If he wants peace , he should support a woman, if he comes to woman's house , and she pays everything, and he is asking for 💸💰, what peace he will receive???? What you give is what you get. Simple.
all "simple things" on paper like that, turns out in adult life those are most complex to achieve... in consistent basis. Fixing roof or car is easier as do it well once, it wont bug you in 5 years.
@@effexon “Women are born on top of the mountain, and men are born at the bottom” this is where we start in terms of intrinsic societal value. I can tell you flat out that no matter how “nice” a woman appears, it is an incredible struggle to try to find a woman who actually gives a rats ass even about the man they claimed to love. It’s like speaking of foreign language, when you actually try to convey your own feelings wants or desires to a woman. It just doesn’t compute because it’s so far below their needs, wants and desires and your job is to make them happy by fulfilling all of those needs. I am afraid it's too late now to fix this mess easily that started decades ago. It will take decades and still. MGTOW keeps growing (men totally checked out of relationships, not hating women, just not interested anymore in the rigged game). Passport Bros keeps rising (men looking for good feminine, loyal wives in more traditional countries, where men are still appreciated). Marriage is done in the West, even relationships... You see, these are all the consequences if you keep bashing men. If you keep saying, "We do not need men, all men are creeps," "we are strong and independent." I know many single men. Not once did I hear a guy say I am strong and independent. We call it, he's single, bachelor, that's it. Men want to feel needed. if they are not wanted by our society, and a lot of women??? What else did you expect that would happen. It's just logical. We all lose. A lot of men have been warning modern women for years, but they never truly listened. Family, values, morals... No to Hook-up culture... Now some women are stepping up, but are they genuine??? Are is it to monetise, because it's getting mainstream. It's like watching the décline of the Roman Empire. In marriage - - 1) She stays: You pay 2) She goes: You pay 3) She cheats: You pay 4) You go: You pay When men have a midlife crisis, we buy that sweet car we always wanted since we were 18 and we are roundly shamed for it. When women have their midlife crisis, they completely blow up the family and destroy everything. They are met with cheers of "You go girl!".
They don’t care what men want, that’s the problem. They want what they want and if you’re not gonna give it to them then they are going to leave. They will tell you this to your face too, it’s sad.
she's done this video for simps and incels to watch it like her, irl she doesn't give a f about incels, actually her most watched video, clowned on men hardly
Well in the U.S. there is less difference. That is why we have problems. When everyone stays in their own lane and tries to be the best in that lane. Things are better for all. But the U.S. is a lost cause.
This was more than that, she said pretty interesting points actually and just because in this era everything os so mixed up and messed up, to state some clarification would be important
This is a list of all the things I want as a man - Job I can go to where I get along and feel useful and get paid decent - Male friends who I can talk to about guy stuff and world events and politics and other stuff - Girl who genuinely likes me and is always there to talk and who is emotionally and physically caring towards me - Quiet alone space where I can do things I like, like read, listen to music, play games, learn things, etc. - A chair somewhere with a nice view that I can be outside in when it's warm - that's it basically. Everything else is okay if I have those things.
What we want is: Feel proud of ourselves, jobs etc..nobody wants to feel like a loser, have peace and quiet and if there is a woman who can give us that, even better! Have friend time because having fun with friends is way different from having fun with girlfriend or wife
@@KonglomeratYT No, you are talking about the inauthentic corporate citizens that make up society, passing themselves off as MEN. In 50 years, I've never met, seen or even heard of what I would consider a Man. I have high standards though.
Also, men find intimacy in sex when women find intimacy outside of sex. For men sex isn’t only about the physical deed, it’s about intimacy with their spouses and that is based on research.
I have seen if men don't care about sex, then they get especially prostrate issues later on in their lives, it is essential for a healthy guy to have sex regularly.
Girl, I cannot relate to you. The first thing I think about when I wake up is never men....it's how can I acheive my goals. It's am i doing enough? Am I productive enough? Am I being too lazy? And I don't think it's because I'm a lesbian either, I don't think most straight women spend their time since the moment they wake up concerned about men. That seems like a self esteem issue, an issue of seeking too much validation. Obviously most of us want romance, but you have to have a personality outside of men (or other women). You can't spend your life trying to please others constantly. Everyone must learn to feel complete alone first
Yeah these videos are really weird, treating men and women like different species, I mean of course there are general differences, but the differences among individuals are also present, also it's ignoring the fact that these roles are made by rules and impositions through the centuries, and this is a fact... a woman that is not interested in men is not less of a woman, a man that doesn't think about sex everyday is not less of a man, and it's scary the amount of people thinking that she said some awesome realistic stuff
If you're a lesbian why are you watching this video clearly directed towards straight women. I also agree that men isn't all we think about but agree or not, it's definitely a significant thing 'most' women think about and its perfectly fine lol
I disagree with some of the points made here. As a man, sex is most definitely not more important than my children, and i don't believe that it is, atleast for the majority of fathers. Secondly, of course men want to have sex more often than women, and that's totally fine, as it's simply our biological nature. Now, does that mean, that women should completely disregard their own preferences and needs, just to "provide" sex every day? I don't think so, I think a man should also adjust to the lower sex drive of his partner, and a middle ground is the way to go.
Can you provide the source that men want sex more than women? Because all the studies I see say that our sexual desire is way more alike than different.
@@BoglimWrangler666 So if you have a boyfriend and an intruder comes to the door, if your boyfriend refuses to protect you, you’d stay with him? Of course not. You automatically feel entitled to his physical protection. But god forbid if he feels entitled to anything of yours. It’s not an “imaginary dream thing to whine over”, it’s something women look for in men whether the big bad thing happens or not. You look to your men for their ability to protect you, and the ones you don’t think can or will are invisible to you. Stop pretending to be ignorant.
I don’t stress about men. I'm not worried about the things you mentioned. I’m not jealous or insecure over men. I don’t think about them being better or worse than me. I’m not looking for a husband. I’m single, independent women living my own life, not all women priority are men, so your theory breaks here. You’re projecting your state of mind onto others
@@user-yg7kb1mt9z I expected this kind of comment. Why would I be lonely? I have friends that went through everything with me and are literally family to me. Everyday I have meet up with one of my friend, most of them have boyfriends so no they won’t leave me when they have someone. I live alone because I chose it and I need it to relax because I get easily overstimulated as ADHD person. I have family too and I talk with my mom and grandma everyday. I have many hobbies taking my free time away. I don’t think you can call this situation „lonely soon”. Being lonely is a state of mind. I send and wish you love, happiness and prosperity.
@@user-yg7kb1mt9z and I’m single by choice for 5 years right now, not because I don’t have options but because it’s my decision. I wasn’t lonely even for a day through those years. Not everyone needs the same
@@MetricsOfMeaning that doesn't make her a failure to her ancestors, you know people in the past sometimes chose not to have children or relationships too right? not everyone is going to be the same, no matter how much you try to force it down their throat
As a man, you’re completely right, men are simple, at least most of them. But, your point about “what a girl has to do every morning” is a problem to me. You’re more honest than a lot of girls about how sex is in a sense a system of control. You give the man sex, he keeps protecting and providing. I don’t want to be treated as a sort of guard dog who gets rewarded with blowies. I’ve never truly accepted my “role”. For the record I would and have been protective of women, I’m talking more about intimate relationships rather than like a basic chivalry. My point though is I don’t agree heterosexual relationships should be an exchange where the male is entitled to sex, and the female entitled to material things. That’s prostitution. It sounds cynical, and it is, but that’s just what I would compare it to
Thank you for commenting on this. I also didn't agree with that part of her speech. I agree with the differences in hormones but those are just facts that more people should know. She's pretty young, I think she will rethink some of her views down the road.
i think she was trying to attack it from a more scientific route. how if he is taken care of in the morning, he can focus on the important things, not as an exchange, but with genuine loving motivation, because his head and hormones feel cleared and balanced, not because it’s prostitution.
right, and it also makes it sound like women don't have that need, only men do. when in reality most women also want sex, and it's something that benefits both ppl in the relationship
True. It's also a ridiculous point when you consider woman and men have a different libido individually, so the woman could be the one with the highest sex drive, and viceversa.
Yeah I feel she a bit wrong while she's onto something. If she changed the word work with survival I would totally agree with her. Work or what you do for work is not important unless you factor in survival. We'd be sitting on the porch drinking beer and smoking weed all day if we didn't need money to survive. As for children we would teach them how to hunt and send them out to get food. Then we'd build some shit, inspect what we just built and be like yep, I'm the best. Have some more beer and call it a day. Pretty simple lmao
A womans hormones doesn't regenerate every 28 days. Your body is producing both estrogen and testosterone every day. The menstruation cycle is something else.
@@locinolacolino1302 : You need to look at this the other way around. A mans stress levels will definitely affect his testosterone values. So will poor sleep, low quality food and obesity as well. As a general rule, your T-levels are at their highest early in the morning, and at their lowest in the later stages of the day. The point is that the woman in this video doesn't know what she is talking about.
Most men 30 years ago before bedtime: ☑Got the job done. ☑Woman still likes me. ☑Family still safe. Most men in 30 years before bedtime: ☑Got the job done. ☑Still safe from women. ☑Planned next week's hike.
@@portalsevil Your negative comment without backing it up by providing specifics tells me you are immature, inexperienced, and/or have psychological issues.
Here are some reminders for my fellow men: you are emotionally complex, you can invest on your emotional intelligence, you don't have to kill yourself working, you can be soft if you want to, you can have platonic female friends, you are not a slave to your sexual impulses. In short, your biological characteristics guide you, but they don't define you.
Thank you! I am a softer man in many ways - and I don't identify with all these characteristics they say that men "should" have. And yes I have decided to not care too much about what others think. I want to be the happy cheerful person I am without becoming cold and "tough" in a way I find bad.
Of course. But noone respects it. And part of developing emotional intelligence is realizing our emotions are trivial in the grand scheme. A man is expected to bring logic and ration to any situation, especially in a relationship. Women think we are simple although many of us really are not, but to break their paradigm would also break the relationship. Being soft is also different from being compassionate, and compassion is different from emotion. Be compassionate, let your emotions guide you, and be soft wherever possible, but remember that a man is meant to be thick skinned, unwaivering, and hardened towards things that pose a threat to our families. We are meant to be a stable and secure foundation that our family can lean on. If you can't provide that, you will always struggle in a relationship and will not be treated like a dignified man in any social situation. It's the hard truth all men learn. Don't let them see you falling off your horse.
@@minimal3734 Are you a Gnostic? Ofc there are many many things, esp external, that define us. What about the fact that if someone shoots you with a gun in the head you die. That's a very clear definition of mortal that you aren't going to avoid.
@@minimal3734 Biological reality and human nature isn't a prison, it's just there. It's a natural process. We will always be defined by factors outside of our control. Did you know that the foods and drinks you ingest and the quality of the air you breathe in affects your decision-making without you realizing it? Do you realize how many things affect our subconscious without us even knowing about it?
She is a total throwback to the old school (like REALLY old school, 2006) era of RUclips. And she drills common sense into people’s heads with every video. Some of what she’s saying should be obvious but the sad truth is that in 2024 everything has gone backwards. Good for her and glad I subscribed.
Not quite, go back to school of life. Get One! I dont bother stressing over markcist fems who hate men, as creepy! To hell with them!, I work and grow without women drag me down.
???? Do you know her? You cant say stuff like that about her parents, only seeing one simple video. Do not say things like that ever to people you dont even know.
We really are. A lot of men are just as petty and insecure as women. Many men want to complain about coworkers and other assailants as much as women do, its just we feel like pussies when we do.
Personally it makes me feel flat out uncomfortable and weird doing it, so whether it is discouraged or not doesn't matter to me. It is what I think of it
@@bluegiant13 Same here. But there is certainly cultural pressure and influence that makes men seek to hold face with a calm equilibrium. Especially so here in England, which is traditionally stoic and reserved.
@@cerdic6586 Yeah, but these norms have come from somewhere and it likely is that they are rooted in our natural proclivities anyway. It is not that I am unable to express my emotions, I can do that well enough with good friends and they can do it as well, but the way we do it is not in a cathartic or intense type of way like women. We go about it calmly, for example, we like to be honest and when we don't like a behavior of someone we just say how it makes use feel .e.g.: Hey, when you do this it makes me feel x. Simple and straightforward.
I agree, she seems extremely traditional and that’s not a problem but I think she forgets most of us live in a shit economy. I had to stop when she said women should stop worrying about work and that most of us think about men when we wake up…no (it just sounded so stupid), but does she realize how privileged that sounds? In today’s age, family households NEED a two-income stream to barely support themselves. Unless your man is making over 150k+ as a salary, most people living in the US would find it hard to get by. Both my parents are in a 30+ marriage and my mom was 100% the breadwinner at one point working 2 jobs in the hospital and doctors office and she def was stressing abt work and not worrying about men. Then it became vice versa after she retired where my dad was making more money…working as a team is a key to marriage/dating. There isn’t strict roles you need to go by.
Perhaps she is an “old soul” who partially remembers her prior lives. 😉 In any case, I enjoy listening to her talks. In my experience, she is not completely wrong on a lot of this.
I hope this is just RUclips and online, but it seems like people in the United States are just so confused about gender issues. Man and woman are different, but equal in their human dignity. God created man and woman because we need each other. If it wasn't meant to be that way, then everyone would be the same gender. I think toxic feminism has confused the newest generation of boys and girls. More men are lonely and single than ever. Women are angrier and more scared of men than ever. That's what it appears like online, not sure if it's the reality.
none of this applied to my life or my father so no. its naive. its pretending life is this simple when most men are NOT this simple but shes got a biiig head...
@@emmaversace4329 70% of divorces in the US are initiated by women. If women in the US actually stuck to their vows, only 15% of marriages would fail! You need to realize that life isn't a fairy tale, and you will argue about something sometimes to 100% of the people on earth... If you decide to marry someone, you make it work! Most modern women have forgotten what it's like to take responsibility and accountability for their actions and act like they're 5 years old well into their 30s and 40s when something doesn't make them feel like a princess!
@@mihirengg19 true, I can only speak for myself, but my decade long relationship with my SO is about more than the "men only want sex" agenda. Were something to happen to her that rendered her unable to provide it for the foreseeable future, I would still spend the rest of my life with her. She's more than just a sexual object to me. She's my best friend. The same can be said for about every other "men only want a woman to..." point she made. And I resent being called simple. Although a majority of men are, don't generalise. It wouldn't be fair to say that women only care about money, although largely true, there are some women who earnestly don't, and would stick with you through thick and thin. Find yourself one of those, one that really wants to spend time with you, regardless of what you are busy with, she'll join in. Not an empty headed, clingy nag - that line is easy to cross. No, a real woman you can take hunting, fishing, motorcycling or whatever else you are into, and she'll gladly go, and not resent you for it, but love that you have included her. And then you'll find an "Alpha" male saying crap like: "You don't want a woman, you want a homie" No dude, I want a partner, one that doesn't get jealous when I wanna go trap shooting, but is down to actually learn the sport, and end up enjoying it, not one that sits around and whines about the heat, noise, and grime... And what frigging time we're going home. Truth is, beta bro, you REALLY want a woman that can control you with her cooch. And you'll get angry at her and display toxic masculinity in those situations by yelling at that b**ch to shut up, or take a hike, because she's embarrassing you in front of your homies. Or you'll just leave her at home, and get upset when she starts nagging you to come back home, because she doesn't understand what you are busy with, or why you are gone for that long, and you'll get into an argument each and every time time you walk through the door... My wife doesn't need to speculate on what I'm doing, she gets to come along and see what the hype is all about, and nobody minds a girl being present, because she doesn't nag. We'll do the chores together when we get home. Those who play together, stay together.
a problem I have with this is this subtle but evil belief which goes like "as long as a man is working hard, he can be abusive and get away with it"... because hey he is providing the roof so what can a woman say? if she says something, he throws her out, and that's why she justifies his abusive behavior because she wouldn't know where else to go (fear)
As a guy, was a little skeptical at the video start, but it's amazing how accurate this is. If such a speech were mandatory in every school (for example during each civic education class) and governments actually cared to apply this, imagine how much less mental pain would both genders experience and all the confusion that could be avoided at such a scale. Thanks Keira
As a straight man who is around a lot of people on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, I’m just realizing how many people are straight like me. She’s saying some stuff that I disagree with, everyone is complicated, but there are some good overall lessons.
this is as big as her channel is going to get. the algorithm is saturated with young women posing as self help gurus. cranking out videos every single day is also not good for a channel's growth.
lady, as a father of two girls, let me tell you that a man stresses and cares more about the well being of his little girls than he does about his son.
@@RKLokeshChannel That was not his point. I don't have a son but I can speak for the way my father cared about his kids. He couldn't care less if I at 18yo got back home at 4 in the morning, while he demanded my two sisters to be home at 10pm. Young girls simply need more protection. A good father just knows these things.
Learned that the hard way, my mother and father always cared more about my sister than me or my brother. Sad to see that fathers dont even love their sons.
As a woman I stress over my job. That's not something that's masculine. So, respectfully I'm still a woman. You may stress about these things but you don't think for me.
You don't speak for men or for what's masculine. Stress is a universal emotion. Foolish women like you who believe it isn't masculine to show emotion or that we are incapable of feeling stressed is what's wrong with the world. Ironic for you to say she doesn't speak for you yet you found the audacity to speak on masculinity.
I'm 54 now, divorced for 6 years after a 17 year marriage. I'm also a single father to a beautiful intelligent 10 year old girl. I can tell you that for me at least, the first and most important thing I think about is my daughter and her happiness and future. S*x is simply down the list now, especially knowing that it comes with a tremendous amount of headaches these days with the modern Western women. I'm trying to raise a future woman who is balanced and understands herself, understands men, and those around her, so that she doesn't make herself and those around her miserable.
You're 54 dude. You're well past the age of a majority of dudes she is talking about. I'm older than you and have four kids. Regardless, I still wake up and that's the first thing I think about, after I've considered what I need to do today.
@@helmeteye To slightly expand on what you're saying, I'd point out that this young lady is only speaking about men and women in her own age group. She probably cannot imagine what goes on in the mind of older men like us.
It's like she's saying women don't have any inspirations and goals other than to please men 😭😭 Feels like i time-traveled and seeing a video from prehistoric times or something
@@zuzkhin4472 i know right! This is just idiocy fueled by her own desire not to achieve anything other than male attention and praise. She may think like that but the rest of us dont.
Yeah as a guy this is ridiculous lmao not every man is stressing about sex all the time so I'm sure woman aren't stressing about men all the time either. 😂 Like libido fluctuates some people might be like that (clearly her) but definitely not everyone most days I'm not thinking about sex or woman at all there's more to living than that
Think about how ridiculous you're making life by succumbing to the feminist brainwashing. All you have to do is look pretty, have sex, and not solicit other male attention. That's it! And all your earthly needs are handled by a man. You're arguing to spend time and money in school. School sucks that's why you're always looking forward to summer break. Working sucks. That's why you're always looking forward to the weekend. You're arguing to make your lives way more difficult. Why? Why do you want to compete with us and sit in traffic? Serious how can you not see how sweet a deal it is to be a traditional woman. Look pretty, have sex, only have eyes for one man and all your needs are met. I swear let God send me that deal I'm signing a blank sheet of paper and he can fill in the rest. That's all I have to do? I'm gone, you have to catch me to do anything else.
Hi, female here: Idk if its because i'ma tomboy or smt but i really don't think like this. Reading the comments w/ bros saying "she's right, women only think about men" is kinda sad I'd hate for all my homies to think that i'm obsessed w/ them or that we aren't equals, that i am there to "serve" them. (And ya, biologically we are different, but i don't want my chromosomes to decide what role i should play in my own life) I know most of y'all don't care, but i hope to find a guy i can just raise an honest family with, live a passionate life, and be well-off enough to help others. I don't think listening to this kinda stuff is gana get me here, nor has it ever been the case for me. I hope some of you understand that 🙏
She sounds like a young woman who lacks perspective. This is the problem with social media, anyone with an internet connections can blast their opinions as facts.
I can't believe people agree with her. Maybe it is true for uneducated men and women, but most people are not that simple-minded. Maybe she lacks life experience to evaluate situations better. No man with any money would risk his wealth for sex. Just believing that sex is the main reason for a relationship says a lot about her intellect and standard of living.
It's so refreshing to see a man in the comments disagreeing as opposed to the thousands of likes on the comments talking about how she hit it spot on 😔 I'm just reminding myself that these videos tend to reach a certain audience and that this hopefully isn't how most of the world thinks
@@maddieweaver2942 it does just appeal to the “traditional” ideal in men, and from the context of my life, as a guy, I don’t believe men are simple, but so many succumb to cultural expectations of being simple. Have a good day, the world is better than the internet makes it out to be
@@babymonkey4601 Thanks :) You're right, I think many men, and apparently women, do succumb to it. But clearly it's not as simple as making generalizations! I hope you have a good day too
Your take is a portrayal of patriarchal femininity that oversimplifies and degrades human behavior to an extent that is unhealthy for both men and women. If I viewed life in such a shallow and limiting way, I would be so incredibly unfulfilled. I don't want to sound hateful; I just want to articulate how sad watching this made me. Thinking about those who agree with this and how shallow and un-enriching their lives must be. I hope you are able to wake up one day and stress about something other than the body carrying your consciousness and whether it is desirable enough to men who will never love you, trust you, or respect you. I hope these men that you speak of and that have spawned in your comment sections may one day wake up to a thought other than sex or work. How sad that labor and sexual pleasure are the only priorities in a world enriched with art, culture, nature, and connection. I value the establishment and fostering of a family, I value sexual pleasure, I value discussions regarding relationships between women and men that help us better connect and respect each other. However, I do not value or wish to spread an idea of life, the human condition, and masculinity and femininity that does not fulfill or enrich but rather dulls and degrades an idea that could be and is so much deeper and full of love and genuine spiritual connection.
why would women stressing about work would be masculine? a woman can have a job which she is passionate about and wants to do it in the best way possible.
You, sir, are funny 😂😂 but yea, that's why I ran to the comments. You guys give a fuller picture. I believe nothing is "all inclusive" because, realistically, there are exceptions to everything. That's just my opinion, though.
woah, ok? woah. we're all clones of each other, that's why some ignoramus youtuber who has only seen males in non-personal setting, and maybe 5-10 males in personal settings, can make videos like this. She even made a weird connection between morning wood and work. but whatever, this behaviour is all over the place. everyone knows how things work from their experiences in life so there's nothing we can say to them.
Big misconception - a man stresses about work because he A) wants to have sex, or B) has kids to take care of. Between A and B, B will always win for good men. Edit: C) Wants status, D) Actually has a goal in life Obviously D would be a good sign. So, simply put, if you want simple men, treat them as if they are simple.
THANK YOU. I genuinely don't say this to judge anyone but it really disturbs me to hear "a man needs sex, not you." Like... I find it really sad that this mentality is considered normal and I feel sorry for the girl who made this video because she thinks this is just how it is because men have always treated her like this😔
@@maddieweaver2942 I think that men can change the order of their priorities throughout the life, but this three ones are really true... another point it's that she told about what we need not what we want or what we like, men really don't need women to survive just like women don't need men to survive... but what we need and what we love and want are different things... (as humans we obviously need each other, but as individual in society we can live without others)
@@viniciussilvasantos6307 men and women also don't need sex to survive, either though. I'd say it's a lot closer to the truth that men and women need relationships and bonding way more than they need sex; sex should ideally be a healthy aspect of a relationship if you're not asexual, but the relationship should always precede that and it sounds like she's saying the opposite. I guess a lot of men do prioritize sex over women but I think that will lead to a lonely life later with a lack of close relationships
As a man, i want to thank you. I' struggling with depression and anxiety, and i really needed something like this video to feel that men are valued. Nowadays i feel like most women thinks that all men are pigs, and, hopefully, i am not, and other are not, just some of us. Both sexes are needed and both men and women are better in other areas, so we need to cooperate with each other. Thanks you again 🙏💚
She values men? She's literally calling men dogs and thinks men are simple. It's tragic to see how low the bar is for men feeling valued in todays world.
What 😭 This is some privileged rich white woman stuff. YES, I do worry about work in the morning…because in this economy I need to be. There is no man unless he’s hella rich (but majority of us aren’t in that 1%) providing for today’s expected income for a family house by himself. In my state, you can’t even buy a house meant for a small family under 500k in an okay neighborhood. Even a starter house for two is insane.
@@Callabunga24 That is all right, you don't have to figure it out. It is the wisdom of the ages expressed in two lines. Why a man and a woman which have everything going for them can not be content with what they have. John C. Bogle the Founder of Vanguard and one of the leaders in Index Mutual Funds wrote a book called "Enough" right after the market crash of 2008 which touches on the very same topic. The book is in English.
Thank you Keira. Yes, I have been saying for a LONG time. My father and mother were perfect examples. My father just loved my mom. All he wanted was my mom. He didn't need other women. She was his Queen and she didn't have to say she was his Queen. She knew it. This example showed me as man how to be a man. My father was amazing example. My mother adored, admired, and respected my father. They were a team. The perfect compatibility. She was fiery, strong will, stubborn, loving, kind, and generous. My father was the calm, gentle bear, he was strong, compassionate, kind, generous and loving. He literally was my Yoda for manly wisdom. They were perfect together when my mom would get angry or frustrated a simple touch or hug from my father could melt the way no other person could.
you're lucky. it sounds like you have gratitude for that. It's more like what she says out there though... people of divorced parents. You know what the divorce rate is if even one of the people come from divorced parents, 2 fold the avg, if both, 4 fold. I'm living it unfortunately... that's my karma to live though. You have something else to give, which is great!
@@connoryork6631 : You really don't get it, do you? What you see in a population of distinct individuals is _dynamic equality:_ Precisely because we are different, it's not objectively possible to rank us from best to worst. Within any one metric, ranking is indeed possible. One of us might be the strongest, the fastest, the best mathematician, the best quarterback, the most brilliant chess player, the most gifted physicist, the most imaginative sculptor, the most evocative poet, or the most talented musician. But one person isn't likely to be all those things. So, who's better: the musician or the quarterback? Maybe God can objectively rank us, but we simply aren't qualified to do that. Therefore, we are in essence dynamically equal: better at some things, worse at others -- and who's to say what defines the "best" of us. Indeed, it's _because_ we're different that we must consider ourselves equal. You might be able to say one apple is better than another -- you _might_ -- but will we all agree that apple A is superior to orange B? This isn't even delving into the various values that change with time or conditions, or the consequences of each characteristic being a limited infinity unto itself, such that within the gamut containing it is an array of values as limitless and on as smooth a gradient as the set of all numbers from zero to one, all colors from red to orange, or all directions from north to northeast. So, no. "Equal" is not "the same." We are all individuals, unique and irreplaceable. And we are all dynamic equals. Would you have it any other way?
I dont stress about s3x. Catering to my hormones involves prioritizing physical fitness. I don't worry about validations. I can validate myself by learning to appreciate my own personal improvements, without outside interventions or opinions. But you did kind of hit this on the head. Civilization is largely narcissistic in a way where validation implies importance. You can be important without anyone telling you that you are, or treating you like you're a special little pillow encapsulated snowflake where everything you do and say *NEEDS* to be heard and reciprocated. Society is toxic.
I’m a middle-age man, and I’ve done a lot of work on myself over the last 20 years. I will say this is one of the most honest and mature perspectives on relationships I’ve ever heard from a young woman. Kudos!
@urapeenees340 you really don't understand that lol? everyone is reliant on someone or something for all things even if they don't admit it or know. more so for different sex, man relies on a woman for a lot of things another man can't typically give and vice versa. there is no true meaning of independence in this day and age
It doesn't, people on social media nowadays take a very sided approach to things, they see things in 0s and 1s, you're either a 0 or a 1, so they tend to generalize things, which leads to ignorance and a divided society. She completely disregarded every woman that needs to work to be able to live, while i personally do believe a man should provide for his partner (people have different lifestyles and i respect them all, just saying my opinion), things aren't always as simple as they seem.
Right? Her self worth is so low.. the way she talks about real womens issues in this video like its all stupid snd frivolous while mens issues are more real snd serious.. funny how one of the male stressors is sex HAHAHAHAHA
Men are simple, and it's why they are the cornerstone of why civilization has progressed. Generally, they aren't victims of their own mind. If they're afraid, they do it anyway and that is called bravery. Conversely, women care very much about how they're perceived and what society thinks of them. If men thought this way, versus actually "doing" or going down the right path, critical decisions would never get made! Shout out to the men who are not a prisoner of their own mind and environment and strive for success each day.
Yet the women who defy society's expectations are labelled radical feminists ( which to some extent is true in different situations because some are extremists, like all political/belief affiliations ). You could've worded that better and I would've agreed but alas your comment is very picky and choosy. It's not a good thing that women care about the opinions of others and how they're perceived yet if they don't subscribe to your way of how you think should be then they're woke? It's hypocrisy and contradictory. Men are the cornerstone of why civilisation has progressed because they've always made sure it stayed that way, from the beginning of civilisation men put themselves out there doing the labor, fighting the conflicts, being the providers, seemingly women have always been sidelined and submissive until the modern times. In fact the RUclipsr said it herself in the video, "If you're a woman and you stress about work instead of bearing a man's children then you're masculine". Women are quite literally shamed for having physical responsibilities, whether she wants them or not. And in this economy not many get a choice, people have to work regardless of gender just to be able to barely live and this lady is straight up telling them they're trying to be a man because of it. Also interestingly enough, in some cultures the notion you've brought up of 'men taking initiative and women caring about societal standards and etiquette has actually been reversed in terms of gender roles. In Australia during the times of settlement and the first landing of the British there was a native woman named Barangaroo who was the primary provider for her people along with a group called the Eora Fisherwomen. She was older, more mature, and possessed wisdom, status and influence far beyond the much younger women the British officers knew back from their homeland. The British had invited her to watch a 'flogging' after they gave one of the British convicts a penalty for stealing from her tribe, instead of abiding she stuck to her own beliefs and became disgusted and furious that they'd humiliate and abuse one of their own like that, and tried to grab the whip out of the flogger's hands. Barangaroo also refused to wear European clothes or drink their wine and was one of only a few women who had a pierced septum. When she did visit the colony with Bennelong she was 'dressed up' with a bone through her nose and painted herself with white clay, she was wearing a proud statement of her spirituality and culture. It's clear society is like this because of the nurture vs nature concept. Modern men and women are like this because we conditioned them like this, this is all generational and taught throughout history. It isn't nature, it's psychology, it's environment. Compare that to someone like Barangaroo who took initiative, was a provider, was a warrior and was a leader despite being a woman and having a husband of her own. She was like that because she was taught to be someone who did not submit or succumb to the expectations of others or the downsides of livelihood. And in general I believe it's because we've just grown weaker in general as human beings, at least in a first world country perspective we have relatively comfortable lives compared to older eras where bloodshed, violence, physical labor and hardship was more normalised and expected.
men worry about job because this is a source of income. no income - no family and there is no backup coming. so at the end of the day men care about their families. The need for sex is even more natural, it is a need of the body. a person cannot stop drinking or eating for a week because he is in a bad mood, it doesn’t work like that
@Musicmanrobertwhen married they dont. they like to work like any western person but they expect man to carry family burden. more educated, enlightened, stable women rise above this biological urge. But young women are like this. Some women only want to work to see people and thus have options in this department. it is harder without money to buy nice clothes etc.
@Musicmanrobertyah that is why marriages cant last. "strong independent" = lonely person who cant cooperate or share. basicly semi narcissist to me. no wonder they are having constant mental disorders as if you are not truly that way by birth or childhood, "larping" will cause serious issues in life. In olden days, maybe 80s or 90s it worked like this regardless of what people said and seems to work roughly same in all countries in world.
@@effexonEven men can't be completely independent. They are dependant, as are women. Anyone who says, "I am independent", is a liar and delusional. Because we AS HUMANS are dependant on protection from other people and love and value given by our close ones and community. Without that we are just soulless beings walking on Earth without any purpose or thought.
It's just so horrible that men also have to grow and birth the babies. Oh wait, that's women who do that. 🙄 It's weird how women's contributions to humanity get played down while men's are played up. If women are so useless, then men can try to get offspring from other men. Good luck with that. 😂😂😂
I'm a man and I'm the least simple person I know lol. Always feel really left out and like an outsider when people talk about how men are simple because for me it couldn't be further from the case. My brain is so complex it tortures me.
Yeah, it's so oversimplified and as a fellow man I feel like being talked down to. "You're simple, little doggy. All you need is to guard the house, fuck around, play with puppies. Sleep repeat." Like there has been no men worrying too much about some aspect of their body, life, or mainly caring about his family regardless of whether he can get stuff done, or fuck someone. It's really annoying, not because of her, but all the dumb fucks who agree with her, perpetuating this false belief about all men being like this. I'd bet you my liver it's only a small subset that are simple.
and that's okay. everyone is different. you might be a bit more feminine for a man, but you're still a man, and you surely have good things to offer this world. be kind, be courteous, and you shouldnt have any issues in life
It's making me sad that from an environnement you can have those assumptions, even if there's biological things that happens, there are A LOT of shades, nuances to mens and womens. Everything is more complex that it appears so, and I know you know that. The thing we need to think of, is being just, right based on the personnality, the person you have in front of you. Try to know deeply, maybe a lot more are simpler than we think, maybe you'll never know how they feel.
This is hilarious. Stressing about work isn’t a thing associated with healthy men, no. I don’t think I’ve ever once been stressed about sex. I’m definitely not simple; no man I know is simple. You may be mixing up the notion of simplicity and that of being straightforward. You should check your information.
bro what are you even talking about? Oxford defines simple as "used to convey that something is very straightforward." they literally have the same meaning. And yes me and every male friend of mine stress more about work than anything else. Even scientific studies show that men's happiness depends most on their work.
@@capacitor8399 Straightforward has a second usage you conveniently forgot: frank or honest. Come back with evidence that being stressed is a healthy trait and I’ll be interested. You’ve challenged nothing I said.
Hilarious is just the start. Regardless of the inaccuracy on talking points, she’s gathering a decent fan base…good for her. Don’t allow yourself to get caught up believing everything said as truth here. Approach the talking points with a healthy logical mindset and ask yourself…where’s the evidence to back up these claims.
Everyone knows this, the game is to create chaos in every facet of life through the media so we all fight against each other. They whisper in your ear “that person over there is doing this and that to you” “You should hate them” and then they stand back and watch us all fight. They do this with every subject in life on purpose to keep us all fighting while they clean up.
I felt like ive taken a fresh breath of air listening to the video and your point of view on things. Because as a 25 year old man, most of the things you gone over are really do resonate. To add to youre topic, a man feels satisfied when he sees that he is satisfying his woman, and getting things done. We like to be of service to people, because it gives us a sense of community and purpose!
As a woman, I can see where your points can be reasonable, but at the same time. your points sound superficial. Why do you think if a woman stresses about her job the first thing in the morning she is automatically labeled as a dude? Like where did that mentality even come from? I’m a woman. I have naturally longer hair than yours, I’m skinny like you, and people call me a ma’am or miss in public whenever I go out. And the first thing I stress about in the morning is my job and my morning routine. Why? Because there’s not even going to be a man doing my job. My medical job is highly dominated by females, and there is never any replacement when I call out. So that is why I try to devote myself to go to work and get ready to work even when I don’t want to. And another thing I stress about first thing in the morning is my physical health. Why? Because I suffer from intense migraines and vommiting situations if I ignore my physical health and nutrients. Another thing I stress in the morning related to my physical health is my teeth, because the health of my teeth is important to me. Another thing I stress about which probably is manly to all of those women out there, is I stress about my car. Because my car is the driving force that helps me get to places where I need and is my own personal wheelchair. When you said men do things like hold the door, they certainly don’t hold the door like the way you make it to be, and these men you speak of certainly don’t do my job. And sometimes, I will find myself pumping my own gas at the gas station. And driving on potholes these “so called” men you speak of supposedly “helping women.” Not every men do stuff for women. Because I know there won’t be a strong man protecting me, I always carry something to keep myself safe when I go out. It is quite odd that you point out that men stress about work, intercourse, and kids but what about physical health? I think you and the rest of the women that say “working on yourself” don’t really really know what working on yourself really means. It means you are working to know yourself and will know what matters in your life and won’t matter so much in your life. And the things that do matter in your life, you will try and make things work because it matters to “self.” When you work on yourself you’ll soon realize that you and yourself matter. And people (men) are not responsible to take on the things you neglect about yourself. And when I do have men that do randomly come and help me, I truly from the bottom of my heart do say thank you to their faces. But most of the time, I’m not sitting there job jobless and useless and thinking about men first thing in the morning. That’s 100% you that is thinking about men in the morning. And if I had loving romantic partner, I would be thinking about him, but he would not be my number one stress because I have already work on myself to always put my health as number one over any future romantic boyfriend.
I bet a lot of this is coming from her boyfriend. No woman would want to start every day with s3x, precisely because of women's 28-day cycle which makes women want s3x for only a few days from that cycle. The rest would be a huge compromise on the woman's part, which will inevitably lead to feelings of resentment and maybe even mental health issues in the longrun. "Stay true to yourself" would be a better message for young women out there.
this whole topic is weird knowing everyone is different. there is more women out there then you apparently know that wants sex more than a man that's just the beauty of everything is how each and every individual is different with their own life experiences. you can never generalize about these topics because there is always going to be those outside factors nobody considers
what? what woman wouldn't want to have sex everyday with her man? probably ones with a low libido, but overall having that intimate connection on a regular basis would be the best thing ever. is it realistic? not really because he would get tired after work or have no time in the morning and is busy during the day. point is, if you love your man, you would want to have sex with him whenever. i'm not talking about low libido people but in general.
@@Elixrfy this video isn't meant to pander to every discrepancy and nuance; but besides that, you're actually insane if you think society can run and has ever run because people were able to acknowledge everyone and strategize according to outliers. No, like, I can't emphasize how absolutely mentally delusional you sound. You don't have to agree with everything she says to understand the general point, that we should compliment each other according to our biology, and then you use your own comprehension skills and your own brain to apply our individuals differences. Can't just take information and act like it's intended to be your Bible and everything is Gospel, you take everything in and then you rearrange it in your brain according to what is reasonable and compromisable, like a normal person. And if you are not a normal person, like cognitively, then do whatever works for you and acknowledge that you are not everyone. People don't consider outside factors because that would ruin us, it must be written in our biology to not act like every single factor on the outside of what is normal and common or of the majority should be considered. Because if they were considered, then we would really start to get nothing done because there will always be consistent outliers to the norm to then cater to and then recater to, too incessantly, that there will never be a solution to anything to reach the most amount of people, and will just continue to create new problems for ourselves where there never needed to be one. Humans are very egotistical, so if we catered to every outlier and acknowledge all their problems, more problems are going to arise and more people are going to worry about whose problem is more important and it will literally be war. You literally cannot save everyone, I'm sorry, but that's just real life. I don't know how old or privileged you are, but you need to start to realize life is not all or even mostly sunshine, lollipops, and rainbows.
If staying true to yourself has ever worked for a young person without much development mentally or not a lot of life experience, we wouldn't have the problems we have with the genders today. Because realistically, what does that even mean? Can you scientifically break it down? Can you elaborate on that with the basis of human philosophy and intellect in mind? Can you thoroughly explain what that means even on the basis of semantics and your understanding of elementary, basics of sociology that we all should know if we are neurotypical, aka social common sense? You can't just give messages based on what people want to hear or what sounds nice, babes. You also can't just give a message that is radical or unrealistic, like having sex everyday. And I just find it funny that you said no woman would want to do that and you doubt that a woman can have such an opinion herself without it being influenced by outside factors like a boyfriend, but also you say true to yourself as a young woman. You see where it's hard for young women to decipher what that even means? Vague and naive messages like that have literally never helped young women or young men unless it was applied under personal findings with oneself, and you can't even write a video surrounding that message that isn't radically chic or idealistic, it would be a video of lies or pandering or even virtue signaling because it fails to consider we are so influenced by other people that most people can't even realize in their entire lifetime unless they are told that they unconsciously have thoughts that other people have made and they have heard and then internalized after being rearranged during the sleep cycle. That's how intricate and intrinsic influence is.
People agree because they feel it's relatable and true. Which is also wrong. Getting your informations by your feelings. Just get an expert in the field that has good relationships around them and take advises from them.
ikr! Thank god, found a sane comment. This video was the easiest disagree for me. Not sure what her sample size was or whether it was diverse enough in the first place but this theory was bs.
I agree. Men and women are different. BUT saying that men only stress about work and sex and women only about men and being loved etc, is dumb.. That's just not true. Men stress about women, women stress about men, men stress about work, women do too stress about work, men want to be loved, women want to be loved. We all want to be important and valued.
THANK YOU. I am a woman and I stress about my career. I've known plenty of men who are driven by drama and also men who are more in touch with their emotions. I've known women who are career-driven and don't care for gossiping. Thinking in terms of a collective whole is harmful for not only the people who are stereotyped but the person who thinks that way. We are all individuals at the end of the day and think differently despite stereotypes.
well said , this video should be out there for everyone to see we live in a society where everyone thinks they are the best "especially women with the increasing definition of feminism " forgetting our instincts that women are created for men and men for women and they are equal with a one-step higher for men and as you say it is simple.
It's funny and sad when people apply their vision of reality to everybody. Those "what men and women" worry about happens in your perception of the world, your paradigm, it doesn't apply to everybody. I know it's hard to hear.
@@bogjesrbin484 we aren't clones of eachother, you know human beings are diverse with diffrent personalities, we all have a diffrent perception of reality. its not "just nature" women are diverse and men are diverse.
@shilombaba exactly what I was thinking, she always says "men are_____" "women are_____" like a general statement based on her own life, and forgets that not every woman is like her, and not all men are like the ones she has met.
First off, as a woman this gives off pick me energy. This video is told from a limited world-view of traditional gender roles. Men and women do have biological differences, but environmental upbringings are truly what affect someone's personality and ability to form relationships. Everyone is different. By insinuating men are simple, you are not only devaluing the complexity of being a man, but also undermining men to work and sex like they are mindless money sex machines. Same for women, you expect us to appeal to men's sex urges, be sensitive/emotional, male attention etc. It's weird how you are defining what feminity or masculinity is. Of course you didn't mean it like that, but the world is complex. People are complex. Most people are employed, both sides. I don't think it's fair or accurate to label a woman as "masculine" because she is stressing over work. And then it's also unfair to assume that the man is the one that has to stress over work. Life situations vary. You seem too inexperienced to pretend you understand relationships like a therapist would. All of the male praise and admiration may be nice for your ego, but you are far from figuring yourself out. That being said, you are allowed to express your opinions. Just giving my feedback.
@@k1ttyyh i guess it just sounded like you were saying youd rather have a fun healthy life than have a bunch of sex and it was just a relief to hear since the video makes it sound like its ALL men think about 😌
very mature young female, this is what the most of the world needs to hear. As a man I completely agree with you, because you're literally spitting the truth af.
I am a man and i approve 🙈 i always wake up planning for what to do in work . How to provide and what to get to keep the fridge open . I am thankful to my wife , i don’t know how but she understands this well. I love her to the grave.
Hey. What is wrong with caring about women? Even I think that being a social media fan of someone is weird, but men are supposed to care about women. And women about men. God created us like this. The world has just fallen short.
I definitely don't stress about success and such, I just want to connect and find nurturing aspects; like friends, mates and such. Family is most important
She is very young and speaks with authorithy of a naive overly confident child. The realities of life will hit her one day, if she has a life of an average woman. Women stress about their work as much as men. People in the comment section give her too much credit. Her views are very black and white, not profound. I guess it speaks to simple minded.
This girl is delusional. I am a laborer. I'm also a mom. I work 50-60hours a week, I do the grocery shopping, I clean the house, I do EVERYTHING. I STRESS ABOUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND CLEANING THAT TABLE. Does she not work?
Honestly you’re a beast. Keep crushing it. Epic video. A lot of truths and super cool to see you blowing this channel up just off honest rants. Congrats on 10k!
It has been obvious to me since I was about 14 that females are much more complex than us guys. Glad you have come to that conclusion too. We all need each other because our differences are so complimentary.
Stress about work on wake up, during the day and at bedtime; Waiting for the boom to fall, worried about falling behind and being discarded by the side of the road.
Targeted audience: 👧
Actual audience: 🧒
Yup lol
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Absolutely 😂😂
Lmao 🤣
So true. But... I will show it to my wife.
If a woman can give a man peace, he will never leave.
It's refreshing to hear someone take our side. Thank you.
Nailed it!... well said
If he wants peace , he should support a woman, if he comes to woman's house , and she pays everything, and he is asking for 💸💰, what peace he will receive???? What you give is what you get. Simple.
how about yall find ur own peace.
@@KristineB-ey4sb no man is ever gonna ask for a womans money unless they're twisted and only using them for that
my desktop pc gives me peace.
As a man... you got this right. If men have food, sex, respect and peace from their relationship, they are usually pretty happy.
all "simple things" on paper like that, turns out in adult life those are most complex to achieve... in consistent basis. Fixing roof or car is easier as do it well once, it wont bug you in 5 years.
@@effexon “Women are born on top of the mountain, and men are born at the bottom” this is where we start in terms of intrinsic societal value. I can tell you flat out that no matter how “nice” a woman appears, it is an incredible struggle to try to find a woman who actually gives a rats ass even about the man they claimed to love. It’s like speaking of foreign language, when you actually try to convey your own feelings wants or desires to a woman. It just doesn’t compute because it’s so far below their needs, wants and desires and your job is to make them happy by fulfilling all of those needs.
I am afraid it's too late now to fix this mess easily that started decades ago. It will take decades and still. MGTOW keeps growing (men totally checked out of relationships, not hating women, just not interested anymore in the rigged game). Passport Bros keeps rising (men looking for good feminine, loyal wives in more traditional countries, where men are still appreciated). Marriage is done in the West, even relationships... You see, these are all the consequences if you keep bashing men. If you keep saying, "We do not need men, all men are creeps," "we are strong and independent." I know many single men. Not once did I hear a guy say I am strong and independent. We call it, he's single, bachelor, that's it. Men want to feel needed. if they are not wanted by our society, and a lot of women??? What else did you expect that would happen. It's just logical. We all lose. A lot of men have been warning modern women for years, but they never truly listened. Family, values, morals... No to Hook-up culture... Now some women are stepping up, but are they genuine??? Are is it to monetise, because it's getting mainstream. It's like watching the décline of the Roman Empire.
In marriage - -
1) She stays: You pay
2) She goes: You pay
3) She cheats: You pay
4) You go: You pay
When men have a midlife crisis, we buy that sweet car we always wanted since we were 18 and we are roundly shamed for it. When women have their midlife crisis, they completely blow up the family and destroy everything. They are met with cheers of "You go girl!".
They don’t care what men want, that’s the problem. They want what they want and if you’re not gonna give it to them then they are going to leave. They will tell you this to your face too, it’s sad.
Throw in a remote control and it is even better.
Bingo
This is the most broscience I've heard from a woman
she's done this video for simps and incels to watch it like her, irl she doesn't give a f about incels, actually her most watched video, clowned on men hardly
haha. I agree
What is she, 14?
She's a kid
Copium in the replies
"Men. Women. Different".
What an amazing era, that such an elementary truth has to be stated.
El Mao
Well in the U.S. there is less difference. That is why we have problems. When everyone stays in their own lane and tries to be the best in that lane. Things are better for all. But the U.S. is a lost cause.
thats because in the last years, "the girl power movement" sold them the biggest lie of all time. "men and women are equal"
Women are scary 👿 😢
This was more than that, she said pretty interesting points actually and just because in this era everything os so mixed up and messed up, to state some clarification would be important
I love how the video is primarily meant for female viewers, but the comments are full of the homies
Recommendations.
ðɪs ɪz ɑbviɪsli kʰlɪkbejt fɚ mɛn
There are female viewers but they probably have started calling her "pick-me" even before going through half of the video
Wait what-
@@D402S aj wʊdɪnt sej ðejɹ ɹaŋ
This is a list of all the things I want as a man
- Job I can go to where I get along and feel useful and get paid decent
- Male friends who I can talk to about guy stuff and world events and politics and other stuff
- Girl who genuinely likes me and is always there to talk and who is emotionally and physically caring towards me
- Quiet alone space where I can do things I like, like read, listen to music, play games, learn things, etc.
- A chair somewhere with a nice view that I can be outside in when it's warm
- that's it basically. Everything else is okay if I have those things.
A very good list, thanks for sharing!
Its crazy how similar most guys are at the end of the day. Its as if I wrote this myself
Belly full and ballz empty
What we want is: Feel proud of ourselves, jobs etc..nobody wants to feel like a loser, have peace and quiet and if there is a woman who can give us that, even better! Have friend time because having fun with friends is way different from having fun with girlfriend or wife
You were only missing good food and bedroom gymnastics
Bro who married her is living the dream.
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Simp.
Wake up he says the truth@@BattleBecause
@@antiochussoter377 Simp to you too.
@@BattleBecause cope
Little did she know her mindset has just made her more attractive for long term relationships to MANY men.
you have extremely low standards.
@@VOID-Venture A 10/10 man will get with a 1/10 woman if she offers lol. Don't pretend men have high standards. Women have high standards.
@@KonglomeratYT No, you are talking about the inauthentic corporate citizens that make up society, passing themselves off as MEN. In 50 years, I've never met, seen or even heard of what I would consider a Man. I have high standards though.
@@VOID-VentureSo, what is your idea of a man?
@@___solar___ Legend says he still has high standards, and still doesn't know what a real man is.
The "men care about sex not women" is the part I disagree with here. You significantly underestimate the value men put on women's validation.
Also, men find intimacy in sex when women find intimacy outside of sex.
For men sex isn’t only about the physical deed, it’s about intimacy with their spouses and that is based on research.
@@nate2759Correct. A lot of women understand the "power" they have, aka how much most men love women.
I have seen if men don't care about sex, then they get especially prostrate issues later on in their lives, it is essential for a healthy guy to have sex regularly.
True
@@nate2759 which is why some women use sex deprivation as a weapon to control and manipulate their husbands. It makes it truly evil and abusive.
Aint no girl stressin over my sorry azz 😭
No cause I thought she was gonna say looks cause that’s usually what we stress over first not dudes😭
Skater dude going through it 😂
@@kiink182 And who gets attracted to you by your looks?
@@andyjin1453 If you’re trying to insinuate we’re doing it for dudes I’m sorry to disappoint.😭Also lesbians exist.
Lmfao
Female circle of emotions:
🥰😊🙂😐🙁😡🥺😭💀🥰😊....
Male circle of emotions:
🙂😐🙂😭😐🙂😐🙂
Jk
😂😂😂
Neurotypical:
ASD:
@@scary5455
Neurotypical Women:
Polish Male:
LOL 😂
looks about right
Girl, I cannot relate to you. The first thing I think about when I wake up is never men....it's how can I acheive my goals. It's am i doing enough? Am I productive enough? Am I being too lazy?
And I don't think it's because I'm a lesbian either, I don't think most straight women spend their time since the moment they wake up concerned about men. That seems like a self esteem issue, an issue of seeking too much validation. Obviously most of us want romance, but you have to have a personality outside of men (or other women). You can't spend your life trying to please others constantly. Everyone must learn to feel complete alone first
She’s talking to and about straight relationships. Obviously this doesn’t apply to you since you like women
preachh
Yeah these videos are really weird, treating men and women like different species, I mean of course there are general differences, but the differences among individuals are also present, also it's ignoring the fact that these roles are made by rules and impositions through the centuries, and this is a fact... a woman that is not interested in men is not less of a woman, a man that doesn't think about sex everyday is not less of a man, and it's scary the amount of people thinking that she said some awesome realistic stuff
If you're a lesbian why are you watching this video clearly directed towards straight women. I also agree that men isn't all we think about but agree or not, it's definitely a significant thing 'most' women think about and its perfectly fine lol
I disagree with some of the points made here. As a man, sex is most definitely not more important than my children, and i don't believe that it is, atleast for the majority of fathers.
Secondly, of course men want to have sex more often than women, and that's totally fine, as it's simply our biological nature.
Now, does that mean, that women should completely disregard their own preferences and needs, just to "provide" sex every day?
I don't think so, I think a man should also adjust to the lower sex drive of his partner, and a middle ground is the way to go.
Yet men are expected to set aside their own preferences and needs to provide financial, emotional and physical safety.
Analize the message more and you probably would understand it.
Can you provide the source that men want sex more than women? Because all the studies I see say that our sexual desire is way more alike than different.
@@Hornet1806 loll "physical safety"" when do you ever need to do that? imaginary dream thing to whine over
@@BoglimWrangler666 So if you have a boyfriend and an intruder comes to the door, if your boyfriend refuses to protect you, you’d stay with him? Of course not. You automatically feel entitled to his physical protection. But god forbid if he feels entitled to anything of yours. It’s not an “imaginary dream thing to whine over”, it’s something women look for in men whether the big bad thing happens or not. You look to your men for their ability to protect you, and the ones you don’t think can or will are invisible to you. Stop pretending to be ignorant.
I don’t stress about men. I'm not worried about the things you mentioned. I’m not jealous or insecure over men. I don’t think about them being better or worse than me. I’m not looking for a husband. I’m single, independent women living my own life, not all women priority are men, so your theory breaks here. You’re projecting your state of mind onto others
you will be very lonely very soon
@@user-yg7kb1mt9z I expected this kind of comment. Why would I be lonely? I have friends that went through everything with me and are literally family to me. Everyday I have meet up with one of my friend, most of them have boyfriends so no they won’t leave me when they have someone. I live alone because I chose it and I need it to relax because I get easily overstimulated as ADHD person. I have family too and I talk with my mom and grandma everyday. I have many hobbies taking my free time away. I don’t think you can call this situation „lonely soon”. Being lonely is a state of mind. I send and wish you love, happiness and prosperity.
@@user-yg7kb1mt9z and I’m single by choice for 5 years right now, not because I don’t have options but because it’s my decision. I wasn’t lonely even for a day through those years. Not everyone needs the same
Sounds like you’re a failure to all your matrilineal ancestors but you go girl!
@@MetricsOfMeaning that doesn't make her a failure to her ancestors, you know people in the past sometimes chose not to have children or relationships too right? not everyone is going to be the same, no matter how much you try to force it down their throat
As a man, you’re completely right, men are simple, at least most of them. But, your point about “what a girl has to do every morning” is a problem to me. You’re more honest than a lot of girls about how sex is in a sense a system of control. You give the man sex, he keeps protecting and providing.
I don’t want to be treated as a sort of guard dog who gets rewarded with blowies. I’ve never truly accepted my “role”. For the record I would and have been protective of women, I’m talking more about intimate relationships rather than like a basic chivalry. My point though is I don’t agree heterosexual relationships should be an exchange where the male is entitled to sex, and the female entitled to material things. That’s prostitution. It sounds cynical, and it is, but that’s just what I would compare it to
Thank you for commenting on this. I also didn't agree with that part of her speech. I agree with the differences in hormones but those are just facts that more people should know. She's pretty young, I think she will rethink some of her views down the road.
i think she was trying to attack it from a more scientific route. how if he is taken care of in the morning, he can focus on the important things, not as an exchange, but with genuine loving motivation, because his head and hormones feel cleared and balanced, not because it’s prostitution.
right, and it also makes it sound like women don't have that need, only men do. when in reality most women also want sex, and it's something that benefits both ppl in the relationship
True. It's also a ridiculous point when you consider woman and men have a different libido individually, so the woman could be the one with the highest sex drive, and viceversa.
Agree!!
I ran to the comments straigh after the first seconds 💀
lol me 2
i thought this was satire 😭
😂
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Yeah I feel she a bit wrong while she's onto something.
If she changed the word work with survival I would totally agree with her.
Work or what you do for work is not important unless you factor in survival.
We'd be sitting on the porch drinking beer and smoking weed all day if we didn't need money to survive.
As for children we would teach them how to hunt and send them out to get food.
Then we'd build some shit, inspect what we just built and be like yep, I'm the best.
Have some more beer and call it a day.
Pretty simple lmao
A womans hormones doesn't regenerate every 28 days. Your body is producing both estrogen and testosterone every day. The menstruation cycle is something else.
lol proof she doesn't know what she's talking ab.
Sorry, you are so wrong.
@@noelle7786And you are more wrong to trust an idiot.
When was the last time you saw a Man whose greatest stress in life was the amount his testosterone levels fluctuate everyday.
@@locinolacolino1302 : You need to look at this the other way around. A mans stress levels will definitely affect his testosterone values. So will poor sleep, low quality food and obesity as well. As a general rule, your T-levels are at their highest early in the morning, and at their lowest in the later stages of the day. The point is that the woman in this video doesn't know what she is talking about.
I ain't a dog, lady.
Come on skeletor swampfire guy dont be boring, be one of the boys! one of the dogs woof!
🤣🤣🤣 Right?!!! 😂
@@reynauldwhistles2338yikes
😂😂wtf pro she shouldn't have compared men and women cause as men we are different than they thinking.
men are kings and knights, thinkers, scientists, artists, and much more 😅
Most men 30 years ago before bedtime:
☑Got the job done.
☑Woman still likes me.
☑Family still safe.
Most men in 30 years before bedtime:
☑Got the job done.
☑Still safe from women.
☑Planned next week's hike.
A hiking plan sounds kind of nice.
*surfing and time with dog
Legit planning a hike for tomorrow.. 🤣🤣as a sngle 24 year old
you can't go wrong with a hike though. Ultimate bliss.
@@DrumToTheBassWoop went on 2 hikes this week, Loved both!
i don't care who the IRS sends i am not paying my taxes
I see what you did there.
How did they know my only weakness: Women.
lmao
Dan Vs IRS
I'm a 65 y/o man, and she's spot on. She understands the two genders completely.
Cope
@@autism1151 ¿?
@@autism1151 Username checks out.
she understands nothing
@@portalsevil Your negative comment without backing it up by providing specifics tells me you are immature, inexperienced, and/or have psychological issues.
This girl has a dad who does not left the family, rare one.
*has not
@@mrwho6831 If you think correcting grammatical mistakes equates to a form of bullying, then you are as immature as the child that you are. GROW UP.
@@mrwho6831 ??
@@mrwho6831 no what you said had zero relevance and made no sense
@mrwho6831 they're just correcting their spelling?
Here are some reminders for my fellow men: you are emotionally complex, you can invest on your emotional intelligence, you don't have to kill yourself working, you can be soft if you want to, you can have platonic female friends, you are not a slave to your sexual impulses. In short, your biological characteristics guide you, but they don't define you.
Thank you! I am a softer man in many ways - and I don't identify with all these characteristics they say that men "should" have. And yes I have decided to not care too much about what others think. I want to be the happy cheerful person I am without becoming cold and "tough" in a way I find bad.
Of course. But noone respects it. And part of developing emotional intelligence is realizing our emotions are trivial in the grand scheme. A man is expected to bring logic and ration to any situation, especially in a relationship. Women think we are simple although many of us really are not, but to break their paradigm would also break the relationship. Being soft is also different from being compassionate, and compassion is different from emotion. Be compassionate, let your emotions guide you, and be soft wherever possible, but remember that a man is meant to be thick skinned, unwaivering, and hardened towards things that pose a threat to our families. We are meant to be a stable and secure foundation that our family can lean on. If you can't provide that, you will always struggle in a relationship and will not be treated like a dignified man in any social situation. It's the hard truth all men learn. Don't let them see you falling off your horse.
There is nothing internal or external that defines us. It is the belief that this is the case that keeps us in prison.
@@minimal3734 Are you a Gnostic?
Ofc there are many many things, esp external, that define us. What about the fact that if someone shoots you with a gun in the head you die. That's a very clear definition of mortal that you aren't going to avoid.
@@minimal3734 Biological reality and human nature isn't a prison, it's just there. It's a natural process. We will always be defined by factors outside of our control. Did you know that the foods and drinks you ingest and the quality of the air you breathe in affects your decision-making without you realizing it? Do you realize how many things affect our subconscious without us even knowing about it?
If only more women were this wise. If Keira's parents are not proud of her then they do not deserve her.
She is a total throwback to the old school (like REALLY old school, 2006) era of RUclips. And she drills common sense into people’s heads with every video. Some of what she’s saying should be obvious but the sad truth is that in 2024 everything has gone backwards. Good for her and glad I subscribed.
She said men only care about sex id hardly call that wise
@@ABCDyeahyeahyeah 2006 youtube was best youtube anyway
Not quite, go back to school of life. Get One! I dont bother stressing over markcist fems who hate men, as creepy! To hell with them!, I work and grow without women drag me down.
???? Do you know her? You cant say stuff like that about her parents, only seeing one simple video. Do not say things like that ever to people you dont even know.
I think men are just as emotionally complex as women. The difference is that men are discouraged from showing their emotions.
We really are. A lot of men are just as petty and insecure as women. Many men want to complain about coworkers and other assailants as much as women do, its just we feel like pussies when we do.
Yeah, because men are also humans.
Personally it makes me feel flat out uncomfortable and weird doing it, so whether it is discouraged or not doesn't matter to me. It is what I think of it
@@bluegiant13 Same here. But there is certainly cultural pressure and influence that makes men seek to hold face with a calm equilibrium. Especially so here in England, which is traditionally stoic and reserved.
@@cerdic6586 Yeah, but these norms have come from somewhere and it likely is that they are rooted in our natural proclivities anyway. It is not that I am unable to express my emotions, I can do that well enough with good friends and they can do it as well, but the way we do it is not in a cathartic or intense type of way like women. We go about it calmly, for example, we like to be honest and when we don't like a behavior of someone we just say how it makes use feel .e.g.: Hey, when you do this it makes me feel x. Simple and straightforward.
Am I the only one feeling like she got the wrong century?
I agree
I agree, she seems extremely traditional and that’s not a problem but I think she forgets most of us live in a shit economy. I had to stop when she said women should stop worrying about work and that most of us think about men when we wake up…no (it just sounded so stupid), but does she realize how privileged that sounds? In today’s age, family households NEED a two-income stream to barely support themselves. Unless your man is making over 150k+ as a salary, most people living in the US would find it hard to get by. Both my parents are in a 30+ marriage and my mom was 100% the breadwinner at one point working 2 jobs in the hospital and doctors office and she def was stressing abt work and not worrying about men. Then it became vice versa after she retired where my dad was making more money…working as a team is a key to marriage/dating. There isn’t strict roles you need to go by.
That's unfortunately what too many people think... But reality hasn't changed with time.
Perhaps she is an “old soul” who partially remembers her prior lives. 😉 In any case, I enjoy listening to her talks. In my experience, she is not completely wrong on a lot of this.
Makes me feel like a rude worthless Thing for Being a man
This is the sort of wisdom that women of the older generations tend to have. You are going to have a great life ahead of you.
she so dumb
I hope this is just RUclips and online, but it seems like people in the United States are just so confused about gender issues. Man and woman are different, but equal in their human dignity. God created man and woman because we need each other. If it wasn't meant to be that way, then everyone would be the same gender. I think toxic feminism has confused the newest generation of boys and girls. More men are lonely and single than ever. Women are angrier and more scared of men than ever. That's what it appears like online, not sure if it's the reality.
none of this applied to my life or my father so no. its naive. its pretending life is this simple when most men are NOT this simple but shes got a biiig head...
are you sure because 50% of marriages fail and majority of old couples argue 24/7 to the point where it’s become a stereotype
@@emmaversace4329 70% of divorces in the US are initiated by women. If women in the US actually stuck to their vows, only 15% of marriages would fail!
You need to realize that life isn't a fairy tale, and you will argue about something sometimes to 100% of the people on earth... If you decide to marry someone, you make it work!
Most modern women have forgotten what it's like to take responsibility and accountability for their actions and act like they're 5 years old well into their 30s and 40s when something doesn't make them feel like a princess!
Such a refreshing thing to see a woman speak good of men and not demonize them
Men are SIMPLE. 😂
She's onto some good points, don't get me wrong, but she misses about as many as she nails.
@@mihirengg19 true, I can only speak for myself, but my decade long relationship with my SO is about more than the "men only want sex" agenda. Were something to happen to her that rendered her unable to provide it for the foreseeable future, I would still spend the rest of my life with her. She's more than just a sexual object to me. She's my best friend.
The same can be said for about every other "men only want a woman to..." point she made.
And I resent being called simple. Although a majority of men are, don't generalise.
It wouldn't be fair to say that women only care about money, although largely true, there are some women who earnestly don't, and would stick with you through thick and thin.
Find yourself one of those, one that really wants to spend time with you, regardless of what you are busy with, she'll join in. Not an empty headed, clingy nag - that line is easy to cross. No, a real woman you can take hunting, fishing, motorcycling or whatever else you are into, and she'll gladly go, and not resent you for it, but love that you have included her.
And then you'll find an "Alpha" male saying crap like: "You don't want a woman, you want a homie" No dude, I want a partner, one that doesn't get jealous when I wanna go trap shooting, but is down to actually learn the sport, and end up enjoying it, not one that sits around and whines about the heat, noise, and grime... And what frigging time we're going home.
Truth is, beta bro, you REALLY want a woman that can control you with her cooch. And you'll get angry at her and display toxic masculinity in those situations by yelling at that b**ch to shut up, or take a hike, because she's embarrassing you in front of your homies. Or you'll just leave her at home, and get upset when she starts nagging you to come back home, because she doesn't understand what you are busy with, or why you are gone for that long, and you'll get into an argument each and every time time you walk through the door...
My wife doesn't need to speculate on what I'm doing, she gets to come along and see what the hype is all about, and nobody minds a girl being present, because she doesn't nag. We'll do the chores together when we get home.
Those who play together, stay together.
its called a pickme
@@TH3_T3RM1N4T0R I'm not simple.
35 years old man here.. not sure why this video has been recommended to me but kudos to you, you nailed it.
She nailed all of these it’s quite brilliant actually
_...I wonder if she has a sister_ hahaa
nailed what? HUmans arent that simple lol
@@Brookpitlik You're Over/Thinking. It's alright, it happens eventually.
Sounds like she nails every morning for her man, yeah I can't 🤮
Her husband in the bedroom smiling his arse off rn:
Husband? She said she's with a man, she didn't say anything about being married.
Bro ruined bro's dream
Y'all so corny
a problem I have with this is this subtle but evil belief which goes like "as long as a man is working hard, he can be abusive and get away with it"... because hey he is providing the roof so what can a woman say? if she says something, he throws her out, and that's why she justifies his abusive behavior because she wouldn't know where else to go (fear)
@@fuzzypanda1684ohnn
As a guy, was a little skeptical at the video start, but it's amazing how accurate this is. If such a speech were mandatory in every school (for example during each civic education class) and governments actually cared to apply this, imagine how much less mental pain would both genders experience and all the confusion that could be avoided at such a scale. Thanks Keira
Inaccurate*
Agree.
How would governments apply this?
As a straight man who is around a lot of people on the LGBTQ+ spectrum, I’m just realizing how many people are straight like me. She’s saying some stuff that I disagree with, everyone is complicated, but there are some good overall lessons.
You are killing it. You are gonna have a huge channel in no time.
Yes that true, she have a point now
this is as big as her channel is going to get. the algorithm is saturated with young women posing as self help gurus. cranking out videos every single day is also not good for a channel's growth.
@@chewieeebby she is already proving you wrong by getting much bigger every day
Bcuz simpletons like you
She's going for the Simp Crowd now. She says she's talking to women but her audience is made up of mostly Beta male Simps. Like you guys. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
lady, as a father of two girls, let me tell you that a man stresses and cares more about the well being of his little girls than he does about his son.
But do you have son?, I'm sure if you had son you would have said I love all children.
@@RKLokeshChannel That was not his point. I don't have a son but I can speak for the way my father cared about his kids. He couldn't care less if I at 18yo got back home at 4 in the morning, while he demanded my two sisters to be home at 10pm. Young girls simply need more protection. A good father just knows these things.
Someone once said, "when you have a son you worry, when you have a daughter, you pray."
@@thomassmith6232 Lol that's a good one
Learned that the hard way, my mother and father always cared more about my sister than me or my brother. Sad to see that fathers dont even love their sons.
As a woman I stress over my job. That's not something that's masculine. So, respectfully I'm still a woman. You may stress about these things but you don't think for me.
You don't speak for men or for what's masculine. Stress is a universal emotion. Foolish women like you who believe it isn't masculine to show emotion or that we are incapable of feeling stressed is what's wrong with the world. Ironic for you to say she doesn't speak for you yet you found the audacity to speak on masculinity.
What have i entered into here 😅 This is a weird corner of the internet
I always get this videos below the ones I searched for
Exactly 😂
Are you 5?
i think this is satire
the algorithm suggested this to me, when am I?
I'm 54 now, divorced for 6 years after a 17 year marriage. I'm also a single father to a beautiful intelligent 10 year old girl. I can tell you that for me at least, the first and most important thing I think about is my daughter and her happiness and future. S*x is simply down the list now, especially knowing that it comes with a tremendous amount of headaches these days with the modern Western women. I'm trying to raise a future woman who is balanced and understands herself, understands men, and those around her, so that she doesn't make herself and those around her miserable.
You're 54 probably with low testosterone, it makes sense sex is down the list.
You're 54 dude. You're well past the age of a majority of dudes she is talking about. I'm older than you and have four kids. Regardless, I still wake up and that's the first thing I think about, after I've considered what I need to do today.
@@helmeteye To slightly expand on what you're saying, I'd point out that this young lady is only speaking about men and women in her own age group. She probably cannot imagine what goes on in the mind of older men like us.
@@ashchaya7676 I agree that she's got no idea what's going on in our minds. But she does have our template.
I respect the values and dedication you have.
Every-man wakes up in the morning with a woody!😀
I think it happens 4 or 5 times a night. A man's body is designed for that.
😂😂😂
True, male hormones peak at 7 or 8am and ready for action, then we stress about working to keep this woman happy.
poke poke poke....
Finally a woman with sense common sense thumbs up love👍
Her: What do we stress about the most?
Me : school?...
Her: MEN!
Me : ?!
It's like she's saying women don't have any inspirations and goals other than to please men 😭😭 Feels like i time-traveled and seeing a video from prehistoric times or something
@@zuzkhin4472 i know right! This is just idiocy fueled by her own desire not to achieve anything other than male attention and praise. She may think like that but the rest of us dont.
Yeah as a guy this is ridiculous lmao not every man is stressing about sex all the time so I'm sure woman aren't stressing about men all the time either. 😂 Like libido fluctuates some people might be like that (clearly her) but definitely not everyone most days I'm not thinking about sex or woman at all there's more to living than that
Right like she had something kinda but I'm not that simple no one Is
Think about how ridiculous you're making life by succumbing to the feminist brainwashing. All you have to do is look pretty, have sex, and not solicit other male attention. That's it! And all your earthly needs are handled by a man. You're arguing to spend time and money in school. School sucks that's why you're always looking forward to summer break. Working sucks. That's why you're always looking forward to the weekend. You're arguing to make your lives way more difficult. Why? Why do you want to compete with us and sit in traffic? Serious how can you not see how sweet a deal it is to be a traditional woman. Look pretty, have sex, only have eyes for one man and all your needs are met. I swear let God send me that deal I'm signing a blank sheet of paper and he can fill in the rest. That's all I have to do? I'm gone, you have to catch me to do anything else.
Hi, female here:
Idk if its because i'ma tomboy or smt but i really don't think like this.
Reading the comments w/ bros saying "she's right, women only think about men" is kinda sad
I'd hate for all my homies to think that i'm obsessed w/ them or that we aren't equals, that i am there to "serve" them. (And ya, biologically we are different, but i don't want my chromosomes to decide what role i should play in my own life)
I know most of y'all don't care, but i hope to find a guy i can just raise an honest family with, live a passionate life, and be well-off enough to help others.
I don't think listening to this kinda stuff is gana get me here, nor has it ever been the case for me. I hope some of you understand that 🙏
nah this vid is just another one of those girls tryna get views by appealing to the traditional/conservative audience
She sounds like a young woman who lacks perspective. This is the problem with social media, anyone with an internet connections can blast their opinions as facts.
@@reddd-77they’re so easy to please lmao
I can't believe people agree with her. Maybe it is true for uneducated men and women, but most people are not that simple-minded. Maybe she lacks life experience to evaluate situations better. No man with any money would risk his wealth for sex. Just believing that sex is the main reason for a relationship says a lot about her intellect and standard of living.
this is the most Andrew Tate ass video i have seen which doesn't have Andrew Tate in it 😭😭
😂😂😂
@Nullaereale-- are u mentally challenged?
As a man; I don’t agree with this sentiment. I’m not simple, that’s simple.
most men are, not all. most men just want a normal life. normal means, peace, love, health, a home. I'm not one of those men, lol
I was simple then life happened.
It's so refreshing to see a man in the comments disagreeing as opposed to the thousands of likes on the comments talking about how she hit it spot on 😔 I'm just reminding myself that these videos tend to reach a certain audience and that this hopefully isn't how most of the world thinks
@@maddieweaver2942 it does just appeal to the “traditional” ideal in men, and from the context of my life, as a guy, I don’t believe men are simple, but so many succumb to cultural expectations of being simple. Have a good day, the world is better than the internet makes it out to be
@@babymonkey4601 Thanks :) You're right, I think many men, and apparently women, do succumb to it. But clearly it's not as simple as making generalizations! I hope you have a good day too
Your take is a portrayal of patriarchal femininity that oversimplifies and degrades human behavior to an extent that is unhealthy for both men and women. If I viewed life in such a shallow and limiting way, I would be so incredibly unfulfilled. I don't want to sound hateful; I just want to articulate how sad watching this made me. Thinking about those who agree with this and how shallow and un-enriching their lives must be. I hope you are able to wake up one day and stress about something other than the body carrying your consciousness and whether it is desirable enough to men who will never love you, trust you, or respect you. I hope these men that you speak of and that have spawned in your comment sections may one day wake up to a thought other than sex or work. How sad that labor and sexual pleasure are the only priorities in a world enriched with art, culture, nature, and connection. I value the establishment and fostering of a family, I value sexual pleasure, I value discussions regarding relationships between women and men that help us better connect and respect each other. However, I do not value or wish to spread an idea of life, the human condition, and masculinity and femininity that does not fulfill or enrich but rather dulls and degrades an idea that could be and is so much deeper and full of love and genuine spiritual connection.
You’re like a shot of espresso after all those coments. I would feel so shallow with that mindset Like my stress is my education and money not men 😂
that is so beautifully said, you really articulate everything i felt about this video in a way i never could.
@@christina619no fr
why would women stressing about work would be masculine? a woman can have a job which she is passionate about and wants to do it in the best way possible.
Because evolution shows work is a masculine trait
@@whosflair3716 no way you are calling such a general term as work a masculine trait. both women and men worked throughout the human history.
She pandering to dumb gullible guys,
And here I thought each individual had their own unique thoughts
about .1% of the population now
You, sir, are funny 😂😂 but yea, that's why I ran to the comments. You guys give a fuller picture. I believe nothing is "all inclusive" because, realistically, there are exceptions to everything. That's just my opinion, though.
They do....but not that unique.
woah, ok? woah. we're all clones of each other, that's why some ignoramus youtuber who has only seen males in non-personal setting, and maybe 5-10 males in personal settings, can make videos like this. She even made a weird connection between morning wood and work. but whatever, this behaviour is all over the place. everyone knows how things work from their experiences in life so there's nothing we can say to them.
shhhh
Big misconception - a man stresses about work because he A) wants to have sex, or B) has kids to take care of. Between A and B, B will always win for good men.
Edit: C) Wants status, D) Actually has a goal in life
Obviously D would be a good sign.
So, simply put, if you want simple men, treat them as if they are simple.
THANK YOU. I genuinely don't say this to judge anyone but it really disturbs me to hear "a man needs sex, not you." Like... I find it really sad that this mentality is considered normal and I feel sorry for the girl who made this video because she thinks this is just how it is because men have always treated her like this😔
@@maddieweaver2942 I think that men can change the order of their priorities throughout the life, but this three ones are really true... another point it's that she told about what we need not what we want or what we like, men really don't need women to survive just like women don't need men to survive... but what we need and what we love and want are different things... (as humans we obviously need each other, but as individual in society we can live without others)
@@maddieweaver2942surprised so few people are commenting on this!! This whole video and comment section are honestly just a bit disappointing to me
@@viniciussilvasantos6307 men and women also don't need sex to survive, either though. I'd say it's a lot closer to the truth that men and women need relationships and bonding way more than they need sex; sex should ideally be a healthy aspect of a relationship if you're not asexual, but the relationship should always precede that and it sounds like she's saying the opposite. I guess a lot of men do prioritize sex over women but I think that will lead to a lonely life later with a lack of close relationships
@@viniciussilvasantos6307 we literally do need eachother to survive. we need to reproduce and for that, men need women and women need men
As a man, i want to thank you. I' struggling with depression and anxiety, and i really needed something like this video to feel that men are valued. Nowadays i feel like most women thinks that all men are pigs, and, hopefully, i am not, and other are not, just some of us. Both sexes are needed and both men and women are better in other areas, so we need to cooperate with each other. Thanks you again 🙏💚
She values men? She's literally calling men dogs and thinks men are simple. It's tragic to see how low the bar is for men feeling valued in todays world.
What 😭 This is some privileged rich white woman stuff. YES, I do worry about work in the morning…because in this economy I need to be. There is no man unless he’s hella rich (but majority of us aren’t in that 1%) providing for today’s expected income for a family house by himself. In my state, you can’t even buy a house meant for a small family under 500k in an okay neighborhood. Even a starter house for two is insane.
I don't stress about work, I stress about money which makes me work😂
Yep, exactly...if i had unlimited money...I would not stress about work lol
yeah
That's the point
thats what she meant bruh, yall acting slow
ok so you don't stress about money, you stress about the security it gives to you
I'm so happy this is coming from a women rather than us men saying this and getting cancelled once again thank you for acknowledging us
me man, me segs, me work, me segs again, me happy, me sleep..
Me eat me pray me eat again
You true. You real. You honest.
@@AlexandreG its sarcasm
@@Brookpitlik huh? Buddy... 😅
Cave man ahh stuff.
"Men are simple".
Not really. Human beings are very complex.
how are we complex? we need only a few things to survive and be happy
@@babakbabak5329 what are you yapping about
@@babakbabak5329 i didnt ask for poetry
@@Callabunga24 That is all right, you don't have to figure it out. It is the wisdom of the ages expressed in two lines. Why a man and a woman which have everything going for them can not be content with what they have. John C. Bogle the Founder of Vanguard and one of the leaders in Index Mutual Funds wrote a book called "Enough" right after the market crash of 2008 which touches on the very same topic. The book is in English.
Thank you Keira. Yes, I have been saying for a LONG time. My father and mother were perfect examples. My father just loved my mom. All he wanted was my mom. He didn't need other women. She was his Queen and she didn't have to say she was his Queen. She knew it. This example showed me as man how to be a man. My father was amazing example. My mother adored, admired, and respected my father. They were a team. The perfect compatibility. She was fiery, strong will, stubborn, loving, kind, and generous. My father was the calm, gentle bear, he was strong, compassionate, kind, generous and loving. He literally was my Yoda for manly wisdom. They were perfect together when my mom would get angry or frustrated a simple touch or hug from my father could melt the way no other person could.
you're lucky. it sounds like you have gratitude for that. It's more like what she says out there though... people of divorced parents. You know what the divorce rate is if even one of the people come from divorced parents, 2 fold the avg, if both, 4 fold. I'm living it unfortunately... that's my karma to live though. You have something else to give, which is great!
i hope many more parents will be like this
Keira. We _are_ equal. We are _not_ the same.
I wish people could make this distinction, because it's a vital one. It could repair a broken mankind.
We're not equals.
The same is equal.
@@connoryork6631 : You really don't get it, do you?
What you see in a population of distinct individuals is _dynamic equality:_ Precisely because we are different, it's not objectively possible to rank us from best to worst.
Within any one metric, ranking is indeed possible. One of us might be the strongest, the fastest, the best mathematician, the best quarterback, the most brilliant chess player, the most gifted physicist, the most imaginative sculptor, the most evocative poet, or the most talented musician. But one person isn't likely to be all those things. So, who's better: the musician or the quarterback?
Maybe God can objectively rank us, but we simply aren't qualified to do that. Therefore, we are in essence dynamically equal: better at some things, worse at others -- and who's to say what defines the "best" of us.
Indeed, it's _because_ we're different that we must consider ourselves equal. You might be able to say one apple is better than another -- you _might_ -- but will we all agree that apple A is superior to orange B?
This isn't even delving into the various values that change with time or conditions, or the consequences of each characteristic being a limited infinity unto itself, such that within the gamut containing it is an array of values as limitless and on as smooth a gradient as the set of all numbers from zero to one, all colors from red to orange, or all directions from north to northeast.
So, no. "Equal" is not "the same."
We are all individuals, unique and irreplaceable. And we are all dynamic equals.
Would you have it any other way?
@@connoryork6631 you clearly didn't understand the message this person conveyed🙄
semantic pilpul is useless, arguing about what this or that word means is a midwit take.
I dont stress about s3x. Catering to my hormones involves prioritizing physical fitness. I don't worry about validations. I can validate myself by learning to appreciate my own personal improvements, without outside interventions or opinions. But you did kind of hit this on the head. Civilization is largely narcissistic in a way where validation implies importance. You can be important without anyone telling you that you are, or treating you like you're a special little pillow encapsulated snowflake where everything you do and say *NEEDS* to be heard and reciprocated. Society is toxic.
S3X
I’m a middle-age man, and I’ve done a lot of work on myself over the last 20 years. I will say this is one of the most honest and mature perspectives on relationships I’ve ever heard from a young woman. Kudos!
Women worry about work nowadays too. I'm not planning to be reliant on anyone.
🙏
But you are reliant, whether you know it or not.
@@mikeity2009 tf does that even mean?
@urapeenees340 you really don't understand that lol? everyone is reliant on someone or something for all things even if they don't admit it or know. more so for different sex, man relies on a woman for a lot of things another man can't typically give and vice versa. there is no true meaning of independence in this day and age
@@mikeity2009you know what I meant using the context of this video but if you want to be smart that’s fine too.
I f*k wit you bro 😂🤣❤
"He just need some" quote of the yr
Bro's got 60IQ
How is me worrying about work making me masculine? Tf?
It doesn't, people on social media nowadays take a very sided approach to things, they see things in 0s and 1s, you're either a 0 or a 1, so they tend to generalize things, which leads to ignorance and a divided society.
She completely disregarded every woman that needs to work to be able to live, while i personally do believe a man should provide for his partner (people have different lifestyles and i respect them all, just saying my opinion), things aren't always as simple as they seem.
it doesnt, Shes not very smart
@@Brookpitlik Big fax.
money ain't came in without work
it does not, this woman has a master in goldiggerism
this body language is really annoying. she saw pearlythings grifting and thought "i can do this too!"
Right? Her self worth is so low.. the way she talks about real womens issues in this video like its all stupid snd frivolous while mens issues are more real snd serious.. funny how one of the male stressors is sex HAHAHAHAHA
Men are simple, and it's why they are the cornerstone of why civilization has progressed. Generally, they aren't victims of their own mind. If they're afraid, they do it anyway and that is called bravery. Conversely, women care very much about how they're perceived and what society thinks of them. If men thought this way, versus actually "doing" or going down the right path, critical decisions would never get made! Shout out to the men who are not a prisoner of their own mind and environment and strive for success each day.
Yet the women who defy society's expectations are labelled radical feminists ( which to some extent is true in different situations because some are extremists, like all political/belief affiliations ). You could've worded that better and I would've agreed but alas your comment is very picky and choosy. It's not a good thing that women care about the opinions of others and how they're perceived yet if they don't subscribe to your way of how you think should be then they're woke? It's hypocrisy and contradictory. Men are the cornerstone of why civilisation has progressed because they've always made sure it stayed that way, from the beginning of civilisation men put themselves out there doing the labor, fighting the conflicts, being the providers, seemingly women have always been sidelined and submissive until the modern times. In fact the RUclipsr said it herself in the video, "If you're a woman and you stress about work instead of bearing a man's children then you're masculine".
Women are quite literally shamed for having physical responsibilities, whether she wants them or not. And in this economy not many get a choice, people have to work regardless of gender just to be able to barely live and this lady is straight up telling them they're trying to be a man because of it. Also interestingly enough, in some cultures the notion you've brought up of 'men taking initiative and women caring about societal standards and etiquette has actually been reversed in terms of gender roles.
In Australia during the times of settlement and the first landing of the British there was a native woman named Barangaroo who was the primary provider for her people along with a group called the Eora Fisherwomen. She was older, more mature, and possessed wisdom, status and influence far beyond the much younger women the British officers knew back from their homeland. The British had invited her to watch a 'flogging' after they gave one of the British convicts a penalty for stealing from her tribe, instead of abiding she stuck to her own beliefs and became disgusted and furious that they'd humiliate and abuse one of their own like that, and tried to grab the whip out of the flogger's hands. Barangaroo also refused to wear European clothes or drink their wine and was one of only a few women who had a pierced septum. When she did visit the colony with Bennelong she was 'dressed up' with a bone through her nose and painted herself with white clay, she was wearing a proud statement of her spirituality and culture.
It's clear society is like this because of the nurture vs nature concept. Modern men and women are like this because we conditioned them like this, this is all generational and taught throughout history. It isn't nature, it's psychology, it's environment. Compare that to someone like Barangaroo who took initiative, was a provider, was a warrior and was a leader despite being a woman and having a husband of her own. She was like that because she was taught to be someone who did not submit or succumb to the expectations of others or the downsides of livelihood.
And in general I believe it's because we've just grown weaker in general as human beings, at least in a first world country perspective we have relatively comfortable lives compared to older eras where bloodshed, violence, physical labor and hardship was more normalised and expected.
Yeah, no. Everyone is an individual and everyone is different.
men worry about job because this is a source of income. no income - no family and there is no backup coming. so at the end of the day men care about their families. The need for sex is even more natural, it is a need of the body. a person cannot stop drinking or eating for a week because he is in a bad mood, it doesn’t work like that
@Musicmanrobertwhen married they dont. they like to work like any western person but they expect man to carry family burden. more educated, enlightened, stable women rise above this biological urge. But young women are like this. Some women only want to work to see people and thus have options in this department. it is harder without money to buy nice clothes etc.
@Musicmanrobertyah that is why marriages cant last. "strong independent" = lonely person who cant cooperate or share. basicly semi narcissist to me. no wonder they are having constant mental disorders as if you are not truly that way by birth or childhood, "larping" will cause serious issues in life. In olden days, maybe 80s or 90s it worked like this regardless of what people said and seems to work roughly same in all countries in world.
@@effexonEven men can't be completely independent. They are dependant, as are women. Anyone who says, "I am independent", is a liar and delusional. Because we AS HUMANS are dependant on protection from other people and love and value given by our close ones and community. Without that we are just soulless beings walking on Earth without any purpose or thought.
@Musicmanrobert yes !! a woman worries also but her job and running a house etc and if she has children that's also running through her mind!!
It's just so horrible that men also have to grow and birth the babies. Oh wait, that's women who do that. 🙄
It's weird how women's contributions to humanity get played down while men's are played up. If women are so useless, then men can try to get offspring from other men. Good luck with that.
😂😂😂
I'm a man and I'm the least simple person I know lol. Always feel really left out and like an outsider when people talk about how men are simple because for me it couldn't be further from the case. My brain is so complex it tortures me.
Yeah, it's so oversimplified and as a fellow man I feel like being talked down to.
"You're simple, little doggy. All you need is to guard the house, fuck around, play with puppies. Sleep repeat." Like there has been no men worrying too much about some aspect of their body, life, or mainly caring about his family regardless of whether he can get stuff done, or fuck someone.
It's really annoying, not because of her, but all the dumb fucks who agree with her, perpetuating this false belief about all men being like this. I'd bet you my liver it's only a small subset that are simple.
and that's okay. everyone is different. you might be a bit more feminine for a man, but you're still a man, and you surely have good things to offer this world. be kind, be courteous, and you shouldnt have any issues in life
Me too you ain't alone
@@dopeasfruck More complex doesn't mean more feminine... This whole stereotype about men being simpler than women is stupid.
@@dopeasfruckthis is the most backhanded compliment of all time
she has a video titled: ‘i hate my life’, of course you hate it, this sexist mindset is hella depressing girl and so untrue 😂
😘😘😘
@@keiralhotanHope u get the help u need girl 😬
It's making me sad that from an environnement you can have those assumptions, even if there's biological things that happens, there are A LOT of shades, nuances to mens and womens. Everything is more complex that it appears so, and I know you know that. The thing we need to think of, is being just, right based on the personnality, the person you have in front of you. Try to know deeply, maybe a lot more are simpler than we think, maybe you'll never know how they feel.
I believe on both sides the human mind was never designed to contemplate how its feeling 24/7
This is hilarious.
Stressing about work isn’t a thing associated with healthy men, no. I don’t think I’ve ever once been stressed about sex. I’m definitely not simple; no man I know is simple. You may be mixing up the notion of simplicity and that of being straightforward.
You should check your information.
I've checked her information and shes' absolutely right!!! You must be a very young man.
bro what are you even talking about? Oxford defines simple as "used to convey that something is very straightforward." they literally have the same meaning. And yes me and every male friend of mine stress more about work than anything else. Even scientific studies show that men's happiness depends most on their work.
@@capacitor8399 Straightforward has a second usage you conveniently forgot: frank or honest.
Come back with evidence that being stressed is a healthy trait and I’ll be interested.
You’ve challenged nothing I said.
I believe you get her overall point, as overt and simplistic as it may be.
Hilarious is just the start.
Regardless of the inaccuracy on talking points, she’s gathering a decent fan base…good for her.
Don’t allow yourself to get caught up believing everything said as truth here.
Approach the talking points with a healthy logical mindset and ask yourself…where’s the evidence to back up these claims.
Someone under 30 that knows men and women are different the world is healing!!!!
Only if you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior. No one can save expect God. We have ALL fallen short.
Everyone knows this, the game is to create chaos in every facet of life through the media so we all fight against each other. They whisper in your ear “that person over there is doing this and that to you” “You should hate them” and then they stand back and watch us all fight. They do this with every subject in life on purpose to keep us all fighting while they clean up.
@@global1007 or you just ignore bullshit and bring facts to the table instead
@@PYC1337 What bullshit exactly? Are these social problems not "bullshit"?
Tf does that even mean?
I can't tell if this is parody or not but it's so funny
I felt like ive taken a fresh breath of air listening to the video and your point of view on things. Because as a 25 year old man, most of the things you gone over are really do resonate. To add to youre topic, a man feels satisfied when he sees that he is satisfying his woman, and getting things done. We like to be of service to people, because it gives us a sense of community and purpose!
As a woman, I can see where your points can be reasonable, but at the same time. your points sound superficial. Why do you think if a woman stresses about her job the first thing in the morning she is automatically labeled as a dude? Like where did that mentality even come from? I’m a woman. I have naturally longer hair than yours, I’m skinny like you, and people call me a ma’am or miss in public whenever I go out. And the first thing I stress about in the morning is my job and my morning routine. Why? Because there’s not even going to be a man doing my job. My medical job is highly dominated by females, and there is never any replacement when I call out. So that is why I try to devote myself to go to work and get ready to work even when I don’t want to. And another thing I stress about first thing in the morning is my physical health. Why? Because I suffer from intense migraines and vommiting situations if I ignore my physical health and nutrients. Another thing I stress in the morning related to my physical health is my teeth, because the health of my teeth is important to me. Another thing I stress about which probably is manly to all of those women out there, is I stress about my car. Because my car is the driving force that helps me get to places where I need and is my own personal wheelchair. When you said men do things like hold the door, they certainly don’t hold the door like the way you make it to be, and these men you speak of certainly don’t do my job. And sometimes, I will find myself pumping my own gas at the gas station. And driving on potholes these “so called” men you speak of supposedly “helping women.” Not every men do stuff for women. Because I know there won’t be a strong man protecting me, I always carry something to keep myself safe when I go out. It is quite odd that you point out that men stress about work, intercourse, and kids but what about physical health? I think you and the rest of the women that say “working on yourself” don’t really really know what working on yourself really means. It means you are working to know yourself and will know what matters in your life and won’t matter so much in your life. And the things that do matter in your life, you will try and make things work because it matters to “self.” When you work on yourself you’ll soon realize that you and yourself matter. And people (men) are not responsible to take on the things you neglect about yourself. And when I do have men that do randomly come and help me, I truly from the bottom of my heart do say thank you to their faces. But most of the time, I’m not sitting there job jobless and useless and thinking about men first thing in the morning. That’s 100% you that is thinking about men in the morning. And if I had loving romantic partner, I would be thinking about him, but he would not be my number one stress because I have already work on myself to always put my health as number one over any future romantic boyfriend.
Exactly you come first before anyone or anything
girl say it louder!! i don't understand anyone who thinks any of this sounds logical in this century
I bet a lot of this is coming from her boyfriend. No woman would want to start every day with s3x, precisely because of women's 28-day cycle which makes women want s3x for only a few days from that cycle. The rest would be a huge compromise on the woman's part, which will inevitably lead to feelings of resentment and maybe even mental health issues in the longrun. "Stay true to yourself" would be a better message for young women out there.
this whole topic is weird knowing everyone is different. there is more women out there then you apparently know that wants sex more than a man that's just the beauty of everything is how each and every individual is different with their own life experiences. you can never generalize about these topics because there is always going to be those outside factors nobody considers
what? what woman wouldn't want to have sex everyday with her man? probably ones with a low libido, but overall having that intimate connection on a regular basis would be the best thing ever. is it realistic? not really because he would get tired after work or have no time in the morning and is busy during the day. point is, if you love your man, you would want to have sex with him whenever. i'm not talking about low libido people but in general.
tell me you don’t know anything about women without telling me you don’t know anything about women
@@Elixrfy this video isn't meant to pander to every discrepancy and nuance; but besides that, you're actually insane if you think society can run and has ever run because people were able to acknowledge everyone and strategize according to outliers. No, like, I can't emphasize how absolutely mentally delusional you sound.
You don't have to agree with everything she says to understand the general point, that we should compliment each other according to our biology, and then you use your own comprehension skills and your own brain to apply our individuals differences. Can't just take information and act like it's intended to be your Bible and everything is Gospel, you take everything in and then you rearrange it in your brain according to what is reasonable and compromisable, like a normal person. And if you are not a normal person, like cognitively, then do whatever works for you and acknowledge that you are not everyone.
People don't consider outside factors because that would ruin us, it must be written in our biology to not act like every single factor on the outside of what is normal and common or of the majority should be considered. Because if they were considered, then we would really start to get nothing done because there will always be consistent outliers to the norm to then cater to and then recater to, too incessantly, that there will never be a solution to anything to reach the most amount of people, and will just continue to create new problems for ourselves where there never needed to be one. Humans are very egotistical, so if we catered to every outlier and acknowledge all their problems, more problems are going to arise and more people are going to worry about whose problem is more important and it will literally be war. You literally cannot save everyone, I'm sorry, but that's just real life. I don't know how old or privileged you are, but you need to start to realize life is not all or even mostly sunshine, lollipops, and rainbows.
If staying true to yourself has ever worked for a young person without much development mentally or not a lot of life experience, we wouldn't have the problems we have with the genders today. Because realistically, what does that even mean? Can you scientifically break it down? Can you elaborate on that with the basis of human philosophy and intellect in mind? Can you thoroughly explain what that means even on the basis of semantics and your understanding of elementary, basics of sociology that we all should know if we are neurotypical, aka social common sense?
You can't just give messages based on what people want to hear or what sounds nice, babes. You also can't just give a message that is radical or unrealistic, like having sex everyday. And I just find it funny that you said no woman would want to do that and you doubt that a woman can have such an opinion herself without it being influenced by outside factors like a boyfriend, but also you say true to yourself as a young woman. You see where it's hard for young women to decipher what that even means? Vague and naive messages like that have literally never helped young women or young men unless it was applied under personal findings with oneself, and you can't even write a video surrounding that message that isn't radically chic or idealistic, it would be a video of lies or pandering or even virtue signaling because it fails to consider we are so influenced by other people that most people can't even realize in their entire lifetime unless they are told that they unconsciously have thoughts that other people have made and they have heard and then internalized after being rearranged during the sleep cycle. That's how intricate and intrinsic influence is.
I cant belive how many agree with this. I couldn't disagree more
Simps will agree with anything a pretty girl has to say
People agree because they feel it's relatable and true. Which is also wrong. Getting your informations by your feelings. Just get an expert in the field that has good relationships around them and take advises from them.
ikr! Thank god, found a sane comment. This video was the easiest disagree for me. Not sure what her sample size was or whether it was diverse enough in the first place but this theory was bs.
She's not presenting it well, obviously, but she's objectively correct.
Yeah. Her perspective is narrow & she does a poor job communicating her points. It's nowhere near as revolutionary as the comments make it out to be
I agree. Men and women are different. BUT saying that men only stress about work and sex and women only about men and being loved etc, is dumb.. That's just not true. Men stress about women, women stress about men, men stress about work, women do too stress about work, men want to be loved, women want to be loved. We all want to be important and valued.
I’m a women and I stress about work when I wake up lol. Never have I stressed about men haha.
She's obviously a Pick-me girl, wanting approval from Manosphere dudes.
On average pal
THANK YOU. I am a woman and I stress about my career. I've known plenty of men who are driven by drama and also men who are more in touch with their emotions. I've known women who are career-driven and don't care for gossiping. Thinking in terms of a collective whole is harmful for not only the people who are stereotyped but the person who thinks that way. We are all individuals at the end of the day and think differently despite stereotypes.
@@nate2759 you may be lesbian
"You are beautiful, and you are fine." I wish there were more of you.
- to make mine
Riiiight, I want friends like this
@@teast3606 hahaaha
Sounded like a poem lol 👆
Preach! A little hug and a kiss after a long day of hard work makes it all worth it.
well said , this video should be out there for everyone to see
we live in a society where everyone thinks they are the best "especially women with the increasing definition of feminism " forgetting our instincts that women are created for men and men for women and they are equal with a one-step higher for men and as you say it is simple.
It's funny and sad when people apply their vision of reality to everybody. Those "what men and women" worry about happens in your perception of the world, your paradigm, it doesn't apply to everybody. I know it's hard to hear.
It applies to everybody, because we are human beings, one animal species. You can’t deny nature
@@bogjesrbin484 Nah, I dont feel this way tbh she made some points that are fair I guess but most of her stuff doesnt apply to me.
@@bogjesrbin484 we aren't clones of eachother, you know human beings are diverse with diffrent personalities, we all have a diffrent perception of reality. its not "just nature" women are diverse and men are diverse.
@shilombaba exactly what I was thinking, she always says "men are_____" "women are_____" like a general statement based on her own life, and forgets that not every woman is like her, and not all men are like the ones she has met.
This Keira is trying to be the newest member of the Manosphere. Like Pearl Hannah Davis. Sad.
why sad
First off, as a woman this gives off pick me energy. This video is told from a limited world-view of traditional gender roles. Men and women do have biological differences, but environmental upbringings are truly what affect someone's personality and ability to form relationships. Everyone is different. By insinuating men are simple, you are not only devaluing the complexity of being a man, but also undermining men to work and sex like they are mindless money sex machines. Same for women, you expect us to appeal to men's sex urges, be sensitive/emotional, male attention etc. It's weird how you are defining what feminity or masculinity is. Of course you didn't mean it like that, but the world is complex. People are complex. Most people are employed, both sides. I don't think it's fair or accurate to label a woman as "masculine" because she is stressing over work. And then it's also unfair to assume that the man is the one that has to stress over work. Life situations vary. You seem too inexperienced to pretend you understand relationships like a therapist would. All of the male praise and admiration may be nice for your ego, but you are far from figuring yourself out. That being said, you are allowed to express your opinions. Just giving my feedback.
Man here. Thanks for saying this
Men want to be lied by this figure of a perfect woman, yet they want you to work and care about the home at the same time
@@katerinash1977 no!
Wrong.
The energy put into this 😂. OUTSTANDING
I’m so glad to see people like you in my generation, I had lost hope in gen Z.
As a man, i stress about whether or not im gonna have enough time and will in the day to satisfy my dopamine needs by doing something healthy
Thank you!! Oh my god I can't understand how it's been so normalized that men care about sex more than they care about their actual partners 😔
@@maddieweaver2942 Are you sure you replied to the right comment? Im not connecting sry :D
@@k1ttyyh i guess it just sounded like you were saying youd rather have a fun healthy life than have a bunch of sex and it was just a relief to hear since the video makes it sound like its ALL men think about 😌
You are wholesome ❤
@@SH-to8sh thats so sweet thank you 🥺🥰
I don’t usually like using terms like “Pickme” as it is usually abused as an ad hominem but holy fuck if the shoe fits 👠😂
can you believe the vast majority of women used to think like her pre social media...
@@Callabunga24 yeah when they used to get beaten up by their husband because the food was cold
very mature young female, this is what the most of the world needs to hear. As a man I completely agree with you, because you're literally spitting the truth af.
Lady you are killing it. Remember if you run into enemies you are going the right way.
You are the best example of beauty " inside and outside "
So mature for your age.
the internalized misogyny be kickin extra hard on this one
Lmao
biology is misogynist
@@Callabunga24 she starts the video with making generalisations based on her views while trying to pose it as biological
I am a man and i approve 🙈 i always wake up planning for what to do in work . How to provide and what to get to keep the fridge open . I am thankful to my wife , i don’t know how but she understands this well. I love her to the grave.
Another 'pearl' in the making..
fr lmao
ikr, she kinda looks like her lol
This girl just repeats banalities and suddenly becomes a hero and a simp magnet.
Don't hate the player , hate the game lol
@@noorlancer I don't hate her, nor banalities, nor simps, nor magnets. I love all of them.
She is going against the female programming which is a great thing. Not everything is simping, bruh
Hey. What is wrong with caring about women? Even I think that being a social media fan of someone is weird, but men are supposed to care about women. And women about men. God created us like this. The world has just fallen short.
@@BAsed_AFro Either you're kidding in a very tongue in cheek way, or you are completely brainwashed and incapable of independent thought
this video is male gaze💀
You're male gaze, you're so male gaze that when a male gazes at you he feels like he's looking in the mirror and sees a little girl
exactly, shes clueless about the horrible circumstances some women (and men) have to live with nowadays
I definitely don't stress about success and such, I just want to connect and find nurturing aspects; like friends, mates and such. Family is most important
Same
You should have dropped the point where you call women who stresses about their job "masculine". Nurses for example work their asses off
Exactly as someone who’s always been hardworking and very homely that point was ahh
She is very young and speaks with authorithy of a naive overly confident child. The realities of life will hit her one day, if she has a life of an average woman. Women stress about their work as much as men. People in the comment section give her too much credit. Her views are very black and white, not profound. I guess it speaks to simple minded.
64 year old 4 years divorced man here. You nailed it. Would love to meet a woman with your views!
find a woman your own age
@@Brookpitlikthis made me laugh so bad😭
This girl is delusional. I am a laborer. I'm also a mom. I work 50-60hours a week, I do the grocery shopping, I clean the house, I do EVERYTHING. I STRESS ABOUT FOOD ON THE TABLE AND CLEANING THAT TABLE. Does she not work?
She is pro misogynist
Honestly you’re a beast. Keep crushing it. Epic video. A lot of truths and super cool to see you blowing this channel up just off honest rants. Congrats on 10k!
"Men are simple. They get 👏 the 👏 job 👏 done👏. They have to."
PREACH IT BABY
It has been obvious to me since I was about 14 that females are much more complex than us guys. Glad you have come to that conclusion too. We all need each other because our differences are so complimentary.
Stress about work on wake up, during the day and at bedtime; Waiting for the boom to fall, worried about falling behind and being discarded by the side of the road.
yeah but maybe we should not stress about, lol