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“We had 2 great years” clearly and obviously she didn’t think so! Its amazing that so many males will ignore the obvious when they are BP and ignore what is going on in their own lives. She had some other dude inside her and you take her back !?! Men, we must never accept BETRAYAL!
the part the guy left out is how he stalked how and found out where she was staying and accidentally bumps into her. and he also left out he was texting her alot after breaking up
Agree! Run, don't walk. The entire situation is filled with her disrespecting him and cheating with another guy. Run and don't look back. History will repeat itself with a cheater!
the part the guy left out is how he stalked how and found out where she was staying and accidentally bumps into her. and he also left out he was texting her alot after breaking up
Just happened my friend, 21 years together, 15 years married, 3 kids, his wife met a gut at a running club 5 months ago, she's left him and moved in with your man....he has 3 kids too, and it's his 2nd affair! Friends wife hasn't worked in 6 years, qualified nurse....obviously way too much time on her hands
@@rogerward3390 it's a fucked up world man. I can't imagine how it must feel. That sort of betrayel stings. Like Rich said though, once you get passed the idea that's its just "your turn", you're good. The problem is majority of us need to suffer for years before we adapt that mindset.
Yep if I’d have listened to my gut and realized my value before marrying my first wife, I could have saved myself 21 years of agony and a heartbreaking betrayal!
I agree 100%!! No genuine burning desire, get out NOW!! Don’t look back, don’t get second thoughts, don’t settle! You only live once and it goes by quick! Don’t sacrifice one minute of your time to someone who doesn’t deserve you!!
Her going a month in advance was intentional. She already knew the other guy and wanted to test the waters. It didn’t work and now she wants to go back to her second choice.
Men, continue to chase excellence, finance, and opportunities. Never make women a priority because they will use and disrespect you. If you see a buddy going through this, have a red pill intervention.
When he said "2 wonderful years" he is thinking how men tend to think. The time was an investment and we don't want it to be wasted. So we get caught up in the "Sunk Cost Fallacy". Imagine an ex gf as a car, once it starts to nickel and dime you, it is time for a newer,more reliable model.
Women are not the prize… High value men are… I can choose any day from a dozen women who I want to spend my time with….because my time will always be more valuable than any woman 🙄
@Let’s think About the logic what a gump. I bet you’re just waiting for the kids and pull the bait and switch “I’m not happy” and divorce grape him to kingdom come. Apparently your “high earning lawyer” isn’t too bright. Gump
I am 56 years of age, and have been red pilled in the last 6 years. I was married for 24 years . I learned at the end of my marriage that I was not the first choice and not the 2nd, and I barely made the 3rd. What I did have at the time was resources and a great job. My advice to this young guy (and others) is red pill educate yourself NOW. You are blessed men to now have access to both the material and the people that can help you. Do not, I repeat do not make the mistakes I, and others have made. I did not have the skills, experience or knowledge to build myself a female filter that qualifies women on a set of powerful masculine principles YOU set for yourself. it is never to late to start, but the later you leave it, the more harm you will do to yourself emotionally, mentally and definitely financially. DO IT NOW!!!!!!
Thank you brother.. same here. I am about to turn 49 and so far I allowed women to completely mess up my life, lost everything several times and built all up again.. but now I am not ready to play their game anymore.
@@hermit.masteroflight5970 Welcome to the awakening brother. Be strong , Be courageous, Be steadfast to who you are. The rest will begin to fall into place. And remind yourself it is never to late to be a focused masculine man. Peace and power to you 🙏💪
A man must always enter a situation knowing two things is this winnable or is there an escape exit if things go south if you don't have an answer for both you must say no. This rule applies for everything you do in life.
I had a friend who was so devastated that his girlfriend left him he tracked/followed her to Alaska (he was living in Vancouver Canada at the time). He caught up with her, found her with a group of guys who obviously all had their way with her and he STILL tried to win her back. He stayed in Alaska for a few weeks and came back after being rejected and left behind again. He came home the most broken/depressed human being you have ever seen. I learned from his mistake and have never trusted any of them since.
This happened to my cousin, he moved to Calgary (from Ontario). About a couple months later she kicked him out since they were living with her family. He calls me bawling from the bus terminal. I had to buy his ticket back to Ontario. I put him up at my place, he starts calling her and her calling my house. He said the same shit, o she's sorry etc. What cleared his mind was I told him "he's in love with who she was not who she is". Once he heard that, he dropped her like a hat and moved on.
You should never live under a girlfriend’s or wife’s house especially with their family. They can kick you out whenever they want. By the way how long is the bus ride from Calgary to Ontario.
What keep surprising me is amount of disrespect guys will put up with. Forget about relationship part of it, someone flaking on you like that and you keep talking to them ? I wouldn't take a dump on the same grass field with that person.
I feel like this guy is so close to finally waking up, but his blue pill brainwashing is still keeping him there. Hope this dude finally finds a channel or someone like rich to wake up completely. Honestly I had an ex who monkey branched from me when we were young (first experience that woke me up). Broke up with me and was with another guy literally days later who "was just a friend". About 3 years later im at a mutual friends party and she is there we chat for a while and flirt and she asks for my new number (had a new number bc of a crazy woman after this girl). She was a single mom now, with 50/50 custody and I would go over a couple days a week or she would come over to my place, when her kid was at her ex's. She was still ridiculously hot and a freak in bed. She would cook for me when I would come over we would basically watch a movie and smash. We literally never went out on an actual date. She would always bring up the past and how "wrong she was blah blah blah." I would basically dodge this topic. Then one day after about a month of this, she asked what we were and told me she had strong feelings for me. I replied with we will never be more than what we are. She started crying and asking why, I told her after what she did previously how could I ever consider her for a reliable relationship, plus she had a kid already. She even said "how much I had changed and what happened to that good guy." I laughed at this. Yes possibly brutally honest, but I dont care thats how I am. Funny thing is, she was "hurt", but still continued our arrangement for a little over another month until I met someone else and I ended our arrangement.
Spot on Rich, can't fault that advice at all. My girlfriend is a great compliment to my life. I wouldn't say we are great 'friends' as such, but there's definitely huge burning desire there (even after 4 years), she looks after the house, cooks, does all the laundry & shopping and looks after the kids. We're both getting on a little now, but she's stayed in great shape and looks good. I've made mistakes in the past with women (haven't we all), but you live and learn. I only wish I knew what I knew now in my 20's! Hopefully guys watching this in their 20's etc. will get a huge amount of benefit from this.
Coach Corey Wayne's take on this subject is a woman will always dump you if you move with her as it's a beta move. Women need to follow the man. Not vice versa
@@timothygibney159 not sure it was one of his videos in the past 2 months or so, i also remember Rich saying to avoid what he called the "3 percent man stuff"
also when i read his book it was hard for me to take what he says seriously when he said he fell in love with a single mom couldn't a legit 3 percent man do better than a single mom?
@@MikeG82 He wrote the book and made the notes before redpill was a thing. Not all single mom's are but most are not good and it is tricky and something to avoid if you can. I take CCW seriously, as he doesn't just complain about women but tells you how to court and date and his book WORKS! I think what Rolio and others overstate is your bank account and understate your frame. CCW is all about Frame and communication and acting alpha and confident. In my experience that WORKS. far more than going to the gym and making dough. I dated women who made alot more than me because I am firm, ask out, and lead like what he teaches. My last gf mentioned the lawyer who made 3 mil a year couldn't decide where to take her. I making only 72k at the time made a decision and she dumped his ass for mine lol
Yep. I learned the hard way. And I think the hard way is how we have to learn. If she goes off with another man, walk and don't ever chase her or go back. It is easier said than done if you have desire for her - but whatever you do, do not give her one inch of a route back into your life.
the part the guy left out is how he stalked how and found out where she was staying and accidentally bumps into her. and he also left out he was texting her alot after breaking up
no no no...stay with her, chase excellence like a mad man and DO NOT bend to her whim for anything. Once youve reached your pinnacle of success, find a young hottie (or multiple) and THEN put the old trash at the curb. This is the only counter measure to thottery. This is the way. If you leave her now, youll likely repeat this with the next girl. Tap into your disdain for her childish behavior and allow it to fuel you to chase excellence. The greatest revenge is success. This pain you have is information that can propel you forward. Harness it into anger/drive. Become your own cold-blooded antidote.
I hope this goes through him. Because truthfully, i think he already knows the answer - heck, even mentioned it in his letter. These people (men or women) that already know the answer but still seek whatever validation from other people, usually don't change anything.
Wow it was amazing bumping into your video. So, I'd only had one previous relationship and had been single for a long time before meeting this girl. Well we hit it off pretty quickly but then, over time I started to notice I more of a support guy. Anyway, months go by and I notice I'm more like a 'friend' than a 'mate' to her. Being the sensible man that I am, I am incredibly disappointed in myself for not terminating the relationship right then and there. Long story short, she messed around with another guy, felt guilty about it and and then told me her tale. Expected me to console her and pat her in the back and tell her "no babe, you're not a wh0-re". I'm not confrontational by any means, but I politely told her that she IS in-fact a wh0-re and cut all contacts with her immediately. That was one of the most abrupt decision I've ever made. Anyway, my suggestion is that sometimes you simply have to go ahead and take a step and think about the implications later. If you spend too much time thinking about the "what ifs" and the consequences, you'll never take the move that you know is absolutely important.
I divorced a cheater. Decided to chill for about a year and a half. Got with another gal just for some fun. Went to her house and her "ex" was still "storing" a few Corvettes on her property. I trusted my gut and bowed out slowly. I was 💯 right. One of her girlfriends recently told me she went back with that vette dude. I gave my number to that girlfriend in hopes it was a dismissal card. I was right there too. I got rid of both of them.
Yeah, I played, (un-knowingly), the beta male before to an old girlfriend who would call me up when a boyfriend dumped her, and I would be the substitute boyfriend, of course, this was before I was a red pill male so I thought she really learned her lesson and could finally see I was worthy of her love but she would meet someone and dump, or "friend zone" me. She just wanted me around to be her servant boy to run errands and of course, I pay for everything. It's so embarrassing when I think about it.
Don't be too hard on yourself. We've all been there. The only guys who haven't are most likely sociopaths, psychopaths, or guys with personality disorders. But congratulate yourself for waking up to the world as it is, not the world you have been taught.
Leaving this girl would be so much fun…I’d gather my stuff and get OUT of there, leaving her to pay the utilities and rent. *shrug* Dude, there’s no way you told this story to your parents/siblings, right? They would’ve said (mostly) the same thing as Rich…have some self respect and tell her goodbye.
Is this email real? Seems like a joke. I've been a fool as that guy back in the day 2010-14 when Rich and other creators weren't around to protect me from my stupidity. But now, what's his excuse? I hope the guy figures his sh*t out and doesn't jump from some bridge in the near future.
Great advice bro soooo on point. Deal with women that have a deep burning desire to be with you, and if they don't hit it and move on. Run Forest 🏃♂️ runnnn😅🤣
She knew this guy as a "friend" before, that's why she wanted to move early. After she tested things out and realized there was more than "friendship" she dumped him...dump her right back. You will regret not dumping her when u had the chance
Same type of thing happened to me in my mid twenties. A girl who was my “friend” went out of state to do a phd program and ran a year long campaign to get me to move in with her. I wound up selling my car, my comic book collection and everything else to move in with her. Let me tell you it wasn’t worth it at all. Of course things changed as soon as I got out there but luckily I moved out after about six months. My life could have been much different had I stayed put and not up ended my life for some b*tch.
@@jafoot7559 Hey I appreciate that you have a good humor about this. I often post incendiary posts to see if these so called "alphas" who frequent Cooper's channel are in fact such. How have you improved your life so you do not make the same mistakes?
@@CEWIII9873 it was pretty hilarious that you managed to have comedic timing in a comment section post! As far as what I learned, simply don’t listen to women. Their agenda is typically to make you their lap dog and if you take their advice or are persuaded by them to do something you wouldn’t normally do you find yourself behind the eight ball in life.
One of my family members has a whole husband and goes to her foreign country and sees her ex and spends time with him while her husband is her the the states baby sitting… that’s what truly red pilled me LOL
That's almost like me yet she left me for a guy that got her a job now she wants to quit that job and wants us to start over in between her leaving me and now I have started my own business and I never been happier kinda only when I'm working then I'm pretty lonely but f*** it that's man s*** .. I happily declined her offer..
Sex really is the glue that holds a relationship together. It’s a long story so I’ll be very brief but my ex wanted to leave me but couldn’t. We continued having sex and she was unable to leave me. The second our sexual chemistry was interrupted, the relationship seemingly fizzled. There are a lot of other factors at play but it just goes to show you that if there’s a wedge placed between two people, and that sexual chemistry is interrupted, it can be catastrophic for the relationship. Again, the situation was complicated, but so long as there’s a consistent sexual connection, things will be fine. There was no one else involved and I know that to be God’s honest truth but I also knew that physical distance came between us, that’d be a problem.
It is amazing what men go through once. I say once because they must learn the pain and burn for it to never occur again. We must play the fool to then learn how to walk away with strength.
I don’t call it cheating. I call it TREASON. I told my X she committed treason against our home and that is unforgivable. She left with nothing but her clothes and bathroom items.
Key to attraction: stir the pot, not wait there to cool down. Translation: elicit attraction, then give space. Attraction increases. Human psychology 101: u crave something coz u got a taste of it but it's not easily attainable. If u could get anything u crave instantly without effort, u would stop craving it. Same with relationship. Never force ur way into others, it will repeal. Charm them and leave (temporarily). In 🔴💊 terminology: push and pull.
I had to put up my friend and his two kids while he got housing and social assistance. That took 4 months. He moved up north for a woman who kicked him out after 2 weeks. This is him moving from Alberta to Thunder Bay. He said it was a serious relationship. So for me. I think men have to be more decerning about who they are with. So that means at least three yrs from vetting to her baseline in terms of how they relate.
agreed I have come to a point of amused grumpiness with men because they have all of the information they need in the world in their pockets but choose to ignore it...
I've got my pleasant 7 but at least she's really into me. I stopped trying for the bitchy 9. Never got a 10 I'll be honest. The 9's were enough of a problem. Typically the prettier they were the less personality they had. I did stupid crap exactly like this guy did but that was in my twenties. Now that I'm in my 40's I know way better and way more. Fortunately I never sold my stuff to move with a girl. I'm my opinion no woman ever has been worth adjusting my life "that much" for.
Great video Rich! Love your content and that Forrest Gump impression was spot on! These stories you share of guys in the U.S. still dealing with these females reminds me of myself when I was in my 20's. It's that limited mindset that causes all this. I decided to get away from all that and go to the Philippines. Definitely not a limited mindset here.
I knew a guy in my religious community who followed a woman (also in my religious community) to some improbable section of Mexico. Long story short, she completely ruined his life, and left him financially barren and pretty much damaged goods. Some years after he's trying to pick up the pieces of his life, he and I reconnect. He's an emotional train wreck, so much so that it's nearly impossible to talk to him. Then he asks me to contact his ex to get his music compositions back (we're both musicians and composers). He thought that my own position in our religious community would influence her to return his property. I politely asked him to relieve me of this responsibility, as I make it a policy to stay out of domestic disputes. He got mad at me, almost blaming me for being in cahoots with her. His emotional backlash was almost identical to how a woman would have reacted. He and I haven't spoken since. To make it all the more ridiculous, he abandoned his religion for no reason other than the emotional pain a handful of people inflicted on him. He cannot tell the difference between the two.
I met a woman then moved and had a long distance relationship and got married. I then went through a big effort to have boss let me move back home and work remotely to be with wife. This hurt my "career", and also I did NOT get a huge greeting from wife when I arrived. Pretty much did her own thing like I was invisible. I was stunned given the risk I had taken with my own job. The marriage ended under some unrelated circumstances (she did have other good qualities), still guys should never, ever do this, i,.e. follow a woman.
A Woman who truly respects & loves you will never even think of another Man. If your wife or girlfriend has left you for another Man, there is no point for you crying, complaining, or bitch*ng about it. She was never yours to begin with. The best thing for you to do is to accept the situation, and realize that she doesn't respect and love you. She can cry, beg, and plead for you to forgive her, but it is already too late. Women plan in advanced before chewing, once they make it up in their mind that they don't respect & love you, they will start looking for another mate. You as a Man must remain stoic, and the only way to get over one Woman, is to get under another one.
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NEVER give a woman that much importance....thou shalt NOT worship false idols!
Exact 💯
A excellent way of stating it.
indeed.
they're not worth it.
marriage is between a man and a virgin.
@@jesuschristislord77733 HAIL SATAN!
@@CEWIII9873 "bold move Cotton, let's see if it works out for them".
“We had 2 great years” clearly and obviously she didn’t think so! Its amazing that so many males will ignore the obvious when they are BP and ignore what is going on in their own lives.
She had some other dude inside her and you take her back !?! Men, we must never accept BETRAYAL!
I could never, ever take someone back. It can never be the same.
the part the guy left out is how he stalked how and found out where she was staying and accidentally bumps into her. and he also left out he was texting her alot after breaking up
Inside all 3 holes probably
It's called Light Switch Effect.
Read about it in the forumsdotred sidebar.
@@zero1188 this
Agree! Run, don't walk. The entire situation is filled with her disrespecting him and cheating with another guy. Run and don't look back. History will repeat itself with a cheater!
Yes, in the not too distant future she will be off again.
Anen... first hand experience with that one...
Yep !
If a woman EVER leaves you for another man, you should already know what pile she belongs in. It doesn't matter how much begging happens.
the part the guy left out is how he stalked how and found out where she was staying and accidentally bumps into her. and he also left out he was texting her alot after breaking up
Just happened my friend, 21 years together, 15 years married, 3 kids, his wife met a gut at a running club 5 months ago, she's left him and moved in with your man....he has 3 kids too, and it's his 2nd affair! Friends wife hasn't worked in 6 years, qualified nurse....obviously way too much time on her hands
@@rogerward3390 it's a fucked up world man. I can't imagine how it must feel. That sort of betrayel stings. Like Rich said though, once you get passed the idea that's its just "your turn", you're good. The problem is majority of us need to suffer for years before we adapt that mindset.
@Let’s think About the logic ya, probably
I say its 50/50
One thing I've learned is always go with your gut feeling
100% Its NEVER wrong!
Yep if I’d have listened to my gut and realized my value before marrying my first wife, I could have saved myself 21 years of agony and a heartbreaking betrayal!
The gut never lies. It knows something before your brain does. Trust it.
@@glewis49 going to ask anyways but did you have a bad gut feeling in the engagement, and days leading up to the wedding, including the wedding?
@@AverageAngel yes, not so much on the wedding day but many gut feeling days before hand…
I agree 100%!! No genuine burning desire, get out NOW!! Don’t look back, don’t get second thoughts, don’t settle! You only live once and it goes by quick! Don’t sacrifice one minute of your time to someone who doesn’t deserve you!!
Her going a month in advance was intentional. She already knew the other guy and wanted to test the waters. It didn’t work and now she wants to go back to her second choice.
This.
Nailed it ^
FTS!
Yes, he was always the back-up plan.
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Men, continue to chase excellence, finance, and opportunities.
Never make women a priority because they will use and disrespect you.
If you see a buddy going through this, have a red pill intervention.
If she truly loved and respected him, then she would have never left him in the first place. He needs to send her back to the streets.
Exactly! She belongs to the streets!!!
Getting her guts rearranged from Kevin from sales or Steve from accounting 🤣😂
Or Tyrone the pool boy 😂😂
Jesse the unemployed guitar player that may or may not be living out of storage unit
you nailed that one. I've learned so much about myself from listening to you and I see the mistakes I've made in the long ago past
When he said "2 wonderful years" he is thinking how men tend to think. The time was an investment and we don't want it to be wasted. So we get caught up in the "Sunk Cost Fallacy". Imagine an ex gf as a car, once it starts to nickel and dime you, it is time for a newer,more reliable model.
🤣🤣 I love the advice
"Love should not be polluted with friendship" - Erich Maria Remarque
Finally, I am so glad your comment was made for i always knew it.
Women are not the prize…
High value men are…
I can choose any day from a dozen women who I want to spend my time with….because my time will always be more valuable than any woman 🙄
I agree. Sex and intimacy are the key indicator. This guy chose the wrong woman. Replace her and become the first priority.
Imagine moving for a woman lmao
@Let’s think About the logic what you gonna do now you've run through every man in your town and have to go looking g elsewhere
@Let’s think About the logic boy is he screwed.
we know your mind and kind. "high earning lawyer".
@Let’s think About the logic what a gump. I bet you’re just waiting for the kids and pull the bait and switch “I’m not happy” and divorce grape him to kingdom come. Apparently your “high earning lawyer” isn’t too bright. Gump
I am 56 years of age, and have been red pilled in the last 6 years. I was married for 24 years . I learned at the end of my marriage that I was not the first choice and not the 2nd, and I barely made the 3rd. What I did have at the time was resources and a great job. My advice to this young guy (and others) is red pill educate yourself NOW. You are blessed men to now have access to both the material and the people that can help you. Do not, I repeat do not make the mistakes I, and others have made. I did not have the skills, experience or knowledge to build myself a female filter that qualifies women on a set of powerful masculine principles YOU set for yourself. it is never to late to start, but the later you leave it, the more harm you will do to yourself emotionally, mentally and definitely financially. DO IT NOW!!!!!!
love the message bro.stay kingly.
Don't you wish this knowledge was available 30 years ago?
@@mrski749 Definitely. My life and the people that have been in it would be very different now. Still knowledge gained can be knowledge passed.
Thank you brother.. same here. I am about to turn 49 and so far I allowed women to completely mess up my life, lost everything several times and built all up again.. but now I am not ready to play their game anymore.
@@hermit.masteroflight5970 Welcome to the awakening brother. Be strong , Be courageous, Be steadfast to who you are. The rest will begin to fall into place. And remind yourself it is never to late to be a focused masculine man. Peace and power to you 🙏💪
After a month you “bump” into her? Sureeee bud.
Or she was stalking him, and she arranged an impromptu meet up.
@@Ace.0.0.0. how would she know where he is? He knew where she went before the split.
Dude is a serious stalker. Borderline crazy.
If I only had this type of information back in the late 70s. It would avoided so much pain in my life. Young men please inform yourself.
Agreed bro
You mean "Nam?
Omg ! , imagine getting married now , a snowballs chance in hell .
@@allseeingotto2912 at least there is much more information outhere.
A man must always enter a situation knowing two things is this winnable or is there an escape exit if things go south if you don't have an answer for both you must say no. This rule applies for everything you do in life.
Yup.
It's not worth it bro. If she did it once she can do it again. Leave that town and don't look back.
I had a friend who was so devastated that his girlfriend left him he tracked/followed her to Alaska (he was living in Vancouver Canada at the time). He caught up with her, found her with a group of guys who obviously all had their way with her and he STILL tried to win her back. He stayed in Alaska for a few weeks and came back after being rejected and left behind again. He came home the most broken/depressed human being you have ever seen. I learned from his mistake and have never trusted any of them since.
The moment your girl cheats, she is dead forever
If more guys held to this rule, a lot of cheating would cease to exist.
@@rokyericksonroks - 100% Cheating by a woman should carry a very heavy social stigma
100%
She'll leave him again if she hasn't already.
So CORRECT Brother! 1st choice & genuine burning desire or move on & find what you deserve. RUN FOREST RUN! 🇺🇦
This happened to my cousin, he moved to Calgary (from Ontario). About a couple months later she kicked him out since they were living with her family. He calls me bawling from the bus terminal. I had to buy his ticket back to Ontario.
I put him up at my place, he starts calling her and her calling my house. He said the same shit, o she's sorry etc.
What cleared his mind was I told him "he's in love with who she was not who she is".
Once he heard that, he dropped her like a hat and moved on.
You should never live under a girlfriend’s or wife’s house especially with their family. They can kick you out whenever they want. By the way how long is the bus ride from Calgary to Ontario.
@@matthewhernandez8342 Bus ride took him 3 days to arrive. Never paid me back either for the ticket 🤷.
powerful
We all need a friend like you. You saved his life! Cheers to you my brother!
@@Zanatos9 then never speak to him again
What keep surprising me is amount of disrespect guys will put up with. Forget about relationship part of it, someone flaking on you like that and you keep talking to them ? I wouldn't take a dump on the same grass field with that person.
Would you a take ON "that person?"
I feel like this guy is so close to finally waking up, but his blue pill brainwashing is still keeping him there. Hope this dude finally finds a channel or someone like rich to wake up completely.
Honestly I had an ex who monkey branched from me when we were young (first experience that woke me up). Broke up with me and was with another guy literally days later who "was just a friend". About 3 years later im at a mutual friends party and she is there we chat for a while and flirt and she asks for my new number (had a new number bc of a crazy woman after this girl). She was a single mom now, with 50/50 custody and I would go over a couple days a week or she would come over to my place, when her kid was at her ex's. She was still ridiculously hot and a freak in bed. She would cook for me when I would come over we would basically watch a movie and smash. We literally never went out on an actual date. She would always bring up the past and how "wrong she was blah blah blah." I would basically dodge this topic. Then one day after about a month of this, she asked what we were and told me she had strong feelings for me. I replied with we will never be more than what we are. She started crying and asking why, I told her after what she did previously how could I ever consider her for a reliable relationship, plus she had a kid already. She even said "how much I had changed and what happened to that good guy." I laughed at this. Yes possibly brutally honest, but I dont care thats how I am. Funny thing is, she was "hurt", but still continued our arrangement for a little over another month until I met someone else and I ended our arrangement.
I love happy endings! Thanks for sharing your story.
Spot on Rich, can't fault that advice at all. My girlfriend is a great compliment to my life. I wouldn't say we are great 'friends' as such, but there's definitely huge burning desire there (even after 4 years), she looks after the house, cooks, does all the laundry & shopping and looks after the kids. We're both getting on a little now, but she's stayed in great shape and looks good. I've made mistakes in the past with women (haven't we all), but you live and learn. I only wish I knew what I knew now in my 20's! Hopefully guys watching this in their 20's etc. will get a huge amount of benefit from this.
Coach Corey Wayne's take on this subject is a woman will always dump you if you move with her as it's a beta move. Women need to follow the man. Not vice versa
corey says we are incels for not dating single moms
@@MikeG82 citation?
@@timothygibney159 not sure it was one of his videos in the past 2 months or so, i also remember Rich saying to avoid what he called the "3 percent man stuff"
also when i read his book it was hard for me to take what he says seriously when he said he fell in love with a single mom
couldn't a legit 3 percent man do better than a single mom?
@@MikeG82 He wrote the book and made the notes before redpill was a thing. Not all single mom's are but most are not good and it is tricky and something to avoid if you can. I take CCW seriously, as he doesn't just complain about women but tells you how to court and date and his book WORKS! I think what Rolio and others overstate is your bank account and understate your frame.
CCW is all about Frame and communication and acting alpha and confident. In my experience that WORKS. far more than going to the gym and making dough. I dated women who made alot more than me because I am firm, ask out, and lead like what he teaches. My last gf mentioned the lawyer who made 3 mil a year couldn't decide where to take her. I making only 72k at the time made a decision and she dumped his ass for mine lol
Women are like cats 🐱if U chase them They Will Not Come to U but if U attract them They Will Come to U
The attractions = looks, money, status.
@@Son-of-Krypton works everytime. It's hard for them to pass up on that.
Yep. I learned the hard way. And I think the hard way is how we have to learn. If she goes off with another man, walk and don't ever chase her or go back. It is easier said than done if you have desire for her - but whatever you do, do not give her one inch of a route back into your life.
There are definitely no shortage of women out there. Bail.
the part the guy left out is how he stalked how and found out where she was staying and accidentally bumps into her. and he also left out he was texting her alot after breaking up
This guy's simpitude level is dangerously high.
What a freaking train wreck... Maybe time to bring back that show :D
Married 26 years but I enjoy your information. Just bought your book.
Humans should stop being so forgiving.
Rich Cooper, Top Guy,really got things nailed down brother !
Some people are just plain stupid . Hard to feel sorry
Most men do not realize when someone leaves your life it is usually because the universe has someone new they have in store for you.
Respectfully disagree
There is not "someone new" there is always oneself...
Steve from Accounting sounds like one lucky fella
The guy needs to ask himself what it is that makes them "best friends".... Would they still be best friends if they were dating other people?
All correct information guys!!
no no no...stay with her, chase excellence like a mad man and DO NOT bend to her whim for anything.
Once youve reached your pinnacle of success, find a young hottie (or multiple) and THEN put the old trash at the curb.
This is the only counter measure to thottery.
This is the way.
If you leave her now, youll likely repeat this with the next girl.
Tap into your disdain for her childish behavior and allow it to fuel you to chase excellence.
The greatest revenge is success.
This pain you have is information that can propel you forward. Harness it into anger/drive.
Become your own cold-blooded antidote.
That is the dark path here. But i would understand the feeling the pursue it. She's a piece of s
goddamn bro id hate to betray you lmao
He’s right, become your dark side or unlock the beast.
I hope this goes through him. Because truthfully, i think he already knows the answer - heck, even mentioned it in his letter.
These people (men or women) that already know the answer but still seek whatever validation from other people, usually don't change anything.
I learnt my lesson. I now don't even move across the room for anyone.
Wow it was amazing bumping into your video.
So, I'd only had one previous relationship and had been single for a long time before meeting this girl. Well we hit it off pretty quickly but then, over time I started to notice I more of a support guy. Anyway, months go by and I notice I'm more like a 'friend' than a 'mate' to her. Being the sensible man that I am, I am incredibly disappointed in myself for not terminating the relationship right then and there.
Long story short, she messed around with another guy, felt guilty about it and and then told me her tale. Expected me to console her and pat her in the back and tell her "no babe, you're not a wh0-re". I'm not confrontational by any means, but I politely told her that she IS in-fact a wh0-re and cut all contacts with her immediately. That was one of the most abrupt decision I've ever made.
Anyway, my suggestion is that sometimes you simply have to go ahead and take a step and think about the implications later. If you spend too much time thinking about the "what ifs" and the consequences, you'll never take the move that you know is absolutely important.
did your family receive in return what they had provided for the arranged marriage?
@@CEWIII9873 I haven't mentioned anything about marriage.
@@abidurrahmanchowdhury4412 wow
Your family really got ripped off
@@CEWIII9873 don't care cuz no one wants to marry your mom
I divorced a cheater. Decided to chill for about a year and a half. Got with another gal just for some fun. Went to her house and her "ex" was still "storing" a few Corvettes on her property. I trusted my gut and bowed out slowly. I was 💯 right. One of her girlfriends recently told me she went back with that vette dude. I gave my number to that girlfriend in hopes it was a dismissal card. I was right there too. I got rid of both of them.
It didn’t work out with the guy she wanted and you’re the fall back plan. Run!
Yeah, I played, (un-knowingly), the beta male before to an old girlfriend who would call me up when a boyfriend dumped her, and I would be the substitute boyfriend, of course, this was before I was a red pill male so I thought she really learned her lesson and could finally see I was worthy of her love but she would meet someone and dump, or "friend zone" me. She just wanted me around to be her servant boy to run errands and of course, I pay for everything. It's so embarrassing when I think about it.
Don't be too hard on yourself. We've all been there.
The only guys who haven't are most likely sociopaths, psychopaths, or guys with personality disorders.
But congratulate yourself for waking up to the world as it is, not the world you have been taught.
We all got sold the Disney dream .🙄
Leaving this girl would be so much fun…I’d gather my stuff and get OUT of there, leaving her to pay the utilities and rent. *shrug*
Dude, there’s no way you told this story to your parents/siblings, right? They would’ve said (mostly) the same thing as Rich…have some self respect and tell her goodbye.
exactly.. I would do the same to her and she did to this guy.
Is this email real? Seems like a joke. I've been a fool as that guy back in the day 2010-14 when Rich and other creators weren't around to protect me from my stupidity. But now, what's his excuse? I hope the guy figures his sh*t out and doesn't jump from some bridge in the near future.
Don’t let anyone get you off center
Definitely not move for anyone smh
Tell him to get the fuck outta there and squeal your tires as you leave.
..... If the truth is "out there" then the "out there" is here. Listen to the wisdom that can be found here....& it's free.
Great advice bro soooo on point. Deal with women that have a deep burning desire to be with you, and if they don't hit it and move on. Run Forest 🏃♂️ runnnn😅🤣
Yeah homie. Used goods man. Get in the grind and find yourself an upgrade. Upgrade yourself pull better.
You should ALWAYS respect yourself more than you respect anyone else..
Bro! Thank you for reminding me about GBD! I had strayed from the red pill! Head checked! Cheers!
She knew this guy as a "friend" before, that's why she wanted to move early. After she tested things out and realized there was more than "friendship" she dumped him...dump her right back. You will regret not dumping her when u had the chance
Your videos are pure gold.
Completely agree 👏 well said
Guaranteed he won't leave her. She's gonna cheat on him, again.
Even Adam Carolla talks about it in his book, the "my wife is my best friend" guy under the "List of People He Hates"
Same type of thing happened to me in my mid twenties. A girl who was my “friend” went out of state to do a phd program and ran a year long campaign to get me to move in with her. I wound up selling my car, my comic book collection and everything else to move in with her. Let me tell you it wasn’t worth it at all. Of course things changed as soon as I got out there but luckily I moved out after about six months. My life could have been much different had I stayed put and not up ended my life for some b*tch.
"comic book collection"
therein lies your answer
nerd!
@@CEWIII9873 😂😂 too right!
@@jafoot7559 Hey
I appreciate that you have a good humor about this.
I often post incendiary posts to see if these so called "alphas" who frequent Cooper's channel are in fact such.
How have you improved your life so you do not make the same mistakes?
@@CEWIII9873 it was pretty hilarious that you managed to have comedic timing in a comment section post! As far as what I learned, simply don’t listen to women. Their agenda is typically to make you their lap dog and if you take their advice or are persuaded by them to do something you wouldn’t normally do you find yourself behind the eight ball in life.
From that day forward i was running , don't walk run , priceless but so true , rich nails it again
One of my family members has a whole husband and goes to her foreign country and sees her ex and spends time with him while her husband is her the the states baby sitting… that’s what truly red pilled me LOL
That's almost like me yet she left me for a guy that got her a job now she wants to quit that job and wants us to start over in between her leaving me and now I have started my own business and I never been happier kinda only when I'm working then I'm pretty lonely but f*** it that's man s*** .. I happily declined her offer..
NO Sympathy for that clown from me. He'll FOREVER look WEAK in her eyes and will most likely get cheated on again.
Sex really is the glue that holds a relationship together. It’s a long story so I’ll be very brief but my ex wanted to leave me but couldn’t. We continued having sex and she was unable to leave me. The second our sexual chemistry was interrupted, the relationship seemingly fizzled. There are a lot of other factors at play but it just goes to show you that if there’s a wedge placed between two people, and that sexual chemistry is interrupted, it can be catastrophic for the relationship. Again, the situation was complicated, but so long as there’s a consistent sexual connection, things will be fine. There was no one else involved and I know that to be God’s honest truth but I also knew that physical distance came between us, that’d be a problem.
She started getting it from me
There is only so much to go around, you know...
Agree ,sex is the intimacy that keeps the relationship alive .
It is amazing what men go through once. I say once because they must learn the pain and burn for it to never occur again. We must play the fool to then learn how to walk away with strength.
I don’t call it cheating. I call it TREASON. I told my X she committed treason against our home and that is unforgivable. She left with nothing but her clothes and bathroom items.
Thought this was about my co worker. He left the job moved to Florida didn't work out with the woman. Then he killed himself. So weak.
Key to attraction: stir the pot, not wait there to cool down.
Translation: elicit attraction, then give space. Attraction increases.
Human psychology 101: u crave something coz u got a taste of it but it's not easily attainable. If u could get anything u crave instantly without effort, u would stop craving it.
Same with relationship.
Never force ur way into others, it will repeal. Charm them and leave (temporarily).
In 🔴💊 terminology: push and pull.
Your game is tight.
I had to put up my friend and his two kids while he got housing and social assistance. That took 4 months. He moved up north for a woman who kicked him out after 2 weeks. This is him moving from Alberta to Thunder Bay. He said it was a serious relationship. So for me. I think men have to be more decerning about who they are with. So that means at least three yrs from vetting to her baseline in terms of how they relate.
agreed
I have come to a point of amused grumpiness with men because they have all of the information they need in the world in their pockets but choose to ignore it...
Richard is on point. If she doesn't have burning desire for you. Ditch her. You will just be wasting your time. Move on to the next girl.
Run, run far, don't stop, or use for for bedroom fun and then move on. DO NOT marry her.
I've got my pleasant 7 but at least she's really into me. I stopped trying for the bitchy 9. Never got a 10 I'll be honest. The 9's were enough of a problem. Typically the prettier they were the less personality they had. I did stupid crap exactly like this guy did but that was in my twenties. Now that I'm in my 40's I know way better and way more. Fortunately I never sold my stuff to move with a girl. I'm my opinion no woman ever has been worth adjusting my life "that much" for.
Great video Rich!
Love your content and that Forrest Gump impression was spot on!
These stories you share of guys in the U.S. still dealing with these females reminds me of myself when I was in my 20's. It's that limited mindset that causes all this. I decided to get away from all that and go to the Philippines. Definitely not a limited mindset here.
That uneasiness, unsettled feeling is legit! Get the F out now! She won’t change!
Awesome Rich!
Thank you for sharing this wisdom.
My boy chad cooper always with the horror stories 🤣🔥🔥🔥
Looking good Rich!
0:10 - am only this far and I know this is bad. Never get back with an ex!
She is a low value woman who will burn him once again. Watch her actions, not what she says.
she's the dumpster itself.
She told him through her actions exactly what she thought of him
I knew a guy in my religious community who followed a woman (also in my religious community) to some improbable section of Mexico. Long story short, she completely ruined his life, and left him financially barren and pretty much damaged goods.
Some years after he's trying to pick up the pieces of his life, he and I reconnect. He's an emotional train wreck, so much so that it's nearly impossible to talk to him. Then he asks me to contact his ex to get his music compositions back (we're both musicians and composers). He thought that my own position in our religious community would influence her to return his property. I politely asked him to relieve me of this responsibility, as I make it a policy to stay out of domestic disputes. He got mad at me, almost blaming me for being in cahoots with her. His emotional backlash was almost identical to how a woman would have reacted. He and I haven't spoken since.
To make it all the more ridiculous, he abandoned his religion for no reason other than the emotional pain a handful of people inflicted on him. He cannot tell the difference between the two.
Never go back to old medicine.
I met a woman then moved and had a long distance relationship and got married. I then went through a big effort to have boss let me move back home and work remotely to be with wife. This hurt my "career", and also I did NOT get a huge greeting from wife when I arrived. Pretty much did her own thing like I was invisible. I was stunned given the risk I had taken with my own job. The marriage ended under some unrelated circumstances (she did have other good qualities), still guys should never, ever do this, i,.e. follow a woman.
She was screwing another guy while you were gone, 100%. You messed it up for her hence the treatment.
5:05 she doesn't say no to anything?? I think buddy is talking about a dog or maybe a pet gerbil. Or at minimum a slow adult.
Oof, this is a rough one.
Not that rough dood. He’s not married or has kids. He’s ok. Now if he knocks her up…. Now that’s a bad time.
@@fakedemocracy good point.
Man I feel bad for some of the guys who reach out to you. They really put themselves in fucked up situations.
The bearded clam is a powerful drug 🤷🏼♂️
Plenty of sad stories out there like this one, the world is full of them .
They're never forever... It was just your turn.
A Woman who truly respects & loves you will never even think of another Man.
If your wife or girlfriend has left you for another Man, there is no point for you crying, complaining, or bitch*ng about it. She was never yours to begin with.
The best thing for you to do is to accept the situation, and realize that she doesn't respect and love you.
She can cry, beg, and plead for you to forgive her, but it is already too late. Women plan in advanced before chewing, once they make it up in their mind that they don't respect & love you, they will start looking for another mate.
You as a Man must remain stoic, and the only way to get over one Woman, is to get under another one.
Quit watering a dead flower. When its over, its over.
You said it all already.
Textbook of example of the best you are likely to get when you literally chase women instead of excellence.
Is this an RS7? I love the RS7’s. They are low key so they don’t get too much attention but fast as hell and have beautiful interiors