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At least you don't belong to a race where you either become a criminal, athlete, or a failure. I'll take the pressures amd praise of being a doctor or lawyer any day of the week.
I agree that reflecting on life is necessary for personal growth. Unfortunately, very few people take the time to understand their role in various situations, be it in relationships or friendships. It's crucial to ask ourselves about our role in those situations and why we keep attracting certain types of people into our lives. It's commendable to see you making an effort to work on yourself. In doing so, you'll gradually become the person you didn't even know you wanted to be.
Portugal is pretty easy to do since it's so small and it's next to Spain too. You can even check out Morocco since it's so close. Both countries are fairly priced but the bigger cities are more expensive. The women are also pretty attractive especially Spain. For my next trip I'll probably check out some of the Balkan countries (Albania, Bulgaria, Serbia, Bosnia, North Macedonia) since they're more affordable.
I think you should keep traveling, and find globally minded people (which exist in all countries). Eventually you will find one who makes you want to stop traveling and settle down, or you will meet one who wants to travel the world with you. That's how you know you found the right person. That is my story.
Can second this. While my experiences are on a friendship level, the deepest connections I have had in my life tend to be with fellow travelers in foreign (to us) locations. The feeling of camaraderie has been second to none for me.
@WheresWes just creates the same issue that women suffer. The more you travel the more you look for that less than 1% of women in the world. And it's not going to be just a random woman who travels. She'll have to be attractive(most attractive women don't need to travel), great sexual energy(since you're getting lots of experience to compare her to), along with every other criteria that She'll need to meet. Don't spend the next 20 years saying you're still looking for that special one. Life isn't ad long as you think it's going to be.
Definitely go to Europe, it's so colorful, every country is different but all are very friendly and worth visiting. Currently I'm traveling through Southeast Europe and it's a pleasure to experience life here. However, you have to get in touch with locals, live with them to experience the real culture with all it's downsides too. That's what I always do, and in general it's one of the best ways to explore a country.
My comment on air pollution on a previous video might have gotten deleted ( and i have notifications off atm ) and regarding this passport bro / travelling outside first world countries thing, so ill say it here as I believe it is very important and interesting for you and others. Hamza is like the only person on all of youtube who actually LIVED in these mainstream social media popular countries and passport bro movement , Thailand, Bali (Bali was short term 1-2month thing ) AND Dubai! He realized something very eye opening and that is the danger of air pollution for long term living in these countries. His health and breathing got a bit messed up especially in Dubai (He was paying over 10k per month in a luxury place there ) and after moving back to UK, he firmly believes first world countries really are superior over these third world countries that everyone loves banging on about. Healthcare , food quality, safety etc are all very good in first world countries ( In Bali he said construction workers dont wear any protection and nearly got hurt by them while riding his scooter ) The main topic of interest is women and dating on this channel / niche and even that can be managed in a first world country. A good feminine woman can be found anywhere in the world even in west. Hamza is the one guy who can testify all this from actual experience and hard work, travel, socializing etc. You going to Europe might be a wonderful idea based on this theory and his analysis.
Bro I say the exact same thing to my friends all the time. That's why I always cough like crazy in big cities with a lot of pollution, air pollution negatively affects me too
Hey man, I am Filipino and born in the Philippines myself but grew up in Canada. I admire your story after watching several of your videos, and i want to follow in your footsteps regarding "financial freedom" and having the ability to travel and stay at those areas for medium lengths of time. I don't want to copy your path per se, maybe even learn from your mistakes. But i do want the ability to explore different countries and learn new languages and meet new people. Would appreciate some advice or instructions on how I can get started on this dream
Being Born and raised in Brooklyn NY. Feel the same way as you. I have dated a few Viet girls but all were very family oriented but had bad tempers lol.
hey bro if you ever go to cambodia skip phnom penh and just go to siem reap. visit the temples and also visit phnom kulen the mountain. cambodia has a lot of history and culture
Maybe shift up your perspective. Instead of critiquing a place and looking at it from a selfish perspective - look how you can make an impact on a community. Where are you “called” to be? Where can you make a difference? Where is your cross that you need to carry?
I’m East Asian and have the same taste as you. I always wonder if I have some deep inner self hate issues that I’m not aware of. So sometimes I’m second guessing myself like should I give Asian girls a chance. After traveling around the world, I’m visiting my first Asian country next month in Thailand and Vietnam. Who knows, maybe my taste will change.
Nah it's not self hate, at least for me. Its the result of exposure to American and latin media I think. Everyone is allowed preferences without having malicious intent
Hi Wes, I'm a British-Filipino from London & also saw your other video about Passport Bros. You are right about the cultural differences between dating in places like Thailand & Philippines, because I went to Thailand recently & realized just how easy it was for my London attitude to come out in certain situations. But to be honest - I really couldn't tell if this was a cultural or personality difference, because I did notice that not all girls treated me the same way they did to tall White dudes or Koreans, for example. I wonder if there was some cultural bias involved towards these guys e.g. White guys & K-Pop, or whether it was just me & how I looked/acted .. Its made me think twice about dating overseas now & if I should just settle with someone from the UK instead.
There are different groups of Thai women with different tastes in men. There are largely three groups in Thailand: Group 1 prefer dating white "farang" men, group 2 prefer Korean/Japanese and sometimes Chinese (Chinese to a lesser degree unless the guy spends a lot of money), and group 3 prefer Thai guys. The rest are all minorities. (those who prefer blacks, latinos, arabs, indians etc.) Those who prefer white guys will rarely approach or flirt with East Asian guys and vice versa. Now unfortunately if you have South East Asian looks similar to Thais, you will be less popular than white guys or East Asians unless you speak fluent Thai AND/OR have lots of money. Your Britishness and the ability to speak English fluently can definitely help you stand out but you have a disadvantage when it comes to looks. I am a Korean guy who goes to stay in Thailand often.
@@gaian639 You know what dude, you are absolutely right in your response, especially you're first paragraph - I did encounter all girls who were into different types e.g. White, Korean, even Black guys etc. I would say my appearance isn't that bad, I could pass for a hapa, but what I did notice is that this was more of a curiosity to them rather than an attraction. Whereas with actual East Asian & White guys - there was more lovey doveyness going on between them. Or maybe I'm just shit at flirting, I dunno.
I totally relate to this. I'm an Asian guy that lives in Canada. About 95% of my friends and people who I've been friends with are immigrants from another country. I think we just gravitate to each other because of shared similar experiences. I too will probably not marry an Asian. Many Asian girls i come across tend to be either really FOB, or the ones that grew up here and are or have been self hating racists at some point. I don't need that kind of toxicity in my life, so I go for Latina, Eastern European, or some Southeast Asian women
Idk about other Asians, but Chinese and Korean friend groups can be really toxic, competitive and discriminatory. Am speaking as a European who lived there.
Hit up Portugal if you're in Europe. I visited the silver coast in 2021 and I've been back 5 times since and bought a place in Portimao. Definitely an underated country because of the diversity of each region and it opens up Europe for exploration.
subscribed, there are a lot of mediocre travelers with 10 times your followers Wes, you are so cool enjoyable and honest. What is the people waiting for to subsceibe to your channel, you should be on the range of 100 k. You rock! Keep up with the offert and thanks for hsaring your thoughts.
I agree with your assessment on this one. I was born in the Philippines, but was raised here in the Bay Area. It opened up my mind to not limit myself just to my race or culture, when it comes to dating. I more attracted to mixed race or Latin women. 😉
Go go for the viet gal. I married one no regrets. From California, taught all over Asia since 2008. Viet gals, in beauty, family and culture are like 1950 usa. Not that i was around then, but from what i heard. Many viet are culture aware, and quite a few semi traveled. Did you ever visit Nga Trang while in vietnam? I built a house here by the beach. Your welcome to visit.
Hes not wrong about Viet girls being undefeated. They are outstandingly beautiful and I've been to HCMC twice in the last 2 years and am yet to meet a nasty Viet girl
Setiap orang punya jalan hidup yang berbeda punya sifat yang berbeda,di eropa pun yang pendiam banyak yang atraktif juga banyak. Intinya tergantung peribadi masing-masing
Whatever your destiny lies I support you. When I grew up, my mother and father told me to get a Chinese or African American girl because I'm mixed with both. So that definitely happens with most families.
I suspect you will have affinity for Southern Europe: Spain,Portugal, or Italy, maybe Southern France. After a short adjustment, those languages will come to you
Hehe my girlfriend doesnt speak a word of english and i barely can speak portugese but i get practice every day here in brazil......and no, im not a passport bro. Uhg i hate that term. It just sounds like being a player but in other countries
I think passport bro and sexpat get mixed together when they refer to 2 different groups. I'd say I'm a passport bro but heavily anti-sex-pat. A lot of sexpats claim to be passport bros but are honestly just looking for cheaper sugar babies or for p4p.
As a Singaporean Chinese ive dated many southeast Asian girls its not that hard for me honestly some people in the comments saying that oh they aren't attracted to Chinese guys which is totally false.
Generally speaking if they date out of their nationality it's about $. Only caveat is that you have physical attributes they desire, of which i am not sure what a Singaporean can bring to the plate that for instance Thai men can't.. Of course if you're a straight stud then you will stand out.
@@EB-jf5oiSkin color my man… it’s a huge deal in SE Asia. Asians value lighter skin. Chinese people are East Asian and tend to be lighter skin compared to SEA. There is a reason why kdramas are so popular in SEA cuz Koreans are also East Asian. So a Chinese dude is gonna find it easy to date in SEA. You mentioned Thailand… about 10% of Thailand are Thai-Chinese. And guess who the trend setters in Thailand are? Thai Chinese men are who girls wanna date in thailand.
@@marvinsulzer8258 I live in Thailand 6 months of the year.. Of course women want a rich man and a lot of rich guys in Thailand are Thai-Chibese, and most of the women want a Thai guy, anyone who says otherwise doesn't know. Usually if they go for something else out of desire it will be a Korean or European. They are deemed handsome by women, although most Thai people are nationalists, so if you can't at least speak Thai then most of the women are not available anyway.
Exactly Wes. As you travel the globe, 99 percent of all women do the same thing. After a while, they all start to look and act the same. Same scams, same bs, same baby mama drama, same issues with men, it all becomes like a Walmart experience. Having been with women since the late 1970s, and yes the women back then were just as $ up beleive me. I have met just TWO women I could say I was in love with. The rest? just silver medal winners. So enjoy your life. If you find the one? great, if not? $ em chuck-em and move on bro
Why don't you just go back to the U.S? I'd imagine that it'd be easier for you to live in that society since you grew up there. You don't have to go back to LA, you could move to Florida or Texas. People act differently there, and I believe that's the beauty of the U.S., every part has different values. I really resonated with the rest of your video. I'm Polish-American who grew up in the US, and every time I visit Poland, it feels like a totally foreign place and not like home despite me holding Polish citizenship and even speaking the language. I just feel very disconnected to the Polish culture, and I don't seem to understand everything about it. Almost like I am 50/50 American/Polish, and not one or the other. Similarly, I do not want to marry a Polish woman, I'm not sure why, but it doesn't seem right to do so.. I find it intriguing that you've totally described how I feel about myself by your own experiences.
i think the US is a failing society in real time, plus not worth the money you're spending. I've thought about smaller cities like Omaha but honestly it doesn't sound that appealing. Thanks for sharing, I think a lot of children of immigrants feel the same.
Hello Wes. How are you doing mate? can you share where you've gotten the most contrary feeling to that of being in a "failing society in real time"? @@WheresWes
using dating apps is like asking for troubles from get go :D and super beta be a man and find interesting girl during the day and ask her out ( PS : no bar girls )
how are chinese fear based and give me some examples? how can they be fear based if they opening business all over the world especially here in los angeles
Not to choose a person, but to understand those around you better. Helps tremendously in dating but also outside of dating. Carl Jung was a psychiatrist and psychoanalyst so I do get offended when people try comparing MBTI to horoscopes. Helps me a lot personally as a Japanese/Paki/Indian on the western hemisphere caz I grew up soooooooooo differently. If you try it I suggest doing the test a few times over time as stress affects the results. (Worse, grip stress) Ex: in uni I got ISTJ once Since then I've consistently gotten INTJ female It's helped me out a whole lot & here are many studies :) PS. I'm a GP so I really looked at this closely before trying it. Hope it helps :)
'most people in the world are homogeneous and want to stay with their own people ' yes that is the norm. I wonder why it's only Europeans who are not permitted this. The Chinese are successful right now because of their attitude to staying within their own tribe. Jeff bezos admitted that part of the way he controls his workforce is by hiring from many different ethnic groups. Divide And conquer. The very definition of a nation is at its etymological root, genetic. One can desire to stay within their group without being racist
Though you seem reluctant to date local women in Southeast Asian countries, I dont think there are any other countries in the world that are better than Southeast Asian countries for East Asian looking dudes in terms of being popular with local women. For example, if you are korean or you look remotely korean....you would be an instant hit in the Philippines....I assure you any social class you are bound to find a girl who would date you. Korean looking dudes are very popular with local women in Philippines. Same in Vietnam and all over Southeast Asia. They would actually prefer u to a European white man.
Hell no! I'm not attracted to Chinese men or East Asian looking men at all. I love White, Brazilian, Cuban, Latino, Egyptian, Moroccan, Arab and Biracial men.
@@WheresWes No thanks. Asian men have tiny size down below. 🤣🤣 I love BIG size. This is why I love White, Brazilian, Cuban, Latino, Egyptian, Moroccan, Arab and Biracial men.😍🥰🥰🥰
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Being Chinese myself, I laughed my ass off when you said you can be a lawyer, doctor, or a failure.
That is the way lmao
@@WheresWes, the full joke that I remember is that you can be a doctor, lawyer, an engineer, or a disgrace to your ancestors, hehe.
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@@DensterNYblack engineer here. I either was one of those or in the military.
or prison...haha
At least you don't belong to a race where you either become a criminal, athlete, or a failure. I'll take the pressures amd praise of being a doctor or lawyer any day of the week.
I’m taking notes. Your perspective is very valuable brother
All love bro thank u
I agree that reflecting on life is necessary for personal growth. Unfortunately, very few people take the time to understand their role in various situations, be it in relationships or friendships. It's crucial to ask ourselves about our role in those situations and why we keep attracting certain types of people into our lives. It's commendable to see you making an effort to work on yourself. In doing so, you'll gradually become the person you didn't even know you wanted to be.
Portugal is pretty easy to do since it's so small and it's next to Spain too. You can even check out Morocco since it's so close. Both countries are fairly priced but the bigger cities are more expensive. The women are also pretty attractive especially Spain. For my next trip I'll probably check out some of the Balkan countries (Albania, Bulgaria, Serbia, Bosnia, North Macedonia) since they're more affordable.
“ being a doctor , lawyer , or failure” 😂😂😂😂😂 yooooo that was funny asf
It sounds like you've obtained a lot of wisdom lately Wes, congrats on your development.
Cheers bro
Great stuff and well presented as always!
You are the product of your environment Wes.
I think you should keep traveling, and find globally minded people (which exist in all countries). Eventually you will find one who makes you want to stop traveling and settle down, or you will meet one who wants to travel the world with you. That's how you know you found the right person. That is my story.
I think it'll be someone I love to travel with but that's great advice bro, we'll see what happens
Can second this. While my experiences are on a friendship level, the deepest connections I have had in my life tend to be with fellow travelers in foreign (to us) locations. The feeling of camaraderie has been second to none for me.
@WheresWes just creates the same issue that women suffer. The more you travel the more you look for that less than 1% of women in the world. And it's not going to be just a random woman who travels. She'll have to be attractive(most attractive women don't need to travel), great sexual energy(since you're getting lots of experience to compare her to), along with every other criteria that She'll need to meet. Don't spend the next 20 years saying you're still looking for that special one. Life isn't ad long as you think it's going to be.
Definitely go to Europe, it's so colorful, every country is different but all are very friendly and worth visiting. Currently I'm traveling through Southeast Europe and it's a pleasure to experience life here. However, you have to get in touch with locals, live with them to experience the real culture with all it's downsides too. That's what I always do, and in general it's one of the best ways to explore a country.
I agree, I've enjoyed my time in Europe before. Can't wait to spend more time there and learn
@@WheresWes go to Eastern Europe, the western countries are similar to the USA
@@AlexTiger19Eastern Europe is the only part I'm interested in tbh. I'll announce where I'm going in a future vid
My comment on air pollution on a previous video might have gotten deleted ( and i have notifications off atm ) and regarding this passport bro / travelling outside first world countries thing, so ill say it here as I believe it is very important and interesting for you and others.
Hamza is like the only person on all of youtube who actually LIVED in these mainstream social media popular countries and passport bro movement , Thailand, Bali (Bali was short term 1-2month thing ) AND Dubai! He realized something very eye opening and that is the danger of air pollution for long term living in these countries. His health and breathing got a bit messed up especially in Dubai (He was paying over 10k per month in a luxury place there ) and after moving back to UK, he firmly believes first world countries really are superior over these third world countries that everyone loves banging on about. Healthcare , food quality, safety etc are all very good in first world countries ( In Bali he said construction workers dont wear any protection and nearly got hurt by them while riding his scooter ) The main topic of interest is women and dating on this channel / niche and even that can be managed in a first world country. A good feminine woman can be found anywhere in the world even in west. Hamza is the one guy who can testify all this from actual experience and hard work, travel, socializing etc.
You going to Europe might be a wonderful idea based on this theory and his analysis.
Bro I say the exact same thing to my friends all the time. That's why I always cough like crazy in big cities with a lot of pollution, air pollution negatively affects me too
@@WheresWesWow thats eye opening to hear u say that too. Crazy how barely anyone is mentioning this.
Hey man, I am Filipino and born in the Philippines myself but grew up in Canada. I admire your story after watching several of your videos, and i want to follow in your footsteps regarding "financial freedom" and having the ability to travel and stay at those areas for medium lengths of time. I don't want to copy your path per se, maybe even learn from your mistakes. But i do want the ability to explore different countries and learn new languages and meet new people. Would appreciate some advice or instructions on how I can get started on this dream
I just saw your interview with Reekay! You gotta new subscriber!!
hmu if you decide to go the Netherlands! I live in Amsterdam. 24M/Chinese background, but grew up in the NL and speak Spanish as well :)
do chicks there like asian bros?
Being Born and raised in Brooklyn NY. Feel the same way as you. I have dated a few Viet girls but all were very family oriented but had bad tempers lol.
Lmao I can totally see that. They are quite vain from what I see as well, they take so many damn pics ahaha
i have to agree with you 100%.
Yep same ….
I appreciate your honesty =)
I thought you were that one guy from VGHS. Cool video tho.
hey bro if you ever go to cambodia skip phnom penh and just go to siem reap. visit the temples and also visit phnom kulen the mountain. cambodia has a lot of history and culture
i been there...great beaches and nice people
Maybe shift up your perspective. Instead of critiquing a place and looking at it from a selfish perspective - look how you can make an impact on a community. Where are you “called” to be? Where can you make a difference? Where is your cross that you need to carry?
I’m East Asian and have the same taste as you. I always wonder if I have some deep inner self hate issues that I’m not aware of. So sometimes I’m second guessing myself like should I give Asian girls a chance. After traveling around the world, I’m visiting my first Asian country next month in Thailand and Vietnam. Who knows, maybe my taste will change.
Nah it's not self hate, at least for me. Its the result of exposure to American and latin media I think. Everyone is allowed preferences without having malicious intent
get a black chick bro
Asian are obsessed with white man snd women. Just admit white girl is deep down what you want 😂. Nothing wrong with it
Same here, I think it might be all the porn for me. Helped once I cut it out.
Hi Wes, I'm a British-Filipino from London & also saw your other video about Passport Bros. You are right about the cultural differences between dating in places like Thailand & Philippines, because I went to Thailand recently & realized just how easy it was for my London attitude to come out in certain situations. But to be honest - I really couldn't tell if this was a cultural or personality difference, because I did notice that not all girls treated me the same way they did to tall White dudes or Koreans, for example. I wonder if there was some cultural bias involved towards these guys e.g. White guys & K-Pop, or whether it was just me & how I looked/acted .. Its made me think twice about dating overseas now & if I should just settle with someone from the UK instead.
There are different groups of Thai women with different tastes in men. There are largely three groups in Thailand: Group 1 prefer dating white "farang" men, group 2 prefer Korean/Japanese and sometimes Chinese (Chinese to a lesser degree unless the guy spends a lot of money), and group 3 prefer Thai guys. The rest are all minorities. (those who prefer blacks, latinos, arabs, indians etc.)
Those who prefer white guys will rarely approach or flirt with East Asian guys and vice versa.
Now unfortunately if you have South East Asian looks similar to Thais, you will be less popular than white guys or East Asians unless you speak fluent Thai AND/OR have lots of money. Your Britishness and the ability to speak English fluently can definitely help you stand out but you have a disadvantage when it comes to looks.
I am a Korean guy who goes to stay in Thailand often.
@@gaian639 You know what dude, you are absolutely right in your response, especially you're first paragraph - I did encounter all girls who were into different types e.g. White, Korean, even Black guys etc. I would say my appearance isn't that bad, I could pass for a hapa, but what I did notice is that this was more of a curiosity to them rather than an attraction. Whereas with actual East Asian & White guys - there was more lovey doveyness going on between them. Or maybe I'm just shit at flirting, I dunno.
We know your heart belongs to China 🇨🇳 ❤
I totally relate to this. I'm an Asian guy that lives in Canada. About 95% of my friends and people who I've been friends with are immigrants from another country. I think we just gravitate to each other because of shared similar experiences.
I too will probably not marry an Asian. Many Asian girls i come across tend to be either really FOB, or the ones that grew up here and are or have been self hating racists at some point. I don't need that kind of toxicity in my life, so I go for Latina, Eastern European, or some Southeast Asian women
Idk about other Asians, but Chinese and Korean friend groups can be really toxic, competitive and discriminatory. Am speaking as a European who lived there.
Hit up Portugal if you're in Europe. I visited the silver coast in 2021 and I've been back 5 times since and bought a place in Portimao. Definitely an underated country because of the diversity of each region and it opens up Europe for exploration.
subscribed, there are a lot of mediocre travelers with 10 times your followers Wes, you are so cool enjoyable and honest. What is the people waiting for to subsceibe to your channel, you should be on the range of 100 k. You rock! Keep up with the offert and thanks for hsaring your thoughts.
Appreciate the comment bro thank u!
I agree with your assessment on this one. I was born in the Philippines, but was raised here in the Bay Area.
It opened up my mind to not limit myself just to my race or culture, when it comes to dating.
I more attracted to mixed race or Latin women. 😉
Go go for the viet gal. I married one no regrets. From California, taught all over Asia since 2008. Viet gals, in beauty, family and culture are like 1950 usa. Not that i was around then, but from what i heard.
Many viet are culture aware, and quite a few semi traveled. Did you ever visit Nga Trang while in vietnam? I built a house here by the beach. Your welcome to visit.
Hes not wrong about Viet girls being undefeated. They are outstandingly beautiful and I've been to HCMC twice in the last 2 years and am yet to meet a nasty Viet girl
Setiap orang punya jalan hidup yang berbeda punya sifat yang berbeda,di eropa pun yang pendiam banyak yang atraktif juga banyak. Intinya tergantung peribadi masing-masing
Whatever your destiny lies I support you. When I grew up, my mother and father told me to get a Chinese or African American girl because I'm mixed with both. So that definitely happens with most families.
Those mixed baby struggles bro. That's a real thing
@@WheresWes definitely brother Wes it ain't no joke!
I suspect you will have affinity for Southern Europe: Spain,Portugal, or Italy, maybe Southern France. After a short adjustment, those languages will come to you
I'll eventually check it out
Hehe my girlfriend doesnt speak a word of english and i barely can speak portugese but i get practice every day here in brazil......and no, im not a passport bro. Uhg i hate that term. It just sounds like being a player but in other countries
I think passport bro and sexpat get mixed together when they refer to 2 different groups. I'd say I'm a passport bro but heavily anti-sex-pat. A lot of sexpats claim to be passport bros but are honestly just looking for cheaper sugar babies or for p4p.
Very well presented on the cultural differences.
As a Singaporean Chinese ive dated many southeast Asian girls its not that hard for me honestly some people in the comments saying that oh they aren't attracted to Chinese guys which is totally false.
Bruh thats what I'm saying. The vast majority like 90+% of people in other countries generally want to date people of their own race and nationality
Generally speaking if they date out of their nationality it's about $. Only caveat is that you have physical attributes they desire, of which i am not sure what a Singaporean can bring to the plate that for instance Thai men can't.. Of course if you're a straight stud then you will stand out.
its money man....they probably think your ugly
@@EB-jf5oiSkin color my man… it’s a huge deal in SE Asia. Asians value lighter skin. Chinese people are East Asian and tend to be lighter skin compared to SEA. There is a reason why kdramas are so popular in SEA cuz Koreans are also East Asian. So a Chinese dude is gonna find it easy to date in SEA. You mentioned Thailand… about 10% of Thailand are Thai-Chinese. And guess who the trend setters in Thailand are? Thai Chinese men are who girls wanna date in thailand.
@@marvinsulzer8258 I live in Thailand 6 months of the year.. Of course women want a rich man and a lot of rich guys in Thailand are Thai-Chibese, and most of the women want a Thai guy, anyone who says otherwise doesn't know. Usually if they go for something else out of desire it will be a Korean or European. They are deemed handsome by women, although most Thai people are nationalists, so if you can't at least speak Thai then most of the women are not available anyway.
Settling down is not for some of us
You are Filipino/Chinese therefore dating in the Philippines is like dating your sisters.
Exactly Wes. As you travel the globe, 99 percent of all women do the same thing. After a while, they all start to look and act the same. Same scams, same bs, same baby mama drama, same issues with men, it all becomes like a Walmart experience. Having been with women since the late 1970s, and yes the women back then were just as $ up beleive me. I have met just TWO women I could say I was in love with. The rest? just silver medal winners. So enjoy your life. If you find the one? great, if not? $ em chuck-em and move on bro
Nah, you missing out. Nobody said you have to marry them bruh
to each their own. Not for me, at least at the moment.
Fair enough 🤷♂️
4:38 Vietnamese girls are the best in facial aesthetics
“Doctor, Lawyer or failure”. omg
Why don't you just go back to the U.S? I'd imagine that it'd be easier for you to live in that society since you grew up there. You don't have to go back to LA, you could move to Florida or Texas. People act differently there, and I believe that's the beauty of the U.S., every part has different values.
I really resonated with the rest of your video. I'm Polish-American who grew up in the US, and every time I visit Poland, it feels like a totally foreign place and not like home despite me holding Polish citizenship and even speaking the language. I just feel very disconnected to the Polish culture, and I don't seem to understand everything about it. Almost like I am 50/50 American/Polish, and not one or the other. Similarly, I do not want to marry a Polish woman, I'm not sure why, but it doesn't seem right to do so..
I find it intriguing that you've totally described how I feel about myself by your own experiences.
i think the US is a failing society in real time, plus not worth the money you're spending. I've thought about smaller cities like Omaha but honestly it doesn't sound that appealing.
Thanks for sharing, I think a lot of children of immigrants feel the same.
Hello Wes. How are you doing mate? can you share where you've gotten the most contrary feeling to that of being in a "failing society in real time"? @@WheresWes
Southeast Asia is the best place to find a wife
You are right about the viet girls, japanese are attractive too.
using dating apps is like asking for troubles from get go :D and super beta be a man and find interesting girl during the day and ask her out ( PS : no bar girls )
You could end up with an American immigrant plenty of main land girls for you to date in the USA
Yeah maybe, no interest to go back in the moment tho
how are chinese fear based and give me some examples? how can they be fear based if they opening business all over the world especially here in los angeles
have u tried dating by ur mbti type?
I have not but it's weird to box people in based on a personality quiz. What do you think?
Not to choose a person, but to understand those around you better. Helps tremendously in dating but also outside of dating.
Carl Jung was a psychiatrist and psychoanalyst so I do get offended when people try comparing MBTI to horoscopes.
Helps me a lot personally as a Japanese/Paki/Indian on the western hemisphere caz I grew up soooooooooo differently.
If you try it I suggest doing the test a few times over time as stress affects the results. (Worse, grip stress)
Ex: in uni I got ISTJ once
Since then I've consistently gotten INTJ female
It's helped me out a whole lot & here are many studies :)
PS. I'm a GP so I really looked at this closely before trying it. Hope it helps :)
Jung's compatibility pairing is controversial but the individual analyses are spot on if ur typed correctly (:
5:29 they ran though
'most people in the world are homogeneous and want to stay with their own people ' yes that is the norm. I wonder why it's only Europeans who are not permitted this. The Chinese are successful right now because of their attitude to staying within their own tribe.
Jeff bezos admitted that part of the way he controls his workforce is by hiring from many different ethnic groups. Divide And conquer. The very definition of a nation is at its etymological root, genetic.
One can desire to stay within their group without being racist
they are successful because they dont let blm and others in
too many gold diggers!
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I think you might actually end up just marrying a American
I dated fobs your not missing out on much. I dated abcs your not missing on much. Moral of the story. RUn away. haha!
Yeah, I think you are going to end up with a Californian girl :)
Go to Brazil first. The women are out of this world. Also Austin Texas has some really gorgeous ans open minded white girls lol
Go to Eastern Europe. Western Europe is just like spoiled America.
I agree western European suck
Though you seem reluctant to date local women in Southeast Asian countries, I dont think there are any other countries in the world that are better than Southeast Asian countries for East Asian looking dudes in terms of being popular with local women. For example, if you are korean or you look remotely korean....you would be an instant hit in the Philippines....I assure you any social class you are bound to find a girl who would date you. Korean looking dudes are very popular with local women in Philippines. Same in Vietnam and all over Southeast Asia. They would actually prefer u to a European white man.
I have seen that. I'm open to it it's more the place in my life right now makes it hard
Hell no! I'm not attracted to Chinese men or East Asian looking men at all. I love White, Brazilian, Cuban, Latino, Egyptian, Moroccan, Arab and Biracial men.
@503zzach same like me only the reverse lol. But if you go back to the motherland, most of the ppl want their own race.
@@WheresWes No thanks. Asian men have tiny size down below. 🤣🤣
I love BIG size. This is why I love White, Brazilian, Cuban, Latino, Egyptian, Moroccan, Arab and Biracial men.😍🥰🥰🥰
@@503zzach that's b.s sis u r stating u can't be attracted to particular race which is funny and stereotype mentality no hate just fact.
do israeli girls like asian guys?