I love Jim talking to her like she’s an idiot, “Did you do something that would make you believe you could be pregnant?” And Brenda goes, “You mean sex? Of course.”
@@startracker5895 It’s not up to you to make decisions about how families operate. You can make that decision for yourself and your family but not for others.
Jim and Cindy wanted to know every detail of Brenda's personal life. I mean my goodness. They trustrd Brandon more than they trusted Brenda. Poor Brenda
LOL! Jim talking to Brenda like she is 10 yrs old... "Did you do something that would give you reason to believe that if you were a few days late that would indicate you were pregnant?" Brenda - "You mean like sex? Yes, of course!" 😅 I'm dead! 🤣
Jim: Did you do something that gave you reason to believe that... Brenda: Oh, no, Daddy, just some pure platonic manifestation of my feelings for a guy...
@@carpentershub1726How did he show that he was proud? Plus, a father typically is more protective of his daughter. Does that make him a sexist pig? She had a pregnancy scare--don't forget about that.
Yes I think that does make someone a sexist pig. Does the father forget he had sex with the girls mother years ago, probably unwed maybe and that girls father probably felt the same way many years ago. So the father needs to realize that his daughter is in the same situation that the father was in years ago with the girls mother. And therefore, the father of the girl can't be a hypocrite, since he did the same thing to the girls mother years ago by having sex with her, so it's not fair to target the daughter. Whether it's the daughter or the son having sex, it needs to handled fairly, I'm sorry but it's no different if the son or daughter is having sex, one shouldn't be discriminated against the other. That is sexist. It takes two to tangle whether it's the boy or girl and I don't buy into dad's being more protective of their daughters when they maybe or probably did the same thing to their mothers. That's hipocritical !
OMG I remember back then after seeing the Spring Dance episode when Brenda loses her virginity parents went ape sh*t! They called the network and protested. On the 90210 10yr reunion Jason Priestley actually joked about how crazy parents got over that particular episode. Nowadays sex is everywhere but 33yrs ago when this happened you'd think it was a major crisis or something!
So true. You have to remember who was running the show back then. It was the Silent Generation and early Baby Boomers. They had a very different value system that literally did not work for anyone including themselves. Sex was taboo back then. Sh*t, they even struggled with divorce back then.. It was the what will the neighbors think mentality?!
@@lillyfahey1921 However you want to think of it, people were miserable and most were stuck in bad marriages and abusive relationships because of their way of thinking and persecution of morals. That generation was nuts!
Thank you! Brandon had sec with his girlfriend in his room, and the parents are like “boys will be boys.” Brenda has consensual, safe sex and her parents basically label he as a slut. And you wonder why she rebelled?
@robinbrown2256 Agreed, just bc Brandon can't get pregnant doesn't mean Brandon can't still make Jim and Cindy grandparents. He could still get a girl pregnant. Brandon being guy doesn't prevent him from getting an STD
When I watched this episode being older than Brenda, I have just lost my virginity and couldn´t have any conversation with my parents a they were educated in the "no sex before marriage values". Now we are the generation having this conversation with our children and, when we bring the argument about "there should be no sex without love and commitment", the Zen generation look at us saying "How old fashioned..." For them sex is just like a hobby or sport...
The trouble you dont realise you’re too young until your older…… at the time you feel so grown up and want to be an adult , u til the consequences happen
This episode singlehandedly made me NOT want to have sex until I was at least out of high school and 18 years old. And I didn't! I was only 9 or 10 when it aired, too... Also, the drunk driving episode was super influential in my always being the DD for friends in high school and college. Thanks, 90210!😂
My high school boyfriend's mother went through his bin to look for evidence of sex & was rewarded with a used condom that she fished out from a balled-up tissue. She confronted her son with it! 🤢 So gross. I thought she should be relieved he was being careful & using condoms.
Looking back as an adult there a lot of double standard between Brandon and Brenda. When Brandon's gf from Minnesota came to visit. Brandon lost her virginity to her. They were pretty chill about it. Despite the fact they literally had in the house right under there nose. They were kinda off and on again. Jim nor Cindy gave him the same speech like they did with Brenda. Brandon was in the same risk of getting her pregnant or STD. While Brenda who has been in a serious relationship with Dylan. They have talk and planned it for awhile. Atleast they didnt have sex in their house. My parents would have been pissed if me or one of my siblings had sex in their house esp if they were home. Since we were disrespecting the house and them
Now that sex is everywhere in all ages from middle school on up, is it no wonder we have all these issues we didn't have before? Any correlations hmmm? 🤔
It seems like 90210 brought open discussion about a lot of subjects that nowadays seem so common but back then were still really an issue. Even more so outside of the US. I was in Europe watching the series and it looked like they lived on Mars. My teenage years surely didn't resemble these stories at all. I remember a 90210 storyline about students fighting for sex ed or distributing condoms at school or something like that. I remember the Donna character being the one who would make the epic speech that would convince everyone. Those issues were still taboo at the time.
it was 1992 when this episode aired. The internet wasn't the big thing it is now. And there was no social media. It was possible for Jim to work without the internet. Notice at work he usually calls people over a land line at his office. My parents had the same type of books in their house for years.
How old are you? There's nothing wrong with parents actually caring about the welfare of their daughter. This was also the '90s. The '80s was when AIDS became a concern and put a damper on sex. This continued into the '90s. Life can be created by sex. This means that it's a big deal. Even if you think abortion is okay, if you go through with one it can be traumatic regardless. It can affect the relationship you have because of mixed feelings. People should be very conscious about who they are intimate with.
@@startracker5895 I agree.I saw how Degrassi,Home and Away and early years BH 90210 DID THIS topic.this and the Canadian Teen Drama had a good mother to be there when and if the bad news came out(Spike and Brenda).I saw what Original Roo had to deal with and the pathetic excuse of a father she had to not be able to have a discussion about it with.
In a way Sex is a big responsiblity and its not a game to play around with b/c someone mostly women can get hurt by sex and rejected. Brenda took a home Pregnacy test and she was green and lucky it wasn't postive or she would have been in trouble.
Ahahaha she did it two weeks ago for the first time and she thought she got pregnant immediately 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. That really shows she was still a naive child
She's supposed to be playing a teenager. There are other reasons a teenager can be 'late'. She should have taken the pregnancy test at Kelly's, the school bathroom or even Dylan's since he lives alone.
I agree that teenagers aren’t emotionally mature enough for sex but I also know that it’s human nature, it’s a part of growing up and it’s a huge life lesson. There’s nothing shameful about it.
Protect your high school kids from STDs especially HIV related. And stay far from their life. Give them freedom and be their friend. With this way, you can protect them. If you want them to take sex serious, teach them, do not interfere later!
...Jim is WIRED! (1:04) ...I think we ALL agree that Jim was holding Brenda to a different set of morals than Brandon...who brought TWO Girls into his Bedroom, BEFORE Brenda!! ...It is wonderful he's actually there (and trying to be understanding), but it WAS 1991...different times, Jim...your Daughter WANTED to ...HER decision (& responsibilities), Man.... (2:53)
The comments are crazy raising a girl is completely different then a boy and teenagers don’t need to be having sex this was a horrible message to send to the teenagers
How is it different? Do guys not get STD or have unplanned pregnancy. I know they can't get pregnant, but I always assume they can still get girl pregnant. The girl doesn't get pregnant on her own
@@sailorsister211boys parents just don’t care if their sons get teenage girls pregnant. It’s actually disgusting not to care. Babies can ruin fathers lives as well as mothers. Men have to pay maintenance for a baby they never wanted.
The parents were right though, she was too immature for sex. I definitely agree that they shouldn’t have a double standard for Brendan and Brenda though.
@@jenniferraymond9766no this was on another level! No dad should talk with their daughter about having sex. It would be humiliating and degrading for the daughter having to talk to their Dad about sex. It should be left to the mother,
@@startracker5895 there's nothing wrong with a girl talking with her dad about sex, the dad just must remember he can't get pregnant, Jim also tells Brenda to at least talk about it with her mother
Brenda was so lucky to have a nice mom. I would have given anything for a mother like that.
My narcissist mother was the wicked witch and that's just putting it nicely
So would I I loved Cindy was a mom any daughter could talk too
I remember watching this and I felt so embarrassed back in the day and today... It was the same feeling hahaha poor Brenda!
I love Jim talking to her like she’s an idiot, “Did you do something that would make you believe you could be pregnant?” And Brenda goes, “You mean sex? Of course.”
It’s a dad talking to his daughter about sex. It’s gonna be awkward.
And where? When? Does it matter, nope. Interrogation or what.
@@EastSide-qc5oya father should never talk to his daughter about sex. It should be left to the mother.
@@startracker5895 It’s not up to you to make decisions about how families operate. You can make that decision for yourself and your family but not for others.
@@startracker5895 Both parents should talk to their kids about sex
Jim and Cindy wanted to know every detail of Brenda's personal life. I mean my goodness. They trustrd Brandon more than they trusted Brenda. Poor Brenda
Jim was the worst. Cindy was better.
Who knows if they new that they put a double standard for her,some parents don’t🤷🏻♀️
@@kathconservgotta agree w that especially when it was Brandon’s first time w that chic😒
@@tinahuttner7280 I liked Cindy. Jim I didn’t.
@@tinahuttner7280 remember that? Jim and Cindy were laying in bed and heard Brandon and Cheryl in bed together and did nothing.
Who talks to their parents like that... Even in the 90's 🤣
it's important to learn about sex in case you get interested in it
That scene seems even more absurd to me now than when I first watched it 30 odd years ago. 🤣
The most excruciating way for a Dad to ask if his daughter .. 😅
LOL! Jim talking to Brenda like she is 10 yrs old... "Did you do something that would give you reason to believe that if you were a few days late that would indicate you were pregnant?"
Brenda - "You mean like sex? Yes, of course!"
😅 I'm dead! 🤣
Jim also say, at least talking about it with her mother if not with Jim
Jim: Did you do something that gave you reason to believe that...
Brenda: Oh, no, Daddy, just some pure platonic manifestation of my feelings for a guy...
😂😂😂
What else did he expect 😂
Well ok we might have held hands 🙄
Mom Is Totally Right About Being “Emotionally” Ready.
Sex Can Come With A lot Of Responsibility, Consequences, And Fallout.
Jim did not care when Brandon's Minnesota girl came and they slept together. But Brenda has sex and it's a huge issue.
Exactly. In fact he was proud.
@@carpentershub1726How did he show that he was proud? Plus, a father typically is more protective of his daughter. Does that make him a sexist pig? She had a pregnancy scare--don't forget about that.
@@lemurianchickboys can get girls pregnant. Why were they never worried about their son getting a girl pregnant?
They normalized the men can do what they want and women must be pure
Yes I think that does make someone a sexist pig. Does the father forget he had sex with the girls mother years ago, probably unwed maybe and that girls father probably felt the same way many years ago. So the father needs to realize that his daughter is in the same situation that the father was in years ago with the girls mother. And therefore, the father of the girl can't be a hypocrite, since he did the same thing to the girls mother years ago by having sex with her, so it's not fair to target the daughter. Whether it's the daughter or the son having sex, it needs to handled fairly, I'm sorry but it's no different if the son or daughter is having sex, one shouldn't be discriminated against the other. That is sexist. It takes two to tangle whether it's the boy or girl and I don't buy into dad's being more protective of their daughters when they maybe or probably did the same thing to their mothers. That's hipocritical !
OMG I remember back then after seeing the Spring Dance episode when Brenda loses her virginity parents went ape sh*t! They called the network and protested. On the 90210 10yr reunion Jason Priestley actually joked about how crazy parents got over that particular episode.
Nowadays sex is everywhere but 33yrs ago when this happened you'd think it was a major crisis or something!
So true. You have to remember who was running the show back then. It was the Silent Generation and early Baby Boomers. They had a very different value system that literally did not work for anyone including themselves. Sex was taboo back then. Sh*t, they even struggled with divorce back then.. It was the what will the neighbors think mentality?!
Sex Was Not Taboo. Sex Was Sacred, Reserved For Marriage. Not The Casual UnImportant Attitude People Have Towards Sex Today.
@@lillyfahey1921 However you want to think of it, people were miserable and most were stuck in bad marriages and abusive relationships because of their way of thinking and persecution of morals. That generation was nuts!
also the AIDS epidemic
Parents were wrong for blaming and shaming her.
OMG, Brenda is such a 90's teenager! All that drama.
Did we see the same episode? Brenda's parents are making such a drama about other business
These parents had double standards. Brandon got treated so much better.
Jim said it's different with girls lol
@heathervelasco5159 I disagreed with that so much. Guys can end up in just as much trouble as girls can. It was a ridiculous double standard.
Thank you! Brandon had sec with his girlfriend in his room, and the parents are like “boys will be boys.” Brenda has consensual, safe sex and her parents basically label he as a slut. And you wonder why she rebelled?
@robinbrown2256 Agreed, just bc Brandon can't get pregnant doesn't mean Brandon can't still make Jim and Cindy grandparents. He could still get a girl pregnant. Brandon being guy doesn't prevent him from getting an STD
If Brandon came home and said the girl he’s seeing suspects she’s pregnant and he’s the daddy, Jim would probably react in a somewhat similar manner.
Cindy's gossipy, she had to talk to Brenda first. Is embarrassing when your father discovers that kind of things.
When I watched this episode being older than Brenda, I have just lost my virginity and couldn´t have any conversation with my parents a they were educated in the "no sex before marriage values". Now we are the generation having this conversation with our children and, when we bring the argument about "there should be no sex without love and commitment", the Zen generation look at us saying "How old fashioned..." For them sex is just like a hobby or sport...
No sex until marriage is better
The trouble you dont realise you’re too young until your older…… at the time you feel so grown up and want to be an adult , u til the consequences happen
This episode singlehandedly made me NOT want to have sex until I was at least out of high school and 18 years old. And I didn't! I was only 9 or 10 when it aired, too...
Also, the drunk driving episode was super influential in my always being the DD for friends in high school and college.
Thanks, 90210!😂
ironically enough both Shannen and Jason apparently were caught for dui in real life
RIP BRENDA 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
They didn’t even do this to Brandon when he lost his virginity at their house. It Sickens me how Obsessed Jim is with his own Daughter
The end lmao
I swear to God we won’t 😂😂😂
A woman sees something wrapped in plastic in the garbage and doesn’t think it’s something gross like a tampon?
My high school boyfriend's mother went through his bin to look for evidence of sex & was rewarded with a used condom that she fished out from a balled-up tissue. She confronted her son with it! 🤢 So gross. I thought she should be relieved he was being careful & using condoms.
Looking back as an adult there a lot of double standard between Brandon and Brenda. When Brandon's gf from Minnesota came to visit. Brandon lost her virginity to her. They were pretty chill about it. Despite the fact they literally had in the house right under there nose. They were kinda off and on again. Jim nor Cindy gave him the same speech like they did with Brenda. Brandon was in the same risk of getting her pregnant or STD. While Brenda who has been in a serious relationship with Dylan. They have talk and planned it for awhile. Atleast they didnt have sex in their house. My parents would have been pissed if me or one of my siblings had sex in their house esp if they were home. Since we were disrespecting the house and them
Yes and they are supposed to be twins. So that's another reason they need to be treated the same.
Now that sex is everywhere in all ages from middle school on up, is it no wonder we have all these issues we didn't have before? Any correlations hmmm? 🤔
It seems like 90210 brought open discussion about a lot of subjects that nowadays seem so common but back then were still really an issue. Even more so outside of the US. I was in Europe watching the series and it looked like they lived on Mars. My teenage years surely didn't resemble these stories at all. I remember a 90210 storyline about students fighting for sex ed or distributing condoms at school or something like that. I remember the Donna character being the one who would make the epic speech that would convince everyone. Those issues were still taboo at the time.
1:32 - The Walsh Family sure had a lot of Encyclopedia sets. They're definitely not law reviews since Jim is a CPA and not a lawyer.
it was 1992 when this episode aired. The internet wasn't the big thing it is now. And there was no social media. It was possible for Jim to work without the internet. Notice at work he usually calls people over a land line at his office. My parents had the same type of books in their house for years.
Pretty much every family had those in the 90s 😊
No way this is not happening..😂😂
Poor Brenda, and Dylan will take the Split later on 😢
RIP Shannen Doherty 💔🪦🙏🏾🥀🕊️
Those parents react like it was in the 60's. Omg how embarrasing this is to watch.
This was 1991, teens having sex on TV shows was still taboo
How old are you? There is so much porn addiction and acting out sexually among younger people. Not an improvement.
Omg the way the parents talk to her get over it happens alot
How old are you? There's nothing wrong with parents actually caring about the welfare of their daughter. This was also the '90s. The '80s was when AIDS became a concern and put a damper on sex. This continued into the '90s. Life can be created by sex. This means that it's a big deal. Even if you think abortion is okay, if you go through with one it can be traumatic regardless. It can affect the relationship you have because of mixed feelings. People should be very conscious about who they are intimate with.
Are you serious?
@@lemurianchickthe mother yes. Not the father. It’s totally inappropriate for a father to talk about sex with their daughter.
@@startracker5895 How about them doing it together?
@@startracker5895 I agree.I saw how Degrassi,Home and Away and early years BH 90210 DID THIS topic.this and the Canadian Teen Drama had a good mother to be there when and if the bad news came out(Spike and Brenda).I saw what Original Roo had to deal with and the pathetic excuse of a father she had to not be able to have a discussion about it with.
When a son does it it's no big deal. The dad, thinks great now your a man. Those same values not do much for girls
So Cindy tried her best but still came out awfully. What were tthey suposed to do? Allow them to stay in their house ?
In a way Sex is a big responsiblity and its not a game to play around with b/c someone mostly women can get hurt by sex and rejected. Brenda took a home Pregnacy test and she was green and lucky it wasn't postive or she would have been in trouble.
Ahahaha she did it two weeks ago for the first time and she thought she got pregnant immediately 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. That really shows she was still a naive child
She's supposed to be playing a teenager. There are other reasons a teenager can be 'late'. She should have taken the pregnancy test at Kelly's, the school bathroom or even Dylan's since he lives alone.
I agree that teenagers aren’t emotionally mature enough for sex but I also know that it’s human nature, it’s a part of growing up and it’s a huge life lesson. There’s nothing shameful about it.
Protect your high school kids from STDs especially HIV related. And stay far from their life. Give them freedom and be their friend. With this way, you can protect them. If you want them to take sex serious, teach them, do not interfere later!
Did Brenda really think her dad would be fine with her blasé “yes, of course” 😮
Today jim and cindy would be raising Brenda and Dylans baby. They were good parents.
Shannen said st the reunion her parents didn't teach her about sex
Nice
...Jim is WIRED! (1:04) ...I think we ALL agree that Jim was holding Brenda to a different set of morals than Brandon...who brought TWO Girls into his Bedroom, BEFORE Brenda!! ...It is wonderful he's actually there (and trying to be understanding), but it WAS 1991...different times, Jim...your Daughter WANTED to ...HER decision (& responsibilities), Man.... (2:53)
At least he took it seriously when brand drunk drove.
life is funny... then they're gonna ask how long it lasted
Sex comes with many responsibilities. When you're ready to own them, you're ready for sex.
Yes of course ☠️
The comments are crazy raising a girl is completely different then a boy and teenagers don’t need to be having sex this was a horrible message to send to the teenagers
How is it different? Do guys not get STD or have unplanned pregnancy. I know they can't get pregnant, but I always assume they can still get girl pregnant. The girl doesn't get pregnant on her own
@@sailorsister211boys parents just don’t care if their sons get teenage girls pregnant. It’s actually disgusting not to care. Babies can ruin fathers lives as well as mothers. Men have to pay maintenance for a baby they never wanted.
I’m sorry but teenage girls are way more mature than teenage boys. They should have been more worried about their son than their daughter having sex.
Not all teenage girls are more mature than teenage boys
So embarrassing!!
The parents were right though, she was too immature for sex. I definitely agree that they shouldn’t have a double standard for Brendan and Brenda though.
what episode is this and season
Maybe, Ep 1. S2 is 100 percent.
Season 1.
@@kathconserv no it's season 2 episode 1. This happened after the spring dance from the end of the first season.
It’s Cindy’s fault for not putting Brenda on the pill.
The pill can cause breast cancer.
Promo>SM
utterly domineering parents
Uh, no.
Parents who...God forbid...want to be in their children's lives guiding them.
Do you even have kids??
Lana del Rey is childless 😂@@jenniferraymond9766
@@jenniferraymond9766no this was on another level! No dad should talk with their daughter about having sex. It would be humiliating and degrading for the daughter having to talk to their Dad about sex. It should be left to the mother,
@@startracker5895 and what if there is no mother/the mother is not functioning? Kellys mom was drugged up when she was growing up.
@@startracker5895 there's nothing wrong with a girl talking with her dad about sex, the dad just must remember he can't get pregnant, Jim also tells Brenda to at least talk about it with her mother