4 THINGS That Make MEN Unattractive
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- Опубликовано: 5 июл 2024
- Find out 4 things that will make you an unattractive man, especially when around women. There are just some things that guys say or do, usually without even knowing it, that make them ugly -- so if you do these things -- then stop doing them!
“Everyone you meet always asks if you have a career, are married or own a house as if life was some kind of grocery list. But nobody ever asks if you are happy." - Heath Ledger
Paraphrased, in a nutshell:
1) don’t brag
2) don’t be insecure
3) don’t complain
4) look good and presentable
Oh makes sense, this also applies to women too.
Also I want to correct number 2, it should be: Don't be an asshat for no reason
I'm attractive
These 1-4 applies to women in general, and not men xD
Thanx I was in a hurry
number four is wrong
"There are women who will find you more attractive if you brag about money, but you want to avoid these women." LOL that pretty much rules out 99.9% of women.
Golddigger ;) haha....
*TOP things for men*
- Knowledge
- Status
- Confidence
- Power
First is looks. Looks are the first step then you can show your personality. If she doesn't like your face you don't have the chance to show your personality. It's simple biology and we do the same thing tbh. She could be nicest girls ever with the best personality but we don't know it if she is ugly because we don't even give her a chance. Everyone does that and people need to understand the importance of looks.
Works for women too
Humility
Power impresses other men, status the same, knowledge and confidence are good but there are many other factors too.
-Attitude
dont chase women and suddenly you will become very very attractive regardless of what you do. dont put women on the pedestal or the center or your universe, focus on you, women are not worth the effort.
It’s that simple
Mars Tiger just don’t chase them and focus on you.
Men are supposed to pursue women.
Karen Murray according to you, not to me
Yes true, stop desperately chasing them. But you still need to approach and introduce yourself or else they won't know who the hell you are.
I was forced to mature at a very young age. I was taught many of things and those things have helped me. Be yourself, always.
I'm gay, but even still.. men should not always do stuff for women..like be attractive for yourself, care for you most of all. not some chick.
Don't put woman on a pedastel. Put yourself first. We men are the prize 💪
@@erikoud.8193 no smh
Ur opinion is invalid
@@Deni-nl1ce his gay so his opinions dont matter right? ☺
Get out of here
Just kidding I'm gay too gay squad in this bitch😂
I am still trying to figure out why anyone would care if they are attractive to women.
Don’t brag
and look good/presentable
#4 is the hard one....speaking, movement, style, clean cut, speaking well and sounding interesting. Basically smooth with swag..some people have that naturally... It's hard and takes time to improve #4.
Men wearing a hoodie and showing 6 pack is considered "unattractive" Got It! 👍
That's for sure.
Looks like i need to work on my dad bod.
No trust me abs matter even fot the shallow girls
*Confidence is really the end all be all of what makes a man attractive.*
Prolly 100% percent
I mean hypothetically speaking
Yup
These videos give too many unattractive men hope.
👵🏻
It’s not confidence. It’s not giving a chit.
I’m always stoked to see your videos in my notifications ❤️
Being insecure is the worst, and being confident is the most important thing.
If you're insecure.. look up "Unbreakable Confidence" in GoogIe.
The top result is what you're looking for.
Those guides are epic for learning how to attract women.
That's actually a really good program.
Its a scam
If you want to truly impress the ladies or anyone for that matter, don't show off what you have, instead use what you have to make a difference or to add value to other people, be it money or social capital. 💪
Example pls
Facts! I've mastered this.
My ex girlfriends name is Negative Energy
Thanks for sharing Julian. As always, awesome content, and very inspiring...
*Yeah showing of how much money (or really Anything) you have typically makes people think your overcompensating for an insecurity... Even if youre not* 💪
Black Vito - Moneyology & Philosophy sincerity Humor and humility have worked for me for my entire dating and married life . And I dated above my skinny level of attractiveness
@@chrisfox4157 Amen to that💪
Preach it brother. It’s also nasty when they brag about their past sex life.
Another eye-opener from one of my favorite channels on YT
Thankyou for another great video. Best! Keep on rolling have good day!
These videos are so helpful, I hate when they end
When it comes to women, there is a very fine line between insecurity and intuition
Thinking bout it now that makes total sence to me now🙂 theres sum things i kinda already new but yeah this guy has got it ! ... good clip bro 👍
True...find your motives and by finding yourself.
I'm an Atheist but this is right.
Strength is taming the tongue.
For we all stumble in many ways. And if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body. If we put bits into the mouths of horses so that they obey us, we guide their whole bodies as well. Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. ...
Excellent video! Thanks!!! 🙏👏👏👏
An ugly face makes a man unattractive. No matter what!! First and foremost. Looking good
will get you into the ballpark. The other things are minor in comparison. You will get to first base with the female if you look good!
Finally someone who keep it REAL.
Yes
Exactly LOOKS OVER MONEY ITS COMMON SENSE I REALIZED THIS AFTER OD COLLEGE PARTIEE
My guess is youre under 30. Anyways looks is secondary for men. If you dont work to get in a position of status/money you will do poorly even if youre really good looking, especially after age 20-30.
How do you explain Rodney Moore? lol
So true bro keep the videos coming BTW what's up with the other channel ??
I hate living, cause whatever I do, I always make a mistake. A stupid little mistake, always keeps everyone away from me. I’m a kind of lonely most of the time.
Everytime I get my hopes up about a girl she shows me every reason about her not to be hopeful.
Boy howdy!
You real.💯 That's exactly how things are
It's good to watch these videos from time to time but also good to let life happen naturally as well instead of relying on too much information on the internet, constantly wondering if you're an attractive or unattractive guy, what's my star sign, I'm too shy, too confident, I'm an alpha, beta, sigma, so on and so on. Sometimes it's best to learn naturally without too much technology involved or constantly watching videos just to make you feel good about yourself and whatnot. Every now and then it's ok to research about these things, too much and you start to pursue a life that resembles "FAKE", because you're basing your life off of what others have said you should do. Get out there and do you! Stop overthinking and get to work.
Awesome information!
Notification Squad...💯🔥🙌🏽
I watched so many videos on this channel and I feel like we guys have to do a bilion things, while women next to nothing....what a great world to live in
You are 100% correct. Why do we guys have to be the ones to impress?
That's why I live alone. Yes, I do miss being with a female, but then, I hear on how a buddy is having problems with his girl, so then I go, "I'm glad I'm not in a relationship."
When you're like me, women come to you. No work needed. Sucks to be Eldalion.
Another great video!.
I almost forgot how to be far from average. Thank you for this. Please upload more
Congrats 🎉legend for 1M subs😍.
Inner refinement is more important then outer refinement you could be under a bridge and have refinement.
*Money does not make you attractive.*
Ambition does.
...then!? I'm automatically confused with confusing confusion by confusers
Congrats on 1 mil subs
I learn today, thank you so much
Good topic. Guys need to think about the outcomes first. If you knew doing these things would help you in relationships you would be more motivated to do it. Take responsibility for yourself and win the long game 😎🦞✌️
Don’t brag, others know your value by themselves.
Don’t say bad things about other people, it only reveals your insecurity.
Don’t complain, you are giving others negative energy.
Keep refined.
'saying bad things about people makes you unattractive'
literally every video you make is pointing out bad things about people...
and you are not....
correct
Well... You have a point
Omgggg broo , he meant on insults and similar.
Bad things which he says in video is the things that he/she need to improve on / or remove it.
Get that in your head.
@@itstime4crusade calm down, stevan. nobody actually cares.
I have some questions that no one ever covers with regards to being a confident man but I have a disability. I am legally blind and this leads me to not be very style savvy when it comes to clothes and telling what fits well and what doesn't. The other is that since I can't see so good I unconsciously stare at things and people and it sort of makes me look like a psycho rather than confident. And obviously my eye contact game isn't great lol
Hey Julian what's going on with Stronger Men?
you are the best, you changed my life
My reaction time after seeing your notification pop up should get this comment pinned.
Honestly guys, character is what matters. Looks come second. Be kind, be helpful and genuine, that makes everybody attractive.
Looks will make others to notice your kindness
@@michaelcorleone7297 that's not true. Your kindness towards them makes them notice you 😉
@@justyrahiljohnson4438 I had noticed something different from this.. about my friend. But I wish what you say will be true for everyone:)
@@michaelcorleone7297 I'm telling from a women's point of view.
@@justyrahiljohnson4438 I agreed with you completely and liked your first comment before I knew you were a woman!
Men are out of their minds with insecurities these days...must be because of the Internet because I remember everyone being a lot more fun before the year 2000
I was thinking about inner confidence lately. They always say to be more confident, you need to have more muscles, good style, be well groomed and all that. But does inner confidence depend on these things? If you're truly confident from within, should a sweaty/stained armpit area or bad hair/unibrow take away your confidence? Maybe we are doing it wrong and instead of improving our style or working out to be more confident we should do something else?
The funniest thing for me about these videos is that i untentionally don’t do most of em(the qualities) and a lot of people don’t as well because of proper growth and growing up. Those who have these issues will most likely not change at all anytime soon because of these videos and those who have them don’t really care.
That was interesting. Now do one about women and their hangups and insecurities that make them unattractive. I could fill a database.
EXCELLENT CONTENT.
The refinement of self is a necessity
Yes true, stop desperately chasing them. But you still need to approach and introduce yourself or else they won't know the hell you are.
I can relate, most guys never intruduce thier girls to me, they scare they might lose her
If it doesn't s just a few then ya, they are scared.
But, I if it is most of them, then men know you have no loyalty.
Where have you been man it’s long time you didn’t upload any video
Good advice..
i've waited for dis a long time, n'd most of dis would get my ass whoop for lackin
Thanks bro 👍👍👍👍
I love these videos and they have helped me big time, but I have a question? I never complain and feel like my life is great almost all the time which seems to intimidate women? I have also had women be intimidated by me because of my accomplishments, spendings (which I can afford) physic and/or confidence/positivity. I don't know how to balance between low key bragging and just showing interest/proving my worth?
Anyone else notice the subtle insertion of negativity in the words “high value man”? In which case there’s another unattractive trait of describing someone in a negative way in order to appear the to be the alpha man (you’re of low value, so good luck maintaining your confidence levels now!).
i have trouble in the 4th tip. Where is a good place to find tips for style in general?
Felipe watch TMF( teaching men’s fashion) videos.
@@ahmeda5209 thanks!
Thank you I love your video
Can you upload about how to find yourself...to the people who in depression
Look up Grant cardone for that one
therapist
Do your favorite hobbies
Any tips against teeth stains and acne?
So, what if I say bad things about myself, does that make me doubly insecure or does it get canceled out like in mathematics. You know, "a negative times a negative equals a positive".
Can someone tell the beautiful symphony playing in the background in the end
Remember kids this is also true for women as well.
( Not saying that the video implies that it doesn't)
True and most women I know work really hard with hair, makeup, clothing, behaviour, etc and a lot of tshirt and jeans, sneaker men with dirty hair trying to hit on women way out of their league, then getting angry at the woman. They need a decent buddy or female friend to help them out.
what about constructive critisizm though, is that complaining 2?
like with the movie example, instead of "this is bad" more like "it would be better if they did it like that imo"
Constructive criticism didn't work for the communist plus your not prepping people up for warfare because Your not a drill sergeant either so don't expect constructive criticism to work well for establishing solid trust worthy relationships with people who You come in contact within Your Life daily. Live Life Make Friends Not Enemies.😁
"Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do and they will surprise you with their ingenuity."
~George S. Patton George
"Just do it!" - Shai Lebouf
To right there gunn know your wallets bulging Haha
Talking about "negative energy" and then quoting the law of the conservation of energy in the context of the psychology of complaining.
...Did you just go all Spirit Science on our asses?
I've watched several videos from this channel. Reviewing these videos, they just make me not want to ask any female out. What for, if I have to act and talk in a way I'm not?
I'm 46. I've never gotten married or have kids. I haven't had a girlfriend in many years. Of course, I'd love to have one, but the behavioral changes I have to make in order to have a girl, nah. I'd rather live alone.
Awesome advice
It is it works for everyone men or women.
great video
Being ugly, small, and walking with a limp make me attractive to all women. Without saying a word, I will automatically be considered unattractive to females of all ages. I stay as physically very athleticm. I am athletic, and immaculate clean. But I can do nothing about my ugly face, small stature, and permanent limp. Knowing I appear very unattractive to the females of the species, I quit trying to make friends and a, girlfriend. It reduces stress very much when you know you should not even bother to be social and make friends and a girlfriend, and you stop trying. No way any woman would like me, so why try?
I hate saying bad stuff about other people
This really reinforces the stories about why there are more girl gold-diggers than there are men gold-diggers. You hear rich guys dating poor girls, and actually loving them for who they are, whereas you don't really hear scenarios where rich women go for the broke guy. If you have, then consider me surprised.
What happened to your stronger men channel???
yeap, a lot of us are wondering the same thing...
Congrats on 1M Subs man!
I would have comment something negative about this video, but I did not pursue because people might view me as an insecure guy 😂😂😂
Why you delete all the content in strong men channel
If a guy can't tell the difference, how will he improve and know it too?
Went to a video of what makes women unattractive and it's full of women telling each other to not change, came here and it's full of men telling each other to change.
Hey man.
I've been watching your videos for some time now and im I'm glad to say that your advice has helped me with my Alpha male problem. It works folks!
And in not calling your videos bad, but, you need a little more variety. A friend of mine who is going to be a freshmen in high school is in need of a little extra cash and does not have the extra time to work. If you could make a money related video, not only would this help my main man out, but also would help my come up with some ideas for my new business... Thanks!
Never talk about your problems in front of others specially women. It shows you as a low value person.
We all have that true close friend who we can trust and talk about problems.
What if me and my friends make a group chat to roast other people am I ugly then
gfo, there are women con artist who actually seek out those particular qualities....
4:53 "energy is never lost, only transferred"
*
physicists want to know your location*
FURY OZNE ?
@@kamishdeellr heya
1. Showing off your money
2. Insulting or talking shit about others
3. DONT COMPLAIN!
4. How Refined you are (how you behave, how you talk, how stylish you are, etc.).
What happened to your other channel?
I speak too quickly when I’m really nervous in a situation and what comes out of my mouth sounds like “mush” how can I combat this?
_ELEV3NB_ Same happens to me
_ELEV3NB_ I find that just slowing down and using less words, choose your words wisely and pronounce them right with hand movements! This helps
Can someone help me out here. It talked about insecurities but if you joke about your insecurities. I never or at least never catch myself talking bad on other people but I’ll definitely joke about it even if I’m not insecure about it. An example would be I’ll see someone taller than me (I’m 6’1) and I’ll be like whoa that guy intimidates/scares me in a funny or joking way I’d she points him out. Is this counter productive?
wat happened to the 2nd channel
What if I tell you that the way you look, the way you dress, the way you speak attract womans without you realising it? ( i should make videos too)
He lost me at "We all had 800 dollars in our wallet." Where they do that at?.. lol More like 25 dollars.. SMH
I thought the same fam 😆🤣 8 hundo? AFTER PAYING BILLS? Can’t relate. Voiceover guy must be working in tech or something
Oh I didn’t realize this is a 2 yr old comment 😂😂😂 hope all is well with you anyway 🤷♂️😎
@@a.b.9109 it's all good still don't have 800 in the wallet. Actually now I don't even carry a wallet anymore.. Lol
@@frankwhite1161 WORD? Apple Pay? Google Wallet? just wondering
@@a.b.9109 nah I just carry one credit card and order stuff online a lot. I never use cash and if it's to a friend or a peer to peer purchase I use cash app or pay pal.
In a nutshell...don't be a sucker by any means with money you have worked for. Especially if on a scale of 1-10, you're a 9, 10, or 11, and the "big boss" is a 5 and below (don't take your future employment for granted and have a good attorney on standby). Furthermore, all the inspiration in the world can't help height, weight, average, mediocrity etc. It is what it is. Blame parents. Also, it's okay to talk bad about people as long as what you say is wise, truthful information that is informatively helpful to one's life.