3 Things Abuse Survivors Need To Research
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- Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
- Discussing follow-up resources I've discovered that were incredibly helpful for me and gave me new terms that I didn't understand before.
My condensed sex addiction video: • Mind-Blowing Facts Abo...
Patrick Carnes (Full1 Hour interview): • Sex Addiction: Dr. Pat...
Robert Weiss (Full 2 Hour lecture): • Diagnosis and Treatmen...
Jerry Wise RUclips channel (Let him know I sent you lol): / @jerrywise
im 16 and my ex boyfriend from 6 months ago was a sex addict… i thankfully ghosted him but i just ended up in another toxic situation which i plan on ending tomorrow:/ im not sure which steps to take though because i feel like i’ve given my everything to this person but i have a therapy session in an hour and im hoping that i can find some guidance then so i can be able to let go
The best questions I found to ask myself are what I enjoyed about them. That helped me learn what they fed me, so that I could find a healthy replacement instead of them. But if I couldn’t admit to myself what I missed about them, I didn’t know what needed healing & healthy replacements. Journaling / texting myself thoughts helped me figure this out.
I wish you luck & I hope God is with you in your journey
@@ehrensjournal thank you, your channel has helped me so much. please continue to do what you’re doing.
I also want to say that I convinced my self that I consented. I NEVER DID. False pretenses is NOT CONSENT! The vid you made about the silent twin is GOLD.
Erhren
Just like to say gods forgiveness and merci doesn’t ever end. He’s with you always and never against you. Once you’ll see his fulfillment in your life you’ll understand what things are and how previous we’re perceived in his eyes. His love is enduring, forever.
Thank you for sharing this. It was very helpful and gave me new things to think about.
I wonder if my ex is a sex addict now. He was willing to kill me to get it. And that’s not how it was in the beginning. That’s the cycle of abuse. You have been such a resource for me. So, thank you. I want to share some of my resources for you and for others in case it helps. So my resources were Jackson McKenzie, Shannon Thomas and lastly Sandra L Brown. Honestly Sandra was it for me… she hit the nail for me. I need to talk to my therapist about sex more.. especially because of my history. I’ve spoken to my partner about it and that’s great. I think with my ex the domain / goals for exploitation was SEX.
Thanks for linking the videos directly, this is good thinking
Thank you for all you do. You've helped me more than I can say 🙏❤🙏
Fantastic videos, your experience puts words to my own and has helped me make sense of it.
I love your honesty, vulnerability and discernment. I understand you speak directly from your own experience which always produces authenticity. But as feedback, you often fall into the trap of applying rigid gendered stereotypes. Yes men and women are different but power dynamics are mysteriously and shockingly similar. Our “healing” path is increasingly about understanding ourselves and the universe and not just what happened to us. There is a transcending quality whose metaphor is the layers of an onion. Transcending gender to understand power dynamics is one such giant step. You, as a woman… and me as a man- are mysteriously and shockingly similar too through the lens of our shared experience of abuse which has us living in, and experiencing the world as we do after abuse in much the same way. “Same but different” - The paradox of life that God has given us, with the truth that it is not that it is too difficult to see, it is that it is too close to see. Take care, God Bless. ❤
The purpose of dating is for marriage not for playing with each other
I wish I had a outlet like this. I stopped dating for over 3 years but I really don’t see many men that can relate to my kind of situation. But honestly I’m scared to death to date now. Unfortunately I have to watch content like this and make a best guess situation with it being a male. Listening more because to express things I get chewed out saying I can’t go throw these things. Either way nice content.
Men can definitely go through the exact same things but:
a.) I can’t make content specifically for men because I can’t speak from the standpoint of a man and I wouldn’t pretend to be able to haha
And b.) men are tempted in different ways than women and women find their worth in different things than men do. And it’s okay that we’re different.
I totally think men go through abuse with women. Psychopathic and borderline women are very manipulative. But I unfortunately can only speak from my experience as a straight woman who dates men. If you feel that you have things that you’ve learned- you should share them and create your own channel for that. I’m sure there’s a huge need.
Stay well & God bless
Your partner is not a toy 🪀🧸
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