Do Narcissists Get Their Karma?

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  • Опубликовано: 18 июн 2024
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    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction
    00:33 Basic Understanding Of Narcissists And Their Karma
    01:28 They live in a fantasy world
    04:08 They Never Get To Experience True Love, Compassion, Care
    06:33 They Are Living Under False Illusion
    08:41 Look at it

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  • @narcabusecoach
    @narcabusecoach  Год назад +16

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    • @smithashekhar9539
      @smithashekhar9539 Год назад +3

      Karma Phala is the fruit for the action. Karma just means actions. 🙏🏼

    • @dookhynafeesa7069
      @dookhynafeesa7069 Год назад +1

      Thank u again now I know am not mad lool 🤪

    • @sirunikunushik7735
      @sirunikunushik7735 11 месяцев назад

      Do you still have connection with your parents?

    • @rebeccadovale2848
      @rebeccadovale2848 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@smithashekhar9539á

  • @lydiawhitting5406
    @lydiawhitting5406 Год назад +288

    They do not cherish what you gave, they just hate you for not continuing to supply their needs.

    • @Cat-sx6ep
      @Cat-sx6ep Год назад +1

      Right on Lydia Whitting such a poor and immature way to live dumb fools

    • @eagleeye2300
      @eagleeye2300 Год назад +19

      The narc I left has spent his life telling himself that he was looking for that one perfect person who was destined to be his partner. That also gave him permission to (sexually) use and dispose of people, like test driving a car. (When in fact he's just an amoral user.) The problem is that with of all the delusions and "stories" and lies they tell themselves (and others) is that the narc is taken in pieces by what I would call a sustained insanity. And makes lots of demonic friends, manifest and psychic, who fuel the decent into an abyss of the narc becoming not entirely human. The only way to survive and heal is to remove yourself completely from their (literal) playing field. They need someone to hate, to deflect from their self hatred, and the better of a person you are...The more you will be the victim of their venom if you allow any contact. They hate you for being everything that they can never be. But they don't know this. They literally think that it's never their fault. They believe in their superiority, and that that superiority gives them the right to live above the rules of society and humanity.

    • @susanparker9877
      @susanparker9877 Год назад +4

      @@eagleeye2300 You've said so many things that hit home. The sustained insanity; not entirely human with their demonic friends, both manifest and psychic; their search for the true one, while hating you for being what they can never be. Such a unlife. I am doing everything I can to keep my ex away. He can invent reasons to knock at my door, including directing his mail to my home. I have asked him repeatedly to stop, but now there are multiple things coming, not just one. I will be going to the post office today to see what Ii can do.

    • @lavynethi
      @lavynethi Год назад +4

      You're right. We were good friends on calls before dating, but when he promised to be with me within 6 months, he met someone and pressured me to accept the breakup. I said okay, but I didn't agree to be a friend again; his ego hurt. He thought I abandoned him. Became furious and started gaslighting me and treating me like shit. He started behaving like I was not even existing, leaving me instead. He may be happy with his new partners, but I am still traumatized because he called me a psycho. 😔 😔

    • @jazminolivari5554
      @jazminolivari5554 Год назад +3

      Exactly! That's my story, I supported my maglagnant narcissistic grandmother for 20 years! I suddenly left the abusive relationship, she got upset, my mom tells her, but your grandaughter has been supportive on the most difficult days, my narc grandmother replies," well, she's not supporting now!" It's like my 20 years support have been for nothing!

  • @ricketyrick88
    @ricketyrick88 Год назад +105

    Your absence is the narcissist karma. Let them have it.

    • @thehotcoffeehouse6081
      @thehotcoffeehouse6081 Год назад +12

      Amen to that!!! Well said.

    • @countrystud1986
      @countrystud1986 Год назад +11

      You're so right. And despite them constantly be reminded of this Karma, (due to people constantly leaving them; family, friends, spouses), they are still in self denial/unaware of ANY actions they themselves have done to cause this. It's pathetic, and sad. It makes them unsaveable, even if people want to.

    • @selinaogorman8380
      @selinaogorman8380 10 месяцев назад +4

      Amen to that it kills them so glad I am no longer around the toxic narcissist my healing is already happening🙏🙏🙏been happening !

    • @Darren-su2gm
      @Darren-su2gm 9 месяцев назад +2

      It's sad most narcissist will never experience joy, happiness and love.They won't understand empathy and caring for others .It's sad.The adult narcissist does not know the true self adult that they' are.The will believe they are the false self or the little child.Hopfully therapists, doctors or psychiatrists can find a cure one day.

  • @gracegrace9567
    @gracegrace9567 Год назад +121

    Their life is their karma, no true happiness comes from doing harm to others.

  • @HonestyIsAVirtue7
    @HonestyIsAVirtue7 Год назад +248

    They want everyone to believe that they are a good person without actually being a good person. And, all the while they hate good people who are actually nice, and kind to them. What a miserable life. "They are a prisoner in their own body, and no one can enter, and they cannot ever leave." ~ Danish ~
    They fade away with age. They lose their charm, and their ability to get their way.

    • @awk6003
      @awk6003 Год назад +9

      Very nice words

    • @HonestyIsAVirtue7
      @HonestyIsAVirtue7 Год назад +5

      @@awk6003 Thank you...

    • @terridillon3053
      @terridillon3053 Год назад +21

      They get meaner and more evil in time

    • @starrysparkles404
      @starrysparkles404 Год назад +3

      Good.

    • @SiliconBong
      @SiliconBong Год назад +9

      You're absolutely right; it must be a life of desperate misery to see people value authenticity and talent instead of being fooled by a facade.

  • @whatsupchannel3047
    @whatsupchannel3047 Год назад +64

    I have woken up and realise that this person fits everything I have been fooled, used , and abused. Being educated and informed is part of the healing.

    • @karenk2409
      @karenk2409 9 месяцев назад +1

      And now you are wise. You win. From this moment on, live your best life and prosper!

  • @Donken98A
    @Donken98A Год назад +46

    Every Narcissist at some point experiences collapse. That’s also their karma

    • @Darren-su2gm
      @Darren-su2gm 9 месяцев назад +5

      That's good if they get there collapse,karma and a taste of their own destructive medicine for their toxic behaviors.

  • @ad6417
    @ad6417 Год назад +83

    Yesterday I saw my ex-husband who was diagnosed with narcissism in a parking lot. He didn't see me. I watched him struggle to walk and to put two bags of groceries in his car. He had to hang on to the door and he was breathing very hard just from the physical exertion. He is no longer dressing in a flamboyant manner to draw attention to himself. He was wearing head to toe Gray clothing. I'm almost 10 years younger than him so I'm relatively fit and active. Oh by the way he just got married for the fifth time 3 weeks ago. The expression on his face was extremely dour. So I'd say yes, karma is paying him a visit now.

    • @susanparker9877
      @susanparker9877 Год назад +8

      Such payback. Ouch!

    • @sharisimonehampton5434
      @sharisimonehampton5434 Год назад +4

      😂oh so sad about that, right? Lol...NOT!!! LOL...😂

    • @sindhuarjun4273
      @sindhuarjun4273 Год назад +7

      If this true then I also get good time to see narascist will suffer who has ruined mine and my kid life

    • @visho8979
      @visho8979 10 месяцев назад +4

      For getting married 5 times I think karma came too late. As good as nothing.

    • @selinaogorman8380
      @selinaogorman8380 10 месяцев назад +3

      Well karma got him he struggles to walk and having trouble now breathing well karma did work out for you because now he is suffering with the hands of karma he deserves it eventually everyone that got abused by a toxic narcissist your time of justice would come silent treatment is a great way to start no contact for the x narcissists is killing them because there no supply near by keep it up!🙏

  • @dyoung2739
    @dyoung2739 Год назад +84

    Aging is the worst karma for my soon to be ex narc and his narcissistic family. They can’t stand the thought of getting old and always complain about getting old instead of being grateful for still being alive.

  • @starrysparkles404
    @starrysparkles404 Год назад +51

    It's absolutely normal to want justice after they abuse you sexually and physically. 😞😞. It's hard, because they twist everything around. Accuse you of exactly what they do.

    • @karenk2409
      @karenk2409 9 месяцев назад +1

      You win when you take your life back, put them in a back corner of your life, and create the life you always wanted, armed with wisdom. Set your path, pursue it, and in time he will fade into a long-past sadness while you have left him in the sand.

    • @clintonnagy1662
      @clintonnagy1662 18 дней назад

      You are so correct.

  • @nycstarport8542
    @nycstarport8542 Год назад +40

    When communicating with a narcissist remember to translate everything from 'English' to 'Narcissim' 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sharisimonehampton5434
      @sharisimonehampton5434 Год назад +4

      😂😂😂😂That's a good one!!! Lmao!! 😂😂😂

    • @lydiawhitting5406
      @lydiawhitting5406 3 месяца назад +1

      Everything they do n say, even a short sentence .. boils down to ME and MINE in a flash and a blur.

  • @simonpegg1196
    @simonpegg1196 Год назад +56

    I've commented this once before - a narc's greatest punishment is the way they are. However, this creates a no-win situation for the narc and for everyone else close to them. They actually don't lead a content life, neither do they let anyone else do the same.

    • @edwong4178
      @edwong4178 Год назад +9

      Indeed, we all have just this one chance at life and they are squandering it by insisting on their false self.

    • @ishiirohilla2154
      @ishiirohilla2154 Год назад +8

      But we the victims that are trying for thriving are also not happy.. Everyday is a constant battle

    • @sanashams8864
      @sanashams8864 Год назад +4

      I am not satisfied… he is still happy being a narc
      I want karma to get him for real and real hard..

    • @susanparker9877
      @susanparker9877 Год назад +3

      @@edwong4178 The squandering aspect hurt me the most. When life is so precious, how/why can someone waste it with all that pretence and superficial nonsence?

    • @j_freed
      @j_freed 10 месяцев назад

      People ARE their own punishment. ✔️
      Minimize contact & don't react emotionally - instead, stay flat and rational.

  • @eddahughes1145
    @eddahughes1145 Год назад +50

    Yes they get it. I was married to one for 52 yrs, he is married to one of his conquests and hid Karma came in the form of Dementia and now other Health problems, he abused me all during our Marriage and my children have also been affected by it.

    • @copacetic21
      @copacetic21 Год назад +4

      52 years huh.

    • @HelenTudor-Douglas
      @HelenTudor-Douglas Год назад +1

      I was married for 34 yrs. @Edda Hughes , when he abandoned his entire family: me (wife), Sons (3 Adults), Cousins, Siblings, his Life-long Friends. We were all some kind of game to him. NONE of us had any idea he was using each & every one of us. This guy used to call me 3 times a day, every day since 1985! Then boom, one day he turns us all off like a water tap!! He just packs his bags & leaves us all. He had ZERO complaints about any of us. In fact, he planed & carried out us getting our Wedding Vows renewed in the Church, at the Altar, where we first married. It was a Beautiful Surprise. And then 5 months later I was served divorce papers. His "conquest" doesn't allow him to speak to ANY OF US. Yet 5 yrs. later, they're still together. : (

    • @karlm8067
      @karlm8067 11 месяцев назад

      You are a strong lady 🎉

    • @karenk2409
      @karenk2409 9 месяцев назад

      46 years for me. I have the occasional nightmare where family members who sided with me call and say "he needs you to take care of him" ... and I say, "you picked him, he's all yours. God bless and good-bye."

    • @karenk2409
      @karenk2409 9 месяцев назад

      who sided with him.

  • @shereepurkiss7207
    @shereepurkiss7207 Год назад +135

    Your work here is at its finest, you executed this beautifully, you were born to do this Danish. Thankyou your changing people's mindsets and lives🌷🦋

    • @ericlarousse1149
      @ericlarousse1149 Год назад +11

      His best video yet, and they're all good. He is truly insightful.

    • @geethat9047
      @geethat9047 11 месяцев назад +1

      I am watching my narcissistic father fall to pieces in his old age. He destroyed my life. It is impossible to not want revenge. But in forgiving is his worst punishment.

  • @Baba11.11
    @Baba11.11 Год назад +35

    This is what exactly happened in my in law family to me. They tried to control me, now they lost me completely.

    • @delightwithsandhya...1729
      @delightwithsandhya...1729 11 месяцев назад

      Hiii

    • @delightwithsandhya...1729
      @delightwithsandhya...1729 11 месяцев назад +1

      Mere sath b same yehi situation he ...mere mil or mere husband k sath ...mere husband ka support ni milraha mujhe ...me tut gaihu ekdam ...sochraihu divorse lelu ...baht try kia samjhane ko o samjh ni rahe ...mujhe hi blame krtehe....mujhe ek taraf rehem araha he un par ...dusri taraf sochti hu agar me apne lie step ni li to o meri life barbad kardenge

    • @neetasharma947
      @neetasharma947 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@delightwithsandhya...1729true

    • @ShubhamKhunteOfficial
      @ShubhamKhunteOfficial 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@delightwithsandhya...1729 devorce le lo, nhi toh aapka mental heath kharab kr dega aapka husband... Phir jab life ka last stage aayega us time aapko yeh soch kr khrab lagega ki puri life depression me nikal gya aur apne liye aisa kuchh nhi kr payi ki mai khush rah saku.....

  • @xiomyrn08
    @xiomyrn08 Год назад +3

    We might never get to see karma manifest in the Narcs life with our own eyes but trust that karma does not miss an address!!

    • @clintonnagy1662
      @clintonnagy1662 18 дней назад

      Karma always has its way on the unjust. If you're lucky it will let you know about it.

  • @jamesl2846
    @jamesl2846 Год назад +30

    As a scapegoat our job is to take their punishment/ karma in place of them.

  • @ramyashekar6285
    @ramyashekar6285 Год назад +36

    Amazing, They keep their body clean and shining to attract the supplies. They don't even bother that they are ruining somebody's life. Wonderful explanation Sir Ji.

  • @HeartOfTheSource
    @HeartOfTheSource Год назад +22

    The whole dynamic, the whole thing just gets me fighting tears. I just want everyone to be Ok. Every person 😢😢😢

    • @starrysparkles404
      @starrysparkles404 Год назад +7

      Aww you're sweet. But you know what? They're Predators. Save your empathy for people who don't eat others souls. 😞

    • @nikkiboo7719
      @nikkiboo7719 Год назад

      I feel you. But unfortunately, life is not a fairytale. And that is very hard to deal with, but you have to. It can't be other way.

    • @zg6045
      @zg6045 9 месяцев назад

      I feel with you. When I look at my husband now were he turns 60, I feel sorry for him. Even after all the hurt my children and I went through. It hurts to see a human being suffer and nobody can help them out of their shell. I pray that God is healing him. If not here, than in heaven. I don't want to be the judge, because I don't know what was leading him that path. And I still haven't been able to let go of him. I am stuck in my feelings.

    • @boethius1812
      @boethius1812 3 месяца назад

      You helped him hurt your children?

    • @lydiawhitting5406
      @lydiawhitting5406 3 месяца назад

      @@starrysparkles404 👌perfectly said

  • @pattywaters6998
    @pattywaters6998 Год назад +19

    The Bible says we reap what we sow.

  • @mimimerah748
    @mimimerah748 Год назад +29

    U just describe what I am seeing in my ex narc husband, the old age, loosing control of people around him and the unhappiness in him. Initially when he first left , the was arrogance,confidence and happiness cos he’s like soo free to do as he like . Now after two years, he tried to come back and i didn’t take the bait.

    • @darshini4001
      @darshini4001 Год назад

      So after 2 years also they come back ?

    • @starrysparkles404
      @starrysparkles404 Год назад +1

      AWESOME. SO GLAD you didn't take him back!!! 😀

    • @victoriabrand2777
      @victoriabrand2777 Год назад +2

      mines begging to come back after 15yrs of ghosting me cos the hoe he swapped me for is a total bitch. now that's karma.

    • @rozdoyle8872
      @rozdoyle8872 Год назад +3

      @@darshini4001 They try , they become extremely frightened as they age and especially when siblings start dying , am I next hits them big time ? And then the any port in a storm strikes big time , They are just vile individuals.

  • @HonestyIsAVirtue7
    @HonestyIsAVirtue7 Год назад +49

    Something that I have noticed with every narcissist in my life is that they all have gastrointestinal issues. My mother is a Narcissist. She has suffered with stomach and intestinal problems for as long as I can remember. She had to have 12 inches of her colon removed. My ex husband is a Narcissist. He has GERD, and ulcers. He had to take Prilosec every day for reflux, or he would vomit all throughout the day. A lot of the Narc friends that I use to associate with had Crohn's, Ulcers, IBS, reflux, intestinal issues etc. They all seem to have issues from what I've noticed. Just thinking out loud. Has anyone else noticed this with their narcissist family and friends?

    • @michelezeug5206
      @michelezeug5206 Год назад +6

      My ex narc healthy as an ox, even with alcohol abuse on top. I always?'d how, with all the ugly on the inside.

    • @PutTheGlassesOn...
      @PutTheGlassesOn... Год назад +14

      Yes, the ex narc has intestinal tract issues. I even took her to a specialist early in in the fake relationship for these problems, they never figured out what is going on with her. All that lying, abuse, betrayal, multitudes of sex partners, living in darkness must've had a price attached to it

    • @HonestyIsAVirtue7
      @HonestyIsAVirtue7 Год назад +10

      @@michelezeug5206 Wow! He's a rare one. I've been bombarded by them my whole life. I'm 56. I've never met one yet that didn't have some type of stomach, or intestinal problems.

    • @HonestyIsAVirtue7
      @HonestyIsAVirtue7 Год назад +12

      @@PutTheGlassesOn... Same here... I took my ex to a gastroenterologist. He ran tests on him. His EGD (scope down the throat) revealed his esophagus lining was forming the same lining as his stomach. He was extremely inflamed from severe reflux. The specialist said if he had waited much longer he would have had cancer. The acid was eroding his esophagus. He had stomach and intestinal issues the whole 32 years of our marriage. That's what happens when they spend every waking hour plotting and scheming how to be evil.

    • @thehotcoffeehouse6081
      @thehotcoffeehouse6081 Год назад +9

      @@michelezeug5206 my mother the covert malignant abusive narc , is a mix of your experience and others here. She is 96, still going strong, but is a " covert " alcoholic, has gall bladder problems, and is deaf in one ear...yet her narcissistic self is still strong, she writes smear campaign harassing letters to me which are pretty articulate still, and she isnt all that physically weakened. Yet she is stark raving mad inside, pure evil, and demon possesed.
      I just dont get it, how with all her internal, infernally evil poison, and I don't mean the alcohol but add that in too, she can still be so strong at her age.

  • @angelawatts255
    @angelawatts255 Год назад +15

    Not a joyous way to live and they still have hell to look forward to.

    • @Ytdeletesallmycomments
      @Ytdeletesallmycomments Год назад +3

      Hell is their heaven.
      Something we will never understand..but they are happy as they live.

  • @mojadah10
    @mojadah10 Год назад +17

    I don't think they do bc every narcissist I know is too delusional to experience karma (for what it is). They'll change it to something else that doesn't hold them accountable.

    • @clintonnagy1662
      @clintonnagy1662 18 дней назад

      They see karma as someone else's fault, then point fingers. Typical narc tactic.

  • @TheDiego10forever
    @TheDiego10forever Год назад +48

    But the question is: do they really care about all this and suffer for all this? If they live in their fantasy world, it means that they don't realize that their life is miserable and, thus, this is not a problem at all for them.

    • @lydiawhitting5406
      @lydiawhitting5406 Год назад +10

      Due to age or other.. when they lose their grip or hold .. they get more pathetic than ever.

    • @forestshade9451
      @forestshade9451 Год назад +4

      The only damage is around them not inside them. They are A OK

    • @sanashams8864
      @sanashams8864 Год назад +1

      Same question and leaving us in miserable situations he goes on and on and will someday marry a decent girl and live happily while I can’t breathe

    • @jasmynreddiar933
      @jasmynreddiar933 Год назад

      Thank you for sharing answers my questions

  • @terridillon3053
    @terridillon3053 Год назад +40

    Takes a lot of energy to keep that mask in place, eventually it falls and everyone sees who they really are

    • @starrysparkles404
      @starrysparkles404 Год назад +4

      Good,I freaking hope so.

    • @angelawade1445
      @angelawade1445 8 месяцев назад

      I hope they do see them for what they are so they can save themselves.

  • @cherrybacon3319
    @cherrybacon3319 Год назад +16

    To me, Karma is letting go of your own need of justification and revenge and letting the natural course of life's events take effect. For a Narcissist to feel Karma they have to show regret or remorse which is what they'll never do. 🍒

  • @copacetic21
    @copacetic21 Год назад +8

    These are not people.
    End of mystery.

  • @sugarfree1894
    @sugarfree1894 Год назад +8

    I just spent 6 weeks live in caring for my narc parent (90) after a hospital stay. Once they were back up to speed they turned on me and threw me out onto the street with no warning and nowhere to stay, lol. With narc parents you have to give up hope of ever getting anything good from them, just focus on doing good for them. They are the greatest spiritual teachers.

    • @cherylg.3465
      @cherylg.3465 11 месяцев назад +1

      That's what my ex did to me - no warning. On the street with nowhere to go.

  • @JH-fy7ef
    @JH-fy7ef Год назад +28

    They so do. Many people have opened their eyes to this disorder as well and see them for what they are, especially when they have collapsed.

  • @tasneemkousar272
    @tasneemkousar272 Год назад +11

    I feel u r telling my story I left my narcissistic husband after 30 yrs of abuse

  • @elizabethadams5544
    @elizabethadams5544 Год назад +7

    I couldn't care if he does or not as long as he ain't dragging me down with him watching people suffer isn't my forte, I used to be angry because he burnt my belongings but it can all be replaced my life cannot best wishes to him 🌹🌹🌹

  • @montanagirl4530
    @montanagirl4530 Год назад +9

    I have a 62 year old narcissist partner who very soon is going to realize exactly what you have said. His whole ego is based on his physical capabilities. . .to his credit he’s a hard worker and very good at what he does, however he does not know Jesus and relies on himself. . .it will end ugly for him im afraid. He’s angry all the time. . .he knows it and almost revels in it. . .who can live like that? Thank you Danish, you are spot on. It still is hurtful, but I will survive learning from you and Drs Ramani and Carson.

    • @juliecarson4332
      @juliecarson4332 10 месяцев назад

      After 2 years of living with my boyfriend the whole truth came out. It was so hurtful that I thought I was going to have a heart attack. He could say the sweetest things but at the same time was cheating constantly and with many women. He used his good looks and charm. His looks are fading. He has a hard time breathing after a few steps. He is now without a car (after trying to take mine), I don't see any relationship with his kids, he's homeless unless he already found another victim.
      The hardest part was convincing myself that someone could really be so evil while being so convincing that he was a great guy. He would often say, "I've never cheated on anyone in my life." He said he was a Christian. I believed it all despite so much secretive behavior, leaving at night and not answering the phone. He said he was working with his friend who works nights. So many lies, so convincing. My intuition told me that something wasn't right from the beginning. I would ball my eyes out and was so confused.
      Thank God the truth has set me free. God and people who care enough to share such as Denesh will help me heal.

  • @karenparkinson6989
    @karenparkinson6989 Год назад +42

    Thank you Danish 🙏💜
    I needed to hear this tonight.. after 9 months of healing from a narcissistic relationship, I had a wobble today and you reminded me of the lies, deception, manipulation and unempathetic that he was.. is and that karma will prevail. You are so insightful and your videos have helped me enormously.. thank you again 💓

  • @thecustodian1023
    @thecustodian1023 Год назад +10

    Being who and what they are is often their own punishment. Hence their continual hate of everyone and everything around them that appears to be having a good and happy life no matter what social status they hold at the time.

  • @helenshg4580
    @helenshg4580 Год назад +5

    I wish peace & love & light & understanding & beauty & freedom to all of the Danish community. May your birth right beautiful spirits shine brightly today & every day in the future!!!

  • @paulinekiprop524
    @paulinekiprop524 Год назад +28

    This is very helpful to understand the narcissist's karma. Quite encouraging to me as I heal from the abuse

    • @joanna88508
      @joanna88508 Год назад +1

      Same here!

    • @Richard-vq7ud
      @Richard-vq7ud Год назад

      We are all in the same boat....or rather on the same huge ship!

  • @Gailey379
    @Gailey379 Год назад +9

    Excellent, I totally agree with you. Well said. They miss out! Big time!👍👏👏

  • @doreensukhdeo7121
    @doreensukhdeo7121 Год назад +28

    Best description I've ever heard about a narcissist's karma . Very meticulously explained 👏 Danish. Thank you 😊

  • @rozdoyle8872
    @rozdoyle8872 Год назад +3

    A Narc is like a Rusty old Car with bits of metal hanging loose , the Car has a cement block tied to the excelorator while it runs out of control through a crowd of unsuspecting people leaving sheer devastation in its wake.

  • @latikabenz6289
    @latikabenz6289 Год назад +5

    The narcissist (my ex husband) refused to help me pay a surgery due to a foot varix rupture. He just said: stay like that, I won’t give you a penny. And he is in a very good financial condition.
    2 years later, his father is at hospital, he is getting his foot amputated because of a blood circulation failure. I’m sure Karma is chasing him. And won’t stop.

  • @symeebryant
    @symeebryant Год назад +8

    It's like a cat who desperately wants to be seen as a dog. Comical. 😁😂 Thanks, Danish. Thank You for making me laugh.

  • @GPDuchess
    @GPDuchess Год назад +17

    Thank you for make it clear what I already kinda knew; what I have to expect from my 80+ year old parents; bitterness, anger and more blame; I was planning to go look after them, but after being there for 3 months I had a good idea of how it was gonna be like; this vid just proved my instincts right; they have plenty of money, they'll have to hire a nurse and bully her I suppose and I already feel sorry for her😞

  • @TheForeverfree1
    @TheForeverfree1 Год назад +5

    Does anyone really get karma? I've been watching some crime shows and so many beautiful, kind and loving men, women and children get murdered all the time. Sometimes people get goodness in return for good things they've done, otherwise I don't see karma much. Thank you, you really are a blessing healer!🕊️

  • @garulusglandarius6126
    @garulusglandarius6126 Год назад +14

    My narcissistic next door neighbour WILL get his Karma as I’ve videoed/documented his behaviour for years and the thing I’m most sure about is his wife and other neighbours finding out his true behaviour is his worst nightmare and I’m about to consolidate all of it and distribute it to neighbours and especially to his wife ! Thank you Danish very helpful 👍

    • @ericlarousse1149
      @ericlarousse1149 Год назад +1

      She sounds like a crazy narc.

    • @cicadasmasher8082
      @cicadasmasher8082 Год назад +6

      "Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you."--Friedrich Nietzsche

    • @garulusglandarius6126
      @garulusglandarius6126 Год назад +4

      @@user-kcrpine to explain, the neighbour I’m referring to has consistently made our lives as miserable as he can with constant insults, damage to our property and goading us while we have ignored him in the hope he’d give up. He makes sure his wife ( who certainly isn’t aware of a lot of his behaviour ) and other neighbours don’t see his actions but we have much of it on camera ( with audio ) and exposing him seems to be the only way to stop his very unreasonable/unnecessary behaviour.

    • @Sally-ih6ls
      @Sally-ih6ls Год назад +5

      Always bullies around, sorry you have to go through that🤗

    • @starrysparkles404
      @starrysparkles404 Год назад

      @@garulusglandarius6126 do it. Do it for the justice, and bring him down 👇.

  • @chitramarathe7619
    @chitramarathe7619 Год назад +14

    No words to thank you... Danish...... this is exactly..... every narcs victim feels......🙏🙏🙏

  • @danmcdonald8522
    @danmcdonald8522 Год назад +7

    Excellent video Danish. We all wonder if the narc will get their Karma. Perhaps they are getting it every day that they live in their pathetic misery. BUT the most important thing is that the survivor of the narc abuse becomes a healthy thriving pleasant joyous soul and enjoys life without the danger of being tortured by these creatures. God bless

  • @rolandoscar1696
    @rolandoscar1696 Год назад +12

    After 57 years of my dad's abuse and me going no- contact 2 years ago, l wished him a long life. He took it as a complement, but I can't imagine a hell more horrible.

    • @banarasilad4960
      @banarasilad4960 Год назад

      😱 damn, seems he caused you the same damage ..too bad !!

    • @rolandoscar1696
      @rolandoscar1696 Год назад

      @@banarasilad4960 Thanks for patronizing me. Are you sure you're not a narc yourself? A serial wife-beater and child abuser, a blackmailer, a thief, a name-caller and a liar, without any remorse? I never did any of this to anyone, ever. Good luck with your life, O judge.

    • @banarasilad4960
      @banarasilad4960 Год назад

      @@rolandoscar1696 I am sorry for everything you went through, my previous comment was related to the video only. I DON"T SUPPORT SUCH THINGS.
      PEACE :)

    • @rolandoscar1696
      @rolandoscar1696 Год назад +1

      @@banarasilad4960 No worries. He passed last week, and managed to apologize in his last breath. All is forgiven. 🌹

  • @Vini-kl6sv
    @Vini-kl6sv Год назад +4

    But what about the sufferings we are facing now..we are loosing golden time of our life because of them😢

  • @ladyloungealot5119
    @ladyloungealot5119 Год назад +9

    Thank you. You have helped me a lot. I am now dealing with a very sick narcissist in my family who is many times more abusive and vicious than when she was OK, and I want to help her, but at the same time don't want to let her drain my remaining lifeforce out of me before she goes.

  • @susanweaver6946
    @susanweaver6946 Год назад +6

    You are so right !! He could never get enough attention and recognition from women. If by chance one would show him attention and admiration he would pursue her. If she turned him down or cut him short he would say such mean things about her. He would always post pictures of his self and things he found or food he made. It would always be something that he would get compliments from other women. It was awful being with him.

  • @katherineandrzejewski8826
    @katherineandrzejewski8826 Год назад +4

    Thank you so much
    Very helpful for.me today .....
    I do have worse day today......
    Surviving because of your channel

  • @heyoldman2003
    @heyoldman2003 Год назад +21

    Thank you Danish . yes, i tried everything i could think of to bring her happiness and peace…and i appears to have been wasted energy 😞 but now i know i did the best i could and it was NOT my fault. God Bless you my Friend. you are helping so many 🙏🏼

  • @mariondudek564
    @mariondudek564 Год назад +2

    Old age is their Karma, because with it comes weakness and illness. Excellent video. Thank you.

  • @opendiscussionwithmuneezah1471
    @opendiscussionwithmuneezah1471 Год назад +15

    You are the best therapist in NPD I have come across.You make us understand this NPD in a very easy n relatable language.I am starting listening to your podcast as well.Thanks a lot for helping us in our healing journey

  • @lindagates9150
    @lindagates9150 Год назад +7

    Thank you before he went to hospice I was the primary care giver who treated him as I would want for some reason that I can't explain your words let me feel a sense of relief I think is the best way to explain it 🤷🏼‍♀️🍀🥇🍀🖖🖖🖖🖖🍀🥇🍀👍👍👍👍🍀🥇🍀🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @jimmy031408
    @jimmy031408 Год назад +5

    Their sin is their judgment. The consequences of not repenting leads to a hardened heart. It's an act of God to make these people realize they need to change how they treat people.

  • @user-th9qh1mw9r
    @user-th9qh1mw9r 10 месяцев назад

    It's unbelievable how much you understand the narcs

  • @justmemother2
    @justmemother2 11 месяцев назад +1

    I gave my Mom my life, knowing she needed help after being beaten down over the years by my narc Dad. I constantly told her to come to my house for care as she began failing healthwise. She did not want to leave the narc, and after 42 years of helping, I decided I was done. The next day I returned to her home later than usual, having been sleep deprived for over a year at her home for fun by my narc Dad and she was dead. The narc gladly watched, not lifting a finger to call for help. Now he is getting weaker and I am stuck caring for him as my brothers want nothing to do with him. He has lost all control of everyone, and knows his turn is next. He is a coward and that is enough to know that he is deathly afraid of the end. Sad the way they behave, instead of getting help. But I know there is a demonic element to it. I know they love the power they have when they are young and strong. So ladies, if you are married to one, leave before they gladly let you lay there and die. My Mom did everything for him over 65 years of marriage and that was the thanks she got. He not only ruined her life, he ruined mine as well, through her. I have nothing now, and I am 60 years old. Don't wait on these demons to change. THEY WON'T. Learn how to get out safely and go!

  • @teresitaekim2565
    @teresitaekim2565 Год назад +2

    Well said Danish, very satisfying definition of narc's karma. So true, narcissists doesn't know what love is.

  • @juellejalilian3235
    @juellejalilian3235 4 месяца назад +2

    "So as a man sow, that shall he reap." The Bible declares this fact. Justice will be served.

  • @aayushi1109
    @aayushi1109 Год назад +5

    Yes a person who don't understand love is not even a human being.Sometimes I feel very sad for them 😔

  • @sallyrampersad-rackal9790
    @sallyrampersad-rackal9790 Год назад +10

    Well said, totally on point. This could not have more well articulated

  • @pipilotta110
    @pipilotta110 Год назад +10

    True. In Europe and elsewere we will celebrate Christmas holidays soon. It is the season of JOY in our culture. Everybody knows it - the narc f*cks it up each and every time. In the families, partnership....The joy. Because they are jealous of the joy we experience. They envy us. They know happiness - but not the deep fullfillment of joy. They don't know JOY. Only "Schadenfreude" as we call it in Germany - the only perverted view of "joy" they can experience. So they envy us for our JOY - and punish us so they can experience their kind of "joy" - which is "Schadenfreude". Unfortunately this German Word has been adopted into the English language.

  • @elizabethwaters5396
    @elizabethwaters5396 11 месяцев назад +3

    OMG. This REALLY hit home for me. We all know there doesn't seem to be any closure or justice when you finally leave a Narcissistic relationship, and I thought it was going to make me feel better to know that they would "get their karma." But in the end, it's just sad and tragic the way they actually experience life, but somehow don't know it, because they can't look inside themselves. It's baffling and confusing, and I'm so glad I no longer have that confusion swirling around me, and that it's no longer my responsibility to try to figure it all out for them. Thank you a million times for your insight into this issue. It means the world to me to understand more fully, that there is a shallow, superficiality to their lives, when on the outside, they seem so full of friends, and success, while I still suffer the effects and work EVERY day to go a little further down the healing path. Thank you for your very insightful and articulate videos.

  • @vivenciogeorgetorres1720
    @vivenciogeorgetorres1720 Год назад +6

    You are correct! Perfectly said, Sir!

  • @danieljones2435
    @danieljones2435 Год назад +5

    Wow, eye opening.
    Thank you.

  • @PriyaKumar-ys6sy
    @PriyaKumar-ys6sy Год назад +6

    Each and every word is true. I also had started experiencing this and thought deeply on how they get their karma. As i am on my spiritual path. Some other things i realised. Thank you.🎉

  • @vl8175
    @vl8175 Год назад +3

    You had me in tears, thank you.

  • @maths273
    @maths273 Год назад +10

    I requested him to let me complete my sentence and I told him his behaviour is making me feel suffocated. He never bothered. Recently he had brain clots and he couldn't express himself. He started shouting what happened I am not able to speak. I realised that his karma is getting him.

  • @mocalifornia6103
    @mocalifornia6103 Год назад +5

    ✨Exactly. I was married to my STBX for 30 yrs and got to see how bitter, unhappy and unsatisfied he became with his job, home life and everything around his late 30's. I thought it was because he stopped cheating due to my ultimatum. But he kept getting bitter and angrier even when we were on vacations and became grandparents!! Years later I found out he had been secretely cheating on me with men!! That was it, I left him 6 mths ago, filed for divorce and went NO contact 🚫 I'm told he's aged a lot since I left and is more bitter and angrier than ever smearing me and telling people he left me for another woman 🤥 Yeah right!!

    • @starrysparkles404
      @starrysparkles404 Год назад +1

      So sorry you had to go through this!! 😞. He will get his. I hope you're healthy, and healing.

    • @victoriabrand2777
      @victoriabrand2777 Год назад

      yeah mine is a womaniser but is a covert (angry) gay bloke who swings both ways, pretends to be homophobic and carries chronic shame. he's also riddled with a life threatening sti as well that he likes to 'share' without notifying people apparently. his chavvy hoe live in missus is also riddled with sti's. nice.

  • @angelawade1445
    @angelawade1445 8 месяцев назад

    Great video. I think we want them to suffer as we have suffered. They can't truly care or love someone so they wont ever really suffer. The best you can do is just let it go.

  • @user-zy4mk4ko2r
    @user-zy4mk4ko2r Год назад +2

    You are so right about everything. My sibling really manipulated me and took a lot of my money belongings and my property. I tried to help him when he came crying to me and supported him financially and in every other way. Am hoping he learns a good lesson and someone really nails his ASS.
    He is cheating other good and innocent people to this day
    Thanks for your information and support

  • @dawnserrano737
    @dawnserrano737 Год назад +1

    Always thought we would grow old together..but..he did this..

  • @equalityforall5620
    @equalityforall5620 10 месяцев назад +1

    I did get what I needed from this video. Thank you, Danish, for sharing. I am sorry for all you went through to get this wisdom. Here's hoping that next time around we'll all get the "good" families.

  • @susanparker9877
    @susanparker9877 Год назад +2

    So well said Danish,...you really understand. It is so very sad that they will never know true love.

    • @daharvey1
      @daharvey1 Год назад +2

      And Susan, they use those very words. When we met he said true love, and divine intervention. The demon!! He is now married almost 3 years, with ex before me. I learned it is called triangulation, and he spoke about her too me like she was a dog!

    • @susanparker9877
      @susanparker9877 Год назад

      @@daharvey1 Ouch! In retrospect, just count yourself lucky to have escaped! If he referred to her like a dog, he probably thinks of her that way.... And probably treats her like a dog too! My skin crawls just to think of it...
      Be free and clear of him and look only ahead from now on. I will be working on that same advice in my own healing.

    • @wandilemazibuko4299
      @wandilemazibuko4299 Год назад

      I'm just so scared, my husband is full blown narcissist, my son is growing narcissist just on daddy's steps!

  • @namdeedesta6711
    @namdeedesta6711 11 месяцев назад +1

    This is by far one of the best message I’ve come across on narcissism. I’m nearly in tears and blessed to have found your channel. 🙏🏾

  • @texastrader1
    @texastrader1 Год назад +2

    Is it wrong that I never loved, cared, or had any positive feelings for my narcissist mother? I was her first child and she hated me and was jealous of me. She never showed any love, affection, or encouragement to me. But she did to my sister. All my life I was her target. I used to think I was lucky that my sister and I are 18 months apart taking the focus off of me. But my sister became her "flying monkey", a tool and a means to double down on my torment. I really despised my mother but surprisingly not my sister because she is just as damaged as me if not more. Everyone says I should forgive her but how can I forgive knowing she knew exactly what she was doing to me with no conscience or regret.

  • @reshmabhatnagar4024
    @reshmabhatnagar4024 Год назад +1

    🙏 thanks , you answered my question about their karma, a question I have asked to God every single moment for many years now.

  • @scarletfrances5004
    @scarletfrances5004 Год назад +7

    Hi Danish, very well said. Every good People including the Pastor in Our Church ⛪️ is Wrong. Every good people in our circles is Wrong! He is Right ✅️ All the Time! And Putting a Blame on Everybody including me... I have Loved Him So Dearly and Take Care of Him and so His Mom But.. It was Never Enough for Those 2 Narcissists! And His Mom Fabricates Story that I am or was Having An Affair!! And Her Son Of Course Believes His Mom!! So we Are Divorcing Right Now Unfortunately... His Mom Made the Divorce Papers for me to Sign...Thankful to GOD I wasn't with Them Now for His Mom Made Up Stories that I Abused Her. At The Courthouse She Failed!! The Judge Said It was Baseless and Dismissed!!!!
    Liar, Liar, Liar!! And Liars Go to HELL!!

    • @king-qo8fi
      @king-qo8fi Год назад +4

      narcissists cannot stop lying

  • @fatone2292
    @fatone2292 Год назад +4

    Yes you’ve just summarised this thank you.

  • @beautiful1423
    @beautiful1423 Год назад +5

    Danish u just talked to me again.he lost me for sure.let the healing begin 😊

  • @cindydelgado1111
    @cindydelgado1111 Год назад +4

    Once again!!! Perfectly explained and extremely educational! This is POWER!!! 💫🗣️✊🏽

  • @monicalee9659
    @monicalee9659 9 месяцев назад +1

    *They do get figured if the relative's talk, that is those they messed with! The Narcissist then hates them all, which is the objective you are going for, that they can't keep conning, lying, and hurting everyone in that family. Game Over!*

  • @susanweaver6946
    @susanweaver6946 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much Danish. You are so informative with your messages

  • @zeenatally3729
    @zeenatally3729 Год назад +5

    Excellent video and well explained !

  • @davidcoppotelli3957
    @davidcoppotelli3957 Год назад +3

    Excellent VIDEO as Always GREAT JOB Danish Job Well Done.

  • @ashwinvarma254
    @ashwinvarma254 Год назад +4

    Very nicely explained, Thanx Danish !

  • @serenityfields7514
    @serenityfields7514 Год назад +4

    Thank you so much for your great wisdom.

  • @lavynethi
    @lavynethi Год назад +2

    I trusted him, invested a lot of time and energy, he dumped me. insulted calling me a mentally weak, ill and abused me with his harsh words, I didn’t said a word except I didn’t have any illnesses. WILL HE EVER MISS ME? He maintains two or three for just talking and one for dating and few other women for support. I wonder if he misses me😢

  • @teekey6146
    @teekey6146 Год назад +2

    Yes, you are so helpful. Thank you

  • @king-qo8fi
    @king-qo8fi Год назад +3

    very well -explained

  • @Riah-nc6jt
    @Riah-nc6jt Год назад +8

    This is amazing, what an insight. Thank you for putting it so clearly. 🙏💖

  • @franciscocardenas5758
    @franciscocardenas5758 Год назад +3

    Brilliant analysis 👏 and I'll leave it at that.

  • @sirunikunushik7735
    @sirunikunushik7735 11 месяцев назад +1

    "Their life is their karma". I believed and experienced It 💪

  • @Melva-Tjong
    @Melva-Tjong Год назад +2

    I like your logic and analysis. This is so true and concise. Thanks for sharing.

  • @unknownguy81rj
    @unknownguy81rj Год назад +1

    Thank you my friend. Wide words yet again! You helped me get through this difficult time in my life like many others, we thank you and appreciate your effort!

  • @raibindra3798
    @raibindra3798 Год назад +5

    Thank You Danish for your wise teachings to help others to heal✨
    Stay Blessed Always 🙏🏻

  • @susandiaz6243
    @susandiaz6243 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for validating our pain you are a blessing...❤️

  • @charmaine3818
    @charmaine3818 Год назад +1

    Thank you for your valuable work 🙏Bless you 💝