Passport Bros Are LYING To You. Here's Why.
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- Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
- The passport bro movement has been growing in popularity over the last few years. They aren't telling you the whole story though. Many of these guys are lying about their success with women overseas and the issues that come with dating foreigner women. We're going to talk about it today.
Why Most Passport Bro Relationships Will Fail, The Surprising Reason Passport Bro Relationships Fail, The #1 Reason Passport Bro Relationships Fail, Passport Bros Are LYING To You. Here's Why. Passport Bro Relationships Have One GIANT Issue... Passport Bros Are Overlooking One GIANT Problem
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I really hate passbort bros
yes it is a great idea. I am in Colombia now. I think to find a traditional or a loyal woman, one has to look in a smaller city not a large one. I watched several videos and I think Wes says the truth. Guys who say they can get the best looking women are exagerating. These are the type of women who are not loyal and they will be with you until htey find someone with more money than you. anyway my point is that Wes is honest and says both the good and bad. Now i am looking at philippine if you know any aresources or advice
Most of the men in my family on my father's side married non-western women. They are still married to the same women decades later. It all depends on the woman you choose. And most Passport Bros are not bringing them back to the US. That defeats the whole purpose. If you bring them back, and they don't have other traditional women keeping everything socially stable, the foreign women will eventually start to emulate western women. Lucky for me, the women on my father's side are traditional. But I wouldn't advise men to bring them back.
@@DigitalWraithThis guy is salty because brothers are doing the exact thing he did.
@@sardonumspa8113 Yeah, That's what it looks like. He's probably scared of the competition. 😉
Also a lot of passport bros parade their working ladies on their videos and never mention that they are paid for. They pretend they are their girlfriends which gives the impression that any overweight, out of shape passport bro who doesn't speak a lick of Spanish is going to get with a stunning model type Colombian girl and not pay for it (which could not be further from the truth).
Bruh preach
💯💯💯
Facts
absolutely true
All women are paid for, what woman don't you pay for???
Also, I think a lot of passport bros think that they are more conservative than they actually are. Most of these guys are super liberal compared to basically anywhere else in the world. These different countries keep tradition, and preserve culture. Americans value freedom over tradition.
great observation.
Most of these "passport bros" are exclusively hooking up with se* workers or "lower class" women..
Extremely true, most passport bros need training courses how to be traditional breadwinners and gentlemen without being simps
Americans value both freedom and tradition lol their own tradition
There was a time when Americans did both, your statement is invalid.
If you visit Cartagena or Medellin and you are planning to start a relationship with one of the chicks you hooked up with, you’re already headed down the wrong path, my boy.
You’re making a judgement call here with no basis, so you’re telling me that if someone goes to this location, links up with a girl via online and meets her in person, has sex with her, that it’s the wrong path? How do you figure?
@@MannysVisionStudio bro, I’ve been there many times, trust me..I know
Bro, as an Korean-Canadian, I totally get what you are saying both about who you connect with as friends and about the cultural differences w culture in romantic relationships. If you want to be a passport bro, you have to understand that you will need to adapt moreso than they will. If you walk in there like "the West is the best" attitude, you will eventually get your ass handed to you either physically or more likely emotionally. Frankly, if the West was the best, passport bros wouldn't be looking for women in parts of the world where they have no idea what a touchdown is.
The West is the best for white men like me.
I agree with that.
I am curious, do these guys think that women in the east are stupid? Im Iranian-Indian, in my overall extended family, the immigrant woman takes the citizenship, and then slowly finds a way to take everything you own. They're not stupid, the same incentives for western women excist for them too.
Great video! Thank you for sharing your opinions and your feelings. Solid content.
Great points which unfortunately too many guys don’t realize.
Rule #1 never bring her back to the states.
Agreed. The risk is too damn high. It’s like driving a car without insurance.
Preach! I’m lucky my paisa fiance doesn’t care about moving to the United States. If I were to bring her back to Vegas she’s going to get jaded. I’d rather move to Colombia and live there a for a little bit then move back to the States, most likely back home to Hawaii.
😂
You say this simple statement like other simple guys but you have zero experience in what you preaching. You can take your girl anywhere - if you cannot, that's insecurity or don't know how to vet correctly, bro
@@eddunn3021why are you so triggered? You don’t know me or my martial status so how do you assume I don’t have any experience???
Thank you for adding a sensible voice to this discussion!
Just came back from Colombia and can't wait to go back in January! Thank you Wes for your information, it was super helpful.
Having talked to a handful of local girls, I totally agree that a lot of women in Colombia, especially if they are working and of a higher class, have a western mindset and aren't much different than girls from the USA (or Canada where I am from). They don't want to rely on a man and want to work to make their own wage. I joked around with one girl saying she was a feminist because she refused to let me pay the bill. She jokingly called me machista. There are a lot of girls that aren't like this, but at the same time, you never know the true motives of girls and some are willing to play the long game ... especially girls that have grown up in poverty and see a gringo as a 'way out'. I remember my friend's family, they are from Cali, warning me that "these [Colombian] girls are always 10 steps ahead of you.." If you're a passport bro looking to hook up or fuck around, you'll have fun in latin america (assuming you don't get drugged), but if you are looking for a wife, it will be a lot of work...
The smart ones definitely play the long game.
You hit it with this comment. The ones from the upper classes are more like the western developed countries mentality & normally will date among themselves (upper class Colombian men). Mostly the lower class women will date the foreigners because as you said it may be the opportunity to have a better life to leave the country (Like we say in the Dominican Republic a Sanky Panky).
@@Stezworld very true. The ones of higher class aren’t specifically looking for foreigners. They’re happy dating amongst Colombian or Spanish men. If they meet a foreigner and they like them, they would be open to dating but it’s usually the low socioeconomic chicas that have the stereotype of hunting for foreigners to escape poverty. I don’t blame them given their low wages but I also don’t want to get ripped off if they divorce down the line or show their true (crazy ) self once in marriage.
@@geistlingsterI’m not going to another country just to date low hanging fruit
@@Stezworldwhat are your thoughts on Columbia vs parts of Asia or Eastern Europe? - not really sure what I’m looking for, but definitely don’t want to get played
This was a good video. I found myself glorifying them In the beginning, but after a couple months living in Colombia the rose colored glasses effect wears off, for the most part.
You went to Colombia that was the first mistake you made lol
very important video others should see when searching for love elsewhere, this is true. Also, my brother and I are right there with you Wes, you described it perfectly. We were born in USA, but the rest of our family are Colombian. We are too colombian for americans, and too american for colombians. It kind of stinks because i'd like to have that natural connection as well, but it feels like our "blended" culture is hard to understand. Either way, thanks for your content brother. Stay safe.
Wes I have been following your channel for a while and you are in the minority that gives the other side of the coin to this "Women are better in other countries" argument. Keep it coming because we need balance and to be healthier in our mind state. You attract what you are... Wherever you are.
I appreciate your well researched video and informative explanations. Nothing is wrong with dating someone from another part of the world, but you do need to fully understand the culture of the person you're dating. You can't jump into a relationship with no knowledge of the culture and social habits of the person you care about. When I watch some of the passport bro vids, I just get the feeling that some of the men just want foreigners who will meet their needs without their having to consider the needs of their foreign girlfriends.
I'm a Hispanic Canadian.
When I visited my homeland after 15 years, for the first time, people started to treated me like High class cuz of my wealth.
And some Panamanian girls tried to seduced me just because I told them that I'm not from here. They noticed from the way I speak, dress and the amount of money i carry.
Many of them where telling me "Owww I wanna go to Canada, how is like out there? can I go with you??".
And not gonna lie but.... before I immigrated to Canada many years ago, most Hispanic girls never treated me with respect.
But now as Canadian.... they treated me totally different like If I was "The Blue Prince".
Unfortunately for these people that's called being uneducated and entitle.
I don't care if someone is poor, or rich or middle class,
I always want to respect everyone equally with dignity.
All the men on my father's side married foreign women. They've been married for decades, their kids are in college or the military. So this is cap.
source?
@@anti.bctards7376 Source to what? My family situation?
@@anti.bctards7376 to what?
To what? My family situation?
Dude is in an interracial relationship but is saying our interracial relationships can’t work? Hypocrisy at its best! 😂
1:10 Roberto Vs The World 🤣
I don't think Colombia was ready for that guy.
Late to the party but as someone currently dating a Colombian, the cultural and linguistic issues are high on my list. My girl speaks English but her family doesn't. My Spanish is getting better every day and I'm working hard on it, but I know there will always be things missing. Small cultural nuances and jokes that I will miss, misinterpreting small things in important conversations. To me, these things are a lot bigger of a problem than the cultural differences, because they are a lot harder to overcome.
That said, I think it's worth trying especially if you're someone like me who inevitably plans to live abroad full-time and more than likely won't be around people from my own culture. Just have standards and put safeguards in place where you can.
I plan to do the same thing and qualify for the digital nomad visa Colombia is offering. I lived there for 18 months and every aspect of life was better. I was dating beautiful women and making connections and back home can't even get a date. Not that I even want to anymore. I'm curious how did you get down there and what is your plan to be able to stay long term and support yourself?
Tons of ways to make internet money nowadays. Blogs, affiliate marketing, service based businesses, freelance work, social media, etc. Just find your strengths and then reverse engineer that into a living.@@lawdog369
@lawdog369 I hope you're ready for and are already paying Colombian taxes on your worldwide income if you've already been there 18 months. If you can't date back home, it probably means you're broke and your money is extending further in Latin America, so maybe there's not much for you to worry about.
Not that I can't date, but I don't want to. Got treated way better in Colombia. Not sure about Colombian taxes because of legal issues with my employer. I believe there was fraud so I hired an immigration lawyer.@@dlc2479
These videos are very charitable bc you’ve gained wisdom through experience amd you’re tryna help us see potential pitfalls. Appreciate you
This one is Crazy. I heard that the Westerners are loved around the world because were having our dollar stretch out more further, but this could be sad when the guy brings back his Foriegn GF to USA and it could be a Divorce nightmare. Always be aware of this situation because this could happen where relationships End sometimes, it's just better to language as much as you can to communicate with a foreign woman, probably find a foreign GF that has the similar or same hobbies as u to blend in and be attached to the person and build connections to build a long term relationship. Thanks for this topic bro its something that we need to be cautious about.
Then treat your wife as an equal not as a slave, like many passport bros do and then wonder why they divorce, many also choose their wife by looks rather than actual personality.
Man look, I’m the child of a woman from the Caribbean and a man from Louisiana, my partner is from Kansas city MO. I thought I was way more American than I am, but she says I’m super Caribbean, while folk from my home island say I’m far too American.
Hey from China ,Wesley. I am from South Africa and I met my Filipina wife wife and I met on a blind date while both of us were working in Oman. I get along better with my in- laws than with my own family.. and in August this year we are celebrating our 10 th anniversary !
Thanks so much for bearing with the truth is so refreshing. The culture is big it cannot be underestimated whether it be Colombia, Thailand, Philippines or Ukraine. Not sure what is the alternative. At one point I thought I would retire in Costa Rica couldn't get used to it. They tell me don't bring her to the States, she will eventually change to the American way. I wish my friend best of luck who is bringing his Colombian wife to the States in a year due to the paperwork for her with the US Embassy.
I feel you man. I have been trying to find a Colombian girl but you are right about this. The cultural differences are going to make it tough
Colombia has a very sex obsessed culture. Not a bad thing however one must tread carefully when vetting women for anything longer than a casual fling or short term paid arrangement.
@@gsanand86 Yes exactly
Good analysis. Yes, you're right about the doing everything with family thing in traditional Latam countries. That would definitely annoy me because of my American individualism. Sorry Fam, you only get to see me on thanksgving and xmas lol
A passport bro from Canada 🇨🇦 good thing I did not choose Colombia and DR. The Philippines 🇵🇭 is my choice me and my fiance(🇵🇭) still on LDR since I meet her 2/9/23. I'm planning overseas to Philly 🇵🇭 in March 2024. Definitely good thoughts on the video 🙏🏾
I learned the term "passport bro" only a few days ago, and honestly, you do match the definition ☺. Even if you're more realistic and experienced. The essence of a passport bro is believing that women from other countries are somehow fundamentally different, with completely different priorities and a different mindset. And that by choosing the right country you can "engineer them" to your needs. Passport bros even classify countries as "developed", "developing" etc. based on how "woke" they seem to them, rather than the objective economic development level. I've travelled quite a bit around the world, and my experience is that people, and women in particular are fundamentally "the same" - it's mainly the environment we are raised in, and live in, that makes us differ.
Anywhere you go, you'll get the best relationship if you're true friends first (which means knowing each other for months, or more like years beforehand). The women who value me most are the ones I found ways to truly help by putting in a good word, well-meant and well-researched advice and non-transactional emotional involvement. All women like money, but it can work in your favour only if it's not your main "selling point", but rather a bonus. Otherwise, they'll just try to relieve you of your $$$, whether it's the US, Colombia or Poland. Looks matter - I see drastic changes in how women treat me, as I loose and gain weight (and we're talking about multiple dozens of pounds).
DO match the definition or DON’T? The long essay comment made it confusing for me to understand Do or don’t match the definition
I don’t agree with the “be friends first” with a woman lol, wait around for months or years “to get to know her” while she dates other guys lol, there’s no reason to wait around, make your intentions clear from the start.
When seeking a relationship in a foreign country, culture trumps all - more important in fact than overcoming age gaps, language barriers, differences in things you like to do - you name it. I'm not heavily in the market at the moment to hook up with anyone here in Medellín, but at some point in the future when I may be, one of the first requirements is that they have some previous exposure to and/or a strong interest in the culture I originate from in the U.S.
I met my wife overseas without having any initial intention to seek women. Stuff happened in the process and now we are living in the US with 2 kids. It's not supposed to be easy by any means.
Passport broing is such a huge cope. These women just want your money and greencard. Also, don't ever bring one back home. She'll immediately get westernized. Passport bros think these women are different, just lol. And also, men going overseas is just going to increase the competition to date over there. I can't see this ending well.
Is it still a bad idea for an Indian guy to try to even initiate conversation with foreign women who are expats? I am a 23 year old guy living in Bangalore in India but born in Siliguri in West Bengal in India and never had a girlfriend before. No Indian woman has ever been interested in me and even my crush in my University where I am studying MBA isn't into me. As Bangalore is a big metropolitan city and IT hub of India, foreigners like whites, Africans and East Asians do come here as expats. I went to this really posh area of our city and even tried initiating conversation with expat women there who are usually white Caucasian women but got ignored as they either had earphones or didn't look at me. Yesterday I again tried initiating conversation with another one walking on the sidewalk. She looked 27+ in age and I said her excuse me and she even looked at me but I suddenly became nervous and waved my hand at her instead and then she continued walking too so couldn't have a conversation. I am still kinda shy near women but I did have a brief conversation with a French woman near my University 2 years ago but I never saw her again.
I am also going to this nearby coastal city Pondicherry for trip where I will see foreigners too but it will just be a 3-4 days trip and they will mostly be tourists too. I am kinda planning to go near this big University in our city Bangalore where many international students come too mostly for MBA. I will try to meet a foreign woman there in cafes or restaurants around. But idk whether it will be a good idea or not but at least most of them will be in their 20s too and around my age and I will have a more common topic to initiate conversation about as I am also an MBA student like them. What do you think?
well balanced overview
You are correct Wes
Brazil and Sweden here I come, I will find my Heidi Klum somewhere 😂
At first, i was going to write a negative response. But after watching the video, you are right.
Great perspective. I watched your channel on an older acct and it played a part in me checking Colombia out. Stayed in Bogota for a couple weeks but in Cali now just absorbing it in.
Being Black, speaking Spanish and coming from rough parts of NJ/NYC is definitely helping the cultural transition. The hustle and bustle of downtown reminds me of home in ways.
I've spent time chatting people up, listening to music, trying street food, really trying to get a smorgasbord of the culture. Assimilation is a big key to success I've learned, and it's a step most passport bros are probably not going go to take a leap of faith on, especially if it's their first time outside of the States. ESPECIALLY if they're unwilling to learn Spanish.
I want to return to marry, but I think it will take some more time marinating in Colombia and Cali culture to see if it's a place I'd realistically stay. The PB rhetoric on the surface just makes it seem like you're gonna find your big booty Sofia Vergara on day 3 and live happily ever after; there's way more to it than that. It's been fun comparing and contrasting Black American/Colombian culture with locals; rejoicing in what we have in common and learning more about what we don't. I've begun to spot key differences and found ways to minmax them into positives, only time will tell!
True. When I was single I thought of going to the Phils and finding someone, but yeah, you never know if it's for real, their potential to make money isn't high, you'll have to send money to their family, etc. I'd go and play around, but nothing serious.
Unless i go abroad for work or family im mainly going for someone who is latino descent so i can teach future generation Spanish despite not being taught it. Ive been told to go but not going unless i end up going. Theres many suitable mates in states.
You look so different clean shaven. When I first clicked on this video I was not sure it was you. 😉
YOOOO! I LOVE the "connections" part of your video because I identify with that to a T. I'm Filipino-American born and raised but have a military background so lived overseas for close to 10 years and been to Colombia multiple times. In the States, a black brother and myself wouldn't really hang in the same social circle, but overseas in like Japan or Thailand, we're like best friends and just cracking up at all the stuff lost in translation that only growing up in the States you would understand. I have a ton of fond memories like that so thanks for bringing that up.
It is why cultures who are experienced in getting a foreign mate knows what comes with it... They will be more cautious because in the end people are people... It doesn't matter what part of the globe you came from. There will be great and absolutely awful people everywhere. It is why I am just amaze how blindly some people jump head first into going abroad to find a someone.
completely agree.. me and my ex colombian had so many cultural differences as well, it really is what ended us. We were so different and once i learned the language my rose colored glasses were off. I still love colombia, but i think finding someone who at least has been to my country and understands my culture better will be better, or someone well traveled. I grew up in the south, near Appalachia, and we are family oriented, but he was always up early also, and me nope! Since traveling and living abroad mostly in latin America i have adapted, but sometimes there is nothing better than meeting someone from the US who just ¨gets it¨.
Facts
Interesting to see this comment from a western woman dating a foreign man.
@@MomoAfterDarkeven the foreign men don’t want western women, what does that say 😂
6:13 they think they can do it all in the span of their 5 day vacation 😂
The content you are putting out is great man. Thank you
I'm Black American my wife is Indonesian. I see Asian men pondering why would she be with me, but the thing they don't understand is we are both Muslim. She is not going to marry a non Muslim even if they are Asian. I believe culture and religion plays a big part if you want successful marriage, because of how do you both want to raise your kids. The last I checked international marriage divorce rate was at 25%. Thats alot better than the American divorce rate. It takes time to find a good partner abroad, but it's worth it.
Wes, you should have gone to Argentina. They don’t eat till midnight.
I will go there eventually on my comeback tour haha
They are paying women for time, sex ,company and whatever else. I think the majority of these guys that are parading women around in these videos are involved in the pay-4-play scene.
exactly
Yeah those creep cam videos make it seem like you can just pick and choose when you step off the plane. It doesn't work like that.
Facts 💯 passport bride were hookers before they met passport simps, to con them into love and there wallets. And a greencard 😂😂😂😂😂
You are right. But please note that an entanglement/relationship with a woman is almost always pay4play. No matter where you seek.
You’re always paying when you’re in a relationship with vvomen you guys make me laugh acting otherwise 😂😂😂 relationships ARE TRANSACTIONAL . Love and romance are so far from reality of things
I agree and feel you, I’ve been threw similar things. Thanks for clearing that up!
There is another reason to think about dating outside your own culture, especially if you're looking to get married and start a family: to provide better opportunities for your children. Most people will marry someone in their own country and their children will be born there. However, most countries allow their citizenship to be passed down to the next generation even when children of those citizens are born outside the parents home country. So, what I'm proposing is to find a foreign wife and move to a third country (that allows jus soli - citizenship by birth) so that your children have 3 citizenships and passports right from birth.
So, as an example, a British citizen, marries a Brazilian, and then their kids are born in Ireland, which allows those children to have not only Irish citizenship (and by extension EU citizenship), but also British and Brazilian as well, thereby allowing your children to freely travel, work and study in those three countries, and, in the case of Ireland, most of Europe as well.
(I realize this is taking "family planning" to the extreme, but who wouldn't want to do the best for their kids and give them a leg up in the world right from birth. After all, this is the exact same reason that so many illegal migrants are crossing the southern US border... they all want to have an anchor baby in the USA to provide a better future (and more opportunities) for their future children.)
Interesting comment!
What ever happened to your restaurant in Colombia?
Sold it a year ago
Excellent video! Thank you for your very informative and enligtening content. ASE!
Cheers
Hi Bro. Enjoy your life in Asia. I will be traveling there soon. You are a handsome dude, you look good either way, but I like the fascial hair on you. good luck and best wishes. Peace
Dated a Russian girl for about 4 months when I was living in Batumi Georgia 🇬🇪 it was great at first but the differences definitely came out. She spoke great English but there were just too many things we still didn’t understand cause in different languages you say things in a certain way in certain situations that I just felt were too hard to comprehend. I only speak English and Spanish and she only speaks Russian and English.
She may have been a honey trap.
Excellent video. I’m a passport bro married to a foreign woman and I’m sick of the unbalanced, insufficient information being put out there when it comes to going to these foreign countries. Many of them are doing the same thing they did back in their western home countries which is focusing totally on and pedestalizing women as if they can do no wrong. That’s exactly what created the intolerable women in the west that many of us want nothing to do with.
Which countries would you recommend?? I’m pretty adaptable
@@TheCrispOne2024you don’t know what you will need to adapt to lol
@@maurice2014 culture, language, history … what else ?
No, fathers who left the home and slept around leaving women pregnant to fend for themselves made the issues. Femininity must be protected , masculinity must be earned
@@TheCrispOne2024that's what you got out of his comment??? 😂
If you love each other, you can make it work, regardless of the culture 😊
I’m Caribbean, close knit family, I’d love it. Depends on what they imposed on for me
I started talking to a a Filipina that I met on Omegle, and I immediately started realizing that these types of relationships are not a good idea.
The way these different countries view dating is WAAAAAY different than the concepts that we understand as westerners. We marry for love, many of them marry out of necessity. Those two mentalities of seeking a partner are incompatible world views.
yeah exactly. Seeing marriage as a business deal is pretty common in Eastern countries too.
Women everywhere marry out of necessity. Just pick your battles and know what you're getting into
I live in canada 🇨🇦 vancouver...yes can't deny many marry for love but let's face it vancouver girls do care about your bank account/assets /job etc.
@@charmander777 women everywhere marry for necessity. No woman wants a bum.
@@xpmedia8660which battle would you recommend picking?? lol
Dating in the United States is toxic central
I think you’re misunderstanding the Passport Bros community non of those channels you referenced advocate bringing a foreign woman back to the states. From my perspective find love in another country and stay there and work remotely within that country.
Although I do agree a lot of men are misguided about the culture and needing to adapt.
Facts
I'm in the Medellín now. And if I met a lady that I really wanted to start a serious relationship with, I wouldn't DARE bring her back to the US. That's a recipe for disaster!
I'm a Passport Bro who's been living in Latin America for nearly 4 years. Of course you're NOT supposed take a Latina away from her family! I'm surprised at how many guys don't seem to get this. To maximize her happiness she must be able to meet with all the abuelas and primas, tios and hermanas immediately.
If I do have children with a Latina, we'll raise them in her home country most likely. Just seems super obvious
It’s only obvious when you intend to approach the woman as a human being. These guys see them as glorified s*x dolls. Very creepy. But of course normal people realize most women prefer to live with their families, especially certain cultures that emphasize family.
They’re comparing and complaining cause they are bunch of SIMPS who haven’t travelled outside their cities yet alone country! 😂 We passport bros
I meet DR women on the dating app and I went to see her but when I came back home without her everything went really bad for us fighting all the time because I was not fast enough to spend 5000 dollars on a fiancé visa so now I started seeing red flags 🚩
Wow! I like you man! 😂 @WheresWes I completely overstand how you felt when you said " I'm too Asian for the Americans and too American for the Asians" powerful! Because of the conditions and status of other countries, they tend to forget about geographics. How depending on the environment you grew up in puts a mold on you 😂. It's on US as individuals to know who we are and cultivate the healthy parts of our culture and to Not get caught up in the Matrix!
What did your mate Josh do to get his number leaked?
good catch I didn't see that, will fix now
I'm currently talking to a Carioca ( girl from Rio De Janiero) she used to live in my city (6 years) on an english exchange program. Then she went back to her hometown. What passport bros don't understand is by their own culture they could be super chill or nice but it doesn't welcome the fact that they want hook up right away or be in a relationship right away.
Brazil is becoming first-wave feminism and she even labelled herself as that. The thing about her culture is it's interesting but most of their food selection is pork. I personally don't like pork so for me to be in a long term relationship it's tough.
You have to take in If you are melanated with certain SA countries there is colorism. The grass is not greener in the other side.
pork? huh? Brazil eats all different types of meats. Huge variety there. Was just there for three months and I don't think I ate pork once
You look younger and professional.👍
Wes whether you acknowledge it or not… you’re a passport bro.
I disagree, everything about Wes's experience in Colombia was circumstantial. Passport bros have a precise agenda.
I just want a loving relationship lol if I have to learn about another’s culture and language to do that then it’s not a problem whatsoever
Hey Wes! It's true about Thais being extremely close with their families. Here is a true story...A white American man meets a Thai woman online, marries her, and brings her back to the USA where they have a child. The Thai woman's family was well-off so each of her family members took turns coming to visit her for months at a time. The Thai wife loved the frequent visits because she was lonely and homesick. Well, these visits didn't sit well with her American husband who demanded that the visits stopped! Eventually, the arguments about the family visit were too much and they ended up divorcing. The American husband tried to have his Thai wife's Green Card revoked, claiming that she fraudulently married him for the Green Card but the US immigration sided with the wife and concluded that the frequent visits by the wife's family caused the divorce. Here is a warning to all of you non-Asian men who want an Asian wife, especially a Thai wife! When you marry that Asian woman, you are also marrying the woman's extended family.
thanks for sharing.
I personally think he is a jerk and selfish.
That's the same thing in Latino culture you marry the wife you marry the family.
This comment is a prime example that maybe it isn't always the foreign girls fault but the goofball that marrys them. This dude sounds like a basket case, why would you care if her family visits.
Even your Colombian will bounce for a white guy
Sometimes, passport bros can go overseas not just to find a better woman but to simply get away from whatever hellish aspect of feminism is forced on them. A passport pro can be willing to stay in the home country of the foreign spouse rather than try and bring her back. (Unless she wants to go back with him which could or could not be a problem) There's the challenge of adapting to her country's ways which could be the polar opposite of his own but if he's up to the challenge then it shouldn't be a problem.
definitely depends on the passport bro: if he's ready spiritually, financially, physically & mentally the marriage has a higher chance of success
those maynot be the same values as the place you're going to tho
I swear these criticism videos are all the same. Same talking points, same assumptions.
Facts, most dudes I know don’t even want to bring them back to the states.
I’m American, my husband is a Russian man and we live in Eastern Europe.
When it comes to cultural differences, you can’t just take one side of the coin, you have to take the whole coin.
The rose-colored glasses WILL come off. That’s how every healthy relationship progresses. And you will have the opportunity to see and love your mate as they are, the flawed ape in front of you. Most regular relationships can’t make it past this part, and international relationships make it much much harder.
That being said, I adore my husband to pieces. He’s the man of my dreams. ❤️
I don't believe passport bros are lying to people. There is a big difference between a passport bro and a sexpat like one of the channels you showed on screen. I've heard of many successful stories of couples who are going on 40 plus years of marriage. You do bring up an important point that if you go overseas to find a wife you do have to assimilate to their culture tho.
I think many passport bros now are sexpats so the term is getting mixed.
@WheresWes you're 100% correct on that. In fact they've always been sexpats
They're only interest is bragging about how many girls they've met and where. Thus what's happening is the "scopolamine" crew is hip to that and it's why you see all these cases of deaths, robbery, kidnapping of men. They wanna dance with the devil, but forget the devil doesn't dance for free.
@WheresWes they are not mixed, you haven't done enough research before speaking in the topic
@@WheresWesmany of them now are getting it mixed and when they actually talk about it in lives they are actually sexpats. That's where the ones actually traveling for purpose can make a business opportunity and rent out property to these sexpats.
Oh yes they are lying. They had one guy said, on tik tok that he likes dominican women because, he can be aggressive and abusive to them versus American women you have to play fake nice. Someone caught it on video. Him and his homeboy was agreeing to that talking about how they hate being nice to women.
6:47 whats the source?
I agree though I am definitely open to dating overseas. I think most of these passport bros tend to go over seas looking for the same IG MODEL video vixen borderline pornstar type of female. If I did go, I would look more for a country side/village type of women, it's like a lot of these guys look for the the most westernized east women, which defeats the purpose, also they do need to adapt to the culture, and learn the language.
So what your saying is ima be single forever. Because women here in the States ignore the hell outta me. I’m invisible here. 😂😂😂
You lost me when you say you don’t feel strongly about being American. I’m black and American asf that fact Chinese can see it but you can’t show you’re thinking too hard about it. It’s an objective take, you only know what is was like to grow up here therefore that’s your culture whether you “feel” like it or not for better or for worse.
Yeah, dating in Colombia is tricky, especially in Medellin. It will take a long time to assimilate in Paisa Culture. Girls are not throwing themselves at a foreigner, they are extremely proud women and kinda timid. Things are ass backwards here and that goes for everything, including how you as a foreigner are treated in the dating market. The self awareness for this culture can be non existent and savage, but then you get that feminine paisa accent , “como estas?”. It’s a trip but most foreigners have only access to lower strata girls which means hood girls, hood problems.
Smaller towns you all, Medellin is a concrete jungle and the sex trade is everywhere, you just don’t know what these women are into on the side. Smaller towns like where Wes went is what you should aim for but it’s not that simple either as we have learned. Stay patient, you’ll need it in Latin America.
Finding a vetted, decent Colombian Woman will take a lot of work, meaning language and local activities, language exchange, and other items. Most people will opt out and try dating apps, that’s a lot of work weeding through gold diggers, prepagos, scammers, and toxic women.
It’s better than the states but not paradise, far from it. Don’t believe it, come live it.
Facts. Medellin is played out and the girls are used to foreigners and most just see them as licks. My success improved tremendously when my Spanish improved and I started going to Barranquilla.
Very well said so true
Great info! I think I have an idea, but what do you think about PB’ing Brazil?
Most passporrbros who I hear talk are just babies, who wanna be “providers”, but don’t actually provide or they provide the bare minimum, while she needs to do everything for a man who has men are better at everything attitude. It gets tiring to see a man as a baby.
Perfect comment
I met a few in Saigon and pretended to lend a sympathetic ear. Completely misogynist, in denial and delusional. But entertaining.
yeah all over the world passport bros seem to be the same.
So what would you recommend if a man wants to go to any Latin Country to find a wife? I agree with your comments so what’s the solution
not sure yet. I'm still traveling but I don't think I will end up with a Latin wife. I've heard good things about Brazil though, and maybe you can check out the other Latin countries.
@WheresWes what u recommend I have an attraction on japanese women and the mentality of life on respect ,hygiene except food is a good choice u think ??
What up Wes??? You looking about 10 years younger, brother!!
I humbly state to not 'throw the baby out with the bath water', brother. Meaning, don't lump us 'passport bros' all up with what you've experienced.
I've had quite the opposite experience in Medellín. For the reading audience, I'm a black man, 47 years old, divorced, four boys, two are late teens, the other two in their twenties, career military and civilian law enforcement, and closing in fast on retirement. Ive been visiting Medellín since August of 2021 and fell in love with the place on my second visit. I don't drink or smoke.
I actually met my Colombian fiancee through my brother from another mother's now ex girlfriend in April of 2022. We've been together ever since. My brother is marrying another Colombian woman. I personally know three other dudes that are married to Colombian women and hear nothing but good things about their respective relationships.
Just keep in mind that your experiences are just that and try not to judge a whole group of guys based on what you know. Now, I keeps it a buck; I also know of guys that just want to smash. I call them Pookies and Ray-Rays. They're NOT a part of the Passport Bros/Kings movement. We are in other countries to make our lives better by immersing ourselves in the cultures and looking for the real experience and what it has to offer. I know some expats that are retired military and they WANT to continue to learn the language and the customs and courtesies.
Ive been to many different countries and one thing I learned early; being black and full of culture HELPS me to see the different perspectives. For Colombia, it greatly assists me because I'm a family man and I love hanging with family versus being in the club. I absolutely love my fiancee's kids.
Keep the videos coming big homie! Good seeing you, brother!!!😊
I feel Colombia NOW is so "haram" because most of the really pretty women are now OF models. I have found a very traditional woman from a SMALL town in the philippines, been dating for 3 months and we've already spent time together physically for 2 weeks when I flew down to meet her in person and so far so good. I am planning on moving to the philippines this year. And even though a HUGE percentage speak english, I am still going to take a TAGALOG class to blend into the culture better. 🙂
The PHILLIPINES is we’re it’s at.
Stay out of Medellin and Cartagena and you'll be good. Colombia is still full of good women but you need to know Spanish and stay away from the tourist hot spot cities.
I could never besides I coach high school football because that’s my passion and I own a business she would have to move here I’m not leaving everything behind just to be with a woman. But my girlfriend is just fine she is black from Atlanta and she takes great care of me. She is also very traditional
These guys made it like that over the years traveling just for sex. The same thing happened in mexico lol
@@isaac80745 yes I was in Medellin a few months ago, and what I seen this app from there, 90 percent was advertising their bodies in the photos. When I made contact, they were making silly requests like surgeries, washer and direct money request. One even ask for money just to talk with her. Very insane in Medellín now.
suppose a korean american goes back to korea to find a wife (where there isn't much of a cultural /language gap assuming the guys knows how to speak korean). I wouldn't consider that the same as a irish american going to say the korea to find a wife (he doesn't speak korean and doesn't like kimchi and doesn't know anything about the history etc). The gap is very huge and compatability issues /risk of failure is higher. Both are technically 'passport bros' but very different scenarios
You don't have money to give them a green-card or support their family overseas. Her family doesn't care if she finds someone "richer" in the states ... $$$ talks if you plannjng to love and bring them to your country. If you support their careerin the $ex industry thats on you .
Once a guy spends time in a particular country. The rose colored glasses will fade and reality will set it. Cultural differences are huge and some can adapt and others wont. Met plenty of expats back in my military days that just wanted a gf not marriage because of that reality.
Dude speak for yourself!
He is talking about the exceptions and not the “general” rule. FYI: last year over 25k North American men married foreign women and in these relationships there is on average a 12% divorce rate as opposed to a 50% divorce rate here. My lady is black Colombian, comes from a 2 parent home, Is a university graduate on an academic scholarship and works for the utilities industry. She Has a visa and passport but has no interest in living in the USA. I am 76 and she is 51 and I have no interest in chasing silly and immature girls who look good but have no idea what life is about. I want to be a husband not a baby sitter! And if you are wondering if I am an old geezer with a cane, forget about it! I am in great health and am owner and chief instructor of my karate dojo (school) in atlanta. Get your passports and use common sense when visiting those countries and you will be all right!!!
I think that the video should be renamed, things to look out for if your a passport bro. You said it yourself "the cultural differences at one point or another will show up and at some point, those differences might end up destroying the relationship" (slightly paraphrased). So yeah, its important to do the research and test everything out before taking a leap. For instance, someone might say "its a good time to buy a house" but won 't go through the entire process nor all angles but its doesn't say that someone is lying when they say to buy a house at that time. It doesn't mean that your lying.
No American men who tell men to stay in America and find a “good” woman here are lying to us💯
You just gotta know how to move and you will get the correct type of chick that you want. You just need to have 10x times filter in Colombia than in US or Europe.
I don't think the women you'll find abroad are all looking for a guy with money. I've lived in Latin America a bit and dated women who made more money than I did, or could have gotten plenty of guys that did. Most expressed no interest in moving to or even visiting the US. I think lot of them seemed interested in me more because of their own culture's racist beauty standards, or they were tired of the machismo of men in their own country.
Didn't hurt being tall and that I can dance and speak Spanish.
But that's just me, wanting to date interesting, educated women and not trying to marry a submissive trad wife. Your experience may differ.
Met my latina, got married....4 daughters and 10 grandkids later...we are still very much in love. I can not imagine trying to date in the US now. GO ABROAD !
😂😂 how long did it take you to do all that
Plot twist, 3 daughters aren't his hahaha
Dating in USA is the worst!
@@WheresWesthe fourth daughter might not be his neither 😁
@@WheresWesand she became a 300 pounder real fast.
I think it is easier to date people outside of your race who kind of align with your culture. Asian Americans will probably fit easier in Thailand, Japanese , Korea, etc... Black Americans tend to fit better with Latin America. The problem I found with a lot of Americans they dont make the effort to learn the language and culture which can make a big difference in a long-term relationship etc...
This is totally true actually. However I would argue that Asian is a big term because China, Russia, the middle East are all techniaclly Asia and share a ton of similarities in culture too.
I'm an American, I was engaged to a Colombian woman and it was the best relationship I ever had. She treated me way better than any American woman, she never asked me for anything, and she made it clear from the beginning that she didn't want to move to th3e US and wanted me to live in Colombia.
The idea that all foreigners sit around thinking of ways to come to America isn't accurate.
I am a half Filipino with a Filipino mother and American father. My mom moved to the US after they got married in the Philippines. They have been married 30 years. Both of them were teachers. They were basically pen pals for a year before my dad came to the Philippines to visit her. However he did not start writing to her to try and court her. This was some program where an American teacher got paired with a foreign teacher to write to each other about their experiences. My mother wasn't trying to take advantage of my father because even if they never met, she still would have had a successful teaching career in the Philippines. My point is they got to know each other and bonded over their mutual interest in teaching. Where these guys will move to another country, a lot of times knowing little to nothing about the culture, and expect a find a submissive woman. Then of course they lead with the fact they are American and have more money than them. Of course the woman acts interested. But never actually gets to know the woman beyond surface level until it's too late.
After the video I did the dougie lmao
Ayyyy
I am inclined to disagree with you on the green card comment, but I have never been to Colombia so perhaps it is extremely common there? I feel like a lot of girls around the world would much rather go to Rome or Paris rather than New York.
Sometimes videos like this are cringe because there's an assumption that all the passport bros are the same, which is absolutely ridiculous. There are no distinctions as if they are a monolith. As if they are not knowledgeable and need you to explain to them how to travel and how to connect. Lol
Have you interviewed a legitimate passport bro, do you know a passport bro? Probably not. So anything you say in this video is an assumption. This is intellectually irresponsible and lazy.
I appreciate this post. but I dont think the Passport Bros movement is the same as the Mail order bride movement. I legit think its just promoting for young men to experience women in other cultures. If someone goes to another culture and doesnt learn or at least respect the need to learn the language, that isnt necessarily a fault of the passport bros movement.. its jus those individuals... because all passport bros is.. is tourism.. should we bash all tourism because of what a few people do? No