Sudipa Ghosh LITERALLY my ex said that Kylie Jenner is the type of girl he really wants, but then would go on rants about how he likes natural girls and natural looks and I’m like WAT
Spider Gwen Just to be exact .. that's the first thing to attract a guy .. girl who laugh and smile -at a certain amount- is for sure a top-wanted one .
Frankly ladies and all younger girls listening to this video Guys like EVERYTHING about a woman. You just be the best you, you can be. Dont worry about guys. There will always be a guy who likes you.ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is no need to do any special thinking you will attract the guy you like. You're a woman, special and unique from all other women. Own it, love it and do you boo!
The leg thing is a lie. The guys in my class were like “Girls get leg hair ?!!” They were so used to seeing smooth legs that they didn’t realise girls actually grow leg hairs too
I have a friend. She's a girl and I really like her but she has some leg hair, arm hair and stuff, but it doesn't really bother me. I think she's a beauty. It really just depends.
I wouldn't know about how women would see me, but I think all it really takes is to be a friend of mine, and decently attractive to get my attention. Girls don't need to worry about trying to get attention.
Yeah and I replied so, should #10 and #5 be on bottom of list instead of middle (maybe he should change title to a list of things you think men care about) but then the order would be ?
Brooke Wright I know what you mean :/ where I live its like there are more girls than guys, so guys get to choose to some extent because those girls spread their legs for anyone. Me being someone who wishes for a deep and meaningful relationship is laughed at
Pretty sure guys like simple girls, and guys will shoot their shot at majority of what they see. I just find that women never accept anyone other than the ones they have a slight to a major crush on to be the one they r with. I personally don't care much about ones looks as I focus on the personality. I like simple women and know how to handle confusing women, majority of the times at least. But women just never seem to show any attraction because a lot of other guys look better in their own ways that over come me.
The things which i notice in a girl is how she treats her parents, how is she with kids and how she talks to the waiter while ordering at a restaurent.
8:26 hair that wasn’t washed today… 😂😂😂 wait so you telling me to wash my Afro hair everyday just for a guy? 😂😂 Nah I’ll pass unless they pay for my hair products and time… otherwise😂😂😂
Aca Msnsn it literally has nothing to do with race. white people have natural CURLY curly hair as well. yet however, curly or straight or wavy, washing it everyday isn't okay for any of these as it damages the hair more.
vj the best I'm sorry you think that but you are!! My brothers tell me everyday I'm not but it's what you choose to believe that determines your ultimate destiny!! Shine bright lovely!!💗💐
Why do people think make up is for attracting other people? We are putting make up on to feel confident, we like the art of make up, we do make up for ourselves not for guys...
Yes, I like wearing make-up because it makes me look less tired & ill. I don't like looking at my face with dark circles & pale skin; it has nothing to do with men seeing me.
The reason it makes you feel more confident is because it makes you more attractive. People who say they wear makeup to “feel confident” are just trying to sound less shallow.
Yeah anyone can do what they want... but I find it hard to believe people want to waste time and money "for art" that you wash off at the end of the day. No problem trying to follow trends or look better and eventually makeup becomes a hobby, but no point in trying to lie and say "it's for fun" If it was fun people would wear it for no reason when they're alone, but they don't because it's for OTHER people. To show off, or look better for certain reasons
@@rainywoex5035I disagree. If I have a big spot. I will use make up to cover it. That's not me wanting to be more attractive. My aim is to cover the spot. But if subconsciously I am wanting to be more attractive there is a difference between wanting to attract people and wanting to be more attractive. Wanting to be moore attractive is not shallow. I will put make up on depending on my mood. I sometimes put it on if I'm in the house alone and not going out. Because it's fun. I will put on heavy dark make up if I'm going to a rock gig, so it's kind of artsy that way. You may not wear it and that's fine. But dont criticise people who do. We are all different.
I'm glad I have a man that tells me he likes the way I look without makeup (I only use a bit of mascara and eyebrow makeup, because I like it), he's always liked the natural vanilla scents I use, and he's always preferred mid length hair over long hair(long hair was a hassle and got in the way), and when I work on losing weight he tells me I'm fine the way I am (although I'm losing weight anyway because I don't like my current size). The only thing he doesn't like is when my legs get prickly lol, says I should either keep them smooth or grow them out haha
Maree Hassall GROW THEM OUT! Seriously, they’re ALWAYS smooth and guys NEVER notice. Just keep ‘em moisturized, do 10-20 reps of standing on ur tip toes a few times per week= HOT LEGS *Tip: oil them up when exposed. And walk like you’re the hottest thang on the planet! Seriously!
@@trinapiano ive had many men comment how soft my legs are.. So they do notice. I've touched women's legs which were not soft at all and then understood the difference and why id get compliments. Cuz not everyone has soft legs, even without hair.
i do too but not in a good way. cologne smells weird to me and there's a particular scent that gives me panic attacks because I had 3 years of bad experiences with a guy who wore whatever it's called, but like super heavily. got on the bus once last year and a kid got on the next stop wearing too much of that scent I started hyperventilating and i got paranoid like he was following me.
I dunno, you look pretty perfect to me. 👀❤ Dude I'm a skinnyish guy and has stretch marks on my buns, but they look so cool and shiny and most of all feel so cool lol. Yo you know what? How all the most beautiful animals ever have all thess intricate stripes or spots. That's going to be the future of human evolution. Were going to get patterns. So theres going to be no more white vs black, but then checkers vs stripes.
A perfect women is the one who is happy with herself, & is confident enough to accept herself as she is, & so you have!!! So you are the perfect women!!!
Perfection is a fools ideal, for the man who shall love you will love you for being yourself, and accepting your imperfections, thus turning them into what makes you perfect for him.
@@shrutidadhich1713 But that's not an easy thing to do, accept yourself as you are. I understand the message, but don't rule out some amazing women because you can't get past that.
Eivind 🤔 ... A man who loves you with his truly heart won't leave you however you are. When u do mistakes/ something that u even ain't realize, he will stay & remind you what you've done ☺️ Your confidence in loving him will also help you out of showing yourself who deserve to be loved 😽 Cheers 💐💐💐
The first one My boyfriend/bestfriend was standing behind me and he whispered "You smell good." I just turned around and stared at him for a little bit "Ok. Thanks? 😂"
Here's a secret, guys like a girl who is nice to them. That is more attractive than anything you wear or how you look. Focus on being the best you and the universe will reflect that.
You explained this really well! 😄 Thanks for the great points about self-love and encouraging ourselves, this is very powerful! Thank you! :) I'll remember this for next time!
As a guy, I definitely like the stylized female body image. But then you have these famous women who are too perfect, too symmetrical. They look weird. Cindy Crawford figured this out and added a mole to her face for beauty. It prevented her from being "too perfect" and she became an instant success.
Remember every guy is different and don’t change who you are because someone out there will love you no matter how perfect or not so perfect you are!😊😂
DarkloveLiv xx well this doesn’t have to do with loneliness, I feel lonely at times. This is more about self image. If you’re comfortable with yourself then why do you need to change for someone else. If youre not then change yourself but for the better. Whether that means more makeup or less. Or weight, or whatever you’re not comfortable with.
Yea my man is definitely perfect. I don’t wear perfume, I don’t wear makeup, I don’t dress fancy, all of my shoes are dirty if they’re with me for years, my hair is RARELY done, and I basically never shave my legs😂. I have a little belly too, but I’m petite so I get away with the “skinny” look.
BRIGHT SIDE Does Insta influence womens perception of men's beauty?! How do YOU think Girlzzz! ✅🙋Never knew how it felt to be living in Nineteen Noach but.....thanks to Brightside I am right now! 😂👍🏼
Everyone will have looks recognized regardless of gender, and that's not a bad thing. You don't need to be perfect either... women can easily access men when they want them, at least one out there is head over heels for all of you. Don't worry yourself so much :)
Carenza Stickland I agree! But if you look closely, both sexes say the same thing about each other. Trust me my friend, out of 7 BILLION PEOPLE half are guys. Which makes it 4 billion, somewhere in the world, out of the billion, one JUST ONE, out of the billion will like you for who you are. Keep searching and best of luck to you!
uh welll we dont actually that much seriously I once knew a girl she was good looking good breath perfume and we were having good conversation and I looked at her hand's man her fingers tips and nails were like a man becoming Werewolf, scratched skin and nails my GOD but still, I tried to ignore it even that I'm really concerned with my own grooming you know well we only care more about nature sorry for telling about her I shouldn't have but to give an example this is all I have well all we love is a smiling man and how our thoughts fit it doesn't matter how good you look people with understandings only makes a good life with each other
I'm a man and the dirty shoe thing is true. There is nothing that tells more about a woman than old or dirty shoes. I love you... so be nice if you reply. Ok I just saw the smoking thing... just dont do it at all.
Same with women.. my first look goes to shoes style and watchs for some reason if men care about them in a simple way then it gets my attention if it's so much or none existing then I stay away.. If he care too much it shows he is looking for gold diggers not me and if it's none existing he is a deadbeat and also not a good match for me..
@@jenniferbeagle4392 clean shoes with a little dirt: ok. Dirty old shoes with a little cleaning: not ok. Lol I do like my nice shoes and watches. My wife just bought me a Samsung smart watch for our anniversary last Saturday. I feal bad because I think I'm bringing it back. I just like wearing a different watch every day of the week to be stuck with one.
Maybe old shoes or worn out clothes tell the tale that a single mother users her money to buy new shoes and clothes for her children and it is a sacrifice that she doesn't have enough money left over for herself. The last time my shoes were really dirty was immediately following taking my teenagers sandboardng in the Peruvian Desert. XD
These are some pretty vain things. What do I notice right off the bat? Can he keep eye contact? Can he make me laugh? Does he appear genuine? And, does he talk at me, or with me?
The Artful Dodger that’s a great way to vet a guy! Unfortunately, guys who can’t get girlfriends, don’t understand that these are the simple questions that a girl asks themselves, and we men are not taught that. It took me a while to understand that women risk their out safety as well as we do. I’m still learning, how to properly communicate to women. I’m definitely making progress. 😎
Did you get to the end of video 11:10 he says "for us Being Yourself and having a positive outlook on life make you 10 times more attractive so stick to that and you'll be just fine" This list is actually the list of things women think guys care about, did you notice #10 #5 he said guys dont really care about that
@@yaboimatteo7706 I’m not interested in men from a distance. How engaged he is with me is what matters, not stuff from afar. I will talk with anyone. All I listed above is what makes a man attractive to me.
Here's the thing: While some things are more commonly true than others, everyone has a unique set of likes and dislikes. It's not about attracting the most number of guys possible, it's about finding the right guy for you.
What is turn off for me ? 1- bad breath 2- smelly armpits ( there is nothing worst than dancing salsa with someone who smells like a goat ! Guys deodorant exists, but before using it please wash your arm pits first with SOAP AND WATER ! Do not spray over the horrible smell ! 3- black or yellow teeth 4- smelly feet 5- greasy hair / dandruff 6- smelly ‘down there ‘ 7- too much hair under the arm 8- longer beard than Santa or like him. 9- Dirty Nails 10- Dirty Ears
@@emilija8231 so you'd date a guy who matched this criteria? This is a completely reasonable list. Keep your body clean and brush your teeth. Nothing hard just basic hygeine really?
I like personality. Hot girls usually have artificial self confidence cause of the guys that hang onto to her. But put a real confident woman, who developed her confidence in their own way., Now put this confident girl in front of those shallow girls, these fake girls start to melt and reveal just how empty they are. Remember that my girls!! Much love to the real ones!! 💜💜💜
Yea I think the video was just to let u know on looks guys don't notice that much As for personality everyone has their own opinion on it so if the talk about personality they may not relate to all guys
It's okay, I always really hated my eyes brows but a couple years later people started complimenting them, only two compliments but hey I don't get compliments often!
@Unicorn 1 M what I mean to say is when people say they don't care what others think and do whatever they feel like are the same people who then complain on how no one loves them and are single
My first time getting pi ples: AHHH MOM I NEED MOISTURIZER Mom: Why? Me: I HAVE PIMPLES ALL OVER MY FACE Mom: *only sees 1* Your fine Me: see 1 billion
And here we go again, the pressure of perfection is on women. A man who sees his woman through these traits is someone to run away from because he is SHALLOW😆 Ladies know your worth and be true to yourself. A real man will be attracted to who you are not what you are😉
@Misogyny Man I don't find overweight or unkept (sometimes smelly) guys attractive. We all have our personal preferences. Nothing wrong with that. You get what you are able to give. Such is life.
The first time I saw this video I had really low self esteem and didn't love myself very much. Now the guy that I fell for in 2010 helps me keep going no matter what his situation is. I cannot wait to see him in person and hear his voice again. I haven't seen him in 8 years.
Not to be a feminist or anything, but girls you dont need to do these things. You’re beautiful without it, and if a boy cant see that then, thats not the right guy. All these videos are focused on what men want, and ‘things that men always notice about women’ and ‘proven traits men are physically attracted to’ There’s nothing about what women like or what women notice. AGAIN not to be a feminist, but seriously.
What's wrong with being a feminist???. The pseudo feminists have made it worse for the real ones those toil for the upliftment of women. I just wish people to know when a woman/man whines about silly things in the name of feminism..!
This video was made to educate girls on what boys pull notice about them, but really it just brings us all down and makes us feel like we aren’t good enough. Thanks a lot BRIGHT SIDE
Hi If you're reading this... I have some sweet words to cheer you up: Remember you're goodlooking 😍Awesome 😎Talented 👏Strong💪 and there is no 👎 reading to feel inferior than someone else, Please Never stop Smiling😃 From a boy who has a dream of becoming a big RUclips guitarist one day 💭
exactly, however you are, you are unique, beautiful and amazing, just be yourself and keep smiling. in the end all that maters is not looks but your individual character and personality.let your smile change the world but let the world change your smile.
My man loves how i smell and loves sniffing on me, he loves my natural bushy brows,long natural eyebrows, he said he even love my little breakouts, compliments any shirt i am wearing, he loves my belly, loves my stretchmarks, and of course my long curly hair, he even said "you dont have to straightened your hair. I have the best man, not manipulative but very protective and caring😊❤
I feel like this is putting on more stress on me....but I really don't care. I wash my hair every other day because it's long and thick. I don't shave my legs. I hardly put on any makeup. But it's ok because someone who really likes me won't care 👼
Someone that really loves you will love those things about you. However too much disinterest in showing you wanna be the best you can be to your partner is a turn off for both spouses irrespective of how they feel about you. The lack of gesture is just that much effective.
As a young guy. Yeah I notice most the things he says we don't, but I don't care for most of them, so in the end he's right. A bit of stomach is ok, less makeup is my preference, a bit of dirt on your shoes doesn't bother me unless we're going somewhere like a dance where you usually want to look formal, I could care less about nails long as they are clean and look decent; please for the love of all of us DO NOT wear so much perfume for the whole world to smell, wrinkly clothes are not prefered but ever so rarely it looks cute on a girl. Addressing lingerie, I personally find very attractive when girls wear PINK or CK, but normal wear is fine too, we honestly could care less in the end of the day. Heck even messy hair can look cute, I wear my hair messy all the time and people love it. 17 yro out, cyaaa!
Remedie X To be honest, from a girls perspective Perfume sucks and it stinks. It’s just mask body Oder. And nails? HA. Some girls bite their nails because they don’t want to spend time trying to make their nails perfect, or it’s an old habit, or it’s part of Anxiety and it’s a way for them to keep themselves calm The shoes? Why do you care about shoes, if it’s a dance, then women should wear sneakers in order to be comfortable while dancing And stating what kind of lingerie you like is very....very creepy! This is coming from a girl who has a boyfriend :) And girls wear makeup to impress guys *i see no point to make up*
Hannah James I’ve never worn makeup, unless it’s for a dance recital or a formal event I don’t wear it. I just don’t see why you want to draw on a face. Everyone is beautiful in their own way There are girls at my school who wear too much makeup
@@linkinlog8543 I know I'm beautiful in my own way. I put on makeup because it's cool to come up with unique designs. I don't use it to boost confidence. Some girls do, but that's okay. For me, it's a fun hobby.
Hannah James but there are things that people that use make up do, like wavy eyebrows or wavy lips and that’s just plain weird I’m mainly biased towards this because I don’t see a need for makeup, mainly because there are so many different brands to begin with. Like there can be peach, but for five different brands, it could look totally different yet be named the same thing So :p
lol, they arent that scary, if you go down too fast you can get your eyelid but if you go slowly its not uncomfortable or scary 👌🏻 and tbh i thought eyelash curlers were totally pointless until i forgot to use it one day then i realised that it fr makes a suffered
For me any sign of excess discomfort is a turn off. I can’t give a woman any attention even if she is super hot like 10/10. Instead I keep thinking about how miserable it must be to wear those super tight jeans or/and long heels. It’s just unsettling. Besides, if an average looking girl seems relaxed, talks smoothly and etc it just makes you feel better around her and is generally a huge turn on. Unless you’re looking for the wrong kind of attention, we’ll put it this way.
Honesty, humor, and responsibility are on my list for what I need in a guy, nothing else, not smell, wrinkled clothes what they look like or dirty shoes. Not even a guy with braces or pimples on their face! It honestly doesn't matter what they look like, to me it depends on their honesty, humor, and responsibility
Have to put my two cents in on #9. Acne is a result of plugged pores. With oily skin, every bit of dust that comes by sticks on. This dust gets pushed into the pores whenever you touch your skin. The more natural (or artificial) oils you have on your skin, the more you need to wash. It's not "poor hygiene" in the average person sense, it's just that different bodies require different hygiene practices.
EcoCentric Homestead I feel like some people naturally have trouble with their skin becoming too oily in that sense even if they do wash regularly and well.
@@th0tpatr0l94 yeah, that's where the confusion comes in. People think acne must be bad hygiene because all you need is to wash. But some people can go with washing once per week and not have acne. Other people need to be constantly washing. Too dry skin results in axema. (SP) people with too dry skin need to oil skin and hair.
On the reverse side, some oily skin is a result of washing it too much. It strips the natural oils and causes the body to over-produce them in response. Even people who have oily skin should always moisturize after they wash.
That's how it should always be. If your style preference and natural self aren't accepted by a potential partner they're not the right one. I had a guy flirt with me who expressed his disgust at me wearing dark lipstick and more makeup for a Halloween outfit and nothing turned me off more
Not true. Men do like attractiveness, but we like women who dress and make themselves up neatly, and have individuality to them. Personally, I've ALWAYS been attracted to women who are older, not younger, and who have gray or white hair. And I like ethnically Semitic women, whose noses are often rather hooked.
Strange, then I wonder how all women in my team managed to have gotten married... 🤔 Coz they are certainly not perfect and their husbands are all awesome dudes.
A lot of the additional primping I’ve noticed is done either for herself or to have an image around other women. Most men do not care and I think people realize that.
I'm in a long distance relationship and I've always worried that when we meet in person, he'll find my not-so-perfectly-flat stomach and small stretch marks unattractive. He keeps trying to reassure me that he'll love me no matter what, but it's just hard for me to believe that. This video kinda helps me though because it's the opinion of a normal guy. So thanks.
The amount of times guys have been like “I like natural girls” and then show a picture of a girl with a full face of makeup is so irritating
True
Sudipa Ghosh
LITERALLY my ex said that Kylie Jenner is the type of girl he really wants, but then would go on rants about how he likes natural girls and natural looks and I’m like WAT
I have the worst eyebrows ive watched so many videos and i cant do them and its my biggest insecurity 🥺
What guys are you talking to? That sounds totally wack
@@dannywhitaker9008 every guy does it
TIMESTAMPS:
Perfume 0:52
Nail polish 1:23
Eyebrows 2:08
Eyelashes 2:46
Makeup 3:24
Minor breakouts 4:09
Legs that aren't perfectly smooth 5:09
Dirty shoes 5:51
Wrinkled clothes 6:26
Worn out clothes 6:55
Stretch marks 7:28
A little belly 7:54
Hair that wasn't washed TODAY 8:26
Beautiful lingerie 9:03
Swearing 9:37
Smoking 10:17
Thx
BRIGHT SIDE 🌲😫
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Thanks
I’m giving this video a like for the simple fact you posted the times thank you
„Your man...“, „Your man...“, „Your man...“ ... I DON‘T HAVE A MAN
'Tis a pitty
Allison Argent me too 🐙
Gueess what i don't have a woman ,hmu!
Allison Argent Interesting to know
same but I think I am happy and confident as I am
So they notice literally everything except personality
Spider Gwen
Just to be exact .. that's the first thing to attract a guy ..
girl who laugh and smile -at a certain amount- is for sure a top-wanted one .
Men are more visual
@@versacegang42 so are women
Yes most boys in my class only like girls cos of looks
@@dieselwolf3005 Uhh they might be 'more' visual but that doesn't change the fact that woman are too.
Personality is important...be yourself...
exactly
Exactly ☺
Yeah right, only guys go for hot girls
Lol dont make me laugh
True
I feel like he’s telling me about his personal preferences.
Sounds like it. I'm a dude and I'm scratching my head at this list.
The biggest turn-off ever is a bad personality. Not on his list.
Ikr this video is ridiculous lol
He's got at least half right
@@protorhinocerator142 ikr
@@protorhinocerator142 I'm a GIRL and I agree
Self-confidence and a sense of humor... those are tops on my list.
Exactly
girls...your pretty smile is enough for killing us...
we need more guys like this in the world
@@fairyprincess5155 thanks Janiece...I like urs very sweet comment😊
No, it is absolutely not.
Thanks bro
Simp simp simp
The title should be titled 'things women fret over but men really dont care about'
Agreed
I don't fret over any of these o~o
agree... I was kinda thinking of alternate title ;)
@@mellowblueu then you might pass.
Jennie Gregory spot on. What a horrible video.
Frankly ladies and
all younger girls listening to this video Guys like EVERYTHING about a woman. You just be the best you, you can be. Dont worry about guys. There will always be a guy who likes you.ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is no need to do any special thinking you will attract the guy you like. You're a woman, special and unique from all other women. Own it, love it and do you boo!
Needed that so thank you😁
This is so important!!!
True. Happily married to my best friend for 20 years.
This is very true and wise lady
Carol Benton since guys like everything about a girl that's why guys stay in relationship with 2 or more girls at a time 😂😂
Girls just wear your beautiful smile and we'll melt right away.
Mama I'm famous.
I'ma need my sunglasses
jai singh aww
My front teeth have a little gap in beetween so I don't smile a lot. I'm scared of getting judged :,)
You don't understand how much i love this comment
Name ? that used to be me, i got braces now! no one ever called me out when i had a gap in the first place either! don’t worry! express yourself!
Have a good day random stranger scrolling through the comments
Thanks, you too.😂
Thank you. Have a good day.
....and to you as well!! 😎
@@bobbieleveline3207 💛
@@blue_9169 💛
The leg thing is a lie. The guys in my class were like “Girls get leg hair ?!!” They were so used to seeing smooth legs that they didn’t realise girls actually grow leg hairs too
EXACTLY
I have a friend. She's a girl and I really like her but she has some leg hair, arm hair and stuff, but it doesn't really bother me. I think she's a beauty. It really just depends.
I wouldn't know about how women would see me, but I think all it really takes is to be a friend of mine, and decently attractive to get my attention. Girls don't need to worry about trying to get attention.
How old are you?
I think they're just too young and unexperienced
I am too much shy to notice my crush's nails and eyelashes I just love her presence!! 😀
Aw you're so sweet! Thank you for sharing! :)
You are nice. Blessings to you and your crush. (From a girl)
Aawww
Aw!
That's so sweet!
I think she'll DEFINITELY appreciate that. :)
Awwww cute
title is incorrect. this is 16 things that women THINK men pay attention to
You're right.
Yeah
But a man is saying it himself :/
for real 😭
I actually thought until i saw your comment it was called like that😂😂
*16 Things that men always notice about women*
In video:
We guys don't really care about it
😂😂
😂😂
Yeah and I replied so, should #10 and #5 be on bottom of list instead of middle (maybe he should change title to a list of things you think men care about) but then the order would be ?
😂😂😂😂
EXACTLY
Am I missing something or is a list called "16 things men always notice about women" filled with things the narrator says men don't really notice?
That's what I thought
i thought that too lol
Haha yes! Its called Clickbait, right?
Same here.
Ikr
If guys liked simple girls then I would have a bf by now
Brooke Wright what does that even mean? What do you mean by “simple”?
Brooke Wright I know what you mean :/ where I live its like there are more girls than guys, so guys get to choose to some extent because those girls spread their legs for anyone. Me being someone who wishes for a deep and meaningful relationship is laughed at
Wait a couple of years for the boys to become men. You will be treasured , just judging by your profile pic you're a diamond.
Pretty sure guys like simple girls, and guys will shoot their shot at majority of what they see. I just find that women never accept anyone other than the ones they have a slight to a major crush on to be the one they r with. I personally don't care much about ones looks as I focus on the personality. I like simple women and know how to handle confusing women, majority of the times at least. But women just never seem to show any attraction because a lot of other guys look better in their own ways that over come me.
no rush, the right guy will come.
The things which i notice in a girl is how she treats her parents, how is she with kids and how she talks to the waiter while ordering at a restaurent.
Amit Sharma that is kinda cute though 🙂
@@raziamansoori5050 its a fact Razia, thats tells everytging about a person.
Perfect answer!
Amit Sharma I agree 100% 🙏
@@raziamansoori5050 🙏🙏🙏
hey ladies just a reminder that you’re perfect whether you fit into these categories or not ❤️
Pingu 🤓😇
You're so awesome for saying that! Thank you for giving us the self-love! You're amazing! :)
We dont need those :D
@@azulraptor2194 u do need some of those tips. Dont pretend this is not reality
8:26 hair that wasn’t washed today… 😂😂😂 wait so you telling me to wash my Afro hair everyday just for a guy? 😂😂 Nah I’ll pass unless they pay for my hair products and time… otherwise😂😂😂
Damilola Sokoya exactly white people dont really understand that black hair is not supposed to be washed everyday 🤦🏽♀️
Dw sis it's not for us 😂😂💔
The video literally says that you don’t need to wash your hair everyday, just that your hair should look clean
saaaaamee
I mean i’m white but I was hella surprised when i found out people wash their hair everyday
Aca Msnsn it literally has nothing to do with race. white people have natural CURLY curly hair as well. yet however, curly or straight or wavy, washing it everyday isn't okay for any of these as it damages the hair more.
I dont need blush...
my face turns into a tomato with everything I do
Me too
Omg same
It's cute
Same, it’s because I’m pale af
same, i get embarrassed easily, so annoying
If you are reading this, I want you to know that you are so special, and in the best way! Embrace it. 😍
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vj the best I'm sorry you think that but you are!! My brothers tell me everyday I'm not but it's what you choose to believe that determines your ultimate destiny!! Shine bright lovely!!💗💐
I subbed to you!
The day I dress for a man will be the day I’m in my coffin ready to meet Jesus.
BEST COMMENT 😂😂😂😂
So you admit that he's just a man and not some deity to be worshipped. Nice.
He’s a man among men and is to always be worshipped 💯💋
Mine will dress for me, so I dress for him. Is that so bad?
Are you doing this for likes or it's true?
Why do people think make up is for attracting other people?
We are putting make up on to feel confident, we like the art of make up, we do make up for ourselves not for guys...
Yes, I like wearing make-up because it makes me look less tired & ill. I don't like looking at my face with dark circles & pale skin; it has nothing to do with men seeing me.
The reason it makes you feel more confident is because it makes you more attractive. People who say they wear makeup to “feel confident” are just trying to sound less shallow.
Yeah anyone can do what they want... but I find it hard to believe people want to waste time and money "for art" that you wash off at the end of the day. No problem trying to follow trends or look better and eventually makeup becomes a hobby, but no point in trying to lie and say "it's for fun" If it was fun people would wear it for no reason when they're alone, but they don't because it's for OTHER people. To show off, or look better for certain reasons
Omg, thank you! XD
@@rainywoex5035I disagree. If I have a big spot. I will use make up to cover it. That's not me wanting to be more attractive. My aim is to cover the spot. But if subconsciously I am wanting to be more attractive there is a difference between wanting to attract people and wanting to be more attractive. Wanting to be moore attractive is not shallow. I will put make up on depending on my mood. I sometimes put it on if I'm in the house alone and not going out. Because it's fun. I will put on heavy dark make up if I'm going to a rock gig, so it's kind of artsy that way. You may not wear it and that's fine. But dont criticise people who do. We are all different.
I'm glad I have a man that tells me he likes the way I look without makeup (I only use a bit of mascara and eyebrow makeup, because I like it), he's always liked the natural vanilla scents I use, and he's always preferred mid length hair over long hair(long hair was a hassle and got in the way), and when I work on losing weight he tells me I'm fine the way I am (although I'm losing weight anyway because I don't like my current size).
The only thing he doesn't like is when my legs get prickly lol, says I should either keep them smooth or grow them out haha
Maree Hassall GROW THEM OUT! Seriously, they’re ALWAYS smooth and guys NEVER notice. Just keep ‘em moisturized, do 10-20 reps of standing on ur tip toes a few times per week= HOT LEGS *Tip: oil them up when exposed. And walk like you’re the hottest thang on the planet! Seriously!
My wife do not wear any make up. She doesn't need it. Most women doesn't need it. They are beautiful how they look before wearing makeup.
@@trinapiano ive had many men comment how soft my legs are.. So they do notice. I've touched women's legs which were not soft at all and then understood the difference and why id get compliments. Cuz not everyone has soft legs, even without hair.
"Or if your leg hair grow faster than bamboo" you got it
This is my life. FML.
so true...they day after shaving my legs I already have stubbles
Well I wax 😅... But I bet shaving them would be less painful 😭 (but you get used to it after a while) .
Bamboo grows for 7 years before it comes out of the ground....
I think most women can relate to that comment. My man does not shave his face every day, he is cool with me not doing it daily also.
*I mostly like it when a guys eyes smile when he smiles. Does that make sense?😕*
You mean eyes get small and lines appear? Like Paul Rudd, young DDL, I feel that cute too.
Yes! Eyes are one of the things I look at on a guy...
@@aditisk99 that's too hot actually
Yes man smile makes me knees weak
I always notice a man who wears a scent. He always stands out from a crowd, because so few so it.
Yup me too... my allergies have me sneezing all the way walking in the opposite direction .. haha
mztwixed mmm love it when a man smells good! But I’m picky about the smell tho has to be just right😂
Me too. It's nice.
i do too but not in a good way. cologne smells weird to me and there's a particular scent that gives me panic attacks because I had 3 years of bad experiences with a guy who wore whatever it's called, but like super heavily. got on the bus once last year and a kid got on the next stop wearing too much of that scent I started hyperventilating and i got paranoid like he was following me.
mztwixed I love cologne
I am a girl but I never wear makeup
Gamingcoco Cherkoui not all women look good in makeup. My sister doesnt and my bff. But i feel i need it :(. Im sure youre gorg!:)
I don't wear makeup either
Never wear make up too... jus a lip balm thats it...🙈
Same 👍
Gamingcoco Cherkoui haha every girls story
To be honest I don't care what people in general think of me, I have stretch marks, the odd spot, etc.
I'm not perfect but, I'm happy just being me. 😁
I dunno, you look pretty perfect to me. 👀❤
Dude I'm a skinnyish guy and has stretch marks on my buns, but they look so cool and shiny and most of all feel so cool lol.
Yo you know what? How all the most beautiful animals ever have all thess intricate stripes or spots. That's going to be the future of human evolution. Were going to get patterns. So theres going to be no more white vs black, but then checkers vs stripes.
@@SquirrelASMR Thank you! 😊
A perfect women is the one who is happy with herself, & is confident enough to accept herself as she is, & so you have!!! So you are the perfect women!!!
Perfection is a fools ideal, for the man who shall love you will love you for being yourself, and accepting your imperfections, thus turning them into what makes you perfect for him.
@@shrutidadhich1713 But that's not an easy thing to do, accept yourself as you are. I understand the message, but don't rule out some amazing women because you can't get past that.
“Your man probably won’t care a bit” ur right, bc I don’t have one!!
OK...you've gotten one🤭
Yess gal😝😝😝😂
I can say that men, at the end, just luv the simple & 'real' women. So ladies!! Just b you & stay beautiful 😻
Have a nice time everyone
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So true. I don't want to have to geuss. Women be who you want to be
what if a girl does something quite unattractive without even realizing it? It's not like these types of videos doesn't help.
Eivind 🤔 ... A man who loves you with his truly heart won't leave you however you are. When u do mistakes/ something that u even ain't realize, he will stay & remind you what you've done ☺️
Your confidence in loving him will also help you out of showing yourself who deserve to be loved 😽
Cheers
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Amen, and what I mean by no make up suites you, that’s exactly what I mean lol
You are right illana
The first one
My boyfriend/bestfriend was standing behind me and he whispered
"You smell good."
I just turned around and stared at him for a little bit
"Ok. Thanks? 😂"
krystalaz that would seem a little awkward
@@karlsmith2570 thats why i stared at him trust me I know
Awkwardly sweet 😂
Boyfriend/ bestfriend Huh? 😏😂
Aww that's kinda cute :3
Here's a secret, guys like a girl who is nice to them. That is more attractive than anything you wear or how you look. Focus on being the best you and the universe will reflect that.
Exactly, that couldn't be more true.
Couldn't of said it better
That is not true.
The persons experiences can differ, but not always does.
This comment made me smile. Thank you Naforbe.
be yourself, be confident, believe in yourself, you are beautiful inside and out
You explained this really well! 😄
Thanks for the great points about self-love and encouraging ourselves, this is very powerful! Thank you! :)
I'll remember this for next time!
why is half of this "what men don't care about"
Because those stuff are what a girl finds really important.. and girls think that it really matters to guys
“Guys aren’t looking for unrealistic perfection”. Me:looks at the guys at my school* I wish buddy I wish
those are not the guys you want to marry those guys want something else
As a guy, I definitely like the stylized female body image.
But then you have these famous women who are too perfect, too symmetrical. They look weird.
Cindy Crawford figured this out and added a mole to her face for beauty. It prevented her from being "too perfect" and she became an instant success.
My girl's hair always catches my attention. I just love its smell.
I bet there's a bunch of guys watching😂
that's me
That's right
Im watching...
We are checking weather the truth is being told.
@@maxdavies9958 So, is all mentioned true?
Remember every guy is different and don’t change who you are because someone out there will love you no matter how perfect or not so perfect you are!😊😂
DarkloveLiv xx well this doesn’t have to do with loneliness, I feel lonely at times. This is more about self image. If you’re comfortable with yourself then why do you need to change for someone else. If youre not then change yourself but for the better. Whether that means more makeup or less. Or weight, or whatever you’re not comfortable with.
my opinion - be who u are I need only person who likes the original me😄😉
Yea my man is definitely perfect. I don’t wear perfume, I don’t wear makeup, I don’t dress fancy, all of my shoes are dirty if they’re with me for years, my hair is RARELY done, and I basically never shave my legs😂. I have a little belly too, but I’m petite so I get away with the “skinny” look.
Chicks be having no eyes with them fake lashes
😂😂😂😂
Women not chicks, have respect for our gender!
😂😂😂
My boyfriend actually loves the falsies...I was surprised myself...but then again he likes the glamourous look.
@@nofybn7794 I am a woman and I don't care about the term "Chick"
I notice when a girl just cares for her looks and health and takes time doing it. I appreciate that even if the outcome isn't perfect.
Does Instagram influence men's perception of female beauty? What do you think guys?
I REALLY LIKE GIRLS WITH GOOD EYE BROWS
BRIGHT SIDE Does Insta influence womens perception of men's beauty?! How do YOU think Girlzzz! ✅🙋Never knew how it felt to be living in Nineteen Noach but.....thanks to Brightside I am right now! 😂👍🏼
Rezayis the fortnite God I really LOVE a sixpack on guys, lightly tanned, gorgious dark brown tot black hair, combined wit blue eyes...🎉❤️
I absolutely agree.
I guess 😏
Yup! Thick rectangle painted black huge eyebrows scare me 😱
😂
Squirrel ASMR 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Squirrel ASMR 😂😂
Hahahahahahahhaaaaa XD
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Girls, no need these 16 things, just cross in our way, our attentions are on you
TunnelRider Awwwwww that’s so cute thx :D
:) Thank you so much
Love u so much
thank you :)
That was so humble yet so profound
Women shouldn't be noticed purely because of their looks.
We are human because we are _real_ not perfect.
Everyone will have looks recognized regardless of gender, and that's not a bad thing. You don't need to be perfect either... women can easily access men when they want them, at least one out there is head over heels for all of you. Don't worry yourself so much :)
@@Satan666Official Thankyou for agreeing with me 😍😊
Carenza Stickland I agree! But if you look closely, both sexes say the same thing about each other. Trust me my friend, out of 7 BILLION PEOPLE half are guys. Which makes it 4 billion, somewhere in the world, out of the billion, one JUST ONE, out of the billion will like you for who you are. Keep searching and best of luck to you!
The only way to notice someone is by looking at them...
uh welll we dont actually that much
seriously
I once knew a girl she was good looking good breath perfume and we were having good conversation and I looked at her hand's man her fingers tips and nails were like a man becoming Werewolf, scratched skin and nails my GOD
but still, I tried to ignore it even that I'm really concerned with my own grooming you know
well we only care more about nature
sorry for telling about her I shouldn't have but to give an example this is all I have
well all we love is a smiling man and how our thoughts fit
it doesn't matter how good you look
people with understandings only makes a good life with each other
Honestly, I don't really care if anyone does not like me or the way I look. I am me and that is that. 😊😂😂
I bet you have a wonderful personality :)
That’s good 🙃🙂me too
I envy you😭
Love you people~ 😙
NCT WE THE DREAM CHASER 😂
9:37 "Swearing doesn't suit women" . *coughs* sexist *cough cough*
OMG thank you!!!!! I don’t understand why men say to women don’t swear but do it....Men have expectations too...
I swear like crazy , I'm starting to think it's an addiction
@@bbgluv8509 ya! they do, but i don't get why they said swearing doesn't suit women it's just stereotypical!!!
@@savynsavvy2180 me tooooo!!!!!!!
@DarkloveLiv xx true.
I'm a man and the dirty shoe thing is true. There is nothing that tells more about a woman than old or dirty shoes. I love you... so be nice if you reply.
Ok I just saw the smoking thing... just dont do it at all.
CD Snider right
Same with women.. my first look goes to shoes style and watchs for some reason if men care about them in a simple way then it gets my attention if it's so much or none existing then I stay away.. If he care too much it shows he is looking for gold diggers not me and if it's none existing he is a deadbeat and also not a good match for me..
Hmm interesting, I would think a guy would like if a women's shoes were a bit dirty as it could indicate she is sporty or outdoorsy.
@@jenniferbeagle4392 clean shoes with a little dirt: ok. Dirty old shoes with a little cleaning: not ok. Lol
I do like my nice shoes and watches. My wife just bought me a Samsung smart watch for our anniversary last Saturday. I feal bad because I think I'm bringing it back. I just like wearing a different watch every day of the week to be stuck with one.
Maybe old shoes or worn out clothes tell the tale that a single mother users her money to buy new shoes and clothes for her children and it is a sacrifice that she doesn't have enough money left over for herself. The last time my shoes were really dirty was immediately following taking my teenagers sandboardng in the Peruvian Desert. XD
i can’t tell if this raised or lowered my self confidence.
It lowered my brain cells atleast
Is this true boys ?
yes, most of them, I personally agree.
It Tru on my side
Yes most of them from my pov
Slithering Serpent are you a boy
No
These are some pretty vain things. What do I notice right off the bat? Can he keep eye contact? Can he make me laugh? Does he appear genuine? And, does he talk at me, or with me?
The Artful Dodger that’s a great way to vet a guy! Unfortunately, guys who can’t get girlfriends, don’t understand that these are the simple questions that a girl asks themselves, and we men are not taught that. It took me a while to understand that women risk their out safety as well as we do. I’m still learning, how to properly communicate to women. I’m definitely making progress. 😎
Did you get to the end of video 11:10 he says "for us Being Yourself and having a positive outlook on life make you 10 times more attractive so stick to that and you'll be just fine" This list is actually the list of things women think guys care about, did you notice #10 #5 he said guys dont really care about that
So when you look at a guy from a distance you notice that he can make you laugh......I think this belongs to you 🧢
@@yaboimatteo7706 I’m not interested in men from a distance. How engaged he is with me is what matters, not stuff from afar. I will talk with anyone. All I listed above is what makes a man attractive to me.
@@edwardbakadingo4261 I did get to the end of the video. Shame it took them until the end to be more mature about the situation though.
Women don't find swearing, or smoking, or bad hygiene or any of that attractive either!!
Yea, this video does'nt make any sense.Thats what I was also thinking
Oh cut it out. That comment didn't make any sense
I mean I find some cussing attractive.
And I find smoking a little bit attractive too.
I mean I myself don't mind swearing. Smoking and bad hygeine aren't attractive in my opinion though... (I'm a female)
A really good expression:"If your hair grow faster than a bamboo"!🌸
That was hilarious...yet it feels quite accurate to my leg hair...LOL!
I always feel like it grows too fast.
Here's the thing: While some things are more commonly true than others, everyone has a unique set of likes and dislikes. It's not about attracting the most number of guys possible, it's about finding the right guy for you.
Jennifer Decker So true!
I agree with you!
What is turn off for me ?
1- bad breath
2- smelly armpits ( there is nothing worst than dancing salsa with someone who smells like a goat ! Guys deodorant exists, but before using it please wash your arm pits first with SOAP AND WATER ! Do not spray over the horrible smell !
3- black or yellow teeth
4- smelly feet
5- greasy hair / dandruff
6- smelly ‘down there ‘
7- too much hair under the arm
8- longer beard than Santa or like him.
9- Dirty Nails
10- Dirty Ears
Maristarnl Alom 1
Makes perfect sense to me
Welp deal with it god didn’t put girls on earth to please men.
@@emilija8231 so you'd date a guy who matched this criteria? This is a completely reasonable list. Keep your body clean and brush your teeth. Nothing hard just basic hygeine really?
Maristarnl Alom so pretty much that makes a women naturally beautiful.
Right
U seem like a nice person
16 things that women notice about women....
This is what this video is about.
true, really true.. lol
yep its so obvious because on at least 2 of them (#10 + #5) what he says is men dont really care about that
Wow, nothing in here about your personality
Because it should be obvious.
Do you "notice" personality?
I like personality. Hot girls usually have artificial self confidence cause of the guys that hang onto to her. But put a real confident woman, who developed her confidence in their own way., Now put this confident girl in front of those shallow girls, these fake girls start to melt and reveal just how empty they are. Remember that my girls!! Much love to the real ones!! 💜💜💜
Probably because their is no specific persona for many people because we all have many different personalities, and that’s not just woman.
Yea I think the video was just to let u know on looks guys don't notice that much
As for personality everyone has their own opinion on it so if the talk about personality they may not relate to all guys
I don’t get acne but my skin is as dry as the Sahara desert
You are so beautiful
I can relate girl. Winters are so hard for us.
Anna Evelyn same!!
Aloe vera gel dear. It helps
Sahara desert? 😂😂No......
This guy speaking would be the best boyfriend 😂👌 ... idk he sounds loyal 🌴💨🤩
LOL I thought the same thing 😂😂
just you..😳
Oh hun, a woman probably wrote the script 😂
He sounds like Fitz friend except less inappropriate and racist
He doesn't I know him.
2:19 i was born with those eyebrows but people say i trim it..
:(
Emmanuel Morales thx
same
WDYM SHE HAS BEAUTIFUL EYEBROWS
Hey don't be sad. My eyebrows are uneven so be happy
It's okay, I always really hated my eyes brows but a couple years later people started complimenting them, only two compliments but hey I don't get compliments often!
I dont care what i do, or wear i just love being me❤❤
And that is not good.
@Unicorn 1 M why salty
@Unicorn 1 M he's not saying you shouldn't love yourself, he's saying not be detached far from reality
@Unicorn 1 M what I mean to say is when people say they don't care what others think and do whatever they feel like are the same people who then complain on how no one loves them and are single
I notice a mans hair first. Then his outfit. Then his eyes. Then his smile. Then his laugh. Then his personality. Then his mindset.
My first time getting pi ples: AHHH MOM I NEED MOISTURIZER
Mom: Why?
Me: I HAVE PIMPLES ALL OVER MY FACE
Mom: *only sees 1* Your fine
Me: see 1 billion
And here we go again, the pressure of perfection is on women. A man who sees his woman through these traits is someone to run away from because he is SHALLOW😆 Ladies know your worth and be true to yourself. A real man will be attracted to who you are not what you are😉
Totally agreed👍
@Misogyny Man I don't find overweight or unkept (sometimes smelly) guys attractive. We all have our personal preferences. Nothing wrong with that. You get what you are able to give. Such is life.
The first time I saw this video I had really low self esteem and didn't love myself very much. Now the guy that I fell for in 2010 helps me keep going no matter what his situation is. I cannot wait to see him in person and hear his voice again. I haven't seen him in 8 years.
"Holy moly, that isn't very pleasant"
"F no"
The narrator is so sweet😢wish men could truly be like him
You only heard his voice. I wish less women would be like you.
He's reading a script,dont think much about it
Not to be a feminist or anything, but girls you dont need to do these things. You’re beautiful without it, and if a boy cant see that then, thats not the right guy. All these videos are focused on what men want, and ‘things that men always notice about women’ and ‘proven traits men are physically attracted to’ There’s nothing about what women like or what women notice. AGAIN not to be a feminist, but seriously.
What’s wrong with being a feminist? I don’t see a problem with equality between women and men, do you?
@@emilywhite2832 There is nothing wrong with being a feminist, but feminism has been given a bad name because of the loud, illogical feminists.
True we don't care for such things at least i don't
I respect it women should have they own opinion n voice.
What's wrong with being a feminist???. The pseudo feminists have made it worse for the real ones those toil for the upliftment of women. I just wish people to know when a woman/man whines about silly things in the name of feminism..!
Listen i lovw wearing older clothes and have streach marks. Come at me bro. Lol
mood bruh 💀💀
I dont have stretch marks, but I wear clothes until the seams fall apart🤣
oh seriously at least smile on you DP
thats the only thing guy can notice from far away too
I love stretch marks on a women... Means she can cook... I love cooking for my lady
Lol
I think a little or no jewellery is okay/attractive. But having long or alot of jewellery is a no. Agree?
Yeah, I agree.
Dylan Murray excessive amount of jewelry is a huge turn-off to me
It sends the message saying, "I'm loaded and have no common sense"
you should never attend an Indian wedding
What if it's a cultural thing?
.
Where's my rectangle body girls at😂😂😂😂
ayla urton cri
Me 🙃.
ayla urton i wish
I'm the apple :-(
🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️
So basically just EVERYTHING from HEAD to TOE!!!
This list isn’t accurate for most men. Most of us don’t care about makeup, eyelash, etc. Just keep being you and you’ll find the man just for u ❤️
This video was made to educate girls on what boys pull notice about them, but really it just brings us all down and makes us feel like we aren’t good enough. Thanks a lot BRIGHT SIDE
FINALLY SOMEONE AGREED WITH ME
The whole thing is that “less is more “
Hi
If you're reading this...
I have some sweet words to cheer you up: Remember you're goodlooking 😍Awesome 😎Talented 👏Strong💪 and there is no 👎 reading to feel inferior than someone else, Please Never stop Smiling😃
From a boy who has a dream of becoming a big RUclips guitarist one day 💭
Guitarist Sam i hope your dream comes true
Thnks and yeah best of luck 👍👍
May u become the famous youtube guitarist boy 😍😍
And yeah keep on smiling and never giveup on ur dream
Love ya 💞✌✌
Guitarist Sam....😄Best of luck with your dream, have faith you can definitely do anything you put your mind too👍
exactly, however you are, you are unique, beautiful and amazing, just be yourself and keep smiling. in the end all that maters is not looks but your individual character and personality.let your smile change the world but let the world change your smile.
Well I hope that you become the greatest guitarist of RUclips.... Sam!!!😊😊👍👍
My man loves how i smell and loves sniffing on me, he loves my natural bushy brows,long natural eyebrows, he said he even love my little breakouts, compliments any shirt i am wearing, he loves my belly, loves my stretchmarks, and of course my long curly hair, he even said "you dont have to straightened your hair. I have the best man, not manipulative but very protective and caring😊❤
You’re lucky to have him in your life
His cleanliness is first for me!
The only thing I notice about a girl when I first meet them is just their smile...I cute smile just melts my heart
And the 350 pound body of course... Don't lie. Men are visual creatures.
@@KayNovember26 i agree with u 100% lets send him obese woman with poor fashion and hairy legs. Let's see if her smile melts him🤣
I feel like this is putting on more stress on me....but I really don't care. I wash my hair every other day because it's long and thick. I don't shave my legs. I hardly put on any makeup. But it's ok because someone who really likes me won't care 👼
Same here
I thought your name was Jocelyn Russo sorry. Rousseau. LOL I knew a girl like that
Someone that really loves you will love those things about you. However too much disinterest in showing you wanna be the best you can be to your partner is a turn off for both spouses irrespective of how they feel about you. The lack of gesture is just that much effective.
Whether it's a man or a woman,
Both should need a great character that eventually attracts each other together!
"Leg hairs don't really matter"
Well, it matters for me as I have more hair than a guy and the growing speed is faster than the speed of light!!!
Lol so me
Speed of light?? 😂😂😂👏
@@glory1444 hii 💜💜
As a young guy. Yeah I notice most the things he says we don't, but I don't care for most of them, so in the end he's right. A bit of stomach is ok, less makeup is my preference, a bit of dirt on your shoes doesn't bother me unless we're going somewhere like a dance where you usually want to look formal, I could care less about nails long as they are clean and look decent; please for the love of all of us DO NOT wear so much perfume for the whole world to smell, wrinkly clothes are not prefered but ever so rarely it looks cute on a girl. Addressing lingerie, I personally find very attractive when girls wear PINK or CK, but normal wear is fine too, we honestly could care less in the end of the day. Heck even messy hair can look cute, I wear my hair messy all the time and people love it. 17 yro out, cyaaa!
Remedie X
To be honest, from a girls perspective
Perfume sucks and it stinks. It’s just mask body Oder.
And nails? HA. Some girls bite their nails because they don’t want to spend time trying to make their nails perfect, or it’s an old habit, or it’s part of Anxiety and it’s a way for them to keep themselves calm
The shoes? Why do you care about shoes, if it’s a dance, then women should wear sneakers in order to be comfortable while dancing
And stating what kind of lingerie you like is very....very creepy!
This is coming from a girl who has a boyfriend :)
And girls wear makeup to impress guys
*i see no point to make up*
@@linkinlog8543 some of us just like drawing our faces. It's art.
Hannah James I’ve never worn makeup, unless it’s for a dance recital or a formal event
I don’t wear it. I just don’t see why you want to draw on a face. Everyone is beautiful in their own way
There are girls at my school who wear too much makeup
@@linkinlog8543 I know I'm beautiful in my own way. I put on makeup because it's cool to come up with unique designs. I don't use it to boost confidence. Some girls do, but that's okay. For me, it's a fun hobby.
Hannah James but there are things that people that use make up do, like wavy eyebrows or wavy lips and that’s just plain weird
I’m mainly biased towards this because I don’t see a need for makeup, mainly because there are so many different brands to begin with.
Like there can be peach, but for five different brands, it could look totally different yet be named the same thing
So :p
I'm a girl and I never do makeup, perfume, fake eyelashes, girly clothes, nails, etc...
Same. Idk much about anything considered feminine
Lol what about deodorant
@@tinkerbell3667 guys do that too
It seems no😣😣😣dont know why
i has dandruff in me hair :)
2:59 omg those eyebrow chomping machine scares the F out of me 😱
Squirrel ASMR lol, it’s an eyelash curler 😂
lol, they arent that scary, if you go down too fast you can get your eyelid but if you go slowly its not uncomfortable or scary 👌🏻 and tbh i thought eyelash curlers were totally pointless until i forgot to use it one day then i realised that it fr makes a suffered
difference* tf
Squirrel ASMR HAHQJ IM DYING MATE THATS AN EYELASH CURLER
I like the gentle attitude of this video. Instead of adding more pressure, it takes pressure off.
Worn out clothes can be cute depending on how you wear them
That's true I like it... Sometimes
For me any sign of excess discomfort is a turn off. I can’t give a woman any attention even if she is super hot like 10/10. Instead I keep thinking about how miserable it must be to wear those super tight jeans or/and long heels. It’s just unsettling.
Besides, if an average looking girl seems relaxed, talks smoothly and etc it just makes you feel better around her and is generally a huge turn on. Unless you’re looking for the wrong kind of attention, we’ll put it this way.
Thank God there are men who think like that.
@@samreenfatima2551 most guys think like this
Thank you for the positive message 🙏🏿
Honesty, humor, and responsibility are on my list for what I need in a guy, nothing else, not smell, wrinkled clothes what they look like or dirty shoes. Not even a guy with braces or pimples on their face! It honestly doesn't matter what they look like, to me it depends on their honesty, humor, and responsibility
"If the hair grows longer than bamboo" that got me laughing.
Her: do you smoke?
Me: smoke what?
Me: screams
Have to put my two cents in on #9. Acne is a result of plugged pores. With oily skin, every bit of dust that comes by sticks on. This dust gets pushed into the pores whenever you touch your skin. The more natural (or artificial) oils you have on your skin, the more you need to wash. It's not "poor hygiene" in the average person sense, it's just that different bodies require different hygiene practices.
EcoCentric Homestead I feel like some people naturally have trouble with their skin becoming too oily in that sense even if they do wash regularly and well.
@@shannonsmith924 yes. As a teen I was washing constantly because every time I touched something, I left an oily splotch.
what if you have dry skin and not oily
@@th0tpatr0l94 yeah, that's where the confusion comes in. People think acne must be bad hygiene because all you need is to wash. But some people can go with washing once per week and not have acne. Other people need to be constantly washing. Too dry skin results in axema. (SP) people with too dry skin need to oil skin and hair.
On the reverse side, some oily skin is a result of washing it too much. It strips the natural oils and causes the body to over-produce them in response. Even people who have oily skin should always moisturize after they wash.
Nice video!!!! You put all the matters very cleanly......😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Thank god that my partner finds me attractive as I am ❤️
Sure
That's how it should always be. If your style preference and natural self aren't accepted by a potential partner they're not the right one. I had a guy flirt with me who expressed his disgust at me wearing dark lipstick and more makeup for a Halloween outfit and nothing turned me off more
Such a lie. Men ALWAYS go for perfection.
Perfection doesn't exist
Not true. Men do like attractiveness, but we like women who dress and make themselves up neatly, and have individuality to them. Personally, I've ALWAYS been attracted to women who are older, not younger, and who have gray or white hair. And I like ethnically Semitic women, whose noses are often rather hooked.
@@bobtaylor170 ofc I like most of what u said there I like older women myself but some things not as much
Strange, then I wonder how all women in my team managed to have gotten married... 🤔 Coz they are certainly not perfect and their husbands are all awesome dudes.
Bob Taylor You must make the grey white hair ladies happen than..
A lot of the additional primping I’ve noticed is done either for herself or to have an image around other women. Most men do not care and I think people realize that.
Oh, I agree 😅
I'm in a long distance relationship and I've always worried that when we meet in person, he'll find my not-so-perfectly-flat stomach and small stretch marks unattractive. He keeps trying to reassure me that he'll love me no matter what, but it's just hard for me to believe that. This video kinda helps me though because it's the opinion of a normal guy. So thanks.