah As Much And As Desperatly As I Want A Girl Woman Partner Spouse Some Can Be Toxic
A true partnership is when both help each other cope with problems, otherwise the partnership has no meaning. If a woman is not obligated to help a man, then the man is not obligated to help her either. Partnership is always a two-way street. It looks strange if a man is obliged to always protect a woman, but she is not obliged to support him morally when he is struggling with problems. I’m wondering, do you think a woman should make a man happy?
Perfectly Stated!!!
Theres a difference between coming to your woman with a problem and getting feedback, and complaining. What Keira was saying, was that complaining or dwelling in a problem is never going to help.
@@Cayoroots You're way too optimistic. You don't see how the whole thing is they want no accountability or to even have to be bothered to ever help out, and if for some reason their Man is going through a dark time in their, they will not be there for them.
@@Cayoroots Do you think a man should remain silent about problems and deal with them himself? Why does he need a woman then? If a man does nothing to cope with problems and only complains, that's different.
@@Jimmy1972 Right!? I thought Vv0men were supposed to be Men's Help-mate, and are supposed to build lives together with the Man. If that cannot be the case, then a Man really has no point involving one in his life. Because it's clear not only they are not our friends, but they are also not an ally or team player.
In a man's eyes, there are two types of women. Wife and entertainment. So it really depends on what kind.
I like this example
Whats the SIMP counter on this video now. Christ almighty. Embarassing.
Literally see almost no comments agreeing with her. If anything, people with a bit wiser/fair observations are dominating the comments. And DISAGREEING with her. You are embarassing
The whole thing about Relationships is give and take and if one side is doing all the taking then it’s never going to work 😂
She has a whole video on what men want and how women can make a man happy. You should go watch, it's pretty on point.
You she seems pretty delusional. She says the woman doesn't care if we have problems, and don't want to listen to your problems.
But we should be understanding. Bc we are easy to please. That's a good resume of the video
@@Cayoroots check green above comment 😂
Funny, women do all the stressing, complaining, and negativity from my experience. But that's okay right?
And the one time you show any type of emotion she loses all respect
Pay a woman's bills, pay not a woman's bills and you WILL understand a woman...
That's one way of doing it.
My wife had to pay bills for a short time....better dont pay bills....🙏♾️ Amen
She talks about love like buying a used car and negotiate her expectations. She has a long road ahead.
@@Kartoffelsuppe_m_Wursteinlage So sieht's aus...
😂
More inane "advice" on relationships from a girl who has never been in a long term relationship and grew up in a broken home.
This is getting comical.
@kbrewski: bruh,who hasn't grown up in a broken condition? She still has a right to an opinion.And it's ONLY " her " opinion.
@@terrycraig6386
1. Not everyone grew up in a "broken home". Me for instance. Condition??
2. Sure, she can spout off her opinion, and I have a right to call it out as inane, absurd and clueless. Deal with it.
3. She speaks as if all women think as she does, or all women are the same. That's her narrow world view due to immaturity and inexperience.
Just like yesterday's ridiculous video where she claims she's being "skinny shamed" and has it far worse than "fat people", and proceeds to shame fat people. She's delusional, narcissistic and extremely naive. As I've said all along.
She is just an email away from a long term relationship
Let's hear your advice then, or do you only coward-troll. Where's your video? I dont agree with her view on this, but I respect her guts and honesty.
@faisalcheema3017
Hmm, that's very interesting. I don't even have Facebook, so I never looked. Were there a lot of pics with her and guys, or just a lot of solo pics? So these pics weren't flattering, that's why you think she closed her page? I'm thinking of the Roxy Music tune Remake/Remodel......
Look, I don't need a sugar baby. I need a mother for my children... I'm thinking of someone who's gonna give my sons and daughters good lives and good genetics.
Women don't need to be your birthing machine, your servants, your cooking machine, your cleaning machine, your sex toys too. You should be a good father and have good genetics too
ok Brock Lesnar wtf
@@UNDENIABLEBarttySky what, you don't like someone spelling out, telling the truth?
@@jeremiahlarkins618
and im telling the truth too. you are brock lesnar lol
@@UNDENIABLEBarttySky what kind of a put down is that? Have you seen the chicks Brock Lesnar gets?
this is an interesting video with even more interesting comments from mostly older folks who have significantly more experience with relationships chiming in. honestly, the comments are more useful than the video
Videos like this makes me glad I am single. Moreover, I think there will be lots of single Gen Y and Gen Z folks as well. The mentality/toxicity is just untenable for most men.
True. I've had girls ask me out, not often but it has happened. I check out their social media profiles and it's filled with toxic feminist garbage or crap about their past escapades. Red flag after red flag. What's worse is that not all are the purple hair variety. Most on first glance, looked normal. That's what scares me. I can't even tell how crazy a woman is by her outward appearance anymore. So effectively they might as well all be crazy 304s that are to be avoided at all costs, because unironically, how will be able to tell the difference?
This is a hard address to many men; alas, she may be addressing the 'peter pan man' of any birth year - maybe? or else the 'peter pan' ears have perked-up a bit.
there is a type of person who copes by identifying with victimhood and sadness. this person can't be made happy because that invalidates their narrative. if this is your partner, just run if you value your sanity
Seems like the person who loves you the most is yourself.
She's an egotist.
Oh Keira what the hell. You can't say that men's problems should be solved by men. .. If relationships found on dominating, obuse ect then maybe, but if the relationship is based on trust and mutual understanding of mutual emotions. In such a case, everyone can try to help each other with their problems. Perhaps he or she does not see a way out and there is a proverb, one head is good, but two heads are better. If you want reciprocity from a relationship, then both of you have to be happy. It's called love. If you think that a man is always obliged to sacrifice himself for your happiness, then you are doomed to an illusory relationship where you will be cheated on and disrespected and you will suffer and complain about it. So start with yourself and you can meet your prince. Otherwise with such a myndset you will only trade your not bad looks and set conditions, but until you get old and you will be traded for a minor. So there are 2 ways, now you choose the wrong one, like most lost guys and girls. I suggest you turn to God for help.
Exactly. Isn't one main points of marriage that I as a man have access to trustworthy woman I can confide in? I feel like that's something that's lost on modern society and relationships.
If you can find any functional relationship, just appreciate it. Expectations will doom you.
there should be Expectations and that should be they treat you with respect without that you don't have a healthy relationship
How to keep a woman, money. Until it runs out and then the I love you goes away. The End. Lol
Oh, just came here from your video "how to keep a man happy", and this ain't it. Men provide, work hard, struggle, and women want the benefits but don't want to support the "his struggles / problems" because it's "negativity"? And your advice is to bottle it up / repress it and continue to 'be a man'? Nah. If you can't have mutual inter-dependence and inter-reliance, you can't have a balanced and healthy relationship. I'd rather stay single.
100%. They are losing real fast too because Men aren't playing by this noise any longer, and the tables have completely turned now. Women have no idea what negativity they will have to deal with very soon.
Simp crowd counter: 24.7K and growing.
Wrong. Most commentaries are very negative to her.
@@alvarogabrielaguirregarin3933 wait till she starts monetizing that attention. Simps gonna simp (and pay)
@@fenderbender2096 Probably, but I´m pretty sure that most subscribers are bought from russian hackers to make the channel look bigger for youtube algorithm.
Speaking of simps. What about the people being obsessed with Leah Halton getting ridiculous likes and view for being pretty 😂
Keira you are absolutely right! Don't listen to haters
Keira spot on. Most people even closed one dont want to hear you complain. Hence why we stray away from negative people. This applies for both men and women.
That's actually a rational take away, and I agree. That being said, if something is really bothering you, you should be able to talk about it with your partner and for them to listen to you. There's is nothing wrong with women helping men and men helping women. We need to get over this.
I actually agree with her. This is why a man needs a mentor or other male friends. Letting her know you’re dealing with something but not specifying, can be good enough. A girl can be curious but as a man you can set the boundary yourself for not introducing negativity, “I don’t want to turn this conversation to be about drama, I’m just so happy to have you to forget about it. How’s your day?”
so if a woman has a problem, should do the same? I think a couple should feel like home... and you can be open about everthing with that persona.. if so.. you will be always saying.. : nah, lets not talk about this important stuff.. what did you eat today? ._.
@@nocopyright-lalimusic3768 It’s not about avoiding serious conversations, but sharing every issue can wear your partner down and lead to a loss of respect. As men, we can set the tone by being vulnerable without treating our partner like a therapist. When you’re selective, serious matters stand out, and the relationship stays balanced.
Until this young lady apologizes for her immature video posting from yesterday, it’s going to be difficult to accept her advice here with any genuine intent. Displaying humility is a high end quality this young lady needs to exhibit more of. At the end of the day, ultimately, we all do.
It's also why she doesn't have any female friends, and no person not even guys take her seriously, nor any modeling agency, etc. People out in the real world just know better!
She is so delusional and narcissistic that she does not possess any humility. It's one thing to be confident, its quite another to be so full of yourself and think you know it all that it becomes comical. Her dispensing advice on relationships is absolutely bizarre given her background.
That’s just like your opinion man
@@PHoss-iv9xh Nope. It's a fact.
Which video was immature?
You are such a special lady never doubt it. I love how genuine you are - your authenticity is so life-giving thank you so much
Being loyal is not a factor in relationships it is the core of it. Disloyalty is immediate break up!
2:19 Feeling pain together is easier then feeling pain alone.
You don't have the healthiest view on a good relationship between a man and a woman.
she's not talking about the ideal but about the natural way of acting, and its a kinda accurate depiction of women. What she says is useful you just have to know what to do with that
Yea how are you supposed to be happy when you know your husband or wife is struggling? Unless you just plan on leaving them anyways, you would definitely care.
@@skinnytimmy1 Is kind of a misconception is not that they don't care is mostly that woman want you to solve your problems by yourself.
Woman that actually like you or LOVE YOU, share your feelings, want for you to feel good, to see you happy and thriving.
But they don't want to hear every and each small issue that you have specially if all you do is complain and don't ever care on fixing the issues, cause that's what they do around other women.
The things that woman don`t want to hear from a man:
1. Not complaining about the work and his problems and his negative fellings. - NO JUST WORK HARD! I`M NOT WITH YOU TO SUPPORT YOU, I`M ONLY HERE FOR MY BENEFITS!
2. Always defend your woman. BUT SHE IS ALLOWED NOT TO AGREE AND SUPPORT YOU IN COMPANY OF HER FRIENDS. HER FRIENDS ARE ALWAYS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOU.
(She can change the guy but she will never break up/damage her long term relation)
3. I can`t hear it anymore.... Of course there are standard certain traits that a man should have, but they should be appreciated by the woman.
Absolutely, this is the type of entitled princess mentality.
Where in the video did Keira mention #1? or #2? the double negatives in #1 is maybe just a prank; then #2 is .. whaaaat? about encouraging arguments or rights ... where did Keira say that in her short video ... wtaf.
Too much requests for an average woman who bring mostly negative in mens life. Its acceptable if she does no less.
Hey, but you don't have to make her laugh. No unconditional love, not even compassion. Just subscribe the contract here ..
@@Kartoffelsuppe_m_Wursteinlage you have to respect yourself first things first
Look at her other videos "I hate myself" ...
@@Kartoffelsuppe_m_Wursteinlage doesnt relate
@@Kartoffelsuppe_m_Wursteinlage the essence of your message looks like: please, live to the detriment of yourself. Wtf man?
Pennywise is teasing me with this red balloon behind the TV.
It's really creepy, huh...😟
😂😂😂
Yeah but you women can bombard us with stress from your jobbie jobs, eh? Or how your gf is fighting w her boyfriend, or that bad day at the grocery store last week or just whatever. Gurlfried, just stop.
Exaaaaactly. They are very selfish generally.
I remember a tv show where the wife came home to the husband from her job and she was saying all the bad stuff that went on during the day and she exclaimed....... the girls at work are trying to destroy me! The husband calmly says to her...Honey....you work in shoe store.
She talks like a child.
I like her videos. I just didn't agree with this one at least the part that I mentioned. I found that to be loosely thought out. But naw, she's ight. I like her videos. I don't necessarily agree w all of them but it's just entertainment at the end of the day.
Summary what you are NOT allowed to do if you want to have a girlfriend/wife:
1. Being emotional (what makes us human; so we are supposed to lose our humanity) --> I always see it when a man has a longterm relationship that seems to work. Such men gave up showing their emotions. They lost a crucial part of themselves. You can perceive it when you look in their eyes or when you pay attention to the tone of their voices.
2. Not saying anything about someone's opinion regarding your woman if you don't feel like it (you basically need to criticize good friends or relatives you like, best way to destroy the relationship you have with them)
--> I don't want to continue the list. That's enough internet today 😂
If a man said "always defend your man," he would be labeled as an abuser lmaooo
Thanks for being genuine, it's about time a hot chic is actually beautiful on on the inside.
She is speaking facts, but as some comments say (and she indirectly said it herself); keeping a woman happy doesn't mean ur relationship will last
But understand she is generalizing a lot in her vids, most concepts are generally true for most people, but everyone are still individuals.
Wow this is honestly very relatable piece of advice! Thank you Keira! It resonates a lot
Hypergamy makes it impossible to make a woman happy... because the goal posts keep moving.
Hypergamie is similar to thinking like a chief executive officer. Am i right?
This is just telling men what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear, and it's harmful. Relationships are hard, and there are no clear-cut answers like 'women want you to do this' when it comes to making your partner happy. A good place to start is communication, which includes talking about emotions and feelings.
Why do you talk like you would know how every woman thinks? Every woman is an individual person.
That's one of the biggest problems with all her videos. She thinks she knows it all and makes silly generalizations.
Most women ungrateful and think too high of themselves. Can't keep them happy
No, she's actually right. She's explaining the majority, and all the men here are agreeing with her, but we are all saying that we don't like it and women need to change. Some people are smarter at seeing patterns over and over in people on a large scale... you clearly are not.
@@EvilHandyman How do you know that this is the majority of women? Have you already met the majority of women?
I pray god blessses me with a woman like this! She is sweet and gentle..yet still strong and smart.i love her 🪂
Easy. It's impossible. If there is no problem, she will create problems.
They ride the 'chaos/drama train' for life. It doesn't 'make any stops'...EVER!
As a woman myself, all I want is a hug, just give me a hug twice a day and no, we do not want sex twice day and actually our sexual desire is very low. I wanna listen to my husband's whole process of work/thinking/views on things. If my husband is stress, I will give him a hug and listen to his stress and give him "s*x". But if I am stressed, all i want silent and give my time alone and just give me a tight hug and i wanna hear "everything will be fine" and that's it. I am different, I bet not all women want this. Yes, we both will be working and earning, but i want to have a hug and assurance and someone will give me a hug when i'm stressed about my life.
That’s normal for a women who loves their partner
The whole point of having a woman is having someone there to hear how your day was. If she don't want to listen what's her reason for being there? So in that aspect, I somewhat disagree with your analogy.
I don't give a shit any more, and for valid reasons. Hell, I don't even need a reason. Many others have told you why they are drifting away. A woman that refuses to keep me happy in turn, is a GRIFTER, uses me, and fights me rather than fighting with me and at my side is not worth my attention. I am under no obligation to anyone and the guilt trips/traps don't work anymore.
1:50 and this is wrong female behavior, because only thing that man want is kiss, hug, be with man together at the same side... the worst thing is to argue, trying giving solution to man, or even be at the other side of conflict, blaming man... man don't need solution, he needs emotional support from his woman...
"You can't make a woman happy, It's impossible! I've never met a happy woman in my life! Woman always complaining about something!"
- Chris Rock -
فرق كبير بين المراة المصرية و الاجنبية المراة المصرية بتتحمل المسؤلية مع جوزها لاكن الاجنبية اهم حاجة مصلحتها
I need to find myself a nice Egyptian women
هههههههه المرأة المصرية الله يعين شباب مصر عليها اقرف من كده مفيش تتزوجك عشان تاخد نفقة وقايمة وبعدين تخلعك يا مسكين وغير كده تحسها اخشن من الرجل نفسه
Woman's complexity > Quantum mechanic's Complexity
You do understand that your perspective is your own, and is *not* universal. Marriages are partnerships, and the ones that survive are those where both people rely on each other for support, even in the hardest times. You have told us previously that you were raised by a single mother. How then, can you, at your young age, speak to the subject of real longevity and sustainability in relationships?
ISFP tend to do that
@@Coneman3 Is she ISFP?
Think so, but I’m not certain
@@Coneman3 I am INTJ… no wonder I completely disagree with her on this.
Same, I’m INFJ. ISFP have that direct, matter of fact, highly subjective ‘this is the answer’ vibe. Fi-Ni analysis with Se delivery.
"How to keep a woman happy." You can't. They've spent their whole lives thinking their happiness is someone elses responsibility. Even if they have everything they think they need, they will still find misery.
Find your own happiness, show gratitude for anyone willing to contribute to that, and recognize a mans efforts are a CHOICE and not an entitlement you deserve.
the only woman that can help solve problems most likely is your mom or aunt
If you're lucky
A man is not responsible for a woman's happiness, it's her responsibility.
Not a man’s job to keep a woman happy. It’s important to understand a woman but if she’s looking to you for her fulfillment, you had better tread carefully.
I respect you for keeping it real, real shit💯
This is why people should not causally date. What you are talking about is not a real relationship. They are two individuals who happen to be together. A woman is supposed to be the support. He should be able to confide in her and when it's foggy for him, she should be equipped to be the beacon of light and provide thoughtful reasoning to keep him from crashing into the shore. Your opinion is from the viewpoint of someone who puts themselves first. Which is a woman who does not want to deal with her mans problems. Honestly this woman should not be with anyone. When it comes to making her happy. You cannot make someone happy if they are not happy with themselves. He shouldn't have to do stuff for her to make her happy and she shouldn't have to do things to make him happy. When two people compliment each other this is all that is needed for happiness to be achieved in a relationship.
In my country, we call this 'doing the impossible' ...
Stay away from this girl. 😂
You are absolutely right! Those two principles are the most important: not being overly emotional (not acting like a woman) and always defending your woman, especially from family members.
My very wise and erudite philosophy professor has given many classes teaching exactly this. If you figured this out for yourself, you have an awesome intuition.
What is going on with Keira? Is she having a really bad week? This is her second stinker video in a row, after a long winning streak of videos that established her as one of the top up and coming internet stars to watch...
I mean, to be honest, some parts of this video were fine. I understand the part about reassuring a woman, defending her, all of that makes sense to me.
What doesn't make a lick of sense to me is how Keira is constantly talking up women's desire to have children as a barometer for whether a man is marriage material. Newsflash! This is no longer 1956. Having a family is hard nowadays. I should know, i live in a place where rents are like $2500 for a tiny studio, prices of homes for sale are skyrocketing and mortgage interest rates make is practically impossible to buy a home.
And what about the cost of child care? Both my parents are still working to pay their mortgage and taxes, they couldn't help me take care of a child even if they wanted to. So i guess what Keira is saying is only rich men who make so much money their prospective wives will not have to work can dream about finding a modern day women...
Where does that leave the other lesser men who are desperate for companionship? Men like me? We need a partner as well! Chances are if i ever find a girlfriend she will have to be ok with working full time to keep our heads above water financially speaking and she probably won't be able to plan on having more than one baby at most (and in today's economy even that is pushing it) which means that if Keira is right men like me better get used to being lonely bachelors...
Usually when i watch Keira's videos i feel empowered but the last two have made me feel even more depressed about myself. A lot of people view her as role model (despite her young age) but her last two videos have brought a lot of us nothing but trepidation and depression (which for a lot of people leads to more stress eating and additional weight gain).
I told you she was a narcissistic materialistic delusional shallow con artist and fraud from the get go, and you railed on me for calling her out. I saw through this sham from the get go. She's dispensing relationship advice when all she knows is a broken home, a single mother, and she obviously has not had a successful long term relationship. If it wasn't so pathetic and absurd, it would be comical.
The only video I've "watched" was the video called "men are simple", and idk why so many people agree with this? She's just basically saying stuff like how it was back in the day, men only caring about work, sex, and woman only caring about pleasing men and bearing children. If people do that and are happy fine, but it's not the 1840s anymore, woman can be more than a housewife, and man can do more than work and sex. I"m in a relationship with a girl, we love each other very much and we always share and listen about our worries, or anything going on in our lives, and it makes our bond stronger. Then again, besides this 2 videos, I haven't watched anything, but to me just with those, it sounds like a female Andrew Tate, saying woman are lesser and man shouldn't share their feelings, which is dumb. Then people that think like that wonder why no one likes them and are alone.
“Where does that leave the other lesser men who are desperate for companionship? Men like me? We need a partner as well!!”
No you don’t, complaining about the game isn’t going to change it. Men have always been expendable, if you don’t level up, your bloodline will stop here when you die, this is the brutal reality of life and it has always been this way. It is your own responsibility.
"Having a family is hard nowadays" Yeah, tell that to the people in the feudal period who hunted for their food, lived in clay huts and worked every single day just to survive, and still managed to raise about 4-8 kids on average. You honestly think it's harder than back then? What a joke, look how weak humanity has become.
@@atroix851 what from my post lead to this?
I was expecting a “PSYCHE, you cant keep a woman happyl”😂❤
2:10 so what you are saying is that a man should support and make happy her partner, but the partner should not support a man because you think that is how things should be? Come on, both partners should help each other equally. You want to have your cake and eat it, that's how it looks to me. Sad to hear your opinion about being a woman in a relationship is being an emotional doormat, and just take from the men infinitely. PLEASE, STOP PRETENDING YOU CAN LECTURE MEN ON HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN JUST BECAUSE YOU BELONG TO THAT GENDER, it seems to me your opinion on this matter is narrow and blinded by many personal biases. I recommend you read some books about how the men brain works.
This video disappoints, but I was seeing this pattern coming on your 2 videos before this one, since you said your call was making videos, well maybe it is, sure you can narrate and compose, but I am just hearing you spitting venom from your mouth, and I don't like it.
Keeping a woman happy in a relationship is one thing. Making sure she's the one you want to keep happy in the first place is another.
its not a mans job to make a women happy when are people going to get this
Keira, thank you for being honest and just keeping it real as always. People shouldn't get upset over this, they should be thankful.
I think there's a few people who don't understand what or why you say these things. Keeping a woman happy is important (yes just as important the other way around relax). If you love someone of course you're going to want them to be happy. Love shouldn't be transactional. Great video.
Mission impossible 😃
The best gift a man can offer to a woman and keep her happy is his masculine presence; present, grounded, solid, open hearted. this makes a woman feel safe and she can be herself and be more feminine. This is the foundation to keep the attraction/spark lit up!
What this channel doesn't understand could fill an encyclopedia.
What this GIRL doesn't understand......
"Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings."
- Proverbs 31:3
My suggestion would be to focus on the individual. As long as you keep talking about "men" and "women" in general terms, you keep being simple... as a woman :)
She has such an immature, inexperienced NARROW world view, yet she thinks she's so smart and knows it all that she's dispensing relationship advice when she has never experienced a successful long term relationship. Its so absurd and ridiculous.
I love her negativity towards the world
You want too much for all the nothing you seem to want to bring to the table. If you want to be defended, but can't listen to me vent, you don't offer anything and expect too much.
You reassure her, but she doesn't want to reassure you.
It doesn't work for me.
A lot of pushback on her first point when she’s right. No good woman wants an overly emotional negative man. My dad told me if there’s a problem I can solve, don’t unload that burden onto anyone else. Solve it and move on with some level of pride and stoicism. It’s a man’s responsibility to be a beacon of strength to his woman and family.
It's a great point. The problem is that 1. Society shames men for not being emotionally open 2. Maybe women could develop some level of compassion.
Obviously dwelling on negative events is exhausting, but discussing difficulties can be therapeutic.
You say you're looking for someone
Who's never weak but always strong.
Who'll protect you and defend you
Whether you are right or wrong.
Someone to open each and every door,
Well that ain't me, Babe.
Women are not complicated, they're emotional. A women can be happy only if she submits to her husband.
THIS. and for that (submission), she needs an above avg male, preferably a top male. way above her level.
Where were you when I needed this advice 30 years ago?!? Oh yeah. Not born yet. 😂
LOL, what actual advice did you need, really!?
@@prussiansocietyofamericaJust the first one really. My first wife told me all her problems, so I told her all of mine. Learned not to do that long ago.
Doesn't sound like a women I'd want
I have a goal driven mindset, but she's not happy. Is that a RED FLAG?
Simple answer: You can't...
My experience. It's a waste of time, money, and energy. She can still disrespect a man, no matter what she gets. Lie to him, cheat on him, use him, and back stab him. Then I hear the speech that not all women are like that. Either way, not for me. My mother used to tell me that we make our own happiness. I believe it 100%.
You talk as though all Women are the same …..they ain’t 😂
How many comments you will spit under one video?
@@tttyyy949 does it bother you? 😂 you riding your white horse? 5his young lady has zero clue because she has zero experience in life. Let her come back in 20 years after she experiences the world.
Some good points. But I feel that she took 20 minutes to say what could probably have been said in 2 minutes!
interesting that men somehow are obligated to understand women, but not the other way around.
It's 2024, for as much as man is required to keep a woman happy, a woman is required to keep a man happy as well. Feminists fought for that right?