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Their karma is that they will NEVER actually be that character they desperately want to portray
Honestly as a covert narcissist myself I see karma that is been played in Both parts. Don't forget that you're not a saint, none of us is and we will never be.
Dritan S33 Oh shut up! U look like u skipped leg day.
@@theanonymoushelpline7248
I'm 6' 2 and 225 pounds.
Look there are more than 7 billion people on this planet, with such a huge amount of unique people you will find plenty of examples of extreme cruelty and on the other hand extreme kindness. You will find people doing anything you can imagine and everything in between.
nah nah nah Karma it's not specific just for the narcissist. It can go both ways.
@@ariellamiriam6980
Well said dear.
Being a narcissist is its own punishment. They have to live their petty, empty, unhappy, insecure, loveless lives. The rest of us are free.
well said
Well said; right on the money.
Sorry to burst your bubble but, they don't really care. They actually pitty us thinking we're the ones living a petty, empty, unhappy, insecure, loveless live 🤷🏽♀️
My narcissistic sister who I cut out of my life only has one cousin who still speaks to her and tells her all the time "you're the only one who talks to me". Her own kids cut her out of their lives and so did 2 of my Brothers.
free unless we accidentally let one of them into our lives to destroy it...
Honestly I don't care if they get theirs I'm just glad I got out
Yesss
Saaaaaaame!
Then you got out early. Good for you.
@@realtalk6340 actually 10 years is not really early but thank you 🤗
April Chow-chee you know what I meant
I have never seen someone work so hard to be unhappy. That is their hell.
Everyone is saying this....mine doesn't live in "hell", he's pretty happy. Happier than I am. He has a new girl after 8 years with me. Replaced while we were talking obviously because 3 days after I saw him he changed his #. So, he is just partying it up...he is a free spirit and gives 2 shits....lives large.
@@TheMisssy2I was the new girl after another relationship with the narc before and if your relationship was terrible so will the next one.
🤨The funniest part is that it would actually be EASIER if they were just a genuinely decent person instead of always having to wear a heavy 🎭 that ends up slipping & 👀 over their shoulder due to all the people they've screwed over.
@@TheMisssy2 It's just an appearance. The problem with narcissists is that they are grateful for NOTHING. They are never happy with what they have and think that people are literally out to get them. They are bottomless pits of want and need endless validation.
Hi, here’s another one of these „broke up with me after 8 years and ran to the next girl“-girls. I was 18. This was 9 years ago and all of them were hell while he was claiming the „happiest I’ve ever been with the most perfect woman I could’ve met“ status.
Seriously, don’t buy into that bullshit. If anyone does not know what happy actually means or feels like its definitely narcissists. And even more so psychopaths.
I’ve grown a lot since I met my „husband“. I wished I could’ve been happy and a child instead. But it’s okay, I know now what is most important in life. By the age of 27, who can say that about themselves? 🤣 I just hope I’ll make it out of this shit soon and alive ✌️
My dad always told me, "Their day is coming, even if you're not there to see it." He was right.
Your father is a Smart
Right
He was Spot on.
Those close to me have told me the same. I know they are right. Narcs feel rules do not apply to them in society and with the law and they get careless, it will catch up with them. When I went no contact he started drinking again and then driving behind the wheel drunk, he’s on the fast track to a 3rd dui at the very least and a 3rd won’t be just a smack on the wrist. They make dangerous choices and everything they do they take a gamble on reaping what they sew.
They are self destructive. I guess the trick id to not let them destroy us too.
Best revenge is moving on, healing, freedom, happiness and success.
Yes, but be careful, bc moving on, they will still stalk. Just went thru this. Their jealous and sneaky envy is so well hidden and dangerous. The little details are truths into their manipulative deoressed soul and that you have nothing to do with how they were born and raised. A true picture of who they really are and they want no one to believe or see or figure them out for they will then start with their minor insults that you can easily brush off. Then they up their anti with medium insults to bigger insults. If you figure them out and give yourself time AWAY from them to heal, you'll not ABSORB their depressive insults. Your strength against them happens when you know "who you really are." Repeat to yourself, "that is them, this is me!" This helped me keep a shield of armour between me away from them. They cant penetrate that shield if you know who you are. You are someone much better. Thank yourself. Fill yourself with thoughts of kindhearted love. The are dangerously jealous. The strength I have was given to me early on to use against their evil today. That is why God put me infront of them, to remember my strength from years ago and that I needed that same strength to use now! Thats our lesson he wants for us. He instills it in us back then to resist evil now.
@@skilodge4224 so beautifully said .
@@skilodge4224 you are absolutely right!!
No but u have to give back
I always say happiness is your best revenge!
Perhaps, just perhaps, Narcissist's Karma is to push others into fulfilling lives while they are doomed to not enjoy their own life.
Excellent!
This one almost made me cry lol I think about my life as someone who has been severely abused by multiple narcissistic people and I find it crazy sometimes scary how well my life is going compared to theirs
Wow. Well said. So true.
...a very interesting thought.
Well put!
I was married 20 years to a malignant narc. Our only contact was funerals, weddings, graduations,where we were polite but distant. When I became eligible for social security I was qualified to draw based on his earnings. He RAGED!!! Turned his whole family against me. Drew his fist at me at grandson's graduation. Pure hate and rage! He decided to continue working so he could load his social security and "retire in style". His goal was to work to 72. He died at 71 1/2. So all his SS now comes to me! He never drew a dime. My income nearly tripled when he died. I can only imagine how that would enrage him to know he didn't get any and I got it all. So if there is a hell, and he is in it, I hope he is watching me spend his money! He made my life hell, so it looks like karma to me.
@ Jan, I love your story, it made me laugh. Good for you. I hope your enjoying life.
@ Jan Yarnell
You earned every dime, Jan. Here’s to you and good health and happiness!!!♥️
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That's extremely good luck! Have fun with his money!! Wooohooo
You're going to worry yourself to death worrying about getting or seeing payback!
Focus on No Contact and moving forward. If you're worried about their karma that means you aren't focused on YOU! Let God sort it out.........Move On!
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Great advice - but sooo hard to do! Lol
No contact FTW
@@louisafoster1640 I know but that's why I'm so repetitive with the whole "no contact" thing. I'm "somebody's" reminder for the day
Amen!
They get their karma when you don’t care anymore. It hits them like a train 😂
Trust me. Ignoring and healing hurts more then anything
This has been the most true and helpful comment I have ever read
@@emilyblanzy7426 im glad if I helped 😄
Soo true! They are nothing, so ignoring its the best thing
If I am still alive and breathing and they are dying of a painful death I feel that is karma...I feel bad thinking that way...I don't wish death on nobody...is breathing the air better than not...
When we ignore do they return to us?
Karma hits narcs, too. They just blame everyone else when it happens.
Yep!!
I’m with you on this one
So damn true, and I have actually seen Karma hit a few times (talking about my mother now). Sometimes in small hits, some big hits. As you said they just blame someone else, but then learn more sneaky ways to be evil. I look back on it now and laugh at how badly it worked out for her. They can fool some of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time.
Good one! So true! 😂
@@lee02jepson unfortunately, we don't always get to watch...
The narcissist that receives karma will never realize that what they sowed has come back to them... the nature of a narcissist...
They will... But by that time we don't care about them
This is exactly what I'm going through right now & I've seen this girl ruin her whole life & still didn't realize that it was due to her actions! I tried to be there for her & tried to see the good in her, but she just can't stop lying & hurting everyone around her, so she has burned this bridge to the ground! But she will move on & find other people to hurt, lie, use & manipulate & I don't think she's ever going to realize that she causes all the pain & negativety in her own life & I don't think she'll ever admit that she needs help & is a narcissist & seriously needs help! As you said she will never realize or admit that she reaps what she sows!! 💯😒
@@krissi42085Yeah, that's my thoughts exactly. The narcissist doesn't see karma keeping balance. They take it as " bad luck" and play the victim.
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Their karma is that they get to be THEMSELVES their entire life. They might trick their friends and family, they might trick their partner IN THE BEGINNING, but they will never trick themselves. Their punishment is THEM.
The “themselves” ain’t shit and they gotta live with that everyday it’s a daily struggle of karma everyday
Their punishment is they gotta life with their own selves for the rest of their lives and they will never be anything but what they already are
Amen
I agree the karma is them
Please be nicer. It's not easy for either partner
Their karma is having to live with themselves.
I once had a 'look' inside a mind of a narc, believe me they live in hell every minute of every day. I don't need revenge, I focus on me and my life.
That’s not satisfying enough for me. They would’ve suffered like that regardless. I want them to suffer specifically for every particular person they hurt, ON TOP of whatever misery they would have inevitably endured
The above is a oneliner Stephen King book! WoW
No its not cos they are happy being themselves.. :(
Lmfao true
My narcissist had their karma, their karma is that they'll never find another me and they will be still stuck in their ways forever.
Psalms 37
Yes!
Yes they'll always be searching for you in others and will repeatedly frustrate and loathe themselves in the process.
Amen 😇
🔥🔥#facts
A narcissist friend of mine recently had his karma come back on him due to health problems and surprisingly its softened his heart a little.
It softened my MIL's as well...but it was too late. Now she's gone and I will never speak to my FIL again-nor my stepson or sister. Thank God for opening our eyes and channels like this for the support.
In fact, they suffer the most when you don't try to get revenge, just live your life. Your desinterest and their inability to prove their theory that you're the villain is their worst karma.
For me what u saying is the best revenge ever
Truth I see mine Minnie me a lot
Beautifully said! I really love this.
YESSSSS!
Yup
I feel that the narcissists live a daily inner pain - that’s their karma. My healing journey is my karma.
I totally agree with you🙌
And the part that kills me is I feel for them so much. I feel so much guilt.
Janine Garcilazo , I feel so sad for my Narcissistic parent too, not so much guilt, but pain for the day to day pain that has made her so. And, sad that her pain has spilled over into my life as a child, young adult, middle age & current.
I’m thankful that I now have an understanding of what was/is happening & being provided with information to understand. Before, I truly felt completely insane, as my experiences were disregarded.
Janine Garcilazo , I feel a wish to have somehow ease her pain. I know that’s not possible, however deep down I know she suffers, even as I learn to heal. Tough balance.
i believe this too. i feel as though i have gotten my revenge already as they will never be happy. they always want more and believe that they deserve more. craziest thing is, i am that much of an empath and that much of a good person that i actually hope he gets help and gets inner peace. what a horrible way to live to never feel happy. i also suspect my narcissist was jealous that i am a happy person that can feel happiness over the small things when he can't feel that.
“They’re stuck being THEM forever, that’s their karma”
My energy attracts people and they want to stay, her bad energy drives people away.. time to do some self-reflection because I am obviously not the problem here.. lol
And it feels good!
My ex was very verbally abusive. He didn’t smoke, and drank moderately. He died of tongue cancer. Karma was the first thing I thought when I heard the news.
And his massage therapist was the only one who cared. She arranged a memorial, that even his brother wouldn’t attend.
Both of these comments are making me laugh my buns off😂🤣👍🏻.
Sheesh. My ex drank and smoked heavily… though it wasn’t cigarettes he was smoking. Right after I left I’ve heard he’s been having some type of liver problems and we’re both still under 40. But apparently he’s been to doctors pretty frequently, getting ultrasounds, etc. He doesn’t listen to/follow anything anybody tells him and thinks he knows more than anybody including doctors. So I doubt he’ll follow whatever treatment they suggest.
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Now that is truly karma! 😝
Forget about their Karma. Rejoice in the fact you had the sense and self respect to get out and rebuild your life for yourself. 🌸
This helped a lot 💗
@@FrenchGrey That makes me SUPER HAPPY!!! 🦋
Exactly 💯
Exactly. There is no rejoicing in thinking that “he’ll get his”. Still 🤦♀️ at how both men and women adhere to revenge thinking. So many people have told me that i should have fought dirty during the divorce. My Dad taught me to never fight dirty. I go forward knowing i won’t ever go back to the mental abuse of a man who has always put on façades and has a picture perfect house. I’m happy with having little. Just never enough for him and that’s ok.
Thank you Dr. Ramani 🙏
Yes! Forgiveness truly heals us and helps us to just not care what they are doing in their life.
I think their karma is when they end up with someone just like them!
Lol
they might cancel each other out
from my personal experience, they either team up and create more chaos, or they completely avoid each other, i wonder sometimes if there're some signs that only narcs can preserve, but the rest of the population can't?
Yes, like mmmmmm you have a nice aura/etheric field , I’m going to symphon off me some of that!
@@luapogtv8667 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Their Karma- they will always feel miserable and unloved despite everything. They don't even love themselves despite all the show they put on.
Totally agree!
My wife use to confuse the hell out of me damn now I know why
But they don't usually realize they are not the norm. They mostly think inner chaos IS normal and that happy people are faking it. So it's not really "karma". The only way it would experience emotional consequences (a better word) is if they have a sudden realization about the REALITY of genuine happiness but then they lose it immediately and then experience what that feels like.
(I have always disliked the word karma the way people use it. It feels like it's supposed to be revenge and to me that's a negative way to look at life since we've all done things to others that we didn't mean, but the other person was super angry and wished "karma" for us. Doesn't mean we deserve bad things so they can feel vindictive and vindicated.)
Very true,they don't love themselves
My narc husband abused me so badly on my birthday in Jan that I fled the house and went into hiding. Two months later he was arrested and is in bail whilst the police go thru the 118 videos of his abusing me. We both forgot the cameras were running.
The best thing for me was 2 years ago he screamed at me 7 times in 5 mins whilst in the garden ‘get the F out of my house, you paid for nothing I own everything’. A week ago he showed up at the same house (our holiday home), and was arrested when he would not leave as I have a restraining order against him. He couldn’t get in and was arrested outside the same house he told me to get the F out of. That’s karma! 😊
I don't care if they get karma or not, I just want to be free. I know God sees everything
Amen.
Exactly. Forgiving and moving on and learning from my situation is more important. I never wish harm on anyone. And like you said God knows the truth and that's all that matters to me.
Same here...same here
Amen
Same here
The best revenge against a narcissist is to move on and life a happy and fulfilling life without them. They will know it and it's painfull for them.
That for them is the biggest punch in the stomach and what will most likely make them regret they lost you in the first place. There is nothing more upsetting to a narcissist then seeing their "victim" living a happy life without them, because it is then they realize they no longer hold the control
The best revenge is moving on and living well.
The best revenge is no revenge that's true freedom.
I agree
I agree and I was number 69 hehe
Kind of impossible to live well when they leave you with HIV thanks to their cheating/drug use
@@mr.wonderful7755 omg! I'm so sorry 😞
My favorite quote from this video is "Grab some popcorn and watch the whole thing go down."
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Their karma is in trying to damage good people, but end up hurting themselves in missing out on positive connections.
Thank you for sharing your insight, your knowledge, & your wisdom. I really needed this!
I do see them as their soul purpose is to steal joy from the multitude of people but wrecking havoc in a person’s life to prevent the flow of love who destined to have that love
Narc has actually told me that they learn not to try hurt others because they end up hurting them selves in the end yet they're still doing it, and say they want to stop bt cant and that's what's sad I think.some narcs actually want to change and dnt want to be like that
Very well said. It's really a tragedy on so many levels. I feel compassion more than anger but not so they push you to the edge sometimes.
Yes ♡
I don't know on the first stage I tried so hard to get her, until suddenly I lost all my feeling for them
It's my feeling that the Narcissist IS their own Karma...they're miserable people. Never satisfied, never happy, zero self introspection, always take and never give, unable to accept nor give love and living in perpetual fear.
I don't think that they have the emotional depth to be miserable honestly.
Expect that if you become sick, old, ugly, or disabled, they probably won't be able to deal with that.
Karma got Ray Holycross. Otherwise, I believe most perpetrators simply get away with abuse. They're tormented souls, but they never face the consequences of their deeds.
Wellsaid, Jen. That’s what I see from observing several narcissists I know personally.
Also they also envy nice people because Deep down they wish they were a nice person but know there not.
They get theirs by feeling alone. All the best people leave them.
Amen!
Yes! Theirs is also that unconditional love is something they will never find. Everything will always be transactional for them.
Yes! R A
My mother died alone. Like no one wanted to be with her when she was dying a long painful death...karma
you damn right
I learned when a good kind soul stays with a narcissist. We block their karma but once we are done or even discarded by them - oh honey they can’t hide behind you anymore. Everytime the narc and I have broken up they have received karma in different forms. Sometimes you are removed cause it’s time for karma to circle the block. Not joyful in others dismay but this should show you that you can’t treat people like shit.
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Now this gives me chills. I was in a relationship with a pure devilish narc for 10y he sucked my soul energy and left me broken, alone and in a dilapidated condition. I cry every second. My heart bleeds. I have nobody to share my pain with. He was my bestfriend, the only one i used to share my everything but still he and his family took advantage of my pure heart, selfless love, innocence and trust. An hour ago i was crying like hell asking universe to talk to me and give me justice and iam landed here. Now i understood god's conspiracy why he messed things between us, the ugly fight took place right before the break up because it is his time of paying back. He killed my heart, butchered my soul. Hope karma treats him exactly how he and his family treated me.
Universe, I trust you😊
The Bible says: "Whatever a person is sowing, this he will also reap" (Galatians 6:7) Sooner or later a person's good or bad behavior will have consequences.
One can only hope....
@ That implies that the narc works WITH someone, which is RARELY the case.
@ Agreed, BUT narcs work with people to used them and not REALLY to get ahead as a group effort.
I agree sin ALWAYS has consequences.
If that gives you peace accept that, but the Bible was written by ppl who are by our nature, flawed. Narcs become sophisticated at getting away with things... Their downfall is not up to us, just move on with your own life.
Success will look like:They fade from your memory as you thrive in YOUR new life without them.
Very well said. Unforgettable
Well said!
That is also their karma, you found happiness, something they cannot know.
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So basically don’t waste your time looking for “karma” but spend your time getting yourself together
Agree 100%
Exactly let it go and live your life
"Nothing is ever enough for them" & "they are always hungry" so true.
They need to be locked up.
When someone I really liked broke up with me and didn’t give me a reason, I became depressed and confused for a long time. Three years later I got a text from him apologizing to me for what he had done. At that moment, my heart dropped and couldn’t believe my eyes. I text back and told him how sad it made me feel but I forgave him and continued to tell him that I had already met someone and got married.
Fast forward: We’ve been married for 7years now and we are still happily together. My husband is much more loving, smarter and way better looking than that other guy. The universe was watching out for me somehow. But I did appreciate that other guy texting me to apologize.
(Who knows what battles he was facing within himself)
My take on karma is that when somebody did something bad to you and they broke your soul some way shape or form is because our Universal God had better plans for you.
DONT LOOK BACK. TAKE THE LOSS AND MOVE ON BECAUSE THERE IS SOMETHING BETTER WAITING FOR YOU OUT THERE.
Now this is a bedtime story I can live with, Ruby. Thank you ☺️
I love when I hear that someone realized how badly they treated someone and makes amends....soul growth
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It was an empty apology, a hoover attempt, that failed because you are happily married.
@@theraven1850 oh wow...I didn't even think of that!!! Oh well he lost out.
"whatsoever a man sows, he shall reap".--New Testament.
Yes it is. But still the bad will be punished after death. It is the same in different languages!
The Old Testament: Ecclesiastes
You plant a seed but you don’t get a seed back, you get a stalk.
Lisa!! I loved this message!!
Amen
When we hold grudges against somebody...it "binds" us to that person.
They WILL ALWAYS get their Karma! "What goes around, comes around", "You will reap, what you sow", "Chickens will come back to roost" are all the same. Eventually it will surface, it has no time frame!
Their karma is that they will never experience the true feeling of unconditional love. That’s punishment enough. 🙌🏻
If so, they won't notice they are loved unconditionally. They are not able to feel it.
Julia Rath you are absolutely right.
Heelllzzz yeahhhh. So true
I think of them as demons. Demons can’t love or be happy.
💯 They constantly push away good, loving, empathic people away. Once they do that, they mess up their chance at having a good life.
OMG! Congratulate me please! Today the narcissist agreed on our divorce judgement and signed our papers! I’m freeeeeeee!!!!!!! Thank God and Dr. Ramani!
look at you glow!!!!! congrats!!..i hope you threw a party for yourself, you def deserve that.
Bless you 💗
Congratulations!! 🥳🥳
The thing is, even if they get that bad karma, they will only feel that they are the victim of bad luck or bad treatment, they never will reflect that it is their own doing.
Truth
Yup it’s always everyone else’s fault for their transgressions and evil doings, it’s never about their actions or their choices.
Yes, and that is also a bad karma for them, when they couldn't reflect on their mistakes, the repercussions, yet blaming everyone else for that, and thus remain always stuck to being themselves. They are in this loop forever of doing bad things, getting hurt, not learning, repeating same mistakes with others and the cycle goes on.
So true.
So true
The very best karma for a narcissist is to build yourself stronger and to be able to go on with your life and not look back and forget about them! That’s the best karma that you could do to them because they will know that you’re not going to take their BS anymore! And you see them for what they are And they can’t hurt you anymore and you’ve moved onto your own life without them! I am rebuilding myself after 32 years of being with a narcissist. Thank goodness we have all these great therapist that post online. This is what has totally helped me to become stronger
Thank goodness for these wise online therapists. God bless you on your healing journey. ❤
If you see them for what they are and they can't hurt you anymore, then why abandon them? Couldn't have been that bad if you could clock three decades.
Thank you for sharing 💯❤️
He was charged with 6 counts of assault, convicted on 3, and deported.
Honestly I don't give any energy for him to get his due karma - I let the Universe look after that.
Having a criminal record and getting deported sounds pretty karmic to me
@Ms. Buschhorn don't give him any energy- you're big and better than him!!
After years of verbal abuse and cheating and lies, he got “mugged” had is jaw broken. Had his mouth wired shut for 6 weeks.
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Ooohhh
Wow that's a horror story
That should be STANDARD..their jaws wired shut..permanently....PERIOD.
Goodie goodie !! I'll bet you wish you could've seen it!😈😈😈😂😂
I'm not interested in karma. I just want to live a peaceful life free from all of the chaos.
Soon as you accept life is unfair sometimes, it is a release.
Me too
Agreed!
They get their Karma every day and with their miserable life to 💯💯💯
You’ll all love this
My daughter’s narcissistic dad was doing some work on a car in the garage and I noticed something on his forearm and asked what it was.
He said he got a tattoo, and that it had gotten severely infected.
The tattoo was the word Karma!
That moment was my happy place for years to come
This is so creepily awesome. Well spotted...
🤣 that’s trippy! 🤣
Hahahhahahaa😄😂😂😂
Lmao 🤣
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Until they meet a person who gives a piece of their own medicine to them. Ignoring them..
They hate to see an empath who is their prey, focuses on their own life. Do exactly that value our own life, ignore narcissist
Yes if you want to punish them ignore them
I know this comment is old but it's, like, the most true thing I've ever read. I ignored my narcissistic parent for a whopping 3 days before they called in the cavalry of flying monkeys to actually drag me out of my room and force me to interact with them. I stopped bending over backwards to make them happy and started trying to heal myself. If I had a penny for every time they called me selfish for doing so I'd be partying on a yacht with Bill Gates.
@@TressaArasheben My mom did something very similar. When I tried to get the hell away from her, She sobbed that I was the abusive party, completely outta my mind, So mentally handicapped I'd be unable to tell the truth. Then she called 911 to report me for a crime that didn't occur to try to get me locked in prison. Having been to prison herself for 10 years she knows what it's like and purposefully tried to ruin my life because if she couldn't have my life neither could I.
My ex of six years left me for someone he was having an affair with, quite suddenly. The new supply left his boyfriend of over 10 years, too.
Then the new supply dumped my narcissistic ex one month shy of their one-year anniversary... to return to his original partner.
I got exactly what I wanted -- the karma, the vindication, the validation. But, I'll be honest, it did not make me feel good. There was a little relief to have the "proof" it wasn't me.
But then I was left with the undeniable truth that my relationship was a sham from it's inception, and I ultimately felt worse instead of better.
The hoovering followed, like clockwork, but I didn't give in and politely declined all invitations to meet. That's when I started feeling better/
I did not start feeling truly better until I went no contact, as cliche as it sounds.
Spot on ♥️
You did good. I have similar expierience
You felt better because your happiness and success was no longer tied to the narc! Way to go!
I appreciate you sharing your experience here. Mine was similar in that both cheaters were in a relationship. Reading the text messages from the other woman just a few months after marrying that man, was nothing short of devastating. Having ‘proof’ it wasn’t me (perfect way to put it) seems so important right now because that guy didn’t just leave, he needed me to feel as small as possible before he left. His family, who I had become close with, of course rallied behind him. What can they do? Disown their son after a divorce? Part of needing that karma is that I’m truly carrying the brunt of this fallout - financially, emotionally, career wise, all of it. I feel like I’m starting from a ship wreck while his life with the ‘new’ person goes on like a cruise ship.
I’ve already told him I want nothing to do with him.
Your post gives me a little hope that my perspective can change.
Hope you found your own peace and happiness.
I dont say that no contact is great and wonderful bc it hurts like hell. But you do get better with no contact. Maybe just maybe peopke will see the truth like a narc supervisor i had. He is still there and dojng damage and people know and new people come and tell me or ask me. Maybe tgat will happen one day with ex narc and someone i truly love. I hate at times and look forward to the days of indifference. I have those moments but the most i have gotten is maybe a week.
He’s probably living his best life yet I’m here so scared of getting into another relationship. It’s a sad thought but most don’t get the karma we so wish them to get. I’m slowly trying to heal myself, I’m not letting anything slide anymore, I walk away more when I feel even the slightest manipulation, I blocked him everywhere and maybe one day I will be able to allow someone great to love me.
They are stuck being them and that’s a bad karma. Roller coaster 🎢 called life! Love it! 🥰
I will need to write but the person who destroyed my lovely relationship with a womderful lady out of severe jealousy After I removed him from my life he proceeded to screw me out of money property and even my reputation! Will contact you in future!Stephen
That’s a good point. We are all capable of experiencing life so deeply and it is so rich and colorful and ever-changing. It’s just a wonder to see and they never get to see or experience most of that. Life is just so hollow for them.
Yes, things could be worse - you could be them.
They are like a bucket with a hole at the bottom. It doesn't matter how much we give and do, they will always remain empty. That's their Karma.
Hahahaha yes
My ex dumped me all of sudden last year. It later turned out that he is a non agressive, well educated psychopath who lived a double life and been cheating on me for months and finally dumped me for a mistress. I found out about this in November 2019. He crashed his new, fancy car at the end of last year, got sacked from work early this year and is unable to find a job because of the pandemic. He tried to get back with me this Easter and told me that him and mistress is over. I knew that he was lying and I texted his mistress to let her know. Mistress is now a psychological wreck, paranoid that he can cheat on her because he cheated on me with her. Well played karma, well played!
Mine start dating my friend but their game was he like dudes instead of Ladies now😯😮👎👎🤭
Any chance his name is CJ? Sounds like a very similar story where I'm from. yeah, yeah, I know there are probably millions of them around. Just immediately made me think of CJ.
@@barbroberts1567 we live in the UK
Damn..
AWESOME KARMA STORY. 💞😂🙏💪🏽👍🏽👏🏽
There is definitely karma. "God is not one to be mocked. Whatever a man is sowing, this he shall also reap." Galatians.
That goes for women too sista. Not just men.
Amen Amen
If you believe in karma, i.e. that we get what we deserve, shouldn't that logic, if we're striving for consistency, also be applied to children who are brutally murdered, women who are abused, and citizens living in a warzone? If karma doesn't explain why said tragedies happen, does karma sometimes exist and sometimes not exist? If karma only exists in some situations, why would you believe in something so inconsistent and contradictory?
Amen !!
They're so weak that just leaving them alone will do. They'll destroy themselves. No need to do anything to them.
A narcissist remains a narcissist. There is no healing for this disorder . Even when.they.pretend they changed, this is only a trick to get you to lower your guard down.
I thought everyone displays narcissistic traits. Can't we put the disorder on a Fujita Scale? Maybe a number between 0 10. We need a "Narco Number " if it goes above 4 then it's time to put them on Lithium. 🏃♂️
Kyriaki Zefeiriadou,You don't deserve to be with a narc 😈!
The more I analyse the situations I fell into, the more I understand one thing: they devalue and despise kindness and honesty and other good values, because they don't have it in them. They see it as a weakness, because it's out of their understanding. I should never give up my kindness and my honesty just because some rando thinks it makes me weak. I am who I am with my good stuff and my flaws. I don't need karma to get them or whatever.
You're so right, Dr. Ramani, victory is about utter indifference.
So, check it. Because you said that about kindness- vedic pearls. The three gunas- there are only 3 states of conciousness. Kindness, passion, and ignorance. You basically said "they are passionately/willfully ignorant of the trancendent beauty of kindness". Groovy, cousin. Hate the sin, not the sinner. ...I have my own theory, sort of backed up by the Vedics... we are warm. We care, we see the beauty around us, and we are grateful we can experience it. Because we understand it is a fleeting moment. We are here to give others an... opportunity to be in that energy's presence. The Lord sees how they react, we need only be ourselves... and be kind TO OURSELVES when we are abused, mischaracterized, made uncomfortable, ect. The rest... well, isn't ours to own. "Puck profiling" what's a puck? Duh. A round, featureless, mostly 2-dimensional object made of some synthetic material. Finds its function in being stick slapped between large, PABST smelling mullets. Until replaced by another puck. And they call it a good time. Consider it the only game in the world. Hockey not being on my list if "places I enjoy being myself" I don't associate w/ pucks unless confronted and one put
my face. Peace, yo.
Check her video "two arrows". It's pretty relevant.
Well said. 🍒
It's true, after my mom passes and my family had a cookout, I used the master bathroom and got triggered by smelling her perfume, I texted my siblings that I had to leave because of the trigger and non of them replied. Emotional availability is not in them, my heart is buried with my mom she is the only one that ever hugged and spoke words if love. My father has never told me "I love you, only be safe" its only been three months since walking away. Sometimes I feel guilty yet the freedom I am experiencing is worth it. They don't call me and say how my dad is, and I don't call them.
Amen!!!
My experience is that they jumps from one sinking ship till the next.. They seduce, abuse and moves on. Repeat until they writes they memoirs, with themselves as the hero.
A lot of sport athletes do that I noticed.
And when someone reacts to them and avenges or defends themselves they paint themselves as the victim in the story.
This one employer literally told me that his ex-wife burnt offerings at his house and cursed him and I bought into the whole story of his false virtue.
Little did I know that I was working to the closest embodiment of a demonically motivated person in my entire life.
I am certain he will continue harming people as I have learnt that numerous people have come to the same conclusion. It is beyond me and I cannot even feel 'schadenfreude' at this point knowing that he will carve out a wake of destruction on the way to his final mortal demise.
hero . . . . & gaslighting martyr -🤔
& victim
@superduper you described that so perfectly it was actually funny af 😂
Narcs created me...many have made me strong. I am a product of their hate, encompassed by Light and Love.
Karma
I love this comment because Narcissists and other toxic people DO make us stronger. Once you have dealt with these type of people. We become a galvanized version of who we once were. Resistant to the toxicity. Truly loving ourselves, having boundaries, saying "no", learning & understanding all the terms & definitions of NPD along with our own experiences with them. I like that you pointed this out. We are bright-shining lights and have faced true evil & darkness.
their karma is just being who they are. To never know love and peace, to never be happy, to be unable to be happy. To be them and to live their life is a nightmare
They get their "karma". They live with their insatiable need for supply everyday.
I believe the bible and God's promise of "vengeance is mine says the Lord, I will repay".
PRECISELY!!!!! Everytime I want or desire the narc their due --- I recite that verse and get myself back on track!!
Yes absolutely what I believe too!! We may not see their karma on this earth but they will still have to answer for being so crappy people!
Amen! They will have to stand before God someday and account for their evil! Then they will spend an eternity absent from his glorious presence.
Amen!! God says "I will repay" I trust Him!
I don't believe in any of that. I mean, it's not that surprising when a profoundly unpleasant person ends up alone, but frankly, I think the best thing to do is just to move on from them and focus on your own happiness.
Karma for my primary Narcissist: String of ex-wives drained his retirement, drinking problems, car accident/broken back, had his license to practice revoked; had a stroke when he got the news. STILL didn't learn to appreciate others, now he sits alone in a small rented room. He made many millions in his lifetime, now lives off SS and Military.
Wow!!! It’s truly baffling how blind and stuck in pride and their own grandiosity they are. Like, it never occurs to them how stupid they are 🤣. Age old saying, actions have consequences. He really got his! Wow
Seee!
Wow you reap what you sow!!!!
My husband mistreated me for our entire 33 years of marriage plus the 2 years we dated before we got married. I honestly thought I was just a "pawn" in the game of life. After living with the worst type of Narcissist for 35 years, he was suddenly killed by a driver high on LSD. I grieved so hard for him for months, until I began to realize I had been a fool. I cannot ever say I wasn't deeply in love with him, but I am thankful for the peace I will be able to experience for the last few years of my life. Dr. Romani, thank you for educating me. I had known since the beginning, 1987, something about him was VERY wrong, but - of course - I always thought it was my fault, and he was so happy to blame me, as well.
good to hear you feel at peace
And what did you do to get that karma.
After years of this man humiliating his employees and threatening them with termination over the slightest infraction ( although he allowed himself many freedons) finally went after the wrong person and he got himself fired 😊 Yes. I've been blessed to see karma come around and slap a few who deserved it.
I chuckled. LOL. Shaudenfreude.
Love listening to you ❤️
@@genevieverudman5221 thanks😊
Believe it or not.... I only realized that my husband is a narc about 3 years ago... I decided that I wanted to leave him but he begged me to stay.. So tried for another whole year then just before lockdown I told him it's over.... Long story short he locked himself in the main bedroom and turned off the hot water and cut cords off some appliances... adventurely I had enough reported him and the court got him evicted during lockdown unfortunately it didn't stick as it was locked out the court allowed him back but we are getting a divorce now he's moving out and I'm keeping the house much to his disgust but unfortunately for him the house is in my name.... Part of me still loves him but I know that I am in a very unhealthy relationship with him.
@@genevieverudman5221 Wow, that's heartbreaking, I'm sorry. I felt I could fix it with love ( my ex was just a straight up idiot, my daughter ..one of 3, is the narcissist) when love doesn't cut it and you gotta let go..for your own sake, it should be easier, but its not.
Dr. Ramani, I watch you daily. Something good is happening.
I met two Indian women yesterday evening. It felt like so "timely". I noticed a mother /adult daughter were looking at some bunnies in a large field. I walked up and said, "thank God for gentle creatures". This led into an hour chat in which the Indian mother took my hand saying. "I am your mother- Let go of what has been done, God will take care of it". She continued, "We are born alone and die alone". She repeated again, and again "just do good". "Don't think of yesterday nor tomorrow or what people did to you". Just continue to "do good". Since my mother is gone, I could only wonder about this chance meeting. Earlier that day, I had been worrying about my past, getting older, my hair changing, and especially past hurts. The Indian woman seemed to read my thoughts said, "you are beautiful, your hair is so beautiful and just do good". I walked home with a warm, gentle understanding of my divine self. Then, I woke up to this video on karma.
Makaya. 👍👍👍
A beautiful story. 😍
what a blessed encounter and positive message!
@@koolbeans8292 I've been mobbed and gaslighting at work for over 12 years till present. Full of NPD cowards at work and will end up exposing themselves.. I'm a top worker, jealous of me big time and of my money and condo too. Defamation of character. Saying I'm a stalker, I drink, I'm crazy. All bs. Managers are scared of the bullies, they do nothing, union, police are all totally useless too. Toxic workplace in healthcare. Been working 38 years and never been suspended. Action speaks louder than words. But this crap never ends trying to scare the women at work, all the insecure and toxic women. I will never quit due to these lazy bums with no life. These 2 guys should be locked up and have the manager fired.
There was a moment in my life when I understood that karma would happen to my ex only when I wouldn’t give a damn about it. And it was a relief...
“Karma is a slow roasted dish”….best quote ever! I’m going to appropriate this. 😁
they're trapped in a prison of their own mind
I'm thankful for all those horrible people in my life, that has taught me exactly who I don't want to be. Everything happens for a reason. Life is too short, don't care for karma, I go on.
"Nothing is ever enough for them" - Imagine a big bucket with a big hole in the bottom - The bucket can never be filled.
So true you break your back to try and please them and in return they break your mind
My ex was always reaping what he sowed!! His karma ALWAYS came around in some form and it was amazing just to watch 😂 I’ve never seen anything like it!!!
Wow. That must be so satisfying!
I wish this narc would get his
Too bad it won't happen to my aunt's ex who's currently running his own law firm making her life hell. I'd commit unspeakable atrocities to him if I could get away with it
Mine too. When they’re out there acting a fool it comes right back to them pretty quickly. I’ve seen him try to get revenge on me, it didn’t work and what he tried to do to me ended up happening to him the next day. Now I hear he’s having health problems right after I left.
Lol. It’s like every day. Losing things and etc….he’s playing with fire 🔥
My narcissistic ex husband doesn’t have me anymore. 🤷♀️ Karma served. My fibromyalgia has gotten better as far a symptoms because I’m no longer under the constant stress of him. I may not have a pretty perfect bow of a life but at least I’m not living in a cage of fear, hurt, and loneliness.
beautiful
I have fibro too, I hadn't noticed that my health was getting worse in my recent ex narc relationship, but the people around me did. I hope this fatigue gets better over time:/
Stress was affecting my body and now I am slowly getting better. I also got alopecia in my beard whis is an indication of stress. I feel way better now. God got me the heck out of that toxic situation. Thank you God
Good for you.
that is a great statement. thank you. He lost me. God bless you.
It's just terribly sad that another human being is in that much pain that they inflict it on others. It's a shame.
Very true
Very sad indeed. It's typically passed down from family members, as a set of learned or acquired personality traits... Possibly defense mechanisms (though unhealthy/irrational) stemming from abuse/neglect and otherwise dysfunctional childhood situations. It's especially difficult to realize your own parent is a narc, bc they're the ones who are supposed to love, nurture, and build you up the the most. Learning about NPD has helped me at least accept the fact that she'll never change and that it's not just ME. I've given up on receiving apologies and normal signs of love, much less getting her to perceive & understand the result of her own words & behavior... Kind of a relief~
It’s also sad to know their pain will never go away; they have to live with unrelenting loneliness among so many other disgusting personality traits… true hellacious Karma in every way.
Unfortunately, their pain spills on to unsuspecting victims until these wonderful people learn what a narcissist is capable of and that they will never change; the empath becomes empowered with what to do and/or gets the hell away from them.
I happened to see my narcissistic ex when she opened up once she was at her lowest. She had a deep sorrow and hatred towards herself which was quite unsettling. Unfortunately, this rare insight into her mind was just for a few moments before her arrogant self came back to shield her vulnerabilities.
A lot of narcissists are suffering every day. They know the damage they do to themselves and others but the pride doesn't allow them to admit it. It's sort of like living as a fool every day. We can only feel pity for them as any attempt to save them will only backfire.
However, we should not hold any ill towards them. Focus on ourselves, the healing and be with a better company who values your core beliefs.
You are spot on about their pride being too great to admit their faults to themselves or anyone else. It is too humiliating for them to even consider such a thing.
🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
Exactly. I’m sure my son suffers great loneliness and shame around his ongoing failures at employment, relationships, financial difficulties, etc.
That said, he’s lost his family as we realized we needed to let go, move on and heal. I give him to God every day in prayer because I know that into His hands are the best place to put my son.
Thank you so much for this, it is so spot on and so sad.
Thank you so much for this insight
The lady who caused me so much suffering and pain... git her karma. Her wealthy husband had heart failure and filed bankruptcy, could not take care of himself, kicked her out then her best friend moved in with him to care for him. They fell in love. She got nothing from divorce cuz he was broke. All her friends hated how she legally went after her dieing hubby and they ran her out of town. She got sick with lung disease and could not work so now lives in low income housing.
She got what she deserved.
KARMA for Abusive Partner
KARMA NEVER LOOSES AN ADDRESS!!!
Just walk away and leave it to GOD sooner or later you hear or see their KARMA!!!
I once heard a narcissist describing his problems with his weight. He said no matter how much he eats, he always feels hungry. He tried appetite suppressant pills, nicotine, dieting, exercising. No matter what he always feels hungry and he is miserable.
I think that everything in life is that way for narcissists. No matter how much love/sex/money/attention/anything they get, they never feel full.
Dusty Karnes so true!!
He sounds diabetic.
He might have problems with his thyroid, i have the same issue. Its my thyroid.
I'm quoting verses from Bible here
"Vengeance is mine, I will repay.
In due time their feet will slip. For the day of their disaster is near and their doom is coming quickly"
Deuteronomy 32:35
"They make a pit and dig it deep and then fall into the pit they made "
Psalms 7:15
"Only with your eyes you will look and see the reward of the wicked".
Psalms 91:8
"My eyes shall see the defeat of my enemies and my ears will hear the doom of my wicked opponents"
Psalms 92:12
"Do not be deceived,God is not mocked. For whatever s man does that he will also reap"
Galatians 6:7
I hope this encourages someone to know that there is a Just God who is watching everything and everyone, He is gracious and patient with all but when we give our case into his hands it's a total different story.
Courts, police, law all these are at one level and the vengeance of God is at another level.
"I will prepare a table before you in the presence of your enemies"
Psalms 23:5
God bless you 🙏
God bless you. That's very encouraging.
This is awesome ty so much for this. I needed to hear this as my marcisit ex isnplaying fishing with my heart atm and lies to me and my kids constantly... she left me for another supply but still wants me to feed into her and be her "emotional support" while fcking another man...
@@psychocrow5798 so how are you coping up? Can we talk about it? Why am I saying this is because my situation is somewhat similar.
After the storm of getting free from our oppressor we need to focus on why God gave us life and what should we do with it , living our porpoise is more important than anything else we could ever do .
I used to hold on to some of these versus for dear life
It’s like the saying “What goes around, comes around.”
I worked with a lady narcissist with a very strong personality. She got bored if she wasn’t causing problems in the office. We all got picked on. She tried to get people to take sides against her chosen victim. Sometimes this was to your face, or often behind your back. To get you on her side she could be very generous to you, or pile compliments on you. Even management weren’t safe.
Luckily, things caught up with her. She was dismissed after being found to have fiddled her travel expenses.
No one was sorry to see her go.
Am glad it caught up with her she deserves that to glad no was sad that she left there happy all of you including you got the peace you truly deserve she got her karma hopefully maybe more happen!
Karma always knows it’s address! The empty, paranoid, twisted, evil and self destruct existence of the Narc is Karma in itself!
Well said
They try to drag your levels of joy down to their level
The Narc lives karma daily! The devil is the master of deception. Don’t be fooled by the fake smiles etc. They do hate themselves, they don’t sleep much, they age quickly, they are paranoid and LONELY...
Thinking someone or something from their past will come back for them any moment.
The hurt we initially feel, already existed in their sad lives long before we met them! Karma looks and feels different from individual to individual.
When we fully heal, the Narc will just be someone we used to know but they will obsess over us.
We learnt to be strong and equipped after leaving them. Unlike them we MOVE ON and prosper...
Now that’s karma and narcissistic injury all rolled into one.
*Beautifully written by Nene Burgess*
I can bet my life on the fact that there is Karma and the Narcissistic get EXACTLY what they deserve. Move on with your life, become indifferent to them.
This right here
Makes me wonder what we did in a last life to deserve to have a narc in our life now! Lol
joan baker right?!? Ugh
Me too!! Over & over!
That's not a LOL. I wonder that often. I feel what ever joy and gratitude I had has been stolen from me, the relentless abuse, the inability to get free, it feels like prison.
Nothing.
True right... I must have been an awful person to suffer now in this life
Usually attracting a narcissist in your life when you do your inner work is for you to end your karma learning with that behaviour. And change you. So your life can move forward and theirs will stay stuck. So keep loving you
This makes a LOT of sense. Thank you!! ♥️
I myself feel the narcissists payback is by never being happy, or fully satisfied with their life. That is such a sad life, it’s almost like they are running on a hamster wheel, they are running and running, but they are getting absolutely nowhere. I was angry and bitter for awhile after he left me, and I was jealous about his new life, but when I finally came to the realization that I have a chance at being happy as I no longer have his shackles on my ankles, I am FREE!!! I am also for once in my codependent life, truly happy. Thanks be to God! 🙌🏻
Dianna Michalidas,You are beautiful,Hope you are not with a narcissist .....
"They are stuck being them forever"
Actually, I have compassion for the 2 narcs in my life, because they are trapped in a mental hell. Because they are not trustworthy, they can’t trust. Because they are robbing everyone for supply, they can’t have any intimacy and are deeply lonely. They can’t face it, but their suffering is a constant companion. My narc mom is old now and all she’s got left is rage. I know that I can’t help them, so I pray for them from far far away!
The narcs in my life are 2 daughters, a mother, and 2 brothers....
No way would I ever wish to see Karma on my daughters. I pray for them everyday ... I still love my babies (they are 43 and 38 now) I especially pray for their safety. I pray for my mom as well... she is suffering with dementia now, all the hurt and heartache she fostered thru 2 of my brothers was just plain evil. I have to remind myself to pray for her and 2 brothers.
A better way for me is to see my daughters be accountable for their actions. Especially the 38 year old. I am presently fighting alongside my ex-son-in-law for their 3 children who are suffering at her hands. Court date is 9/29 and I cannot wait. She has NO REGARD for her 14, 11, and 6 year olds. I want and pray for her to be held accountable for her evil ways toward them. But I wish her no harm .... she is pathetic. She has even tried to get a court order for me NOT to see her children at all. Thank the Lord for her ex who truly loves his children and is actively fighting for them.
It is soooooooo hard whe it is your own flesh and blood that is the evil narc. But God AND goodness will prevail.
Bc they are not trustworthy, they can't trust....so deep
My narcissistic ex did get his karma. Not only did he lose relationships with his entire family, he also lost a good-paying job, had to move out from a beach home, lost money, possibly split from the third party and now pretty much alone. I don't accept returns or reconciliation so he can stay there where he belongs.
I've been mobbed and gaslighting at work for over 12 years till present. Full of NPD cowards at work and will end up exposing themselves.. I'm a top worker, jealous of me big time and of my money and condo too. Defamation of character. Saying I'm a stalker, I drink, I'm crazy. All bs. Managers are scared of the bullies, they do nothing, union, police are all totally useless too. Toxic workplace in healthcare. Been working 38 years and never been suspended. Action speaks louder than words. But this crap never ends trying to scare the women at work, all the insecure and toxic women. I will never quit due to these lazy bums with no life. These 2 guys should be locked up and have the manager fired.
I truly love this for you. 🥹♥️
10:33 “Nothing is ever good enough for them so they are doomed... it’s tragic... their karma is such that they always feel like victims... they always feel that what they have is not enough... they always feel that they want something more, something different, something better... and the beautiful things in front of them, including you, are never enough. Imagine living like that... it sounds like hell and that is where they are doomed to live.”
I have a police and council case against a neighbour like this.. she’s been blasting religious prayers up to 9 hours on lockdown using three speakers. Now visiting police station to blame me for playing back even though maximum I can play is two hours. I can’t help feel sorry for her now.. the council will be investigating her for anti social behaviour but also i think she is Karmically Doomed and in most ways imaginable
My narc is all about the next big project - tractor shed, pool deck, new windows, etc. He can’t sit still or relax. The kids and I have to enjoy opportunities for solace when we can get it, but he can’t participate and be happy. It’s sad, really. He’s cheating himself out of great opportunities to be with people who love and care about him.
Beautiful and well said
When I see that daily notification, I drop everything and run in here, pen and paper ready. Thank you Dr. Ramani. You're my favorite expert on this subject.
Me too!
That is absolutely no lie. (Actually I am sometimes ashamed when I listen to Dr Ramini first -- instead of first reading God's Word. But hey!, Dr Ramini's videos ate sometimes the route my Lord uses to get thru my thick skull, lol!!!) ❤❤❤❤❤
ARE ---- not ATE.
Hahahahaha!!!😆😆😆😆😆
Same :)
That is an insight into why it is so exhausting being around them: watching their continual, driving discontent, as they selfishly deal with their own perpetual inner unhappiness.
True. It's almost like they don't want to be happy. Because if they were, they would lose their "victim" status which gains them so much sympathy.
I've had to be both my narc parents' personal therapist for the majority of my life. They sucked the energy out of me. They always found something to complain about, yet they called me selfish and ungrateful (typical projection).
I'm all alone now and it feels amazing. I wish I knew sooner that the world isn't out to get me, and not everyone is a bad person.
Being a narcissist is already a punishment. They don't need any more karma.
Omg exactly right!
Narcissistic supervisor who yelled at me in front of other employees when I was learning something new and wasn't learning it FAST enough, was later fired for sexually harassing someone else. I like to think I HELPED things along by writing a list of all his abusive behaviors that I witnessed or experienced, and giving it to the head of HR.
they get their karma because at the end of the day, they can't get away from themselves.
If your healing and happiness depends on what happens to them, they still have control over you and that's our Karma. They're Karma is bigger than us.
Initially after the discard, I wanted his karma to punish him....i wanted him to feel the burn....But 3 years later, I have come to a place where I don't wish that on him anymore, not because I care for him, and not I have become completely indifferent... But because wishing something bad on someone makes me uncomfortable in my own skin... A voice inside me screams and tells me that I am not that person to wish something bad on someone.... It does hurt when I see him achieving goals in his life, while I am still very much hurting... But I know I will be ok eventually....
When it comes to narcs, just be glad you got away.
Focus on yourself and not him. Don't keep allowing him to have power and control over your emotions. Own how you feel and why so that you can move forward, not backwards.
🤗
And that is what makes YOU a strong person ❤️
Stop watching the show. Block him everywhere!
their karma is ALREADY there... they are ALREADY MISERABLE!! this is what MAKES them a narcissist! NO NEED TO WISH FOR KARMA!!!! - hope this helps!
I wouldn't trade places with my narcissist for all the money in the world.
Me neither,they are so miserable with their lives that causing pain in others is the only entertainment and pleasure they get. Miserable beings!!!
1000% spot on Doc!!! They get away with it pretty much 99.99999999999999% of the time. Thank you for reminding me to stay the course of healing. I sadly was the second chances queen and now I am picking up the remains of myself dignity and my life. Onwards and upwards I guess.
The very best to you!!
I do feel that karma happens to the offender only AFTER you’ve stopped having ill feelings for them and you’ve moved on. And when you do see them being ‘punished’ you don’t feel retribution but more sympathy. That’s the irony of life. So the best way to attract karma for them is to let go. Go no contact and move on with life.
Too true, karma hits when you no longer care. Lessons for both individuals there and harbouring negative thoughts does neither good. Hence may as well move forward Happily..
I’ve dealt with two narcissist and they both received horrendous karma! The first one was a malignant narcissist - spread a smear campaign and even tried spell work on me! All the bad luck and misfortune he wished on me hit him twofold!
The second one just keeps perpetuating the same patterns of deceit, triangulating women and it always ends in the worse way. The way he treats women seem to be a major factor in him blocking his blessings. The thing is, he doesn’t see it and he never will. He’s always the victim. I am so glad I’m through with them both and have all the information I need now!
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