Be a river. Live in the now & for the future & forget the past. If u r doing the right thing u will be like a river in May, not the river in November. I never wake up thinking ' I didn't worry enough yesterday.' Dwell on the past & go negatively will make u miserable. Just be positive & let the crap flow away from you. 😮
Im gen z but this is just ridiculous. We never had to go througe wars and famines. We live in the best era in history. Sure it can change but older people definitely went trouge stuff.
I was born in 77... had cancer and a couple kids in the 90's.... was given 6 mo to live... 20 something years later.... still hear... you are going to make it girl .
It’s rough Keira, but as an old guy, it’s refreshing to hear a young person who’s clearly sensitive, loving, and empathic. Wish you the best in all things.
Same here. As a mid fifties bloke, who has bipolar 2, which is controlled by medication... My path is too different from this young lady to offer firm advice. But, yes, being young is tough. There are so many bad paths before you, and life really is tough. But there's a saying that's a blessing and a curse. This too shall pass. Yes, the good times will pass, but so will the bad times. And every bad path you end up following is a chance to learn. Your pain shall pass, with experience your path will become clearer as you age.
"I hate the position I'm in, I'm tired of feeling like my energy is not appreciated. I'm tired of feeling like I'm putting my all into everything...." you literally describe what it is to be a man. Countless men work full time, spend a LOT of money on working towards a family and then discover that their partner has found someone "better" and that you just spent ten's of thousands of dollars on a future that only you appeared to care about, since that person didn't have the decency to just end things the moment they realized they were interested in something else. So I can definitely understand how you feel, since that's how most average men feel in life. So I'll give you the same advice we give each other, just get through it as best you can and tell yourself that you're alright, even if you're not. Because at the end of the day ain't nobody give a shit about no man, and with society becoming more equal that phrase will change to "ain't nobody give no shit about anyone."
There is only one chance to happy maybe two ... three but not four long term partners then it ends. Just stop asking too much of perfection. We are people not perfection.
You sound like you may be suffering from some level of depression possibly. I think you’re being hard on yourself and you need to realize that. You sound like a very conscientious person. Just continue working like you have been and you will know if you’ve done your best. You need not feel guilty because you sound like you’re ahead of the rest when it comes to responsibilities and doing your part.
Your situation is actually different than the girl in the video. She was born with a silver spoon in her mouth in being an attractive woman and she seems to have messed it up.
no, that's a bad way to look at it- those aren't human first of all. then, the story of cain isn't an end al be all - it's a way of being that can be accepted at each point in life. one may be possessed'' by some spirit, but the terminology underpins that it's not what he is fundamentally. @@Pazuzu-
Almost 50 & I feel the same way… I can not stand the way society is built & I’ve felt this way since I was 15 but I keep surfing this wave with the jagged coral reefs below me because that’s what we’ve been programmed to do. I do however push back against establishment and do as little as I can on the shit they want me to do. I keep my sanity by playing video games ( NO TV EVER ) working on my veggie garden & hitting my punching bags. I don’t know anyone I grew up with and have 1 neighbor that I talk / hang with. I do help a 94 yo woman by driving her around grocery shopping or taking her shopping for whatever so she can get out of her house since she can’t drive anymore. Wish I could give you a hug…. Stay strong young blood. Battle those demon in your head because they want to tear you down. Much love to you
“I f do not know anyone I grew up with?” You mean you don’t talk to them anymore? Well in my case it’s different as I still occasionally talk to old friends but I realize that we are much different people at this point and the only thing we have in common at this point are our shared memories. Oh and the thought of making new friends is quite daunting . Plus I’ve realized that people = drama/bs
I’m 21 years old, I’ve been working full time since i was 17 and i bust my ass day in and day out just to make ends meet. Got cheated on twice and recently lost my grandmother. I laugh every time people tell me to have hope in the world cuz things will eventually turn around. U know why I laugh? Not because the world is unfair, but the fact that the people we live with in this world have made life unbearable.
Hi Keira ! I stumbled onto this video of yours about a month ago. I made no comment to you because it was the first video of yours I saw. I have since then seen maybe 4- 5 others video's of yours.You reached out to me too ! Thank you. I admire your courage to allow yourself to be vulnerable in the attempt to help others with your truth. You are so wise beyond your age. This is refreshing to see and gives me hope for the younger generation. I appreciate your empathic stoic energy and I believe it is helping others. Thank you ! From one Empath to another take a break from social media often as you want. Get out in Gods natural outdoors and find the beauty there and recharge your purpose. Let the Lord be your compass. No Family is perfect, that is for God ! I pray God restores that relationship with your Family for you all because with God all things are possible. I agree to keep your dreams to yourself. That is what we want to be happy. I wish more Women thought like you. If I ever have a daughter like you I would be proud of her ! Happy Easter ! God Bless ! ❤
I just found out recently that one in five Americans are on psychiatric medication. That doesn't include people who are addicted to other substances. So, it could be one in four or three people who rely on a substance. It's scary.
Yes 🙌 I think social media is sucking the life from people, best thing I’ve done this year is to remove all social media apps from my phone. Spend more time in nature. We need to get back to basics.
Thank you for this extremely candid soliloquy. Consider the following: 1. Try doing everything that is happening in your life while in a third-world country. 2. Consider our ancestors who survived World War I, Influenza, The Great Depression, World War II, The Korean War, The Civil Rights Movement, The Cuban Missile Crisis, The Vietnam War, The Gas Crisis, and AIDS. And through all of that, people went to work, fell in love, and helped others. 3. At prima facie you appar to have all of your faculties and appendages. Imagine navigating life with any of those components missing. 4. Therapy can be very helpful when a person is overwhelmed by life's challenges.
It's kinda unhelpful as we only live in our own reality and adapt to that expectation. That's why people in west can be deeply unhappy and poor people in developing world happy and content.
Being who you are is the essentiel thing... You are unique and because of this you are appreciated as a person without needing to do anything exceptional... You will win if you keep trying...
As someone who has had extremely high points and extremely low points, I will offer you this: I have made six figures, I have driven the expensive car, I have had the big house, the designer shirts, and taken lavish vacations. I have also seen my buddies die overseas, I have been hooked on drugs and alcohol, I have had to sleep in my car, I have been fired, I have cut my arms to feel, I have stood on the ledge tempted to jump, I was beaten as a child, I was in the toxic relationship….. I live my life by practicing radical acceptance. It’s just as it sounds. It is what it is. Forgive the platitudes. There’s a strange beauty and mystery in how the world works and what it offers you. If you put yourself first and only yourself, the universe will deliver. It’s always on time. You’re doing everything right. What you are feeling is valid. You matter. Best to you ❤
Thank you too. I've been really feeling low thinking that my life will never be as good as it used to with my ex and all the wonderful holidays and days out we had and I have nothing to look forward to now. No holidays. No company. It is what is. Its hard to accept but I have to otherwise I will go mad x
Bus drivers are the shit. I ride the bus and some of my favorite people are bus drivers. I don't know them personally, but whenever I see their smile, hear them say "have a nice day" as I'm leaving the bus, etc., I'm thankful that they exist. I hope they know they're precious - unfortunately it'd be a bit weird for me to express how I feel about them while they're on the job, aside from the "Thank you!" I shout at them as I'm exiting the bus. A number of them are super attractive too (not that this determines their value at all). So, this is all to say, there may very well be many people like me who think you're awesome who haven't been able to tell you, and you wouldn't know it. Besides, if you're a human being you have value in ways I don't think any of us can really understand.
Hi Moonwalker. I work in mgmt for a transport/trucking business. I am familiar with your job bc I work closely w/ our truck drivers and they do in a way what you do. Its a tough job, very tough. You guys are very underappreciated and you go unnoticed. I wanted to say thank you for doing the type of job that keeps society running 🙏 You are doing a much more important thing daily than all the popular celebrities and influencers are doing. I actually have hope that humanity will see things this way. Its only a matter of time until we're completely fed up w/ the internet/social media BS and go back to what makes us human (community). Have a great day 😀
We are all feeling this way sometimes. You are a philosopher and challenging the beliefs systems. You are going the right way. I’ve been studying Taoism to help me find my own calm and riding the vibrations again. I’m looking for balance while keeping my energy neutral. Ask for a hug from a good friend (a good hug can make all the difference) and try to get your feet back on the ground again. You express gratitude and that will be the way to move you forward past the stuck energy. Peace. You got this
I understand where you are coming from. Am a 53 year-old guy and for the longest time always felt as if I were alone, even in a crowded room. It took a while and a lot of lumps, but we do eventually figure it out; more often than not it is a "right time, right place, right circumstances" thing. Know what I mean? Took going back to school/going to college for me to get the key to the understanding I needed. Being the rarest type of personality out there (there are only about 2% to 3% of us for the entire world population; I'm an INFJ personality type) it forced me to realize that I might not ever find that other person that could get/understand me; being a man with this personality type is even MORE rare! Talk about suckyness! Long story short: I woke up one morning and asked myself the 1 question that actually had the simplest answer- "Why?". Life is a journey to discover who you are. If you can answer the questions honestly from within yourself and come to peace with it, you are ahead in the game that is life.
@@MotivatedPony It can be lonely. One thing I have tried to get my therapist to understand is that for me, it is all about quality, not quantity. I don't have a problem letting people into my life, as long as they demonstrate BY THEIR ACTIONS that they are worthy of being in my life. I realize that sounds arrogant, but it is just that I give as much as (if not more) of myself as they do, and feeling as if I am being manipulated (which NEVER works, because I am literally a living bs detector) or taken for granted will make me walk away. The iNFJ "door slam" is NOT a pretty thing; can be downright scary/intimidating to the other personality types.
living by the results of a personality test isnt healthy. it cuts you off from healthy human interaction when you identify as someone who inherently is not capable of or deserving of it. If you just have a healthy appreciation for all beings and dont believe you need to be validated by them, and know they dont need to be validated by you, then you are free and it doesnt bother you if someone dont like you or if someone does something you dont agree with. You just make do with whatever happens and enjoy it all for what it is.
You live in a world that does not care about you. You also live in your mind. In the old days people went to church, joined a bowling league, found a group of people that liked to see each other. It was called having friends. As you said people now have tik tok, instagram, and worse tinder. The answer is within you.
Connect with ourselves first is one thing we are not taught, with the present, and be able to hold our emotions and not letting them unnatended and just pretend they are not there by using phones vidgames, drugs etc. Lady it is fine and ok to have low moments, embrace them and be responsible with our own emotions and our inner selfs. I myself am going through addiction treatment atm and its just the tip of the iceberg, the real struggle is inside and thats where any healing has to happen, its raw its hard yet its beautiful and feeling connected to yourself more and more is very powerful. Thanks for sharing and all the good to you.
This definitely resonates with me and I concur. It can be tough to get out of that funk when you fall in it. I hope you find the thing or things that help you feel better about life. And I really appreciate your video.
I was in a situation during COVID where I felt unmotivated and unhappy with my life. I never took advantage of opportunities before then due to my lack of confidence, and it took a toll on me. I now know my self-worth and calling as those rough times shaped who I am now. I promise things will get better and this is a completely normal feeling to have.
I resonated a lot with what you feel because I am going through an awakening and I feel the same disconnection between us right now that we are going through as human beings and it also makes me very sad. I think they are trying to dehumanize us, however I believe that when you begin to balance your energy and connect with your spirit, synchronism appears and you receive videos like this, situations and people that align with your own creative, expansive and empowering energy. Thank you for sharing your experience and words ♥
Sending you love and transformational blessings 🪷 we all feel like this at some point. We are vulnerable, and week. But you are so strong to be open about it, thank you for being so inspiring ✨ You are the light ☀️ you are loved 🕊️ I appreciate you 🦋
You are so very articulate, Keira. And even though you may not feel it to be so today ... so PRECIOUS! I'm praying for your comfort and peace of mind. ♥️
Yo so i am practicing being silent in social proximity and so far i've managed to get a grasp of loving myself (appreciative for this life), that the next thing became a sense that i change my outward awareness to inward awareness (management of feelings and thoughts). 1 day it went great and i really got a foothold; then 3 days later i had the chance to grow this sense because 3 people i was working with kept trying to sweep me off my feet. They kept trying to get my attention and many times they managed to divert my attention and patience from inward to outward. Right back into the chaos, they want the old me or something, sometimes i'd roar back and we have a laugh or harsh teasing so i guess they're testing me, i am becoming stronger. Everyday i get a little bit closer to feeling fine. The waves of others crashing reminded me of the testing;teasing bit. I really like the way you put it! and always appreciate yourself! you are really well on your way
Just found your channel and it's really refreshing to hear someone say the things that I've been thinking for so long. I put in so much effort into trying to build meaningful relationships and so many people take it for granted. So many women have told me that they want unconditional love but the second I give that to them they're never reciprical and it's never good enough. I feel like I work so hard not just at my job but for myself as well. For years I've gathered so many different hobbies and interests and my social skills are better but for some reason I just feel like it's never good enough and it's to no end. I do love myself and I love that I have taken the time to discover myself and what I want but now that I know what I really search for in a relationship it's really hard to find it.
Thank you for your courage, openness, and honesty within this video. I can relate very well to how you felt here. I hope you're feeling better now. Please take care. You and your life are important. You are successful because you're still going, trying, and doing your best. It's when we give up on ourselves that we fail. Keep going and keep being you.
I’m glad I was recommended this video. I think your sentiments are something most all of us have, to varying degrees, experienced at one point or another. I know I have, even dismissing my own pain by comparing it to others less fortunate than myself; making me feel even more weak and confused. But you’re right to look inwards and acknowledge your sadness because despite how small it may be relative to the sorrows of the world, it’s still ours. So we should nurture it and through that, we become more developed people who are better adjusted to be the change we’d like to see in the world. Anyways, thanks for video. It’s not always easy to share our tears but it can be helpful to be reminded we’re not as alone in our feelings as we may sometimes think. Stay strong and bless your heart, you’ve got this
Thank you for putting these thoughts together. Human connection can be very difficult to foster in today's society and at times I have also found myself searching for more of it and feeling kind of blue. This is a very relatable experience. Just keep at it and you'll find the connection you are looking for!
I'm so sorry sweetheart. Life can be so difficult, and I see you are truly suffering to a great extent. Praying for you to get through this tough time. Don't give up, the great power throws us tough challenges, but perseverance will win.
My 50th year here on earth and I can say that you have a wonderful perspective. I believe it is intrinsic to know yourself and that introspection is the key to a happy and fulfilling life. Whatever was the catalyst for this video, just remember that, "this too shall pass." Keep holding to that accountability and I believe that you'll be just fine in whatever you do.
You seem pretty realistic in the way you view your situation here. I noticed you seem eager to change and grow, which, tbh is something I see most people around me missing in 2024 missing. You seem like a pretty beautiful soul, and everything you said here resonated. You got this, you're young too, and what you're feeling is a right of passage. You have everything you need to go out and make the world a more beautiful place. You're doing it right now. Remember to stay grateful, love your family, and respect yourself, and you'll get exactly where you wanna be, as the woman you wanna be❤
the world is undergoing a complete transformation now Keira. the old ways are crumbling. those ,like yourself , who are dissillusioned, are awakening to your true selves. your divine selves. you are smart ,brave and beautiful, . be well Keira lhotan.
The old ways are crumbling but the new ways are not getting the job done. Tradition is a solution to a problem we have forgotten.... remove the solution, the problem comes back. We have to reinvent the old ways. Renew, revitalize, reinvent... not discard.
I can relate!! I wiped out 3K of a coworker’s debt with a loan he took out for the company I work for, putting my job on the line in the process. He pretty much forgot about it a week later and if he’s in a bad move, he’s a complete ahole. Never again! At least not with putting my job on the line to help someone get ahead.
Barely thirty seconds in and I know PRECISELY how y'feel. I try so hard and none of my efforts, energy, passion, or anything of the sort are ever appreciated in the least. Thank you for this and I hope you remember that they aren't excuses but rather EXPLANATIONS and we do need reassurance on some level. I acknowledge that one must love oneself first but we are wired to need love from others!
I'm 13 and im so so happy I found this video, I thought I was the only one who felt this way - feeling disconnected, helpless, and in a way, lost. The way our society is set up to push us all apart and make our lives worthless and miserable. To keep us at a constant "wanting" for something, to keep us waiting, to keep us dumb, and little, and robotic. It's lonely. It's like there's only a few having epiphanies like this and the rest are running with the sheep, blinded and lost. I'm being left behind, at one point I felt like I will never have a genuine, real connection with anyone because I thought I was the only one who felt or thinks like this. Especially in my age group. To see, literal hell on earth unfolding in front of our faces and it's all because of all these stupid trends. I fell into this "dark femme" "femme fatale" "it girl" trend on social media a few months back and I was just bombarded with content telling me I'm superior, that I should be unsocial and private and basically people screaming at me how to live my life. Combined with music and aesthetically pleasing videos, this trap is very easy to fall into and I soon realized how toxic it was and I luckily and HAPPILY deleted social media :) bye bye manipulation and toxicity disguised as "tips". Anyway, just wanted to say it's nice to know I'm not the only one.
That's not true dude. You need to find your tribe. People who have common goals and common like minds so they can help keep you hard when your mind wants to make you soft. Find a purpose.
I feel your pain. It is honestly sad people don't see the value in, and appreciate others, especially in relationships. Its still about money, and entitlements, but the best way to change it is to be a reflection of what you want, and leave the people who don't see it in you.
I don't know if you're millenial or gen z, but I feel these problems are just getting worse with every generation. If you've ever heard "easy times make weak men and hard times make strong men", that quote is about a cycle where humans get too comfortable in "easy" times which leads to a mentally weak civilization. That is what is happening now. Being genuine and different is considered "cringe", because people are too scared of standing out, of not conforming with society. There is also the increased use of "ironic" humor people use to hide their true feelings. Its like it's not "cool" to even try anymore. But I like that you realize the positives in your life. That's what we need, optimism, to pay attention to the good things because our brains already pay too much attention to the bad things. And we should care for each other, as cheesy as it sounds. Wish you the best.
"& strong men give way to good men" - ending i've learned to take on - goodness comes from trials & difficulty - good quote & true about "cringe" / "ironic" / "cool" / & "easy" - so true. also wish you Kiera the best, you got this!
This is fucking stupid and wrong. Easy times don't make weak men, they make stronger men. Hard times create weak men. Who is stronger, a guy who eats the best food, has a strong and stable family, goes outside, and is 6'6 with 200 lbs of muscle, or a skinny brown guy who just got bit by a viper and survived a famine? The reason why we're so weak nowadays is because we've been under hard times for 100 years. Prior to WWI which was essentially the Great Reset, life was far easier, we were actually taller (a sign of better nutrition), not obese from seed oils, and everything was incredibly cheap because inflation was nonexistent. Hell, getting a partner was easy because we had social structures that facilitated this. We are weak nowadays because of the hard times, and making your life harder for no reason because you want to "toughen up" is a surefire way to make yourself weaker and stupider. By the way, the "hard times create strong men" quote you're referencing is from a book that some guy wrote and for some reason midwits love to quote it because it sounds deep or whatever.
There is a moment between childhood and being an adult. That is realising that life is suffering (in part.) Everyone feels it, you just have to look around. But knowing you have suffered means you have lived.
@@8bitgamerC64 ~ And why would you write that? Adolescence IS the period following the onset of puberty during which a young person develops from a child into an adult. Why would you assume, from my writing that, that I'm a perpetual adolescent? Are you actually describing yourself?
I understand the emotional struggle you're going through, what you need to know is you're not the only one that's been through the struggle or will ever go to this struggle ever in the future. What I found the help me out tremendously is watching RUclips videos produced by a channel called Cinema therapy they are quite entertaining helpful and I can't wait to meet them when they come down for the next Comic-Con event. Another thing that can help out tremendously is give NF the rap artist a chance he has a lot of feeling he pours out in his songs and you can listen to almost all the albums front to back every song is great and it's great to introduce to your friends as well. A lot of times helping other people feel better helps yourself feel better so don't give up stay true to yourself don't let the demons creep into your life and make you a different person that you're not
I feel you sis, I feel the same! God has a purpose why your experiencing that situation. Please just don't give up! We can do this! Have faith and don't hate your life. One day you'll be proud on what just happened to you. You'll be proud on how you strong and brave you are. One day you'll able to tell your future children that my daughter and my son, I also do feel the same but I didn't give up, I know God will provide for me and He will guide you, but don't loose hope. Have faith! Thank you for sharing and I'm always here to support you. ❤❤❤ Godbless sis and keep on fighting!
She hearted your comment aka truth was hit. "i have an amazing everything but chad" Well sorry even attractive men are settling with tatted sumo wrestlers.
Dude.. it sucks that the only people i come across, who seem to think like i do.. i dont know, and will likely not get to know them.. it really stirs my soul to see others cry and it sounds like im listening to myself in a lot of ways, its just such a helpless feeling.. If i could say one thing to this young woman, it would be to PLEASE use these lessons/interactions with other people to learn, so as to not be naive and get hurt.. but please dont let it kill the beautiful person you are inside. Keep that alive dont let the wickedness win.. it is a good thing to be a loving person, its not a bad thing to have empathy and society as you can see is trying to snuff us out. Dont let them win. There are others like you still out here..
Interesting to have this recommended. A lot of what you say resonates with me, and it's tough. I also resent tf out of people pushing religion, but much of what you're saying has a precedent in Buddhism, if you know that or not. Reading a bit more about it doesn't fix everything, but it does help provide a few more words and a few more ideas on how to handle the struggles internally. We are driven to consume media, and those who profit have so little care about the secondary effects. Ironic how this is a youtube video sharing such a message, but in an effort to connect with other people, and sort your stuff out too, take a day away from a screen and see how you feel. The waves never stop coming, but how you ride it out can change. I wish you well.
On effort... I can relate to you... We often get the feeling that it's us doing all the hard work for little or no return... The truth is our effort is appreciated but sadly our effort is not always recognised or rewarded... Which is why we have to reward ourselves... This is better known as self satisfaction and there is no better way of achieving this than by helping others in need 😢
You speak from my soul, I made a song about the topic and I have a tip for you. Turn off the social dilemma completely and concentrate only on what you want, not what others see in you or bring you down. Yes, I've been living alone since 2017. I miss my mother, she was the one I understood, I don't really trust her sister, she asks too much and I hate that and I live my life the way I see fit and turn off my phone only to see where I stand, not to do something good for others. But as a musician and artist everything is different, I really wish you a speedy recovery, I love videos like this because they really show how people can no longer get together in such a short time. Hug you, you are naturally wonderful! 🥰
Many people live their lives just going through the motions. They aren't truly fulfilled but unable or unwilling to acknowledge it. Never fall into the trap of living your life for other people or let them tell you what you need and want in life. Get to know yourself first as best as you can and create a life that is authentic to you. I wish you all the best!!
This resonated with me a lot. It's nice to know I'm not the only one that feels this way about life. It's so easy to fall into a place where you feel lost, alone and done with everything. Even moreso to stay in that state once you're there. Wish you all the best!
A wise, realistic mindset, thank you for sharing. I approach this situation asking myself "Is this what I want? To keep to my lonely self? For the rest of my life? Having not made any important moment and memories to look back to? Does my existence really mean nothing? Do I have no purpose in life? Am I really useless?" Even as a socially distant introvert, I feel that void in my heart, the agonizing feeling that something is missing. That I have no one to open up to, who will listen, who will invest their time and energy in me as I would them. I want to touch the lives and hearts of others. I want to help, serve, and enrich the lives of my loved ones. I want to give my everything to the one that will do the same for me. And to accomplish that, I know what I must NOT do: keep to myself as I always have. Instead I must burst my own bubble, put myself out there, socialize in good faith, make meaningful connections with the right people, invest in others, open up to those who will listen. So I feel you there. And I hope our next actions take us to a bright, fulfilling future. I believe in you. That mindset of yours will go a long way!
idk how or why youtube recommended me this video to me, but im glad it did. i know im a random guy but i just want to say to you that im proud of you, you are strong woman. just by talking to yourself and try to find a way to make a change in your life is a lot, and you find the courage to film it and upload it to youtube, so just by doing that you are helping others, your are giving support. we are here in this world to be happy, but to find happiness we have to struggle, to be sad, to have problems. because there is no happiness without the bad things in life .... we just need to remember this and keep trying. its a long journey so dont rush. you have a hole life to learn and find your true self, where you feel great with your life .... keep working on you everyday. your are awesome. Love is strength. YOU GOT THIS!
I've been in this state for years. It's hard to trust people outside of your small circle of family. And when family doesn't respect your efforts, you have no where else to go. You can't take chances with the people of this world. So you are stuck. God be with you and may you find a way out.
I hate my life, too. I’m mid 40s and male. ETA: I hope your situation gets better. You are a sweet, caring, and wonderful young woman with her whole life ahead of her - you deserve for that life to be happy and fulfilling. 🤗
I wake up everyday and do exactly what I want to do every day. I stopped caring about all the bs we’ve been conditioned to care about above all else. And I started caring about myself for the first time in 20 years. I’m 35 years old and my full time job for the rest of my life will be my physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual wellbeing. And for the first time in 20 years I feel like I can breathe again. Society has taught us all how to hate ourselves, to see lacking where we should see imperfect greatness, to measure our self worth based upon our material possessions, and constantly compare our own lives to the lives of others around us. The problem with that is that the kind of Love society has us all out here endlessly competing and searching for comes from within. If we don’t take the time to get to know and love ourselves, nothing we could ever achieve, acquire, or share with anyone will ever make us happy.
Hi, just want to say I'm empathising with you a lot and listened. When you spoke about lack of connection, even if you have friends I really felt that. I can't help but feel like modern society is facilitating this fake 'social connection' between us. I understand that you're probably sick of people giving 'solutions' to your feelings, I sure am, but I want to share an observation I made. I don't know for sure, but I think it might be something to do with socialising just isn't enough for humans. We've got to actually help each other, build communities, protect and understand one another and live together. Modern society is forcing us into tiny boxes glued to screens, giving a substitute for genuine connection, hijacking our brains into shutting us up for a little while longer while we slowly go mad. My contentment has definitely gotten a little better the more I focus on trying to get as close to this as possible - not perfect, but better. I understand what you're going through. It's an issue that is equal across every demographic. Hang in there.
I feel as though I have a bad luck curse. I’ve even had people I know tell me I genuinely seem to have horrible luck. It’s to the point where I just come to expect the worst. I’ve strongly considered leaving this world sooner rather than later, and I just might if it doesn’t get better in a few years. I’m really trying, but nothing seems to come together. I’m sending you love and I appreciate you being vulnerable like this. I know it’s not easy
I appreciate you HEAPS and *gasp* even want to connect with you. I've watched a couple of videos of yours last night and this morning and what you're saying is real talk! Love it! Finally someone has said the things that needed to be said! Keep going at what you're doing and more love to you! I hope you find your peace, daily. :)
I can relate, been there done that. But where my story changed is when putting my mental,physical, emotional came first ! Self- love and self care came first for me to see a positive change. I can humbly say that i had to learn to love again,laugh again,live again. I start my day saying good qualities about myself to myself. Little by little the negative recording goes quiet.
I'm 45 years old, & I've felt just like this, ALL MY LIFE!!...... Please hang on!!!! One baby Step at a Time....BREATHE!! Don't Forget to Breathe. Go Out in Nature!! It Helps. It Doesn't take Everything away. But it Helps. We Want the PAIN TO END!! (Not Our Lives) It's a VERY TOUGH PLACE/SPOT to be in. But Please DON'T GIVE UP! One Day, it WILL be 'Good ENOUGH'.......(For Both Good, & Bad, Days) I Promise!👍😘😇🙏💜💕💕💛💐🍀🍀💖😊🌊🔭🌌🌙😎💙💜 Take GOOD Care, Sweet Girl! You have What it Takes!!👍😃💐
I am so sorry you are feeling this way. I see that it is a month ago you posted this. I am hoping that things have changed for you. I always listen to that sentence, "This too shall pass" and feel comfort from it. When I used to feel this way most people would say, "Cheer up!" That was their advice. I can laugh about now after all these years but at the time, I know it is difficult. Take care and God bless.
Hi Keira, I can tell you are a star. I've taken some hits . There are many inconsiderate people out there, and it hurts. But like you said, the world will continue on. Yes, you must block those bad experiences out, it's the only way. A lot of days I can't believe that people don't care for me. How can I be that unlikeable ? You are a star I believe. You already have it figured out. Big Love from Tucson,AZ. Thank you
@@_Arugula_Salad_ Realism is just a state of mind, and what's real to one man is false to another. It's all a matter of perspective. Hope you have a good day to bro.
I have found my peace in doing things for others with no expectations. I have faced many difficulties but the feeling I get from the smallest gestures cannot bring me more contentment. We tend to blame others for our issues. Whether it is true or not does not change the situation. Move on, be kind to others, and love yourself
So true that we are so disconnected from from everyone except our phones. It is sad. They do want us disconnect focused on screens. And yeah feeling we are not on par with how others a doing, comparing to others makes us all sad. It’s great you put in effort. You’re doing a lot better than most. Hope you feel better soon and have a wonderful life ❤
In my experience, life is what you make it. Whenever I feel bad for myself, life seems to get so much worse. My battle, is a mental battle. And it’s the same for a lot of people. If you don’t think you’re enough, then you’re not going to be enough, people in this world often don’t care or don’t know how to care and you need to care for yourself, so if you put effort in, even a little bit, just realise that’s better than most people. I am in my first year of university studying computer science and I am not putting enough effort in, but I know, that it’s not worth kicking myself for this, because right now, I’m going through shit. So, to anyone reading this, you are enough. Keep on going, it’s not as bad as you think. Life is much simpler than you think and you need to look at it in smaller pieces and enjoy the journey.
this hit hard...right in the feels, feels good to heat it as much as it must have felt to let it out "Hate is a place, where a man who can't stand sadness goes"- Godo, Berserk this always reminds me to let it out
the best advice i can give you is get away from social media...get out in the world and talk to people face to face like we all did when i was growing up...trust me i know what its like to deal with really messed up complex emotions that you dont even know how to label...but youre 100 percent correct....we are all responsible for our own mental health and handling the emotions within us....i wouldnt normally do this but you seem like a really genuine person and ive kinda been through the ringer with things like this so if you need someone to talk to...or just someone to listen reply and ill get in touch and give you contact info....people do care...as much as it can feel like it...youre not alone!
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” ~ Philippians 4:6-7
"I just cried, so naturally I will make a video because what else would I do". This would be a death sentence for a man. Imagine having as much social support as you do as an average woman and still being miserable.
you are too intelligent, aware, and it hurts, we become loners... hope is to meet people with similar thoughts. I'm from Europe, it's similar situation. LOVE🥰
The world is different today compared to how it was yesterday, so just know it is not your fault either for what you find difficult to achieve. A lot of people, including myself, are going through similar things as you. Nothing is perfect in this world too, and we can’t compare ourselves to others, because these are the distracting waves. I can tell you are smart. I believe you will find a way to be far from these unpleasant feelings. Thank you for this video too.
Don't scream; you are the master of your emotions. Blowing up, screaming, and crying are not always the most appropriate responses to a situation. Life is not fair. Some people work their entire lives and never find happiness, while others are born into it. Horrible things happen to good people, and good things happen to bad people. Please understand this. Find someone you aspire to be like; there are good people out there. You just need to find them and model yourself after them. Changing isn't as easy as you think. Altering your character requires time and effort. So, while you may think you can easily give up who you are, you'll quickly find yourself reverting to your old self. Seek out people who will support you; they exist. Don't dismiss everyone. Avoid placing blame on 'them'-it's nonsensical. Reflect on how fortunate you are compared to others. Consider your surroundings, like sitting in a beautiful room-some aren't as lucky to have a roof over their heads. I'm not diminishing your issues, but sometimes a change in perspective helps. And it's okay to blame the world; sometimes, the world indeed sucks
I know how you feel. Everyone needs a little encouragement in life. Some give it. But a lot like to just receive. I made a change in my life to give more encouragement to others than I think I deserve. That helped me a ton. I even think I have helped others achieve goals they didn't think possible before. Stay strong.
it’s old fashion advice but Health is the energy within you that gives you the ability to go places and do things and while you’re there you look for like-minded people and be open to contact and like-minded people support each other. Good luck in you’re searching. I’m also a searcher and I believe tomorrow or the next day will be better
A home 95% of the population can only dream of living in, beautiful face and body (probably top 10% most beautiful woman in the world) which is a trait that as a matter of fact women can easily exploit in their favor anywhere, lots of opportunities in a rich country... yet you complain, HOW, WHY. Stop. You are plating the life video game is Very Easy mode.
if only it was that simple. those are all external things, which lose their novelty really quickly. happiness comes from within, that's why famous, beautiful rich people can be very depressed.
@@pillow4casestudies We build happiness yes, and happiness is easier to achieve when you have fewer things to be worried about. Half of the planet right now is literally wondering if they will be able to feed their families this month, can't take a shower, and don't have access to something as trivial to us as water. Superficial things helps building our internal state of mind... like I said, she has everything a women can dream with, 99% of the women in this world would like to be her, rich country, easy life, stunning looking... if she can't achieve whatever she considers Success and be happy well, what a waste of gifts.
@@ohboy5775The problem is you guys fuzzy definition of happiness there is no such thing as happiness,there are happy moments and sad moments always it is biologically impossible to have dopamine in your system 24\7 unless your taking some kind of drug which will eventually lead to an even worse Awakening.you have to learn to moderate your expectations and be grateful for what you have there poeple out there with (disease\wars \endless constant state of distress) that wish to be able to sleep without pain,my advice is this stop taking life to damn serouisly have a comic to perception to things, remember the fun you can have with being free and healthy ,you can literally do anything consider everyday a new adventure having goals a ambitions and expectations can make you miserable be a careless person who just here to play and enjoy what he can enjoy out of this world before you die the only thing i regret is not having enough fund because of stupid recurring memories and negative ideas ,leave them behind and create your own fun reality everyday.
@@ohboy5775 There is definitely such a thing as attractive privilege. People who are attractive get more opportunities everywhere. It has been studied. At the same time, it is not everything. Unattractive people are often forced to build greater character because they can never just rely on their looks to get them anything. Attractiveness fades too.
This generation has issues that most of us can't even imagine. Everyone is disconnected these days. I wish you well, young lady.
Definitely life has got much harder for young people, yet many older people think young people are spoilt.
How is everyone disconnected these days? We went through the freakin 2010's which were revolutionary!
@@Nutritarian77500 Primarily, it's social media. The world might be a much smaller place, but we're more distant from each other than ever.
Be a river. Live in the now & for the future & forget the past. If u r doing the right thing u will be like a river in May, not the river in November. I never wake up thinking ' I didn't worry enough yesterday.' Dwell on the past & go negatively will make u miserable. Just be positive & let the crap flow away from you. 😮
Im gen z but this is just ridiculous. We never had to go througe wars and famines. We live in the best era in history. Sure it can change but older people definitely went trouge stuff.
I was born in 77... had cancer and a couple kids in the 90's.... was given 6 mo to live... 20 something years later.... still hear... you are going to make it girl .
What do you mean by that@docwhammo
Praise GOD, Praise GOD, Praise GOD
@@dreamwriter7079 god bless you darling ❤️ 😘
@@dreamwriter7079 thank you... and thank him...
I pray that you will be ok darling....
It’s rough Keira, but as an old guy, it’s refreshing to hear a young person who’s clearly sensitive, loving, and empathic. Wish you the best in all things.
Same here. As a mid fifties bloke, who has bipolar 2, which is controlled by medication... My path is too different from this young lady to offer firm advice. But, yes, being young is tough. There are so many bad paths before you, and life really is tough. But there's a saying that's a blessing and a curse. This too shall pass. Yes, the good times will pass, but so will the bad times. And every bad path you end up following is a chance to learn. Your pain shall pass, with experience your path will become clearer as you age.
"I hate the position I'm in, I'm tired of feeling like my energy is not appreciated. I'm tired of feeling like I'm putting my all into everything...." you literally describe what it is to be a man. Countless men work full time, spend a LOT of money on working towards a family and then discover that their partner has found someone "better" and that you just spent ten's of thousands of dollars on a future that only you appeared to care about, since that person didn't have the decency to just end things the moment they realized they were interested in something else. So I can definitely understand how you feel, since that's how most average men feel in life. So I'll give you the same advice we give each other, just get through it as best you can and tell yourself that you're alright, even if you're not. Because at the end of the day ain't nobody give a shit about no man, and with society becoming more equal that phrase will change to "ain't nobody give no shit about anyone."
some real shit bro
TRUTH... this is exactly why men have given up on females, relationships. Nothing is appreciated, so we keep to ourselves.
There is only one chance to happy maybe two ... three but not four long term partners then it ends. Just stop asking too much of perfection. We are people not perfection.
You sound like you may be suffering from some level of depression possibly.
I think you’re being hard on yourself and you need to realize that.
You sound like a very conscientious person.
Just continue working like you have been and you will know if you’ve done your best. You need not feel guilty because you sound like you’re ahead of the rest when it comes to responsibilities and doing your part.
Spot on. 37 years of struggle and sacrifice with absolutely no rewards here.
Your situation is actually different than the girl in the video. She was born with a silver spoon in her mouth in being an attractive woman and she seems to have messed it up.
sounds like you're cain from the story of cain and abel, story as old as time
@@goofyahhh254 Probably, or maybe something worse, like Belial or Abbadon.
no, that's a bad way to look at it- those aren't human first of all. then, the story of cain isn't an end al be all - it's a way of being that can be accepted at each point in life. one may be possessed'' by some spirit, but the terminology underpins that it's not what he is fundamentally. @@Pazuzu-
@@goofyahhh254keep your christian mythology to yourself yapperton
Almost 50 & I feel the same way… I can not stand the way society is built & I’ve felt this way since I was 15 but I keep surfing this wave with the jagged coral reefs below me because that’s what we’ve been programmed to do. I do however push back against establishment and do as little as I can on the shit they want me to do.
I keep my sanity by playing video games ( NO TV EVER ) working on my veggie garden & hitting my punching bags. I don’t know anyone I grew up with and have 1 neighbor that I talk / hang with. I do help a 94 yo woman by driving her around grocery shopping or taking her shopping for whatever so she can get out of her house since she can’t drive anymore.
Wish I could give you a hug…. Stay strong young blood. Battle those demon in your head because they want to tear you down.
Much love to you
Yeah, we live in a rat lab. It’s palpable.
@@genesiskeglar6372 Indeed my friend… stay safe out there. The world is going crazy right now.
@@xstorm_8_shadowx it sure is. You do the same amigo 🫡
“I f do not know anyone I grew up with?”
You mean you don’t talk to them anymore? Well in my case it’s different as I still occasionally talk to old friends but I realize that we are much different people at this point and the only thing we have in common at this point are our shared memories. Oh and the thought of making new friends is quite daunting . Plus I’ve realized that people = drama/bs
Jesus heals depression and anxiety
Stay strong young lady we all go through stuff like this...
I’m 21 years old, I’ve been working full time since i was 17 and i bust my ass day in and day out just to make ends meet. Got cheated on twice and recently lost my grandmother. I laugh every time people tell me to have hope in the world cuz things will eventually turn around. U know why I laugh? Not because the world is unfair, but the fact that the people we live with in this world have made life unbearable.
"They want us all to be disconnected"!!!!!! TRUTH!!!!!!! THE ONLY THING WE ARE CONNECTED TO IS OUR PHONES!!!!!
And connected to the online and virtual world
we are connected now. Get tested tho. i am nasty
Dos even keep those things to themselves? Or maybe some people just never have thoughts like that. 🤔
I have a flip phone that has no data connection and a PC at home because I have a website. I will never get a so called smartphone.
Yup!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I!!!!!!!!!!!!! Agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You Are physically healthy and you Are not in the war… you Are blessed young lady
I am blessed thank you ❤️🫂
@@keiralhotan Agree, if you have good health and you are not in a war, you are blessed. I would drop social media apps. Gratitude every day will help.
Low fucking standards
@@keiralhotan Psalms 37:4 KJV: Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
We are in spiritual war every day. This is the battle of souls.
Hi Keira ! I stumbled onto this video of yours about a month ago. I made no comment to you because it was the first video of yours I saw. I have since then seen maybe 4- 5 others video's of yours.You reached out to me too ! Thank you. I admire your courage to allow yourself to be vulnerable in the attempt to help others with your truth. You are so wise beyond your age. This is refreshing to see and gives me hope for the younger generation. I appreciate your empathic stoic energy and I believe it is helping others. Thank you ! From one Empath to another take a break from social media often as you want. Get out in Gods natural outdoors and find the beauty there and recharge your purpose. Let the Lord be your compass. No Family is perfect, that is for God ! I pray God restores that relationship with your Family for you all because with God all things are possible. I agree to keep your dreams to yourself. That is what we want to be happy. I wish more Women thought like you. If I ever have a daughter like you I would be proud of her ! Happy Easter ! God Bless ! ❤
My life is tough too.
I hate myself at times as well.
Be strong.
Mental health in America is so bad.
As is much of the "food" supply.
I just found out recently that one in five Americans are on psychiatric medication. That doesn't include people who are addicted to other substances. So, it could be one in four or three people who rely on a substance. It's scary.
@@leanit5756 the slop has destroyed 4 generations. gen z is in their feels 24-7
it's over for amerifats
In other western countries too...
Hey, here over in Russia its really bad, too. Humanity needs a reboot. Something like an apocalypse. To clean it all. To start from fresh.
Yes 🙌 I think social media is sucking the life from people, best thing I’ve done this year is to remove all social media apps from my phone. Spend more time in nature. We need to get back to basics.
Indeed. Got to keep the roaches away.
100% - i cut facebook off 5 years ago and miss nothing.
Yep soo easy to block and discard people and put inappropriate stuff out there and blame people for looking at it the wrong way etc
then go back to the basics and dont want so much from other people like Mens XD then u have more power.
Smart move
Thank you for this extremely candid soliloquy.
Consider the following:
1. Try doing everything that is happening in your life while in a third-world country.
2. Consider our ancestors who survived World War I, Influenza, The Great Depression, World War II, The Korean War, The Civil Rights Movement, The Cuban Missile Crisis, The Vietnam War, The Gas Crisis, and AIDS. And through all of that, people went to work, fell in love, and helped others.
3. At prima facie you appar to have all of your faculties and appendages. Imagine navigating life with any of those components missing.
4. Therapy can be very helpful when a person is overwhelmed by life's challenges.
It's kinda unhelpful as we only live in our own reality and adapt to that expectation. That's why people in west can be deeply unhappy and poor people in developing world happy and content.
Being who you are is the essentiel thing... You are unique and because of this you are appreciated as a person without needing to do anything exceptional... You will win if you keep trying...
As someone who has had extremely high points and extremely low points, I will offer you this:
I have made six figures, I have driven the expensive car, I have had the big house, the designer shirts, and taken lavish vacations.
I have also seen my buddies die overseas, I have been hooked on drugs and alcohol, I have had to sleep in my car, I have been fired, I have cut my arms to feel, I have stood on the ledge tempted to jump, I was beaten as a child, I was in the toxic relationship…..
I live my life by practicing radical acceptance. It’s just as it sounds. It is what it is. Forgive the platitudes. There’s a strange beauty and mystery in how the world works and what it offers you. If you put yourself first and only yourself, the universe will deliver. It’s always on time.
You’re doing everything right. What you are feeling is valid.
You matter.
Best to you ❤
I love you❤️❤️ thank you for sharing your experiences. We all need to share more. 🫂
Thank you too. I've been really feeling low thinking that my life will never be as good as it used to with my ex and all the wonderful holidays and days out we had and I have nothing to look forward to now. No holidays. No company. It is what is. Its hard to accept but I have to otherwise I will go mad x
If the world had more people like you not matter there possessions are he world would be a better place ❤
Many similarities in experience set, here, and I wholeheartedly back your advice, here. Your wisdom has very clearly been hard-won. Peace and love
you should write a book.
As a bus driver of 31 years,
l hate mine too.
I’m happy to be alive & able to reply to your comment. I see you❤️❤️❤️
the real POV no Cap
MoonWalker, you are not a bus driver. You're a living, breathing, complex person who happens to drive a bus for a living.
Bus drivers are the shit. I ride the bus and some of my favorite people are bus drivers. I don't know them personally, but whenever I see their smile, hear them say "have a nice day" as I'm leaving the bus, etc., I'm thankful that they exist. I hope they know they're precious - unfortunately it'd be a bit weird for me to express how I feel about them while they're on the job, aside from the "Thank you!" I shout at them as I'm exiting the bus. A number of them are super attractive too (not that this determines their value at all).
So, this is all to say, there may very well be many people like me who think you're awesome who haven't been able to tell you, and you wouldn't know it. Besides, if you're a human being you have value in ways I don't think any of us can really understand.
Hi Moonwalker. I work in mgmt for a transport/trucking business. I am familiar with your job bc I work closely w/ our truck drivers and they do in a way what you do. Its a tough job, very tough. You guys are very underappreciated and you go unnoticed. I wanted to say thank you for doing the type of job that keeps society running 🙏 You are doing a much more important thing daily than all the popular celebrities and influencers are doing. I actually have hope that humanity will see things this way. Its only a matter of time until we're completely fed up w/ the internet/social media BS and go back to what makes us human (community). Have a great day 😀
We are all feeling this way sometimes. You are a philosopher and challenging the beliefs systems. You are going the right way. I’ve been studying Taoism to help me find my own calm and riding the vibrations again. I’m looking for balance while keeping my energy neutral. Ask for a hug from a good friend (a good hug can make all the difference) and try to get your feet back on the ground again. You express gratitude and that will be the way to move you forward past the stuck energy. Peace. You got this
I understand where you are coming from. Am a 53 year-old guy and for the longest time always felt as if I were alone, even in a crowded room. It took a while and a lot of lumps, but we do eventually figure it out; more often than not it is a "right time, right place, right circumstances" thing. Know what I mean?
Took going back to school/going to college for me to get the key to the understanding I needed. Being the rarest type of personality out there (there are only about 2% to 3% of us for the entire world population; I'm an INFJ personality type) it forced me to realize that I might not ever find that other person that could get/understand me; being a man with this personality type is even MORE rare! Talk about suckyness!
Long story short: I woke up one morning and asked myself the 1 question that actually had the simplest answer- "Why?". Life is a journey to discover who you are. If you can answer the questions honestly from within yourself and come to peace with it, you are ahead in the game that is life.
I was sensing you’re an INFJ like me before you said it.
The same for me, I am an INFJ-T personality type.
Its linely.
@@MotivatedPony It can be lonely. One thing I have tried to get my therapist to understand is that for me, it is all about quality, not quantity.
I don't have a problem letting people into my life, as long as they demonstrate BY THEIR ACTIONS that they are worthy of being in my life. I realize that sounds arrogant, but it is just that I give as much as (if not more) of myself as they do, and feeling as if I am being manipulated (which NEVER works, because I am literally a living bs detector) or taken for granted will make me walk away.
The iNFJ "door slam" is NOT a pretty thing; can be downright scary/intimidating to the other personality types.
@@briancossey4773 Fine when that works for you.
living by the results of a personality test isnt healthy. it cuts you off from healthy human interaction when you identify as someone who inherently is not capable of or deserving of it. If you just have a healthy appreciation for all beings and dont believe you need to be validated by them, and know they dont need to be validated by you, then you are free and it doesnt bother you if someone dont like you or if someone does something you dont agree with. You just make do with whatever happens and enjoy it all for what it is.
I felt this. I feel like I'm in a world that I'll never be comfortable in and will never know my place in.
Find God.
@@Lerian_V I've found Him. Doesn't mean I don't still struggle
@deancreambetweens Of course there's still struggle, but the not knowing your place part is what caught my attention.
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You live in a world that does not care about you. You also live in your mind. In the old days people went to church, joined a bowling league, found a group of people that liked to see each other. It was called having friends. As you said people now have tik tok, instagram, and worse tinder. The answer is within you.
This breaks my heart. Change thoughts, change life.
Connect with ourselves first is one thing we are not taught, with the present, and be able to hold our emotions and not letting them unnatended and just pretend they are not there by using phones vidgames, drugs etc. Lady it is fine and ok to have low moments, embrace them and be responsible with our own emotions and our inner selfs. I myself am going through addiction treatment atm and its just the tip of the iceberg, the real struggle is inside and thats where any healing has to happen, its raw its hard yet its beautiful and feeling connected to yourself more and more is very powerful. Thanks for sharing and all the good to you.
This definitely resonates with me and I concur. It can be tough to get out of that funk when you fall in it. I hope you find the thing or things that help you feel better about life. And I really appreciate your video.
I was in a situation during COVID where I felt unmotivated and unhappy with my life. I never took advantage of opportunities before then due to my lack of confidence, and it took a toll on me. I now know my self-worth and calling as those rough times shaped who I am now. I promise things will get better and this is a completely normal feeling to have.
I resonated a lot with what you feel because I am going through an awakening and I feel the same disconnection between us right now that we are going through as human beings and it also makes me very sad. I think they are trying to dehumanize us, however I believe that when you begin to balance your energy and connect with your spirit, synchronism appears and you receive videos like this, situations and people that align with your own creative, expansive and empowering energy. Thank you for sharing your experience and words ♥
Thank you for hearing me ❤️❤️❤️🫂
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Sending you love and transformational blessings 🪷 we all feel like this at some point. We are vulnerable, and week. But you are so strong to be open about it, thank you for being so inspiring ✨
You are the light ☀️
you are loved
🕊️
I appreciate you 🦋
You are so very articulate, Keira. And even though you may not feel it to be so today ... so PRECIOUS! I'm praying for your comfort and peace of mind. ♥️
It's weird how much I resonate with what you're saying.
I feel like I've had this conversation with myself. Like recently.
Yo so i am practicing being silent in social proximity and so far i've managed to get a grasp of loving myself (appreciative for this life), that the next thing became a sense that i change my outward awareness to inward awareness (management of feelings and thoughts). 1 day it went great and i really got a foothold; then 3 days later i had the chance to grow this sense because 3 people i was working with kept trying to sweep me off my feet. They kept trying to get my attention and many times they managed to divert my attention and patience from inward to outward. Right back into the chaos, they want the old me or something, sometimes i'd roar back and we have a laugh or harsh teasing so i guess they're testing me, i am becoming stronger. Everyday i get a little bit closer to feeling fine. The waves of others crashing reminded me of the testing;teasing bit. I really like the way you put it! and always appreciate yourself! you are really well on your way
Just found your channel and it's really refreshing to hear someone say the things that I've been thinking for so long. I put in so much effort into trying to build meaningful relationships and so many people take it for granted. So many women have told me that they want unconditional love but the second I give that to them they're never reciprical and it's never good enough. I feel like I work so hard not just at my job but for myself as well. For years I've gathered so many different hobbies and interests and my social skills are better but for some reason I just feel like it's never good enough and it's to no end. I do love myself and I love that I have taken the time to discover myself and what I want but now that I know what I really search for in a relationship it's really hard to find it.
Thank you for your courage, openness, and honesty within this video. I can relate very well to how you felt here. I hope you're feeling better now. Please take care. You and your life are important. You are successful because you're still going, trying, and doing your best. It's when we give up on ourselves that we fail. Keep going and keep being you.
I’m glad I was recommended this video. I think your sentiments are something most all of us have, to varying degrees, experienced at one point or another. I know I have, even dismissing my own pain by comparing it to others less fortunate than myself; making me feel even more weak and confused. But you’re right to look inwards and acknowledge your sadness because despite how small it may be relative to the sorrows of the world, it’s still ours. So we should nurture it and through that, we become more developed people who are better adjusted to be the change we’d like to see in the world.
Anyways, thanks for video. It’s not always easy to share our tears but it can be helpful to be reminded we’re not as alone in our feelings as we may sometimes think. Stay strong and bless your heart, you’ve got this
This motivated me to keep going, thank you❤️❤️
Thank you for putting these thoughts together. Human connection can be very difficult to foster in today's society and at times I have also found myself searching for more of it and feeling kind of blue. This is a very relatable experience. Just keep at it and you'll find the connection you are looking for!
I'm so sorry sweetheart. Life can be so difficult, and I see you are truly suffering to a great extent. Praying for you to get through this tough time. Don't give up, the great power throws us tough challenges, but perseverance will win.
My 50th year here on earth and I can say that you have a wonderful perspective. I believe it is intrinsic to know yourself and that introspection is the key to a happy and fulfilling life. Whatever was the catalyst for this video, just remember that, "this too shall pass." Keep holding to that accountability and I believe that you'll be just fine in whatever you do.
You seem pretty realistic in the way you view your situation here. I noticed you seem eager to change and grow, which, tbh is something I see most people around me missing in 2024 missing. You seem like a pretty beautiful soul, and everything you said here resonated. You got this, you're young too, and what you're feeling is a right of passage. You have everything you need to go out and make the world a more beautiful place. You're doing it right now. Remember to stay grateful, love your family, and respect yourself, and you'll get exactly where you wanna be, as the woman you wanna be❤
the world is undergoing a complete transformation now Keira. the old ways are crumbling. those ,like yourself , who are dissillusioned, are awakening to your true selves. your divine selves. you are smart ,brave and beautiful, . be well Keira lhotan.
Thank you❤️❤️
@@keiralhotan you are very welcome.
1000%
The old ways are crumbling but the new ways are not getting the job done. Tradition is a solution to a problem we have forgotten.... remove the solution, the problem comes back.
We have to reinvent the old ways. Renew, revitalize, reinvent... not discard.
@@jeffsmith9384 The new way takes time to flourish, it starts within you.
She's such a smart woman. How she explained it, is spot on to how I feel now she deserves a warm loving hug.
I can relate!! I wiped out 3K of a coworker’s debt with a loan he took out for the company I work for, putting my job on the line in the process. He pretty much forgot about it a week later and if he’s in a bad move, he’s a complete ahole. Never again! At least not with putting my job on the line to help someone get ahead.
Barely thirty seconds in and I know PRECISELY how y'feel. I try so hard and none of my efforts, energy, passion, or anything of the sort are ever appreciated in the least.
Thank you for this and I hope you remember that they aren't excuses but rather EXPLANATIONS and we do need reassurance on some level. I acknowledge that one must love oneself first but we are wired to need love from others!
Love is very powerful & it definitely should be felt in ourselves!❤️❤️❤️
I'm 13 and im so so happy I found this video, I thought I was the only one who felt this way - feeling disconnected, helpless, and in a way, lost. The way our society is set up to push us all apart and make our lives worthless and miserable. To keep us at a constant "wanting" for something, to keep us waiting, to keep us dumb, and little, and robotic. It's lonely. It's like there's only a few having epiphanies like this and the rest are running with the sheep, blinded and lost. I'm being left behind, at one point I felt like I will never have a genuine, real connection with anyone because I thought I was the only one who felt or thinks like this. Especially in my age group. To see, literal hell on earth unfolding in front of our faces and it's all because of all these stupid trends. I fell into this "dark femme" "femme fatale" "it girl" trend on social media a few months back and I was just bombarded with content telling me I'm superior, that I should be unsocial and private and basically people screaming at me how to live my life. Combined with music and aesthetically pleasing videos, this trap is very easy to fall into and I soon realized how toxic it was and I luckily and HAPPILY deleted social media :) bye bye manipulation and toxicity disguised as "tips". Anyway, just wanted to say it's nice to know I'm not the only one.
Im glad you found me❤️ we’re in this together love🫂❤️
bruh ur 13, go play in the park and dont worry about shit
That's not true dude. You need to find your tribe. People who have common goals and common like minds so they can help keep you hard when your mind wants to make you soft. Find a purpose.
Bruh I was already mad at the young girl in the video for thinking she understands the world and then this 13 year old comes along xD
@@narukami597Stop being critical of young girls who are just trying to work their lives out, it’s not big and it’s not clever. Have a little empathy.
idk why, but these speeches from you resonate with me quite alot.
I feel your pain. It is honestly sad people don't see the value in, and appreciate others, especially in relationships. Its still about money, and entitlements, but the best way to change it is to be a reflection of what you want, and leave the people who don't see it in you.
I don't know if you're millenial or gen z, but I feel these problems are just getting worse with every generation. If you've ever heard "easy times make weak men and hard times make strong men", that quote is about a cycle where humans get too comfortable in "easy" times which leads to a mentally weak civilization. That is what is happening now. Being genuine and different is considered "cringe", because people are too scared of standing out, of not conforming with society. There is also the increased use of "ironic" humor people use to hide their true feelings. Its like it's not "cool" to even try anymore. But I like that you realize the positives in your life. That's what we need, optimism, to pay attention to the good things because our brains already pay too much attention to the bad things. And we should care for each other, as cheesy as it sounds. Wish you the best.
I like that quote! Thank you for sharing ❤️
"& strong men give way to good men" - ending i've learned to take on - goodness comes from trials & difficulty - good quote & true about "cringe" / "ironic" / "cool" / & "easy" - so true. also wish you Kiera the best, you got this!
This is fucking stupid and wrong. Easy times don't make weak men, they make stronger men. Hard times create weak men. Who is stronger, a guy who eats the best food, has a strong and stable family, goes outside, and is 6'6 with 200 lbs of muscle, or a skinny brown guy who just got bit by a viper and survived a famine? The reason why we're so weak nowadays is because we've been under hard times for 100 years. Prior to WWI which was essentially the Great Reset, life was far easier, we were actually taller (a sign of better nutrition), not obese from seed oils, and everything was incredibly cheap because inflation was nonexistent. Hell, getting a partner was easy because we had social structures that facilitated this. We are weak nowadays because of the hard times, and making your life harder for no reason because you want to "toughen up" is a surefire way to make yourself weaker and stupider. By the way, the "hard times create strong men" quote you're referencing is from a book that some guy wrote and for some reason midwits love to quote it because it sounds deep or whatever.
A boomer made that quote tho
@@sadhu7191 Still relevant in this type of world.
There is a moment between childhood and being an adult. That is realising that life is suffering (in part.) Everyone feels it, you just have to look around. But knowing you have suffered means you have lived.
That moment, between childhood and adulthood, is called adolescence.
@@endorphinrider62 It may be a moment for some. For you, i suspect, it will last a lifetime. Good Luck on your journey.
@@8bitgamerC64 ~ And why would you write that? Adolescence IS the period following the onset of puberty during which a young person develops from a child into an adult. Why would you assume, from my writing that, that I'm a perpetual adolescent? Are you actually describing yourself?
I’ve felt the same way for a long time myself, I can say that you’re absolutely not alone in feeling that way and I empathize with you.
I understand the emotional struggle you're going through, what you need to know is you're not the only one that's been through the struggle or will ever go to this struggle ever in the future. What I found the help me out tremendously is watching RUclips videos produced by a channel called Cinema therapy they are quite entertaining helpful and I can't wait to meet them when they come down for the next Comic-Con event. Another thing that can help out tremendously is give NF the rap artist a chance he has a lot of feeling he pours out in his songs and you can listen to almost all the albums front to back every song is great and it's great to introduce to your friends as well. A lot of times helping other people feel better helps yourself feel better so don't give up stay true to yourself don't let the demons creep into your life and make you a different person that you're not
I feel you sis, I feel the same!
God has a purpose why your experiencing that situation.
Please just don't give up! We can do this! Have faith and don't hate your life. One day you'll be proud on what just happened to you.
You'll be proud on how you strong and brave you are. One day you'll able to tell your future children that my daughter and my son, I also do feel the same but I didn't give up, I know God will provide for me and He will guide you, but don't loose hope. Have faith!
Thank you for sharing and I'm always here to support you.
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Godbless sis and keep on fighting!
Thank you!! Sending hugs🫂❤️
becky after chad ghosts her
haha
She hearted your comment aka truth was hit. "i have an amazing everything but chad" Well sorry even attractive men are settling with tatted sumo wrestlers.
@@user-2Hteyasizyc she hearted almost every comment
Lmfao, facts
jfl
Dude.. it sucks that the only people i come across, who seem to think like i do.. i dont know, and will likely not get to know them.. it really stirs my soul to see others cry and it sounds like im listening to myself in a lot of ways, its just such a helpless feeling.. If i could say one thing to this young woman, it would be to PLEASE use these lessons/interactions with other people to learn, so as to not be naive and get hurt.. but please dont let it kill the beautiful person you are inside. Keep that alive dont let the wickedness win.. it is a good thing to be a loving person, its not a bad thing to have empathy and society as you can see is trying to snuff us out. Dont let them win. There are others like you still out here..
I'm so sorry that you had to go through this, thank you for for sharing. You don't need any excuses because you don't have to apologize for anything!
Interesting to have this recommended. A lot of what you say resonates with me, and it's tough. I also resent tf out of people pushing religion, but much of what you're saying has a precedent in Buddhism, if you know that or not. Reading a bit more about it doesn't fix everything, but it does help provide a few more words and a few more ideas on how to handle the struggles internally. We are driven to consume media, and those who profit have so little care about the secondary effects. Ironic how this is a youtube video sharing such a message, but in an effort to connect with other people, and sort your stuff out too, take a day away from a screen and see how you feel. The waves never stop coming, but how you ride it out can change. I wish you well.
All these problems are because of atheism
Buddhism is awesome tbh
The algorithm for RUclips and recommended small channels has been amazing lately.Love the vulnerability and openness subscribed!
Thank you for seeing me! ❤️❤️❤️ It’s pushing me past boundaries I never knew in myself.
@@keiralhotan anytime!:) Excited to follow along and witness the growth and internal journey:)
Jesus heals depression and anxiety
Are you going through existential dread as well? This seems to be the theme of videos being recommended to me as of late lol
@@ameliepoulain505 nope
On effort... I can relate to you... We often get the feeling that it's us doing all the hard work for little or no return... The truth is our effort is appreciated but sadly our effort is not always recognised or rewarded... Which is why we have to reward ourselves... This is better known as self satisfaction and there is no better way of achieving this than by helping others in need 😢
Wishing you the best in life!!! Hoping some blessings find their way towards you 😊❤
You speak from my soul, I made a song about the topic and I have a tip for you. Turn off the social dilemma completely and concentrate only on what you want, not what others see in you or bring you down. Yes, I've been living alone since 2017. I miss my mother, she was the one I understood, I don't really trust her sister, she asks too much and I hate that and I live my life the way I see fit and turn off my phone only to see where I stand, not to do something good for others. But as a musician and artist everything is different, I really wish you a speedy recovery, I love videos like this because they really show how people can no longer get together in such a short time. Hug you, you are naturally wonderful!
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"i am done with myself " is a good position to start who you really are ( behind your thoughts, your body and your feelings )
Sending you strength my friend, your inside is beginning to call you (by showing you your joy is not on your "outside")
Many people live their lives just going through the motions. They aren't truly fulfilled but unable or unwilling to acknowledge it. Never fall into the trap of living your life for other people or let them tell you what you need and want in life. Get to know yourself first as best as you can and create a life that is authentic to you. I wish you all the best!!
Life is beautiful because of people like you❤️ thank you!
. etc 2024 n on usfl potentials/ 2023 was vry ‘seldom’ for mass-
This resonated with me a lot. It's nice to know I'm not the only one that feels this way about life.
It's so easy to fall into a place where you feel lost, alone and done with everything. Even moreso to stay in that state once you're there.
Wish you all the best!
A wise, realistic mindset, thank you for sharing. I approach this situation asking myself "Is this what I want? To keep to my lonely self? For the rest of my life? Having not made any important moment and memories to look back to? Does my existence really mean nothing? Do I have no purpose in life? Am I really useless?"
Even as a socially distant introvert, I feel that void in my heart, the agonizing feeling that something is missing. That I have no one to open up to, who will listen, who will invest their time and energy in me as I would them. I want to touch the lives and hearts of others. I want to help, serve, and enrich the lives of my loved ones. I want to give my everything to the one that will do the same for me.
And to accomplish that, I know what I must NOT do: keep to myself as I always have. Instead I must burst my own bubble, put myself out there, socialize in good faith, make meaningful connections with the right people, invest in others, open up to those who will listen.
So I feel you there. And I hope our next actions take us to a bright, fulfilling future. I believe in you. That mindset of yours will go a long way!
idk how or why youtube recommended me this video to me, but im glad it did. i know im a random guy but i just want to say to you that im proud of you, you are strong woman. just by talking to yourself and try to find a way to make a change in your life is a lot, and you find the courage to film it and upload it to youtube, so just by doing that you are helping others, your are giving support. we are here in this world to be happy, but to find happiness we have to struggle, to be sad, to have problems. because there is no happiness without the bad things in life .... we just need to remember this and keep trying. its a long journey so dont rush. you have a hole life to learn and find your true self, where you feel great with your life .... keep working on you everyday. your are awesome. Love is strength. YOU GOT THIS!
I've been in this state for years. It's hard to trust people outside of your small circle of family. And when family doesn't respect your efforts, you have no where else to go. You can't take chances with the people of this world. So you are stuck. God be with you and may you find a way out.
"God be with you."
God IS the way out. Jesus said about Himself, "I am THE way, THE truth, and THE life."
Thanks for sharing this video it helps people to know they are not alone in this suffering.
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In this you have found a purpose.
It’s an overwhelming energy I feel right now. Thank you for accepting me & assuring the feeling. ❤️
I hate my life, too. I’m mid 40s and male. ETA: I hope your situation gets better. You are a sweet, caring, and wonderful young woman with her whole life ahead of her - you deserve for that life to be happy and fulfilling. 🤗
I wake up everyday and do exactly what I want to do every day. I stopped caring about all the bs we’ve been conditioned to care about above all else. And I started caring about myself for the first time in 20 years. I’m 35 years old and my full time job for the rest of my life will be my physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual wellbeing. And for the first time in 20 years I feel like I can breathe again. Society has taught us all how to hate ourselves, to see lacking where we should see imperfect greatness, to measure our self worth based upon our material possessions, and constantly compare our own lives to the lives of others around us. The problem with that is that the kind of Love society has us all out here endlessly competing and searching for comes from within. If we don’t take the time to get to know and love ourselves, nothing we could ever achieve, acquire, or share with anyone will ever make us happy.
Hi, just want to say I'm empathising with you a lot and listened.
When you spoke about lack of connection, even if you have friends I really felt that. I can't help but feel like modern society is facilitating this fake 'social connection' between us.
I understand that you're probably sick of people giving 'solutions' to your feelings, I sure am, but I want to share an observation I made.
I don't know for sure, but I think it might be something to do with socialising just isn't enough for humans. We've got to actually help each other, build communities, protect and understand one another and live together. Modern society is forcing us into tiny boxes glued to screens, giving a substitute for genuine connection, hijacking our brains into shutting us up for a little while longer while we slowly go mad. My contentment has definitely gotten a little better the more I focus on trying to get as close to this as possible - not perfect, but better.
I understand what you're going through. It's an issue that is equal across every demographic. Hang in there.
I feel as though I have a bad luck curse. I’ve even had people I know tell me I genuinely seem to have horrible luck. It’s to the point where I just come to expect the worst. I’ve strongly considered leaving this world sooner rather than later, and I just might if it doesn’t get better in a few years. I’m really trying, but nothing seems to come together. I’m sending you love and I appreciate you being vulnerable like this. I know it’s not easy
I appreciate you HEAPS and *gasp* even want to connect with you. I've watched a couple of videos of yours last night and this morning and what you're saying is real talk! Love it! Finally someone has said the things that needed to be said! Keep going at what you're doing and more love to you! I hope you find your peace, daily. :)
I can relate, been there done that. But where my story changed is when putting my mental,physical, emotional came first ! Self- love and self care came first for me to see a positive change. I can humbly say that i had to learn to love again,laugh again,live again. I start my day saying good qualities about myself to myself. Little by little the negative recording goes quiet.
I'm 45 years old, & I've felt just like this, ALL MY LIFE!!...... Please hang on!!!! One baby Step at a Time....BREATHE!! Don't Forget to Breathe. Go Out in Nature!! It Helps. It Doesn't take Everything away. But it Helps. We Want the PAIN TO END!! (Not Our Lives) It's a VERY TOUGH PLACE/SPOT to be in. But Please DON'T GIVE UP! One Day, it WILL be 'Good ENOUGH'.......(For Both Good, & Bad, Days) I Promise!👍😘😇🙏💜💕💕💛💐🍀🍀💖😊🌊🔭🌌🌙😎💙💜 Take GOOD Care, Sweet Girl! You have What it Takes!!👍😃💐
Wow thank you so much! Your energy is amazing ❤️❤️❤️
This made me feel less alone in my thoughts, thank you.
I am so sorry you are feeling this way. I see that it is a month ago you posted this. I am hoping that things have changed for you. I always listen to that sentence, "This too shall pass" and feel comfort from it. When I used to feel this way most people would say, "Cheer up!" That was their advice. I can laugh about now after all these years but at the time, I know it is difficult. Take care and God bless.
Hi Keira, I can tell you are a star. I've taken some hits . There are many inconsiderate people out there, and it hurts. But like you said, the world will continue on. Yes, you must block those bad experiences out, it's the only way. A lot of days I can't believe that people don't care for me. How can I be that unlikeable ? You are a star I believe. You already have it figured out. Big Love from Tucson,AZ. Thank you
You're so beautiful and so young. Don't give up, life will get better.
People been telling me this same Ole bs for 40 years just plain ole lies
I'm young and handsome, so what? It doesn't magically fix anything
@@_Arugula_Salad_ With that attitude homeboy, nothing good will happen.
@@peace691000 I prefer realism over delusional wishful thinking any day. If that means solitude, so be it. Have a lovely day 💚
@@_Arugula_Salad_ Realism is just a state of mind, and what's real to one man is false to another. It's all a matter of perspective. Hope you have a good day to bro.
You're a young girl with an old sole. Hang in there. We're routing for you. Love ya girl.
Love you 🫂❤️
Love you ❤️🫂
old soul*
I have found my peace in doing things for others with no expectations. I have faced many difficulties but the feeling I get from the smallest gestures cannot bring me more contentment. We tend to blame others for our issues. Whether it is true or not does not change the situation. Move on, be kind to others, and love yourself
So true that we are so disconnected from from everyone except our phones. It is sad. They do want us disconnect focused on screens. And yeah feeling we are not on par with how others a doing, comparing to others makes us all sad. It’s great you put in effort. You’re doing a lot better than most. Hope you feel better soon and have a wonderful life ❤
Keep Strong & Talk To Someone You Trust!! Peace From London!! 🙏🙏🙏
In my experience, life is what you make it. Whenever I feel bad for myself, life seems to get so much worse. My battle, is a mental battle. And it’s the same for a lot of people. If you don’t think you’re enough, then you’re not going to be enough, people in this world often don’t care or don’t know how to care and you need to care for yourself, so if you put effort in, even a little bit, just realise that’s better than most people. I am in my first year of university studying computer science and I am not putting enough effort in, but I know, that it’s not worth kicking myself for this, because right now, I’m going through shit. So, to anyone reading this, you are enough. Keep on going, it’s not as bad as you think. Life is much simpler than you think and you need to look at it in smaller pieces and enjoy the journey.
this hit hard...right in the feels, feels good to heat it as much as it must have felt to let it out
"Hate is a place, where a man who can't stand sadness goes"- Godo, Berserk
this always reminds me to let it out
5:28 Chad taking off in the rocketship after he smashed
Bahaha
Lmao that's fucking funny. But she's a sweet girl
this what happens when Chad doesn't commit 😂
the best advice i can give you is get away from social media...get out in the world and talk to people face to face like we all did when i was growing up...trust me i know what its like to deal with really messed up complex emotions that you dont even know how to label...but youre 100 percent correct....we are all responsible for our own mental health and handling the emotions within us....i wouldnt normally do this but you seem like a really genuine person and ive kinda been through the ringer with things like this so if you need someone to talk to...or just someone to listen reply and ill get in touch and give you contact info....people do care...as much as it can feel like it...youre not alone!
What you knew growing up can be resolutely thrown in the trash because it is now impertinent.
Surround yourself with people that love you and care about you. You are beautiful it breaks my heart to see you this way. Please talk to someone 🙏
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” ~ Philippians 4:6-7
Don't give up! You are one of the few wonderful human being I have seen. Not even in real life could I meet someone like you.
What you are going through is a spiritual awakening and it is a lot to go through. but you are on the right track. be true to yourself
Women live life on easy mode.
Esp if they're white.
Yes. And men mess it up with wars. 💔
@@natashadickson4819 hopefully women still believe in equality when they bring back the draft
@SoulforSale Draft women to fight wars they didn't start? Draft women into a military that will never give a woman top rank? Good luck with that. 😎
@SoulforSale Draft us to fight wars we didn't start? Will you take orders from us when outrank you? 😀
"I just cried, so naturally I will make a video because what else would I do".
This would be a death sentence for a man. Imagine having as much social support as you do as an average woman and still being miserable.
you are too intelligent, aware, and it hurts, we become loners... hope is to meet people with similar thoughts. I'm from Europe, it's similar situation. LOVE🥰
The world is different today compared to how it was yesterday, so just know it is not your fault either for what you find difficult to achieve. A lot of people, including myself, are going through similar things as you. Nothing is perfect in this world too, and we can’t compare ourselves to others, because these are the distracting waves.
I can tell you are smart. I believe you will find a way to be far from these unpleasant feelings. Thank you for this video too.
Don't scream; you are the master of your emotions. Blowing up, screaming, and crying are not always the most appropriate responses to a situation. Life is not fair. Some people work their entire lives and never find happiness, while others are born into it. Horrible things happen to good people, and good things happen to bad people. Please understand this. Find someone you aspire to be like; there are good people out there. You just need to find them and model yourself after them. Changing isn't as easy as you think. Altering your character requires time and effort. So, while you may think you can easily give up who you are, you'll quickly find yourself reverting to your old self. Seek out people who will support you; they exist. Don't dismiss everyone. Avoid placing blame on 'them'-it's nonsensical. Reflect on how fortunate you are compared to others. Consider your surroundings, like sitting in a beautiful room-some aren't as lucky to have a roof over their heads. I'm not diminishing your issues, but sometimes a change in perspective helps. And it's okay to blame the world; sometimes, the world indeed sucks
Blame your fellow woman for your downfall .
I know how you feel. Everyone needs a little encouragement in life. Some give it. But a lot like to just receive. I made a change in my life to give more encouragement to others than I think I deserve. That helped me a ton. I even think I have helped others achieve goals they didn't think possible before. Stay strong.
it’s old fashion advice but Health is the energy within you that gives you the ability to go places and do things and while you’re there you look for like-minded people and be open to contact and like-minded people support each other. Good luck in you’re searching. I’m also a searcher and I believe tomorrow or the next day will be better
A home 95% of the population can only dream of living in, beautiful face and body (probably top 10% most beautiful woman in the world) which is a trait that as a matter of fact women can easily exploit in their favor anywhere, lots of opportunities in a rich country... yet you complain, HOW, WHY.
Stop. You are plating the life video game is Very Easy mode.
if only it was that simple. those are all external things, which lose their novelty really quickly. happiness comes from within, that's why famous, beautiful rich people can be very depressed.
@@pillow4casestudies We build happiness yes, and happiness is easier to achieve when you have fewer things to be worried about. Half of the planet right now is literally wondering if they will be able to feed their families this month, can't take a shower, and don't have access to something as trivial to us as water. Superficial things helps building our internal state of mind... like I said, she has everything a women can dream with, 99% of the women in this world would like to be her, rich country, easy life, stunning looking... if she can't achieve whatever she considers Success and be happy well, what a waste of gifts.
@@walrider7374 i agree, she is a complainer crying for the camera. ( no offence to her)
Why are attractive people so ungrateful? Genuine question
Crazy stretch to think that "attractive" people aren't just automatically happy right?
Grass is always greener on the other side
@@ohboy5775The problem is you guys fuzzy definition of happiness there is no such thing as happiness,there are happy moments and sad moments always it is biologically impossible to have dopamine in your system 24\7 unless your taking some kind of drug which will eventually lead to an even worse Awakening.you have to learn to moderate your expectations and be grateful for what you have there poeple out there with (disease\wars \endless constant state of distress) that wish to be able to sleep without pain,my advice is this stop taking life to damn serouisly have a comic to perception to things, remember the fun you can have with being free and healthy ,you can literally do anything consider everyday a new adventure having goals a ambitions and expectations can make you miserable be a careless person who just here to play and enjoy what he can enjoy out of this world before you die the only thing i regret is not having enough fund because of stupid recurring memories and negative ideas ,leave them behind and create your own fun reality everyday.
@@ohboy5775 There is definitely such a thing as attractive privilege. People who are attractive get more opportunities everywhere. It has been studied. At the same time, it is not everything. Unattractive people are often forced to build greater character because they can never just rely on their looks to get them anything. Attractiveness fades too.
@@1Jason Noone argued against pretty privilege being a thing? Your comment has got nothing to do with mine or the original one
@@ohboy5775 The comment wasn't disagreeing with you. It was relevant to yours and the original comment though.
Don't be like that, you are so young and beautiful, you still have a beautiful life ahead of you!
Don't price yourself like that!